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1

Your scenario isn't consistent though, and shouldn't really be compared to a consistent concept.
/r/seduction21/10/13 08:18 AM
1

I think it was a joke...
/r/seduction19/04/13 01:54 AM
2

Holy shit, this deserves to go in the Bible.
/r/seduction14/01/13 02:32 PM
0

Well I don't post my private life on the internet for a start.
/r/seduction09/01/13 02:50 AM
-2

Well, you don't want her to see something, you're obviously not comfortable with it, what it is isn't too big of a deal.
/r/seduction08/01/13 03:39 PM
2

Not to reply to a compliment with a compliment.
/r/seduction10/12/12 10:33 PM
1

I think it was Tyler Durden or Mystery that said not to reply with a compliment. I know it's not exactly what you asked but I think it's relevant.
/r/seduction10/12/12 08:55 AM
3

If she talks about her boyfriend during coffee, change the topic immediately. You're not there to talk about her problems (if any). Steer the conversation towards high value content such as interesting things you've done (or her), and you could probably plan something in future with her. Even if you're not getting in her pants, she is a doorway to new friendships (her friends).
/r/seduction27/11/12 01:09 PM
5

We get the idea though (what he's trying to say).
/r/seduction27/11/12 10:41 AM
7

When you make an arrangement/appointment with someone but don't show up at the last minute, essentially leaving them waiting.
/r/seduction23/11/12 12:05 PM
22

.. but I don't flake on girls. If I don't want to go I would've never set anything up, if something comes up, I'll call them to tell them. The same is rarely reciprocated in women.
/r/seduction23/11/12 07:21 AM
2

This is probably a much more meta statement, but when you look back at your virginity in the future, do you want it to be with a random drunk girl? or someone you cared about? If you don't care, then nevermind, all the best.
/r/seduction05/11/12 12:16 PM
2

Sadly, this subreddit has changed a lot since it was smaller, haven't been visiting much after the mod drama.
/r/seduction31/10/12 02:08 AM
3

Keys of the VIP is good to watch to learn what not to do.
/r/seduction28/10/12 07:59 AM
2

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Pickup_Artist_(TV_series)#Controversy
/r/seduction28/10/12 07:57 AM
12

Mystery did an entire TV series on it, but there's some controversy on if its legit or not.
/r/seduction28/10/12 12:45 AM
2

http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/search?q=body+language&restrict_sr=on First one is a good start.
/r/seduction21/10/12 06:29 PM
2

Being genuine also works. If she's legitimately not fat, you don't have to straight up tell her she's not fat, just don't bullshit.
/r/seduction10/10/12 06:36 AM
1

Seems like some sort of commitment issues on his part.
/r/seduction08/10/12 04:38 AM
3

In her eyes, he's that guy she met at a party that one time, whether or not he hosted the party could've been forgotten.
/r/seduction08/09/12 04:15 PM
2

Poke her with your dick. (OP has to be trolling) You're over-reacting.
/r/seduction08/09/12 01:03 PM
1

The part where Steve learns to restore his manhood? Yeah, being a man and not a bitch always works.
/r/seduction08/09/12 12:35 PM
1

Direct always works, but you really need to have the confidence to back it up and keep going.
/r/seduction20/08/12 03:52 AM
3

It's still not up to you/us to meddle in their affairs. But as others have said, it's still good to expand your social circle.
/r/seduction29/07/12 07:47 AM
44

Furthermore, if she leaves her current partner merely because of some game and flirting, she's most likely won't be a keeper either.
/r/seduction29/07/12 07:45 AM
1

Only if she doesn't want to keep using you as an emotional tampon, which is doubtful.
/r/seduction25/07/12 10:49 AM
1

Submitted to depthhub, hopefully you're spared of any prejudice.
/r/seduction28/06/12 04:23 AM
3

Don't shit where you eat. You are not the exception.
/r/seduction16/06/12 02:14 PM
59

"Hi. Can I buy you girls another drink?" Fuck no.
/r/seduction10/06/12 08:38 AM
1

It's inevitable with the connotation that comes with pick-up and seduction. Since you're here to improve yourself, simply ignore the trolls and haters that do happen to come by. And if your friends are discouraged and otherwise flame you because of they're prejudiced towards the current pick up meta, well, yeah.
/r/seduction07/06/12 05:29 PM
0

I think a "known unknowns" approach to this article would probably net us the most conceptual value. Those of us that have experienced something similar would seem to agree with him (as some other posters have), those that have never would naturally disagree, some insult him and whatnot. However assuming that this person is real and the story is not fabricated, it is important to note the other side of the coin. The site isn't telling us to learn from what he's posted, but rather to acknowledge.…
/r/seduction06/06/12 06:19 AM
2

If you are flat out rejected during the day without her number, a simple "Have a nice day" with a smile and exit is fine. If you have her number (from day game interaction) but she says no on the spot, she may be busy, ping her very soon (within a few hours) with a message that includes your name and something positive that happened in the interaction and ping her again the next day. She may have been genuinely busy that day.
/r/seduction06/05/12 01:09 PM
8

Blueprint decoded goes over this a little bit. Their reality is so strong you get drawn into it.
/r/seduction06/05/12 01:03 PM
2

Because then you would've stopped being nice to her, hence the part about not acting on genuine intentions.
/r/seduction05/05/12 02:29 PM
1

Why not? She has a guy beckon to her every call, does nice things for her to which she doesn't have to repay in any way. It's like having a boyfriend without being a girlfriend.
/r/seduction05/05/12 02:12 PM
5

Please learn to use paragraphs. It will help immensely in your final year, make it a habit. It doesn't sound like you made your sexual intentions clear. You did all the "nice guy" stuff hoping for her to do something on her part instead of doing it with genuine intentions.
/r/seduction05/05/12 02:03 PM
1

When you keep reading into seduction you'll realise the real goal is self-improvement and that sex (even girlfriends) are extra optional additions.
/r/seduction03/05/12 06:20 AM
1

Communication is likely to be key, but testmypatience is correct in that boring girls are boring.
/r/seduction03/05/12 04:47 AM
3

http://i.imgur.com/lvO8w.png
/r/seduction02/05/12 10:21 AM
2

Yes sir, yes you are.
/r/seduction30/04/12 06:28 AM
0

There was a very good article on /r/seduction a while back indicating some points that this article also went over. Men become more attractive as they age (to the other gender). Women become less attractive as they age.
/r/seduction29/04/12 02:43 AM
1

People that really want to improve will give seduction a go, even if it sounds however biased. Otherwise they clearly aren't ready to move on. That's not to say there aren't other ways though, but seduction is one of them, if the others have failed, time to give seduction a go.
/r/seduction08/04/12 04:28 AM
2

I loved your mansformation posts, are you going to make anymore?
/r/seduction08/04/12 04:21 AM
1

I'm not intentionally trying to stir up an argument, I'd just like to categorize "slut shaming" once and for all. The quote you linked is a great definition, no doubt about that. It, pretty much says, woman has sex, therefore she should feel inferior, society dictates this. I think what the OP is saying, is, woman feels inferior, therefore she goes to have sex. She dictates this, then afterwards of course if someone slut shames her then we go back to your quote. Do you understand my point of vie…
/r/seduction07/04/12 06:30 AM
2

I don't think this is slut shaming, there may be some truth in his statement, he did not straight up brand them sluts. If that statement is true, that's unavoidable regardless, attaching a tag (slut) makes no difference, it's just a negative connotation.
/r/seduction07/04/12 05:00 AM
1

If he was genuinely interested, he would've structured his sentences differently naturally, which would've resulted in a more joyful conversation overall.
/r/seduction06/04/12 11:45 AM
1

Anonymous post from 4chan is really making it hard to take it seriously, despite some truth here and there. (tl;dr - alpha male, inner game, ultimately)
/r/seduction03/04/12 11:58 AM
2

Mind blown? Hah, I was surprised how much of my personality MBTI applied to me.
/r/seduction28/03/12 06:36 AM
5

Funnily enough, ENTJ is also a personality type that would discuss/argue this out.
/r/seduction27/03/12 11:52 PM
0

Yes, but one relies on routines whilst the other is self.
/r/seduction19/03/12 12:27 AM
-1

The meta game has shifted. NLP > Mystery Method > Inner game.
/r/seduction18/03/12 08:54 AM
2

Wait. You recognise you have one-itis. You understand what that means, because you are using the word. And now you want us to help you become a chode. ???
/r/seduction17/03/12 02:31 PM
1

Guess that sort of attention comes with the venue. You'll just have to get used to it.
/r/seduction08/03/12 02:25 PM
1

Doesn't any random ring on your ring finger solve that?
/r/seduction08/03/12 01:14 PM
2

Too long, no purpose, just drop it and move on.
/r/seduction05/03/12 01:21 PM
3

Way too risky performing oral on a girl that you don't know anything about (STD wise).
/r/seduction04/03/12 02:34 AM
3

You should watch some SimplePickup vids. They pull the most random shit and still get numbers.
/r/seduction02/03/12 06:08 AM
2

Say the sentence slower and it should be fine.
/r/seduction27/02/12 01:21 PM
1

It was a subtle joke to Mystery from the ASF timeline, before that was Ross Jeffries and NLP, current generation revolves around inner game. A little bit of history.
/r/seduction24/02/12 07:53 PM
3

One does not need to be a PUA or player to be able to seduce. Again, the whole point of the seduction subreddit is having sex quickly with a woman. Also not the purpose of this sub-reddit. This type of people is what makes people so pissed at the seduction community. ASF is 10+ years old, drop the eyeliner and nail polish, start learning some inner game.
/r/seduction24/02/12 10:03 AM
2

You're not comfortable with yourself, you don't validate with yourself, you keep thinking that your mood and happiness is determined by how other people view you (which shouldn't be the case) and hence you have no control over your happiness.
/r/seduction21/02/12 03:09 PM
3

Don't forget eyeliner!
/r/seduction17/02/12 08:56 AM
-2

By that logic, should we let the sample size of 1000 change what the current seddit community (44k some, more or less) have been doing successfully?
/r/seduction17/02/12 07:28 AM
-9

More than 1,000 adult participants rated the sexual attractiveness of hundreds of images of the opposite sex. Very small sample size. >.>
/r/seduction17/02/12 05:45 AM
1

Source for the child bit please?
/r/seduction14/02/12 04:30 PM
1

and 4am AEST (Wednesday). =/ I should sleep...
/r/seduction14/02/12 04:15 PM
3

How many "on-field" days + hours does it take for one video? Do you guys open another girl if one moves on, or do you take a 10-20min break and open another? It seems kinda awkward opening sets back to back with the camera recording.
/r/seduction30/01/12 03:43 PM
1

JFTR, wasn't that quote by Mark Twain?
/r/seduction30/01/12 01:15 PM
1

That goes under the mindset of "not giving a fuck", which is genuine behavior, whilst actual "faking" is not.
/r/seduction29/01/12 08:03 AM
1

Glad to see you alive.
/r/seduction28/01/12 04:14 PM
4

Don't even bother arguing, this topic has come up time after time at 2xc, arguing has resolved nothing.
/r/seduction26/01/12 11:39 PM
1

I haven't read the book either, but I don't think it'd be in an author's best interest to bash someone.
/r/seduction26/01/12 03:32 AM
1

That would be nice if you could please arrange that.
/r/seduction24/01/12 05:22 AM
52

"You must be jealous."
/r/seduction24/01/12 05:14 AM
1

This is true, though it is unfortunate, but I think we should just ignore the trolls altogether.
/r/seduction24/01/12 04:42 AM
2

I'm guessing the AMA mods contacted his manager or something similar.
/r/seduction24/01/12 04:41 AM
7

Maybe she was genuinely tired?
/r/seduction21/01/12 11:50 AM
2

I have new-found respect for you.
/r/seduction18/01/12 08:54 AM
2

I think paragraphs are a good start.
/r/seduction17/01/12 03:45 PM
2

I watched all of season 1 in the past but didn't realise the script focused as much on Hank being alpha, will consider watching the rest.
/r/seduction11/01/12 02:52 PM
3

You can torrent both the video and audio files, but I strongly recommend owning it, it's worth it.
/r/seduction09/01/12 03:54 PM
4

You seem quite attached to her.
/r/seduction08/01/12 05:53 AM
6

in silent acknowledgment of your failure You haven't failed though.
/r/seduction26/12/11 12:02 PM
1

All the canned material for DHV is bullshit though, as in, it's built on lies. It's much harder to build genuine interest from bullshit.
/r/seduction19/12/11 02:59 PM
2

You're better off with relying on plausible deniability.
/r/seduction14/12/11 08:27 AM
0

Getting laid as a decent attractive male is the same. Be attractive Don't be unattractive.
/r/seduction18/11/11 11:29 PM
2

I believe quite a bit of earlier sedditors wanted a natural's opinion on pick up (Tofu did from memory).
/r/seduction17/11/11 10:55 PM
2

This should probably go in /r/sex.
/r/seduction17/11/11 11:42 AM
1

Okay. That aside, you didn't meet her in person after the first time. Attraction drops when you talk over phone/internet whatever. It should be in the sidebar somewhere.
/r/seduction12/11/11 03:04 PM
1

Move on... You have more important moral issues to deal with, like polygamy and if your current girlfriend is cool with it.
/r/seduction12/11/11 02:55 PM
1

You might be in a provider/lover scenario.
/r/seduction01/11/11 03:15 PM
2

What you described, is pretty much what the current HB scale is. Most simply don't know what it is and think it's a measurement of looks (which it isn't).
/r/seduction29/10/11 01:55 PM
1

He bounced too with the carpet.
/r/seduction24/10/11 01:03 PM
1

Blueprint decoded was a huge change for me.
/r/seduction14/10/11 09:10 AM
2

RTFS.
/r/seduction13/10/11 08:12 AM
1

They don't need to be taught how to empty their cup, the metaphor is to represent an open mind. It's like walking into a foreign country and speaking your native language, that's how users approach these forums. They ask about a clear one-itis case, when their mindset already is a one-itis mindset, even if the problem is solved (by some miracle), their mindset has not. That mindset, is the first step of self actualization, not just for seduction. Unfortunately, too many people fail to realise th…
/r/seduction13/10/11 07:41 AM
1

Blueprint decoded should be mandatory to subscribe to this subreddit.
/r/seduction13/10/11 03:49 AM
1

You should read all the posts in mansformation, then listen/watch blue print decoded. You won't ever need seddit again.
/r/seduction13/10/11 03:44 AM
1

You know that asian quote about emptying your cup before learning something new? That applies here.
/r/seduction13/10/11 03:42 AM
1

I'm sure even reading one sample one-itis case will help you immensely from getting into a similar situation.
/r/seduction11/10/11 12:45 AM
1

Yeah it's the eyes then lips thing, and she reciprocates.
/r/seduction09/10/11 07:35 AM
1

Have you tried that triangulate thing with the eyes for the kiss?
/r/seduction09/10/11 05:20 AM
2

Sorry to break the news, it's pretty damn hard at this stage.
/r/seduction05/10/11 01:20 AM
6

Insecurity, inner game. Blueprint decoded, go.
/r/seduction02/10/11 02:54 PM
3

Wall of text Touching their hair was and is, always an IOI. Assume attraction
/r/seduction01/10/11 03:42 AM
2

Torrent it somewhere. [e] or buy it
/r/seduction27/09/11 09:03 AM
1

Watch blueprint decoded.
/r/seduction27/09/11 04:19 AM
17

You... Seemed to be in state. First statement about sitting next to you wasn't a dick move at all.
/r/seduction27/09/11 04:04 AM
1

No sex before marriage can often be used as LMR. Happened to me the first time, made me a believer.
/r/seduction24/09/11 10:34 AM
1

What you are now is fine.
/r/seduction24/09/11 09:34 AM
2

The only thing holding you back is yourself.
/r/seduction23/09/11 12:37 PM
1

Get over it. Make a change. Do something.
/r/seduction22/09/11 08:34 AM
1

I'd make the call saying you're not escalating fast enough, wasting time and DLVing with lots of useless chat/text/ramble.
/r/seduction20/09/11 08:47 AM
1

Download/buy RSD transformations, you'll find it useful.
/r/seduction20/09/11 08:35 AM
0

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alpha_(ethology)#Beta_and_omega Don't use urbandictionary, not that wikipedia is credible, but sure as hell better. Omega is the lowest rank.
/r/seduction19/09/11 10:37 AM
1

If something affects you, you don't care. Example: What will they think about my shirt/glasses/car/looks? If it affects other people, you care. Example: How something makes them feel. How so. Rough guideline.
/r/seduction19/09/11 09:06 AM
1

OP cares about what other people think basically. Not to say he shouldn't care (emotions etc.) but over something little like this.
/r/seduction19/09/11 02:37 AM
2

It's all in the mind!
/r/seduction17/09/11 03:22 PM
1

The power is in your hands.
/r/seduction17/09/11 02:07 PM
1

Engage, say something/anything, make sure they stop, turn them away from the direction they're walking in, cold approach.
/r/seduction17/09/11 01:52 PM
1

There's the rule and the exception.
/r/seduction13/09/11 09:54 AM
1

Have you told him yet?
/r/seduction13/09/11 07:40 AM
1

I'm confused with this notion. In a busy, maybe loud, bus, a guy simply walks over and strikes up a conversation? I see it much more applicable in a train =/
/r/seduction13/09/11 07:25 AM
2

You don't have the balls to be a man and take what you want. That's pretty much it. Continue playing like that and you're going to end up in the friendzone. Alpha males know what they want, go for what they want. You want to have sex with her, make it obvious, do something about it. If she's texting you, she obviously has interest for you.
/r/seduction13/09/11 06:48 AM
1

RSD Transformations is quite a mindfuck.
/r/seduction11/09/11 03:23 AM
0

I asked her to sleep in my bed, which she did but nothing happened because I didn't initiate it. What the shit. So, she's been at her guy friends (who she calls platonic) for about a week now. ......... Definitely not platonic. It sounds like you're in the friend zone, no kino, supposedly platonic friends. Go meet other women. and in the future, it's seddit. Note: Google RSD transformations, buy it/download it. Best decision of your life, not joking.
/r/seduction10/09/11 06:05 PM
2

"I like your ass", gets the message across. I don't suggest it though.
/r/seduction07/09/11 11:43 PM
1

No, inside joke.
/r/seduction06/09/11 10:23 AM
1

None of us can get you to do anything. Right now, you're all talk, as you can see. You simply need to grow a pair, and do it. We can tell you go do it over and over again, but it's still up to you to grow a fucking pair of balls and do it.
/r/seduction05/09/11 01:46 PM
1

Watching it would've probably been better (he does make gestures sometimes), but listening would've yielded you the same core concepts. Ultimately, RSD transformations is about self-actualization, it like giving you a framework, truly a mind-blown experience. If you don't want to buy it, torrent it, but I do suggest you pay for it after you listen/watch it, support the creators.
/r/seduction04/09/11 04:52 AM
7

Effective is an understatement. After listening to it once, you immediately see the answers to a majority of askseddit posts.
/r/seduction03/09/11 11:43 AM
1

Learn inner game, go watch/listen RSD Transformation.
/r/seduction01/09/11 11:35 AM
8

You did fine, move on.
/r/seduction01/09/11 11:33 AM
3

How this did end up on a Chinese streaming site...?
/r/seduction31/08/11 03:10 PM
9

You're already in the mindset of reacting to other people's validation. That's a core inner game issue you should resolve immediately.
/r/seduction30/08/11 04:48 AM
4

Let's just forget about this was probably an entry for FWB.
/r/seduction24/08/11 04:14 AM
5

Addendum: You won't be getting a day 2 without initial attraction even with a number.
/r/seduction23/08/11 05:07 AM
1

Is it really hard to just befriend each other (guys)?
/r/seduction23/08/11 05:03 AM
7

You're in the friend zone already. Talking is one thing, but kino is another. No kino, no sex ultimately.
/r/seduction23/08/11 04:57 AM
2

I read your first paragraph, and immediately came up with this phrase, I think it will serve you greatly. "Seddit teaches you how to be alpha, but alpha males are shit husbands".
/r/seduction21/08/11 03:02 PM
1

I do hope the number of FRs and field tested approaches are proportional to the number of readers.
/r/seduction21/08/11 03:00 PM
3

Link please.
/r/seduction21/08/11 02:55 PM
2

Tofu is in America atm.
/r/seduction18/08/11 02:38 PM
3

Kino makes her comfortable with being touched, you're sure as hell going to be touching each other a lot if you're doing it right. To initiate kino also displays confidence.
/r/seduction16/08/11 03:29 AM
1

Looks are for ONS, personality is for keepers.
/r/seduction14/08/11 04:09 PM
1

As an alpha, you don't need permission, the framing also already implied they're his girls.
/r/seduction14/08/11 04:07 PM
1

This is ridiculously smart.
/r/seduction14/08/11 04:06 PM
1

Most people that ask for help don't even read the sidebar, believe me.
/r/seduction12/08/11 01:23 AM
3

Though what you wear shows value, how good you feel about yourself because of what you wear is much much more important.
/r/seduction11/08/11 02:48 PM
1

You could've asked her if they stocked <insert sexy lingerie color that you like>. She's giving you an opportunity to express your sexuality. TBH, #-closing really isn't hard anymore, creating sufficient attraction prior so she doesn't flake is much more difficult. You'll have to anchor an emotion on a word or an event and trigger it when you ask her out. Say lingerie (it's a tad creepy in a text, but this is an example), and you made her laugh, then when you text her, you could mention lingerie…
/r/seduction09/08/11 05:02 PM
2

her: "hehe its a ladies lingerie and underwear store." You could've turned this into something so much more. her: "oh you have really nice style, i thought you may have been coached. lol" IOI, and also a good time to number close and leave. You didn't have to answer her compliment, simply say you need to go and get her number, mention that you'll call her or something. Provides value in so many ways it will take too long to explain.
/r/seduction07/08/11 02:58 PM
2

Hah, I wish, though I don't believe we have the numbers. [e] drop me a number/msn.
/r/seduction07/08/11 01:19 PM
1

Interesting standpoint, doesn't explain why women man initially give IOIs to guys though.
/r/seduction05/08/11 07:10 AM
1

I think, "I found you interesting" or something similar would be suffice.
/r/seduction05/08/11 12:48 AM
1

I seriously thought this was an /askreddit post.
/r/seduction05/08/11 12:41 AM
3

If you know how, anchor a unique emotion specifically tied to you. Otherwise, simply ping her and invoke s previous happy emotion (callback humor in a sense) and you'll be back. Attraction cannot be built over a distance.
/r/seduction04/08/11 03:31 AM
3

What the fuck. Why didn't you number close?
/r/seduction04/08/11 03:27 AM
1

tl;dr - Inner game
/r/seduction03/08/11 07:19 AM
1

AMA IMO.
/r/seduction03/08/11 02:37 AM
-1

You did well IMO.
/r/seduction01/08/11 04:12 AM
1

Using old school Mystery method would be ideal, as a star would most likely hold a HB10 all the time.
/r/seduction29/07/11 03:20 AM
1

Using old school Mystery method would be ideal, as a star would most likely hold a HB10 all the time.
/r/seduction29/07/11 03:20 AM
-4

On the fucking ball mate! Haha. Irrelevant comment is irrelevant.
/r/seduction27/07/11 07:58 AM
6

First seddit post without any terminology. Have an upboat.
/r/seduction26/07/11 11:34 AM
0

Last option shows immaturity.
/r/seduction26/07/11 03:47 AM
1

To summarize what curveball is saying in the reply below. You are currently in negative points, where a higher number is better, and new people start at 0.
/r/seduction26/07/11 03:43 AM
0

I don't follow.
/r/seduction26/07/11 03:39 AM
1

Move on. She'll ping you if she's interested.
/r/seduction26/07/11 03:38 AM
2

You need to project a value they are oblivious to. For example, a celebrity will have no privacy, they may yearn for it.
/r/seduction26/07/11 03:33 AM
1

Last minute resistance (read sidebar) and yes.
/r/seduction24/07/11 01:24 PM
2

Opens, successful or not Number closes, real numbers if you're doing it right Number of of day 2's. Enjoyment with said target K-close F-close
/r/seduction24/07/11 01:13 PM
3

Escalate, escalate escalate. Expect LMR.
/r/seduction24/07/11 01:00 PM
1

It's a big deal to escalate kino.
/r/seduction24/07/11 12:59 PM
1

For a start, don't call women ugly. It shows you are judgemental of others. Simply refer to them as people you're not attracted to. The purpose (generally) to approach women you're not attracted to is to fix approach anxiety, as people often have AA when they approach women they're attracted to. Also, work on inner game in general, and it'll help in everything you do.
/r/seduction24/07/11 12:59 PM
3

Standard knowledge to befriend the males. Sidebar. [e] Even "saving" the girl from a creep is risky if you don't know the circumstances.
/r/seduction24/07/11 12:56 PM
1

People that aren't particularly good at seduction learn canned lines and content. Those that are adept realise inner game is the foundation of seduction.
/r/seduction24/07/11 07:17 AM
1

Inner game, read it, learn it.
/r/seduction24/07/11 07:03 AM
3

We need to stop adding game onto random events. It's standard day game with the added bonus that they're obviously somewhat interested in anime (insta-rapport).
/r/seduction24/07/11 06:52 AM
2

Your friend is a fucking idiot. and you, are misinformed. /r/seduction is about teaching non-naturals conversational skills (fundamentally) and help them develop a sense of confidence and fortify their identity (inner game). [e] You'll realise most well achieved PUA's don't pick up for the goal of sex, but rather to interact. Sex is merely a bonus.
/r/seduction24/07/11 06:45 AM
0

You're not framing yourself correctly.
/r/seduction23/07/11 06:18 PM
1

If you're drinking, you shouldn't be driving anyway.
/r/seduction22/07/11 11:30 PM
3

OP's fault for not escalating properly.
/r/seduction22/07/11 11:28 PM
1

Never, under any circumstance dis her about giving you a compliment. Always attach (technically called "anchor") a positive emotion to it.
/r/seduction22/07/11 09:51 PM
4

Hence internalizing the alpha male.
/r/seduction22/07/11 09:50 PM
1

This won't work in a high school setting, because: They've known each other for a while (friends) Girls aren't at the "seeking relationship" stage (hard to explain).
/r/seduction22/07/11 03:05 PM
1

Those that want to improve have already taken the appropriate steps. Those that expect to be spoonfed, will never change, with or without our encouragement.
/r/seduction22/07/11 03:01 PM
3

Have a few albums on the places you've been. Girls aren't going to go through them, but they'll subconsciously get the DHV hint. I don't suggest any sort of flirting over Facebook. Your aim is to build some comfort, get their number, organise a get together.
/r/seduction22/07/11 08:58 AM
2

Call dibs Don't give her tonnes of attention Escalate and isolate Open other women
/r/seduction22/07/11 08:55 AM
1

He lacks inner game and is hoping to gain some sort of validation from /r/seduction.
/r/seduction22/07/11 08:54 AM
1

This is not a long read, but it is a wall of text because there are no paragraphs. Learn, for yourself and your future, to not snap under any circumstance. Even when you do snap, do not unleash your fury at others. That shows emotional instability and is incredibly beta. Bros before hoes (seriously). If you have some sort of event with your mates, go to that first. Don't text her unless your aim is to organise a get together.
/r/seduction22/07/11 08:52 AM
6

Oh my god, just jump on him already.
/r/seduction22/07/11 08:49 AM
1

I agree. 15 minute logistics isn't too big of a deal, having parents in your way is the big thing.
/r/seduction22/07/11 08:44 AM
3

Next her. Just for the record, movies are horrible for dates.
/r/seduction21/07/11 05:33 PM
3

This is an interesting point of view. People seem to want things they can't have. (You know what I mean)
/r/seduction21/07/11 05:27 PM
1

You shouldn't be in an argument to begin with. You decide where to go, people like it, okay. Later, somewhere else seems better, if it genuinely is, point out that it's a great idea and go along. It's not a big deal to listen to others, but rather, it's a big deal if you're not being listened to.
/r/seduction21/07/11 06:34 AM
1

How about you just tell B to come over to get her necklace. You get an f-close one way or the another, and if you don't, you ask A to come over and get another f-close.
/r/seduction21/07/11 06:29 AM
3

That's an interesting life skill to have, making a napkin rose that is. and just for the record, you can add text with your links when you submit now.
/r/seduction21/07/11 06:26 AM
-1

You are my hero.
/r/seduction21/07/11 06:19 AM
5

A lot of posts appear in "new" but not on the front page.
/r/seduction20/07/11 06:52 PM
1

Try just enjoying yourself. alt.seduction.fast stuff isn't meant to be applied strictly by theory, it's made to be internalized and used naturally with interaction. The difference between asf and /r/seduction is that asf teaches theory, whilst /r/seduction teaches you to internalize it.
/r/seduction20/07/11 08:24 AM
1

I'm interested if this will work because it sounds like something from a fairy tale. OP, please try it and report back.
/r/seduction20/07/11 08:01 AM
2

"how don't you have a girlfriend?" Is a partner qualification shit test/bitch shield.
/r/seduction20/07/11 08:00 AM
2

Effectively, they're both almost the same thing. Emotions cloud your judgement and cause oneitis. [e] Oh, and don't forget oneitis is one sided.
/r/seduction20/07/11 07:58 AM
1

If you're having sex with her, you are very rarely getting used as normally she is more vested than you. [e] Re-read it. She's not interested in you as a boyfriend, hard to explain but that's the verdict.
/r/seduction20/07/11 07:55 AM
5

I'm thinking of some spinoff explaining why she's with you, like: Her: blah blah, I'm always right about everything You: Explains why you're talking to me. But then again, that doesn't reframe at all, and in fact helps her.
/r/seduction20/07/11 07:53 AM
1

I can't help to see this as a troll. Regardless, tl;dr - yes.
/r/seduction19/07/11 09:50 AM
1

Tell them you were fapping to hard.
/r/seduction19/07/11 01:41 AM
2

Texting is a platform to arrange a get together. Say it out loud. Texting is a platform to arrange a get together. Anything beyond that is not to be fiddled with unless you know what you're doing (pinging, callback humour). As for problem two, that's called LMR, read the sidebar.
/r/seduction19/07/11 01:33 AM
2

She'll ping you if she's interested. Move on for now.
/r/seduction19/07/11 01:20 AM
3

tl;dr - Got a f-close, random text "game" follow up, 90% useless chitter chatter. me: No doubt. We should do something on tuesday, I'm not too busy. The only statement you made in that interaction, with the end trailing with DLV.
/r/seduction19/07/11 01:12 AM
4

Don't look at their forehead.
/r/seduction18/07/11 02:21 PM
1

Read the sidebar Check out the inner game subreddit Definitely read everything in this subreddit
/r/seduction18/07/11 08:08 AM
1

Surprisingly I don't recall reading any of those 6 points last time I went through it (though I'm sure it's in there somewhere). I took more notice at IOI's I found intriguing and unique.
/r/seduction18/07/11 08:05 AM
1

You can view this from many perspectives, here are two that pop to mind immediately. Even though she didn't tell you, you still got the message. She was disqualifying you, hence qualifying the person she was talking to. Sidenote: I upvoted you to maintain a positive ratio, I dislike it when people are downvoted for asking a legitimate question.
/r/seduction18/07/11 08:00 AM
1

Yes, stand up to trolls over the internet hoping to change their views on a subject. I can see that working very well.
/r/seduction18/07/11 07:57 AM
-2

heckz, the "proper", "alpha" response was to not respond at all. Their opinion is meaningless to you as they are simply guests in your reality.
/r/seduction18/07/11 06:05 AM
13

In my time in seduction, I have never seen warpig or ug used.
/r/seduction18/07/11 06:03 AM
0

Ugh, do people not read the sidebar? This is a standard entry level shit test. Save yourself the humiliation and time, read the damn sidebar.
/r/seduction17/07/11 08:41 PM
2

http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/g94wr/book_of_body_language_summary/
/r/seduction17/07/11 08:36 PM
26

You bought shoes to be able to talk to her because you feel like she is better than you. You have major inner game issues.
/r/seduction17/07/11 08:31 PM
2

"It's good you and I are just friends." Acts to disqualify her as a potential mate, ergo, creates attraction.
/r/seduction17/07/11 02:27 PM
1

This is a very old quote/saying. Happiness is meaningless without someone to share it with.
/r/seduction17/07/11 02:15 PM
1

Probably some variation of sign language I presume.
/r/seduction15/07/11 07:14 AM
1

HOLY FUCKING SHIT IT'S THE END OF THE WORLD OMGOMGOMOGMGOMOGMOG. Focus on building inner game, it will last you a lifetime. After inner game, start learning the basics of seduction, how to not be unattractive.
/r/seduction14/07/11 05:41 PM
0

She's working, though not a hired gun. Approach with strategy.
/r/seduction14/07/11 05:36 PM
3

TBH, I would've said, "We should have hot passionate sex under the sunset" and see her reaction. If it was positive you can bounce to your place, otherwise you could simply say she's like your little sister and you're not into incest anyway. Improvise.
/r/seduction14/07/11 05:34 PM
9

If you're in an English speaking country, that'd be a smart bitch shield.
/r/seduction14/07/11 05:31 PM
3

It's actually the other way around, you just need to help them get to the fun side.
/r/seduction14/07/11 10:31 AM
1

It's a fucking harem.
/r/seduction14/07/11 05:31 AM
1

I didn't read 90% of that because all of it, frankly, I expect, is useless info. Judging on the raw amount of content, you're spending too much time on her, and again, not escalating fast enough.
/r/seduction14/07/11 05:29 AM
1

Stop wasting your time with people that don't appreciate you. Whatever your purpose with her is, is she's not reactive now she most likel won't be in the future.
/r/seduction14/07/11 05:26 AM
3

Some British female PUA said there are 3 causes to bitch shields. *Genuinely having a bad day. *Avoid guys that won't leave. (Mosquitos) *Initial qualification
/r/seduction14/07/11 04:52 AM
2

The rule of three. Never fails.
/r/seduction14/07/11 04:46 AM
3

And this is why I love reddit.
/r/seduction14/07/11 04:42 AM
2

You didn't mention if you k-closed etc. Be more specific. If she grinded on you in the spa, you probably didn't escalate fast enough.
/r/seduction12/07/11 11:08 AM
2

It's an entry level shit test. Very simple sentence that qualifies the guy as a potential suitor at the start of a conversation. Alternatively, you can say you're drunk from drinking too much water or something stupid.
/r/seduction12/07/11 05:20 AM
5

All actions are ultimately part of your subconcious. Drinking doesn't change who the person is, it only amplifies existing emotions.
/r/seduction12/07/11 05:19 AM
2

Yeah... not reading that wall of text. Fuck.
/r/seduction12/07/11 03:37 AM
1

Agree with won't be produced.
/r/seduction11/07/11 04:59 PM
32

Both of them want you to ask them out, both of them want your dick. Make it happen.
/r/seduction11/07/11 03:33 PM
1

Try not to use routines. Leave on a high note, that is, before a convo dies out.
/r/seduction11/07/11 03:26 PM
3

Not going to happen. Impossible, improbable. Forget her, move on. Perhaps one day she'll come visit and give you a call, or you visit and give her a call, but in the meantime, move on.
/r/seduction11/07/11 03:25 PM
3

Delete her number, delete her Facebook, cut all contact. Move on. It's called one-itis for this exact reason, you let your emotions get in the way of logic, you become weak. Women don't love men for emotions, women love men for value, which is obtained through logic.
/r/seduction11/07/11 03:08 PM
1

me: Haha can I call you honeybuns? Don't ask her for permission, you are alpha. Leave on a high note, where you left was alright, though you could've tried something like: Her: Oh no! Are you going to spank me? Me: Come over to my place and we'll see <smiley perhaps> then slept or continued when she came over (guarenteed f-close) Always remember the purpose of a text, once that purpose is fulfilled, stop texting.
/r/seduction11/07/11 03:05 PM
1

That was not a shit test.
/r/seduction11/07/11 03:03 PM
1

It's normal cause some people don't know the purpose of texting, frustrates me teaching as much as it frustrates you receiving. Simply ignore them.
/r/seduction11/07/11 03:02 PM
2

Let me sum up "text game" to everyone on seddit so we hopefully stop getting similar posts. You: <Hi>, <what's up>? Her: <something random which really isn't important> You: Let's go out sometime Her: Sure You: Meet me <time> and <place>. Texting is not for rapport, it is not for seduction, it is not for flirting. Texting is for organising a day out. [e] Texting can be used for flirting or pinging, but as a guideline, day outs.
/r/seduction11/07/11 02:58 PM
1

The marketing ploy used is indeed quite ruthless.
/r/seduction11/07/11 02:55 PM
5

Yup, it'll do some damage to the community. It's not that women don't want to be seduced, it's that while they're being seduced they know they're being seduced and how. It's like watching a magic trick you know how to perform.
/r/seduction11/07/11 02:53 PM
3

You need to make your sexual intentions clear.
/r/seduction11/07/11 09:50 AM
1

Don't be rude.
/r/seduction11/07/11 08:33 AM
3

Be modest, don't take the game (pool) too seriously. Peacocking theory is proven, showing off is pretentious.
/r/seduction11/07/11 08:30 AM
2

This isn't the place to post your quarrel with friends whilst smoking weed.
/r/seduction10/07/11 03:12 PM
0

If you had escalated properly beforehand this wouldn't be necessary.
/r/seduction09/07/11 05:20 PM
1

You are a pussy. You need to man up. You need to escalate. Or else you are fucked.
/r/seduction09/07/11 05:17 PM
6

Go out with other women. I know you're all sad and emotionally hurt at the moment, but you've just got to simply move on.
/r/seduction09/07/11 03:55 PM
1

Don't forget to exaggerate slightly.
/r/seduction09/07/11 03:53 PM
1

Pretty hard, if not impossible atm.
/r/seduction09/07/11 03:50 PM
5

Notes: Whispering in ear paid off. How you managed to whisper in a bar/club settings is beyond me.
/r/seduction09/07/11 03:08 PM
0

She's your girlfriend, you're not hers sounds awkward.
/r/seduction09/07/11 09:19 AM
-1

I think he means guys.
/r/seduction09/07/11 09:18 AM
2

I fucking knew it.
/r/seduction09/07/11 09:08 AM
3

Just to clarify, that was not a shit test, you should then not have aaa'd. She wasn't reciprocating, she offered to change beds, she probably wasn't too interested and just wanted someone to talk to.
/r/seduction05/07/11 06:20 PM
-1

She's your bitch, you're not hers. Do not play hard to get. Don't be too available. Give value, not receive value.
/r/seduction05/07/11 06:17 PM
1

Pick some random object she's wearing (bracelet, choice of earrings) and make a positive comment on them, link it to a good feeling, move onto DHV with a story.
/r/seduction05/07/11 05:36 PM
2

Wow, truer words have never been spoken.
/r/seduction28/06/11 02:01 PM
6

Where's the FR?
/r/seduction28/06/11 12:54 PM
1

Well 1 hand is constantly going to be kino-ing, other may be holding a drink.
/r/seduction28/06/11 07:32 AM
2

Be very very very very very careful when using routines, if any one of girls catches you pulling one (most attractive women may have heard it before), you are absolutely fucked. [e] 5 questions game is very good, it was only released once on Neil's project-thing-on-youtube-or-something.
/r/seduction28/06/11 07:24 AM
3

You're obviously not doing it right.
/r/seduction28/06/11 04:26 AM
1

I like the last line.
/r/seduction25/06/11 04:56 AM
2

"Hey you down with a threesome?" /thread
/r/seduction25/06/11 04:54 AM
1

We used to talk on the phone for hours each night, One-itis and possibly friendzone right there. but that it's something special and she at first thought it was that she liked me but that it "can't be that way". Confirmed friendzone.
/r/seduction25/06/11 04:53 AM
1

"Come inside"
/r/seduction24/06/11 06:13 AM
-3

Tad immature.
/r/seduction23/06/11 04:09 AM
4

Don't be unattractive.
/r/seduction23/06/11 04:09 AM
1

I would recommend opening sets you haven't met yet. You could use them as social proof. Yes, do whatever you want.
/r/seduction23/06/11 04:08 AM
0

Presumably you posted it here to state that no masturbation for 7 days results in an increase of 45.7% in testosterone levels. According to the study, and also mentioned previously, this is not the case. First, it's ejaculation, which could also be as a result of sex. Second, the study states it was an immediate increase on the 7th day as opposed to gradual, even, increases, therefore proving no direct link between ejaculation and steady testosterone growth, ultimately making this thread pointle…
/r/seduction22/06/11 01:25 PM
1

Because you didn't fully understand the study conducted.
/r/seduction22/06/11 06:15 AM
1

I've always been told spending time with other women fixes your previous oneitis women problems.
/r/seduction22/06/11 05:54 AM
1

He's a billionaire that has a fashion sense, also intellectually sophisticated.
/r/seduction22/06/11 05:52 AM
1

Women are emotional creatures, they also get hit on a lot. Some of these compliments evoke emotions, by asking questions, you give her a delusion that her opinion is important. The applicability of the last one is obvious.
/r/seduction19/06/11 05:40 PM
1

If you're specifically thinking about body language during interaction, you need to relax.
/r/seduction19/06/11 04:20 PM
2

There should be an FTC at the start, use that FTC leave on a high note, number close. You can also go for a small k-close if you want, depends on your style.
/r/seduction19/06/11 04:20 PM
1

You haven't gotten friend zoned until she tells you you're just friends.
/r/seduction19/06/11 01:35 PM
2

Doubtful. If she genuinely thinks he's nice, she wouldn't mind going out with her.
/r/seduction19/06/11 12:53 PM
3

Let them shoot themselves in the foot.
/r/seduction19/06/11 12:51 PM
1

My housemate is dating a similar chick, he has absolutely no game. I've given him a few pointers so he doesn't friendzone himself but ultimately I told him it's a waste of his time.
/r/seduction18/06/11 04:07 AM
1

I guess it's implied she'll be busy.
/r/seduction18/06/11 04:03 AM
1

I strongly recommend not using negs at all, they are difficult to learn, and very easy to use incorrectly. By the time you use it correctly, you would have many more other, better, methods at your disposal.
/r/seduction18/06/11 03:54 AM
1

Credibility was lost when this was done online, via text.
/r/seduction17/06/11 09:42 AM
3

She won't waste her time with you if she wasn't interested.
/r/seduction17/06/11 09:38 AM
1

You want to ask out a women who is engaged. What the fuck is wrong with you? [e] I don't care if I get downvoted into oblivion. To have girlfriend stealers is one thing, to break up families is another.
/r/seduction17/06/11 09:35 AM
1

The guy is an idiot, he is reasoning with punks. Getting the police involved would've been a much more mature and suitable option.
/r/seduction17/06/11 07:13 AM
2

It's different to sent a 3rd person text as opposed to calling.
/r/seduction14/06/11 07:39 AM
2

There's no point calling it straight after, take this scenario for instance. If it's real, she wants you to contact her. If it's fake, she obviously doesn't. If you call her on the spot and she gives you a "real" number, she still doesn't want you to contact her, otherwise she would've given you a real one initially.
/r/seduction14/06/11 05:11 AM
3

Isn't it "aim for the moon, even if you miss you'll end up somewhere among the stars"?
/r/seduction14/06/11 04:41 AM
9

If you're asking us, you have bigger problems at hand.
/r/seduction13/06/11 05:13 PM
2

I've noticed game has modified my way of speaking, I rarely ask questions now, most are statements. I no longer speak as if I'm in their frame, but rather rephrase so that they're in my frame. Sometimes I also watch the tone and speed of certain words. Initially it's hard to get used to. [e] typo
/r/seduction13/06/11 08:29 AM
2

Sounds like a movie.
/r/seduction13/06/11 07:06 AM
0

TMI for sure.
/r/seduction12/06/11 10:36 AM
2

Have you tried talking to him? (lol) Like, ask him when he gets off work etc?
/r/seduction12/06/11 10:36 AM
2

Yes it is, except you didn't help them, you told them to be confident. That's very vague.
/r/seduction11/06/11 05:55 PM
1

You completely missed the point of my post. Read it again.
/r/seduction11/06/11 05:54 PM
3

You fail to understand there are people that don't have that confidence naturally. Telling someone who isn't intelligent to "be intelligent" doesn't work.
/r/seduction11/06/11 02:05 PM
2

My apologies, I forgot the link.
/r/seduction11/06/11 08:45 AM
1

Amazing thread.
/r/seduction11/06/11 08:44 AM
0

Real laughter was produced.
/r/seduction11/06/11 02:15 AM
1

If you're not attracted to her, don't go for her?
/r/seduction10/06/11 04:57 AM
1

This is a complex philosophical question I've dwelled on for many years, and unfortunately I'm unable to find any relevant discussions on it. Just so we're talking about the same thing. When people become more attractive , it becomes difficult to find genuine people as your are more often approached by people in general. This can also be graphed, by (a+b)/x, as you assume there is 1 genuine person in a room, suppose that genuine person were to approach you (or you approach them), as you become m…
/r/seduction10/06/11 01:08 AM
2

Give them a diamond ring and tell them lets just be friends. Let's just be friends will be suffice though.
/r/seduction10/06/11 01:03 AM
5

Could you please write a definitive piece on one-itis so we can sticky it here on seddit.
/r/seduction07/06/11 08:03 AM
4

Tell them in private, "I don't like it when you <x>, don't overkill it". If they have some respect for you they should get the hint.
/r/seduction07/06/11 02:54 AM
1

I remember Neil Straus doing a lecture/lesson sort of thing on this. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y9H7o1_8nSY
/r/seduction07/06/11 02:52 AM
2

She's flaking, making you pay (though indirectly), indecisive, push-pulls. Not worth your time. I normally move on immediately after the first flake/pushpull, except I tell her that I don't like it and she tries to hold me back. I was going to edit the last post to give you that line, but I don't think it'll be executed well. Text her something like, "It was nice knowing you", and move on, she'll definitely ping you, but by that time you should've realised already she's not worth your time.
/r/seduction07/06/11 02:49 AM
2

I genuinely enjoyed this, though I enjoy most rage comics.
/r/seduction07/06/11 02:43 AM
1

Let's just be friends.
/r/seduction07/06/11 02:40 AM
3

Move on, she's not the type of woman you want to date anyway.
/r/seduction07/06/11 02:38 AM
2

This is like the first 5 minutes of Hitch.
/r/seduction07/06/11 02:31 AM
2

Funny you admitted to it.
/r/seduction07/06/11 02:29 AM
2

The rule of 3, lol.
/r/seduction07/06/11 02:28 AM
6

Move on. Should've figured the 2nd time you had to buy her dinner/drink/something/present.
/r/seduction07/06/11 02:27 AM
-3

Don't do drugs You rate yourself too low. tl;dr sorry.
/r/seduction07/06/11 02:24 AM
1

First one isn't a huge deal, it's just that exchange shows you're taking her as an equal, and taking her number expresses you're alpha - it's a minor detail. If she's telling you stuff about other guys, you need to make it clear you're not interested, I most likely didn't read clearly. For the LTR, you've vested time into a girl, basically that. Time that could be spent elsewhere. It also doesn't shine too well with other girls that you're in an LTR. Better off just calling it a relationship, bu…
/r/seduction06/06/11 02:53 PM
1

Today I learned, don't do drugs.
/r/seduction06/06/11 01:42 PM
1

Runs in the family. (lol)
/r/seduction06/06/11 01:37 PM
2

I really dislike these wall of text posts. I like it when its just dot points with the just important information. We don't need to know about these small incidents, minor kino/rapport is enough to summarize. You should've asked for her number, "Give me your number", not exchange (though this isn't a huge deal). You didn't make your sexual intentions clear You listened to her LTR BF crap, which is a clear indicator of entering the friend zone. tl;dr - Make your sexual intentions clear. PS: wtf y…
/r/seduction06/06/11 01:34 PM
1

If you're having troubles getting numbers, attraction is always the problem.
/r/seduction06/06/11 11:55 AM
3

Mystery doesn't suggest dancing to pick up girls, so you can do without. If you're not leading a conversation that way, it shouldn't come up. The girl that blew you the kiss, I hope you got her number. She gave you a hug, she wanted you to stay. Eject on a high note, ask "How do you know each other" when the first opportunity arises. Liquid courage if you have huge problems.
/r/seduction06/06/11 09:28 AM
1

I'd agree with a and b, but the conclusive is overkill.
/r/seduction06/06/11 09:18 AM
2

You'd be able to tell with the amount of kino he's using.
/r/seduction06/06/11 08:15 AM
2

I have no clue how you managed to link Obama and O'Riley to Alpha and AMOG. [e] No shit the President of the United States is alpha.
/r/seduction05/06/11 05:16 AM
2

It's really much easier just to approach IRL.
/r/seduction04/06/11 12:42 PM
1

Don't worry about it this time.
/r/seduction02/06/11 03:54 PM
2

Boyfriend game is a new one, is it from a bootcamp?
/r/seduction02/06/11 03:45 PM
1

You intimidated him, alpha's tend to do that.
/r/seduction02/06/11 03:44 PM
1

First, you've already been friendzoned, you've acknowledged it, so has her, but it seems like you're not interested in having sex with her, just friends. You will not lose her as a friend, it's actually impossible at the moment. Second, you need to learn to "kino". Please read the sidebar. Kino is basically physical contact. As you increase kino (escalate), when the time comes for heavy kino such as kissing, hugs, sex, it's much more natural as she's used to you. Third, that she's willing to mar…
/r/seduction02/06/11 03:41 PM
4

To all, do read this too: http://www.pickupguide.com/how-not-to-do-a-pickup/
/r/seduction02/06/11 03:11 PM
1

Move on.
/r/seduction02/06/11 03:07 PM
1

Sounds like she's about to friendzone you. You haven't been DHVing, or escalating (otherwise she would've chosen you over him, or, you would've slept with her already).
/r/seduction02/06/11 06:38 AM
10

Basically your teacher told you to ask open ended questions. [e] statements, whatever, you're missing the point. @ below
/r/seduction02/06/11 06:34 AM
1

http://www.ted.com/talks/john_wooden_on_the_difference_between_winning_and_success.html
/r/seduction02/06/11 06:29 AM
2

I must be missing something. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hookah#Health_effects
/r/seduction01/06/11 02:49 PM
2

Why do you have to think about what other people are doing? If they're failing or succeeding? To succeed in life is to try your best. We only need to be better than ourselves, no one else. There was a TED seminar on success recently, I strongly recommend you watch it. You have all this irrelevant and useless negativity in your mind.
/r/seduction01/06/11 06:41 AM
2

In my area, club/bars are often quite far away from where most people live (not in the city), train/cab takes 20-30 minutes, bouncing to my place eventually would take quite a while. I guess it could be split into several mini bounces. I don't smoke, hookah seems to be problematic. Thanks for the response.
/r/seduction01/06/11 06:35 AM
2

Thank you for posting this.
/r/seduction01/06/11 06:34 AM
5

No, not really. We are not all rich NYC gay dudes. MFA <-- No love. I am appalled you linked good fashion sense exclusively to homosexuality.
/r/seduction31/05/11 06:31 AM
1

You were at her house and her parents weren't there. .............. .............. I'm guessing you're new but this couldn't have been any more obvious. [e] Sex is implied.
/r/seduction31/05/11 06:26 AM
3

Technically, advertising belongs under marketing, which definition is to: communicate, create, and deliver value. Wait... that sounds awfully familiar. Exactly, seduction is all about giving value, being alpha.
/r/seduction28/05/11 04:01 PM
3

The music makes it more dramatic. [e] Huge lol at the raw ass grab. [e2] Insane lol when I realised I've been listening to a Friday remix.
/r/seduction28/05/11 03:32 PM
1

What puzzles me more is why only one of those hyperlinks is purple. I am disappoint TofuTofu.
/r/seduction28/05/11 07:41 AM
7

You need to read inner game, because you are your own cockblock. I'm starting to think you're trolling.
/r/seduction27/05/11 10:04 AM
1

Who are others for me to prove my worth to? Why are they so superior that I need to prove myself to them? Answer is, I don't, cause I'm the motherfucking boss. Millions of years of evolution including "The Big Bang" happened for one reason, and that was to create, me. That, sir, is what self confidence is all about. http://reddit.com/r/getmotivated [e] What I described was actually the foundations of inner game, which is confidence.
/r/seduction27/05/11 10:03 AM
-1

Confidence = alpha = male You, being a guy, do not like males. Congratulations, you are heterosexual.
/r/seduction27/05/11 10:00 AM
-1

Though you bring up a very good point, it's completely off topic.
/r/seduction27/05/11 09:57 AM
3

You'll eventually have problems finding a nice guy due to the additional surge. Eventually you'll willingly make yourself less attractive. This sounds confusing, but take it as a heads up in a couple of years time.
/r/seduction27/05/11 09:55 AM
3

I read this as "Screw Approach" and thought to myself, that's an interesting approach, gotta check it out. You shouldn't be hanging out with people that don't have the same frame as you.
/r/seduction27/05/11 05:07 AM
0

No, it's genuinely weird. You can't incidental from the opposite direction, but you can sideways.
/r/seduction27/05/11 05:00 AM
1

How do you get around the styling? I use wax, without it my hair is very hard to control, even after blowdrying.
/r/seduction27/05/11 04:53 AM
1

Logistics, everything about them. Bouncing, club > house, how to handle cab/drive shit-tests. Day game logistics, insta-date, f-close logistics. Many thanks.
/r/seduction26/05/11 02:53 PM
2

I believe I have a pretty awesome haircut already, but I have yet to have someone "professional" handle it. The product bit is also very true, but the only alternative would be to perm it.
/r/seduction26/05/11 02:49 PM
1

Nice response regardless.
/r/seduction24/05/11 02:47 PM
4

This is LMR, but you did not explain how to deal with it correctly. Women need "plausible deniability" in order to not seem like a slut, paraphrased, it needs to look and sound like "it just happened in the moment". Generally stuff like, "I'm just going with the flow" works quite well. Alternatives more advanced players tend to push pull.
/r/seduction24/05/11 02:39 PM
2

tl:dr - Try your best, and you shall be successful.
/r/seduction23/05/11 02:24 PM
1

This is really good.
/r/seduction23/05/11 05:33 AM
1

Today I learned dating two 5's does is not the same as dating a 10.
/r/seduction22/05/11 06:20 AM
4

YOU CAN HELP THEM CLEAN AFTERWARDS TOO!! No dude, don't arrive early to help the host out (wtf), you're not their waiter.
/r/seduction21/05/11 08:38 AM
3

Source please.
/r/seduction21/05/11 08:38 AM
2

I wasn't going to read the wall of text, but wow, that last bit really explains high school one-itis.
/r/seduction21/05/11 08:35 AM
1

I don't see how that's relevant. You could tease her about being your suga-momma, but I'm not sure if you know how to play that right.
/r/seduction21/05/11 07:02 AM
1

Next her. She will call you.
/r/seduction21/05/11 06:45 AM
-1

I fucking lol'd.
/r/seduction20/05/11 03:16 PM
1

Always remember that until you have sex with her, the relationship doesn't begin. She won't feel like she's invested enough into the relationship.
/r/seduction20/05/11 01:03 PM
1

I don't know how to explain it to you, but you just got to spoonfeed people stuff on the internet.
/r/seduction20/05/11 06:31 AM
3

Runner up to “The Pickup Artist" led by Mystery was an overweight dude.
/r/seduction20/05/11 06:23 AM
1

While I have also internalized these things, many of your readers may not have, which is why the FR may be completely useless to them. When they read it, they don't see that you push pulled or DHV'd they just see exactly what you wrote.
/r/seduction20/05/11 06:22 AM
2

The first line was a joke, and the 2nd was a myth. All the best.
/r/seduction20/05/11 04:07 AM
1

Nononononoononononono, some of them do. This one for example, has not explicit theory labelled, but I'm able to pick out a name a few, but the OP doesn't label them for those that don't know about it. [e] Basically, it's like they're posting a FR from a "natural" point of view.
/r/seduction20/05/11 04:04 AM
1

This is so easy to destroy, I facedesked when I first heard it. "I'm just waiting for the right woman to turn me"
/r/seduction19/05/11 02:31 PM
1

Almost died a lot + army experience can be huge DHV.
/r/seduction19/05/11 02:29 PM
3

I'm still wondering how the fuck did you get on reddit in China? Seriously though, from a Chinese perspective, Chinese women will lean on just about any "stable" guy, though you probably don't need to take that into account, if you're going into a LTR, take note.
/r/seduction19/05/11 02:20 PM
2

Being in a foreign country naturally brings huge value. Though partly I agree, their FRs lack theory and is all achievements. After reading the whole thread, you'll probably pick up one or two things not do to.
/r/seduction19/05/11 01:27 PM
2

Don't go out of your way to set up an event, like, you shouldn't have to "go out" just to meet her. Continue with your day, and set it up meawhile.
/r/seduction19/05/11 11:03 AM
1

Acknowledging is the first step. Kudos.
/r/seduction18/05/11 01:59 PM
1

Sometimes HB8s have dropped to a HB4 after interaction, I guess the HB system is very dynamic.
/r/seduction18/05/11 04:10 AM
2

You're supposed to be initiating kino. AskSeddit this.
/r/seduction17/05/11 09:19 AM
3

If I recall correctly.
/r/seduction17/05/11 09:18 AM
3

One nights stands are for one night. STDs are for life.
/r/seduction15/05/11 10:24 AM
1

I've been most of his videos, his confidence is amazing. But then again, running around with a camera crew brings huge DHV.
/r/seduction13/05/11 01:34 PM
5

On behalf of seddit: Bring her over to your place, else it's no game.
/r/seduction13/05/11 07:05 AM
11

/r/jailbait is that way. :P
/r/seduction10/05/11 02:35 PM
2

You took a 40 minute train home. That was the problem.
/r/seduction07/05/11 04:44 PM
6

Today I learned.
/r/seduction07/05/11 03:23 PM
2

Nothing superior about his knowledge of PUA; he has none.
/r/seduction05/05/11 10:09 PM
1

Yeah I was wondering this too. Seems like OP has never read the sidebar contents, even less, most of the content in this subreddit.
/r/seduction05/05/11 10:07 PM
1

Do realise Mystery Method was explicitly for picking up 9 and above.
/r/seduction04/05/11 03:01 AM
1

So, "I don't like you" - IOD, is supposed to generate attraction? Whereas "Excuse me," is obviously a playful neg.
/r/seduction04/05/11 02:43 AM
1

If she's going to leave him for another guy, what's there to say she won't do the same. IOD and disqualifying yourself is different. IOD is not being interested at all, whilst disqualifying yourself explicitly relates to disqualifying self as a potential suitor/mate.
/r/seduction03/05/11 05:46 AM
7

Eh, don't keep the attraction up with her, send IODs if you have to. Girlfriends are not to be touched, mates girlfriends are even worse.
/r/seduction03/05/11 03:07 AM
2

Also disagree. Never. Stop. Gaming.
/r/seduction26/04/11 04:26 PM
1

"I'm not normally into cougars, but maybe I can make an exception."
/r/seduction26/04/11 07:30 AM
1

Pretty much this. She will most likely get hit on by guys but naturally (hopefully) she doesn't make out with them. You, as an alpha male, should do the same. Flirt and #close, but don't end up in any sexual activities.
/r/seduction26/04/11 07:28 AM
2

You're both adults and hence deal wih it accordingly. Talk to her about it, quite literally. You seem to have nothing to lose as you're always helping her (if something goes sour, she won't turn you away).
/r/seduction26/04/11 07:25 AM
1

By speaking English in a foreign country, you've instantly DHV'd.
/r/seduction26/04/11 01:59 AM
1

1: If you're showing lots of kino, most guys won't butt in. If they do, put your arm around her, she's with me. If she doesn't comply, its your queue to leave anyway.
/r/seduction25/04/11 05:02 AM
1

You don't want to dwell on negative topics. One would assume missing a limb is quite negative.
/r/seduction25/04/11 02:34 AM
1

In hindsight, you didn't point out what you did right and wrong.
/r/seduction23/04/11 03:12 PM
3

The format is what every FR should be like.
/r/seduction23/04/11 04:35 AM
2

The commentators are naturals, and the show focuses on naturals vsing each other. Cajun episode is definitely the best as he obliterates the field. I suggest everyone to watch the whole series as it shows you what NOT to do in certain scenarios. They also give you minor tips half way through, even though it's not theory based.
/r/seduction23/04/11 04:33 AM
2

I'm starting to give up on reading and replying to FRs. It's just too much. Why can't people summarise it in a paragraph, we really don't need to know all the adjectives to give feedback.
/r/seduction20/04/11 03:19 PM
1

It's 10:35? [e] Man, what the fuck did I just watch.
/r/seduction20/04/11 02:54 PM
1

If you come on reddit ask advice for a specific chick, you've definitely got one-itis. Asking us what you should do is useless, this chick will love us, she doesn't love you, because all the content you're using is our ideas.
/r/seduction19/04/11 03:59 PM
2

Seduction teaches us how to stay alpha, enjoy life and give value.
/r/seduction19/04/11 01:57 PM
2

Make friends with everyone, not only is it good social proof later on, it stops her girlfriends from cockblocking you. You can even drag a guy/girl to open another set and use them as preselection.
/r/seduction19/04/11 01:36 PM
1

Did you really find it necessary to use "je ne sais quoi"? Etymology From French je ne sais quoi, literally ‘I don't know what’. Very pretentious of you.
/r/seduction19/04/11 01:02 PM
1

I don't normally try a direct approach (it might kill an area), but you've given me inspiration.
/r/seduction19/04/11 05:25 AM
4

In that case, OP should walk into a bar, and have sex on the counter. Don't forget to get the girls to line up, single file, BYO condoms.
/r/seduction18/04/11 02:11 PM
1

http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/grhw6/fr_working_on_dance_floor_game_monumental_fuckups/c1pqbcx
/r/seduction18/04/11 08:10 AM
2

This sounds like /r/relationship_advice.
/r/seduction18/04/11 08:02 AM
1

Why would princess Diana date a guy who doesn't have a college degree? Rather, she'd probably date a prince or a wealthy son of a businessman. If two people are completely different in value, they're probably not "decent" fits.
/r/seduction18/04/11 07:31 AM
7

Uh......................... Not an excuse. Did you see the FR some guy just posted about nailing a cougar in the changeroom? [e] http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/gsfxi/thanks_seddit_closed_and_bjfucked_hot_milfy_at/
/r/seduction18/04/11 03:19 AM
1

We need to get Mystery to do an AMA.
/r/seduction18/04/11 02:59 AM
1

So long as you're not an emotional tampon, having a mistress on the side while you go game other chicks is no loss to you. It may also be a LMR, which you can pull something like, "I'm just going with the flow" or something. In any case, eventually you'll buy so much temperature she may get desperate.
/r/seduction18/04/11 02:56 AM
3

Why didn't you just f-close her?
/r/seduction18/04/11 02:54 AM
17

Practically stars aligning. Someone bought this chick huge temperature, you swooped in for the kill. Nice job with not fucking up though.
/r/seduction18/04/11 02:52 AM
3

General consensus seems to be you're scared of rejection.
/r/seduction18/04/11 02:38 AM
1

Like a boss.
/r/seduction17/04/11 05:57 AM
1

Relevant flash (NSFW)
/r/seduction17/04/11 05:45 AM
1

Most common reason of getting into the friend zone is not making your sexual intentions clear.
/r/seduction17/04/11 05:43 AM
1

You've successfully used text game to get her out. Proceed with the escalation ladder.
/r/seduction17/04/11 05:41 AM
1

"Your phone is only used as a console to meet up.", Let it be written.
/r/seduction17/04/11 05:38 AM
2

Just bail and move on?
/r/seduction17/04/11 05:37 AM
1

ZzZzzzzZzzz. Masterbation releases endorphins through an orgasm. Endorphins are the "happy" hormone. Excercising releases endorphins. Masturbation does not release testosterone, there is no proof of this, surprisingly, based on the linked study, testosterone levels may be even higher. Masturbation releases stress through releasing endorphins, that's it.
/r/seduction17/04/11 05:33 AM
1

The only difference age plays is probably logistics (driving back to my place) or age clock (forgot the actual term, but basically chicks that are looking for LTR cause they're getting old). Everything else seems quite universal.
/r/seduction17/04/11 05:25 AM
15

"I can't tell with all the clothes on", Seriously though, you should just point out she's fishing for compliments, she seems very shallow to say something like this.
/r/seduction17/04/11 05:23 AM
1

Nope, you didn't screw up royally. You could've done much worse, like lower your value or something. If she asks, or you happen to open her, say that something was on your mind before and you lost concentration. She'll ask you what it is, and not only do you have an opener to continue off, you can also try something like "There was this cute girl that talked to me in the bar before, I think she was trying to get in my pants!".
/r/seduction17/04/11 05:21 AM
1

On behalf of seddit. I'd like to congratulate you on completing the final test (somewhat). That is, picking up a hired gun.
/r/seduction17/04/11 05:16 AM
1

That comes off assertion, you need to learn that they're supposed to follow you around, because you are the fun, not the other way around.
/r/seduction17/04/11 05:00 AM
1

That'd just be uncivil. At least deal with like a mature man would.
/r/seduction17/04/11 04:59 AM
2

I said nothing about sitting back, most of the people in seddit fuck up because they're not enjoying themselves, they're too stressed on what to do or say next that they lose track of what's really important; their own satisfaction.
/r/seduction17/04/11 04:57 AM
1

I can't tell if you're trolling or not. He may have been all over the world, shows value, this guy can go wherever he wants, see new things, have fun, while she doesn't have that opportunity. This guy has potential, he's been there and done that, whilst she hasn't, etc, he's got more experience in the world, stuff like that. If she's been nowhere, it's like, huge gap in value.
/r/seduction17/04/11 04:56 AM
2

http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/fin0c/fr_entourage_game_omg_it_works/ Personally, never tried it, too much effort but has potential.
/r/seduction16/04/11 05:43 PM
5

Tofu mentioned she managed to f-close a girl in the bathroom straight after said girl saw him k-close another chick. However, this was most likely in a club setting and everyone was drunk. Generally when chicks see you being a "player" they'll put their shields up. It's all about plausible deniability man.
/r/seduction16/04/11 05:21 PM
0

If the word get's out, you have to put up with AMOGs fucking around, it's just not worth the trouble, as mentioned before, there are many better routes. Given that you were able to pull that line off without negative consequences, once again, you're better off trying much more risk rewarding routines such as Entourage game or gaming for a threesome.
/r/seduction16/04/11 05:10 PM
1

Exuberant confidence. The chick asked him to kino her with the hand reading.
/r/seduction16/04/11 05:02 PM
-2

We continue on and I disqualify myself, telling her I've got a small wiener, I'm bad in bed, and I haven't had sex for 3 years. I don't care if you somehow managed to threesome-close with this, don't ever do it again. Theory wise, you always disqualify her as a potential mate, not yourself. You are alpha, she is beta. This is insanely dangerous, you risk lowering your value so much when you could've gone a much safer (not to mention successful) option. You also risk nearby bystanders hearing and…
/r/seduction16/04/11 04:55 PM
1

10 years, you have one-itis. Give it a try with the advice here, then just move on and forget about her.
/r/seduction16/04/11 04:51 PM
1

As a beginner, you should just not neg intentionality at all, you might even shoot yourself in the foot. Most of the time, it'll come naturally when you're flirting, just not executed exceptionally well.
/r/seduction16/04/11 04:24 PM
2

There is no such thing as "dance floor game", music is loud as fuck, heavy kino, random chicks grinding on you, tons of fucking temperature being bought and they'll fuck any guy that doesn't shoot themselves in the foot. Being forceful wasn't your problem, not following the basic pickup sequence was. Opener > Attraction > Comfort > Seduction
/r/seduction16/04/11 04:22 PM
3

You can't force him to learn. Uhh, what was the quote again, we can show you the door, but you need to open and walk through it(?).
/r/seduction16/04/11 04:17 PM
3

You're over thinking it. Praise her without making yourself sound beta. [e] http://www.fastseduction.com/guide/05_How_to_Handle_Girls/compliment.shtml
/r/seduction16/04/11 03:52 PM
3

Personally I rarely neg women, maybe once near the opener to point out she's not alpha. Normally, she doesn't exactly "drop" in value, but rather, you "gain" value faster than she can qualify herself. So when you're like, "Oh I've been to Egypt, Paris, Japan and Singapore", and she's like "I've never been overseas", you probably fucked yourself. The core to it though, is how genuine the compliment is, seriously. If it's genuine, go for it, apparently people get some warm fuzzy feeling shit when …
/r/seduction16/04/11 03:18 PM
1

I remember there was this post a couple of months back about a rich Saudi Arabian prince that couldn't have sex with some model because he had no game. He blew millions on this chick, and still could not get her to sleep with him. Perfect evidence.
/r/seduction16/04/11 02:47 PM
-1

Congratulations, but like workaholicbitch said, this isn't a place for your sexual frustrations. You didn't offer any tips, theory or practical, and this sure as hell wasn't a FR. Technically, you're still not over her. You're still thinking about her to some extent, you still care (a little) if she's with other guys, and you even posted your concerns about moving on, on reddit. The only cure to one-itis, is meeting (or fucking) more women.
/r/seduction16/04/11 02:43 PM
4

Opener > Attraction > Comfort > Seduction. Going by your FR, it doesn't look like you got half way through attraction, without attraction, you don't have good foundations for comfort. Naturally, they don't trust you, they are not comfortable around you (particularly). Not to mention you begged them to do them a favor (ouch). Also, driving them back is indirect for "let's have sex".
/r/seduction16/04/11 02:39 PM
1

For a start, Jersey girl is not a bitch, her friends are not bitches. Just because they told you to leave them/her alone, does not make them bitches. You need to fix your attitude. "Can you just leave her alone?" Don't let this break your mindset/state, your goal is to have a good time, when you have a good time, everything else comes naturally. I keep emphasising this to people, but everyone get's so focused on "oh what I should I do when she does this", etc etc. Clubs etc are supposed to be lo…
/r/seduction16/04/11 02:35 PM
14

Exactly like you said. Compliment her when you feel like she's falling behind in value, but don't overkill it. With most girls, so long as you keep alpha you can compliment whenever you like. If the compliment is genuine, delivery time won't matter.
/r/seduction16/04/11 02:25 PM
3

We have our own bed, when she asks me if it's ok if we just go to sleep and do something fun together when we go out on a date next time. Feeling tired, I decide not to persuade and take my time with her. She wanted to have sex. =/ Even though you want to take it slow and develop an LTR, she might not. Call her whenever, makes no difference, but don't be clingy, don't make yourself too available.
/r/seduction16/04/11 02:05 PM
2

You've just got to not fuck up now. She's already attracted to you, so you need to initiate comfort and seduction phases, but make sure you don't skip comfort. Next time you see her, just ask her something playful, "This beautiful girl just said I was cute, I think she wants to get in my pants, can you believe her?!". Use your imagination.
/r/seduction16/04/11 02:00 PM
1

There is no next move. I've hope you've learned from this lesson to never game chicks with BFs as it never ends well. Consider yourself a close positive exception, you at least got two fucks from it.
/r/seduction16/04/11 09:00 AM
1

Your "friends” sound like dicks. Grab one guy you feel comfortable with and get him to wing for you.
/r/seduction16/04/11 08:54 AM
1

If you made your sexual intentions clear in the start, you won't ever get close to friend-zoned.
/r/seduction16/04/11 08:22 AM
-5

Thought your FR is interesting, you really need to cut it down. Everything else, kudos.
/r/seduction16/04/11 08:20 AM
-3

You're better off just enjoying life and have everything else come naturally.
/r/seduction16/04/11 08:15 AM
1

Do note, her age clock is ticking, she's probably in for a serious relationship.
/r/seduction16/04/11 08:14 AM
2

Off to /r/fashion please.
/r/seduction15/04/11 03:29 PM
1

Dude, use your brain. You want an LTR with a chick who's on and off with her ex. Are you fucking serious? Don't assume shit, assumption is the main reason communication is so fucked nowadays.
/r/seduction15/04/11 03:24 PM
1

Then you realise building attraction and comfort is so much more important than the seduction phase (in day game).
/r/seduction15/04/11 03:21 PM
1

What the fuck is this whole subreddit for?
/r/seduction15/04/11 03:20 PM
0

Less reading, more practise.
/r/seduction15/04/11 03:16 PM
8

Two wrong's don't make a right.
/r/seduction15/04/11 03:12 PM
2

Going to have to agree with mermaid over glassuser here.
/r/seduction14/04/11 01:51 PM
1

Real laughter was produced.
/r/seduction14/04/11 01:36 PM
1

Facebook is like a mule you can pong chicks to. There is no such thing as "into" Facebook. There's nothing to do really; reply to wall posts, play apps. If you don't stuff, other people won't see stuff. If you change your privacy settings, random people can't see shit either. Replying, or posting wall posts is completely optional.
/r/seduction14/04/11 01:30 PM
1

If she asks, you're better off not denying it. Else, don't mention it.
/r/seduction14/04/11 11:14 AM
1

This is the first thing that came to my mind when seeing this thread.
/r/seduction13/04/11 07:31 AM
2

Disagree also. During the day, people normally have an objective to get somewhere, get something done, most people don't have time to just "chill" and talk with you. You need to be in and out very quickly. Night game, people have the goal of having fun, perhaps a ONS, once they enter a bar/club they may not leave for a while, this gives you time to let others buy temperature whilst you build rapport elsewhere.
/r/seduction13/04/11 07:29 AM
2

Don't even consider gaming for a threesome before you get the basics right.
/r/seduction12/04/11 01:50 PM
1

No it's not. It's beta, shows you're not in control, and is weak.
/r/seduction12/04/11 01:46 PM
1

No, build rapport with everyone, make friends with everyone, else they'll end up cockblocking you.
/r/seduction12/04/11 01:41 PM
1

I don't know why you call yourself "boy".
/r/seduction12/04/11 01:40 PM
1

He needs to be that guy, and you need to post in the right section. We have /r/AskSeddit for a reason. Use it.
/r/seduction12/04/11 01:36 PM
2

Yeah..... this doesn't work. You'll come off and obnoxious.
/r/seduction12/04/11 01:34 PM
-13

Please don't give out advice if you're not experienced and thoroughly tested this stuff. Especially when you still consider yourself an AFC.
/r/seduction12/04/11 01:31 PM
-1

Don't ever give a girl your number.
/r/seduction12/04/11 01:26 PM
1

Real laughter was produced.
/r/seduction12/04/11 12:40 PM
-11

Women are much more selfish than men. Men need to fulfil their physical desires, so long as it isn't rape, no one gets harmed. Women need to fulfil their emotional desires, they don't care if the other party reciprocates.
/r/seduction12/04/11 12:27 PM
-4

If you're getting friend-zoned, you sure as hell aren't sleeping with them. Why get friend-zoned and keep them around, when you can sleep with them and keep them around?
/r/seduction12/04/11 12:17 PM
6

http://www.videobb.com/video/jgpM1s1hkSoQ 9:50 [e] Get's random as shit around 15-17
/r/seduction11/04/11 03:55 PM
4

Herp derp. Negs are a disqualifier, that's it. Plain and simple. Negs are used to disqualify women as a suitable mate, that is all. Use negs sparingly at a beginner level.
/r/seduction11/04/11 03:50 PM
0

"Damn straight, but no, I won't sleep with you".
/r/seduction11/04/11 03:48 PM
1

He's saying something about a given topic, he's not moving, he is sitting, his facial expression doesn't change. You can't tell shit from that.
/r/seduction11/04/11 01:56 PM
1

Your tone in that thread was horrific.
/r/seduction11/04/11 10:34 AM
2

Mystery pulled the PPP in the first episode of VH1 "The Pickup Artist".
/r/seduction11/04/11 10:32 AM
1

Yeah.... normally I try to reply to every seddit/askseddit post before I sleep, this one I just can't be fucked.
/r/seduction11/04/11 10:31 AM
1

He's not an alpha, you can't tell from a video like this. Alpha is a mental state. You simply think he has good values, that's it.
/r/seduction11/04/11 10:29 AM
2

One-itis on those two girls. Whenever someone asks a question in seddit about a specific group of people with a story, it's one-itis. Abundance mentality, there's like 8 billion people on this planet, half female, quarter +- 5 years of you, 1 billion people ought to have 1 chick for you.
/r/seduction11/04/11 10:27 AM
1

Please tell me you went in for the kiss after you said that. As an alpha, you shouldn't need to "prove" anything.
/r/seduction11/04/11 10:18 AM
2

You are way over-analysing shit tests, teasing and flirting at most. Also, too many texts, only use texting as a platform to set up a "date" (I don't like using that term). [e] It seems that you're in high school, in that case, you can ignore more than half the stuff on seddit, focus on inner game.
/r/seduction11/04/11 03:35 AM
2

This goes in relationship_advice (or even askseddit at best). Nothing about seduction or seduction techniques in your post. Regardless, if they all know you're not their "boyfriend" and that you're dating other women, it's fine.
/r/seduction11/04/11 03:23 AM
2

I literally, "What the fuck"'d IRL. They are huge.
/r/seduction11/04/11 03:19 AM
1

Nothing really, don't stress. I'm starting to get pissy cause I see posts about one-itis everyday.
/r/seduction11/04/11 03:11 AM
2

Seddit isn't the place for you, we can't help you.
/r/seduction11/04/11 03:10 AM
5

I've kinda got my eyes on this one chick and nobody else, that's how I always am. She seems like such a cool ass girl, so I'm disappointed. sigh Then you've got one-itis and you haven't learnt shit from /r/seduction. Giving you an F-, redo the course.
/r/seduction10/04/11 04:04 PM
2

Do. not.ever.pull.game.on.chicks.with.boyfriends Period. Even if the stars and planets of the galaxy past the Milky Way align, shit is not going to turn out good.
/r/seduction10/04/11 03:56 PM
1

Small note, you didn't need to come to her aid when she looked at you, you're not her dog. Normally if people haven't read seduction theory they'll shoot themselves in the foot anyway. If she initiated the talk saying she wants to lend you a book, it's an IOI meaning she wants to see you more/another time. You can turn this into a plausible deniability case by telling her to come pickup her book at your place and take a look at your etchings or something. Aside from that, nice job.
/r/seduction10/04/11 03:50 PM
-1

We need a huge as fuck maraquee at the top of seddit saying READ THE SIDEBAR ----->>>>> http://www.blurtit.com/q886137.html itis is greek for "disease", means you're mind is stuck with one chick and you've put her on a pedestal. [t] typo
/r/seduction10/04/11 03:40 PM
2

"Missing me yet?" specifically, he's seeking her attention, not necessary and should be the other way around. If, however, he texted about something awesome he did and how she could not be apart of it, that'd DHV and elicit values.
/r/seduction10/04/11 02:49 PM
-2

If it wasn't one-itis, he would've even bother asking her if she misses him. Why the fuck would he care when there's tons of other chicks he could fuck? If she's his special little snowflake then she's on a pedestal and he has one one-itis. It is one-itis.
/r/seduction10/04/11 02:47 PM
1

If you teach her how to play pool (which is what I do), you've got full body kino, practically dry humping.
/r/seduction10/04/11 02:46 PM
1

One-itis, move on. If she comes back, great, else don't stress.
/r/seduction10/04/11 02:45 PM
1

I texted her a few days later with something innocuous like, "Missing me yet?" and no response. You shot yourself in the foot here. One-itis. Next.
/r/seduction10/04/11 01:30 PM
1

I tried to open a two set by talking about how I didn't know anyone here Yeah don't do that, DLV straight off. "wtf is this guy doing here alone", not the same if it's a female alone. "who lies more girls/guys" Careful, overused line. She was smiley, but she put her headphones back in, essentially closing off the conversation. Whatever. No point opening girls with headphones in, they obviously don't want to be disturbed. At least you got out. Decent.
/r/seduction10/04/11 01:25 PM
1

HB7, you need to bail, make it clear you don't care about the shit between her and her ex. You're not an emotional tampon. HB8, same thing again. I think you're not talking about "your future" enough. There's a technique called eliciting values where you DHV by saying what you two could be doing. Eliciting values is quite advanced, and is probably on par with anchoring.
/r/seduction10/04/11 01:21 PM
3

Seddit needs to emphasise insanely not to use negs at a beginner level. If you're no good at building attraction, seduction (negs) isn't going to do shit for you. Opener > Attraction > Comfort > Seduction You guys are jumping from openers to seduction, the shit in the middle is missing out, if you don't solidify the stuff in the middle, the stuff at the end is useless.
/r/seduction10/04/11 01:19 PM
2

Do remember he was very drunk.
/r/seduction10/04/11 01:13 PM
24

Dress for the job you want, not the job you have.
/r/seduction10/04/11 01:11 PM
14

Pool/Billiards promotes much much better kino in comparison. When she was at your place, you should've fucked her. Minor edit: DAE think that "LOSER MCLOSINGTONS" is a tad immature?
/r/seduction10/04/11 01:10 PM
3

There's a difference between alpha and aggression. What you want to be is aggressive, give him unexpected kisses etc. What you do not want is alpha, you don't want him to feel like a bitch where you make all the decisions.
/r/seduction10/04/11 01:07 PM
1

I agree with this. I, personally, think /r/askreddit and /r/innergame is overkill.
/r/seduction10/04/11 01:06 PM
1

Read the sidebar.
/r/seduction10/04/11 03:59 AM
2

Do not ever buy a girl a drink. Text book shit test, along with calling you out half way across the state/area for some random shit.
/r/seduction09/04/11 03:29 AM
1

Beta up.
/r/seduction09/04/11 03:28 AM
3

They're looking for beta emotional tampons.
/r/seduction09/04/11 03:27 AM
6

This isn't a FR, it's a story of a kid who stopped being a pussy and asked a chick out. Just for the record "do you want to go to prom together?" Question = weak. Statement = strong. "Hey, i think you're really cute. Cold approach, but I don't think you knew what you were doing. She gave you her number because she is naturally attracted to you. Your job now is not to screw up that attraction, meaning, don't DLV.
/r/seduction08/04/11 04:39 PM
1

This is most cases, they usually think they're a 10 if they're a model. Else they might consider themselves 6-9, most women have self-esteem issues, which is why they're so receptive to negs and alike. In most cases, use negs sparingly.
/r/seduction08/04/11 04:32 PM
6

I applaud you for not drink driving. Respect.
/r/seduction08/04/11 09:11 AM
5

You forgot the, "My penis grants wishes, only if you rub hard enough!"
/r/seduction08/04/11 09:04 AM
2

CAUSE THE NEXT WORD IS...
/r/seduction08/04/11 09:03 AM
2

aaannnnddd..... homepaged.
/r/seduction08/04/11 08:17 AM
1

Spot on. You see all the people going in clubs for one night stands, male or female, they get one night's worth of enjoyment to expect it to repeat every week. From a female perspective, they get clingly, get pissed off that there's apparently no good men anymore. From a male perspective, it's just another pussy with a different type of stimulation. What separates ONS from relationship is passion, something that can only be trained and made over a period of time. Is it this passion for one anoth…
/r/seduction07/04/11 12:15 PM
3

Don't worry too much about picking out targets atm, focus on getting rid of your AA by learning how to continue conversations smoothly. Read this in regards to IOIs.
/r/seduction07/04/11 12:12 PM
3

I told her where I worked and she said she wanted to come in to have a glass of wine some evening. I was about to tell you # close because she may have some hot friends but then I read... maybe she has some HB10 friends to introduce to me?!? Yes, good sir, she might, which is why you befriend everyone. Even if you're not into them, they're good social proof.
/r/seduction07/04/11 12:10 PM
12

I liked the center, but then it get's all pussy at the end. Regardless, I saw suits (my style), will watch.
/r/seduction07/04/11 12:08 PM
4

IIRC, Tofu is not affiliated with RSD.
/r/seduction07/04/11 12:05 PM
1

No compliments, loads of negs, reality destroyer, make her think she's a 5 to your 10.
/r/seduction07/04/11 10:04 AM
-6

Talk show hosts are paid to laugh etc, everything is fake. [e] Why all the downvotes for the truth?
/r/seduction06/04/11 01:45 PM
1

Don't assume anything goes against assume attraction =/ But regardless, point and case.
/r/seduction06/04/11 10:55 AM
1

This is dangerous. She might have seen you as beta and give you a quick kiss cause she really couldn't be fucked doing the work, or you handled it flawlessly. Guess you'll figure it out next time.
/r/seduction06/04/11 06:24 AM
3

This is text book push pull.
/r/seduction06/04/11 06:21 AM
1

In that case, you don't want to be tied down so early in college. You won't ever get the opportunity college offers with women, perhaps go sleep with 100 other chicks and eventually come back to her.
/r/seduction06/04/11 03:50 AM
1

Sure. Kino is body touching, check out the sidebar for that. She needs to feel comfortable with you touching her (it's a chick thing, I know it sounds creepy at first). Chances are though, you're going to break it off when you start college.
/r/seduction06/04/11 03:10 AM
2

condomize™ - I lol'd IRL. she says: "NICK I CANT!" My name is not Nick. Instantly was like "wtf???" I almost spewed my drink, HAHAHAHHAAH. On a serious note: You probably need to talk to her about this Nick dude, but be sure not to get friend zoned.
/r/seduction06/04/11 02:59 AM
1

Huge IOI there. Don't worry about reposting it. Frankly, because you're both young you might not end up f-closing as soon as you'd like. K-close shouldn't be too much of a problem, as mentioned before, lots of kino, incidental touches, if she's cool with that, slowly escalate, hand holding, let her lean on your shoulder, etc.
/r/seduction06/04/11 02:43 AM
1

Sounds like you're using any kino or flirting completely.
/r/seduction06/04/11 02:41 AM
1

Anchoring is insanely advanced, up to the stage you can rig an elbow touch to laugher when it's quiet, or her getting wet when you touch her thigh. You're much better off focusing on other PUA stuff.
/r/seduction06/04/11 02:37 AM
2

Huuuuuuuuuuuge one-itis here. Call her, tell her this flat off, "We had a nice run, I'm going to call it off". Then proceed to mingle with other chicks. She'll come back to you (but that's not the point of this!), and when she does, be ready to say you're having a fucking awesome time being single.
/r/seduction06/04/11 02:34 AM
2

Okay, let's run this down step by step. They insisted that it's so morbid that if I ask anyone that question they'll think I'm a freak. Your co-workers have no game, they are AFCs. Then I decided, "Fuck that shit". Even if they're right, "Fuck that shit". Like a boss my friend. I went around the table getting their opinions, some debated with each other and me. Not sure if you mean physically moving around, you don't need to do this. Open a set (that was pretty huge), transition, befriend everyo…
/r/seduction06/04/11 02:30 AM
2

First, this goes in /r/askseddit. Second, she's extremely interested in you, and you're you've got beta stamped on your forehead. You're "asking" her out, wrong. You need to assert, not a question, statement. She's doing what you should be doing with texts, she's either actually busy, or trying to look busy, which is what you should be doing. Seeing as you mentioned school, half the /r/seduction stuff doesn't apply. Tons of kino, lots of rapport, and you're set for the k-close, f-close if she's …
/r/seduction06/04/11 02:19 AM
3

Either you're a natural, or you're extremely hot (fit + look). Seduction, fundamentally, is social dynamics at its best.
/r/seduction05/04/11 03:39 PM
4

Must be the Tofu doing the work. Amidoinitrite?
/r/seduction05/04/11 01:52 PM
2

Relevant
/r/seduction05/04/11 01:50 PM
1

Don't stress too much about anchoring, it's very very advanced PUA stuff. It's practically Pavlov's Dog (Classical conditioning). As mentioned before very advanced.
/r/seduction05/04/11 01:47 PM
2

Not your fault, she wanted to have sex with you, you didn't actively pursue it. But that's not to say if your friend's GF wanted to have sex with you that you should supplicate. He had his chance, he lost it.
/r/seduction04/04/11 10:15 AM
2

Conversation flowed smoothly from one thing to the next. Eventually she said she had to start packing up the booth (Mall closes early Sunday), told me her name and shook my hand. I told her mine, said “it was good talking to you”, and walked off. Should've just number closed here.
/r/seduction04/04/11 10:05 AM
2

When people look up Chuck Norris in the encyclopedia there's a picture of YOU and a caption that reads "Chuck Norris asked that we replace his picture with this one because drivingjunkie is the type of man Chuck Norris wishes he could be, and he felt this picture was more appropriate." I lol'd IRL.
/r/seduction04/04/11 09:56 AM
0

When chicks get sexual frustration, they're down for anything. It's the same logic when you're high as fuck, you'll probably agree to anything next.
/r/seduction04/04/11 09:49 AM
8

This just in. Title: #-close over /r/seduction - LIKE A BOSS. Submitter: TofuTofu
/r/seduction04/04/11 09:44 AM
1

In that case, you've got a bad case of one-itis. Take her off the pedestal, spend more time on other women, don't instantly reply to her texts, make her wait. You're not available any time for her, you're a busy man with stuff to do.
/r/seduction04/04/11 09:18 AM
3

Not much chance for kino, as she was diagonally from me. Legs dude I don't approach because it was loud and did not know what to do. Excuses. Just talk to her. I think I should have gone in for the kiss here, but didn't. When she came close, you should've popped the "I've got a habit of playing with girl's hair when they're close", start playing with her hair and go in for the kiss. I think you were quite short on the kino. =/
/r/seduction04/04/11 01:18 AM
2

She's shit-testing you with the drink, and you did excellent. She's trying to see if once she sleeps with you, you can be her bitch and supplicate to her demands. As Hitch said, "Once you're on the date, the goal is not to screw it up", in your case, you've had that date, you didn't screw it up, and it seems like she's pretty delighted. You don't need to get her interested because she will naturally want to be with you. You've associated "an awesome time" to yourself. Further reading: Anchoring …
/r/seduction04/04/11 01:06 AM
2

I'll be frank with you. You're probably not going to pick her up. TofuTofu will probably have trouble pick her up. A chick that's working is already very hard to pick up. They're paid to smile and be nice. A smoking hot waiter is.... yeah, you get the point.
/r/seduction04/04/11 01:01 AM
9

So far so you sounded like an emotional tampon in high school. Your opener is very harsh and should be said in person rather online. You should just straight up ask to meet up for coffee to "catch up". [e] and your post goes in /r/askseddit. Read the sidebar
/r/seduction04/04/11 12:58 AM
1

The topic has been mentioned tons of times in the sidebar. There's a reason /r/seduction is filled with FRs are barely any theory posts. All of it has already been posted. You can find most openers etc reading other people's FRs, as each opener varies by situation.
/r/seduction04/04/11 12:54 AM
2

You can be like Paul Janka who makes chicks leave stuff at his place so he can booty call any HB8-10 whenever he wants to fuck them. But once you've had so much sex, you just want to settle down with a girl that loves you, and vice-versa, which is the goal of /r/seduction.
/r/seduction03/04/11 03:39 PM
1

How the fuck did you give her the impression you were gay?!?! (lol) Did you kino at all?
/r/seduction03/04/11 02:53 PM
3

Your FR is insanely vague. I learnt absolutely nothing from it.
/r/seduction03/04/11 02:51 PM
3

You have multiple booty call girls, if they're bisexual, you mix them up together and have a party. It'll work very well with Entourage game but that's quite hard to set up.
/r/seduction03/04/11 02:50 PM
2

You didn't mention anything about her friendzoning you? I guess it's just normal game, but you'll be hit with LMR for sure.
/r/seduction03/04/11 02:48 PM
1

Either you're reposting this (which I don't know why) or my computer's cache'd the exact same topic yesterday and displaying it today. I swear I saw this exact same post yesterday.
/r/seduction03/04/11 02:46 PM
1

I'm interested in the polka dot/flowery garment. Wasn't sarcastic.
/r/seduction03/04/11 10:33 AM
1

2nd picture, VERY NICE. Link to buy please?
/r/seduction03/04/11 03:57 AM
4

If that fails, you can do a "freeze-out." When she says "No, I can't do this." You go "OK, no problem, I need to check reddit anyway." (insert something non-sexual). Completely stop escalating and nonchalantly check reddit. Within a few minutes she'll usually come over and try to reengage physically with you. FTFY
/r/seduction03/04/11 03:54 AM
1

Fuck, I had a whole paragraph typed and the page changed. Ugh, tl;dr - Think of it in a philosophical sense, someone elses opinion (quote), you take it on board, it might not apply to you if you have the same experience.
/r/seduction03/04/11 03:12 AM
1

There's one stickied topic with 10+ pages of replies, tons of posts with very little replies. Here, whenever someone replies it's filled with stuff we overlooked, and not to mention lots of FR's that show other people's mistakes are stuff we can learn. Like the end-of-a-night text (Had fun today, get home safe. - Name) and I have this habit of playing with your hair if we get too close (forgot how it goes, search it up), both I nabbed from here.
/r/seduction03/04/11 03:08 AM
1

Not enough centralized posts there. =/
/r/seduction02/04/11 03:20 PM
1

I don't know how to explain this, but openers vary greatly based on situation. For instance, the other day I opened a chick asking her what flavor her milk tea was, despite it being half full, I asked if she wanted to come get some milk tea with me, she graciously accepted. Now if she did not have the milk tea then, I would've found something else to talk about, what exactly, is hard for me to explain. In any case, the general "guideline" is saying something that involves her opinion. She needs …
/r/seduction02/04/11 03:10 PM
1

I clicked on this expecting at least 4 character capped posts. but I guess tl;dr - seddit has taught me how to win in life is suffice.
/r/seduction02/04/11 03:06 PM
1

Loud places are for kino escalation and bouncing afterwards.
/r/seduction02/04/11 03:03 PM
2

Isn't inner game fundamentally /r/getmotivated?
/r/seduction02/04/11 02:46 PM
1

Shirt, tie, suit etc is naturally associated with class and status. Perhaps that's why it may instantly DHV.
/r/seduction02/04/11 10:14 AM
2

Quotes are references of other people's experiences. They convery it in a meaningful context, which we then read, and associate with. Quotes don't define who we are, we define who we are, hence, quotes can aid us in defining who we are, as quotes are the experiences of other people. Which is why quotes are delusional knowledge, it's someone elses knowledge that we can choose to take on and adapt to, but until we personally experience what they've experienced, we don't really know what's going on…
/r/seduction02/04/11 04:45 AM
0

Quotes are a delusional sense of knowledge that one can relate to. The 20 years one is a famous quote by Mark Twain, and was quoted by Steve Jobs as well I think (or another famous dude, forgot).
/r/seduction02/04/11 02:46 AM
1

Amazing.
/r/seduction02/04/11 02:45 AM
2

Never cease to amaze.
/r/seduction01/04/11 03:17 PM
1

See original post/context. http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/g94wr/book_of_body_language_summary/
/r/seduction01/04/11 06:13 AM
7

tl;dr - goes dancing, kino, asked for her number (-1), last minute ftc, lost virginity, had a lot of sex on weekend.
/r/seduction31/03/11 12:18 PM
1

First, do not ever give a girl your phone number without getting hers. If she doesn't give you hers, don't giver her yours. Second, people who work in retail are paid to smile and be friendly, they may not necessarily be IOIs.
/r/seduction31/03/11 07:42 AM
11

What did you read on IOI? Link please. [e] I had this before, but wanted to see what source the OP had first.
/r/seduction31/03/11 07:35 AM
4

Peacocking isn't a theory, it's already been proven by Mystery. Just wear something bizarre that your guy friends will be pissed off about, that pretty much determines if it's suitable for peacocking.
/r/seduction31/03/11 07:33 AM
1

Are you serious? Source?
/r/seduction29/03/11 02:40 PM
2

Download Hitch. How he separated the chick from the group in the bar. Flawless victory.
/r/seduction29/03/11 09:49 AM
0

This is not your fault at all, in fact, you probably found out she wanted to hook up with you after you denied them a lift. If she really wanted to hook up with you, she would've said something like "come back to our place and <etc>".
/r/seduction28/03/11 12:10 PM
1

This line really doesn't sound nearly as nice when actually said.
/r/seduction28/03/11 12:07 PM
2

No, you cannot. You can't talk (barely) when watching a movie, which kills attraction, comfort and seduction.
/r/seduction28/03/11 12:04 PM
15

Possibly, it's generally considered quite unethical to go fuck someone else's girlfriend, even worse if you know about it. If they're unhappy, let her handle it and break up on her own terms, else, they're happy, don't fuck shit up.
/r/seduction28/03/11 12:01 PM
2

Maybe it's just a ploy for you to do more housework. =/
/r/seduction27/03/11 01:14 PM
2

Next time, send it after you leave, something along the lines of "Had fun tonight, get home safe - Name". Then you can delay the useless playful texts (they don't build any attraction, comfort, or seduce).
/r/seduction27/03/11 01:13 PM
3

Hell no. Do not give a girl your name unless they ask for it (IOI). Pointless.
/r/seduction27/03/11 10:46 AM
1

Either I'm reading it wrong... or... you didn't number close? You need a false time constraint, and build attraction faster. Kino is moreso if you want to k-close or f-close. If you just want #-close, attraction > some comfort > #-close > stay for 5 minutes > bail.
/r/seduction27/03/11 10:43 AM
1

I think you're negging a bit too much, but if it works, whatever.
/r/seduction27/03/11 10:29 AM
1

seduction started way before seddit, infact, seddit isn't even that big of a community in comparison. Find a PUA who still remembers the ASF days, you'll have a winner.
/r/seduction25/03/11 02:23 PM
2

Tell your room mate before you bring a chick over, especially if you plan on doing something. and why not just download it onto a hard-drive and stick it in your X-box? Aside from that, great job picking up from OKC, apparently the ratio of chicks:guys is quite insane there.
/r/seduction25/03/11 02:16 PM
3

You neg her to she qualifies herself, if she turns it back on you you'll get a laugh from it and move on, it's obvious you're joking.
/r/seduction25/03/11 10:31 AM
0

Fake nails is a classic neg, it's an analogy.
/r/seduction25/03/11 10:01 AM
1

I mentioned this in AskSedding (something similar). Seduction is an art, how we use it depends on us. Some guys use it for a one night stand, other guys use it to fortify LTRs. It's like learning to talk first, then learning to talk with women (seduction).
/r/seduction25/03/11 09:53 AM
-1

Why do you like her nails if you're going to say that they're fake? Do you like fake nails?
/r/seduction25/03/11 09:31 AM
1

DAE bookmark this?
/r/seduction24/03/11 01:14 PM
1

There was a post in /r/2xc saying chicks often get hit on at work (retail) and often they find it annoying because they're paid to smile and help. Perhaps you mistook her IOI's as just being friendly.
/r/seduction24/03/11 11:40 AM
1

Opener is no good, you need either direct (You're cute, elaborate) or indirect (need an opinion, you look like you would know what you're talking about sort of thing). Then try to turn her 180 degrees so she loses track of where she was going, build rapport and comfort quickly, close very quickly.
/r/seduction24/03/11 08:02 AM
4

She didn't earn it, and he didn't get anything. She was attracted to him, he was attracted to her, the other chump shot himself in the foot, and he went in for the number. Put simply, perfect execution, flawless victory.
/r/seduction23/03/11 01:37 PM
1

Don't worry about, there's nothing wrong about being paranoid, just don't be over paranoid. Ruler of Wei country (Cao Cao) during Romance of the Three Kingdoms reigned due to his paranoia, but his anxiety prevented from many possible victories. However, in contrast, his anxieties saved him more than the victories he would've gotten.
/r/seduction22/03/11 12:33 PM
3

Don't look for a LTR woman in a club. You're dicing with death.
/r/seduction22/03/11 12:10 PM
2

It's not a shit test, there's nothing beta about opening a door for a woman, it's chivalry and manners. The OPs case would occur quite rarely, there's not much time to strike up a similar conversation, not often are you going to walk through a door and she "expects" you to open the door for her, to which she will ask you why aren't you. You want to go through the door, first person on the handle opens it, duh.
/r/seduction22/03/11 11:40 AM
5

Completely off topic.
/r/seduction22/03/11 11:37 AM
1

Thank you for the behavioural economics insight.
/r/seduction21/03/11 09:34 PM
4

Where was the "wait for it?"
/r/seduction21/03/11 08:57 PM
1

If a girl is qualifying by saying she doesn't drink often, she's suggesting she's not a slut, which means she's looking for a LTR. Else it's no big deal if you're a promiscuous woman looking for a ONS. It's a moral paradox of mine to understand how is it that quality women find themselves in a bar, or worse, a club. I'll appreciate it if you can clear it up.
/r/seduction20/03/11 09:16 AM
1

I'm in the same shoes as you. I don't drink, smoke, gamble or do drugs, it's a moral thing, but without any alcohol playing around with women is much harder.
/r/seduction20/03/11 07:04 AM
2

Don't diss the other girl. She'll eventually get the impression you might talk like that about her behind her back.
/r/seduction19/03/11 02:23 AM
1

Insanely hard.
/r/seduction18/03/11 12:24 PM
2

You need to escalate a lot. Especially considering you pussied out the last 2 times. As her to play pool or something, personally, I find that as a great opportunity for kino (or ice skating, minigolf etc).
/r/seduction18/03/11 12:23 PM
2

ENGLISH MOTHERFUCKER, DO.YOU.SPEAK.IT? And yeah, Christ, paragraphs bro.
/r/seduction18/03/11 12:20 PM
2

You need to include your name in your text. Some other PUA used a line like “Had a nice night, get home safe. -Name". Social proof is just for initial attraction, you're supposed to separate ASAP afterwards.
/r/seduction18/03/11 12:20 PM
2

"hey, GIVE me your number so we can meet up some other time" That's about it. I'm not sure how the fake number line comes off, I've never used it.
/r/seduction18/03/11 12:14 PM
1

You need to escalate quicker. If you're half decent at pool, teaching her is an absolutely awesome way to escalate kino (you're practically spooning her). Perhaps show her some local rooftops.
/r/seduction18/03/11 09:08 AM
1

You missed a chance for sure, but next time (if you see her) you can easily get her number. You: "Hey, I was busy last time and didn't get a chance to catch your name" Her: "blah blah, that's ok" You: "Give me your number, we elevator whistlers should go out sometime." Remember to smile.
/r/seduction18/03/11 09:04 AM
2

Remember to smile a lot, back straight etc, confident body language. SMILE [e] Nice job on the number, it is indeed a milestone.
/r/seduction18/03/11 09:01 AM
1

Excellent handling of texting, but yes, I think you could've said something better. Not letting her be the alpha was ace, regardless. [e] typo
/r/seduction18/03/11 08:08 AM
-8

Find a way to turn them around, preferably 180. And you really need to read the sidebar. IMPORTANT: Only post field reports [FR], links and FIELD-TESTED self-improvement/seduction related strategies!
/r/seduction16/03/11 10:44 PM
1

I'm not sure if you've been told this, but false time constraints (FTCs) are absolutely vital in getting a girl's number. They need to feel like if they're not giving you their number, they'll miss out forever as they'll probably never see you again. Mystery first brought up FTCs I believe.
/r/seduction16/03/11 10:35 PM
0

Your original topic was something along the lines of "post something so I can write 3 topics on attraction, seduction, and comfort". Yes, all of those 3 topics can be found in the seddit sidebar, and other volatile, unique questions, field reports etc, would probably be found in /r/seduction and /r/AskSeddit. Speaking of the sidebar, I just noticed they have a wiki now (wow). [e] Just for the record, I didn't downvote you.
/r/seduction16/03/11 10:32 PM
2

Make new friends in lectures and tutorials (or w/e you guys call it in America). In lectures, sit next to them, SMILE, and enjoy yourself. Insanely huge emphasis on smiling.
/r/seduction16/03/11 11:58 AM
8

The core thing he missed out here is ACT LIKE YOU'RE THE MOTHERFUCKING BOSS. You'll realise when you're happy, people flock to you.
/r/seduction16/03/11 11:31 AM
2

You're in college, meaning you're probably young. Join every single club for a start. Whenever you participate in an activity, your sole goal is to have fun, not pick up women. By having fun and being in a positive state of mind, other people naturally become attracted to you (I shit you not). That's a start, changing your pussy mindset.
/r/seduction16/03/11 06:16 AM
1

Don't we have a seddit sidebar that covers all of this?
/r/seduction16/03/11 06:04 AM
2

You should've just brought HB6.5 to the HB7.5 and starting talking her up. You were bound to get one of the 2.
/r/seduction16/03/11 03:23 AM
4

Scientifically, fapping releases a hormone called "endorphin", blah blah blah blah, a function of this hormone is to relief stress.
/r/seduction16/03/11 03:19 AM
1

I was always under the impression that the fuzzy top hat was to peacock himself in a crowd. Coupled with his height, chicks that want him back can easily find him in a room.
/r/seduction16/03/11 01:32 AM
3

Wow, Mystery sounds like an ENTJ. [e] I just gained a fuckton of confidence knowing that (I'm ENTJ as well).
/r/seduction16/03/11 01:30 AM
1

Uhhh, when you're doing a FR, you really need to include how you opened and preferably the setting, andy obstacles etc.
/r/seduction15/03/11 03:20 PM
1

Hard to pull in a restaurant environment, bar, club (though your logic is fine) Walk in, scout the place (seriously, who doesn't scout). 3 second rule just ticked for half the room. You walk into a random set to show you know someone, DHV announcement basically You work up current set as warmup, meanwhile using your technique to gain attraction prior to moving into next set. Open desired set, start looking for next target. In a less flexible environment, this is fucked.
/r/seduction15/03/11 03:14 PM
1

I just answered your comment so other people understand the background behind your post, sort of like an explanation. I intended to give a range instead of a designated value.
/r/seduction15/03/11 03:07 PM
1

Public bench?
/r/seduction15/03/11 05:28 AM
7

Sidenote: ThrowawayPUA is 45-55.
/r/seduction15/03/11 05:23 AM
1

I'm actually troubled myself as to how to open large groups, as in a party/club/bar setting, there's tons of distractions, and you need to keep everyone interested else they'll drag each other away. Just something you'll (and me) have to learn... somehow. Btw, this goes in AskSeddit.
/r/seduction14/03/11 02:18 AM
2

Yes, she wanted you to open her (unless she was already busy). You should've dragged that guy who was giving you DHV to chicks you liked, get him to wing for you or something, he would probably play along. Just say it's acne, if they bag you about it (which they probably will), tell them it's like an awesome thing, the more you notice it, the more fucking awesome you are.
/r/seduction13/03/11 02:01 PM
1

She showed interest, that makes your job much easier already. Next, you go and seduce her, start by saying you're not easy or something. [e] Remember to smile, apparently is does fucking wonders.
/r/seduction13/03/11 01:57 PM
2

The compliment was an IOI. A shit test is when she challenges your alpha state, and by attempting to prove you're alpha, you've lost.
/r/seduction13/03/11 12:13 PM
3

Don't seduce chicks who have boyfriends? Seeing as you didn't know, bail when you're positive they have boyfriends. This is like the 3rd thread today (among many in the past) where people continue to hit on chicks with boyfriends; the fuck is wrong with you, two people are happy together, don't fucking disturb them. [e] In your case, you didn't continue to hit on the chicks, but getting to know the whole group is just wasting your time, you won't have a chance with those girls in the near future…
/r/seduction13/03/11 11:20 AM
1

How did a HB8 end up being interested about WoW??
/r/seduction13/03/11 06:13 AM
0

Tell her you don't want no crazy bitches in your crib. Or that you never invited her to begin with.
/r/seduction12/03/11 12:46 PM
24

Nabbing a chick from her BF is pretty damn low dude, even if she says he's boring. It's almost unethical. You can still play, but I doubt many guys have the control to reject her when she makes a move, especially after intentionally seducing her. [e] typo
/r/seduction12/03/11 12:45 PM
1

He didn't lie to his girlfriends, he left out part of the detail. He is indeed doing workshops, he is indeed doing social dynamics.
/r/seduction12/03/11 07:05 AM
2

Create insane value for your friend, go on and on about how fucking awesome he is, that you want to fuck him, but he's not into you. If pre-selection and insane DHV doesn't work for another chick... I'm out of ideas.
/r/seduction12/03/11 06:48 AM
1

I would think of this as: She saw you as an economical advantage, and kept you for the time being.
/r/seduction12/03/11 06:41 AM
2

You could be a director I guess, get her in certain poses etc? Perhaps get some kino in there?
/r/seduction12/03/11 06:40 AM
1

She apologized twice, I (personally) think you should let her off. Unless she jokingly apologized and whatnot.
/r/seduction12/03/11 06:34 AM
3

Has your friend even read about the game? Giving a girl his number? like what?
/r/seduction12/03/11 04:36 AM
1

LJBF isn't a shit-test, you've basically lost when she's said that. I suggest you just move on completely whilst naturally ignoring her. She'll eventually come back to you, if she doesn't, it wouldn't have been any better if you kept chasing her up.
/r/seduction11/03/11 05:44 AM
2

Nice try OkCupid.
/r/seduction10/03/11 10:51 AM
1

I honestly find it surprisingly a HB8 would not have Friday night's off. Shit-test to check out if you'll budge for a reschedule perhaps?
/r/seduction10/03/11 10:27 AM
1

I'm asian. Firstly, there's no shame in being a virgin at all. Some guys choose to save their virginity for something half-meaningful. Second, you just need to man up (frankly). Don't be afraid to make mistakes, even if you're not going to get their number, just talk to them, it'll familiarise yourself. Plus, odds are, you're almost never going to see them again.
/r/seduction10/03/11 10:22 AM
4

I don't see how this is helping me not be a man slut.
/r/seduction09/03/11 01:16 PM
2

Quality women at clubs. It's almost mutually exclusive.
/r/seduction09/03/11 01:59 AM
3

Moral dilemma again, /r/seduction is a goldmine for seducing women, but completely goes against the morals of a sound long lasting relationship. Ugh.
/r/seduction06/03/11 12:27 PM
3

"You must be jealous" is a decent response to "How much do you weigh". It's a neg and also completely obliterates the shit-test.
/r/seduction06/03/11 12:23 PM
5

I'm not your friend, pal.
/r/seduction03/03/11 10:01 AM
1

Whatever you do, don't fuck up a girl for the next guy. If you're going to have a ONS, don't trick her into it.
/r/seduction26/02/11 01:42 PM
1

Isn't agree and amplify for shit tests?
/r/seduction26/02/11 02:01 AM
1

It was mentioned in another thread that inner game should be developed in high school.
/r/seduction23/02/11 07:22 AM
1

Are you in uni/college/high school? I remember reading that you should really focus on inner game in high school.
/r/seduction22/02/11 05:08 AM
10

That'd be an embarrassing attempt to seek attention. =/
/r/seduction22/02/11 04:04 AM
2

Seduction is being yourself, with some tips. It's not like you're copying someone else's openers and negs to pick up women, you're still manifesting the material from your own brain, it's simply a different strategy. However, the OP may find it hard to not fully love her as unfortunately, she may leave you as in order to fully love someone, you naturally become a beta to them.
/r/seduction21/02/11 12:47 PM
9

(16) Commanding attention -don't compromise your value just to keep her talking. If she isn't looking at you, call her out. If she is on her phone, call her out. A high value person assumes that when he is talking people listen. If there is a dissonance, he takes action. Takes action, elaborate please.
/r/seduction21/02/11 12:35 PM
-1

Thought I'd really like to read it all, you need a tl;dr to summarise what you did right, what you did wrong in dot points. [e] typo
/r/seduction21/02/11 09:14 AM
3

Pick up artist Field Report Hot Babe[1-10] or, Super Hot Babe [10+]
/r/seduction20/02/11 05:19 AM
2

Be confident. Don't drink on an empty stomach (should've learned this in high school) Escalte kino faster That is all.
/r/seduction20/02/11 05:11 AM
1

Actually, just finished Season 2, it's pretty shit in comparison to Season 1. Season 1 wasn't excellent, but it was half decent (I skipped roughly 70% of each episode). Most of it is useess character interviews, whilst the stuff I really wanted to see was common mistakes in the playing field.
/r/seduction16/02/11 02:06 PM
1

Though I agree I don't think Mystery would've done all this weird shit, The Game is a text book whilst The Pickup Artist is pure 2nd hand experience. We can see what is done wrong, whilst with The Game, we read. Perhaps it's a visual learner sort of thing?
/r/seduction16/02/11 01:32 PM
3

This is actually just teasing, the first two doesn't put the girl as the subject.
/r/seduction15/02/11 11:22 PM
3

Girls do stuff to impress most guys. AFCs are impressed, she dismisses them when they are. You, an alpha male, is not impressed. She tries to impress guys in order to over qualify herself, making herself more valuable than the guy. A neg is praising her, then disqualifying her to show that you are not impressed. Example: "I like you, but I like your friend better" I like you - Praise I like your friend better - Disqualify
/r/seduction15/02/11 11:20 PM
2

What tofutofu said was practically a neg, though reversed. Negs are disqualify-ers, first you praise them, then disqualify. It seems that "agree and amplify" is the other way around, disqualify (Cougar hunting = looking for old chicks), then praise (but I guess I can settle for you, saying she's not that old). Though I have no clue in regards to other examples.
/r/seduction15/02/11 08:07 AM
3

LTR = Long Term Relationship [e] For those that don't know.
/r/seduction14/02/11 10:26 PM
1

Just for the record, a movie is a horrible choice because you can't talk much, and there's not much room for kino. Unless she's terrified of horror movies and keeps grabbing your hand.
/r/seduction14/02/11 02:39 AM
14

Cause he's a boss.
/r/seduction14/02/11 02:37 AM
3

Then this does not belong in /r/seduction. If you have no goal, you have no hope. (Applies to almost everything)
/r/seduction12/02/11 01:40 PM
3

You've got nothing to prove to a random. Be a man, and just walk away.
/r/seduction10/02/11 02:34 PM
8

shes also got money so if I could somehow spin her into a sugarmomma kinda situation that would be even better but Im not gonna keep my fingers crossed on that one. That's a bit low, golddigging her. Everything else, fucking nice job.
/r/seduction10/02/11 02:17 PM
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