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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 97 | TikTok is grooming teenage girls to be okay with sexual violencePorn will do that to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 04:34 AM |
| 20 | About Kodak BlackThey are a Petri dish of disease. They always ask to fuck raw too and NEVER see a doctor. They just spread diseases like it’s nothing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 03:34 AM |
| 31 | About Kodak BlackThe WORST. The most abusive, the least educated, lowest earning power...... I tell black women if they marry a black man it will be hard for them to move out of the poverty tax bracket. Sociological studies prove this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 03:06 AM |
| 84 | About Kodak BlackDIVEST BLACK FDS QUEENS. LEAVE THE WEAKEST LINKS ALONE! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 01:46 AM |
| 56 | If he gets a boner when you cry, RUN. That is a Pavlovian response from watching too much violent abuse porn. He has literally trained his brain to be sexually aroused by women's pain.I didn’t have any evidence, just his admission to it. We broke up shortly after (for obvious reasons) and I ghosted so I don’t even know if he’s alive tbh. Looking back, I was young and terrified and just wanted to run away from him. I wish I had reported him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 01:45 AM |
| 168 | If he gets a boner when you cry, RUN. That is a Pavlovian response from watching too much violent abuse porn. He has literally trained his brain to be sexually aroused by women's pain.Yup, my first serious relationship. He got hard every time I would cry. He also wanted to do anal all the time and was into extremely violent porn. He also confessed to watching child porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 08:49 PM |
| 2 | What's Your Level Up Plan for this Week/Month?I just got another raise from the company I work for. I also deliver food on the side. My level up plan for this month and beyond is to save enough money to buy property. I want to get into real estate and make more money. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 07:32 PM |
| 51 | What is everyone’s thoughts on Billie Eilish now “showing skin”? What does her defense make you feel?Yeah, she was heavily sexualized even in the baggy clothes. It’s a “damned if you do, damned if you don’t” situation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 05:23 PM |
| 10 | What is everyone’s thoughts on Billie Eilish now “showing skin”? What does her defense make you feel?Yes she does. I love the blonde on her, It’s very elegant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 05:20 PM |
| 58 | What is everyone’s thoughts on Billie Eilish now “showing skin”? What does her defense make you feel?I’m personally upset that she’s choosing the common industry route. I’m sick of women in the industry thinking it’s empowering to be half naked or look sexually appealing to men, when they aren’t even the people for whom they make music. Idk I just feel disappointed in Billie. But I’d love to discuss with the queens in here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 04:55 PM |
| 17 | I'm a therapist and I can't do couples counseling anymoreThey lose their shit at the drop of a dime. I’m starting to realize that a lot of the shit men say about women is just projection. Like how they always say we will die old, alone and miserable but actual studies prove that to be completely false... it’s best not to believe what they say. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 04:41 PM |
| 456 | Men Pushing Pregnancy During DatingTo trap you. That’s it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 04:12 AM |
| 7 | So very disappointed with this content creator (explanation in the comments).Literally nowhere in the lyrics did it read that she pressured someone to have sex while intoxicated. I’ve been in a scenario where I’m drinking, with a guy, who is also drinking... we both consent to sex and he can’t get it up cause he has erectile dysfunction and blames it on the alcohol. Which is what I got from the lyrics. Again. This ain’t it. The song doesn’t allude to rape anywhere. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 07:06 PM |
| 192 | This is the type of obtuse mentality that I'm referring to when I say "men are committed to misunderstanding us"He is toxic. Owes child support. Doesn’t take care of his kids. This is the man they look up to. Kevin Samuels? More like King of the Scrotes.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 06:54 PM |
| 6 | So very disappointed with this content creator (explanation in the comments).Wtf was that girl even saying? How is that lyric alluding to assault? You ever hooked up with a porn sick dude (read: man) that can’t keep his dick up and blames alcohol? I’m sure plenty of us have been in that situation. This wasn’t it sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 06:48 PM |
| 78 | I don’t even know what to sayIt’s the cognitive dissonance for me. Smh. And yeah I had to stop reading comments after i saw that one cause I just knew I’d stumble upon some more bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 04:03 PM |
| 12 | Found in the wild 🙄Same, it’s so vague | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 03:46 AM |
| 308 | Pick me propaganda! This “advice” is clearly targeted towards women because 99% of men are going to get off regardless. Don’t excuse sexually incompetent men that don’t make an effort you off, there’s already way too many of those. Thank you. ☺️✨MEN. DONT. HAVE. TO. DO. THIS. They don’t have to think of sex as a journey or some existential bullshit. They want to nut and won’t stop until they fucking do. And 99.99% of the time, they do. It’s like we always have to sacrifice something to lessen the blow for scrotes and it’s annoying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 12:29 AM |
| 19 | Women are waking up to the realities of heterosexual relationships via Deborrah Cooper (hint - listen to this at 2x speed)I love Deborah, the block and delete queen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 11:44 AM |
| 11 | Pickmes are dangerous because, just like men, they know, but they don’t care.Yes!! Being honest with yourself is such an important part of evolving as a person. And it is hard to admit when you’re a part of the problem but, the truth sets you free. Being a pickme IS evil, I love that you said that. That’s why I said they’re like men that they don’t care. A lot of the shit that men do is evil and we know it’s evil because we know they lack empathy. Studies literally backs this up. Pickmes are just the same and even more sinister because they know, first hand, the hurt and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 02:14 AM |
| 17 | Pickmes are dangerous because, just like men, they know, but they don’t care.Yeah at some point we need to take responsibility for knowing and CHOOSING to be a pickme. And you’re soo right on there being benefits to being a pickme. Abusers keep abusing because there are benefits to being an abuser Pickmes stay pickmes because there’s benefits to that too. I reveled on the fact that I was considered “exotic” in the black community because I’m Afro Latina. I knew I was fetishized but the benefits (free meals, money, clothes, free weed, dates...) outweighed the humiliation … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 01:36 AM |
| 24 | Pickmes are dangerous because, just like men, they know, but they don’t care.Do you know how many women gaslight their kids when informed their beloved scrote touched them? Do you know how many women sleep with men knowing they’re in a relationship? In some cases, they’re close friends. Plenty women online grooming young women to pursue “sex work” My own sister, blood sister, Laughed when her drunk, -100 value husband told me I was a bad role model to my niece because I do pole fitness. He was pestering me on doing yoga with him one morning and she got mad at me for decl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 10:17 PM |
| 56 | "I Wear My Heart on My Sleeve" & What It MeansThese are the worst because they play on your empathy, they make you pity them so you see their “humanity” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 09:10 PM |
| 7 | I’m Celebrating My Acceptance Of Two Job Offers: One Full-Time & One Part-Time!Congratulations 🎈🍾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 08:44 PM |
| 74 | Pickmes are dangerous because, just like men, they know, but they don’t care.My ex best friend said she doesn’t care if her husband cheats because it’s in their biology and all men do it, so it was no use for her to be upset if her husband cheats. Pickmes choose deceit over truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 08:42 PM |
| 32 | Pickmes are dangerous because, just like men, they know, but they don’t care.This is what I also battle the most as a recovering pickme. I’ve harmed enough women and have had the same done to me. My NVEX’s side piece laughed at me when I confronted her. I was crushed because I saw myself in her, laughing at another woman’s misery to prove she’s the best thing since sliced bread to a man that strangled me, got me pregnant 3 months after my first abortion and couldn’t even bother to extend emotional support to me cause he’s “too tired from work for all that dramatic shit”.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 08:38 PM |
| 46 | Pickmes are dangerous because, just like men, they know, but they don’t care.It’s sad to witness your bestie get consumed by male validation, I hope she finds her way back to herself soon. It’s hard being besties when they’re being pickmes but they really appreciate having you by their side when the fog clears. It’s a reminder that sisterhood is a solid foundation for self love and confidence. Wish you guys the best 🫂♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 08:17 PM |
| 30 | Pickmes are dangerous because, just like men, they know, but they don’t care.Ugh I know. That docuseries and the documentary on Larry Nassar...... ugh..... broke me completely. It infuriated me how a grown woman, with kids, enabled Nassar and dismissed those girls for decades. Pickmes. Are. Dangerous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 08:07 PM |
| 42 | Pickmes are dangerous because, just like men, they know, but they don’t care.Agreed, my hope is they find their way back to themselves like many of us here have. Now that I’m aware or have awoken, I feel for women stuck in the programming, but it’s not my job to save them if they don’t want to be saved. Especially if they are willing to put men above me. If they want to be saved, they will and I’ll gladly support them. It’s what true sisterhood is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 08:05 PM |
| 32 | Pickmes are dangerous because, just like men, they know, but they don’t care.I agree that there are a lot of pickmes that don’t know how they’re hurting themselves and other women. But I also know one way or another, a pickme is made aware of what their doing or who they’re entertaining, whether it’s an intuition or someone actually said “he’s a piece of shit” or “he has a girlfriend”. A pick me knows, but will still do what she wants for the sake of validation. Yes, we are human and all victims of patriarchy, which created the pickme mentality. But we aren’t always unaw… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 08:02 PM |
| 145 | Give them an inch, they’ll go a mileI don’t recall molesting you but if it so happens I did that, I’m sorry you felt uncomfortable. What. The. Fuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 06:51 PM |
| 39 | Pickmes are dangerous because, just like men, they know, but they don’t care.I had to make this post after watching the first three episodes of The Vow on HBO Max. It’s about Nxivm, the sex cult led by Keith Raniere with his perfect pickme confidant, Allison Mack. That woman is the textbook definition of pickme, next in line to heir the throne of Gishlaine Maxwell. It’s alleged that she came up with the idea of branding the women who joined the cult. She would even go as far as declaring her love for Raniere, calling him her “master”. Truly horrific. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 05:43 PM |
| 13 | He cheated on her and she's still with him. She now finds out he spends money on porn.Same, it burns at the injection site, but works great nonetheless. Highly recommend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 03:47 PM |
| 17 | Excellent Advice, FDS Energy all the way!Currently living by her advice. I love the song she’s playing in the background too. Totally in line with her message. The best lyric is “no ones gonna drag you up to get into the light that you belong” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 03:43 PM |
| 52 | Ladies - consider splurging on an expensive gym membership!This. They don’t respect women, they just have too much to lose. If they didn’t have the money or status, best believe they’ll be staring at your yoni on the hip adductor machine | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 02:53 PM |
| 11 | Ladies - consider splurging on an expensive gym membership!I see you but nah, men are still men. I recommend aerial arts for women. Those dance studios are almost always 100% women, instructors and all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 02:50 PM |
| 7 | Stop mourning awful men dying.To be honest, I haven’t come across anything about her, but hopefully she is thriving. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 07:14 PM |
| 41 | Stop mourning awful men dying.To be honest, Sandra Bland should have yielded this outcry. That woman was putting her people on game on her YouTube channel, warning black peoples about white supremacy and police brutality specifically. That woman was sought out and MURDERED by police (allegedly, but this is truly what I believe happened). But very few people came out, cities remained intact. The lives of black women don’t mean shit to black people and most of society anyways. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 04:57 PM |
| 10 | Stop mourning awful men dying.Therapy was what taught me to compartmentalize my feelings, it’s truly helpful, and it’s what men have done since forever lol 🫂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 04:51 PM |
| 50 | Stop mourning awful men dying.Yes! Once I found out about how he was a danger to women, I didn’t not give two shits that he died a horrible death, had a family, anything. I just can’t feel bad for men, that lived a life of degeneracy, dying bad deaths. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 04:48 PM |
| 37 | Stop mourning awful men dying.Thank you, Whitney is STILL the butt of the joke today. Breonna Taylor’s death was a tragedy and I heard people, both men and women, victim blame her, saying she wasn’t as innocent as everyone thought because she was messing with a drug dealer smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 04:45 PM |
| 28 | Stop mourning awful men dying.I know what the protest were about. And I still don’t feel anything because the life he led, he was a danger to black women. I feel bad for Phillando Castile (that one is seared into my brain, he was a decent man), Ahmaud Arbery, Sean Bell, Tamir Rice (will always infuriate me), Mike Brown, Trayvon Martin..... these men (and children, three that I mentioned were literally children) will always have my sympathy. But the men known to be shit to women and dangerous to society (Alton Sterling, Georg… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 04:38 PM |
| 26 | Stop mourning awful men dying.Yeah and her protest didn’t yield the same outpour as all the black men that were killed by police. Not angry enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 04:29 PM |
| 109 | Stop mourning awful men dying.George Floyd robbed a pregnant black woman at gunpoint and cities were destroyed for him.... he did not deserve to die, but he also didnt deserve my sympathy and emotional outpour. Same with DMX. Addiction sucks and he didn’t deserve to die, but my eyes are dry cause ..... 🤷🏽♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 01:19 PM |
| 26 | Oh dear god...My ex would make me stay very still and force me to stay quiet during sec. I felt like a human fleshlight. I hope this girl leaves this scrote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 02:40 AM |
| 27 | Even though it may not be my place I have to say as a non black woman, the way black men treat and portray black women is disgusting. You guys deserve betterIt’s not anti black to recognize that black culture is filled with low value morals and beliefs that benefit men and directly harm women. Those dangerous messages our community pushes directly and negatively affect black women and girls. Again, whose side are you on? Why are you criticizing the racial component instead of criticizing the culture that allows this shit to thrive? What’s more anti black? Calling out black men and their low value traits or calling a black woman anti black for saying… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 02:29 AM |
| 39 | Even though it may not be my place I have to say as a non black woman, the way black men treat and portray black women is disgusting. You guys deserve betterOmg girl, just like non Asian women commented on the murder of Asian sex workers, non black women can comment on the mistreatment of black women from black men. It’s a sign of solidarity. An “I see your struggle, you’re not crazy” type of thing. Let other races of women be our allies. Idk if you’re FDS, seems like you’re a race loyal woman that puts race before gender. Your comments are not helpful to this sub. This is the second post I find you on, criticizing the racial component of a post. Yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 02:10 AM |
| 44 | Let them fap themselves to extinctionThose women need to die off too. Sorry if that’s harsh but women that procreate with scrotes for the sake of their own validation are no sister of mine and should go extinct with these men. The ones that refuse to be rescued, at least. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 02:00 AM |
| 56 | Even though it may not be my place I have to say as a non black woman, the way black men treat and portray black women is disgusting. You guys deserve betterThis is a safe space for all women, regardless of race, to speak up about how we feel. If this non black woman recognizes the crap black men put us through, how is it problematic? Non black women that speak up in defense of black women and the neglect we receive from black men, are allies. Don’t be divisive on this platform, please. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 01:37 AM |
| 10 | To the black queens in here: please understand that divesting is imperative for our safety and to better our chances of meeting HVM. Most black men are LVM.To rid yourself of something you no longer want, or is not good for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 08:58 PM |
| 42 | To the black queens in here: please understand that divesting is imperative for our safety and to better our chances of meeting HVM. Most black men are LVM.That’s very interesting! Unfortunately not surprising. I have always wondered if other races of women dealt with same level of misogyny from their men as black women do. Of course we know 90% of men are LV regardless of race, but when you scope it to specific races, we can see how our cultures enable men to thrive in their misogyny. My community is also with other women at this point. I go out of my way to limit my interactions with men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 05:54 AM |
| 32 | To the black queens in here: please understand that divesting is imperative for our safety and to better our chances of meeting HVM. Most black men are LVM.I’m sorry but being black contributes very much to the men in our community to be LV. Black culture thrives off of enabling these behavior in men. Watch black movies, listen to explicit rap.... that LV shit is all over the community to the point where if we talk about white oppression it will not be a productive conversation. The white man is not to blame for our men being LV. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 04:28 AM |
| 45 | To the black queens in here: please understand that divesting is imperative for our safety and to better our chances of meeting HVM. Most black men are LVM.I’m working on a mega post on why all women, regardless of race, should think twice before dating a black man. It’s time to expose them ☕️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 03:56 AM |
| 30 | To the black queens in here: please understand that divesting is imperative for our safety and to better our chances of meeting HVM. Most black men are LVM.My post states black women should divest from black men because they are a threat to the safety of black women. I’m sorry I specified the race but not sorry for telling my sisters they need to leave black men in the dust. I mean have you seen the stats regarding black male-female relationships? Black men are problematic and the black community enables their shit, especially the women that want to be picked by them. Sorry, not sorry. I said what I said. eta: this comment wasn’t towards you btw, I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 03:50 AM |
| 130 | To the black queens in here: please understand that divesting is imperative for our safety and to better our chances of meeting HVM. Most black men are LVM.Black men view pain and sacrifice as love when it comes from a woman. If they are asked to sacrifice and feel pain to get love as a reward, they’d drop you like a hot potato and would not hesitate to call you a bitch in the midst of it. They are the biggest hypocrites. Weakest links. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 09:26 PM |
| 136 | To the black queens in here: please understand that divesting is imperative for our safety and to better our chances of meeting HVM. Most black men are LVM.I have finally decided to divest after years of wasting my time with black men because I believed in that “black love” bullshit. The black community is a war zone for black children and it’s all because of naker scrotes and their enabling mammy mules. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 09:22 PM |
| 93 | This is why you shouldn’t take other peoples opinions about your body seriously.I think it’s important to care more about how your body functions than how it looks. When I became an aerialist, I had new found love for my body because i realized that it functions how it needs to, it will adapt to anything. My body was meant to protect my soul. Going to the gym also helps with focusing on the function rather than the look. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 04:13 PM |
| 3 | I'm sick of pop music!Love that album. Cinnamon is such a beautifully written song. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 06:49 PM |
| 44 | Never settle for less than what you deserveGirl the gay dating scene is WORSE. My gay best friend tells me everything about how fucked gay men are. Men are men, regardless of who they like. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 02:45 AM |
| 7 | Derrick Jaxn LVMI’d also say Mindful Attraction is pretty good. Don’t get me wrong, he’s a scrote. But he calls out all the LV behavior and teaches women to have more respect for ourselves. His channel is an “eat the meat, leave the bones” type of thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 09:47 PM |
| 8 | Using movies to screen?I love the last unicorn! Best soundtrack ever | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 01:08 PM |
| 71 | Pickmeishas are never good friendsEnded a 10 year friendship because of this. She would publicly announce how bad I was down (I didn’t have a job or a phone) in front of men. It was weird and desperate. It’s like they put you in a competition you did not ask to be in. Plus, all the men these types of women attract are LV and who wants that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 12:45 PM |
| 3 | What Dominique Sisley (Vice) said she was writing about FDS vs. what she actually wroteHey, so Ive enabled chats so I think you can send it now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 05:39 PM |
| 8 | What Dominique Sisley (Vice) said she was writing about FDS vs. what she actually wroteI’ve been on the site before, it’s something I totally agree with. I know which sub you’re taking about, I joined when I honestly trying to see the other side of the FDS ideology but I do not agree with nor subscribe to their warped narrative, so I will remove myself from them. I swear I’m no troll or fraud in any way, I’m new to Reddit in general (since July 2020), and found FDS a few months later. However I do understand your reluctance to give me an invite, I respect that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 06:28 AM |
| 6 | What Dominique Sisley (Vice) said she was writing about FDS vs. what she actually wroteHello, I’m interested in an invite. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 05:30 AM |
| 19 | He definitely has this message saved to send to several women lol. The actual text had me cracking up though, who introduces themself like this??Girl when that man (or bot tbh, the man had the same profile on different apps and he matched me on each and didn’t even notice I was the same person lol) sent me that dissertation, I blocked with the quickness. Even my pickmeisha self knew better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 02:52 PM |
| 209 | He definitely has this message saved to send to several women lol. The actual text had me cracking up though, who introduces themself like this??I KID YOU NOT IVE RECEIVED THAT MESSAGE BEFORE! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 05:15 AM |
| 110 | Male Pandering At Its Finest.. Embarrassing.Then he cheats with a woman with no ass. Who will be the one laughing then? Women like this have yet to understand that MEN DONT TRULY CARE when it comes to getting their dick wet. If trees had soft, wet holes, they’d be his side chick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 05:59 PM |
| 1 | He cheated and she still got married to him and had his children.This is also very true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 08:15 PM |
| 5 | He cheated and she still got married to him and had his children.Self hating Black men fetishize mixed race babies that have little blackness in them. They disparage their babies if they look too black. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 06:06 PM |
| 12 | If you’re going to do OLD, I recommend OkCupidI found my HV ex (compatibility issues 💔) on okc, we are still great friends today. I agree this may be the best option in terms of OLD. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 05:38 PM |
| 11 | He cheated and she still got married to him and had his children.The non black women that feel good about black men worshiping them at the expense of our reputation and self esteem are sus to begin with. Giving very much anti black woman vibes. Any woman should be turned off by a man that puts down other women to elevate them, especially if he puts down a woman of his own race. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 03:57 PM |
| 15 | He cheated and she still got married to him and had his children.Exactly, black men are the greatest examples of LVM/NVM. They are the weakest links within the community and outside of the community. I should make a mega post on why black men should be the last resort when sifting through our options. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 02:45 PM |
| 8 | Don’t let them baby trap you ladies. Very bad things can happen.Every day I am more and more grateful for my abortions. Grateful I was able to access them legally, safely, and affordably. It was one of the hardest decisions I’ve ever made in my entire life but I know it was and will always be the best decision I ever made in my entire life. Those moments made me realize how much I love myself and what I’m willing to sacrifice to see my dreams come to fruition. Stories like these and that terrifying mom sub is constant validation that I did the right thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 01:23 PM |
| 16 | He cheated and she still got married to him and had his children.This is why I’m leaving black men in the dust where they generated from. They inflict so much psychological damage onto black women. Other races of women think they hit the jackpot when they find a black man drooling over her, but little do they know, they get the same ni**as we get. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 12:29 PM |
| 58 | What were some pivotal things your friends said that made you reconsider your relationship?Same here, I was a staunch “I rEsPeT hIs PrIVaCy” type of girl. My friend told me “the real him is in his phone, sis”. She was totally right | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 11:08 PM |
| 3 | Female Dating Strategy is not heteronormative🫂🫂🫂 Correcting is such a great way to describe it. It’s like you’re your own conversion therapist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 04:01 AM |
| 5 | Female Dating Strategy is not heteronormativeI think of doing this very often lately. This is a sign ♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 03:57 AM |
| 57 | Female Dating Strategy is not heteronormativeCompulsory heterosexuality is something that hits hard for me. I remember being a child and my father telling me that the worst thing I could ever do is be a lesbian, that if I ever told him that I liked women, I’d be disowned. I remember having feelings for women as opposed to males from a VERY young age, so when my father told me this, I was scared, shocked and didn’t want him to disown me, so I felt I “trained” myself to like males. I was obsessed with finding a male crush to prove I was hete… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 06:51 PM |
| 104 | I made a terrible decision of checking my ex's instagram and now I feel awfilHe’s going to treat her the same. They don’t change, their tactics do. Keep your head up. ♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 04:48 AM |
| 20 | His GF refused to bow to him, so he tired to kill her.Ladies, this is a great example of why we should not date men that have played or currently play contact sports. It’s stated that he stopped taking his medication for Bi-Polar disorder, however, CTE is highly overlooked in the NFL anyways and could be a contributing factor to his actions (not excusing it at all). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 06:11 PM |
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