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| 3 | Is it worth trying to pick up girls if I don’t have my own place?talk to your pops and open up the discussion. might be awkward at first, but he's your father and you should be able to communicate things like this to learn where they stand. Doesn't have to be like "Dad can i fuck girls here?" more like "How would you feel if I brought a girl back? This place is small and sometimes it can be uncomfortable but I want to work something out for the both of us." At least you will start a dialogue, see where things stand. Take it from there. If he says "no don't br… | /r/seduction | 15/03/19 08:57 PM |
| 1 | From zero to laid. A step by step guide for my younger self. (Long post)dope work man. even though there were lots of points, you ultimately kept it pretty succinct for the amount of ground you covered game-wise. Thanks. PS TINDER GUIDE MY BOY! please, I'm at ~250 matches and I feel like I could step it up. | /r/seduction | 15/11/15 07:57 AM |
| 1 | FR in the making, good solo warm up routine insideNice post man. Easy to read and some good discussion about planning the night/getting ready. I always find it more difficult to go solo. Not that it's impossible, but it can be tough to remain in a social state without having a wingman to joke around with, make observations, etc. Looking forward to the report! | /r/seduction | 15/11/15 06:53 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Make out close in mid afternoon on campusHope it works out for you man. Sounds like you guys really hit it off, maybe it was too much too fast for her. Anyway, you might run into her sometime around campus. I would just say keep it low-key and say what's up. Definitely relax on the text messages if she's not responding. Maybe you got the wrong number, or she gave you the wrong number, or any sort of bullshit. Who knows. Anyway just keep it up, sounds like you've got your technique honed. | /r/seduction | 11/09/15 06:42 PM |
| 4 | [FR] Logistics Nightmare, first time out in a while. #Close.Nice FR.. Don't blame yourself, sounds like you were pretty drunk and tired. At least you're seeing where you could have done better. Learn from your mistakes, better luck next time. | /r/seduction | 27/11/14 06:22 AM |
| 5 | I am just too emotional, any tips?Don't get caught up in the past. If anything learn from it, remember what it feels like and do your best to not make the same mistakes again. Learning to control your emotions is difficult, but it's a great ability once you have it. Allowing other people and outside factors to determine your emotional state will put you into constant chaos. Try to accept things for what they are, remember the good parts and be happy that you had the experience. | /r/seduction | 22/11/14 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Where do you draw the line between being a masculinity and douchebaggery?I see why you feel how you do, but I disagree with asking who the other guy was. If you're trying to do a set and talk to chicks, and some doucher is trying to mess with you so he can get the girls, you ignore - not engage. You're right about having her remember the past projects that you have worked on where you two had fun. Especially since she mentioned that it's "not firm" or that she's nit definitely working with the other guy. That was your window of opportunity, because if she DID want to… | /r/seduction | 14/10/14 01:48 PM |
| 3 | So how do i know if a girl find me attractive or is 'checking me out'?If you look at a girl to make eye contact and she is already looking at you, before quickly looking away, she is probably attracted to you and embarrassed that she was caught looking at you. I she is attracted to you AND confident, she may sustain eye contact with you for a bit. If she looks away quickly after your eyes meet, that does not mean she doesn't like you, she may just be self-conscious/have low self-esteem. Or maybe she sees you as someone with higher social value than herself. | /r/seduction | 01/10/14 05:54 PM |
| 2 | Over-qualifying MyselfSounds like you have a decent understanding of the game, but over qualifying yourself will lead to looking like you are trying too hard, or even worse, that you are bragging. Less is more, so drop a few interesting things through storytelling and leave some open threads for her to pick up on and ask you farther about. Dont reveal everything or even as much as you can; when you display a few great values, she will be able to infer that you are of high value, or her imagination will fill in the re… | /r/seduction | 30/09/14 02:47 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Cold approach, first date, f-closeI wish more girls would game me | /r/seduction | 30/09/14 02:38 PM |
| 1 | A couple of observations I had about the book ModelsAwesome post. I used to go to therapy a lot but learning things from pick up books has taught me how to be more confident and actually enjoy myself more. I am learning how to attract women, but i'm not using it like an evil super power. The book that I really love is called "Magic Bullets". This book taught me a lot and explained everything very thoroughly and clearly. Cheers, friend | /r/seduction | 29/09/14 11:24 PM |
| 3 | Approaching random peopleThe other guy hit most of the basics. As far as who to approach, here are my ideas: If a girl makes eye contact with you for more than a second or two, (without a look of terror on her face) she is likely interested in you. You can say hello and see what happens, she might be delighted to talk to you and glad you started a conversation. Quieter/more introverted looking girls are tougher, although not impossible. They just might not be as social or willing to talk. Basically, any girl that is att… | /r/seduction | 29/09/14 11:18 PM |
| 1 | In Need of Help: Party GameFocus on connecting, making her feel comfortable and letting her get to know you while you do the same. Don't just rifle off questions, maybe ask her something where she can express an opinion, then respond to that opinion. You will be able to build a stronger connection if you can find common interests and then get deeper into each others opinions. It sounds like you are asking too many simple and fact based questions. Tell stories, be unusual, be yourself. Dont ask her the same thing that 14 o… | /r/seduction | 29/09/14 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Can someone explain to me what it entails when a girl acts perfectly normal when she's alone with me but shit tests constantly around (mutual) friends?It would help everyone in helping you if you could give some examples, but i agree with what someone else said about social standings. She likes you, but if you are perceived by her and/or the group to have value that is lower than others, she is sacrificing her social position and losing value if she publicly couples with you. The shit tests are just her attempts of social justification on why you are of questionable value compared to others (even if she truly knows that you have value). Procee… | /r/seduction | 29/09/14 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Highschool Senior here needing some guidance of interacting in a set.I used to do the same, until i learned it really impedes on the mental capacity it takes to practice good game. Its okay to have a smoke or maybe a drink or two at a party, but having a clear head is essential for the best game possible | /r/seduction | 29/09/14 05:09 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Solid start. Awful finish.This is awesome, you write great field reports! In the future, I hope to start posting things like these to document/critique my own game. It sounds like you're more experienced than I am, and you nailed it in the self reflection. Keep it up! | /r/seduction | 29/09/14 04:17 PM |
| 1 | How long does it usually take to build attraction?Usually (not always the case) these girls had an absent father or parent in their childhood. Therefore other men in their life are reflections of their dad, and ignoring them is a reciprocation of their feelings toward their parent who was not around when they were young. They may be scarred from this trauma of being a little kid that simply wants love and attention, but did not receive much. Therefore, they feed off the attention, and they understand the best way to get it and keep it coming is… | /r/seduction | 29/09/14 03:47 PM |
| 1 | How long does it usually take to build attraction?Well if you legitimately like her, you can chase as long as you like. The key is progression, even if it is very slowly. You know you should quit on a girl if she doesn't allow ANY progression in the relationship. Like if you have gone on 3 dates but she won't let you kiss her goodnight, move on. Equally effective, try giving her a taste of her own medicine. If you go with her to a party and she runs off to talk to other guys/friends (expecting you to chase) DONT DO IT. Instead, hang around some… | /r/seduction | 29/09/14 02:29 PM |
| 2 | Highschool Senior here needing some guidance of interacting in a set.Here are a couple quick tips I can think of: -Make the primary focus at these parties having a good time. Girls want to have a good time when they go to parties. If they see you being happy and enjoying yourself (rather than lurking around looking for sets to approach) they are more likely to open up and have fun, making them more approachable. -Don't get nervous and overthink everything. I used to do this, and it really hurt me. Don't think about what other people are thinking. Do what you want… | /r/seduction | 29/09/14 04:53 AM |
| 9 | How long does it usually take to build attraction?it's fun for them. They receive enjoyment from understanding that someone is attracted to them and willing to spend time and attention on them for whatever reason. The girl may be interested in her pursuer, but she may feel that if she makes it too easy for that person then they will not value her after the relationship escalates to a certain point. Additionally, the female also has complete power to veto anything and everything. You may be getting along, but you invite her on a date and she can… | /r/seduction | 29/09/14 04:21 AM |
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