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GongShanks/r/askMRP16/01/17 03:27 PM
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GongShanks/r/askMRP16/03/17 01:05 PM
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Holy shit. Nice work.
/r/askMRP27/03/17 11:49 AM
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Lol. I don't know or care what you read.
/r/askMRP18/03/17 10:34 PM
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I make good money. Sorry if I gave the impression that I don't. I own several nice apartments. And some rental houses as well. Wife does very well too. Money isn't going to sink me. I am however over 40, over 25% bodyfat.
/r/askMRP17/03/17 06:00 PM
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True I have not given it my best shot. I'm better than I was but not at my best year.
/r/askMRP17/03/17 05:57 PM
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How about "you aren't turning gay on me are you?" Just saying "gay" seems pretty butt hurt to me perhaps. Definitely want to keep it light hearted. But then again I'm terrible at this stuff.
/r/askMRP17/03/17 05:53 PM
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Are you even married, bro?
/r/askMRP16/03/17 09:52 PM
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While I agree, fighting for every single inch every single day is not a heathy marriage for me. At some point the juice just isn't worth the squeeze.
/r/askMRP16/03/17 09:19 PM
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That's why I am not issuing an ultimatum. I am going to continue my plan and observe results. If they aren't acceptable. I am going to walk.
/r/askMRP16/03/17 09:18 PM
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Except just lightening up and becoming the enjoyable person I married.
/r/askMRP16/03/17 09:17 PM
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For what? I was just asking some questions.
/r/askMRP16/03/17 05:58 PM
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I'm not mapping to make my wife want to fuck me and dread life without me. In my estimation, That would be a covert contract. No I'm mapping to get us out of debt and be in shape. Did I falter, absolutely. But the map is a lifetime commitment anyway. You never arrive at your destination when you continually self improve. Am I a better man than I was in 2012, yes. Better shape both financially and physically.
/r/askMRP16/03/17 05:57 PM
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I wish this weren't true but it is. I need to fully adopt my own frame.
/r/askMRP16/03/17 05:40 PM
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It isn't two months. I've been improving my life for several years. All met with hard headed resistance.
/r/askMRP16/03/17 05:13 PM
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As for the reason for waiting and the deadline, I've got some pretty impactful financial stuff that should pay me quite a bit of cash in the next 4 months. Selling an investment property and should net enough dough to finally get us out of all debt except house mortgage. So I am not going to just pull the ripcord until that financial stress has been lifting and we can breath again. Maybe the weight of the financial burden is causing her a lot of stress I am unaware of. I want to give the mother …
/r/askMRP16/03/17 03:59 PM
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I do have a ways to go, no doubt. I guess I wasn't looking at this as a covert contract. Maybe that's exactly what I'm doing.
/r/askMRP16/03/17 03:55 PM
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It has been pretty tough to stay positive. She actually attack my positive frame with snide remarks, basically saying I don't take anything seriously and my jokes aren't funny. AA (agree and amplify) IS MET WITH AA (amplified anger)I notice my younger daughter is starting to mimic this behavior as well. They apparently think it would be better if I was sullen and moody like them. She seems very determined to be a condescending shrew. And not just with me, with almost everybody in her life. I mea…
/r/askMRP16/03/17 03:41 PM
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I have zero expectation of that meaning they might totally turn their backs on me. Good advice though. I am not underestimating the gravity of this step.
/r/askMRP16/03/17 03:25 PM
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Wasn't expecting. If I'd have been horny I would have initiated. But mostly I just don't even feel like initiating at this point. Somehow I think it gives her pleasure to shut me down, like she won something. A couple days ago I was flirty over text and she told me if I keep it up I will be celibate all week. I just sat there and shook my head. What arrogance. Killed any attraction I had. I jerked off that night and just ignored her.
/r/askMRP16/03/17 03:15 PM
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She will no doubt. However there isn't a lot I can do about that. I'm not going to roll over though. I'm sure she will use the kids as a weapon, she won't really have any other clubs to beat me with.
/r/askMRP16/03/17 03:12 PM
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Low T? I am concerned about that as well.
/r/askMRP16/03/17 02:58 PM
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True, I've had a hard time focusing on mapping for myself. It's always been a bit covert contractish. Making the decision and putting a deadline on it has changed my paradigm ever so slightly.
/r/askMRP16/03/17 02:57 PM
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I've never really been an overbearing alpha. I subscribe to the libertarian philosophy of live and let live. I know that flies in the face of MRP dogma but it dovetails nicely into the IDGAF aspect that is espoused.
/r/askMRP16/03/17 02:55 PM
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I'm not really interested in an ultimatum. I'm not looking to start a war during this period. And frankly I just read on here last week that a guy served his wife and she shaped right up. But he doubts the sincerity and longevity of the "new" wife. So what's the point of telling her she's got six months to shape up. Instead I am going to continue to rock my MAP and watch what she does instead of what she says.
/r/askMRP16/03/17 02:54 PM
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Look fuckable? Getting there. Lightest I've ever been since high school. Probably still over 25% though. You can't become a swimwear model in two months but I am making good progress. Don't care if she fucks me? I don't. I really don't. I thought she might initiate last night. I was going to shoot her down because I was beat. She didn't. I was happy not to have to tell her I wasnt buying anyway. Financially I am almost done paying off about 30k in outstanding business debt. The only debt we will…
/r/askMRP16/03/17 02:03 PM
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I've tried to just show strength around my kids. Show them I love them and lead in activities. This is met with complaining and belittling when things go poorly. She actually said a month or two ago that this might be a make or break year for us. I thought to myself "you have no idea how true that is."
/r/askMRP16/03/17 01:57 PM
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2 daughters. 11 and 14.
/r/askMRP16/03/17 01:55 PM
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I'll read the link. To be honest every attempt I've ever made to lead has been met with fire. Fuck it. I don't think she's worth the trouble anymore.
/r/askMRP16/03/17 01:54 PM
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About me, I am not a natural alpha. But I take care of my shit. I make good money, am in the best shape of my adult life. Have made some new friends and enjoy some new hobbies. She's not into me at all. She never ever gives a compliment. She's never wrong. She take every suggestion as a personal attack and instantly flips into attack mode herself. I tend to think the relationship has simply run its course. She doesn't really like me, she wanted a soft guy who was easily controlled. I'm no longer…
/r/askMRP16/03/17 01:52 PM
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Women live in the moment. Right now she feels like this is permanent. We all know that isn't true. I'm sure she loved the shit out of you on the honeymoon too. How permanent was that?
/r/askMRP14/03/17 04:49 PM
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But they aren't going to have 100k in student loans either. It isn't glamorous. It's just a very sound job path. Not everybody wants to be movie star.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/17 03:37 PM
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Plumbers make very good money. Just saying.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 06:02 PM
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Snack on the ass is as alpha as fuck. Lol
/r/askMRP03/03/17 03:17 PM
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Yup. Stupid goody and funny. Always positive. Energy of ten men!
/r/askMRP03/03/17 01:53 PM
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Exactly. It's just like in the other thread...push boundaries. "Ummm we can't have sex during her period." Bull shit. She wanted you to pound her to make her feel loved here. Who says you don't have period sex? Watch what she does. She came into your room and asked you to show her you loved her. What did you think she wanted you to make her a nice cake?
/r/askMRP03/03/17 01:52 PM
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Show me you love me! zipppppppp* Evil grin. And hold your frame. Seriously. You might have missed an opportunity for awesome sex. You had her feels at a fever pitch here.
/r/askMRP03/03/17 01:44 PM
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What's the end game here? What you are suggesting is the opposite of pushing boundaries. Pretty soon you are just living with somebody who adds no value. And so is she.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/17 12:23 PM
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As long as you are righteous in your decision. But don't let her emotions guilt you into staying home.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/17 12:21 PM
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Exactly. I never feel anxiety in my comfort zone.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/17 12:20 PM
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Nevemind wrong thread.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/17 12:19 PM
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Why do anything besides missionary? Because it's fun!
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/17 11:50 PM
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I do this with initiations. Or even during sex. Actually my "fuck it" point right now is blowing a load on my wife. She says she hates semen. Just hates it. But in the shower she's ok with it. But she is damn adamant about not cumming on her during sex. I used to do it. Just pull the rubber off and blow it all over her ass. Gave her a facial on the honeymoon. But not a single one since. Because I'm nice, you see. Maybe I should just say fuck it. She's never going to ask for it. Just say fuck it.…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/17 09:00 PM
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Lazy. How do I know what exact one you are saying is good. The internet is full of crap. Which one were you saying was good?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/17 03:34 PM
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What is ASD? Do you have any links to LMR (let minute resistance) and ASD?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/17 12:49 PM
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This is great advice. Using it first chance I get.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/17 08:00 PM
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We also don't like when younger, hotter ass wants our spouse. That was his point.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/17 12:43 PM
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What is ASD?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/17 11:07 PM
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I love the term Canadian Tuxedo. Just slays me.
/r/askMRP09/02/17 08:30 PM
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I used to really enjoy his boards. Seemed more personal over there are first. Then it just slowly became all women. Shame really.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/17 06:49 PM
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Get a number from a female stranger. Just do that. Approach a female stranger. Doesn't matter if you throw it away as soon as the interaction is over. It can change your life.
/r/askMRP08/02/17 06:18 PM
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Intermittent fasting. Go 24 or 48 hours without eating. Drink only water and black coffee. Doesn't sound like a big deal but it is. It's proving to ourself that you have the will most people cannot fathom.
/r/askMRP08/02/17 06:15 PM
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That's it. It's uncanny. That's why vacation sex is usually better. She thinks it's because less stress but actually it's the adventure of it.
/r/askMRP08/02/17 05:50 PM
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I don't know guy. It's pretty red pill Rambo to just cut off all gifts and go complete 180.
/r/askMRP08/02/17 04:09 PM
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Also you cannot achieve your way to red pill success. Nobody gives a shit that you were tops in your class at Whateverthefuck University if you are squishy man child.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/17 03:21 PM
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Ok
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/17 08:45 PM
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I took it the other way. That he never actually made that break because he didn't need to.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/17 05:33 PM
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True. She basically said she was going to kill herself if you don't do the dishes. Absurd. Recognize the manipulation. See it coming and have a counter ready. Best to laugh at her and leave the house.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/17 12:55 PM
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Great post. I agree wth all of it. I think the way to induce those emotional spikes is to find fun shit you want to do and invite her. You want to go drive your Harley, invite her. You want to play softball? Invite her to watch. You want to rock climb, bring her. Display your super powers.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/17 12:51 PM
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I have a hard time with Rollo sitting on the mountain espousing these truths while simultaneously saying "But not my marriage. Mine is great. I don't have to do these this but you do." I know he's revered but how relevant is his perspective?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/17 12:35 PM
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Interesting I guess. I don't know.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/17 12:52 AM
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A great way to talk dirty is to be possessive. And then amp it up from there over time. Go from just explaining something to increasing your possession of it. "You like getting fucked don't you?" "your pussy is wet" "That pussy gets so wet for me." "You like when I fuck that wet pussy don't you?" "That my girl, fuck me with that wet pussy." "That's my pussy, and I'm going to fuck it hard." "Whose pussy is this?" And so on... You go from simply normalizing dirty talk, to slowly having her tell yo…
/r/askMRP03/02/17 06:16 PM
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Wow this has to be the most pathetic validation seeking thread I've ever seen on here. SMH.
/r/askMRP30/01/17 02:41 PM
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"Why did she say she likes me?"
/r/askMRP27/01/17 01:18 PM
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I need to get mine checked. Is a urologist the best place to start? I live in a rural area, we don't have any t clinics or anti aging or whatever. Just the basics.
/r/askMRP26/01/17 07:32 PM
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And then what did you do? Seems like this would have been a great opportunity to go "out." Not in a butt hurt way. But just kiss on the forehead. I'm going out.
/r/askMRP26/01/17 04:12 PM
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So how far did you go? Did she shut you down or did you do the plausibly deniable initiation? How did you react? What you carried her up the steps and threw her on the bed and she said stop? I'm betting you lost frame at some point. Most likely behaved like a good boy after too. Did you leave the house?
/r/askMRP26/01/17 01:09 PM
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Just make sure you don't over do it. Less is more.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/17 10:32 PM
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The beauty here is like money, the hamster never sleeps. It is going while you are at work taking a shit. Awesome that you got it working for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/17 08:26 PM
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Has anyone read She Comes First? Sounds blue pill but I had a guy I know swear by it.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/17 08:25 PM
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Down goes Frazier! Down goes Frazier!
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/17 08:24 PM
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I've been right where you are. I've not initiated. Initiated strong and got denied. I've initiated and succeeded. I've done tepid initiations. And I've sat there talking myself out of it. Rarely, if ever, was the response what I'd anticipated. You fear rejection still. You fear embarrassment still. You fear the pain. But you are already rejecting yourself and causing yourself pain. So what do you really fear here? You fear upsetting your wife. You want to be nice. You want her to be happy and cl…
/r/askMRP25/01/17 02:04 PM
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The self aggrandizing of veterans on here is laughable. Seriously dude? This isn't buds training.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/17 02:15 PM
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Great explanation of dread Perhaps the best post I've read on the MRP sub..
/r/askMRP23/01/17 06:19 PM
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How do I know? Well I live my life every day. I don't need a spreadsheet to tell me I'm striking out more often than before. Your diet simply sounds unsustainable. Why would you do that to yourself? Sounds red pill Rambo to me. But if it works for you great.
/r/askMRP20/01/17 10:42 PM
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She adds a lot of value. She's a trooper. Makes great money and goes all out as a mom. I just don't get her engine revved anymore. The problem is me.
/r/askMRP20/01/17 10:07 PM
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Excellent. Great thinker.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/17 02:17 PM
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I read this title as "interrupted while taking a shit." Lol.
/r/askMRP20/01/17 12:56 PM
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Day 5 of my initiation fast. I don't think I've had an erection yet. When I got my testosterone tested it was in the low 300 about a year (and 25 lbs) ago. I think I need to get that checked again. I suspect its low.
/r/askMRP20/01/17 12:54 PM
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Agreed. It does do that. However in my case I think that would be counter productive.
/r/askMRP19/01/17 10:13 PM
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They are. Absolutely. It's a fast. I'll fuck her if she initiates but I will not initiate. I did initiate a hug and a kiss. Nothing more though. I just want to break my dependency on her pretty much. Or at least learn about it. Don't care if I go the whole month with nothing. I'll live. I'll probably learn something about myself as well. I thought about no fap here too but decided against that. I don't want to put too much pressure on myself.
/r/askMRP19/01/17 08:26 PM
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My diet is my main focus. I do a modified stronglifts routine. I'm not initiating sex for at least 30 days. I've grown too invested in it and use it for validation. Thus it hurts way more than it should when I get rejected.
/r/askMRP19/01/17 06:31 PM
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Yep. Nailed it.
/r/askMRP19/01/17 04:13 PM
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Higher than mine. Slightly. Maybe one point above mine. She's naturally got a better body. She's pretty but no makeup or hair game.
/r/askMRP19/01/17 04:12 PM
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Enter the Dragon.
/r/askMRP19/01/17 04:11 PM
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Fuck it....go all the way and bring divorce papers home! Do you trust her with money or not? If not, deal with that.
/r/askMRP19/01/17 04:09 PM
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On the frequency, my method was simple. I guessed. The fasting is big too. I can deal with hunger pangs. I am far enough into ketosis that I don't get the blood sugar roller coaster. I've made some pretty significant financial gains as well. I am learning that, while all that is nice, without being trim and fit there is little impact on attraction.
/r/askMRP19/01/17 01:49 PM
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Nope
/r/askMRP18/01/17 08:03 PM
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Working hard on it.
/r/askMRP18/01/17 03:15 PM
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I don't know about piece of shit, but I am fat. I'll I've you that one.
/r/askMRP18/01/17 02:40 PM
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That is the best post I've ever read. Thank you. ''Tis is exactly what I did. I'm a moron.
/r/askMRP18/01/17 02:37 PM
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The not remembering of you even spoke to her, for some reason, seemed like the most important part.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/17 08:21 PM
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Pretty sure he meant some random dude can bang your wife a lot easier than you think. That's how I took it anyway.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/17 07:42 PM
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That is awesome. Congrats. I live in a small town but do travel some. Next time I'm out of the area I'm going to do this...just to do it.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/17 07:40 PM
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Just read one of your posts on the 6 sigma 5 whys. Powerful stuff. It's crazy how you can start off in one direction and end up somewhere totally different....even if you just change one answer. Not getting sex I want Why? Because I'm too fat to fuck the way I want Why? Because I haven't made fitness a top priority Why? Because I've been able to get by in the past being lazy Why? Because my wife truly dug who I was Why? Because I wasn't around too much and did my own thing all the time.
/r/askMRP17/01/17 07:33 PM
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Sounds like it's working. I wouldn't sweat the guilt too much. It's her hamster. Sounds like it's starting to work for you rather than against. Nice job on the turnaround.
/r/askMRP17/01/17 04:07 PM
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Thanks for the link. It's pretty spot on.
/r/askMRP17/01/17 03:40 PM
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Interesting. I almost did it but too. But just did not go through with it. I had a big professional day the next day and didn't want to fuck my mind up with a bunch of guilt. How did you feel afterwards? Guilty? Relieved? Excited?
/r/askMRP17/01/17 02:27 PM
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Agreed. I had a woman majorly flirt with me and invite me to give her a ride home a few months back. It was really cool to feel that sense of attraction again. Haven't felt that in a long time. With my wife it's more a sense that she tolerates me on her schedule and only in this way or that.
/r/askMRP17/01/17 02:10 PM
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Right!!? That's my thought too. It's like for fuck sake, the biggest whale on earth could ask me to fuck and I would not mock her for it. It's troubling because it's a window into her character (thinking people are beneath her). Maybe AWALT but I'm not so sure that's true about this. I do need to start parsing my time. Huge weakness.
/r/askMRP17/01/17 02:02 PM
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That's it. It's like I'm in a holding pattern in terms of her needing to show me value. I don't even want to worry about that shot until I'm in much better shape. I will find out though. I am basically saying to myself "you don't get to say shit about her until you show yourself you can become the fit guy you want to be. So shut the fuck up already. You do not deserve her best. Don't act like you do."
/r/askMRP17/01/17 01:59 PM
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I'm thinking about it. I like the idea of about a 6 hour Windows. Perhaps 4-10pm would work well for me. I don't really get hungry in the morning once Keto adapted. So this is a natural fit for me.
/r/askMRP17/01/17 01:56 PM
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I'm not. But water is bloat too. Heck I don't even feel like I'm out of the starting blocks yet, I'm not claiming victory for another 25-30 pounds. I appreciate what you mean but when starting out, weight is weight. Shedding water is and decreasing bloat already makes my jeans fit better.
/r/askMRP17/01/17 01:54 PM
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One thing I've always been able to do is step outside my own head and see things objectively from different points of view without emotion clouding it too much. I notice a lot of people simply cannot do this and they act totally irrationally. I'm not sprinkling shit on anything. I've resolved to do the 30 day sex moratorium as described in NNMNG. I certainly not using these 30 days to see how much of an asshole I can be. I'm going to focus on how I feel each day moving forward. I am still workin…
/r/askMRP17/01/17 01:09 PM
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I just don't see a lot of value in speaking in absolutes. It's lazy commentary.
/r/askMRP17/01/17 01:02 PM
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This fat guy used to. Weird.
/r/askMRP17/01/17 12:51 AM
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I don't give a shit what kind of weight it is. I'm well aware of how Keto works. Intermittent fast went well today. No cheats. Just coffee and water for 24 hours. It wasn't transformational but it did give me a malleable goal for the day.
/r/askMRP17/01/17 12:50 AM
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Adding comment to mark for later
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/17 08:59 PM
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Got it. Makes sense and spot on.
/r/askMRP16/01/17 08:36 PM
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Thanks for the response. To be honest I am going to reread Nnmng section on the sex moratorium. Sex is less frequent and quite honestly the juice really isn't worth the squeeze right now as it's dull and almost confrontational sometimes. Never as good as I hope. I might just do the 30 day moratorium. Gotta reread how to implement that though.
/r/askMRP16/01/17 08:06 PM
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The disrespect is like the fly in the ointment. It permeates every relationship she has except a couple. She does rub salt in wounds with me. And she doesn't know when to back off the kids either. She will just rail on them well past the point of getting a message through.
/r/askMRP16/01/17 08:02 PM
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I am actually in hour 22 of s 24 hour fast right now. It was planned. Nothing to do with the weekend. I am just going to plan to fast from Sunday dinner to Monday dinner every week. Not even hard to do. Maybe even longer, not sure. Thinking of sticking it out until tomorrow morning actually.
/r/askMRP16/01/17 07:58 PM
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Where did you get that from? About making myself feel better by making her feel worse?
/r/askMRP16/01/17 07:55 PM
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I am getting some great suggestions. I'm 5'10" weigh 209 pounds. I do a a modified stronglifts (using body weight instead of weighted squats) and eat Keto with intermittent fasting (24 hour fast once per week). I am into ketosis according to the strips. I have been since January 3rd. As I mentioned I am down actually 5.2 lbs since January 1. I think the weight is my main focus. I don't drink calories. Coffee is black or not at all. I need to just continue what I've been doing for another 3 month…
/r/askMRP16/01/17 07:54 PM
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I appreciate it and I know you are correct. To be quite honest I think I'm worried that even after losing the weight and getting the finances in order she still will see herself as superior to me in every way. Worried that she has an very unrealistic opinion of her own awesomeness. If that is the case, and I tend to think it might be, I will have a very serious choice to make. She is a woman who seems to think she is above everyone. Not just me. She is condescending to her parents, the kids, mos…
/r/askMRP16/01/17 07:16 PM
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I'd say hers is slightly higher. I'm a 6 and she's a 7 or some such thing. My innate sense is shes sexier than me. However as I lose the weight, that delta is shrinking. She's losing SMV and I'm gaining. I'd imagine with 5 years mine will be significantly higher. The truth of the matter is shes by far the second hottest woman in our peer group and close to the first depending on preference. I am probably the 3rd or 4th ranked male. So there is definitely some room for me to gain. We live in A re…
/r/askMRP16/01/17 06:26 PM
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I am monitoring it more closely. I look at it like my sex life is basically on hold until I hit my goal weight. I don't have shit to say about my wife until I hit that weight.
/r/askMRP16/01/17 06:05 PM
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Keto is what I call a diet. That's what I do. Coupled with intermittent fasting. I'm currently on hour 19 of a 24 hour fast.
/r/askMRP16/01/17 05:39 PM
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I agree.
/r/askMRP16/01/17 05:37 PM
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No, I don't drink any calories. I drink back coffee and water. I don't eat any breads. I don't eat carbs period. I have read the books. My problem seems to lie in knowing the path but not walking the path. I don't know what fat burners you are talking about. I consider 95% of diet products to be placebo garbage or downright dangerous.
/r/askMRP16/01/17 05:19 PM
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Maybe. I can't fix myself in a day. I work at it every day though. I think my biggest issue is looking externally for validation. A different user pointed that it earlier. Always been that way with me. I need to decouple sex and validation for sure. I am a bit worried that she doesn't offer me a whole lot outside of sex though. I mean it isn't like I need her conditional friendship or to listen to her bitching st the kids all the time.
/r/askMRP16/01/17 05:16 PM
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I do. One thing I've been trying to do is actively being my own judge. I think a big part of my problem is seeking validation from others. WISNIFG is an interesting read for me.
/r/askMRP16/01/17 04:20 PM
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The diet is even more important to me. I don't blame her but I think the fact that I've stopped taking her shit to a large extent coupled with still being fat has really tapered her desire down. She could deal when I was being a good little boy. Now I'm not her little bitch anymore and my other warts are more apparent. Less apparent to her is that she's turning gray at an increasing rate. This is also a big turn off to me. She seems to care not one bit.
/r/askMRP16/01/17 03:58 PM
0

Women are nuts...who knew. How did you initiate sex that night?
/r/askMRP16/01/17 02:50 PM
1

You'll get there. It isn't a sprint. If you need time to think, take it. Glad to hear the fog is lifting in your head. Pretty amazing. This whole sub is simply a fancy way of getting men to value themselves. It's all about rebuilding your self esteem in a very genuine way. You can't or achieve your way to self esteem. It's a mindset. Building your body is a big part of building you mind. You are not your brain (Athol kay wrote in Mmsl). You are your legs, your chest, your eyes, your feelings, yo…
/r/askMRP14/01/17 01:37 PM
1

Honesty FTW.
/r/askMRP12/01/17 06:37 PM
1

How you doing a week in?
/r/askMRP11/01/17 10:57 PM
1

Is this ketchup shaming? Good grief dude. Red pill is about having self respect. Not being a fucking goody two shoes.
/r/askMRP11/01/17 10:54 PM
1

Well did you do it?
/r/askMRP11/01/17 06:21 PM
1

You know why Canadians fuck doggy style? So they can both watch the hockey game.
/r/askMRP10/01/17 08:54 PM
1

Savage
/r/askMRP10/01/17 07:00 PM
6

Start by smashing the pedestal. AWALT. What do you bench? What is your bodyfat%
/r/askMRP10/01/17 06:14 PM
1

The title of this thread needs to be. "How to not care if I am a dick to people." The problem isn't them. It's you caring what they think.
/r/askMRP10/01/17 01:22 PM
2

How did you not see that coming. Need to work on some situational awareness.
/r/askMRP10/01/17 12:01 PM
1

It offering up cuckoldry about as much as saying "fuck you" to your brother is offering to fuck him. Christ do you spergs not understand subtext at all?
/r/askMRP10/01/17 11:43 AM
1

Lots of down votes shows me people lack humor, abundance, and basic social skills.
/r/askMRP10/01/17 11:42 AM
1

Go and befriend him. Guy sounds awesome. You could probably learn a ton from him.
/r/askMRP10/01/17 11:26 AM
2

Huh. You guys never mention it.
/r/askMRP10/01/17 10:53 AM
1

Didn't realize you were in the navy.
/r/askMRP10/01/17 02:57 AM
2

Thats frame
/r/askMRP10/01/17 02:42 AM
1

Buy lube. Fuck away. Simple.
/r/askMRP10/01/17 01:29 AM
1

I answer D) All of the Above! What do I win!
/r/askMRP10/01/17 01:01 AM
1

What's your bench? Seriously? And get it through your head - it's not a conscious decision to think somebody is hot. No amount of conscious thought can make me think Melissa McCarthy is hot. Conversely no amount can make me think Late Beckinsale isn't hot. Quit blaming your wife. Poor girl.
/r/askMRP10/01/17 12:01 AM
3

How do you think I knew that? Dude your marriage is unique. Just like everybody else's. Now get back in there slugger.
/r/askMRP09/01/17 08:43 PM
4

You fucked up your OpSec. You fucked up your frame by lying. You paid the price. Now you move forward. How many times have you initiated since the fuck up? I am betting once or twice. Tonight stick your dick in her face. See what happens. What I'm trying to say is "who gives a shit!" If she brings it up again. AA "I suppose you book said to do this!" "No it said to do this!" Pick her up over your shoulder and swap her on the ass! Drop her on the bed. Use your super power to save the world here. …
/r/askMRP09/01/17 07:46 PM
1

Ok so I read your epic year one post. It's one of the very top posts on the sub. You seemed to be moving in a very positive direction. Then I was kind of bummed to read you got divorced (I think). Wtf happened? One night you are bringing your wife to s country bar, then 60 days later she's you ex. Did you ever write out where it all turned to shit? Your situation early on was eerily similar to mine. Did you ever post an obit on where your marriage failed? You are a good writer. But you went from…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/17 01:45 PM
4

That's a good mindfuck. I'm sure the sub will find all kinds of faults in it but you had me rolling. Good on you buddy.
/r/askMRP04/01/17 02:11 PM
1

Black Phillip show is awesome and red pill to the core.
/r/askMRP03/01/17 06:26 PM
1

Yep and I always had the feeling that whole golfing is good, golfing while stoned is better. Sex is good, sex while ripped is better, playing video games is fun, ..... and on it went. It was a delusion I told myself.
/r/askMRP02/01/17 11:21 PM
2

Caught feelings for another man. Never their fault. They must have been on the door knob or keyboard at her office. AWALT.
/r/askMRP02/01/17 04:01 AM
1

Now you are feeling the weed chickens coming home to roost. Internalize that. I have/had the same issues. It numbs you in a good way but also in a bad way. Don't go back to it as a crutch. Don't freak out.
/r/askMRP02/01/17 03:56 AM
0

I agree and disagree. Any woman with a pussy can get laid just about. But a man who doubts himself is always going to struggle.
/r/askMRP02/01/17 03:40 AM
1

It seems to me you pity her and don't want to feel like an asshole for leaving her. She's willing to do almost anything for you. She's a good mom and seems like a good person. She knows the dread feeling well. I don't know if she's got it in her to lose the weight.
/r/askMRP01/01/17 09:24 PM
3

AWALT. Not everyone is a special snowflake like you.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/16 07:15 PM
1

Great post
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/16 04:14 PM
1

What do you agree with? Conversely what do you disagree with?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/16 09:27 PM
2

Go slow but you have to be willing to push boundaries as well. I believe change is both gradual and sudden. It's erosion and earthquakes. You can't be afraid to push it and just do what you want. If she freaks, she freaks who gives a shit? What is she going to do? Truth is you have no idea right? Say you want to give your wife a facial but you aren't sure how she will react. At some point you just have to do it. You can't do it over the course of twelve months on Milliliter at a time. One time y…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/16 07:01 PM
2

Truth
/r/askMRP29/12/16 04:57 PM
1

Love it. 56" centers! Awesome.
/r/askMRP29/12/16 04:39 PM
1

lol I was on a different thread. Oops.
/r/askMRP29/12/16 02:18 PM
1

Never mind I'm an idiot.
/r/askMRP29/12/16 02:16 PM
2

Yeah pot is not a libido enhancer either. I used to struggle with that. What is HL and LL? High libido and low libido?
/r/askMRP29/12/16 02:11 PM
6

Holy fuck that's a lot of words. She's been fucking other guys brah. If that's a deal breaker for you, divorce her. This isn't a shit test. She is actually taking other men's penises into her body. I know this sounds harsh. What I'd do. Honestly is get her alone after kids are in bed. Tell her you need complete transparency right now. Right now. Then go on her devices and look through everything. If it's passworded, have her give you the password immediately. If she doesn't, you file for divorce…
/r/askMRP29/12/16 01:06 PM
2

I don't know how you don't bang the shit out of her when she says she feels lonely. She's asking for sex.
/r/askMRP29/12/16 01:02 PM
4

So a made up narrative is gospel. Got it.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/16 01:18 PM
1

And even then it will be simply her leading (again). It won't be genuine in her mind or his. It will all feel like a sham for at least a couple years (if they can make it that long without calling it quits or reverting back to blue pill mode).
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/16 01:47 PM
1

How much have you read? Seriously now? If you've read and internalized a lot of this stuff, why are you getting married in the first place? What is the net positive for you?
/r/askMRP27/12/16 12:54 PM
5

This would be my first guess.
/r/askMRP23/12/16 08:29 PM
3

I'm trying to plow through it. On page 40 where he starts to talk about how moms and dads guilt their kids about stupid shot is really hitting home. There is nothing morally right or wrong about a messy room. But we tell our kids they are bad people if they don't clean their rooms. That's so fucked up. I am guilty but even if that's all I get out of the book I will keep that with me.
/r/askMRP22/12/16 03:05 PM
1

That's me. I feel like an Aspy when interacting. It's too binary. I need to learn better the nuance.
/r/askMRP22/12/16 01:34 PM
-1

How do you get that at all without context. These posts are starting to remind me of the blanket posts over on the Athol board where the board birches would just respond with "get your testosterone checked" to everything.
/r/askMRP22/12/16 12:00 PM
0

Can you link to some of these?. There is a lot of trash out there.
/r/askMRP22/12/16 11:49 AM
1

To what extent did you cut carbs? Full on Ketosis ?
/r/askMRP21/12/16 08:09 PM
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