Alright, THATS IT.

ThrowawayPUA · 2011-07-22T17:39:29+00:00

You have the attitude that some women are out of your reach. Unlearn that. I heard one mPUA describe it, when we see a woman, we make two evaluations. First, we decide whether we'd have sex with her or not. Then if we decide we would have sex with her, we evaluate whether she would have sex with us. That creates a category of women who are out of our league.

Now the obvious problem is that guys (especially AFCs) set the bar way too high, we think women are out of our league, when they aren't. With enough game, no woman is out of your league.

So go ahead, start working on it. Do lots of approaches to get over your AA. Realize that this is a process that usually doesn't have instant results, but you will make progress and learn how approaches work, and how to interact with girls. Study pickup materials (go start in the sidebar) and then go use them in the field, without any expectations of success. Stay detached from the results, if you have expectations, you will usually be "tryhard" and act needy, which is a turnoff. But get out there.

chumpta · 2011-07-22T19:45:48+00:00

i wish you persistence rather than luck.

don't like my own body

fix it/learn to love it/both

I realized - my life is shit.

fix it/learn to love it/both

atrain714 · 2011-07-23T04:46:37+00:00

get the pussy off the pedestal

Scatman92 · 2011-07-23T05:56:25+00:00

That's the right attitude. You only live once and you don't want to look back on these years with regrets.

sdtoking420 · 2011-07-23T06:11:16+00:00

The way I think about it is this: Last night at the bar, there was a potential chain of events that would have ended up with you going home with that girl. (think groundhogs day) You just need to discover what those actions are.

2011-07-23T04:50:19+00:00

okay dude just a small bit of advice... quit calling yourself a "forever alone".

its fucking stupid.

RedPosterboard · 2011-07-23T04:53:18+00:00

If I may add to what other good men have written here; I come from a background similar to what you're describing. I've been making steady progress with girls and with myself the last three years through consistent gaming and active self-improvement.

Heck, I literally had the shits before my first sessions of night game. Talking to strangers, and even women at that... gulp!

One of the most important things that has changed my life and the entire way I think about life and which is fortunately very, very simple to pull off is implementing positive self-talk.

You gotta cut away that shitty, crappy and hurtful little voice in your head that keeps telling you how you're not good enough for this life.

Whenever he starts, immediately and proactively start telling yourself good things about yourself. Whenever you make a mistake, tell yourself how aweseome you are, and how cool it is to be you, because NOW you're changing yourself to become the strong man you always were deep down. Do that consistently for weeks in a row, and it becomes a habit that will aid you immensely in your progress.

Don't give it a second try. In fact, don't try at all. But do. Take action. I did. It's working for me although it's taking longer than I thought possible. But never look back, brother. You gotta first take that one small step for a man, so you can turn it into one giant leap for a lifetime.

266MPix · 2011-07-22T22:06:01+00:00

Get P90X (cough thepiratebay.org cough), finish the whole program (don't skip any exercises! also make sure you have the fitness guide), work on your game, and you'll have shitloads of hot women.
You have decided to improve on yourself. Don't back down. You have to give your best effort to go through with it. Good luck man.

Nexism · 2011-07-24T07:03:21+00:00

Inner game, read it, learn it.

Title	Alright, THATS IT.
Author	Mo3
Upvotes	20
Comments	22
Date	July 22, 2011 5:29 PM UTC (15 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/iwz12/alright_thats_it/
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