| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 27 | Finally did first Cold Approach | Field Report | Groundbreaking-Bar40 | /r/seduction | 10/01/25 12:02 AM |
| 2 | Openers transitioning to regular conversation | Groundbreaking-Bar40 | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 08:17 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | First day time approach, feedback appreciatedIf you see a dude talking to a girl you generally assume they already know each other. Most people are focused on themselves anyway. Id say just go for it right away. Jump right in the pool | /r/seduction | 24/01/25 04:29 PM |
| 2 | Finally did first Cold ApproachGlad you had a similar experience man! It seems like the best mindset to have while beginning approaches. Love the positive comment man much appreciated! | /r/seduction | 11/01/25 06:18 AM |
| 1 | Finally did first Cold ApproachThanks bro🙏 thats exactly how I feel. Im sacrificing the outcome and just focusing on the attempt so I can really develop my skills. Love that proverb man gonna def keep that one for myself. | /r/seduction | 10/01/25 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Finally did first Cold ApproachHell yeah man, Im trying to frame it as a game in my mind and I believe one day it will become that way for me just gotta put in work and overcome the obstacle of initial anxiety. | /r/seduction | 10/01/25 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Finally did first Cold ApproachYeah, it made me shy when I was growing up, but then at college I was very social and then living at home I became a bit more socially anxious again. Solid advice about hookups, sometimes its nice to have a girl that you can spend a few months hanging out with. Typically thats what tends to happen for me. Im hesitant to jump into a relationship bc I just got out of one and it can really strain your heart eventhough the honeymoon phase is so alluring. I try to spend a lot of time improving myself… | /r/seduction | 10/01/25 05:23 PM |
| 2 | Finally did first Cold ApproachThanks dude! Means a lot and fs im plan is to treat it like the gym and start putting up numbers. The rush is def fun but once my fear dissipates from this sort of exposure therapy of cold approaching ill def start to really have fun with it. How has your experience been cold approaching? | /r/seduction | 10/01/25 04:49 AM |
| 2 | Finally did first Cold ApproachAppreciate the response man, Im working my way up to night game too. I hope thisll work and ill try to develop strategies as my approach anxiety decreases. Right now im just trying to rep it out and overcome fear so i can utilize better inner game | /r/seduction | 10/01/25 04:47 AM |
| 1 | My 1 secret to building an effective dating profile and standing outWould you say that being funny can fall into any of these roles? Thats usually my go to strat eventhough its much more difficult to be funny over text but im pretty tall and decent looking/ in shape which helps. I lean towards dressing a bit alt and being into artsy shit which seems like a good combo. Also mt biggest issue besides over coming fear of approach and being concise over text(also any tips would be great) bc thats not how i generally speak(which is never an issue irl) is I don’t have … | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Any guys here have a 10/10 girl in a 5+ relationship and recover when she is living the rich life?You gotta find a place of content within yourself and not from another person, then you will have peace of mind. Everything happens within your body and mind so you must learn to make peace with it and love yourself. Banging beautiful women is great, but if it doesn’t fill that hole within you then the problem lies somewhere else. More money to an extent might make you feel better(i wouldnt know im still pretty broke but can get pretty girls here and there) but more importantly you gotta shift y… | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 10:29 PM |
| 4 | Went on a date with a coworker, and it went alright. She throws out mixed signals, and I talked to a few coworkers to get their opinion. What are the odds they told her?Probably not the best idea but idk why everyone’s being a dick in the comments it’s not that big a deal man this happens all the time. Also she’s probably talking about it so who cares, not the end of the world, don’t beat yourself up too much about it | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 02:41 PM |
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