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So what? Entering this sub as a Canadian will become a crime now? The bit about Gender misinformation is actually hysterical when you take into account how much false or blatantly skewed stats 4th wave pages share that generalise men as potential predators.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/07/26 05:40 PM
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When you do so much reading yet fail to develop critical thinking, that plus everything you said to describe her, that's all what comes to mind when I hear the term pseudo-intellectual. I can't help but feel her vocabulary is a stark contrast to her actual understanding of gender dynamics, she just comes off as someone highly pretentious that tries to hide it. I do agree that she never seems to provide any solutions, her videos feel pretty pointless.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/07/26 05:23 PM
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From what I can tell this place is also meant for venting political frustrations. The amount of views and influence this larper of a socialist has was something I really wanted to vent about. This sub is one of the few places I feel welcome ideologically so vent I did.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/07/26 05:17 PM
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So what is the solution? atone for that fear? or use the snake comparison thetimen did when it came to women phyisically abusing their children.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/07/26 01:28 PM
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This reminds me of that old viral image "2 out of 10 homeless people are women" used in support of women who are homeless.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/07/26 12:48 PM
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This bit "Please don't feel ashamed for being a man- we are the overwhelming majority of the interveners, the heroes, the rescue workers, the people who brave fires and floods to save others." I really needed to hear. I'm gonna use that line moving forward in my life. Thank you kind sir.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/07/26 12:40 PM
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I have actually have never met a single lesbian irl in any of the queer communities I've been a part of that doesn't openly hate on men. In no way am I trying to other you here, I just want to say thank you for trying to be the change in a culture that is trying to normalise being openly hateful towards men. Really glad to have you here.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/07/26 12:37 PM
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Misandry doesn't kill is a huge lie. Last time I checked suicide kills, and way too many men do it because of misandry and the feeling of hopelessness in the world created by it for us men. All the women who joke about the male loneliness epidemic and male suicide during Men's Mental Health month are 100% killing some men every year they do it. A little while ago, I think it was a thetinmen post, the men who commit suicide who are abused domestically by their women is actually more than the amou…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/07/26 12:31 PM
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It's not a minority, but it's definitely less in younger crowds. Both men and women over a certain age have horribly sexist views of men and women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/07/26 12:55 PM
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Dear god watching this guy is like torture. He's always so close yet so freaking far away. He screams performative queer man, nauseating.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/05/26 11:49 PM
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You literally did just honor it with a response. But yeah claim I'm projecting with 0 arguments. I gave you plenty of examples where being white is literally to your detriment as an immigrant. Also, if you are a cis white man, you so hilariously fit into that box of privilege I mentioned in my original response, the one that just assumes other white people have similar to no struggles. Btw sweetie, being poly puts you under the umbrella of queerness so you're not just a typical white cis man.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/12/25 02:06 AM
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No I'm not projecting, I just came out of the closet late in life and didn't get queer brainrot. You're clearly biased against cis white men and it doesn't matter if you're from America/UK or not, most progressive western political ideology originates from there. I said I'm a cis white man earlier because that's what I have presented as for the majority of my life so that's my lived experience. I know what that gets you in life. You clearly are not, so you have no clue wth you're on about. Imagi…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/12/25 08:13 PM
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I'm a cis white man and DEI has ruined my dreams and destroyed my mental health for years. Neither can I be seen as a victim of society as easily because of how dumb the culture on the left has become. Had a very good chunk of racism thrown my way in the UK as well, regardless if I was white I was still an immigrant, looked and sounded like one, so I was treated like one by close-minded nationalists. Your post feels like someone from America or the UK wrote it, because of the way you view race a…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/11/25 07:56 PM
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It should be a joined effort. If you don't communicate why using the word is actually harmful, then you are automatically making your other arguments weaker. We should present our arguments structured and well balanced so we can make more sense as a movement.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/11/25 05:45 PM
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My god thank you for saying that, this is like late stage capitalism. Somebody has to suffer so I can be comfy, F that. Libertarianism and Socialism are meant to reject slave mentalities and paternalism is one of them. There's enough wealth and resources to the point where we don't have to indiscriminately SACRIFICE men. "Someone has to make the sacrifices, always." like jesus fudgin christ man wtf.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/11/25 03:35 AM
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Awesome, I'm so using this
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/11/25 03:32 AM
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The subconcsious level stems from the fact that not everyone agrees with what the term means now and how valid it is to describe modern society. The weird air in a mixed room after a joke like that is just that imo. The car seat joke was funny
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/11/25 03:32 AM
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Thing is though the oligarchs always fund and back the current popular narrative which is now feminism. Young Women out earn young men by 1k yearly on average and are decimating men in education. All these systematic privileges are offered by fat cat lobbyists that make huge donations every year to feminist and female struggle oriented orginaztions. You can't just call it an oligarchy because you are ignoring who the oligarchs are currently financially and culturally supporting. This is how we g…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/11/25 03:29 AM
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So heteronormative gender roles reinforced by late stage capitalism are the enemy at this point, not the patriarchy boogieman. I keep trying to communicate this to liberal women, and as much sense it makes to some of them they refuse to concede the term of patriarchy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/11/25 03:21 AM
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I know this might come off as immature but I'm genuinely curious what the slur was. Was it the F-word? Like I just can't fathom wtf anyone would call their SO during a cry at a funeral, like bro what in the actual sociopathy is going on here?!?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/11/25 03:19 AM
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It's the same deal with safety out on the streets. Men get physically assaulted at twice the rate women too, yes it's way less sex crime but for some odd reason the chance of getting graped is worse than having twice the odds of getting potentially murdered for your phone and cash. Quantifying pain is such a low EQ thing to do yet somehow in leftist spaces it happens all the time.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/11/25 09:25 PM
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Saddest thing about a younger women calling this crap out is that they get called a pick-me immidiately. Same shit happened to me during 3rd wave when I critisized the objectification of women on mainstream media whenever I saw it, but it didn't make me stop or w.e. I have the same expectation from women yet I get disappointed most of the time :/
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/09/25 11:57 AM
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U must be be delusional as all hell if think the feminists are losing right now on the culture of the left. In the left feminism and the idea of the patriarchy right now is more popular then ever. Also, that's just you, nobody calls them feministas, it's called 3rd wave, some even call it 4th wave now, but feministas is a fringe term barely anybody uses, you don't have to educate me on it. No offence but you sound somewhat condesending and I don't get what you are even getting at here. I underst…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/07/24 11:06 PM
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See this is why we don't grow, not letting shock misandry posts go viral and delegating them to a smaller sub. You can only do this when ur movement is popular and big. We aren't feminism, hell we aren't even MRA, were LeftWingMaleAdvocates and I'm sadly sure we will stay this small because U don't have anyone on your team that understands social media growth. We need to grow, we need to spread our message and the way your doing it is hampering it because of how the algorithm works. You can't ju…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/07/24 05:45 PM
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Trying to dominate the dialogue you say? Sweetheart they already HAVE dominated the dialogue to the point where it's widely pushed that it's ok to generilize and shit on the male gender publicly. The feminists won, men are the opressed class now. I don't care how ELEVATED our dialogue is, I just want it to be spread so I can see a change and stop eating shit as a MAN in western society. Also nobody asked you to clean up our mess, feminists made a mess of society in the past 15 years, not us left…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/07/24 05:42 PM
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only thing is that they don't care because they get free growth from feminist subs since menslib is run by brainwashed feminists that delete anything remotely close to critisism of females
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/06/24 11:51 AM
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Undesirable results? Feminism begs to differ. Women are trumping us in every way right now and feminism is so powerful it actually is opressing men now. The course can't always simply be this elevated because not everyone is going to get it. We need to "market" our movement a bit more to the averarge young man who lacks some Emotional intelligence so they can come to places like this and educate themselves. Educating only the people that are already quite well-versed in our movement won't make a…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/06/24 11:50 AM
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It's not just pick me boys, it's a lot of young leftist men, especially zoomers that suffer from internalzied misandry. They grew up being told they are on the wrong side because they were born with a hog, so they will fail to empathize with men and themselves
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/06/24 05:08 PM
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Been here for a year, we grew barely 1-2k people. We need some quantity to make a change for once, there's bad eggs everywhere when a place grows, you can't avoid that. I'm sorry but I think the "quality over quantity" when it come sto a movement like ours is somewhat naive. Historically, you need a LOT of people for a gender movement to make any dent in society, especially when we aren't backed up by pink capitalism like feminism is.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/06/24 05:07 PM
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Honest to god, this sub needs people who are knowlegable with social media and their algos. Our growth is abysmally slow because of stuff like this. Preferring to upkeep some of the quality of this sub while also stunting it's growth rate is quite dumb imo. (Mind you I broke 115k on a YT a few years ago and everything I learned in that experience leads me to think that this sub will stay small because of the way it's managed). We need to spark some outrage in young men's hearts while also polici…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/06/24 02:42 PM
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I'd say a bit of both. Stupid far left culture from the Americas seeping into internet culture has affected gen-z women a lot but it's also the lived experience of balkan women and how the media interprets it. In my country the news would not stfu about husbands killing their wives during covid and a bit after it. We have some of the lowest femicide in europe yet somehow this never stopped in the news. How can I know that no wife slowly poisoned their husband? Us men are batshit stupid when it c…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/06/24 02:35 PM
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It used to be a thing for men as well, especially young boys a few generations prior. Boys would always get special treatment and get coddled, which basically infentlized them to the point they needed women to take care of them. That in a sense is benevolent sexism, yes, the boy is always more imporant and should be a priority, which in itself you would say is reverse sexism or w.e the hip libs would come up with as a term idfk, but in reality it's a form of benevolent sexism because it's done t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/06/24 01:20 AM
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It's because the majority of people on the left who discuss gender issues always discuss it in some kind of sense of feminism or queerness. Said circles don't want to validate the struggle of any cis white man because it will go against so many of their apex fallacies about white men. The goal atm is to prove your oppression on the expense of men, the apex class of capitalism, almost as if said "apex class" paints the majority of the male gender, it's almost like it's called 0.01% for a reason.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/06/24 01:15 AM
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"It amazes me that women don't think men have an experience of gender." I'm gonna steal that and quote it to my partner. God bless
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/06/24 01:12 AM
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buddy I can assure you, that here in good old "socialist" europe where we consider free health care a given and fat cats as absolute cunts we still have these dumbass ideals pedaled by women everywhere, especially Gen-Z idiots of both genders. This bias you speak of which I can believe is very real in the US is non-existent here yet the same problem exists in spades.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/06/24 01:05 AM
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Honestly I get what you are saying because I identified that is something that is fundamentally wrong with our culture. Our culture as men. And it's something that needs to change if we want to see social progress. I have slowly found a kinship in manhood, sometimes I will see a man in the bus or in a social situation do something which I will perceive as just male awkwardness or denseness because of the way he was raised and I will feel sad for him, see a bit of my past self in him. Because at …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/06/24 01:00 AM
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This comment is so incredibly well put. It saddens me you have such little likes, I feel this one went over a lot of people's heads because the first thing you said was hard to grasp, especially the women exist to make mroe men to exploit. The way I interpreted it, is that women are usually the ones who push a man to provide, to work, to strive for something "greater", almost like a bigger house or some crazy out of pocket experience will bring you more happiness or something. The moment a woman…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/06/24 12:49 AM
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This uses the same kind of logic a feminist does when they say that women in middle-eastern countries deserve help before men do in the west. It's almost like the average western person can actually help young girls not get nuttered or save sweatshop workers. Guess what bucko, most don't have the resources aka can't. But most people actually CAN and should fight to change how we do things in the west, because we have way more influence and way more of a fighting chance of changing things here. A…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/06/24 12:35 AM
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and the thing is it's not actually "men on top" it's mainly the same families who say at the top or the same type of sociopaths who climb to the top. Many women are becoming CEOs at rampart rates compared to the past which kind of disputes this whole notion you can't find success in the coprorate world as a woman. I would argue a woman has a way higher chance at a promotion than a hard working short man. A short man can't command respect properly in this toxic backwards world, yet a woman can be…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/06/24 12:27 AM
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I used to do this on dates as well but be warned, if a girl really likes u and sees a future with you she is willing to hide her misandry. Confident liberal men who don't have internalized misandry don't want man haters and women are wising up to that slowly. Dating is doing a 180 on many things, men used to hide their misogyny but now it's women hiding their misandry. it's all so surreal
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/04/24 09:51 PM
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Damn, never seen a right winger use it, more centre left or centre right. Didn't know it gained popularity in those circles. Either way your welcome, political terms can be very confusing in a vacuum.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/04/24 11:28 PM
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I have really good guy friends but a platonic relationship can never be romantic to that extent. Trust me bud, many of times have I wondered or wished to be bi or gay because men seem like better life partners but I don't want a woman just for le sexy time. I feel your view of women is somewhat distorted by trauma, not that mine isn't. Look, I'm close to 30, I want to make love to someone not have sex, I don't find much point in that anymore. You need a deep intimate bond with someone for that. …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/04/24 05:39 PM
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dating as a male can be borderline depressing at times with how little empathy the other gender shows to your systematic plights.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/04/24 03:41 PM
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I have plenty of hobbies, some I could say I am married with but I still think having a good partner can greatly improve your lifestyle, especially if u want to have a family one day. I find myself a bit torn and in the middle when it comes to the second part of your reply. Yes you don't NEED a partner but some people have wants and aspirations that ideally require one, but you should not base your whole happiness and fulfillment on your relationship. I'm sorry your ex left like that, it must of…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/04/24 03:40 PM
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Grifting is usually used to describe polticial grifters, who join a side to purely make money of it. But grifting as of late has been used to describe other things as well, albeit more rarely, like the way I used it here. I used it in the sense of emotional grifting. Emotional grifting is when somebody is trying to swindle you emotionally, phrasing I don't care into *we have different priorities*. In this situation you are not being swindled out of your money, but you are swindled away from the …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/04/24 03:33 PM
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This was insightful, thank you!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/04/24 03:26 PM
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Tbh I am trying but it's very cookie cutter whataboutism, literally 0 nuance, just defensiveness. I just decided to be patient and try to educate her about my side of things in the least aggressive and most well paced manner that I can.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/04/24 03:24 PM
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TBH this is what I'm sorta been trying to tell myself for the past week and it really helps to hear it from someone else. Her social circle and generation has hammered this rhetoric into her regardless of how rational she is. I want to be empathetic and patient, I know it's the right thing to do and I needed to hear this, thank you so much honestly for taking the time to reply and articulate this as well as you did.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/04/24 03:23 PM
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Misinrerpation my ass, I have infiltrated many online feminist spaces. Anti male sentiment is always a thing and it's never looked down upon. Absolute bs. Hell it's almost impossible to find gen z and young millennial women that are not man haters. Dating is a cesspool because of misandry.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/02/24 08:02 AM
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Therapy therapy and only therapy. So much of the insecurities so many of us men go through are because of toxic masculine role models like Tate. Having tons of money and fucking bitches doesn't make you a man. Being man enough to be there for your loved ones, to be there for your kids emotionally, to be there for YOURSELF and love yoruself for the man you ARE not society expects you to be. I'm 5 foot 6 and had sex really late, early 20s. The amount of shit I did these previous years chasing some…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/01/24 12:26 AM
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twoxchromosomes the amount of times I saw threads from that shitshow ridiculing men and generilizing them is immense. Not saying that that's what the entire sub is all about but saying there isn't a noticable pattern is just plainly fuckin delusional
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/01/24 12:19 AM
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I try to remain calm and tell them what I'm stating are all facts. It's all backed up by statistics with large numbers. Because I can make them look bad infront of others, try and always get as many people to look up what ur saying, get any and all people on our side, peak their interest by all these horrible statistics almost nobody knows or speaks off. If I'm calm and rational and they are being the literal caricature of an angry feminist infront of a crowd then we win.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/01/24 12:16 AM
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Sadly I have come to interact with many of the type you have just described, irl and online. Lesbian separatists drove a lot of hate for men in the early 2010s online.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/01/24 12:05 AM
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It's all about the patriarchy when it comes to our disadvantages. Men are getting left behind on most socio-economic facets of society yet somehow we still live in a patriarchy? Honest to god I want to be able to openly take offense when that sentence is uttered and for it to be a socially acceptable reponse. I'm so sick and tired of hearing the phrase, triggers my dysphoria like all hell. We live in a capitalist hellscape, this isn't made for men anymore, it's for rich pigs.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/01/24 12:02 AM
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I mean hell, Depp LOST in the UK but won in the US, that's a huge red flag imo.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/01/24 12:01 AM
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Damn that is criminically based take, never thought of that. The right is indeed obsessed with gender norms as well, just in a less obvious way.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/10/23 11:32 AM
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Well a lot of these people aren't "liberal" or actually left-wing, they are just brainwashed into identity politics. Most Gen-Z have 0 understanding of actual politics and focus too much on identity, ergo how obsessed young people are with gender. Then again I have gender dysphoria so I get it to a certain extent, but that's because I spent too much time in here and I finally understand that so many issues in my life originate from what I was assigned at birth. This stigma is just a result of wh…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/10/23 09:41 AM
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Actually I 100% disagree with this low-effort mindset because this is coming from people who have no clue how social media works. I've worked in online marketing and I managed my own YT channel with over 100k subs. We need the screenshot that will blow up and be eye catching, we NEED FRONT PAGE. Dear lord people, we need more PEOPLE. We can't be 100% clean if we don't post anything sensational or anything that will invoke some outspark of frustration in men. The feminist movement didn't get wome…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/08/23 01:37 PM
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Any time I've gone to any length to criticize the movement and how it can harm men's acceptance of masculinity or how it grooms minors my comments are deleted in fear of the sub getting banned. Hot trans takes are not allowed here from I have been made aware
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/05/23 06:57 PM
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Mixed bag but he definitely cares about men and his speeches about how feminism is ahistorical as all hell when it comes to misrepresenting how bad men had it back in the day is something we need more of. Most european countries let commoner men vote 10 years before they let women, it's only the rich who could vote. Same goes for how often men would die during harsh work conditions while the women were turned into baby maker machines. The old times were horrible for everyone who wasn't wealthy. …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/05/23 04:10 PM
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The mods have said many times to stay off the trans topic, anything that barely goes against the norm of trans idealogy makes us a target for getting banned so nobody can actually converse with you or debate your very black and white view of his beliefs of trans people. Let's try and stay on the topic of men please, for the sake of the sub.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/05/23 03:48 PM
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I used to read that sub over a year ago and the comments were always full of men shitting on women. It was fuelling my anger towards women to u healthy degrees. Idk how MRA sub acts now still but that's how it used to be. The downvotes I'm getting are low-key ridiculous when MRA spaces have been giving as a bad name for ages and it's literally in our mission statement that we support their cause for men but we don't identify with them either. Sometimes I'm worried we're full of MRAs in here inst…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/04/23 11:09 AM
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Spend an hour on the MRA sub lol, then again violent is a bad way to describe
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/04/23 01:12 AM
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Class A rant
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/04/23 10:38 AM
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What is this her story mug???
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/03/23 11:50 AM
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DM me whenever mate
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/03/23 01:30 AM
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You're a legend and a hero to all male advocates. I used to manage my own youtube channel and broke 100k subs at some point. If you need any help with growing and maintaining your page please don't hesitate to DM me. I am considering making a page of my own regarding male issues but I would love to help yours as well in any way. Been reposting your stuff and sharing it with close friends of mine for a while now. I really hope you are doing well and honestly nobody can judge you if you need help …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/03/23 12:29 AM
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Lesbian sex in some cultures is not even regarded as sex because there's no penetration and because women could never be possibly satisfied by anything other than a man. I get this purity stuff has some validity to it but you're grossly generalizing and overstimating it imo. A lot of it has to do with women being objects for men to play with not just men tainting their purity. Women aren't seen as valid enough to taint another woman in some cultures. Either way, I get the point you guys are tryi…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/03/23 04:25 PM
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"progressive" LMFAO
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/03/23 04:24 PM
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I wrote that right after I had a nap so I do have to admit it reads quite poorly, still though didn't see much reason in pointing it out. "I can forgive your bad English BUT", please try to not sound like a patronizing egghead next time somebody messes up their English. Anyway, lesbian sex in some cultures is not even regarded as sex because there's no penetration and because women could never be possibly be satisfied by anything other than a man. I get this purity stuff has some validity to it …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/03/23 03:03 AM
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"They're called sluts because they gave in to the impure male. You need to read." Yeah that doesn't sound like you're living me with a lot of breathing room there bud. Don't see the point arguing with you no more sadly.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/03/23 07:21 PM
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Hell no. Of course men can be victims, I've been victimized by women multiple times. But there's a difference between being a victim and feeling like one. Adopting a victim's mindset and victimizing yourself in situations that don't make sense is a radfem type of thing imo. I mean fuck, girls getting called sluts in high school for the most minute bs IS NOT because male sexuality is being shamed, and even if it's a factor it's not the sole reason for crying out loud, at least not in my country. …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/03/23 05:56 PM
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I didn't get to read all of it. I don't get why mods deleted it. Venting and being self conscious is a good thing regardless of your point man.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/03/23 01:09 PM
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People saying that women being called sluts because it's actually men who are being shamed is feminazi talk. Just how our issues only concern them when it heavily affects them. I'm sorry but this place gives me radfem vibes lately and I really am saddened by it. It's not woman hating but deep down that's what causes it, a lack of empathy for women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/03/23 11:42 AM
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Problem here is, it's not misogyny, it's losing empathy for women and slowly becoming a hive of victim mentality. I slowly realized this when I heard sweetanita talk on stream the other day. Holy shit she's a human being and all these things she said I could not care because of how women don't care about me. But forsaking individualism is what is going to rob from meeting good friends and hell my potential future wife. Yes I am a misogynist but I wanna slowly change that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/03/23 11:40 AM
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It's not just that. They used to be just baby makers, them deriving satisfaction didn't make sense to a lot of people, them losing their purity to not make a baby I'd their choice ergo we get to call them sluts. I'm not disagreeing about males tainting women but that's not just male sexuality being shamed, that's sexuality in general. We're going full victim mode in here s2fg. Also last time I checked my lesbian friend in high school didn't exactly have it easy. We grew up on an island so backwa…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/03/23 11:38 AM
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Bro wasn't it you the other day that tagged me in lounge about realizing they are a misogynist through one of our disagreements and then you deleted it? Like I can say out loud I have misogyny in me but I don't like it, I really don't.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/03/23 11:33 AM
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Alrighty guys we're turning into an echo chamber. I come from a Balkan European country. Girls in high school get called sluts merely for having a boyfriend at 16-17. I studied abroad in the UK and this happens in a good chunk of Europe. We're not feminists, 2 wrongs don't make a right so please oh please don't tell me that these women didnt get affected by that while growing up. I'm not condoning how they shame their sexuality but we have to access where the issue stems from as well.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/03/23 10:32 PM
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Because society used to demonize any shread of female sexuality. It's a stupid cycle of revenge. Edit: For all the people who down voted. Please oh please look up how women were treated in ancient Greece, you know, the stereotypical sex maniacs who were supposedly all about sexual freedom. Look up how invisible female sexuality actually was back then. I suggest most of you in this thread look into female sexuality and more importantly it's history. There is a reason why a big chunk of young wome…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/03/23 06:04 PM
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As someone who heavily dislikes gender norms but also doesn't really align with the current radical non-conforming gender movement I really like this concept. Keep it less vague and actually start coloring people as individuals instead of generalizing and marginalizing people.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/03/23 08:54 AM
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That's internalized misandry more than anything else. Subconsciously hating your feelings because of your unhealthy associations to manhood, idk about you male advocates fam squad but that sounds like some form kf sexist oppression when you put it down to the most lament of terms.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/03/23 08:52 AM
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Yeah pretty much. Been slowly co-opted by far lefties to associate itself with incels which is basically a male slur at this point. Was mainly associated with nihilism and being burdened with the TRUE TRUTH and all that "schizo meme culture" jazz.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/03/23 08:47 AM
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That's a pretty based take. In my home country we are deeply homophobic unfortunately. Used to have arguments about what constitutes a man with a friend of mine that slowly changed theirs views on this by being around me. He would tell me "eh faggots ain't men" and I'm like why? They can me 10 times as traditionally masculine in the way they live their life and support others and still have as much gay sex as they like, these 2 are completely unrelated. His head was clouded to the point where it…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/03/23 08:44 AM
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That aba video actually ties into an old psyche research from some psychiatrists a friend of mine sent me a while ago that claims that toxic masculinity actually derived heavily from that. And from that I mean how women would abandon their men if they knew they could get someone better without risk. And if they failed they would go back to their ex. This would cause men to hide any weakness to the fear of getting abandoned for someone better. Ergo the toxic masculinity of not showing weakness an…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/03/23 08:36 AM
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Never argued against that, but the word antisemitism at this point is just racism really and people don't want to admit that. Only in America do people practice segregation to such a insane degree where even forms of racism need their own little boxes.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/03/23 08:28 AM
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Damselism? Bro they have a right to have their own safe spaces. It's not even just about prior victimization of women by sexual harassment but a fundamental societal structure. They have a right to want to undress Infront of other women and not AMAB. You're not a woman to understand how unsafe that makes you feel when modern society over sexualized the shit of them which resulted it got knows what kind of increase to sexual crime, I can't blame them if they don't want to be nude to a random AMAB…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/03/23 01:19 AM
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You're so far lost bro.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/03/23 12:09 AM
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I'm sorry you suffer the way you do but 2 wrongs don't make a right. You losing your empathy for female trauma doesn't make you any better than radical feminists who wanna strip our rights away. If you think a sexual assault survivor/victim should stare at a cock in a locker room to validate someone's gender then you seriously lost your empathy along the way and gave into the hatred the gender divide brought upon us. I'm not a feminist, I criticize it with a burning passion. But I sure as hell w…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/03/23 08:22 PM
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Maybe because most women have gone through sexual harassment of some kind. You demanding all women should be ok with an AMAB in the same gym locker room is asking for a LOT here. I'm not advocating to demonize trans women but I'm not advocating to force women into feeling safe undressing Infront of AMABs either.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/03/23 05:11 PM
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We should be open to criticizing our own movement if we deem it lacking in being gender critical. r/detrans is full of young men admitting to transitioning because of internalized misandry and YES even men who claim they suffered from AGP. It's not all right-wing, TERFlord propaganda. This movement is very new still so acting all arrogant like everyone is automatically a transphobe for thinking it's not squeaky clean yet and completely denying the idea that it can harm people is a probably the b…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/03/23 05:04 PM
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That article doesn't debunk anything really. Nobody claimed 50% of cis-men are sex offenders. The Article MaintenanceOwn773 cited claims that trans-women show the same patterns of criminality not that 50% of them are sex offenders. Grasping at straws here and for what? For women to not have a few safe spaces?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/03/23 04:58 PM
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Because there is some actual truth to it, some trans men are genuinely heavily dysphoric lesbians that use transitioning as an escape. Mind you I don't think this is all trans men OBVIOUSLY but I do think it's a real thing. Problem with TERFs is that they are absolute as shit about their opinions. Take Ellen Page for example, she was heavily sexualized as a rising child star and has went on record many times on how this messed her up big time. Her dysphoria clearly had to do something with that.…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/03/23 04:38 PM
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tbf your comment was pretty funny
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/03/23 12:44 PM
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Almost. MGTOW never said that being gay is an option and how we should choose it over being hetero cause hehe fuck waa men. It was mainly about disassociation of men in society from their female counterparts which was assenine as well but u can't fully blame men for feelings abandoned in this climate. Either way neither is an option and stems from sexist hatred.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/03/23 04:32 AM
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Naive as all shit. The fact that antisemitism is not deemed as just racism still baffles my European ass, it's literally racism against Jewish people wtf. I don't see racism against blacks having it's own name ffs. Even comparing racism against Jews to what black and brown people have to go through feels like media manipulation at times. I don't support antisemitism as I loathe all forms of racism but this overwhelming focus on ir nowadays really feels like we're focusing too much on an issue th…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/03/23 04:27 AM
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I always try and make the distinction to where I stand by mentioning this reddit exists and why it exists in the first place. Yes I have had some of my dipshit friends call me a meninist as a joke, but they all know I'm left as shit and they all deeply agree with the problems I mention regarding male rights. I know it's annoying but keep educating and correcting people, our movement will grow slowly but surely lads.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/03/23 04:16 AM
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Also can you share more on where you got this info on VAWA? First time I'm hearing about it
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/03/23 04:13 AM
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Tried to educate 2 of my guy friends on it and they straight up didn't believe me. "I don't think that's true". Like bro I'm not making it up on the spot that's an actual statistic. "Americans are different". Alright lol. But I ultimately could not blame them for being brainwashed by european media that only men can be physically violent in marriages.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/03/23 04:12 AM
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I don't want women to suffer as a whole so men can be better off. That's basically the toxic part of 3rd wave feminism, fuck that noise, we don't want to be like them neither should we strive to be. Fund the men side without having to de-fund the women's side ffs. I'm sure more funds are going towards transitioning rather than male oriented issues in the UK by the looks of things with how quick they are to turn a men's shelter into a women's one. Mind you an alarming rate of men who transition a…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/03/23 12:52 AM
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There is no such thing as gender equality, never fucking will. Gender equity is what we are looking for here in this sub.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/03/23 12:41 AM
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Very sad thing is that if you even got to say that somehow a misandrist would come up and blame men. Not access the problem and try to fix it but just blame men, be angry at men, shit on men. Somehow turn it back to how men affect women. I'm really sorry you had to go through what you did. You getting molested obviously scarred you and people assuming you got it easy when it comes to feeling physically safe because you have a penis is so hypocritically sexist it's insane.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/03/23 12:36 AM
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what's the name for it?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/03/23 12:33 AM
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That's one hot pfp fam
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/02/23 03:10 AM
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I would replace the word passionate with obsessed but ultimately you're right
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/01/23 02:14 PM
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While I do agree male sexuality right now is being vindicated and I have personally have been through that in my first relationship which sadly was with a pretty radical feminist I do have to concede about porn problematic towards women in one major aspect. The bigger portion of the flicks of western "professional" porn contain some form of paid rape in them. Now what I mean by that is that a lot and when I say a lot I mean A LOT of scenes contain some type of hardcore aspect that the woman does…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/01/23 12:47 AM
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Pretty normal stuff. Feminists acting wack as all shit. Guess men are that disposable to them after all.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/01/23 09:50 PM
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Thing is though, this is just how men think, analytical and logic based. There's even psychology studies on this. Sadly not everyone thinks like this especially women, who take up half of the human population. We need some reactions from people, feminism made strides on getting people worked up. Somebody needs to have some intense emotions to go to a rally, I doubt there's a lot of peeps who would go to men's rights rally at this point in our movement. Purely because there's a lot of negative co…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/01/23 04:54 PM
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Realistically there's not many women undecided, majority of them think we have it better and that the patriarchy is is alive in one form or another. I get what ur saying and all but I genuinely feel we need to change people's minds as well. Sadly I don't have the answers but I feel a bit of assertive frustration can work in some situations. Certainly did wonders for feminism
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/01/23 12:38 PM
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I feel it's a double edged sword. Not placing it gives people the option of mentioning it and having more power by bringing attention to it, yet him mentioning it devalues the word purely off the basis that OP provides facts against it's very existance. Then again him mentioning it aleniates a certain demographic but let's be honest here, most modern rad fems are raging misandrist women that would not care to even believe the slides.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/01/23 06:18 AM
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Personally I feel you're actually too timid especially in the way you respond to some comments. I value your page and blog a lot but I don't think the 110% friendly lib approach you take is gonna help in every type of situation. Rad fems were the most successful this past decade in causing an uproar amongst young females, sadly to the detriment of men but they were angry and assertive in certain situations with pretty valid reasons to feel the way they did at times. Right now men are entitled to…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/01/23 06:12 AM
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Huge confidence boost, but also pretty emasculating I managed to stay a virgin despite of that. I always managed to fuck it up because I had 0 confidence since psychologically I still felt fat af regardless if I was thin or not. Looks aren't everything imo. A 5 out of 10 guy can bang 8s all week if he takes care of himself, dresses well and knows how to talk up women. I only knew how to sorta take care of myself and I forgot I was the funny guy in my group the moment I started talking to a woman…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/01/23 01:50 AM
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Jesus Christ really? Can you source me that by any chance? First time hearing this...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/01/23 05:40 AM
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Basically, you ugly or look weird? Hitting or looking at women = creepy. Sad but fucking true. I realized this in high school, my old toxic friend who was tall blonde and worked out always got so much attention from girls, and the way he interacted with them a lot of the time was always so cheeky close to borderline sexual harassment type of comments. But dear lord did the girls like it. I was the short and fat dude and the way women reacted to me in social situations always made me feel like a …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/01/23 02:44 AM
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I'm really sorry to hear that... Regardless of what your home taught you, you're worthy of love and I hope this place will keep reminding you of that. For me is was a bit of the opposite, my mother always loved me praised me but the few things I did really well we're never enough for my father. I'd get a 96 on English or whatever and he would still tell me I can do better... not having a supporting father kinda crippled my masculinity growing up, I had to find it and discover it myself. Maybe pe…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/01/23 03:27 AM
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Domestic violence in the UK is pretty much 50-50 at this point. Yet you mention this to zoomer waa men and they gaslight you on the spot. I'm 27 and I feel that most women 5 years below and above are borderline undatable. Finding yourself someone who doesn't have a good chunk of misandry programmed into them is so hard... I'm glad my girl doesn't hate men but she is still quite oblivious to male issues, then again she kinda gave up on any kind of activism so I should stop taking it personally.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/01/23 02:52 AM
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Hmmmm. Maybe it's more about how normalized it is to say this type of bs now too? I still think the misandry is subtle here but probably not as subtle as I originally thought tbh.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/01/23 02:48 AM
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That's basically female supremacy masquerading as woke empowerment lmaoo. Pink capitalism has mutated to libtard capitalism at this point and it's absolutely batshit insane. Man saying that as a democrat/libertarian socialist physically hurt me, everything has been turned into a product nowadays...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/01/23 02:47 AM
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Isn't that just another version of GD? Dysphoria caused by your gender? The trans movement mistakes GD for being trans which makes no sense. Some people just hate the gender they were dealt with at birth without wishing to transition in anyway. I think I just might be one of them, but I don't wish to be a woman. I just hate the pain and suffering being a man in modern society has caused me, can that be described as GD?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/01/23 02:43 AM
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I'm close to a point where it's hard to judge some misogyny from my guy friends. Women genuinely don't give a shit about our issues so it's so hard to care about them... I try my best to show empathy but slowly not being that guy in the group anymore. You wanna hate women? Yeah that's your thing I'm not gonna correct you anymore....
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/01/23 04:42 AM
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Was more about how the misandry is subtle. Not everyone would pick that up.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/01/23 04:39 AM
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Because women can't possibly be bad or the fault in our society's failure to progress as one.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/01/23 01:31 PM
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Yep, it's all about the subtle stuff
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/01/23 01:30 PM
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I'm sorta conflicted with drag and kids. Depends on the show and how much you see it as performative art, but drag shows aren't what they used to be in pride events anymore... Either way what happened at that show is indeed deplorable, no arguments there
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/23 01:04 PM
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I personally think it's worse because they tried to interact with the kids and they clearly didn't like being there in the first place.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/23 11:43 AM
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Sadly no, very real footage of them talking to kids and addressing them during the highly sexual show. https://twitter.com/TaylerUSA/status/1605025673440989184 Sometimes I'm embarrassed to be a leftist...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/23 05:15 AM
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Have you guys ever had a rage rant on social media? Just outright called a woman names for being openly misandristic? Calling her a piece of shit person and the works? I genuinely snapped the other day and got called out for it by admins. People ignored the women genuinely making misandrist remarks and focused on me. Yeah I realize me snapping doesn't really help the cause but for once I wasn't trying to, I just felt like I needed to vent to a hateful person that lacks any empathy for our cause.…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/23 04:39 AM
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nah, this felt uncalled for, like something akin to stealthy misandry. If you can't see this being a line in a movie from 10-20 years ago then you know you're not just imagining things...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/23 03:15 AM
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I have come to understand that empathy for men is lacked even in more gender critical sub reddits like r/detrans which tries to dissect leftist values more than your typical leftist oriented sub reddit. I said that that the notion that the patriarchy is alive can be harmful to men and their gender identity because they feel their problems are less valued and less real. Honestly I feel that is a problem that has been transfered to the public subconsciously with all the active talk about the patri…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/23 03:13 AM
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A good chunk of our gender roles are social structures. In ancient Greece make up and dresses were considered masculine. So few things are actually feminine and masculine by nature. Some bad tendencies from both gender are probably routed in some behavioral / genetical programming but I feel you're reaching hard time here. We shaped society as we know it and we can't become a bit louder than a few Nazi women? Nah bro, you tell yourself what you wanna tell yourself and waste your time trying to g…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/01/23 04:25 AM
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I've been here supporting the cause for a while. I might prefer LWMA but this place has tons of useful threads and discussions. But saying we should completely abandom society and how we represent and defend our role in it is incredibly reductive, other men in society should matter to the average dude, we gotta start killing the empathy gap ourselves. MRA LWMA idgaf what you classify as, if you call out systematic misandry and the empathy gap then we're fighting the same fight. But please don't …
/r/MensRights05/01/23 04:09 AM
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Man you're part of the god damn problem. All of you are with this horrid ass demeanor. If you want all this man hate to change then news flash, you gotta work to change it. Yeah obviously take care of yourself but if all of this misandry deeply saddens you then band together and try to change it. EDIT: dudes all the dislikes are genuinely disappointing. Completely giving up on society and how they view your gender doesn't offer anything to the discussion of furthering men's rights. Nobody fixed …
/r/MensRights04/01/23 11:29 PM
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I have to disagree there bro, women don't behave in the same way they did 50-70 years ago. Karen even stated the reasons behind their want for their change in the job class. And ultimately you can't deny women are a lot more competitive now, they outperform the fuck out of us academycally and in some of the fields of science to the point where some european countries are PAYING MORE, legally are paying more for female positions. Now tell that to a woman when she mentions the brainlet argument ak…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/01/23 11:20 PM
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Then abolish those gender roles or at least heavily reform them. This sounds incredibly backwards, why support a system that is so stupid and flawed that inherently deems our problems lesser because we're born with a set of balls. I 100% agree on what is the current state of human society but we should want to eventually down the line recruit women because they are like 51% of the human population and not because we want to fall back on assenine gender norms. Gender norms harmed men just as much…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/01/23 07:56 PM
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I find myself using these type of arguments that sexismisbullshit mentioned when I'm trying to educate fellow men who have no idea what society has systematically put them through. I've had younger dudes go from *come on those men complaining are pussies and over exaggerating* to *holy shit all these statistics are real? this is messed up*. And then I link them the mission statement. Recruit smart dudes who are oblivious to these issues, they are way more likely to help than any woman tbh.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/01/23 07:47 PM
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Heavy agree with everything EXCEPT having to wait to call something else out. Miss me with that noise. We want to call people out and for it to be normal? Welp tough fudge but we have to normalize it OURSELVES first boyos. If it means getting less tail or having people put us in dumb little political boxes well w.e so fucking be it. We gotta make some societal sacrifices if we want to be vocal about this irl. Personally I target open minded men with this stuff and they all end up looking up at l…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/01/23 10:06 PM
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This comment takes the cake. Any time I've tried to allude to my lefty friends that internalized misandry is a thing right now with Zoomer and Young Millenial men I'm always told that I'm off my rocker and it's such a fringe case that it doesn't deserve a term and I'm *REACHING*. Good god you just expressed so many of my frustrations with just one sentence.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/12/22 06:47 PM
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I just want to say that this place has woken me straight the fuck up, or at least even more than earlier. Sadly it does also make me feel even more distant from the average women because I know my problems and the way I will explain them becomes even more of a threat to them psychologically. Me having all these stats and knowledge to back up my claims is usually met with a very *SUS* attitude from women around me. But honestly so be it, we all need to fight to make a change in here. May that be …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/12/22 02:19 PM
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hilarious fucking thing is that the first link u posted doesn't come up with anything. They don't want to give us ANY exposure because deep down they know a lot of the things said in here make sense and are based of proper stats. While the second one is full of proper critisism with receipts.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/12/22 04:55 PM
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While I don't think u should of been perma banned, u should of also been corrected. Most homocide on the male side is white on white and black on black. If there is anyone white men should be fearful of it's other men of the same race. But most women who get physically attacked, most of the time it's by men, don't remember the exact stat but it's defo over 80% from what I can recall. So that was a bit of a strawman to be completely honest. But the part about not being openly able to voice concer…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/12/22 04:53 PM
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Can't NOT relate to this comment. Been feeling alone in my MRA type of thoughts but never felt I had any platform or support group. You guys are all amazing in your own right for fighting the good fight
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/12/22 01:18 PM
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Potentially read too much into since the same word is used for LGBTQ supporters but you can never really know. Societal issues are important for everyone imo. But I don't fault you for potentially reading too much into it nor do I discredit it. Us being passively excluded from the feminist movement in multiple ways is what made you think that in the first place. As much as I dislike radfem idealogy, one thing I can give them is that they are more openly exclusionary of us and have the "ballsack"…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/12/22 09:33 PM
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I 100% understood what you meant. I related to ur comment so much it actually hurt a bit.
/r/MensRights30/11/22 03:29 AM
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I care to disagree about that second last bit. Younger men tend to have closer and more real relationships then younger women. Most attractive gals I have met barely have any friends. While young guys regardless of attractiveness have a close circle of blokes they feel comfortable with. I feel in that regard we do way better. We actually get this dub imo
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/11/22 02:20 AM
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Gonna have a good old chuckle fest and do a gender swap on Kate Ng's HORRID comment: The problem is that feminist women have not come to terms with their tribalistic hatred of men or their obsession with victimhood. They will not find their romantic lives improving until they take it upon themselves to dig deeper and find out what it means to have real empathy for men. Until they learn that being a good partner means not comparing your problems and achievements to the point where you turn your r…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/11/22 02:06 AM
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this comeback was beautiful
/r/MensRights23/11/22 02:58 PM
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It's mathematically impossible to be a billionaire without taking advantage of people. Look it up. Late stage capitalism growth is literally based off sweatshop work.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/11/22 02:06 PM
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conscription Same here in Greece, 1 year or jail/refugee for you bud. We live in the stone age in the balkans and from what I can tell so do some parts of Asia. These are issues we need to bring the the U.N., not preceived micro transgressions towards women in a country where they are stupidly privileged in the educational system and continue to outperform men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/11/22 01:58 PM
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I am very sorry to hear about the way you were treated during uni. UK universities treat young white men as the most disposable group of individuals and I've personally experienced this on more than one occasion but I will describe the one that scarred me the most with you all on the one sub that's actually sane enough to discuss male issues proper. I myself was harassed by girl boss programmers in group project because I spoke over them twice by accident during a 10-person group call where half…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/11/22 01:56 PM
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