Gorillalpha Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
37	[FR] K-close, self-improvement pays off	Field Report	Gorillalpha	/r/seduction	13/12/14 05:47 PM
4	Small hands escalating kino routine		Gorillalpha	/r/seduction	06/01/15 09:49 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	I honestly feel like this whole subreddit is like the blind leading the blind... You should've made a field report.	/r/seduction	06/01/15 10:26 PM
0	Asking girls about her friends during a date? Don't talk about your friends either that makes you look less interesting. Unless they are stories of awesome shit you did with your friends of course.	/r/seduction	06/01/15 10:11 PM
1	I honestly feel like this whole subreddit is like the blind leading the blind... Also a common view is that how you develop yourself due to self help makes you more of a 'man' but it doesnt, it makes you more of a human and a lot of the qualities that we try to integrate into our personalities are actually the same qualities that an man should be looking for in a women such as groundedness, congruence, confidence, being fun, being honest etc. I don't think most people say it makes you more of a 'man'. It's to develop your inner game, which is a great advice, whether it makes…	/r/seduction	06/01/15 10:05 PM
1	I honestly feel like this whole subreddit is like the blind leading the blind... Look the whole point of doing it as many times as you can is to get natural at this stuff, some people do that fast others don't. If you are talking about negging with being an asshole I do not agree, negging works really good for me. With quality women I'm not talking about looks at all. I'm talking about the whole picture, the ones that are real catches to you and you want to be around with. I still not agree on the handsome vs. great personality guy part. Of course there are boundaries on bot…	/r/seduction	06/01/15 10:02 PM
5	I honestly feel like this whole subreddit is like the blind leading the blind... Look, i used to do all the PUA shit and most of it is a load of crap For how long and did you get any quality women? And what do you think is crap exactly? By this, i mean that there were not a lot of girls who liked me for reasons other than my personality I think you don't realize how important personality is. You can be good looking, but if you're awkward as fuck, no girl is going to like you. I have currently been in a loving relationship for the last seven months Could just as well be a ver…	/r/seduction	06/01/15 09:03 PM
1	[FR] First time legitimately to use routines (ESP) Do you think if I meet her in another party, she would still (if she was) get attracted to me? Hey! Step back, she's gone. One more thing about her and we're going to accuse you of having one-ites. Are there two Girl A's in this story? Or did the same one eventually join with Girl B? Anyway, the first part of your story where Girl A goes to the restroom; you didn't really have to ignore her, just say "Ok cool" and continue conversation with other girls. On Girl B, her introducing herself to you …	/r/seduction	04/01/15 09:15 AM
1	Not sure who to start with And opening her by telling her you have a crush on her isn't putting her on a pedestal? Sure it's confident, but it's also very beta.	/r/seduction	03/01/15 03:55 PM
1	(FR) The Zen Approach/Outcome Independence/Peacocking Exactly, don't give them the time to re-ask the question.	/r/TheRedPill	03/01/15 10:26 AM
3	Talking to a "random" girl over the phone. Do you think she would agree to meet with someone she has (assumably) never seen before and just calls her up? Or do you think she will be wondering who you are, how you look like, and how you got her number? And your friend, whom you've got her number from, doesn't know her either? This is a no-no. Walk up to her and talk to her in person, or if that's not possible; move on to the next girl. Come back to /r/askseddit if you actually want advice on how to approach her.	/r/seduction	02/01/15 10:53 PM
1	To marry a '5' or improve myself Indeed. Last week I kissed a girl and my friend said to me: "I can't believe you actually kissed her, you were so mean to her.". No I wasn't. I definitely teased her a lot, but I also made her laugh, danced with her, etc. He witnessed it all, yet the bantering was the only thing he picked up.	/r/TheRedPill	18/12/14 09:26 PM
1	To marry a '5' or improve myself This is nonsense, this just tells us that you don't get out there enough. I met beautiful women with a great attitude.	/r/TheRedPill	18/12/14 09:22 PM
1	To marry a '5' or improve myself and stop being nice to women(it doesn't work).. This is not true, the thing is to stay yourself, don't agree with everything they say and don't put them on a pedestal, banter them, for example when they say something silly, instead of saying "it's ok we all have that from time to time." make fun of her. Stay nice and playful, don't be an asshole. Also what does 'a 5' mean for you? Are you talking about looks? Or do you not like her at all? Why would you marry someone you dislike?	/r/TheRedPill	18/12/14 05:23 PM
1	I had this idea it'd be cool to track my self-improvement like an RPG. Found this. I don't think the problem in your example is really the measurement of performance, but more the competition factor. The comparison should be made to yourself, improving personal records. Also gamifying the work floor should make things more fun but the wrong implementation can obviously dot he opposite. Green should've meant a reward, yellow = almost there, red = you're not going to get a reward this month if you continue like this. The system your company had makes work horrible, the bar gets …	/r/seduction	18/12/14 05:14 PM
18	Just dumped gf of two months. Feel pretty good. He means that when you're in a long term relationship, instead of actually dumping her, just use this as dread game (or to punish a shit test, I guess).	/r/TheRedPill	18/12/14 04:56 PM
1	The point of TRP should be to have healthy peronsal development, not to dominate or score "alpha points" Thanks for pointing it out. I just found out this thing called Internet, so i had no idea how that voting thing works and I have yet to build a shield for it so I can take it like a man, like you. I guess it's really silly of me to think that in a self-improvement community like this actual feedback might be handier than a simple down vote.	/r/TheRedPill	15/12/14 08:35 PM
1	The point of TRP should be to have healthy peronsal development, not to dominate or score "alpha points" I wish the people that down vote shit I say, explained why they do so. Like you're doing right now. I think we can all learn from each other if we are a little more critically to each other.	/r/TheRedPill	15/12/14 05:59 PM
1	Mixed signals Yea man, you really need to next this one. Seems that you're the one contacting her all the time. Leave her alone, she has your number. :)	/r/seduction	15/12/14 05:43 PM
1	[FR] Crashed and failed miserably and lessons learned I'm also learning but I've experienced an AMOG before and dealt with it rather good thanks to this sub. I didn't advice you to AMOG, but you were being AMOG'd as it seems from your FR. You needed to defend differently. I don't know how much rapport you built with the girl but the "girlfriend" line wasn't a good one. You shouldn't have tried to compete with him but rather say something fun to her that makes her turn him down for you. But again, you would need to have at least a decent rapport, I …	/r/seduction	15/12/14 05:26 PM
2	[FR] Crashed and failed miserably and lessons learned I think there are couple things I would've done different here. First I wouldn't have focused on the girl you initially invited right away, but I would have introduced my group to hers. It makes you look like a bit of a leader and her friends are not going to stand around awkwardly. Second, I'm not sure but it also seems that you moved all your attention to one other person, I would just make small talk with a couple of her friends instead. And last, you really need to search on here how to deal…	/r/seduction	14/12/14 09:39 PM
1	[FR] K-close, self-improvement pays off Thank you. Well there are couple of things, obviously i continue to work out, but i am also looking to do a sport like boxing. Next to that I am also looking for a new apartment. I kind of have to wait till i found one before i can go start boxing. On a more mental level; I liked a girl that was going to my university a couple of years ago but she had a boyfriend. Three weeks ago I got invited to a house party and she was there and single. I had a lot of fun with her, so much kino but no kiss (i…	/r/seduction	14/12/14 07:05 AM
7	[FR] K-close, self-improvement pays off Pretty basic clothes really, mostly jeans with a shirt or sweater. I mostly go to the websites of the stores that I go to and see what kind of stuff they are promoting on models, those things are always 'hip'. I also communicate with the women working in the stores, just ask them if it looks good on me and make small talk. Trains the talking, and I'm getting good styling tips out of it from time to time. Thanks and good luck to you! :) Edit: I actually had very recently that this lady in the sto…	/r/seduction	13/12/14 06:32 PM