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You’re staying with someone who makes you unhappy because of the living situation is difficult. But you don’t have to sleep in the same bed. Also, you have sex with him because you don’t want to have a one night stand? And you’re dependent on him for sex? What kind of shit is this. Girl, buy yourself a vibrator and stop making excuses as to why you’re still with this guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 07:32 AM
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Exactly. I understand people wanting to be the best version of themselves. However, I don’t see anything good coming out of that sub besides low self esteem. And that isn’t queen shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 07:28 AM
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I couldn’t agree more
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 07:19 AM
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I don’t like r/vindicta they use too much incel language and that’s disgusting to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 07:08 AM
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That guy has probably never had a gf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 07:01 AM
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Why do you ask when you know the answer. Don’t go. He’s bating you to sleep with him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 10:32 PM
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Also super jealous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 05:19 AM
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Like what?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 05:07 AM
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One of the things you have to become aware of is this: you’re not in a porn movie. This types of actions are only learned through porn. If you really think about it “someone wanting you so bad” is your way of thinking that kind of sex is okay. You have trained your mind to think this is okay because someone told you that’s what girls should like. Because you’re making yourself morph into what men watch so you can be desired. You’re allowing them to abuse you and take your power away. First tell …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 04:00 AM
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That subreddit looks super sketch. Why do they use incel language.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 06:19 AM
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You’re here because you want advice yet you’re putting out every excuse in the book not to listen to it. And this whole thing starts with loving who you are. How do you expect to love someone when you can’t do it for yourself. Work on yourself. Get a job. Learn skills. Go to school. Go see a therapist. Be happy with yourself. All cliche but true. No one finds people attractive who have excuses for everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 06:16 AM
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Wow this is so well said
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 11:27 PM
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They’re like oh look I loaded the dishwasher I deserve praise. Uhm that’s what you should be doing everyday
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 11:25 PM
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Your mental health Reaching goals or setting new ones Learning a new hobby
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 06:35 AM
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FDS is about helping women understand their worth so they can be stopped being used by men for sex. How is that relevant to Mgtow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 12:02 AM
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That’s exactly what I said too. He messaged me telling me to watch out who I call a douchebag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 05:22 AM
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He sent me a private message telling me to watch out who I call douchebag. Has anyone seen his profile? He active on Incel communities . This guy is trolling and I doubt he’s ever had a gf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 05:20 AM
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This guy is a douchebag. He’s been with her for four years and he has clearly been the one contributing to her low self esteem. This guy is a low life who deserves to be alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 04:49 AM
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Right asking for advice on what to do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 04:46 PM
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I think women ask these questions because they want validation to stay with the guy they know is wrong. So if someone just says something somewhat positive they’ll be like see he’s not that bad. It’s their way to cover up their stupid decision
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 04:43 PM
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That’s what I think
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 04:38 PM
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I would also say that if you do happen to have BPD, Bioplar, depression etc to be weary of who you tell especially starting a new relationship. Some men will use that to manipulate you and to gaslight you. First make sure he’s a HVM before talking to them about mental issues. I’ve learned the hard way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 04:49 AM
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Thanks for the link, I heard about her case on a true crime podcast
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 05:07 AM
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That’s disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 05:06 AM
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My mom has always taught me it’s better to live alone than with bad company
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 02:46 AM
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A friend of mine dated this LVM for six years she moved states to be with him only for him to one day say oh my intention is never to marry you. She had co-signed on a car loan, picked up his kid from school and pay the bills when he would loose his job. Yet he didn’t want commitment. Hell no, he also treated her terribly and she stayed cause she thought he’d change. Don’t ever live with a boyfriend. This shit can happen to anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 02:45 AM
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This is amazing, thanks for sharing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 12:40 AM
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If your husband has his friends over till 6 am twice a week to smoke hookah you shouldn’t be surprised he doesn’t care about your bday. He sounds like a child, this isn’t a hobby but an addiction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 12:38 AM
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This reminds me of the case here in the US where a woman disappeared and her husband was suspect. Then husband lost custody of kids and on a visit he blew him and the kids up. They will do anything to maintain control and dominance over their own family. How terrible
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 12:29 AM
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You’re making all the effort. Why are you talking to him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 05:35 PM
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Stop being a pickme, you want us to validate your feelings but we won’t. This isn’t the place for that. You know very well what this all means. You’re just being delusional and are trying to rationalize his behavior, do yourself a favor and end it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 07:32 PM
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Woman by Kesha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 05:37 AM
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He’s so disgusting. That stupid bit at the end made me gag.🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 06:08 AM
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My first memory was when I was 7, an older man made comments about how good my legs looked in a skirt and whistled at me. His gaze was more haunting than anything. He lived around the neighborhood and when I walked home he would follow me a couple blocks. I was terrified of going outside my house. It happened every time I went back to my hometown and dreaded going to visit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 11:07 PM
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Good riddance maybe they can start having conversations that are beneficial to them. Like how to stop being angry at people for their height
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 09:26 PM
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Wow just what I needed to cure my singleness said no one ever
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 09:21 PM
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So now he’s thinking of breaking things off when they weren’t in a relationship to begin with? Oh geez
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 09:18 PM
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Desafortunadamente la sociedad y cultura nos enseño que tenemos que ser amables con los hombres. Y más porque nos llaman nombres si no lo somos. Lo que tienes que hacer es esto, que ganas con hablar con esa persona? Te importa lo que ellos digan de ti? Si la respuesta es no gano nada y no me importa entonces no pierdes nada en no hablar con ellos. Ignóralos o no les contestes. No tienes que ser amable si no te trataron bien.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 07:35 PM
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If you’re okay with that behavior why are you here? I don’t want to sound rude. However it sounds like you made your mind about him already. He’s only calling you when he wants sex and you’re falling for it thinking he actually likes you, move on. He doesn’t. You just want one of us to sympathize with you or to validate what you feel for him. This sub isn’t for that. Value yourself and stop being a pick me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 06:11 PM
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From what I remember it began as a online fan fiction based on twilight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 12:55 AM
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He sounds like a loser, and you’re just trying to make excuses for him. Next him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 12:33 AM
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You’re doing all the work here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 12:31 AM
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I didn’t read the book because the diction was awful. However I did watch the first movie and it was a shit show. This was the book that fifty shades of gray was based on so that tells you everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 12:28 AM
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Girl I think you know what you have to do. You don’t need us to tell you what you’ve known all along.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 06:19 AM
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Gosh he acts like you give you give a damn about what he has to say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 06:03 AM
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4 years as a fwb??? Why? this is so unnecessary
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 11:55 PM
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Agreed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 11:43 PM
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This speaks to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 11:24 PM
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That’s what am also baffled by, that he would fly out to see me only for sex. Guys are getting desperate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 04:37 AM
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I agree with this completely. I don’t think he’s emotionally available for anything right now if he just lost a parent,
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 09:54 PM
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