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I tend to little loose control and tell people weird stuff - so they mark me as "this weirdo". So my awkwardness comes from different thing than shyness.
/r/seduction29/10/16 09:46 PM
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I will have it blocked both in ankle and knee - getting around with that big chunk of plaster in rather slow and dificult. Also I don't know where caaln I go with that on my leg...
/r/seduction24/10/16 06:41 PM
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I will look foward for next videos.
/r/seduction22/10/16 10:34 AM
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Thanks. Yeh. Casts on leg will be 1.5 month, but propably full recovery take next half year. Anyway, at my 30 birthday I will be ready to move foward.
/r/seduction20/10/16 03:26 PM
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First I'm going some health issues, and for it I already get booked operation. This will take like 1 to 1.5 month in leg cast. After that I want to fix my social life. I need start again going to cafe-club near my house, where people play board games and my friend is co-owner. Also I will become more active in political movement that I'm part of. In mean time my intern will end so I will start looking for new job. I hope that my family will help me with that. This is what is now in my range. Fut…
/r/seduction20/10/16 02:32 PM
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I just wonder what "Just do it" mean and how to apply it properly. I know that it works when I wonder "talk to her or not". But it works worse when I get idea of riding stationary bike in middle of the night or run away from work and go to club. Then it's unwise.
/r/seduction20/10/16 01:09 PM
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Then go cycling after midnight or to club in work hours?! Hearing "Just do it" can cause me panic cuz I lack idea what this "it" should be.
/r/seduction20/10/16 12:37 PM
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I'm more of daygamer. And very beginner - what means I rarely come past casual "hello" (also my idea is to get been "known by sight" to girls and women around so they will be more receptive to "that guy who tells me hello every time he sees me".). And if girl don't respond to smile and hello then I just shrug, say to myself "so no", and move futher.
/r/seduction19/10/16 12:33 PM
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Yeah. My ADHD makes me get random toughts so in this "psychic noise" some "give fuck" can sneak in.
/r/seduction19/10/16 11:37 AM
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"The first step to not giving a fuck is to not give a fuck." Sorry, but why to me it sounds like saying "just be happy" to person with depression.
/r/seduction19/10/16 09:51 AM
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Read "Models" by Mark Manson
/r/seduction18/10/16 11:02 AM
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What get me here? Pure want of relationship. I just realized that both my social and love lifes literally don't exist I started to look for help. And here I'm.
/r/seduction18/10/16 05:31 AM
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What if thing that keep me away from thos stuff are my limiting beliefs? And how to stop giving fuck?
/r/seduction16/10/16 03:22 AM
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I neither have neckbreard or hat!
/r/seduction16/10/16 12:55 AM
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Ah. Ok.
/r/seduction16/10/16 12:05 AM
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OP? Who's OP?
/r/seduction16/10/16 12:03 AM
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I'm only partially sarcastic. I want it anyway. And if it's overrated why people talk about it all the time? And really - sex is just part of something bigger, like nice extra. And this something bigger is all this "love" thing.
/r/seduction15/10/16 11:47 PM
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Woman want prince on white horse. That's why you need to breed one, then take horseriding classes and claim throne of Liehtenstein...
/r/seduction15/10/16 11:43 PM
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I wish!
/r/seduction15/10/16 09:19 PM
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How to change them then?
/r/seduction15/10/16 09:19 PM
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I'm 10 years older and still nothing...
/r/seduction15/10/16 08:29 PM
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It almost made me scream at myself.
/r/seduction14/10/16 10:16 PM
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What if I don't know what I want in my life?
/r/seduction14/10/16 09:55 AM
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I sometimes want to say to random girl something like "stop and talk with me for goodness sake!". I know that she dosen't owe me a shit but still I want to talk :| My attempts have too low "stopping force" that will keep girls interested in conversation. What to improve? (exept of course, approaching more)
/r/seduction14/10/16 09:50 AM
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I'm in simmilar situation. And I will move out if I have money to rent something. "Find job" Job market sux and I don't have expirience and knoeledge to get any decent job. (And I really don't see myself at physical job...)
/r/seduction14/10/16 08:12 AM
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What if someone is not handsome at all?
/r/seduction12/10/16 07:50 PM
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I realize that, but I'm not happy with that knowledge...
/r/seduction12/10/16 06:52 PM
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I know it. But sometimes road seems to me more rocky than for others...
/r/seduction11/10/16 09:40 PM
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Is there any method to gain those?
/r/seduction11/10/16 05:26 PM
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I know that pain my friend! I wish you best!
/r/seduction09/10/16 09:59 PM
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I need to get patience. Fast.
/r/seduction09/10/16 03:21 PM
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Really - I know one place that is run by my friend. But it is more group oriented as people come there to play board games so they come mostly with friends. Sitting there alone is quite awkward. Heh - I need to start to visit this place again. Other thing about me is that I soon will get operated to fix some problem with tendons in my leg. So for like two months I will be immobilized.
/r/seduction08/10/16 12:29 PM
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Yeah. I think same. I don't like thinking about it now. I rather think about slowly fixing everything.
/r/seduction08/10/16 12:04 PM
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Ugh. I don't like talking about myself cuz it mostly lowering my self-esteeme. But ok. 28yo Unemployed (find job ASAP!!) Living with parents (move out ASAP!!) Have ADD, mostly untreated (get treament ASAP!!) Medium town in South-eastern Poland (scale down to european standards)
/r/seduction08/10/16 11:49 AM
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So you simply adivces to switch to nightgame? Bad I don't know any decent place to do this.
/r/seduction08/10/16 11:10 AM
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I think that have more to do with "feeling good" than "impressing others".
/r/seduction08/10/16 09:40 AM
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Some guys fuck every slut they can, while others srruggle to get any. It's unfair!
/r/seduction08/10/16 08:26 AM
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DROP TWO YOU GREEDY IDIOT. Because of guys like you there is lesser pool of avalible women.
/r/seduction07/10/16 03:57 PM
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Where's "life repair shop" then?
/r/seduction07/10/16 01:12 PM
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I approach. At least trying to. And I really reduced amount of fap (and I will try to not doing it for month or so in near future [I will be lying in bed with leg in cast after operation - so it will be hard to fap in this situation, lol...])
/r/seduction06/10/16 09:45 PM
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So then what? How to stop making damn excuses?!
/r/seduction06/10/16 08:18 PM
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I go and give it to car repair shop. Or I should fix it myself? I'm not mechanic.
/r/seduction06/10/16 08:14 PM
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And now I need to get patience and persistance (that I don't have) and maybe to my 40's I will do it...
/r/seduction06/10/16 02:31 PM
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It just thing that I came to myself. I'm trying to reform myself to new way of thinking. Giving other people advices, containing that I think (not, "want to think", as was said "do not try, do!") reinforces this. You know pharse "practice what you preach"? This.
/r/seduction28/09/16 02:11 PM
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Hoping that you will be nerver rejected is... Let say it that - imagine that girl you meet, however she looks great - she have drug addiction, creepy hobby or strange perversion. She is mamber of church of satan, neonazi or like to bath in cesspool from time to time. Or simply likes something you hate or have little but annoying behaviour, or simply is not in your type when it comes to psichics. What you do then? REJECT HER. See? If you do that to women, then women can do same to you. And truth …
/r/seduction27/09/16 09:18 PM
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I take it for some time. So I can't surely tell. But somewhat I feel more nervous if I forgett them. And need more caffeine.
/r/seduction26/09/16 01:55 PM
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Try it yourself but better consult doctor first.
/r/seduction25/09/16 10:50 AM
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I smoked only once - cough, bad taste and overall feeling of sore throat make me wonder why anyone smoke. Are you masochists?
/r/seduction25/09/16 10:47 AM
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Caffeine regularly. As well as piracetam and nicergoline (those prescribed by family doctor, not professional psychiarist/therapist - so still I see my ADD as majorly no treated or at least undertreated)
/r/seduction25/09/16 12:11 AM
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If I don't know how to make girl feel good - then what to say else? I really simply going to tell "I don't know how to talk with girls but I want to talk with you".
/r/seduction24/09/16 07:02 PM
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It's hard when you can't trust yourself about emotions. My untreated ADD make me really weak about controlling them.
/r/seduction24/09/16 05:03 PM
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I think that forcing myself to do so it will go ankward as hell - guy runing full speed at girl screaming at her "hello, talk with me, please!!!!" It's not that I will be rejected because girl was "no good" but cuz I do something so ankward that I will be seen as psycho.
/r/seduction24/09/16 12:24 PM
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How to brake out of comfort bubble then?
/r/seduction24/09/16 11:31 AM
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I really don't know - sometimes I just standing there wanting to aproach instead actually aproach...
/r/seduction24/09/16 10:03 AM
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But then what love is?
/r/seduction23/09/16 04:03 PM
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If no posts about social circle, online dating, and night game, then about what? Most men are simply too panicked and confused, that they will come up in any conversation as totaly retards or psychopaths.
/r/seduction21/09/16 09:25 PM
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Dear sire. I need to fix many other things in my life untill I get enough personal courage and patience to practice, without panicking or geting uninterested in failed atmepts.
/r/seduction21/09/16 09:20 PM
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I'm 28 and I'm virgin too... :|
/r/seduction21/09/16 09:15 PM
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"Something interesting happen to you today?"
/r/seduction21/09/16 01:59 PM
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Same here.
/r/seduction20/09/16 02:54 PM
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I have ADD - that mean I normally have low dopamine intake. This mean even more compulsive thinking than other people and harder time to discipline.
/r/seduction20/09/16 04:17 AM
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How to force myself?
/r/seduction17/09/16 10:22 PM
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I sometimes wish for something big happen. Like damn war. That will force me to move from place and do things. I'm deep in my confort zone and feel too weak to exit it on my own. Why I can't just jump on this damn trainig cycle every damn day? Why I can't refrain from eating unhealthy stuff? Why I can't just go to club every damn weekend? WHY it feel so... Heh...
/r/seduction17/09/16 10:10 PM
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Yet another No-fap propaganda. I feel that if I quit I will run on street screaming at people "DO SOMETHING FUNY WITH MEEEEEE!!". To quit fap you need something else to do. I have nothing.
/r/seduction17/09/16 08:46 PM
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Strange - I do it. But rarely it came further than "hello" :|
/r/seduction17/09/16 05:59 PM
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I mean - good response to my, bad efforts.
/r/seduction17/09/16 05:34 PM
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How then force myself to move? To make me do usefull stuff and keep me interested in them? "Stop doing that" - easier to tell than do. Like saying "cheer up" to someone with depression. I just lack persistance in unpleasant stuff. I can't make myself into doing them. And I don't know how to force myself. I totally know that I should go and start train or diet or go to club - but I don't do it. If I want that much as I don't...
/r/seduction17/09/16 05:30 PM
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"Wanna join me?"
/r/seduction17/09/16 03:59 PM
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I mean interest as in full arc - aproach, rapport, convo.
/r/seduction17/09/16 02:38 PM
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I even don't live in USA!!
/r/seduction17/09/16 02:35 PM
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My other problem is that I totally don't know what I wanna do in my life :| I have no idea. I don't know where you live, maybe there fouding job is easy, but here job market is weak, and it's hard to find anything decent'
/r/seduction17/09/16 01:12 PM
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I'm great procrastinator and most time I simply "don't want to". And that all with ADD and that I'm only child. I have hard time in sitting around people and don't doing stupid things. Most time I prefer to isolate myself. :|
/r/seduction17/09/16 11:59 AM
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Well, beeing "basement dweller" don't help. It's hard to get "flat+job" combo here. Beeing asocial loner, living with parents in age of 28 sounds kind retarted. :'(
/r/seduction17/09/16 08:35 AM
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Yeah. I really want it fixed. But how?
/r/seduction16/09/16 02:00 PM
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I mostly think that TL;DR for MODELS should be something like: "Your life sucks in many ways. Fixing them is sweat and tears and takes long. Enjoy your pain."
/r/seduction16/09/16 01:47 PM
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Daaah - I prefer DC anyway :| (Shitty movies, yeah, but comics better!)
/r/seduction16/09/16 01:38 PM
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Is something wrong and wicked that change needs strenght and weak needs chnage. Like whole life plays joke on us...
/r/seduction13/09/16 04:47 AM
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I read "Models" and all I get from this book was that my life sucks and change is hard, long and painfull... And I need to deal with it or still suks...
/r/seduction12/09/16 09:00 PM
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No matches. And if any matches - then no response.
/r/seduction12/09/16 01:59 PM
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Geh. I really should move from seddit to other forum, that will overall improve my contact with any people...
/r/seduction12/09/16 01:59 PM
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How I wanna find a girl if even getting a wingman seemms as a problem?
/r/seduction12/09/16 03:56 AM
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I looked up book. I dpn't have fobia/anxiety. I'm just "socially underdeveloped".
/r/seduction11/09/16 06:14 PM
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I tryied no-fap for week or so. It has some effects. Good - I wanted girls more, so I was more going ot for apporach. More thinking about pick-up stuff. but in same time Bad - I wanted girls more, so I was going creazy and sad that I can't properly relief urges. I felt down and nervous. So compared to this - feeling bad anout fapping/porn is nothing.
/r/seduction11/09/16 05:58 PM
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Wat?
/r/seduction11/09/16 05:48 PM
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I need to look it less legal way (money, you know). I read some books but they just make me more sure that there's too much stuff to fix in my life...
/r/seduction11/09/16 01:34 PM
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I don't know how to make myself change. I know I should have no bad feelings and don't care about time and effort, but "just do". Why I'm thinking that I'm man of instant gratification? Why I can't be persistent in stuff that seems hard for me? I know I should do so many things to fix my life but I do nothing about that - feeling even worse. I know that I'm now complain. Heh, next thing to change. My whole life needs complete repair.
/r/seduction11/09/16 08:26 AM
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Heh... I wish have like that... :|
/r/seduction10/09/16 12:28 PM
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I'm 28 :|
/r/seduction09/09/16 10:36 PM
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My problem with Tinder is that I get no matches at all... :|
/r/seduction09/09/16 09:43 PM
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Heh. I really need to accept fact of this. I often get bored and nervous after some failed attempts. I need to forge some more persistance in me. And care less (what is my other big problem)'
/r/seduction08/09/16 11:39 AM
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What an attitude... There will be no success in your life with it. And people say that I'm think negative...
/r/seduction08/09/16 08:22 AM
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Erm. We are the sub so telling that to sub you telling it to us. It doesn't work for most part for me either. But it was said so many times here and everywhere else - it never works first time. Hell - it newer works first hundred or thousand times. It sux - I know, but all can I do is try.
/r/seduction08/09/16 08:04 AM
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"Models" teach me this: I'm now nowhere in my life and getting somwhere will be long, painfull and shitty journey... :|
/r/seduction08/09/16 07:18 AM
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Erm. Aproach part yes. But really I never go past generic "Hello Hello How's life? Good. That's good" I really don't know what to say :| (And sometimes I want to say "please talk with me" but I know it's plain stupid)
/r/seduction08/09/16 06:07 AM
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Approach is not problem. Problem is sucessfull one that turns into convo. You can have dozens of aproaches every day and even make manner to do it. But if most of them ends as soon as they start - then surely problem is different.
/r/seduction07/09/16 02:36 PM
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I tried that. Good for first serval days. Ok. Even week. But Yeah, approach number increased. But then come consequences. Unreleased sexual tension, mixed up with fact that approaches was unsuccessfull (to point that them didn't lead anywhere than "helo, how's life? ,good") driven me into really bad feelings. I also realised that there's much more stuff to fix in my life and so on. It effected in really abyssmal mood. Until I fap again...
/r/seduction07/09/16 02:32 PM
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Improve what you can change. Accept what you can't change.
/r/seduction18/06/16 09:41 AM
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Town in south-east Poland.
/r/seduction29/05/16 08:22 AM
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It must be fun to live in place where people already use Tinder. Here comes even weeks to find even one person -and even then, she mostly lives over 10km away...
/r/seduction27/05/16 10:55 AM
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Great stuff. Not only for depression. Many of this relates also to ADD.
/r/seduction25/05/16 05:43 AM
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Oh. Oh. Newagy stuff. It's easy to be like that when your brain fly on low dopamine (what is equal to dose of amph). Blah - I just have overworking imegination - and if I really have visions of future - then fear people cuz often my brain praduces images heavy fighting including tanks, troops and bombardment all over the place... Of course if isn't preocupied with sf/fantasy universes. And as fan of Lovecraftish stuff, I can tell you one thing - don't mess with things like that.
/r/seduction24/05/16 10:15 AM
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Wat?
/r/seduction24/05/16 05:51 AM
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ADD/ADHD symptome. I have the same.
/r/seduction24/05/16 05:33 AM
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Yeah. I'm in same boat. And I think that truth lies not in status as material sucess but in how we precieve our lives. It doesn't matter if we have money or job (unemployed and poor people still have girlfriends and wifes!!). Also - ya act like pesimist. Try to look for simple office work. There's always kind of hope out there. So best is telling yourself "I will get better." Use reality distorition not only to convince that status not matter but also to make you thinking that you are able to ge…
/r/seduction23/05/16 07:18 AM
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So maybe we all should feel internally numb - without big passions, without big dreams. Nothing will make us fulfilled - then why go anywhere? Best is continue existence without need or feeling of need. Just empty and numb drift on waves of life. If we can't control them - so then float above - from day to day. Because if nothing fulfill - then what have sense?
/r/seduction17/05/16 11:28 AM
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But... Can I just crawl back into my comfort zone? Cuz there I feel good with myself. Because there I care less. It's counterintuitive. I feel good with "old bad myself" and I propably will feel good with "new good myself" - but road from "here" to "there" is unpleasant and unnerving. Ugh.
/r/seduction17/05/16 06:28 AM
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Yeah. Right. But I think that I must also have other issues. Like only child effects or something. Some people have problems with connection. And yes - go see doctors. Anyway - I always had problem with social connection.
/r/seduction16/05/16 07:39 PM
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" I don't see how being autistic and ADD prevents you from having independence or status or a social network." ADD = need of stimulus = need of interest need of interest + emotional instability + bad concentration on social signals = strange behaviour Strange behaviour + emotional instability = fear of ridicule fear of ridicule + need of interest = anxiety. I just don't know if I don't just emotionally explode in front of other people - this or other way. It's harder to control emotional status.…
/r/seduction16/05/16 11:54 AM
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All of them and no one in same time. Better spend this money on something you really enjoy outside getting girl. True way comes across and around - and trully - and many people don't go on those programs and don't read books. Look at your parents (I hope you are not ophran) - did your father get PUA training to meet your mother? I guess not.
/r/seduction16/05/16 11:36 AM
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I'm in same boat bro. Try daygame. I don't mean full convos or # closes - but even smiling and eye contact with random girls help.
/r/seduction15/05/16 10:55 AM
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I can tell that there are two types of people - ones who think that mix of boldness, rudness, dirt talking and mindgames is beeign good with women. And those that understand that it come form inside.
/r/seduction14/05/16 01:24 PM
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Poland.
/r/seduction14/05/16 09:03 AM
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"I can't dance, I can't sing, I'm not a good fighter, I don't have my own apartment, I'm not self sufficient" You still can learn dance You still can learn sing You still can learn fight You still can get apartment You still can become self sufficient Stop excuses.
/r/seduction13/05/16 09:46 PM
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Good. Cuz I don't have wingmen at all.
/r/seduction13/05/16 07:27 AM
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Did you read side panel here? There are all beginner info that you need.
/r/seduction12/05/16 01:05 PM
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For that reason because it helps me in my inner game. It better to be optimistic after all and have hope for beeing better. I'm begining my journey - and better if I think that I gonna suceed one day - otherwise I can just crawl back into my comfort zone.
/r/seduction12/05/16 07:56 AM
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Ugh. I don't want to sound rude or something (I'm ADD myself after all) but it looks like seddit gets little invasion of Aspies. Forth or sixth post about that in last three or four days...
/r/seduction11/05/16 07:55 AM
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No. And more specific - I never have been on proper date. I made some random k-closes with girls ealier in my life (most of them was drunk). I'm 28 now...
/r/seduction11/05/16 07:36 AM
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Hi, how's life? What's up? Or something relating to circumstances and place.
/r/seduction11/05/16 07:03 AM
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What you mean?
/r/seduction11/05/16 05:51 AM
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Even you are ugliest midget on whole continent - you still can seduce woman after woman. Just look at Tyrion...
/r/seduction10/05/16 03:15 PM
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I'm not aspie, but I.have adult ADD - so I can relate. Yeah - I think that guys like aspies and adders have bigger chance of becoming frustrated, basement-dwelling couch potatoes. But also - if they manage to brake out of this (quite rarely) they simply rock the world. It's harder to get all this "precise emotional steering". Also patience and persistance are harder stuff than to usual people. But on other hand - I'm little less afraid of doing creazy stuff if I'm in good mood. And after all - i…
/r/seduction10/05/16 07:35 AM
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But point is - when I will be sure that my fundamentals are ready? Of course that obesity, messy clothes,body odour or bad hair are big no-no's. But it really needs to get myself to look like "mister universe pretender"? I don't think so. When good is good enough?
/r/seduction10/05/16 06:23 AM
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Dance club - start dancing with girl and then push slowly on more and more kino. It's fairly close from dancing cheek to cheek to k-close.
/r/seduction09/05/16 05:47 AM
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Class comes naturall and I think have much to do with confidence and self-presence. Swag is fake-ish "I'm trying to be so cool". In some terms I can even see Swag as kind of parody of Class or Style. Someone who have class - still have it even if wear rags. Swag is reassuring oneself security by things and look. People with swag only looks cool. But they are not cool with themselves. Class is different.
/r/seduction29/04/16 09:30 AM
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Some guys get to 28 with hunderds of girls banged, while others with ZERO. There's no justice in this world.
/r/seduction29/04/16 07:35 AM
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If you think that content here sucks - then you should provide good , helpfull content instead whining that it sucks. Be the change that you want to see. (And us, newbs, will be happy)
/r/seduction28/04/16 07:19 PM
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I'm newb here just like you but I propably know the answer: High Confidence and High Self-Esteem.
/r/seduction27/04/16 08:38 PM
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I feel the same. And even more adding to that. I'm aware that fixing my life will take many years. But I also have feelings and needs that scream to be fulfilled now - not when I get my life in order. How to deal with that - with all that needs that requires fixed life? Is there any temporary solution for that - to at least pass the time and feel better about all that. I have issues with patience - and all this looks as it needs ocean of patience and persistance. I feel weak.
/r/seduction27/04/16 12:35 PM
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