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| 7 | Woman should state expensive hobbies to turn off broke under achieving men.As an overachiever myself, I’d actually find this quite helpful. Makes it easier to know who to steer clear of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 12:59 PM |
| 1 | The most common argument against financial abortion is easily refuted. What remains is mostly misandryYou want more single mothers? I'd rather not pay for tyrones kids personally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 11:18 AM |
| 10 | Men aren't attracted to their aging partnersDo you find 80 year old men equally as attractive as 30 year old? We all get less attractive. Are you upset that you don't stay 21 forever? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 12:01 PM |
| 5 | Men aren't attracted to their aging partnersWtf? You seriously need to spend some time off the internet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 11:57 AM |
| 6 | Men aren't attracted to their aging partnersI never made money off women while I was young, did I waste my youth? You think the whole meaning of youth is to extract money from the opposite gender like some parasite? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 11:36 AM |
| – | Why do you find dating hard?This is a pretty unhinged response, going through her history and using it against her like that. Uncalled for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 09:55 AM |
| – | A good way to incentivize more women to have children. Would be guaranteeing that women could continue to chase their dreams as well.So women are choosing to not have kids because they would rather work 80 hour weeks? Yet only eight percent of CEO positions in the S&P 500 are held by women? And this is because life isn't fair? Do you live in reality? Most women want to have kids. They know kids are expensive, that's why they need a career. If kids were super affordable they would work less, have more kids and spend time with their family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 08:58 PM |
| – | A good way to incentivize more women to have children. Would be guaranteeing that women could continue to chase their dreams as well.Dreams? You mean being a corporate slave? The reason they aren't having as many kids is simply because the economy sucks. They don't want to raise kids in poverty, and the ones that do only have 1 or 2. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 07:33 PM |
| – | I Dated Straight Men So You Don't Have To: A Straight Mans Guide To Dating Straight MenJust eat less then, lmfao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 05:32 AM |
| – | CMV: choosing the bear has been detrimental to our cause.True | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 02:03 PM |
| – | CMV: choosing the bear has been detrimental to our cause.I'm suprised at how this hypothetical scenario has been getting so many people mad. If you'd rather see a bear, good for you! It doesn't affect me in any way, is it supposed to anger me as a man that someone has a general distrust for men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 08:23 AM |
| 6 | Men, why won't you commit?Sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 06:31 AM |
| 2 | Who has more sexual options: An average looking woman? Or a male celebrity?If the woman is on dating apps saying yes to everyone I would say it's pretty equal from a quantity standpoint. I once tried a tinder experiment, I created a female profile with no photos and no bio. All I put was my age. Still 100+ matches first week. Average woman is fucking non stop if she wants. Same with a celebrity, so I think it's a tie. Also depends what level the celebrity is. Are we talking Drake level? Because for guys like that there is no limit to their access. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 07:23 PM |
| 5 | [STUDY] There exists a positive correlation between being a bully and success in dating and sexual relationshipsAbsolutely vile. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 01:42 PM |
| 4 | Is it controlling to want your girlfriend to not go clubbing?I don’t personally take girls who go to clubs seriously, just not my thing. So if my gf did it I wouldn’t tell her to stop, I would just take her out of the gf zone to fwb zone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 06:13 AM |
| 1 | Why do women tend to get aggressive at divorce?You are kind of conflating issues here. I’m just saying that the statement ‘’married men get paid more’’ while factual doesn’t really provide any context whatsoever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 07:35 PM |
| 3 | Why do women tend to get aggressive at divorce?Would you agree that a rich man has an easier time finding a wife than a poor man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 03:44 PM |
| 6 | Why do women tend to get aggressive at divorce?Men who are high earners are pursued for marriage. That’s the correlation that people seem to ignore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 06:30 AM |
| – | Men are delusional as much as women, if not more.Sure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 04:24 PM |
| 6 | Men are delusional as much as women, if not more.Everyone wants the best option available. If that is settling then everyone settles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 12:16 PM |
| – | Debate A Man should be allowed to opt out being a father if he says it enough early in a pregnancy.Sure if we are gonna let them starve to death when they can’t afford food. I’d be okay with that. As long as I’m not getting taxed to death to pay for chad’s kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 09:54 AM |
| – | Debate A Man should be allowed to opt out being a father if he says it enough early in a pregnancy.You need to take personal responsibility. If you don’t want to knock a woman up then wear protection, get snipped or abstain. Ultimately someone has to pay for the kid, and I rather you pay for your own kid than my tax dollars. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 09:44 AM |
| 1 | To what extent are age gaps in relationships due to the preferences of women vs men?There are studies done that show that as women age their preferences change and they always stay around their own age and older. The way attraction works for women is clearly way more nuanced and depends on so many different factors. Which is why saying that ‘’women stay with unattractive old men’’ is stupid. They clearly are attractive to them. They aren’t ignoring their own biological urges to make the men happy. A big change in modern society is women are now truly free to date who they want,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 04:12 AM |
| 4 | To what extent are age gaps in relationships due to the preferences of women vs men?If the physical attractiveness of young men was a meaningful factor in dating the rate of sexlessness for young men certainly doesn’t reflect that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 03:28 AM |
| 5 | To what extent are age gaps in relationships due to the preferences of women vs men?They obviously find them attractive if they want to be with them. Would you date someone you found unattractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 02:19 AM |
| 7 | For those of you who think women can get anything for free?6 is above average. That’s attractive. It’s clearly a good thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/23 04:21 PM |
| – | It’s rough online dating for American Arab/Middle Eastern guys?Basically if you are not white it’s the hardest. And even if you are it’s not easy. You’re better off deleting the apps and trying irl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 06:55 AM |
| 2 | Telling men that "improving" their "personality" will improve their romantic and sexual results is like telling a politician or a company that honesty and quality will get them successHis face is average, but he is also 6’3 and jacked. Most men would be very happy to have his attributes, he isn’t ‘’ugly’’. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 03:34 PM |
| 3 | Most men cause their dating issuesGenetics have a massive impact on those things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 02:14 PM |
| 9 | As a woman why should I get married?Because they lock themselves into negative and toxic echo chambers like twox/theredpill and absorb negativity day in and day out. They think they are helping themselves, but they are not. The result is a bitter person with a warped world view and a lack of experiences who anyone with a brain should stay as far away from as possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 05:12 AM |
| 9 | As a woman why should I get married?You sound like you want someone to convince you to do it. What is the point of that? If you are happy by yourself and this isn’t you just coping, do your thing 🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 05:07 AM |
| 8 | Listening to older women is actually beneficial to younger women when it comes to datingYou sound like you spend too much time consuming negative content online. That shit will rot your brain. Not everyone is out to ‘’get’’ you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 04:43 PM |
| 11 | Listening to older women is actually beneficial to younger women when it comes to datingOld happy women with successful marriages? Sure! Old bitter women? No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 04:36 PM |
| 2 | CMV: It's reasonable to want your partner to be "on your level" financially.You essentially said why would anyone date someone with less money than their parents, as if dating and attraction isn’t nuanced. As if it’s all just about having nicer and nicer things until you die, because you have no depth as an individual. Or maybe that’s what it sounded like. I wouldn’t date a financially irresponsible woman or a woman with massive debt she couldn’t manage, but I would never say ‘’you need to have more money than my mommy’’ so I can have nice things like when I was a spoil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 02:50 PM |
| 2 | CMV: It's reasonable to want your partner to be "on your level" financially.I know this is insane, but maybe not everything has to be financially motivated? Unless you literally just look at men like walking ATM’s and future sugardaddies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 06:30 AM |
| 7 | Men are thinking about current heigh standards the wrong way.Yeah I got some, but I only used tinder during the golden era around 2016. Some of them suspected I was lying because I looked tall on pictures so they were intrigued. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 03:33 PM |
| 8 | Men are thinking about current heigh standards the wrong way.6ft is the average height in Netherlands. How is 2 inches above average short? That makes no sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 03:00 PM |
| 7 | Men are thinking about current heigh standards the wrong way.Back when I used to use tinder I would list my height as 5’5 when I’m actually 6’4. I definitely lost some matches, but I never relied on it solely for my dating life so didn’t care much. It made for some fun first dates and interesting conversations though! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 02:44 PM |
| 4 | If women are happier when single. Why do they push for commitment?Being able to find someone who you deem to be below you and you don’t find attractive isn’t the massive advantage you think it is. I can also ‘’get a gf’’ in that same time too, but I’d rather be alone than with someone I don’t want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 10:24 AM |
| 8 | Q4M: What are your thoughts on childfree women and infertile women?The countries where women have the most stability have lower birthrates, and poor women have more children. Not saying there is an easy solution to this, but you are definitely oversimplifying the issue. When women have freedom many will choose a career over having children while young which is their choice. This happens in all developed nations. The government doesn’t want that because they want their slaves to make more slaves, but we can fix that with mass immigration. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 09:31 PM |
| 7 | "just be skinny" doesn't workMost trad wives say they are happy to serve their man, taking care of your partner should bring your joy. Not something you ‘’have to do’’, it doesn’t have to come at your detriment. Maybe it would make you miserable, but that says more about you as a partner than anything else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 03:46 AM |
| 5 | Men: what makes you want a woman?I need to find you sexually attractive Pretty much same as 1 I can go many directions with this one, I would say mainly you need the first two, but I need to enjoy your company outside of sex. I need to actually enjoy speaking to you and I need to really respect you as a human being and that involves having a broad set of different qualities which is rare. The men here who say stuff like ‘’just be hot and 19 that’s all there is to it’’ are usually super deprived men with very low standards and n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 11:32 PM |
| 0 | How much of a turn off is astrology when a woman heavily believes in it?This is one of those things I read more about online than see irl. If it happened to me I would find it weird and associate it with lower intelligence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 08:48 AM |
| 19 | CMV: Ladies, I think we're doing ourselves a disservice by giving men dating advice (nuanced take)Most womens dating advice is just virtue signalling, only idiots listen to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 06:22 AM |
| 3 | Men today act so feminineIf you act moral in a amoral society you get taken advantage of and wrecked. Modern dating encourages degeneracy on both sides, it’s a race to the bottom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 09:24 AM |
| 1 | Would you rather have sex with a fat 20yr old or a fit 50 yr old?20 yo’s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 04:27 AM |
| 4 | Race has an effect on finding a partnerDid a black man break your heart or something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 08:53 AM |
| 11 | Race has an effect on finding a partnerSo why bring up 1 person who made a post saying he had terrible luck? Clearly you are willing to use anecdotal info right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 06:35 AM |
| 6 | Race has an effect on finding a partnerAs a black dude in scandinavia this has been the complete opposite of my experience, maybe it’s a US thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 06:25 AM |
| – | CMV: A 30 year old man dating a 19 year old girl is no different than a 30 year old woman dating a 30 year old man who's inexperienced.If we are only speaking about sexual experience sure. The reality is that you will be at completely different stages of life if she is fresh out of high school and you have worked for 7-8 years and bought a home etc, you have way more life experience. If you are both okay with that and consenting to it I personally don’t think there is anything wrong with it, but these are some key elements that I think you are missing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 08:44 PM |
| 8 | Do you think parents are mostly to blame for lack of success in dating?Is a high bodycount ‘’success’’ in dating though? I guess it depends on what you are looking for. As a black man raised by a single mom I’ve been able to run through loads of women, but my friends from stable families are better at maintaining healthy long term relationships. I think seeing how a man and woman are supposed to interact in a good way growing up is really important | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 03:49 AM |
| 2 | As a man you should not date if you are brokeAgreed, but not even because it makes the woman uncomfortable, but because if you’re broke you have no time for that shit and need to fix your situation for your own sake. I didn’t struggle with women when I was broke because truthfully many women will date a poor guy who they are attracted to. That doesn’t mean that it was necessarily a good way to spend my time. I believe as a man your top priorities in life should be your health, because all the money in the world doesn’t matter if you’re gon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 07:54 PM |
| 5 | Went full-on pick-me as an experiment and got a boyfriend within a month.It’s funny how being an active participant in the dating process is called being a ‘’pick me’’. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 06:29 AM |
| 0 | Discussion : Will modern life get so comfortable for women that literally most choose to stay single?With religion becoming less popular in the west we will see an increase in people chasing their natural base instincts. We will see even more hedonism and degeneracy. Marriage will continue to decline, and casual sex will increase, but only the top men will have access to that market. I think this scenario only truly benefit the men who manage to claw their way to the top. It’s gonna get worse and worse for the average guy, and better and better for the top guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 05:18 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Getting married is one of the worst decisions a man can makeWhy should I get taxed to death because a man is going around impregnating women? No thanks. He can pay for his own kids. That’s like forced cucking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 05:19 AM |
| – | Do you think all sex is transactional?I’ve had sex that wasn’t transactional. Women who cheated on their husbands with me saying they were bored of their dead bedrooms and just wanted their back blown out. Hotel costs and such were split 50/50. So I think not all sex is transactional, but most is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 08:51 AM |
| 0 | Lauren Sanchez proves that having strong , amoral girl-game is more effective at getting a HVM than being demure and submissiveAre you really going to base your dating strategy off of 1 example? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 11:05 AM |
| 3 | Do men actually want love?I would say I was more interested in romance when I was younger, but as I entered my 20’s I realized I was better of focusing on my career because IMO most women wouldn’t really add much value to my life. I see most of them as a financial and emotional burden, and the only benefit would be sex which I am already able to get without a relationship. Some men definitely need a mother and a source of motivation, but I am very self sufficient as a man. I don’t need someone to motivate me or to tell m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 08:50 AM |
| 2 | What dating advice would you give to women?If you want a quality man to stick around long term you need to be pleasant to be around and interesting as a person. Otherwise he will orgasm and then leave you. Nobody wants an annoying life partner. Most women are painfully boring and don’t put effort into themselves outside of their looks. Try to keep your n count as low as possible, if you don’t put a high price tag on yourself no man will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 06:27 AM |
| 7 | Observation: girls are constantly baiting guys into destroying their own futures at every point in lifeYeah the smart men who live below their means and invest are ‘’boring’’. It’s fine though, I’ll be damned if I sacrifice my financial goals for anyone. Only idiots go broke to fuck girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 07:28 PM |
| 4 | Do men actually want love?I only deal with women for sexual access, I don’t feel the need to pursue love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 09:12 AM |
| 3 | Is it worth it moving out to improve my social life and skills?You dont want go broke paying your rent so you can fuck girls, that’s stupid. You should be able to pay your rent 3-4 times. Stay with your folks and grind until your career gets to that point or move into a shared apartment. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/23 09:38 AM |
| 2 | A man being used as an ATM on a date is equal to a woman being used for sexVery interesting, I think that shows the difference in approach to dating. I would never go on a date and pay ‘’expecting’’ to get romance as return on my investment. I would be going for a chat and seeing if there was a connection, if we didn’t connect at all, I would wish her the best of luck. I prefer the more equal dynamic in general as I respect women as equals who are capable of paying for their own stuff, and it would be a shame if we worked so hard to give women rights and opportunities … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 09:18 AM |
| 2 | A man being used as an ATM on a date is equal to a woman being used for sexYes I know I live in a great progressive country with equal rights. I just wanted to share my perspective. I think the idea that the man pays for the woman is rooted in the thinking that women are less capable than men, and I like the fact that I live in a country where men and women are looked at as equal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 07:47 AM |
| 4 | A man being used as an ATM on a date is equal to a woman being used for sexInteresting. So if a friend invites you for a few drinks you expect them to pay for you? I don’t even mind paying to be honest, it’s just interesting to hear how things work in other countries. I live in one of the most equal rights countries in the world (Norway) and I’ve never had a woman expect me to pay for her meal/drinks, actually they would get deeply offended if you tried to pay for them. American dating culture sounds pretty backwards to me lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 06:48 AM |
| 5 | A man being used as an ATM on a date is equal to a woman being used for sexAre you poor? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 05:15 AM |
| – | what do you think is the main reason for men giving commitment to one girl, but not the other?Committing to a woman is a massive investment, especially as a man because we are expected to provide to a degree. I’ll commit to the woman I could see myself spending the rest of my life with. How stable would a relationship with her be? How likely is she to jump on another cock as soon as things get difficult? I could put together a bunch of different reasons, it’s rarely just 1 thing I’m trying to check off when we are speaking about a life partner, however if I meet a woman and her life is a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 12:39 PM |
| 2 | The entire pill debate has been obscured and distracted by a bizarre fixation on unattractive men’s struggle. While this sucks, it actually makes logical sense unlike the main problem, which is average and above average men struggling to the degree they are.What are you talking about? What is the third option? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 01:56 PM |
| 45 | The entire pill debate has been obscured and distracted by a bizarre fixation on unattractive men’s struggle. While this sucks, it actually makes logical sense unlike the main problem, which is average and above average men struggling to the degree they are.Women don’t have to date men they aren’t interested in. Either meet their expectations or opt out. Nobody cares. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 01:10 PM |
| 1 | How do you justify asking for a woman with a low body count, if yours is high?I don’t need to justify it, I want what I want. Nobody is forced to date me. If women want a guy with a low count they can get some other guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 05:57 AM |
| 1 | I have a love-hate relationship with r/NotHowGirlsWork.Its just another ultra feminist/ misandrist echo chamber. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 02:36 PM |
| 1 | What is an advantage that single men have that taken men don’t ?Your savings rate will probably skyrocket. I’m single and my disposable income after my bills are paid is ridiculous. Not only do you spend less, but you have more time to work because your not sitting with her all day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 05:05 AM |
| 17 | Women are more into the "finer things in life"?Women are hyper consumers in general. I read a study that said women make 80% of purchases, while earning less than men on average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 11:07 AM |
| 3 | When men say they don't want a career woman, it's not that they don't want a woman who has a career, they just don't want a "boss babe".Being a challenge is also an undesirable characteristic that has nothing to do with a career. All my ex’s have their own careers and the ability to fund their own lifestyles, and I wouldn’t consider them challenging to be with. None of them gave me a hard time, we were just different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 08:47 PM |
| 0 | When men say they don't want a career woman, it's not that they don't want a woman who has a career, they just don't want a "boss babe".The world already challenges me, why would I want to come home to even more challenges? I want to enjoy myself. Before you take this to the extremes no I am not saying she can’t have an opinion, however I work too hard to come home to argue all day about asinine BS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 07:40 PM |
| 16 | Women shouldn't give one man her 20sSex work? Really? What a degenerate society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 05:04 AM |
| 2 | What is exactly emotional labour which women do?Since you were bringing up workplace tasks I thought I'd share my own experience. I also made coffee when I started at my last company as a male, nobody even needed to ask me, I also took the trash and did a whole bunch of other boring stuff, and I was HAPPY to do it. You can't show up somewhere new with little experience, and expect to not be at the bottom of the hierarchy. You start doing the low value work until you get to the point where your time is more valuable elsewhere, and then you mov… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/23 02:21 PM |
| 0 | What is exactly emotional labour which women do?Yeah and as a male I’m always expected to carry heavy objects and fix the car. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/23 11:24 AM |
| 1 | Men are disingenuous in the dating marketMost men want relationships with high quality women, but will accept sex from low quality women to scratch the itch. They just don’t want relationships with YOU. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 04:27 AM |
| 2 | Light-skin black dudes are the 1 seed, currentlyAs a lightskin black guy, I’d say white men have the most broad appeal, but I still manage well and you do have the women who will literally throw themselves at you because you’re their type. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Q4A: Would you personally be happy and content with never experiencing romance for your entire life?Romance yes, sex no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 07:50 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of "No Pussy, No Work?"Sounds pretty pathetic to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 07:15 PM |
| 21 | White men are far more open to dating Asian women than white women are to Asian menIf you need me to connect the dots here you must be super autistic lmfao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 01:53 PM |
| 150 | White men are far more open to dating Asian women than white women are to Asian menBLM in the streets, KKK in the sheets. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 11:40 AM |
| 10 | How redpillers sound sometimesHe sounded fantastic tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 11:20 AM |
| 9 | Being Emotionally Available and a Good Communicator is Reduces the Chance for Sustained Attraction for Men Seeking a Relationship.Women want to earn a mans affection. They don’t want a man who gives his commitment away too easily because that signals it’s low value. Just like men don’t want women who give sex away too easily, it’s the same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 11:16 AM |
| 2 | It is hard to be empathic to women's struggles in single motherhood when they have literally all sexual and dating powerTwox | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Older men dating much younger womenAs a man who often gets hit on by older women, I tell them no, and take it as a compliment. You sound like a psycho lol. Who hurt you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 03:18 PM |
| – | Young men not dating until they're much older is creating misogynistsIt’s not about them becoming misogynist, but they will be trying to catch up on their lost experience. I know several men who had to do tons of self improvement to get to the point where they could get girls. It’s not like any of them want to settle down now, because they haven’t had their fun yet. Then you have frustrated women complaining that men aren’t serious and don’t want to commit. Mind you those women have been involved with the opposite gender for 10+ years, of course they are ready to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 09:43 AM |
| – | Men are more superficial about weight than womenThis might be the most ignorant comment I’ve ever read on this sub lmfao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 05:11 AM |
| 1 | Which guy would you want to be?Option 3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 07:01 AM |
| -1 | Why do you think (some) men are becoming attracted to this?It’s still sus fam | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 11:40 AM |
| 1 | Why do you think (some) men are becoming attracted to this?Bro you are literally attracted to masculine qualities | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 11:31 AM |
| 4 | Why do you think (some) men are becoming attracted to this?Sounds a bit sus ngl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 11:29 AM |
| 3 | All pills - Is (seriously) dating a single parent off the table for you?I will and currently do bang single moms, but wouldn’t get in a commited relationship with one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/23 07:59 AM |
| 2 | What’s so condemnable about making dating your number one priority in life?Women like men who don’t make them a priority. If you keep increasing your smv enough and build your network you will end up running into single women unless you are hyper autistic. You really don’t need to sit on apps all day and go on dates constantly to get laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/23 12:32 PM |
| 1 | Is it really normal to be in your 20s without ever having a romantic experience?If you don’t work on your speaking problem you will probably be sexless/single your entire life unless you pay for prostitutes. That’s the unfortunate reality. Yes your family lied to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 05:01 AM |
| 6 | Most women don't need a "hoe phase" for the 80/20 argument to holdSo there is no data. Got it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 01:22 PM |
| 6 | Most women don't need a "hoe phase" for the 80/20 argument to holdIs there data to suggest that wealthy men have less sexual partners than poor men? Or does this study combine both genders? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 12:42 PM |
| 4 | Marriage in AmericaWomen will come up with reasons such as visitation, health insurance etc, but in reality they just want the status that comes with being the ‘’wife’’, and they want a fancy wedding to impress their friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 10:42 AM |
| – | Women, is the 2x sub a representative sample of women?2x is a ultra feminist echo chamber. They are the female equivalent of mgtow/incels. It’s a cesspool and anyone with a brain should stay as far away as possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 10:03 AM |
| – | What are some things you cant understand about the opposite gender?Why do you think women like tall strong men? Society is safe now. Common sense says you shouldn’t need a man to protect you. Try to tell women they should use common sense and date short men. Oh and also tell them to date poor men, because women can work now and provide for themselves. It’s only common sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 09:03 AM |
| – | Women Cannot Detect a Red Pilled Man If He Knows What He's DoingTrue. I’m RP and most of my plates are hardcore feminists. If only they knew… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 05:37 AM |
| 1 | Question for red pillers: what if the woman is much smarter?Impossible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/23 07:28 PM |
| 2 | What is the relationship between feminism and hookup culture?Yeah, but not to the same degree as with men. Ugly women can still get sex easily, whereas for ugly men it’s more difficult. Sex distribution for men is very top heavy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 03:56 PM |
| 6 | What is your unpopular opinion regarding your own gender that could make others call you a gender traitor?Most men are pathetic simps | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 04:39 PM |
| 1 | What is the relationship between feminism and hookup culture?Average is a terrible metric to use. One super attractive male who runs through thousands of women will bring up the average massively while not giving an accurate representation of the sexual marketplace for Billy down the street. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 09:56 AM |
| 1 | Women that want children today have to take a very hard decisionLOL your country is not even safe. Jealous of what? Criminals? School shootings? Your country is an embarrasment to itself. Even your president can't string a sentence together 😂😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 04:28 PM |
| 3 | Women that want children today have to take a very hard decisionThe country where your kids might get their brains blown out at kindergarten because some loser had a bad day sure sounds like a great country to live in …. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 10:52 AM |
| 1 | Women that want children today have to take a very hard decisionChads are increasing the male average by running through loads of women. Average is a bad metric to use, median will give a better idea of the sexual marketplace. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 10:39 AM |
| – | The dominance of the FeminineLmfao. I work with almost all women and a few men. The men put in waaaay more hours, get shit done efficiently and no drama/gossip. The women are always sick, take random days off, on long term sick leave because they can’t handle the stress of the job or in some conflict with other women. If it wasn’t for the 4-5 men who show up every single day and do whatever they are asked with no complaints the entire business would collapse due to being understaffed. I get it, you have cut your dick off an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 08:50 AM |
| 11 | Men cant be mad when women take half their stuff if they marry broke womenYeah I only date women who have their own money. I’m not interested in transactional relationships where I have to finance her lifestyle in exchange for sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 12:12 PM |
| 0 | The claim "what is considered a top 20% man is different for each woman" is simply untrueIs that so? Well since you present such a great argument I will have to concede my case! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/23 11:48 PM |
| -3 | The claim "what is considered a top 20% man is different for each woman" is simply untrueI wasn’t trying to imply that every man is the same, I just made a quick assumption based on the little information I had about why he felt the way he does. Usually there is a reason why people act and think the way they do. There’s studies done that link high testosterone and promiscuity. Stop reacting with your emotions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/23 11:40 PM |
| -3 | The claim "what is considered a top 20% man is different for each woman" is simply untrueYou probably have low testosterone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/23 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Do you care about a women's income when it comes to dating?Yeah. No broke bitches. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/23 11:29 AM |
| 2 | Would the average man easily get women and dates/relationships/marriages in a country with a shortage of men?Yeah they didn't give AF. If you want to know what that looked like, here you go. Not sure if link works in us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/23 03:55 PM |
| 2 | If you were a pretty 21 year old women how would you make the most of your looks?I don't think jumping on a bunch of different cocks and getting pumped and dumped left and right is very interesting nor beneficial. I find it revolting, and men don't respect women who are ''for the streets''. My goal would be commitment by someone of high value, not going the single mom route. I would want my husband to be the only one able to say hes been with me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/23 02:40 PM |
| 0 | If you were a pretty 21 year old women how would you make the most of your looks?I would be extremely selective, only dating men who were going places (no losers,thugs,criminals). I would go for the more shy/nerdy intelligent guys. I would not have instagram and I wouldn’t have a hoe phase. Just long term relationships with smart, calm, successful, emotionally stable guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/23 12:38 PM |
| 9 | Would the average man easily get women and dates/relationships/marriages in a country with a shortage of men?Yup. There was a reality show that showed this in my country. They put 6 single men and women in a mansion on an island, the men were all reasonably attractive. Literally all the women ended up going to bed with the most attractive one and fucking him (yes he fucked all 6 of them at the same time). While the other 5 men went to bed alone pissed off. Chad harems are real, extrapolate this on to the real world to get an idea of the SMP for single people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/23 08:09 AM |
| 2 | is there such thing as in ''a fair criteria''?if he thought he had more power than God You are literally just talking about completely random things that have nothing to do with my comment, but hey good for you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/23 02:48 PM |
| 2 | is there such thing as in ''a fair criteria''?That doesn't answer my question. I suppose you know that though since you deleted your first comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/23 02:42 PM |
| 2 | is there such thing as in ''a fair criteria''?Would you want to be with someone who would find you disgusting if they knew the truth about you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/23 08:17 AM |
| 4 | Is sex tourism a hidden gem for men who want causal sex?Yeah. I have white friends who couldn’t get laid to save their lives in the west. Then they go to the Phillipines/Thailand and manage to run through chicks. They don’t even pay, they just use tinder and get loads of matches. One was a virgin at 30, after a few trips he racked up his n-count to 100+ and managed to have multiple threesomes/foursomes. If you want casual sex in the west as an average male you are playing life on ultra hard mode. Literally save up and hop on a plane. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/23 06:24 AM |
| 1 | Ladies - What percentage of the bills would you expect your man to pay if you lived together?Lmfao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 01:56 PM |
| 4 | Is Fresh and Fit over? Is the Red pill movement taking another loss? Is Aba and Preach going to make a video soon?Bro are you literally living on the internet? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 09:10 AM |
| 1 | Why aren't other countries Passport Bro-ing over to the west?Do you think the passport bros is tipping the scales in any meaningful way? Not really, they are mostly guys who weren't having success either way. I don't see the problem. As long as there is no abuse taking place I think it's good that those guys can get some intimacy, at least they are less of a danger to society. I genuinely think it's great for everyone involved. Maybe at some point there will start to be an imbalance, but as long as women are happy to share winners it's fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 04:50 PM |
| 3 | The Biggest Mistake When Looking At Sexual Marketplace Data On Men Is Looking At The Average/MedianThe fuckzone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 09:57 AM |
| – | Moderately successful men in their 30s with very limited dating experience, have to be a very harsh decision to takeYou can’t be serious right? Peak is anecdotal, you are probably speaking about your own situation. If you peaked at 22 I genuinely feel sorry for you brother. I’m 27 and I feel like everything is coming together. It’s not just a money thing. It’s maturity, money, confidence, competence, physique etc. at 22 your brain isn’t even fully developed. You still have plenty of energy at 27-32 provided you stayed healthy and trained. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 04:24 AM |
| 1 | Moderately successful men in their 30s with very limited dating experience, have to be a very harsh decision to takeHow can a 22 year old be in the prime of his life? A 22 year old is broke and has achieved fuck all in his life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 12:13 PM |
| 3 | Why aren't other countries Passport Bro-ing over to the west?Because most western women don’t want poor, short, third world, ethnic men. And the foreign men don’t want fat, old, feminist, masculine women who outearn them. The best options for western women are western men, and to normalize harems if there’s a shortage of them due to passport-bros. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Women saying it's hard for them to find a man to 'commit' is pure hypocrisyThe issue isn’t committing. It’s finding someone worth committing to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 05:08 AM |
| 18 | Why would any high value male date an FDS woman?No sane man would date an FDS chick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/23 10:15 PM |
| 2 | Do you think women value humor in a mate more than men do? Why or why not?Exactly, I’m not some clown who is here to entertain you. It’s a strange concept. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/23 08:31 AM |
| 11 | What % of women actually go through a “hoe phase”The majority of women in the west are utterly ran through by the time they hit their mid 20’s. Especially if they have been single for the majority of the time. Low n women are RARE nowadays. If you didn’t have a highschool sweetheart and stay with her you are screwed. Your options are stay single and focus on your career, and just hook up every once in a while to scratch the itch. Go overseas. Or be stuck with a western women who will bring nothing to the table except other mens kids and trauma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 08:38 AM |
| 3 | Arguments against Paternity Test at Birth are WILDYou would abandon your child because your man wanted to know the baby is his? Sounds like a very level headed response. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 12:04 PM |
| 1 | The amount of economically, emotionally, & physically viable men in society is declining. How do we change this?Do you speak on behalf of all women? I know this is anecdotal, but my workplace is filled with chronically single mid 30’s women who complain about how they cant find a suitable partner, and they are tired of being pumped and dumped. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 09:14 AM |
| 3 | Would you date an Onlyfans model or a woman in the Sex work industry?Absolutely not. That’s revolting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 11:17 AM |
| 5 | Do you think in general having high social status allows men to get the highest quantity/quality of woman?LMFAO you can’t make this shit up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 07:58 AM |
| 2 | Are most men here looking for short term relationships?Not me. I just hookup every once in a while to scratch the itch. Happy being single, focusing on career and my investments. I see most women as someone I would have to buy gifts, take on vacations, and handle emotionally. Most of my friends in relationships are living paycheck to paycheck because of this and have 0 savings/investments. That doesn’t really seem all that interesting to me. I can wash my own clothes, clean my own apartment, and cook by myself. I think 95% of women today would be a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 03:39 PM |
| 6 | What do you dislike about female behavior with regards to sex and dating? What changes from women would you like to see?I also strongly dislike the financial leeching. It’s 2023 ffs, you can get a job and pay for your own stuff like an adult. It’s a big part of why I’m not pursuing a relationship. I have financial goals and don’t plan on working until I’m 70. So I work a lot and invest most of my income, while living a minimalistic while still fulfilling lifestyle. The last thing I need is someone to come into my life and drain my rescourses. Most of my friends who are in relationships have 0 savings and are livi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/23 09:05 AM |
| 10 | Q4M, have you ever rejected a girl because she was too nice?A woman being nice is very attractive. Rejection due to niceness is a female thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 10:31 AM |
| 3 | If men were less horny, what would happen?We would have a lot of homeless women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 05:30 AM |
| 10 | Can most men really afford to cut off women who don't reciprocate their effort?I only deal with high interest women. I’m not begging for shit. If there is no interest, stay single while increasing your value. When your value is high enough opportunities will start to appear. You get to not waste time and money running after girls who are looking for orbiters, and can stay on your own purpose. This has worked for me, but I enjoy my own company a lot and don’t mind staying single for as long as it takes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 08:11 AM |
| 4 | Are men genuinely worse potential partners these days? If every man was successful, would these problems still persist due to hypergamy?Our biology hasn’t caught up to how fast society is changing. Women still want a protector and provider, even though they are safe and can earn their own money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 09:22 AM |
| 6 | Apparently Women are joining the Passport Bros CrewI think It’s a combination of both. I live in Norway and a friend I used to work with got his ticket to the western world by hooking up with my boss while she was on vacation in africa. She is a high earning career woman and hes the typical jacked Tyrone. He knocked her up and was with her for a while, now he is single while working and coparenting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Apparently Women are joining the Passport Bros CrewGood for them. Nothing wrong with trying something new if you aren’t finding happiness where you are. More power to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 05:45 AM |
| 2 | Would you ever give a reformed OF model with a promiscuous past having a high body count a chance if she changed her ways ?OF is a hard pass. Absolutely revolting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 05:31 AM |
| 1 | Do you still consider Charleston white Red Pill and a positive influence on young men after him blatantly bragging about rape.Who? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Chasing women is a waste of time.Agreed. By chasing you are essentially putting yourself beneath her, which fucks up the dynamic. It’s better to increase your value and only dealing with high interest women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 11:40 AM |
| 5 | Men need women more than women need men.It’s not a competition, touch grass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 06:45 AM |
| 1 | My daughter’s dating/marriage prospects ?I’m sure plenty of men would if she is a true 10/10. For me though a past of hard drug usage and criminal history are massive red flags and I wouldn’t start a family with a woman like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 11:37 AM |
| 1 | The idea that men's dating issues is merely the result of them having to treat women as an equal now is to reductive and dismissive of their actual dating issues.Are you trolling? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 09:13 AM |
| 1 | Reasons why older men date or hook up with younger womenYeah because the people here are full of shit. I see plenty of 30+ men dating women 20-28. These people purport a false version of reality so it can fit their bullshit narrative. It’s mostly from older women as well who are angry that they aged out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 09:11 AM |
| 6 | The idea that men's dating issues is merely the result of them having to treat women as an equal now is to reductive and dismissive of their actual dating issues.Some rights? You have more rights lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 09:01 AM |
| 1 | The idea that men's dating issues is merely the result of them having to treat women as an equal now is to reductive and dismissive of their actual dating issues.You realize that women have rights because men allow women to have rights? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 05:58 AM |
| 2 | Fresh and Fit are rape advocates that in turn damage young men creating more rapist or men insensitive to rape.Myron - rapists should go to jail Sjw’s - hes a rape advocate!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 12:55 PM |
| -1 | Guys. Would you date someone who is boring, timid, and not funny? Ladies, how about you?Most women are all of the above. If she was very attractive she could join the roster. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 11:44 AM |
| 2 | Who should men be listening to? For advice, direction, understanding.Whoever they want? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Men, does a woman's educational background or career success boost her attractiveness?I don’t care about her education, but I also would never let a woman treat me like a sugar daddy. I expect her to have her shit together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 11:09 AM |
| 1 | Do you think there's anything wrong with men to filtering out promiscuous women for serious relationships? If so, why?What a stupid comment lmfao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 10:28 AM |
| 3 | Do you think there's anything wrong with men to filtering out promiscuous women for serious relationships? If so, why?Maybe she wants someone more experienced than her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 10:06 AM |
| 2 | The reason the manosphere is mad about AF/BB is because, while, even though the majority of women may not fit the archetype, it is a really smart stratergyRejection is normal. Even chads face rejection. Top PUA’s only smash 10% of their approaches. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 09:04 AM |
| 1 | How is it physically possible that there are twice as many single men as women?Chad harems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Do men even enjoy dating women?I enjoy having sex with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 08:30 AM |
| 26 | this is still the most alpha fux, beta bux proff i have ever seen on redditSickening | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 07:03 AM |
| 0 | Age gaps don't matter. Attraction does.Ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 07:52 PM |
| -2 | Age gaps don't matter. Attraction does.Okay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 01:29 PM |
| -4 | Age gaps don't matter. Attraction does.Tighter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 12:51 PM |
| 0 | I don’t think the amount of money a man makes actually mattersThe more money you have the less hot you need to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 08:27 AM |
| 1 | Young men reveal why so many of them are single: ‘Dates feel more like job interviews’I don’t understand how so many men even bother to go on dates and stuff. Way too much work for too little gain. I just ask them to come over, if they say no peace ✌️! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 12:09 PM |
| 2 | The two steps to flipping the power dynamic in datingAll men want to beat and rape women? You seriously need to touch grass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 01:33 PM |
| 4 | What did you open up about that caused the end of the relationship?Sickening. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 06:53 AM |
| 99 | Women and girls are reading the manosphere forums and subs, that makes them less likely to date.I think that women reading manosphere content and deciding not to date are statistically insignificant. Most women still date and end up in relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/23 10:05 AM |
| 1 | If a straight man is (at least partially) unattracted to femininity, what does that mean?It means you are probably a feminine man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 12:13 PM |
| 3 | What do you think about the lonely but successfull men who get a fwb with money instead of getting married?Why do it for free if you can get paid for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 03:53 PM |
| 0 | Women who insist that getting a paternity test is an accusation of paternity fraud are gaslightersSo your feelings are more important than your mans peace of mind knowing he is raising his own offspring. Very interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 10:07 AM |
| 0 | Why haven't women built their own independent, semi autonomous female utopia?Everything will be run by females? Can you imagine what a shitshow that would be? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/23 08:50 AM |
| 3 | “Go to Asia” is imprecise advice at bestThe caveat is that it only works for white men. I know socially akward unattractive overweight white men who couldn’t get laid to save their lives in the west, that moved to Thailand/Phillipines and now have harems of 18 year olds. All they had to do was make a tinder account. They all said they won’t come back to the west. White skin is a cheat code in asia, anyone struggling in the west who is able to work remotely will be able to run through women in asia. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 10:04 AM |
| 4 | PPD blind spot on "asia"I’m just calling a spade a spade. Stop crying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 01:17 PM |
| 5 | PPD blind spot on "asia"Yeah white dudes who struggle in the west can easily get harems in Thailand/Phillipines. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 10:54 AM |
| 64 | Would most RP men prefer an average looking virgin woman or a knockout woman with a past?Average virgin and it’s not even close. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 06:38 AM |
| 1 | What do men actually find attractive in a woman's personality?This post isn’t even about men. However even if you are fit as a man you still need to bring a lot more to the table to be considered top tier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 05:59 AM |
| 3 | What do men actually find attractive in a woman's personality?The sad reality is that in the west today all you need to be a top tier woman is to not be a landwhale or ran through. Yet most women still somehow manage to fuck that up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 01:52 PM |
| 2 | Not only does the D.E.N.N.I.S. system work, it should be the ultimate blueprint for any man seeking to date women casually.Okay then. You go and teach every man to not lie and manipulate women, so every woman can get the family of their dreams. Let me know how that goes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Not only does the D.E.N.N.I.S. system work, it should be the ultimate blueprint for any man seeking to date women casually.Some do, some don't. The reality is we all need to look out for our own interests. If you feel like a guy is wasting your time, stop seeing him. If you lose your entire reproductive window to a guy who isn't taking you serious, you need to take some accountability for that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 02:43 PM |
| 2 | Not only does the D.E.N.N.I.S. system work, it should be the ultimate blueprint for any man seeking to date women casually.Yeah unfortunately many men would lie to a woman and waste her time if it means they get to cum inside a vagina instead of their hand. That’s just the way it is. I’m not saying this is right, and I personally think you should be honest, but that’s life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 01:34 PM |
| 3 | Not only does the D.E.N.N.I.S. system work, it should be the ultimate blueprint for any man seeking to date women casually.Most men approach sex and dating with a scarcity mindset. You need true abundance and the ability to replace women fast if you want to be honest about stuff like this, which only HVM have. Otherwise you will just be lonely as fuck jerking off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 12:27 PM |
| 2 | Not only does the D.E.N.N.I.S. system work, it should be the ultimate blueprint for any man seeking to date women casually.He doesn’t want to commit to her, but still wants to continue to extract as much sex from her as possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 06:56 AM |
| 1 | Saw this earlier with the roles reversed, so let me ask: Men, does it matter if a woman is a loner? Why or why not?Attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 06:24 AM |
| 3 | Competition anxiety- the only working solution to a dead bedroom?Dude If your girl barely fucks you, just leave. Leave with some honour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Do men view 30 year old women as too old for relationships if their ultimate goal is marriage and children?No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/22 06:30 AM |
| 3 | Do men view 30 year old women as too old for relationships if their ultimate goal is marriage and children?That's completely fair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 07:34 PM |
| 4 | Do men view 30 year old women as too old for relationships if their ultimate goal is marriage and children?It’s not toxic to not want a used woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Do men view 30 year old women as too old for relationships if their ultimate goal is marriage and children?I'm 27 so I wouldn't date any older than 23. However for sex only I don't really care as long as she's attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Question 4 The Red Pill: What do you consider hoe/thot/slut/whore/pump and dump behavior?Heavy into IG and social media in general. Heavy makeup use, drug use, going out a lot, wearing expensive designer brands, tattoos, children from previous relationships, loud, masculine, n-count over 5. These are some of the traits that will make me put a woman in the ‘’recreational use only’’ bucket. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 09:53 AM |
| 1 | Q4M question for males: you meet your dream girl, but then she ages and is no longer the girl you met?wtf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 09:40 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Society is harsher on promiscuous men than promiscuous womenBased. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 06:59 AM |
| 12 | Men should appreciate better what porn has done for themThis is why we need to make more video games, legalize drugs and develop more advanced sex robots. Any society with loads of sexless and intimacy starved military aged males will be too unsafe and unstable for everyone involved, we need to make them forget about women and dating to the best of our ability, keep them distracted or let them off themselves/die in wars. That way we get the undesirable males out of the picture completely, and the top 10% of attractive men can build massive harems and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 04:22 PM |
| 38 | CMV: Men want women more then women want men, and that’s why we don’t care about your standards.This ‘’gender war’’ shit is honestly so pathetic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 08:49 AM |
| 4 | Men being f*ckboys is propagated by women, and ultimately beneficial for menBecause if he told them he wouldn't be able to continue to extract sex from them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/22 09:42 AM |
| 3 | Why online dating is difficult for womenGod forbid you have to actually pay for the food you consume. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/22 06:35 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI’m at work right now, more details later. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSo I went to a work christmas party and ended up having sex with a coworker. Work has been super akward this week and I haven’t really spoken to her. Any advice? Should I talk to her? Or just keep pretending like nothing happened? I suspect she might have told some people because I’ve been getting funny looks from others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 11:57 AM |
| 0 | You get successful by your 40s: would you leave your wife for your dream girl?I wouldn’t leave my wife, but I’d have sex with the younger woman on the side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 08:44 AM |
| 4 | How do I know whether a potential partner consumes red pill content?If he starts lifting weights, focuses more on his career and becomes more assertive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 10:51 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYeah most women are boring AF. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 01:44 PM |
| 12 | Men settle for me due to my tall height :(As long as you're attractive it's fine. I wouldn't turn down a 5'11 attractive woman, I'm 6'4 though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/22 09:25 AM |
| -3 | Because of the extreme lack of women which is greatly negative effecting men and society as whole. In the future do you think people will take extreme measures?: Such as genetic engineering to make sure more women are born?Men without access to intimacy become dangerous, and we can't force women to fuck them, so we need to find a way to keep them distracted. We need to make more video games, legalize drugs and develop more advanced sex robots. Any society with loads of sexless and intimacy starved military aged males will be too unsafe and unstable for everyone involved, we need to make them forget about women and dating to the best of our ability, keep them distracted or let them off themselves/die in wars. That … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 09:47 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadUnfathomably based. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/22 06:55 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you rather add two inches in height, gain two inches in length, or add two figures to your income?3 and it’s not even close. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/22 07:11 AM |
| 9 | Do you enjoy being friends with someone of the opposite sex?Not unless it involves sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 08:14 AM |
| 9 | Passport Bros. Discuss.If being alone was a big deal sure. Personally I'd rather be alone than fuck a fat chick or try to fix one. You shouldn't need encouragement to lose weight, you should have some respect for yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 06:13 PM |
| 21 | Passport Bros. Discuss.The issue is most of those are single mothers or overweight. Or both. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 06:02 PM |
| 2 | q4a for all high n-count people. was it fun? was it worth it?Yeah it was fun. Still is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 05:24 PM |
| 1 | A woman’s past is important for men in the same way that a man’s height is important to womenI should have clarified. I agree with not wanting a promiscuous woman for a relationship. I don’t agree that it’s similar to height. I’d say the male equivalent of a promiscuous woman is a virgin guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/22 12:51 PM |
| 62 | A woman’s past is important for men in the same way that a man’s height is important to womenWhy do you even feel the need to justify it? Just don’t date high n count women. For the record I agree with the sentiment, however I don’t see why it’s necessary to get others to agree that you’re being reasonable. These discussions are getting so boring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/22 08:40 AM |
| 29 | Men without money hit the wall way harder than the average womanYou have to be desirable in the first place to hit a wall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Do any men here have height requirements for their female partners?Only if I’m having children with her. I don’t want short children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 11:43 AM |
| 2 | All issues with dating in the west stem from women and their standards.I rarely approach nowadays. I only deal with high interest women. Most of the women I sleep with are in my social group, so they are friends of other women I’ve had sex with. In a way it’s like having bitches is passive income to getting other bitches. Pre selection is important. Get the ball rolling. Cast a wide net, talk to as many as possible and build off of those results. If you have sex with a girl, try to have sex with her friends too. It has a snowball effect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 10:55 AM |
| 1 | All issues with dating in the west stem from women and their standards.Yeah I’m pretty outgoing and comfortable in clubs which is where I’ve had lots of success. Also on tinder, but most of my friends get no matches so it depends a lot on your pictures and attractiveness level. 15-20 is not enough btw. The most attractive guys in the world close only about 10% of their approaches. You simply need to talk to more women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 10:22 AM |
| 1 | All issues with dating in the west stem from women and their standards.How are your social skills? Are you in shape? You need to max out everything. Use dating apps, cold approach. Go to events. Up the volume. Play the numbers game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 10:00 AM |
| 6 | All issues with dating in the west stem from women and their standards.Just don’t date then. Make your money, lift, travel the world, pursue sex only. Pump and dump. Extract as much sex as you can from women, then move on to the next one. Western women aren’t even worth dating, stop wasting your time. Focus on accumulating as much wealth as possible, then go overseas and find a young submissive woman to settle down with if you’d like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 09:40 AM |
| 0 | I always thought dating apps were easy for very attractive women. I was wrong.As a male who gets a lot of matches I really only use tinder to fuck around. I’m not actually putting in a effort to seriously date anyone. I’d rather meet women IRL. Most women on apps are low quality anyway, It’s simply not worth the time to try to get something meaningful out of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 12:59 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat are you gonna do with money when your old and frail? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 10:19 AM |
| 0 | What do you think about women who have "no ONS" written in their tinder bio?Challenge accepted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 09:09 AM |
| 11 | Hypocritical men created dating problems and then blamed womenAren’t most people in relationships? I think these dating ‘’problems’’ are just the vocal minority. I also don’t think most women find getting pumped and dumped by attractive guys fulfilling, but if that’s your thing go for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/22 10:21 AM |
| 0 | Do most men consider 30 year old women to be too old?Not too old to have sex with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/22 08:43 PM |
| 0 | Why r women soooo picky and more importantly what can guys do about it.Yes, but that's the way it is. You can't change female nature. You just have to do what's gonna give you the best results. Talking to one woman at a time is stupid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 04:36 PM |
| 3 | Why r women soooo picky and more importantly what can guys do about it.It's important to be talking to as many women as possible. At least 15-20 at the same time. That way you invest less into each and if there is some fuckery going on with one woman you next her and talk to another one. You need to up the volume when dealing with women and to have an abundance mindset. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 04:32 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about Living Alone Together (LAT)?Yes I like it. Not a fan of living with a woman personally. She can come over every once in a while for sex, but then shes gotta go back to her place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 06:50 AM |
| 0 | What are your top 3 dating requirements and do you believe you meet them yourself?Not overweight No kids Low body count | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 07:03 PM |
| 1 | What Do You Expect From Your Bf/GfYes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 12:17 PM |
| 2 | your thoughts on the mgtow movement?I hope more men join it. More women for me! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 12:16 PM |
| 1 | How does dating survive if more women are so picky?Not really you are presenting opinions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 07:08 PM |
| 1 | How does dating survive if more women are so picky?I disagree. Most care about history for a relationship/marriage, but don't really care for casual sex. She is still physically attractive, but her practices are a turn off relationship wise. So she still qualifies for getting dick only. You can disagree on what the better product is, but theres plenty of men who are extremely successful who just pay for pussy because they are sick of everything that comes with dealing with women and they don't think it's worth it. You can sit there and try to te… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 06:56 PM |
| 1 | How does dating survive if more women are so picky?What reason do I have to cover anything up? I'm completely anonymous. The only reason for that is so I can speak my mind completely unfiltered and share my worldview. Not everything is some big conspiracy for some reddit gender war. For a relationship I would not consider them, but I'm not pursuing a relationship, I only care about women for sex and for that I don't care about their history. Unless they have std's of course! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 06:33 PM |
| 1 | How does dating survive if more women are so picky?Eh. Pussy is pussy, it's all the same really. To me if I don't have to take her out, and pretend to be interested in her stories, and pretend to care about her thoughts and opinions, and I get to just have her come over, pay her, fuck her, and then kick her out, that's the better product. Everyone is different tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 06:19 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men are no longer the "prize" by default due to the rapidly changing landscape of womens' rights and equal pay, and they're now having to be equal partners and hate they it.Being a single mother by choice is extremely selfish. Single mothers raise the children with the highest likelihood of becoming criminals. Out of the 27 deadliest mass shooters, 26 of them were fatherless. If you don't plan to raise a child in a stable two parent household you should just get a cat, drink your wine and buy a vibrator. The world doesn't need more degenerates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 05:54 PM |
| 2 | How does dating survive if more women are so picky?How did you come to that conclusion? It’s not about not having anything else to offer. It’s about not always wanting to invest time and energy to get sex. It’s about efficient usage of time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/22 11:21 PM |
| 0 | How does dating survive if more women are so picky?That’s most girls anyways. It’s recreational use only. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/22 11:03 PM |
| -2 | How does dating survive if more women are so picky?As long as I get to fuck them what does it matter? I only care about having sex with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/22 10:18 PM |
| -2 | How does dating survive if more women are so picky?You're gonna pay for it anyways. Whether it's up front for instant sex, taking her on a date, flying her out or getting in a relationship with her where you will just spend way more. Women in general won't sleep with you unless you invest into her in some way. It's either your money or time (money) and it's usually both. That's why it's usually better to just pay right away and fuck her and save some time. The time you save can be dedicated to earning more money to extract more sex from other wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/22 09:56 PM |
| -4 | How does dating survive if more women are so picky?You don't need all of that as a man. You just need money. Pull up in a lambo and see if you need all that shit you listed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/22 09:07 PM |
| -1 | What Do You Expect From Your Bf/GfWhy not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/22 04:12 PM |
| -1 | What Do You Expect From Your Bf/GfOh it's attainable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/22 03:00 PM |
| 0 | What Do You Expect From Your Bf/GfI expect her to take care of herself physically and to maintain a slim figure because health is important and I think fat women look disgusting. If there is no attraction there is no relationship. I am fit and expect her to be too. I expect her to let me fuck her whenever I want, and also let's me fuck other women. Cooks and cleans without being asked. She needs to be good at sucking dick too. Another important thing is she needs to be low maintenance and not have too many thoughts and opinions.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/22 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Do you feel that being sexually successful with women will make you happy?Ideally I would have a ltr with a woman who let me fuck other women. If not I’d rather stay single and fuck as many different women as possible. Sexual variety>love | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 09:08 PM |
| 3 | What is something you wish your own sex would stop doing? Mega-ThreadSimping. Paying for stuff like onlyfans. Giving money and attention to women online and not getting any sex back. You're gonna give away your hard earned money to look at pictures of some chicks feet, and then she goes home and fucks another guy. Stupid fucks. At least the men who fuck prostitutes actually get to FUCK. You're giving your money to look at pictures? Pathetic. To be honest any man willing to give up money like this deserves to get it taken from them, I salute these women. Take all … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/22 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Are women happy with the current state of dating?Well she needs to be honest with herself and understand where she stands in society. Everyone knows to a certain degree how valuable they are to the opposite sex from just going through life. That means average girl should probably not shoot for pro athletes or famous rappers if she is looking for something serious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 07:03 PM |
| 4 | Are women happy with the current state of dating?This is 2022. You can go and get a job and you don't really need me. Young women are out-earning young men in many U.S. cities. I can't buy you if you don't want to be sold. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/22 09:01 PM |
| 4 | Are women happy with the current state of dating?But you also seem to be saying that men who dont want marriage or kids, simply don't exist? Every single man wants that, apparently. Without exception. Do you really expect me to take every single person on this planet into consideration when I'm speaking? I'm obviously generalising. I would say they exist, but they are exceptions to the rule. If you are running into loads of these men they are simply lying to you. There's so many reasons why someone might not have a family. They might have want… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/22 08:53 PM |
| 7 | Are women happy with the current state of dating?But on the other hand, juging by the number of never married / no kids men who are in their 40s, 50s, 60s and 70s who talk to me wanting caaual sex only, I'm fairly sure that there is a sizable proportion of the male population out there who just don't want marriage and / or kids. I can only speak from my own male experience and what I know to be true from all my interactions with other men about women. We only ''fwb'' or ''seek casual sex'' with women we look at as below our level. It's easier … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/22 08:31 PM |
| 8 | Are women happy with the current state of dating?If men valued love and emotional connection the same as women did then love would be much less transactional. Women only value love and emotional connection if the man is successful or on the path of success in the first place. It has always been transactional. It's equally transactional from the men's side. Just in the form of seeking beauty as opposed to rescources. It doesn't mean that the love isn't real, It's just that we wish we were loved more for other reasons, which we still are to a ce… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/22 08:14 PM |
| 5 | Are women happy with the current state of dating?It's shallow and sad. I'd say the same about being valued for money. As a man you are literally just a success object. If you are broke you feel it in how you are treated by people. Women don't respect you, other men don't respect you. As soon as you start becoming successful everything changes. People start talking to you different. People want to be associated with you. Girls want to fuck you all of a sudden. It's easy to become bitter and resentful when you see how differently you are being t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/22 07:44 PM |
| 14 | Are women happy with the current state of dating?So women are doing really well financially nowadays and as they start to out-earn a lot of men their standards go up. A lot of women basically price themselves out of the relationship market because most men simply can't meet their requirements. Many would rather stay single than lower their standards, which is completely fair obviously. So women end up in a situation where they are all competing for a very small percentage of exceptional men, and these men are not stupid, they KNOW how valuable… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/22 07:23 PM |
| 16 | Are women happy with the current state of dating?Most men only want sex. They have no interest in long term relationships, marriage or children. I hate to tell you, they want those things. They just don't want them with YOU. If men only want sex from you and nothing else, it's because you aren't worth anything else to them other than the sex you provide. You are probably shooting for guys that are above your league who will just pump and dump. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/22 06:27 PM |
| 7 | Are women happy with the current state of dating?This is sad. Women by and large don't want to be valued as pretty objects and givers of sex in relationships. So why do women focus so much on their looks? Why is the beauty industry so massive? Why is onlyfans and instagram so popular? It's because women know that they are judged solely by how they look. Nobody cares about an ugly woman the same way nobody cares about a broke man. Nobody cares what they have to say, you might be worth something to your family and close friends, but to society a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/22 06:11 PM |
| 4 | What advice do you give to below 6' guys to vote in the Modern dating world?Make more money. Get ripped. Work on your personality. Make more friends. Be a fun person to be around. There's so many things you can do. Stop making excuses. Leave the house and go do SOMETHING every day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 08:38 PM |
| 2 | HIGH BODY COUNT DOESN'T MATTERYeah and women can work to provide for themselves in 2022 yet they still want a man with money. The world is also a lot safer for women nowadays, but they still want a man who can protect them. Why? Because we are are hardwired to seek these traits and no matter how advanced our society gets it doesn't necessarily change what we intrinsically find attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 04:18 PM |
| 1 | HIGH BODY COUNT DOESN'T MATTERMost would not turn down sex with a desirable woman just because she's promiscuous. They would even date her if she chose them and stayed faithful. Let's not play dumb games. Yeah, but only the desperate ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 04:08 PM |
| 3 | Would most college-aged women be willing to date a 30+ year old man, or are they an anomaly?Yeah in my experience it's always the older and unattractive women who get passed up for the younger girl who have an issue with my dating preferences. They can't call me a pedophile because they are still adults, so they call it ''weird/predatory''. I don't care about the futile shaming tactics because I see them coming from a mile away. It's not suprising though. Whenever you tell a large amount of people that they don't qualify to date you, someone will be upset. If a woman says she only date… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 06:32 AM |
| 3 | Would most college-aged women be willing to date a 30+ year old man, or are they an anomaly?what does riding the cc have to do with you having sex with them? I prefer females who have had less penises inside of them. It's the norm depending on what part of the world you are in. The ''norm'' in america is being in a sexless marriage with a fat chick that ends in divorce, that's not really what I'm aiming for. If you look at other parts of the world, women above 30 are considered leftovers. I'm sorry, but I don't want what's been passed around and discarded. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/22 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Would most college-aged women be willing to date a 30+ year old man, or are they an anomaly?Well I'm not going to be with a woman I don't find attractive. There's plenty of studies that show that men, regardless of their age find women between 18-24 the most attractive and that's my experience as well. When I say fresh I mean that statistically speaking a younger female hasn't had as much time to ride the cc. It's more likely that she will have a lower count than some older woman. I know theres always exceptions with high count young women and celibate old women, but exceptions don't m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/22 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Would most college-aged women be willing to date a 30+ year old man, or are they an anomaly?Facts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/22 10:08 PM |
| 8 | Would most college-aged women be willing to date a 30+ year old man, or are they an anomaly?=) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/22 09:55 PM |
| 11 | Would most college-aged women be willing to date a 30+ year old man, or are they an anomaly?Sure, I'm 31 and sleep with mostly 18-21 year old females. I think it's quite normal. Don't really mess with anyone above 25. It's just a matter of personal preference. I like it fresh. As long as it's between 2 consenting adults I don't see anything wrong with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/22 09:03 PM |
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