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| 12 | Anyone else feel like there is A LOT missing from this story??These are all excuses I’ve heard from my addict ex. “Why are you so mad at me? I’ve never raised my hand to you, never called you stupid, never cheated! You have no reason to be such a [whatever insult he felt would cut most].” Nodding out from whatever the cap was cut with, saying he’s “just tired because I’m the breadwinner”; hiding track marks; expensive gifts to hide big spending on drugs; alienating from the family because they don’t understand. Good riddance to bad rubbish. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 02:59 PM |
| 19 | Anyone else feel like there is A LOT missing from this story??Yep, having dealt with addicts my whole life, this reads like an addict. “I’m just tired,” no, homie, you’re nodding out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 02:55 PM |
| 2 | The audacity! Time to abandon or murder your pet, as all good women doHorse women get shit on constantly by dudes. Constantly. Now, I’ve yet to meet a neurotypical horse woman, but I adore those ladies. I’ve yet to meet one who wasn’t strong, fantastic at communication, intuition, and setting boundaries. There are men out there absolutely terrified of the fact that we don’t take bullshit from a 1200lb animal, and that we have no similar issues voicing objections to them. I’ve had men get mad at me for having a male horse (gelding) because “how could theirs look bi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 05:50 PM |
| 6 | Can’t wait to see the male commenters of DM collectively lose their tiny minds.Ahhh, the Daily Fail strikes again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 12:09 AM |
| 32 | Not to be unkind, but he looks like the Geico gecko if left in a hot car. (Reposted with appropriate cropping this time! Sorry all the funny comments got deleted!!)Right, I’m an I cup and I’ve literally had guys message me “hey boo, I see those DDs”. They have no scale whatsoever. He’s just putting something arbitrary in his profile for whatever BS reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 10:02 PM |
| 2 | Not to be unkind, but the man looks like the Geico gecko was left in a hot car for a few hours.You’re right; I deleted it and reposted. I’m on mobile so I’m not entirely sure I was successful. Thank you, I do appreciate it ☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Not to be unkind, but the man looks like the Geico gecko was left in a hot car for a few hours.Oh, shit. Thank you for pointing that out. Is there any way to edit or crop the image without deleting the post? Also, it’s a real name. There are a couple of famous ones out there, the first which springs to mind is the footie player. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 07:17 PM |
| 2 | Not to be unkind, but the man looks like the Geico gecko was left in a hot car for a few hours.The ones with the fewest options always front like they’re the hottest commodity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 07:15 PM |
| 3 | Not to be unkind, but the man looks like the Geico gecko was left in a hot car for a few hours.I have the screenshot, but the internet frowns on it. Genuinely, think gecko with strong jaw line, anemic skin, 1950s news anchor glasses, a hairline as absent as his father figure, and the eyes of Ed Kemper. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 07:04 PM |
| 3 | Not to be unkind, but the man looks like the Geico gecko was left in a hot car for a few hours.I’m betting he can’t tell the difference between a C cup and an E cup. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 07:02 PM |
| 14 | Not to be unkind, but the man looks like the Geico gecko was left in a hot car for a few hours.I have I cups (I for “I really need a reduction”), and immediately wanted to take a shower after reading this profile. I’m 5’9, and have a feeling this 5’11 “gentleman” and I would be the same height, somehow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 06:14 PM |
| 39 | Not to be unkind, but the man looks like the Geico gecko was left in a hot car for a few hours.Needs to tap dance his ass into therapy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 05:32 PM |
| 33 | Not to be unkind, but the man looks like the Geico gecko was left in a hot car for a few hours.Mate, it’s tragic. I swiped to see a clearer picture of his face and just went, “huh, that’s awfully bold of you, sir.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 05:29 PM |
| 20 | I got you, babe.At this point, just call me fucking Smaug. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 04:30 PM |
| 15 | 😭😭😭😭I mean, personally, it’s pseudocoma/ locked-in syndrome ... but you do you, Miss Havisham. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 01:18 AM |
| 3 | Apparently I wasn't actually having fun because I didn't drink.Man, I wish I had friends who threw parties without alcohol. I’m supremely allergic, and have no fun because I’m worried about having a reaction the whole time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 04:57 PM |
| 105 | Men only bringing the audacity, yet again, to the table!That’s a really good trainer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 12:35 AM |
| 2 | “Think of You” - MS MRFor me it’s a reminder that that behavior is unacceptable. Like, ‘does this dude act like John Smith? Then he’s a LVM, let’s not do that again’. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 11:47 PM |
| 11 | Leave 👏 those 👏 girls 👏 alone 👏Yep, got called a female neckbeard for this post. Wow, not wanting underage girls to sleep with middle aged men is extreme these days, I guess. 🙄 Welcome to FDS! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 04:49 PM |
| 16 | Leave 👏 those 👏 girls 👏 alone 👏You realized sooner than I did, lovely. Don’t stress it; a lesson learned, whatever the timing, is still valuable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 06:04 AM |
| 24 | Leave 👏 those 👏 girls 👏 alone 👏Just as damaging, in my view. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 05:19 AM |
| 27 | Leave 👏 those 👏 girls 👏 alone 👏I shouldn’t be shocked, but I am. God. Lemme guess, it’s also full of DD/lg stuff too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 03:09 AM |
| 37 | Leave 👏 those 👏 girls 👏 alone 👏That’s a thing? Oh god, that’s a thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 03:00 AM |
| 180 | Leave 👏 those 👏 girls 👏 alone 👏So true. I cringe, looking back. I was 21 and he was 42... makes bile rise in my throat thinking about it now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 01:48 AM |
| 193 | Leave 👏 those 👏 girls 👏 alone 👏I honestly think it should be part of sex education. Signs that you are being pressured into or used for sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 01:47 AM |
| 5 | Le PoWeR woRDs...😂I can’t find the original thread, and I’m dying to read these roasts! What an absolute muppet. I’m 30, and couldn’t imagine dating a 21yo; they seem so young to me. What the actual hell is wrong with these men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 08:15 PM |
| 1 | I’m out of words.Oh my sweet summer child, I’m afraid that allergens are a ‘hoax’ to a fair number of people. :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 10:41 PM |
| 8 | I’m out of words.I remember that horrifically tragic story from yonks ago, from when an entitled grandmother kept putting coconut oil in the granddaughter‘s hair, and the little girl died from it. I honestly do not understand the thought process. I really don’t. What gives these people the belief that they know better and that it’s ok? If someone could explain the thought process to me, that’d be great. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 06:09 PM |
| 25 | I’m out of words.Man, I’ve had people try to ‘spike’ me with a very bad allergen of mine (stage 4, it’s deadly), all because they thought they knew better, or somehow didn’t believe I was allergic. It is so terrifying when someone tampers with your food to purposefully place an allergen in it. This is literally one of my worst nightmares. I’m not sure how this isn’t a criminal offense; it feels like malicious intent to me (disclaimer: NAL). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 01:26 PM |
| 22 | The look on his face was worth every pennyDepends on the reason! Epilepsy? No. DUI? Yes. Laziness? Yes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 04:24 PM |
| 5 | My mom sent me this. I thought it’d serve as a good reminder for everyone on this sub.Oof. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 08:53 PM |
| 5 | My current on-repeat FDS anthem: Kailee Morgue - F**K UGlad someone does; I’m getting downvoted for this, lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 08:11 PM |
| 3 | Just had an email alert from the sex offenders registry. Our nice, friendly, attractive new neighbor? Rapist. ALWAYS make sure you have the information to keep yourself safe, and stay aware.Actually, I found that most of the people I arrested lived within sight of a school or college, depending on their targets. They might have been technically out of the zone, but they have ways around it. Childcare locations, after school programs, looking over church playgrounds. These chomos are pretty cunning, don’t underestimate how many there are of them out there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 11:06 PM |
| 2 | Just had an email alert from the sex offenders registry. Our nice, friendly, attractive new neighbor? Rapist. ALWAYS make sure you have the information to keep yourself safe, and stay aware.Be safe out there, sis <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 11:03 PM |
| 2 | Just had an email alert from the sex offenders registry. Our nice, friendly, attractive new neighbor? Rapist. ALWAYS make sure you have the information to keep yourself safe, and stay aware.I know what you mean! I had a word with my dog; it’s his job to tell me about these guys, not demand belly rubs from them, lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 12:09 PM |
| 4 | Just had an email alert from the sex offenders registry. Our nice, friendly, attractive new neighbor? Rapist. ALWAYS make sure you have the information to keep yourself safe, and stay aware.Right?! How many sex offenders (especially rapists) aren’t even convicted. The number of cases that never go to trial is staggering. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 09:43 PM |
| 3 | Just had an email alert from the sex offenders registry. Our nice, friendly, attractive new neighbor? Rapist. ALWAYS make sure you have the information to keep yourself safe, and stay aware.I don’t know how your state or country’s registry works; every state I’ve lived in (and country) has been different. I just followed the prompts* on my state’s website. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 08:54 PM |
| 26 | Just had an email alert from the sex offenders registry. Our nice, friendly, attractive new neighbor? Rapist. ALWAYS make sure you have the information to keep yourself safe, and stay aware.Way ahead of you! Again, I used to wear a uniform and work on human trafficking cases. Thankfully, sending a screenshot of my neighbor’s alert moved my mum’s opinion on all my precautions from “paranoid” to “quite sensible, really”! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 08:18 PM |
| 36 | Just had an email alert from the sex offenders registry. Our nice, friendly, attractive new neighbor? Rapist. ALWAYS make sure you have the information to keep yourself safe, and stay aware.It tells you exactly what happened, where it happened, how old he was at the time, and details of the term served. It even lets you know their level; this case, Tier 3. The first line on the summary was “the criminal offense involved the forcible act of sexual intercourse”, and that “the registrant was a stranger to the victim”. Leaves no doubt! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 07:25 PM |
| 5 | Just had an email alert from the sex offenders registry. Our nice, friendly, attractive new neighbor? Rapist. ALWAYS make sure you have the information to keep yourself safe, and stay aware.I’m not sure how the website would work in your state or country, I’m sorry! I just followed the prompts on the webpage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 06:59 PM |
| 57 | Just had an email alert from the sex offenders registry. Our nice, friendly, attractive new neighbor? Rapist. ALWAYS make sure you have the information to keep yourself safe, and stay aware.Because it’s very easy to fall into victim blaming at that point. It’s ultimately up to men to stop raping women, not for women to make sure they validate all the tick boxes so it’s “not their fault”. That said. I think it’s just common sense to know who to avoid in an area. ETA: in case it wasn’t BLINDINGLY clear, it is NEVER the victim’s fault. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 04:30 PM |
| 29 | Just had an email alert from the sex offenders registry. Our nice, friendly, attractive new neighbor? Rapist. ALWAYS make sure you have the information to keep yourself safe, and stay aware.God, I’d definitely have to check local law to make sure I wouldn’t be liable for anything. Also worried about people running towards vigilantism and innocents getting mistaken for him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 04:25 PM |
| 79 | Just had an email alert from the sex offenders registry. Our nice, friendly, attractive new neighbor? Rapist. ALWAYS make sure you have the information to keep yourself safe, and stay aware.No more than most men. Just that I found it strange that an apparently handsome, intelligent, successful man was single. I mean, this dude is seriously charming. And then surprise! An answer courtesy of the state government. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 04:24 PM |
| 90 | Just had an email alert from the sex offenders registry. Our nice, friendly, attractive new neighbor? Rapist. ALWAYS make sure you have the information to keep yourself safe, and stay aware.I’m so sorry, it’s terrifying when you experience something like that. I’m a rape survivor, and used to work child/human trafficking cases. The world is not a pretty place, and I hate that so many women have similar stories. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 03:03 PM |
| 6 | Dear fucking gods.‘Yes, I’d like to request a welfare check to...’ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 03:25 AM |
| 1 | I found the perfect song for my FDS-inspired breakup. Thank you, ladies, for putting so much wisdom out there! This is 'Hell of a Girl' by SAYGRACE.Solidarity! <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 06:05 PM |
| 2 | THANK YOUYay, I’m so glad you loved it! It’s been my anthem since my breakup on Friday. I’ll be hollering along to it if you’d like to join in. ;) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 06:05 PM |
| 3 | Her: I'm a lesbian...LVM: so you wanna try it out?‘Just reply correctly so I can stroke myself. God, selfish bitch.’ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 02:21 PM |
| 20 | Homosocial tendencies within heterosexual male relationships. It all makes sense now.Oh damn, that hit home. This put into words the vague feelings I’d had, which drove a recent breakup. This sums it all up perfectly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 01:16 PM |
| 8 | Avoid LVM like the plague that they are.The emperor of LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 06:10 PM |
| 11 | Please let you imaginations run wild picturing the man attached to this bio“Most loyalest” 🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 08:57 PM |
| 2 | Don't get it twisted, you're a Queen.Damn, I needed this today. So accurate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 07:45 PM |
| 2 | LVM be like "who's gonna do your yard work, who's gonna clean your gutters, who's gonna open jars for you?"I am 100% the handy one of the two of us. Fixing/installing livestock fencing, mowing, building furniture, renovating houses? No problem. Also do all the sewing, cooking, and gift making/buying. Luckily the Mr is interested in learning. He grew up in an urban environment, while I grew up on the farm. I had more opportunities because I followed my dad around and learned when I was a kid. We have things we can teach each other, and that’s awesome. ... That doesn’t mean I can’t survive in the woods… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 07:48 PM |
| 106 | A full grown tape wormAnd they have the audacity to say we use them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 06:53 PM |
| 4 | 🥴🥴🥴🥴Looks like he had a questionable mustache to go along with that questionable behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 01:32 AM |
| 3 | If you are a woman, DO NOT join the military! They don’t give a fuck about you, and the men there pray on women and get away with it.Umm... no. I have worked as a crisis interventionist far too long to suggest that. And please don’t thank me for my service; I promise most who hear it, cringe. I did it for me, not for anyone else. ☺️ Furthermore, I’m a sexual assault and domestic violence survivor; trust me when I say I’m aware of what I speak in response to this article. You compartmentalize because you have people screaming at you when you need to focus on hitting targets, digging deep. You learn to keep ‘you’ separate from … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 07:44 PM |
| 12 | If you are a woman, DO NOT join the military! They don’t give a fuck about you, and the men there pray on women and get away with it.I am proud of the time I spent in uniform... but it was not easy. I gained a huge amount of confidence in myself, learned incredibly valuable life skills, but I fought for every little shred of respect from the men under my command. It was the making of me, but you’ve got to have the self confidence and ability to compartmentalize everything. You will go through hell, you will be broken down and built up, and you WILL face adversity. It’s up to you on how you handle it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 03:43 PM |
| 19 | Asking if I live alone in the first thirty seconds of getting to know a woman is creepy as shit. And this isn’t even on a dating site.Honestly it’s a generational thing, I think. My mum grew up in a world where no one locked their doors; I had to explain to her very carefully what certain things indicated. The naive older lady to the T, she would also 100% tell my new neighbors identifying information. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 11:37 PM |
| 15 | LMAO COULD NEVERRRRR BE MEShe looks ecstatic /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 11:24 PM |
| 39 | SeXuALLy ReJeCtiNg mEn iS A HaTe cRiMeRight?! When I was a barmaid a long time ago, I gave up wearing makeup, nice clothes, or putting any effort in. Started wearing sports bras to try and minimize the cleavage. Purposefully did my best to not draw attention; still had dudes passing their hotel key cards across the bar at me. Note: at the time I was living in a country which does not practice tipping their bar staff. The money I made was not reliant on looking good; if I was in America and needed that money, I’m sure it would have b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 05:25 PM |
| 2 | I'll never look at a single man who adopts a child, especially a female child, and not think "This man is likely a predator, he could be abusing/ grooming her, etc". Sure, some men genuinely want to be a father independent of their relationship status. But it doesn't seem right. Sorry not sorry.I am adopted. My father, the only man who has ever raised me, is a fantastic human. He is absolutely a HVM, and the man I respect more than any other. He has inspired me, supported me, and always been my biggest cheerleader. Never, EVER has he been inappropriate. They are white. I am mixed race. They are immigrants. All those ‘warning signs’ I see people talking about. It would break their hearts to know people automatically make these assumptions because I am adopted. Foster care is awful and t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 01:27 AM |
| 2 | Yes!!! What goals are you working towards and are proud of? Let me know below!Coding! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 03:17 PM |
| 3 | Yes!!! What goals are you working towards and are proud of? Let me know below!Thank you!! Coding ☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 01:18 AM |
| 22 | Apparently kids aren’t important because they can potentially alter your wife’s body 🙄I’ll never forget the time my dad told someone I was adopted and their reply was “smart, no wonder your wife aged so incredibly well.” I couldn’t have been more than 7 or 8, but it stuck with me. I can still remember the look of quiet rage on my dad’s face. I’m pretty sure he made it quietly known that this man’s career was not to go any further. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 12:09 AM |
| 24 | Yes!!! What goals are you working towards and are proud of? Let me know below!Tomorrow is the start of school. I graduated with my MA 10 years ago, and now it’s time for a completely different industry. So it goes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 08:44 PM |
| 1 | NVM doesn‘t even try...r/justbootthings Don’t worry, buddy. I have my own uniform. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 02:13 PM |
| 2 | Their reality is completely warpedThe real meaning of “I don’t talk like this in real life,” lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 11:52 PM |
| 23 | Don't let anyone ever pressure you into saying yes to something you do not wantRight, that’s what I thought! Nothing romantic about proposing in the mall! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 01:08 AM |
| 9 | Forgot my makeup bag at my boyfriend’s place and I get this response. We’ve been dating for 4 months. Definitely ended things with him. *shrug*Right?! Like, sure, I’m going to leave $300+ worth of stuff that I use everyday somewhere on purpose. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 01:55 PM |
| 9 | My heart breaks for her. Wish I didn't read this.I’m a plant person too, and her room sounds like heaven. I’m saving so that I can finally build a conservatory when I move into the new house. This hurt my heart, and I wish I could hug her. Maybe even give her a few cuttings, if she felt like she could face it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 11:32 PM |
| 9 | I can't even... (reposted thus because I didn't post the full Screenshot on accident)Throw the whole man away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 10:10 PM |
| 27 | Proof that FDS works , husband cheats wife with younger woman abandons her during her pregnancy , wife goes full FDS instead of cOmuNIcaTE and cOUnseLIng ,demands all and half of his paycheck , scrote regrets comes back begging .“I’d do anything except be faithful.” Asswipe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 01:12 AM |
| 2 | when tall women wear heels unapologetically, I live5’9 and I wear heels. Not afraid to date shorter, and I think it says a lot about a man who doesn’t care one bit. So many dates have said they’re 5’10... I turn up and just think, ‘if you’re 5’10 that makes me 6’1 😩😂’ Now I don’t care about their egos; I’m wearing what I want. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 12:30 AM |
| 3 | There are no words for how angry this makes me. I also reported him a few months ago when he showed up my my feed.The terrifying thing is, domestic abuse victims are way more likely to be killed if their abuser chokes them. Choking = escalation. Scary af. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 12:16 AM |
| 4 | I am disgusted that men think they are entitled to everything. And after this he asked me if we still wanted to go out.Sounds like the dude is from r/iamverysmart | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 12:13 AM |
| 6 | Hating misogynistic behavior = / = hating menGod, the ‘in heat’ thing just makes it worse! Eww! 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 12:10 AM |
| 3 | Reminder to be more rudeThat’s assault, straight up. There have been people arrested for licking fruit and spitting, so I imagine it wouldn’t go well for him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 12:09 AM |
| 20 | Not having a father to show you how to be a man is not an excuse to be a piece of shit. Fatherless men can be good men if they want to be.My toilet broke, and I found this channel on YouTube! He’s great at explaining things in a really concise way, and never once made me feel like an idiot (like assuming people knew simple things or terminology), or that I couldn’t do it. He’s great! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 06:40 PM |
| 5 | Pickmes are honestly dangerous to womenIt’s horrific! I’m so glad you got out of that situation safely. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 06:38 PM |
| 13 | Pickmes are honestly dangerous to womenI still wake up with nightmares. Haven’t been able to bring myself to watch ‘You’*. Read ‘Bone Music’ by Christopher Rice and got up to check my doors and windows three times that night. You don’t just waltz away from that experience. It’s terrifying, dehumanizing, and honestly one of the most horrific things I’ve ever experienced. It’s not freaking glamorous. It’s deadly for a lot of women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 02:55 PM |
| 2 | Damned if we do damned if we don’t..It’s also a way that people use you to drink the contaminated drink. It’s one surefire way to roofie people; have them drink it out of social pressure, under their watch so they know you drank all of it. It’s all about control. Don’t take any chance of being drugged. These situations? He had plenty of time to drop a dose in while he was on the other side of the crowd. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 03:58 PM |
| 47 | An old LVM friend reached out a few months ago...‘Youth isn’t a fountain old men should be tapping.’ Dang, that was eloquent af. I’m definitely remembering that line; you phrased it beautifully. Glad you guys were able to have a good laugh about the nonsense! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 02:21 PM |
| 3 | I love men who put their red flags in their dating profile biosConfirmation of chronic laziness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 08:08 PM |
| 6 | I love men who put their red flags in their dating profile biosThey still do it, and they’ve added even more features! Even questions about porn, abortions, contraception, and anal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 05:46 PM |
| 21 | I love men who put their red flags in their dating profile biosWhich shitbag ‘pick up artist’ told them it was a good idea?! And all the recycled The Office quotes. Just an absolute neon sign that they haven’t a personality between them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 02:00 PM |
| 59 | I love men who put their red flags in their dating profile biosAnd those lame fake endorsements! ‘Most handsome man ever!’ - my mom ‘Great guy!’ - New York Times ‘Hell of a guy’ - Angelina Jolie | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 01:57 PM |
| 14 | LVM want you to think this is a pipe dreamTradies get the ladies! <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 07:56 AM |
| 10 | Thought of this sub. Sorry if it’s a repost.Yes! I spin, knit, and sew. Honestly I have met so many amazing, inspirational women through these hobbies. Learned so many practical life skills, and it felt like having a room full of grandmothers and cousins. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Physically recoiled from this post and the mess in the corner. Had a hard time choosing a flair... so many fit.On the plus side, after losing her job she doesn’t have to see him anymore? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 12:05 AM |
| 5 | Physically recoiled from this post and the mess in the corner. Had a hard time choosing a flair... so many fit.I don’t think he’s physically capable of being a daddy; he looks like his balls never dropped. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 11:55 PM |
| 10 | An interesting read, which further confirms the belief that 'porn sick' is a genuine issue. Articulate, self-aware statement from Jeremy Long aka Masyoshi Mukai regarding leaving the porn industry.A wonderful example of why we don’t date on potential. Smart guy, good looking, went to a good school for a law degree. Ended up here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 02:49 PM |
| 5 | An interesting read, which further confirms the belief that 'porn sick' is a genuine issue. Articulate, self-aware statement from Jeremy Long aka Masyoshi Mukai regarding leaving the porn industry.Yep, hence the ‘self-aware’ part of it; this is a dude who is entirely self-centered. It does mention how the women lose their feeling of dignity, doing scenes they swore they’d never do. The drugs. The coercion. Also, the way he talks about mental health concerned me. He’s currently doing 10 years for the DUI charge, so with luck there will be a talented shrink there. I’m not hopeful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 12:55 PM |
| 33 | What do you think about have a secret bank account? Husband finds wife’s secret savings account (in case the marriage goes south) and feels betrayed. I’m leaning towards thinking this is fine but I want your takes on this!Absolutely. Never be without *your own ‘oh shit’ money. I was able to get out of an abusive relationship by having my own secret stash, and I don’t think I’d be here without it. Never, ever, EVER rely on someone else for your sole survival. Be that your relatives or your partner, always have something that allows you to exit in an emergency. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 10:31 PM |
| 2 | AmazingTIL! Had never heard it before! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Quick reminder - you are worth everything, and more.Understandable, but we also talk about ‘low value’ and ‘high value’ here a lot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 11:03 PM |
| 3 | AmazingYou are here now, and you are making progress. We all have regrets in our past, but this is the chance for progress. Keep your chin up, lady, you’ve got this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 02:39 PM |
| 2 | Let them eat cake.Do let me know when you find it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 07:38 PM |
| 5 | Let them eat cake.Unfortunately, haven’t been able to find the source on reverse-search. Admittedly I’m not that tech savvy, beyond the basics. Just saw it on FB and yoinked it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 07:28 PM |
| 17 | Wow. My expectations for this holiday were so low, that all I wanted was a simple "Happy V-Day" text that shows he acknowledges my existence.And you don’t have to share your discount chocolate-haul, when you’re single. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 01:24 AM |
| 5 | Forever girlfriend supports her LVM financially for years then is asked for a "break" so he can date her roommateI already sent her a message and a link to FDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 02:24 AM |
| 8 | Vietnamese women shutting down sexpat losers on OLDbUt OnCe WoMeN hIt ThIrTy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 02:13 AM |
| 16 | Not wrong. Classic LVM.Here’s a quick breakdown on the reference: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Schr%C3%B6dinger%27s_cat There are some really old jokes about Schrödinger's cat, and this is just a continuation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 06:08 AM |
| 7 | What in the pickmeisha hell...?! Secret child? 14 years? Oh hell no.I mean, it could be for possessing 1g of weed at this rate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 12:40 AM |
| 10 | What in the pickmeisha hell...?! Secret child? 14 years? Oh hell no.Several baby mamas doesn’t sound like he wraps it up, especially when cheating and having a ‘secret child’. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 11:33 PM |
| 18 | This is a mood!She is iconic and I love her to pieces. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 01:08 AM |
| 3 | Straight from the horse’s mouth.Interesting, I took response that word-for-word from a recommended FDS post. What would you recommend instead, then? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 02:06 AM |
| 3 | Straight from the horse’s mouth.Also, points for great word! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 10:15 PM |
| 8 | Straight from the horse’s mouth.Unfortunately, I tend to fit their MPDG aesthetic without being too alternative, so you know ‘you’re cool but not like, weird’ (direct quote, FML). So I get a lot of the ‘hey, Ramona Flowers’, and ‘you remind me of Belle, can I be your Beast?’ BS. Im really not surprised, at this point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 02:39 PM |
| 83 | Straight from the horse’s mouth.You already know I did. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 04:01 AM |
| 25 | ‘There’s no such thing as a code of conduct, babe.’How dare you hold me accountable for my poor decisions lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 03:59 PM |
| 3 | What a self-absorbed twat!I roll my eyes at this. I wore a uniform too, dude. Then it’s usually, ‘I would have joined but I would have yelled at ABC if they told me to XYZ’. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 07:55 AM |
| 15 | LVM and Pickmeisha depicted in popular cultureUgh, yes. The ‘I always had a crush on Ramona Flowers’ comments KILL me. Death to manic pixie dream girl BS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 07:20 AM |
| 28 | LVM and Pickmeisha depicted in popular cultureI can’t watch How I Met Your Mother because I wouldn’t wish Ted on anyone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 07:18 AM |
| 1 | Yes, sis!Oh same, posted this with burning cheeks haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 11:28 AM |
| 3 | What’re you having? Non-alcoholic drinksIt’s a dumb, unusual allergy; most people assume I’m lying about it. So, the first reaction is, ‘you could just say no.’ S H R U G. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 06:31 PM |
| 3 | Straight to degradationThink of all the younger women who’d go to his shows and be taken in. I think it would be the done thing to do. I had one musician tell me I deserved to be raped. Asked what his soundcloud was, and made him locally famous... just not the way he wanted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 03:16 PM |
| 6 | What’re you having? Non-alcoholic drinksI usually go for a ginger ale; I find that a lot of cranberry is too sweet for me, these days. As an aside, I cannot drink. I carry an epi pen on me at all times for the chance that I’m exposed to alcohol. So. Many. Guys. act like me not drinking, or not going to a bar with them is an act of willful defiance. I’ve been called frigid and high maintenance for saying ‘I don’t drink’. It wasn’t until my best guy friend pointed out that they were hoping to get me drunk and into their beds, that it al… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 02:07 PM |
| 8 | You are my people! I feel like I can finally tell my fucked up reddit storyJust an aside to any Mods... I do crisis intervention. If you’d like to take a break and talk to a councilor, my inbox is open. Thanks for taking the hit for so many of us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 01:44 PM |
| 10 | Fills you with hope, doesn’t it? 🙄It’s all good, just wanted to clarify! I’m honestly a little shocked at the replies; was not expecting the ‘holier than thou’ attitudes of some. We are ALL WOMEN. All of us! We deserve better across the board, ladies, and if you believe you’re better than another woman because of her job YOU ARE PART OF THE PROBLEM. Do not assume that you are worth more to these men because they don’t pay you. Madonna or Magdalen, we all suffer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 01:26 PM |
| 7 | Fills you with hope, doesn’t it? 🙄I’m sorry, I’m not sure you understood my post. I’m not condoning this behavior; I’m condemning it. I think the attitude of ‘why get a gf when you can have escorts’ is just... sick. ‘Fills you with hope’ was actually supposed to be super sarcastic, but my fault for not putting ‘ /s’. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 01:11 PM |
| 11 | Fills you with hope, doesn’t it? 🙄Agreed! I thought the ‘Fills you with hope’ title was obviously sarcastic enough, but I’m starting to think it wasn’t. Just really hate that this was the take on the entire gender; ‘why bother with them, they’re only good for sex’. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 09:04 AM |
| 18 | Fills you with hope, doesn’t it? 🙄Wow, they’re real women too. Let’s try and support everyone, sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 08:44 AM |
| 33 | Fills you with hope, doesn’t it? 🙄Right?! So many dudes just treat OLD at a free escort service. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 02:44 AM |
| 9 | Annnd porn sick right from the gate.I was very tempted to send a ‘daddy can go fuck himself,’ but didn’t. Just easier to block and move on, instead of dealing with their hysterics. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 03:31 AM |
| 22 | Annnd porn sick right from the gate.I was so done, haha. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 08:07 PM |
| 11 | #truthI’ve usually heard it in substitution for b*tch. Like, ‘typical female’, or ‘females want XYZ’, ‘this is my female’. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 02:29 PM |
| 13 | And he was doing so well until this point.Exactly. He even said, ‘oh I know that wasn’t a good question to ask.’ They know what they’re doing. They want to test your boundaries, and see how far they can go. Was in the middle of blocking him when he sent me that military family members message...I couldn’t leave it. Hold it right there, Marine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 04:17 PM |
| 3 | And he was doing so well until this point.Right? ‘Oh I know it’s not a good question to ask,’ and yet still asked anyway. He’s full of unadulterated rubbish. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 04:11 PM |
| 23 | And he was doing so well until this point.https://imgur.com/a/xZJvhoD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 05:45 AM |
| 32 | And he was doing so well until this point.https://imgur.com/a/xZJvhoD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 04:55 AM |
| 8 | And he was doing so well until this point.https://imgur.com/a/xZJvhoD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 04:53 AM |
| 38 | And he was doing so well until this point.I’ll admit, his response put me into ‘incandescent’ category, so I did reply. It was interesting to me to see what the response would be (I’m new to standing up for myself like that against guys). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 04:06 AM |
| 22 | And he was doing so well until this point.I don’t know if I can upload it in the thread? Maybe I’ll have to post to imgur or something. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 04:05 AM |
| 91 | And he was doing so well until this point.Oh he sent the most ridiculous justifications for asking while I was blocking him. Don’t worry; he’s blocked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 03:42 AM |
| 25 | And he was doing so well until this point.With a quickness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 03:34 AM |
| 27 | And he was doing so well until this point.I flipped on him; now he’s apologizing. Stop texting, bud, I’m trying to block you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 03:30 AM |
| 4 | Resist, sis.Good! Sounds like an acquaintance; an orbiter. Don’t be anyone’s second choice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 05:11 PM |
| 16 | The most hilarious allegation about FDS is that we are celibate & not by choiceRight? All you’d have to do is put up a profile with ‘not looking for anything serious; only here for physical’ and you’d be buried in an avalanche of messages. It’s overwhelming on OLD as it is, let alone if you advertised looking for something casual. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 02:15 PM |
| 46 | Resist, sis.Called a dude out on being snippy and rude, and decided to wait for him to text me back. It’s been three days. Boy, bye. If they want you, they’ll put the effort in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 01:46 AM |
| 2 | Take it from a literal queenIt’s called ‘Queens Consort: England’s Medieval Queens’ by Lisa Hilton. Also recommend: ‘Eleanor of Aquitaine: a Life’, by Alison Weir (who also writes lovely historical novels) ‘She Wolves: The Women Who Ruled England Before Elizabeth’, by Helen Castor ‘Women on the Margins’, by Natalie Zemon Davis ‘The Letters of Abelard and Heloise’, published by Penguin Classics. This is a translation of the letters between the two. Heloise was a total badass, one of the most highly educated women of her tim… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 02:09 AM |
| 2 | Take it from a literal queenI’m super impressed that you speak more than one language. It’s something I very much admire about other people, so please never apologize! I regret massively that I am not better with languages. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 01:53 AM |
| 30 | Take it from a literal queenThe diamond was a gift from Queen Elizabeth I, and Sir Walter was an extremely ambitious man. The quote is him saying that he has ambition, but is worried about the consequences; feeling out Elizabeth’s reaction to a possible proposal. She essentially called him a pussy, said ‘try me, fucker’, and moved on. Walter decided to move his plots along. Basically, a pissy Walter started an affair with one of her young ladies in waiting, also named Elizabeth. There was scandal, as he got the lady in wai… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 05:21 PM |
| 9 | For every woman who thinks she "doesn't deserve" a high value man.It wasn’t until I joined this group that I realize my mama is a total PickMeisha, and has been filling my head with it on the regular since I was little. My dad, on the other hand, has been totally supportive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 08:06 PM |
| 11 | Don’t forget, your sexuality terrifies LVMIt’s why I didn’t black out their names. They posted it publicly, on a popular page. Enjoy the fame your ‘wittiness’ gains you, morons. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 08:05 PM |
| 12 | Don’t forget, your sexuality terrifies LVMHe gets older, but his girlfriends stay the same age. 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 05:15 PM |
| 44 | Don’t forget, your sexuality terrifies LVMIt’s all about control. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 04:35 PM |
| 16 | Don’t forget, your sexuality terrifies LVMGlad he’s an ex! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 04:19 PM |
| 19 | Don’t forget, your sexuality terrifies LVMWe’ve got it all in this thread. get a younger woman sex makes you loose good girl vs slut anal sex ‘to teach her’ hitting the wall | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 04:05 PM |
| 5 | For every woman who thinks she "doesn't deserve" a high value man.I really, really needed this right now. My mama turned around and said ‘I’m glad you’re feeling better; no one wants a sick girl as a wife,’ so I’m feeling a little fragile today! Thanks for the reminder. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 03:57 PM |
| 2 | I created a Spotify playlist with all your recommendations.Yessss needed this! Guess what’s on repeat. 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 03:53 PM |
| 58 | Don’t forget, your sexuality terrifies LVM‘Sorry about your tiny dick causing crippling insecurity, and your general inability to satisfy your woman, bro.’ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 03:41 PM |
| 54 | Don’t forget, your sexuality terrifies LVMYour sexuality terrifies them, and they have no idea how any of the biology actually works. Don’t take shit from a dude who can’t pass high school science. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 03:14 PM |
| 2 | When people ask me why I’m single, I show them this screenshot.I think that we can’t judge people’s health from a picture. I’m not saying he does (and chemo treats more than cancer), but I don’t use grey as an immediate age guarantee. I know plenty of people going grey before 30. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 02:53 PM |
| 2 | When people ask me why I’m single, I show them this screenshot.I mean, I started going grey at 26 after my first round of chemo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 01:37 PM |
| 10 | When people ask me why I’m single, I show them this screenshot.You are a ninja; I couldn’t find anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 04:40 AM |
| 7 | When people ask me why I’m single, I show them this screenshot.Pastel, no doubt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 02:13 AM |
| 19 | When people ask me why I’m single, I show them this screenshot.Unknown; took a screenshot and swiped left! 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 11:55 PM |
| 33 | When people ask me why I’m single, I show them this screenshot.I’m going with ‘desperate little doormat’. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 11:36 PM |
| 55 | When people ask me why I’m single, I show them this screenshot.I saw his profile and immediately thought, ‘this is a man who orders a bride from Thailand’. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 11:22 PM |
| 110 | When people ask me why I’m single, I show them this screenshot.‘And 98% of women are losers’ I wonder how your mama, sisters, and aunts feel about that statement. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 10:50 PM |
| 4 | This is why I don't date.YES. I have started to accept that I will never meet a man who is a) single and b) eligible who is into horses. At this point, it’s gotta be ‘at least not scared of them’. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 10:42 PM |
| 44 | The amount of likes & retweets... 🤢I prefer Miranda Lambert’s version. They bury him, and drive away in expensive cars he gifted them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 08:20 PM |
| 28 | Is there anything more suddenly feeble than a man being held accountable?Obvious pity prop is obvious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 01:24 PM |
| 12 | GOOD MORNING TO EVERYONE EXCEPT ROBExactly my thought. If they’ll lie about something so concrete, something which can be immediately flagged a lie, what are they going to tell me later? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 09:04 PM |
| 13 | Good morning ladies, If he types like this, runnnnnnnnn!!!Oh gracious, run before he damages your credit score! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 08:42 PM |
| 23 | GOOD MORNING TO EVERYONE EXCEPT ROBThe government took my stats several times before giving me a uniform. I am absolutely 5’9 😂 It amuses me greatly when guys try to front otherwise. Like, be you, unequivocally and without shame. The unattractive part is the lying and insecurity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 07:40 PM |
| 58 | GOOD MORNING TO EVERYONE EXCEPT ROBI honestly think a lot of them are stuck in a delusion, and that their own sense of self-worth would be irrevocably shaken if they woke up to their reality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 06:28 PM |
| 30 | Guys they officially hate us on reddit, but why?!Oh, they love it. Ever heard the gleeful proclamations of ‘oooh, cat fight!’ when young women argue? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Debunking the "but if I pay for dates I'll be broke, too much risk for little pay off"Thank you, that’s definitely something to think on! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 05:41 PM |
| 178 | GOOD MORNING TO EVERYONE EXCEPT ROBAlso got my first hate mail (hate male?) from u/incelibacy for this comment. Read it again, pumpkin. I’m not sure your reading comprehension is up to snuff. It’s not your height women find repulsive; it’s your attitude and willingness to be disgusting to women in DMs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 05:08 PM |
| 345 | GOOD MORNING TO EVERYONE EXCEPT ROBYessss! Also, I’m genuinely 5’9. I’ve turned up to so many dates where dudes have said ‘oh, I’m 5’9 or 5’10’ ... buddy, if you’re 5’9 that makes me 6’. I don’t hold something that someone can’t control against them. It’s not their fault they didn’t grow. However, if they’re willing to lie about their height, what else are they going to lie about? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 02:55 PM |
| 24 | January Dating Has Me Like...New Year, same BS 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 02:50 PM |
| 23 | I find it really disappointing that this sub is so hated on RedditIf only I could post a screenshot. Unsaved number sent me a screenshot of my tinder profile; turned out to be a dude from a couple years ago. When I said no to a threesome with his gf, he flipped, and brought up our ONS (pre-FDS). Then called me a slut when I wouldn’t sleep with him. They literally call you a slut for not engaging in sex with them. It makes no sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 01:31 PM |
| 2 | Debunking the "but if I pay for dates I'll be broke, too much risk for little pay off"Oh my gosh, good to know! I was contemplating coolsculpting once I reached my weight loss goal... but not sure, now! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 01:23 PM |
| 14 | Debunking the "but if I pay for dates I'll be broke, too much risk for little pay off"My best guy friend nearly fell over when I told him how much a ‘maintenance day’ cost. Let alone how much everything in my vanity set me back, just so the world doesn’t think I’m lazy slob; women have to wear makeup to be seen as professional, and that’s not cheap! I describe Brazilians (waxing) as insult to injury. $100+ for what I’m sure could be used as a form of torture. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 07:42 PM |
| 1 | I've been awakened!I’m really sorry, but I can’t agree with that. Yes, in this instance, his behavior was classic LVM. However, cannabis helped me deal with chemo and let me come off 16 medications. It has changed my life for the positive, and it has helped me get back in the gym. It does not mean we are lazy, fat, indolent individuals just because we use weed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 12:34 PM |
| 8 | Some redpiller sent me this DM after my last post. He talks about his totally real, definitely not made-up wife as though she's a dog 🤢She was terrifying and beautiful to behold. I miss her, and often wonder which husband’s fortune she’s spending now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 11:53 AM |
| 10 | Some redpiller sent me this DM after my last post. He talks about his totally real, definitely not made-up wife as though she's a dog 🤢I love it when men straight up say they refuse to date horse girls ‘because (we’re) spoiled, crazy girls who have daddy issues’. Legit had one dude tell me he didn’t want to date a horse girl because he didn’t feel secure; that we regularly saw horse dick and that he couldn’t compare (?!??). Have also had dudes ask me if I get off when riding. All the time. They think they’re hilarious. 🙄 Spoiler alert: it’s not the horse girls who are the problem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 11:52 AM |
| 31 | Some redpiller sent me this DM after my last post. He talks about his totally real, definitely not made-up wife as though she's a dog 🤢She just looked at them half like they were puppies making an inappropriate puddle, and half like they were something she found on the bottom of her (exceedingly expensive) pumps. Super effective. I just treat them like they’re a horse who pinned their ears back at me. I was reminded that I will cheerfully tell a 900lb animal to fucking try me; men should be greeted with the same attitude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 03:23 AM |
| 35 | Some redpiller sent me this DM after my last post. He talks about his totally real, definitely not made-up wife as though she's a dog 🤢I learned how to gut a man with a single look thanks to my Russian roommate. 'He bought me Manolos instead of the Choos I wanted; he is poor, then he is poor father.' She was seriously the original 'thank u next'. I don't know where this dude is living, but it's not reality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 02:10 AM |
| 11 | I've been awakened!Welcome! Just remember, the only way is up. We all make mistakes; the biggest success is you standing up for yourself. Well done, keep doing that shit! You're worth way better than his behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 01:58 AM |
| 3 | LVM be like.. 🤣Where's the lie, though? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 04:37 AM |
| 3 | Pickmeisha gets owned! [From r/technicallythetruth]I have two citizenships. That's two countries worth of paperwork to change my last name. I was adopted by an amazing man who got me through hell and back. I'm the last of my line. I have yet to meet a man who makes me think his legacy is worth dismissing mine. Or one who is worth the time, hassle, expense, or general bullshit of going to the embassy to change my last name. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 04:35 AM |
| 13 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Jan 2nd 2020)A week? That's more than enough time to craft a message. If they were invested and interested, they'd make the effort. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 06:44 PM |
| 3 | Prove yourself for the King, peasant!My dad told me last night: 'don't give up on dating; you might think there's no one else out there who can match your level, but darling, don't settle for mediocre. Back in the day, they didn't marry a Duchess to a crofter.' And like, damn dad. Amen. You are a one of a kind, high class, incredible woman. Don't let these budget boys in; you are worth the wait and patience. I know exactly how it feels (I joke that I'm *like John Travolta in that Pulp Fiction gif), but hang in there. They will try … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 05:38 PM |
| 5 | Translations for Common Red-Flag Phrases?'Here for a good time, not a long time' = functioning alcoholic manchild who is only looking to use you as a cum receptacle. Usually convinced he's a living legend ('life of the party') and that his dick is made of solid gold. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 04:28 PM |
| 2 | I stumbled upon FDS a few days ago & let me just say that my mindset towards dating/relationships is forever changed. I have promised myself to guard my heart. So is this a red flag? I just started chatting with this guy on bumble.Yaaaasss! Also applies to 'I don't do drama', 'if you're into drama swipe left'. Guarantee they are the epicenter of drama. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 04:17 PM |
| 6 | I posted a meme about being single last year and singler this year haha and my friend added this bit in a comment. I LOVE IT❤️'Why are you still single? You're amazing!' 'I'm still waiting for my golden apple.' | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 04:13 PM |
| 3 | Dating in Europe vs dating in the statesMy pleasure. I’m a sucker for Eastern Europeans; they visually appeal, and the accent gets me every time. I learned the hard way, so hope that helps! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/20 04:30 PM |
| 2 | To whomsoever it may concernYes, thankful for the good ones who understood it took a lot out of me. I’m good now, but it took a solid 5 years. So ladies, be gentle with yourselves, and take the time to heal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 08:18 PM |
| 14 | Dating in Europe vs dating in the statesThey treat you like a queen until you start dating them. I was reminded constantly that women outnumber men in former USSR countries, and they could find someone hotter and more 'kind' easily. Totally messed with my head, until I got wise to the games. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 06:29 PM |
| 2 | Dating in Europe vs dating in the statesDual national American/Brit here, who spent teen and 20s in Britain. American men, wtaf. They need to step their game WAY up. If I could find a Scandewegian over here, no questions asked they'd go right to the top of contenders. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 06:27 PM |
| 3 | To whomsoever it may concernI worked child crimes; the burn out is real. Some of what I've seen and watched when found on computers gives me nightmares and images I'll never forget. I was medically discharged 8 months into my post, but honestly don't think I could have worked that unit for much longer. I've seen people who can walk into a bloodbath vomit 30 seconds into a film where the child hasn't been touched yet. That shit haunts you. So yes, it's hard to recruit for. I have massive admiration for Ashton Kutcher's work… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 03:55 PM |
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