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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Keeping a good thing going | Ask Red Pill | GreenPill | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/13 12:48 PM |
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| 0 | Keeping a good thing goingComplacency is corrosive to any LTR - it's like rust. It sneaks up on you, little by little, until you notice the problem. Understood, and thank you for the references. In relation to my line of work I've been conditioned deeply to identify and eliminate complacency and bad habits. Failure to do so has life and death consequences. Writing up self-assessments that are honest and critical is a regular task for me. With no disrespect intended to anyone participating here, I feel that to a small deg… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/13 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Keeping a good thing goingCopy all. Respectfully, the day to day is far better than I thought a relationship would be. Rainbows and butterflies were furthest from my mind when I got into this. To put it simply, I may not have enough faith in myself. I came into this extremely jaded and cynically, and the fact that things are good just compels me to start questioning whatever I can. Which is insecurity, really. But I'm definitely not frustrated or angry. Nor would I be if it turned out it was somebody else's kid and she's… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/13 01:57 PM |
| 2 | Keeping a good thing goingIt seems like your relationship is very short on beta comfort, and she doesn't truly trust you. This is absolutely true. I've never had to do the beta comfort thing until now. I've hit and run my entire life, and I think it's to my detriment when it comes to a broader skillset. I'm treating this like training wheels with benefits, and if all I get out of this is a broader capability to relate, then it's worth it to me. If by some statistical miracle this reaches homeostasis, then great, I'll rol… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/13 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Keeping a good thing goingyou sound like youre very much afraid of losing her / slipping up. this will show in your day to day interactions with her. this insecurity is very beta and unattractive. Excellent point, and something I am not paying enough attention to. Internal motivation and insecurity will slip through the cracks. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/13 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Keeping a good thing goingThank you for the perspective. I am enjoying what I have right now. Like every fool that steps into the abyss, "I am not committed to this". I expect that five years from now we will not be together. Right now, I have a low-drag relationship and regular, awesome sex. I will go on my merry way if either one of those things changes without substantial and temporary cause. These are not daily sticking points, but the two things that seem significant to me when I assess where I'm at. You're right in… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/13 01:18 PM |
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