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Why are usernames like this allowed, and why would you call yourself this?

GrandyRetroCandy

December 15, 2025
24 upvotes
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Title Why are usernames like this allowed, and why would you call yourself this?
Author

GrandyRetroCandy

Upvotes 24
Comments 12
Date December 15, 2025 4:48 PM UTC
(8 months ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/1pnca7n/why_are_usernames_like_this_allowed_and_why_would/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/why-are-usernames-like-this-allowed-and-why-would.1568928
https://theredarchive.com/post/1568928
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Comments

[–]MensRights-ModTeam[M] [score hidden] 8 months ago stickied commentlocked comment (0 children) | Copy Link

Your post was removed due to rule 6:

Personal information posted directly to Reddit about a person or user will be removed. Submissions about Facebook pages or Twitter must be screenshotted with names blanked out. Reddit has a zero-tolerance policy for doxxing. Any posts or comments that attempt to identify an anonymous person, or solicit such identification, will be removed. In addition, users may be banned.

[–]Yuppiesgotohell 5 points6 points7 points 8 months ago (0 children) | Copy Link

tbh I definitely believed my username would get rejected, I wouldn't have used it if i knew it would actually go through. but that one is definitely way worse than mine.

[+]SidewaysGiraffe -26 points-25 points-24 points 8 months ago (10 children) | Copy Link

  1. Because free expression is the foundational bedrock of a civilized society.
  2. Because you're a sexist shithead.

Any other questions?

[–]GrandyRetroCandy[S] 13 points14 points15 points 8 months ago (4 children) | Copy Link

So I've reported this comment, because it breaks the rules of this sub. 

No, I actually don't hate women.  I would never say that we should "abort all women".  

I was calling out something that is literal hate speech, because it talks about aborting children based on identity/gender.  That's not ok. 

Do you support that?

[–]BottleNosedDachshund 4 points5 points6 points 8 months ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I assumed it was a typo and “you’re” was written by accident instead of “they’re”. Because that username is f-ing disgusting.

[–]GrandyRetroCandy[S] 2 points3 points4 points 8 months ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Thank you.  

[–]SidewaysGiraffe 0 points1 point2 points 8 months ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Well, thank you for actually giving an explanation, since that's more than anyone else has done, but what makes you think I accused you of "hating all women"? Did- oh. Oh, for fuck's sake, did none of you READ THE POST I WAS RESPONDING TO?

"Why are usernames like this allowed and why would YOU".

YOU.

I was answering the question in the way it was phrased, and at least twenty seven people here had their heads so far up their asses that they couldn't be bothered to spare a moment to READ THE DAMNED POST.

No, my comment did not "break the rules of this sub"; it was calling out bigotry as bigotry (and shitheadedness). You were questioning why something you find objectionable would be allowed, and the answer, as I said, is that civilization depends on people being allowed to express unpopular ideas, no matter how much we may revile them.

Yes, it is absolutely okay to call for aborting children based on their physical characteristics. That's the price of free speech; that you sometimes find horrible ideas expressed openly and without reservation. Is the idea reprehensible and morally disgusting? Absolutely. But not nearly as much as having every view that dissents from the zeitgeist silenced.

Have you people learned ANYTHING from history?

[–]GrandyRetroCandy[S] 0 points1 point2 points 8 months ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes, it is absolutely okay to call for aborting children based on their physical characteristics.

Well, you said it. 

I am for free speech.  But that doesn't mean that people don't get to react to it.  

I don't believe in doxxing people, going to their house and harassing them, or even getting them fired.  

I believe people can change and learn.  

But probably, having equal rules on a platform might be the right idea.  

No one should have a username that says "Kill All [person's identity]".  

Like, we could allow that person to revise their username.  We don't have to cancel them or fire them or ruin their life.  I don't believe in that.  People can change and learn.  

Anyway, aside from that, I don't know that saying we shouldn't abort or kill based on identity is bigotry.  But you're entitled to your opinion, if that's you're definition.  I understand.  

[–]MtzSquatchActual 1 point2 points3 points 8 months ago (1 child) | Copy Link

ACHTUNG, ACHTUNG! The above is a bad faith actor here and in P.P.D.!

[–]SidewaysGiraffe 0 points1 point2 points 8 months ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Nein, dummkopf. Wrong on both counts.

[–]SnooOpinions5944 2 points3 points4 points 8 months ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Shut up

[–]SidewaysGiraffe -1 points0 points1 point 8 months ago (1 child) | Copy Link

No. The question was asked. I answered it, and honestly.

Now, I understand that the zeitgeist around here is depressingly hive-minded, but I'm surprised by the downvotes. Which assertion bothers people so much?

Is that it's more important that unpopular ideas being expressed is critical to civilization, which really should be taken as a given, what with the unpopularity of speaking out on men's issues and the frequent censorship we've seen, or that calling for the pre-emptive murder of an entire gender is sexist and shit-headed, which should be taken as a given anywhere?

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