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| 4 | Why does the being short/tall thing matter? What happened to preferences? | GusTheProphet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 02:22 AM |
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| 3 | Women are the biggest enforcers of "toxic masculinity".Nigerian. Parents married for over 28 years. Both doctorates. Pushed me to go to go to graduate school and become a pharm D. Probably the most solid family structure compared to white my friends growing up who’s parents were all divorced. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Why does the being short/tall thing matter? What happened to preferences?Oh no. I mean I don’t experience sexual preferences. I find sexual desire to be very complex and I don’t quite understand how someone who is short let’s say is less sexually desirable than someone who is tall. Or someone who is Asian less sexually desirable than my own race. When looking for a mate I’ve never had any check list of physical characteristics that need to be met to find that person sexually desirable. This is why I don’t even have a preference for sex. When it comes to men and women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Why does the being short/tall thing matter? What happened to preferences?Hmmm okay. I understand you, being a perfectionist. Why don’t you believe me when I say I don’t have preferences? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 03:07 PM |
| 2 | Why does the being short/tall thing matter? What happened to preferences?Haha thank you friend | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Why does the being short/tall thing matter? What happened to preferences?I was like there are so many layers we have to get under to even start this conversation I’m not even gonna have it lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Why does the being short/tall thing matter? What happened to preferences?Haha. I made a joke about like winning the oppression olympics because I’m a black woman in America like a double minority get it? And some guy said that only my mind is oppressing me and that minorities are the most privileged Americans. So I’m like mmmkay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Why does the being short/tall thing matter? What happened to preferences?Yes so understanding is commonplace. I agree my friend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Why does the being short/tall thing matter? What happened to preferences?I am black haha. And I’m not gonna lie and say I personally have been victim of a lot of dog whistles when it comes to race and dating but I believe I understand that those are present. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Why does the being short/tall thing matter? What happened to preferences?I agree with you but I also think that no body acts in numbers. When trying to understand preferences I talked mostly to men about it because my girlfriends are like me. We just don’t care. And the men I talked to described a woman down to her bra size, hair colour, eye colour, and race. It seemed to me that they were just building a fantasy human (I’m not saying women don’t do this too I’m saying my female friends don’t) so it seems to me that no one is really willing to compromise when it come… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Why does the being short/tall thing matter? What happened to preferences?No I get you I’m the same way. I have 0 preferences and I literally mean zero when it comes to physical attraction. But people always think I’m memeing like there has to be something I’m just not verbalizing. But I don’t think the general public is as literal as maybe you and I. Like they will say I prefer x thing and what they mean is they are only attracted to that thing. Like if I walked up to a guy and he says “hey I prefer white women” I would never pursue further because what he is hinting… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Why does the being short/tall thing matter? What happened to preferences?Hey. So I agree with your first statement I don’t mind preferences. I still think they’re dumb but as long as you communicate it with respect. But your last statement I believe everyone uses their preference to hide that what they’re asking for is a requirement lol. I’ve never seen one person with a preference ever date outside of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 02:17 PM |
| 2 | Women are the biggest enforcers of "toxic masculinity".Thank you friend x | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 01:44 PM |
| 2 | Women are the biggest enforcers of "toxic masculinity".Yeah we’re looking for rings and saving for a down payment for a place rn. He’s the greatest person in my life. And this is the healthiest relationship I’ve ever been in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Women are the biggest enforcers of "toxic masculinity".Don’t play dum dum xennoo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Why does the being short/tall thing matter? What happened to preferences?No one is going to ask for the minimum. That’s why I feel preferences are stupid. But if we are to agree people can have preferences we must allow them. No one needs a slim thick Latina but some people will say that’s just my preference. That man is narrowing his dating pool I guess you could say out of greed as well. He’s going beyond what is a necessity for a mate (healthy woman) because he can indulge his preferences. No one needs a 6 foot tall man. But they would say it’s a preference. I say… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 01:36 PM |
| 1 | Why does the being short/tall thing matter? What happened to preferences?Who said I felt oppressed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Why does the being short/tall thing matter? What happened to preferences?Oh no. I was bullied by three specific guys. We went to elementary and middle school together. Every stage of puberty they made fun of me. Small chest, acne during my teen years, the fact I didn’t talk a lot. Etc. Then there was another guy who terrorized me on the bus. Im sure you don’t care about those thing but me personally, I’ve never been ruthlessly bullied by another girl. Idk why. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 01:28 PM |
| 3 | Women are the biggest enforcers of "toxic masculinity".I love betting with Reddit randos :p | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 11:07 AM |
| 6 | Women are the biggest enforcers of "toxic masculinity".I make more than he does haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 10:59 AM |
| 3 | SHE'S TOO YOUNG FOR YOUThank you friend x | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 10:57 AM |
| 3 | Women are the biggest enforcers of "toxic masculinity".I don’t think it’s short. But he falls on the under 6 foot trope that some people obsess over. Plus I have dated someone my own height. I don’t consider myself short so people my height I don’t consider short either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 10:56 AM |
| 3 | Women are the biggest enforcers of "toxic masculinity".3 years and getting engaged soon sorry :/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 10:53 AM |
| 1 | SHE'S TOO YOUNG FOR YOUOkay lib :p | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 05:09 AM |
| 1 | SHE'S TOO YOUNG FOR YOUDoesn’t sound so authoritative to me Mr. teddy bear | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 05:07 AM |
| 1 | SHE'S TOO YOUNG FOR YOUDo you like telling people what to do on Reddit because your partner tells you what to do in bed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 05:01 AM |
| 1 | SHE'S TOO YOUNG FOR YOUHahahhahaha wtf is “pro age gap” told you you’re a lib. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Why does the being short/tall thing matter? What happened to preferences?Okay. That’s actually not too bad when it comes to preferences. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 04:36 AM |
| 2 | SHE'S TOO YOUNG FOR YOUOh no. I was mostly memeing lol. But I don’t think that people who like ruthlessly attack my relationship that they don’t know anything about are truly looking out for my best interest lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Why does the being short/tall thing matter? What happened to preferences?Haha good talk x | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 04:22 AM |
| 1 | Why does the being short/tall thing matter? What happened to preferences?Haha. I mean. I don’t disagree. Some men are as ruthless and mean and cold when it comes to their preferences. I just don’t think adding to the tension by doing the same thing helps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 04:18 AM |
| 2 | SHE'S TOO YOUNG FOR YOUDoes someone attack my looks when I disagree with them online? And I have my actual pfp up instead of an avatar? More than you would think mostly because I have something they can attack me on lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 04:13 AM |
| 2 | Why does the being short/tall thing matter? What happened to preferences?I mean. When I got older I did. Men didn’t interest me till I was in college. Like I said before. I understand the whole “pretty privilege” thing. It’s real. So I’m not gonna pretend like my experience as an average looking black woman is gonna be someone else’s experience. But I have some understanding which is why I sympathize. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 04:12 AM |
| 2 | SHE'S TOO YOUNG FOR YOUHmmmm I would agree if that woman didn’t start attacking my relationship and then my looks immediately after Lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Why does the being short/tall thing matter? What happened to preferences?Yikes. Let’s chill with that haha. I feel as black women we should understand how it feels to be judged for an immutable characteristic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 04:00 AM |
| 1 | SHE'S TOO YOUNG FOR YOUNo you just sound like an angry lib femme lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 03:58 AM |
| 2 | Why does the being short/tall thing matter? What happened to preferences?Hmmmmm so I agree and disagree. obviously I’m black haha you can see my little pfp. I think statistically speaking black women are the least sought after mate. Now I could have mercy on my future children and mix to have a child that maybe more appealing to the general public. But realistically I could never see myself doing that. Because if I did. I think it would mean a part of me doesn’t find myself adequate. And if I hate one thing it’s having others determine my worth as a person. Edit. Now… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Why does the being short/tall thing matter? What happened to preferences?Oh I know. I’m not going to pretend to know what it feels like. Friend. But I have a question. Firstly do you hold specific preferences not just hot with big tits. But like a preference that includes an immutable characteristic? And second do you think if women were forthcoming and respectful about a specific preference would that make dating less stressful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 03:45 AM |
| 1 | Why does the being short/tall thing matter? What happened to preferences?This discussion is moving along swimmingly hahaha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 03:36 AM |
| 1 | Why does the being short/tall thing matter? What happened to preferences?So you mean having a tall son is like having mercy on their social future? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Why does the being short/tall thing matter? What happened to preferences?Hmmmmm yes. I want my kids to be genetically healthy. I want them to be happy. I think that in itself should be desirable enough. (I know it’s a pipe dream) unfortunately we will always live in a society that prefers certain genetics over the health and happiness of an individual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 03:28 AM |
| 3 | Why does the being short/tall thing matter? What happened to preferences?I’ve been with men my height before. I’m 5’4, trust they tell me about the nightmares they have to endure in the dating scene. It’s not fair. One of the reasons I don’t understand the whole preference thing. Like had I been obsessed with height I would’ve never dated that really cool guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Why does the being short/tall thing matter? What happened to preferences?Hahaha okay okay. If anyone’s going to win the oppression olympics it would be the only black woman here okay? I’m the fucking Simone Biles of oppression. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 03:20 AM |
| 2 | Why does the being short/tall thing matter? What happened to preferences?I was about to make that same analogy. I also find that weird. It’s like your children are props not people. I always want to know if they would still love their children if they were not conventionally beautiful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 03:18 AM |
| 1 | Why does the being short/tall thing matter? What happened to preferences?I think specifically white affluent women have popularized the whole designer baby thing. It’s pretty popular in Hollywood now amongst them ain’t it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 03:16 AM |
| 1 | SHE'S TOO YOUNG FOR YOUYou could’ve fooled me. I’ve never had someone wag their finger at me about predators and consent like you just did without them being a femme lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 03:07 AM |
| 1 | SHE'S TOO YOUNG FOR YOUYes exactly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 03:05 AM |
| 5 | Why does the being short/tall thing matter? What happened to preferences?Yes thank you for explaining. I think it’s weird getting with someone because you want your children to look a certain way. It’s like the whole designer baby thing. Picking the perfect genes to have societally perfect babies. Weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 03:05 AM |
| 2 | Why does the being short/tall thing matter? What happened to preferences?Yiiikes. That’s another thing I was curious about. Why tf do you have to have tall children? What’s the appeal? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 03:03 AM |
| 0 | Why does the being short/tall thing matter? What happened to preferences?Okay wow. I think I wholesale agree with this take. I think I would have a less issue with preferences if people were nice about them ( I know my soy girl wet dream is having people get along) But when I had preferences explained to me by a friend. He explained it with the utmost respect to people he was not attracted to. When I see people get upset about preferences it seems that they’re not upset at the preferences but rather the tone people are using to express those preferences. If that make… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 03:01 AM |
| 2 | Why does the being short/tall thing matter? What happened to preferences?Could you explain that last part again? About having children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 02:53 AM |
| 2 | SHE'S TOO YOUNG FOR YOUHow do I not know? I just gave my consent. See I’ll do it again. I consent. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 02:51 AM |
| 2 | Why does the being short/tall thing matter? What happened to preferences?I mean I was ruthlessly bullied for my small chest when I was younger haha. But let’s not play oppression olympics pretty please. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 02:50 AM |
| 2 | SHE'S TOO YOUNG FOR YOUI just did | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 02:47 AM |
| 4 | Why does the being short/tall thing matter? What happened to preferences?I swear I see something about height every other post lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 02:45 AM |
| 5 | Why does the being short/tall thing matter? What happened to preferences?Hmmm I think I acknowledged that women seem to have preferences themselves yet are upset when men have preferences against them. I have 0 preferences so when I say preferences are stupid. I guess I can say that righteously? Lol. It seems though like an angry cycle of people having preferences and then railing against others that do as well. I mean I know plenty women who do not virtue signal about these things. Would those women be just in having a height preference? Or would you still find that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 02:45 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHaha yeah I didn’t want to say it first. Some do seem pretty racist. I don’t know why. And I would doubt they would understand the social and racial intricacies as you do. Or even if they did they would either hide that they do and meme or play devil’s advocate for fun not actually moving the conversation in anyway. I’m not the one to get offended if you talk for a certain group of people. I don’t believe if you belong to a group you’re now the expert on said group. There are many black women I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 02:31 AM |
| 1 | SHE'S TOO YOUNG FOR YOUI consent to being predated on then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 02:25 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI’ve noticed people in this group are somewhat…abrasive. And they tend to generalize society off of their own anecdotes. So I’m not surprised they were not receptive to you. I have never had trouble finding a man except from my own race. It’s weird, I think I read somewhere that black women are the least sought after in dating scenarios. Then all the negative depictions of the angry ghetto black woman every I have to consciously apologize for. Maybe it’s my ignorance but I wasn’t aware Asian men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 01:50 AM |
| 0 | Women are the biggest enforcers of "toxic masculinity".My bf is 5’10 and is more emotional than I am lol. Idk about this one chief. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 01:43 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat was the common ground we would be able to relate on? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 01:37 AM |
| 3 | SHE'S TOO YOUNG FOR YOUI’m starting to believe it. Fuck them. They should’ve started seriously looking for a bf at 22. Then they wouldn’t need mine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 01:26 AM |
| 8 | SHE'S TOO YOUNG FOR YOUI just got done fighting some middle aged woman about how she thinks my bf is a predator because we started dating when I was 22 and he was 30. I’m so confused as to why I’m not able to consent to a relationship when I can literally consent to being in 100s of thousands of student loan debt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 10:48 PM |
| 1 | An example of a man not understanding (female) friendships.I try not to be a screeching banshee haha And yeah, just in case you too. Happy new year x | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 02:48 AM |
| 2 | An example of a man not understanding (female) friendships.Hhhhm okay. That’s a lot to digest, I’ve never thought of it that way. Thanks for giving me something to chew on. Maybe I can come up with a rebuttal later but at face value I don’t think there’s anything i truly disagree with. And thank you lol. Agostina would’ve been a way cooler spelling of my name lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 02:36 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI agree I think it is intrinsic. Or at least I can assume it is because of how wide spread female oppression has been in the world. Through numerous time periods and cultures. But I wouldn’t go as far as to say oppression was for the good of women. There are some seriously fucked up things that were done to women historically. Even if it’s an innate thing I don’t think that is a justification lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 02:16 AM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI would assume some women feel upset that past oppression has lead them to less opportunity in certain situations and maybe that’s why they’re upset? Maybe if we went back in time no one should oppress anyone? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 02:10 AM |
| 2 | An example of a man not understanding (female) friendships.Oh I agree there’s a wicked double standard. I would say though I guess there’s another side to the coin. Like men can have sex with a lot of women and there value is not diminished. Whereas women are seen as whores or easy etc. I guess there’s enough double standards to go around haha. And yes Gus is short for Augustina. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Why are ugly dudes so mad about being ugly?If you don’t mind. Could you elaborate on that last sentence? What do you mean by that, I’m just curious. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 10:25 PM |
| 1 | An example of a man not understanding (female) friendships.It seems like if this person said “hey I’m not into you like that” and they ask you to hook up and you actually agree, including after they told you “I just wanna be friends” You are kinda shooting yourself in the foot, no? I mean sure that person is an asshole but also you need to know your worth and take responsibility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Is dating really that hard in western countries or are incels delusional and not as attractive as they think they are?I think it’s the accent. Depending on where you’re from foreign accents are, I guess more “exciting” than the American ones we hear every day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Most women in the West are undateableI don’t think men are so unable to think and act of their own volition that they would follow a woman into the ocean just cause. I think men react to the actions of women and women react to the actions of men. I really don’t like the nihilistic “men are just trying to make it in these trying times” men are very capable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 10:01 PM |
| 3 | yall are misogynistic asfThe description of the sub sounded nice so I almost joined. But just scrolling through some of the posts. Some individuals are having serious black pilled and out right problematic takes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 09:41 PM |
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