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| 1 | How can you tell the difference between normal healthy interest and love-bombing?I found myself liking some things he did which were (probably?) meant to be abusive. Now I am starting to wonder. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 01:58 PM |
| 1 | How can you tell the difference between normal healthy interest and love-bombing?What you mention sounds like a great test. My experience was being groomed for ? (the future?) Some things I questioned that he said (responses to my questions) (or averting the question all together) were common sense red flags. But I felt I was strong enough to endure and let it go on. Doing that could have put me in a very unsafe predicament. My narc is older and I feel very set into the mold. Chilling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 05:52 PM |
| 2 | How can you tell the difference between normal healthy interest and love-bombing?@FDS Newbie this is so good. Exactly this is what happens! Isn’t it a strange game they play? Here I am really “buying into” it all, and not realizing I am being “groomed.” It certainly makes me wonder about all the time the N spends in cultivating the “appliance” and then just tearing it apart. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 05:45 PM |
| 1 | How can you tell the difference between normal healthy interest and love-bombing?The “no” test By me indicating my boundaries, I think this ended the relationship. Mine took this as a “no.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 05:33 PM |
| 6 | Difference between conversation and seduction? Give me examples of what you would say when seducing.I am a female who is shy and I have some intimacy issues. So....I have never wanted to sleep with a guy by the third date! There were lots of variables to consider. First though, I know I must be able to have relaxed conversation with him. | /r/seduction | 25/04/20 11:02 PM |
| 2 | Difference between conversation and seduction? Give me examples of what you would say when seducing.I came back to edit my comment. And you must be right because you are out in the “real dating” world and have these experiences. I misstated somewhat. I don’t think a guy should necessarily strive for friendship first. It is important early on to let a woman know you are hoping for intimacy because you are attracted to her. This has always happened for me because I notice that a guy is INTERESTED ...in me. If a guy is feeling tongue-tied or nervous, I meant it should help if they start the proce… | /r/seduction | 25/04/20 10:45 PM |
| -4 | Difference between conversation and seduction? Give me examples of what you would say when seducing.It takes a LONG time to warm a woman up (usually) from being a stranger to becoming intimate (or wanting intimacy). Take the time; do it right; you won’t be sorry. Smile a lot. Ask her questions. Listen to her. Establish closeness (as in friend) first. Establish trust. These things show interest, which leads to communication, which leads to seduction. | /r/seduction | 25/04/20 10:12 PM |
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