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Meet them half way. Its less of the meal/restaurant abd moreso going somewhere stylish/trendy. Take them to a trendy bar for a drink. You get a "lower" bill they get the trendy locale to be seen at. Coffee spots dont feed that kind of girls desires imo
/r/seduction28/04/26 02:46 AM
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I wont say much about the friend situation because you probably kbow the answer, you cant change people Ib regards to being transparent. That's fine as long as your being vague and using innuendo, dont be transparent with just straight facts, removes the mystery
/r/seduction16/03/26 02:20 PM
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The shame is part of the ritual. Its a way to weed out those with a weak frame. The one's who listen to pickup being creepy go back to being orbitors waiting to be chosen, which works best for women. The one's who dont allow the fear/doubt of creepiness hit them stand out and are rewarded. Women wont admit they want "some" players in the dating pool, but they are always going to be in demand.
/r/seduction15/03/26 03:04 PM
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Men dont get comments or sneers for looking bad in public. But unless you have a lot of money you will be actively treated worse/ ignored for walking around with poor looks.
/r/seduction01/01/26 06:15 PM
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Push pull dynamics. 90% asshole is a little harsh though lol
/r/seduction24/02/25 05:39 PM
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I'll only speak to NY because that is the culture I know best. If you have a masters and a good job prospects then you will do well here. The ratio here is amazing and even though the girls are picky they have no choice but to be realistic given that they outnumber men. Focus on the attraction fundamentals and don't get too absorbed in your work. For example there was a running event here and people who were single and wanted to approached were asked to wear black tops. Just absolute comical amo…
/r/seduction10/08/24 02:47 PM
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It's very reasonable and male brained way to approach it. Problem is it reminds them this is heartless ONS and saps the romance out of the situation. Also by doing this it may imply you fear they would entrap you with a child.
/r/seduction17/06/24 12:27 AM
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Try more pre-selection irl. If your able to have so many girls go out with you; try to turn the interesting ones into "wingwomen." Go to events with women and be cheerful/flirty with them. Other girls will notice it and make your approaches more smooth. In terms of co workers rejecting you that maybe a red flag that you have been gossiped about your player ways
/r/seduction02/05/24 10:56 PM
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I'm more curious how a DJ/photographer/model struggled with women. Were you shy until recently? Did you have a breakthrough in your IG followers that allowed you to get invited to big events?
/r/seduction28/04/24 10:37 PM
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When you get health insurance look into strabismus corrective surgery. It's very low risk and quick (1-2 hours while being put to sleep) Recovery is 4-10 days
/r/seduction03/04/24 03:45 PM
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You already spelled out the answer then. You got to schedule the next dates in close proximity to their place and if they are feeling you as much as you say it will naturally lead to an invite to theirs. Also between parents or roommates you should really consider roommates. If Toronto is anything like NY (which they tell me it is,) roommates should be pretty normalized part of life.
/r/seduction31/03/24 05:07 PM
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Good write up. Some smart practical points.
/r/seduction01/02/24 04:48 AM
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Do you stretch daily the same muscles on your own or do is it enough to have a serious session with your pt to fix your problems?
/r/seduction18/02/20 05:43 PM
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Can you talk more on what exactly helped improve your posture?
/r/seduction18/02/20 05:54 AM
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So some strange advice from this post. Lotta stuff you would get from girls like "be confident!" and "be yourself!" Disappointing to read So as a shy guy you dont have to be the life of the party but you do have to master crafting informative sentences. You cant just be shy and give small answers with no information What I mean is when talking you still need to demonstrate your value either through confident flirting or signs your an active social guy. If you master short and sweet answers that …
/r/seduction05/01/20 04:19 PM
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Its absolutely better than nothing and dont short change it. I'll tell you something nobody told me. The first few months of going to a gym are absolutely awful. Your in this hyper appearance-centric environment and doing exercise leaves your body craving more sleep than you imagined. But fighting threw those uncomfortable truths will long lead to a "eurika" moment where now instead of feeling tired you feel energized and strong! It gets so good you get addicted to the improvement cycle it creat…
/r/seduction21/10/18 10:21 PM
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Everyone has different sex drive levels. I also had no passion for talking to girls when I was 16 - even though its not like they didnt try to talk to me. I wish I had the drive to workout that young so good for you! When I was 19 it was like switch flicked and suddenly became more girl obsessed. And those feelings come and go. It's not about it being consistent
/r/seduction21/10/18 03:29 PM
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You need to make a move regardless of your comfort level- there is no 100% success rate and some girls will reject your advances BUT many will not and they will respect your fowardness
/r/seduction11/09/18 10:36 PM
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Again I'm being kinda sarcastic in that I had personal success in EE and I would be lying if I said being a Westerner didnt help tremendously with that. I actually encourage anyone to visit there but I think it's important to remember that the social dynamic is SO much different than in the West
/r/seduction28/07/18 08:41 PM
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Does it even count it you do it in Eastern Europe? (Kinda /s but not really)
/r/seduction28/07/18 08:23 PM
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Dude look into micro skin pigmentation (head tatoo.) The truth is bald makes you look older and only a segment of young women are looking for older "looking" men. Most would date older men who at least keep a youthful appearance
/r/seduction28/07/18 08:16 PM
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Yes NY, especially Manhattan, is an absolute gold mine. A native I'm glad you want to make the most of it :)
/r/seduction19/06/18 06:01 PM
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Girls getting your number on their own is very impressive. Well done!
/r/seduction24/05/18 06:13 PM
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It's a cute story but I think this is poison for the sub because it gives the glimmer of hope that MAYBE women will try to pick them up once in a awhile. Think about all variables that had to fall in place (big one being that they were literally neighbors) and it's far more likely he leaves his vacation with nobody rather than with models fawning over him
/r/seduction23/05/18 04:46 PM
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There will always be a majority of guys who are willing to trip over themselves to win over a girl - this mentality will never go away
/r/seduction12/05/18 07:17 PM
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We live in a such an abundant and open world that competition only exists between those who actually enjoy it. Dont like picking fights over girls? Odds are you won't run into that problem unless you enjoy it. When you are able to attract women you enter into pretty exclusive teir these days. So many guys lack the will to do it and have terribly unattractive body language, it's actually turning into a crisis in places like Korea and Japan. Male friendship is pretty easy IMO because men can criti…
/r/seduction28/04/18 04:44 PM
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Yup it all comes down to time for sure. If you can meet before the movie and do a lot of escalating than take that energy into the theater and do some light touching with the lights off than that's good form. But if you only got the time to meet at the theater and walk in together than your fucked
/r/seduction12/04/18 05:21 PM
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Only if you treat it like the main part of a date. But if you have that time to go to other places before or after it's not THAT bad
/r/seduction12/04/18 01:10 AM
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It was definitely a huge eye opener to younger me the idea that women are most turned on by the act of showing desire for her. The more desire you can show her (in a attractive manner!) the more a women will be instinctively turned on.
/r/seduction18/03/18 04:22 PM
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Well if your main problem is you don't know if they will go directly to your apartment then that's an easy fix. Invite them to some local park, cafe, bar very close to your place. If things go well then just casually walk her to your home, she will get the idea quick. The best way to have a clear conscious about lonely girls is to make it very verbally clear at some point that you are not looking for a long term partner. Make sure you say this before sex obviously or you will hurt feelings
/r/seduction31/12/17 06:05 PM
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Depth is good. But able to change tone up and down is more valuable
/r/seduction15/12/17 06:25 AM
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This is a great follow up. It's really good to hear you didn't get depressed at being past "normal" age for sex. Shows a lot of mental fortitude IMO
/r/seduction11/05/17 03:29 AM
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Well it sounds like you did well with the local girls. So its not really a loss. If your only attracted to whites then that kinda sucks though.
/r/seduction14/01/17 04:53 PM
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My 2 cents is the NAME plays a big deal into the negative stigma. The word seduction by now has such a slimy, overly-cologned essense to it that draws away from the rather high intelligence and earnest improvement that many people on this sub strive for.
/r/seduction22/02/15 10:10 PM
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Thank you. Your story and reminder to relax is helping my perspective
/r/seduction25/01/15 08:54 PM
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It's an unusual situation and I would say you made the right choice. You didn't gift them to her and they were not hers to choose to keep.
/r/seduction29/01/14 03:33 AM
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Would be appreciated
/r/seduction03/01/14 02:49 AM
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