Since a few months I am self-employed in IT after finishing my bachelors. By some luck I got a great contract as a freelancer. Now I work 40 hours remotely a week and will continue to able to work remote after COVID is over. The pay is good and will improve by the end of this year when I find a new contract at another organization. I decide on my own working times and days. Practically all seems well, however somehow I miss something.

The people I work with are in there fourties and fifthies so not really the young professional age and a much different place in life. Despite their kindness they are not the people I would get drinks with or make lifetime friends with. Also most of my existing friends are younger and still studying. Because of this I unexpectedly feel in some kind of social no-mans-land as a a 26 year old young guy.

My LTR will start working as a lawyer at a big firm at the end of this year. More younger people are part of that firm and I really envy the social environment the firm facilitates.

TLDR What would you do in my case? Go for the big money and stay self-employed for a while or settle for way less cash to stay socially healthy with a maybe better social life and join a firm? Or am I missing something?