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| 2 | How young is too young? Genuine question | Conversation | Goldliner6263 | /r/seduction | 16/04/24 09:50 AM |
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| 2 | Sex in Europe as a backpackerAlways try organise activities and things to do with other travellers in the day, of whom some will be women. Naturally you'll go out to drink at night and it'll be so much easier to pull when you've spent the day together already. This is the best advice for a 18 year old. Trying to pull from bars or apps takes some experience that you most definitely don't have. Just being real. But if you and the girl have already been hanging out for the day it's so much easier. Also don't travel with a big … | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 09:52 AM |
| 10 | Sex in Europe as a backpackerWhat a fukn dumb question. Every 18 year old guy who is backpacking has getting laid on his mind. Totally normal for young dudes to have chasing girls as a priority. Like fuck sake. | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 09:47 AM |
| 4 | I’m 31m, is it unethical to go after a 23yr old girl that I know?it's fine. | /r/seduction | 23/09/24 09:35 AM |
| 2 | Seeking advice :girl asked me to stay away from herNeed more context. | /r/seduction | 25/08/24 06:14 AM |
| 1 | Best way to meet a quality wingman?I would stay active on forums like reddit and what not. Try to connect with people who post and comment who seem fairly like minded to yourself. If you're lucky one might be in your city. | /r/seduction | 02/08/24 03:13 AM |
| 2 | Advice for hookups on dating appsUmm, i'm not sure what you might be doing wrong. But don't over think it. I would invite them out the same way you would invite one of your friends to do something. | /r/seduction | 04/07/24 02:50 AM |
| 2 | Decent car for getting girls?Doesn't matter what car you drive. It's all about you. I pick up girls all the time in my Honda Jazz (Classic Grandma Car). And it doesn't stop me. | /r/seduction | 23/05/24 05:53 AM |
| 2 | Good first date but now phone is silenced.Pretty common honestly. If I'm getting physical on the first date as you've described. I personally always try bring her back to my apartment on that night. Since we're already having a good time and getting physical, it feels like more of a natural progression. That way if she does flake the second date, at least we had sex on the first. Next time, when you're hooking up in the bar and having a good time with a gal. When you leave the bar and you're kinda walking around kissing or deciding what… | /r/seduction | 20/05/24 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Using alcohol to start cold approachingDefinitely do not go down this route. It's a really bad idea. Why not, take smaller steps. Like go up to ten girls and ask the time, or ask for directions. Just say your phone has run out of battery. That's what I did when I started. Took baby steps and eventually began doing actual approaches. | /r/seduction | 15/05/24 08:36 AM |
| 1 | Is sex in club bathrooms a thing or just something in movies?I don't think it happens, just go back to your apartment. | /r/seduction | 11/05/24 02:01 PM |
| 8 | Cold approach in 2024So this video isn't a true reflection of what cold approaching is actually like. Firstly, this girl seems like a bit of a bitch, no wonder she's on tiktok. But the vast majority if not all women will not tell you to fuck off. Like, honestly I think maybe 1 in every 1000 approaches you'll be told to fuck off. It's actually very rare. And she said right away. "Don't fucking talk to me right now". And this dude proceeds to talk to her lmao. If you cold approach a girl and she says 'don't talk to me… | /r/seduction | 11/05/24 01:48 PM |
| 8 | I've gotten over 30 womens numbers in the past 6 months and they have all flaked. Many by the time I text "Hi/Hola". What am I doing wrong?30 numbers over a six month period is not a lot. If you go up to a girl and ask for her number and then walk off. The success rate is going to be very very low. You need to built rapport and connect with her, you gotta chat for a good 5 - 10 minutes and actually connect. Ideally a 15 - 20 minute chat. If you want to succeed at this you really need to be getting a good 10 - 15 numbers a week. | /r/seduction | 28/04/24 07:03 AM |
| 0 | Girl with a boyfriend texting meJust go for it lol. Just see her casually. The rest really is not your responsibility. | /r/seduction | 22/04/24 10:04 AM |
| 1 | Anyone have experience with sleeping during the night, then getting up early to hit clubs during closing hours?Yeah probs right that doesn't really matter. You can make just about anything work. Ah that's a pain, I would hate to be picking up in a small city. | /r/seduction | 19/04/24 02:50 PM |
| 1 | What are good and free activities or jobs you can do to expand social skills/circle and meet woman?I haven't worked in sales, but shared an office with two recruiters who ran their own firms. They made really good money, like 500K+. And my dad works in software sales, and makes good money too. But that's all like the corporate sales stuff. Selling to very large companies and firms. tbh I don't really know that much. Just that a lot of folks with the gift of the gob and not much else. Can do pretty well. | /r/seduction | 18/04/24 11:11 AM |
| 7 | What are good and free activities or jobs you can do to expand social skills/circle and meet woman?Sales is worth considering or recruitment. Both pay well, involve people, and can make a career out of em. | /r/seduction | 18/04/24 09:50 AM |
| 3 | Anyone have experience with sleeping during the night, then getting up early to hit clubs during closing hours?hahaha everyone in the comments hating on this idea, tbh it's not that bad. Most redditors don't do shit and are complete losers, So I wouldn't take their opinions too seriously. Just try it out for a week and see if it works or not. Most of the people hating on this post aren't banging many girls. Only thing is, you might be on too different of a vibe. Like if you've just woken up and the girls have been partying for the whole night. Things might not mesh. Interesting idea though, might as well… | /r/seduction | 18/04/24 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Worth starting cold approach now when braces come off in 3 months?(20M)Try it for two weeks, and see how you feel after. | /r/seduction | 17/04/24 12:06 AM |
| 8 | Worth starting cold approach now when braces come off in 3 months?(20M)Definitely approach one girl a day. If you do that for three months you'll have a ton of experience. Once your braces are off. Probably increase that number to like 3 - 5 and you'll begin to see massive results. | /r/seduction | 16/04/24 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Lost My Mind In The ProccesMaybe you need to move onto the next stage of life. Whatever that is for you. Sounds like you pretty much conquered pick up/dating/social life etc. That's a total guess lol. I'm a fair bit younger than you, so this is not me speaking based on experience. I just think maybe partying and picking up girls gets old after a while? | /r/seduction | 16/04/24 09:40 AM |
| 1 | Lost My Mind In The ProccesMaybe it's time to move on? Pick a new challenge? | /r/seduction | 16/04/24 06:13 AM |
| 4 | Reinitiate a ghost after being weak and creepyGive it a week man, there's was obviously aspects that she liked about you. Women are emotional, she could easily change her tune. | /r/seduction | 14/04/24 02:44 AM |
| 4 | Where should you not approach girls?Yeah man 100%. You gotta sift through it all and figure out what is and isn't true. Just stay away from conventional advice. It's the fukn worst 90% of the time. This archive is pure gold. Everything you need for approaching is here. https://theredarchive.com/blog/Good-Looking-Loser | /r/seduction | 14/04/24 02:12 AM |
| 22 | Where should you not approach girls?As long as you got common sense. Anywhere is fine. | /r/seduction | 14/04/24 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Where should you not approach girls?Just tell them to pause their song lol | /r/seduction | 14/04/24 12:22 AM |
| 19 | Where should you not approach girls?This is total bullshit. You can absolutely approach women in public places. Myself and others on this sub approach women in public places, the street, stores, malls etc. Please for the love of god, do not listen to idiots like this lol. They have no idea what they're talking about. Most women are pretty cool with you approaching. And if they're in a relationship or dating someone, they'll still be nice about it. I approched three girls yestterday just on the street. All three were totally fine w… | /r/seduction | 14/04/24 12:21 AM |
| 6 | Did I blow it?I think that's fine. I would pop through ideally when it isn't so busy. So she has a bit of time to chat. | /r/seduction | 11/04/24 11:58 PM |
| -9 | is the bro code valid in 2024?To be honest, if you didn't know the dude. And the chick was keen, I think it was ok if you made a move honestly. It's different when you're actually friends with the person like OP. | /r/seduction | 09/04/24 10:32 PM |
| 1 | is the bro code valid in 2024?Need more context. Did he know you two were talking and then slid in? If so, he is a bad friend. But just check and see what's the deal. If they were already talking before you met her and he's trying go for it. I would drop it and move onto another chick. | /r/seduction | 09/04/24 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Advice for hookups on dating appsUpload new pics to existing. Never did any resets or anything like that. | /r/seduction | 07/04/24 10:12 PM |
| 4 | Advice for hookups on dating appsYeah for sure, I was the same. Never took photos of myself so I had to start from scratch. Dogs pics are OP as fuck. Doesn't have to be your dog. Just get a good photo with one. Also, there's a really good app called Face App. Use it on all your pics. It'll make you look better in very subtle ways. | /r/seduction | 07/04/24 03:16 AM |
| 5 | Advice for hookups on dating appsYeah of course. Vast majority, if not all women. Are not going to go straight to your apartment. I like to do a nice nature walk LOL. Idk why I always have the most success with them. But we'll usually do the walk and then once we're finished with it. As long as we're already hooking up and getting physical. I'll bring up going back to my place. Or, if she lives close by. We just go back to hers. | /r/seduction | 07/04/24 03:02 AM |
| 5 | Advice for hookups on dating appsHmmm yeah. Depends on the type of results you're wanting to aim for? Honestly, you could bump those numbers up pretty easily with new and better pics. When I started, I spent a day with one of my friends taking heaps of photos in different situations. I also, spent a bit of time taking pics of myself. This paid off literally 1000 fold lol. | /r/seduction | 07/04/24 12:16 AM |
| 1 | When you believe it, she believes it100% facts | /r/seduction | 06/04/24 11:47 PM |
| 16 | Advice for hookups on dating appsI've had quite a bit of success on the dating apps. Slept with probably about 12 girls last year. One of which I dated for four months. And some of the others we were exclusive for a bit. Could of been more actually, if I didn't make any commitments. Anyway, This is just going off of my experience. Don't put the horse before the cart. How many matches do you get each week? When I first started, I was doing like three dates a week. Just to get in those reps, and get heaps of practice. Doing that,… | /r/seduction | 06/04/24 10:25 PM |
| 3 | Anyone try using makeup?Just approach more women each day. Make sure you're in shape. | /r/seduction | 06/04/24 07:06 AM |
| 3 | Title: Seeking Insights: Approaching Women – Timing, Location, and EtiquetteIf you're just beginning, I would take gradual steps. The easiest are girls sitting down, or when they are standing around listening to music or looking at their phone. If you're in a busy area like a mall, or a city centre. Shouldn't have a problem finding sitting/standing girls to talk to. A lot of girls standing by themselves will have their earphones in. I was always a little afraid of that like I was disturbing them. But it's totally fine. They just will take their earphones out, or pause t… | /r/seduction | 06/04/24 06:36 AM |
| 1 | What’s next considering I’m a beginnerI would start chatting with her online. Follow her on insta, and then send her a relatable meme or something. If she responds positively, then just start chatting from there. It sounds like you have a lot in common. so it should go relatively smoothly. Sending a relatable funny meme is like the best way to get into a girls dms. Or reply to one of her stories. That approach is much easier then asking her to do something out of the blue. Especially if she's rushing back to her car at the end of cl… | /r/seduction | 05/04/24 03:22 AM |
| 1 | I don't get what I'm doing wrongOk lol, just wanted to check. Keep at it, try the dating apps as well. Gradual improvement is key. | /r/seduction | 03/04/24 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Decided to hire a professional photographer for dating apps please give me tips on men's poses, clothes to wear and what kind of photos are necessaryFirstly, don't listen to the comments. You can find plenty of decent chicks on apps. However, it is fairly dependent on how you look. If you a genuien 5/10. You're never going to match girls who are 8,9,10. As someone who's landed 20+ matches per week of really good looking chicks. And ining up a date every day for a week. You want the photos to be candid, candid photos are super solid for dating apps. What you don't want is the photos to look as if it was a photo shoot. That's a big turn off. A… | /r/seduction | 03/04/24 10:30 AM |
| 2 | Unresponsive numbers - reputation?Personally, I prefer a bit of small talk over text so we can get to know each other a bit. Especially if we only spoke in person for a few mins. However, if it was already working for you. It could just be you've had some bad luck, it happens. Otherwise, maaaaybe you have a reputation? It's hard to say. If you're day gaming the one location, and all the women will be going to classes together. It might be possible. I would try find a different location and see if you feel the results are differe… | /r/seduction | 03/04/24 10:14 AM |
| 3 | I don't get what I'm doing wrongDifficult to give advice unless you provide more context on your situation. How many have you approached? Are you overweight? If you met a girl on Tinder, would you be nervous in person? Cold approaching is very difficult, might wanna work your way up to it. Like hustling datings apps first. Much easier and will give you a lot of experience and confidence. Also, dating is hard as fuck when your'e 18. Unless you're meeting girls through your friends network. Like at parties etc. Whatever you do, … | /r/seduction | 03/04/24 06:57 AM |
| 1 | going out is way better than dating appsI've gotten shit loads of dates through apps. Tbh if you ain't getting matches its your profile. | /r/seduction | 29/03/24 04:42 AM |
| 1 | What is your dating app strategy for hook ups?If you're using Hinge. Never swipe, comment on a photo that isn't too sexual but sort of wholesome. And comment "Cutie". I swear to god, this method is really simple, but works so damn well for me. | /r/seduction | 29/03/24 04:40 AM |
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