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5

It looks like a mentor that some people never had. Very nice job!
/r/TheRedPill24/08/24 03:47 PM
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Good intro. Good content. Nicely written. It gives me hope and it's instructive at the same time without being pretentious.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/23 03:41 PM
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Not convinced by the focus on the leader. It's an archetype. Some women want a leader some want an artist, some of them want a champion, some are looking for a father, a billionar, and so on. I think you miss the point by focusing on this very single archetype. Of course you get women as a leader, it's just not the only path.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/23 05:02 PM
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"but acts as if she's not nervous" She was likely not acting.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/23 12:58 PM
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I was just asking the question, I sincerely dont know. I think the mindset has its role here. You see yourself pushing whereas in the facts you were sharing a good time until third person broke everything. I don't think it's being needy to ignore the cockblocker as she clearly just needed attention and continue your game as she has never existed. edit: to be clear I have never been in this situation and the closest I have been I did not manage the bitchy gf well so I insist : it is not an advice…
/r/askTRP07/09/20 09:52 AM
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Is it so needy to catch her again?
/r/askTRP07/09/20 08:18 AM
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Thanks. You should not have too. It's a mindset you build progressively by integrating a simple assesment: you are more valuable than her. Anyway I just also wanted to quote someone from this sub but I don t remember who: "she is going to talk of him innocently more and more until she does not anymore. That's when you know she fucks him".
/r/askTRP02/09/20 06:34 AM
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My advice would be to understand why you feel insecure. At the end of the day, it's not about her but about you. This girl is not going to hurt you, your anxiety does. In worse case she cheats and leaves with the guy. The outcome is that you are free of a weight on your shoulder and can find a better partner who deserves you.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 06:23 PM
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I would rather like to hear about the female personality disorder which is actually histrionic personality disorder.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/20 06:56 AM
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Nature being crual, human desire of a fair world without cruauty is a desire to go against nature. Would we think that nature is metal if we were still following its rules rather than building brand new laws?
/r/askTRP07/12/19 09:20 PM
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I think it's an emotional reaction, not a decision taken by logical reasoning. From a darwinist point of view, this behavior could have been selected by nature. It's a way for the specie to survive and for their genes to prevail.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 12:57 PM
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It's an interesting input you have here and I was used to think in the same way but I now truely believe that being confronted to your death and (the death of a close one like here) rewire your brain in a way you can't control. It also costs a lot to requestion the immortality bias.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 04:50 PM
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It's post traumatic stress. The earlier you seek help the better it will be for you. Good luck.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 11:09 AM
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I honestly think they are trolls trying to decrebilize the sub.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 06:44 PM
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We are not living in a fair world. I wish you the best.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 02:26 PM
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You are clearly lying to yourself. Being the best is not annoying, just imagine you were chess world champion, you could teach your friends. Being the best and /not being able to share it/ (or) /not be recognized as such/ or /whatever is the true problem/ are other things.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 08:01 PM
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It's all about you. You are annoyed for a reason. You have to understand yourself and take it as an opportunity to grow up. Good luck.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 07:49 PM
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On okcupid blog, they did stats on reply rate by ethnicities. The best thing to be is a white woman. So yes, you are right, black guy to asian girl and asian guy to black girls were the lowest score as far as I remember. Globally, being white is an advantage in the game.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 07:54 PM
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If your friends are not true friend, it is not related to a gender question. True female friend is a real added value for life: advertising you and introducing you to her own friend circle.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 06:53 PM
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There is actually an update to the story where she states that she all in all prefers the beta.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/19 03:00 PM
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it could be that if you ignore their eye contacts they dont invest more.
/r/askTRP26/07/19 11:11 AM
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My advice would be to stop before you lose all your self esteem. Focus on bringing it back. Put the gps localisation on some easier country just to train and find the right frame and mentality (=saying (fun) bullshit showing you don't care). Go back to your place only when you are ready.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 06:34 AM
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I am currently practicing hard on this topic. Eye contact is a lot about dominating. You have to be ready to dominate if you want to be able to sustain it. It should not be as hard with every one. Train on maybe with your wife? edit: you can also add a smile if you are afraid to look creepy.
/r/askTRP22/06/19 07:13 AM
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use your accent with expressions a bit transformed on purpose but innocently and just pretend you read it somewhere, which is true. She sleeps at your place so you can easily place anything "tu n es pas chez mémé ici" "je ne suis pas là pour te bouffer la chatte" "tu me cours sur mon gros haricot" (lol sorry this is not a serious advice)
/r/askTRP15/09/18 03:23 PM
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Not expert so take my comment with a critical mindset but here is what I can tell from my own experience. Tinder is a good way to realize the hardness of the market when you are at the bottom of the ladder (i was there and not much higher now but quite a bit). So you have to improve fast but you have no match so you can't. vicious loop. I have 3 advice: 1)Take your matchs as training and have fun in what you say so you wont regret when she is not answering. otherwise you will always tell yoursel…
/r/askTRP15/09/18 03:04 PM
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It feels like she wanted to manipulate to you to be harder with the subordinate to whom you were sending a mail. I would say it is not about you, she wants to use your power in the hierarchy.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 07:02 AM
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not sure what history you are reading but there were quite some strong afrikan empires, mali, egypt... have you ever heard of the great pyramids?
/r/TheRedPill09/09/18 08:08 AM
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also low body fat level which also explains swimming contest results
/r/TheRedPill09/09/18 07:56 AM
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software dev env = > 1 rabbit for 10 hunters forest. good is not enough.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 01:54 PM
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It's actually not always true. A traumatazing event could impact your psyche and let it more vulnerable. Do not hesitate to look for support of a therapist if it is too hard to overcome alone.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 05:07 PM
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she is going to tell you again that you are too young. does it count as a shit test?
/r/askTRP15/07/18 06:51 AM
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Yes, but we can still admit that it always hurts to be backstabbed. It sounds wrong involving other people rather than even trying a first attempt of communication face to face whereas basically he was just trying to set his game. This is evil.
/r/askTRP14/07/18 08:42 AM
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it s a sad thing but seconded by psycho studies. the more love & attention you get as a child, the more social self confidence you get as an adult
/r/askTRP11/07/18 06:27 AM
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I was close to a successful ENFP, and i have to say I am surprised by your question because that was far from his concern to be successful or not, ENFP are shining effortless.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 06:55 PM
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it depends on the martial art. With kung fu for example, the dance aspect of tao is attracting girly girls. (and also the fact that it trains their ass rather than their arm with kicks oriented training)
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 06:52 AM
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I was speaking of the "it s so early" before going to your place, I would have considered it as some kind of resistance but in your story it looks like it was some kind of message to get.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 05:43 PM
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Can you explain more what does the "being early" comment truely meant for her? I did not really get it. Was it some kind of shit test or a message somehow?
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 05:30 PM
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yeah but there are quite a range of mistakes after that... the one of forcing yourself coming for the second chance whereas it was indeed too late, the one where you do something because you have to but you do it weakly because you dont assume totally (this one could come more than once). fortunately you dont have to be always perfect, sometimes it works despite failure
/r/TheRedPill20/05/18 08:59 PM
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Yes, but actually I was not speaking of motility and density but about quality as " low risk of birth deffect".
/r/TheRedPill20/05/18 07:36 AM
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I am sorry dude. With such agressive answer, I feel a bit like if I posted on some feminist topic now. You are free to do as you want, I am not trying to shame anyone. You however, you put in bold some stuffs that I never said, thoughts that I never had, I don't see the point other than trying to shame me.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/18 07:34 AM
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Quality of sperm starts to decrease around 30 so there is also a clock for men. sex is fun but it is still very animal side and rising a family with children filled a lot the men I know. don t get trap either in an eternel hunt of sex, it is not feeding the need of spirituality that you maybe touched when you had time to wonder what the purpose of this life is. edit: since I have some furious kid highly exposed to confirmation biais, Here is the source: Day, J., Savani, S., Krempley, B. D., Nguy…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/18 09:11 PM
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No worries. Don't lose your time in justification, you don't need the validation of this stranger internet troll. Take it easy :), your post was fun to read, that's all what matters.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/18 02:04 PM
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Helping your friend is the right thing to do. Do not have regrets. Otherwise you would never have known that this guy was not a true friend, spitting in your back at the first opportunity. Giving a bit of trust is the best way to check people who deserve it, and it makes the world better.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/18 10:25 AM
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you should review your introduction. emotions are behind men behavior too. the studies on it are really recent but the process of decision is lead by emotions for all human beings. no matter you are a guy or a woman maybe you are just less aware of it.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/18 08:06 PM
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