Gustoffur Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Too much ADVICE		Gustoffur	/r/Divorce_Men	15/07/24 04:24 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Too much ADVICE I’ll call her a bout a date night. Appreciate the joke.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/08/24 11:17 AM
1	Too much ADVICE Tried that, they don’t stop. They want me to jump Up and run out to implement their idea. “Call your ex-wife right now and tell her you don’t want to use a lawyer, you want to negotiate an agreement between yourselves! Call her! Tell her!” If my ex and I could communicate and negotiate like that we probably wouldn’t be getting divorced.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/08/24 11:16 AM
1	Too much ADVICE Good idea.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/08/24 11:14 AM
1	Too much ADVICE I’m not that saintly. And no, I won’t list to 7 people a day give me the same cliche advice for a radio ad.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/08/24 11:13 AM
1	Too much ADVICE This is cliche advice I’m getting. I have had some very solid legal advice from friends who have gone through a divorce that I found very helpful, but that advice was in response to specific questions, or part of a bigger conversation that involved more listening than talking.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/08/24 11:11 AM
1	Too much ADVICE I had 7 people in 1 day tell me about the same divorce mediation company. This company runs ads on the radio, everyone has heard of them. When I’d inform people that that I knew about the company and what they do, they’d just continue explaining it, often repeating the radio ads verbatim. Grace has limits.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/08/24 11:09 AM
1	Too much ADVICE No, it’s not kind. Some get very angry when you don’t immediately implement their advice. It’s more annoying than anything. I have started putting my hand up in a stop gesture and turning my head away until they stop. Since I’ve spoken with a lawyer I have gone back and informed people that the brilliant advice they gave me was, in fact, wrong and potentially harmful.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/08/24 11:05 AM