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Very true
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 03:55 PM
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I do agree. But being single is hard for men as we cant have casual sex like women can when single
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 03:54 PM
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You too. If you aren’t replying then I assume you either cannot get through to me or you feel like I am right.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 03:52 PM
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Damn! 6’4 yet never had sex. You are starting to crumble my male height worship beliefs. I literally wish I was your height and have a conspiracy theory where every 6’4 man has plenty of women trying to sleep with him. Unless he is ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 03:51 PM
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Sorry I meant to say if your a man who doesn’t get pretty privilege you suffer. How is makeup going to change a mans height or make him more masculine looking?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 03:49 PM
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I would say you are an exception that is highly attractive in other areas. You likely have an attractive face, masculine face, deep voice, dominant personality
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 03:48 PM
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I am in shape already so I wouldn’t need those things. Plus women dont like muscles on an ugly guy as its seen as he is a try hard in dating and desperate. On an attractive guy the muscles compliment him. Most women would rather a skinny dude who is tall and good looking rather than a bald, muscly, short ugly dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 03:46 PM
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Maybe romantically but I am sure you wouldn’t write off a woman who is a few inches below your height requirement. Also for casual sex I am sure you are happy to have sex with short women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 03:44 PM
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The option to wear makeup is still there. Pretty privilege is true for both genders but men suffer more from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 03:43 PM
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You just proved my point. How can looks standards for casual sex be low but then you prove my point by saying you wouldn’t want to have casual sex with an unattractive man. I can reassure you plenty of women think the same as you do
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 03:42 PM
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You got me. This view I have is one that is very difficult to change as it makes sense to me and I see this play out all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 03:41 PM
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It is because talking to women will just get the unattractive man rejected. He should never use dating apps. Money will only attract women who need money from a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 03:40 PM
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For casual sex with no intention of reproduction looks and height matters so much for men still.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 03:38 PM
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I know but I am realistic and as an average man I am happy to date unattractive obese women and be considered lucky
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 03:38 PM
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Money doesn’t make a man more attractive. He might aswell just get a sugar baby or an escort with that money. Only way money can make a man more attractive is if he buys surgery with it. Plenty of men dress well, talented, are in shape, have a skincare routine yet cant get laid because they are unattractive due to their facial structure and height.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 03:30 PM
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Does anything happen on the date or is it a date then she tells you she doesn’t want a second?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 03:27 PM
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That makes the issue more valid as lots of people agree its true.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 03:27 PM
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Usually the unattractive man is paying and supporting the woman financially or he has high status. The woman has most likely had better. As for improvement cant do anything to improve our bone structure or height. Im not going for models I am happy with any woman even if 400lbs obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 03:26 PM
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True but telling unattractive men to talk to more women or get money is useless
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 03:24 PM
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This is all true
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 03:24 PM
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For men though we need to win the lottery. Women dont need to so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 03:22 PM
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Very true but I believe for women its easier to looksmax because of makeup. Also height isn’t a problem for women. It could slightly hinder some romantic interest but its not a dealbreaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 03:22 PM
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If a relationship is 50/50 I am happy. Ive talked to a few women but not too many. I have no reason to. I am unattractive looking and as an unattractive man women want nothing to do with me. If a woman was interested in me then lets hope it is sexual only.
/r/MensRights06/08/22 08:59 PM
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Women define a decent man by one who caters to their needs (a simp). I dont need their attention so its even on that argument. If not talking to a single mother makes me an asshole. I shall be an asshole. Why would I deal with a woman who made a bad decision when women without children exist. Before you say the childless women wont want me then I say fine okay still, I am not dating a single mother, who am I? Mr Government? Government always helps womens needs. Be grateful simps exist. These are…
/r/MensRights06/08/22 08:45 PM
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Being a decent man is catering to womens needs. I am happy to live my life. If women dont like my lifestyle, their problem. Im never talking to a single mother. Simps can deal with her and you should be grateful they exist.
/r/MensRights06/08/22 08:35 PM
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Men built the world. Women watched. Im glad women can live happy alone. A single mother is never a good woman.
/r/MensRights06/08/22 08:30 PM
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Im glad they are better off and that they can live happy alone without me
/r/MensRights06/08/22 08:25 PM
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That is fine. My life is better without feminist single mothers
/r/MensRights06/08/22 08:09 PM
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Feminists resent men all the time for male privilege which only applies to extremely rich men. Even then extremely rich women can benefit from this privilege so it isn’t even male privilege.
/r/MensRights06/08/22 07:02 PM
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This is new a feminist turning a blind eye to male issues. I dont need help just because I claim female privilege is real.
/r/MensRights06/08/22 04:28 PM
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How about understanding that us men aren’t privileged in society and that we live very tough lives. The men you complain about having privilege are the billionaire CEO men who control both you and I. In most cases being a woman holds a higher privilege than being a man.
/r/MensRights06/08/22 04:05 PM
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Is that all you can contribute to this discussion?
/r/MensRights06/08/22 03:58 PM
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Its never an accident on the womans part but on my part for sure I could accidentally fall into her trap.
/r/MensRights06/08/22 03:54 PM
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Yes and I will happily refuse them. The only thing I would offer is another cock carousel to experience.
/r/MensRights06/08/22 02:06 PM
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Yes it does and it has been designed that way by society’s elites to destroy the nuclear family and promote degeneracy so that men and women are easier to control. What would men fight for if we don’t father a family? Women act like they dont want marriage and are happy to sleep with attractive men all day or show their ass on onlyfans. Do you actually think this will make them unhappy? They seem pretty happy to me. Kind of pisses me off that they are dating and sleeping around while I can’t get…
/r/MensRights06/08/22 12:04 PM
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Fair enough do some women sleep with guys they just met at the club or bar?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 06:39 PM
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Yes but if you are Chad then it can be done in 10 minutes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 06:01 PM
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Although I am only average looking, i have managed to get a woman to bed after a week of knowing her. And after the first date. So it is possible but rare if average looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 05:58 PM
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A lot of women use tinder or hookup from parties. So you can absolutely be the hookup guy within 10 minutes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 05:55 PM
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The way I see it is that women have 100s if not more options when it comes to sex. So when a woman wants a hookup she will want to choose the best looking guy available
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 05:47 PM
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Understood but thats just you. I am sure many other women would do those things with the hookup guy. Plus I feel like even without those things, hookup guy is better as you get sex without commitment and the woman is madly attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 05:44 PM
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I feel like being the hookup guy is way better
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 05:40 PM
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Whys that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 05:39 PM
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Why dont you want to be seen with the hookup guys in public? What’s wrong with them? They aren’t ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 05:38 PM
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Yes I certainly have time on my side. Its not something one should rush into. I would prefer to choose sleeping with an escort than another man so I think I would try an escort first and see how that goes. Attracting women naturally seems like a very difficult feat for myself. It would be so much easier to get an escort or experiment with another man. I dont blame women or men for the current dating world. Its just an unfortunate situation where biology and internet connection has shaped todays …
/r/MensRights26/05/22 04:31 AM
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Thank you so much for your answer. It is something I will keep in mind. I do have performance anxiety so yes maybe having my first time with an escort could help. And I like your advice on taking thjngs slow. I have never felt any sexual attraction towards a man and feel 100% heterosexual but maybe its there but not revealed to me unless I find it.
/r/MensRights25/05/22 02:49 PM
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As a man who is really struggling with women to the point of breaking, I have questioned should I experiment with other men this month because this month I have had very negative thoughts. I mirror OPs way of thinking in that I hate being a man, am jealous of women and feel like I am only going to be used for my money if a woman was ever pretending to be into me. The reason why I am struggling with women is because I am too short and ugly and women care about looks because they are more shallow …
/r/MensRights24/05/22 02:57 PM
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True tbh. Who has it better the average women or an alpha male?
/r/ExRedPill09/05/22 04:33 PM
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Honestly how the fuck am I privileged if I am a male? The only thing I can think about is not being raped or abused. Other than that tho, its bloody hard out here if you aint rich or chad
/r/ExRedPill08/05/22 11:10 AM
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Have you tried hitting the gym?
/r/ExRedPill05/05/22 07:26 PM
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Remember that some women have so many options they will be picky and Choose the 6’5 chads over yhe 5’5 chads! Leaving the 6’5 normies and ugly people alone
/r/ExRedPill05/05/22 07:20 PM
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I am 20
/r/ExRedPill05/05/22 06:51 PM
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Ahhh okay I am 6’0 in shoes. I am gonna start doing stretches to see if I can grow taller. I am 20 so I think I have stopped growing unfortunately. Height may be overrated tbf. A short 5’5 Chad mogs a 6’4 incel.
/r/ExRedPill05/05/22 06:50 PM
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Fellow blackpiller here. Doing my best to recover from it but in the meantime here is my insight. You and I look fairly similar only difference is I am 5’11, clean shaven and have blue eyes. Being 6’2 is a gift that I would of wanted. I really don’t understand how you have come to the conclusion that being 6’2 is a disadvantage. Like I really don’t get it bro. Being 6’2 helps you dominate other men and women like this. Also women gleam when they hear a guy is 6’2. 5’11 isn’t too bad but ive had …
/r/ExRedPill05/05/22 06:42 PM
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Hopefully. Enjoying things together with your partner is better
/r/ExRedPill04/05/22 10:32 AM
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I have had women tell me they want 9 inches. Only one woman said I spoke to she likes 5 inches. My bad luck with the ladies is because I am not a 6’5 Chad and also because women have so many options I am just another Mr Average in a sea of them
/r/ExRedPill04/05/22 10:32 AM
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Yes occasionally a woman has sex with a man who puts no effort in luckily this is rare because men want to please their partners so she comes back. Part of the orgasm gap is caused by an insufficient dick size
/r/ExRedPill03/05/22 07:15 PM
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Not statistics but young women I talk to all have apps like Bumble, POF and Hinge I believe its called. Tinder actually doesn’t get used often by women probably because its so toxic
/r/ExRedPill03/05/22 05:19 PM
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Some women come off online dating however they still have had their ego inflated because of it aswell as some of the contacts for the hookups she may have had. Plus its likely her instagram account will get a lot of dms. Another point id like to make here is I feel like we are speaking from different generations. What you are saying might apply more to women around your age while what I am saying applies to women around age 20.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/22 01:39 PM
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It is true. I have seen good looking men with unattractive partners and not for the money at all. I personally prefer to be with women worser looking than myself. If a woman is unattractive and apparently has no options well she has me around but also plenty of other men.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/22 01:37 PM
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Good thing you say about bars. However if in a bar I consistently get no women, it shows I am unattractive. Thank you for the tongue tips. I am well shocked 9 inches is too much for most women. Big dicks always get praised. Ive heard a woman say she is a size queen and loves 10 inches.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/22 01:35 PM
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I can see that happens but most dudes wont only pick the hottest people. They will also talk to average looking women and some will even talk to attractive women. Sure most will only want sex but you still got a good 100 lads who will want a relationship with you even if unattractive. I dont think guys have high levels of self esteem to think unattractive women are lucky to have them. Only Chads think that high of the selves most average guys are simping for an unattractive woman. Also for hooku…
/r/ExRedPill03/05/22 12:06 PM
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I always see on Instagram tons of women looking their best on nights out, holidays, posh places every weekend or on weekdays. Are some of these women business women too? And are a lot of them sex workers or just women who pretend to live a rich life for the online views? Foreveralonewomen I have read and not for one second I believe any of that. They are probably butt hurt they cant get Chad. They will have plenty of normies in their dms and may get hit on in public. Only exceptions are women wh…
/r/ExRedPill03/05/22 11:27 AM
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Why is it at nightclubs and bars the men I always see doing the best with women are tall, muscly, good looking and masculine? Also just as importantly how can I learn how to use my tongue? One last thing is how are big dicks the worst? Plenty of women I have spoken to online say that around 9 inches is what they are looking for
/r/ExRedPill03/05/22 10:58 AM
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Sorry to hear that glad you are somewhat better now. I was at work today but all I could think about is blackpill thoughts. I think its very hard to escape the blackpill because there is some truth to it and also my mind is probably biased in its favour.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/22 10:55 AM
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Very true
/r/ExRedPill03/05/22 04:54 AM
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A benefit to a woman sleeping around is that she can have sex with hot men which will feel good. Also she can easily get a boyfriend
/r/ExRedPill03/05/22 04:53 AM
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More like the other way round? I thought most men wanna impress the girl not creep her out with the first message being “im horny af for you sexy”. I thought men were more intelligent than that lol. Personally my first message has always been “hey how are you”
/r/ExRedPill03/05/22 04:52 AM
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Did it ever fuck with your mental health being a virgin until 30?
/r/ExRedPill03/05/22 04:51 AM
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Thank you so much
/r/ExRedPill03/05/22 01:14 AM
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Maybe the high value men dont dm in the first place as they are busy living and spending time with girls in real life
/r/ExRedPill03/05/22 01:13 AM
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Damn I have very big respects that you never become envious of women or became a misogynist despite your situation. How the hell did you become a 30 year old virgin? Was it your looks or your personality?
/r/ExRedPill03/05/22 01:06 AM
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Ur probably saying this because your a chad yourself and get a womans love easily
/r/ExRedPill03/05/22 12:48 AM
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Newsflash the girl I have feelings for had a 6’4 bf with a bigger dick than me. She is single now but even if her and I got together, she will always remember how much of an alpha male he was compared to me
/r/ExRedPill03/05/22 12:41 AM
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The guy who was her first love is her only love
/r/ExRedPill03/05/22 12:38 AM
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Okay but a womans love for you would be way more intense if she has a low body count or is a virgin
/r/ExRedPill03/05/22 12:35 AM
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Good point you make there. However if your partner was sad and alone all her time at 40, she would most likely glue to you and love you so much
/r/ExRedPill03/05/22 12:33 AM
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A womans body count does matter I dont know how people can easily walk past this. But it goes both ways. A mans body count also matters as he will not pair bond if he sleeps around. Do you seriously want your partner to have memories of sleeping with other men?
/r/ExRedPill03/05/22 12:27 AM
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Yeah thats cause mirrors are inverted. Its well weird to look at your face when in the way others perceive it. Ends up looking assymeterical
/r/ExRedPill03/05/22 12:23 AM
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Body count matters. Why would I want my partner to have 10s of memories of being with over men. Very off putting
/r/ExRedPill03/05/22 12:21 AM
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Yes jawline is something I wanna shape. I dont want people to know im wearing it tho
/r/ExRedPill03/05/22 12:16 AM
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Aint it? More men in the dms means higher amount of high value men
/r/ExRedPill03/05/22 12:11 AM
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Also my stamina will decrease too. But main thing about hitting 40 in 20 years is that id have to date 40 year old women with high body counts which is unideal as she cannot pair bond.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/22 12:10 AM
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True, but a lot of women have ex bfs or fwbs they keep seeing. But some guys like me dont have anyone.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/22 12:07 AM
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Do a lot of girls bottle up their bad experiences with men? Ive heard a couple girls say guys were pushy when they hooked up. Is it likely they were raped but didn’t want to tell me this? Can lack of orgasm be due to the man only having 6 inches? Does womens makeup, hair, nails and clothing cost them a fortune? I am a guy who is bothered by my looks but unfortunately im at my max level: hygiene cared for, clean shaven, spots kept to minimum. Not much else I can do other than surgery but that wou…
/r/ExRedPill03/05/22 12:05 AM
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Damn I must think so much different to other men because if I had a chance with a woman, I would enjoy all the foreplay, cuddling etc. Guys are selling theirselves and women short by going straight into sex then leaving.
/r/ExRedPill02/05/22 11:59 PM
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Thank you for your insight. Why do you think the reason I have been struggling so much? Poor mentality?
/r/ExRedPill02/05/22 11:53 PM
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Im surprised men dont put effort. I thought they would want the woman to see them again so put in a good job. Being a good communicator will help me a lot so I can join the 10% who do a good job
/r/ExRedPill02/05/22 10:02 PM
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Thank you for explaining it. Some of the women do have fwbs and that could be a big reason why I get rejected because the women doesn’t need me. Its gonna be really hard for me to get an fwb or date a woman. Plus why does a woman wanna date a new guy if she has this fwb around?
/r/ExRedPill02/05/22 09:46 PM
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Im 20 so dating women 18-23 is fine. But when I am 40 I would have to date older women but because both men and women decline by this age its an unideal situation. This stuff aint false I wish you were right but its so easy for women to sleep with attractive good looking men
/r/ExRedPill02/05/22 09:37 PM
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By 40! Bro do you realise when I am 40 my testosterone is gonna be lower, my face is gonna have some wrinkles and I wouldn’t be able to date young women. Id have to date older women with high body counts and plenty of ex boyfriends. As for the top 20% of men thing, women share these men when it comes to hookups. When it comes to dating women settle more but even then some pick guys who are insanely attractive and these attracted guys tend to date multiple women usually keeping it all a secret or…
/r/ExRedPill02/05/22 09:22 PM
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Yeah before online dating was a thing looks mattered a lot less because women had less options and men had less competition
/r/ExRedPill02/05/22 09:19 PM
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Damn bro fair enough! I should honestly try it. Do you apply a subtle amount?
/r/ExRedPill02/05/22 09:17 PM
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I completely agree here. Is it seriously only good 10% of the time? Why do women still have hookup if its so low? Ohhhh wait I just thought of something: I have been put of sleeping with a hooker because I know she is just using me for money, likely has an std, doesn’t care about me. Do women feel the same way about casual sex with men? Very offputting?
/r/ExRedPill02/05/22 09:14 PM
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That is TV. In real life women would see the makeup and give me shit about it. The ‘they’ is society. Men would think I am gay and women would think it is weird.
/r/ExRedPill02/05/22 08:01 PM
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There are actually more men than women. 104 male births to every 100 female births. Most women are dating the top 20% of men. A woman may think she is dating a man but little does she know he is dating other women on the side. These women think they are dating men out of their league so they dont date the rest of us men.
/r/ExRedPill02/05/22 08:00 PM
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Hmmm maybe average dick size aint enough and the women need the Johnson to be bigger down their so they can orgasm via penetration. But yes there are other ways to make a woman orgasm like toys, hands, tongue. Sure theres 1000s men who wanna sleep with you as a women but only a few can meet the criteria you selected however when there are 1000s of men in the dms, you are bound to have a good 100 who fit the criteria
/r/ExRedPill02/05/22 07:54 PM
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I know this. Certainly of women aged 18-25 dont know about older women but they have older men around anyway. Plenty of extremely unattractive women can get dates and cuddles from a guy. If not well I will so now thats at least 1 man for them. But its way more than just me chasing them.
/r/ExRedPill02/05/22 07:51 PM
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Lol its a tough situation but ima need all the luck I can take
/r/ExRedPill02/05/22 07:41 PM
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Thank you for your insight. It definitely isn’t possible to have a relationship with my thinking. When I was last with a woman I kept feeling envy and hate due to her living on easy mode but then I was happy to be touchy feely with her. I will probably be biased with my interactions like you said. Rape is a bigger disadvantage but its a lot rarer than disadvantages men face. Its very easy for a man to fall into the bottom 80%. Its true black and white thinking is bad and the whole thing is subje…
/r/ExRedPill02/05/22 07:25 PM
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Sorry I disagree. If ya aint been called pretty then you aint left your house. Have you even been on an online dating app? Plenty of options even as an unattractive woman. You can get sex or a boyfriend as an unattractive woman. I myself as an average looking male will be left and rejected.
/r/ExRedPill02/05/22 07:00 PM
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But people care about a persons looks when dating and hooking up
/r/ExRedPill02/05/22 06:58 PM
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Thank you. One last thing is I wanna do my best to be happy being single. But being single is different between men and women. Women when single have the ability to hookup
/r/ExRedPill02/05/22 06:54 PM
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The women on there get 1000s of options tho and most women have tried these appa
/r/ExRedPill02/05/22 06:52 PM
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No never looked into therapy? Wouldn’t help as I shouldnt of been born, been born a woman or at the very least been born a rich attractive man if I had to be male
/r/ExRedPill02/05/22 06:51 PM
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It truely is. Women get plenty of opportunities to fuck and date the best so why wouldn’t they?
/r/ExRedPill02/05/22 06:50 PM
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Yes I am missing things. This is due to my lack of knowledge. I believe women rarely get raped and even rarer get murdered. The mens disadvantages are not a lack of validation. They are a lack of intimacy, sex and lonliness that apply to a good amount of men due to their looks. I don’t think men go through anything worse than this.
/r/ExRedPill02/05/22 06:48 PM
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Tell me why? I dont see it in any way shape or form. I cuddle my pillow at night while women worser looking than me have plenty of intimacy
/r/ExRedPill02/05/22 05:46 PM
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Very true. So there is potential I can have a great dating life?
/r/ExRedPill02/05/22 12:20 PM
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Very true. Forgetting about women is sad.
/r/ExRedPill02/05/22 11:34 AM
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Because its the right guy coming along: tall, good looking, big dick, plenty of experience. They dont want Mr Average who cant penetrate them properly and has flaws in his face that disgust them.
/r/ExRedPill02/05/22 10:59 AM
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Sucks to be us then.
/r/ExRedPill02/05/22 10:57 AM
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I agree. So now what? Hit the gym, build a social life, pick up hobbies, work on getting money and be a fun person?
/r/ExRedPill02/05/22 10:57 AM
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You sure an average looking middle class man has it better than an average looking middle class woman?
/r/ExRedPill02/05/22 10:55 AM
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Good shout. I would be pretty pissed off but there wouldn’t be anything I could do so I would accept it and it would drag me down
/r/ExRedPill02/05/22 10:54 AM
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Damn really? What about the blackpill where looks matter?
/r/ExRedPill02/05/22 10:52 AM
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Its like the easiest job in the world. Chill out with a rich powerful dude and do your best to look past his wrinkling face, bald head and manlet height
/r/ExRedPill02/05/22 10:51 AM
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Its always a good idea to kick ass and women will love it however the first rule is most definitely be tall, handsome, and have a big dick. Otherwise your existence holds as much value as an ant.
/r/ExRedPill02/05/22 10:50 AM
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Its unfair that women get it so much easier. Yes I may get what I am looking for but that isn’t gonna stop how easily I could be replaced, how hard I have to work to get the same thing women get by existing, how bad the competition for women is, how hard my genetics fucked me
/r/ExRedPill02/05/22 10:48 AM
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True however it shows men pedastalise women a lot more than women pedestalise men
/r/ExRedPill02/05/22 10:46 AM
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Thank you for your comment. Regarding your replies to my paragraphs, I am going to start with my response to the first paragraph: On my snapchat I tend to always see young girls partying and going abroad. Even on Tuesday nights. Like they must have so much free time and not have much of a job. I do think I overestimated the woman’s ability to live off her beauty. It is more like what you said. Regarding the second paragraph: - I can see I overestimated how good women have it. You are probably ri…
/r/ExRedPill02/05/22 10:44 AM
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This could definitely help. It would be a stigma for me tho to cuddle and kiss a bro. Plus I wouldn’t enjoy it as much as doing the same with a woman. Also if I was cuddling with a gay man as a heterosexual myself i would worry he would try to rape me. Is that how women feel when they invite a man over their place for a hookup?
/r/ExRedPill02/05/22 10:22 AM
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What other situations do men have power? Sure there is the Elon Musks and the Bezos but these are men who worked hard to get to where they are at. A woman can do the same.
/r/ExRedPill02/05/22 10:19 AM
-7

Aging happens to us all and is unnattractive. To attract young women you gotta be 18-30 otherwise past 30, you would be seen as a creep. Both genders struggle as they get older.
/r/ExRedPill02/05/22 10:18 AM
0

I agree. Could you agree that the bottom 95% of women have it better than the bottom 95% of men?
/r/ExRedPill02/05/22 10:16 AM
1

Very true.
/r/ExRedPill02/05/22 10:14 AM
2

Good message thank you.
/r/ExRedPill02/05/22 10:13 AM
1

These things hugely boost womens SMV. So it benefits the woman to do these things. A woman can get away without these efforts for Mr Average. Its only Chads with 100s of options who are this picky.
/r/ExRedPill02/05/22 08:32 AM
0

Yes a woman will be selective of her 1000s of options and choose the best. The reason why the 999 men left matter is because she will always have something to fall back on if she gets rejected by the top dog. Meanwhile Mr Average has no options if he is lucky he has 1 and if he fails with that girl because a Chad came along then he is back to nothing. How are you saying women dont have 100s of options? Plenty of yt videos out there to show it. Also a while back I made a fake profile of an unattr…
/r/ExRedPill02/05/22 08:24 AM
0

The small set of men that have money and power share it with women: sugar daddies and marriage.
/r/ExRedPill02/05/22 08:14 AM
0

Is the risk of having casual sex with a stranger high? Are the chances of rape and getting murdered high? For the pleasure gap, is it down to a mans small penis size or his thrust technique? How often is it a woman has bad sex?
/r/ExRedPill02/05/22 08:13 AM
3

Thank you. Your message has been good. I see I need to learn bad things that women go through.
/r/ExRedPill02/05/22 08:05 AM
-9

Lol my timeline stopped after 25 because I forgot about them. Above 25 men and women can expect to look more unattractive as wrinkles form and skin sags. If a woman becomes a single mother then that will affect her dating chances but she will still have a set of options. A man who is 25+ will no longer be able to date young women however there could be some advantages to dating an older woman as long as her body count isn’t too high. I totally agree that it’s important to take care of decisions …
/r/ExRedPill02/05/22 07:32 AM
-8

It matters because women care when its “men have it easier than women” so why cant I care when its the other way around. Plus I also care because I am curious if my beliefs are real. Onto the next part about the top 20% of men. A woman will sleep with the guys with superior genetics and money and continue to sleep with them so why would they need to go to Mr Average? Even when they do settle for Mr Average, there are 1000s of other Mr Averages as available options to choose from.
/r/ExRedPill01/05/22 09:26 PM
1

To learn from others and find any flaws in my beliefs.
/r/ExRedPill01/05/22 08:32 PM
-5

Very good comment here. To answer your questions: Q1: the intended audience is female based aged 18-25. All ranges of attractiveness. Q2: woman Q3: if a woman hears that, I believe she will think I don’t know the whole picture and she may be surprised to hear how hard men have it. If a man heard it, he would agree if he is awake to whats going on. Usually unattractive men are more aware of this. Q4: it doesn’t matter to me what a man or woman thinks when they read my post. Q5: I agree that there…
/r/ExRedPill01/05/22 08:27 PM
3

Same. I agree and am in the same situation.
/r/ExRedPill29/04/22 10:02 AM
2

Was just wondering cause im a 20 year old guy myself however I understand some women on this forum are in their 40s so the dating world was different when they were in their early 20s. How come you dated guys so low down on the looks scale? Didn’t you find good guys who were average looking?
/r/ExRedPill25/04/22 01:33 PM
1

Even during the ages of online dating and Instagram?
/r/ExRedPill25/04/22 01:18 PM
1

Why are women having less sex? Its now easier than ever for them to access it due to dating apps.
/r/ExRedPill21/04/22 10:33 AM
1

No because she isn’t going to want to hurt the mans feelings. If a man is a womans third love you sure she is going to tell him that he is her third?
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 05:12 PM
1

Thank you for your help
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 04:33 PM
1

Maybe the mind is powerful
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 04:23 PM
1

I do want to change. Personally what I believe the best course of action for me is to unsubscribe from blackpill youtube channels. Stop thinking about the blackpill in my head. Stop worrying about women having lots of options. Educate myself on things women go through. Stay away from blackpill forums. Treat women with kindness and dont think of them as someone to smash. Work on myself. Become happy without a girlfriend or hookups. Make friends with women and retire from dating aswell as all thin…
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 04:22 PM
2

Very true. Its highly likely my muscle building genetics are average which isn’t too bad
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 04:14 PM
1

FACEandLMS on youtube uploaded a lot of videos explaining how your face matters to women
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 04:13 PM
1

Its common to come across men 5’11+ and 6inch+. Im your everyday guy
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 04:11 PM
1

Did Tom Platz have good genetics?
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 03:53 PM
1

I like looking at my face. It is very pretty however women dont feel the same way so my face isn’t good enough for them but me personally I think it is pretty
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 03:51 PM
1

I like my 6 incher now 😂. The issue is my face. Height is another troubler.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 03:11 PM
1

I worry my genetics will be shit as I am skinny and weak.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 03:08 PM
0

Experiences in real life with women that think they deserve a 6’4 chad
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 03:06 PM
1

Thank you for the tips.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 03:05 PM
1

It must be very attractive to women as it is rare.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 03:03 PM
1

What age did you start?
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 03:03 PM
0

Ive got a job thanks. I need a life tho lol. And that woman is obviously not gonna say to me face “actually ur not my first love, you are my third”
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 03:02 PM
0

Okay I am getting things now. Maybe its not so good. And dating apps are a waste of time. However I believe the dating apps have inflated womens ego so when I approach in real life I will be below their standards.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 03:01 PM
1

I want to be her first true love. However how are we supposed to know if she has already experienced her first true love?
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 02:57 PM
1

I wanna get to 200lbs in 6 months
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 02:56 PM
1

My theory is that it effects both men and women. Surely you dont want to be a mans 20th? You wanna be his first
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 02:53 PM
1

10 as an example there are some 30 year old virgin women. Im sure it does make a difference otherwise the theory wouldn’t exist
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 02:51 PM
1

How was life at 140lbs?
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 02:50 PM
1

Men can wait in line for multiple women
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 02:50 PM
1

Were you skinny when you started?
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 02:49 PM
1

Thank you I am here to gather a deeper understanding and to see where I am wrong. I am not far above average in those traits and in fitness level I believe I am below average especially in strength. Yes there are still some women who stick to hooking up in real life through friends and bars
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 02:48 PM
1

Is it natural to hate lifting heavy weights? I think I have poor muscle building genetics
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 02:29 PM
1

Game on brother. I hate lifting heavy weights tho. I get so tired
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 02:26 PM
1

I agree
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 02:25 PM
1

Maybe there is hope but I hate the idea that my future partner will have slept with 10 different men before me
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 02:20 PM
1

I noticed aswell that tall women dont care about height. I am currently chatting to a 5’9 woman online and I told her I was 5’4 to see how much the blackpill is in effect. She still really likes me and is in for a shock when I meet her.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 02:19 PM
1

Yeah muscles could be a game changer. Im worried about gaining fat when bulking up.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 02:16 PM
1

Im being fair here it affects men and women. If I do end up having a dating life and have 10 partners. I believe the one who takes my virginity will be the most special woman.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 02:14 PM
1

Im sure the tall woman know your height though
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 02:13 PM
1

258lbs at 5’10. Dude you are a beast. I am 140lbs atm. I think muscle could help
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 02:12 PM
1

I highly disagree here. Ideally you want to be a womans first and as a woman you should be a mans first.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 02:11 PM
1

I agree
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 02:10 PM
1

You probably have a good face tho or masculine
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 02:10 PM
1

Pair bonding is a real thing. And its equal. A man who has been on the “vagina carousel” will also pair bond poorly with a woman.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 02:09 PM
1

What about facial attractiveness?
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 02:06 PM
1

I never called women whores and men who have slept around with a lot of women are also unideal as they will have been with too many women
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 02:05 PM
1

I have had two women tell me I was too short at 5’11 for them. One was 5’2 and the other 5’6. 5’11 is not enough
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 02:04 PM
1

I agree 6’11 is very tall but when you are a tall man your looks matter less because women will be attracted to you because you have a good height
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 02:02 PM
1

Bearing in mind I am 20 years old so 30 year old women seem old to me. But the average is definitely not 3. Not in my generation. 3 boyfriends maybe but not 3 sexual partners.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 02:00 PM
1

Women like tall men
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 01:58 PM
1

I disagree with the number 3. Plenty of 20 year old women I have spoken to have around 8 partners.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 01:57 PM
0

I wouldn’t know who is good I am sorry. That can be the hard part of dating. Women don’t accidentally end up with bad boys. They see the bad boy as a confident, good looking, masculine, dominant man and choose him over unattractive, low testosterone soy boys. I agree a man who waits months to pump and dump is a bad guy. https://youtu.be/Ts_osEvwYqg Video on the options a extremely unattractive woman has. I can link a video showing the options an average or good looking woman has. Also there will…
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 01:48 PM
1

More time spent on earth means more time available to have had dating experiences. A 30yo woman has more partners on average than a 20yo woman.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 01:40 PM
1

Yes I agree
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 01:39 PM
1

I see there is high risk for women when dating. Dating can be about sex for some women as they have hookups and fwbs.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 01:38 PM
1

Yes 8 inches does seem a bit much however there is still the other problems I encounter average height and looks, blonde hair, feminine face.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 01:36 PM
1

My attitude needs to change but looks are always going to matter.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 01:34 PM
1

Good shout here.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 01:34 PM
1

6’6 dominant alpha male though
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 01:33 PM
0

I have heard it is just men who are losing their virginity. Also a lot of men are having sex less and only a subset are having more sex and its because this small subset are having sex with 50 different women a year while the majority of men are having no sex or sex with one woman. I myself just want sex with one woman.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 01:32 PM
1

Thank you for your post. Sorry to hear dating isn’t easy for you. This post is one step closer to deconstructing black pill beliefs and the next step will be to practice it in my day to day life and continue to ask questions that pop up on this forum
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 01:30 PM
1

Im not trolling and yes I have fell deep into blackpill and am gathering myself back up with the advice from the people here.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 01:26 PM
1

I was surprised as anything when you said small penises are the best. Its one thing saying average however a small penis! I can see the advantages there as less blood flow is needed so can stay harder easier. However small penises like 4 inches can be enjoyable to a woman? There are men out there who are deeply depressed about having that size and I wonder why. Maybe small penises arent the best. I can definitely see my attitude and misogyny is working against me but I held a belief that if I wa…
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 01:25 PM
1

Thank you for putting things into this perspective. As a virgin man I have no idea what its like for a woman to hookup with a guy. Ive always imagined it to be go on the dating app and get bought a meal and then have pleasurable sex. However this seems not to be the case. Is it very common for a woman to come across a man who leaves without making her orgasm or a man who takes advantage? I have noticed a lot of women do like to partner with other women and it always made me wonder why I myself a…
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 01:20 PM
1

I dont have many male friends. Its not just sex I want. Id love to do things with a girl, kiss and cuddle her and have engaging conversations. I suppose I do need a good woman and in fact maybe women struggle to find a good man to have a healthy sex life with.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 01:10 PM
1

Not this. Seriously Chris Hemsworth? For starters the guy is 6’3 and has a good face and body. Ofc women will go for him. However what I am saying is that I have noticed in the real world that the average guy with blonde hair and blue eyes is doing worse with women than the average men with darker features.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 01:07 PM
1

Thank you this advice helps.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 01:04 PM
1

I want people to tell me its over if it is. Not for people to give false hope. It may come as a surprise that an average guy like me is complaining however thats how bad the dating world is that average men are getting pushed out and its Chad or Tyrone only.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 01:03 PM
1

Understood and yes she is 400lbs. She told me herself and I have a rough idea on how a 5’4 200lbs woman looks like
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 01:02 PM
1

Thank you man. It all started when I came across FACEandLMS videos on youtube
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 01:01 PM
0

Im glad to hear that. Its very hard to snap out of the blackpill and everytime there is an outlier it comes up with excuses. Also my average peen should be fine. Women can secretly see guys behind closed doors so no one will know plus they can lie about their body count. I understand that being sexually assaulted is a huge disadvantage. Ill do my best to work on my personality and get a girlfriend but I am disadvantage because looks do matter. Id date a fat woman tho so I am not shallow. Yes I a…
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 12:06 PM
1

Average American height includes all the old people who shrank and were fed pooer nutrition than todays men. Average height for 20 year old man is 5’11
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 11:54 AM
1

I disagree. This is human nature. I dont like the thought of plenty of men being with my girlfriend before me and I believe its a perfectly fine thought to have. I am sure you don’t want your partner to have been with lots of women before its your turn.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 11:53 AM
1

True
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 11:51 AM
1

Thank you. I am glad you see it too.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 11:50 AM
1

Good point.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 11:48 AM
1

I agree man.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 11:48 AM
1

Giant meathead 😂😂 fair enough I am glad you are attracted to normal men.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 11:32 AM
2

Very true that the attention is just for sex but it must be nice when a good looking guy wants to have sex with a woman. Its true that sometimes a date will be with a bad guy and lead to regret so I am sorry about that.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 11:28 AM
1

The reason why I believe women have 100s of men lining up to them is because men desire relationships more than women do. Also men have way lower standards. Most women dont want anything to do with the average man so they are lining up for the upper tier men. While men are happy with most women.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 11:14 AM
1

I do agree I will blow it if given the chance. But also because its so rare, it puts pressure on me.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 11:11 AM
0

Dating apps will give you 1000s of men and there will be a lot of good ones there. Make him wait a lot of dates and for him to invest in you. Also choose a guy who is decent and not one who is a bad boy. You have to choose a guy you are attracted to. Being attractive doesn’t make a man decent but you must be attracted to the man first. Otherwise you will be settling below your looks threshold and no body wins in that scenario. 90% of men being try is way overestimated. A lot of guys put effort i…
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 11:10 AM
-1

Why keep trying when I am destined to fail because of my genetics. It would be an insult to women if I tried. They dont want anything to do with me and I dont blame them. Especially when they don’t even know me. I do also think other things are rigged. I grew up poor and the people born into the rich are lucky. The only advantage I have in my life is that I am still young otherwise I have no advantage. I am just an average looking man who exists to do a 9 to 5 job to keep someone rich. For the m…
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 10:25 PM
1

Well it is extremely rare that a woman wants to sleep or date with me. I doubt ill have another chance anytime soon
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 10:19 PM
1

Fairplay man.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 10:18 PM
-1

So it was so bad for you at one stage you needed therapy? And then boom after that you were a new man. Are you good looking? Tall?
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 10:12 PM
1

I live in UK. But yes more men tend to be born than women. 106:100 ratio
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 10:11 PM
1

Okay thank you very much
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 10:10 PM
0

I have tried. Ive approached 10 women at bars in my life and had 10 rejections. I have gone on 7 dates and only 1 took me back to her place and wanted a second, third and fourth date. I have messaged 500 and I mean 500 women on plenty of fish, bumble, tinder, snapchat, instagram and none went anywhere. I never notice women checking me out. I have never been hit on. Id feel like the game would be incredibly rigged. If I was chatting to a girl and then a 6’6, good looking guy with more money comes…
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 10:09 PM
1

Okay here is my best bet on how to do it. Grab your phone, go on the app store, search bumble, instagram and plenty of fish. Take some good photos post them on all 3 sites. Let the matches come in and there will be a lot. If any guy speaks about sex too soon block him. If any guy is unattractive block him. If any guy comes across as dry block him. Now talk to the guys you have left and there should probably be around 200 guys if you are an unattractive woman. See what guys you vibe with and arra…
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 10:05 PM
0

Are most manosphere men unattractive short men? I am definitely not the worse or in abad category. I am average however its not good enough.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 09:56 PM
1

Very good point. Perhaps I am pretending I have failed to prevent myself from failing after trying. I could go gym and that might help. My confidence is high I can approach women however they dont want me and my confidence crumbles as soon as a better man is around
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 09:54 PM
2

So you were once a blackpiller but escaped and now have a dating life?
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 09:52 PM
1

But I truly wanna date all types of women.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 09:33 PM
1

Interesting but I am not picky appearance wise. Im open to dating all races, all body types, short and tall and their face has to be somewhat attractive 3/10 and above. Because I am human and looks matter.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 09:29 PM
1

I do think this way. I went deep into blackpill. So much I didn’t see even the point in doing redpill at the time as I believed women wouldn’t want me no matter what I did: the redpill way of bluepill way. It can truely show how damaging the red pill and especially black pill is
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 09:27 PM
14

Yes I agree therapy seems like the only available option at this point.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 09:26 PM
1

They dont have to know that. Plus Id limit the available dating pool to me if I get picky.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 09:23 PM
6

Yes I definitely did blow it due to insecurities.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 09:22 PM
1

I agree but most women have social media so they are getting a lot of attention which makes it difficult in my opinion.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 09:21 PM
5

I will do my best.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 09:20 PM
1

100% agree here
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 09:19 PM
4

Cheers bro for the message. Time to work on myself, get better and lay pipe while I am at it 😂
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 09:18 PM
1

The guy is exactly how I described him however the woman told me she thinks he has a fetish for fat women. I also saw the woman as the one with all the power because I believe the woman has more options than the guy. However maybe the guy does have power. He buys her food but he never takes her out to do things.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 09:15 PM
0

Never diagnosed but highly likely. Also autism is another way to fail with women as it effects your ability to socialise
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 09:08 PM
1

A very good message there. Thank you.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 09:07 PM
1

Ive heard the women love the attention they get as it makes them feel valuable. You do make a good point. To find a decent man she has to filter through lots of guys. However the process wont be too hard. There will be quite a few decent ones in her dms.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 08:51 PM
0

I feel like there is truth to it. Short, small framed, skinny men who look like boys are usually unsuccessful with women meanwhile tall, large framed, muscular good looking men succeed with women. Truth is some people weren’t designed to be attractive enough for women. There are definitely other things than looks that can affect a mans dating life: hygiene and personality. However SMV to build basic attraction is needed first. The knowledge is good because it shows me that I am not genetically g…
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 08:47 PM
1

Thank you for the inspirational message
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 08:37 PM
3

Thank you for the inspirational message
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 08:31 PM
6

Thank you. A therapist could help a lot.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 06:59 PM
0

The issue is I believe the women are just giving me false hope. No one wants to tell the painful truth to someone even if it was to be true. People would feel bad to say to someone the bad news.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 06:58 PM
-16

Truth is however how you look is very important. If I asked you would you rather be an unattractive or attractive I would assume you would pick attractive as dating would be a lot easier due to given more opportunities and also people would treat you better
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 06:56 PM
-2

I find it hard to believe he didn’t satisfy you. If he failed then damn he really wasted his genetical advantage. Does your 5’5 partner actually satisfy you more?
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 06:53 PM
2

So if I want to please a woman focus a lot on oral? Height isn’t Male fantasy as I always see guys getting rejected cause of their height. On tiktok girls always diss short men and praise tall men. Women say I don’t care about height but then her next boyfriend is 6’4. This isn’t some fantasy in my head. I have seen it loads.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 06:51 PM
2

They sure do but a lot will also want to date her
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 06:48 PM
1

Well thats my standards. So pretty much anyone.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 06:47 PM
1

Not everyguy of course however if the right guy comes along (extremely good looking) then yes if a woman is open to a one night stand she will do it
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 06:46 PM
0

For sex yes (extremely high percentage of male population) but also relationships (a good fair amount of guys roughly 10% of the population) my options in comparison sex (0.01% of the population estimate) for relationship (1% estimate)
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 06:45 PM
3

I almost had a chance to hookup with her a year ago but blew it. I remember in her bedroom there was a toy that was 5 inches. I was surprised why she bought a toy that size.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 06:43 PM
-9

Cheers man. Yes I have heard ethnic women liking white guys. White women get so much attention so they tend to go for Tyrones and chads leaving average white and black men out. Black women tend to go for black men which is fair enough. Id say SMV wise white men, black men and arabs are on fairly equal terms. Tbh if your good looking your race doesn’t matter much to women. I have noticed that it tends to be only athletic black men that get chosen. Meanwhile some white guys who are out of shape ca…
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 06:42 PM
3

Thanks man
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 06:33 PM
1

Yes. Perhaps the blackpill has ruined my mind. But I believe it to be true. I also have a fear of being a good boyfriend to a woman because she will think I am boring or a pathetic desperate simp who has no other options.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 05:38 PM
6

Sometimes I feel like I am different for being aware of something wrong here. Yes a good therapist would help.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 05:36 PM
4

Thank you for your contributions. I wish you the best of luck too. I will be doing my best to change my way of thinking and to become a good man.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 05:34 PM
2

Yes I have but don’t have much knowledge in the topic. Sorry to hear if that is what you went through DocGlabella
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 05:30 PM
1

Out of those 1000 men, a lot will want to date her.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 05:29 PM
-4

What can I say. It is all about being the best of the best and mogging to oblivion.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 05:29 PM
-4

There is proof that humans want to mate with good genetics. So it is not absurd. A tall and strong man bas good genetics and nutrition. Women go for these men. Cannot blame them and it is totally logical to me.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 05:28 PM
7

Thank you. Yes you are totally right. How did you know Nihilism is another thing I struggle with?
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 05:26 PM
1

Loyal, kindness, laid back, interesting.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 05:25 PM
0

How is it just as hard? Women have so many options
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 05:24 PM
0

Was four inches enough? That sounds like “its over” territory to me. If you were in physical pain during sex then I am surprised you would go through that. Ofc that pain was nobodys fault but uncomfortable yes. I have heard the claim that women dont have orgasms through penises and I put it down to men not being large enough.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 05:23 PM
-3

Are you saying that the things I am saying are as absurd as flat earth? Looks matter so much and when women get with guys its always ones that are masculine looking. I dont blame anyone for this as its a positive. It helped keep the human race alive
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 05:20 PM
5

I have a lot of excuses and whether or not they are true I don’t know but I should definitely take time away from blackpill sites and try my best with self improvement and then move onto women.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 05:19 PM
-4

It could be seen as arguing. However I am coming up with excuses and I believe they are true. If 7 inches hurt yet with him for 5 years. Come on now really?
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 05:17 PM
-2

I don’t like to do favouritism but you won best post lol. It seems sensible that women just want a guy at an average height. In my opinion although I could be wrong, a 5’2 woman will want a man 5’7 or above which isn’t drastic. I feel like as long as you have the height of an average man you’re fine. In an ideal scenario be 6’6 however 5’11 is most of the job done. I believe it is women who dye their hair blonde not so much men. The men who do it probably wanna look like a skater dude not increa…
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 05:14 PM
-2

My friend said she wants a guy with a ‘decent size dick’ I am assuming thats around average.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 05:03 PM
-2

Its good it is rare. However im sure the guy who has one has no trouble dating and keeping a woman satisfied as long as his face and height are satisfying.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 05:02 PM
1

I understand my post is far from the norm but a guy like me does exist and needs help.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 05:00 PM
1

Good question. I pursue all types of women. However I want a girl with a good personality as that is the main thing that is important to me personally. I don’t pursue girls who are very hot because I assume I will get rejected.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 05:00 PM
-4

Ohhh this is news to me. Ive heard women roasting guys with small dicks before and claim they need extra inches to be “filled up” plus with an 8 inch the guy doesn’t have to go all the way in.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 04:58 PM
0

Is love hard to come by for a woman?
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 04:57 PM
-1

I don’t know how many of them 1000 will abandon her. But I will make an assumption here: of those 1000 men, if the woman is below average looks, then 500 will abandon her. Of the remaining 500, 250 will want to be fwb. And 250 will want to date her seriously.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 04:56 PM
1

Offline dating would be good however. Womens ego changes because of online dating so when they do offline dating their standards are still high. Plus even with offline dating you are still competing with chads in her dms as she can arrange to met one of them.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 04:55 PM
0

6 could be an okay size then. 5’11 is short for womens standards and men who are 6’6+ exist so 5’11 is short compared to them. Do 6’6 good looking men struggle with women?
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 04:52 PM
-23

The average is 5’10 in my country. 6 inches id average. Blonde hair blue eyes is rare but its not attractive to women. Only a small set of them. That could be true for the feminine face thing. And backing up your point further, the term girl inches could come into play here. A woman might say 6 inches is crap but little does she know the guys who were 5 inches said they were 6. The 6 inches said 7. So actually women could think 6 inches is small when its not. I agree about the making friends wit…
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 04:50 PM
-9

These everyday people post their experiences and its usually the same result ugly guy getting no women and 6’6 Chad cousin getting all the women. Of course there is no universal preference to what women like however on average women choose x over y. I definitely feel like 8 inches is better than 6. Why do big dicks get all the hype? It is because women like them. Overwise average sized dicks would be getting all the praise. However go too far big like 14 inches and you no longer get praised as i…
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 03:40 PM
0

I feel like the average included 60 year old men, men who are overweight, and disabled men. So for a young male in good shape the average is higher. Probably 6 inches is the average.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 03:15 PM
0

Yes their cost is a lot higher than mens when having sex. I dont bear the cost of pregnancy which is very good. The lion and gazelle put things into perspective. Why am I getting angry that women are having a fun time on dating apps and sleeping with the top 20% of men. Yet when a gazelle is being brutally ripped apart to death by a lion I dont give a fuck and am not thinking about how unfair ‘lion privilege’. It made me realise that I only care about the dating side of things because it effects…
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 03:14 PM
-42

Higher SMV? I feel like I am average. Also my feminine face is a big let down. Plus women rarely show interest in me. However one girl I took on a date did want to sleep with me on the first date but I was too nervous due to insecurity that the 6’6 dominant alpha with the big dick was what she wanted. How do I have a lack of self awareness? Victim complex I understand however I do feel like it is unfair and not much can be done in my situation. But I agree it is no ones fault.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 03:03 PM
4

Yes
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 03:00 PM
1

Yes I agree. Its not their fault. I hate it when they say shit like “you wouldn’t wanna swap places with me” or “Male privilege”. I understand I have never experienced what it’s like to be a woman and there are disadvantages in being a woman. However its the same for women they don’t know what its like to be an average or ugly man. And when the human body goes without sex and love it starts to suffer. Females can easily get this need met but men can’t and females are out here not understanding a…
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 02:29 PM
5

I agree I shouldn’t hate them for it. However experiencing my own dating struggles and going years without anything and never getting laid and then knowing the girl I have feelings for. Just has to go on her phone select a guy from the 1000s waiting in line and have him take her on a date 6 hours later and then having sex with him later that night. It is two completely different realities I am surprised we are in the same universe.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 02:23 PM
1

I remember my dad and his mates used to have a misogynistic saying from the 80s “buy a fat girl mcdonalds and she will love you for ever” and there was this vibe that big girls were more desperate. However nowadays to get a big girl you gotta be 6’0+, 6/10 face, 6 pack and 6 figures.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/22 07:52 PM
0

That doesn’t mean the women will stop using them. I dont use dating apps anymore however women will still use them making my competition bigger
/r/ExRedPill12/04/22 07:49 PM
0

The issue is that the competition is there. Have you seen how many messages women are getting these days? Its a very tight game and I doubt I had much chance in this war
/r/ExRedPill12/04/22 07:26 PM
2

Damn I am surprised you dont get many matches. Maybe its the area you live. Thank you for showing me the article on orgasm gap. I do feel like penis size matters as a bigger penis is more filling to the vagina. However I will not underestimate the power of the clitoris. My fear is not being good enough for women due to my height and size down there. I should also work on my personality as that is changeable. My financial situation is poor. Is there such thing as too tall? Taller men give better …
/r/ExRedPill12/04/22 07:07 PM
-6

I do understand this however the women still likely has a few 6’6 chads in her dms and guys with money
/r/ExRedPill12/04/22 05:23 PM
1

I agree. However I feel defeated. If I speak to a woman in person, she can easily have a few 6’6 Chads in her dms who I have to compete with.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/22 05:17 PM
-1

How do women struggle in online dating?
/r/ExRedPill12/04/22 05:16 PM
1

How many profiles are you swiping on. If its around 30 a month then I am not surprised but if its in the 100s then I am surprised you aren’t getting many messages. I am interested in learning about the orgasm gap. Is it true most men aren’t satisfying women. Is it somewhat to do with their penis size? Yes I understand 1000s of compliments from men who just want sex is unideal. However I believe that if it was a 6’6 good looking man women would give him a chance.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/22 05:09 PM
3

Its easy to make some friends sure but dating has been ruined due to social media.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/22 04:43 PM
2

I agree.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/22 04:42 PM
3

I feel like dating would be better without them.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/22 04:42 PM
5

I agree. Information overload is real.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/22 04:41 PM
8

It definitely does vary from place to place however online dating is increasingly becoming the norm. Even if I did meet women in real life, what is not to say she can arrange a date with a man miles better than me who she met online. It is so easy to have a dating profile on your smart phone
/r/ExRedPill12/04/22 04:40 PM
-6

But men are becoming more desperate. Women’s standards are increasing due to the fact they have 100s of options and mens are decreasing due to having very few options. This leads to attractive men getting all the girls. Unattractive men either quitting or lowering their standards very far down.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/22 04:39 PM
2

Not a troll question. I have been heavily influenced by the redpill so my self esteem is down and my perspective on women is redpilled. Do women crave men a lot? Because I have heard women say men aren’t shit and how happy they are without a man
/r/ExRedPill17/02/22 04:51 PM
1

Yes very true. I forgot that men make money from youtube. Conveniently the redpill content makers are making money when they record videos telling men that women make money off of Onlyfans. Sounds like the rich are playing the poor. It is interesting women have more body dysmorphia than men despite women being able to have easy sex and relationships even if they are fat and unattractive. I do apologise for talking about women in a promiscuous way. The red pill definitely ruined my perception.
/r/ExRedPill17/02/22 04:48 PM
1

It is very true. Perhaps I was looking for a reason not to try and to give up. It can be very easy to give up when others have it easier because of luck. Not even in a woman sense. Chad can have sex with any woman he likes and billionaires earn more in a minute than I can in a lifetime
/r/ExRedPill17/02/22 04:39 PM
1

Thank you for your answer. I am being sincere however because my viewpoint is a 180 to this sub Reddit I understand it can come across as a troll post. In dating having a vagina is a magic wand. The woman can be obese, 30 years old, ugly yet still string around some horny attractive 20 year old man to pay for dates and lead him on and watch him simp over her. For dating women have it on easy mode apart from safety. While men have it on hard mode with safety. However the hard mode is more like im…
/r/ExRedPill17/02/22 04:22 PM
0

Being stronger isn’t important unless you want a manual labour job. Plus the strength comes with the responsibility to protect women and children. Pregnancy and childbirth is a valid concern however I personally will never have kids and even if I wanted to it would be hard to get a woman to agree that she wants my DNA in her children. Men aren’t seen as desirable for longer
/r/ExRedPill17/02/22 04:12 PM
0

I get these things happen but personally the trade off seems worthit. My life as an average looking man is meaningless without a girlfriend and its very difficult to get one these days unless rich or good looking. I would trade to be a woman. Its not 7 years of easy dating. Its still easy for them as they get older too. Plus mens dating also gets harder as they get older
/r/ExRedPill17/02/22 04:10 PM
0

Some of the suicide could be down to dating world. For some men being extremely ugly and seeing women being replused by you and being a virgin can tip men over the tipping point. Dating is a huge thing for a man. Especially if he is average looking and rarely gets sex or a girlfriend. Meanwhile for women its im bored now onto the next in 5 minutes.
/r/ExRedPill17/02/22 02:26 PM
1

Yes it is true a woman can get attacked on a date. However she can do things to minimise this risk. Also her options and standards are so damn high compared to a mans. Gender pay gap is because men choose to work better paying jobs like engineer etc. I do understand the point you made on kids. But a woman doesn’t have to have kids. Parenthood is definitely hard. Men have to meet beauty standards too. Height: mostly genetic and uncontrollable it completely affects a mans dating life and social li…
/r/ExRedPill17/02/22 02:24 PM
1

I understand that. Your post made me mediate on how it would feel to be a 5’4 woman walking alone at night. Gave me chills. For the other things. Their dating life is on easy mode. They will never be a untouched virgin out of choice. Meanwhile there are men including myself who are this way because women have high standards due to the options they have.
/r/ExRedPill17/02/22 02:15 PM
1

Strict discipline and keto? Also that woman will still get easy sex and have a boyfriend. Also some men like fat women. Plenty of fat women sleep with attractive guys all the time. Im not talking curvy fat. I am talking 400lbs. I have seen these big women get plenty of attention from men. It’s literally life on easy mode. Try asking a 400lb dude how often he gets asked out
/r/ExRedPill17/02/22 02:08 PM
1

I can see that the market for Onlyfans is competitive. But so many men are paying it these days. Sure a woman is highly unlikely to earn $25,000 a month from Onlyfans but personally I believe any young woman can earn $2000 a month from Onlyfans. If I had a girlfriend and she started earning more money than me. I would feel insecure because of the fact I would lose her because as a woman she has 1000s of options. Thats the only reason. If my girlfriend was guaranteed to stay with me for life I wo…
/r/ExRedPill17/02/22 02:06 PM
2

Absolutely it seems like the women on here are oblivious to how life as an average looking male is. However I am open to the fact that I myself could be oblivious to the struggles women face. I want to learn more
/r/ExRedPill17/02/22 01:49 PM
0

Oh yeah and also less attractive women are not invisible to me. I have tried with plenty of them but they are chadchasing. I am 20 years old so I would be the one invisible to women over 30. However women over 30 do have a harder time dating but so do men over 30. Both genders age. But usually women over 30 have had so many partners that would make their next partner almost worthless as she cannot pairbond with him. A man over 30 with a bald head is hardly gonna be seen as a good catch. That ana…
/r/ExRedPill17/02/22 01:48 PM
1

I understand if a woman doesn’t want to do Onlyfans or have a boyfriend. Its easier for women to be single as they can have casual sex while most men cant. Plus the women can easily get casual sex while the attractive man who does get casual sex (attractive man is the bare minimum average looking men no hookups) he still has to put in a ton of effort and be see as lucky to be fucking the woman
/r/ExRedPill17/02/22 01:43 PM
-5

Id rather know the depressing truth than comforting lies
/r/ExRedPill17/02/22 01:40 PM
1

Yes I have animosity to men who were born into wealthy families and dont have to work. They also live life on an easier mode (normal difficulty) unless they are short and ugly but because of their money, they will get women but the woman is unlikely to love them for who they are and Instead go for his money. However being a rich man is a lot better than being a poor one.
/r/ExRedPill17/02/22 12:27 PM
0

Not to me as I can learn more from the people on this page. I have expressed some of my genuine concerns. There are some more but we have enough to work with for now.
/r/ExRedPill17/02/22 12:24 PM
1

That is true its bad to resent women for having an easy life
/r/ExRedPill17/02/22 12:23 PM
1

The horny fucks usually get rejected. But they can be led on for entertainment and ego boost. If the horny fuck is extremely attractive then a woman may choose him for sex and keep him as a fwb. Then when an average guy wants to date her, he is competing with her very sexy fwb. The average looking man in that position is in a bad one. Yes it is true women get assaulted by their dates. I don’t know how common it is. In dating women are the choosers while men are given nothing or they are given wh…
/r/ExRedPill17/02/22 12:15 PM
0

Social media is the issue. Women do have too many options and average looking men are only getting a gf if he is providing money or he is high status. Both requires work to achieve. Good looking men don’t need them two things to get a girlfriend.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/22 09:05 PM
-5

Is the dude the beta provider with no other options? It could be a huge reason why these beta average looking men have a girlfriend
/r/ExRedPill16/02/22 09:04 PM
1

Online dating changed the options fir average men. 10 years ago we had options not anymore. You would have to live as an average man to understand.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/22 09:01 PM
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