Graciee_pearl Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Lady friend reinforces negative body image perception. Should I cut her out of my life? Glad i could help! ☺☺	/r/seduction	08/11/18 10:56 PM
2	How weird would it be? I don't think you should cut her out. I meant move on like accept she doesn't feel the same. But yes i think it's best to be honest with her about how you feel, tell her you're attracted to her but keep it simple. Something along the lines of "hey I know this might be a little awkward/sudden but I'm attracted to you, do you feel the same?" would suffice	/r/seduction	07/11/18 09:25 PM
–	Lady friend reinforces negative body image perception. Should I cut her out of my life? Contrary to what most men believe, women aren't ONLY attracted to looks. You just might not be her type romantically. If she started talking to you only with the intention of being friends, it could be as simple as she just wants to remain friends because you are a valuable one to her. And even if physical attraction is the only reason she doesn't want to date you, that's perfectly fine. Not everyone is going to be physically attracted to you, even if you were the sexiest man alive. Try to accep…	/r/seduction	07/11/18 08:55 PM
1	Girlfriend says I’m clingy No problem!	/r/seduction	07/11/18 08:24 PM
2	Girlfriend says I’m clingy If you have health insurance, ask for the online login info from your family or have them log in for you so you can search therapists in your network near you. After you find some, give em a call. The insurance website should be able to give you a decent amount of info and should allow you to search by type of Dr/practice. If you don't have health insurance, a simple "therapists near me" search in google should pull up a few. Call them to ask what payment options they have (if money is an issue …	/r/seduction	07/11/18 08:16 PM
–	Girlfriend says I’m clingy Are you able to call and schedule something for yourself, and then let your family know so they can help out with the rest?	/r/seduction	07/11/18 07:42 PM
–	Girlfriend says I’m clingy Then it sounds like your next step should be finding a therapist you feel comfortable opening up to. If you need help with this, you should open up a bit to your mom (if she is unaware)	/r/seduction	07/11/18 07:37 PM
–	Girlfriend says I’m clingy I understand. I do know getting out there and doing things by yourself when you are depressed is extremely exhausting. Do you have any online friend groups maybe? Having someone to talk to aside from your girlfriend is the first step, it doesn't have to be irl. Internet friendships are just as wholesome if not more so in some cases	/r/seduction	07/11/18 07:33 PM
2	Girlfriend says I’m clingy Also, and I just thought of this so my apologies for not mentioning it initially, if you don't have many friends (cuz I know highschool for awkward peeps like us can be rough), you could try looking on Meetups and find a group of people with similar interests to you. In my experience with meetup groups, a lot of the people who attend have trouble making friends in "normal" settings as well. Could be fun! Boardgame groups are personally my favourite.	/r/seduction	07/11/18 07:31 PM
–	Girlfriend says I’m clingy Hmmm, you could volunteer at a local shelter! I used to go to the shelter all the time when I was at my lowest, even if you can't volunteer, it feels good to play with the dogs and it will brighten your day and theirs :)	/r/seduction	07/11/18 07:28 PM
1	How weird would it be? Do not randomly kiss her my dude, that's assault. Might not seem like a big deal but it can be. It's safer to just be honest with her. If she's not interested, accept it and move on. If she is interested, great!	/r/seduction	07/11/18 07:26 PM
–	Girlfriend says I’m clingy A great way to combat clinginess in relationships is making sure you have a good group of friends you can go to when you feel lonely/sad, so you're not putting too much pressure on your gf. Using family as support can also work wonders, maybe doing stuff with your mother when you're feeling lonely can help take some of that pressure off your girl as well. Also, try to think if there's something bothering you about the relationship, maybe communication or trust issues. If there is, have a heart t…	/r/seduction	07/11/18 07:21 PM
1	Significant other paranoia? HELP Hi! Woman here; I would just like to say, if she is fast at responding when she is working but doesn't like to respond on her days off, it is very likely she is using that day to recharge. I personally text more frequently when I am working because I'm bored at work, but when I'm off I tend to ignore messages because I'm actually able to do things I enjoy by myself like veg out in front of the tv or browse reddit uninterrupted. Have you ever discussed your concerns with your partner? If she knew…	/r/seduction	07/11/18 06:58 PM