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Gouden_Eeuw/r/askTRP12/10/15 03:25 PM
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Gouden_Eeuw/r/askTRP17/02/21 04:38 AM
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I don’t think you can save this. I highly doubt that downgrading her will be worth it because she already makes a lot of drama out of nothing. What is right or wrong , or whether you should care is for you to decide. If you still want to try you tone down the texting and no-sex activities. Just start texting for logistics only. If she makes drama, which she will there is a low chance of saving this. Above all, first you treat her like a GF and then a plate, how should she like that? For example …
/r/askTRP01/06/20 08:17 PM
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What do you want advice on? What is the problem? That she might be too hooked before you even fucked? Why is that of your concern especially if you just want to fuck and don’t care about her? Go fuck her good first, and if she is too much of a pain in the ass then reassess. All the best!
/r/askTRP01/06/20 03:54 PM
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In the past she stated a few times when talking about relationships of friends that relationships are bad and love always disappoint, deliver pain. It was her explanation for avoiding and hesitance with relationships. Told her that things aren’t that black and white and she is too negative. Also said that her stance on relationships seemed quite emotionally loaded. So I guess it’s more of that she is stating that she is happy the way it is or something? Maybe I was giving off boyfriend vibes som…
/r/askTRP08/05/20 11:41 PM
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Thanks a lot and I understand what you are saying. However, I understood from her text that she thought that I possibly wanted to LTR her but that it is not something she cares about and doesn’t want to disappoint me or whatever. So why would she explicitly state and assure that it is something she doesn’t want for just testing the waters?
/r/askTRP08/05/20 11:05 PM
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Thank you and happy to hear that I handled it well. Still got one question, why was she disappointed? She always has been sending a lot of mixed signals by pulling me in when I take distance and vice versa.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 02:23 PM
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/r/askTRP06/05/20 02:00 AM
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Currently plating one and she really can be a pain in the ass. Has difficulties regulating emotions and very high drama. So conflict is always very exhausting despite being a plate. No self reflection whatsoever compared to other girls. Only thing she got going for her is that she listens and always is down for me. Still wouldn’t recommend as a long term plate.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 12:38 PM
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Is zeker geen geheim hoor. Den Haag, Zuid-Holland
/r/askTRP12/11/19 04:59 PM
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Helaas nog zeer weinig respons ontvangen. Vandaar ook nog geen echte stappen gezet.
/r/askTRP03/11/19 10:57 PM
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Bijvoorbeeld een telegram groep met alle geïnteresseerden met daarin een bot om informatie in te verwerken. Vanuit daaruit kijken wat de animo is en dan wellicht zelfs een website opzetten.
/r/askTRP31/08/19 12:47 AM
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Sure what always worked for me in this case is to not make a big deal about it. Just act like it’s regular and you have done it before with her.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 10:16 PM
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Good one. I will see her next Tuesday with the group. Test the waters a bit. I will make sure that my intentions are bold and clear, see if she enters the dynamic with me. If not, then I’ll let it pass. If so, then I will pursue and if I can’t isolate and the place, set up a activity. Thanks a lot man!
/r/askTRP07/09/18 04:15 AM
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Thanks a lot man. You are right, by going to the club I will introduce a lot of other guys that might cause problems. Risky. So if I understand you correctly I will need to as alpha as possible towards her, not just when dealing with the group. So you would say isolate her at another place/event? I haven't got a place near it, in another city. However, her place is almost at walking distance of the social club. What do you think of inviting her to a kind of educational event on a topic both her …
/r/askTRP06/09/18 03:39 PM
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In my opinion being a entrepreneur is the only way. But first, what do you consider wealth? Wealth is nothing if you don't have time, wealth is nothing if you don't have health, wealth is nothing if you have to sit in a dark stinky office. At a regular job you just get paid for you time. Wealth = created by time and being physically there. ​ However, if you for example develop a service or product your wealth is not bound to time and being physically present. I believe that a educational backgro…
/r/askTRP06/09/18 03:19 AM
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Thanks a lot. For example today I met a girl at a my sorority. It isn't like the typical sorority and more just social events. For the rest of the year I will have to do run our own group with her with new members and her and me as introducers to the club. I did quite some talking here and there, but eventually we were dissapointed in the new members because they are quite boring. I wanted to focus more on the her and I dynamic, but she still was very frustrated in the way the group is and I cou…
/r/askTRP04/09/18 11:25 PM
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That must be it. The knowing that they like or IOI must be what drives me and gives me a head start. Without it I probably have just a unconscious blocking in my mind. In book Bang a conversation basically should take to 20 minutes to escalate. With the guy doing most of the talking. For example there are some cute girls in my university class and in that situation not the same tricks can be applied. Today for example I opened during a break, with “liking it so far?” Then I get some small talk f…
/r/askTRP03/09/18 11:01 AM
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Thanks a lot, you are right. It’s life, sometimes moments are hard and sometimes things get better. Regarding my father maybe it might be indeed better to do what I want to do. And moving out does not mean that I’ll abandon him, so I can still support him
/r/askTRP18/07/18 09:54 PM
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Wow tough guy, great advice!
/r/askTRP18/07/18 09:49 PM
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Thanks for the response. I'll flirt back and ask her out like I was suppose to do, thanks again.
/r/askTRP12/12/15 12:40 AM
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I overestimated him, you were right about him not being able to supply good connections. Yesterday I asked him with how many people we would hangout with at his place and what kind of people they are. He said it would be just us and he didn't think anyone else would come... So I didn't go and knew he couldn't offer me anything in terms of connections. I'll just stay positive and will keep looking for alternatives.
/r/askTRP08/11/15 04:57 PM
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Thanks for your help so far. I've been looking around at my course and one guy mentioned several times before I made this post that he would like to meet up with me and go out sometime. He knows and lives with people that are active in the student community in the city in live in, but he is very socially awkward. I will hangout with him next weekend at his place and use him purely as a tool to get to know other people. I have not yet found a meet up near me, but will try doing so. Overall not id…
/r/askTRP02/11/15 03:20 PM
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Thanks a lot for your response and reading my long story. I've been hearing mixed things about being without having any experience with girls and the attitude that fits in my position. It's something that I had problems with a few weeks ago, because I had set up my first date with a Tinder girl ( that eventually flaked). I became really anxious and that date was all that mattered to me the days before it, because I would have my opportunity to not be a virgin anymore. I am not sure what my new a…
/r/askTRP31/10/15 09:35 PM
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I've started with Tinder since September and it has been a pure waste of time for me aside from practicing game. I've in total got 5 numbers from 100 matches. I've managed to set up a date with on girl and she went radio silenced/flaked. 2 numbers did not respond to a text. I've still got 2 numbers unused, but to me their SMV is too low and not worth the effort. A lot of girls act interested with giving complements etc, but it's a trap to make you their orbiter or they lose interest after 1 hour…
/r/askTRP19/10/15 04:33 PM
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Yeah I'll definitely do that next time, or I'll let them come to me
/r/askTRP16/10/15 09:06 PM
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In case you wanted to know what happened, I've updated the post
/r/askTRP16/10/15 07:34 PM
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In case you wanted to know what happened, I've updated the post
/r/askTRP16/10/15 07:34 PM
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In case you wanted to know what happened, I've updated the post
/r/askTRP16/10/15 07:34 PM
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How many pictures do you have on your Tinder profile and what kind of pictures are they?
/r/askTRP15/10/15 11:40 AM
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Lift and get enough sleep. In case you've got any problems without your current height and won't grow anymore : accept it.
/r/askTRP15/10/15 11:29 AM
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Hahah, well the result can give a impression in how/if I changed and it can be a good experience.
/r/askTRP13/10/15 06:54 AM
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Like I mentioned, wishful thinking and she was the first one that showed interest that I had not seen with other (Tinder) girls whatever that may be worth.
/r/askTRP13/10/15 06:50 AM
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I've read some game theory, that's about it. I've never done cold approaches.
/r/askTRP13/10/15 06:47 AM
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Wow thanks man. I didn't look at it that way. You are right, I am doing her a favor by coming all the way to that shithole city she lives in after a busy week, risking that I waste my time, get robbed or whatever. She should better convince me why it was worth the travel. I won't travel all the way to make her think she has some random guy in front of her who says yes to everything she thinks or desires. I will call her out on her BS or shitty games. Her worth is most likely bound to her pre wal…
/r/askTRP12/10/15 06:18 PM
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Thanks for the advice. It does matter to me, because the outcome could be life changing for me. I'll just try to stay optimistic and see where it goes.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 04:49 PM
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Thanks, I'll try. Too many what if's. I should enjoy living toward it instead of making it an anxious struggle.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 04:42 PM
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I chose to get to her city because of if I would close I could go to her place to stay the night. Wishful thinking, but that's the reason.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 04:37 PM
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Thanks for your feedback. I've been trying to calm myself down for over a week, but without any success so far. Lifting and sleeping doesn't help as much as I would want it to. I'll try to remove the scenario thinking and show up Friday in my best mental and physical state.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 04:34 PM
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Get her number, start a conversation with texting/calling, ask something like what did you do today and talk about that without going on too long. Then say: wanna hangout on day or let's go for a drink, when are you free? Something similar is good too, as long as it shows assertiveness and decisiveness.
/r/askTRP10/10/15 04:53 PM
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Ask her out or invite her asap. Don't wait for the perfect opportunity, create the perfect opportunity. If she is interested she will say yes and it definitely looks like it, so do it and report back on how it went.
/r/askTRP10/10/15 01:27 PM
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Seems to me like a way to start a conversation aka opener So they are interested in you.
/r/askTRP09/10/15 09:17 AM
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Your not a psychic so it's not a disaster if you don't know the answer, don't worry about that. If I wouldn't know the answer I would ask the professor to give a hint or additional details, if I still wouldn't know it I would just say that. You don't owe your professor anything.
/r/askTRP05/10/15 05:23 PM
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Yeah definitely. Today she started another texting conversation, I am still trying to respond minimally and act cocky, busy and mysteriously. I am not taking any initiative in the texting conversations or ask her questions. She asked for my Snapchat ( validation medium for her), I gave it to her but will use the same tactic as I use with texting. She is complimenting me often on BS like how she likes my names, but I have doubts about if I am able to keep her interest/attraction until the date wh…
/r/askTRP05/10/15 09:54 AM
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Thanks for explaining and helping, let me know what the response of the chick was.
/r/askTRP04/10/15 04:10 PM
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Thanks for your extensive reply. I am making her wait for my replies so like you mentioned. 10 minutes ago she texted me with a day when she is free so we set up the date in her city in the evening. The date is on the 16th so it's far away from now. to me it seems like the "flake risk" is high. Will going silent until the date still be the best tactic in your opinion?
/r/askTRP04/10/15 03:42 PM
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She messaged me back with a date on which she is free and we have set up a meeting. So turns out I got what I wanted anyway :)
/r/askTRP04/10/15 03:31 PM
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Okay thanks, you couldn't be more clear.
/r/askTRP04/10/15 01:13 PM
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Fixed it!
/r/askTRP04/10/15 01:06 PM
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I've added that part before I asked her out. Yeah she might be busy, but to me if you really want to meet someone and show clear interest you make time, the average girl around 20 doesn't have a lot of things to do. However I am probably over analyzing.
/r/askTRP04/10/15 01:03 PM
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Your height could be worse and you are lucky to be above average height in your country. Learn to accept your height, I am 5'8" and from a country with on the average the tallest people so it could be worse. About the boots, why? What is it that 1.5" going to practically give you? Even due you claim to be confident, to me wearing boots with your intention doesn't show that.
/r/askTRP04/10/15 01:54 AM
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Buy a 5 dollar USB disk. Put the photos on it. Sell the laptop. Done.
/r/askTRP01/10/15 10:16 PM
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Because of the complexity I am going to stop taking the AMP Citrate. I want to make sure that what I take is safe in moderation, but it has impact on the body is too big/unpredictable if you are correct. Thanks for sharing your knowledge.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/15 04:05 PM
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Great article. Do you have any knowledge about the way AMP Citrate functions? It is based of DMAA. I take it before I workout and it gives me an insane tunnel-vision, improved senses, easily irritable, tingles in my head and sometimes a great mood. The day after I feel a bit down and unmotivated.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 10:03 AM
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I understand thanks for explaining, she almost got me there. One last question: would "friends, maybe more" as an answer to her latest question, put me in the friend zone/BB list?
/r/askTRP21/09/15 06:52 AM
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Good choice, fruit does contain sugar with fiber. This combination will make sure that your blood sugar won't spike.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 02:22 PM
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Thanks, you've given me some good suggestions.
/r/askTRP16/09/15 02:45 PM
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What would be a good hobby that involves doing something with others and at the same time being not a waste of time aka be productive?
/r/askTRP14/09/15 11:51 AM
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I wish you the best in this terrible situation, keep us updated on the alimony case.
/r/askTRP16/07/15 11:06 AM
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You barely know her and you don't owe her anything so don't waste your money by buying a gift.
/r/askTRP15/07/15 06:28 PM
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I am kind of in the same situation as you are. I made sure I lost all contact with toxic beta friends that tried to benefit from me. Now I only consider being friends with someone if I can benefit from him or if he is a loyal person that doesn't have a bad influence on me. I hadn't a lot of friends in the first place so I am quite lonely. It's not ideal and but I am happy although it could be better. As to how to proceed I would start thinking about what you really want in live and who you reall…
/r/askTRP08/07/15 08:20 PM
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Do you enjoy hanging out with them? Do you benefit more from more than the degree in which they are holding you back? Are they loyal and aren't they backstabbers? If yes on all answers, keep them around and don't burn bridges. If no on one of the answers, quit the contact asap, don't spend any energy or whatsoever on them.
/r/askTRP29/06/15 12:40 PM
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It depends on the person. Some people just prefer and perform better to train in the evening instead of the morning, it's also the other way around.
/r/askTRP29/06/15 09:41 AM
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Haha we kunnen bijna een Nederlandse Red Pill subreddit beginnen....
/r/RedPillBooks12/06/15 04:24 PM
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Inspirational people and stories like here on the /r/TheRedPill and people like Arnold Schwarzenegger keep me going. Sometimes when I have a day with low motivation/discipline I look at the people around me and realize that I don't want to become like the a.k.a the low disciplined instant gratification and validation depend people. It would to be a waste to not be the greatest version of myself, especially because I found this sub which makes this easier.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 02:04 PM
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He couldn't have it done any better.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/06/15 11:19 PM
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WAT? Een Nederlandse RP'er, jij bent de eerste die ik ben tegengekomen. Heb je alles al gelezen?
/r/RedPillBooks08/06/15 11:06 PM
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I guess he is in his early thirties and he is 10 years older. It might be the one thing or the other, my ego or my course.
/r/askTRP02/06/15 07:41 PM
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I'll start read the book and change my behavior to whats recommended in it. However what would be the other way to deal with him? Turn it around and AMOG him, try to ruin his reputation towards other students, things like that? So basically "what not to do"
/r/askTRP02/06/15 07:39 PM
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I'll definitely go read this book, it already was on my todo-list. But to summarize it all it would be the best to just take all his AMOGing and act like I am interested and impressed by him? I also did some research about if it would be possible to have someone else at the University mentor me and it is a possibility, would it be a risk?
/r/askTRP02/06/15 07:36 PM
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He has and will have a big influence in whether I'll pass a test/assignment or not, so he can fuck shit up.
/r/askTRP02/06/15 07:32 PM
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Still interested? Go hangout. Wanna learn her what it's like to be rejected? Drop it. Only you can decide what is worth more to you.
/r/askTRP02/06/15 07:52 AM
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I am 5'7" and live in a country with one of the highest man ( The Netherlands ), I am only 20 so it might be possible that I still grow a bit, but especially with articles like this it is hard to find complete "peace" with my height.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 09:22 PM
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Your SMV shouldn't depend on a car.
/r/askTRP23/05/15 01:45 PM
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Thanks for reuploading!
/r/RedPillBooks22/05/15 09:48 PM
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It varieties from 1 to 2. It's not much, but caused by my inflexible schedule and requirements I do meet like having multiple years of experience in a specific sector.
/r/askTRP19/05/15 06:10 AM
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The link is down, could someone reupload it? It would be really appreciated.
/r/RedPillBooks18/05/15 07:58 AM
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Definitely. My teacher is a woman so that explains things. I'll just ask her what her thought process was behind that emotion -> rationality thing.
/r/askTRP22/04/15 07:17 PM
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Rather die like a man, than live like a coward.
/r/askTRP20/04/15 07:55 PM
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The book How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie might help you.
/r/askTRP11/04/15 04:03 PM
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Exactly. I'll try to give him as little attention as possible and make fun of him when he whines about something. Maybe this will make him stop whining and change his attitude, if not I'll just literally say to him that he is pure toxic negative bitch and he should stop contacting me.
/r/askTRP31/03/15 09:26 PM
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At the beginning of this month I removed a toxic girl I've had oneitis for, for some years out of my life. This beta friend might be a good follow-up.
/r/askTRP31/03/15 04:49 PM
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He definitely is unhappy with his life, but he fails te realize what he has in life. Numerous times I've tried to make him more optimistic, although it has been wasted effort. I have some friends at the unversity. Unfortunately most of them are beta and socially awkward (ICT course), because of that I am not willing to spend my time with them if I can avoid it.
/r/askTRP31/03/15 04:46 PM
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I agree. I've started to lift 3 times a week since January, but he still sometimes tries to convince that I need rest and keeps asking me how I am able to lift after such a long day. What annoys me the most is the fact that statistically he's got more in life, while doing nothing for it and having a shit mentality.
/r/askTRP31/03/15 04:42 PM
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He has no more utility towards me, except for acting interested in what I do in live and pointing out the negative things in it. He always start conversations with me and I always give short answer to his questions etc, but he doesn't seem to get the message.
/r/askTRP31/03/15 04:37 PM
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2 weeks ago I asked a girl out I've known for a some years and had oneitis for. She only knows the BP me and she said no. At the same time she was really surprised and impressed that I asked her out, probably because of me being suddenly very assertive and direct. However it didn't change her answer so it still was a no. I haven't heard from her since and I am not planning to contact her again ( radio silence ) . Conclusion: you can try, but the odds definitely are against you. Ask yourself what…
/r/askTRP23/03/15 08:42 PM
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Protein powder does offer more bang for the buck than meat. It's cheaper and has a better and more complete amino acid profile. Too much red meat increases the risk on cancer. As far as testosterone is concerned, make sure to avoid soy cause it lowers your testosterone levels. Make sure you get enough sleep and avoid stress as much as possible.
/r/askTRP18/03/15 11:26 PM
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Don't stick your dick in crazy!
/r/askTRP17/03/15 10:10 PM
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I am Dutch and I live in The Hague. I agree with you to a certain extent. Feminism might not seem big here, but in my experience a lot of Dutch woman think that are being suppressed and that men should provide them with everything without giving much in return. What also concerns me is the whole mindset of woman around our age ( I am 20 myself). A lot of them think they are princesses etc because of all the orbiters and beta man giving them all the attention on Instagram and Facebook. I know I a…
/r/askTRP16/03/15 05:51 PM
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True, after all I showed the courage and got the answer by asking her out, something I can't recall a lot of guys would have tried. However to be honest I don't think there is anything there at all. She definitely won't text me, that would be false hope. I will act radio silence towards her, and I expect her to act the same to me. Today I feel very irritable and feel the need to act passively-aggressively. The last behavior I mentioned gives some strange relief. I also had the worst workout I ev…
/r/askTRP13/03/15 09:18 PM
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I decided not to respond anymore. This battle is lost. Was it all for nothing? Probably. Did I gave enough hints? In my opinion I definitely did, not today but definitely in earlier conversations, guessing that a guy likes you if he asks you out seems hard for her and her friends. What did I win? I know how it feels like to get rejected again and this rejection has fed my insecurity, but I got my answer. I can say that between me and her it will never be like it was. The conversations and experi…
/r/askTRP12/03/15 09:15 PM
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Indeed, by dragging it out too much I am wasting my time. It's very seductive to say something like that, but she will then get 100% validation that I liked her. And I might go to the "we're just friends BS" Or am I wrong here?
/r/askTRP12/03/15 08:34 PM
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I'll definitely make that clear if she proposes that. But she won't. Would you recommend still reacting on the last things she said?
/r/askTRP12/03/15 08:26 PM
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Yeah I had too laugh when I read that. I told her: hahaha Anna, I am not going to bet about things like that. However it all doesn't matter anymore , because you said no, right? Now she said: Hahaha I don't know, it was so random. She REALLY seems surprised, maybe she has no clue that I like her
/r/askTRP12/03/15 08:17 PM
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I said: I just got the idea, what did you think? She said: Ohh haha no idea. Thought you were having a bet or something like that. ( crying emotion ) What is this BS?
/r/askTRP12/03/15 07:57 PM
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But I know her quite well, so I need an alternative
/r/askTRP12/03/15 07:44 PM
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I did say something similar, but she wants answer to why I asked it so randomly
/r/askTRP12/03/15 07:39 PM
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Just: No, I am sorry. How should I react?
/r/askTRP12/03/15 07:35 PM
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But she said no, I am sorry. So it's over
/r/askTRP12/03/15 07:33 PM
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I told her first answer if you want go out, than I'll answer yours. Right choice? Honest opinion please UPDATE: She said: Haha wow And after that: No I am sorry . So yeah this really hurts me, but what do I say now?
/r/askTRP12/03/15 07:27 PM
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I am texting her right now. Already got response and to the point where she ask how I am doing... Every text really hurts somehow, because I know this might be the last contact I'll ever have with her. I'll keep you updated. Update 1: Told her how I was doing Update 2: Added something that I always feel good with sunny weather like today Update 3: She responds enthousiastic and agrees, now I've got to ask the question where I started texting her for in the first place... Update 4: Now the hesita…
/r/askTRP12/03/15 06:35 PM
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I agree, it's really hard. Actually it's not the fear of the fact whether she likes me or not and accepts/declines the offer ( I already assume she doesn't like me and declines the offer). Instead it's the consequences. The good memories turning into bad ones etc. Stupid examples like having a small conversation with her or like her liking an Instagram post of me just simply gave me a dopamine rush and ( how pathetic) an alpha male feeling, just small things like that won't happen anymore. In ca…
/r/askTRP10/03/15 11:41 PM
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Somehow I just can't do it, what kind of beta POS am I. I typed the message but just cannot press the send button to send it to her. I am really disappointed in myself, and most of all I'm deeply sorry for wasting your time. It's just a message,but the days after I posted this post I realized that the odds of her hanging out for a drink with me are against me. She knows I am not someone that would ask girls to hangout (aka introvert) and would find me a creepy if I suddenly text her to ask her o…
/r/askTRP10/03/15 09:39 PM
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Good song, this one is great too https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G9kHqb-CtXE Couldn't get the job done today, kept postponing it. Took a long time to get the right mindset and prepare myself for every possible response, now I am but it's around 12 hour here so a bit strange (creepy) to suddenly text her at this time. Tomorrow is a new day, if I still can't get text and come up with some silly reason I'll officially be a beta POS.
/r/askTRP09/03/15 11:03 PM
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Good to hear my text would get the job done. I'll send her the text tomorrow and I'll hope for the best, but expect the worst. Right know my instinct tells me:"don't do it, you've screwed up before, you'll screw up again, save yourself from all the shame while you still can, you stand no chance" Regardless of the outcome, even I would screw it up for whatever reason, I still can't thank you enough for the support you've given me. I'll let you know how things went...
/r/askTRP08/03/15 03:05 PM
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Thanks again , you've helped me a lot. I watched the video and really felt ashamed myself every time he got rejected, is that normal? Sometimes when I speak to tease her I use a diminutive version of her name. So Monday I would text her: " hey "her diminutive name", wanna go out for a drink with me Saturday? ". If she says yes, I suggest an exact time etc. After that I'll just say see you Saturday or something like that and stop texting her. If she says no, we are just friends/too busy/thanks bu…
/r/askTRP08/03/15 06:47 AM
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Thanks for your reply. Just in case she's not in to me and she doesn't feel the need to go out with me and tells me so. At first I would feel humiliated, embittered and it proven again that I can't get the job done and wouldn't know how to react to her. What would be the best response to her after that possibly disappointing message from her?
/r/askTRP08/03/15 12:40 AM
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Thanks again for your reply and your willingness to help me. To me the problem with asking her in person is is that the chance that I randomly encounter her is very low, because I switched to a different university. The last situation I described was just pure "luck". So it may be possible that I won't encounter her anymore and it won't be possible to ask her in person. Would you recommend me to wait ( which could take a long time ) until I encounter her to ask her out? Or take the risky approac…
/r/askTRP08/03/15 12:31 AM
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Thanks a lot for your extensive reply. I can't really think of an excuse to ask her out, isn't it better to just send her a message and ask if she wants to grab a drink? Or would it be too risky to ask that straightway, because it would bring me in a vulnerable position and slightly let her know that I am interested in her. And what if she says she doesn't have time/ or feel like it, or doesn't even reply. Maybe I am overanalyzing, anyhow I've still got much to learn...
/r/askTRP06/03/15 04:34 PM
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Thanks for replying, but is there a way to check if I might not be in the Friend zone already? If I am in the Friend Zone, I'd rather spend my energy on something else.
/r/askTRP06/03/15 04:21 PM
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