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I agree. I don't lean towards demonization. I mean, if you kill someone, you are spending time in the system. But if you hit someone, and they're ok, rehabilitation is best IMO. I just want people to actually get better, and come out never doing that ever again. Our system hasn't quit figured that out yet. Less punitive measures and traumatic prison experiences, and more changing the brain, emotions, and mind of the person so they can become someone who doesn't hit, doesn't reach for alcohol. Do…
/r/MensRights06/02/26 07:16 PM
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You'd better watch out. If a man named Epstein comes at you with an invite to a private party......statistics show....99.99% of men would be there and would assault underage individuals. They'd come back for seconds. All of us. ALL MEN. The statistics have been confirmed by feminism. I'm telling you man, WATCH OUT. WE CANNOT CONTROL OURSELVES. WE WOULD BE ON THE PLANE. ITS IN OUR MAN BRAIN. WE HAVE NO FREE WILL OR CONSCIENCE. I don't even know how a woman can go to the grocery store anymore. She…
/r/MensRights06/02/26 06:23 PM
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And funnily enough.... They never talk about toxic femininity. Or they insincerely frame it AGAIN as "when men hurt women, that's toxic femininity".....BS. The kind of toxic femininity that wishes men dead. That tells their sons they are a problem for their gender. That is rude and even bullies others, and it's celebrated. Oh that's not toxic? That's just feminism?
/r/MensRights06/02/26 06:18 PM
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Men expressing pain is often called "whining", which is just an awful thing to say to someone who's expressing trauma. It's literally dehumanizing.
/r/MensRights06/02/26 06:15 PM
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I don't like the rules. I quit. Find me another game.
/r/MensRights06/02/26 06:06 PM
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Both are very true. It's also just popular. When there's a social media trend, it doesn't have to make sense. The girls (women) think it's fun, they all pick it up. Not all. Some are like "not this stupid shit". But if they connect emotionally to a trend, it just spreads. You could start any trend. Get some catchy cute music behind it. If it makes women feel good, they're gonna say "I wanna do that". Like the bird test. Doesn't really make full sense. It spread. They didn't stop to think if it w…
/r/MensRights06/02/26 06:02 PM
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It is very common worldwide, if you talk to any cop who works the evening shift (male or female cop) or the 911 operators. 50-60% of the calls are women hitting a man. Throwing a can of soup at his head. Smacking his head with a pan. Biting. Scratching. Kicking, punching. Choking him in an emotional rage. All domestic violence. But the stats by organizations out there....they have an agenda. They are in line with academia. Made for women, by women, with an agenda to show the world that women are…
/r/MensRights06/02/26 05:56 PM
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Here's a study showing women prefer a circumcised penis: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC6523040/ But it does depend on the woman.
/r/MensRights06/02/26 05:17 PM
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A really general name is a "Men's Club". My private school literally had a men's club for the adult men. For decades. Planning trips, like bowling after school. Or going to see a movie. Doing a book-style club for part of it (everyone reads a book, then you discuss it). You could pick a book of your choosing, one that men enjoy, maybe about a man going on an adventure or something. Go to a karting place and go high speed go karts. Plan a paintball outing. Or just plan discussions and activities …
/r/MensRights04/02/26 09:46 PM
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My honest premonition is that once they bring euthanasia to all Western countries (starting in Canada with MAID) and approve it for psychiatric reasons, They're gonna prioritize white men to the front of the line. For social justice. Why should men deserve help with mental health? That sounds crazy and self-victimizing but aren't they talking about aborting baby boys in a lot of circles now? I mean I can only see where it might be headed. Young white men are the problem. Why not prioritize the e…
/r/MensRights02/02/26 06:52 PM
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There's surely women who assaulted kids somewhere in the millions of files on this man and his sex operation. That's not ok to redact all women. There's guilty ones without a doubt.
/r/MensRights02/02/26 06:49 PM
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My understanding is that the one thing that black women suffer most is by being the most invisible in society. (Source) I wish, in general, we could figure out blackness and whiteness and figure things out in society.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/02/26 06:47 PM
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Soon to be, it's coming in the UK, it may be in the works in Canada.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/02/26 03:51 PM
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We also don't prize ourselves enough in terms of self-care or personal homemaking, which is a skill, despite being traditionally a feminine-only skill. Many of us have a skill issue with that too. So again. We can create value by prizing ourselves, having standards, and choosing which women we don't want to let into our lives, and we can avoid a lot of pain by doing that. But we keep making the same mistakes. Women wisened up a bit over the past 50 years. They have extreme standards now. They cr…
/r/MensRights01/02/26 11:05 PM
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Anyway think about this though: All that women do is talk about men. They're not like, doing things. Yeah they might start a pottery business or something. But they're not like, "going their own way" for real. A few are. Are they preparing for their next climb on Mount Everest? Are they ready to release their next art exhibit? Are they creating technology company or something? A few. I mean, are they literally focusing on themselves and literally forgetting about men? Not really. It's all they t…
/r/MensRights01/02/26 11:05 PM
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I think we have to accept that some kind of change is happening, is it feminism + Men's Rights + society changing as a whole? Hard to say. But in the past, women had so much "intrinsic worth", they were literally traded as a commodity by their fathers in some cultures. Even just a few hundred years ago the father would "give their daughter up". Even at weddings today I see the dad do this thing where he "gives up his little girl" and does a last dance with her....I get it, but she's 31 dude. Doe…
/r/MensRights01/02/26 11:02 PM
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I forgot to put a /s. Yes it was basically ragebait but not really, I just forgot the /s, my bad.
/r/MensRights01/02/26 07:32 PM
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That's not as bad then. I actually see that as the ideal, when men and women work together.
/r/MensRights01/02/26 04:55 PM
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His family should have to pay in court for what he did to her, and what he did to make her do this. Hopefully there's a feminist judge, that will make sure that this is the outcome. /s
/r/MensRights01/02/26 04:53 PM
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Women want you useful or they shame and blame you. It's toxic femininity. She should be learning how to fix a pipe. That's literally what feminism was supposed to be about. Learning to be self-empowered. Not ordering men around.
/r/MensRights01/02/26 04:51 PM
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I ask why are not boys allowed to feel happy with their body, and realize they are amazing? Wouldn't that make them less toxic? Why are we always punishing boys and inducing self-hatred and shame? Wouldn't boys who feel good about themselves and respect themselves, respect others? What happens to a boy who hates himself, and is told he is a threat and a danger and not valuable and wonderful like women are? Does he grow up self-assured and confident and knowing he is capable of good things and he…
/r/MensRights31/01/26 08:25 PM
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They enjoy an invisible privilege while claiming they suffer an invisible oppression.
/r/MensRights31/01/26 04:38 AM
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It's an industry dominated by women, and men are often blamed, shamed, misheard, etc. Space is not held for us, we are not validated.
/r/MensRights30/01/26 10:14 PM
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This is the kind of thing. Where it really, really matters. Now warning. I want you guys to be aware of something. The minute politics realizes "oh shit, we will lose the election if we don't have men", they're going to pander to us. This means, they're going to try and sweet talk us just to get our vote. Make us feel good. Make us feel seen. That's great and all, but what really matters is actual policy. So, are they going to address actual issues that men are facing? What about education regar…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/01/26 08:35 PM
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The dad is doing it so that the man can have a normal sex life...with women. The dad isn't doing it so he can look at the son's penis lol. It's so in the future when he meets a woman, she will be pleased.
/r/MensRights30/01/26 07:30 PM
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It's up to the mom and dad if they want it done to their child, and the doctor pushes it. But women in general are attracted to the circumcised look and do not like an uncircumcised penis, so that plays a huge role in why some parents do it because they want him to have a normal love life one day.
/r/MensRights30/01/26 04:54 PM
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Whoops sorry it was sulfuric acid.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/01/26 12:52 AM
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AI is telling me it's not possible, for whatever that's worth. The vas deferens is too small and underdeveloped in an infant. A surgeon would not be able to identify it and it would be extremely high risk as a surgery. We're already burning the foreskins off of babies to make women happy. Do we need to vasectomize them as well? Whatever women want for society, right?
/r/MensRights30/01/26 12:50 AM
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They're really good at putting other people down and complaining about how the world sucks and men are at fault for that. They cannot look inward. They don't realize that they are half of the world and are part of it too.
/r/MensRights30/01/26 12:41 AM
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That's what I would do. But I'm a man. 50% of simple car problems can be solved with an AutoZone trip and a couple YouTube videos.
/r/MensRights30/01/26 12:40 AM
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Unless you want to get conspiratorial/dead internet theory about it. How many of these "women" on Reddit are computers posting comments that are AI generated, all to filter into your feed, curated to set you off and rile you up? So you and I spend more time arguing about gender, while the rich and powerful run and hide and delay anything that comes after them. How many of the videos posted by women are riled up by the same bots which influenced their opinion? And they wouldn't be thinking this w…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/01/26 04:14 PM
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People live and learn. You start out not understanding boundaries when you're young. You people please. Then you learn.
/r/MensRights29/01/26 03:57 PM
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They only act this way because we put up with it, and we let them get away with it. We aren't setting boundaries, we aren't demanding better.
/r/MensRights29/01/26 03:49 PM
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It's funny how women make videos of "I was carrying luggage" or "My battery needed jumped" and "not a single man stopped for me" as they stand there and try to belittle men for not coming in and saving them. That's not weaponized incompetence? Except it's literally worse.....with men they were just trying to get out of doing the dishes. They didn't shame you on the internet and try and act like you are morally reprehensible for......not helping you. Why do they feel entitled to men's labor, for …
/r/MensRights29/01/26 03:44 PM
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No, anyone is allowed to contribute. Contribute, not tear them down. You're welcome to be here. I'm not a mod anyway. But not if you're here to tear it down or tear men down.
/r/MensRights29/01/26 05:21 AM
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I hate to break it to you, but the people speaking "online" are real people. They are teachers, therapists, mental-health professionals, and more. They exist out there in the world. Their opinions reflect what is going on in society right now. No, not the type of men's rights I know. Yeah there's some idiots who think with their penis; not me. Idgaf how many boobs or butts I'm shown. I'm not controlled by lust. You can try. I'm not impressed.
/r/MensRights29/01/26 05:14 AM
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2025 feminism started to hate transgender people, ask for men to be providers, have more difficult jail sentences for prisoners (who are men), bring back "men who are men, not boys"..... Some of today's feminists are just a bunch of Authoritarian Republicans. But they vote left. You can't make it make sense. They want the patriarchy (for men). And the do whatever you want for women. Shackles for men. Sparkles for women. You've got men asking for equality and women asking to kill all men. You can…
/r/MensRights29/01/26 05:03 AM
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We're making them. If you don't want to be a part you should leave.
/r/MensRights29/01/26 05:00 AM
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Yeah feminists like Sally Gearhart are too often celebrated and are never called extremists. When mainstream feminism starts calling for a world with 90% women if we can just eugenically abort all of the baby boys in the name of "peace" and "women's safety".... You'll think this sounds ridiculous now, but when it happens, I hope you're also horrified. It always starts with dreaming of a Utopia, where we can remove races and genders. That's what Hitler did. He thought he could engineer a more pea…
/r/MensRights29/01/26 04:57 AM
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That's a borderline abusive thing for a parent to say to/about one's own children. I knew a woman once who was physically disabled, her arms and legs couldn't move. Her mother told her "I wish we didn't have you. You ruined my life." She told me this story as a full grown adult in her 30s. This is almost on par with that. Children are sponges, psychologically, they will remember it for life.
/r/MensRights29/01/26 04:53 AM
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75 years later, there's a man shortage. Women are fighting over the few men who are left. We didn't think this through. (This literally happened in China, too many men, not enough women, works out great for the women because they all get a husband, not so great for the men, who die alone). But go ahead, I mean, emotionally-reactive and poorly thought-out revenge fantasies don't have consequences, right?
/r/MensRights29/01/26 04:50 AM
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I said this elsewhere and the crowd in some areas are beginning to agree. Reddit is dying. It's mostly bots and angry edgy 20 year olds. Ask Jeeves died. AIM died. Myspace died. They weren't cool anymore. Every platform has a lifespan. Reddit has reached it. Do you really want to keep logging on to something that makes you feel like shit, every day? Only for so long. After awhile, even reading a book with a cup of coffee feels better.
/r/MensRights29/01/26 04:43 AM
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I was going to answer in a separate comment but I'll answer here because it fits. If you fall into a victim-based mindset, you will see whatever you focus on, everywhere. This is confirmation bias. This applies to everyone. Which is why despite being a very adamant MRA, I simultaneously try not to fall too far into a victim-based worldview. It's a balance. If you are constantly taught that everything around you is misogynistic, and the world is a patriarchy, it shapes your psychology and your wo…
/r/MensRights29/01/26 04:35 AM
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I'm really sorry for those people my man. It's a fucked up thing for them to do. IMO, it sounds like You gave consent but you were extremely intoxicated. Generally my understanding is that when you're intoxicated, you can't give consent, so this would quite possibly be sexual assault or rape. I'm not sure, because I'm not an expert in that area. But I certainly do not want to invalidate you at all. It was a traumatic experience for you and that matters in addition. You did not enjoy it. Furtherm…
/r/MensRights25/01/26 11:45 PM
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I believe you, brother. I don't doubt you at all. Sometimes.....it is still like that. And it's scary. I'm terribly sorry that happened to you.
/r/MensRights25/01/26 11:40 PM
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Then still wishing you the best my man. I send my heart your way because I hope you're not hurting, especially hurting alone. I hope maybe there's some way you can work through this, maybe if there was a trusted therapist? I know that can be hard. Male trauma therapists who are skilled though, IMO can usually be trusted with something like this. I know it's not for everyone though and isn't always affordable. Either way I just wish for healing for you, my man. I'm glad you spoke up about it here…
/r/MensRights25/01/26 10:57 PM
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Believe it or not, these days, they will so long as you have good evidence. I have perused the cop subreddits about this (r/protectandserve) and seen a number of body cam videos today. They're saying half of all calls, sometimes 60-70% of calls are from men calling about a woman. And they do come, and if she is truly the perpetrator, she's in trouble. There are some shitty state laws in a few states though where no matter what, both get taken into custody. And in a few areas, yeah, sometimes the…
/r/MensRights25/01/26 10:54 PM
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I'm sorry brother. I hope things get better and you can get resolution here. I'm not a lawyer so I'm not sure how to legally proceed or advise you. I wish I knew the best advice to give you.
/r/MensRights25/01/26 10:44 PM
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No one's mentioning the fact that she committed battery. She slapped you in the face. I hope you called the cops to report that. That's physical violence.
/r/MensRights25/01/26 08:17 PM
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I wish we would work for prison reduction for everyone. Actual rehabilitation. Why are men second-class due to their gender?
/r/MensRights25/01/26 05:36 PM
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It's just never women's fault. It can always be twisted to be men's fault. As if women can't make choices, don't have a brain, and don't have free will. Might as well not even have courts or jail for women because no matter what, they are always innocent and a man was to blame for everything that has ever happened.
/r/MensRights25/01/26 03:34 PM
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Some of these people work in health. Some are therapists. Some are teachers. These are real people. Who affect the real world.
/r/MensRights25/01/26 03:26 PM
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It starts with eradicating and shaping humanity by gender, then race. Then it's what Adolf Hitler was doing. Creating a superior race of humanity. They don't see what they're doing. And yet these are the people walking around calling people Nazis. Is Earth ok? What are we doing?
/r/MensRights25/01/26 03:25 PM
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We do need to elevate ourselves. And yeah, I used to think some of the things like that were silly bullshit, but there's research showing that self-affirmations increase motivation and help you reach an intended goal. Because we are fighting against negative self-talk externally. Misandry says men are (all) murderers, rapists, ugly (body shaming), dangerous, useless. If it becomes internalized, it becomes internalized self-talk. I would call it internalized misandry. But internalized self-talk t…
/r/MensRights25/01/26 02:59 PM
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Yeah so....a simple interview and maybe a hangout with the group would be a good idea lol. You probably have to have some basic screening. Just asking people during an interview things like "Do you currently use any illegal drugs" is a fair screener. You can usually tell who's lying. IMO you could probably permit people who've had a history of drug use, but up to you, they may need to be 3 years clean or 5 years clean. Something like that.
/r/MensRights24/01/26 10:15 PM
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(2/2) Ultimately I would hope you find people motivated and interested in being a part of the group despite any personal needs. I think if you want it to be like you said, you should emphasize that it's not just a living situation, it's an organization that does stuff together. An interview/application would help you vet who's really interested and able, vs. who isn't going to be able to fit there. Maybe a good first thing would be when there's a new member coming to meet the guys, and doing som…
/r/MensRights24/01/26 09:58 PM
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(1/2) Absolutely man. For whatever it's worth, I don't want to tell you how to run your organization, but I know optics can be difficult for a "men's" organization of any kind. Some influences out there are uncomfortable with it and can try to show it in a bad light. Which has happened to some men's organizations. But if you guys were doing public works here and there, like removing graffiti, or helping homeless men, or whatever. You could adopt a stretch of highway which would put your name on …
/r/MensRights24/01/26 09:57 PM
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(2/2) When I was younger I saw women as silly and dramatic, especially the emotions. Can it be? I don't want to be disrespectful, but yes, sometimes women can be over the top and dramatic. Anyone can. But you have to think about the difference this makes when it comes to gender, physiologically. Women are stopping to feel emotions and release endorphins. They then take action in a calmer, less volatile state. After you cry, your body has reset emotionally and is immensely calmer. Men are taking …
/r/MensRights24/01/26 09:10 PM
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(1/2) I agree, and I think that's ok. IMO we don't need to force dissolution of gender roles onto people in a way that makes them uncomfortable or is aggressive. It's ok if you're a girl and you like pink or if you're a guy and you like building muscle at the gym. Those really aren't activities that are hurting anyone when an individual is doing them. I think it's ok to give space for change. I think underneath the rigidity, a lot of men could cry, which releases endorphins and can allow for a p…
/r/MensRights24/01/26 09:09 PM
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I agree that men and women process emotions differently. We do. Some men do cry though. I appreciate you acknowledging that that's ok. I do think it's ok to do other things too, like something productive or physical. Not all men process the same though. Not all seek activity or productivity. Each is different.
/r/MensRights24/01/26 07:59 PM
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This is really cool! It sounds like a fraternity. Do you plan to classify it as one? Either way it's a cool idea, maybe it's more of a non-profit or halfway house thing almost (but not for helping men with rehab). Either way, I think it's really cool. There's a show called Terrace House where a bunch of people live together, but it's Japanese, but it sort of reminds me of that. That's a little more casual though. So will you take applications and screen applicants maybe? Will you guys go out eve…
/r/MensRights24/01/26 07:56 PM
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I appreciate your response and I do see similarities across different lines. Black individuals self-hating. Sometimes women self-hate. Indian people sometimes have self-hated, I've heard. The part that's hard is that for sure, there was tons of positive male messaging for decades. Movies, etc. If you want to call that "positive". Maybe not all of it was. But now there's seemingly none. So men grow up and all they see is how they are bad or need to correct themselves. Or worse, they're just told …
/r/MensRights24/01/26 03:58 PM
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I'm just trying to help us stay relevant and accurate as a movement. Just to be clear, it's not an attack on you or your premise. It's a premise that holds meaning. Emotionality is not emotional intelligence. But it's not good when feminists say "men are like this". By default it is addressing men. Here, you are addressing women. You are free to disagree with me, again, I am only here to try and help ensure our movement does not falter, I guess you could say. But again, you're free to disagree w…
/r/MensRights23/01/26 07:25 PM
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I agree with the premise that emotional≠emotionally intelligent and many of the points made. But you have to be careful my man. Women are not emotionally intelligent They're not a species or a monolith. Nor are men. You can't just make a sweeping statement like that. Because there are women who are very emotionally intelligent. We have to stay out of the "all men" and "all women" paradigm. It's anti-intellectual and it hurts the movement. We need to be better than that. Men, nor women, are creat…
/r/MensRights23/01/26 07:18 PM
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Really insensitive comment. Your experience does not invalidate others.
/r/MensRights23/01/26 02:48 AM
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I'll upvote you for that point.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/01/26 11:06 PM
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I used to listen to Green Day so much, smoking cigarettes, and pot....and failing out of school while enjoying the music. It's weird. Music shapes our culture. I argue that, anyway.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/01/26 11:34 AM
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We should always call it out, and uphold that boundary. Because it's not ok to body shame men. They don't like it when we mention it, but it's important.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/01/26 11:31 AM
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I appreciate your view. One thing I noticed later in life, for whatever my perspective is worth, is that as a white man, rock music became destructive to us. Not quite in the same way, but it did. The lyrics in some songs really were destructive and encouraging hating oneself. Going against society. Definitely not about self-care and getting a solid job. Which just to be honest, in the interest of helping men, men struggle with this. A lot of women have incredible self-care routines, good social…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/01/26 11:27 AM
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They're giving it a good shot, I'd say. But.....it's dicey. Like: There are far too few resources available for all men in general especially straight men. Male-focused resources to assist them through child custody problems, and divorce headaches are next to none. There are too few shelters available for men and most of the existing ones are substandard and lack amenities, basic hygiene, and are not safe. Many fathers are forced to stay in unhealthy households to protect their children. More of…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/01/26 11:08 AM
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The teacher was incorrect and made an irrelevant statement. Men do commit more crime, but that wasn't the point. For each crime committed, on an individual basis, the sentence is harsher. Those are two separate issues. The teacher smeared it over with something unrelated. They don't sound very smart.
/r/MensRights22/01/26 11:02 AM
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This is why it's important to remember that a woman like the one who wrote this article is an ally. She can see the truth. It's so important. When you think it's all women, take a step back. Remember the people who would stand up for you. Those women matter so much. Because if they can see the truth, then we can finally have healing. Society can see that men hurt, that men have disadvantages in society. That men need help too. It's critical, and we need these discussions to be had on both sides.…
/r/MensRights22/01/26 11:00 AM
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It's done without anesthesia to a newborn baby. Studies have been done. The baby feels it. It's in a very sensitive spot. It causes trauma. Maybe if you educated yourself on the issue, you'd understand. Here's a study to get you started. A study of 408 men circumcised in the first month of life vs. 211 uncircumcised men found that early circumcision was associated with lower attachment security and lower emotional stability in adulthood, along with higher perceived stress and sensation-seeking. …
/r/MensRights22/01/26 10:54 AM
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It is and you can see the evidence of it really failing when most people are mad, and it doesn't actually end up helping anyone. It's performance for the mob, for politics, for social virtue. It's the definition of inauthenticity.
/r/MensRights22/01/26 10:50 AM
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One true phenomenon in psychology, that is even taught in therapy, is that you can't control how people react to you. She's having trouble reacting to people, and she probably needs to review why it's bothering her so much. They're not doing anything wrong or being hurtful, it's just that she's taking everything about it personally. There's something there though too, men do fail to let their guard down. But this has been talked about over, and over, and over, and over, and over again. Here's a …
/r/MensRights22/01/26 10:46 AM
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It's ok to feel grossed out by someone who's not kind to you, not a person with good characteristics, etc. I wouldn't call women a "bitch" though, it's not really winning you anything by doing so. It's ok to respectfully feel grossed out, and not feel interest. You're allowed to say "I'm not interested" or even "dating is grossing me out right now", and to pull back. Just try to express it in words that are a bit more elevated. Trashing women and denigrating them won't help your personal cause o…
/r/MensRights22/01/26 10:38 AM
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I do think it gets weird when you take a video game that allows you to create a character, "male" or "female". And due to changing politics, when the game is remade, they have to change it to "body type 1" and "body type 2". It just doesn't make sense. These kinds of things are upsetting because they actually literally don't make sense. Even a real life transgender person has to choose male or female. They either stay their current gender, or change to a new one. So these kinds of things are not…
/r/MensRights22/01/26 10:33 AM
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Um, I don't think any vet is going to just euthanize dogs off of a request. They cannot do that. You would at least need a police report of the incident if there was a biting incident. Not sure what you're trying to say here. It does not invalidate anything I said at all. Vets don't just euthanize pets because you want it done. There has to be a reason. They literally take an oath that it can only be done in the animal's best interest. And there has to be documented proof of that. Or they cannot…
/r/MensRights21/01/26 11:57 PM
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I don't think his views are strange at all. Society is echoing his views loudly right now. I see what he's seeing too. I don't think he made it all up, it's what he's seeing. Government figures are saying men are the problem. Media and social media is saying the future is female. And men are the problem. I think his response makes sense because that's what we're seeing. We didn't just imagine it. And honestly? We're tired of being told our views don't matter. And having them diminished. Women ar…
/r/MensRights21/01/26 11:04 PM
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So these dogs were euthanized. He didn't murder them. He didn't torture them. Euthanization is something that happens medically at the vet. And no veterinarian (who literally has more school than a Dr.) is euthanizing dogs for no reason just for fun. It's something you do when the dogs are in pain or sick and have an incurable disease. It's literally the most compassionate thing you can do so the dog doesn't have to die slowly and suffer. People get emotional about it but sometimes you don't hav…
/r/MensRights21/01/26 10:52 PM
1

I would like to put forth that in ten fucking years, none of this will matter and we can all stop fighting. Robots like Neo from 1x will be doing all the dishes and all the toilet scrubbing for us. Now it's no one's fault.
/r/MensRights20/01/26 05:13 PM
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True story. But that doesn't change what u/LoopyPro said, does it?
/r/MensRights20/01/26 05:10 PM
2

That's not what we're talking about here. That is a separate issue. Not every man works 80 hours a week. We're talking about a specific situation where some men do. In cases where men don't work 80 hours a week, that doesn't apply.
/r/MensRights20/01/26 05:05 PM
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Ok but at first you said you couldn't find what he was saying, implying that it didn't happen. Now you're moving the goalposts and saying x is a cesspool, implying that it doesn't matter. Your diminishing what he's bringing up. Please stop.
/r/MensRights20/01/26 04:57 PM
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A lot of women say that men should step up and call out when a man is committing a sexual crime. I don't disagree. Though in reality, I can't stop and step up for every crime happening on earth (I have to go to work every day and live life) but I don't disagree. But what about when a man is innocent? Shouldn't we be stepping up to clear his name? If a man is truly innocent, men should be stepping up to defend him, rightly. We should all be there to make sure this doesn't happen. Honestly what I …
/r/MensRights20/01/26 04:40 PM
4

You don't have the right to say that they didn't experience or see this just because you don't like that it was said. Please take your gaslighting elsewhere.
/r/MensRights20/01/26 03:28 PM
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I don't think not consenting to have sex is abuse. It's not described in any legitimate psychological literature as abuse. But specifically holding back on physical affection, such as hugs, touch, etc., or sex if it is specifically used for manipulation, is a type of abuse, and that is documented and described as a legitimate type of abuse. The same exact way as when a man decides not to pay for something, it's not abuse. That's his choice. But if he's manipulating finances for the purpose of co…
/r/MensRights20/01/26 01:38 AM
12

Don't go running after women. There's this idea that you should have to work so hard just to have a chance. That's not equal. You do have to work to make a relationship work, but she also does. Prize yourself. Don't say yes to the first woman who gives you attention. Say no if she doesn't meet your standards. Don't chase if it's degrading or full of games. You're not an animal who needs to jump through hoops. Respect yourself. Don't put up with "tests" that involve her lying just to see what you…
/r/MensRights19/01/26 07:16 PM
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Personally, I want to stay out of making fun of people getting killed. I thought it was gross when people rejoiced at Charlie Kirk getting shot, even though I'm not a Republican. And I am not happy to see people laughing about this lady getting shot either. It's not part of men's rights either. I get that the article sort of is, but it's tied directly towards calling Renee Good the term, and kind of becomes fully central to the article.
/r/MensRights19/01/26 05:09 AM
1

What's really needed is a study. Someone needs to survey and research the bias. How people portray men today.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/01/26 07:51 PM
1

I personally support the UN's idea of creating a unified equal world. But they need to work on actually being equal and not just using broad strokes to make things look equal. I have been to the UN. Just as a visitor. They've had a mission for a long time. I agree with their mission. But it should be (and is supposed to be) to lift up all men and all women globally, not to diminish or forget some in the name of equality and justice. Because that's not real equality or real justice. They need to …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/01/26 07:48 PM
2

It's not about that at all. You're still insulting them. You're just being rude. It's not forcing masculinity. Anyone can be here. Some men want to be masculine. Some do not. Again, if you want it to be all one ideology, it can't be. I personally agree that some men may not want to be masculine and that's ok. I think society should allow it. But theres also ones who do want to be masculine, and I don't think that's wrong either. Masculinity is ok. It doesn't necessarily have to be destroyed enti…
/r/MensRights16/01/26 06:10 PM
1

It has been really weird watching the people who say "bigot" every day become really bigoted. Do they know the definition? It's just strange.
/r/MensRights16/01/26 05:56 PM
2

Don't call him sweetie. You're being rude. Not ok. There's conservatives here. They're part of men as a whole. There's also liberals. Personally, you both piss me off sometimes but we have to be tolerant of different types of men. It's not going to be dominated by one political party. Go to r/liberal or r/conservative if you want everyone to be one political ideology. That's not going to happen here. Everyone has a different opinion and a different voice.
/r/MensRights16/01/26 05:53 PM
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I think everyone fit, male or female, would be better than just forcing all men. I agree with you there. Some people aren't fit.
/r/MensRights16/01/26 05:50 PM
2

Personally I think we need to accomodate a variety of viewpoints. The last thing we need to do is divide men up. Yes, the nationalist traditionalists sometimes emphasize men sacrificing themselves. But so does the left these days. Don't think with politics, emotionally, and target just one set of people. Please. Find me a political party that values men. It doesn't exist. We need to unite despite different political aisles. I have been kind to liberal and conservative men. Fuck dividing them up.…
/r/MensRights16/01/26 05:48 PM
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Why is her virginity a pearl, and you are just a hungry animal? Doesn't your virginity hold worth and value too? But society doesn't see it that way.
/r/MensRights16/01/26 05:40 PM
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By definition, they're bigoted. Prejudiced. And misandric. They had bad experiences with men, and now they think all men are the same way.
/r/MensRights16/01/26 05:39 PM
1

I can't speak for everyone but putting down men and speaking poorly of them is not supporting men. This sub is pro-men. We don't talk down to each other and claim superiority. You'll have to do that somewhere else. This is about men helping men. If you have a problem with some types of men, you're not here to be supportive. You're here to tear men down. That's not what it's about.
/r/MensRights15/01/26 07:06 PM
1

Men's rights is not about calling men pussies or characterizing them as weak. There's all kinds of men, and they're all men. We try to support each other here.
/r/MensRights15/01/26 06:14 PM
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You're very welcome. And I get it, to the degree that I can try my best to get it. You can't know what's going on out there in the world of strangers. I don't ever want to see someone get hurt because they let their guard down. It's that one person who decides to take advantage of women's goodwill and then ruin society basically, because then no one can trust anyone. Which is why I believe men should not take advantage of women's kindness and goodwill. But you always have that one guy who screws…
/r/MensRights15/01/26 04:47 AM
1

It would actually be a good thing to hold men up to higher standards than women. We should take pride in that. Do you want to be petty, immature, flippant? Like the conversations over at twoxchromosomes? We are better than a bunch of perpetual high-school gossip-bullies. And we should continue to maintain that. That's like the one thing that we have that's actually good. Men don't just tell each other "that's valid". Because it's not. We hold each other accountable. That's our strength. We shoul…
/r/MensRights15/01/26 04:10 AM
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Can't control the crazy people who come here. Can only ban them if they break the rules. Some men are single and wish they weren't. And they're upset about that. I think that's ok. And the last thing they need is more shame. "Incel" is not a very helpful term for anyone. I cannot defend the men who continually blame women because that's not really productive. But many of them don't blame women. And yet they still get bullied by women just for being single, nerdy, and depressed. That's not ok. Bu…
/r/MensRights15/01/26 04:02 AM
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One of the most frustrating things imo is that when this conversation comes up, it's always like "men, go heal." Like, by himself, in his home. Like, he never has a lot of support in that. It's almost a violent statement. Like "get the fuck away from everyone and go heal". Off, alone by yourself, away from everyone. I don't think there's any empathy in it, and I don't think they actually want men to heal. There is a little bit of desire in some people that want men to suffer and they enjoy the i…
/r/MensRights15/01/26 03:53 AM
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the isolation men feel when they're treated like threats for simply existing in male bodies Thank you for acknowledging this. Honestly it grates on a person mentally. It's so hard because you can't win. You can't make someone not see you as a threat. I will never disacknowledge or discredit the violence that women experience. But it's never an excuse to begin to characterize all men as threatening as a "pre-emptive safety measure". Like, yes, there are situations where it's totally reasonable. B…
/r/MensRights15/01/26 03:53 AM
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Nobody understands what you're saying. This is a men's rights sub. It's not an incel sub.
/r/MensRights15/01/26 03:19 AM
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If you go into areas that cross the line, that aren't really related, the group will get shut down. It's another men's group that will get shut down because it went in a bad direction. That would suck. If it doesn't stay focused on men's rights, we are all going to lose. That's what we're here for anyway.
/r/MensRights15/01/26 03:13 AM
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My man you probably shouldn't be using the term "holocaust industry" here. This isn't that type of sub.
/r/MensRights14/01/26 03:31 AM
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Because the worst thing women will ever experience in that context is being invisible or ignored, which hurts, but isn't the same. Being seen as a threat is even worse. You're not just ugly, you're seen as harmful. You're not left alone. You're potentially asked to leave or people move away from you. It depends on the context. Pretty much no woman will ever take her niece/nephew, son, daughter to a playground and ever have to worry about being seen as a threat. They say as a woman you can never …
/r/MensRights14/01/26 03:26 AM
1

That's co-masonry. It's different. Regular masonry doesn't recognize it. No. The Masons are men only. They never broke that rule. I haven't joined but I considered it.
/r/MensRights14/01/26 03:20 AM
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The thing is, most men's saunas currently are gay spaces. I know not because I'm gay, but if you make the mistake once lol you'll realize. They don't specifically tell you on Google until you get there. What we need are spaces like that for all men. And I mean you will have some gay men there too which I am not opposed to, they are part of the male collective. But it would be a bit of a different scene because it would be for all of us. It would be pretty fucking amazing to chillax....like go ge…
/r/MensRights14/01/26 03:18 AM
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I hear you. But IDK if this is really conducive to men's rights. Kind of feel like you botted your way in here to poison the well and make this sub/movement look more toxic than it is.
/r/MensRights14/01/26 02:50 AM
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That was a long read but probably everyone should read it. That hits painfully.
/r/MensRights14/01/26 02:47 AM
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What's important is that you move yourself from the backburner up front. Prize yourself. Put yourself and your self-care first. Too many men sacrificed everything for a woman (their body/labor, their money, their time, their emotions, their focus, their house) and then lost everything. Protect your space. Be careful who you let into your life. If a woman ever comes into your life and your space, make sure she's the right person and someone you can trust. You have to protect yourself. No man can …
/r/MensRights14/01/26 02:45 AM
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Oh well. 🤷 It only works if you feel shame. And then stop talking. If their shame-sorcery fails and you are totally unbothered and just keep talking, that's when their smirk turns into a frown. Don't let it damage you too hard. You are allowed to speak.
/r/MensRights14/01/26 02:35 AM
1

Same! Towards you as well my guy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/26 05:09 PM
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100%, I agree brother. Yep, that's my view entirely. And not everyone may agree with me here, but I feel that the best advocacy for change is often to be the change I want to see. I don't call women losers. But I do encourage accountability. And the same for myself and others. And while they may call us losers, I still put forth my argument on why that's wrong. They may not care or listen. But that's their immaturity, not mine. There is definitely a huge impossibility, socially, right now, with …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/26 04:16 PM
2

But also, people can be socially disadvantaged. Men and women can get sick. Disabled. Risk homelessness. And the current structure of the world makes that harder than ever (housing costs, etc.) Lots of people move back in with Mom and Dad in their 30s due to job loss, illness, etc. The goal is to recoup and get back out there. I personally don't believe in calling men or women losers. But also, men take the label much more frequently, because while it's argued that women have a glass ceiling abo…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/26 04:06 PM
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Agreed, largely. What's concerning to me is how rapidly I'm watching the Left change. Particularly when it comes to feminism. The conversation has changed rapidly over the past three years. I now see ideas becoming mainstream in some circles of Feminism that claim to be Left-Leaning, such as: "Men need to be 'men'"/"Where are all the men"/"Who's gonna be the boys" Calling men princesses, gay, or weak for not being masculine enough Calling transgender women "sick" or "perverted" men who invade wo…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/26 03:54 PM
1

In the real world, where, if wall street is gone (ideally!), there was only endless opportunity for everyone. One person's project should not be given up or taken away to "create" opportunity for others. It does not do that. Another person's project should come to fruition. And people do need to compete healthily against each other, despite race or other demographics. Unless, we say only historically oppressed people are allowed to win in business, in school, and in life, and everyone who was hi…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/26 03:34 PM
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I agree with your first point for sure, but I can see that happen on either side of a war. Anyone can play the victim regardless of race, and everyone has to take individual accountability in their life regardless of systemic and historical factors. I've seen white people play the victim. And then naturally oppressed populations can still experience oppression today but that doesn't mean there can't be certain areas where even oppressed individuals need to take accountability in their own life l…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/26 03:34 PM
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So, I'm not sure why you assumed I'm over 50. I'm barely 30. Everything you're saying I've experienced. We're not from different worlds. I agree that women today are losing empathy rapidly. That being said, I don't think it's necessarily innate to women, or that men have more empathy by default. I'm sorry to hear about the experiences you've had with women. I've also had some. But I've had good ones too. Everyone's experience is different though, and I'm not here to invalidate yours.
/r/MensRights08/01/26 03:28 AM
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I'm sorry my guy, I entirely disagree, respectfully. I do not believe the answer is to hate women. A bunch of petty, immature, and hurt women online think the answer is to "hate men". I'm not going to mirror them and say "I hate women". It's not the answer. It's not respectful and it just degrades the entire war between men and women into a gross shitty back and forth. I have women in my life who I respect greatly, and I don't say that performatively or to gain approval from women. I say it genu…
/r/MensRights07/01/26 04:16 PM
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Surely, and I agree. But if they actually had to even...just shovel the driveway once. Even use a snowblower. Get cold, tired, uncomfortable, and quit. Not that every woman would. Some do it. They're capable of some jobs for sure. It's more, they just don't want to. Nobody does, but a lot of time men do it. But wouldn't it allow them (the ones who have never shoveled a driveway once) to take a walk in our shoes? Isn't that important? To see our "mental strain"? (Because it actually fucking sucks…
/r/MensRights07/01/26 03:13 PM
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I think women should be represented in doing the labor that breaks human bodies. Roadwork. Work in the oil fields. It's their turn.
/r/MensRights07/01/26 01:03 PM
2

Victim blaming is absolutely unacceptable. And the fact that you would frame it that way about your late husband is absolutely disgusting.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/26 01:00 PM
1

Right exactly, but I'm not ignoring or avoiding her just because she's a woman. Some people here get into the "all women" mentality. It's not a good mentality. Same logic leads to misandry.
/r/MensRights07/01/26 12:48 PM
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The person you're replying to didn't say that white people shouldn't support black people in dismantling systemic oppression. They said they shouldn't have to pay for something they didn't do. Those two things are very different. And it's not something that's racist in nature. There's a difference in supporting real change vs. actually having to pay a price. Because we don't need to tear some people down, we need to lift everyone up.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/26 12:46 PM
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I think it's important to consider context. It hurts men's rights if we don't. I was walking into Chipotle the other day and a 55 year old woman was limping up to the door, and was chill and joking like "I've got a bum knee haha" and tried to fumble with the door and couldn't get it open. I totally ran up and was like "here here" and got it for her and she smiled and thanked me and I laughed. Totally different situation from a 30 year old princess who thinks all men at Chipotle are out to kill h…
/r/MensRights05/01/26 02:54 AM
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There are times where I wish I was gay.
/r/MensRights05/01/26 02:52 AM
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The only answer is when we start thinking about men-wing thoughts. Women have societal strength because they back each other up. Heavily. The conservative women socialize together. They rep each other. They have social events with close ties. The liberal women have a sisterhood that has its arguments but it's practically unstoppable. Now men.....have not enough unity. A big part of that is because so many men feel ick'ed by men's rights. But that's changing a little. Unity/Camaraderie = power.
/r/MensRights05/01/26 02:46 AM
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It's a good practice. You should never go where you are not wanted. Where you are hated. Where you are treated unfairly or poorly. Walking away is a boundary that protects yourself, your health, your self-worth, and your peace.
/r/MensRights05/01/26 02:41 AM
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It's always an opportunity to create a new sub if someone's passionate and willing to maintain it. You can reword it as an alternative. Eg. r/relationshipabuse or r/abuseinrelationships r/leavinganabuser. And then you run it with your rules. You have to abide by Reddits general rules but each sub is its own community and you can run it with your rules. Then it's an alternative option for relationship abuse. Like if it were me I would literally run it fair, the exact same way, and allow women and…
/r/MensRights05/01/26 02:38 AM
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The moment men's pain enters the conversation, they are now humanized, as humans that can also experience pain. And women are also humanized (gasp!) as humans who can cause harm. The false oppressor-victimhood paradigm (the one that says men are always the oppressor and women are always the victim and always valid by default all the time) falls. And then we're all actually equal.
/r/MensRights05/01/26 02:33 AM
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You can. Just make a second account and don't use that one for men's rights. It's not right, but I'm just saying that's how you get around it.
/r/MensRights05/01/26 02:32 AM
2

There is a statistical bias when it comes to abuse against men committed by women. It often goes unreported and does not show up representatively in common statistics. Many men do not report when they are abused, for fear of being accused, or fear of being belittled, or because they just don't see it as a big deal and would rather not saying anything about it. There is a disparity when it comes to this data. It's a known phenomenon that has yet to be fully studied and explored and it does happen…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/01/26 03:24 PM
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I'm interested. Can you explain your stance and a little bit about that?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/01/26 09:55 PM
3

Everything is a right wing dog whistle.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/01/26 09:29 PM
2

Is there any sense of responsibility? Does anyone wonder how the boy feels when he can get on the internet in 10 years and see how the world talked about him? Like he was filthy and belonged in the trash? Does dehumanization mean anything?
/r/MensRights03/01/26 02:57 PM
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The doctors in the hospitals pressure the fuck out of moms and dads to basically force them to do it. They claim it's medically necessary and use their authority and statistics to convince parents. Just saying that a lot of parents think they're doing what's best. The moms who fight the doctors often face hell. The doctors get really, really pissed and sometimes lash back at them.
/r/MensRights30/12/25 05:52 AM
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Him: "Be as selective as women are." You: "That's a revenge fantasy!"
/r/MensRights29/12/25 03:18 AM
1

Is that what women said lol? "Men write all the books. I guess we should go die." Oh wait....no......now they write all of the books.
/r/MensRights28/12/25 02:33 AM
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There's nothing wrong with it per se. But then there IS the disparity where men's sexual desire and sexual literature is treated with shame by society as a whole, but women's sexual literature is now celebrated. And also, there's probably stuff of greater substance out there than "Morning Glory Milking Farm". Where bestiality is celebrated and animals have sexual activity with women in graphic detail. Very pro-women. 😶 If you like to fuck animals and masturbate to it....I guess.... I'm not sure …
/r/MensRights28/12/25 02:27 AM
1

Agreed. That's on us. So I'll say it aggyain....... We need to come together fellas. Settle our differences and come together. Benjamin Franklin said: If we do not all hang together, then we will all assuredly hang separately. There's too many men out there right now taking their lives and hanging themselves, alone, separately, and too many men throughout history who have hung for the wrong reasons. We need to hang together. Or we all lose. So to be a little less dramatic. If some dude we know i…
/r/MensRights28/12/25 02:20 AM
2

It is though. Self-publishing is pretty easy. Anyone can put their book on Amazon, and then spread the word on social media. You don't really need to land on Barnes and Noble shelves. Half of those mainstream books end up in the shit bins (overstock throwaway) anyway. So all that we have to do as men, is buy it. You don't need Random House to pick you up to be a popular book. And what actually fucking cool is that so many indie bookstores and record stores were always about what's "alternative",…
/r/MensRights28/12/25 02:00 AM
1

I personally think all types of men should be supported. Whether you voted for Trump and are traditionally masculine, or you're effeminate and are against traditional gender norms, I would personally support both types of men as my fellow men. I know that's blasphemy. How could I support a Trump voter with masculine traits, and an effeminate man with feminine traits? Because to me they are both men. I wouldn't exclude either of them. Some on one side of the aisle would drive out traditionalists …
/r/MensRights28/12/25 01:46 AM
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What's odd is that, what really is wrong with these men? They're intelligent, they have friendships, they're nonviolent, they're quiet, they keep to themselves. They're not doing anything wrong. Penny is the one who does not have her life together. She barely has a job. And it's framed as her "dating down" to be with Leonard, who's likely making over $100,000 and worked very hard to earn a PhD. She's literally dating a doctor. Who's making strides in the research of the field of experimental phy…
/r/MensRights27/12/25 04:14 AM
0

At the end of the day I believe there will be a great equalization. You're right, at first, what you're saying is likely true. But give it 20 years, and women will not need men to shovel a driveway or fix a pipe, or build a house. And men will not need women for domestic labor, for dishes, for cooking, for laundry. Our traditional roles will dissolve on both sides. No one can really complain because no one will be forcing men to die and go to war and no one will be forcing women to clean and coo…
/r/MensRights27/12/25 04:00 AM
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Personally I think that the definition of what masculinity is should be up to us. I don't think every traditional aspect is wrong nor do I think men have to fit into a box of what masculinity is or traditionally has been. Nor does every man have to fit the same definition. I agree with the commenter to a degree, in that mocking men for doing some masculine things is degrading and unnecessary. It's a nuanced issue. Not every "traditional" attribute is wrong or toxic, and yet even some self-declar…
/r/MensRights27/12/25 03:53 AM
1

I disagree 100%. Your view is disgusting.
/r/MensRights26/12/25 04:37 AM
2

Personally, I'm not about shaming. If a guy is bald, it's a difficult experience, for example. I lost my hair to severe illness. It was traumatic. I don't think that makes me weak. And the videos or comments that mock men as ugly or shame them for being bald, they hurt. I personally think consideration and positive attitudes are what guys need, like over at r/tressless. It's a great place. So I think when it comes to weight, it's sort of similar. It can be changed. But I don't believe in shaming…
/r/MensRights26/12/25 02:06 AM
2

Here you go.
/r/MensRights24/12/25 01:55 AM
3

I would say it's hard to say. But part of it is the social views on this issue. For a long time, society has acted like a boy is lucky when a teacher sexually assaults him. Or we are supposed to high five him. Part of it is we as men or boys not wanting to show vulnerability, and admit we just got assaulted or raped. Always wanting to appear stable and winning. Part of it is that "women can do no wrong". We sometimes treat women kind of like children in this world. Their harm is harmless, they c…
/r/MensRights24/12/25 01:48 AM
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It's not a war between men and women. It's a simple answer: because men are human. You can clap back with an answer to that: "But women are human too." They are. We all are. But men deserve a space, just like women deserve a space. When men heal, women heal. When men heal, the world gets better. When men have no space, it's not good for anyone. The more you try to stop men from healing, speaking their emotions and feelings, coming together and uniting, the more you create a world where men have …
/r/MensRights24/12/25 01:14 AM
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Men do get hit, and never report. I agree. Women get drunk (just like men), women get heated, women get in your face....and then it starts with throwing things, and it gets started. A lot of men have been hit, bitten, punched, slapped, and just take it. Ask any police officer. They can tell you how often it is for them to show up and the perpetrator is a woman. The academic studies and narratives pushed by organizations with bias do not reflect reality.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/12/25 09:06 PM
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I hear you, and basically, I kind of left that part open to nuance. Some argue women are more at risk, some argue that they aren't. And thank you for adding this. Yes, I think there is evidence that men may be equal to or even in some cases more at risk of violence. I just didn't argue the point and kind of left it open because, if I argue it, then I may have to present evidence, and I do believe there's many biased sources that may make it hard to prove, as well as the phenomena of under-report…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/12/25 07:20 PM
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Or rather, under-reported. You can even count it if a man didn't think it was a big deal, was too embarrassed to report it, was afraid of being named the perpetrator, or just thought it was better to forget about it and not say anything.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/12/25 07:06 PM
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I don't disagree. A lot of that is true. But even feminism isn't always entirely a monolith. Feminist spaces can begin to operate as one very often. But I have found feminists who are willing to discuss men's suffering and and are able to see that men can also be oppressed. Though I have rarely if ever met a feminist who can admit that a man could be oppressed or abused by a woman. Which I do believe is a problem, because that can happen and it's more common than anyone is willing to admit.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/12/25 06:59 PM
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If male rape was brought up in feminist spaces, it would be consistent. It would actually show that it's about men's health, wellness, and safety too. If abuse against men was brought up, then it would be egalitarian. But these things aren't. If both men and women could be taught how to prevent domestic violence in the household, it would be egalitarian as a movement. Yes women are more at risk, but what would truly be equal would be "Hey, just a heads up, men can be victims too, and it's import…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/12/25 06:56 PM
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Yeah, this. You are going to be belittled. You are going to be told men thinking they should think about emotions, their boundaries, their needs, is stupid, and you should be focusing on misogyny alone (which by the way, you can arguably focus on both and actually they complement each other, some MRAs may disagree but I digress). You're going to be told you have a small penis and you're a princess and you're a "gay incel". Or whatever. Whatever they can do to make you feel shame. They are regist…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/12/25 06:46 PM
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Thank you, my man. This really means a lot to me. This is what I see when it comes to us. A lot of times, I end up fighting with my fellow men. And it's like we're fighting with ourselves. But then we're in disunity. And if we don't have each other, then who do we have? No one. Because the women kind of really hate us right now. So who do we have? One of the lessons we have to learn I feel, is unity amongst ourselves. Men are always 'every man for himself'. We're separated, we're too far from ea…
/r/MensRights19/12/25 10:02 PM
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That's pretty much all I'm trying to say. Times are weird and right now women can be very hurtful. They're honestly oppositional and the tests they put you under, are impossible to pass. This is really shitty and I struggle with it. I have to accept that I may be single for the rest of my life. It hurts. It's a point of pain for me. But women aren't going to change right now. They don't have to. And they're not going to. It's hard but that's basically what I'm doing, I'm minding my own business.…
/r/MensRights19/12/25 06:39 PM
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I hear you. And I don't disagree. What do you think is the answer, or the pathway forward?
/r/MensRights18/12/25 09:02 PM
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Just to help you out. We DO have women who are allies. https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/s/BdGvfW4CjB Talking down to every woman you meet doesn't solve shit. Some women DO care about men's rights. If you're going to burn bridges then you're fucking up. Throwing random insults out to women just creates more misandrists.
/r/MensRights18/12/25 01:40 AM
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Buddy first of all reporting me for self harm is ridiculous and immature. And No, I'm not a feminist. It's not a zero sum game. A lot of women think it is, but it's not. I believe we as men should be better than that. I don't solve misandry by by throwing shit back. And then you thought you'd throw shit at me too. This is a you problem.
/r/MensRights18/12/25 01:37 AM
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I think we have a lesson that we haven't learned yet. So many men are dreaming of women that don't exist anymore. Women have changed. So I see so many of us touching a hot stove again and again and getting burned. But we haven't accepted it. It's hard, but improving one's own life and and one's own self is all you can do. I don't know truly why young men think about women as the only way for life to be worth living. So many of the old men wish they could die to get out of their marriages. Not al…
/r/MensRights18/12/25 01:34 AM
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You're getting reported my man. I'm sorry. That's not ok.
/r/MensRights18/12/25 01:31 AM
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Just because we're pro Men's rights doesn't mean we degrade women or talk down to them. We don't like when they do it to us so throwing it back is just starting a war. If we are more mature as a gender we should display that. Let them be the immature ones.
/r/MensRights18/12/25 01:21 AM
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Yes, it is absolutely okay to call for aborting children based on their physical characteristics. Well, you said it. I am for free speech. But that doesn't mean that people don't get to react to it. I don't believe in doxxing people, going to their house and harassing them, or even getting them fired. I believe people can change and learn. But probably, having equal rules on a platform might be the right idea. No one should have a username that says "Kill All [person's identity]". Like, we could…
/r/MensRights15/12/25 09:04 PM
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Thank you.
/r/MensRights15/12/25 06:15 PM
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So I've reported this comment, because it breaks the rules of this sub. No, I actually don't hate women. I would never say that we should "abort all women". I was calling out something that is literal hate speech, because it talks about aborting children based on identity/gender. That's not ok. Do you support that?
/r/MensRights15/12/25 05:32 PM
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The female gaze is on the prowl, feeling the need to shame other people. The gossip-mode about other people just doesn't have an 'off' button.
/r/MensRights14/12/25 08:00 PM
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Doesn't seem equal. It isn't. So I get really concerned when I hear "equality" because I'm not sure what it means anymore.
/r/MensRights14/12/25 04:25 AM
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We do believe in equality, but feminism is now a supremacist movement. Maybe you don't live in the USA and experience the same climate.
/r/MensRights14/12/25 02:43 AM
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A lot of us (not all) were feminists at one point and supported women. We did not expect them to turn on us and start degrading us, shaming us, targeting us, and invalidating us. Now it's a gender war. I hate it. But everyone is in conflict and we cannot come to a middle ground.
/r/MensRights14/12/25 02:41 AM
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What do you want to say about that? You start.
/r/MensRights14/12/25 12:00 AM
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Yep. Women can have an entire bookshelf about "pumping a man's dick" but if men feel attracted towards women.......he's sick, addicted, wrong, dangerous.......for having a few pictures of women he masturbates to? Yet if a woman masturbates, to her books, or her porn, she's "empowered". I personally feel that porn can be an addiction, but the disparity is crazy. You literally have some women who say as soon as their partner felt attraction for them (normal sexual attraction) they felt "grossed ou…
/r/MensRights13/12/25 11:57 PM
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I agree with you. It is theoretical.......but maybe. You don't meet people out there who talk like that. I agree, that's what I experience too. And yet, supposedly, these people exist.... Are they just people with extreme viewpoints? Idk. But you open up an app and it's like wow.....that's new.... A fresh dose every day lol. I'm about to uninstall the apps maybe. But they keep you addicted too, in some senses.
/r/MensRights13/12/25 04:53 AM
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Agree for sure, it is based on what you watch. But I also make an effort to hold down the video, and click "not interested". I try to curate my feed. But also, shouldn't we all try to avoid ragebait that creates enemies? Either way, I do believe it's more than preferences. For years, since 2018 I've been on Tik Tok. Never in my life did I ever see that kind of ragebait. This past summer it has come out of nowhere. And tons of men I know are seeing the same. JMT, it's weird, because my preference…
/r/MensRights13/12/25 03:17 AM
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Idk if our algorithms are very different because these tech companies literally know our age, name, phone number, preferences.... But when I talk to some women I know their algorithms are totally different in their reddit feed, Tik Tok feed, Instagram. They're seeing stuff that's crazy to me. Like men talking about doing terrible things to women. That I hadn't heard of. Meanwhile in my feed....it's all women saying terrible things to men. I have heard a few people say, are these tech companies t…
/r/MensRights13/12/25 03:08 AM
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Totally fair. And some of my ex's complaints are also fair. It's hard to admit but I would be wrong if I didn't admit it. IMO part of growing is seeing where we went wrong and trying to integrate it and grow beyond it.
/r/MensRights13/12/25 02:59 AM
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Another good resource if you haven't heard it: US men's sheds. (For US but they also have international presence). https://usmenssheds.org/ It's a place where men can connect through activity rather than therapy.
/r/MensRights13/12/25 02:53 AM
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I've been saying. This is hard, but the truth usually is hard. When a man drools over a woman, supports her business, praises her, but looks to his fellow man and feels "ugh....", it is literally internalized misandry. If we are actually feeling the need to serve and praise women and feel grossed out or weird or uncomfortable about helping our fellow men, we have to really think about that perspective. It has always been "every man for himself" in America especially where you're supposed to sink…
/r/MensRights12/12/25 09:28 PM
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And then, the nail in the fucking coffin is Behavioral Confirmation. We begin to act out and behave in the ways people tell us we are. We behave in ways consistent with what others believe about us. So if other people believe we are shit, we begin to act like shit. All of that negative emotion does not make a person act better (because they're mental health is tanked), you begin to act worse. You absorb what you hear and ingest around you, and it ultimately affects your behavior. A lot of this i…
/r/MensRights12/12/25 09:10 PM
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Took me a minute, but here's some studies that back up what I'm saying. A study from 2011 showed that when outgroup members experienced pain and loss, those in the "in" group experienced pleasure. The reward centers were activated in their brain (ventral striatum) were activated. Empathy was suppressed for the in group. This demonstrates the mechanism of sadism and how it works psychologically. Sadism is receiving pleasure from another's suffering, loss, or humiliation. There's a million studies…
/r/MensRights12/12/25 08:59 PM
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I would be pretty careful about a therapist. If it's a man, maybe. If it's a woman, 95% chance you will be blamed due to the current state of therapy culture. Just an important note: Once misandry is affecting you mentally, it's now internalized misandry. It's inside of you. A bunch of toxic, angry people told you that men are shit, that your gender is bad, that you should be ashamed (for being alive), and now....you've internalized it. You believe it now. It has affected your beliefs about your…
/r/MensRights11/12/25 07:10 PM
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Appreciate it brother. 🤝
/r/MensRights11/12/25 05:13 AM
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I hear you brother. Just trying to figure a way to make things better....because that's all we can do. The other option is, everything sucks, women dominate the world, and we should all kill ourselves. And I just need to advocate in a different direction because we have to do the best we can do, and I don't want to see men going down that road.
/r/MensRights11/12/25 04:59 AM
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And then when we do.....they get mad. They're always saying "men should start their own groups". Men should help men. One space we have is podcasts. Men discuss deep topics with each other and often deeply emotional and difficult issues. Then they say we shouldn't have podcasts. Literally gross rhetoric that "men shouldn't speak".
/r/MensRights11/12/25 01:26 AM
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There's also the psychiatric/crisis/mental health system that has a huge feminist leaning, that tends to dismiss men's problems and blame men for their pain. So if you're struggling and you need to reach out for help, you might regret it because you might be made to feel like you're the problem.
/r/MensRights11/12/25 01:23 AM
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You should have never said you hate. You should have said that our identity matters too and we also are allowed to be vulnerable. And that's not a joke.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/12/25 09:03 PM
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I agree and I'm aware. But I was speaking in the context of men's rights for the purposes of the conversation in this sub. I can pull out my books on the federal reserve and halliburton and how there were no weapons of mass destruction but I don't think that conversation fits the scope of this sub or the people having a conversation here.
/r/MensRights10/12/25 08:11 PM
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Honestly there should be men's gyms. If the women are mad they literally shouldn't be, it will "keep all of the dangerous men away". But literally then men can be men and avoid all of the bullshit. There are women's only gyms so any lawsuit can be easily defended. If you don't want to be around men then don't. Go to a women's gym. Like let's just stop making gyms coed. It's asking for problems. It doesn't mix.
/r/MensRights10/12/25 07:07 PM
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Buddy 100 years ago we were riding horses, there were basically no cars for anyone (except rich people), and a lot of people didn't have electricity in their home yet. I can't in good faith argue with you. The world has changed. It will continue to. And I hear you on reversing things. We all wish we could go backwards. I wish it like every day, usually around the time I wake up in the morning. We can't. Life is going to move forward. A strong man can adapt to the world as it changes, even if he …
/r/MensRights10/12/25 04:31 AM
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It's called virtue signaling. You know what that means. Everyone wants to be accepted. If you want to be a golden retriever.....go ahead. But they don't like you anyway if you do this. It's like standing around black people (or any minority) and saying "yeah man, I like totally hate white people. We suck, right?" And then trying to get a fist bump. More often than not they don't like it. Nobody of any race or gender likes when you do this. They would rather you be real. No one is asking you to d…
/r/MensRights10/12/25 04:11 AM
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I wouldn't say there's no way around it. Start our own companies, as men who are not traditionally attractive or prized for looks. Focus on hiring men who are not traditionally attractive, focusing on talent rather than looks. If all stated is true, and we are hiring based on talent and intelligence.....those companies should do better. Because intelligence is more valuable in terms of talent vs. looks. Which company is going to perform better? Try to work for companies that value nerdy men. The…
/r/MensRights10/12/25 02:16 AM
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Ok? That's irrelevant. The world has.
/r/MensRights09/12/25 08:28 PM
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To be fair, I will hold myself accountable in saying that sometimes we could be better at socialization. But then again, there's a million things women could be better about too. I've heard that men ask too many questions on a date. That men don't ask enough. That he asked the wrong questions. Sometimes tbh it becomes a game where you can't win because no matter what, you are offensive just for not being good enough. It's just a game with ever-changing rules. We never talk about how rude and tot…
/r/MensRights09/12/25 08:24 PM
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There were good reasons for gender roles. Were. But it's not 1940 anymore. Women are not embodying traditional gender roles and they are never going to ever again outside of cosplaying as a tradwife. That ship has sailed. We're not in Kansas anymore. If men don't proceed beyond gender roles, we're looking at a world where men serve women, give up their lives and their bodies for labor, war, and all of the difficult things in life. While women watch, enjoy, laugh, make all of the money and do non…
/r/MensRights09/12/25 08:06 PM
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Sure thing brother, please do.
/r/MensRights07/12/25 11:46 PM
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Either way though, as just a bunch of lonely feminists at home (not a psyop), it pulls you in to try and make you feel like shit or want to kill yourself. That's what they want. That's what makes angry femcelly kind of women happy. Do you really want to give them what they want? That's not men's advocacy. That's gratifying the femcels who live and breathe the hatred of men to feel better. Moving on despite it, and doing what you want, being the man you want to be is the best advocacy you can do.…
/r/MensRights07/12/25 11:38 PM
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It's a kind of revenge. Some women feel hurt so they feel better by talking about killing and raping men. It makes them feel like they have power. But that's not healing. There's this ideology that to heal the world, we should hurt men, erase men, shame men, kill men, make men more lonely, more homeless. You all have heard the term. It's "zero-sum" ideology. "If I hurt a man, that helps women." "If I help men, that hurts women." It's an ideological delusion. There is actually a world where both …
/r/MensRights07/12/25 11:09 PM
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I think we're in agreement.
/r/MensRights07/12/25 08:32 PM
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The girl scouts did not open enrollment for boys. I think you know that. The activities differ between the organizations. If you don't understand, I don't think you're having a discussion in good faith. The girl scouts remained women only. Boys were not allowed to have their own boys only organization.
/r/MensRights07/12/25 07:55 PM
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Right so why not let boys try to learn some of the skills that girls learn, in that space? Can't boys be a scout that participates in crafting and other skills that they're learning?
/r/MensRights07/12/25 05:39 PM
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Uh, no. We can't continue hating each other. That has to change.
/r/MensRights07/12/25 05:37 PM
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Maybe it's misandric for men to hate men and we should learn to stop hating each other.
/r/MensRights07/12/25 01:34 PM
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Maybe some boys want to do those activities that girls are doing. What's wrong with that?
/r/MensRights07/12/25 01:30 PM
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You have to stop volunteering to do things for a society that hates you. It's self-respect. You cannot let them keep using you.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/12/25 01:28 PM
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I don't think we should lay down our lives for a society that hates us. We are humans. Not disposable machines used for work and war. We deserve the same comforts, life, and benefits that women deserve.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/12/25 09:14 PM
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No. When you start cutting the penis of a newborn infant, without anesthesia, it causes pain and trauma. It's not about sexual performance.
/r/MensRights06/12/25 09:06 PM
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"Still come out fine." No. Studies do not indicate this. Your opinion on that does not change that.
/r/MensRights06/12/25 09:01 PM
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That's what they did, buddy. They still were psychologically damaged after the experience. The parents and psychologists were continually encouraging and teaching him that he was a girl and should be ok with it. You can read all about that case.
/r/MensRights06/12/25 08:49 PM
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Still doesn't mean circumcision is necessarily necessary. "Circumcision, especially when performed on infants without analgesia, can be psychologically traumatic, causing acute stress responses and potentially leading to long-term effects like altered attachment, increased anxiety, higher sociosexuality, and even PTSD symptoms in some individuals, though other studies suggest varied outcomes and coping mechanisms, highlighting complex psychosocial impacts alongside physical ones." Source: https:…
/r/MensRights06/12/25 08:46 PM
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And I was responding to your comment. You know what you said.
/r/MensRights06/12/25 05:56 AM
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I literally said that I do accept it. But this is not a sub for talking about how terrible men are. This is a place for us to heal and talk about our hurts. Not be shamed and to have violent and abusive men shoved in our face. We agree that violence isn't ok. If you want to stop animal abusers maybe you should go talk to them.
/r/MensRights06/12/25 05:30 AM
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As a straight man I don't follow the trans community much at all. But one thing I've noticed is that feminist groups and voices are starting to turn on transgender individuals. It's weird. I did not expect that. I don't know if they consider themselves to be liberal or conservative....I don't know. But they claim that both sides of transgenderism is an attack on feminism and women. The men who transition to women are supposedly perverted to them and infringe on them as women by hijacking what it…
/r/MensRights06/12/25 05:27 AM
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We could look at some statistics. They do demonstrate that men do commit more abuse against animals, but women do a lot of it as well and are not innocent when it comes to animal abuse. For example, 36 percent of women convicted for assault admitted to animal cruelty. I mean we can sit here and try to attack women and attack men and make them out to be evil and biologically bad creatures, but the fact is, most men and women don't harm their animals, or their spouses, and that is also supported b…
/r/MensRights06/12/25 02:39 AM
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It's definitely a whole thing, a whole can of worms. My point was not to get into the politics of transgenderism, not because I'm for it or against it, but just because it's messy and may mess up men's advocacy. I feel a little the same about getting into white vs. Black, and opening up discussion about that because we have allies who are black and other races here. It's not that I don't appreciate the discussion and what you're saying. Whether I'm for it or against it is sort of irrelevant to m…
/r/MensRights05/12/25 10:07 PM
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If it's a real conversation, sure. It's better to have a discussion and not close our ears to everything that's difficult but actually has a point. If it's breaking the sub rules and/or is just here to shame, blame, and harm men on purpose with no further point, I think a ban is reasonable and needed.
/r/MensRights05/12/25 07:43 PM
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My issue is with situations that happen when things go wrong. I was in college when one of my professors told us the story about David Reimer. This was a child who was circumcised as a baby in the hospital. The funny thing is, it was twin boys. David had a twin brother. Both of them had trouble urinating so the doctor decides to use cauterization instead of a scalpel on their genitals. Brian went first, and it was a successful circumcision. David was second, and the tool malfunctioned, and burne…
/r/MensRights05/12/25 07:33 PM
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It just depends on if it's an argument done in good faith. Are they really here to challenge the arguments with a real point and purpose? Or are they here for sabotage, argumentative tricks like poisoning the well, stirring up discord, hate, and confusion.
/r/MensRights05/12/25 07:22 PM
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I don't think this will be your final conclusion, and as you grow, it will change. I have a mom, sisters, friends, who are women who I love. I've dealt with a severe illness in my life that only a few doctors have been able to treat, and some were women. Some were men. But women bring something else into that dynamic. Where I was dismissed by some male doctors who wouldn't even take a second look at the case, some of the women were willing to stretch beyond the books and consider the subjective.…
/r/MensRights05/12/25 03:50 AM
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Thank you, brother. 🤝 I just care about us. Too much shame and blame out there...we're allowed to be validated too.
/r/MensRights05/12/25 03:34 AM
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And baldness. Even if you just finished chemotherapy, you're still allowed to be made fun of, and you can't say anything back or you are misogynistic.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/12/25 01:43 AM
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But men should be included. Humans still matter when their gender is male and they become an adult. Not sure why society keeps thinking "oh a boy grew into an adult. He's disposable and forgettable now."
/r/MensRights05/12/25 01:33 AM
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Excellent time to be working on your book. If you had a girlfriend right now tbh you would never get it finished. Ask me how I know.
/r/MensRights05/12/25 12:02 AM
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They don't want to be approached. They don't want to be in proximity to a man. They want to hate, and fear us. You cannot go where you are hated. You should not pursue someone who hates you. If you can find a woman who does not hate you, it is possible. But it may involve having to gain a tolerance to the nasty hateful kind of rejections they are giving today. On that note, I think it's really interesting how women are just kind of begging or bullying us into approaching them, while simultaneous…
/r/MensRights04/12/25 10:36 PM
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On a similar note, anyone here may enjoy Helen Andrews' video: Have women ruined the world? The feminization of everything. She is somewhat of a men's advocate who breaks down a critical analysis of feminism and how it's making some interesting and sometimes not so good changes to the world.
/r/MensRights30/11/25 04:55 AM
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The more you watch women and examine what they do, and why they do it, you can figure out how they are. Socialization is often a game. Not everyone likes it. It's part being authentic with people and being honest. It's part being fake and being a certain way to create harmony and cohesion. In today's world the social landscape has changed, and women are often more adept at this (or rather, they are more active in the social landscape) and are sometimes very good at smiling, complimenting, striki…
/r/MensRights30/11/25 04:42 AM
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You're here to troll this subreddit, and I've reported you. If you guys are reading this, please do the same. If you're not here to be a part of the discussion then please head back to the feminist subreddits where you can criticize men and everyone will agree with you.
/r/MensRights29/11/25 11:55 PM
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I keep trying to help my fellow men understand this. And I'm going to make a lot of men uncomfortable by saying this but it needs to be heard. You can keep going to the gym and becoming stronger, and yes that will keep your body healthy and that's a great thing. You should keep going. But that's aside from the point. You're not going to win any battles that way. The battles that determine where your life heads going forward are not fought physically. If you don't learn the social ways of women, …
/r/MensRights29/11/25 08:00 PM
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If someone gets mad at you for being egalitarian, it reveals whether they're supremacist or not. When I hear more men talking about equality and more women getting upset at hearing it....it means something....who knows what it means in the long-term, but it means something....
/r/MensRights29/11/25 05:38 AM
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I agree but I'd be skeptical and he'd better have a really really good reason. I'm not really that optimistic.
/r/MensRights29/11/25 04:50 AM
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If we allowed the average age of death for men to get to be equal to the average age of death for women, that would become a modern heresy. More men dying means more equality. Duh. Also men, it's your fault that you die younger. Women, you are just awesome for living longer. (But also you're oppressed at the same time and always have it worse than men.) It's really that simple. Women have it WORSE when it comes to medical discrimination, that's why they live so much longer than men. Right?
/r/MensRights29/11/25 04:49 AM
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Yes, I stated this. You can selectively breed less men. But there are other repercussions that can play out that may be harmful to the human race. Please take the time to read my comment in full. As stated in my other comment, I've reported this post. You're suggesting we massively abort male babies across the global population. This is hate speech and doesn't belong in this subreddit. We don't fix the world by massively aborting certain genders or races or demographics to try and engineer an id…
/r/MensRights28/11/25 08:04 AM
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There's a lot of talk about this in some "feminist" circles. It's an idea that requires the modifying of the human race. You either have to actively kill a portion of the men alive right now. Or use genetic methods to prevent boys from being born. It's a scary experimental idea, but I don't know that it's a very good idea. When it comes to pairing up, keeping the population 50/50 means some people will be single, but the minimal amount will. When you have 25% men and 75% women, it guarantees 50%…
/r/MensRights28/11/25 07:53 AM
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First step to making change is to understand how things work and what you're up against.
/r/MensRights28/11/25 06:40 AM
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Like I said. It's not truth. It's semantics. They don't want truth, they just want to win. If truth comes out that's inconvenient, they'll just change definitions, lie, or create a narrative to remain superior. They cannot lose the status as permanent victims. They have an obsession with being "really powerful and strong" but also really weak and oppressed at the same time. A lot of privilege and ego comes from the position they stand on as "the ones who are oppressed". If they lose that status,…
/r/MensRights28/11/25 06:38 AM
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It's a bunch of semantics....in that so much of this stuff began in academia. With academic definitions. So here's the logic. According to the academic definitions, for hatred to be "systemic", it must be present in public institutions. Eg. Schools, Jobs, Banking, Government, Etc. The argument that the feminist side makes, which again, the feminist side is hugely leaning on Academia, Is that......"the internet is not an institution". Therefore, misandry can't be systemic. And yes, it is still ar…
/r/MensRights28/11/25 04:30 AM
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This is the kind of stuff! The therapy-system out there often leaves men feeling unheard or misunderstood. Even if therapy is a thing for some, it's good to come together as a community outside of that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/11/25 11:29 PM
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They do. But laughing at someone and telling them they're ugly is never necessary. You can decline someone without literally ridiculing them for their body that they're living in. You don't have to make them hate themselves just for fun.
/r/MensRights23/11/25 04:13 AM
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Case in point for decentering women.
/r/MensRights23/11/25 03:13 AM
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It would get the attention of women, who might care, or might not. Right now, politically, most would not care. It's just not going to appeal to them. Or it might get the attention of men. Which IMO would be more important. We need more male therapists who can understand men. We need more male support groups....just like this subreddit. But some in person ones would be interesting. You ever watch fight club? Not a great movie today lol for reasons (but also a classic) but I'm also certain about …
/r/MensRights23/11/25 03:09 AM
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I don't think the entire purpose of the men's rights movement is meant to change women's shitty misandry or to even worry about it. It's a huge part of it but I think the rest is glazed over. Stopping misandry from women does not fix everything. There's a lot of change that will happen on our side, as men, as well. And I honestly think there's way too much focus on women alone. You're probably hating this line of discussion but I think it's incredibly important because it's exactly how we improv…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/11/25 05:21 PM
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My guy it took decades to get where we're at. Feminism didn't show up overnight. A lot of the ones who started the movement are now dead. Advocating for men is something that you don't just do for yourself. It's for men and boys who will be here after you and I are gone. This is going to take quite a while for change to happen but we are the ones who have to be a part of it. You and I probably will be elderly but I'm not just doing this for me.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/11/25 05:44 PM
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I'm going to exercise accountability now and face shit for it, but I'm ok playing devil's advocate because I usually do and it's very necessary. Men's advocacy is in it's early stages. A lot of men still don't care about it at all, so our current numbers in mens groups is currently small. It's only just forming and still figuring things out. That's what I see. But what I do see is yes, frustratingly, I see that we as men are not wanting to step into our power that we have over creating change. W…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/11/25 05:32 PM
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Yeah but, we also still need to form them anyway. Maybe they'll shut down a few but we have to continue anyway or there is no progress. They used to shut down every men's subreddit but we made enough that now they remain. We wouldn't even have this sub if someone didn't decide to make it. So even when stuff gets shut down, we have to keep going and doing it anyway, and just adapt and keep trying. Or there won't be any men's spaces. We have to persist even against misandry. Or we won't have anyth…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/11/25 05:05 PM
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Also, what about HeforHe? We should be standing up for us too. 🤝
/r/MensRights21/11/25 05:14 AM
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We probably need to hold the people who make the machine responsible because these models are going to be used as learning tools, teaching tools, references, and more. And also, they don't only replicate existing biases. Additional guardrails and biases of the creators are programmed into them. They aren't only pulling data and info from existing books, forums, videos, other users, etc. The creators also specify to the model how it should be, to some extent, regardless of what it learns.
/r/MensRights21/11/25 05:10 AM
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IMO as a gender.....we need to make a shift. I see every day....men lining up in the comments of a post or video to give women positive feedback, encouragement, uplifting words when she's upset or hurting. But when it's a man who's struggling in a video, where are we? We should be showing up and giving that man the same. He's one of us. He's our brother. I have been trying to do it more and more when I see a man who needs it, because we have to support each other. I have also noticed that some o…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/11/25 04:00 AM
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The line of discussion is still extremely inappropriate and violent, and it was not at all discussing simply correcting the damage done in China.
/r/MensRights19/11/25 08:16 AM
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The Wicker Man (2006 version) is pretty much what's gonna happen to us.
/r/MensRights19/11/25 08:14 AM
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Pickme = you have a soul
/r/MensRights19/11/25 08:07 AM
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Ideally, criticism from valuable women and men in your life creates a good balance. Not the ones who don't care about you though.
/r/MensRights19/11/25 08:05 AM
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So a lot of their "work" (if you want to call it that) has led to many court cases and outcomes that have led to retraining for cops. This has helped civil rights over time immensely. Before the Internet, before body cams, before auditors, cops could often do a lot of whatever they wanted. And totally get away with it. They hit people, assaulted them, and would even lie on the report. They could. Because nothing was on camera. So it was up to them to create whatever story they wanted and they wo…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/11/25 07:42 AM
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They believe you owe them something. They take you for granted. So when you stop performing, they take it as an attack. But you are not attacking anyone. Not at all. They just are upset that they are not receiving what they think you owe them. They don't control you anymore. You only give yourself and your energy where you are loved and valued. Not where you are taken for granted and used.
/r/MensRights18/11/25 09:16 PM
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I don't disagree with that. Can't argue with that part.
/r/MensRights17/11/25 06:26 AM
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Like way way back it wasn't. Susan B. Anthony in the 1800s argued that women should have the same jail and prison sentences as men and when she was sentenced to jail, she asked for the same sentence a man would get. These days you can't even get women to admit that there's still a disparity. They would never argue for that equality. But the ladies in the 1800s were. Those ladies were arguing for the right to go to war. It's just not the same thing anymore lol.
/r/MensRights17/11/25 03:49 AM
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They say all this stuff but it's not aligned in truth. All of this is a bunch of hurt women out there to try and hurt men back. They are not healed. They are not ok. And what they are doing is not ok. Because what the truth is..... Is that it does matter. You're mental health is important. Your health is important for you and you get to decide what you do with it. Just because a giant group of angry hurt emotionally unwell women on social media want to attack men and say disgusting things.....do…
/r/MensRights17/11/25 03:38 AM
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What happens when they become mothers of boys? The discussions I've read in comment sections about actively checking for and aborting male babies....I wish this was crackpot conspiracy theory shit but it's just what some people are into now......they said it was "social justice" or like "necessary for women to heal" or to "create a better world" or whatever...... I see more women attacking young boys in videos. Like they are coming from this place of like "he will grow up to be a man and do evil…
/r/MensRights17/11/25 03:17 AM
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You pull back your praise and admiration and your servitude and they will say you're attacking them and threatening their safety. But you're literally, literally just minding your own business. And not inflating the ego of someone who really, really does not need any more inflation.
/r/MensRights17/11/25 03:07 AM
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And the reason is, if you don't recognize your allies, you create enemies. Truth is there's reasonable people on both sides. And incredibly unreasonable people on both sides.
/r/MensRights17/11/25 03:05 AM
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Keep in mind that that statistic only involves men who report it. Many men think it's "no big deal" or are too proud or too embarrassed, or, in some cases, too afraid to ever speak about being hit or physically hurt by their partner. There are women who risk not being believed but there are also men who risk being laughed at, dismissed, or worse, being told that they are the one in trouble. So the statistic might be 11.8% but that does not include all of the men who have kept it a secret and wil…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/11/25 02:23 AM
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You're welcome. You don't deserve to be bullied.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/11/25 02:06 AM
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RationalWiki is just a small site ran by one guy named Trent Toulouse. He's just a guy who can write whatever he wants. It doesn't have the guidelines, structure, or rules that Wikipedia has. Just one guy's website. He can delete, edit, rewrite, or write whatever he wants. So really it's just a website of one guy's opinion. Almost like his personal diary.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/11/25 04:58 PM
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Oh no, men who aren't alt-right, who aren't left-wing, who are just......regular people with regular struggles with reasonable concerns and middle-of-the-road political beliefs.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/11/25 07:34 PM
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My answer is that there is unfortunately a real level of gender supremacy forming. You are simply lesser as a man. You aren't allowed to feel confident. To feel joy. To be proud of yourself. Everything you do is either a threat, because it's too strong, or weak, because it isn't strong enough. In the current climate, no matter what you say, do, feel, or be, you're wrong. You're a man. Why would a man be there? Why would we exist? Because we're human, and we deserve all of the things women deserv…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/11/25 11:31 PM
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I hear you. I don't disagree. Either way there's a societal pressure that men and women both feel that believes men should not be able to ever relax, be soft, be weak. And it was just a reminder that you're allowed to relax a little and not feel ashamed about that. That's all.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/11/25 05:37 PM
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My man this is just touching upon one small aspect. It was just a thought. I'm not boiling every aspect of men's issues down into one post. I'm only touching upon one particular issue. It was just a reminder that it's ok to relax, despite gender norms saying that sometimes it's not.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/11/25 05:35 PM
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Hey bud you might want to edit one word in your comment just a heads up
/r/MensRights06/11/25 02:59 AM
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Indoor ranges also don't always have adequate ventilation. They literally often state (for liability) that pregnant women cannot be on the range because of lead fumes. They've tested it. If you are shooting at an indoor range, you're breathing in lead, which is active at damaging the brain and nervous system in microscopic amounts. People blow it off but it's not a joke. Lead damages your brain in micrograms. There's a bunch out there on it but even the army has a page about it. https://www.army…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/25 12:17 AM
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I agree. Sorry, didn't mean for my comment to portray it that way.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/10/25 07:03 AM
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It would be good at some point, if there was something written that discusses the intersectionality of black and white men. And maybe the relationship to feminism, black and white, as well. That would cover a lot, wouldn't it? It would be a pretty important literary work tbh.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/10/25 01:35 AM
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Under Saturn's Shadow: The Wounding and Healing of Men. This discusses the burdens, pains, toils that men have carried throughout history, and how it has affected our psychological development (from a jungian perspective). While it does mention patriarchy, it is not anti-men, This one is actually deeply validating when it comes to the struggles men carry, particularly the silent emotional struggles men carry and have carried throughout history (whether it be shame, Inadequacy, responsibility). I…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/10/25 01:32 AM
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As a guy who's losing my hair, I think a lot about the body shaming, in general, but about baldness too. Like, how does someone know that guy didn't just finish chemotherapy? And even if he didn't, why laugh at something that he can't really control? I know we are not supposed to as men ever divulge weakness or insecurity, but losing my hair while going through a life changing illness was one of the more traumatic and sad things to see in the mirror. Things aren't going well, you lose your youth…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/10/25 01:17 AM
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For whatever it's worth, I am not from the Middle East, but I'm glad you came to share, because we want to hear your stories too. I try to keep up with news in the entire region, and depending where you are or which nation you are in, I imagine you could be facing immense challenges as a man. For whatever it's worth, I hope you and your loved ones are in safety at the moment.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/10/25 12:55 AM
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A lot of this stuff is just a contest now. "Men are bad." "No, women!" Lol. I have been loved by a woman deeply, and it was a gift. They exist. I've also been with many chill women who are not making it their job to hate you. Which by the way, you should never put up with. That's called abuse (when your partner is disgusted with you, hates you). It's just a power dynamic to try and maintain full control over you as a person and to make you hate yourself too and have no self-esteem. In fact, this…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/10/25 12:44 AM
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After a while you do begin to see through it. By that, I mean just the silliness of it. Serious people, and by that, I mean people who you would take seriously in this world, do not sit around on Tik Tok or any social media making fun of men all day. If you're threatened by it, they take delight in that. That's the part that makes it fun for them. If you eventually see how ridiculous it is, now it's not fun for them anymore. It has to get a rise out of you. You have to react. It's like a cat pla…
/r/MensRights04/10/25 02:38 AM
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For some men, their fellow man is all they have. If their fellow man does not offer any encouragement, he'll have no one.
/r/MensRights04/10/25 02:28 AM
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That's where we really all need to be each other's wingman. Coming in for the save. Women use this tactic and it's almost impenetrable when it works. Men put them down? They all come in for the save building that woman back up. It's our only best defense. Just saying. When we see that shit, you've gotta remember that guy needs a wingman coming in for the save. Be that wingman. Tell him she's just having a bad day lol and make sure to lay the real compliments on for him because there's no way he …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/10/25 12:45 AM
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Eventually it hurts less over time as time passes on. But it takes quite a while. But it gets to a point where what they say doesn't really have an effect anymore. Because they're bullshitting. They don't know you. They're just a bunch of hurt people who feel better by pushing you down. To be for real: none of the people out there who are actually happy are out there telling men to die, to hate themselves. Every. Single. One of the women who are telling men they are horrible and disgusting and t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/10/25 12:32 AM
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Yes and it's not ok. Especially in a world where fat-shaming is considered unacceptable but only if it is in regards to shaming women. It's important to take care of appearance and everyone wants a good job, but people aren't perfect and sometimes there's only so much someone can do about it. Your worth as a human being is beyond appearance or the job you have. If someone puts you down for those things, it's a problem with them, not you.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/10/25 04:02 PM
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You need to not continue with that therapist and seek a new one. That's absolutely not ok and is unacceptable.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/10/25 03:58 PM
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Just chiming in because I want to understand this as someone who is familiar but hasn't thoroughly read either. So basically, what you're saying is the story is more complicated than diluting it down to a victim narrative. And that both sides (whether it be trying to advocate for women or men) are trying to make it into a victim story. But in fact, it's really not that way, and was never meant to be that way. And trying to make the story about victimhood dilutes the meaning. When in fact it's no…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/10/25 03:55 PM
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I'm waiting for it. We're gonna shop for new fits. Talk about our problems. Stick together. Do fun stuff (surfing, skating, camping). Bond. We're gonna do it. Were totally gonna do it and it's gonna be a damn beautiful thing. Right now men aren't too interested. I'm testing out using more interesting activities in my language like "airsoft" or "paintball" or "car show", and it seems to perk some ears up lol. Honestly the most beautiful thing about men coming together is the same beautiful thing …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/09/25 12:40 AM
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Part of it is that this is an oversimplification. Individual power is not all the same. There are women who have power within this world, and their privilege is better than many men's. There are men with very little privilege and who suffer incredibly. More than most women. But the current explanations of how this world works under a patriarchy seek to ignore this fact. And it doesn't serve human beings. It leads to a paradigm where women, no matter their situation, are always harmless, guiltles…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/09/25 03:08 AM
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This is something I wondered about personally. And I started to actually look into it. Because if I'm ever hit by a woman, what do I actually do? In listening to cops talk about it, as well as 911 operators.....this is only their testimony (not a study or hard proof), but basically.....they get a ton of calls from men about their wife/girlfriend/etc. hitting them, biting them, choking them, etc. And they all said yes, they would respond to the call, and as long as you don't do anything to show t…
/r/MensRights19/09/25 06:53 PM
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I agree, at least she turned around. That's a human thing. The worst thing we can do here is shun an ally, we are shooting ourselves in the foot here.
/r/MensRights18/09/25 01:50 AM
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Amid all of the comments calling this BS, I'm open to it. Fellas need to stop freaking out over this. He's not saying you have to be androgynous or feminine, he's saying you should have the option. This comment section is a mirror image of women arguing over their gender norms. One woman wants to be a tradwife, everyone flips out. One woman wants to be a career-woman-feminist, all of the tradwife Christians freak out. You know why it's silly? Why no one needs to freak out? Because it's about cho…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/09/25 11:37 PM
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I agree, You don't have to prove anything. If you're truly hateful or violent, then you need to look in the mirror and think about who you are and what problems you need to solve in your life. But if you are just peacefully stating your opinion and someone calls you an incel, or a narcissist just to try and make you be quiet, that's their problem, not yours. It gets said all the time. It's not the end of the world if someone says it to me or you and it won't ruin someone. Because it happens ever…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/08/25 08:26 PM
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I never say just "women" or "all women". Exactly. Because I would be addressing people who aren't included in what I'm saying. And that could be hurtful and unfair to them. Like if Casey Anthony murdered her child, I don't say "women kill children". Because it's true in a sense, yeah, but what's the point of saying that? To try and characterize women as killers? Even ones who aren't? Yeah, that's what I thought. Why make a statement like "white men started slavery"? To suggest that this says som…
/r/MensRights12/08/25 04:48 PM
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If you're going to talk about "men", you re talking about me. The comment said "white men". I'm a white man. It didn't say "some white men". It addressed white men today, as if we are to blame. So the comment directly made it about someone with my identity and I'm speaking to respond. You're saying "nobody said that" but clearly it was said. So, sorry, but if you're going to say something and then lie about it afterwards, I don't know what to tell you.
/r/MensRights12/08/25 04:28 PM
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Right but it's your job as a member of that community, and everyone's job, to support each other. Not give up and say "well everyone hates us, we lose". Bullies stop being bullies when enough people get tired of their bullshit.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/08/25 09:04 AM
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Never once did I blame women. And also, speaking up for yourself isn't "making everything about you". Not sure what the fuck you're saying.
/r/MensRights12/08/25 09:00 AM
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Yeah but you have a negative attitude my man. She's just saying we need to value our fellow man and connect with him. She's 100% fucking right. The alternative is sitting sad and alone. Men need to connect with other men. It's where we can find support and strength together.
/r/MensRights12/08/25 04:15 AM
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Biggest mistake. Your male friends are your support network. And a big part of your happiness. Never give them up.
/r/MensRights12/08/25 04:13 AM
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Every man who decides to be a golden retriever (a dog, an animal?) and smiles about it is doing a disservice to men, and to his own self-respect. We don't exist on earth just to please women. We're allowed to exist for ourselves and our feelings and needs matter too. Yeah, it's a humiliation ritual. Men don't understand their own self-respect. We were taught to "shut up and serve". Well, maybe we should serve ourselves and stop being used by people who don't care about us.
/r/MensRights12/08/25 04:10 AM
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The more people talk about it the more people talk about it. So keep talking about it. And the more they call you an incel for just standing up for what's right, the more people see how ridiculous it is and how they overused that word and now it means nothing. If you're truly just peacefully speaking about what's right, you should never have any shame, and you should never stop speaking about it. Let them call you an incel, a narcissist, and....none of it's true, if none of it's true. You're all…
/r/MensRights12/08/25 04:06 AM
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In the end, I decided to be a feminist. Women can pay for the dates half of the time, so I don't have to spend money on someone who doesn't care about me. Women can go fix their own car or build their own stuff. (And I'm not going to do it for them anymore) Women can be the one to check outside of the camping tent to see if there's an animal. Why should I have to get hurt or die? Would they even care if I died or would they just find another disposable man? I don't have to destroy my body and my…
/r/MensRights12/08/25 03:55 AM
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Yes! Being safe is mostly society's responsibility to make sure we are all offered the ability to be safe. But feeling safe is your personal responsibility. That's what therapy is for. That's what meditation is for. That's was personal inner work is for. That's what Xanax and Lexapro are for. Not everyone else bending over backwards to fit your reality.
/r/MensRights12/08/25 03:49 AM
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The people who did support slavery are now dead. You would have to yell at them, because we are not them and did not make those choices, they did. And none of us support it. We are glad it ended. We are not to blame for something we didn't do, and reject your yelling about it because we literally didn't do that. I'm a person, who's alive today. I'm not "white people". And I'm not responsible for what anyone did in the past. I can only choose what I do now today. And that goes for everyone.
/r/MensRights12/08/25 03:42 AM
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We aren't those men. Why don't you go tell them? Oh shit, they're dead. And we didn't do what they did (those are different people, not us!), and we didn't support it necessarily either. You're literally mad at people who didn't do that, and didn't set that system up, and don't even support it a lot of the time. It's like being mad at someone for something they didn't do. Because we didn't do it. And a lot of us don't like this system either and want to fucking change it too because it also hurt…
/r/MensRights12/08/25 03:39 AM
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I set that system up. I had a meeting, where me and all men met together at the men's headquarters. We plotted how to make women miserable. We shouldn't have done that. I remember it like it was yesterday..... Why did we do that? We also planned to make everything really expensive for men too and make everything hard for men too. Why the fuck did we do that???
/r/MensRights12/08/25 03:36 AM
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Ok, our move. Step 1) Don't act like actual incels (because that sucks, tbh). Step 2) Stop giving a fuck what they have to say when that comes out. It's a shame tactic. If they call you an incel, a narcissist, an abuser (when you're not) and then you stop talking, they used an emotional shame tactic to shut you up. So stop caring, and stop falling for it. Again, this is the test: Am I actually being an incel? No? This woman is just mad that I had an opinion and spoke my own thoughts and feelings…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/08/25 01:48 AM
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I make post about man unite. Man build connection with other man. Man talk, man plan. All man say I PickMe. Me try, me fail.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/08/25 11:07 PM
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So far in my friend group I have found that we are less depressed. Our mental health is better. We feel healthier. We feel better about who we are. And women actually seem to give us more attention because women like being around men who are happy, healthy, have friends, and who take care of their bodies and mental health. It's not all about who has the biggest muscles and the most money. We aren't just pack animals. We are more dynamic as human beings than that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/08/25 06:13 PM
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Well my friend, I dare to be the change I want to see in the world. I've accepted other men will ridicule me and so will other women. But I'm not going to get into violence or pathological competition just because it's the thing to do or everyone's doing it. If we want the world to change, we have to make a change. Anyone who ever changed the world experienced ridicule. Black activists faced ridicule. Women's advocates faced ridicule. Male advocates who actually want change will face ridicule to…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/08/25 06:07 PM
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Exactly. Bro is correct: women can be catty, mean girls, fake, manipulative, it can happen. But that's not all women all the time. It's an incredibly reductionist take that just isn't true in reality. There's tons of successful women out there, I mean I have an excellent doctor who helped me with a rare disease. Highly scientific lady, doesn't get into any of the catty bullshit. Literally it's like talking to a man. Don't know how else to say it. She literally only cares about science and medici…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/25 05:43 AM
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I mean hey, women actually do stuff with their friends. It's toxic sometimes yeah, but not always. They form bonds with each other and socialize frequently. They band together and form organizations and groups that help their gender. Sometimes they get vicious with each other, but not always. Sometimes they form pretty sincere friendships. I'm just saying like if we did that for men.... Maybe.....that would be a good thing for us? Or we can sit around blaming women and giving up, I mean, that's …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/25 10:34 PM
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I hear you man. So let's blame women and feminism. And say our life is incomplete without sex, we can't biologically live a fulfilling life without it, and that it's not our fault, and the feminists have to change and give us sex. Everyone's entitled to their beliefs. I hear you.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/25 10:04 PM
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Thanks brother, I appreciate it. I think when we're feeling a bit happier and healthier, and prioritizing our social health as well, we'll be feeling a lot better.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/25 07:14 PM
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No, not really. I'm living in reality by accepting that that exists, but that there's also healthy groups that don't get into that. Sitting here and believing all woman to woman interaction is toxic and no women exist who healthily interact with each other is a fantasy in itself. I really know we're in trouble in humanity when all women's rights groups think all men are toxic, and they think that's reality. And all men's rights groups think all women are toxic, and they think that's reality. We'…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/25 07:08 PM
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I don't know that saying that all of women's social interactions are crazy, and none of them are good, or healthy, is a balanced take. They're more likely to go talk to each other at least. And keep in touch and reach out to each other.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/25 05:27 PM
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We have to improve our own mental health and support each other before expecting women to fix that for us. It's good to cross lines and for us to spend time with each other. But we aren't spending enough time with ourselves and forming support and relationships among our own gender. And you have to feel secure in yourself without intimacy and sex from the opposite gender. That's not going to fix everything my man.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/25 05:14 PM
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Yeah but as I said elsewhere, it's important not to embody a victim mentality. The feminists who believe patriarchy is everywhere, at the store, under the bed, in the sky, in their mind, are in a victim mentality to some degree. It makes a person afraid of everything and weakens them to the power that they believe is unstoppable. And they can't see rationale. They also sit there waiting for the other side to change and then their life falls apart. It's important we don't do the same. And keep a …
/r/MensRights29/07/25 04:27 PM
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No I really don't want to get into a long drawn out Reddit argument. A lot of people are not fans of feminism. I hear those voices on social media every day and I surely get where they are coming from. A lot of the world is not happy with it, it's really as simple as that. And I think their voice is valid.
/r/MensRights28/07/25 11:34 PM
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Exactly. 100%. And that's why we've gotta change that and be there for each other. We can't change it unless we do it. I know we're uncomfortable with it but truly it is the answer.
/r/MensRights28/07/25 10:11 PM
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It is and yet there's a lot of backlash for it. No, I'm just saying what I see and it's not delusion. I'm sorry if you can't see it.
/r/MensRights28/07/25 06:28 PM
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Don't let people convince you that you are garbage. I want to let you know brother that you have a value that is not determined by what people say about you or what people say about men online. That's their pain. Don't take it and let it define you. I get it. It hurts. But you have a value that is determined more by who you are, even if not everyone understands it. People can say terrible things but I hope that you can remember that what they say doesn't determine your value. They want you to fe…
/r/MensRights28/07/25 05:54 PM
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That's a fair point. Like technically and personally, I would probably support both.
/r/MensRights28/07/25 05:46 PM
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And we've gotta change that. It's up to us. We've gotta be there for each other and break the cycle. We need each other. We just have to get more comfortable with being supportive of each other because it's the best support we have.
/r/MensRights28/07/25 05:44 PM
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And that's why in men's spaces the best thing we need to do for each other is to meet each other with support and empathy. Because if women aren't going to be supportive and if even other men are sometimes going to shame men, we should at least do our best to support each other when it's needed. It's the best thing you can do for your fellow man is to be there for him. Honestly to hold space. There should be somewhere where a guy should feel safe and we should be there for each other. I try my b…
/r/MensRights28/07/25 05:42 PM
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And we should keep it that way. Let them be the leading speakers of hate speech. So far that's a success and we've shown, that we can be better. Let's let them keep that because so far we are therefore not the leading speakers of hate-speech and that's a success. Maybe they choose to be that way and obviously it shows who they are.
/r/MensRights28/07/25 05:38 PM
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Because tearing the opposite gender apart isn't progress. It just creates extremists on the other side. Personally I'm in men's spaces to build men up. To help my fellow men feel good about themselves, gain confidence and be healthy and find stability and success. I gain nothing from criticizing women in a juvenile way other than hurting the men's movements. People don't realize how much it hurts the movement. When feminists sit around and make fun of men, it hurts feminism. They lose support. W…
/r/MensRights28/07/25 05:36 PM
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Thank you for your support. I agree. As long as it doesn't veer into hate or violence, we are allowed to voice our thoughts and feelings the same as women are. It's valid.
/r/MensRights28/07/25 05:28 PM
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We will fight the good fight the best we can. I am a very busy guy with work and daily medical treatment after work at the moment, but I try to contribute what I can, when I can.
/r/MensRights03/10/23 06:34 PM
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There are men out there who loved their fellow men. It changed men's lives. Stopped them from suicide. Made them feel inspired enough to get out of depression, go find and reach for their dreams. To keep trying. To feel good. I have had one or two loving men (platonically of course, I am of course not talking about romantic love, I am heterosexual myself) who man to man, changed my life. I didn't even know men could be this good to other men. They were older, wiser men looking out for a younger …
/r/MensRights03/10/23 04:53 AM
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100% yes, this is exactly the kind of stuff that I think it would be good to get behind and I myself would want to support. If I one day ever became successful enough to do philanthropy, I would even consider starting one of these organizations. But if not, I would absolutely consider taking part in a smaller way. Yes the day to day is super important too. When I see a guy just really struggling and I have the opportunity, if I can I try to just do a little something. I'm definitely not perfect …
/r/MensRights03/10/23 04:42 AM
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This was probably a much better thing for young men to have male role models. I had barely any male teachers all through school. It's a shame.
/r/MensRights02/10/23 03:34 PM
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I disagree with a number of feminist talking points. But I'm here to talk about us and myself. Trying to get the world to change and everyone else to change without first changing ourselves is mostly an impossibility. I'm asking what we can do for ourselves and each other. How we can look out for what we actually have the ability to change in our own lives. Everyone is responsible for how they respond to what happens in their life. The difference is, feminists will take everything bad that happe…
/r/MensRights02/10/23 03:29 PM
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Hell yeah.
/r/MensRights02/10/23 03:19 PM
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For sure, thank you for the comment. I think we as men often forget that we are not machines, we are people and need rest, we need to refill their tank frequently. Taking care of the body or self is a bit foreign for guys. But I think men also take it as an insult or an attack or a blame. I'm not blaming or pointing fingers here with this, if at all I'm perhaps holding ourselves accountable, maybe. It's more inspirational, I would hope. It's an open freaking door, really. You get to do all this …
/r/MensRights02/10/23 03:14 PM
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Absolutely, you can ask me here, or feel free to PM me.
/r/MensRights02/10/23 03:18 AM
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I think we also have to take accountability for ourselves and not play the victim every chance we have the opportunity. That might be the popular thing to do, but I don't believe it's right, or productive for ourselves or others.
/r/MensRights02/10/23 03:15 AM
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Thank you, and same, good luck on yours as well!
/r/MensRights02/10/23 01:31 AM
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I definitely respect where you're coming from. It's about the real meaning of something (like a vehicle), not the external stuff that's just there for showing off.
/r/MensRights02/10/23 01:13 AM
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I'm sorry for not considering all viewpoints. If I'm fully honest, I'm unemployed right now. I don't have a lot of money just yet. Most of my money goes to medical bills, at least for right now. These are just dreams that I would think to work towards. I like to dream big. I just wanted to be inspiring. But I know everyone's situation is different, especially depending on the country they live in. I know those kinds of goals may not be realistic for everyone. I'm sorry if I was putting forth stu…
/r/MensRights02/10/23 01:11 AM
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Wow really appreciate this comment. Yes I'm also a little bit of a car guy. Men see themselves as Toyotas, they think there are better places than themselves to put their efforts. Women think they are worth it, so they invest heavily in themselves. This is a powerful statement. You may have to be a car guy to really really get it. My first thought is, perhaps with men dying so much younger than women, and with so much of a higher suicide rate, we need to be investing more in ourselves and in our…
/r/MensRights02/10/23 12:56 AM
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then a funny thing happens, you look down the road past middle age and realize it’s all a bunch of bullshit and realize that kindness, companionship and where your soul is at is all that matters because you have a very limited amount of time left 100%. This is something that hits all of us eventually. Thank you so much for mentioning this. I go to the gym, work on my wardrobe, and try to better myself but not really to compete. Maybe I should be putting less emphasis on my wardrobe. I do it just…
/r/MensRights02/10/23 12:23 AM
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Well, right now I am single, at the gym three times a week, and am working on my grooming habits and wardrobe. I try to walk the walk and be authentic about the things I talk about. But I don't want to do any of this for women. I feel ok being solitary right now. I also have no problem with people who have different goals that aren't based on physical fitness or the like. My hope is that if I am doing well and in a solid place in life, hopefully I can be there, in some way, for my fellow man. It…
/r/MensRights02/10/23 12:14 AM
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For sure, I absolutely agree. I guess what I'm putting forth is, what if we forget about the relationship or the women out there for a moment. If we wanna get fit, maybe we go for it and get fit. If we want to enjoy junk food and delicious food, maybe we enjoy all that food. If we want to climb a mountain, or run a marathon, we do it. If we want to start a company, we do it. If we want to retire early to travel the world, we could work towards that. But why do it for anyone else? Why care about …
/r/MensRights02/10/23 12:12 AM
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Well, I appreciate the humility.
/r/MensRights01/10/23 11:52 PM
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Yes. I have not lived my life as a woman. A woman has not lived their life as a man. Why should it be up to the opposite gender to define something that really isn't theirs? Feminism has made it clear that men do not get to define women. I would agree that that is fair. But the opposite is absolutely true. We get to write our own definition. But gender aside, yeah. You get to decide who you want to be. If you are a man, that's the kind of man you decided to be. Hopefully it's a good definition, …
/r/MensRights01/10/23 11:25 PM
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I can appreciate that, my hats off to you for just being you, for you. I see that as a true form of self-respect.
/r/MensRights01/10/23 11:21 PM
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I agree. IMO a woman who's there just for the money, or free housing, or access to your paycheck is equivalent to a man who's there just for the sex. It's a transaction, not a connected, loving relationship.
/r/MensRights01/10/23 11:16 PM
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I question whether this competitive nature is leading to our collective downfall, rather than our collective success and full potential. I don't deny that it is innate and biological. But I also know that human beings evolve over time, and change with the world. We never stay the same.
/r/MensRights01/10/23 11:15 PM
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I guess it really depends on the men. I do want to attain a good level of physical fitness, of lot of my fellow men I see at the gym do too. I also like fashion and know a lot of men who do too. But I also totally respect anyone who doesn't prioritize that either and puts their focus on other things that are more important to them. Everyone has their own things that they want to focus on. I guess I just wonder if we could be doing better overall in terms of masculine success as a whole, and am q…
/r/MensRights01/10/23 11:13 PM
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I don’t dress or buy cars to impress women. I buy vehicles that function for my needs. Same. It just seems like a waste to put someone else first who I don't even know yet. Once they enter my life, I would adjust accordingly, but until then...I mean do I really want to be with someone who judges me wholly by my car? One they might not drive themselves? I definitely get where you are coming from.
/r/MensRights01/10/23 10:48 PM
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100%. You define the man you are. And men collectively get to define what men are. But they also don't define the specific man that you are. You get to do that. Women get to define what women are. But they do not get to define masculinity. If someone tries to tell you what kind of "man" you are, or how you are or aren't the right kind of man, just remember that they are confused. That's not how it works! Every day that you wake up and make your own choices, and live the way you live, you are wri…
/r/MensRights01/10/23 09:46 PM
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I 100% agree, though many things that are in human nature we use our higher mind to control. It's in our biology to do a lot of things, and yet, we have to control that and do differently in many situations. Like, if you're really angry at someone, you might want to punch them. That's programmed evolutionary biology. But let's say it's happening at the airport. Our pre-frontal cortex gives us the option of saying "I feel the strong urge to do this, but it's not the smartest decision.". Due to th…
/r/MensRights01/10/23 09:34 PM
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There's psychology behind this and it has been studied. It is called the Women are Wonderful Effect. Basically, human beings have a huge psychological bias and believe that women do only good things and men do only bad things. It creates enormous prejudice and destruction in this world. We need to let men know that they are not these evil creatures and that they are capable of good and wonderful actions. And also, women who actually do terrible things are guilty and need to be held accountable f…
/r/MensRights01/10/23 09:22 PM
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We should show people that we are worth something. And that we aren't just something to use and throw out. Lots of ways we can do this...but one example is not offering free help anymore for those who you know won't value it. A lot of people rely on a random guy to help in a lot of situations...could be lifting something, opening a door, tbh squishing a spider. Could be someone broken down on the side of the road or someone who needs help with their car. I'm all for helping people, but when that…
/r/MensRights16/09/23 06:58 PM
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We've gotta start helping each other out. A lot of us learned this from our fathers and our peers. It had its purpose in the old world, men needed to work a hard job like putting together a railroad for months on end with few breaks. Or they needed to go to war in horrible conditions and never give up. The body gives up eventually though, with PTSD in the case of war. We aren't machines. Or animals. And the world has changed a lot. You have men breaking down internally trying to be a machine or …
/r/MensRights16/09/23 06:39 PM
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We can post things that make women uncomfortable. I am for posting things that make other uncomfortable, of course. But if it is the only thing we post, we won't have as much merit to stand on. I just think we really need a balance.
/r/MensRights16/09/23 12:35 PM
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I don't know that the right to talk shit about another gender is really what we should be fighting for. It's really a lame cause that isn't worth backing up if that's the case. In a perfect world, yes, we both would have fully equal rights to speak out negatively about the other gender. But the world is not perfect. If women want to act that way I don't condone it. They should be better. It's a bad look and it isn't gaining them followers, it has garnered a lot of opposition to feminism. It wasn…
/r/MensRights16/09/23 02:48 AM
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It is a problem that we would be smart to work on, because I do believe mens' advocacy is in trouble. We don't get anywhere by hating women. We get somewhere far by loving men. Loving ourselves, loving our brothers, and being the greatest men we can be. People get uncomfortable with the word "love". They think it means romance. Outside of romance, love just means you think something is insanely awesome and you have the greatest respect for it.
/r/MensRights15/09/23 09:53 PM
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We live in a world with 8 billion people, soon to be 9 billion. It's ok if a few of us choose not to have children. It's ok if a lot of us choose to have children too. There are parents out there who regret having children, but it is not often talked about because it is deemed unacceptable to say. There's also beautiful marriages out there with beautiful children that make up a wonderful family unit. Some people are truly happier with children, some are truly happier without. It is not a sin, so…
/r/MensRights15/09/23 09:32 PM
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I guess I'm really commenting on MGTOW. If you go down the path of MGTOW, but you don't forget about women, did you go your own way? How can you go your own way but also go back into a relationship/marriage or even hookups? We can still socialize entirely. With men. With women. I'm just saying that an integral part of what MGTOW was trying to do was to give up romance with women to gain part of themselves back. And a lot of people were not willing or able to give that up.
/r/MensRights15/09/23 09:13 PM
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I'm so sorry about what is going on in your world. I offer empathy from human to human, the sides of the war do not matter to me in this regard. Your world is being shaken up and that is hard. I'm so glad someone wrote you and you felt better. It always feels good when a woman lifts your spirits too (if you like women) or even if you don't. For me, it just feels good to know someone who is a woman cares. I don't care about the romantic aspect at all. I write you really for the same reason, just …
/r/MensRights15/09/23 07:58 PM
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It often takes a lot of time for psychiatric medications to be figured out. One medication may do nothing and another may help immensely. This can take a few tries and it can feel hopeless for periods. Is it possible that with further appointments, and potential dosage/medication changes, you may notice a change and even lose suicidal thoughts with a different regimen? And perhaps the situation may change over time, even the legal aspects. When is your next appointment with your doctor?
/r/MensRights15/09/23 07:01 PM
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If we want mens' rights to be taken seriously, we need to start acting seriously. Men Going Their Own Way was supposed to be about going our own way. Actually forgetting about women and finding happiness. But it didn't forget about women and wasn't full of posts about happiness. It didn't mostly emphasize moving on, or reaching goals. It didn't go seek self-fullfilment and success. It sat right outside women's circle of influence, constantly thinking about them, and constantly complaining about …
/r/MensRights15/09/23 06:41 PM
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Please my friend, just wait for a moment and recognize that you are feeling very deep and real things right now, but they may not always be this way. Being 22 is a very hard age, especially with potential military conscription. Do you currently see a psychiatrist?
/r/MensRights15/09/23 06:20 PM
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This is exactly why we need to stop trying to be what women want us to be. It's not their decision. They do not get to define masculinity. It doesn't belong to them. It's ours. If they want to enter into masculinity and take a walk in our shoes for ten years, then they have the right to create a definition. They may not be happy about that, but then I guess they won't be happy. My job on this earth is not to make all women happy. They are strong and independent, so they can create their own happ…
/r/MensRights21/08/23 08:18 PM
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100%. And we should try to be here for our brothers. Many women don't give a fuck, but we should care about us. It doesn't hurt to hug your fellow man on a day that's just too hard. And it does not make anyone gay (unless you're already gay). On a day when a man lost his dog, or lost his children, or maybe is grieving his lost brothers from combat as a civilian...it could be anything...a hug from his fellow man could be the best he is going to get and the best his fellow man has to offer. But it…
/r/MensRights21/08/23 08:13 PM
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My brother, I am saying we need to relax, take a break, and be diligent in taking care of ourselves. Being a man used to mean taking care of everyone else at your own expense, spending your body, your money, your time, and your life, to provide. In a world where women are graduating college at a higher rate than men and make their own money, we can no longer allow ourselves to be their ATM. We need to take care of ourselves first and foremost, and perhaps look out for our fellow brothers too. Ma…
/r/MensRights21/08/23 04:48 AM
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110%. When you make yourself and your space into something nice, you open the door for more people to come into your life. And when you are treating yourself well, you will feel better, not like shit. And you will feel like talking to people. You'll be more interesting, more fun, less depressed. People will flock to you when you become someone you really like to see in the mirror. You will be less lonely.
/r/MensRights20/08/23 05:32 PM
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It has in fact gotten to the point where they do want us to kill ourselves. They actually do. There is zero empathy. They want it to happen. No exaggeration. No exaggeration involved. They believe the earth would be a better place if we were all dead. We are useless and only harmful in their eyes.
/r/MensRights20/08/23 05:07 AM
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Until they figure it out, there's only one thing to do: Stay away from women. The pussy isn't worth it. 20 minutes of fun for a lifetime of slavery? No, don't do it! Run, don't walk, away from women who don't care about you and the system that works for them, not you.
/r/MensRights20/08/23 04:55 AM
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Test is $300-$500. Lawyer may be anywhere from $1000-$5000, I would think.
/r/MensRights20/08/23 04:42 AM
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Stay away from women. Best advice you will get all year. Don't go within 100ft of them. You will avoid risking the loss of everything in a legal system that may incriminate you for things that aren't even crimes. I'll say it again: The Pussy Isn't Worth It.
/r/MensRights18/08/23 07:00 AM
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It was a patriarchy. No doubt. In the early 1800s there were no alimony laws. Don't like your woman? Kick her out, call her a wench, she'll be poor, on the streets, in a week. Back then, men did in fact have all the power. Women were not allowed to speak out of turn. Things have changed drastically. Women are now graduating college at higher rates than men. They are making the big bucks. The only ones who won't accept this are the non-industrious women who can't figure out how to make money for …
/r/MensRights18/08/23 06:48 AM
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Women are comfortable around feminine men. They feel safe around feminine men. They feel like they can share stories, perhaps emotions, and gossip with feminine men. They even try to date them and see what happens. But when the pressure is on, she wants him to stand up to someone for her, go outside and check on a noise at 3AM, or fix the toilet because it won't flush, she often finds the "ick" (as the girls are calling it now) pretty quickly from a feminine man, and disappointment sets in. It s…
/r/MensRights18/08/23 04:42 AM
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Thank you so much for reading and caring, it means so much to us all. May men and women find peace in this world.
/r/MensRights16/08/23 07:51 PM
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For sure. I mean, if men and women are equal, and can be independent and do everything.....then be independent and do everything. Why would you need someone else to pay for you, right? A few years of payment could be reasonable...after that...you're not a baby, you're an adult. If you are disabled, get on disability. Beyond that....time to grow up and sustain yourself. Women being weak and poor is a thing of the past, they make really good money now.
/r/MensRights15/08/23 09:49 PM
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You do the best you can. Personally, I don't know about MGTOW as a movement, but would I rather force myself into a relationship where I will be used, abused, looked down upon, and treated poorly? Or stand alone? Be selective and respect yourself. Do not settle for the first woman who walks up to you. And above all: ONLY select someone you can trust not to hurt you. If you find someone who respects you as a human being, excellent. If not, then there is more to life than marrying and women. Find …
/r/MensRights15/08/23 07:58 PM
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For sure. You just gotta remember, there's always some other guy out there who is also bored and wants to go do something. You just gotta find them. They are sitting at home right now wanting to go do something. Even just get food or do the mall. You gotta take a few Ls and filter through the people who you don't like sometimes, it's a process. But when you find it, it's golden. People are always changing, and looking for friends. Everyone is.
/r/MensRights14/08/23 08:34 PM
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Honestly, guy is an idiot lol. Horrible situation, but that's a little bit of darwinism right there. If you give someone your sperm in a turkey baster or a vial from home...you're the father bro.
/r/MensRights14/08/23 04:35 PM
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That is a really sweet story. Appreciation and love from man to man is a beautiful thing.
/r/MensRights14/08/23 04:31 PM
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Check your state law, quick two minute google. Rare, doesn't hold up in most places.
/r/MensRights14/08/23 04:26 PM
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Many women are out to destroy you. No dramatization. They just kind of want revenge. Stay away from them. Protect yourself. Why seek out someone who is going to hurt you? They're going to legalize sex robots within the next ten years at robot sex brothels, no doubt, who have perfect skin, 100% hermetic sanitization, and your choice of personality. Money much better spent. Because you won't get treated like shit. It seems fun getting to have sex with someone who is young and pretty, but it's a po…
/r/MensRights14/08/23 04:24 PM
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Same. There can of course be genuine transgender people, but when a guy who isn't and is just a creeper figures out he can use the law to his advantage and go in the opposite bathroom whenever he wants to look at women or record them going to the bathroom or whatever sick stuff, that's really not fair to women. Especially young women, when you have, say, a 40 year old man who isn't really transgender, but will get away with this in their bathroom because the law protects him. And who else is goi…
/r/MensRights14/08/23 04:19 PM
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That's really unfortunate. Life shouldn't be like that. As a young millennial almost Z, most of the best times in my life were times exclusively with my male friends. We laughed our asses off. We got in a little bit of trouble. Nothing too crazy. We explored our town and area and things together, tried different events and things. We talked about our problems. We joked. We helped esch other figure stuff out. Played poker. Watched movies. Made a fire pit in the backyard. Went swimming. Went to am…
/r/MensRights14/08/23 04:05 PM
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Not everyone has fucked up just yet. If you are reading this now and you aren't making child support or alimony payments, and you still have life left, this is your sign. Stop chasing it. Start chasing something worthwhile. It's a siren song. Even if you have made mistakes, there is still empty space of opportunity with which to do something with your life.
/r/MensRights14/08/23 03:47 PM
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And that is the key. You have to not want sex. The lifetimes of pain and suffering that men will put themselves through for 20 minutes of pleasure is insane. They are doing themselves a disservice of a lifetime. It simply isn't worth it, and there are much better things in life to be pursuing beyond chasing these women.
/r/MensRights14/08/23 06:22 AM
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On the contrary, I found it hard at first, but I actually think it opened some doors for us. Obviously the movie was entirely feminist, of course. It's Barbie, the girliest of girl toys, the girliest of girl movies. Women saw Barbie as a girls utopia, as, unlike GI Joe, it was a beloved toy for women that spanned generations. So it makes sense. In the imaginary Barbie world, of course women would run everything. Barbie realizes that the real world is not the Barbie world (which is a fantasy). Sh…
/r/MensRights14/08/23 12:55 AM
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Under a Matriarchy, there would be fairly passive-aggressive wars over incredibly petty things. That's not a cheap insult thrown in spite, it's a reality that would occur under a world run by two X Chromosomes.
/r/MensRights14/08/23 12:23 AM
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And we need to stay away from hurt people who are out to hurt us. I'll fully stand up for fellow men specifically here for a moment: we need to protect ourselves. Women do it. They are very selective about who they allow into their home/apartment, or into their pants. That's a good thing. You want to be treated good, right? And stay away from someone who will make your life a living hell because they are unbalanced and don't have it together and don't know how to function/treat people? Men need …
/r/MensRights09/08/23 05:59 PM
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100%. Absolutely. But I am a firm believer that you have to put your own oxygen mask on first, or you'll pass out trying to put a mask on the second person. If you've got your mask on, you could help five people. Once you have stability, you can share what you have with others. If you have no money, no housing, no emotional stability, nothing to give, you are in need, and will be likely to take from others because you are needing so you can survive. You'll be hungry, in need of money, etc. If yo…
/r/MensRights08/08/23 09:42 PM
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It starts with improving ourselves. Difficult truth for everyone (going to stir the pot here): MANY of the bitchiest loneliest insufferable women, the edgiest most poor-hygiene low-achieving men, are out to get the opposite gender for one of two reasons: -1) They are lonely/hurting and it is due to their own conditions that they have created, or in some cases due to conditions that happened to them (a tragedy, life-changing disability, loss, etc) or a combination thereof that they cannot seem to…
/r/MensRights08/08/23 07:47 PM
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