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Completely depends on exactly what was said
/r/askTRP28/01/19 12:09 PM
6

Would upvote this 100 times if I could. Fucking dying.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 03:20 AM
2

Not sure if it’s been said already but prepare for the shit storm coming your way. I suggest somehow getting some texts out of her that say she consented to sex. Because any moment now I reckon there’s gonna be false rape accusations flying at at ya.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 03:18 AM
24

Hard next
/r/askTRP19/01/19 12:45 PM
1

Find something more productive too do with your time. I work two jobs. Hit the gym as much as possible. And do all I can to manage my finances. I aim too save £2000 a month at the moment. That’s more than my main income. I want too get a mortgage in the next 12 months. I then want too get 2 lodgers and pay my mortgage off as quickly as possible. Why? Because I don’t wanna get old, be skint and have too keep working into old age. Set meaningful goals (the hardest part is working out what they are…
/r/askTRP13/01/19 01:20 PM
12

Yes and no. I’m happy I now know the truth and see things for what they are. I wish things weren’t the way they are. But I’ve seen it now. No going back.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 06:49 AM
1

Yeh your right. Much better to ask on here.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 02:19 PM
-3

Stop being a retard. Ask her what she means ffs.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 01:16 PM
1

No you absolutely shouldn’t go there. I did, 3 years later I walked away an absolute wreck. 18 months after that and I’m a better man than I’ve ever been. So kinda worked out to be fair.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 04:35 PM
2

You want to explain why you were acting like a bitch?? Seriously... this is acting like a bitch.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 04:29 PM
1

I try not too be these days. Chasing happiness is unhealthy.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 02:26 PM
1

go and get a job.
/r/askTRP01/01/19 02:02 PM
1

I really don’t get angry. I just don’t see the point. Imo people get angry when they loose control of a situation. Don’t waste energy getting angry. Use your energy to come up with a solution.
/r/askTRP16/12/18 12:48 PM
1

Used too all the time without realising it. Now I’m aware of it I still do but can control it and concentrate on what’s more important.
/r/askTRP16/12/18 12:45 PM
1

Life is about survival. Pretty much it.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 01:44 PM
1

No you don’t. You think you do. You read but don’t act. And without acting you don’t actually know shit, soz x
/r/askTRP15/12/18 12:05 AM
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Yeh your fucked. Might aswell accept that your life is permanently fucked. Seriously stop worrying about things you can’t change.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 09:48 PM
1

Personally I wrap it every time now. When done I take it straight too the sink and wash it out. Paranoid? Me? Yep!
/r/askTRP14/12/18 02:13 PM
1

Just fuck her. Then you’ll realise a lot. Losing your virginity isn’t a big deal. People make it out to be special. It’s not. It’s arwkward as fuck.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 01:07 PM
1

This is autistic
/r/askTRP14/12/18 01:03 PM
1

20-30 mins preferably less.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 12:58 PM
2

Massive red flag for me
/r/askTRP14/12/18 12:53 PM
1

“Young enough too be your toy boy”
/r/askTRP14/12/18 12:51 PM
0

With that kinda outlook you loose
/r/askTRP13/12/18 04:51 PM
1

Go straight in. Don’t fuck about talking shit. She already knows your gonna ask her out. Just do it.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 04:36 PM
1

She’s a cunt. Next.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 04:33 PM
3

Ask for her number so you can sell her new windows? No, ask for her number so you can grab a drink. Stop fearing rejection. Stop fearing looking like an idiot. Stop thinking. Just ask.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 04:24 PM
1

Personally I don’t care about any of that. As long as I live a stress free life and don’t have too constantly worry about stuff I’m good. My main aims currently are to remain debt free and buy my own property. Once I’ve done that I’ll be pretty content. If I meet someone and have kids great, but I’m not sacrificing myself too get that. Imo people rely on other people for their happiness where they should be concentrating on themselves and their “survival” first.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 04:17 PM
1

Why do you want recognition?
/r/askTRP13/12/18 04:03 PM
1

I don’t believe in the top 5-10% thing. I’m not in that range imo. But can still get laid easy enough without putting in much effort. But yeh it is pretty shit. When I first began to think like this it got me really down. But it is the way it is. Now I think it’s sad that people see no point in life when you take women out of the equation.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 02:28 PM
3

Yeh I agree with him. For me marriage and kids is a fairytale these days. I won’t be going there any time soon, if ever.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 09:12 AM
1

Start texting her for logistics of meeting only. Stop validating her. She’ll either meet or she won’t.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 06:31 PM
5

This is why cold approach works. Because 90% of people are too pussy.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 06:24 PM
3

Sounds like you’ve worked him out completely. He’s angry at life and taking it out in you. Teach him red pill.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 06:22 PM
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I was joking haha. But your not ugly. You don’t lift either though. Go lift. Now.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 06:15 PM
1

Where are you gonna get this data from? Not their mouths surely?
/r/askTRP12/12/18 06:12 PM
4

Post your pic on here
/r/askTRP12/12/18 06:10 PM
1

Are you doing drugs when you go out?
/r/askTRP12/12/18 06:10 PM
2

She won’t meet you. She used a shitty excuse to get rid of you in the first place... why would she meet you? No contact. Sort your head out. Move on.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 05:42 PM
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Insert penis into vagina Thrust Make sure you don’t nut in less than 2 minutes because you’ll have a room full of people laughing at you
/r/askTRP12/12/18 08:31 AM
1

Read up on npd, bpd and professional victims of you havnt already. Not saying this is the case, only you will know that.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 06:10 PM
3

Get over her ffs
/r/askTRP11/12/18 06:07 PM
1

My own fault dude. Takes two too make a toxic relationship. I should have had the common sense too walk away a lot sooner.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 12:47 AM
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3-4 years with crazy. Teaches you a lot. Took 18 months too get myself back together afterwards.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 12:38 AM
1

Basically yes. She sees you as weak, pathetic and easy too manipulate. Sorry if that sounds harsh, but I’ve been there and that was certainly the case in my situation.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 12:29 AM
2

Rejection is not a big deal. How you react to rejection is everything.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 12:22 AM
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Get away ASAP. It’s just not worth it. Prolonged exposure to this kinda crazy will completely fuck up your head. You will never be the same again. Talking from experience. By the way bdp women pick partners for a reason. She picked you for a reason.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 12:11 AM
1

Do you own your apartment?
/r/askTRP11/12/18 12:04 AM
1

Need more information. How do you know her? How long for? Banged yet? If this is a tinder thing please don’t tell me. I’ll find out where you live and come round and laugh at you for the rest of your life.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 11:46 PM
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Human nature. Don’t blame yourself.
/r/askTRP09/12/18 06:08 AM
1

Why were you “unaccounted for” Quite honesty it sounds like you’ve been taking the piss.
/r/askTRP09/12/18 06:04 AM
1

It’s a shit example. Using agree and amplify in this situation is unneeded and retarded.
/r/askTRP09/12/18 05:32 AM
1

This is stupid.
/r/askTRP09/12/18 03:29 AM
1

Because you can’t argue with someone that’s agreeing with you.
/r/askTRP09/12/18 03:27 AM
1

Next. Nothing else to think about here. Love the “my ex popped round” bit though. Well played.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 02:17 PM
1

Lead by example
/r/askTRP03/12/18 02:14 PM
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Shutting your mouth is almost certainly the way forward mate. Good luck.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 02:11 PM
4

Naaa man I just stuff it all in my bra
/r/askTRP03/12/18 02:07 PM
1

And research holding frame
/r/askTRP03/12/18 02:06 PM
3

I retract my advice. You should seek professional help.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 02:05 PM
3

Your trying too hard. Stop being a beta with nothing better too do in life than chase pussy. The more you try the more you fail and you clearly don’t deal with rejection very well, therefore you come away feeling worse each time. Tdlr: hello beta
/r/askTRP03/12/18 01:45 PM
2

A girl is just a guy without a penis. They’re not special, they’re not better than you, they’re not scary. Stop thinking they are.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 08:16 AM
3

A picture of what?
/r/askTRP30/11/18 04:55 PM
1

Personally I’d ghost her. But if your intent on smashing don’t text her the answer. tell her too come over so you can explain the answer properly.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 04:14 PM
1

Might seem like an odd question but why did you fly back too the U.s? We’re you in touch with her before you went back?
/r/askTRP30/11/18 01:27 PM
2

2-3 months. Lost a shit load of weight. Confidence grew massively. Still wasn’t in fantastic shape by any means. But I made up for that with my new found confidence.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 03:06 AM
2

Count yourself lucky. I put up with exactly that for 3 years!! Know exactly what your dealing with emotionally right now. Work on yourself. There’s always room for improvement. Look at it as a lesson learnt. Give it time. You can’t get over it instantly. I’m sure right now it’s the only thing you think about and you think it’ll be that way forever but it won’t. Go absolute zero contact. Block on everything. Give it time.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 01:22 PM
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FUCK WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK. FUCK the general consensus. YOU HAVE A BRAIN. LISTEN TOO IT.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 11:08 AM
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Definate next for me. I had a girl a few weeks ago send me a couple of nude pics. In one of them her hair was blonde two minutes later it was purple. So she was obviously sending me pics she’d taken for someone else. That was enough for me too next her. You your asking for advice on this and I don’t understand why. Everyone has different things they will tollerate. Some guys on here would clearly suck another guys jizz from a birds vagina so they could stick their dick in it. Don’t be that guy. …
/r/askTRP29/11/18 10:51 AM
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Mate I’d have done the same thing. I’ve got no issue with a bird I’m screwing sleeping with other people. But screwing her while looking at a load of hickey’s... too much.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 10:38 AM
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Most people in here are in no way “red pill imo” no way whatsoever. They only really come on here too find out how they can be less obviously beta.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 09:10 AM
1

You’ve blown it with your reaction. Move on.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 03:10 AM
1

It takes time bud. Took me over a year and antidepressants to feel same again.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 06:06 PM
3

The main thing you should be concentrating on after a relationship is why it happened. And I don’t mean why she is what she is but why you let the relationship carry on even though it was toxic. I was with a bod for several years. As life shattering as it was I now see it as one of the most educational and helpful periods of my life. It’s made me the person I am right now and that’s 10x better than the person I was before I met her.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 05:31 PM
1

Been there. How long since you ended it out of interest?
/r/askTRP28/11/18 05:27 PM
1

Sound like your in a similar position too me. Most will say it’s depression. I just think I’m realistic. I see most things as pointless. No drive for much at all. Used to get down about it. Now I just accept it. I concentrate on work, but the gym most days, am very mindful about what I spend money on so that I can save up and get a mortgage. Nearly everything I do is based on self improvement and independence. And while it was a hard shift from being the person I was too becoming he person I am …
/r/askTRP28/11/18 05:02 PM
3

If you can’t get an 8 your not a 7
/r/askTRP28/11/18 03:20 PM
1

I don’t care
/r/askTRP28/11/18 01:15 PM
1

You’ve only spoke too her online? If so you can’t “hard next” there’s nothing too next. You’ve never even me the girl.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 03:12 AM
1

Sounds like you havnt got time to chase women right now, and you have better things too do. Congrats. You win.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 03:11 AM
4

Your welcome to send me a pic. Just don’t be offended by honesty.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 12:27 PM
1

Imo if your not happy in yourself there’s only one thing you should be concentrating on. Mgtow (I’m fully aware it gets a lot of shit, and the mgtow reddit is full of shit) might actually be what you should be looking at right now. Concentrate on being the best version of yourself and good things will happen. Good luck with what your going through, I know it’s hard as I’ve been there myself. But trust me, you will get there eventually.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 06:58 PM
1

No one knows the answer to this but you. Personally too me it sounds very much like a position I was in a while back. Are you happy in yourself? It sounds like not. I would avoid women for a while until you are. Concentrate on yourself and improving your self esteem before trying too impress other people. If you dont think much of yourself then other won’t either.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 06:39 PM
1

Doesn’t matter. I’d just go straight in. Might fail. If it does just don’t be pussy and butthurt about it and move on.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 06:24 PM
1

Yeh but what are YOU doing to cause this
/r/askTRP25/11/18 04:53 PM
1

I don’t understand how your breaking the rules?
/r/askTRP25/11/18 03:30 PM
1

I can’t imagine your gonna raise it that much naturally
/r/askTRP23/11/18 02:03 PM
1

I find it weird how people on here think every girls been laid by 100 blokes but they can’t seem to get one into bed. I don’t honestly think most have slept with as many blokes on here think. Still think most women are whores but don’t think they put out quite as much as people here think.
/r/askTRP23/11/18 01:54 PM
1

Too early imo. If she says yes youll start worrying she’s gonna back out by sunday. Wait till Saturday.
/r/askTRP23/11/18 12:47 PM
1

Ask her too go for coffee or a drink. Come on dude. You get a yes or a no. Be a man and bloody ask.
/r/askTRP23/11/18 12:42 PM
1

I’m sorry but I disagree. Your looking for validation from women. your checking your phone constantly because you NEED them too text you. That’s not solid. It’s destructive and can cause you a whole world of problems. Read up on low self esteem and possibly even co-dependency and see if it rings any bells. I’ve been in your exact same position. It sucks. And the only way too fix it is too look at your weaknesses.
/r/askTRP23/11/18 12:01 PM
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Sounds like low self esteem and that you think nailing women makes you a better person. It doesn’t. My advice look at things in your life you can improve. Income. Savings. Investments etc. Any thing that will improve your life and your mental health (trust me a woman will never truest help in either of these areas). Once you find things you want too improve concentrate on them rather than getting your dick wet. Spend the time between sets thinking of new things too improve, researching then and …
/r/askTRP23/11/18 10:51 AM
1

I would class myself as mgtow to a certain degree. I don’t bash women on forums, I’m not angry (I was when I first discovered it, I think most people discover it because of a toxic relationship like myself), I don’t completely hate all women, I still have sex with women and date women. I guess everyone (followers and non followers) have a different view on exactly what it means too be mgtow. I used too be pure 150% beta. I was in a relationship with a bdp/ndp girl for several years. She broke me…
/r/askTRP23/11/18 10:11 AM
1

They’re only girls. Stop putting them in a pedistall and thinking they’re better than you.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 07:03 AM
2

You get a man cave while she controls the rest of the house??? Ummm nope. Nothing.
/r/askTRP28/10/18 02:36 PM
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