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| 6 | I saw this on imgoingtohellforthis and thought it better fit herePPD is basically just “women being stupid” now. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 19/05/18 04:14 PM |
| 2 | Advice on bills from childs motherI think you should communicate with her a bit more about the issue. I don't think you should have to pay her for her pillows and yoga clothes. I understand this helps with pregnancy and stress, but you need to be able to have money to live. You told her you needed to know about expenses as they happened and she did not comply. You need to make it clear you're going to pay half/fair share, but she has to be reasonable with her expectations. Ask for original receipts for anything she wants paid fo… | /r/MensRights | 17/04/18 01:26 AM |
| 5 | "Y'all a bunch of perverts" - infuriated motorist jumps out of his vehicle at a stoplight during Circumcision ProtestThe second point. More condemning women for caring how a penis is naturally. | /r/MensRights | 04/04/18 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Is everybody that posts here unable to post on /r/TwoXChromosomes?Oh they are. They inherently know everything about me and my history of oppression. If I support an MRA argument I'm brainwashed. Thank god I have them to look out for me. | /r/MensRights | 04/04/18 12:16 AM |
| 2 | Is everybody that posts here unable to post on /r/TwoXChromosomes?No. They understand my problems for me as well. Don't worry. They have everyone covered. | /r/MensRights | 04/04/18 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Police respond to reports of active shooter at YouTube headquarters - Female active shooterYou're right about hormonal differences. I should have made what I meant more clear. I was referring to loneliness, sadness, desolation, etc. And admittedly I have a hard time accepting women are repulsed by weakness, but I only have my own experiences. My female friends don't act that way or make negative comments. I never had. I've held boyfriend as they've cried.I guess I believe women do, but I don't believe it's on a massive scale. That's my bias as a woman who doesn't feel that way about m… | /r/MensRights | 03/04/18 11:44 PM |
| 2 | Police respond to reports of active shooter at YouTube headquarters - Female active shooterI haven't played it before, but I'll look into it. Because she's female? Nope. Because the reason hasn't been released yet. I saw a few claims saying she was Muslim, and that's a whole different ball game of fucked up. Man or woman. Without seeing the factors for her doing this, I can't make any connections. I think it would help a lot if the state would treated men as well as they treat women. This I agree with. The prison system in general needs to be better. Women are more likely to have leni… | /r/MensRights | 03/04/18 11:28 PM |
| 6 | "Y'all a bunch of perverts" - infuriated motorist jumps out of his vehicle at a stoplight during Circumcision ProtestShe was a good person. But when you live in a society where most of the guys are circumcised (southern US), it's pure ignorance, not ill intent. It's hard to paint everyone as a bad person. But I agree it's kinda creepy. I can understand knowing your boy will one day be a man and that realistically means sex, but to actually give your son your penis preference? That one is a bit odd. It's so superficial. I've been in contact with both and it has never mattered. | /r/MensRights | 03/04/18 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Police respond to reports of active shooter at YouTube headquarters - Female active shooterThis is true. I think this is left over from when men did hold all of the power in society. A man acts this way because he wants to (the idea held, not my beliefs). A woman acted certain ways because she had to. If a woman killed a man, she got lucky she could even do it. If a man killed a woman, that was unfair due to power dynamics and because typically women are physically weaker. "Why would such a sweet innocent creature kill? Obviously he was horrible!" "Why did this man kill such a sweet i… | /r/MensRights | 03/04/18 11:19 PM |
| 2 | Police respond to reports of active shooter at YouTube headquarters - Female active shooterHaha. No. I had a WoW undead priest named Wulwa I dressed in all gold. So it is a play on the word, but just not my own. As for this female shooter, I need to know more. Ultimately if you kill people, you need to be locked up. But I'm curious on the reason for this. As much as I absolutely hate this happened, it'll be interesting to see the factors behind this considering this is an uncommon occurrence. There is an interesting dynamic in the differences of reasons for why men and women commit mu… | /r/MensRights | 03/04/18 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Police respond to reports of active shooter at YouTube headquarters - Female active shooterMy only issue with masculinity is when it stops men from seeking help and makes them feel like they should be above feelings and emotions. This is what initially coined that little buzzword “toxic” masculinity. I think to a degree it is a flaw in the concept we should address. While there are differences in men and women biologically, we still experience the same emotions. We just need to find better methods of therapy for men that don’t expect them to do what works for just women. | /r/MensRights | 03/04/18 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Police respond to reports of active shooter at YouTube headquarters - Female active shooterI posted about bullying replying to you on another comment. I’m on a phone and can’t link. | /r/MensRights | 03/04/18 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Police respond to reports of active shooter at YouTube headquarters - Female active shooterThose are good points. I apologize about my statement generalizing young men. I should have said “why are -these- young men turning to violence”. I didn’t intend to implicate all young men, just the ones who are at risk of these behaviors. Ostracizing is a factor, but I’m hesitant to blame bullying by itself. I don’t have any data to compare, but women and men are bullied by peers. But we don’t see bullied women shooting people. I can believe boys are bullied more by both genders as it’s general… | /r/MensRights | 03/04/18 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Police respond to reports of active shooter at YouTube headquarters - Female active shooterI mean I’m a woman and I care. These are human lives being lost. I feel for the victims, but I also have an iota of sympathy for the shooters. What caused them that pain? Do they all just happen to be psychopaths? Was it no one cared? It’s hard all around. Ultimately you need to be locked away once you’ve killed people. But it’s hard knowing there are others out there who are being ignored. | /r/MensRights | 03/04/18 10:44 PM |
| 4 | Police respond to reports of active shooter at YouTube headquarters - Female active shooterThat’s not particularly fair. The fact stands that the majority are males. It doesn’t mean fixing men. It means addressing the factors that contributes to these men feeling the need to act out in this way. Or maybe they’re unfixable and there are women with the same mindset but they’re content to just low key ruin people’s lives. Idk. | /r/MensRights | 03/04/18 10:11 PM |
| 4 | Police respond to reports of active shooter at YouTube headquarters - Female active shooterI’m a feminist in the core sense of the word. But it’s true they’re putting reasons of male entitlement and being brats. Being entitled and being a brat doesn’t make someone shoot 50 people you fucking dweebs. I don’t think they’re shutting down the narrative; they’re just attributing it to inaccurate reasons. The problem is the media in general are just putting it as a “lone wolf” and “mental illness” situation. It’s a gun issue. It’s a mental health issue. It’s a Democrat/republican issue. Nah… | /r/MensRights | 03/04/18 10:07 PM |
| 2 | Is everybody that posts here unable to post on /r/TwoXChromosomes?I mean to be honest I don’t even care. There’s thousands of places I could go to share stories about women and the issues I face as a woman. I mean... I am a woman. I understand my own problems. | /r/MensRights | 03/04/18 09:14 PM |
| 11 | Police respond to reports of active shooter at YouTube headquarters - Female active shooterThe problem is the vast majority are males. Ignoring that doesn’t fix anything. I don’t think all men are dangerous and murderers. But it’s disingenuous to act like this isn’t a problem that’s heavily weighted by one gender. We have to find out why. Why are young men turning to extreme violence? Lack of empathy for their problems? A world in which they’re becoming powerless and desperate to feel it again? Society already telling them they’re dangerous and volatile? I understand a lot of people u… | /r/MensRights | 03/04/18 09:09 PM |
| 4 | Waitresses can now be judge, jury, and executioner about "bad" customers.Possibly. But unless a guy is coming forward with problems, it’s hard to make a judgement. Guys need to be more encouraged to come forward with these issues. They deserve respect and safety. | /r/MensRights | 03/04/18 08:56 PM |
| 4 | Waitresses can now be judge, jury, and executioner about "bad" customers.It’s probably because they don’t label the people who are fine. That’s what I took away from it. | /r/MensRights | 03/04/18 08:55 PM |
| 9 | Is everybody that posts here unable to post on /r/TwoXChromosomes?I’m a chick and I got banned. No idea why. I do my best to be neutral and see both sides. I like discussion and bouncing ideas back and forth. By conversing with all sides, I get a better understanding of the problem so it’s easier to find a key point of causation. Guess I can’t do that shit any more. I mean I get autobans to an extent. They’re -usually- based off of a trend of trolls/harassers coming in and having a common subreddit they post in frequently. But then they won’t unban you until y… | /r/MensRights | 03/04/18 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on shares like this?The problem in these comments is a lot of people are assuming girls are getting sent home and pulled out of class for dressing like “sluts”. That’s not really the case being addressed here. And many fail to realize the reasons being stated to women when being confronted by it. I can’t speak for everyone, but I had to call my mom to bring me jeans in high school. I had on thick tights under a dress past my knees. But my butt caused the back of my dress to ride up literally a quarter inch above th… | /r/MensRights | 03/04/18 08:42 PM |
| 4 | Like it or not, a lot of men and women are turning to the Men's Rights Movement (MRM) for a whole range of reasons.Those are the bits that turn me off from both sides. Each one claims they are the rational and educated ones, but then always blame the other side for all of the problems. They want to fight over who has it worse instead of acknowledging how social expectations and assumptions of genders lead to issues on both sides. I’m here because there are problems against men that need to be fixed. We’re all human and deserve to be treated equally. But it gets hard to deal with when everything is feminism’s… | /r/MensRights | 03/04/18 08:24 PM |
| 7 | "Y'all a bunch of perverts" - infuriated motorist jumps out of his vehicle at a stoplight during Circumcision ProtestI tried to talk one of my high school friends out of circumsizing her kid. All of her mom friends jumped in and defended how it looks better and it easier to clean. So I got shut out for being a woman and not being a mom to understand. Years later her and I were having a girl’s night out and it came up. She said a few months after that she watched a video of it performed and cried. She didn’t realize how awful it was. She said she wouldn’t do it if she had another boy. But her husband at the tim… | /r/MensRights | 03/04/18 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Women with autism need special suportWell women are less likely to be diagnosed even when they have it. Introverted behavior tends be more acceptable in women than men. A lot of girls don’t get diagnosed until much later than boys do because of social differences. Some go undiagnosed. It’s important to recognize how higher expectations of men tend to make it easier for them to be found to have autism. It can be a factor to do with sex, but be aware that it’s easier to find something wrong with boys because more is expected from the… | /r/MensRights | 03/04/18 08:10 PM |
| 0 | 17 year old German schoolgirl who ran away to join the "Islamic State" terror group has been handed a six-year jail sentence in IraqThat’s all the sub has been for ages now. It’s been cleared recently, but a year or so ago I sorted by top of “all time” and top by past “year”. The all time was legit women trying to use being a woman to get out of shit. The year ones were just women doing dumb shit that had nothing to do with their gender. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 20/02/18 06:01 PM |
| 36 | I would love to see the reversed version of thisDisagree because I disagree with the sex offender registry's current set up. The sex offender registry or sex offender label has this connotation of rapist or child fucker. People who commit a crime that has a sexual nature aren't nessissarly a danger. They just need to be punished and show it's wrong (for first offenses). The registry needs to be for people who are an active danger or have abused kids. Too many people are on there for minor crimes they wouldn't do again after prosecution. Touch… | /r/MensRights | 04/06/17 08:34 PM |
| 116 | I would love to see the reversed version of thisWell I mean when you sit in a bubble saying feminists aren't mad, you won't see those who speak out against this stuff. People can only comment or speak up for things they see or hear about. I support feminist and men's rights issues. So it does get tiring to constantly see one side condemning the other for not having an outrage when shit like this happens. Either they are or they haven't been made aware of it. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/17 08:22 PM |
| 14 | I would love to see the reversed version of thisIt's ultimately up to the Distract and Assistant District attornies to prosecute a criminal case. They can do so with or without the victim wanting to. A victim can not drop charges, only the DA/ADA can. They often cooperate with the victim or work with their wishes, but the power lies with the attornies, not the victim. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/17 08:18 PM |
| 2 | If a girl tells me to stop, should I? | Interesting answer to this question on QuoraI said that in my post. | /r/MensRights | 19/05/17 10:03 PM |
| 1 | If a girl tells me to stop, should I? | Interesting answer to this question on QuoraJumbled mess of thoughts based on browsing. I was making a loose reply to the demonizing men's sexuality. My apologies. | /r/MensRights | 19/05/17 09:21 PM |
| 4 | If a girl tells me to stop, should I? | Interesting answer to this question on QuoraBasically. People are shitty and will use shitty tactics to save themselves. In this case, women want to save their reputations by claiming they were forced to do something. It's pretty common for people to claim someone made them do something seen as negative. One way to help weed this shit out is less sex negativity in society. | /r/MensRights | 19/05/17 08:07 PM |
| 3 | If a girl tells me to stop, should I? | Interesting answer to this question on QuoraExactly what happened to my boyfriend. They used each other to cheat. He owned up to his dumb shit. She didn't. She filed a claim saying he raped her. She eventually dropped it, but it was still on record. When he went to do the bar shit to become an attorney (YEARS LATER), he had to explain the situation to these people. It could have actually ruined his chances at the career he wanted. | /r/MensRights | 19/05/17 08:04 PM |
| 4 | If a girl tells me to stop, should I? | Interesting answer to this question on QuoraIt's fucking terrible and shitty. I had a boyfriend many, many years ago who would imply he'd kill himself if I broke up with him. I was mentally ill myself, so it fucking tore me up being stuck with someone who was unhealthy for me. I cared about him and loved him, but I could rationalize long enough to see we were ruining each other's mental health. I was being held hostage in a relationship. So after a couple of months of being stuck, I cheated. It was wrong and terrible. But my boyfriend was… | /r/MensRights | 19/05/17 08:01 PM |
| 6 | If a girl tells me to stop, should I? | Interesting answer to this question on QuoraAlso on the flip side, screaming rape protects a woman's reputation from the truth of her wanting sex. It's absolutely disgusting, yeah. But think of how, as a whole, a lot of people don't want to think their precious daughter wanted to have sex. There's still these threads of wanting to see men as sex-hungry predators and women as chaste goddesses. It's wrong to accuse anyone falsely, but I can see the outside pressure to make a woman want to scream rape when she's afraid for her reputation. Pe… | /r/MensRights | 19/05/17 07:56 PM |
| 2 | Men are fighting back against sexual assault allegations, and 70% are winningI've been in group sessions/talks with people who have been raped. Some have dropped their accusations not because they weren't raped, but because they started being bullied and harassed by those loyal to the attacker. Then they go through the process of invasive questioning and other methods a defense attorney will do to defend their client. Nothing against the defense attorneys as it's their job. But if you were attacked and traumatized, it can be emotionally draining to have to go through all… | /r/MensRights | 29/04/17 12:44 PM |
| 42 | Listen to Rachel Bloom (the woman from that 'Bill Nye Saves the World' song) sing about posting ex-boyfriend nudes on the internet following a breakup.Idk, man. I took this more as a joke to counter the trend of guys posting female nudes online. Which just seems a bit more common since it's viewed as more socially harmful to a woman to be outed on her sexuality. I, personally, just haven't seen entire porn categories en mass of "ex boyfriend leaks" and whatever. Doing this to anyone is wrong. We can agree there. But don't start taking someone's joke song as an actual personal belief of theirs. | /r/MensRights | 26/04/17 05:55 AM |
| 2 | The Greatest Failure of the Feminist Movement is that it Alienates Potential AlliesI haven't considered it, no. It could just be the growth of people frequenting social media. But I just go off of what I've experienced but keep in mind that I'm only one person and my knowledge is limited by that. I'm also an extremely lazy and apathetic person in general. Typical keyboard warrior. | /r/MensRights | 26/04/17 05:44 AM |
| 2 | Should I post on r/feminism that I was molested by a female when I was 6 and then molested by another female when I was a little older?I mean you've obviously already made assumptions on what would happen and are just wording your post to state this in a "subtle" manner. If you jump in and start accusing them of not giving a damn or hiding these instances, then yeah. You'll probably be deleted and seen as trying to just start an argument. Because honestly, that's what this looks like. Using your abuse as a weapon to wave in their face without wanting to actually achieve anything besides some personal gratification that your agg… | /r/MensRights | 26/04/17 05:42 AM |
| 3 | The Greatest Failure of the Feminist Movement is that it Alienates Potential AlliesNah. Feminists have loads of allies. I've chilled in the movement for nearly a decade and it's just gotten bigger with the third wave washing over everyone. They've absorbed a lot of the LGBTQ movement. I'm tumblr scum so I browse around the current hot topics, and most of them are about trans and non-hetereosexual issues. And with these orientations becoming more open and accepted, it's drawing more of these individuals in. By being so open armed to these types, they're gaining more people than… | /r/MensRights | 26/04/17 05:23 AM |
| 0 | Sign in a shared restroom in ClevelandHey man. We just care a bit too much about aesthetics. | /r/MensRights | 26/04/17 04:59 AM |
| -4 | Sign in a shared restroom in ClevelandI mean I just go by the idea of "if you open, lift, or move it, you need to put it back where it was". I mean of course I don't follow that shit in my boyfriend's apartment. He better put the fucking seat down unless he wants my wet ass all over him at 3am. Maybe he does. I'm not judging his kinks. Also this is a joke. Lighten up, people. | /r/MensRights | 26/04/17 04:57 AM |
| 9 | Daily Beast Article Attacks Reddit's Red Pill Forum As A Site for "Women Haters", "Misogynists" and "Rape Sympathizers"Why are people hiding behind the freedom of speech right then don't even know what it means? "Freedom of speech is the right to articulate one's opinions and ideas without fear of government retaliation or censorship, or societal sanction." Lmao. People disagreeing is as much their right as it is someone's to say bigoted shit (as long as it's not inciting violence). It's like these people think Freedom of Speech means say whatever you want and no one can voice a contrary opinion. | /r/MensRights | 26/04/17 04:44 AM |
| 5 | Daily Beast Article Attacks Reddit's Red Pill Forum As A Site for "Women Haters", "Misogynists" and "Rape Sympathizers"Oh yeah I know. I was dropping my own mini rant to tag along with you. Perusing my history shows I'm around these parts often. I see all types of MRA's. I know the chill rational ones are here, but get ignored so people can throw around the comment someone made about women being succubi whores trying to con men into spilling their seed. | /r/MensRights | 26/04/17 04:34 AM |
| 32 | Daily Beast Article Attacks Reddit's Red Pill Forum As A Site for "Women Haters", "Misogynists" and "Rape Sympathizers"Make sure to point that out when people do the same to feminists. Basically any wackadoo idea spouted by someone who identifies with a certain movement gets used as an example for an entire movement and those against it get ignored. God forbid any number of people agree with it, then suddenly the five examples that exist are evidence it's every one involved. | /r/MensRights | 26/04/17 04:09 AM |
| 10 | [Houston, Texas] Tech school. I Dated my instructor for 4 months. Broke up last night. She said something to administration, I don't know what. I am now suspended and not allowed on campus while she keeps her job. Do I have a case? What kind of lawyer should I seek?Oh shit. I missed it was a teacher. I thought he meant it was another instructor. Yeah buddy. He should have this. Teachers can not date students. | /r/MensRights | 24/04/17 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Apparently we don't like girls having fun and just want to see boobsI think it had an MRA title the first time I saw it. But I also laugh at feminist titled shit. So it's all whatever to me. | /r/MensRights | 24/04/17 08:53 PM |
| 6 | Apparently we don't like girls having fun and just want to see boobsReminds me of an old comic that made me giggle http://i.imgur.com/qBggVbP.jpg I took it more as a switched perspective than an attack. But I also laugh at everything | /r/MensRights | 24/04/17 08:50 PM |
| 7 | Is "stealthing" really a trend?It's not a trend. But I mean I've heard of it happening. I had maybe 2-3 gal pals say they've caught a guy taking the condom off at one point or noticed they had taken it off. But it's not like an epidemic. It's just dumb mother fuckers not assessing their risks in the moment of pure horniness. | /r/MensRights | 24/04/17 08:36 PM |
| 4 | ANNOUNCEMENT: THIS SUB IS DEAD, HEAD OVER TO /R/MENSRIGHTSNEWSI mean mods are individual people allowed to have their own opinions on issues. As long as he's moderating according to the community guidelines, who gives a shit. | /r/MensRights | 24/04/17 08:34 PM |
| 3 | [Houston, Texas] Tech school. I Dated my instructor for 4 months. Broke up last night. She said something to administration, I don't know what. I am now suspended and not allowed on campus while she keeps her job. Do I have a case? What kind of lawyer should I seek?My boyfriend is an attorney and at work so fuck me I wish he was here so I could ask him and see what he says. He can't officially give legal advice, but I'll ask when he gets home. But from what I know, you need an attorney that specializes in workplace and employee rights. Your best bet is to approach this as a purely workplace issue until more information arises. Gather all evidence you can of the relationship. Texts, emails, letters, photos etc etc. Edit: For some reason I thought he put it … | /r/MensRights | 24/04/17 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone else feel uneasy about associating with women?I want to apologize for responding so late. I've been mostly mobile which makes it a pain for putting thoughts down effectively. Patriarchy theory is an explanation for something that does exist/has existed. In most western countries, I believe it's come to a point that most of the effects of the dreaded patriarchy is social, but is basically dying. It's pretty alive and well in other cultures, though. I'm not an expert, but from what little I've read up on, it was definitely a construct that af… | /r/MensRights | 24/04/17 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Victim stretchI straight up said I didn't like it. But I'd rather homeless people as a whole get help, even if it means using bullshit sympathy tactics. Or for reasons I don't agree with. I'm not going to stop religious people from helping others because they want to get into Heaven. At least they're helping, no matter their reasons. I get you're jaded, but damn dude. When it comes to someone who needs help, I'm not going to argue the help away. | /r/MensRights | 14/04/17 07:45 PM |
| 3 | Victim stretchThat's what i meant. But wording has so much power. | /r/MensRights | 13/04/17 10:11 PM |
| 3 | Victim stretchI responded to another comment about this could be contributed to the idea women are helpless and need more assistant. Probably to garner more sympathy. | /r/MensRights | 13/04/17 10:00 PM |
| 2 | Victim stretchIt could also be to make people feel more sympathy for homeless people overall. The continuing idea women need to be cared for and protected. While I do want more sympathy for the homeless, having to use women to get it sucks. You'd think we'd feel sympathy for a human being that they're a human being. But eh. If it gets them more help, I'd back out of arguing the semantics. | /r/MensRights | 13/04/17 09:54 PM |
| 6 | Does anyone else feel uneasy about associating with women?You're right. I know for a fact I'm more likely to be believed if the police respond to a domestic disturbance call. I'm a perpetual victim. I'm nothing but a weak woman and I need everyone to protect me from the aggressive and violent male. Most cases are men against women, so people assume. Well, most reported cases. It's hard to really know the extent of female to male abuse since men are less likely to report it for a wide variety of reasons. And even then it doesn't account for the fact a w… | /r/MensRights | 13/04/17 09:50 PM |
| 3 | Victim stretchThat's fair. From the little bit of text I see, it's not really elaborated on or expanded on. My first reaction was it was just a tidbit to think about since I know the majority of homeless people are male. This one is hard without seeing the entire page. | /r/MensRights | 13/04/17 09:43 PM |
| 5 | Does anyone else feel uneasy about associating with women?I should look them up! Thanks. And haha at the idea of being cast out. You can't fucking get rid of me because I am literally the definition of the word. I'm probably being stubborn at this point but whatever. I can be petty when I want. And it's even harder to really find a true middle ground in some issues to see what is truly the best. No many want to discuss on any side. I see as many women haters here as I see man-haters over in feminist areas. Well. Not as many since Feminism is a much lar… | /r/MensRights | 13/04/17 09:32 PM |
| 1 | "circumcision isn't like FGM. FGM is done for the pleasure of future husbands, and is more damaging"It's really hard to say. I can't think of any defining traits. One guy was raised Mormon, but was basically an Atheist. He also hated that I didn't want to change my last name. So maybe that was just leftovers from following tradition or whatever. Another was just generally a sociopath and it turns out he was married. So lol. The other was just a dumbass and we didn't talk long. So nothing too consistent. | /r/MensRights | 13/04/17 09:29 PM |
| 3 | Does anyone else feel uneasy about associating with women?Dude don't start that nonsense with me. If I cared enough to argue in circles I'd pull out a list of examples of fucked up things happening to women. But it'd be only to have every one argued down in some dick waving contest of who has it worse. If you want to make changes, you need to drop this whole idea of there being a vagina conspiracy against you. Yes there is unfair shit happening to men. But to act like it's only men and trying to out rank women's issues just slowly starts invalidating y… | /r/MensRights | 13/04/17 07:10 PM |
| 8 | Decapitation suspect had led a troubled lifeBasically. I'm short, white, female, and dress in floral patterns. I constantly joke about how I could get away with mostly anything if I just pull victim mode and start crying. It's beneficial and cool for getting out of speeding tickets. But at the same time it does irritate me. I can simply see how it's messed up because it's insinuating that I'm weak/incompetent/irrational/incapable etc etc. By constantly going lenient on females, we are creating the narrative they are weak (I mean generally… | /r/MensRights | 13/04/17 07:00 PM |
| 4 | Does anyone else feel uneasy about associating with women?Haha. I'm a feminist in the definition of the word. Also it means I get some cool art decals because I'm petty and like glittery venus symbols. But I swear I try my best to be as neutral as possible. But being a woman makes me inherently biased with a favor towards female issues. That makes it extremely difficult. It's why I peruse this subreddit to do my best to level it all out. I'm not even sure how men could approach these issues without being shafted. Times are changing slowly in terms of c… | /r/MensRights | 13/04/17 06:44 PM |
| 10 | Does anyone else feel uneasy about associating with women?I think it's a bit unreasonable to be completely afraid. I'm a female and I can make a lot of points from our side on why I could be afraid of men. Rape. Domestic abuse. Etc etc. Often on this subreddit you see people break down when a woman makes this argument from their side and the issues women face from men. It's really not different. It's an instinct to argue why it is different, but it just comes down to personal interpretation. I'm not a social butterfly, but I think avoiding all interact… | /r/MensRights | 13/04/17 05:40 PM |
| -18 | Victim stretchI do think this is one example where people are looking too far into it. Looking at the surrounding text, it seems it's just an article talking about some facts with an homeless issue. Since most people tend to imagine men as the majority of homeless individuals (which they are), I think stating the 1 in 4 is just to throw in a number and idea people don't think about. I worked in Journalism in high school and this is very common for fact giving articles. You take a statistic or number of the is… | /r/MensRights | 13/04/17 05:20 PM |
| 2 | Feminists want women to have full control over when they start a family. Men? Fuck you.I mean I'm just me, so I'm not really buying it. I legitimately feel it's best for the child to have financial support from both parties if it wasn't a planned pregnancy. The bottom line legally is it's about the kid, not the personal feelings of the parent. Now it's not consistent when it comes to custody, but that's another argument. Most of this can be solved by spending time garnering support to get male birth control out and available. Until then, it's just a kid being screwed over because … | /r/MensRights | 13/04/17 04:19 AM |
| 2 | "circumcision isn't like FGM. FGM is done for the pleasure of future husbands, and is more damaging"Yeah I don't get it at all. It's comparable to removing the clitoral hood or labia to help prevent any sort of yeast infections, which are much more likely to happen than infections within the foreskin. People are just used to it so it's okay. I mean I do think FGM is "worse" but that's irrelevant to the issue. Genital mutilation is genital mutilation regardless of how severe it is. And looking at people vehemently defending cutting a part of a baby's dick off blows my mind. | /r/MensRights | 13/04/17 03:57 AM |
| 4 | Feminists want women to have full control over when they start a family. Men? Fuck you.The difference is a sperm donor is giving sperm with the intent to help someone else. When you go through the procedure, you do so with the understanding the child will be supported and cared for by the parents who use it. They don't just hand it out; there is a process insuring those using it can support a child. There is a paper trail showing those receiving it did so with the proof they would take full responsibility and are legally the parents. Even if they get man/woman divorces the one who… | /r/MensRights | 13/04/17 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Feminists want women to have full control over when they start a family. Men? Fuck you.I just recognize it's one of the unfortunate realities of biology. Men got the short end of the stick on that one. There isn't currently available a "fair" solution. All we can do is actually start advocating for development and marketing of men's birth control. Otherwise someone will always be screwed over. I really do hate it. I actually do. I strongly believe it's wrong and selfish to force a child on someone not ready to be a parent. A child needs to be brought into the world where they woul… | /r/MensRights | 13/04/17 01:30 AM |
| 1 | I get emails for various divorce support group meetings. I recently got one that was for women only with this description. I was compelled to reply...I mean, to be fair, you just did that by not looking into it yourself. A quick google search showed this was purely a support group for women to help each other get over the emotions from going through a divorce. The part about helping parents was purely a description of the presenter's main job. The actual description of the group was about it being a support group all about feelings and personal stories. It looks like OP reacted based on a few lines not actually about the group and made a lot … | /r/MensRights | 12/04/17 09:29 PM |
| 3 | I get emails for various divorce support group meetings. I recently got one that was for women only with this description. I was compelled to reply...This group is an emotional thing. I looked it up and it's a support group to help to get over divorce and get their life back on track. It is NOT about being the best parent and winning custody. It has NOTHING to do with actual court procedure. It is a woman helping other women emotionally handle the turmoil caused by divorce. The part about helping parents be the best is just the presenter's description of her main job. I'm really going to have to say you look kind of like an ass for asking a w… | /r/MensRights | 12/04/17 09:01 PM |
| 12 | "circumcision isn't like FGM. FGM is done for the pleasure of future husbands, and is more damaging"I think most of the guys I've been with just didn't like hearing anything other than validation for their penis. I don't really care whether it's cut or not, it's just the principle of doing it to an infant. I'm reasonable and calm about a lot. But I let it be known once the topic of kids come up that I will nut the fuck up if someone tries to circumsize my child. Once we raise a child who is uncut, they're less likely to go on to allow it to happen to their child. | /r/MensRights | 12/04/17 08:22 PM |
| 0 | Feminists want women to have full control over when they start a family. Men? Fuck you.I'm not on the train of financial abortion and any of that noise. But I am right on the train of the male birth control pill and that upcoming gel injection that blocks sperm from joining with the semen. As much as I hate it when it's not a mutual decision, I have to side with supporting a kid. Men and woman have those that can be giant lying assholes. So it's up to each person as an individual to make sure they prevent pregnancy. Once the egg is fertilized, women get the final say. I'm a woman … | /r/MensRights | 12/04/17 08:06 PM |
| 22 | "circumcision isn't like FGM. FGM is done for the pleasure of future husbands, and is more damaging"The only way to really make the change is to make sure we don't do it to our children. I've straight up told guys I was dating that if my baby comes out with a penis, they will not be circumcised unless it's medically needed. Funnily enough, I've had guys completely lose their minds in anger. I thought most of them would be more accepting if they just imagined the process of being circumsized. But nope. In come the inconsistent studies on health and hygiene. Then if they don't win with that, I j… | /r/MensRights | 12/04/17 07:38 PM |
| 40 | Male College Student Commits Suicide After Being Accused And Punished For Sexual Harassment Without Due ProcessFalse rape/sexual assault claims are fucking gross and piss me off so much. It's invalidating actual claims and make victims less likely to be believed. Assuming it was real, everyone is entitled to a fair trial. Innocent until proven guilty. My boyfriend slept with someone when he was an undergrad. She then had some sort of a fit/meltdown and filed a report that he raped her. She then later dismissed it. It just about fucked over his entire career as he was studying to be a lawyer. It haunted h… | /r/MensRights | 12/04/17 07:26 PM |
| 46 | "circumcision isn't like FGM. FGM is done for the pleasure of future husbands, and is more damaging"This makes me so sick. I tried talking one of my high school friends out of circumsizing her son unless it became medically necessary. Then her mom friends jumped in about how it "looked better" and was "easier to clean". When her son was about four, her and I went to have a girl's night out at the bar. She admitted she regretted doing it after watching a video on youtube of the procedure. She was like "what is the fucking point of this". Yeah. Too late now, friendo. And fuck stupid arguments ab… | /r/MensRights | 12/04/17 07:19 PM |
| 4 | Husband and wife separate. Wife forges husband's name on document allowing her to give birth using a frozen embryo they created. Man sues to block child support.As stated before, a lot of it looks like he-said she-said. But she did admit to signing on his behalf. I'm not sure about marriage laws and signature fraud in Japan, so I'll have to make assumptions based on our laws in the US. He agreed at some point to contributing to a frozen embryo. That part makes it way more muddled than if it had just been some frozen sperm or an egg. They actually stored something that had been fertilized and was waiting to be incubated. It actually being an embryo reall… | /r/MensRights | 12/04/17 07:12 PM |
| 2 | A Male Survivor Speaks - I am now used to 19 year old third wavers with six weeks of community college gender studies classes and a PhD in Tumblr condescendingly telling me what my experiences "mean"It's definitely true. The modern generation of feminists were typically raised by their parents as "they can be anything" as a response to the older eras of Feminism. Men were still given only the same path they had been on. By wanting to make up for the past, women were given easier paths and the right to be head of house or just a homemaker. No matter what, men were expected to still succeed. They didn't have the same life choice. The only choice was "head of house/success". A lot of this is s… | /r/MensRights | 19/04/16 03:36 PM |
| 1 | A Male Survivor Speaks - I am now used to 19 year old third wavers with six weeks of community college gender studies classes and a PhD in Tumblr condescendingly telling me what my experiences "mean"I'm a victim of the media. If I never see it, then I can't very well be aware of it, can I? I also don't really watch the news, but I'm American so it wouldn't really matter. I mean I reply to shit on tumblr when I can be assed to waste my time on delusional tumblrettes. But I'm only one person. I'll need vaginal backup. The shitty fact is people still see women as the eternal victim and men the evil villain. | /r/MensRights | 19/04/16 02:35 PM |
| 1 | A Male Survivor Speaks - I am now used to 19 year old third wavers with six weeks of community college gender studies classes and a PhD in Tumblr condescendingly telling me what my experiences "mean"I mean if you want to make me your punching bag, then that's cool. But I'm not going to waste my time with someone who wants to berate me personally when I'm trying to open a mature discussion and help throw around solutions to an issue. If you want to approach me calmly without unrestrained emotion then we can talk. | /r/MensRights | 19/04/16 02:30 PM |
| 1 | A Male Survivor Speaks - I am now used to 19 year old third wavers with six weeks of community college gender studies classes and a PhD in Tumblr condescendingly telling me what my experiences "mean"To be honest I've never seen it myself. But I don't really get into a lot of issues. I can only say I've never been friends with anyone who thought that toxic shit, but I'm not friends with everyone. | /r/MensRights | 19/04/16 02:25 PM |
| 1 | A Male Survivor Speaks - I am now used to 19 year old third wavers with six weeks of community college gender studies classes and a PhD in Tumblr condescendingly telling me what my experiences "mean"I will have to say there is an issue with men not creating their own support groups. Women have tons. Loads. Never ending sources. They dominate the fields. The reality is men will have to come forward and start their own support groups for those who live with the mental and emotional issues. This is one of the very few points I did have to give a nod to some decent tumblr reads on the issue. Women have been starting and pushing their support groups. I don't think it's wrong they have been focus… | /r/MensRights | 19/04/16 12:06 AM |
| 8 | A Male Survivor Speaks - I am now used to 19 year old third wavers with six weeks of community college gender studies classes and a PhD in Tumblr condescendingly telling me what my experiences "mean"Yeah it's dumb as a fuck. I'm a feminist at the core of the word and I'll never abandon that. But this "I'm the only victim crying" shit needs to stop. Yeah, man. White males historically "had it better". Whatever. But it's getting to the point now white, hetereosexual, cis men are unable to tackle their own mental and emotional issues because they have "nothing to complain about". Women, non-hetereosexuals, people of color, ect have had the stand as victims for so long they're unable to compreh… | /r/MensRights | 18/04/16 10:44 PM |
| 25 | Petition to change the legal definition of rape to include female on male rape reaches 10K supporters. This means the government has to respond!Yeah it's fucking stupid. It's some idea that if a dude gets hard it's because he wants it. It's a fucking reaction to stimuli. If there are cases of women having an orgasm during rape due to the stimulation (a completely physical response the body has regardless of the situation), then it's completely plausible men can be aroused and ejaculate during rape. I'm a woman who is a feminist cunt and even I roll my eyes so hard when people say women can't rape men. Men are human beings, not all are h… | /r/MensRights | 09/04/16 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Deadbeat dad or pro-choice? Thoughts?Did it ever occur to you to support actual birth control methods for men? | /r/MensRights | 19/03/16 12:05 AM |
| 7 | Its only a prank ! - No bullshit responseThe front page is where a lot of subreddits go to die and have their corpses paraded around. A shitty analogy but I cba to think of a better one. Yeah I'm a woman and a bitch feminist. But I was completely okay with the idea of calling people out for trying to get special treatment as a woman. But lately it just seems a lot of content went towards women doing dumb things and hating on them rather than women trying to get a free pass. Like I go through the top rated posts of all time as opposed t… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 13/02/16 12:26 AM |
| 322 | Its only a prank ! - No bullshit responseI used to like this sub because it was basically people trying to get away with shit thinking they had some special card (pussy pass). Now it's just like. Lets shit on women for doing dumb stuff that wasn't really relevant to their gender. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 12/02/16 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Don't try twerking on this kid's tableWell it looks like she stepped on her arm. So I get it. I'm not mad at the girl pushing her. I'm more mad at the people looking at a few second clip and making loads of assumptions about the people involved. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 02/02/16 12:59 AM |
| -13 | Don't try twerking on this kid's tableJust to be that person... More than likely this was during some bullshit school time where the teacher was gone or it was one of those "do whatever" days. What they're doing is obnoxious (and dangerous), but I doubt it was in the middle of actual class time. School is monotonous and boring. I don't fault them for being goofy and silly. They're just kids. It's not even blatantly trashy (or sexual) dancing. I see a lot of people throwing around some idea the black girls just jumped up in the middl… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 01/02/16 03:30 PM |
| -4 | 28 years of a man's life completely lost, because a woman falsely accused him based on a "dream" she hadThat's what gets me. Refusing to acknowledge certain traits and being able to self reflect. I mean I don't care about most off the wall comments when someone is upset. I think if most people sat down and had to truly decide on a situation, they wouldn't go with their first emotional response. It's just so common in this subreddit to see the same behavior over and over they condemn from the other side. | /r/MensRights | 05/01/16 03:28 PM |
| -9 | 28 years of a man's life completely lost, because a woman falsely accused him based on a "dream" she hadN-no. MRA's are the rational and logical ones and make decisions off of fact and reason. Icky feminists are the evil emotional ones who don't have brains. Lmao. The two are exactly alike in how they behave. Just sit back and enjoy the drama. | /r/MensRights | 05/01/16 03:21 PM |
| 2 | 28 years of a man's life completely lost, because a woman falsely accused him based on a "dream" she hadIt's stuff like this thread that reminds me people want to jump on anything that supports their narrative even if how its presented doesn't make sense. It's popcorn time following feminist and mensright subforums where they act exactly alike in assumptions and generalizations. Yet the other one is the evil one and your own is the correct, logical, and rational one. It's hilarious how blind everyone is to their own behavior. | /r/MensRights | 05/01/16 03:20 PM |
| 3 | Feminist Karen DeCrow on Male Reproductive RightsIt's not that hard and it definitely can lead to loss of sensitivity, especially to circumcised males. But my point here that fighting for financial abortion does not need to be the fight. There needs to be strides for better methods of birth control for men. Pills to stop the tail movements of sperm, temporary vasectomies through gel injections. This entire ordeal is the anger of lack of choice. A woman carries the fetus and ultimately has that choice. It sucks but you can't sit there and argue… | /r/MensRights | 26/08/15 01:42 PM |
| 44 | Feminist Karen DeCrow on Male Reproductive RightsThere needs to be better methods of birth control for men. | /r/MensRights | 25/08/15 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Realistically, how many third wave feminists (in their quest for "equality") have ever had to cut the grass?I fall in line with third-wave beliefs, but I had to cut the grass and do yard work. But I also acknowledge that biologically, men have more muscle mass than myself. Males build and maintain muscle more easily than females. I can do a lot of the same work, it's just a bit harder and takes a bit longer to build up the strength to do it. | /r/MensRights | 01/08/15 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Laci Green's BS, Improved With PicturesI was on tumblr a few weeks ago and they were shitting on her for being transphobic or whatever in a video from how ever many years ago. It's pretty funny. | /r/MensRights | 01/08/15 03:59 PM |
| 2 | Sex Workers From Around the World Tell Lena Dunham to Mind Her Own BusinessI'm but one person and a small example group, but every feminist I've hung out with firmly believes in legalizing and protecting sex workers. By legalizing and regulating sex work you are giving these workers rights and protections. It is not longer stigmatized legally. These women and men (but I'd assume majority women), will be more inclined to access health care and police protection when crimes are committed against them. I'm used to be a tumblr cunt and I can really say the majority of self… | /r/MensRights | 01/08/15 03:56 PM |
| -3 | 19 year old boy forced to register as a sex offender even after 14 year old told police and judge she had lied about being 17.I believe the law has it's place and should remain, but immediately putting the guy on the sex offender's list is horrible. ID up, people. No ID, no condom, no sex. It sounds silly, but you gotta take every step possible to stay out of trouble. | /r/MensRights | 01/08/15 03:40 PM |
| 3 | 19 year old boy forced to register as a sex offender even after 14 year old told police and judge she had lied about being 17.It's a bit dumb to have this kid having to register alongside actual child rapists. Those who manipulate children, not teens, and molest them. This is dude is going to have his name in between those who violently rape people. Yeah. I do still think what he did was a crime. Having sex with a legal child is still against the law. But I'm not on the side believing it's life-ruining sex offender list illegal. | /r/MensRights | 01/08/15 03:32 PM |
| -2 | Reddit Takes Down Post About Woman-on-Man Sexual AssaultIt'd be cool if you put this energy into changing real life and not an internet media site. | /r/MensRights | 12/06/15 03:43 AM |
| 0 | The tables turn!Basically what I said. I was just mirroring it. I'm not trying to argue or start a debate. There's not much arguing fat people can lose weight. Short people can't get taller. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 24/05/15 11:21 AM |
| 0 | The tables turn!I made a comment on genetics. Womp. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 23/05/15 08:02 PM |
| -26 | The tables turn!Height is actually genetics, not weight. At least she can change her weight. Hobbits can't get taller. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 23/05/15 03:23 PM |
| 1 | I'm little bit anxious about learning about MRAThank you for the detailed response! I will take this into consideration. | /r/MensRights | 27/04/15 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Can Cells From a Baby’s Foreskin Give You Youthful Skin?https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/1337054006/hufo-the-missing-piece | /r/MensRights | 26/04/15 11:09 PM |
| 1 | I'm little bit anxious about learning about MRAActually he edited those links in after I replied, so I did not see them. The message I had replied to only asked for examples of poor behavior in the subreddit. If you had taken the time to view the edit marks, you would have seen I had already written my post when his was last changed. You're jumping to emotional conclusions in your eagerness to demonize me. If you're going to claim you're a member of a movement of logic and reason, at least act like it. As for the links, I'm sad to see them. … | /r/MensRights | 26/04/15 10:52 PM |
| 2 | As a single father filling out scholarship applications, this frustrates me.Cute cat. =3 But yeah. I'd feel for you in a case like that. But I guess it's why these discussions are important to have with a partner. I've had boyfriends openly ask me about abortion. It's a bit forward, but it's important to know before you stick your dick in someone. Or let them stick it in you. Though, I do have the advantage of not having to give a fuck what they think if I don't want to. But luckily I do. | /r/MensRights | 26/04/15 03:10 AM |
| 2 | As a single father filling out scholarship applications, this frustrates me.Unfortunately, you're banned by the laws of reality in which the mother is the one physically carrying and nourishing the fetus. She has control over her body and bodily autonomy. There's not much justice in me being physically disadvantaged in terms of strength compared to a male , but that's biology for you. There are some wrongs we can't easily right when it comes to how our bodies function according to our sex. | /r/MensRights | 26/04/15 02:15 AM |
| 1 | False rape accusations are incredibly rare!Okay. I was taking it too extremely. Basically if you make notes of the data used and have a good analysis, you'd have a decent report on your hands. Good luck and make sure to post the results! | /r/MensRights | 26/04/15 01:06 AM |
| 1 | False rape accusations are incredibly rare!Like a lot of statistics, there are unreported numbers out there that can't truly be accounted for. If someone was found guilty/not guilty and they were the opposite, we have no way to know. My only advice on that is the report needs to include the acknowledgement of those cases, whether big or small. I'd find it too bold to make a sure shot statement. | /r/MensRights | 26/04/15 12:59 AM |
| 1 | False rape accusations are incredibly rare!All I have worth to contribute is make sure all of your data either includes or excludes the child/statutory rape charges. It might not be a huge different, but that will affect the numbers. It would be a qualitative note otherwise. | /r/MensRights | 26/04/15 12:55 AM |
| 1 | As a single father filling out scholarship applications, this frustrates me.That itself becomes a very touchy subject. As a woman, I would be appalled if I was forced by someone to have an abortion (even though I would in my current lifestyle). As would I if a woman had to raise a child alone. The simplicity of it is that it takes two to make a baby. But men have limited ways to prevent pregnancy besides condoms. Even that can be compromised if a woman is devious enough. I think I will have to fall on the side that it sucks, but there is no current moral way in which a … | /r/MensRights | 26/04/15 12:49 AM |
| 1 | I'm little bit anxious about learning about MRAIt seems as if I am being called a man hating zealot. But like Jon, what do I know? | /r/MensRights | 26/04/15 12:42 AM |
| 2 | False rape accusations are incredibly rare!I'm extremely hesitant to get on rape discussions since I've known people who were genuinely raped, but were too emotionally drained/ashamed to throw themselves out there to report it. So there is always that unknown number of unreported rapes. That and rape itself is extremely hard to prove. Especially if the victim wasn't heavily assaulted and a condom wasn't used. Are you speaking of those that actually went to trial, or general accusations where charges weren't pressed? I'm on a scientific m… | /r/MensRights | 26/04/15 12:37 AM |
| 2 | I'm little bit anxious about learning about MRAI'm glad. These issues are extremely important to people, so it's very easy to get sensitive about them as they are directly related to that person and their experiences. In serious discussions, I don't want to be condescending if I can help it. | /r/MensRights | 26/04/15 12:23 AM |
| 2 | As a single father filling out scholarship applications, this frustrates me.A woman and unborn baby are physically attached. My statement was in the literal sense. | /r/MensRights | 26/04/15 12:21 AM |
| 0 | I believe my pregnant girlfriend cheated on me, how should I prepaid for a custody battle for my unborn child?You need to gather evidence of cheating for the divorce. If it's because of infidelity, I know it tends to stay in favor of the one who did not cheat. I've seen a lot of custody battles in my own family, so I know cheating wouldn't be grounds enough to lose custody. It takes way more than that for a woman to lose custody of a child when women are more favored in those arguments. Your best bet is to immediately get a lawyer, though I know you can't afford it. So some sort of professional legal ad… | /r/MensRights | 26/04/15 12:17 AM |
| 3 | I'm little bit anxious about learning about MRAI apologize if my comment seemed defensive. I was just pointing out my own observation. I will naturally have a bias as a female, which is something I need to be aware of when forming an opinion. Out of what snippets I've gathered, I've noticed similarities in behavior. It would be wrong of me to condemn people for overlooking the flaws in their own movement while I know I've overlooked some in mine. But I recognize that which is an important step. As for the use of the world "belief", I never m… | /r/MensRights | 26/04/15 12:10 AM |
| 2 | I'm little bit anxious about learning about MRAThe most recent is a reply to me saying I haven't seen many non-jewish feminists speaking for male circumcision. This the one I have most readily on hand. http://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/33tqnp/im_little_bit_anxious_about_learning_about_mra/cqol5z4 It's been said to me before my feminist's I've debated with, but replace "feminist brainwashing" with "internalized misogyny". I also had this gem from a while back I dug up as well. I only found it since I went through my comments from th… | /r/MensRights | 25/04/15 11:55 PM |
| 2 | I'm little bit anxious about learning about MRAI really see a lot of the same behaviors in the subforum I've seen on tumblr. As much as people want to believe I'm a blind feminist sheep, I am one in the exact definition of the word. I've openly argued with other feminist about their nonsense radical beliefs as I have come in here to discuss issues and see the other side of the picture. Both other feminists and MRA's have resorted to insults and exaggerated claims obviously based on a emotional response to what I was saying not agreeing with … | /r/MensRights | 25/04/15 10:24 PM |
| 2 | I'm little bit anxious about learning about MRAI really just can't take a comment seriously that claims feminist brain washing but can't turn around and look at their own group and see the same behaviors and exaggerations used by the feminists they despise. | /r/MensRights | 25/04/15 10:15 PM |
| 3 | I'm little bit anxious about learning about MRAI'm not following the circumcision analogy. That's something blatantly wrong and grotesque. I haven't seen many feminists arguing for Male circumcision and I'm active in that community. And those I have were Jewish so there's that bias there. As for the opposites, I'm not sure how I'm viewing them as opposites. They are both for correcting issues affecting their own gender. And both will have those that are good and bad. And one side will always have people that view the other as misguided and d… | /r/MensRights | 25/04/15 07:52 PM |
| 3 | I'm little bit anxious about learning about MRAIt's almost like some people recognize there are issues on all sides instead of vehemently defending they're right and everyone else is wrong. | /r/MensRights | 25/04/15 07:34 PM |
| 3 | HuFo (foreskin awareness project) is almost fully funded! Just a little bit more!This is extremely important. More people need to recognize this. | /r/MensRights | 25/04/15 06:09 PM |
| 2 | Toxic to the XTREME! Discussing the toxic masculinity myth.It's the same idea of men being afraid to report sexual violence or abuse against them. They're supposed to be tough and suck up their emotions. Humans have emotions and feelings. Humans experience trauma and pain and heartache. Men have as much of a right to speak of their experiences and seek help. Bottling it up is not good and leads to more mental and emotional health issues. But as it's a word used by feminists, many are afraid to see the term for what it is meant to be. Like misogyny and p… | /r/MensRights | 25/04/15 05:49 PM |
| 2 | Because men are disposalYes. A lot of these graphs lack qualitative data. Base numbers don't mean a lot of there are no explanations or potential factors that skew the results. It's why I dislike infographs in general. They don't provide what lead to those numbers so we can actually find a way to help create an equal ground. | /r/MensRights | 25/04/15 05:40 PM |
| 2 | I'm little bit anxious about learning about MRAYeah, I'm a feminist. But I'm not going to harp or bitch. I make that statement so others will know my potential biases. But I do my best to be neutral and look for a truth and even ground. I think it's a poor idea to become part of a group because of hating feminism. You need to do it for a genuine belief in equality and bettering the world for all people, but with a focus on men. I've seen too many arguments degrading the other side instead of building their own arguments and examples. Any rac… | /r/MensRights | 25/04/15 05:33 PM |
| 3 | Because men are disposalI don't disagree with the numbers, but I think the graph has some poor examples. The mentioned professions are known to be male dominated, so it makes sense they are hurt or killed more in those positions. It's like flipping the jobs to female dominated positions and women having an outcry they are hurt more or suffer more in those professions. It'd be a better example to pick more even fields where the population isn't already skewed in a certain direction in terms of gender. | /r/MensRights | 25/04/15 05:18 PM |
| 1 | As a single father filling out scholarship applications, this frustrates me.It's seen as a lot less common. It's easier for a man to leave a woman pregnant with a baby since the mom and baby are sort of physically attached. It's also more socially known...and sadly eh..."expected" in a lot of cases. It'd be good to contact the school and explain. I wouldn't be surprised if the scholarship could still apply to you as a single parent. Just as society stands, I'm sure many saw it to make more sense to say "single mother". It'd be a great idea to raise awareness and contact… | /r/MensRights | 25/04/15 05:03 PM |
| -1 | We all know who really suffers in warI'd rather say they tend to go ignored. Typically in history, they weren't directly soldiers or fought on the front lines. But women still lost families, homes, safety, and their lives. Places being bombed included women and children. To say only affect one gender or the other is misguided and incorrect. Nurses saved men and watched them die. Saw the graphic aftermath of weapons. Both sides have seen the horrors and lived through the aftermath. I wish people would stop making everything a THIS G… | /r/MensRights | 18/04/15 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Are we focusing too much on anti-feminism and too little on actual men's issues?Thank you for the reply! As for the label, I am merely stating what I am according to my beliefs. I am a feminist for I fit the definition of feminism. It is a person who believes in the equality of women to men, or the genders, depending on which source we look at. My beliefs make me that the same way I am an atheist, socialist, or any label of beliefs. Other people in the movement do not take away my ideas or thoughts. Nor will I be afraid or bullied out of a label. I am what I am. I am a femi… | /r/MensRights | 08/11/14 08:06 AM |
| 5 | Are we focusing too much on anti-feminism and too little on actual men's issues?You're pretty much making assumptions on my beliefs and what my "agenda" is. You're using me as a target for your frustrations against a movement when I haven't done any of the things you accuse me of. I'll have a discussion with you when you're not insulting me and being irrational. | /r/MensRights | 08/11/14 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Are we focusing too much on anti-feminism and too little on actual men's issues?I can be an egalitarian and a feminist. The terms aren't mutually exclusive. | /r/MensRights | 08/11/14 03:26 AM |
| 1 | YupThank you for your words. I do my best to be a person of truth instead of a person holding onto an idea. | /r/MensRights | 08/11/14 03:25 AM |
| 2 | 6 year old boy kisses female classmate on the HAND - suspended for sexual harassment. 7 yr old Lena Dunham plays with 1 year old's vagina.......I am corrected. I apologize. My mind was probably thinking of sex crazy teenagers. | /r/MensRights | 07/11/14 02:33 PM |
| 2 | Are we focusing too much on anti-feminism and too little on actual men's issues?Just because you didn't get consent first doesn't always mean it was rape. Sometimes sex happens between both parties. If you wake up and someone is fondling you and you don't know them or what's happening, that's different. If you wake up to being straddled with sex without them getting permission it's still rape. Just because you're not held down, beaten, and raped bloody and sore doesn't mean it wasn't a crime. You can be mugged without being beaten. No it's not a violent sex crime with life … | /r/MensRights | 07/11/14 02:31 PM |
| 2 | Are we focusing too much on anti-feminism and too little on actual men's issues?It may affect you differently, but rape is rape. Not all rape cases are the same, not all murders are the same, not all thefts are the same. It's hard to equate each of these to each other because they are on different tiers of cruel, injust, or unlawful behavior. But the point is the severity of the crime doesn't affect what type of crime it is. | /r/MensRights | 07/11/14 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Are we focusing too much on anti-feminism and too little on actual men's issues?I don't understand why. If someone says no or doesn't consent, it's sex without permission which is rape. It didn't sprout up as a way to nail people in the pecker with accusations, which happen. But it was to speak for cases of unconscious, manipulated, or terrified individuals. Rape can happen without beating someone and holding them down. Lines had to be drawn to help define what is and isn't right. Unfortunately, it's not always so clear. | /r/MensRights | 07/11/14 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Are we focusing too much on anti-feminism and too little on actual men's issues?It's not much noted as women being direct threats as much as being able to manipulate. I'm sure rape of men by women happened. I doubt in a violent and forceful way, but any sex done without consent is rape. I don't recall it being mentioned in history. So it either never happened or was never reported/seen as something to remember. I don't believe for a second it never happened. | /r/MensRights | 07/11/14 02:01 PM |
| 2 | Are we focusing too much on anti-feminism and too little on actual men's issues?I meant stronger as an emotional or social standpoint. Biologically, men can gain and maintain muscle mass more easily due to testosterone. Women can get strong, but it takes more effort and dedication. I'm not going to argue actual biology. As for women as innocents, they were still greatly seen as incapable of much harm outside of temptation and being nasty sluts. It was easier to see a woman as stupid and weak than a threat. Rape of men from women wasn't exactly heard of. It wasn't a thing as… | /r/MensRights | 07/11/14 01:53 PM |
| 7 | Are we focusing too much on anti-feminism and too little on actual men's issues?The views as men as stronger, women natural caretakers, women as innocents, weaker. Rape happening to "only women". Men getting longer jail time...or any jail time. Basically every social view of gender that affects men was here long before feminism. | /r/MensRights | 07/11/14 01:42 PM |
| 3 | Are we focusing too much on anti-feminism and too little on actual men's issues?I'm pretty sure a lot of these issues were there before feminist sprouted into being. Feminist can make them harder to speak about in a current setting, but they are definitely not the cause. | /r/MensRights | 07/11/14 01:20 PM |
| 4 | Are we focusing too much on anti-feminism and too little on actual men's issues?These issues existed before feminism became a noticeable movement. | /r/MensRights | 07/11/14 01:05 PM |
| 4 | Are we focusing too much on anti-feminism and too little on actual men's issues?As an outsider, it seems that way. A lot of comments are shots at feminists and women without really trying to offer solutions or have a discussion. I came here as a feminist interested in gender equality and wanted to see some issues from a man's stand point so I could try to be better understand how society creates various challenges and gaps based on gender. What I got was a lot of feminist hate with assumptions, generalizations, and stereotypical views. It was a bit disappointing because it … | /r/MensRights | 07/11/14 12:50 PM |
| 3 | 6 year old boy kisses female classmate on the HAND - suspended for sexual harassment. 7 yr old Lena Dunham plays with 1 year old's vagina.......Six year olds don't even have a sex drive. KRDO reports that Hunter Yelton, a first grader in Canon City, Colo., and a young girl had a crush on each other, and they shared a quick peck during class. Whaaaaaaaaaat. Lmao come on, guys. They're kids. it's not like he was diddling her bits. | /r/MensRights | 07/11/14 12:46 PM |
| 2 | YupWe see it more common in women, private parties or huge media outlets (shitty tabloid magazines). It's not okay for any one, but when an issue seems to be suffered by mostly women it suddenly becomes a woman's issue. Once it becomes a woman's issue, it becomes harder and harder for men to come forward when they are victim to it because they don't want to be shamed or called out. It's like rape. Rape happens to all genders from all genders. Unfortunately, it's seen as mostly a female issue becaus… | /r/MensRights | 07/11/14 12:40 PM |
| 1 | YupYou can't be a feminist if your ideals go against what people generalize feminists with. Hue. Literally all it takes to be a feminist is believe in the equality of women to men. Unfortunately, that leaves a lot of room for a myriad of sub-beliefs that get used as what "all" feminists believe. I am a stronk woman and a feminist. I do defend myself. But I'm also only 5'4" and getting whistled and/or cat called at by myself on a street still makes me a bit nervous. I'd never show it. But women are … | /r/MensRights | 07/11/14 03:29 AM |
| 1 | YupIt's not actually about finding a truth through discussion. It's about keeping a firm grip on your own view point and countering feminists. It's hilarious how feminists are shit on for being irrational and not wanting to discuss but the same shit happens here. | /r/MensRights | 07/11/14 03:22 AM |
| 3 | YupI do my best to be neutral. If a woman reacts poorly, I'm not sure it's because she's like eugh sick screw off feckboi. Women are conditioned and taught to fear rape. While it is a valid concern, as is any crime, it can cause calloused reactions to compliments not in a perfectly neutral tone. | /r/MensRights | 07/11/14 03:18 AM |
| 3 | YupI was providing the view from a feminist view point. I know more people talk about it, but I was specifically stating feminist actually notice it as well. | /r/MensRights | 07/11/14 03:16 AM |
| 0 | YupI think media portrayal and social views have a lot to do with it. Men are more often seen as "rapists" and "creeps" and they become the face/gender. Sexual abuse by women is ignored or not taken seriously in a lot of cases. So women are molded to fear men. Don't get me wrong, a lot of abuse comes at the hands of men towards women. But it's a social...thing... to fear a man will rape you. Men don't as often fear these sexual approaches because women aren't seen as a abusive/violent threat. Whate… | /r/MensRights | 06/11/14 02:02 PM |
| -4 | YupI can understand that point. But compliments are compliments. It's just weird seeing people making these assumptions when I'm in the movement and do try my absolute best to be as neutral as possible. I rarely see anyone actually angry by sincere compliments as much as creepy or uncomfortable approaches that have sexual undertones. You always have the insane few who probably shit on any compliment, but I just really have failed to see it in any significant number as it's represented in the OP and… | /r/MensRights | 06/11/14 01:51 PM |
| -4 | YupThat's a pretty inaccurate and generalized statement. | /r/MensRights | 06/11/14 01:26 PM |
| -7 | YupIdk. Okay. I'm in the feminist movement (ooo icky) and I have never seen anyone legitimately get mad over "you look lovely" as a sincere compliment. I don't doubt it happens. But I really don't think that is the issue. It's when the comments are "nice tits" "you look hot" or catcalls and whistles or even comments that are extremely creepy, which have evolved into people thinking that those are acceptable compliments and women are being irrational. I'm just saying this because it's a frequent dis… | /r/MensRights | 06/11/14 01:14 PM |
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