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So the in-group bias of women, or in other words they're willingness to support each other through anything... Is a whopping 4.5x higher than men, meaning they will quite literally know you're a horrible person and still stand up for you and protect you whereas men are not the same
/r/MensRights28/02/24 02:53 AM
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Yeah if you didn't know, pretty much any search engine and online platform are biased against men... But we live in the overbearing oppressive patriarchy right?
/r/MensRights21/02/24 09:57 PM
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As a man, straight too, I was IN dance. So I really don't understand all the dumb shit considering it's a gender neutral art, plenty of men dance and should in fact be encouraged to.
/r/MensRights20/02/24 10:38 PM
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What? That's not what discrediting someone's experience means love Did I say there aren't women who didn't? Did anyone bring up the women who didn't, for me to discredit them telling me they don't act like this? Nope I wholeheartedly believe there are great women who aren't completely delusional towards men, and I'm sure there are men who do the same thing we're talking about. However I don't experience men telling me my experience CANT happen or NEVER has. Sadly it's not as common as it should …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 06:13 PM
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Where am I discrediting women's experiences?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:31 PM
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Okay but women are the best at discrediting experiences? They discredit men so much It's like their favorite past time now or something
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:54 AM
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Not to mention they never ACTUALLY fight for equality, only where they want it and benefit from it
/r/MensRights20/02/24 06:54 AM
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Absolutely! Also happy Cake Day :)
/r/MensRights20/02/24 06:29 AM
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Don't quote me on the number but pretty sure I saw that less than 45% of women in the UK even classify themselves as feminists now? Wonderful news
/r/MensRights20/02/24 06:28 AM
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Actually thank you for making me recheck it as I quoted it incorrectly https://www.inspq.qc.ca/en/sexual-assault/fact-sheets/sexual-abuse-childhood-perpetrators 23% is what this study says so I apologize But again we know that won't really be entirely accurate
/r/MensRights20/02/24 06:15 AM
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Feminists actually attacked men from the jump when men just wanted to help, so if they actually knew history they would know this is dumb
/r/MensRights19/02/24 11:30 PM
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Well since 30% of male rapists are sexually assaulted by women in childhood, and since men report 2 out of 150 occurrences, and since only 16% of men compared to 64% of women see actions as sexual assault... Leads me to believe it happens quite frequently Only 5 countries even legally allow us to be raped by women to begin with
/r/MensRights19/02/24 09:37 PM
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You seriously think straight dismissing the troubles of men is an us problem? So if I tell someone that men are abused at a really high rate and instead of asking about it they attack me and tell me it doesn't happen is me being misogynistic and is because of me? Alright man I'm not sure how to help you Yes "toxic masculinity" is an issue, but it's called being TOXIC and women can be toxic too
/r/MensRights19/02/24 09:31 PM
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Not really what I'm talking about... More talking about making men feel they are useless, creeps, irredeemable, or that they'll have no chance at love. The whole "icks" thing is ridiculous, it shows men they have to be some perfect being with no quirks or oddities. Which goes in line with the whole fantasy man women create in their head, and when the actual man is a human being it's over or a big fight at the least. Yes some men do this too but it's far more frequent and or a heavier occurrence …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 08:53 PM
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Not when they are deliberately hurting men? If they would also leave men alone, for sure...but they don't No actually scratch that, if we could genuinely listen to each other instead of being stupid on both sides that would be much better
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 05:57 PM
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Yeah... I read it There's plenty of other statistics that show women are more abusive than men let alone mothers abusive towards their kids... So if you'd like to continue to be ignorant that's on you
/r/MensRights19/02/24 05:47 PM
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THE POINT is that women literally have no clue what they are talking about when it comes to men a majority of the time In fact most live in candy land where men are made of gingerbread and you can build them how you want apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 05:37 PM
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Actually, unlike women... Most men want to GIVE their love not just receive it. Very large difference Yeah everyone wants to be loved, but the more intense desire for most men is to give their love... Or the option for someone to WANT your love in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 05:24 PM
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Uh, DID YOU even read? Mothers are almost triple the total cases as fathers are to abuse their children? If you're talking about the whole kill part? We already know men are more likely to seriously injure during abuse? The fact it's .01% higher is actually a surprise And in fact it straight lies about women being more likely to be abused, they arent
/r/MensRights19/02/24 05:07 PM
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Absolutely! Of course not everyone will receive raises or hell even payment that accurately depicts their worth. This is where knowing what you're worth comes in, as many I know who get higher pay are those who state in the hiring process that they refuse to accept anything less than x amount and leave if it's not offered. Knowing what you provide to the workplace and being firm on what you accept is a key to receiving what you deserve, which goes hand in hand with requesting raises. If you don'…
/r/MensRights19/02/24 12:31 PM
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Yeah so this isn't entirely honest either it's not a "pay gap" but an earnings gap. The basis is of the merit and decisions of the worker and not gender Men on average work longer hours, take less time off, and more frequently ask for raises whether deserved or not. All of this while still working the same position as women So tell me, if a woman working 36 hours and takes more vacation time in the same job as a man working 45 hours a week makes the same amount... Wouldn't the "pay gap" be in th…
/r/MensRights19/02/24 12:01 PM
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I've honestly experienced the exact opposite but it could be that I very openly encourage this side of men. I've seen the comment where it says we have been conditioned to feel we can't open up and I wholeheartedly agree with everything the comment added to that part of your post, not to pull the disabled card but it's really shown me how we treat men with both mental and physical ailments. Women completely alienated me where men asked if I needed help with anything, and are trying to spend time…
/r/MensRights19/02/24 11:52 AM
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So, feminism isn't about equality just so you are aware. Of course there can be great people under the umbrella of feminism, but both the founders and many leaders of the movement today completely go against equality and openly attack men and so these great people under feminism are sadly given a false narrative almost constantly. From suicide awareness events to legislative movements which aim to help lessen discrimination of men in law are shut down by feminists claiming they are misogynistic …
/r/MensRights19/02/24 11:24 AM
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So IPV or intimate partner violence statistics are 49.7% of all abusive relationships are reciprocated abuse or both parties abusing each other. Where the other half are unreciprocated events where only one person is doing the abuse, in which 70% of unreciprocated IPV is a woman perpetrator. There's also another statistic that's a bit of a grey area, but women instigate or start reciprocal violence by 80% showing they are just as if not more aggressive than modern men. If you give me a few momen…
/r/MensRights19/02/24 11:01 AM
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For sure! So what I mean is let's say we're having a discussion about men, and we say "men are actually being abused by women more frequently" which is a true statement. Many women will automatically say it isn't happening or that you're lying etc. or hell even that you deserve it Now let's switch to a woman's example "There was this time when I was out with my mom and dad and this guy walked up to me and told me I had dick sucking lips" Sure I'm sure that can happen and has happened, but the di…
/r/MensRights19/02/24 09:17 AM
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Didn't I just get done saying how women can be amazing and wonderful people? And did I not just try to convince this man with terrible views of women to change his mind? Are you actually stupid?
/r/MensRights19/02/24 08:26 AM
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Absolutely love how you post in another sub about how bad we are but you're the one who's a terrible person Again instead of attacking him and name-calling, let's educate him Give him examples of where women are awesome, of where women can be amazing and beneficial to our lives Sadly you're just a POS who's ignorant to how women ARE a big problem and are THE problem facing men in many ways. Pretty sure it's not men shutting down awareness events, pretty sure it's not men shutting down legislativ…
/r/MensRights19/02/24 08:17 AM
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Erin Pizzey is another example of this, she started the first women's refuge and still thinks it's all bullshit Thank you I'll add her to my repertoire!
/r/MensRights19/02/24 06:57 AM
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See I think the reason at least myself as the younger generation don't see it is the blatant social engineering of women However looking at even the 60's children (I grew up around a lot older people because I lived with my grandparents) we can see a major difference. Women are much more nurturing and attentive to children, trauma patients both physical and mental, and even disabled persons... and this isn't to say that men CANT be because there are some fucking bomb dads/doctors or caretakers o…
/r/MensRights19/02/24 06:51 AM
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I do indeed :) https://1in6.org/statistic/ Found this lovely website that advocates for male sexual assault victims a little while ago I try to keep sources saved because they're extremely hard to find with search engines being biased against men But that's definitely a fair assumption to make! Hopefully with the Advent of changes in legislation and the legal definition we can see more men stand out against this and speak up when the abuse happens!
/r/MensRights19/02/24 06:44 AM
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So I'm gonna start by, most women are not bad people and in fact they truly care about the good of society... However they have been socially engineered to think that anything they do to men is justified, and they can treat us less than humans because we're just the problem to everything. If you aren't aware of what social engineering is, it's like telling an entire demographic of people propaganda for generations and providing false statistics in order to create this narrative surrounding a top…
/r/MensRights19/02/24 06:19 AM
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Exactly, I don't get why they can't see they've quite literally caused all of this I don't think it's how we should be handling it, but it is direct causation to their actions
/r/MensRights19/02/24 06:03 AM
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That's actually just the neo feminist definition, the actual definition of incel and quite literally where the abbreviation comes from is "involuntarily celibate" which you are not my friend. If anything you are VOLUNTARILY celibate because you do not see women as something you want around your life. I do think you have the wrong idea of women but this guy's just an asshole, I'd love to try and change your mind about how great women can be if you're up for that!
/r/MensRights19/02/24 06:00 AM
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Okay first you're an idiot and are exactly what we complain about for thinking this man is an incel However I do agree that women have so so much more to offer, sadly these good women with qualities other than their bodies are disappearing at a staggering rate. But you're completely dismissing this man's entire life, he has had zero quality women in his life and is constantly treated like shit or basically used by the women that WERE in his life so of course he would have a negative view of them…
/r/MensRights19/02/24 05:58 AM
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Let's not forget only 16% of men even view acts as sexual abuse where as 64% of women see the same acts as abuse Wouldn't matter if we changed definitions or laws, if we don't change the minds of the ones affected so they see it as abuse in the first place
/r/MensRights19/02/24 04:44 AM
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It's funny because we also consistently claim men to be majority cheaters, but at least according to studies of the current day women are the ones in relationships causing infidelity. Of course some men cheat too but it's majority women
/r/MensRights18/02/24 11:54 PM
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We have an insane amount of examples of instances where we tried to help men by opening shelters or creating spaces, hell even attempting to changes laws or add bills that help mitigate the discrimination of men in the judicial system and they're all immediately attacked and shut down by feminists or man haters (they're basically synonymous at this point) Erin Pizzey for just one example, a feminist of the 60's where everyone CLAIMS it was better and feminism was about actual equality (news flas…
/r/MensRights18/02/24 11:40 PM
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Absolutely not on the men's side, though I agree with the woman's portion i guess? Not a much that the right thinks they're special citizen, just that they are capable of things men aren't and vice versa The left quite literally abuses men The right doesn't You ever seen the right tell men everything bad is their fault? They do say take responsibility for yourself and accountability for your life but they aren't abusing men by any stretch of the imagination Closest you could get to abuse would b…
/r/MensRights18/02/24 05:43 AM
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Yeah that's all out the window friend, they both just want your vote and will do anything to get it. Including lying about almost everything under the sun
/r/MensRights18/02/24 03:33 AM
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There's been a lot of awesome points as to why this is the case, and I would just like to point out the massive political divide between the sexs Women overwhelmingly vote left and men right This is because the left panders to women and quite literally abuses men Then the right panders to men and doesn't let women act like the ultimate victim There's a lot more nuance than this of course BUT this is about as simple an explanation as it gets
/r/MensRights18/02/24 03:15 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/6WDvDbC86R This is a link to my other comment with them :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 01:53 AM
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Fair enough, I see a pay gap as a disparity of earnings not wage but I understand the confusing terminology and will refer to it as earnings from now on Yes it's been debunked for decades, so the fact it's STILL a major talking point baffles me
/r/MensRights18/02/24 12:57 AM
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YUP, not only them but so many other subs will do this too! Thank God it's only happened to me with one sub so far but I've seen others get banned on multiple subs for that logic more than a few times
/r/MensRights18/02/24 12:50 AM
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https://www.inspq.qc.ca/en/sexual-assault/fact-sheets/sexual-abuse-childhood-perpetrators Here you go❤️ So while it doesn't directly say half, we do have other information that can and will push the statistic higher Considering 1 in 6 boys are sexually assaulted before the age of 16, those boys being 2 in 150 to actually report said abuse, all of 5-6 countries actually consider men able to be raped by women, AND the fact that only 16% of men who experience sexual abuse consider it abuse where as…
/r/MensRights18/02/24 12:34 AM
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No he's right, often enough it isn't prosecuted as anything more than misdemeanors when IT IS reported that is. You're both correct
/r/MensRights18/02/24 12:04 AM
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So the stats are 1 in 3 fathers who request paternity tests aren't actually the father's (these are only the ones requesting which is crazy high), leading to believing that women will frequently lie on this issue. So yes they should be mandatory and if you do not, you go to jail or pay fines. No one should be forced to do something they literally had no part in.
/r/MensRights17/02/24 11:13 PM
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So this isn't a business or job listing However this is giving lawful repercussions to those in which do in fact have quotas or preferences of women and minorities https://www.dol.gov/agencies/ofccp/faqs/AAFAQs#:~:text=No%2C%20OFCCP%20regulations%20do%20not,They%20are%20strictly%20forbidden. "May a contractor set quotas as a way to meet its affirmative action obligations? No, OFCCP (Department of Labor Office of Federal Contract Compliance Programs) regulations do not permit quotas, preferences,…
/r/MensRights17/02/24 10:46 PM
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Yes I provided a bunch of information in another comment if you'd like to take a peek! Like I said there, it's a very nuanced topic with lots of variables however both before covid and after women have been more sexually active overall, along with being more likely to cheat while in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 10:21 PM
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Okay first, taking lifetime sexual partners quite literally won't show us anything Second there's a lot more nuance than you are letting on Hell there's more nuance than I already thought there was https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8345845/ https://daily49er.com/news/2023/02/13/data-reveals-young-people-are-experiencing-a-sex-recession/ https://worldpopulationreview.com/country-rankings/most-promiscuous-countries So as I've cited we see that while sex has gone down as a whole TREMENDO…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 10:03 PM
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Women partake in casual sex more than men, so your claim has literally no basis? Let's break it down If women are less interested, that would mean they don't do it as often right? As such if men were more interested they would do it more often... Right? Then how come that's literally not what's happening?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 09:09 PM
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Then why do women more frequently participate in casual sex relationships than men? Things aren't adding up
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 09:08 PM
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No absolutely you should be banning unnecessarily rude and aggressive comments, but I'm talking about the unjust bans like you say that are "inconvenient" to their ideology of oppression. They WANT to be victims, extra brownie points for who has the most oppression bingo boxes ticked off
/r/MensRights17/02/24 04:52 PM
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Yeah they absolutely love to conveniently "leave out" these nuances Not that it's ever okay of course, but it goes to show sexual abuse of men is a serious issue in which we do basically nothing about
/r/MensRights17/02/24 03:44 PM
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"mothers" are overwhelmingly more abusive to children https://childprotectionresource.online/mothers-are-more-likely-to-abuse-children-than-fathers-fact/
/r/MensRights17/02/24 03:39 PM
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I absolutely and forever will disagree In the current state of the world, many young boys are told to perceive being male as inherently negative or something to be ashamed about Here we speak about the truths men face in society and is a very much needed outlet for young men to see said truth, since nowhere else will give it to us
/r/MensRights17/02/24 03:33 PM
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Literally this, even if nothing comes of it threatening legal action will scare the piss out of any school staff. They do have to provide safe learning environments and clearly this isn't one for you so do this please OP If nothing is done about their bullshit they will continue to do it to others as well I'm terribly sorry you're going through this but we are here for you and this IS the right sub
/r/MensRights17/02/24 03:30 PM
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The US classified it in the 70's and everyone followed suit later, I THINK (don't quote me) that Australia was one of the last to do so but I'm not entirely sure on that point So don't feel too bad you didn't know
/r/MensRights17/02/24 02:10 PM
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Well America is one country that deems "forced TO penetrate" as rape despite still allowing rapists to charge for child support I think there's a couple more that I was unaware of, they're much smaller countries in Europe but thankfully it's more than ever France, Canada, and Australia are the ones I was aware of But now I think New Zealand and the Netherlands have joined that sentiment as well
/r/MensRights17/02/24 01:26 PM
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Have you ever seen the women's standards videos? Most women are asking for less than the top 1 percentile of men, yeah that's pretty crazy and you should probably get a little reality in your life. It's great to have standards, in fact shoot high I don't care... But to have such high standards that you can't even look at men who are objectively great men but don't meet every quality you want is crazy talk I understand wanting men who are established, have morals, work ethic, are physically attra…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 12:49 PM
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America😎 and probably literally every other country seeing as only 4 see women raping men AS rape
/r/MensRights17/02/24 12:40 PM
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Casual sex is a relationship albeit a short one usually Again casual sex is far easier and again if you claim CHOOSING not to rather than having no option to do so is the same thing you're insane Women are more likely to have casual sex? Did you even bother looking anything up before being ignorant online? You know, the place with ALL the information
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 12:20 PM
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How not? If you're going to give examples of why they CHOOSE not to, you're insane If you give me valid reasons as to why socially women cannot get relationships (you can't) I would listen You do know more than double the women are in relationships than men right? Make it make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 12:13 PM
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No one's saying sexually frustrated women DONT exist, it's called ugly women? Below average women? We ARE saying it is significantly easier for women to have relationships, or even just sexual relationships in general Is it that hard to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 12:10 PM
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YOU can do whatever you want ME MYSELF AND I would rather not have mentally ill promiscuous women in my bed, thank you And yes there's correlation between mental illness and promiscuity
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 12:08 PM
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You're quite literally proving your points incorrect at every turn you make, please stop making yourself look stupid And many men DO have the fear of random hook ups thank you Women rape men too Women have STDs and STIs too Women in fact are more likely to abuse men in IPV than the other way around (unreciprocated IPV or intimate partner violence is 70% women) So yes they do have to worry about women too And yes before you say men are physically stronger, of course they are That doesn't change t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 12:07 PM
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I literally don't think I can count the amount of times I've heard "just start your own group" "make mens only spaces then" " why don't you start your own movement instead of saying feminism needs to help" Uh... People... We tried... You know what you told us? We're misogynistic, we're incels, we don't care about inclusivity, we don't care about equality, we're sexist. Feminism was supposed to be about equality so we tried to make you see we need support too, but it's our fault and we need to fi…
/r/MensRights17/02/24 11:53 AM
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Ehh hit or miss, most women I know also agree that most women comics just don't know what they're doing
/r/MensRights17/02/24 10:10 AM
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You can't take a minority and make it the majority my friend Most women comics truly suck, not because they CAN'T be funny but because they refuse to use quality material in favor of sexual and relationship bullshit Sometimes that can be actually funny, when it's your entire set? Usually not Trust me there are some hilarious bits from women but again they tend to not use the material that would let them succeed I'd like to add that male comics often use a dash of self deprecating humor, and when…
/r/MensRights17/02/24 10:09 AM
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Absolutely! But instead of actually doing work where it's needed, they just sit over here and complain that they've got it so damn hard🤦🏻 it's baffling
/r/MensRights17/02/24 10:04 AM
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Askfeminist will ban you for quite literally any opposing view they don't like, they aren't tolerant at all to opposing views
/r/MensRights16/02/24 11:55 AM
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It's been very difficult to even keep this sub alive. The bigotry thrown at us on a regular basis, not only through reddit but all media which causes many people to see us in a light that's completely false and in that light they wish to demolish mens rights activism I would absolutely love a sub where we can answer questions and more can learn about us without being directly associated, however the likelihood it stays up for any beneficial time frame is sadly unlikely
/r/MensRights16/02/24 11:53 AM
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I can try to find actual studies and not a damn YouTube link🤦🏻 just give me a bit just waking up
/r/MensRights16/02/24 10:03 AM
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You're right I should rephrase and use cognitive behavioral therapy is not meant for men And again like I said this therapy IS good for extreme trauma but other than that you aren't getting much true help from it
/r/MensRights16/02/24 10:02 AM
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Quite literally this, yeah there are toxic forms of what I would say radical masculinity but to be real it's not prevalent like we as a society say it is. It's the exact same with toxic femininity, they are just radicals taking shit to the extreme Just sad men get flack for the idiocy of the few radicals there actually are In fact even the phrase toxic masculinity has become toxic as it no longer means what it originally set out to define It was originally used in the overtly authoritarian, mili…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 04:15 AM
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The gender PAY gap exists, wage gap not so much However the pay gap isn't what people assume it is either If we take a look at the variables used for the study, we see it isn't based on sex really at all and rather the merit of the worker. Men on average work longer hours, take less time off, ask for raises more frequently, work the dirtier more dangerous jobs, and are more willing to compete for top positions ie. Work harder for no immediate benefit So yeah if men are working 6-10 hours longer …
/r/MensRights16/02/24 03:38 AM
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Alrighty, first I do remember who posted the study originally however that literally doesn't matter whatsoever I said "what are you providing to further the discussion? Nothing? Just want to be an ass?" As the words quite literally say, WHAT did you provide for discussion and if you are providing nothing, are you here to be an ass? Regardless of this, sexual abuse and sexual harassment are one in the same except harassment is a broadened term and I quote "Sexual assault refers to a perpetrator i…
/r/MensRights16/02/24 02:31 AM
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Well if you read what's provided, it does include harassment Not to mention again men do not view it the same as women do Regardless if the stats of straight abuse are so high, harassment would be higher. Plus you can very clearly see sexual harassment of men is allowed on social media but women's isn't. Also what have you provided to further any discussion? Nothing? Just here to be an ass? Awesome got it
/r/MensRights16/02/24 12:16 AM
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Therapy wasn't built for men Plenty of studies, even ones done by the CDC show that men and women process information and emotion differently and then even converse differently to boot. The difference between us shows that it quite literally doesn't help men in the way they need it. Yes therapy can help serious trauma victims, but once they've talked through that and come to terms with the issues, or found legitimate coping skills... That's it you're done, even if you have plenty of issues along…
/r/MensRights15/02/24 11:24 PM
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So there's plenty of reasons these things don't add up men are heavily unlikely to even report said abuse at 2 in 150 reporting Most men are abused during childhood, which most studies do not account for Most countries including pretty much all of Europe do not see assault of men the same way https://1in6.org/statistic/ Here is what I've found to be the true statistics I've seen 1 in 5 as well which to me is more believable, however sadly it's hard to find accurate stats on male abuse and there'…
/r/MensRights15/02/24 11:12 PM
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I'd like to think the higher ups know exactly what's up The rest are just poor brainwashed little sheep who think they're completely disadvantaged in every way, hell we see this with a lot of feminists leaving the circle jerk once they realize it's a bunch of bullshit to keep women angry and resentful of men Truly feel sorry for em Can't be easy living in your own delusion where you're still the worse off party
/r/MensRights15/02/24 08:56 PM
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Well your only option is to show them these ultimatums with proof, if they're over text then screenshot them. If they're over the phone you need to find some way to record these conversations You have a way out, she didn't just instantly go to police and give you no time I know it sucks but you can do this, take some deep breaths and try to find as much proof as you can to deny her claims Ie. If I raped her why does she want to continue to have sexual relations with me, or like you said the ulti…
/r/MensRights15/02/24 08:46 PM
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Well I don't have enough data to back up speaking on empathy specifically, it's said they have more overall empathy from what I've seen. However the ingroup bias of women is something we can talk about In-group meaning they feel more strongly for other women than men in the same situations It was something like 4.5 times higher than mens bias for other men There's also a notion called "Women are wonderful effect" if you're interested is basically about in-group out group biases and how they affe…
/r/MensRights15/02/24 08:18 PM
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You're both right and wrong, did women need the movement? Yeah for sure Did they ever not completely trash men? No they always did
/r/MensRights15/02/24 04:50 PM
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First id like to say I'm terribly sorry you've had this experience with your health, and the experiences you've had with people I want to affirm your experience by stating after becoming disabled, it was women who judged me and women who stopped engaging with me not men. Men were reaching out trying to see if there was anything I needed help with or if I needed someone to hang out with "physical ailments can be very alienating so I appreciate it a lot" Where women I thought I was very close to d…
/r/MensRights15/02/24 11:35 AM
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I didn't respond because you aren't worth the effort, again if you want a conversation actually read what's written plus I don't like half assed responses but that's what you'll get if you half ass read But sure we can do this, even though you won't hear the truth Men make up more deaths in every regard whether that's homicide which is yes majority male assailants but doesn't change the fact it happens, to workplace deaths, military deaths, suicide, you name it Men are more abused? Women are mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 05:13 AM
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I swear you ignored literally everything said in both of these posts, if you'd like to have an actual conversation don't be ignorant to what's directly in front of you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:54 AM
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Absolutely, but this is a general consensus on how women treat men nowadays Everything is based on feelings, and if they feel angry or resentful towards you in the moment... Everything's fair game, it's part of the dehumanization of men. We can just treat them however, it doesn't matter right? Hell most will even genuinely apologize BUT that doesn't change the fact it happened and would continue to happen if you don't leave that situation
/r/MensRights15/02/24 04:20 AM
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Well it's hard to speak on it without context and tone but hopefully you'll understand through the text Let's say rape was the topic I had explained to my partner I was raped at some point in the relationship, later in said relationship when things get heated or they are upset with you that becomes ammo to shoot at you "At least I didn't let a girl rape/touch/force herself on me" "At least I didn't let another man rape/touch/force himself on me" "Maybe if you weren't raped you'd be better in bed…
/r/MensRights15/02/24 04:09 AM
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It's actually a proven fact that women use deadly weapons far more in IPV than men, and to that notion women are more likely to be the only abuser in the relationship... Make it make sense
/r/MensRights15/02/24 03:34 AM
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Honestly it's incredibly sad that the article starts with "invisible victims" when referring to men We wouldn't be invisible if people would listen instead of telling us it's not possible, we should enjoy it, or that women have it worse so we should shut up
/r/MensRights15/02/24 03:24 AM
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Ahh that's pretty fair then It's mostly mental health issues to be quite honest with you, the less mentally healthy you are the more susceptible you are to propaganda along with a factor of intelligence of course And the propaganda has been as of late that sex work is empowering women instead of making them feel gross to themselves and also look unappealing to most suitors who would like them as partners
/r/MensRights15/02/24 02:59 AM
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No I wouldn't entirely say so They've been convinced it's empowering to these women, that it's sticking it to the "patriarchy" Then once they get in they realize how stupid that was but are stuck in that situation because once you're viewed that way it doesn't go away So sure they definitely want money who doesn't, but most are genuinely fooled and wish they hadn't very soon after
/r/MensRights15/02/24 02:34 AM
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Sure, you know... Where's your proof? Pretty sure men didn't work in the coal mines so they could have power over their wives, pretty sure they didn't work on oil rigs so they could have power over their wives. Again I don't think men were dying for their slaves but what do I know I'm not a slave owner nor would I want to be AS A MAN🤦🏻 If a woman stays in an abusive relationship she's not a woman See how dumb that sounds? You're just an ignorant child, go live in the real world and then we can t…
/r/MensRights15/02/24 02:27 AM
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Uh it is slavery? Once you're married it quite literally is in the best interest of the man to do everything and anything asked of him That's why marrying the wrong person is basically a life ruining decision for men Pretty sure men never tried to make women their slaves though so regardless you sound like an idiot Do slave owners die for their slaves? No? Yeah didn't think so
/r/MensRights15/02/24 02:14 AM
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Tell that to the plenty of women who do nothing and the man does everything, And those same women will file for divorce once it's not good enough and take his shit Wild notion tho right freak?
/r/MensRights15/02/24 02:09 AM
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Well if we really look at it, women have MORE rights and privileges than men in the western world. So just guess why they're still here screaming from every inch of the street? Supremacy There are women who truly need equality, who truly need this fight... But where are the feminists? Right exactly They don't care about equality they don't care about fixing the problems that plague society as a whole, just what benefits them in the moment. If you'd like some examples of laws we don't have Body a…
/r/MensRights15/02/24 02:06 AM
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Honestly I agree with every point of this Of course there are outliers to this but as a whole this is the dynamic of the sexs and neither are inherently bad or good I think because we've stopped listening and started using very negative connotations to associate with each other is why we've reached this all time high of toxicity and ignorance on topics regarding this If we sat and actually listened to the "enemy" we would very quickly realize we aren't so different and we actually want a lot of …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:56 AM
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Honestly I think it always came down to how we both process and express emotion For men we don't just break down and cry, we don't constantly reflect like the "shower arguments" we always hear about, and we're generally task focused and don't talk as much about the issue. We want a solution and we want to work on it Whereas for women, they will just break down and cry, they will reflect on situations much more than men on average, and they will sit down and talk about their issues without even c…
/r/MensRights15/02/24 01:18 AM
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The fact we've been focused on dehumanizing men as a group since the 70's "They have little to no emotions except anger" Is just one of them Because we as men all know we feel sadness and happiness and envy and every other emotion on the planet But as soon as you start making a group seem less human, you instantly open the gateway for people to believe there's a difference between how I can treat women and how I can treat men. We've seen this with racism and slavery We saw this in the holocaust …
/r/MensRights14/02/24 11:04 PM
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Where? When? How often? Just because they say one thing and THEN BLAME MEN FOR THAT THING Doesn't mean it's advocating Funny how a feminist IN THE 60'S realized feminism was bullshit and that men were dealing with discrimination and inequality as well Are all people who identify as a feminist some horrible person? No of course not But again it's about the ideology, the institution of feminism itself that's the problem Again they don't advocate unless they are also blaming men for that exact issu…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 10:57 PM
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Well it's a bit tough to quantify As of current day? Literally the entire reasoning of feminism or declaring you're a feminist When we started the movement? Probably just a couple loud mouths who made everyone follow suit later with their bullshit propaganda
/r/MensRights14/02/24 08:57 PM
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Is it really that hard to see? And if you think "are simply choosing not to date men" is why feminism is a supremacy ideology you need help Feminism dehumanized men and taught women they are the source of all their qualms Feminism consistently calls for equality which is why it's so attractive, of course we all want equality. Then bam it doesn't do shit to achieve said equality. We talk about women rights this, women representation there, what about the exact same issues plaguing men? Oh yeah we…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 08:37 PM
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I very much recommend you do research and also reread what I said because nothing about what I said is what you're spewing here I can even kick you off with Erin Pizzey a former feminist in 1960 now MRA after seeing the amount of disgusting treatment towards men and specifically male victims Theres plenty others who do exactly this but I'll let you find out for yourself https://youtu.be/Q7MkSpJk5tM?si=-_AZi4Be_o4o2b0q https://youtu.be/3WMuzhQXJoY?si=Er8B_rSsTzEJ-vy4 Here are 2 videos basically o…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:08 PM
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Not only that but arrested for assault if she didn't claim something else before hand
/r/MensRights14/02/24 04:14 PM
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They'll call any dude they get unwanted attention from a creep though so that doesn't really change much You can literally simply say hi you're beautiful have a nice day and walk away, but you're a creep It simply comes down to that because we don't accept kindness anymore for one And two feminism has created a false narrative surrounding every man on the planet which is gross, wildly inaccurate, and sexist to say the least Why are we all creeps? And predators? And bad people in general? Stats l…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:26 PM
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Agreed, however there are some points of attraction based on social biases and not truly what the individual may find attractive when taken away from certain social spaces This can be from religion, culture, geographic location, etc. There are always factors of attraction we have based off of social norms, THATS the problem is the social norms that directly and inherently only affect men Sure women have issues that plague them from the same boat, and we can talk about them... But don't pretend e…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:18 PM
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Literally this, way too many studies have proven that average men have to try EXTREMELY hard to even have the chance to show they're great people under the vanities of attraction Yet we get called crazy because we dont have the literary comprehension of a toddler
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:13 PM
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No the issue is quite literally feminism It's a hate/ supremacy ideology and always has been It's never been about equality and never actually acted as such It spreads tons of false information and rhetoric which has gotten us here Plenty of people realize this exact issue and either leave the feminist circle jerk or try to reform it which is a massive waste of time I can find multiple women who've left feminism because its terrible
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:09 PM
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Wasn't the point you ignoramus
/r/MensRights14/02/24 02:58 PM
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It's almost like we left the "patriarchy" behind when we stood, fought, died, were jailed, and starved ourselves for women's suffrage But we don't wanna talk about that side of history huh
/r/MensRights14/02/24 07:59 AM
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Just to add to this, people should be way more aware of Erin Pizzey She's a former feminist of the 60's who started the first and now largest DV shelter for women and later many more. She saw just how much men were also affected by DV and IPV and decided she wanted to help us. Feminism didn't like that so much and decided she was no longer allowed in her own shelters not to mention all the hate, backlash, and death threats she received thereafter Now she's a men's rights activist helping spread …
/r/MensRights14/02/24 07:54 AM
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I mean it is a kinda random number on his part but if I remember correctly it's only like 3% of all men so he's not far off They're repeat offenders, just large enough in number that there's always one around to assault multiple people before getting arrested and another gets out to do the same
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 07:46 AM
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See the difference is EVERYONE is on guard when meeting new individuals, women just take it to an extreme because they feel the justification to do so when they really don't have any more right than the guy does You're right though being OVERLY defensive, on edge, and just generally rude to be frank will push the men who know what's up away and leave the guys who can waste time to pursue you for quick pleasures In this culture no one wins, everyone's sad and miserable and blaming it on everyone …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 07:43 AM
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Unfortunately it gets even worse, most women condone it I've quite literally only met men who embraced me as I told my story and genuinely cared for me during and after the event, I'll be telling it to women who just cry and start talking about how much it hurts them🤦🏻 and then use it against me later when they're mad
/r/MensRights14/02/24 07:38 AM
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Still nope :p Only for rich, charismatic, attractive men The rest of us get lucky or get screwed by life no matter who where or why
/r/MensRights14/02/24 07:34 AM
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Quite literally anywhere you turn, that's what you get peddled You search anything on any search engine including the ones used for social media? You ever notice how if it has to do specifically with men doing good things or bad things happening to men they're pushed down the search results? Hmmm interesting Hate towards women is instantly banned but hate towards men is perfectly fine (Even did my own experiment for this one, took word for word identical posts except switched man and woman conno…
/r/MensRights14/02/24 06:31 AM
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No it's always been like this and comes up every so often We saw this a number of years ago with women filming men at their workplace or during their jobs and many men jumped on her like they should stating that it's gross and even worse that they were in the middle of their jobs being harassed.
/r/MensRights13/02/24 11:13 PM
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Cut it out, there's a place for that conversation here. Should we be a bit more productive about it? Yeah 100% But it's still things we aren't allowed to speak on in other places or at least get shamed for This is a form of discrimination it's just more of social engineering and culture than laws and rights Again I do agree we need to keep it more productive but again the conversation itself should be here
/r/MensRights13/02/24 09:18 AM
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See I partially agree, with the sentiment of course However laws that are specifically discriminatory against immutable characteristics along with the law WAS in effect for other persons, its being discussed that it should be prosecuted here in the US so there's a thought to be had surrounding that
/r/MensRights13/02/24 07:51 AM
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I whole heartedly disagree You can agree with every single point they make but ONE and they will talk so much shit about you, maybe behind your back and maybe not We need to do better than them, we can do better
/r/MensRights13/02/24 07:39 AM
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Unfortunately the same can't be said for women... https://sci-hub.se/10.1080/00224499809551933 This study https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/s/B8gPbwmfm5 And this post which the study is also in, if you go to the comments there's plenty more studies showing the increase since the study I directly cited was done as well It's funny because the portion of men that rape came back as 2-3% of all men and it's just repeating offenders, yet this study says literally most women condone raping men But we…
/r/MensRights13/02/24 03:06 AM
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SOLD OUT? Either they didn't really make any in substantial amounts or people are wildin because of these nutcase feminists Either way glad to see it exists at least xD
/r/MensRights12/02/24 10:44 PM
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Literally fucking this, don't even know how many times I've had this word for word conversation Yet I'm the crazy one when I say feminism isn't about equality
/r/MensRights12/02/24 10:26 PM
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Do it, I'd buy😭
/r/MensRights12/02/24 10:24 PM
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Appreciate you! We've all got this
/r/MensRights12/02/24 05:43 AM
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I don't think you realize again I said the man more than likely is holding your hands down or has them bound, restraining is the key to any assailant whether they wanna rob you, beat you, rape you, literally doesn't matter, and as such is usually the very first thing done. Gouging eyes is one of the least likely options for you to have is my point Yes you should be thinking about "dirty" fighting but the difference is priority. again again you being restrained by the hands is almost an instant i…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:23 AM
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You're literally proving yourself to have not thought this out, what was the point of bringing it up then KNOWING you more than likely won't be able to? You've got more of a shot kicking him in the balls cmon now be realistic Now if you kick him in the balls and THEN gouge his eyes, you probably got it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:14 AM
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While this is literally what you should do as a smaller person in general man or woman, you think someone trying to hurt you is gonna let you do this? More than likely your hands are bound or held by them, no chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:09 AM
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Then why do women more often use deadly weapons in ipv? Where men just injured them with their strength? Why did women's military requirements get cut in literal half compared to their male counterparts? There's no competition even if they weigh the same and are the same height there's too much biologically at play against women in physical altercations and as to why they're injured more frequently Bone density, muscle growth and mass, and the general height difference throws your argument out t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:06 AM
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This is literally the only explanation needed Yeah sure there's some of it towards women especially of lower social stature but really? Cmon, if you think women are treated even nearly the same when it comes to abuse or violence from the opposite sex you're insane. One tiny accusation is game over for most men and women get off a Scott free
/r/MensRights12/02/24 04:59 AM
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Because that's literally what they want/condone Another post here brought a study to our attention where a hefty majority 80%+ of women in the study condoned rape of men Can't make it up people
/r/MensRights12/02/24 04:51 AM
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Wage gap very much exists, but it's not based on sex and rather a heavy multitude of other factors. That's the sad part, feminism knows the left won't look into it and just believe women are oppressed by it
/r/MensRights12/02/24 02:55 AM
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I was actually HEAVY left leaning until about 2018? 2019? By this point I had been starved, stabbed, beaten, forced to do illicit drugs, and more by my mother, Raped by her friends, and quite literally told by CPS and other social workers that it doesn't happen or it's not important along with pretty much any woman I've ever told this including my later partners Of course this started me down a bad path because no one cares nor believes men victims and I felt delusional, I felt lost, I felt like…
/r/MensRights12/02/24 02:48 AM
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If women oppressed in other countries bothers you so much GO THERE AND SPEW THE FEMINIST RHETORIC where it's a really needed We do care, but this group is to point out all the issues against men not to help support women in another country Women have more than men ever have in the west and to think otherwise is incredibly sad
/r/MensRights12/02/24 02:20 AM
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The infantilization of women as a whole is exactly why Men big bad scary Women tiny little flowers who can't help themselves which should be the most insulting thing to women ever Everything's about equality until it no longer benefits them and they have to put some work in Everything is about how WOMEN feel, what THEY have access to Everythings about inclusivity and diversity until there's a man in the room Meanwhile women are more abusive in domestic violence, and we still have only 2 shelters…
/r/MensRights12/02/24 02:13 AM
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Sadly radicalism has become the general consensus Of course theres people still with some common sense But if we are to take politics for example The lefts general populace has been radicalized to the farthest left And the same happens to be true with the right, although this happened much later than the left and I believe it's in response to said radicalism But regardless it's all getting way out of hand and I agree we need to band together and tell these people they're being delusional Nothing…
/r/MensRights12/02/24 01:55 AM
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It's so funny because in mass amounts of topics you see women SUCK But the same is said for the opposite MANY women dominated topics or actions men just inherently suck at ITS CALLED BIOLOGY PEOPLE🤦🏻
/r/MensRights10/02/24 05:09 PM
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https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5731847/ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7871523/ Again CORRELATION This doesn't inherently mean good or bad though more studies point towards negative affects rather than positive ones which seems to be a minority Yet in the same study I first sources it clearly states WOMEN ARE MORE NEGATIVELY AFFECTED THAN MEN AND The very last portion of what you quoted literally stated MALE ONLY Did you even read? Or did you just copy paste what you …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 05:04 PM
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Women are more likely to engage in casual sex on average, increasingly so with partners who are more promiscuous than they are This would lead to the obvious rise in any sexual related illnesses or issues for women as they're just throwing themselves around It's also studied that there is a correlation (not causation) between casual sex engagement and mental health Leading to the conclusion that many who engage in casual sex are mentally ill, which would again lead to lack of quality choice in p…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 03:51 PM
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It's not even that they just don't care anymore, honestly I think I preferred when they didn't care Now they relish the fact men are struggling, they actively pray for our downfall They've repeatedly told us to harm ourselves Repeatedly told it's our fault because we don't open up, yet when we do this is the answer they give us Now don't get me wrong there are many women who are truly out to help, but sadly far and few between for the men's side of things
/r/MensRights10/02/24 03:41 PM
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"A tradwife (a neologism for traditional wife or traditional housewife), in recent Western culture, typically denotes a woman who believes in and practices traditional sex roles and marriages. Many tradwives believe that they do not sacrifice women's rights by choosing to take a homemaking role within their marriage." "Critics claim this is a tactic used by male alt-right adherents to recruit more women to far-right causes. Despite the link to extreme right-wing ideologies, not all tradwives end…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 11:36 AM
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Yeah definitely true, yet it's only a small portion of the population doing that? Repeat offenders? They're the ones doing it not the random guy or girl at Starbucks In fact that random guy or girl was more than likely also a victim of sexualization and or assault It's not men, it's not women, it's not they them xey xe It's disgusting people and us, these people are sick, it's not a normal sentiment to have, and to think it is just blows my mind
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 06:50 AM
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Why I said "y'all", I don't mean you specifically as I have no clue about you and I very much appreciate that sentiment but as for society and the left/feminists who use this talking point don't feel the same
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 06:44 AM
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Trad wives are NOT promoting women not having rights, in fact most of them tell you to pursue careers and leave family behind IF THATS WHAT YOU WANT but not all women do. They promote you choosing and it's now clearly shown even in this comment that those women are shamed and attacked
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 06:37 AM
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No that's just being a part of a civilized society It's weird, y'all say men are these sex craved beasts yet they don't wanna see some tatas? Doesn't add up
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 06:35 AM
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Putting my hand on your shoulder for instance isn't harassment I agree, but again as the study stated these women were perfectly fine with making very sexually suggestive touches on these unwilling men. Again this should be discussed between you and said person as everyone views this different but again general rule of thumb is if a yes wasn't given then no touching is given. Women constantly complain about being pushed into sexual acts even if they were on the fence doesn't make it right, it's …
/r/MensRights09/02/24 10:40 PM
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It specifically specified unwilling men though? "If he didn't resist too much" is literally a major talking point for women's abuse, during these instances many will just freeze up or not know how to deal with said situation even if they don't want it and as such, no you shouldn't "just do" anything. Yes you should ask consent even in committed relationships although because of said relationship you should have the conversation about when sexy time is and isn't and what you're okay with as some …
/r/MensRights09/02/24 10:34 PM
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There's a ton individuals can do about it, first take research initiative and find the information yourself instead of relying on others to provide it for you. Second start having uncomfortable conversations, I know this isn't uncomfortable for us but for society it is and the more we push aside these tough talks the worse it gets Third start speaking out other than online, as yes online has too many filters and algorithms pushing specific content that viewership bias is no longer a thing and ra…
/r/MensRights09/02/24 10:15 PM
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It's sad critical thinking is out the damn window, again of course there were some aspects of how we treated women that can be oppressive ie. not having a bank account but in the grand scheme of things that doesn't mean you as a people were oppressed let alone for how long they state they were. If we as a society focused more on learning to think for ourselves this wouldn't be such news to people
/r/MensRights09/02/24 09:54 PM
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News flash women weren't really oppressed, in fact they were our most prized group of individuals. For as long as community has existed men died for women, men hunted for women, men starved for women, and even fought to being home riches for our women. Even the whole right to vote issue is absolute nonsense as men as a whole gained the right to vote just shortly before women on top of the fact the only reason men gained the right to vote was due to the draft mandate leading to a responsibility l…
/r/MensRights09/02/24 09:33 PM
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https://www.frontiersin.org/journals/psychology/articles/10.3389/fpsyg.2023.1088591/full https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2891543/ https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.cnbc.com/amp/2023/09/14/couples-share-up-to-89percent-of-values-new-study-says.html Literally endless studies and articles showing we all look for quality partners, however quality is substantive as many find quality as those who align with them on a multitude of topics. Of course there are general high quality traits ie. …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 04:30 PM
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Exactly the point I'm making? Did you even read it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 04:27 PM
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The first part of this is absolutely incorrect with mountains of evidence against it? Hell you yourself are looking for a quality partner and there's nothing wrong with that. Quality doesn't just equate to someone's looks but rather their moral values, work ethic, personality traits that are personable etc. The rest is spot on though
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 04:18 PM
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Well to be quite honest everyone needs a companion or partner in life... That's it... That's the only answer Marriage used to have a purpose now it's just a status and benefits with taxes, on top of the fact that men are more than the majority of negatively affected by marriage would of course bring many to the conclusion it's not worth it. It's money and time and effort that could be spent on far better things. 2 not everyone wants kids, many women also don't want kids and that's perfectly fine…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 08:15 AM
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Unless you are directly experiencing things instead of just being told, it is imagination. Whether it's made up in the woman's head or the man is lying or exaggerating etc for an example there will always be some form of fantasy expectations This can be for both parties though he's partially right with it being slightly increased with women with his explanation. Only slightly though I feel Again just reading or listening to information doesn't make it true or make YOUR interpretation of that inf…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 01:05 AM
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This subreddit? Definitely divided The movement as a whole is definitely more right leaning however, it's just an inevitability considering the left makes no efforts to gain the male demographic and even berates them for existing most of the time
/r/MensRights27/01/24 01:42 PM
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Actually didn't know this happened or that desantis did it so thank you for bringing it to my attention, sad he dropped out I would have looked into voting differently with this info
/r/MensRights27/01/24 01:40 PM
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That's because left wing doesn't say this the right does. Neither are completely on the money but the left simply abuses men that don't fit what they want instead of trying to find ways to help men
/r/MensRights27/01/24 01:37 PM
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I wouldn't quite call that a great selection to base anything off of but I see your point
/r/MensRights27/01/24 05:16 AM
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Larpers? How so? If anything I'm more of a feminist than most feminists
/r/MensRights27/01/24 05:15 AM
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What do you mean? If it was laws, media, and society that WOULD inherently affect men and women's perception of each other? However it was never like THIS even a decade ago, so no it's nothing to do with how we standardly view each other but rather everything previously listed Other countries do indeed have more balanced rights and cultures surrounding gender however there are also many societies both misandric and misogynistic across the world.
/r/MensRights26/01/24 10:03 PM
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You're definitely right but let's say top man of each demographic , this is why I use quotes a lot because terminology and defining groups is always dumb but figured you'd get that one Men are more likely to date down though? So they can't lower their standards further if women keep raising theirs right? Men should raise theirs instead and demand better women as they should with men I would however agree if you said many men aren't taking initiative in bettering themselves in order to be good en…
/r/MensRights26/01/24 06:45 PM
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It definitely could however I think the whole "80-20 rule" thing might have a bit more to play than who's hornier yk? There's a large cultural shift towards male abandonment in almost every regard and it's just getting worse in which only the top men get frequent casual activity, the rest who get anything are in a relationship with someone of equal or lower "status". The fact women partake in casual sex more is an indication that even if men weren't sexless and have no relationships at the momen…
/r/MensRights26/01/24 06:26 PM
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It's really funny this conversation still exists... Because women partake in casual sex far more frequently than men Wouldn't that show it's not just "man horny ooga booga"? On top of this if you look at the lgb community lesbians have more frequent sexual misconduct between each other leading the hypothesis to be down to experiences and circumstance Are there people willing to just fuck anyone anytime? For sure Are they only men? Definitely not There's a correlation between being mentally ill a…
/r/MensRights26/01/24 12:36 PM
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Little late to the party but if you haven't met them yet, that's your first issue. Personally I introduce every friend of the opposite gender to my SO simply out of respect, but it also goes deeper than that. Your friend circle is who you are whether we want to believe it or not, not knowing who your SO's friends with makes moving forward more difficult in every regard including knowing the true them they may not show with you alone Anxiety, I'm sure we've all felt it... As such I try to minimiz…
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/24 03:13 PM
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Well it'll come down to what you personally find important or valuable For me for instance Country infrastructure is dead, if we hope to do anything that should be our first goal. More jobs, less money spent on importing goods etc Put large corporations in their place, at the current moment they control WAY more than they ever should have and is definitely getting out of hand Mens issues including rights, anytime anything male related is brought to attention there is an avalanche of hate no matt…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 02:30 PM
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You should probably find some new discussions then if you haven't seen them speak on these topics a multitude of times, and they definitely support the black community albeit less than they should be Not that they aren't important but I definitely think there are more pressing issues atm
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 02:07 PM
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Uh... Sir... Everything's popular compared to the forum days... It's very much true and considering you agree the media has a left leaning bias (a heavy one) just proves the point further Again I never said they don't have a following as it obviously has enough people behind it to create these types of conversations but it's by far the least popular except MAYBE black pill as they've skyrocketed in "membership" as of late
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 02:04 PM
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I mean... There isn't just A goal? Any group will have multitudes of things they would like to see changed or discussed as to why they group together, I couldnt tell you everything but here's just a couple Education needs a HUGE revamp regardless of your viewpoint however trp sees it as a much larger issue than most Court system also needs a major revamp as there are plenty of biases against demographics specifically the black and male communities which trp mainly consists of They see that the c…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 02:01 PM
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You're serious? It's the least followed and mainly male dominated. As I said if you're under the age of 28, you typically aren't red pilled unless you're a man. I didn't say it doesn't have a following just the least of the main "pills" However it's funny you say that because all the power is in the hands of the left leaning citizens which are definitely not red pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 01:56 PM
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They haven't given up, but it also won't be publicized because any movement towards a specific goal is demonized. You literally can't even have awareness events without them being protested or banned If you're even slightly "right leaning" as a younger demographic (under 28) you're immediately a minority, and worse yet is you're the target of most if not all negativity leading everyone to have engrained prejudice despite any facts or evidence shown. Are they perfect? No absolutely not, but you s…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 01:44 PM
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I personally don't agree with "pro-choice" due to a multitude of things however I do agree with this notion. If women are able to escape the responsibility of sex then so should men.
/r/MensRights22/01/24 09:40 PM
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Like I said there are of course shit fathers out there, again just like shit mothers. But guess what, no one's constantly going out of the way to belittle women even though they are the least fit parent according to studies? You're more likely to be a delinquent from a single mother than single father home, but we're the bad parents? Alright
/r/MensRights13/01/24 12:21 AM
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You do realize the person who founded domestic violence shelters wanted to make them for men too... Feminism later BANNED HER FROM HER OWN INSTITUTIONS FEMINISM IS THE DAMN PROBLEM It has never been about equality and always been about pulling down men and if you haven't realized HALF OF WHAT THEY TOLD YOU IS A LIE It's funny because mens rights movement includes a ton of things like the fact that women abuse men more in domestic violence for instance? We should be helping them and yet men are t…
/r/MensRights13/01/24 12:19 AM
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There's exceptions but as a rule that's true. There's still more to think about imo than you are you know? Not that it's a bad thing just that there may be brighter horizons ahead because there aren't so many limitations here as you think
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 07:36 PM
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There's definitely an argument to be had there But I've also seen women do it with some ugly dudes imo Trauma has a lot to play in this as well as social conditioning so you have to realize they might be pining for someone specific they can no longer have as well not just the top percent of attractive men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 07:32 PM
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This is definitely a case by case basis as I've seen women both absolutely shred men for the dumbest shit and stick with men who do the worst shit and it's the same with men albeit there's much more of a "simp" "white knight" culture for men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 06:19 PM
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It's extremely sad but society as a whole is not our friend and they don't want to help us and hell might even hate us. That's why it's up to us to make the difference Communities like these where we can come together and support each other are what's needed the most, from these places we can congregate and discuss our further actions in order to solve these issues. Problem is that it's becoming common for male spaces to be banned simply for existing, so we need to work hard to make sure we play…
/r/MensRights12/01/24 06:07 PM
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They definitely deserve better, and it's funny because most other communities besides the west view their fathers in much better capacities. Of course we have horrible fathers, but just the same we have horrible mothers. We should instead create the narrative that men CAN be great instead of constantly belittling them. Hell just take a peak at multiple other animated shows and movies created outside the west. It's normal to show fathers sacrificing for their families, it's normal to show a lovin…
/r/MensRights12/01/24 03:05 PM
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Well first id like to preface by thanking you for being very polite and respectful truly. I will disagree as again you're more likely to be abused in school, though you're right it doesn't entirely matter who makes up majority it does matter in the full context because again women are far more likely to get away with such actions not just due to unreported incidents by men which again are known to underreport heavily. https://attorneyatlawmagazine.com/latest-articles/statistics-of-sexual-abuse-c…
/r/MensRights12/01/24 12:08 AM
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What's funny is the statistics for male sexual assault aren't actually different at all until much later in life when they can physically defend themselves. IN FACT, PER CAPITA OF 1000 MEN ARE 1 PERSON BEHIND WOMEN. You know why that's significant? Because we know men underreport sexual abuse FAR more than women do, and as such men are assaulted more as children than women. I full heartedly agree later in life women are at much more risk but you said at all points in life which is just insanely …
/r/MensRights11/01/24 11:15 PM
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This i can definitely agree with but having a "mood disorder" is not an excuse for abuse. I'm not here to vilify women I'm here to remove men from the villain category and if by the time I'm done with that the research shows women are the problem that's not my fault
/r/MensRights11/01/24 10:09 PM
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Dude literally the entire study was based on their sexual identity? It WAS by other women but REGARDLESS how would that sentiment make any sense given the fact gay men are the happiest demographic along with heterosexual relationships being overall safer and less abusive. Figure yourself out
/r/MensRights11/01/24 08:08 PM
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Yes it is sadly I did misread slightly that's my fault. However the stats still aren't showing what you are saying. The lesbian community still faces more abuse and divorce rates than any other group. https://www.standffov.org/tdvam/abuse-in-lesbian-relationships/ https://ncadv.org/blog/posts/domestic-violence-and-the-lgbtq-community#:~:text=43.8%25%20of%20lesbian%20women%20and,to%2035%25%20of%20heterosexual%20women. You're more likely to be sexually, physically, or mentally abused by at least 1…
/r/MensRights11/01/24 07:37 PM
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You're kidding right? Almost 90% of lesbian couples have experienced abuse by a same sex partner IN THAT LINK. Now if we look at heterosexual abuse it's not the same. Now don't get me wrong I don't think it's some major catastrophic number difference but they're most definitely different.
/r/MensRights11/01/24 07:19 PM
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Probably wouldn't use wikipedia as a source to cite but the stat is accurate
/r/MensRights11/01/24 03:52 PM
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See everything here I agree with except the disproportion of rape. Again I agree men are more likely to seriously harm with just their strength alone, however when it comes to sexual assault young men even up until highschool are actually more likely to be assaulted if we take into account underreporting which we know men are more likely to do. Studies show per 1000 person capita, the difference between rape victims under the age of 18 was ONE PERSON. If we make such a big difference in treatmen…
/r/MensRights11/01/24 03:48 PM
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Honestly this is a very interesting piece of information, I'm going to have to dig deeper into this. We do have stats to show that you're more likely to be a criminal from a single mother home than single father homes so this could attest to this notion.
/r/MensRights11/01/24 03:41 PM
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That is true I guess it would depend on where and when and who was a witness etc. In most cases you as the man defending yourself or not will be put in cuffs. Usually they place either you or your partner in another place until things are settled ie hotel but women are more than likely never arrested as to why men are the automatic arrestee. The stats are definitely not the same for straight relationships? While it's not an insane difference again lesbians lead the numbers all around the board w…
/r/MensRights11/01/24 06:34 AM
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It definitely does? As a man defending yourself from a woman especially "your" woman will put you in cuffs. The statistics about abuse is about abuse between LESBIANS as I stated, how in hell would you know what studies I'm talking about if I haven't cited it yet? In fact women are more likely to abuse in heterosexual relationships anyways so how would that make any sense? Lesbians are more likely to divorce, have less happy lives, and are more likely to be in domestic assaults BY THEIR WOMAN PA…
/r/MensRights11/01/24 06:12 AM
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Yeah I guess I get that but as a man, even defending myself puts me in jail so I really don't know who wins the pity card here. Plus women are statistically more abusive in both heterosexual and lesbian relationships leading abuse so I simply just don't see it happening as frequently with men.
/r/MensRights11/01/24 05:59 AM
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Yeah they aren't THAT common though, I've been hit with bags, hands, even dishes while we were on a date and I realized she wasn't the woman I wanted to spend my life with because I rejected them and I've seen the same happen to other men. It's not a gender issue it's just shitty people, I wasn't in any less danger than a woman and in fact since I'm disabled hell I could argue I was in more danger but who cares right? Men bad
/r/MensRights11/01/24 05:54 AM
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Honestly you're missing a lot more important topics and this sounds extremely superficial. Let's talk about the fact women are more likely to be the sole abuser in heterosexual relationships and more likely to instigate mutual abuse by 80% yet men still have 2 shelters across the entire United States. In turn let's talk about how men are perceived as more violent and yet these stats above as well as the lesbian community has more abuse AND divorce than any community and the gay community has the…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 02:57 PM
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Definitely isn't happening in practice though, gender is still used to determine insurance rates
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 02:39 PM
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There's no short or long answer there's just the answer. At different stages in life, both men and women are likely to cheat more often. So in reality it depends on when these people are married in their lives and how well they are faring in terms of financing or hobbies etc. We do see an increasing amount of women abusing men though and lesbians even have the highest abuse and divorce rate of all relationships with gay men being the happiest demographic so with that obviously we aren't the "pro…
/r/MensRights10/01/24 02:35 PM
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Dude it's called real life, go try it sometime? They're all there too they don't just disappear from the planet because you hopped off your phone
/r/MensRights10/01/24 11:46 AM
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Honestly I would say it's made everything more difficult EXCEPT getting "laid". Sex is more open than ever, people are more open to it than ever, and both men and women are in on it. That being the case it most definitely is easier for the majority of the population with some caveats as it will of course come down to attraction and preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 02:43 PM
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Yes absolutely you should attempt to lose that romantic connection if basic morals or viewpoints aren't met. Now if you slightly disagree but they still believe that men are hurting too then you have some wiggle room, just provide them some evidence that can help you point them in the right direction ( because remember not everyone who doesn't see our way are ignorant assholes many have just been lied to or have experiences pushing them in another direction just like we all do) and they may see …
/r/MensRights07/01/24 02:08 PM
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It's very well possible those close to you will see you advocating for men as attacking them and/or others but WE know that's not the case. If they aren't willing to see your side and at the very least try to understand they didn't deserve you anyways
/r/MensRights07/01/24 01:45 PM
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That's something only you can answer for yourself. Are you willing to accept the repercussions of speaking on these topics? Are you willing to endure the Bashing, insults, shaming, threats etc.? If you're willing to push through all this and still speak up then we all truly salute you as today you're the devil for doing so. I am down that path now, those who don't understand it or are too ignorant to learn will try to tear you down but nothing can stop you if you truly believe what you're fighti…
/r/MensRights07/01/24 01:02 PM
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My friend I promise there are more men supporting you, sadly they are hiding in the shadows afraid of the repercussions for speaking up against these injustices. Keep your voice loud and proud, others will follow your example.
/r/MensRights07/01/24 12:53 PM
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Patriarchy as a whole is just bullshit, you think the upper class women aren't in on it too? It's the upper class doing these things not men not women, just shitty people with too much power.
/r/MensRights06/01/24 10:24 PM
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I honestly don't think it will be anything negative. I DO think that the near future is going to be Incredibly rough and that will be the brunt of things. But attempting to be optimistic, enough people are going to stand up for this bs and maybe it won't come to an end but it won't be something inherently affecting an entire gender.
/r/MensRights31/12/23 01:56 AM
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Okay so clearly you're just a troll . Men aren't inherently bad in anyway, just the same as women. Your compound variable is bad decisions and feminism, don't know what else to tell ya Peace
/r/MensRights30/12/23 06:10 PM
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Do you not understand what correlation means? No one's arguing that every single person with a high body count is mentally ill BECAUSE of the promiscuity but rather that it's a mix of both the former AND previous mental illnesses causing the promiscuity. Again do some research
/r/MensRights30/12/23 06:07 PM
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Not sure what you're on about, everyone I speak to provides clear evidence and citation for what they claim. But then again I provide evidence for my claims unlike you, a tiny bit of your own research goes a long way as it took me .5 seconds to find 3 articles confirming the correlation.
/r/MensRights30/12/23 06:01 PM
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https://www.omicsonline.org/the-relationship-between-multiple-sexual-partners-and-mental-health-in-adolescent-females-2161-0711.1000256.php?aid=21466 https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7871523/ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3752789/
/r/MensRights30/12/23 07:24 AM
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We've already known the statistics are very similar with women as the leading victims but we also already knew that men underreported so seeing that more studies are coming out proving the previous studies everyone ignored doesn't surprise me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 07:20 AM
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I will disagree with your analogy that high body count meaning mental disorders and some men raping = men bad. They aren't nearly the same and the former actually has evidence to back it up. If we cant speak fact when facts are presented you're perpetuating the problem
/r/MensRights30/12/23 07:17 AM
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I agree with a lot of the reasons as to why the subs going down this path that have been mentioned in the comments thus far, but I whole heartedly believe it's simply because women as a whole are getting worse in the treatment of men. As such this causes a general distaste or hell even misogynistic view which isn't entirely unjustified, I agree it won't help the divide we see but if they aren't even willing to listen to us a majority of the time and when they do the rest just shut them down... H…
/r/MensRights30/12/23 07:16 AM
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I wouldn't say I feel obligated as it's not a societal "all women" thing. More so as a man I feel the need to protect everyone I care about with the most intense protection I can offer. I can't quite describe it honestly but everyone that I cherish in my life is to be protected. On the other hand though at the same time I'm not calling my friends that are women to back me up in a fight like I would men.
/r/MensRights30/12/23 07:04 AM
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You're missing a few statistics like women instigating 80% of conflicts in mutual abuse situations and being the sole perpetrator more often in sole abuse cases at 54%. Not only does the lesbian demographic engage in more domestic violence they're the more likely of groups to SA, and divorce out of all demographics. I understand there are horrid men out there... But clearly we aren't the main or only issue
/r/MensRights29/12/23 01:50 PM
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My views? How are my views misogynistic? Just curious as I just stated literal statistics but alright
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 06:31 PM
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You're entirely wrong, it can be the most compassionate peaceful solution and you're still attacked because of THE TOPIC. Most men believe it or not aren't hating women for existing and in fact its the complete opposite. Most men simply speak the truth. Sorry if you don't wanna hear the facts but women are more abusive, women are irrational when it comes to what they believe men are, should do, or act. It's really not the women's faults either, y'all have been brainwashed for decades now to beli…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 06:21 PM
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Of course you can't ever completely blanket statement anything I agree, however a majority of men will attest to what I'm saying. I speak on male abuse both sexual and domestic, I get banned. I speak on how men are struggling in all areas of society and I'm the problem. I speak on how the misandry is getting far out of control but I'm the terrible person. It doesn't have to be some extremist who's speaking nonsense and violating terms of any platform. It's quite literally anyone man or woman spe…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 06:00 PM
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We should, and yet aren't allowed to. Any space for men is quickly demonized and destroyed from IRL and the internet alike. Far too many men have no place to safely speak about what troubles them, to be safe from abuse, to be themselves without hate. In the United States we still only have 2 DV shelters across the entire country made for men even though men make up a majority of sole abuse victims. Even the founder of the shelters herself saw the injustice against men, and fought for us. You kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 05:55 PM
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Are you that ignorant? The fact that men's safe spaces are being banned should have you infuriated. We don't have spaces IRL, can't have spaces online... wow isn't almost as if men are being treated less than human. But what do you mean so many problems with that content? If you mean the backlash well that's kinda the problem. Women are allowed to talk so negatively about men, threaten them, tell them to commit suicide, etc. and no one bats an eye... No one's willing to bring down those communit…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 04:20 PM
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You're right it's not, but women robbing men of safe spaces definitely is :)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 04:00 PM
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I heavily agree! I've actually seen men's rights be attacked almost constantly on any feminist sided sub even though I have had some of the most open ended and understanding conversations in my life through there. Goes to show what misinformation and the idiocy of the general public does to people
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 03:56 PM
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Yeah kinda crazy any mans focused sub is either a left fiasco still blaming men for shit or they're banned. Men are the scapegoat now, can't escape it only fight it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 03:48 PM
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Not the point of the comment but yes! However they won't leave them alone, again it's been banned from reddit as have a multitude of other mens subs but those exact same subs can be gendered for women and spew the most horrendous bigoted crap on the planet. I am not MGTOW, but I find it funny women are so perfect and men are so horrible. We aren't the ones telling little children to off themselves because they're boys. But I guess we're the villains
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 03:46 PM
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You sound insane. MGTOW is a thing for a reason, we're done with women. But guess what? We're not allowed to exist, women have a problem with it. We've been banned from reddit But WGTOW is perfectly fine right? Sounds like it's the women being the problem here. Men are abused more frequently in sole abuse, sexually assaulted more frequently as children, men are falling behind in every category of society yet we're the problem? We can't even mention having our own opinion or else we're evil and m…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 03:23 PM
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Not just influential but that actually CARES. Most jumping on the bandwagon just know it's good money or easy money especially the women, but he has put up with too much bs and continued speaking for us because he wants to see the change. Disagree with his takes or not is fine it's human but I appreciate you can see what he's doing is at least important
/r/MensRights24/12/23 11:02 AM
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I honestly think pearl dove off the deep end. Used to make actual valued content but once she hit "stardom" in our community she just became another person spewing misinformation for clicks sadly enough as we need women to speak up and end the bs
/r/MensRights23/12/23 08:16 PM
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Okay just gonna reiterate since you don't understand what others are getting at. As a man you shouldn't be breaking down in public or throwing temper tantrums etc. you're just a child at that point. Women do get off easier in that regard but I don't believe anyone should be regardless of sex, however if you cannot maintain composure and deal with your emotions in a healthy and safe manner then you most likely won't succeed in much of anything worth having. Crying isn't necessarily the problem as…
/r/MensRights23/12/23 07:15 PM
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It's because the left loves to jam down everyone's throat how evil we are if we don't agree with them on every little thing on the planet. Of course not everyone but the general left truly believes if you don't align with them that you're evil it's kinda crazy
/r/MensRights23/12/23 06:45 PM
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I honestly think it's absolutely hilarious the misinformation spewed about Peterson especially from the left leaning side. On top of the complete idiocy of our society with the fact you can't agree and disagree with someone's multitudes of opinions on so many subjects. I will NEVER fully agree with any person and neither will you, so voice what you disagree with in the community but don't act like he's a net negative or that you may not belong there. Still listen, but find another source to bala…
/r/MensRights23/12/23 06:43 PM
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Well of course the anonymity causes them to feel they can say and do whatever they want, including the ever more present misandry but most wouldn't go so far in depth IRL despite still feeling the same. The more we simply allow it instead of speaking out against it the worse it gets and sadly enough you can't speak about it publicly or you're shamed/canceled so we at least at the moment can't really get ahead of it. Male spaces are virtually non-existent now, men still don't have safe spaces for…
/r/MensRights16/12/23 02:10 AM
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Honestly it's just becoming a popular view in general sadly, it was inevitable that it would take over reddit if it's IRL.
/r/MensRights15/12/23 06:17 PM
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I think a main difference is most of these men aren't "settling" We all know men and women have different preferences and mens being much wider, I don't think most of these men feel they are settling when they meet they're women. Of course some are I can't deny that, but I feel that women settling is much more frequent and also partially the reason divorces are so common. If you aren't the Prince charming she had in mind nothing you do matters, you could be the best partner and she would still f…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:13 PM
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May I ask where? Definitely isn't how family court works as it heavily favors the mother even when proven unfit but I can see certain places where it may very well be different. My entire family has worked in the social field whether it was CPS, family court lawyer, social services intake and many more positions. They're accounts along with my own experience and studies are very much different but abuse from the father does happen I won't deny that https://familylawattorneymesaaz.net/divorce-for…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 08:33 AM
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It's not actually that rare, it's more rare that men get their rights than don't. On top of that many women are vindictive and spiteful, even with mandates visitation or partial custody gets overturned by how the mother "feels" at the time and any advances to the court made by the father are dismissed or at best lightly considered and changed slightly. I promise take a look at family court and you'll see just how short the father's end of the stick really is
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 06:20 AM
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Okay then why aren't single fathers producing the same stats? That's because the blame IS on the mother, just as much as the absentee. The only difference is it's the mothers teaching these criminals, it's the mothers literally creating these people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 06:18 AM
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Yes a degree but that isn't a defining trait of either leadership or masculinity
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 12:38 AM
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Okay the general notion I definitely agree with but man from reading some of these comments you've got a lot of stuff twisted. To be controlling isn't masculine, to be a leader and gain the trust of those around him is. You don't need to control those who trust you they simply close their options and tell you they're ready for something. I think this should be obvious to everyone but you're right it's not, no one should be playing games when it gets serious but your version of this ideal is misg…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 12:18 AM
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I don't even think it's accurate to equate the 2 as women treat men much much worse than your standard police with poc interactions.
/r/MensRights07/12/23 08:31 AM
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Not strictly because she is a woman but because what women characters being to the table in this circumstance? Obviously many found her attractive and still do but bringing a woman into the trio dynamic and a CLASSIC in many stories creating strife and relationship drama between them. This isn't to say Emma isn't capable of doing great work because we've seen that she is, but for Harry Potter she was very much a plot device in my opinion anyways. She had lines but it was to push forward the plot…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:03 AM
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I agree as I've said I've definitely seen women treated differently and that shouldn't happen but some parts have some reasoning behind it I guess I would say? Not to say we shouldn't work to change it but I like to understand things and why they happen or work yk?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:56 AM
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But for athletes women get paid a higher percentage of women sport revenue than men do. Yes men are paid more, but that's because let's face it we all watch men over womens sports. Yes they work really hard and are exceptional in the sport but men get paid less for more
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:53 AM
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For celebrities specifically the Harry Potter group. While Danielle ended off with 50 million he started with a flat 1mil for the lead role. While both Emma and Rupert received the same pay, start to finish you could arguably say Rupert had a larger story both personal and line wise yet they were paid the same. Daniel didn't receive a very high bonus to them either however and he was the lead, had the most story most lines and was every cover of every movie plus the most recognizable face of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:52 AM
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100% agreed that war isn't how it used to be but we still are out there a lot nonetheless especially with recent conflicts sadly breaking out all over. Obviously that's not In the west but we receive resources from allied countries in exchange for protection, that's why WERE deployed all over the world. So if push comes to shove we go. I also agree with the management and that should switch however I think we need more aggressive training in general for managers. I think they abuse their power a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:41 AM
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Women can completely ruin men's career in the celebrity stage Women get paid roughly the same for easier roles, less lines, and less work in general. (Of course that's a generalization because there are some roles that are intense and heavy for the actress but they don't make the rule) Women can skate on looks a lot easier than men, of course they need some talent to be the best and but blockbuster but it's definitely an advantage earlier on. I'm sure there's more but my brain fog has been rough…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:33 AM
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Women have always had meaningful contributions to society? They give birth to EVERYONE they are the majority teaching our kids both past and present They are crafty and good with small hand tasks I can go on. They've always been indispensable in society that's why we throw men at war like candy to children. But again I do AGREE that women face disparity in the workplace but the pay issue isn't for that reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:29 AM
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I agree but you can say the same for women celebrities having specific advantages over male ones and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:24 AM
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Honestly, for someone who "upsets everyone"... I agree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:22 AM
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Yes I agree but again I can give many examples of biological disadvantages if just men. Again they are different not more or less.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:22 AM
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Men make more because they work more and the more dangerous difficult jobs
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:21 AM
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That is a part of it but I do definitely believe men have privileges that women don't have access to
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:20 AM
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Men are more likely to get specific illnesses and cancers including testicular cancer. I wouldn't say they're more or less because there are plenty more examples of a biological deficit like dying younger but it's important to note these because I believe free menstrual care should be a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:19 AM
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This isn't bias these are facts, of course women face tons of different things as well but showing that men face hardship as well is an important factor to the conversation!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:17 AM
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Higher average earnings are usually from jobs chosen and amount of hours worked however i will agree to men being more argumentative and stern with a boss in order to get raises or a higher pay at the start for their "skills", whether they actually have them or not is unfortunate for the company however being able to do that does show a general raise for those who ask for one with a confident attitude. The rest is definitely correct but I think that's a complex issue, I personally don't know any…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:16 AM
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I'm not sure that's entirely sure across the scope of the workplace, but I definitely agree to the hefty majority of high paying jobs. I've Definitely seen talent and hard work take more place over gender lately but I still agree it's a difference that's noticeable. I don't think it is a disability if we allow men the time as well. Paid time for both parents would equally put out, plus both are equally needed. The mother went through birth which is hard enough but many choose to breast feed whic…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:04 AM
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I really like this and I think it takes the conversation away from who's worse or whose worse off and more along the lines of what each of us can try to use in finding partners or in the workplace for example. Some societal and some biological and we can attempt to figure out ways to change for example women in specific workplaces having disadvantages. My only issue with the workplace is men can't even have a one sided altercation with women in some cases I've seen. Personally I was with a frien…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:58 AM
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I would argue it does matter, you're right about everyone pretending though. But that's exactly why it matters, instead of he or she or they or them we all have benefits and advantages or shortcomings and disadvantages. The clarification would very well be what's biological and what's societal, and what we can possibly do to adjust societal stigmas.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:51 AM
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My apologies, are they allowed to do the same thing though?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:03 AM
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I 100% agree, a hefty majority of professional staff in higher education are left leaning. Also why college educated women leave far more frequently Thankfully I had a couple of great professors and staff that helped me keep an open mind but I think it's absolutely crazy how many professors make everything personal and political even if the class has nothing to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:01 AM
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That's definitely a fair assessment of the situation and I can agree there's definitely more of a social stigma for sleeping around when it comes to women but that's for a reason? Not only the different hormones at play during intercourse for men and women but also the mentality women seem to have the higher body count they have. However the rest is definitely a part to play and I agree those things are horrible to experience in return. But I play more on the relationship side as I don't care fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 01:24 AM
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It's definitely trauma at work, if you experience horrible women who deeply scar you emotionally with a number of ways... Your brain will start to think women are always going to do that. I promise no matter how frequently you've been hurt they aren't all the same. I don't think therapy helps most men, but when it comes to trauma it definitely does. Find a therapist that FITS YOU and work hard to get through this. I promise it will get better and that fear you speak of will dwindle over time esp…
/r/MensRights11/11/23 01:13 AM
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AGAIN you don't need to relate because it doesn't affect you, but you can empathize with the situations clearly plenty of people are seeing first hand. Just because I don't see women being sa'd doesn't mean it isn't happening or I can't empathize with them or what they are going through. This is literally the problem, you WILL NOT experience everything in the world and as such you dismissing something simply because you don't see it is disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 11:05 PM
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Yes I agree but in the grand scheme of things it's still very recent. Honestly anything I consider "recent" would be in my lifetime as I'm still fairly young but old enough to not grow up with the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 10:51 PM
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You aren't supposed to relate, you don't go through it. You can still empathize with it like a normal human being though
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 10:44 PM
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Yeah sadly most women do because it breaks the brainwashing they've been fed for decades
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 10:44 PM
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Clearly you didn't read it all, there was even another in the comments telling me men shouldn't have preferences so there's quite literally an example in real time. However to answer your question many on the left leaning side of the spectrum. Of course I'm not grouping all of them together because that just doesn't work however a hefty portion believe men only want sex or only want someone to do chores etc when we say we want fit attractive women. Saying we prefer specific body parts ie butt or…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 10:22 PM
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Read the rest of the thread! But I agree with you everyone should be allowed to have standards
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 10:06 PM
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Biology literally tells you the opposite lmfao shut up dude you're dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 10:03 PM
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Again you're an idiot who needs help man seriously. You live in a delusion, WAKE UP THIS ISNT REALITY
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 10:00 PM
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Makes about as much sense as me saying I can fly to space with my own 2 arms. A preference is an engrained part of us, there is no fucking choice..you don't get to choose your attraction or your preferences they are just that. Men have standards BECAUSE they have experience. Everyone starts out just dating to date yeah they may have a physical preference but not a personality or moral one yet in which comes with experience yes but again these are all natural and we have no control over that. You…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:52 PM
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Okay so your whole point here is women have innate value and men are worthless? Got it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:50 PM
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I promise you have no idea what that means, too many both male and female just disregard experiences because it's not a "statistic" but that just keeps us in the box of never ending hatred for one another. Definitely one of the better conversations I've had so thank you very much, and thank you for being open minded to mine and many that I knows experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:46 PM
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Because trying to explain something with someone with such an ignorant take as yours is a waste of time. If you actually read my previous comment, pretty much all of what you said is completely irrelevant. Personal attack? Where? Idiot who's sick and needs help? That just seems like reality man get a grip. The reason men die more is because we don't care about them We don't provide them with resources to help them We don't even bat an eye because they don't matter. We don't even have domestic vi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:43 PM
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You're literally the most ignorant person I've heard from holy... wow. Everyone is allowed to have standards and preferences no matter who they are or where they are from etc. a preference is who you would PREFER to be in a romantic relationship with, who you PREFER to be around. That isn't false by in large obese women are NOT attractive and while yes some men find them attractive just like some women find obese men attractive that is simply because of the 80/20 rule and if you were aware of so…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:33 PM
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Honestly not a question for me hun, I have no idea why the double standards exist sadly. You don't need to go around shouting from the rooftops for it to come up in conversation especially with women who are interested in you. In these instances women will say they want tall rich men etc etc all preference which is fine, however as a man I say I want a fit woman who will treat me with respect and care for me. A woman who is accurate with communication etc. You're a misogynist you just want slim …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:29 PM
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The problem❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:21 PM
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I absolutely agree however you're missing a ginormous issue here. You're allowed to feel that way, as a man I'm misogynistic, I'm fat shaming, I'm a bigot. As a man you can't have a preference As a woman it's totally okay to not be attracted to specific people. That's where the issue is. We can't change who we are attracted to and who we are not so why are men shamed and women honored?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:21 PM
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You're literally sick get help. You're the problem with society. We aren't making women change we're making society change like we've done a billion times over including feminism. So if that's your view you deserve to not be here. Complaining about systemic and social issues facing men doesn't make me more miserable and in fact brings me joy. Seeing just how many agree and support men, seeing that the world isn't as bleak as it seems is a wonderful thing and I'm absolutely glad I get to speed li…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:18 PM
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That's pretty self explanatory by the comment if you read it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:14 PM
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Well... There's you for example
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:13 PM
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Oh my lord I completely forgot about circumcisions. It's scary just how much injustice we face to the point that many are just accustomed to it, many can't even clearly articulate all the points being made simply because it's a constant in society and deemed completely acceptable. Thank you so much for adding these to the list!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:10 PM
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Honestly this is only a phenomenon we see somewhat recently. Many average women, whether that be intelligence, looks, job etc. will always try to strive for better than they are. And because of this many average men are stuck with rejection from women of their same caliber. Thus leading men to "settle" for what they have. I see the argument all the time that women shouldn't settle for anything less than they demand from a relationship in which I agree but why are men also demonized for wanting t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:07 PM
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Uh plenty? Not a single person wants women to "suffer" we just want to be equal which we definitely aren't. I'll just give a small list Judicial system is HEAVILY rigged against men Including family court. Allimony is also heavily rigged and men get screwed out of their assets even if they were earned before the woman entered his life OR even if the woman doesn't do a single thing ie. Work or take care of kids she still gets his shit Drafts are still only for men, we have no bodily autonomy and …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 07:10 PM
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You are quite literally the problem my friend. I don't oppress anyone and in fact im the oppressed here as a disabled man :) thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:50 PM
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It's not about the anger it's about men. We're constantly being shit on in the west and most of us are seriously tired of it. Most of us can't avoid it unless you're top alpha sigma dog male with God tier genes. Even then you'll still get hate of course simply because you're a man but it's definitely less. No one WANTS to be angry, but we do want to be heard in which we just aren't. Our problems don't exist and if by God a miracle happens and a woman admits to an issue we have, were told we need…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:33 PM
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They definitely are, no not every woman on the planet of course but atleast in the western culture it's pretty normal to just shit on men for absolutely no reason ie. Sitting down after a long shift and watching the game or playing a game. It's sick and the fact you outright say it doesn't happen shows just how men are perceived. Nothing bad happens to us right? There's no man hate right? Wild
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:29 PM
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No I don't think it's women's nature, I think we've fed our women lies creating a delusional mindset. It is women's nature to be overly emotional and be very connective (not a bad thing) so the moving fast does make sense but everything we're seeing other than that is purely taught.
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 04:45 PM
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Women still can't live up to women's standards Heterosexual relationships are known for divorce rates but lesbian couples have an even higher divorce rate in American than all other relationship types. So you are spot on my friend, we see the stats today showing that women hold too high of a standard. Yes standards are good and everyone deserves to have preferences, but when that standard is unattainable and even hurts yourself for having them... Then they shouldn't exist to begin with
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 01:46 PM
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Yeah pretty sure any male only spaces are banned as of today, and if they exist it's mostly blue pill users. Sad world
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 09:03 PM
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Yeah the ACTUAL definition of sexism is what counts here come on now. "Any hatred and or discrimination based solely on ones sex" You can be racist to white folks You can be sexist to men You can be bigoted in any direction it doesn't matter "who's in power" it matters if you're judging someone only on what's between their legs
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 08:51 PM
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Nah most men aren't actually, I've seen plenty of commenters get banned by simply asking questions and being curious about a topic. Very anti male there sadly
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 08:41 PM
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That's not how sexism works? You can be sexist to anyone... Simple Women are actually superior here in reddit however and many subs aren't male friendly whatsoever.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 08:38 PM
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That's not what a place for debates is supposed to be. I agree some of the more bigoted and hateful users should be looked into and dealt with accordingly like yourself however women aren't inherently the problem. The radicals from any group are the problem
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 08:37 PM
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Not a woman so I can't give perfect advice but talking with previous partners and other friends we've come to realize it's simply going to come down to communication and knowing what you yourself enjoy. If you don't know then try to experiment on your own or with him to see what you like and don't and go from there, but again that takes a lot of communication. Let him know what's good and what's not, guide him because he hasn't lived in your body for any amount of time let alone your entire life…
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/23 01:33 AM
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It's not rape sadly, you're even legally allowed to charge child support when raped. This happened to many including a minor who impregnated.his rapist babysitter. Men get the short end of the stick when it comes to abuse, no one cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:17 AM
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This first study shows there aren't really any major differences between sexs and who partakes or enjoys casual sex more. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8853360/ Showing instead it always depends on a series of factors per individual instead of a general interest. That being said anyone who does partake in casual sex still crave intimacy and the family setting https://www.binghamton.edu/news/story/1460/people-who-prefer-casual-sex-still-desire-intimacy It may seem that men don't wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:13 AM
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Honestly yes they are that dire. While not all western women, a HEFTY majority simply aren't attractive. That can be both physical attraction and mental but I think it's mostly mental. Women in the west have become a nightmare to deal with and be around, they are encouraged to treat their men horribly and so on. So yeah unless it's changed passport bros won't stop what they're doing, of course it's a lot of work but most men want love that will survive not one that dies because someone didn't do…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:29 AM
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Well in America at least it's the exact opposite with about 60% women initiated on first heterosexual marriages, which continues to climb upwards of 90% with women on their second or third etc divorce and or with higher education. That being said lesbian relationships here are THE highest rate of divorce out of all relationship types but I personally don't think it's women as much as it's the western culture. Women are delusional Men are delusional We as a society in the west have become such a …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:05 PM
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I agree we all need to be able to allow even dark jokes or insensitive ones to an extent because they can be funny and they also can be a healthy way FOR said person to cope However We aren't able to speak on it in a healthy and healing manner so joking about it just makes everyone who is attempting to cope worse. Women are coddled and supported while we get treated like the crack addict asking for 2 bucks.
/r/MensRights26/10/23 06:17 AM
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They aren't inherent but they do hold the majority in that category. But stats do show women aren't happy single and childless so? The stats show it all, women hold majorly unrealistic expectations comparitively to men, that's also why gay men are THE HAPPIEST demographic not women. Men aren't happy because they're told they're all evil so once they figure out they aren't the entire problem of society they're alot happier Stop spewing nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 04:38 PM
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They are big tasks but as I stated women file for divorce majority in heterosexual relationships, AND lesbian divorce is THE HIGHEST for any group of relationships. Women have unrealistic expectations and why they don't work. Relationships are a lot of work but if you have extremely unrealistic expectations no amount of work would be enough for them and why they always blame their partner even when cheating or being the issue themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 04:25 PM
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The chances of women leaving is already enormous. Even with lesbian relationships, they are the highest divorce rate group so I just think women have unrealistic expectations of relationships as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:37 PM
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There's actually more men who don't like casual sex than women so... There's that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:00 PM
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Youre actually gross, just because a man doesn't see a woman as a potential partner but only as a friend doesn't mean he's gay
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 01:59 PM
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I mean we're raised to be passive and afraid of everything by feminism so... Let's stop that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 01:12 PM
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Actually most men are taught from birth you're worthless and to give your all to everyone else. We get the opposite from telling them that and they realize the rest of the world won't do the same
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 06:57 PM
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I do agree most other countries women are oppressed and there is most definitely a trade off. But most of these women also will straight out say, financially support me, protect me physically, treat me well, and there's nothing I won't do for you. Of course there's plenty of issues plaguing women outside of the west however men trying to find a woman who wants to treat him respectfully and not as the villain of everything isnt such a bad thing. I agree many of these men just get sucked into the …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 04:14 PM
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I agree the bashing should stop, but you also have to wonder why they all feel that way? What makes women in the west so unappealing to these men?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 12:01 PM
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Honestly it started with the upper class founding feminism to get women into the workplace making them more money, causing issues in the home. Then feminism took off using men as a scapegoat for everything eventually causing a rift, the rift wasn't too bad though as it was the more radicalist speaking loudly. However around 2007 abuse of men started to increase and still hasn't stopped today, creating a massive divide between catered to and supported women and abused pushed away men with no one …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 07:55 PM
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I definitely believe so as well thank you for your story! :) it's just sad because I really think if we just all sat down and had a true heartfelt conversation without getting defensive, so many issues would be solved overnight
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 06:49 PM
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So ignorant it's almost funny, I don't even have Instagram and yet I've seen it all over? Makes sense it's only on Instagram though right? Stop being a POS discrediting men's issues like all women do
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 06:24 PM
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This is spoken about on news outlets and TV shows, podcasts and music. It wasn't just a handful but it wasn't all women either. It's a hefty majority of the left ideology speaking this way, as to why they hate the idea of having a positive male role model
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 06:21 PM
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It definitely wasn't a handful of individuals if there was a whole movement for it? Gross
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 06:20 PM
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I mean you didn't? You just said it didn't exist which is disgusting and the problem as to why nothing gets talked about. But I thank you for attempting to listen. I won't give a link as I'm a bit busy at the moment but a small run down might allow you to see a bit more of what I mean. Kill all men Men are predators and abusers Masculinity is toxic Fuck the patriarchy men are the problem Little boys even committed suicide after the kill all men movement but nobody bat an eye about it And that's …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 06:16 PM
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And I agree but I think that's just the easier topic to discuss instead of all the deeper underlying issues as to why men get stood up so often. But I saw another comment use the word disappointing instead of resenting and I like that much better
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 06:07 PM
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Why is literally every part of this just wrong, and you're redpilled? Most men don't think virginity is a deal breaker,.most men are attracted to most women it's the opposite rates that are worrying. The only points I can agree with are money based, men definitely don't make enough to create the traditional nuclear family dynamic and they do tend to ask for more done around the house than they themselves would do. The rest is absolute blasphemy and a majority of men seriously don't feel that way…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 06:04 PM
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I 100% agree everyone needs to step up their act and stop being so dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 05:54 PM
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This is so far from history it's actually hilarious, you're right schools have failed you go do some more research and figure out the truth. However I will agree pregnancy up until very lately and even now is still dangerous and then deadly however. You didn't work, pay bills, get drafted, etc so no you didn't get the advantages of the struggle we had to endure to get them. You had to fight too and not that you shouldn't have those abilities given to you, you also didn't work for them or gain th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 05:53 PM
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Absolutely incorrect good one though, war on men is real it's thriving unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 05:30 PM
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I completely agree with everything except men understanding their shittiness. I think most men understand that there are just garbage men but most women don't think the same with themselves. Everything else is spot on though thank you! And I'm sure some men think they are all high and mighty and that men do no wrong but a vast majority of us couldn't possibly think that way with everyone on the planet blaming us
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 01:16 PM
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So far from what actual history says but go on with your feminism. HISTORY you know reality that thing, women weren't punching bags and in fact were held to a very high value. Men were the punching bags. You want war? Men. You want workers? Men. You want slaves? Majority men. You want additional perks you deal with the responsibility of that, which men had to do before women so yes we gained these advantages by fighting before women. Y'all are just brainwashed into thinking you had it so bad whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 12:47 PM
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You're definitely onto something but it's not the only reason they seek Andrew Tate. He's catering to a real issue being the war waged on men and masculinity, and once he grasps you with the notion of that and to work harder and believe in yourself ( all great things btw) he jumps off the deep end becoming a horrible human behind that facade. But you're right there aren't any major male role models for them to look up to and on top of that many men are abused multiple times before leaving the ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 12:29 PM
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Seriously it's just instinct. Men have the capability to reproduce almost unlimited times where as women have one shot a year roughly. This causes women to evolve to release a bonding hormone and men a territorial one, it causes women to evolve to find the best possible mate genetics wise and men to just try to repopulate. Of course we are much more than our primal instincts as animals but it still plays a role in attraction nonetheless
/r/AllPillDebate22/10/23 12:27 PM
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I wouldn't say it's the most important but it's definitely what gets you in the door. Looks wont keep anyone just send them your way
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 12:18 PM
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Honestly it's perfectly fine for a man to show emotion, what's not fine is a lack of emotional control. If you just burst into a fit of tears that's weakness, if you can control that emotion and then analyze it later with clarity is strength
/r/MensRights22/10/23 12:07 PM
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I really don't think the majority issue is sex but I guess men only want sex right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 12:04 PM
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No honestly, "vetting a guy" for women is looking at him and saying no. Women say all men are predators, women say most men are predators, women say masculinity is terrible. You can't just treat every man you meet like a pos without even having a conversation with them. Being standoffish is natural simply because humans are wary of the unknown but completely alienating and treating a whole gender as the problem in itself is the problem. Men aren't good but neither are women and that's the proble…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 11:51 AM
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Really it's that far? That's disgusting to hear, the most I hear is that women are out of control and the old nuclear family should come back etc. Obviously online is much more vulgar but it's the same with women but opposite and bashing men or blaming them for all their problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 11:15 AM
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I'm very glad you don't see it often irl but sadly it's pretty prevalent where I am now and to larger cities I've been to. But I do agree that hypercapitalism is causing most of our issues
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 11:07 AM
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In most countries I agree with you, in the west however absolutely not. In the west you are the most powerful, in the west you are handed everything without having to do anything to earn it, in the west simps and corporations pander to you making you feel like goddesses and not that everyone should feel confident and have a bit of ego some humility is good. Women don't have that anymore, atleast the majority. I'm not talking about body count I'm talking about the god complex on top of the world …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 10:55 AM
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Do you mind telling me what country you're from? This sounds like you're somewhat young and grew up with shitty feminist ideology. Most if not all men don't care and in fact welcome women into hobbies and interests in the west. The problem comes with the shock factor when a woman is doing something predominantly male, the shock from meeting a woman in said activity is shocking because out of the millions of men doing this specific thing they met one of the few women. Yes there are always those a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 10:45 AM
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No it's definitely on the rise, but I could get behind it being a consistent thing that we're only seeing a small rise in because of increase amounts of studies. But it's definitely on the rise seeing as studies in 2007 show about equal rates and newer studies show increased since then
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 10:22 AM
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No it wasn't, that happened simply because owning a bank account wasn't as simple as it is today nor did women do anything to achieve these actions. Benefits come with responsibilities and at the time women didn't have any, and any fault would be held at the man's expense. So no it wasn't oppression but it could have gotten there with time. The issue is we often forget it's the severe upperclass with all the power men and women (yes majority men) that could do everything with no cost. Men fought…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 10:15 AM
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I mean racism against white people for sure, but you're basically praised for being born with melanin in your skin now. Extra scholarships and business loans, extra exclusive activities and events etc. Not to say they shouldn't have these things of course but racism just isn't a component most of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 10:04 AM
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I agree to an extent that it's definitely more pronounced online, but I've met plenty of people who sadly are a part of the irl warriors so it's definitely not just online. But I will definitely agree to cultural activities and just general mass connection is absolutely missing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 09:34 AM
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Okay but if they don't resent women now, will they if this continues? I've definitely seen the tone change due to atleast building resentment so I honestly think if something doesn't change soon there's going to be a major crisis in the western world
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 09:27 AM
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I agree with a lot said here but racism is actually dead in the west (with albeit disgusting racists somewhere because they won't go away) the majority is not that way. But it's definitely scary to think men are tired of all this crap
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 09:21 AM
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And so do women :) abuse is abuse, and while I'll agree women are more likely to be seriously injured rape is still a major factor in mens lives. You're disgusting and the problem if you think men are the only ones doing that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 09:18 AM
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I do agree they do less damage but they are actually more likely to cause violence. I was abused by my mother thank you along with millions of others because women are more abusive than men :) any normal scientist would agree. Women in prisons are OVER double as likely to cause violence and mothers are 50% more likely to abuse in the household. Women are more violent they just aren't as abrupt as war.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 09:16 AM
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That's entirely not the point but alright. You do realize you're the problem right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 09:14 AM
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It very well could be, I've heard us in the north are just much colder (pun intended) however I think it's just a more prevalent mindset to have now in general. It's definitely not common place but the fact that I as a single human being has experienced this frequent number of times it's kinda sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 09:13 AM
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Exactly what many of us claim the problem is! Atleast one of rhem
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 09:11 AM
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Okay clearly you're insane, have a good one this is a waste of time. You do know there are only 2 domestic violence shelters available to men in the United States right? Compare that to the how many women's shelters? Hundreds? Thousands? Right Women don't get help my ass, and compared to their male counterparts? Even worse odds
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 09:10 AM
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Clearly you didn't read them if you responded that rapidly. Why don't you go do some more research on what I spend my life talking about and maybe you'll learn some more valuable information.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 09:08 AM
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I did indeed read the entirety of the studies, and again you're just brain dead not seeing how insane you sound. My entire argument is women are more likely to perpetrate violence in domestic cases in which is supported by literally all sources including yours. Figure yourself out stop being ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 09:07 AM
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I think this is extremely demeaning to what a majority of men experience. I agree we need to meet them with understanding and not hatred or contentment but just viewing these people as violent savages is so far from the truth. Most of these people are everyday men who have been ravaged by court systems and the feminist world we live in and are completely lost because there is no help for them. This acts as tho it's all their fault
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 09:04 AM
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Are you brain dead? You quite literally sent a stat proving my point. Again women are more likely to receive severe injuries and repeated abuse but at the same time more likely to be removed from the scene and given some sort of help, men are not thus more likely to be turned down when asking for it. What part about that isnt true?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 09:01 AM
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No it's because if you compliment women out of the blue you're a sexual predator nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 08:44 AM
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So I will add, women are definitely at higher risk for severe life threatening injuries and repeated abuse which is a serious topic to discuss. However sadly because men's abuse isn't taken seriously men are more likely to be found at a murder scene after asking for help and not receiving it than a women who is almost always believed and removed from situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 08:43 AM
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Sadly that study is both wildly incorrect and weirdly from the same site that provides plenty of sources showing while mutual abuse between partners is of course the highest, women perpetrate abuse more now. Even in 2007 the abuse stats where similar across the board. We're being lied to by feminist radicals who just want a pity parade https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2663360/ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2968709/ https://domesticviolenceresearch.org/domestic-violence…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 08:38 AM
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Absolutely agree! Also happy cake day friend :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 08:27 AM
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That's definitely not the idea here, attraction has no place in the effect women's treatment of men has. Attraction or no attraction treating the average man as a predatorial sack of shit isn't gonna put anyone in good graces
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 08:26 AM
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Actually not correct there's far more sexual violence between women than any other category, lesbians are the highest divorce and abuse rate out of any relationship group, and women make up an equal representation of the rapist population. If you can't understand reality for what it is you shouldn't debate it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 08:24 AM
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You do know men are raped just as much right? Usually earlier in childhood. You do know men are abused more by women than vice versa right? You do know women are far more violent than men right? Men literally aren't the problem sick despicable humans are. I could say the exact same thing about women but it wouldn't be true so why say it? Oh right feminism told you so
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 08:21 AM
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Honestly I don't think you're right. First plenty of women actually despise feminism and the damages it causes and second they weren't prevented from saying anything they just weren't convinced they should by the media yet
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 08:18 AM
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That's why male abuse victims are on the rise? Why you're more likely to be abused by women in the home? As women you literally can't know at all why men are upset so talking amongst yourselves is pointless. Just read all the comments here, men are EXHAUSTED by the attack against them. Women are abusive and hypocritical and treat us as the only problem THATS the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 08:16 AM
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Like what? First men aren't the bane of your existence second women weren't ever oppressed, in fact just barely before women got to vote men were able to vote. There was a slew of requirements leading to voting until the general populace was able to. Not just any man could vote not just any man had the abilities we think they did. We only gained the abilities we have because of sacrifice and responsibility and once that was given to women they also gained the ability for these things. There's no…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 08:13 AM
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No they definitely werent, these were genuine loving caring individuals who truly did everything for their partners and got dealt the shitty women card. I'd be pretty pissed off too if I was treated the way we treat men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 08:10 AM
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No that's an accurate stat
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 08:05 AM
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What's funny is statistics actually show 1-5 boys are sexually assaulted often by female babysitters, what's funny is statistics show you're more likely to be abused by women in domestic abuse cases, what's funny is women are found to be more violent when imprisoned. MEN ARE NOT THE PROBLEM, shit people exist both men and women stop being ignorant for 5 seconds
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 08:03 AM
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I honestly don't think this is the case at all. I'm sure some think this but a majority of men I know are just tired of being treated like trash. Women have been put on a pedestal and can do no wrong talk about blaming other party instead of learning.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 08:01 AM
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Misogyny? No women are misandrist most definitely, men are abused more by women than the other way around? Women are scared of men because it's what feminism said, men are afraid of women because they have been abusing us with no consequence both publicly and privately
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 07:59 AM
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It's not insulting if it's a literal statistic? A majority of women hold a lot of unwarranted prejudice against men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 07:57 AM
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It's a rough topic to talk about just because there are so many stats that can be under the violent category. But from the top of my head men lead in generalized violence while women seem to be at the forefront of domestic violence. Mother's are far more likely to abuse their children, women lead in sole abuse domestic violence cases but only by a small margin, and as another comment said within prisons women are more likely to assault each other than their male counterparts. This honestly could…
/r/MensRights22/10/23 03:12 AM
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72% in 2016 78% in 2018 and 76% in 2020 was what I've read on plenty of sources so women don't seem to prefer women all too much
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 03:07 AM
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Yeah thats facts for ya
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 03:05 AM
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Sadly I couldn't find a super reliable source for the study o saw in 2021 but if you search "divorce rates among same sex couples" it will show you multiple questionable sources I would rather not link to talking about said rates. However this link: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4460604/ While with an extremely small sample size, shows the severe difference between gay men and lesbian women divorce. Gay men being 1% of the sample size and women being 14%. Again the sample size was…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 01:25 AM
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While being a great trait wanting to help people, therapists have a very demanding job. The emotional endurance it takes to deal with half the patients you'll encounter is enormous let alone the understanding to deal with said patients. Most women will never comprehend what a majority of men go through but not only that, someone who has no experience in extreme hardships and trauma will be of absolutely no use to anyone seeking treatment. Those patients will think something's wrong with them and…
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 11:50 PM
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There's a 70% divorce rate with lesbian couples which very well could be a symptom of this very thing. We do know however that women have many spaces where men aren't allowed ie. Clubs, events, bachelorette parties etc I couldn't tell you why women only large communities are failing but the smaller ones are still thriving to my knowledge.just speculation but it could be that having only women creates a very on edge group because of the highly nurturing but also judgement more based on emotion co…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 11:29 PM
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Incorrect, women are sole abusers more while again mutual abuse is more common. Hospitalization is more common for women that's a definite, usually because when a man says he's being attacked by his wife or girlfriend it's a joke until he's dead. Statistics are in my favor and have been since 2007 again go read all the stats both the other comments and I have provided and you'll be happily proven wrong. Again this isn't about who's worse we all get humans just kinda suck but men aren't always th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 10:22 PM
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He doesn't need a link to have an accurate source, maybe if you weren't brain dead you'd be able to do the typing yourself and find out what we're talking about. Along with links that HAVE been provided of course. Women are terrible, men are terrible, this shit isn't gendered but it's kind of sick it's made out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:01 PM
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Clearly you can't read because I've provided multiple sources along with another commenter. Hey guess what, within your statistics it says exactly what I said :) women perpetuated abuse more in sole instances while mutual abuse is more common. Figure yourself out stop being ignorant
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:58 PM
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If you refuse to read the studies provided above I'll just hand your lazy ass a link to click and a picture along with to prove my point even further. https://domesticviolenceresearch.org/domestic-violence-facts-and-statistics-at-a-glance/ <image> As you can clearly see women perpetuated abuse more than men, along with even higher up tells that the more recent years has increased abuse for men... Hmmm what's that? Exactly what I said wow miraculous. Go do some research stop being pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:57 PM
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I sadly do not have that one specifically I read it while researching in uni, however I will attempt to find it again and I'll also add just how terribly skewed the statistics are from a simple Google search and is exactly why we can't trust many forms of study when it comes to men they are underreporting and underrepresenting mens issues. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:53 PM
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Literally already in the thread. You need help reading it or? I'm confused
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:43 PM
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Bro literally just gave you all the stats and where to look you're just too ignorant to read it, figure yourself out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:42 PM
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I agree with everything, the point is it's just humans in general and like you said with the DV stats not very much gendered. However DV stats have been getting even worse on the side of male abuse as of the last 5 years so I would dare to say it's a bit worse than even I think it is and I believe it to be pretty commonplace purely because of the hysterics in feminism leading everyone astray. On the parent endangerment I also agree that many very well are babysitters. A study which found roughly…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:07 PM
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Honestly just reinforces the notion that men are in desperate need of help and that society needs major reform in the views on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 07:13 PM
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And what data is that? Domestic violence stats show women are more frequently sole abusers than men? Stats show that mother's endanger their children far more frequently? Stats show that while having less serial killers male to female, female has a much higher victim rate, so which one is false again?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:59 PM
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Of what crime? Because domestic abuse is perpetuated by women far more than men. Or what about endangering children? There's actually more deaths due to female serial killers than male so not sure where that's from
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:09 PM
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Honestly taking a peak at your recent posts you don't seem like a very nice human being to be around. I hope you find peace in life honestly, and hopefully we can find solutions to all these problems some day because whether one is more prevalent than another doesn't matter if they all affect us the same. Have a good day
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:47 PM
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Clearly you're not in reality as there's quite literally whole movements based on what I'm talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:35 PM
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Again this is the reason it's not being solved because people like you claim it doesn't happen when clearly it is. Yes more than the racial divide as atleast in western culture race doesn't quite matter anymore unless you want more scholarships or you happen to find a complete shitbag of a person. Political divide I could give you honestly but that's mostly again because of a gender divide causing massive "morally opinionated beliefs" instead of coming together and finding resolution. But it's d…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:31 PM
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Clearly you have to open your eyes a bit more its quite literally everywhere. You think Andrew Tate and all his little replicas got famous for no reason? No they got famous because they're catering to an issue no one wants to talk about but it's still happening regardless and they just happen to be spreading the wrong message to the right crowd. You realize you're more likely to be abused as a male in domestic violence, you're more likely to be a victim of violence in general, you're more likely…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:18 PM
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Huh? I think you need to take a look at the state of the world and come back to me. Women are miserable, men are always the problem, you can't talk about the other without being labeled misogynistic or a misandrist, men are running from Western society to find more traditional women, and so much more. There is no more family, there is no connection between each other forming a community. Sadly many fail to see this is the exact result of modern feminism gone too far and they're just pulling us f…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 12:55 PM
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Those aren't your options which is why this whole post is ridiculous. First off just because a man is conventionally attractive says nothing about his morals, I've seen the ugliest dudes cheat everyday of their relationship and hot dudes get cheated on. If that's how you think then you're probably what's wrong with the dating pool
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 10:16 AM
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I second this, men are at so much more risk in everyday lives whether that's work or home. Even domestic abuse, you're more likely to be solely abused by a woman as a man than vice versa. But women are the ones complaining
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 10:10 AM
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You're kidding right? The gender divide is THE largest divide we have in the western world right now for a multitude of different reasons, yet we all continue to throw it under the rug like it's not a major issue
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 10:01 AM
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