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| – | Are passports bros horrible people ?I’m double disabled and from poverty. So ya I got being white on her , and it being my country ( also not the USA). But most of the other privilege categories she destroys me in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 12:50 AM |
| – | Are passports bros horrible people ?If I hit more of the “under privileged “ categories than my wife does that mean she’s a passport sister ? Edit : also to be clear being a weaker human being == being underprivileged? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 12:01 AM |
| – | Are passports bros horrible people ?Has your husband been homeless ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 11:57 PM |
| – | Are passports bros horrible people ?Are foreign women weaker than local ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 11:52 PM |
| – | Are passports bros horrible people ?I haven’t encountered any Asian women born in my country. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 11:37 AM |
| 2 | Are passports bros horrible people ?Right .. which is why they might prefer countries they can afford. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 04:12 AM |
| 1 | Are passports bros horrible people ?Right .. so my actual experience of growing up in redneck town , struggling with fitting in , because I’m not a racist redneck , and then moving to a more liberal city that I align with. Is pathetic ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 03:48 AM |
| 3 | Are passports bros horrible people ?Could it be because the passport bro is poor and can’t afford to travel to more expansive countries ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 03:45 AM |
| 4 | Are passports bros horrible people ?I didn’t culturally get along with the area I grew up in , saw another area that I thought aligned more with me on a cultural level and explored there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 03:44 AM |
| 3 | Are passports bros horrible people ?Ya that’s something , if you do disagree with these people , shouldn’t you be happy they’re going elsewhere lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 03:27 AM |
| 2 | Are passports bros horrible people ?What if I grew up in Texas , was sick of rednecks and thought “ I can afford a holiday somewhere , I consider myself liberal , I wonder if I’m compatible with liberal women “ and went to New York ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 03:23 AM |
| 3 | Are passports bros horrible people ?I’m not born in the USA but still a western country , and find that my Chinese wife ( that was born and raised in China ) is the strongest connection I’ve ever felt. I don’t know why personalities/ culture matching across countries is a difficult concept. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 02:56 AM |
| 6 | Are passports bros horrible people ?Not any I ever met hah. Because you can’t find them where you live ? Edit : can’t | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 02:46 AM |
| 4 | Are passports bros horrible people ?There is 0 possibility that they might culturally align with other cultures? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 02:45 AM |
| 6 | Are passports bros horrible people ?She’s just waiting till I reveal that I have a communist women fetish from playing red alert 3 /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 02:42 AM |
| 5 | Are passports bros horrible people ?I can’t comment on the targeting developing countries but. But the hypocritical part - there’s a rule on the subreddit saying not to criticize local women because it’d be hypocritical lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 02:37 AM |
| 7 | Are passports bros horrible people ?They’re more conservative, while still being independent// modern. They respect commitment / duty / mechanical social values over “soft “ social values. E.g if you went on a date with one of them , you’d get high marks for bringing a homemade meal for them to take home, a local girl would be scared from it lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 02:35 AM |
| 4 | Are passports bros horrible people ?I moved from the country to the city , so I’m a city fetishist ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 02:25 AM |
| 1 | Are passports bros horrible people ?What’s the issue with extending the logic of not getting along with your home towns culture // to not getting along with your home countries culture ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Are passports bros horrible people ?I disagree , lower class rural is not the same as middle class city in economical level. When my cities friends have parents that are lawyers , and my country friends have parents that are meth heads , the difference in economical and legal power is quite vast. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 02:17 AM |
| 7 | Are passports bros horrible people ?Personality , morals , ethics , thought process. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 02:15 AM |
| 5 | Are passports bros horrible people ?I find myself more compatible with my Chinese wife and her friends than any women from my country that I dated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 02:12 AM |
| 3 | Are passports bros horrible people ?Does the same logic apply to : say I was a rich kid from a rich city , but I didn’t get along with the other city kids , so I move to the rural areas of the country where my morals and ethics align with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Are passports bros horrible people ?Passport bros are the human equivalent of western imperialism? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 02:07 AM |
| 5 | Are passports bros horrible people ?Is this part of the philosophy written and agreed to by the majority anywhere ? Like I agree that the extremists probably think this, but the average dude ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 02:05 AM |
| 4 | Are passports bros horrible people ?Why ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 02:01 AM |
| 3 | Are passports bros horrible people ?What’s the definition of traveling aboard ? Also I don’t understand why trying to experience different cultures for dating is limiting ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 01:58 AM |
| 2 | Are passports bros horrible people ?The first paragraph I agree with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 01:53 AM |
| 5 | Are passports bros horrible people ?So the issue people have is passportbros using their birth privileges for dating ? Isn’t that all of dating ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 01:51 AM |
| 2 | Are passports bros horrible people ?I guess I match the 2nd definition, I grew up in a Redneck town struggled with rednecks , and moved to a city because I thought I’d get along better / my personality would be more attractive in a city. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 01:41 AM |
| 5 | Are passports bros horrible people ?I agree with the only judge is yourself. I’m sure you can both want to goto a country because you want to travel , and you’re interested in dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 01:38 AM |
| -1 | Are passports bros horrible people ?Ya I can get this lol , if you don’t get along with your first culture why not try a 2nd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Are passports bros horrible people ?So how much effort / intent until it crosses the abstract line that makes it a passport bro ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 01:33 AM |
| 6 | Are passports bros horrible people ?Ya right , this is my understanding. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 01:32 AM |
| 2 | Are passports bros horrible people ?What if you’re both ? You goto a country and you have also googled “where is some good bars for internationals ?” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 01:29 AM |
| 3 | Are passports bros horrible people ?Aye , but I don’t understand why crossing a border makes it any different ? What if you were in an American town , and the closest city was Canadian ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 01:26 AM |
| 2 | Are passports bros horrible people ?I don’t understand the logic here , I grew up in a redneck town , struggled with dating . And then found success in city. Does that make me pathetic for not getting along with rednecks ? If the situation was slightly different , and I couldn’t move out of my town , but I visited a nearby city to see if I had more luck there than my redneck town would I be a loser ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 01:13 AM |
| 2 | We need to stop lumping together sexual assault and sexual harassmentA senior at my HS got a sexual harassment charge towards a minor because on the last day they drove by the school with their ass out. Like ya he’s a dickhead , but I don’t think he deserves to be on the sexual offender list. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 11:02 PM |
| 8 | Post-Wall women who date previously looked over men will never be able to prove they love these men.Are we sure that’s not just the radical take on it and the average users just want to help each other ? Like if my mate doesn’t fit into his area, I’d suggest he move. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 02:08 PM |
| 3 | Post-Wall women who date previously looked over men will never be able to prove they love these men.? Considering my wife is from a richer family and got her visa without me I’d say not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 02:01 PM |
| 8 | Post-Wall women who date previously looked over men will never be able to prove they love these men.What is it about ? At the core I agree with the concept of “if I don’t fit in here , I should try else where “ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 08:37 AM |
| 12 | Post-Wall women who date previously looked over men will never be able to prove they love these men.I can believe that certain personalities are more attractive in different environments, so traveling to widen your net makes sense. E.g I was born into a redneck town , I don’t get along with anyone, I move to a city , I get along with most people , am I a loser for not getting along with rednecks ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 06:03 AM |
| 4 | Do you consider makeup, shapewear and image filters as false advertising?I agree with your points , though as someone who grew up with no sisters and a mother who was 2nd wave feminist// anti make up I think “easily tell “ is a bit of a stretch, maybe “moderately tell “ lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 02:38 AM |
| 1 | How do I find a modern woman that actually is marriage potential?China. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 06:08 AM |
| 2 | Men, if you made $1M a year, would you want a bang maid or a 50/50 relationship?1 , also my partner would pick 1 as well. She’s more money ambitious than me , and has said if she earns enough she wants me to be a stay at home husband lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 01:37 AM |
| 2 | Do men feel less guilty about dating autistic people compared to women?I just had a conversation about cute and quirky lol , the autistic girls were not “cute and quirky “ I didn’t meet “cute and quirky “ people till I moved to the city | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 02:05 PM |
| 2 | Do men feel less guilty about dating autistic people compared to women?Define “taken advantage of “ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 02:37 AM |
| 7 | Do men feel less guilty about dating autistic people compared to women?Aye , in my special education department the women couldn’t read a clock , but they could read a room lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 11:42 PM |
| 43 | Do men feel less guilty about dating autistic people compared to women?Ya number 2 is a big one. Social confidence for women isn’t mandatory like it is for men , for dating . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 11:40 PM |
| 17 | Do men feel less guilty about dating autistic people compared to women?All the autism women I know get along really well with the boys // guys like them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 11:38 PM |
| 7 | Do men feel less guilty about dating autistic people compared to women?Idk all the girls in the special education department with me got pregnant before 20 . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 11:35 PM |
| 7 | Do men feel less guilty about dating autistic people compared to women?Isn’t that a bit ableist lol ? . All the girls in the special education department with me were all pregnant before 20 . My coworker that is openly autistic has kids , and she tells me all of her friends have kids. I’m sure there’s autistic women that really struggle with dating , but I definitely feel like autism impacts male dating chances more than women. ( to be clear I think autism in women makes plenty of other areas much worse) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 11:34 PM |
| 9 | Do men feel less guilty about dating autistic people compared to women?Idk I haven’t met an autistic woman that’s gross / disturbing, im sure they exist though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 10:54 PM |
| -1 | Do you think weaponised incompetence around housework exists? If not, why not? If so, where do you think it comes from?Wife and I are pretty good with almost all housework except cooking. She wants her cultural food , which I’m happy with. But when I cook I want my cultural food .. which she is unhappy with. I’m happy to cook .. I just want to cook the things I want to cook lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 06:09 AM |
| 3 | Which gender do you think treats the other gender worse, on average, in modern western society, and why?What looks terrible? Got any examples of subservient pedestal embracing husband ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 05:40 AM |
| 2 | Which gender do you think treats the other gender worse, on average, in modern western society, and why?I’m not experienced in all of life yet , I was born with double disabilities, into Poverty , I was bullied , my parents stole all my money and abandoned me , I lied my way into a career , etc. Over coming the dating game was still the most challenging thing lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 04:41 AM |
| 4 | Which gender do you think treats the other gender worse, on average, in modern western society, and why?Ohhhh yeah like it’s difficult , and gets more difficult the longer it takes and any other difficulties ( disability , poor family , etc) compounds the difficulty of the dating game. Once you succeed and married , and it’s a healthy marriage , there’s nothing that I have to do that compares to pushing a baby out: | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Which gender do you think treats the other gender worse, on average, in modern western society, and why?What? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 04:33 AM |
| 13 | Which gender do you think treats the other gender worse, on average, in modern western society, and why?Yeah I agree with disadvantaged men have it worse , but as soon as you “overcome” the dating game I think being a man is easier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 01:25 AM |
| 6 | Why are female “red pillers” called pick me’s?What’s your thought on the different waves of feminism and do you consider all waves to be morally correct? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 07:19 AM |
| 5 | A thought experiment for menJesus this is a “4” to you ? What universe do you live in lol . This chick is fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 03:44 AM |
| -1 | Would autistic guys have more luck if they were more social?Different commenter : I’m autistic and consider myself socially competent ( picked up my wife on public transport ). My wife’s favorite things about me is my bluntness / honesty / transparency. The best kind of women for me are ones that don’t behave like children’s / play games. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 03:00 AM |
| -3 | How to avoid pissing off a girl on a first date when making small talk?lol brain dead comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 07:31 AM |
| 4 | Are bluePillers more fortunate and privileged than redPillers ?What ? Am I missing something from This thread ? lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 02:36 AM |
| 0 | Are bluePillers more fortunate and privileged than redPillers ?It’s one of the main discussion points at the weekly blue pill conference | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Are bluePillers more fortunate and privileged than redPillers ?Na I refer to the mrs as fuhrer not queen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 11:00 PM |
| 5 | Are bluePillers more fortunate and privileged than redPillers ?The guys I know that are more successful at dating , and have always found success are middle class and neurotypical: | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 10:54 PM |
| 5 | Are bluePillers more fortunate and privileged than redPillers ?Idk about this one , I’ll let my wife know she doesn’t like me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 10:49 PM |
| 2 | Do most women underestimate their sexual bargaining power in modern times?Aye sorry bro I have never enjoyed tits | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 02:30 PM |
| – | Manosphere contradictionsIs this in the context of virgins wanting virgins or a different one ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 01:09 PM |
| – | Can you count the amount of times you’ve been insulted ? Q4WRight .. and what is going on ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 01:53 PM |
| – | Can you count the amount of times you’ve been insulted ? Q4WHow so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Many men think cheating is alpha and high value. Many men justify cheating with these beliefs.Different commenter : are you okay if your potential boyfriend isn’t friends with any women ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 11:33 AM |
| 3 | Many men think cheating is alpha and high value. Many men justify cheating with these beliefs.Most women you’ve met * what country are you in ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 11:32 AM |
| 1 | Can you count the amount of times you’ve been insulted ? Q4WCool | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 05:22 AM |
| 1 | Can you count the amount of times you’ve been insulted ? Q4WIs it under 10 ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 04:45 AM |
| 1 | Can you count the amount of times you’ve been insulted ? Q4WAh see my wife has a different unique experience that I consider a privileged experience regardless of gender lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Can you count the amount of times you’ve been insulted ? Q4WNa violence is only okay in self defense. Im not a gorilla so I generally don’t like to act like one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 04:30 AM |
| 1 | Can you count the amount of times you’ve been insulted ? Q4WYeah that’s what I thought lol. Na she just wanted me to verbally abuse the guy. She agrees with my no violence policy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Can you count the amount of times you’ve been insulted ? Q4WOnly the 2nd and 4th. Her family is very very close knit / loving . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Can you count the amount of times you’ve been insulted ? Q4WYeah my thoughts lol. Curious on what is judged as a “fair amount “ haha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Can you count the amount of times you’ve been insulted ? Q4WI don’t think she’s ever been called bitch / whore by a stranger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Can you count the amount of times you’ve been insulted ? Q4WHere we go - I though there might be 1 other person with the same experience lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Can you count the amount of times you’ve been insulted ? Q4WSorry ? Narc? This has nothing to do with drugs lol . It was over text , I just immediately blocked the guy. Uh I don’t know how I stop someone from thinking / saying something I’m not god lol. I don’t think shes lying , nothing I’ve experienced has clashed with what she says. All of her friends a very polite , and she’s very elitist with friends. She went to good schools and was popular etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Can you count the amount of times you’ve been insulted ? Q4WI’ll give you the example that sparked this conversation; one of my mates called her controlling ( through text ) and my mrs considered that very heinous and was confused when I didn’t respond with utmost horror / shock. We then had a conversation about why we responded differently. I’ve been insulted thousands of times in my life so I just blocked the guy and moved on. My Mrs said it was her 4th insult / disrespect of her life and thought I should’ve done more to defend her. We talked and resol… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 01:57 AM |
| 3 | Can you count the amount of times you’ve been insulted ? Q4WYeah this is my exact thought. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 12:57 AM |
| 2 | Can you count the amount of times you’ve been insulted ? Q4WAny guy I speak to about this just sits in shock when I elaborate that she’s been insulted less than 5 times, I’m not a player ( see - I’m married ) - so that’s why I’m asking women online if they have similar experiences. Also I do think it’s reasonable to count things under 5 ; like when I had limited compliments they would carry me far. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Can you count the amount of times you’ve been insulted ? Q4W? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 12:40 AM |
| 3 | Can you count the amount of times you’ve been insulted ? Q4WThis is my vibe atm , the list would be so large you just let it go lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 12:14 AM |
| 0 | Can you count the amount of times you’ve been insulted ? Q4WYes I said that in my post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 12:08 AM |
| 0 | Can you count the amount of times you’ve been insulted ? Q4WFor her the number is under 5 , so it’s not a difficult activity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 12:06 AM |
| – | If a man wouldn’t want the women in his life being in porn, then his feelings about porn are pretty anti-porn.Consuming ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 11:09 PM |
| – | If a man wouldn’t want the women in his life being in porn, then his feelings about porn are pretty anti-porn.People in porn don’t have self respect .. my wife has self respect .. so yes I wouldn’t want her doing porn. Same goes for NSA. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 11:01 PM |
| 4 | Is most of dating dynamics about who is the most “parent”? Who can appear as the most high status individual? Is there no equal relationship?Ya this kinda matches my experiences all my exes were looking for a superior / “dad”. All my friends have these kinds of relationships were they work and the woman is uselesss lol. But definitely women who want to be partners out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?Late teens / early 20s, I haven’t experienced it in late 20s but also I’m married so my dating experience is limited to young girls or my perfect wife x- | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 01:47 AM |
| 3 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?I had 2 partners when I was younger leave when I opened up , but I can definitely see it as a maturity thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 01:41 AM |
| 3 | Women on this sub really need to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept"Yeah this matches my understanding - easier for dating , harder for everything else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/24 11:49 PM |
| 3 | Women on this sub really need to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept"An undiagnosed autistic individual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/24 11:47 PM |
| – | Do you think the average straight woman feels this way about guys?I have only strongly enjoyed sex with my wife , previous partners sucked // didn’t enjoy sex. Maybe you just need to meet a guy you like ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 03:47 AM |
| – | Do you think the average straight woman feels this way about guys?Don’t men and women present an entirely different persona in public than in private ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 03:44 AM |
| 7 | Would women suggest that men not approach them?Let’s change the language here to see if you’re being ableist “ so you blacks out there do have a problem “ . Would this line be considered racist ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 01:24 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt’s true there’s no obligation to cater in the social world. I was in your shoes mate, got through it and life is beautiful now , so don’t give up :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Why do women really wait for dates? Does a woman making you wait longer for a date increase or decrease your interest?Do you ever have situations with vibing with someone on text but not in person? Also cheers for being fair and honest ;) , I feel like you’re one those people I can’t be friends with because I hate texting lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Why do women really wait for dates? Does a woman making you wait longer for a date increase or decrease your interest?Well I don’t have social anxiety and I don’t have any skill in online texting. So why would I encourage it. Plus online vibe is different to in person vibe, i don’t see the point in developing an online vibe when it’s nulled as soon as you meet in person. When I cold approach , I will clearly state that I’m not a texter and I like to live in the moment // irl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 03:42 AM |
| 8 | Why do women really wait for dates? Does a woman making you wait longer for a date increase or decrease your interest?I cannot imagine texting without meeting for months lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Why do women really wait for dates? Does a woman making you wait longer for a date increase or decrease your interest?I’m autistic and I spent all of my social development improving my in person social skills, within the first 10 texts I will ask for a date in person within 3 days. It didn’t work often , which is why I cold approach which gives better odds and succeeded ( married ) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 03:12 AM |
| – | Which is easier, being a man or being a woman?I think the poster is saying that a high tier man has the best life /easiest , whereas a low tier man has the hardest/ most difficult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 01:25 AM |
| 3 | Do women mature faster? Are they forced to grow up more quickly? Does this justify a dating age gap?I’ve been targeted by an older male at one of my volunteer organizations. He played the game , it didn’t work , I declined. What’s the problem ? I agree with hating on people who take it too far, but the game is the game. In both your cases of young people / hitting on workers , isn’t it fine as long as it’s not overdone and it’s respectful ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 12:58 AM |
| 6 | How are average looking men in this day and age supposed to meet women?My experiences match this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 02:28 AM |
| – | Women manipulate the guys they date to emotionally invest in them^ yeah. I think this is something that increases as you get older though , so I understand young people thinking it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 02:23 AM |
| 3 | Your personality is mostly determined by factors outside your control and changing it fundamentally is EXTREMELY difficult, contrary to what other people might be espousingGetting money and wearing nice clothes does it too. ( both are good ! ) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: have you ever made it work with a woman who’s has a past?Ehhh I’m fine with chicks having more experience, as long as they respect where I come from. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 05:33 AM |
| 2 | [STUDY] There exists a positive correlation between being a bully and success in dating and sexual relationshipsI’d say in the modern day charisma is just as important, the popular bullies wouldn’t get into fist fights. If I had beat up one of the popular bullies I’d still been shunned - due to not having the charisma to back it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 04:20 AM |
| 3 | [STUDY] There exists a positive correlation between being a bully and success in dating and sexual relationshipsI had a mix , popular kids verbal bullying poor kids, poor kids physically bullying poor kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 04:14 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Who is the most romantically/sexually unsuccessful woman you know? What’s their personality like? Describe her.For the case of my HS , none of the autistic guys could get dates , I’d consider them higher functioning than the women ( the guys had jobs / cars ) the girls … I had to help them read clocks. Post HS , after developing myself I don’t have a problem dating an autistic woman , but all the ones around me were underdeveloped. I’m married to an NT woman currently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Who is the most romantically/sexually unsuccessful woman you know? What’s their personality like? Describe her.In my HS all the autistic girls dated NTs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 01:08 AM |
| 2 | Those against the Red Pill, where should a man go for dating advice?I agree with you though a lot of people don’t have that privilege. One of the guys I volunteer for was raped by his previous mentors. Not everyone is lucky enough to have good mentors around. I haven’t had a good mentor in years , but I consider myself very lucky to have one in high school. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/24 07:03 AM |
| 2 | Those against the Red Pill, where should a man go for dating advice?Ya but what would you do if you didn’t have that ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/24 05:08 AM |
| 1 | Is it controlling to want your girlfriend to not go clubbing?Agreed. But I also forgive people who trauma bond and develop bad relationships lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 06:32 AM |
| 1 | Is it controlling to want your girlfriend to not go clubbing?There’s some variables on top of that , like if they’re good friends or not. Sometimes there’s stories online of people being abandoned by their friends etc. also maybe the person just feels better if they can provide the protection ? Idk personally I trust my mrs // she goes out with friends etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 06:10 AM |
| 1 | Is it controlling to want your girlfriend to not go clubbing?Could it be fear of her getting raped in one of those environments? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Do most women really dislike being approached in general?In what situation does your scenario take place ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 05:26 AM |
| 1 | Why do most of the women don't date younger?You’d be perfect for my mate , he’s 6.5” and is leader // has a lot of problems finding women that just want to follow lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Why do most of the women don't date younger?You mention “ going to look up to him and be happy in a relationship “ - are you referring to height , or partnership dynamic ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Why do most of the women don't date younger?I kinda understand, but to help me out could you elaborate on what social expectations would look like in this scenario? Is it your parents ? Friends ? / what reactions you expect if you dated a guy 3 years younger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 12:19 AM |
| 3 | What is a red pill and a blue pill opinion you have?All good , let’s discuss points 3/4 . Just for me to get familiar with your privilege, how old were you when you started paying rent , and how many parents are alive and love you. And have you ever been homeless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 09:58 AM |
| 1 | What advice would you give your daughters when it comes to dating, marriage and family formation?I can only comment on the Chinese I’ve met , which is filtered by my wife, all of her friends ( both in country and out ) are very conservative compared to western women. This goes the same for Koreans. To give a quick idea , we saw Barbie in Cinema , it is the only movie my wife has ever pull out her phone and started messaging her friends about how bad it is. Also when I say conservative, I mean in social policies. They are all still hardworking // independent// university girls with careers ,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 09:55 AM |
| 7 | What is a red pill and a blue pill opinion you have?I feel like some of those views you just need to step outside for a bit and you’ll see them lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 09:36 AM |
| -3 | What advice would you give your daughters when it comes to dating, marriage and family formation?Yeah I highly recommend the Chinese. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 09:27 AM |
| 1 | Do most women really dislike being approached in general?Young generations? People under 30 or under 20? I found it more effective than dating apps | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 05:31 AM |
| 1 | Do most women really dislike being approached in general?My point was cold approaching is available… also .. how old do you think I am lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 05:06 AM |
| 3 | “Don’t bother a woman at [location]. She’s just there to [do activity].”Ya it’s called autism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 05:00 AM |
| 1 | What advice would you give your daughters when it comes to dating, marriage and family formation?Idk how op intends to, but could you teach it by giving them a cake ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Do most women really dislike being approached in general?Aye sorry chief , I approached my mrs on the bus. My mother approached my father at a pub, my grandfather approached my grandmother in retail. No warm approaches. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 04:35 AM |
| 2 | Why do many women say age gap relationships have a "power imbalance" yet say nothing about wealth gap relationships?What | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 03:11 AM |
| -1 | What advice would you give your daughters when it comes to dating, marriage and family formation?My wife is Chinese , so I can pretty much pick any any opinion and it’d be more progressive than hers. E.g Me - “maybe our daughter could have sex at 18 “ Wife - “yea and our daughter can live in the gutter if she wants to be a prostitute at that age “ Me - “ well maybe our daughter could dye her hair at 16” Wife - “ yeah and she can learn what no hair is too “ Me - “ I think our daughter could have a boyfriend at 13” Wife - “ I’ll send her to my parents ( in China ) , they’ll send her to a scho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 03:07 AM |
| 3 | What advice would you give your daughters when it comes to dating, marriage and family formation?I respect the unhinged opinions gold super lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Why do many women say age gap relationships have a "power imbalance" yet say nothing about wealth gap relationships?Fair , my upbringing weird was completely fine// not attributed negatively: | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 01:48 AM |
| 2 | Why do many women say age gap relationships have a "power imbalance" yet say nothing about wealth gap relationships?What’s the difference between weird and quirky ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 01:38 AM |
| 5 | Why do many women say age gap relationships have a "power imbalance" yet say nothing about wealth gap relationships?Agreed but can we change the word from “weird” to “opportunistic” or something ? “Weird” should be reserved for quirky traits not this :( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 01:33 AM |
| 1 | “Don’t bother a woman at [location]. She’s just there to [do activity].”It’s okay to try. But also do what you’re comfortable with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 12:34 AM |
| 6 | “Don’t bother a woman at [location]. She’s just there to [do activity].”It depends on your definition. I think some people need to be told to “push boundaries”. I agree that approach women is not violating boundaries, but to the people that think it is , they need to be told to break it // to reform their idea of boundaries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 12:32 AM |
| – | "conditional femininity" vs "conditional masculinity"I agree with 1 and 2 , 3 - I live in a non American western country and girls act the same way that American girls are described as. You bring up good points. I have a friend who is very bold / outspoken, his girls always complain / friction in relationship that he makes to many decisions / leads too often. He doesn’t deceive at all , and is upfront that he is a leader. There was ~6 girls last year he cycled through that all followed the above pattern. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Do most women really dislike being approached in general?I haven’t heard of warm approach , can you provide your definition or example ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Do most women really dislike being approached in general?What you describe is a privilege. Sorry mate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 11:37 PM |
| 4 | Is it easier to maintain friendships with guys ?The quickest friendship I’ve ever made with a guy was at work , he worked in a different department/ level I had never seen him before. The conversation went like this. I step into elevator( he is already in ) “ Hi , I’m me “ “Hi I’m Steve “ -“cool” -“cool” -“cones at my place?” ( me) -“yeah” ( Steve ) Done. I know theoretically it’s possible, but I just can’t imagine a guy befriended a chick that quickly. lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 05:52 AM |
| 4 | Do most women really dislike being approached in general?Yeah that’s fair. I’m likable enough to/ charismatic enough to cold approach chicks and succeed. I’m less technically qualified than my coworkers but hired / promoted because of my people skills - as in my boss will literally say that I’m here because of my people skills. But I’d consider getting invited into social circles to be top level difficulty lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 05:19 AM |
| 3 | Do most women really dislike being approached in general?I’m privileged enough to be born in the west , but I’m not super privileged lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 05:17 AM |
| 3 | Do most women really dislike being approached in general?Of the roughly 30 guys I’ve been good friends with , I think only 3 had the level of charisma to get invited into blended social circles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 05:05 AM |
| 10 | Do most women really dislike being approached in general?I feel like - as a guy you need to be very close friends to be introduced to social circles. I was friends enough to go out clubbing // house parties with coworkers from hospitality / retail. In the admin job I became the defacto social leader and organized dinners and outings with everyone ( I could get the mothers out as well ! ) . But I’ve only had 1 friend that tried hooking me up with people she knew ( including her older sister ) It’s much much easier for girls to get invited to things , t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 05:01 AM |
| 4 | Do most women really dislike being approached in general?Yeah When I say attractive I mean being able to smile lol . I’m autistic and have a speech impediment and it works fine . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 04:23 AM |
| 9 | Do most women really dislike being approached in general?100% it’s really easy to get positive response when cold approaching - in gyms , shops , parks , elevators , buses I’ve spoken to chicks and as long as you’re attractive and approach with a chill attitude it’s fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 04:18 AM |
| 17 | Do most women really dislike being approached in general?From what I understand it’s “get fucked “ lol . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 04:12 AM |
| 7 | Do most women really dislike being approached in general?Ya this is weird because I’m not doing much anything different to you , but none of those places had many women and the few eligible women were in high demand ( like at least a 5-1 ratio of available young men to available young women ). College - I studied game dev so I fully admit this is my fault for not doing art / accounting or something lol . Work - retail / hospitality ( 3 different work places ) - very limited eligible women as in all in relationships // no women. There was 1 opening wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 04:04 AM |
| 8 | Do most women really dislike being approached in general?That’s what dating is for … getting to know them lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 03:11 AM |
| 2 | Do most women really dislike being approached in general?Na , I’m autistic with a speech impediment and had a skinny body / was no gym + was homeless // grew up in poverty and successfully cold approached women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 02:59 AM |
| 6 | Do most women really dislike being approached in general?Yeah I almost want to compare people who have always had a large social circle/ availability to people who have never rented , or never cooked lol. Though Maybe I’m just under privileged and they’re regular privileged. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 02:44 AM |
| 9 | Do most women really dislike being approached in general?Have you ever been in the situation with no available dates through social circles ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 02:30 AM |
| 9 | Do most women really dislike being approached in general?I cold approached my wife. My mother cold approached my father. My grandfather cold approached my grandmother. Cold approaching is the hardest path , but also the most “available” e.g not everyone is privileged enough to have a large social circle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 02:27 AM |
| 2 | "conditional femininity" vs "conditional masculinity"Under the assumption that a person is attracted to confidence / leadership wouldn’t you assume said person wants to be submissive in the partnership? If im doing a work project , and I have the choice of teaming with a outspoken / loud / leadership guy or a quiet / meek guy my choice reflects what role I want to take within the partnership. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 11:25 PM |
| 2 | What are some unique burdens that the opposite gender has?In what modern scenarios does this impact life ? Like the McDonald’s employee fears my strength so he’s not going to spit in my fries ? The project manager is going to listen to me because he fears I might punch him to death ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 06:20 AM |
| 1 | Which gender deals with more conflicting expectations and scripts?I’m not suggesting one or the other is easier / harder. what’s the difference between men and women not conforming to expectations? Don’t they both get shunned for it ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 03:38 PM |
| 3 | What does it actually mean to be a non traditional man?By your definitions am I masculine or not ? I hit the gym but I’m not a bursting with muscles. I got in lots and lots of fights in PS and HS but I would cry afterwards because I hated using violence. I am sensitive and emotionally intelligent, any one in my friend group will talk to me for emotional support , I’ve been supporting a friend going through divorce through his emotions. I am non competitive. // I don’t care for any male social games like the death grip handshake , knuckles etc. i hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/23 01:34 PM |
| – | When does putting your best foot forward become deception?Ya these “haha if you’re deceiving like x, you’re a bad person “ posts - just seem like NTs don’t know what deception is or not because it’s all deception in the social game lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 04:16 AM |
| – | When does putting your best foot forward become deception?Fake it till you make it works - both professionally and personally - “people can’t change “ ? What ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 04:05 AM |
| 4 | Is it that bad for a virgin to have to practice?Bro , I met my wife’s friends and they’re virgins approaching 30- they are attractive , educated women with careers. They talk about how lucky my wife is to have me etc, when I ask them about dating / are they looking, they refuse to use dating apps .. and they don’t like being approached by guys … so………. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Is it that bad for a virgin to have to practice?Same level of confusion here brother. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 02:41 AM |
| 6 | Is it that bad for a virgin to have to practice?I agree , but it’s the expectation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 02:34 AM |
| 7 | Is it that bad for a virgin to have to practice?Ya oath , I’ve encountered 3 virgins and they were attracted to the fact I wasn’t a virgin lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 02:25 AM |
| 8 | Is it that bad for a virgin to have to practice?Ya still need some experience to know the basics / have confidence. If you never had a teenage love / became romantic when you were older the girls expect confidence , experience is required for confidence. The virgins I’ve been with were attracted to my confidence .. that I wouldn’t have had if I was a virgin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 02:23 AM |
| 11 | Is it that bad for a virgin to have to practice?You’ve never practiced any social interaction with other humans ? When you were in school did you practice presenting/ speech with family members ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 01:54 AM |
| 3 | When does putting your best foot forward become deception?Lying is a natural part of professional life lol. I’ve lied on my resume plenty of times, every recruitment agent I had a relationship with recommends it as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 01:51 AM |
| 3 | When does putting your best foot forward become deception?What about job interviews , client meetings etc ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 12:02 AM |
| 2 | Why demonize men for “not playing by the rules” when “rules” are inconsistent?Why do people not swear around family ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/23 01:16 AM |
| 2 | Why demonize men for “not playing by the rules” when “rules” are inconsistent?I prefer calling it masking / changing faces / playing the social game / I think “social iterations” would have been better, my bad. Do you refer to it as “being polite” ? that is wild , do you see it as a responsibility ? can you give me examples of adapting to appropriate behavior 1 good and 1 bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/23 09:31 AM |
| 2 | Why demonize men for “not playing by the rules” when “rules” are inconsistent?You describe presenting different iterations of your self depending on environment/ goal / agenda to “ being polite “ ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/23 08:47 AM |
| 2 | Why demonize men for “not playing by the rules” when “rules” are inconsistent?How do you describe the difference between”masks/faces/versions of self” when someone is presenting themselves to parents vs close friends vs first date . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/23 08:16 AM |
| 5 | Why demonize men for “not playing by the rules” when “rules” are inconsistent?What’s the difference between what OP described and shielding/presenting a “lighter” self on earlier dates ? Doesn’t almost everyone deceive when dating ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/23 11:32 PM |
| 6 | Women with high standards should date unattractive men/Not OP/ what makes you think it’s women generally , instead of both genders ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/23 05:48 AM |
| 5 | Redpill ideology, when used actively to pursue women, puts someone in a similar mindset as a sexual predatorIdk your age dude but “Predator “( 1987) is a must watch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 04:51 AM |
| 2 | Redpill ideology, when used actively to pursue women, puts someone in a similar mindset as a sexual predatorWell the vision changing was to better identify the weakness of my target, if you don’t do that you’re not a good predator. How do you like to hunt ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 03:52 AM |
| 3 | Redpill ideology, when used actively to pursue women, puts someone in a similar mindset as a sexual predatorIdk , when I was single I’d change visions and laser focus onto a target , practice voices to use and change appearances. Maybe men are predators. /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 02:17 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Average Women are as bad as average MenNot OP , but I do understand the “princess bubble” perspective of girls as a young boy , if you don’t have sisters / cousins etc. in star wars / lotr / the way women are framed as princesses / untouchable etc . Disclaimer: yes I know this is not how healthy adults think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 07:05 AM |
| 2 | Do women look down on men who approach them?/not op/ can you elaborate on redpillers being “pathetic filth “ ? like I can agree on them being incorrect , but that’s a bit extreme bro. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 06:47 AM |
| 1 | Do you agree with the following phrase? "Men protect their emotional sanctity the same way women protect their sexual sanctity?"I understand your point , but your attitude is so tilted lol. I feel like you are almost intentionally not illustrating your point just to argue. All you had to say was “tdlr if you practice talking emotionally , it can lead to being more emotionally healthy/ mature “ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 04:44 AM |
| – | Why do men make fun of things women like?I agree , there’s no problems enjoying something that is designed to be enjoyed. I guess some people see value in enjoying / appreciating things that are not designed for them. Maybe they think it’s more valuable to grow past what society is spoon feeding them, and develop a taste beyond it. Disclaimer : I am in the first box , give me the things designed for me ! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 10:17 AM |
| – | Why do men make fun of things women like?I’m not agreeing with op , or you// etc. but I feel like you can both be the essence of commercialized pop and be the best songwriter of all time. Disclaimer : please I am not saying that I agree with either side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 10:08 AM |
| 7 | For those who believe it’s impossible to find women who aren’t promiscuous - do you believe promiscuity is natural in women then?Every Chinese girl I’ve met I’d have to compare to an ultra conservative Christian girl in regards to promiscuous behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 11:34 PM |
| 9 | Most single lonely men are not struggling with women because they're old fashioned misogynistsI usually respect your takes January, but your a,b reasons are completely outside any reality I’ve experienced :/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 11:14 PM |
| 1 | “Mansplaining” is a very real thing that is extremely rude. No, it’s not just women playing the victim.? lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 02:17 PM |
| 2 | “Mansplaining” is a very real thing that is extremely rude. No, it’s not just women playing the victim.When I started work in a large government department , there was a new starter woman that was a pod over from me. I noticed often she’d have far more people introducing themselves to her than me ( like a 1-5 ratio ) and the way older men would lean over her ( she would be sitting ) and invade her personal space and take her mouse from her often to show her something. Whereas if I had a coworker showing me something , he”d be leaning back on his chair on his phone while half paying attention to h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 02:54 AM |
| 2 | Where are men finding so many dysfunctional crappy women?Oath. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Where are men finding so many dysfunctional crappy women?I saw a lot of those women when I lived in a rural town/ in poverty. Since joining the middle class I don’t see those women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 02:41 AM |
| 2 | There is nothing inherently creepy about cold approaching and most women’s revulsion with it is unwarrantedYa the problem guys need to practice it before they can get better at reading signs/ feeling the vibe etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 03:26 AM |
| – | What do women think cold approaching means? Is the following acceptable?Just keep swinging mate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 01:27 AM |
| 2 | It's almost impossible for a man to "use" a woman for sex unless she is mentally challenged or something.Loool | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 12:36 AM |
| – | Do we need new terminology for loneliness ?I get ya , if I’ve got the munchies , I’ve already had dinner , 2nd dinner and a pile of snacks , but I’m hungry for more. I’m just as justified to use the word hungry as the kids in Africa. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 08:08 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYa but if someone hasn’t had water before and starts describing how it goes , and I’m having water everyday I’m not gonna tell them to shut up about water. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 07:30 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat was the point of your original post ? “ a lot of virgins on this sub , this explains a lot “ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 07:11 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYea idk I feel like you can not be a virgin and have out of reality opinions , so you’re really just bullying virgins lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 06:47 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI accept your apology scwizard. I ask that you not have sex for another 10 days just for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 06:11 AM |
| 1 | Women's struggles in dating are in no way equal to that of menI’m from lower class ( we had government welfare , I had to get a job and pay rent at 15 etc ). I have autistic friends in the same social class that have 0 luck with women, any women. They are going into their 30s with having never kissed a girl. This might be the bottom tier you’re talking about ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 05:32 AM |
| 1 | Women's struggles in dating are in no way equal to that of menLike idk most lonely guys I know don’t get any interest. Any any interest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 05:28 AM |
| 5 | Women's struggles in dating are in no way equal to that of menBased. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 05:25 AM |
| 2 | Women's struggles in dating are in no way equal to that of menDo you think men are shallow as well? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 05:24 AM |
| 1 | Getting a roommate is better than a 50/50 man as a woman/ casual ableism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 04:41 AM |
| 1 | A lot of people nowadays are telling men to move out of the west to find partners. For the people saying this, do you believe the opposite is true for women? In other words is it ideal for women elsewhere in the world to try and date in the west, and for western women to stay in the west.I think locals values me less due to my disability ( Autism ) + speech impediment ( these are 2 separate disabilities) and would look down on it. One reason I think it’s easier to get along with foreigners is because we both have “social disadvantages” When I talk to a local , I have the disadvantage of having to converse in NT language. The NT in response sees my lack of mastery as a weakness etc. When I talk to a foreigner, I have the disadvantage of having to converse in NT language , they ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 03:33 AM |
| 2 | A lot of people nowadays are telling men to move out of the west to find partners. For the people saying this, do you believe the opposite is true for women? In other words is it ideal for women elsewhere in the world to try and date in the west, and for western women to stay in the west.I can agree with education not being valued in the west lol. Can I ask why you think they are intimidated by you ? The educated women in my circles are dating more conservative men// I’m not sure why educated women would be intimidating // perhaps I’m the wrong audience lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 03:28 AM |
| 3 | A lot of people nowadays are telling men to move out of the west to find partners. For the people saying this, do you believe the opposite is true for women? In other words is it ideal for women elsewhere in the world to try and date in the west, and for western women to stay in the west.Yes. I’m in that category. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 02:56 AM |
| 2 | A lot of people nowadays are telling men to move out of the west to find partners. For the people saying this, do you believe the opposite is true for women? In other words is it ideal for women elsewhere in the world to try and date in the west, and for western women to stay in the west.Off topic , I’m interested in men seeing you being a doctor as a “threat” can you elaborate on this please ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 02:49 AM |
| 5 | A lot of people nowadays are telling men to move out of the west to find partners. For the people saying this, do you believe the opposite is true for women? In other words is it ideal for women elsewhere in the world to try and date in the west, and for western women to stay in the west.My wife is Chinese and had a much better education than me , earns more money , more internationally travelled etc. I feel like you can prefer not western women without them being poor etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 02:36 AM |
| 2 | A lot of people nowadays are telling men to move out of the west to find partners. For the people saying this, do you believe the opposite is true for women? In other words is it ideal for women elsewhere in the world to try and date in the west, and for western women to stay in the west.My Beijing wife picked up a lower class white boy ( she earns more than me ) , would that be a passportsister? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 01:25 AM |
| 2 | Loneliness has nothing to do with genderI have only met 1 person in my life that I would consider “ugly “ , she had a monstrous face ( worse than the hunchback or Norte dame ). She was beyond bullying , no one picked on her // every time I looked at her I wanted to cry for her. Is this your level of ugly ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 12:37 AM |
| 2 | "Treat women as human beings"What ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/23 05:06 AM |
| 1 | "Treat women as human beings"What lol ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/23 05:05 AM |
| 3 | "Treat women as human beings"Most men I know that aren’t 100% competent talking to women don’t have sisters / cousins , and work jobs that don’t have women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/23 04:59 AM |
| 5 | "Treat women as human beings"I think I understand their sentiment to some extent , the middle class experience to the lower class is vastly different( like that of a “mini celebrity”) , women can more easily attract a partner of a higher socioeconomic class. Lower socioeconomic class men are left thinking women are “delusional” for the expectations of that lifestyle , when it’s the standard middle class experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/23 04:34 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadTake some lsd | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 06:40 AM |
| 5 | Karen are just normal women that lost their halo effectSounds like you need to get to it ! /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 05:07 AM |
| 2 | CMV: The best sexual achievement is taking a ton of virginitiesI disagree with OPs scenario / making it a metric to brag about / OP seems insane. But I understand the “taking virginities “ “could” be seen as a “good” thing. If I paint a different scenario of a chick sleeping with incels to help them, I could see people respecting the n count of the chick because it’s reflection of helping the disadvantaged. The same as if you were a dude sleeping with femcels to give them the experience , you “could” respect his n count as a reflection of helping the disadv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 03:39 AM |
| 1 | CMV: The best sexual achievement is taking a ton of virginitiesI kind of understand what OP is saying. If we converted it to a better scenario with “what if there was a chick collecting virginities from incels to help them out” , and then you “could” respect the n count of that chick because it’s a reflection of helping people. But I completely disagree with OPs attitude of a metric to be better than others lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 03:33 AM |
| 1 | What exactly does it mean to be a "modern day woman," and what kind of alternative women does the RP community prefer?Love / affection / good vibes etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 01:13 AM |
| -3 | What exactly does it mean to be a "modern day woman," and what kind of alternative women does the RP community prefer?Im sure there’s some western women that have these traits. I’ve taken the Asian pill , my wife and all her friends are excellent / have the values you described. I’d recommend it , I’d say the one “downside “ I’ve noticed other eggs talking about ( egg white outside , yellow inside ) , is you can’t have any women friends , Asians are far more jealous , but if it’s not an issue then not an issue :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/23 10:11 AM |
| -3 | What exactly does it mean to be a "modern day woman," and what kind of alternative women does the RP community prefer?So RP looking for an Asian woman ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/23 10:06 AM |
| -1 | CMV Women don‘t hate nice guys, women hate men without a spine.You can be kind without being nice and you can be nice without being kind . They are not the same thing l. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/23 03:55 AM |
| 3 | If you don’t know how to play the social game , women will think you’re evil.Thank you for interpreting my post with 100% accuracy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/23 03:32 AM |
| 0 | If you don’t know how to play the social game , women will think you’re evil.It’s literally the “ I’m a wolf surrounded by sheep “ meme but reversed when I’m with my wife and her friends “ I’m a sheep surrounded by wolves “ . My wife agrees, I’m not great at masking, she is excellent at it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/23 01:21 AM |
| -2 | If you don’t know how to play the social game , women will think you’re evil.Thank you for sharing your experience. 2 questions Are you short / rounded face ? ( does your physique reflect an approachable vibe ) Are you middle class ? E.g did you have to start paying rent at 15 , did you have clothes with holes etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/23 01:18 AM |
| 3 | If you don’t know how to play the social game , women will think you’re evil.I’ve been called a creep for not talking to others // working at work instead of talking. Ya look if you don’t get it you don’t get it. Ahh .. well a different commenter said not to feel sorry for successful autistic women , whereas I’ve always felt that we’re all brother/sisters of the “tism” and will do what I can to assist anyone disadvantaged - I volunteer to help young autistic people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/23 01:16 AM |
| 3 | If you don’t know how to play the social game , women will think you’re evil.I will adjust my setting to not feel bad for successful autistic women. I know several less fortunate autistic women from high school who suffer a lot with social games. One of my coworkers whose professionally successful , but struggles with other women I also feel sorry for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/23 01:12 AM |
| 2 | If you don’t know how to play the social game , women will think you’re evil.Agreed , every male I know who struggles with socializing is autistic / has been raped / parents beat them / etc Yeah as I said I feel sorry for autistic women that had to play that game as children lol. As an adult its exhausting. Aye so if someone doesn’t know not to play regardless of reasons , there must be something wrong with them / let’s exclude them , you make my point lol. I do get the reason of “if they don’t respect the social game , how do I know they respect the dont hurt other peop… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/23 01:08 AM |
| 2 | If you don’t know how to play the social game , women will think you’re evil.I grew up in a rural area , I’m very happy to escape that behavior lol. From my experience , yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/23 01:01 AM |
| 3 | If you don’t know how to play the social game , women will think you’re evil.I worked in a fast food chain when I was younger , I had the attitude of “if I’m getting payed , I shouldn’t talk // I should just do my work “ ( bonus information I’m autistic ). After working there for a year, there was an extremely quiet period at 2am in the morning with all the work completed // nothing to do but talk to coworker. After 20 minutes of talking my coworker said “ oh my god , you’re not a creep , you’re just a shy nerd, we all thought you were a creep “. After that day I noticed… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/23 12:50 AM |
| 2 | If you don’t know how to play the social game , women will think you’re evil.I know this is a joke, but it’s also so real. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/23 12:40 AM |
| 1 | If you don’t know how to play the social game , women will think you’re evil.Thanks for getting it :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/23 12:38 AM |
| 0 | If you don’t know how to play the social game , women will think you’re evil.Observing behavior of my partner is contempt ? Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/23 12:13 AM |
| – | Moral compass does not equal social compass.They certainly fit into the box lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/23 07:13 AM |
| 3 | If men and women were so fundamentally different, they wouldn’t behave the same 90% of the time. It’s just guys here are more in denial of the similarities.Ive seen you around Lina and I like most of your comments/ they are sensible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 10:19 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Why is it important that people agree that men have it harder in dating?I guess you’ve answered your own question. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 06:11 AM |
| 5 | If men and women were so fundamentally different, they wouldn’t behave the same 90% of the time. It’s just guys here are more in denial of the similarities.Different poster , from my experience both genders can victimize. But women will lean on their irl circles and men won’t ( because they’re educated to be emotionally stunted so they whine online ). I’ve seen a few women cry about things that I’ve never seen a man cry about ( in person ) - failing a drivers license - partner going to work - failing a task at work ( I’ve cried about work pressure , but it’s at home , I’ve seen a lot of women cry in the workplace ) - wrong meal at a restaurant - st… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 05:07 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Why is it important that people agree that men have it harder in dating?Oath , my limited understanding. Red pill = people who need a system to understand socializing , blue pill = people who do it intuitively. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 04:00 AM |
| 2 | Q4Men: Why is it important that people agree that men have it harder in dating?Different poster, under the assumption that men do have it worse. Could we compare it to women wanting it known that their safety situation is worse ? There’s nothing I can do to help random women feel safe at night , but I think acknowledging that it’s an issue and they have it harder validates their experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 02:04 AM |
| 6 | Q4Men: Why is it important that people agree that men have it harder in dating?I didn’t know expertise was required to comment lol. I’m not 100% on anything but my own experiences so that I can learn and grow and consider alternative perspectives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 01:25 AM |
| 2 | Q4Men: Why is it important that people agree that men have it harder in dating?Also I’m not 100% on what red pill is , but can’t it be applied to both men and women , and it’s just the believe that a system can be used instead of intuition?. And I’m interested in why that’s not in “womens” best interest . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 01:10 AM |
| 0 | Q4Men: Why is it important that people agree that men have it harder in dating?I think the believe that if a man is a virgin there’s something wrong with him leans into the “dating must not be hard for guys so virgin guys are bad sign “. But I agree there’s no grand women coven declaring this in unforeseen spaces. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 01:08 AM |
| – | Are women lucky to have older guys simping for them ?Agreed . though I have been sexually harassed , I’d assume women get it more often. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 01:47 AM |
| – | How often do you see "genuinely" nice men having issues on the dating scene?I have a mate who is all round excellent , the only person I’ve met who didn’t move out of home but still matured ( his parents are disabled and he cares for them ) volunteers to assist disabled animals ( he took in a blind dog and a dog without a bottom jaw from the compound ) Goes to the gym Has a successful career Caring / emotionally intelligent ( if I was gay he would be the friend I would want to date ) Cooks well ( not chef level , but better than anyone who isn’t chef level ) Vs Is not f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 10:10 AM |
| 1 | Are women lucky to have older guys simping for them ?The example given is the one i imagine in the scenario I posted. I don’t imagine attractive women seeking whores. But I think there’s an extra step to cross to change your sexuality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 10:08 AM |
| 1 | Are women lucky to have older guys simping for them ?Thank you , I’m not an expert on the rape of males but I would be happy to concede that women have a worse rape experience ( unless the male rape involves the rectum , then idk lol). Do you have any insights on male > eating unattractive women’s pussy vs female eating unattractive man’s dick? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 09:55 AM |
| 1 | Are women lucky to have older guys simping for them ?Cheers , thank you for providing an answer. I haven’t had sex with an unattractive women and I imagine it’s the same experience for women having sex with an unattractive man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 09:43 AM |
| 0 | Are women lucky to have older guys simping for them ?Agreed. So on that road heterosexual women and gay men benefit the most ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 09:40 AM |
| 0 | Are women lucky to have older guys simping for them ?Agreed , one of them requires more steps to cross though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 09:36 AM |
| 1 | Are women lucky to have older guys simping for them ?I don’t know how to quote on Reddit , can you please point me to the conclusive answer you gave on my question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 09:17 AM |
| 0 | Are women lucky to have older guys simping for them ?I did not mention someone attractive , in my scenario both the men and women are unattractive. To you , a straight male having sex with an unattractive women and unattractive man is the same thing ? If being bisexual is a mandatory part of the industry , can you link to something that reports that majority of female workers being forced to have sex with other women to keep their jobs ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 07:39 AM |
| 0 | Are women lucky to have older guys simping for them ?There’s no difference as a straight male , for me to have sex with an unattractive women or unattractive man ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 07:10 AM |
| 1 | Are women lucky to have older guys simping for them ?Based , I was swinging with the wrong community then lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 06:52 AM |
| 1 | Are women lucky to have older guys simping for them ?Based. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 06:50 AM |
| 0 | Are women lucky to have older guys simping for them ?Cheers correcting simp/prostitution. Are you saying that if I’m a straight male having sex with men and women are the same thing ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 06:50 AM |
| 1 | Are women lucky to have older guys simping for them ?Are you saying that if I’m a straight male having a sexual relationship with an unattractive women , and having sexual relationship with an unattractive man is the same thing ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 06:48 AM |
| 2 | Are women lucky to have older guys simping for them ?I never said they would be attracted to them , are you saying that if I’m a straight male having a sexual relationship with an unattractive women , and having sexual relationship with an unattractive man is the same thing ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 06:47 AM |
| 1 | Are women lucky to have older guys simping for them ?I never said they would be attracted to them , are you saying that if I’m a straight male having a sexual relationship with an unattractive women , and having sexual relationship with an unattractive man is the same thing ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 06:47 AM |
| -1 | Are women lucky to have older guys simping for them ?Isn’t this adding 1 step of changing my sexuality ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 02:01 AM |
| 1 | Moral compass does not equal social compass.Social / moral compass examples. If I’m in a “middle class “ social sphere and I bully someone the environment shuns ( let’s say an incel , but that is a radical example ) , I would be met with positive reinforcement - that is following my social compass , whereas that would be against my moral compass of bullying the weak. I had coworkers shun a disabled girl because it was difficult to communicate with her , my social compass guides me to agree with them , so that I can continue belonging to t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 12:16 AM |
| – | Does it really matter if women don't actually have a headache when they just don't want sex?Like I agree with respecting the mood of other people. But also you can switch moods , if my partner is annoyed from work , I can cook her favorite dinner , play her favorite songs and sing and dance until she’s happy. If her father died I don’t think that’s as possible. I get OPs point about wanting their partner to be able to “switch moods “. There are “magic switches “ I think most people have a switch to become angry / sad instantly, why not one for horny ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 08:36 AM |
| 0 | The reason "dating is hard" to a lot of people is because they are uneducated.Oath , lots of ways to date . Apps , social circles , cold approaching. Do what ever you want // whatever is best for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 06:22 AM |
| 3 | Moral compass does not equal social compass.I didn’t think of this before and it is excellent. Thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 06:13 AM |
| 1 | Moral compass does not equal social compass.I commend you, if not wanting to die for my moral compass means I’m scum to you I will live with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 05:45 AM |
| 1 | Moral compass does not equal social compass.Was this against your local social circles , or with ? E.g did you lose many close friends ? Etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 05:39 AM |
| 1 | Moral compass does not equal social compass.Previously I did not have a social compass // it was combined with my moral compass , this made me unpopular. I develop a social compass and don’t use my moral compass , I am now popular. Conformity is bliss. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 05:39 AM |
| 1 | Moral compass does not equal social compass.? What’s the most problematic stand you’ve taken against a group ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 05:35 AM |
| 1 | Moral compass does not equal social compass.Yes , that is me. I wasn’t when I was younger , but since developing this , life has been much easier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 05:34 AM |
| – | Does it really matter if women don't actually have a headache when they just don't want sex?Different commenter , just interested in your perspective, does “not in the mood” cover both “my dad died today , I’m not in the mood “ and “ idk , I’m feeling lazy atm and not in the mood “ ? Because one of those I’d ask my partner to reconsider her mood ( with more graceful language ) , the other I would not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Moral compass does not equal social compass.What ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 04:40 AM |
| 1 | Moral compass does not equal social compass.I know which one my wife would choose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 04:13 AM |
| 1 | Moral compass does not equal social compass.Oath lol , that is survival. if I was in nazi germany , and had the choice of blaming Jews or getting removed along with my wife and child. Would I be wrong for putting my family first ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 04:13 AM |
| 1 | Moral compass does not equal social compass.I will take this as a compliment , irl newer friends have referred to me as charismatic, older friends would not lol. Every guy I know whose remotely socially popular do not align their social / moral compasses. Admittedly I don’t have much experienced with unmasked women , my wife absolutely does not match her social / moral compasses. She repeatedly tells me I’m too kind / considers others too much. I admit I could be wrong , and most people have a strong moral compass but that doesn’t match m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 04:00 AM |
| 2 | Moral compass does not equal social compass.I would rest my head on the desk after finishing my work , to not prevent other kids from learning / disrespecting the teacher. I didn’t see the point in being destructive/ disrespectful towards society, this was very unpopular lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 03:55 AM |
| 5 | Moral compass does not equal social compass.Your first paragraph aligns with my statement , with “nice guys” getting trapped into thinking that dating is a “moral game” as opposed to a “social game” , I wouldn’t call it deceit because I don’t think people intentionally ignore their moral compass , they just weren’t raised with a strong one. I agree with your second paragraph, my wife has far less empathy / kindness than I do. And I’ve struggled to meet women with strong moral compasses , instead using their social compass to guide moral d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 03:53 AM |
| 2 | Moral compass does not equal social compass.If I’m in a “middle class “ social sphere and I bully someone the environment shuns ( let’s say an incel , but that is a radical example ) , I would be met with positive reinforcement - that is following my social compass , whereas that would be against my moral compass of bullying the weak. I had coworkers shun a disabled girl because it was difficult to communicate with her , my social compass guides me to agree with them , so that I can continue belonging to the social majority. My moral comp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 03:47 AM |
| 2 | To what extent do you care about your parent’s opinion of your partner?About 0, parents haven’t been involved for 10 years. 20s, white , officeworker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 12:46 AM |
| 3 | With women, you need to cultivate the vibe if you want a good conversation.Yes , they should stop being disabled so they can date /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 11:06 PM |
| – | Best strategy for approaching women out and about during the day?Aye , just saying that different paths could work for OP . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 07:23 AM |
| 1 | Which parts of Redpill philosophy do you think have merit?Regrading point 4; I’ve seen a friend bully someone in a group to the point the victim was almost crying, by the end the girl next to my friend had a hand on his leg and asked him out after lol. I asked my friend about it later , why did you bully that guy ? He said it was funny. He was considered a very attractive guy in the environment we shared. Additionally , My wife enjoys it if I am mean to someone outside of our tribe, though being kind doesn’t warrant unattractive thoughts it does make h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 06:36 AM |
| 2 | What are the essential tenets of the red and blue pills in the modern day?Blue pill are people who navigate the social world with instinct/ natural . Red pill are people who need a system to help them navigate it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 02:32 AM |
| 9 | If you've ever called a man an incel, you can't really claim there's nothing wrong with being a male virginLike idk man , women care if a guy is a virgin , unspoken ruled when hooking friends up with friends is the man can’t be a virgin lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 02:23 AM |
| – | Best strategy for approaching women out and about during the day?I was very unsuccessful on dating apps , but make plenty of friends cold approaching. Different skills for apps/clubs / coworkers etc etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Being a good person has nothing to do with how much a man is able to attract womenI think OP is saying that moral compass doesn’t equal social compass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 01:37 AM |
| 0 | Men who want to be loved for "who they are" and not "what they provide" are not being reasonableDo you have statistics/ link to back these ? I haven’t heard any men say this .. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 01:04 AM |
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