Need a guide for body language!

Blackliquid · 2012-10-21T20:48:38+00:00

Great ted talk about body language and its effects on yourself and others :

http://www.ted.com/talks/amy_cuddy_your_body_language_shapes_who_you_are.html?utm_medium=on.ted.com-static&awesm=on.ted.com_Cuddy&utm_campaign=&utm_content=awesm-publisher&utm_source=t.co

Budman17r · 2012-10-21T17:33:41+00:00

http://westsidetoastmasters.com/resources/book_of_body_language/toc.html it was in the faQ on the right

salil91 · 2012-10-21T17:08:33+00:00

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EnuchJelly · 2012-10-21T19:17:36+00:00

Okay, first off - the most important principle to follow is looking as comfortable as possible. This means eliminating all tics. Have good stature, stand upright and stand like an alpha male (leg stance equal to shoulders, shoulders back, no "pecking" of the head in when she is talking). Look comfortable in your environment - gestures are great for conveying this and they also act as an excellent and easy transition into the first stages of kino (e.g. touching her shoulder).

However all of this little rules are often broken by alphas. As long as they appear comfortable they will exude value. I personally feel many people read too much into body language. Perfecting kino is a much much more applicable skill. Vin DiCarlos escalations ladder should be one of the first things perfected by any beginner. (http://www.scribd.com/doc/16768511/Vin-Dicarlo-Escalation-Ladder). Learn it off, practice it on yourself in the mirror and hammer it into your brain. Make it natural and then you can go freestyle on it once you learn to gauge the girls reactions to how you escalate kino.

Also, a resource that is more tailored for pick up is Kezia Nobles "The Stage" for how to conduct your body language. (Its in her book "15 Steps to Becoming a Master Seducer"). Also no harm in looking up the old school body language IOIs given by women.

After all this, if you really want to master interpreting body language this is perfect(also a interesting read): http://www.deno.biz/What_Every_BODY_is_Saying.pdf

Nexism · 2012-10-21T18:29:55+00:00

http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/search?q=body+language&restrict_sr=on

First one is a good start.

epochwin · 2012-10-21T19:06:27+00:00

Just listed something similar on the Social Engineering sub-reddit:

http://www.reddit.com/r/SocialEngineering/comments/11bfz0/best_social_engineering_books_or_videos/c6ou5np

2012-10-21T23:44:24+00:00

If you want a more intensive treatment of the subject: http://www.amazon.com/Social-Intelligence-Science-Human-Relationships/dp/0553803522

Basically it is about a relatively new branch of psychology that concerns human empathy, i.e., the ability to feel what someone else feels. I think the whole body language thing is subsumed in this broader inquiry, which is ultimately a matter of understanding how you relate to other people. Really great read, very interesting.

flyhighboy · 2012-10-22T10:14:13+00:00

Ok i am not sure for this but i just watched Fight Club and the way Tyler Walks it forces lots of confidence in you.Try it. Also watch how his body moves.Second one i'd like to project will be Collin Farrell.Amazing persona of both guys.

stevethedesigner · 2013-02-07T10:15:29+00:00

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Title	Need a guide for body language!
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Date	October 21, 2012 4:27 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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