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Blue Pill ExampleGregariousWolf/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 04:14 AM
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That's not precisely what I said, but I don't feel like arguing.
/r/MensRights31/01/19 06:51 PM
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Online dating has grown exponentially in recent years, to the point that it is now normal. It's inevitable some murderers will lure their victims online. There was one last year from California, and then there's the notable Craigslist Killer from ten years ago. I'm sure there's more. Taking suicide pacts and murder-for-hire plots out of the equation, these things happen but they're extremely rare. The error in your co-worker's thinking is that she is not taking into account the likelihood of thi…
/r/MensRights31/01/19 05:37 PM
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Yes and no. Yes, because there is a lot of sensationalism on the internet. And no, because the mating dance has inspired art and literature since time immemorial.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 01:57 PM
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To know that there are some unwritten rules in the dating game is helpful in managing your own expectations. In general, having reasonable expectations is one way to avoid unnecessary disappointment. This is not the same thing as happiness, of course. If there's one thing everyone agrees with (at least I think they do, it's a common theme in TRP, r-relationships, and real-world counselling) it's that happiness comes from within. You can't really make someone else happy and it's not your job to d…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 01:24 PM
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This may sound wretched, but exercise works. The skin is an excretory organ. Sweating it out will help. On edit: Supposedly eggs are high in an amino acid the liver is using to neutralize the highly toxic alcohol metabolites. That's why you hear people drinking raw eggs as a hangover cure. Haven't tried this one myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 03:41 AM
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Walls are hot right now. We got Matt Damon, Game of Thrones, Attack on Titan, Donald Trump...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 03:17 AM
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There's two parts to a hangover. You can't do anything about the toxicity in the liver. Time is the cure and nothing else, but the dehydration and electrolytic imbalances can be treated. Ever see those "hangover cure" little bottles in the store? Read the ingredients. They are mostly salts, sodium salt (regular table salt) and potassium salt. Some sports drinks, Pedialyte (a very good suggestion from below) can help for the same reason. What I use is "nu-salt" or the salt substitute you get at t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 03:07 AM
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Yeah, I kind of wandered away from here due to a lack of good will. Like you, I enjoy being exposed to different ideas and perspectives, and I like finding common ground. But it was starting to take on a battlefield quality. There's only so much moderators can do about that if the participants really want to fight. Under strict moderation the battle just continues as passive aggression. I think that's part of what people mean when they say toxic. There were times when it was really funny and lig…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 02:53 AM
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A reply! Yay! Real life and work pulled me away. The good news is I've had some progress on other fronts which has allowed more time to post on reddit recently. I was flipping through my history and reread some of my old comments here. I'm still intrigued by interpersonal relationships, and this sub had a unique flavor.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 02:21 AM
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Hi guys, haven't posted in here in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 01:35 AM
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In those days spirits were brave, the stakes were high, men were real men, women were real women, and small furry creatures from Alpha Centauri were real small furry creatures from Alpha Centauri.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 02:20 PM
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Is this not the fallacy of association? I hear the same thing going the other way when feminist sites are tarred as marxist or communist.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/17 01:44 PM
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Purple is a catch-all for in-between or moderate views.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/17 06:44 PM
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Because the battle of the sexes is interesting. It has inspired poetry and prose since time immemorial. I discuss it here because I'm interested in other points of view and the moderation is not stifling.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/16 01:03 PM
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if you're jacking off everyday then you've got a problem I knew I was going to get a song and dance. The thing is, if every day is a problem then a few times per week is a warning sign. You're in the danger zone!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/16 04:59 PM
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You did say that. These are your words, and I do not believe I am taking them out of context: Anyone who doesn't think that excessive masturbation (more than two or three times a week) is healthy for men is simply in denial. ...it's called having an addiction. You are a person with a penis. Know that it is safe for everyday use.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/16 04:16 PM
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Yeah, that's absurd. Twice per week is excessive? So what frequency of masturbation is not be considered disordered? Once per week? Once per month? I mean, come on. Sex once per month with your significant other is considered a dead bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/16 01:09 PM
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Twice a week is sex addiction? Get out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/16 12:54 PM
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There is nothing unnatural or wrong about masturbation. Agreed. The problem arises when it starts interfering with your life, Agreed. especially in conjunction with porn. Nope. People can develop compulsive behavior problems with something as innocuous as going shopping. It sounds minor, a but shopping addiction can lead to financial problems that will put you out on the street. Sex or porn addiction are in the same category as other compulsive behavior disorders. The resemble each other because…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/16 12:52 PM
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That's where nofap goes off the rails. Somehow porn is extra-special dangerous, such that no one can use it without abusing it. More of threat than gambling or drug use? Right. That's why I called nofap a pseudoscience. It is anti-pornography puritanism masquerading as science.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/16 12:32 PM
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Hi, thanks and upvoted. You gave another excellent example of a compulsive behavior disorder. No one is saying people can't develop an addiction to sex or porn. Only that porn addiction is in the same class as other compulsive behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/16 12:29 PM
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Disagree. Mainstream psychology suggests sex addiction is no different than other compulsive behavior disorders such as with overeating, gambling, or video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 11:53 PM
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Because it is pseudoscience based on a website run by Gary Wilson and his wife Marnia Robinson called YourBrainOnPorn.com. They have zero support from the mainstream psychological community.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 11:30 PM
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That thread was a really interesting thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 11:21 PM
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You made it too easy to challenge your view by advancing the position that it is the "most harmful sub on reddit". I'm not saying you will always get amazing advice there, but it is far from the worst there is. A lot of the time, the advice is in the best interests of the OP. Most of the posts made are not that hard to untangle. When the circumstances are straightforward, generally the advice given is not bad. They try not to be sexist, and if the case is clear-cut they usually succeed. I don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 11:16 PM
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I don't think there are any rules to love. Maybe that's just a more romantic way of saying "sexual strategy is amoral", but I believe it to be true nonetheless. All's fair in love and war. I don't think people really know what they want a lot of the time. People get what they can get. Maybe they know it when they have it. Maybe they don't. Sometimes they don't know until after they lose it. Suffice it to say words like "should" and "deserve" don't seem to be driving factors behind mating and dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/16 12:08 AM
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You know this entire thread is bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 01:39 AM
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Woke up Fell out of bed Dragged a comb across my head Found my way downstairs and drank a cup And looking up I noticed I was late Found my coat and grabbed my hat Made the bus in seconds flat Found my way upstairs and had a smoke And somebody spoke and I went into a dream
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/16 11:23 PM
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Of course such a thing exists. It's not like women can't be poisonous, after all. I'd start by establishing a binary masculine/feminine dichotomy. I realize gender exists on a spectrum, but this is a simplification for discussion purposes. In the abstract, the nature of masculine power is overt and the nature of feminine power is covert. Toxic masculinity is easily recognizable then as violence. It is the overt use of force, or the threat thereof. I believe this to be the #1 example, and I don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/16 04:27 PM
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I will not accept if nominated and will not serve if elected.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/16 10:29 PM
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This seems a bit off-topic for this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/16 12:04 PM
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I'm right with you on this point. If people want to discuss"privilege" they should consider how relative attractiveness colors our perceptions of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/16 12:02 PM
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But there are a lot of people who don't engage in casual sex. A great number of people seem to have a preference to pair off with someone they connect with on emotional and intellectual levels. Isn't that the point of having a relationship? Strengthening an emotional bond and sharing pleasure with someone you're invested in? Is this really that unusual? Also, why is it conflated with having little to no libido?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/16 11:40 AM
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Is this an orientation or is this a moral choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/16 01:32 AM
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I think a "spectrum" would be more like this: Hyperlibido - eulibido - hypolibido I think it is fair to say there some kind of normal distribution of libidos among the population with asexuals being outliers at the hypo end. Some of those terms though sound less like descriptions and more like special pleadings.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/16 01:30 AM
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It's the Battle of the Sexes for the new millennium. Red is Team Man and blue is Team Woman. Purple (as in a blend of red and blue) are moderates or fence sitters or otherwise in between the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/16 12:32 PM
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Usually I get a response like "Ho ho ho ho, your mind powers will not work on me, boy." When that happens I activate the tracking collar, untie her, and release her back into the wild. Marlin, Jim, and I will be able to locate the herd later by helicopter. But seriously, you can't negotiate attraction. If she's not flirting back, you move on. There's a million reasons for being rejected: you're not attractive enough, you're not her type, she's involved with someone else, and so on. On the other …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/16 11:43 AM
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I'm not sure why there is this drive to reconcile TRP with TBP Because we're all in this shit together.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/16 07:54 PM
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A recipe for failure.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/16 01:21 PM
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This is why I always say men are slight Aspie's. Women are neurotypical. Men are neurodivergent. Therefore, men are dysfunctional women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 12:46 PM
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Repping all miscers in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 12:36 PM
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Sounds like she needs a chaperon.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 12:32 PM
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Disagree. I think people have a natural negative reaction to sexual advances they don't want. I believe this is true for both men or women, and true whether the advancer is unattractive or the wrong gender. I consider the business you describe about "consent hysteria" and all men being rapists as a moral panic. Often times a moral panic will trade on the power of sexual revulsion, such as the satanic orgy daycare scandal in the 80s, or anti-gay hysteria as part of the red scare in the 50s, and o…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 12:22 PM
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Personally, I like that this sub is not all that strict. Goodness knows there's enough uptight subs already.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 12:02 AM
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I don't care to belong to any club that will have me as a member. --Groucho Marx
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/16 03:28 AM
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I guess I believe in a kind of yin and yang of male and female. Masculinity and femininity are sometimes in opposition and at other times complementary. I think it's part of the spice of life. Does that make me purple?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/16 03:15 AM
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This depends on your definition of safe space. If you define safe space to mean a moderated message forum where the discussion is limited to certain topics and trolls are banned, then sure. By this definition, TRP is a safe space. However, I don't think that is what people usually mean when they use the term safe space. The term as it is generally used on Reddit and college campuses is closely associated with identity politics. It is not just that the topic of discussion is moderated and that of…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 01:55 PM
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The topic of this thread and your usernames tickled my funnybone, that's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 12:31 PM
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Hey /u/PoopInMyBottom and /u/disposable_pants have you been introduced?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 02:12 AM
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Short answer, because I am politically egalitarian. Feminist organizations are special interest groups that act in the interests of women. Not that there's anything wrong with that. There's nothing wrong with special interest groups in general, for that matter. It is only the idea that feminism in the interests of all I find wrong. Being against feminism for me means that you want to get rid of the voting rights for women, that you want to make spousal rape legal again, that you want to remove t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/16 06:32 PM
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I'm just here for the ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/16 01:03 AM
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To paraphrase Agent 86: Shitty, and loving it!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/16 12:35 AM
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She's only a size 6 at Walmart.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 07:52 PM
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"I want someone to love me for me" = "I want to let myself go"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/16 02:25 PM
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The red pill women have divorced the patriarchs and are striking out on their own. You go girls!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/16 11:16 PM
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Look who's purging now!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 12:23 AM
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Bear Hug style.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/16 05:50 PM
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The belief that 'RP advice' somehow contains a magic ingredient is laughable to all those who are not RP There is no secret ingredient.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 03:10 PM
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Linda named her yacht the "Alimoney". Just sayin'.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/16 12:09 PM
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Far be it from me to tell someone they're not happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 08:42 PM
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I never implied any such thing, but just never mind OK?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 04:32 PM
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you are the anomaly Never mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 04:16 PM
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I have been hit on by gay guys, but even though I do not desire their sexual contact I do not feel the skin-crawling sensation you describe. I gather some straight guys do have a more negative visceral reaction to gay advances. Do you think your response is soley because of their age? Would you not feel a similar repulsion at advances from someone who you find unattractive but is near your age? Is all creepiness equal?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 03:55 PM
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Maybe not hate, but I do see in your post evidence of a visceral emotional reaction. Can you step into a dispassionate mode and analyze what's going on?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 02:05 PM
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Damn son, to me 25 is a younger girl. All things are relative.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 11:50 AM
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To elaborate, the jurors in question were arguing for acquittal. They said in essence that the victim broke the law of the jungle. They said he should not have gotten involved, and sticking his nose where it didn't belong caused it to be broken. I disagree. Is it wise to approach a man who is fighting with his pregnant girlfriend? No, I think it is a pretty risky thing to do. But to exculpate the perpetrator of the assault because the victim deserved a beating? I think that is victim blaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/16 04:09 PM
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I once served on a jury for an assault trial. The man on trial was having an argument with his pregnant girlfriend in the parking lot of a Walmart. Another guy was waiting in the parking lot to pick up his wife who worked at the store. This second guy walked over to the couple to ask if they were ok and got an angry beat down. All of this was captured on video surveillance. Did this victim deserve a beating? No, of course not. His decision to accost the couple was not the cause of his beating. H…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/16 03:29 PM
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That the female of the species is the choosier sex is probably one of the strongest of the "red pill" truths. Throughout the animal kingdom males compete for female attention and females choose those males with which to mate. As sexual animals, human beings also display this general pattern of mating behavior. Asymmetries in prostitution (a literal market for sex) and online dating (a figurative market for sex) bear out the idea. I think you are going to need a stronger argument than "some women…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/16 06:54 PM
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Droids before noids.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/16 02:37 PM
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I'm hetero, but my gay friends and I talk about the dynamics of relationships sometimes; what things are common problems for all and what challenges are unique to gay relationships. It is useful to test the rules by examining the exceptions. Granted, it is hard to make broad generalizations over what is already an outlier community, but one big thing that I take away is the idea that for the most part gay men are still men and lesbian women are still women. Even though they seek sexual gratifica…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/16 09:17 PM
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I have never seen an online message board auto-moderation or poster-reputation system that didn't get gamed in one way or the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/16 10:39 PM
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As others have said, anger is just an emotion. It's what you do with it that is constructive or destructive. Yes, there are people that lash out in wrath. There are also people who use anger as fuel for positive change.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/16 10:19 PM
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"Deep inside the skull of every one of us there is something like a brain of a crocodile. Surrounding the R-complex is the limbic system or mammalian brain, which evolved tens of millions of years ago in ancestors who were mammal but not yet primates. It is a major source of our moods and emotions, of our concern and care for the young. And finally, on the outside, living in uneasy truce with the more primitive brains beneath, is the cerebral cortex, which evolved millions of years ago in our co…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/16 10:02 PM
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I disagree. The first time I peeked in here it looked nothing more than a platform for blues and reds to insult each other. There are more purples now than there used to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/16 12:20 PM
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Because it takes a truly secure man to admit he tenderly twiddles her fiddly bits.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/16 08:11 AM
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I work in a white-collar corporate environment, and there is very little physical contact. Any touch limited to an occasional handshake. Otherwise, people keep their hands at their sides and maintain a cautious personal distance. Recently, I've been assigned to work in a plant, which is a blue-collar working-class environment. I noticed that there is much more physical contact between men. Guys stand next to you and put their hands on your shoulder. There is knee-slapping, back-slapping. Of thes…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/16 12:22 PM
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“Cast Down Your Bucket Where You Are”
/r/askTRP06/03/16 01:29 AM
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Quality post. One night stands, hookups, whatever you want to call them, are risky and often unsatisfying. True that a notch is a notch. If you're not getting any, maybe you feel that bad sex is better than no sex at all. That's your call. I'm not going to tell you not to bang some random. I will tell you to understand the risks and to take appropriate precautions. Keep your text messages/tinder chats, minimize alcohol consumption, and always use protection. Cultivating friends with benefits is …
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 01:50 PM
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I agree with the other posters who suggest she has butt implants. I also bet that she has breast implants as well as having had liposuction around her abdomen. I can tell from having seen quite a few strippers in my time. Some men like it because her features are exaggerated. For the others who don't, I believe for them her silhouette verges into the "uncanny valley". https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Uncanny_valley
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 12:30 PM
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The night is dark and full of terrors...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 12:15 PM
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It could be. This may be a little outside the scope of the pill debate, but the drive for ideological purity is nothing new. From the anti-communists during the red scare, to the red guards cultural revolution, to the jacobins during the great terror in France. Humans seem to have a strong desire to make the others think like us, and to deal harshly with those recalcitrant refuseniks. Moral panics and the crusade against blasphemy are just two ways in which this drive manifests. Even this little…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 12:13 PM
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I wrote this last week as a reply to a similar question. I do not believe it is possible overemphasize the importance of good diet and vigorous exercise with respect to general attractiveness. At a fundamental level, evolution programmed us to find visible signs of robust health attractive. Physical fitness is a clear marker that a potential mate is a viable choice with whom to produce offspring.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 04:27 PM
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Because our biological urges for mating and the sex drive originate in some of the most ancient structures in the brain that we have in common with all vertebrates. Our capacity for morals and ethics is based in reason and abstract thoughts occur in the frontal cortex, which is a much more contemporary structure common to primates and especially expressed in the great apes. Sexual strategy is not based in reason. It is neither moral, nor immoral. “Deep inside the skull of every one of us there i…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 12:07 PM
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I saw that, and thought it was a reasonably good post. I've seen poorer posts not be pulled, but I'm not here to complain about forum moderation. I do think that particular post could have used another round of editing. Nowhere on TRP does it say you should not give a fuck about those things that are meaningful to you. Your thoughts and values, those things you stand for are important. You should give a fuck about them. You should also give fucks about how other people treat you. A huge part of …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/16 08:24 PM
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I do not believe it is possible overemphasize the importance of good diet and vigorous exercise with respect to general attractiveness. At a fundamental level, evolution programmed us to find visible signs of robust health attractive. Physical fitness is a clear marker that a potential mate is a viable choice with whom to produce offspring. I find your argument that good a good haircut is more "efficient" than exercise to be laughably bad. A sickly man in a suit is still repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/16 12:55 PM
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Well, if someone is your type, doesn't that make them better? You're not holding out for someone worse, are you? Of course not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/16 06:03 PM
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Ignorance is bliss.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/16 11:09 AM
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Actually, they went right back to hazing the other guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/16 03:38 PM
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I'm interested as the issue of virginity is often thrown around as an insult, yet there's rarely candid discussion concerning it. what percentage of Red Pillers do you think had sex by the time they turned 18? Personally, i think it must be quite low. I see what you did there. But seriously, when I was in infantry school some of the guys were giving another guy shit for being a virgin. One of them turned to me and asked, "yo Wolf, you get laid this weekend?" I replied honestly, "yep" and went on…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/16 02:01 PM
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The male mid-life crisis is pop-psychology. Anyone can have an identity crisis at any time in their lives. You ought to be evaluating your choices and the trajectory of your life at all times. People who do not often find themselves in places they do not wish to be. The longer you live your life on autopilot, the harder it becomes to take control of the yoke. The cliche about 50 year old guy with a sports car and a blonde girlfriend is nothing more than shaming men for their desires. He wanted a…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 01:01 PM
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If we all agree, There's no reason to debate. What's the fun in that? Haiku! I find the dynamics of relationships and sexual attraction interesting, and I like to talk to people who think differently than I do. I am relatively secure in my own beliefs, but I don't think you can learn that much from only talking to people with whom you agree. When I was a kid, I thought the battle of the sexes was some kind of political humor that I didn't quite understand. Now that I'm divorced, I'm a believer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 12:47 PM
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These people have no idea how things work in the real world. Talk to anyone who has lost a job due to spending even a day in jail. It doesnt matter if the arrest was warranted. It doesn't matter if the charges are dropped by the DA. It doesn't matter if you're acquitted. This is not like taking defensive driving to get points taken off your license. Your reputation takes a lifetime to build and can be destroyed in an instant. If your career is based on your trustworthiness at all, it can affect …
/r/MensRights13/02/16 04:02 PM
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Wasn't there a thread on this recently? In Maslow's hierarchy of needs, sex is placed at the very bottom along with other physiological needs. Maslow himself wrote "One thing that must be stressed at this point is that love is not synonymous with sex. Sex may be studied as a purely physiological need."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/16 07:48 PM
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They segment humans into two catagories. Then they stop. No, I don't think that's right, either. They speak of typically heterosexual couples instead of homosexual couples. They discuss women of child-rearing age, women nearing the end of the fertility window, etc. They also lump men into buckets, too. Alphas, betas, average frustrated chumps. There is an lot of segmentation. Sure AWALT is a broad generalization, but I think it is often strawmanned by TRP's detractors. All it really means is fem…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/16 06:40 PM
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One detail you need to consider (which seems to be absent from your post) is whether you are talking about long term relationships or casual sex. The same person (male or female) may have different standards with respect to short-term or long-term mating strategies. If we're talking about casual sex, hook-ups, whatever you want to call them, then sex appeal dominates the decision making. In one night stands, by definition the value this person has to you is sexual. Period. There may be a few oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/16 12:58 PM
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Years ago on another website I was in an argument on the merit of city ordinances banning pit bull dogs. A lot of dog bite statistics and other anecdotes were tossed around. Two things came out of that discussion that have stuck with me to this day. One, small dogs cause more hospitalizations than large dogs, but large dogs cause more fatalities. Two, neglected, abused, or otherwise poorly socialized animals are significantly more dangerous to health and life than those that are well-trained and…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 12:11 PM
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Look at it as a challenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/16 12:14 PM
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Your hostility is misplaced. If you are unable to have normal sexual relations, well, that's a deal-breaker for almost everyone, male or female, straight or gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/16 11:49 AM
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it made people angry so I really dislike how you project anger and sadness on to other posters, and then offer up these fake apologies, like you did with the puppy videos in the last thread. No one was made truly sad or angry by anything you said. Instead you dodged some really thoughtful points. I find it to be passive aggressive bullshit that does nothing to advance discourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/16 01:09 AM
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I went to the fights and a hockey game broke out.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 10:59 PM
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People do think of it as meaningful, even if it is a release of hormones. Why are these two things mutually exclusive?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/16 06:09 AM
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Strictly speaking, that's still sexual reproduction. However, you and I both know that's not what I'm talking about. I'm talking about the act of copulation, experiencing the sensation of pleasure, and of the reinforcement of pair bonding as a result. Is this not a meaningful thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/16 05:55 AM
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The gender of the worker bees is irrelevant. Ah, but the queen...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/16 05:51 AM
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What is the opposite of meaninglessness? Perhaps sex isn't necessary for an individual to survive, but it is necessary for the species to survive. And if sky diving and drag racing and drugs and sports aren't meaningless, perhaps sex isn't meaningless either. And isn't it something that is meaningful for many, many people? Maybe they aren't just putting it on a pedestal. Maybe it is something that is universally meaningful.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/16 05:46 AM
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The purpose of life seems to be to hydrogenate carbon dioxide. I'd like to think there's more to existence than that. Our biological urges do not have to rule us, yet they often do, and they seem to color many of our interpersonal relationships without us even being actively aware it. And I'm not sure overcoming the reptilian parts of our brains is necessary or even desirable in order to get shit done. Can we accept our nature such that we might better nurture ourselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/16 04:48 AM
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We are the superior beings! Exterminate! EXTERMINATE!
/r/MensRights07/02/16 04:54 PM
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I'm not sure I agree with you. A premise does not represent an unfolding plot with character development. The predominance of porn lacks any plot or characters. If there is any at all, it is usually minimal and only enough to establish a fantasy setting. That having been said, feature-length pornographic films do exist but they seem to be in the minority. I've seen these movies advertised as "couple friendly". This suggests to me that men are generally more visual, and that women are generally m…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/16 02:49 PM
4

A lot of people monetize their blogs. Is there anything wrong with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/16 02:10 PM
2

It's a strange game. The only winning move is not to play.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/16 01:59 PM
5

There's no such thing as bad publicity.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/16 12:22 PM
1

What do you mean when you say BP? I may have slightly different definitions from most people on this sub. When I say blue pill, I mean someone who hasn't heard of sexual strategy, evo-psyche, and the whole milieu. Blue pill guys are ordinary people who are muddling through their relationship the best way they know how. In this sense, blue pill people on this sub are more red pill than someone who has never heard of any of this stuff. Red pill and blue pill on this sub to me reduce to Team Man an…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/16 06:18 PM
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All men and all women are "like that". It is the general recognition that we are animals, and as such we all have a sexual nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/16 12:00 AM
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And the dish ran away with the spoon.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/16 11:26 PM
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Hypergamy? Is this trading up, or is this the electronic version of spreading your seed far and wide? It strikes me as more of a fire and forget strategy. If it works, great. If it doesn't, that's not so bad because the level of investment is rather low. Does this not suggest typically male polygamist sexual strategy?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/16 05:28 PM
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By specifying a particular sex act, I think you weaken your argument. I dated a girl once who was repulsed by french kissing but was dtf. I think a better way of setting this question up would be to ask is or is not your willingness to experiment sexually related to the level of attraction you feel for a partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/16 05:11 PM
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A little bit about me, I am 25 years old. I am a woman. I am married. I have tons of books on evolutionary psychology and I'm fascinated with sex as a mechanism of partnership, politics, pleasure, ect. I find these aspects of interpersonal relationships fascinating, as well. Despite the bad reputation, TRP is one of the best subs on reddit. It's part evo-psyche, part get-motivated, and part locker-room banter. It's different and interesting where many of the big subs are boring and predictable. …
/r/askTRP28/01/16 12:07 PM
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I'm not sure r-relationships is good basis for drawing a distinction. I don't believe it to be a representative sample. I deem the sub to be young, immature, and lacking in perspective. While I think there is some anti-male bias, but the worst bias they have is the strong desire for feeling morally superior to the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 11:56 AM
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That's how you end up with a fat wife.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 04:37 PM
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Not blue pill, but I'll risk an answer anyway. Please don't ban me. Men and women both have emotions, I don't think there's any controversy there. What I think is going on is that women's moods are cyclical. This is due to the reproductive cycle. Females have the follicular and luteal phases. I think there's good evidence that women are more receptive to sexual advances during their fertility window. I also think there is good evidence for pre-menstrual syndrome in which their irritability thres…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 11:52 AM
1

Show me your hypergams.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 11:24 AM
1

I'm looking for a world-famous billionaire bikini-supermodel astrophysicist. You're close, but no cigar.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 11:19 AM
1

I always knew him as Jody. He's the guy who moves in on Suzie while you're on deployment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/16 11:51 AM
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Correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't "the wall" just jargon for what is commonly known as the biological clock?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/16 11:49 AM
1

If enlightenment were easy everyone would be the Buddha.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/16 11:47 AM
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coffee | nose > keyboard
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/16 11:45 AM
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I think people make too much out of what women are like in All Women Are Like That. Sure, there are some angry guys who say that all women are sluts. In my opinion, that's not what AWALT means. All it means is that female sexual strategy is hypergamy. The truth is that AMALT, too. Male sexual strategy is polygamy. Does that mean all men keep a harem? Does this mean all men are unfaithful cads who must cheat on their wives with hotter, younger women? No, of course not. The red pill simply teaches…
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/15 02:22 PM
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Smile. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/15 08:30 PM
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An entitlement is something you get by law or by rights. It is not something that is an earned privilege. In the context of relationships, it refers to people who expect to get more than they give, i.e. lack of reciprocity. In short, selfishness. Nice guys are oftentimes characterized as behaving as if they are entitled to sex. I'm not sure this is exactly what is going on. Instead, I think they believe they have earned sex through putting in the work, being supportive, doing things, paying for …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/15 04:38 PM
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TRP is the brand reddit loves to hate. There's nothing new under the sun, really. You can find the battle of the sexes in old TV shows and movies and allusions to the nature of femininity and masculinity is all manner of literature going way, way back. Nothing that we're posting about in this computer-based forum has ever not been printed by movable-type or inscribed on parchment with a goose quill. What's the cliché about every generation believing that they have invented sex? Same thing goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/15 06:41 PM
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"women aren't machines that put out sex when you feed them enough nice tokens." "Men aren't machines where you put in sex and a relationship come out." Saw that on TRP a few months back. Looking for the original post.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 11:51 AM
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I think people make too much out of what women are like in All Women Are Like That. Sure, there are some angry guys who say that all women are sluts. In my opinion, that's not what AWALT means. All it means is that the female sexual strategy is hypergamy. The truth is that AMALT, too. Male sexual strategy is polygamy. Does that mean all men keep a harem? Does this mean all men are unfaithful cads who must cheat on their wives with hotter, younger women? No, of course not. The red pill simply tea…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 11:12 AM
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Downvotes for Juvenal's satire? Shame on TRP.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 03:20 PM
3

I think people make too much out of what women are like in All Women Are Like That. Sure, there are some angry guys who say that all women are sluts. In my opinion, that's not what AWALT means. All it means is that the female sexual strategy is hypergamy. The truth is that AMALT, too. Male sexual strategy is polygamy. Does that mean all men keep a harem? Does this mean all men are unfaithful cads who must cheat on their wives with hotter, younger women? No, of course not. The red pill simply tea…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/15 03:20 PM
2

Bring out the gimp.
/r/MensRights02/12/15 11:02 PM
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That quote was from the Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences. http://www.pnas.org/content/early/2015/11/24/1509654112 The LA Times article is citing several sources. I mistakenly only picked the first one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 11:01 PM
1

Douglas Adams was right. Leaving the trees was a bad idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 06:52 PM
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A news article popped into my feed just this morning: http://www.latimes.com/science/sciencenow/la-sci-sn-no-male-female-brain-20151130-story.html “Although there are sex/gender differences in brain structure, brains do not fall into two classes, one typical of males and the other typical of females,” the team wrote in a study published Monday in the Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences. “Each brain is a unique mosaic of features, some of which may be more common in females compared w…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 11:34 AM
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Dammit, I'm literally late to the party.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 10:41 AM
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I agree with /u/wub1234 about the shunned males. We're a social animal and we form hierarchies. There will always be people at the bottom end of the social pecking order, just as there will always be people at the top. Feminism can't change that. Expanding the right to vote to include women 100 years ago did not cause a 40-year-old virgin today. I also think OP is being somewhat unfair to the other side. He does not describe what I think of as "blue pill" men. Never seen that sub before, but I t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/15 04:43 PM
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"Every day is Men's Day."
/r/MensRights19/11/15 11:57 AM
1

Eric Raymond has a great blog. You don't have to be a Linux guy to appreciate his writing.
/r/MGTOW18/11/15 11:43 AM
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Interesting post. It is for the reason you listed that I consider humans to be semi-monogamous. Among mammalian species, there is a rough inverse correlation between sexual dimorphism and monogamy. In other words, the less the differentiation between the sexes in a species, the more monogamous they tend to be. Lions are a good example of a mammalian species with high degree of sexual dimorphism. As everyone knows, the lions that can keep a harem -- a clear example of polygamy as male sexual stra…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 01:35 PM
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Some of the younger guys on the sub may be unaware of Alan Sokal and the hoax paper he submitted to a academic journal of the humanities. It's called the Sokal affair on Wikipedia. Also I want to provide a direct link to his paper Transgressing the boundaries: towards a transformative hermeneutics of quantum gravity. It is kind of a difficult read. It starts by dismissing the dogma that there is an real world where our actions have consequences and it goes down from there. The link from the OP d…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 11:13 PM
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Having a bug or a feature implies intent, which evolution does not have. The variety of sexual behaviors humans currently exhibit seems to be adequate to the task of continuing the species. To the larger question, unless you argue that "be fruitful and multiply" is intrinsically a moral good, then I don't think you can base a moral judgment against homosexuals (or others) solely on the fact that they are engaging in sexual behavior that is unlikely to lead to a pregnancy. I mean, so what? Not ev…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 01:13 AM
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It's what I call the monoculture. It tends to masculinize women and feminize men. Over the last century as women have entered the workforce in large numbers it changed the culture. The patriarchy has already been smashed. The public arena is less of a male space than it once was, but neither is it a fully female place. It has kind of gravitated towards an androgynous center.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 12:45 AM
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You're being downvoted, but if I get what you're saying I think you make a good point. If you accept evolution, then you can't really say whether homosexuality is a bug or a feature. Considering there are plenty of examples of homosexual behavior in the animal kingdom, then it is reasonable to expect various forms of sexual outliers in the human family; behavioral as well as physical.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 12:10 AM
1

Plot twist, Deckard was also a sexbot.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 04:59 PM
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Beginning to sound more and more that AM wasn't really a site for cheating, it was just a scam.
/r/MGTOW28/08/15 12:09 AM
2

Dude at 4:15 is looking for his red Swingline stapler.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 12:13 PM
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I think that you are making too much out of what women are like in All Women Are Like That. Sure, there are some angry guys who say that all women are sluts. In my opinion, that's not what AWALT means. All it means is that the female sexual strategy is hypergamy. The truth is that AMALT, too. Male sexual strategy is polygamy. Does that mean all men keep a harem? Does this mean all men are unfaithful cads who must cheat on their wives with hotter, younger women? No, of course not. The red pill si…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/15 11:25 AM
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Don't blame Jody. Blame Suzy Rottencrotch.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 03:30 PM
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Well done. In the jargon around here that's called "agree and amplify". It is a common rhetorical device used by comedians when dealing with hecklers. You take what they say, and instead of contradicting them, you run with it. Go to the point of absurdity, if you have to. Smile and have fun, and you will find it is an invaluable tool for irritating tight-asses of all genders.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 09:02 PM
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Waiting for GayLubeOil's wet t-shirt test.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 08:03 PM
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I've already been banned from offmychest and maybe more by the cabal (TINC). Back when I first started posting on reddit, I didn't know about making alternate accounts for different subs. Though reddit has rules against sockpuppetry, a lot of communities prohibit multi accounts outright. I used this account as my main and posted wherever. Fortunately, I'm not a neofascist and don't post to places like gasthekikes or coontown, but I did upvote some pron early on. A man lives and dies by his reput…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 03:07 PM
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You can't be seriously suggesting casual sex isn't mating.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/15 07:24 PM
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Fluzzers say Floozers go to extreme While Floozers claim they're not as bad as they seem Floozers say Fluzzers don't know what they face And Fluzzers think they've stepped out of their place Fluzzers accuse them of being a brat Floozers object cause they're not all like that Fluzzers and Floozers occasionally talk But most of the time both of them balk Flazzers tire of all of this flack They walk away patting themselves on the back So don't be a Floozers, Fluzzer, or Flazz And get too wrapped up…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/15 02:01 PM
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Sarcasm is best served untagged.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 12:08 PM
3

I am a man of constant sorrow.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/15 05:09 PM
2

You need to take back your place in your own life.
/r/askTRP23/07/15 05:00 PM
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I don't think TRP threatens Reddit's monetization effort. That's what this is really all about. Follow the money. It's also why fatpeoplehate got the axe. FPH was a huge snark sub that regularly hit r all, and management foresaw the potential for lost advertising revenue.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 02:38 PM
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There is literally no other source on the web for TRP information. Nah. There are plenty of manosphere blogs, forums, and websites dedicated to red pill ideas, men going their own way, pick-up artistry, men's rights, you name it. It's just that reddit is a popular and convenient place for a wide variety of discussion topics. Maybe your google-fu is weak?
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 02:33 PM
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Before enlightenment, drink vodka and beat wife. After enlightenment, drink vodka and beat wife.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 04:39 PM
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In general, I thought your post was well-written and I liked what you had to say. However, a criticism I have is that you are making too much out of what women are like in All Women Are Like That. Sure, there are some guys in the anger phase who say that all women are sluts. In my opinion, that's not what AWALT means. It means that female sexual strategy is hypergamy. The truth is that AMALT, too. Male sexual strategy is polygamy. Does this mean all men are unfaithful cads who will cheat on thei…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 09:42 PM
2

You and I have walked the same path. My wife is fat and I haven’t been attracted to her in years, but I never said anything because I didn’t want to hurt her feelings. I did the same thing. Sparing her feelings is a mistake. I tried everything, except the truth. I tried to drop hints. I tried to "lead by example". I tried getting her to go to the gym with me. I tried to get her to eat healthy. I tried taking her to a nutritionist and a personal trainer. I tried cooking and portioning all her mea…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/15 01:30 PM
2

Gozer was very big in Sumeria.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 05:01 PM
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Upvotes for classical red pill examples. There's nothing new under the sun. The battle of the sexes has been going on since time immemorial, and will be going on long after we're gone. Teach your children (if you have them) well.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 05:00 PM
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Yeah, you're right. I don't think OP is in dire straits. I think those tests can be laughed off, and maybe giving her a little comfort by having a "cheat meal" with her might be in order. Weight and health caused major conflict in my marriage, so that struck a nerve resulting in verbal diarrhea. I'm sure there are guys out there who struggle with weight or smoking or what have you, and find their wives give them more static than support. I think my words are directed more to them.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/15 02:51 PM
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Good job losing weight and working on bettering yourself. Stay the course. What you're feeling is totally normal. Keep in mind a few things: If she doesn't respect you and treat you well, get rid of her and find one who does. Women are like buses. Wait a little while, and another will come along. There is nobody that you cannot live without. Yes, it is true that there are people you will miss terribly when they are gone, but you can live without them.
/r/askTRP09/07/15 11:38 AM
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This is more than just a simple shit test. This can be an overt power play for dominance. I think it was one of the things that brought my marriage down. I was trying to lose weight and control my diet. In truth, I wanted us both to get healthier. I took her to a nutritionist and I took her to personal trainer. I would cook and portion healthy meals. I exerted enough willpower for both of us but she was having none of it. She would buy snacks and junk food to sabotage my effort. She would called…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/15 01:38 AM
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"Dress for success, baby!" said with a wink and smile.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/15 03:20 PM
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For those who don't wish to click, here's his comment: “It’s strange that such a chauvinist monster like me has been asked to speak to women scientists. Let me tell you about my trouble with girls. Three things happen when they are in the lab: you fall in love with them, they fall in love with you, and when you criticise them they cry. Perhaps we should make separate labs for boys and girls? “Now seriously, I’m impressed by the economic development of Korea. And women scientists played, without …
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 12:17 PM
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It's obvious from your post that you've read some prejudicial things against the red pill. But that's not what "getting back to our roots" means. The red pill isn't really about the men working and the women staying home. The red pill is a set of axioms that describe the nature of sexual attraction between males and females, the ways in which men and women are different, and the short-term and long-term mating strategies of both sexes. The "getting back to our roots" would be teaching men to be …
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/15 12:13 PM
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It's all a bunch of corporate doublespeak. If they were banning subs for brigading and vote manipulation, then SRS/fempire would be banned also. If they were banning subs for obscenity, then countless other subs would be banned also. The only true explanation is to follow the money. FPH represented a risk to future advertising revenue.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 05:30 AM
2

Power = racism - prejudice
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 05:24 PM
3

Sometimes I think irony is a zero-sum game and the world is running out of it.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 01:02 PM
2

Unsolicited endorsement: The Rational Male Read the best of years, one, two and three.
/r/askTRP05/06/15 12:49 AM
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Terms like creep and douche are shaming words femmes use to get men to self-censor. You'll never get anywhere with women by nodding respectfully towards them. You're missing out of a huge emotional range by excluding lighthearted or sarcastic terms of endearment from your vocabulary. Learn to embrace your inner douchebag.
/r/askTRP01/06/15 07:55 PM
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Of course you can, but you have to take sexual attraction off the table for it to be possible to have a friendship with a woman. It's that chemistry that changes the dynamic of the relationship. These are just anecdotes of course, but a few examples from my life come to mind. One was an engineer co-worker. She was married and older, feminine but not my type. She was highly intelligent and competent, we had a great professional relationship and even became friends. We worked together for many yea…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 01:32 PM
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Pity poor Joseph, cuckolded by the Lord.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 12:52 PM
1

Hi Karen, what are some good online resources for learning about evolutionary psychology? Like scholarly journals or professional association websites or even good blogs? Though I'm no expert it's a topic I find interesting. Thanks!
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 04:42 PM
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She's cool, I'd like to meet her. I'm a non-religious libertarian-leaning guy, and feel she's a bit of a fellow traveler. When I was considering blogging or doing Youtube stuff, her discussions of evolutionary psychology were one of the things that led me to this sub.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 11:05 PM
2

Populations evolve, not cells and not individuals. Evolution is the change in the occurrences of all the different genes within an entire population of organisms that happens over time as subsequent generations are born. Some individuals pass on their genes, some do not. Mutations occur due to errors in the machinery of copying DNA or to damage from environmental causes. If a mutation occurs in a sex cell (egg or sperm) the mutation may be passed on to the next generation.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 10:59 PM
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Carrying around a mattress is an opportunity to get attention.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 04:21 PM
5

From now on, I'm calling crossfit goat wrestling.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 11:29 AM
1

I'm not a doctor, but this is a common enough thing in skilled professions that I believe this advice may apply. Have confidence in what you do know, and own up to what you don't. Don't bullshit people who know more than you. Everybody starts somewhere. They know you're green. Find people you can trust to ask questions. Learn and grow. Pretty soon, you'll be answering questions from the next class of residents.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/15 08:59 PM
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There's two kinds of women you find in male dominated spaces. The first kind actually like male spaces because of the difference. The camaraderie is refreshing to them. They're not out to change the spirit of the group because they are enjoying it for what it is. Outdoorsy stuff is often a good example. A girl who goes shooting or offroading may be a bit of a tomboy, but she has some appreciation of male culture. The other kind are the ones who feel the space should be made safe for them. They d…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 05:10 PM
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Not worthy of its own thread, but I had one of those sublime moments the last time I went to the grocery store. Every man was dutifully pushing the shopping cart behind their woman. Every couple, without fail. The only women pushing their own carts were there by themselves. I know this is not a big thing in and of itself, and certainly it comes as no surprise to any of us. What it did for me was to illustrate the nature of male servility in romantic relationships. He's the beast of burden. And I…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 12:38 PM
1

I know the 48 laws of power has been mentioned. Learning when to STFU is part of living deliberately. “I went to the woods because I wished to live deliberately, to front only the essential facts of life, and see if I could not learn what it had to teach, and not, when I came to die, discover that I had not lived." --Henry David Thoreau Choosing when to speak is a good habit to cultivate. Running off at the mouth or having verbal diarrhea is a sign you are living reactively. By this I mean you a…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 11:59 AM
3

My ex-wife refused to recite vows that contained the word obey.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 08:40 PM
1

It's really amazing how quickly a decline in feminine appearance, accompanied by a highly demanding and entitled attitude, can kill a sex drive. QFT
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/15 12:46 PM
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I said those things and it didn't help. Instead, I got a shitton of fatlogic thrown in my face. She told me I was "shallow". That I was "superficial". That I should "love her for who she is" and that if I didn't want to fuck her BMI 40 body that I was a bad person.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/15 12:41 PM
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This is a good question. I've wondered it myself. Deadbedrooms is naturally light red pill because people are often at the end of their rope. They're in a broken relationship and the conventional approach (communication communication communication) isn't yielding any results. I wonder about these men who turn down their wives, and I wonder how this dysfunction might be viewed in a red pill context. A few possible ideas: One or both partners have let themselves go. The relationship has changed. I…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/15 12:24 PM
1

"The males FIGHT for female attention. The winner's genes carry on to the next generation, while the losers go home to play World of Warcrahft."
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/15 11:46 AM
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"Dread game" or whatever you call it is really nothing more than breaking a cycle of co-dependency. You have a relationship situation (marriage, LTR) in which one person has made their partner's happiness paramount, and the other partner takes them for granted. The only way to reclaim your individuality, the only way to reclaim your own happiness is to do your own thing. You cannot reclaim your own happiness by living life for someone else. By living your life on their terms, you are enabling th…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/15 12:33 PM
1

You don't have to talk about marriage if you don't want, but you're certainly qualified. As are many of us. I am often amazed at the commonality of our experiences.
/r/askTRP02/05/15 01:57 AM
6

I'm calling troll on this one.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 12:18 PM
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Continue ignoring her. It's working. If she is baiting you, and bitching to other people about you, then you are winning. Perform your work duties with her as required, and remain professional with everyone else at your workplace. You are not the only person who knows what is up with this bitch. That having been said, do not gossip. If someone confides in you about this leech, just kind of sigh and go "Yeah, I know". Do not launch into a tirade at work. Deal with your frustrations outside of wor…
/r/askTRP30/04/15 11:22 AM
2

When a man says this to you, he means for you to be authentic. When a woman says this, what she kind of means is something like "betray all your weaknesses to me now such that I might exclude you as a suitor".
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 11:10 AM
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I read all his updates. I'm sad they deleted that post. I can't understand how it is so controversial as to require censorship. Is his story really so outlandish? I mean, his experience mirrors mine so closely that it's eerie. We can't be the only ones. Certainly, there are other men who walked the same path. I neglected my hobbies, distanced my friends and family, and focused my life on what was expected of me. I helped her get an education. I helped her develop her career. I bought her cars. B…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 12:43 AM
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I think all right-thinking people in this country are sick and tired of being told that ordinary, decent people are fed up in this country with being sick and tired. I'm certainly not! And I'm sick and tired of being told that I am!
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 12:44 AM
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Im sorry but you don't know wtf you're talking about. I broke down and cried during my divorce and I will never forget the look of disgust on her face.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 04:40 PM
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Now you are beginning to see that the red pill didn't ruin your marriage. All that has happened is your perspective has changed, and now marriage is ruined for you.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 10:58 AM
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Not a fake Red Pill alpha, but a real alpha. A guy who isn’t just out for himself, but a guy who genuinely cares about others, brings others up, and makes others feel good. A perfect-ten human. Women describing a manicorn.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/15 12:10 AM
2

Before Enlightenment, chop wood carry water. After Enlightenment, chop wood carry water.
/r/askTRP23/04/15 12:32 PM
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With my girl from Central America one night I was like "please, baby" and she went, "no don't say that. Say instead 'I want you'". She wasn't redpill aware but she knew what turned her on.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 10:50 AM
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Title made my morning, thank you. That's why I think the 5 Love Languages is bullshit pop psychology. No amount of "gifts" or "service" or "words of affirmation" will make her wet for you.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 10:43 AM
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I agree that posting bad examples from r/relationships or r/deadbedrooms is picking low-hanging fruit.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 11:18 AM
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If you want an illustration of how AWALT read dating profiles.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 07:22 PM
1

The whole point is fellas: be warned, and be wary, not only of the hamster and the true nature of females, but of yourself. This should be boldface. RP is not only the truth about women, it is also the truth about men. It is the truth about yourself. I can see this shit 8 miles away at Eminems house. How the fuck did I get here? Because what is easy to see in other people is hard to see in yourself. Our emotions get in the way. Just an anecdote, but I chat with the security guard guy at work. He…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 12:38 PM
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How dare he suggest women have bodily functions? Everyone knows angels carry away their farts in silver bags!
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 02:05 PM
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Upvoted for classical red pill awareness. There's nothing new under the sun. The battle of the sexes has been going on since time immemorial. Jonathan Swift is better known as the author of Gulliver's Travels, a political satire. This poem was savaged by Swift's contemporaries for being grossly objectionable, as well as being considered misogynistic by modern critics. But the 18th century was a very superficial and pretentious time, with its elaborate wigs and intricate embroidery. Very frou-fro…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 11:25 AM
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I'm no guru. I'm just a divorced guy trying to get his life back together, but I'll offer a few observations. The first thing you have to do is consciously suppress butthurt. This is number one for now. "Do me a favor lose my number" is a display of desperation and bitterness, and nothing is a bigger turn off. Desperation and bitterness are already pretty negative emotions anyway, and you need to deal with them. You're in the wrong place, mentally and emotionally. The butthurt you displayed sugg…
/r/askTRP15/04/15 12:14 PM
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There's a thread on r/deadbedrooms right now that is the same story. Unless it's also a troll. Which one of you guys posted this? This didn't click with me at all. My fiance? Threesome? Toys? No way. She barely moves during sex and most certainly does not give me blow jobs or even hand jobs nowadays. She told me she finds blow jobs degrading and one time I suggested buying her a sex toy she told me only sad women use those. Who is this guy talking about that can "suck dick like a champ" and all …
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 07:22 PM
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I am always skeptical of HuffPo as a source. In my opinion, a better list is by a psychology professor at the University of Washington named Dr. John Gottman. He writes about the "Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse" in a marriage that lead to divorce. Note on the source, these are taken from Gottman's book Why Marriages Succeed or Fail, (c) 1994. (Edited to try to get the formatting right) 1. Criticism: Attacking your partner’s personality or character, usually with the intent of making someone rig…
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/15 12:47 PM
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"to let fact checking define the narrative would be a huge mistake" Fake, but accurate.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 12:05 PM
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The avalanche has already started; It is too late for the pebbles to vote.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 10:08 PM
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I disagree. They are related in that they demonstrate the transactional nature of sexual relationships.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 03:57 PM
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Absolutely. More precisely, women give sex as reinforcement and withhold sex as punishment to condition men to behave the way the woman wants. The irony is the more conditioned a man is, the less attractive he becomes.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 04:03 PM
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Interesting. When the woman leads the relationship is parasitic. When the man leads the relationship is symbiotic.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 02:45 PM
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Recently, there was a discussion of Briffault's Law and deadbedrooms in PurplePillDebate. Red pill canon states that women are the gatekeepers of sex and men are the gatekeepers of commitment. Put another way, women pursue commitment and provisioning from men. Men pursue sex from women. Is this controversial at all? This is the yin and yang of male and female. We've all watched the nature shows growing up. In the animal kingdom, males vie for female attention and the females choose those males w…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 12:19 PM
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I don't think you're wrong about that. There are sure to be some local populations of wolves that are threatened, but as a whole wolves aren't in any danger of going extinct.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 04:12 PM
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Just a nitpick here, wolves are not endangered.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 11:39 AM
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The sub is pretty supportive of people getting out of bad relationships so they have the opportunity to have a healthy sex life. It is one of the more interesting subs about relationships that I read. Some of it is hard reading. These are people in emotional pain, neglected by their spouses. There seems to be considerable variance in the level of importance of sexual intimacy. I used to think everyone needed it, though perhaps not all to the same extent. One possible red pill explanation might b…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/15 03:36 AM
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Oh yeah. Everybody on r/deadbedrooms knows choreplay is a non-starter. I don't have a flair in this sub, but I lean towards being red pill. That having been said, the r/deadbedroom example of a low-libido man with a high-libido woman might be an interesting place to see if we can poke holes in the theory. Now, it could be the low libido men are outliers, or they are borderline hypogonad, or erectile dysfunction, or they are using too much porn. I'm also working under the assumption that the woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/15 03:02 AM
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I read r/deadbedrooms a lot, probably because I've been there but that's not important now. I think the classic battle of the sexes explains many, but not all dead bedrooms. For many, I think the red pill is right on the money. A henpecked man turns servile and passive aggressive, and what was a husband and wife relationship has become a mother and child relationship, and lo and behold the sex dries up. However, there are enough dead bedrooms on that sub where it is the men rejecting the women f…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/15 02:43 AM
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A man's power in a relationship comes from his ability to walk away. Legal marriage impedes his ability to withdraw his commitment by increasing the cost of doing so. However, there are no disincentives to the woman from withdrawing sexually within marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/15 02:29 AM
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Fat kills relationships dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/15 01:32 AM
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This is just a personal anecdote so please take my N=1 example with the appropriate disclaimers, but I had this exact scenario, i.e. without children. As time wore on she gained weight, became irascible, more distant, and eventually we were in the typical r/deadbedroom sans little ones. I have no doubt that child rearing contributes to this problem. However, as there are many couples with children who do have healthy sex lives, I do not see children as a proximate cause. They are at best a contr…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/15 01:07 AM
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Ladies, find an older guy who is in shape and has his shit together.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/15 02:26 PM
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You're supposed to fight for me! My ex-wife used those exact words. It wasn't long after I realized that the only one I was fighting was her.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 04:53 PM
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There was a brief discussion a while back about benevolence from a position of power. A big part of unplugging is learning to stand up for yourself, you know, how to not a be a doormat. But in the effort to cure yourself of servile traits, do not lose sight of compassion and kindness for your fellow man. Being "alpha" is far too often associated with callousness, but can also exist as nobility. Remember, it's a state of mind, not a state of being, and it's all about context. On that other thread…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 02:42 PM
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Fish don't know they are in water. How do you get a fish to understand what water is? It is so much a part of them, that it doesn't even exist. They cannot distinguish it from themselves. Well, at least until it is gone, and then you have a fish out of water. So it is with women and the mating game. It is so much a part of the female experience that they don't even realize it exists until after their beauty fades and the realize what they've lost.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 01:49 PM
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History doesn't repeat, but it rhymes.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 06:15 PM
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Free at last, free at last! Thank God Almighty we are free at last!
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 09:04 PM
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Rely? No. However, throughout the mammalian kingdom males compete for female attention and females choose those males with which to mate. It's no different with us, really. Though we have big frontal cortexes and a highly industrialized and bureaucratic society, we are still animals. We retain our animal instincts with respect to courtship and mating. Are we really that different than Thag and Oof?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/15 05:58 PM
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Certainly not. I consider myself a liberal, and in no way shape or form would I wish to impose a strict social conservatism on my straight friends and family, to say nothing of my gay friends and family. I'm a very "if it feels good, do it" kind of guy. If you feel you are an outlier, then find what works for you. All the red pill says is that for average heterosexuals a masculine male and feminine female would probably feel good together. A fault with modern liberal culture is that it is so pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/15 05:41 PM
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Well done meta post. Life is a salad bar. People take from it what they can and put it together in different ways with widely varying results. People do this with with religion, education, philosophy, even diet and exercise advice. I suggest a thorough investigation of the material on the sidebar. Allow yourself to fully digest what you've read, and take some time to see how it applies in your own life. That's the only way to know if it truly has any value to you at all. Also be aware that a lot…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 05:18 PM
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Yeah, if you say anything contrary to the groupthink, people immediately go through your posting history looking for a reason to discredit your opinion.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 11:49 AM
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I'm sure he asked about her sexual past. How could this even be considered a lie by omission? If it wasn't a big deal, why the deception?
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 02:31 AM
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When i was young I thought the Battle of the Sexes was political humor. Now that I'm an older divorced guy, I'm a believer.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 04:49 PM
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The greatest trick the Devil ever pulled was convincing the world he didn't exist.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 06:53 PM
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Hey, no problem, and you make a fair point. Perhaps I overstepped my bounds a bit, and you are not the only person to call me on it. I may have ascribed too positive a connotaion to non-governmental organizations. Churches, corporations, trade unions, etc, are certainly not immune from error.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 03:11 PM
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I was thinking about the source of our disgust at chumps. Red Pill canon states that men are the gatekeepers of commitment and women are the gatekeepers of sex. Women are looked down on for being "sluts" right? Everybody knows what this means. It means they give it up too easily. They are indiscriminate with sex partners. There is also the stereotype of sluts acting "unladylike", by that I mean bitchy and backstabbing. In general, men are not looked down on as much for promiscuity. (Putting asid…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 03:05 PM
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I didn't downvote you. By definition overt power trumps covert power. Overt power is the thrust or lunge. Covert power is the power of the feint and disengage.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 02:19 PM
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Servility kills the tingles.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 12:19 PM
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There's nothing inherently wrong with altruism. I was at a concert last month, and I gave some girls a ride to their car. It was cold and wet, and they were in the wrong parking lot, and they asked me very nicely, "would you please help us find our car?" I got nothing out of it, and had no expectations that I would. Am I a chump? I don't feel like I was taken advantage of. I also help the old lady next door take out her heavy trash. There's nothing in it for me, obviously, other than social grac…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 11:54 AM
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a very good looking 28 year-old tax consultant with an interest in home renovation She seemed a bit wistful about him not writing back. It could be that he didn't fall into the chump category, and instead fell into the attractive category. He might have gotten a lay out of it. She didn't write about him in the same way as she did the guy who talked about his ex, or the guy who was married. Also, he went cold on her.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 11:43 AM
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I looked at the titles of her other articles for the magazine. Most of them were about the Boston marathon bombing. This may have been what she considers a light humor piece.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 11:36 AM
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The thing about developing your own self-worth is that you allow yourself to be manipulated and abused less. I'm not simply blaming the victim. In the case of demonstrable fraud, the victim is a victim. But in the case of emotional abuse in relationships, the victim share some culpability by staying in the situation. In the case of manipulation, there are factors with the victim that enable the manipulator. I'm not proud of this, but it is true. After my divorce, I got roped in by a gold digger.…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 11:34 AM
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Good reply, and took the idea a little farther than I originally had in mind, but you're absolutely right. I'm not trying to steer the discussion towards political theory, but in a way civilization itself is control of overt power and brute force. In the absence of civilization, in a state of lawlessness or mayhem, brute force is all that matters. Civilization reigns in overt power. It puts limits and checks on when you as an individual may exercise it. Covert power by its very nature is more di…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 11:14 AM
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English is my first language, and I agree with you. This shit doesn't make any sense. Yeah, she is trying to shame guys. Most of it seems to be against the idea of older men being with younger women. Never mind that guys like younger women and a lot of younger women like older guys. So, it is just an angry rant against the way things are.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 12:03 AM
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Man as gladiator, woman as crowd. Are you not entertained?
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 09:30 PM
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There is no avoiding it. There is only acceptance. Acceptance, however, doesn't mean surrender. You can't slow the march of time, but there are a lot of things you can do to maintain your health and a good quality of life. You are young (18) and you have your whole life ahead of you, so you may not be thinking this far ahead but take a look at the following link: At 74-years old...these are your legs on triathlon & these are your legs without triathlon If a picture is worth a thousand words, the…
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/15 10:52 AM
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Not trying to pick a fight here, but I can't help but notice a contradiction in that you call yourself a red pill woman but you characterize red pill tools as being abusive, harmful, and toxic. Furthermore, you suggest they are unable to be employed properly by 95% of men. Much of reddit is young and inexperienced, you can't call out TRP subreddit as being especially bad for that, you know. Are you looking for the manicorn? The natural alpha to put you on a pedestal? :)
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/15 11:53 AM
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I am disappointed OP. I thought this post would be about the article where the lady uses tinder to get guys to dig out her car: http://www.bostonmagazine.com/news/blog/2015/03/04/tinder-getting-strangers-shovel-car/ "About Susan: Looking for someone to shovel out my car. Nothing complicated, no strings attached, just please shovel out my car. Thank you." Guys line up for the chance to dig out her car. This would make an excellent blue pill example. Even though she explicitly says no relationship…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 12:06 PM
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It does get a little stuffy in here sometimes. That OK though. I'd rather it lean a bit towards the pretentious rather than to degrade into snark. I like that people try to write original content and that low-effort posts are discouraged. The subject matter is fairly serious, after all. Topics go well beyond a man's love life, into his relationship with his friends and family, and ultimately his goals in life and the search for meaning. It's interesting and different than a lot of the junk on re…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 12:32 PM
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I know there's that slogan stolen from Fight Club saying not to talk about the Red Pill, but it is easy to talk about if you know how. I agree that the trick to talking about the Red Pill is not to use any of the terminology from this sub or blogs. Don't talk about sexual market value or hypergamy and whatnot. Just use plain language. Sometimes I'll put it in slightly antiquated terms. If I'm out at a bar and the subject of women comes up, I make jokes about the Battle of the Sexes and how I'm a…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 12:11 PM
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It makes it worth it if the woman is a quality person with good upbringing and good morals, and would make a good mother for your children. That's the reason to have one: childrearing. As an aside, did we just top 100k subscribers?
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 11:52 AM
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This law is so ridiculous, why do women always feel they need "protection" from things? The government has supplanted the husband in the role of protector and provider.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 02:51 PM
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Dignifying everything she says or does with a response keeps you in her frame. Sometimes you just need to let stuff drop. Do I really need to give an example of this?
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 01:04 PM
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If you refuse a test, you fail. Disagree. There are times when a dismissal is appropriate. Ignoring a shit test or going off on a tangent is way of saying that her words or actions do not deserve a response. It lies in between clown game and an overt dressing down.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 12:29 PM
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If you need to open up do so with your family or your best friend.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 12:17 PM
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That shit wouldn't fit into a movie script anywhere. That particular movie doesn't need much plot.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 10:25 PM
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A man is only as old as the woman he feels. -Groucho Marx
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 11:01 PM
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according to a court filing by the firm. 'At any moment in time, Ellen is not getting along with someone. Why am I not surprised?
/r/PussyPass24/02/15 09:56 PM
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Interesting and novel analysis. "Security, status, escape." You should write up something longer and post it. I believe it to be worthy of its own thread.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 12:17 PM
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I always enjoy reading your posts. It is also true that AMALT. Men feel sexual urges for younger, hotter, tighter women. No public awareness campaign will ever change this. Detractors make it out that AWALT is some kind of bigotry, when all it really boils down to is a reminder to men of what drives sexual attraction in women.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 12:13 PM
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All men are pigs. Feminist women are equal to men. All feminist women are pigs. QED.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 12:13 PM
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he's been taught that putting a woman before himself will show her his "value" as a person - that he has superior morals, a superior work ethic ... of course we here all know that that's not what women are actually attracted to. Good post. Having morals is a good thing. Having a work ethic is a good thing. These intangible qualities add to your value as a person. But these are not the same intangible qualities that will attract a mate.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 01:50 PM
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Feats of endurance are an integral part of sporting events. Given the amount of dedication it takes to train for an event such as a marathon, I find your attitude that people don't understand the risks to be excessively paternalistic.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 03:38 PM
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Are people who train for marathons not conditioning their bodies for it?
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 03:32 PM
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Excessive by what standard? There are physical characteristics that suggest we are by nature an endurance running species. http://phys.org/news95954919.html
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 03:23 PM
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It happens because we neither a purely monogamous species like beavers or purely polygamist like lions. We're somewhere in between, you might call us semi-monogamous. We're a social animal who is able to form life-long bonds. Those bonds, however, may be broken. People want the best of both worlds. People want a relationship that rings that bell inside their head for sexual attraction and also want a committed and loyal emotional bond that satisfies our higher thinking and our needs in the physi…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 01:12 PM
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All love is conditional. Kick your dog enough times and it will bit you.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 10:08 PM
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women in general are very good at making you feel the way they want you to feel, whether good or bad. Sidebar material right there.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 06:20 PM
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Look up Anne Rice's Sleeping Beauty. There is an undercurrent of eroticism in her vampire novels, but the SB trilogy is purely erotica. I still consider it girl porn. I haven't read any 50 Shades, but I gather it is relatively softcore in comparison. I don't think I'm going out on a limb to suggest Rice's work is probably better written, but that's setting kind of a low bar.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 12:19 PM
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Yes, we can. But it is fucking exhausting in the long term.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 04:29 PM
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The male mid life crisis is pop psychology. People can have an identity crisis at any time in their lives, but that's not what's going on. But the guy who buys a sports car at 40 wanted one when he was 20 but he just couldn't afford it. The guy who bangs a hot young thing at 40 wanted to bang hot young things at 20 but he didn't have the game. "Mid life crisis" is fem shaming language for men who reach down and grab a pair and take action to recover some independence from their fat, mean, and co…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 06:30 PM
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I strive for drunken master.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 06:48 PM
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Seems like a fine addition to the Manson family.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 12:53 PM
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To me this post summarizes what the principles of TRP are all about, increasing our own VALUE in Life first, so that we can reverse the male/female dynamics from what the Dusney narrative indoctrinates everyone out there. This bears repeating. You hear a lot of talk on TRP about not putting pussy on a pedestal or making yourself the prize, but OP's post explained the idea very well. Create value in life. When you do, you increase not just your own self-worth (and I'm not saying self-worth is uni…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 02:16 AM
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Prostitution still is ubiquitous, but its prohibition has made it more dangerous for all involved.
/r/askTRP08/02/15 01:40 PM
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Psychology is a science. Individual psychologists and therapists differ greatly in terms of proficiency and philosophy.
/r/askTRP08/02/15 01:33 PM
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As an aside, there's no better illustration of AWALT than reading profiles.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/15 07:14 PM
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I'd guild this post if I could. It is the very definition of amused mastery. That is another of those loaded RP terms that is so simple in practice. Be playful with her. It is supposed to be fun. Sometimes I think this gets forgotten in all the talk about SMV and frame and stocisism. Forest for the trees, and all that. Acting like a little boy can stimulate feelings in her of being a little girl. Who doesn't want to feel some child-like joy and innocence sometimes? Light-hearted and fun teasing …
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 05:14 PM
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Part of this is natural. The honeymoon period won't last forever. Falling in love is kind of like a drug, or rather the effects of love on the brain are not too dissimilar from a high. During the time people are high on love they are more willing to ignore negative things they might not otherwise. Once they come down, they begin to notice those things again. I also think this is a factor in woman who ride the cock carousel. They get addicted to falling in love. Literally. Not a physical dependen…
/r/askTRP04/02/15 12:27 PM
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Equal may be a loaded word. State that men and women are not identical. It's a fallacy to believe the path to equal importance is similarity.
/r/askTRP03/02/15 11:49 AM
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Thanks for writing, and it is interesting to see an outside perspective. There is a sub called /r/altTRP that is supposed to focus on non-traditional relationships, and it could use some good content. That having been said, I welcome your views here in the main. I realize it is difficult to generalize on an already outlying population, but gay men are still men and lesbian women are still women. On the balance, I believe gay and bi men operate as all males do with respect to their selection of m…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 09:27 PM
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I've come to believe shit tests are part of the female psyche. It seems to be a fundamental dynamic in a romantic relationship between a man and a woman. She has an unquenchable desire to know your level of fitness and dominance. It's not an evil thing, though it may seem so to us sometimes. Guys make the mistake of believing once he has "won" her, that the game is over. The game is never over, gentlemen. The game is always on. Especially for those men who enter into marriage, they feel that the…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 01:29 PM
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Bitching is a military past time anyway. :)
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 04:38 PM
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The battle of the sexes is one of those things that really transcends politics, nationality, and social order. Since my divorce, I've discussed women with guys from all walks of life from janitors to CEOs, from the army vet security guard at the front desk to the Russian petrophysicist technical director. AWALT unites us as men.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 03:36 PM
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Neo-reactionary white male racist sexist atheist libertarians? Could there be anything worse OMG?!
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 01:17 PM
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Not monk mode, but priest mode? No thanks.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 12:35 PM
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I'm glad to see so many positive responses in this thread. Everyone has to start somewhere. Start where you are and work your way forward. I've found that gym culture values hard work and dedication and is generally supportive and encouraging to beginners. Because there is so much good advice in this thread and elsewhere to be had, I don't feel I need to add a whole lot. I will say a couple of things: Don't neglect your core. It is easy to focus on presses and curls, but heavy compound lifts lik…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 12:55 PM
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It's not wrong. The desire to be a father is not just in the loins, it is also in the heart. I am 40 now, divorced without children. I sometimes wonder if I am infertile. I consider at my stage in life, that there is a strong likelihood I will be playing the role of stepfather or adoptive father. Also, in my family my first cousin adopted her niece (my cousin once removed) and she also has a son by her first husband. Her current husband is a good man and a good father to both. She seems to love …
/r/askTRP22/01/15 12:40 PM
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Handle it with aplomb and take comfort in this piece of knowledge: if women below your league are approaching you, the you are doing something right. You are sending the right signals out to all women. You should be able to pull in your league and with a little work punch out of your current bracket into a higher one.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 04:08 PM
1

I'm not sure I agree with your definition of try-hard. I always thought a try hard was a guy who makes sure everyone knows how hard he's working. What the OP is describing is the opposite of a try hard: someone who is doing the work but not crowing about it. The guy who prays loudly in church so everyone knows how pious he is a try hard.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 05:57 PM
1

Do I need to start posting here? :)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/15 08:19 PM
0

As if divorce wasn't gay enough.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 01:11 PM
2

Jealously guard your credit rating. It's the closest thing we have in our technological and bureaucratic society to the value of your word. I know it's not fair, but life isn't always fair. Marriage to the wrong person can kill (among other things) your credit rating. She may have bankruptcy, delinquency judgements, she may have co-signed for loans or court bonds for her friends or family. As the OP said, all of these liabilities become yours, as well. These things are not immediately obvious. S…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 01:10 PM
64

A strange game. The only winning move is not to play. How about a nice game of chess?
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 05:51 PM
4

This tends to support a belief of mine that alpha is a state of mind, not a state of being.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 05:45 PM
3

"If I were married to you, I would want to die alone."
/r/MGTOW09/01/15 10:06 PM
1

Don't forget your PIN number.
/r/MGTOW09/01/15 02:22 AM
3

WTF did I just watch?
/r/MGTOW09/01/15 02:20 AM
1

I'm honestly considering hiring a surrogate. Such a child would always be yours and only yours.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 09:11 PM
1

Hitch was his own man, which is more than you can say for a lot of people.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 01:11 PM
7

Man and woman are yin and yang. His power is overt. Her power is covert.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 06:31 PM
14

In line with TRP's mission of self-improvement, I would like to note that this is true not only for external change, but internal change as well. Don't expect that reinventing yourself will happen effortlessly like flipping a light switch. Take baby steps. One day at a time. Attempt managable changes and observe the results. If you fail, try again. Learn from your mistakes. Build on your successes. This is not to say radical change is impossible. Only that gradual improvement is more likely to s…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 05:40 PM
3

The internet tough guy is strong with this one.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 04:56 PM
6

When I was young, I used to think the battle of the sexes was some kind of political humor. Now that I'm older and divorced, I'm a believer. The battle of the sexes is nothing new. It has been with us since time immemorial.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 02:19 PM
2

Can confirm. I recall my ex-wife making a comment about the child actor who played Malfoy was growing up and filling in nicely.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 02:16 PM
2

But anyone can play unicorn for six months. I call this wearing a mask. Anyone can wear a mask for a limited amount of time, some longer than others. Eventually, the mask will slip off and you see who is really underneath.
/r/askTRP21/12/14 10:10 PM
4

Personally, I don't consider this as a flake. Flaking is when someone just doesn't show up, or gives weak-ass notice the on day of like "oh I'm sorry I can't make it because blah blah." The new year is ten days away. Yes, your plans changed. And yes, it probably hurt her feelings that you're not going to spend the new year hanging out at her house. You invited her to come with you to your best friend's birthday party, and it's not your fault she can't go with you. Maybe she feels betrayed that y…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 11:40 PM
3

You just slip out the back, Jack Make a new plan, Stan You don't need to be coy, Roy Just get yourself free.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 03:24 AM
3

Now, that's what you call agreeing and amplifying.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 03:13 AM
3

This man's step daughters may have been after guardianship of their mother, and are using these charges to have his guardianship revoked. I'm assuming that, as the husband, he has guardianship or at least power of attorney and medical power of attorney over his wife. His wife had dementia, but depending on her condition she may have recognized her husband. They had been together for close to ten years. He would be in long term memory. It is reasonable to assume she would be comfortable with him.…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 12:27 PM
1

Been reading these posts, and there are a lot of echos of Sun Tzu in these laws.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 11:52 AM
10

I don't want to waste too much time responding to a purposefully obtuse post, as the context is clear. We're not discussing 19th c. chattel slavery. We're discussion modern marriage. You don't own your girl. You can't control her behavior. You can only control yourself. This is generally true for interpersonal relationships. In a buddhist-ish context, attempting to control others is the source of much suffering. By observing her reactions to your behavior, you can decide whether it is worth inve…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 04:42 PM
3

Yeah, you can't really own people, anyway. The only person's behavior that you can control is your own.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 02:19 PM
1

Since you're business savvy, I'll make this analogy: think of it like job interviews. A lot of the time, getting a job is a numbers game. You send out a large number of resumes, and you may get a rejection or you may hear nothing back. Do you take it personally? No. It's just business. You move on to the next opportunity. As you gain work experience, you polish your resume, and you send out more. Interpersonal relationships aren't much different. There are so many people out there. There are bou…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 01:27 PM
1

While fathers generally teach their sons, nowhere is it written fathers can't learn from their sons, as well.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 10:21 PM
1

Yeah, there is a whole lot of products that are long on gimmick factor but short on productivity. If you do want to do leverage media in note taking, get a simple audio recorder to record your lectures. Be sure to take thorough notes, as if you did not have the recorder! When you review, listen to the audio recording as you read your notes.
/r/askTRP02/12/14 07:05 PM
2

Don't take all the weed out courses at once. You might weed yourself out.
/r/askTRP02/12/14 06:57 PM
0

Long story short: there's nothing more empowering for a man than putting aside an attractive woman.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 11:44 AM
8

A man is only as old as the woman he feels. --Groucho Marx
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 05:28 PM
5

I'm not going to lie, I'm a beta male and I have always been one. I'd like to correct your thinking here. Alpha/beta is a state of mind, not a state of being. You're a man. Full stop. Start there.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/14 02:09 PM
5

Solid post, I am prompted to reply. There seems to be an undercurrent of stoicism and asceticism in TRP/MGTOW. Not purely ascetic or stoic, of course, but it's there. OP's post has done a good job of identifying instant gratification as a problem in American culture. We're inundated with messages promoting instant gratification. Want something now? Buy it on credit. Receive your reward now, pay it off later. Want to feel better, get a pill. Want to look better, get surgery. Video games, pornogra…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 01:25 PM
3

In his Atlanta Exposition Address, Booker T. Washington uses the phase "cast down your buckets where you are." He gives the analogy of a ship becalmed, its sailors dying of thirst. They signal a passing ship for water, and the other ship signals back for them to cast their buckets down where they are, as they are at the mouth of the Amazon river surrounded by fresh water. Without getting into race relations, the message is to start where you are and to use what you have right now to better yours…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 12:24 PM
3

I can't say. I'm not a sociologist, I wouldn't even know where to look for supporting data. What I'm getting at here is even though homosexuals are attracted to and receive gratification from the same sex, I don't think they are necessarily using the selection strategy of the opposite sex. In other words, gay men want to have sex with other men, but they are choosing partners like men do. Strait men trade up, too. Straight men trade up to younger and/or better looking women all the time. General…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 01:08 AM
3

Recognizing that TRP is generally applicable only to the heteronormative, this question interests me. I have a long time friend who is bi. I know he experimented in college. He went on to marry and have children, and later divorced. He is now in a LTR with a man. They are both successful, career-oriented people. His partner, who is also divorced, seems like a good guy. A flippant remark my friend made to me after my divorce went something like, "poor straight boy, you're stuck with women." Certa…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 11:07 PM
11

I'm sure there's a mathematical formula that describes the amount of nagging in your relationship and the resulting amount of sex. The term you are looking for is inversely proportional.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/14 02:14 AM
2

Prepare to eat my downvotes!
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 03:07 PM
1

Maybe you need a change of venue? Meet some new people? Find some new social circles?
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 01:09 AM
0

I know this is a serious-ish sub, but I can't help but chuckle at hookers and blow as a cure for depression.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 11:48 AM
11

Give him your two weeks notice. Thank him for the job. And shake his hand. What this guy said, and you probably already know this but put it in writing. You don't need to justify anything to your employer or manager. Write a letter to inform them of your resignation, effective such-and-such date, sincerely greatmikeshark. In the exit interview, stay professional and tell the HR lady you intend to continue your education. It's not personal. It's business. They'll get along fine without you, and y…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 04:55 PM
2

Late to the party here, but I liked this post. People misunderstand what the red pill really is. The pick up artistry that people associate with the red pill is just training wheels for guys who may be young or have been out of the dating scene for a while. There's nothing wrong with trying out a couple of lines or copping an attitude while developing some casual social skills. As time goes on you won't need the party tricks. They are there to help people bust through social anxiety. But in the …
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 04:42 PM
1

Cinderella did, but only before she married her prince.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/14 10:09 PM
6

"A human being should be able to change a diaper, plan an invasion, butcher a hog, conn a ship, design a building, write a sonnet, balance accounts, build a wall, set a bone, comfort the dying, take orders, give orders, cooperate, act alone, solve equations, analyze a new problem, pitch manure, program a computer, cook a tasty meal, fight efficiently, die gallantly. Specialization is for insects." — Robert Heinlein, Time Enough for Love
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 02:43 PM
134

"Quick UPDATE We had a few hour conversation last night. Wife has seen this thread afterwards. We have clarified many things, but the bottom of the issue is that our communication sucked. This is partially my fault, as I sometimes have trouble caring /empathizing with people. It is something I need to work on. I also tend to push important discussions aside because I get overwhelmed by all of the variables and decisions that need to be made." tl;dr this woman was running around with her ex and g…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 02:19 PM
3

Satire is violence!
/r/MensRights15/10/14 08:10 PM
4

I strongly disagree. It's the right advice. If you're trying to improve yourself for women, then you're doing it wrong. You're still pedestalizing women. Remove women from the equation. Distinguishing yourself, learning, growing, doing, these things should be your goal -- for you and for no one else. This is a self-evident truth. Developing your identity, knowledges, and skills is not what attracts women to you. What developing your identity does is strengthens your frame of reference. This is g…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 04:44 PM
1

It's hard to reach common cause with anyone who a true believer. Whether we're talking about religion or politics doesn't matter. Extremists by definition have made a huge emotional investment into their ideology, such that it becomes difficult to back away from it. To do so, even for a moment, means backing away from who they are. That's why these arguments become so personal. They are personal. They can't not be personal. Attacking the position is attacking them, even if you're not making it p…
/r/MensRights09/09/14 12:15 AM
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