Griza Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	How do you know when it is love and when it is oneitis? This is good. Although I wouldn't call it "fake love", so much as "unhealthy love". Ps: its spelled unrequited. /spellingnazi	/r/seduction	31/10/12 03:23 AM
1	How do you know when it is love and when it is oneitis? reason not to be such as the other person not showing you any interest in return... hence oneitis.	/r/seduction	31/10/12 03:21 AM
1	How do you open and keep conversation going with a girl while still seeming high-value? I just want to add that meditation isn't about " tuning everything out" or "pushing thoughts out of your mind", so much as acknowledging the sensations and thoughts, and then just letting them be, rather than obsessing over them. The usual advice is to read the book "Mindfulness in Plain English".	/r/seduction	31/10/12 12:27 AM
2	Need a guide for body language! I assume he means this.	/r/seduction	21/10/12 07:00 PM
1	A sedditor asked me about how to develop real confidence a few weeks ago, so I wrote this article. Your claim is that confidence is to not judge yourself, and then you say... I’m not confident because I think I’m great; I’m confident because I know I’m not horrible But knowing you're not horrible is a judgement, and one that you can only make if you do have enough skill to not be horrible, and enough experience to have the opportunity to realise you're not horrible. So your advice is helpful to people who have a basic skillset but continue to be over-critical of themselves, but to the truely …	/r/seduction	05/09/12 12:12 AM
3	What's the balance between being an asshole and an AFC nice guy? pua = pick up artist (person who actively pursues the ladies). Y/N = Yes/No - ie does that person have a given quality.	/r/seduction	19/01/12 05:18 AM
6	What's the balance between being an asshole and an AFC nice guy? I made a table: person proactive honest empathetic self-entitled asshole Y Y N Y so-called 'nice guy' afc N N N Y true 'nice guy' afc N Y Y N 'nice guy' pua Y Y Y N You get the girls by have the qualities in row 4. The so-called 'nice guy' who complains about assholes getting all the girls has none of these qualities, while the asshole gets girls by actively going after them, and being honest about what he wants. There isn't really a balance, as such, as the so-called nice guy is really an assho…	/r/seduction	19/01/12 04:43 AM
5	Forever Alone Community's Thoughts of Seddit. What does Seddit have to say? Or "Be the best version of yourself"	/r/seduction	11/12/11 01:19 AM