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[–]subduedReality 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Dude, she probably 'likes' you but doesnt want to risk losing the friendship.
Simple solution is remove yourself from her life. When she asks why tell her you like the friendship but started having feelings and didnt want to hurt her or get hurt yourself. She will probably be hurt bby this and angey but it will work itself out for the better.
[–]ozmflb[S] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
I'm already a little distant, I only see her like once a week around the house, she won't ask me that, I'm pretty sure. Wouldn't be better to just try to kiss her one day? It might be random because I never did it in the past 4 months
[–]subduedReality 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No. This isnt about avoiding her its about cutting her out of your life. Just be an "asshole." Otherwise you will come across as being a creap.
[–]Graciee_pearl 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Do not randomly kiss her my dude, that's assault. Might not seem like a big deal but it can be. It's safer to just be honest with her. If she's not interested, accept it and move on. If she is interested, great!
[–]ozmflb[S] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Honest in what way? Should I express my attraction? Also I don't see how cutting her out will help me get her
[–]Graciee_pearl 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don't think you should cut her out. I meant move on like accept she doesn't feel the same. But yes i think it's best to be honest with her about how you feel, tell her you're attracted to her but keep it simple. Something along the lines of "hey I know this might be a little awkward/sudden but I'm attracted to you, do you feel the same?" would suffice
[–]subduedReality 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
There is a huge difference between removing oneself and cutting them out. Make yourself unavailable. If she likes to spend time with you you will see signs. For example when you prep to go she will want to talk when she didnt want to talk before.
As for being honest... Gradients of honesty are best. Most people cant handle the raw truth. But if you mention that you are worried that your feelings for her are getting stronger so you are going to spend more time doing other things to try to keep your feelings from hurting your friendship with her... Its got enough truth that she will be able to swallow it.
Keep in mind, fools rush in.
[–]ozmflb[S] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The problem is that this is already happening, we use to see each other a lot more often and then we stopped seeking each other, now I almost never see her or talk to her, it's been like this for the last 2 months, I never have a moment to try anything, we just talk sometimes but never have opportunities to try something else, is she out of reach at this point? How can I make something happen, I don't mind ruining the friendship, I never see her around anyways.
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