Guapscotch Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Now that abortion rights are overturned, will you be more wary of casual sex? Interesting that I’ve never heard of this… will take a look	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 06:37 AM
10	Gee, I wonder why this fat, “demisexual” bod bréige is still single at 34 despite wanting a deep connection in relationships! Who would’ve thought my g would be that deep of a trigger lol	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	12/03/22 08:37 PM
12	I don't want much, just everything Leave it to the ladies to put their ass on every sink counter possible lol	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	07/03/22 07:59 PM
5	Queef queen quamishly questions quartet's quality. Quick-witted Quixote questions quiff's querulous quibbles; queries quitting quite quaveringly. I usually don’t comment that often on this sub, mostly just browse and check it out here and there. Whereas most posts are rather humorous to see, this post in particular makes me seethe. She would seriously rather have some stupid manufactured necklace whose price is over inflated, a stupid little piece of jewelry promoting the worst aspects of commercialism and consumerism that I hate (just the concepts of materialistic gifts on holidays)… then something that actually has real meaning and dept…	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	27/02/22 05:24 AM
7	LTRs are hard-mode, Monkey-Branching is real Don’t see a time frame where you specified that y’all became a committed relationship. That immediately should have went off the table at the discovery of ex-of. You at least still got your fun though, do you suppose that was all worth it? Did you really see any real possible future or were you just running blind?	/r/TheRedPill	11/02/22 05:58 PM
32	Her body count is a strong predictor of infidelity Any relationship with any person will require some degree of trust. I guess the main takeaway here is how much do you trust the other person?	/r/TheRedPill	09/02/22 11:59 PM
169	Final phase of redpill in my opinion: You get to chill and don't give a fuck for good Unplug and disconnect. Most of what we know and what we think we understand is just social conditioning that never stopped since we were born. The social contract. Your regularly scheduled programming. What to wear, what to think, how to feel. Do this. Do that. Eat this. Preach this. Love this, hate this, support this. Get a career, get a wife, have kids, work for 40 years then die. Tell the kids the same, sell yourselves a dream and choose slavery. Living in an idea from another man’s mind, in …	/r/TheRedPill	06/02/22 06:09 PM
54	Some Great Eye Opening Quotes From, "The Manipulated Man." A Book Which Was Written By A Woman. I actually read this entire book last year. And it is pretty hardcore, even for people who are already familiar with the redpill. Basically saying almost every aspect of a romantic relationship is in essence a man surrendering himself. Marriage, the kids, your work, your society, all the aspects of modern society were made for women, and men overall are satisfied with that sacrifice. There’s a bunch of things missing here and lots of connections I obviously cannot cover in a Reddit comment, but …	/r/TheRedPill	04/02/22 01:56 AM
9	File this under AWALT: They're not my kids, and not my problem. [Weekend Post] This is actually a nightmare scenario for me. I can’t even begin to contemplate the immense pain and shame I would feel to know my own children are not mine and plus my own wife that could be so treacherous. And of course the divorce proceedings. Multiple years, time and money down the drain. For what? And to be villiainized by some even though you did nothing wrong.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	31/01/22 12:52 PM
1	All she wants is a guy who is better than her in every single way to be committed to her. Even though she has nothing to offer him. Waatgm? I really dislike when these bios just become checklists for what they want, just really delves into the borders of vain and vapid. I mean I know it’s OLD, but still.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	25/01/22 08:41 AM
6	Don't msg her unless you got money. She's expensive! And she is "hungry for the best of the best". Who is going to read this bio and actually think yeah, she’s the one.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	25/01/22 08:36 AM
3	Lavish lady's liking lounge lizards lets lowkey lover lacerated. "Learnt low libido leads lame life" - lad's logical landing lacks lapses. Lofty long-lasting liaison's liquefaction launches literal liberty, leaving lassie lunatic. Glad cryptobro made it out	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	21/01/22 03:44 AM
14	Daily Community Chat Megathread I think this sub has ended up hurting my perception of interpersonal relationship dynamics more than it has helped. I’ve read alot of interesting information and personal anecdotes throughout the few months I’ve been here. Truthfully I first came here months ago because of a painful breakup, trying to understand the nature of relationships better. I feel like I am even more confused now than ever after consuming so much information. At least the break up I’m mostly over, so that’s nice. I feel t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/21 03:12 AM
3	Broken gardening tool lamenting about her predicament Some people don’t need to be searching for love, they need to be searching for forgiveness.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	17/08/21 04:03 PM
2	How to Handle “What are We?” / “Where are We Going?” How the world treats you is irrelevant. It’s how you treat the world and how you decide to navigate it that matters.	/r/TheRedPill	17/08/21 02:30 PM
1	How to Handle “What are We?” / “Where are We Going?” If honesty is an important part of your value set, and you want to maintain frame, you should be an honest man then. It’s that simple. Being dishonest yourself invites dishonesty back into your life, something to think about.	/r/TheRedPill	17/08/21 02:03 AM
2	Men are not responsible for women's orgasm (Read text) I’m a pleaser, it’s important that she gets there before I do. I always go down if the opportunity allows, but if nothing happens that is fine too. The chemistry between both people is very important too, I think you should both want to make each other feel good and comfortable. That’s just my take.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/21 07:37 PM
0	Is attraction loss in a relationship alwsys inevitable? This is not correct. The only real strategy redpill has is to maintain your frame, that’s all dependent on who you are and your values as a person. There is no other recommendation from the red pill and to assert that you must maintain something long term if it goes against your frame and ideals is a violation of it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/21 05:02 PM
8	Is attraction loss in a relationship alwsys inevitable? Red pill by default does not do long term commitments because it is considered hard mode. The idea is to spin as many plates as possible indefinitely. Whether or not this is sustainable is another topic entirely. When you are in a long term committed relationship, you are both surrendering yourselves to each other. Over time attraction is going to fade. The honey moon phase ends. The chase is over. You both fully understand and know each other and there is no element of prolonged chaos, at least…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/21 07:09 PM
15	Man overhears his girlfriend admit to a promiscuous past with hot guys, and realizes he's the safe guy. poor guy, what can you do	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	07/08/21 05:00 PM
3	🔥 🤯 Esoteric Testosterone and General Endocrine Hacks from the Greek Pantheon 🤯🔥 tl;dr: your body is poisoned and you are fucked basically. On a higher societal note, won’t be long before we just make the entire species sterile because of all of this bullshit	/r/TheRedPill	03/08/21 11:07 PM
1	Beware of Women in the Beauty Industry Spent a good amount of time working in a salon. The hours are pretty brutal honestly. Long hours, working through weekends, always having to focus on building clientele and keeping them, for a lot of people the time alone is draining physically, mentally, and spiritually, being couped up inside a salon all day surrounded by constant clutter and noise. At a minimum pulling 50 hour work weeks just for cosmetic services that need lots of upkeep and maintenance. So much work and meticulous details f…	/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre	02/08/21 06:56 PM
3	Female Delusion Calculator Apparently by default just being young, unmarried, and not obese already makes put you in a top percentile. That’s interesting.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	02/08/21 04:21 PM
1	FDS v. TRP They are both about focusing on yourself and self improvement from what I understand after reading their posts and sidebar content. I can respect that. There are sprinkles of misogyny and misandry here and there, but it’s not meant to be taken to heart.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/21 09:24 PM
4	Beware the Female Psychopath You cannot save people who do not want to be saved. All you can do is wish the best for them from a distance. It’s a hard lesson, especially when it comes to family and people you care for. Often times the problem with trying to help people is that they will just drag you down as well.	/r/TheRedPill	31/07/21 11:34 PM
1	It would be a lot more productive if instead of just saying all men suck, women were more actively validating men who do try to improve At the end of the day, people know what it takes to improve themselves. They know the problems and the issues in their lives that they have to address to improve the quality of their life. People should hold themselves accountable for their faults and reward themselves when they fix the issues or progress as people, however they see fit. This extends to all people of the human species. Validate yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/21 03:58 PM
2	South Park perspective: the inflation of women's looks I think it’s better for everyone to remove themselves from social media for a bit. I don’t use it too much myself or rarely ever post and my ex barely ever used it. One of the qualities I liked about our relationship. Sometimes people fall far down the rabbit hole, the world of social media is honestly a useless place.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/21 09:30 PM
1	One of the reasons the manosphere shouldn't lambast childfree women is that it openly discusses how "kids will wreck their bodies." My biggest concern is that I’m simply not capable of ever being a good father / provider to anyone. I’m in no position mentally or financially to be responsible for a young human, and I don’t believe I ever will be. Not in the way that I would like to. I currently don’t believe the world is beautiful or worth experiencing anymore, so following that logic, I’ve decided to reject our biological imperative. No child is deserving to have a father with such an extremist view anyway, it would be cruel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/21 12:37 AM
1	One of the reasons the manosphere shouldn't lambast childfree women is that it openly discusses how "kids will wreck their bodies." Ideal situation is to never be responsible for any children ever. If my brothers were to ever have children and they perished along with their significant other, I would consider adopting my niece / nephew depending on the context of the situation, but beyond that very particular situation, probably not. I will say that in the future my stance on being childfree could very well change. At any point in time I can undergo a radical paradigm shift or meet someone / undergo an experience that comple…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/21 12:20 AM
1	Is the Red Pill fair to women? It depends on the woman and the man and the context of the relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/21 03:38 AM
13	Should wifes or husbands be punished by law if they are unwilling to have sex with their partner? Nobody should be punished for not wanting to have sex ever. Repeat ever, no matter the circumstances or situation. If the situation should bother someone so much they would consider harming the other person, just leave.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/21 03:33 AM
10	In reality people always need to settle or compromise on something. Out of your list of the desirable traits of the opposite sex, what would you compromise on if they were a great person "besides" it? In your experience have you ever compromised your standards, how did it turn out ? My ex wasn’t someone that I’d thought I’d be attracted too. Actually at first I didn’t think much of her at all to be honest, just someone I was around every now and then. Oddly enough we grew closer over time and organically things grew between us, no pressure or conscious decisions to escalate, we were both just heavily attuned to each other. Then pretty soon, like less than 2 months of knowing each other we became an item. Looking back on it, at first glance she isn’t someone I would be physi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/21 03:08 AM
1	One of the reasons the manosphere shouldn't lambast childfree women is that it openly discusses how "kids will wreck their bodies." Nowhere in my comment did I say anything about giving up and dying. I just subscribe to the childfree philosophy, no clue what you’re going on about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/21 06:58 PM
2	One of the reasons the manosphere shouldn't lambast childfree women is that it openly discusses how "kids will wreck their bodies." You are missing the whole point of my comment, but that’s alright. We can both just agree to disagree.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/21 03:37 AM
8	One of the reasons the manosphere shouldn't lambast childfree women is that it openly discusses how "kids will wreck their bodies." Most of that is juvenile nonsense to me honestly. Although there is some truth to it if you observe it under a different lens. I believe it is important to embrace impermanence. Nothing truly lasts forever and to truly love openly and honestly is to be prepared to let go, this goes beyond the scope of romantic relationships of course and applies to all facets of life. I don’t care for harems or sleeping with scores of young beautiful women, that isn’t very interesting or useful as a goal or desi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/21 03:33 AM
4	One of the reasons the manosphere shouldn't lambast childfree women is that it openly discusses how "kids will wreck their bodies." Life doesn’t expect anything of anyone though; it cannot. It is not a sentient thing that has demands or expectations. Projecting your own values and calling that the desires of the force of life is more of a personal opinion. There are no rules or guidelines or objectives here and there never will be. Those are human constructs	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/21 02:43 AM
11	One of the reasons the manosphere shouldn't lambast childfree women is that it openly discusses how "kids will wreck their bodies." Yeah, I agree with quite a bit of redpill concepts and arguments, of course I acknowledge some of them are very extreme and a good portion of the community can be straight up misogynistic and spiteful, that doesn’t really do anything for me tbh. I’m a strong believer in bodily autonomy and the childfree concept, so by default any redpillers tearing down women for deciding not to have children is just humorous and comical to me. Literally just find a woman who does want to have kids, they are of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/21 02:37 AM
2	One of the reasons the manosphere shouldn't lambast childfree women is that it openly discusses how "kids will wreck their bodies." So if you don’t have children then you fail at life? What in your mind is considered a successful life? Why associate being childfree with hedonism?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/21 02:30 AM
22	One of the reasons the manosphere shouldn't lambast childfree women is that it openly discusses how "kids will wreck their bodies." I am a male and subscribe to the childfree philosophy, even moreso now than ever if you observe the current state of affairs across all aspects of our globalist society. I think the childfree stance is definitely seeing a rise these days and ideally I would prefer a long term partner to subscribe to the childfree belief as well. Just a thought	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/21 02:27 AM
–	CMV: The Average Male can become attractive enough for casual sex Steroids just to get some muscle to get some girls is not worth. Plastic surgery not worth. Just for some attention from the ladies? Not worth. Better to avoid all of this casual nonsense altogether and just focus on some other objective. None of this is worth the end reward imo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/21 11:23 PM
3	Q4Men: Would you rather? I don’t believe marriage is a smart move in a modern context beyond providing an environment for children and since I plan on being childfree, I’m going to go with number two simply because that’s my only choice although that’s not ideal either. I’d probably be considered an extreme outlier though due to my views on marriage and kids though	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/21 04:44 PM
5	Women wearing tons of makeup and Shapewear are just as pathetic as men who rent cars and pretend to be much wealthier than they are. Everything is impermanent, so does that really even matter. Most of what we consume is worthless anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/21 07:06 PM
50	Women wearing tons of makeup and Shapewear are just as pathetic as men who rent cars and pretend to be much wealthier than they are. Self esteem and self worth issues aside, people are free to live however they wish. If it makes them feel better about themselves at the end of the day, why not	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/21 03:25 AM
2	Psychology of women almost never rejecting a guy outright i think being nice and polite is definitely an evolutionary trait for women, softly putting someone down or never giving a solid decline would be considered social grace and also to defend in a situation where a man could be unpredictable and turn violent (you even hear stories about this every now and then). So I don't blame women for having flaking behavior or being ambiguous with her intentions because it could very well save her life from a violent man. Keeping you around for validation, emo…	/r/TheRedPill	06/07/21 01:00 AM
5	“The Wall” hits BOTH genders, and just means the age at which your lifestyle is accurately reflected on your face and body Body, mind, and spirit. Take care of yourself for you. You only get one you, don’t fuel it with junk, cater to it and worship yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/21 06:21 PM
33	A message to all you losers, outcasts, and fatherless sons. If there is any advice I could give, it’s to be true to yourself. Trust and rely upon your instincts. There are no rules, there aren’t any boundaries, it’s just you trying to make sense of a chaotic world. Part of frame is bringing order and peace to yourself in this stormy chaotic world you reside in. You are at constant war with everything, adversity can either empower us or destroy us. There is no guide, no walkthrough to any of this. You’ve got to make your own way and trust that what you do…	/r/TheRedPill	03/07/21 05:28 AM
2	Please welcome the winners of the 2020 WAATGM Hall of Shame! A look back at some of the funny, unreasonable, and bailout-seeking profiles posted to our sub. This also represents the kind of content we're looking for (rule 5). Thot avengers assemble	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	01/07/21 08:38 PM
1	The importance of frame from a psychological perspective and why you WANT to maintain it. solid post, very insightful read	/r/TheRedPill	28/06/21 10:58 PM
13	25 and three kids. Priorities straight as can be. Yeah, we all have the same dad. Honestly, my mom and dad are both very troubled people and I just think they weren’t good for each other but took things too far. I blame both of them for the failures of their relationship after hearing both of their sides of the story (neither hold themselves accountable lmao). Dad was classic dark triad charismatic guy and my mom was the type of girl that would never listen to anyone, emotionally chaotic. You get the gist, it’s a common story. Mom was never rea…	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	28/06/21 08:11 PM
39	25 and three kids. Priorities straight as can be. My mom was a single mom with 3 kids by the age of 23. I love my mom with all my heart, of course, but she definitely has made many poor life choices that affect my brothers and I to this day. Be responsible and stop subjecting these kids to single parent households, please. It’s only gotten worse as I’ve gotten older	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	28/06/21 06:34 PM
2	texting game in generation Z i absolutely despise texting honestly. i just leave everybody on read and don't respond to anybody unless it is an urgent matter or relaying need to know information or setting up something.	/r/TheRedPill	28/06/21 06:45 AM
1	You know it all already: she dates Dwayne the Bad Boy and Ryan the F-Boy, then she "needs therapy" where she gets convinced to date "objectively good-quality men" who she isn't physically attracted and withholds sex from Samsara?	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	26/06/21 02:57 PM
7	A 50% Divorce Rate does not mean you have a 50% chance of divorce The problem with marriage is there are too many variables beyond a person’s control. For any reason whatsoever your woman can just decide to up and leave and the courts will properly fuck you. It’s a bad business decision no matter how you spin it for men and I advise against putting oneself in such a poor arrangement.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/21 01:11 PM
10	You know it all already: she dates Dwayne the Bad Boy and Ryan the F-Boy, then she "needs therapy" where she gets convinced to date "objectively good-quality men" who she isn't physically attracted and withholds sex from Addicted to emotions	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	26/06/21 01:08 PM
2	Post from RedPillWomen- what the eff has happened to men these days? Discussion I’m not really sure what has happened. I’ve always wanted someone to like me for me, but I know that’s not enough anymore. There’s a lot of shortcomings with me that would probably set off lots of red flags for women. Not currently working, still living with parent, not currently in an education program, I would probably be immediately dismissed from the local women around here. Plus I grew up in poverty and am still in it so it feels hard to escape. I am what you would call low value, yeah Hone…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/21 01:23 AM
2	What is there to life besides lifting, working and getting girls- what’s the point of life? The concept of objective truth and purpose in itself is just humanity’s vanity trying to find motivations for existence itself. As beings of life, our only purpose is our biological imperative, to procreate and continue to perpetuate our species. In the eyes of the universe, the great cosmic expanse we exist in, nothing has any truth, value, or real apparent meaning. Everything exists simply because it does. Everything also dies. Continuing in our current trajectory and what we can conclude scie…	/r/askTRP	22/06/21 05:48 AM
2	The 80/20 rule and raising a son Well, my father was absent and my mom is an immigrant single mother, so I kind of got shafted on that end. Not having a consistent father figure growing up has severely affected me in a negative way in general, women aside. Both of my grandfathers have been dead basically since my birth and my father never provided any form of support, nor did my uncles or anyone in my family really. My mom, as much as I love her, is honestly a clueless woman who doesn’t know much of anything. Nothing was really…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/21 03:01 PM
2	CMV: It's not fair, but a man that "just gets it" is going to be a far better lover than a guy that has to be told what to do Believe it or not, in general when it comes to sex the man is almost always going to be the determinant factor of how it all plays out. Biologically and instinctually men control the pace. It shouldn’t be difficult for some of you peons to understand, orgasm feels fucking good. If you can’t make her cum she will find someone who can, one of the easiest things to do is oral for her, but some can’t even bring themselves to do that	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/21 07:59 PM
2	Dick down girl (who had a boyfriend) at a party only for her to cry wolf to save her relationship. What do I do? No accountability, they’ll throw you under the bus and then light your corpse on fire if it will save their ass. Fucking disgusting man	/r/askTRP	17/06/21 03:58 PM
3	Hood Game? This is satire right lmao	/r/askTRP	14/06/21 05:30 AM
2	Do you feel burdened by the protector/provider gender role and the social expectation to embody it? I've accepted it. I'm not quite there yet to be in a position where i can provide for myself and the people i care about, but I have accepted it. My whole life I guess I've been trying to fight it or find my way around it, but it has never worked out for me. The social contract is strong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/21 10:48 PM
8	Society hates you and everyone like you Thanks for this comment, it’s been an insightful read	/r/TheRedPill	13/06/21 06:30 PM
133	Society hates you and everyone like you I’ve found the red pill way back in 2010 when it was really starting to gain some traction in online communities. I was just a high school freshman back then, read some of the stuff, found it fascinating, but overall just kinda forgot about it. I always had knowledge of it and it always lingered in the back of my mind, but I never really truly embraced and swallowed the red pill. 11 years later I’ve returned, quite a different person than I was as a freshman. Things are certainly a lot more fles…	/r/TheRedPill	13/06/21 07:57 AM
23	He's perfect... But I gets no tingles 😢 He’s a good man. Society’s expectation of what a man should be, what he is told to be growing up from teachers, the media, etc. And for some it is still not enough, hope the guy wises up and figures out she’s a bird.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	13/06/21 04:16 AM
16	Whats ur routine for first 3 dates? Honestly I’ve never had a strategy or routine. I just go with the flow and do whatever feels right in the moment. I enjoy an element of spontaneity, sometimes even I surprise myself.	/r/askTRP	13/06/21 04:01 AM
3	Worst one I've seen in terms of Entitlement!! I’ve always envisioned dating as something that is supposed to be fun and exciting. Why would anyone look at this and think hey, this woman could be a lot of fun. Just why, what’s the thought process. Seems like people treat it more like job interviews these days than actually having a fun time with someone	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	12/06/21 10:56 PM
6	Don’t save her Homeboy went in hot, guns blazing	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	12/06/21 10:54 PM
10	Entitlement princes that demands 9+guys or better I’d assume when someone is checking out a bio, they hope to find something fun and inviting. Nothing about this says that. Why would anyone ever want to go on a date with someone with a bio like this?	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	12/06/21 07:19 AM
39	It pains me to admit it but after crawling my way out of poverty into an enviable financial situation, I'm starting to agree more with the 1% in many ways There is so much sugar in American foods it’s insane. I tell everybody who is willing to listen to cut all the junk out their life. Cut the sugar, cut the soda, caffeine, nicotine, alcohol, candies, lay off fast food / fried foods / foods loaded with preservatives. If you step back and look at how much shit people consume and put into their bodies, it’s insane. You can’t have control of your life if you don’t have control of your body and are addicted to all of this nonsense	/r/TheRedPill	12/06/21 02:29 AM
3	It pains me to admit it but after crawling my way out of poverty into an enviable financial situation, I'm starting to agree more with the 1% in many ways People need to find it within themselves to want to change their life situation. Accountability, self awareness, and discipline are important. Also people stuck in perpetual poverty may feel as if they will never escape, it’s like a vicious cycle and mindset that is self fulfilling and dangerous especially if that’s all you ever know. I’m still trying to better my financially. I am curious however if you could divulge more info. Is the source of your income primarily from a salary, or is it some…	/r/TheRedPill	12/06/21 02:24 AM
38	There’s no reason why you can't get into the top 10% of men (90% of men aren’t even trying!) Honestly, visualize the life you want to live 5 years from now and make goals to get there. Some people don’t have a visual so they never make a plan or strategy to get there. I believe redpill transcends beyond just women now, it’s now about living life in your own terms, viewing the world through your own frame, and taking what you want by any means. But you’ve got to have the vision for it.	/r/TheRedPill	11/06/21 10:07 PM
2	New Data from the Telegraph indicate that levels of sexlessness among young men are still steadily increasing, just 34% of male University students report being sexually active while studying at University and 43% report never having had sex. What do you have to say about the multitudes of women who do stuff like porn, escorts, prostitutution, stripping, onlyfans, ig modeling, sugar babies, twitch thots, etc? They are using their youth and beauty to get ahead, and men pay for it as we always have since the beginning of time. Sex sells and and it always will, long after me and you are dead	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/21 08:09 PM
10	Why do single moms raise your hackles? Do you think single dads should be relationship pariahs too? I grew up in a single mom household. I believe growing up without a father figure really affects a child's development in a negative manner. I love my mom of course, but I will assert that she was in no position to be a mother, and from what I have been told by family, she was very fiery, nobody could tell her what to do. So what does this all relate to anyway? I guess it is my belief that children develop better and function better "generally" in a stable two parent household, with two clearly …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/21 06:13 AM
12	It actually makes sense that the guy should pay for the first dates in hetero dating... My thought process is this. If you want to be in a traditional relationship, where the man is the dominant personality and the woman is the submissive personality, then the man takes the bill. If you want to be in a more modern, egalatarian relationship, then go dutch. Also do not be completely opposed to the woman completely taking care of the bill either. Problems arise however when you are talking to someone who wants an egalatarian "modern" relationship but they still expect the man to take …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/21 06:03 AM
1	How do you find your purpose? A bit late on this, but this is a solid comment. Helps to really visualize the person you want to be and start making moves towards that	/r/askTRP	10/06/21 02:36 AM
2	Group of girls from my class hates my guts Ignore them	/r/askTRP	09/06/21 08:35 PM
1	She’s afraid she might regret leaving her rich husband What exactly does she bring to the table?	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	09/06/21 08:32 PM
5	Does it get better? The Red Pill can’t help you, you can only help yourself. The world is cold, cruel, an inhospitable place. Embrace this, internalize it, use your struggle to fuel your strength.	/r/askTRP	08/06/21 07:03 PM
1	Red Pill Affirmations With a Plate. What I like the most about this post is being completely honest about the state of the relationship versus breadcrumbing her for the promise of a committed relationship. This shows amazing frame imo instead of stringing the girl along. Baller move.	/r/TheRedPill	08/06/21 06:43 PM
7	Red Pill Affirmations With a Plate. As if the west isn’t already completely obliterated. Nothing is sacred anymore, the world we live in is based on domination, exploitation, and coercion. Get yours while you can.	/r/TheRedPill	08/06/21 06:40 PM
4	People are underestimating the popularity of the childfree movement in Gen Z. I see a lot of childfree sentiment floating around nowadays and I feel like it is growing in popularity significantly. Something like this could have a snowball effect. Growing pains from a failing economy, expenses rising, chaos in the dating world, and I think the childfree philosophy is going to be a major player soon. There have also been talks about fertility beginning to fail and plummet within this century because of all of the problems we’ve allowed to run unchecked as a global civilizat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/21 05:12 AM
2	How I Text Women i honestly hate texting, nowadays i just leave everybody on read, friends, family, romantic partners, it's exhausting to me. I just call them if plans need to be made or if it is something urgent.	/r/TheRedPill	07/06/21 08:45 PM
1	What are your personal emotional open ended questions to ask to chicks? I've always been a naturally curious person I suppose, one of the most important things a human will have with their finite time on this planet is their purpose. Any one person I spend a long enough amount of time with, the question always eventually pops up, what's your greatest life ambition? Some things you like to do before you pass on from this life? I don't ask this necessarily to elicit an emotional response, but to actually gauge what is important to this particular person. The answer sp…	/r/askTRP	07/06/21 07:34 AM
3	The burden of parents and entrepreneurship imo, an alpha is the leader, he takes care of the people closest to him, the people that he loves dearly. This only applies really to three people in my life, my mother and my two brothers, the constants in my life. At the same time, you shouldn't compromise your journey for anyone either. Make your bread, do what's best to secure your financial future, so you can live the life you want to live and make sure the people you love are taken care of.	/r/askTRP	07/06/21 07:29 AM
3	New Data from the Telegraph indicate that levels of sexlessness among young men are still steadily increasing, just 34% of male University students report being sexually active while studying at University and 43% report never having had sex. The pandemic is just a small taste of things to come. I fear much worse things coming within the next few decades. There’s just this sinking feeling I have and I do think many global society level threats will be thrown at humanity within our lifetimes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/21 05:56 AM
2	New Data from the Telegraph indicate that levels of sexlessness among young men are still steadily increasing, just 34% of male University students report being sexually active while studying at University and 43% report never having had sex. This advice is less about women and more about living healthier and being afford to live the lifestyle you want to live. But if people want to pay for hookers / escorts / sugar babies that’s cool too. Get it how you live, nothing is sacred anymore	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/21 04:43 AM
6	Does anyone else feel bad when women say the male body is unattractive? No, I don’t particularly care for other people’s opinion on it. I’m a dude and I believe the male form is much more beautiful. We have higher testosterone so it allows for us to build more musculature. Strength, size, conditioning, and growth is insane for men compared to women. Not even comparable. The height, the frame, the stature, the aesthetic that we can achieve is absolutely incredible, and generally requires much more work to maintain and develop. The female form is beautiful and pleasin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/21 10:23 PM
–	New Data from the Telegraph indicate that levels of sexlessness among young men are still steadily increasing, just 34% of male University students report being sexually active while studying at University and 43% report never having had sex. Right now the biggest likely event is a huge collapse of the world economy. The pandemic should have sent us spiraling into the Great Depression 2, but the constant spending and printing of currency kept us afloat. Take a look at the markets and all the money injected into the economy from thin air and anyone with two eyes can see that we are due for a major correction soon. The numbers do not match the reality of the world right now. Once the world economy takes a massive shit, we’ll see how lo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/21 10:05 PM
3	How to tell my female friends I don't give a shit, and how to respond to further BS Hardcore red pill philosophy asserts that you should not be involved with a woman you are not fucking. You’d cut them off. But let’s lay off the pill a bit and relax. Having female friends can sometimes be a good thing because it opens your door to their friends and family and events, and in this situation it can be beneficial to you. She can sometimes even be a wingman or a matchmaker. I’d say just ignore them or don’t really provide any advice when it comes to boy problems. Just act aloof and …	/r/askTRP	06/06/21 09:56 PM
–	New Data from the Telegraph indicate that levels of sexlessness among young men are still steadily increasing, just 34% of male University students report being sexually active while studying at University and 43% report never having had sex. I doubt anything will happen. Society has squashed and quelled most people into a state of subjugation and complacency. Maybe if there is a huge catalyst event that pushes people back into traditionalism, maybe a global war conflict or a catastrophic economic collapse that tears open society, but if things continue in this trajectory I doubt anything will happen beyond bitching on the internet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/21 09:47 PM
–	New Data from the Telegraph indicate that levels of sexlessness among young men are still steadily increasing, just 34% of male University students report being sexually active while studying at University and 43% report never having had sex. The advent of the internet and social media probably plays a big part in this. Plus in my opinion our gynocentric society has in a lot of ways feminized our young men. Not opening this can of worms right now. Young men just need to take care of their bodies, cut the fat and cultivate the muscle mass. Get off the internet and the vidya games and make their impact in the world, make some money and take what they want. I know what it’s like to get caught in that cycle of idleness and complacency. W…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/21 09:33 PM
3	The purpose of a blowjob Does the book say anything about giving oral to women? It is one of my favorite things to do and I am curious what trp thinks of it.	/r/TheRedPill	06/06/21 07:01 PM
1	Why don't younger men ever blame their singlehood on older men who are dating younger women? Idk, at the end of the day a woman will pick who she wants to involve herself with. You just gotta be in the best position to try and be that guy, that’s about it. Just the game, no hard feelings	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/21 03:49 PM
12	The Daily Reminder of Chad Honestly, this is rather sad. I was raised in a single mother household and from what I understand the stats have gotten worse over the years. I really don’t know how we can fix this or make it better, I feel mostly for the kids, I really do believe it messes with their development a lot.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	05/06/21 04:17 AM
6	Is it me or do dating apps make love feel transactional as opposed to natural? Apps I feel like are like shopping for something on Amazon but with people. It kind of separates you from the physicality of things and you are just looking at things from an aesthetic point of view. You lose a lot of the nuances and small quirks and intricacies that make each person special and it in a way it does dehumanize everybody involved. I can’t remember the studies or research but apparently half of young people are on dating apps now, so I guess it is important to put yourself on there…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/21 12:03 AM
18	Why don't younger men ever blame their singlehood on older men who are dating younger women? I don’t blame older men because they put in the work and time into their grind and purpose. It’s like a respect thing if anything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/21 11:59 PM
1	I almost don't want to communicate with girls anymore? I suppose status is always a relative thing. Some women prefer to live a quiet life, there’s also women out there who want to live a rural life and settle down on a farm with some crops and farm animals and stuff, so the notion of status is always going to be different for each person. Ultimately in the end I think they will want someone who is most compatible with the lifestyle that she wants to live.	/r/askTRP	04/06/21 11:57 PM
1	Redpillers: Do You Include Your Mothers and Sisters in Your Generalizations About Women? classic story lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/21 02:30 AM
19	I almost don't want to communicate with girls anymore? I think a lot of guys can relate heavily to your sentiments about dating in general. Seems like the time investment really isn’t worth the reward anymore. There are too many factors beyond your control, hypergamy, social media. Having access to any guy at the tip of her fingers, an instant gratification society. You can play the game perfectly and still get cheated on. You need to embrace some degree of the dark triad and honestly that is just not me and has never been me. Idk, it feels like the…	/r/askTRP	04/06/21 12:32 AM
42	She’s disrespectful of the nice guy she’s finally found The more time I spend alive on this earth the more I see examples of women being absolutely in love with the dark triad traits. Feels like everything I was told was a lie as I was growing up, even my mother when she was younger was in love with my deadbeat dad who was probably prime dark triad, even beat her and tried to kill her at one point. And I’m a product of that, the youngest of 3 sons, shit is fucked dude. I really don’t know what to think or feel when it comes to women anymore.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	03/06/21 05:24 PM
1	Should I end a great LTR over partners sexual past? pass her to me bro. but in all seriousness though, if you have to ask and make a thread on reddit, you probably already know the answer deep down, really sucks man. deep down, bluepill me that still exists from my childhood wanted to settle down with my first love, hopeful that we would be virgins and live happy lives together and die together. But she wasn't, and i gave myself to her, and now we don't even talk to each other anymore. 30 different people is a lot to me, that's cool if anyone els…	/r/askTRP	03/06/21 06:29 AM
1	The uncomfortable truth in the dating realm: women have to be, men have to become. If they don’t then that’s okay too	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/21 11:30 PM
0	How to start a cult Is this the peak of the sub? 🤔	/r/TheRedPill	30/05/21 11:28 PM
4	"Sorry, I don't date guys below 6 ft" Hmm? I don’t understand what you mean	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	30/05/21 02:14 PM
53	"Sorry, I don't date guys below 6 ft" If she’s tall, like above 5”8 I would understand why she would want a taller man, I get it. But if she’s out here like 4”11 looking for 6”3, like why lol.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	29/05/21 10:03 PM
3	As a man, one of the most important moments in your dating life doesn't even involve you (a reflection on status) It’s definitely important when at least considering LTRs. She will constantly feel pressure from her family, particularly her parents, and her coworkers, and her friends about the quality of the man that she is with. This all ties back to social proof. I can speak from personal experience. Had a rough time last year and lost my job, kind of lost motivation for a bit because it was a family related incident and plus the pandemic kind of put me in an existential crisis, like re evaluating society …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/21 06:01 AM
8	Why do we excuse women's bad behaviour by saying 'it's just their nature' We exist in a gynocentric society. Most ideals, products, advertising, and general norms are designed to appease women. If you’ve read the manipulated man by Esther Vilar, it is argued by her that man built civilization for his woman so that she could be more comfortable and strive to be the best version of herself. We are in a very strange era of gender identity, a state of war between what masculinity and femininity is, and it’s happening all over the world because of globalism and the impact …	/r/askTRP	28/05/21 06:32 PM
45	The men like beauty women like success thing is greatly exaggerated. dudes definitely need to be taking care of their appearance if they are trying to play the game. Dudes hold women to a high standard when it comes to appearance, they should do the same for themselves. if you are looking for a lean, glowing bombshell. You need to be a lean, glowing bombshell yourself. the high standards you have in others, have them for yourself. It's really quite that simple. shut up and stay on your own ass, stay cold. best advice i can give to any youngin out there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/21 05:41 PM
2	Just short of asking the big question😂🤡 The dating scene is a disaster for most people now. Imagine how ruthless it will be 10 years from now, big ouch	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	28/05/21 03:07 PM
6	The uncomfortable truth in the dating realm: women have to be, men have to become. The whole point in this perspective is that women should not be your life priority. Ever. In any way shape or form. So this doesn’t even matter.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/21 02:23 PM
1	RPW advice never worked for me, so I went back to being a quirky weirdo, and I found a good bf Glad you found someone. Hope you guys make it through the test of time	/r/ExRedPill	28/05/21 04:24 AM
1	Anticipated a breakup, but not like this. Falling apart. Embrace abundance mentality. There will always be another woman. She never truly belongs to you, enjoy the time you spend together and then let her go. Know this and absorb this and it can never be used to hurt you. Your greatest power in the dating world as a man is commitment. Next time make sure you give it to the right person, or actually just don’t ever give it to any woman at all. Why does it matter if she will never truly be yours? Focus on you, get your grind up, don’t commit, know your …	/r/askTRP	28/05/21 12:05 AM
66	The uncomfortable truth in the dating realm: women have to be, men have to become. Dating is just a game and the only winning move is to not play. Focus on your purpose and focus on the money. The women will come once you’ve crossed the finish line, and by then you will be so absorbed in who you are and what you do that women will be an afterthought. This is where you need to be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/21 11:52 PM
1	"If you've ever had a one night stand or hooked up with multiple people in a short span of time, It is unfair to then make your long term partner wait months on ends to have sex with them." Is this really that crazy of an opinion? Women have different rules for different people. If you’re the right guy you get to break all the rules	/r/askTRP	27/05/21 01:01 AM
6	Just lost my virginity at 26 Lol why not	/r/askTRP	25/05/21 06:18 AM
3	Just lost my virginity at 26 dope, interesting that you couldn't bust though. If it continues happening you might want to visit a professional about it	/r/askTRP	25/05/21 05:31 AM
3	If you're in the bottom 50% of men, dating is not a worthwhile endeavor. Get to the bag is relatively new street slang. It means get to the money by any means possible. Stack up, invest, become financially independent, focus on your wealth and create it. Basically shut the fuck up and get money	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/21 05:22 AM
2	Only Having Major Body Composition Changes Has An Effect On Dating/Relationships If you are overweight or obese, lose the weight. Get to a healthy weight, your joints and body will thank you. I was slightly pudgy since december and have been trying to live a more active life style and honestly feel like i'm in the best shape of my life and it does wonders for your brain / body chemistry, just feeling better about yourself and being more agile and less sluggish. If you want to gain muscle, do it. But do it for you and only you. If you do it only for women then you are kind of…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/21 03:13 AM
2	Are there really that many men interested in silly nerdy girls? I like women who are generally bubbly, on the more shy / reserved side, and they just have this great infectious smile and laugh and this warmth that they radiate. She doesn't even have to be the most beautiful woman in the world or look like a model, if she has these qualities i get seriously infatuated. From what I've seen in my life, as women get older they gradually lose some of these qualities and honestly become miserable / whiny / woe is me / or masculine. Just saying in general. From wha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/21 03:05 AM
9	If you're in the bottom 50% of men, dating is not a worthwhile endeavor. It could be worthwhile, maybe you will find that one woman and it will all have been worth it, by a complete freak chance. But I will admit the odds are heavily stacked against you. My best advice to any young man, disconnect and dissociate from dating. Get to the bag. Lose the fat, make some gains, get lean in the process. Find your style, your aesthetic. Get your shit together, focus on you and achieve the things you want to achieve in life before you die. Those are more worthwhile endeavors.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/21 02:54 AM
9	If you're in the bottom 50% of men, dating is not a worthwhile endeavor. The looks puts your foot in the door, then the remainder of everything else comes in. It's understood just by about every woman that he has to reach a certain looks threshold first, no matter how much they deny it. Which is fair, most men have a looks threshold too when it comes to women, I just wish more young men knew that they actually have to give a fuck about their appearance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/21 02:50 AM
1	Average men never truly experience a women's love at its full extent Curious what your track record on relationships is. What was your longest? Your best relationship?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/21 12:28 AM
4	I went out of my comfort zone for once, and I managed to lose my virginity (Field report I guess?) Update? Y’all linking up more?	/r/TheRedPill	24/05/21 02:52 PM
1	The Secret of the Jerk you still have contact with steve? how is he doing now these days?	/r/TheRedPill	23/05/21 04:53 AM
2	A simple PSA for all the new guys around here: finding and implementing TRP has made you above average, but you still don’t know what the fuck you’re doing. (Yes, Michael from Toronto, that includes you.) Holy shit, I forgot the book of pook existed. I think it’s been damn near a decade since I’ve seen anyone reference it. Think it’s time to give it a read almost 10 years later	/r/TheRedPill	22/05/21 04:47 PM
3	The Pie Chart [FereallyRed] this is a dope write up, does anyone know how he went out?	/r/TheRedPill	22/05/21 02:59 AM
0	Dads dont want their daughters to be housewives/submissive women Saw a couple of people cutting grass, a small dog that wasn’t leashed and kept barking at me, and this interesting red / black bird that kept swooping down to try and get my attention. It was weird. That’s about it, people don’t really go outside often where I live.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/21 12:12 AM
1	Dads dont want their daughters to be housewives/submissive women I just came back from a nice run outside. Beautiful day out	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/21 12:06 AM
-1	Dads dont want their daughters to be housewives/submissive women The game has changed. The world we live in has changed drastically since globalism and the power of the internet. It’s basically a free for all hyper consumerist, instant gratification society. Everything is just slush, a product, devoid of any true meaning or value. Hyper consumerism has infected everything. The traditional nuclear family is gone imo and the only way forward for any young adult is to get to the bag and enjoy the end of humanity, man or woman. There are no rules anymore	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/21 11:57 PM
2	Q4W Do you believe that the Red Pill should be censored? Why/Why not Man here. Been following theredpill for the past decade since its beginnings in early 2010s. Never fully accepted and swallowed the pill, just had some general knowledge I applied in some areas of my life. Recent problems in my life have led me back to the redpill and since I haven’t been on the scene in a long time, a lot of it has changed. From it being less about women and it being more about our positions and roles in society, from what I understand and interpret about multiple posts I’ve re…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/21 06:34 PM
18	Stop trying to be another race. You have to play the hand you are dealt. You could leave the table but the game goes on regardless. Might as well play the best you can. Things beyond your control are not worth fretting over. Number one rule to this life: there are no rules. Do as you please and do whatever the fuck you want.	/r/TheRedPill	21/05/21 06:23 PM
5	Other Women Abundance mentality. What is called oneitis a decade ago has been built up and expanded to what is now scarcity mentality. And it applies beyond just women. There will always be another opportunity, another woman, another party, another event, another man in the picture. Women naturally get the abundance mentality, there are already other men in the picture before you even know each other. They’ve been playing the game, you need to do the same if you want to fulfill your biological imperative an…	/r/TheRedPill	21/05/21 06:20 PM
2	If you had a son around the age of 16-18, what advice would you give him about life and girls ? have fun, don't overthink too much, don't commit, don't deny your sexual nature	/r/askTRP	21/05/21 01:10 AM
1	Looking for a husband, after having 2 kids by another man (or men). Lmao ruthless	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	20/05/21 05:38 PM
3	Single woman lists her deal breakers, which include doctors and anyone with a boss because “it’s beta” She wants someone who isn’t “beta”, but doesn’t want a guy who is only going to treat her as an option. She is never going to be happy with the guy she wants	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	19/05/21 04:03 PM
1	Men are responsible for women’s alleged “inflated egos” and overvaluing themselves. No, not at all. In the end we are all nothing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/21 12:56 PM
3	The biggest reason people have dating issues is because they don't know these 2 major things: What they want, What they're worth. It is of an extreme opinion, and once again, I reiterate it is not representative of the entirety of the red pill sphere, I wouldn’t even call this red pill content, just a nonsense writing piece designed to get more internet traffic. Did you read any of my prior comment?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/21 08:19 PM
1	'Alpha' and 'beta' in the red pill are merely substitute words for 'jocks' and 'nerds' jocks can still be betas though, so there needs to be more of a distinction. And not all alphas are jocks, if that makes any sense. Alphas exist in many different spheres of life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/21 08:10 PM
3	The biggest reason people have dating issues is because they don't know these 2 major things: What they want, What they're worth. Of course, there is misogyny and there is also misandry in many facets of modern day society and by extension the dating spheres we explore here in this subreddit. Yes, there is a good degree of misogynistic content that has been written for the red pill, everyone can take what they will from it and take everything said with a grain of salt. That being said, just because there are extremes and outliers within a community does not mean it is representative of the whole. I find the red pill sphere…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/21 07:53 PM
3	The biggest reason people have dating issues is because they don't know these 2 major things: What they want, What they're worth. You are welcome to discuss any of the grievances or concerns you have about the red pill. I’m open to any criticisms about it honestly and I’d like to hear your thoughts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/21 07:29 PM
3	The biggest reason people have dating issues is because they don't know these 2 major things: What they want, What they're worth. Why would the red pill not help me? It asserts the importance of personal accountability, striving to become better through self improvement, and pushes one to achieve their life’s greatest ambitions. It’s helped me a lot in the past few months to process my situation and where I belong in this world.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/21 07:20 PM
14	Men are responsible for women’s alleged “inflated egos” and overvaluing themselves. Yes this is true as well. Women say they care a lot about personality, sense of humor, etc. Looks requirement needs to be met first, but i get it. You can’t just say that straight up or people will give you shit for it. Same thing with men, we can’t just say she has to be beautiful first or that it is the most important thing, but that is generally the first thing we look at before we explore other areas of her character. We’re all playing the same game and I get tired of people acting like they…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/21 05:37 PM
4	The biggest reason people have dating issues is because they don't know these 2 major things: What they want, What they're worth. I haven't dated anyone in a very long time. Had a break up about 6 months ago and I'm still processing it in a healthy manner and have just decided to abstain from relationships and detach myself from society since then. I don't utilize any of the strategies that I've discussed in my prior comment, I am simply highlighting some perspectives that I've discovered while reading about the red pill. Also, in regards to intimacy I am very much a giver, not a taker, to the point where at times I give t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/21 05:15 PM
21	Men are responsible for women’s alleged “inflated egos” and overvaluing themselves. the truth is that everyone is everyone is looking to stroke their own ego and everyone wants to be gratified, men and women. Men will always be valued for their resources and abilities, women will always be valued for their youth and beauty. Alpha fucks / beta bucks is honestly a sound sexual strategy if you look at it from an objective perspective. What exhausts me is when men are butt hurt because they say women only care about certain things like how handsome their partner is, how much money …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/21 04:48 PM
0	The biggest reason people have dating issues is because they don't know these 2 major things: What they want, What they're worth. Yeah, it happens all the time. Best case scenario for the man that employs this strategy is his woman constantly forgives him because she has no self esteem and no self respect, this basically gives him free reign to cheat as much as he wants. So he gets to continue fucking his girlfriend and also fucking his multiple side chicks. He gets the benefits of being in a relationship and also having different casual partners. She gets the drama and the adrenaline rush of dread game and emotional chaos…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/21 04:26 PM
3	The biggest reason people have dating issues is because they don't know these 2 major things: What they want, What they're worth. As with any investment, always be prepared for an exit strategy. That’s just good business.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/21 02:43 PM
2	The biggest reason people have dating issues is because they don't know these 2 major things: What they want, What they're worth. That’s good, if you are happy and comfortable with where you are in life, I’m happy for you. If she is happy with you then all is good. I wish you guys the best and hope you are one of the marriages that last. Just understand, marriage is not an absolute, eternal state of affairs. Be prepared for the worst, but enjoy the ride yeah? Best of luck to you	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/21 02:39 PM
0	When people here say women like men with money, what level of wealth are they referring to? I’d imagine women would find a man who could afford the type of lifestyle she would like to live in the near future. Mileage may vary. This would be considered a baseline. One would argue women are beyond limits. That a woman would always want more and is never fully satisfied with what is already present. An opportunity that presents itself where she can get a wealthier man to commit that check marks all of her other boxes as well, she could just branch swing to that partner. So even then, does…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/21 02:27 PM
0	The biggest reason people have dating issues is because they don't know these 2 major things: What they want, What they're worth. For a hardcore redpiller, you could argue every committed relationship is a joke. A transient position that is husband / boyfriend is not a permanent state of affairs and you are easily tossed out at the first sign of a better mate that is more physically / financially / or more currently emotionally attractive for her (see hypergamy and branch swinging.) Or maybe not, maybe she has chosen you for a husband and she has an alpha fuck she keeps on the side for sexual affairs, maybe not who knows. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/21 02:14 PM
2	Dating is easy. You are just overthinking this shit. This sounds like too much work tbh. Just get to the damn bag and flex on yourself, you’d probably get more enjoyment out of that then trying to get your rocks wet for an hour or less	/r/TheRedPill	17/05/21 09:56 PM
1	Insights after 10 years of picking up women we really are in a bear market when it comes to dating lmao	/r/TheRedPill	16/05/21 06:29 PM
3	Are men upset that having money is considered an attractive feature? Most men that have matured and understand dating politics know that ultimately women are going to want someone who can provide for them, it's just biological hardwiring. You can't fault women for wanting a man who can provide the lifestyle she wants the same way that you can't fault a man for wanting to have sex with every beautiful woman he sees if he was able to (within the restraint of his mind, he could never vocalize it). Men are always going to be valued for their resources and what they c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/21 09:56 PM
1	Attachment, alphas and betas, red pill and a blue pill Sums up my thoughts. Early on I was somewhat angry and resentful towards women in my teen years from learning about redpill. Hatepilled or redpillrage, whatever people like to call it. As I’m in my mid 20s now, I understand things better now that I understand the world we live in as I aged. Men and women both have their unique situations and struggles when it comes to romantic relationships. The best thing you can do as a man is to just be the best that you can be to provide the kind of life you…	/r/TheRedPill	14/05/21 12:57 PM
44	How dare you want what you want? I mean of course, everyone likes and wants sex man, but that is never the proper answer to a question like that. In fact that is one of the worst answers, are you really surprised she didn’t continue with you? You’ve got to have social tact if you actually want to be romantically involved with women.	/r/TheRedPill	14/05/21 11:35 AM
2	"It's Your Fault" - do not fear it One of the things I love about the redpill is that it makes you personally accountable and responsible for the failures and shortcomings in your life.	/r/TheRedPill	14/05/21 01:02 AM
1	Men Value Femininity More Than Women Do I quite like this write up and explanation. I agree with just about all of it honesty and it captures a lot about how I feel about femininity	/r/TheRedPill	14/05/21 12:58 AM
2	Just world phenomenon and its consequences That’s fair, but to women I figure that commitment is more important that sex, and who is commiting to her and is it of the quality that she likes? Just a thought	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/21 03:04 PM
5	Just world phenomenon and its consequences Sure she will get matches, every woman gets matched, but the women perspective is different. How is the quality of the matches and is she worth commiting to, that’s what is more important.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/21 03:01 PM
1	Just world phenomenon and its consequences I’m talking about women that live their lives on a somewhat socially normative behavior. I would consider escorts deviants by nature. Is a babe escort seriously getting the guy she wants in a romantic sense?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/21 03:00 PM
1	Follow-up from the actual 28 yo 6'7 kissless virgin (who was unaware of his SMV, or something) Hey as long as you are happy with where you are in your life, all good. People on here like to be angry and resentful, but in the end I think everyone just wants to feel loved. Have a good night friend	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/21 02:44 AM
14	Just world phenomenon and its consequences Yeah, lots of men in the world believe they have it hard and are super mega ultra entitled to women’s affection and bodies. Imagine being born an ugly woman, you are fucked. But that’s not something people really discuss in this sphere, because we don’t talk about invisible people right? Just a thought.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/21 02:42 AM
6	Most people marry after they "hit the wall" and it's a very bad idea to marry when you're young and "in your prime". 100% all of the fuckery going on in the stock market right now is signaling a major collapse soon. The divorce imo is more of a strategic move to preserve their wealth, I believe the people in these dating spheres don't realize that and can't see sometimes beyond the scope of the relationship itself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/21 07:00 PM
7	Most people marry after they "hit the wall" and it's a very bad idea to marry when you're young and "in your prime". considering throughout our evolutionary timeline, by 35 before prehistory and established societies, most people would be dead by 35. interesting thing to think about as our brains are still stuck in a very old time frame while society has advanced well beyond our capability of grasping it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/21 06:46 PM
5	At what age is it “too late” for a man to get into his first relationship, experience his first kiss, and lose his virginity? Hypothetically, theoretically, gastronomically, what if we kissed in this comment section tho? 😳	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/21 03:19 AM
2	At what age is it “too late” for a man to get into his first relationship, experience his first kiss, and lose his virginity? What are you going to do with my feet 😳	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/21 03:11 AM
3	At what age is it “too late” for a man to get into his first relationship, experience his first kiss, and lose his virginity? Okay okay! Wait! I’m laying in bed with no shoes on 😳	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/21 03:09 AM
5	At what age is it “too late” for a man to get into his first relationship, experience his first kiss, and lose his virginity? I think everyone deserves love. Just my opinion. I never thought I would find it honestly, but I got to experience and share it with someone once. Just once for a fleeting moment in time and I think it’s something I want everyone to feel at least once before they leave this planet. I know, cheesy right? Lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/21 03:00 AM
5	At what age is it “too late” for a man to get into his first relationship, experience his first kiss, and lose his virginity? You know I thought about that. What if a guy was in such a bad situation that he has never been shown ANY form of female attention. I mean there are guys who are average and get attention from people they are not interested in... But what about people who do not receive any attention at all. Like zero. I’m not even talking men anymore, just straight up humans who have been dealt a bad hand at birth or have some defect or some life altering accident. I guess if you think about it in that way, may…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/21 02:10 AM
10	How do you define masculinity and femininity? I believe everyone’s opinion on the topic is different. Masculinity to me is responsibility, accountability, a degree of concern for your fellow humans. Strength, integrity, drive, discipline, and honesty. Also raw aggression and radiant energy, but channeled in a proper way. There is more but this is the gist. The best way I can explain is a natural bodybuilder who has been going at it for over ten years, and always gives 100% during his workouts. Weird metaphor, but it’s something like that to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/21 02:01 AM
18	At what age is it “too late” for a man to get into his first relationship, experience his first kiss, and lose his virginity? I don’t think it’s ever too late. A man never has to disclose that information and could easily just lie if he wanted to. If men really wanted, if they reeaaaaallly wanted to lose their virginity or get that first kiss in, they probably could if they lowered their standards. I had a decent amount of admirers when I was younger, completely honest, but I was never sexually attracted to any of them or I was too anxious so it never amounted to anything. Didn’t really get any action going until early…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/21 01:50 AM
4	Love between genders They belong to whatever world they believe they exist in. Men and women will always exist in different worlds. It has been this way since the dawn of humanity and will be long after Reddit’s archives are deleted and we are just cosmic dust sucked into an expanse of nothingness. You can believe whatever you want to believe in if that makes you sleep better at night. Everything is arbitrary.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/21 10:47 PM
6	Love between genders We live in two different worlds. You’ll just never understand fully the world men live in. And men will never understand fully the world women live in. If you love yourself and feel great about your life and your purpose, I’m happy for you and wish you the best. But we will always live in two different worlds.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/21 10:37 PM
6	If A Woman You Date Says "I Don't Fuck On The ______ Date" Then She Is STRICTLY Fuck Zone Material If you are the right guy, then you are an exception. People don’t know what they want. If it’s the right guy he’s getting in those damn guts first night. If it’s the right woman, she is getting committed to day one, straight up. If you aren’t getting sex as a man, or you aren’t getting commitment as a woman... guess what. Maybe you just don’t got it like that. Up your game. Stay on your own ass. Hold yourself accountable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/21 10:30 PM
3	Do women get bored of relationships faster than men? Honestly. Humans are pretty sucky. I don’t think monogamy in a modern context works. Our hyperactive society just doesn’t allow that type of love to thrive in general. Everyone just wants a quick dopamine hit now. Men and women. Me me me, what’s next for me. Get yours and move on, the end is near anyway. All of these dating discussions won’t matter.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/21 10:27 PM
8	Love between genders Literally everything you said is conditional love. That’s fine if that’s what you want, but what you want is transactional. You expect certain things from men. Men expect certain things from women. Let’s make it simpler. A man provides his resources and abilities, a woman provides her youth and beauty. That is 100% what dating is now, you can convince yourself that is not the case, but to me that’s what it is now. If either one falls short, they are easily replaceable. That’s why I was replaced,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/21 10:12 PM
10	Love between genders As a man I did want true love and romance and I am highly infatuated with the idea of unconditional love. I would’ve done anything for my first love and was pretty set on committing to her for the rest of my life honestly. Then i had a falling out at work and became unemployed. Was just trying to focus on my life and what I wanted and what was important to me, so I wasn’t looking for work. Just spending time to understand the world around me better and question our society (this was during the p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/21 09:39 PM
1	There is no such thing as a “High Value Woman (HVW)” i believe the ideas of a high value man and a high value woman are intrinsic to the person in question. basically, mileage will vary. my own idea of a high value woman would be someone kind, gentle, shares similar world views and perspectives that I do, such as being childfree, rejecting the status quo, and generally just mentally syncs with me. To me, appearance does not define the value of a person, their value would transcend that, it's more representative of their spiritual energy that one c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/21 06:58 AM
1	Women make it hard for men to be themselves you could argue the other way around too for women. I think in general people have to hide certain things about themselves if they want to be more attractive to the opposite sex. Women, in my opinion, are expected to be a lot of things as well in our society to be considered suitable for a long term relationship. Men expect certain things from women and women expect certain things from men, this is all generalization. People in this society generally cannot be themselves. There is always some fa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/21 06:51 AM
3	Women's dating/relationship standards are warped by social media the same way men's are by porn. social media is not good and neither is porn. I believe they both negatively affect what is expected from reality. Both should be viewed as a form of idealism, as mediums far removed from reality. The best thing an individual can do for themselves is to severely limit their intake of porn and consumption of social media, I do make an exception for memes found on social media though. Good shit right there	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/21 06:46 AM
1	Q4all: Do men have a moral obligation to physically protect women in dangerous situations? Social conditioning in most aspects would expect a man to sacrifice himself in any given situation that would allow a greater amount of people to survive. The gender / age / whatever variation of the person or people in question does not matter. Not everyone buys into this social conditioning though. But throughout the development of society, I would say that men are considered expendable and the first ones chosen for activities that are highly dangerous to the security of their personal welfare…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/21 05:36 PM
1	To the younger girls in this sub: Some things I wish I knew when I was younger Well written post, very thought provoking	/r/RedPillWomen	05/05/21 02:42 AM
1	[Q4All]How often do you see ugly people of the opposite gender? Any man in good physical form will do well getting dates. Good personality and other variables is what will of course turn those dates into something genuine. If a handsome plus fit dude came down here he would have a great time. But honestly I despise the south for so many other reasons I would not recommend it	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/21 02:49 AM
2	No amount of body positivity for men will ever change anything for non-traditionally attractive guys. It will only make women less comfortable admitting their actual preferences. Yeah, I do my best to take care of my general appearance. Been trying to get more into the healthier side of things, mostly just for me. I’m not really in a position to be in any sort of relationship with women so I’m out of the dating game for now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/21 06:36 AM
3	No amount of body positivity for men will ever change anything for non-traditionally attractive guys. It will only make women less comfortable admitting their actual preferences. Yeah, it’s just a small scope on what people in a very small subset find attractive. At the end of the day, it all depends on each individual person and their tastes for sure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/21 03:00 AM
1	No amount of body positivity for men will ever change anything for non-traditionally attractive guys. It will only make women less comfortable admitting their actual preferences. True, but hey, gotta work with what you got right	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/21 02:58 AM
10	No amount of body positivity for men will ever change anything for non-traditionally attractive guys. It will only make women less comfortable admitting their actual preferences. Look at r/ladyboners and for the more adventurous r/ladybonersgw , you will find at least to some degree what women generally like in a man physically, (at least the women and gay men that frequent reddit). Lean, muscular, bearded, of a larger build. Which is fine if that’s what some women like. Just don’t lie and deflect lol. I’m all about body positivity and being comfortable in your own skin. But if you are trying to be more successful with women in general, upping your sex appeal helps a lot…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/21 12:22 AM
5	I don't think there will ever be equality The society that we exist in by default does not provide equity. What I am talking about is bigger than gender politics. Classism, the haves, the have nots, the exploitation and subjugation of billions for the few. That is the globalist society we now exist in. The only way to achieve true equality is to tear down our current society and rebuild from ground up in a new system. The only question is, which system of governance is most equitable for ALL people? That’s where the interesting conversa…	/r/ExRedPill	01/05/21 02:21 AM
1	CMV: FDS women will never be as happy as red pillers. RP'ers work towards being the ideal mate, while FDS primes women to be a nightmare partner. I have taken a look and explored many spaces on the online sphere regarding dating politics. Obviously the blue pill growing up in american society, being exposed to the red pill in high school, and as of recent, the explosion of MGTOW and FDS seems to be picking up a lot too. I think all of the different spheres have something interesting you can learn from. A different, unique perspective that you can apply in the context of your own life. I like that the FDS sphere is a space only for women a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/21 12:01 AM
2	WIVES OF HVM - how’d you do it? Pretty wild to think about how different life circumstances can play out because of being at the right place at the right time. Imagine had you not been lost you know, your life basically branched into multiple different timelines and we ended up in this one. Just a curious thought.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/04/21 09:42 PM
4	Do you think we overanalyze sex relations too much? I think if you just take care of your appearance, actually have some degree of direction in your life, and just make an effort to be more sociable. You will do fine dating. I definitely think the people who frequent this sub are outliers, most people aren’t looking into it this deep imo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/21 04:49 AM
4	What do men mean when they say they want sympathy for their dating issues? They don’t want to put in the work required to be a more attractive man. So they absolve themselves of the responsibility and shift the blame to women. It’s a defense / coping mechanism. I know this because i used to be one of those men. I’m trying to be better now and improve myself for my future significant other and also myself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/21 08:18 PM
5	If being poor/low income is what makes a man a loser in women's eyes, is there a singular (near) universal thing that makes women a loser and undatable in men's eye's? Being ugly or being fat makes you invisible to most men. Also, unfortunately single moms also generally have a hard time dating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/21 11:08 AM
3	[Q4All]How often do you see ugly people of the opposite gender? I live deep in the south. Most people around here just let themselves go weight wise or they don’t really take much care of their health. On average people tend to be chubby to overweight. Probably a good 30% are just straight up fat. There are people around here my age and they are generally overweight too but there are lots of people who at least maintain a decent, average frame. Not too many people workout or are fit so it becomes noticeable if someone is lean or slim with some muscle mass. N…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/21 05:00 PM
20	Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men. best advice i can give to a young man is to make sure his financial situation is immaculate, gain some muscle mass and take care of your body and appearance, and make sure you 100% without a doubt know your purpose in the world. Do this for yourself, not for women, and understand that it will take a considerable amount of time to figure these things out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/21 02:55 AM
1	Is Hypergamy Real? Really not doing this with a random redditor today. Hypergamy exists for both men and women. If you choose to believe it only exists for women, so be it. If you want to believe men aren’t capable of hypergamy based on data that can be skewed and not just observing multiple real world examples, so be it. We can agree to disagree.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/21 12:20 PM
1	Is Hypergamy Real? Yeah I’m not buying this, men can be just as hypergamous as women. Just an observation of what I’ve seen in the real world.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/21 10:44 AM
3	We always talk about pump and dump, but what date and leave because of fear (avoidants)? How common is that nowadays? I’m considering making a post exploring this, I will reflect on it some more now that I’ve just had this slight realization lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/21 05:22 AM
1	Why do successful, independent, women even want husbands? Nobody ever said anything about being entitled to sex. You might just be self projecting. And also, you can’t pair bond with a dildo. Get real	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/21 04:26 AM
1	Why do successful, independent, women even want husbands? You don’t have sex with friends, and you can’t form an intimate pair bond with them either. Dogs are cool, but they cannot replace the human touch	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/21 03:40 AM
1	Why do men factor a woman’s body into her overall attractiveness more than women factor in a man’s body ? That’s cool if MGTOW men want to do that. It’s basically just genders switched. I think the issues people have with MGTOW are the ones that go to super extremes and actually practicing a degree of misogyny. Same could be applied to FDS and certain degrees of misandry. I think both perspectives have valid points and recommend both men and women to be the best they can be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/21 02:46 AM
1	Is Hypergamy Real? If that’s how you wish to interpret it sure, but let’s not pretend men are not hypergamous either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/21 01:48 AM
7	We always talk about pump and dump, but what date and leave because of fear (avoidants)? How common is that nowadays? Now that I think about it, I think chads are mostly a coping mechanism that men use to shift blame from themselves to that of a woman. Oh there can’t be any bad qualities in me, I’m a great dude, no it must be the woman wanting someone tall muscular and handsome, they are all shallow, please stop me if you’ve heard this before. I do think avoidant men is an interesting topic. Although I think most avoidant men would avoid the dating scene altogether (me personally out of respect for all women lo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/21 01:25 AM
4	Why do successful, independent, women even want husbands? Your statement spoke to me with a lot of clarity. So thank you for that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/21 01:01 AM
10	Why do successful, independent, women even want husbands? Seriously, how detached do you have to be from simple human emotions to ask a question like this. Intimate companionship is something everyone craves on a subconscious level.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/21 12:58 AM
2	Why do successful, independent, women even want husbands? The answer is simple. They want companionship. They want someone worthy enough to share their life with. Someone to grow old with and share their memories with. Please look into pair bonding, everyone craves this on a biological level, even if they claim they do not. It is how we are biologically wired. Also look up Oxycotin and how it affects men and women. Also sex with a partner that will bond with them for life is also very appealing that cycles back to oxycotin and pair bonding. This isn’t …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/21 12:57 AM
3	Is it really that common for women to be turned off by seeing a man they are in a relationship with crying? Can this one thing destroy relationships? Men are only allowed to cry in certain situations. Death of somebody close, loss of a beloved pet, the end of a relationship, any other situation he might be met with resentment from his significant other. Although this will vary from partner to partner. A man always has to be strong and be the rock, that’s just what society has conditioned everyone to believe. If I ever feel really sad, I honestly just cry alone and if anyone comes nearby I just look away and pretend like I’m not crying. That’s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/21 12:51 AM
1	Is Hypergamy Real? Let’s be real here. People can all be cruel and ruthless to each other, both men and women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/21 12:45 AM
1	Is Hypergamy Real? Hypergamy is not out of the realm of possibility for men either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/21 12:43 AM
0	Is Hypergamy Real? 100% hypergamy is real, for both men and women. In general people are going to want to pick better partners once they come upon the self realization that they can. That they deserve the best and won’t compromise and want to be in the best possible situation for themselves. People who don’t have their shit together may dread hypergamy. But for those who are on their grind and on their purpose and seek excellence in every facet of their lives, hypergamy can be a really good thing. For both men and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/21 12:42 AM
8	Would a British accent help you get laid in the US? Depends. If you actually look good and not like complete shite, have an established life and take care of yourself I’m sure ladies would love the accent as a cherry on top. If that’s all you’ve got going for you and you look like a scrawny gremlin that hasn’t bathed in weeks and just like to talk about football and tea then you probably aren’t going to get much action	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/21 12:39 AM
2	Why do men factor a woman’s body into her overall attractiveness more than women factor in a man’s body ? perfectly fine to me. If a woman cannot find a partner that meets her standards, it’s better for her to remain single and enjoy herself until that right person comes along. And if they never do, that’s fine too. Although most might give in and settle	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/21 07:08 PM
2	Why do men factor a woman’s body into her overall attractiveness more than women factor in a man’s body ? Probably because the face is what one spends the most time looking at and is the most personable. I’m a man and even to me, a woman’s face is her most important physical quality, particularly the eyes. The eyes are something that just draws me to an individual, I can usually tell instantly whether I will connect with someone based on the eyes. Just my two cents	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/21 06:58 PM
1	Why do men factor a woman’s body into her overall attractiveness more than women factor in a man’s body ? Sometimes, even today, women have to settle because of a myriad of reasons, maybe the area she is in has limited partners, maybe she doesn’t have a good financial situation or some type of mental issue, or maybe she feels as if she can no longer attract a partner that she has idealized in her head, so she compromises and picks someone she wouldn’t have considered a long term partner a few years back. Same thing goes for men, some times people just settle cuz they are exhausted of searching or da…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/21 05:25 PM
6	Why do men factor a woman’s body into her overall attractiveness more than women factor in a man’s body ? You could attribute this to the popular notion that the majority of a woman's worth is tied directly to her appearance. How she looks, how she takes care of herself, the time she invests to make sure she looks in tip top shape. With that being said, you could also consider the perspective that men have always been viewed as providers since time immemorial, so his looks do not really matter as much, and his value as a long term partner is most important when it comes to what he can provide for a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/21 04:56 PM
5	CMV: Women's SMV is very flexible whilst men's SMV is very rigid. yeah, lots of men are conditioned to believe that women don't particularly care much for looks. That's a crock of shit. Women care a lot about how a man presents himself and how he takes care of himself. Get healthy, take care of your skin, get some muscle mass, get some nice fitting clothes, you can't walk around looking like a gremlin and expect women to give you the time of day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/21 04:37 PM
-3	CMV: Women's SMV is very flexible whilst men's SMV is very rigid. I think lots of men severely underestimate how much good grooming and physical activity can do for them. If you put on a good amount of muscle mass, get a nice haircut, take care of your facial hair or freshly shave, wear decent clothes and smell nice, you are substantially improving your situation. Lots of men underestimate this and frankly, lots of dudes just look like shit and don't take care of themselves. Men to a degree like to hold the appearance of women they are romantically interested …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/21 04:33 PM
1	Do women underestimate the strength of smaller men? Testosterone + adrenaline can give men huge bursts of insane strength. Definitely would not underestimate any man who has nothing left to lose and does not care if he’s caught violating the law or not. I’m a man myself and I am always cautious around strangers no matter where I am, I recognize that society is just full of made up laws and the moment shit hits the fan, people will say fuck the law if it can no longer be enforced and be reduced to wild ravenous animals preying on everyone and anyo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/21 08:16 PM
1	Does the Amber Heard story prove that men will leave good women if they have the opportunity to get with someone hotter and younger? Nobody knows what the relationship dynamics are like behind closed doors. There’s just too much we do not know. It would be hard to make a proper assessment of the situation given how little we know of these people, beyond of course the heard / depp situation. Just a crappy situation all around.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/21 04:32 PM
1	If your man watches porn because he has limited to no access to sex with you, there is a 0% chance that you can pity yourself for the situation you got into. This thread is a rollercoaster, I love it. You bring up porn and it’s always a fun topic	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/21 03:29 PM
1	The Ultimate Female Fantasy Nice post op, seems to be disagreements regarding the sentiment of the post but I get it. It’s not that the guy is going to cheat on the girl, but it’s the possibility that he could, that people around him know that he could and that he does has options, of course he isn’t going to exercise them because that’s the point in being in a committed relationship. It’s socially understood that he could cheat though, but no one would ever flat out say it. All ties back to social proof I guess	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/21 11:00 PM
6	Yes, there are two different worlds when it comes to casual sex (and everything else) . Inhibited and uninhibited. Most of you need to change (some of) your social circle. thanks for the post op, an interesting read for sure	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/21 01:55 PM
1	Would You Make The Trade? I appreciate life and can accept humanity for what it is now. I wouldn’t change a thing. There comes a point where you just have to come to terms with the world you live in	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/21 08:00 PM
1	Do you make assumptions about couples and people you see day to day, based on your theories here? For the most part I just think about what makes them a good fit or the qualities they like about each other. I haven’t people watched in a long time or gone out in a long time because of the pandemic though. Most of the time nowadays, it’s mostly why the fuck aren’t these people wearing masks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/21 03:23 PM
2	Female Dating Strategy took a little dive into there a few months ago. alot of what i read can be chalked up as toxic and heartless. some of these people aren't looking for love or affection from someone who deeply cares about them, they're looking for everything under the sun but that. This extends beyond FDS and lots of corners of the red pill community, and honestly most of society in general imo has become radicalized in this weird dating world we live in today. good natured, grounded people just want someone who …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/21 10:26 AM
9	Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not? Casual sex is fine as long as all parties involved are being safe and consentual about it. Generally the people that might be upset about this are mad that they are on somebody else’s piece and not their own lol. At the end of the day it’s your own body so do whatever you want with it, if you want to share it with other people in short term flings, that’s cool. Me personally I need to have a deeper connection first before that level of intimacy can happen.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/21 05:08 AM
1	Why are both men and women flakey these days? Also do flakey people realize they burn bridges by being flakey? the truth is there are still decent people out there, there are people who do the bare minimum, then there are people who shouldn't be allowed to procreate	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/21 11:17 AM
2	Biological men and women will continue to radically diverge sexually in the near future, facilitated by emerging technologies. I certainly wish I shared this same sentiment, I did at a different point in my life. But if society keeps progressing and no major disruptions or collapses to society happens, I can see your thesis being fully realized. It has been shown in recent times that markets will always be fulfilled if there is money to be made. Morals, ethics, traditions, and legalities aside. And sex is a big market since time immemorial	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/21 10:23 PM
1	Biological men and women will continue to radically diverge sexually in the near future, facilitated by emerging technologies. This of course assumes technology has the market and means to develop this type of product and also whether humanity will survive long enough to see these advanced entertainment media to be fully realized. As of now I am extremely skeptical we will ever be able to develop the type of tech you describe in your post and am overall not fully convinced we will destroy ourselves before we get to advanced AI / life like VR stimulation. But that’s another conversation. But overall, I agree with the sen…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/21 10:10 PM
1	There is no separate casual sex and relationship market. No cap ever since joining this sub I’ve been more and more dissuaded from attempting to form romantic relationships, this shit is just too mentally exhausting to process some days you know, kudos to you guys who enjoy the game though but I’m starting to realize relationships are beyond me at this point. Stay safe out there	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/21 09:06 PM
2	Q4M: If male birth control existed as a pill like it did for women, would you take it? Sounds pretty cool, why not?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/21 05:31 AM
9	The talk of “dropping frame” says red pill to me. Is this really how red pill guys think? Why does the concept of giving pleasure not factor in? Why such a zero-sum game mindset? Moment of silence for his significant other	/r/ExRedPill	11/03/21 12:57 AM
1	You basically need to be a psychopath to actually close with “hot girls”... Empathy is a turn-off Scarcity principle I guess? People want something that is unattainable, and if these guys seem impossible to hold onto, that in turn makes them more attractive or desirable. Of course it’s completely counter intuitive, but the dating scene never has made sense from a logical perspective.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/21 11:21 PM
1	Do you believe that everything that people do, is to attract the opposite sex? That opposite-sex attention is the only thing that matters in life? If that is the case I’m doing a piss poor job. I have detached myself from the dating market and looking for a partner. Not really doing anything right now to make myself attractive to a potential partner and if I’m being completely honest, I don’t care too. It’s just too exhausting for me, so more for the other men I guess.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/21 01:22 AM
21	Why are so many young men falling behind on the dating market (and just life in general)? Collective apathy from a dying world. Everything is so ugly now. i would also like to include that this affects EVERYONE, not just young men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/21 02:28 AM
1	Q4M: Would you date a woman who is taller than you? Honestly, yeah why not. If we both get along and have a good time together why not	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/21 11:57 PM
1	What's the point in marriage? All I can say is there is definitely a fire lol. And it’s rising.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/21 04:16 PM
3	What's the point in marriage? I think the only purpose of a marriage is to cultivate a good environment to raise children in a stable 2-parent household. I believe this is extremely critical in the healthy development of a child’s life, that it’s worth the risk. Of course as it stands right now, I’m in the anti-natalist camp which generally means I’m in the anti marriage camp as well. This extends into other things like being against the establishment and generally being nihilist, so I have an extremely radicalized view of t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/21 04:14 PM
1	As the average American woman is 171lbs @ 5ft4 is wanting a slim girlfriend under 140lbs now considered "high standards?" I don’t really pay much attention to all of that. I just want someone with a similar weight to mine or someone who at least does the bare minimum to take care of their bodies. Personal health is important to me, I just cannot be with someone who lets go of themselves physically, I used to be there myself and it is not a good headspace to be in	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/21 08:16 PM
3	redpill hypocrisy about women being shallow Humanity by default is vain. Generally when people select partners the sexual attraction to that person is always considered first. Just how humans are hardwired, although it is possible for people to look beyond appearances	/r/ExRedPill	15/02/21 07:50 AM
1	It's cognitive dissonance for TRP men to be Pro Life while wanting to engage in casual sex with as many as women as possible I don’t believe there is a direct correlation between red pillers and pro lifers. And if there is, I’ve been ignorant of it until now. I’ve dabbled in red pills discussion since my discovery of it in 2011 and have never seen or heard of this association. But I have seen a lot of lamenting on women lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/21 04:55 PM
11	Tennessee Bill Would Allow Fathers to Veto Abortions No, it violates the woman’s constitutional right of bodily autonomy. It’s in her body and she has the free will to do whatever she wants to her own body. It’s really that simple.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/21 09:09 PM
3	CMV: If all men were suddenly attractive, women would find all men attractive and not just the top 20% I think hypergamy will always have its place. And this isn’t a realistic scenario, it would be like also saying one day every human woke up attractive and there would be no need to pick based on appearance. Yet there would still be people not getting any action, guaranteed. Scarcity principle would find its way to function anyhow. I don’t think this is a good argument to bring up anyway because it is beyond the scope of reality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/21 06:55 PM
40	Women feel the same way about men they’re not attracted to as men feel about gay men. Over 500 partners, holy cow that’s crazy. I never thought about it in this context, but it makes sense the more i think about it	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/21 03:55 PM
6	CMV: Most women lack self awareness about their unearned privilege when it comes to sex, dating, relationships and socializing. Do we have actually have hard science and research on libido differences between men and women. Genuinely curious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/21 08:13 PM
3	CMV: Most women lack self awareness about their unearned privilege when it comes to sex, dating, relationships and socializing. This just sounds like bad decision making. Anyone is capable of choosing a bad partner, men and women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/21 08:11 PM
14	she wants more vanilla sex She doesn’t want to do the more wild stuff anymore, it’s not that deep.	/r/askTRP	03/01/21 05:42 PM
1	An ideal feminist woman. 100% empowered and rejects the patriarchy. The aura emanating from this photo is exceptionally powerful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/21 08:39 PM
27	How do you know if a girl is interested in the street? I guess you wouldn’t know unless you asked her if she studied road design or is involved in city development projects.	/r/askTRP	01/01/21 11:02 PM
4	Why do girls' feelings seem to change so quickly? sometimes things work out, sometimes they don't. you just move on man. I'm personally going through a break up right now, she's already moved onto the next dude, it is what it is bro. don't overthink and over analyze it. Just cut ties and move on, maybe the next person it will work out, maybe it won't. Just gotta focus on yourself and find happiness and purpose in other areas in your life. ya feel?	/r/askTRP	01/01/21 03:23 AM
4	Girlfriend broke up with me. Randomly ghosts me for a week then sends me this. Says she still wants to be friends. Did she find someone hotter and is just keeping me on the backburner or is this real. it sucks, but looks like you have to move on. Staying friends will only make the healing harder. I'm going through a break up myself, and it helps a lot to distance yourself from the person and just move on. Of course, grieve the relationship, take the time you need, hang out with friends and family if its safe, but give yourself time to come to terms with what happened and become a more positive person from it.	/r/ExRedPill	31/12/20 09:31 AM
3	I think im relapsing I think some red pill ideas are interesting to read about and get a perspective on, but you do have to be careful with the information you take in. Just know to use the information and apply it in a positive way in your life. This honestly goes with anything on the internet, digest information carefully, don’t fall too deep into the rabbit hole	/r/ExRedPill	28/12/20 01:41 PM
6	I don't know if I'll ever stop being misogynistic Might be a good time to detach yourself from the dating scene or any form of romantic relationships and just focus on yourself until you are comfortable to try it in the future, or honestly never. There is no rule in society that says people have to partake in the development of romantic relationships, you don’t have to do it at all. In fact, truthfully you don’t have to do anything. Ultimately it’s all worthless, so it’s important to find your own intrinsic purpose in life and let that motivate…	/r/ExRedPill	28/12/20 01:34 PM
1	Is it a bit ironic, that people here are so heated and vitriolic on a sub about relationships and dating, which are supposed to involve love and passion? Just people in general actually, this ignores gender	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/20 06:38 AM
2	Is it a bit ironic, that people here are so heated and vitriolic on a sub about relationships and dating, which are supposed to involve love and passion? It’s very easy to go from thinking you are going to spend a lifetime with someone to never speaking to them again within a week span. Yes, love is to be celebrated. Everyone wants love, even if they would never admit it to themselves. On a subconscious level we all want to be accepted and truly appreciated for who we are. But society can be cruel, and because relationships are by nature a derivative of the societies we exist in, there are social norms and general expectations for difficult cultu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/20 06:55 PM
3	hit a mental wall honestly just gotta find your own intrinsic purpose in life and move towards it. I'm in the nihilist camp that believes life really does not have any particular purpose, humans just have to assign that value so they can propagate, which really is all we know. It's all bullshit man, but you have to find your own purpose. Don't feel too down on yourself, it's natural to feel like you just exist sometimes because we live in an unnatural state. Just look at the world around you. Just us conversating…	/r/askTRP	25/12/20 09:51 AM
1	And ltr just pulled a fake break up on me. If someone does not want to be involved with you then let them go. Not just in romantic relationships but interpersonal relationships in general	/r/askTRP	24/12/20 09:22 PM
4	Girl threw up on my dick it happens more often then you would think and it is not a big deal. Not something to be shocked about, accidents happen sometimes, just move on and don't bring it up	/r/askTRP	23/12/20 09:39 AM
1	Men and women can be friends, the only reason you don’t think so is because you aren’t willing to be friends with someone you aren’t sexually attached to. I think there are too many different types of people and too many different social values even if we just examine the West alone to make a definitive conclusion on this. I will say this though, it’s almost always a bad idea to be friends with someone you are sexually attracted too only for the hopes that one day the friendship will blossom until a relationship, again sometimes you hear stories about that working, but generally it’s a bad idea for both men and women. There are certain settings an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/20 03:07 PM
4	Plate is falling in love with me, and it’s making me feel like shit Bruh moment	/r/askTRP	16/12/20 11:22 PM
1	If a woman asks me "Why should I go out with you and not someone else?", how do I answer? Honestly, no response. Move on. That’s just disrespectful and there is no answer worth the breathe saying	/r/askTRP	16/12/20 06:36 PM
4	anyone feel trapped? Think you are placing way too much value in lays. Take a step back and evaluate what you want in life. And covid will eventually go away once vaccinations are available to the public. Don’t spent too much time pondering on things you cannot change.	/r/askTRP	14/12/20 04:06 AM
4	What are the causes and consequences of the growing number of men who are not participating in society? Maybe society has failed people or the means to get to success is significantly difficult now. I guess the only winning move is not to play. Let’s be real, society is bullshit and always has been. Maybe nihilism has finally caught up to the mainstream. Just my opinion	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/20 07:28 AM
2	Has anyone become kinda traumatized of sex after sooo much meaningless sex? Maybe take a break from the whole dating scene and just chill for a while to recollect your thoughts? Idk, sounds destructive to continue in your situation though	/r/askTRP	07/12/20 06:25 PM
2	Ex of 4and a half years texted me to return my clothes Get your clothes back or don’t. Pretty simple, don’t dwell on it too much.	/r/askTRP	06/12/20 08:57 PM
7	The red pill shames gold diggers yet they tell men to make money to attract women... One of the biggest reasons for struggles in any relationship is because of financial hardships. It’s just better for everyone, man or woman, to better themselves financially. I would like to point out making money just to attract women is a bad idea, you should want to make money to achieve goals that you have set for yourself and reaching milestones that are important to you.	/r/ExRedPill	05/12/20 06:34 PM