HammerDamag3d Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
53	Well, im in the early stages of seperating and divorce...		HammerDamag3d	/r/Divorce_Men	10/04/26 01:48 AM
10	Finding constructive ways to cope		HammerDamag3d	/r/Divorce_Men	11/04/26 04:07 PM

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3	Nights alone Honestly, the first few nights alone after she left for me werent horrible, i actually felt relief,...no longer walking on eggshells in my own home. To sit and play.misic and create music without snide baiting comments, to be comfortable in my own living room again....but i am also a person who finds peace in solitude from time to time naturally, and after so long of not having that peace, relished it again. Dont focus on the alone part mate, focus on the fact that it gives you a peaceful stress…	/r/Divorce_Men	15/04/26 01:26 AM
1	Well, im in the early stages of seperating and divorce... Thank you mate,... Thankfully my daughter is 23 now, and we have already fallen into a rhythm around the house since the wife up n left this week completely... We make dinner in the evenings and actually sit at 5he table and talk, we have decided Sunday mornings is teamwork house cleaning n maintenance day, laundry, etc. its alr3ady getting better round the house as the tension is gone, and in its vacuum, we have fallen into a much more relaxed n easy going pattern about the house. Lol, she is a…	/r/Divorce_Men	12/04/26 04:36 PM
1	Finding constructive ways to cope Unfortunately, my voice is not that good without severe ai tuning. I freely admit to heavy use of reaper and auto-tune, as well as pitch correction.... As for the guitar, i write and recorded all the acoustic pieces, and the main electric rhythm sections, but i have an "ai lead player" as well as the rest of the "band"...lol I use several different ai based models, each one has its niche area it performs well in, and i use a combination of audacity and suno for final smoothening out and mixing d…	/r/Divorce_Men	11/04/26 10:28 PM
1	Well, im in the early stages of seperating and divorce... A bottle of Blantons is exactly.what.i am trying not to succumb to...	/r/Divorce_Men	11/04/26 09:59 PM
3	Well, im in the early stages of seperating and divorce... Absolutely LOVE that term "free range human" 😂 Best chuckle.ive had all week.mate, thank you	/r/Divorce_Men	11/04/26 09:59 PM
1	Well, im in the early stages of seperating and divorce... Thank you mate...	/r/Divorce_Men	11/04/26 09:57 PM
1	Finding constructive ways to cope Thank you man,...and yeah, i just poured what i was feeling into it. It def helped me process, i left it sitting on my drive n listened to it plenty of times, then the other night i let a friend listen, and he was like dude, release it! That shit will resonate with plenty of other guys going thru the same shit you are.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/04/26 09:22 PM
4	Well, im in the early stages of seperating and divorce... I am already ballz deep in this stage,....with the exception of my pissed at her is more about how if she had been honest about things from that start, i would still be in florida, and not shitty SC, things woulda been settled long ago and would have saved alot of time, energy, and money.....this is the part i just cant get my head wrapped around. If there was no chance of working things out, just be honest about it...Why lead me on and watch me throw myself against a brick wall trying to fix it…	/r/Divorce_Men	10/04/26 12:34 PM
3	I just hate my life at this point I am just begining to deal with the separation part of the coming divorce of my marriage myself. But i fully understand your obsession with work, i realised that i have been doing the same for the last year. i prefer to stay in my shop at work (im a welder and fabricator, as well as a department head) n just keep working, i spent most a my weekends there, if there is no company stuff for me to do, i work on my own pet projects, i took my toolboxes and all that to my shop, so i tinker on my bike,…	/r/Divorce_Men	10/04/26 02:54 AM
4	Well, im in the early stages of seperating and divorce... I honestly dont think mourn is the right term,...anger, resentment, and outright rage is what has been flashing through me nonstop,.... I can pretty much pinpoint now, when the switch in her flipped, our daughter turned 19, had graduated, and was about to move across the country to venture out in the world for the first time. The last of our children leaving the nest so to speak. And overnight she stopped calling me by then name she and the rest of the world has always called me and started usin…	/r/Divorce_Men	10/04/26 02:40 AM
4	Well, im in the early stages of seperating and divorce... Sorry guys for the venting,....i just....unnngh....hindsight n all that shoulda clued me in long ago,....i'm usually alot more observant to my surroundings and peoples intentions around me, but this one caught me so off kilter and has ket me tilting all week trying to qrap my head around	/r/Divorce_Men	10/04/26 02:00 AM