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The only men who get hookups and fuck buddies are conventionally hot. I’ve rarely seen exceptions
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:55 AM
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So is that the reason you women just put all focus on the guys looks when seeking casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:32 AM
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They don’t get laid often. It’s still getting lucky every now and then.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:22 AM
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Why can’t these women pursue relationships with men at their level then? It’s the chicken and egg parable. It’s women’s extreme shallowness and need to exclusively focus on Chads that give them that power.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:19 AM
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Why are you lying about having zero standards when your standards for casual sex require male model tier looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:16 AM
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Why are more women than men having casual sex then?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:16 AM
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Or women are shallower than men? Why do you keep peddling the different strokes for different folks bulkshit? Ever seen hot girls who spend hours in gym date fat dumpy guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:11 AM
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True. Rarity of an average looking man has no impact on women. Women can only collectively value a man if he’s hot/gorgeous and high up in the attractiveness hierarchy. This line average looking man will have to simp for 1 woman even in this extreme gender disparate ratio in order to have a relationship with her, while the remaining women would be indifferent to him. A hot guy in this situation will fuck 90% of the women. It’s amazing how women’s minds work
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:25 AM
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They say it all the fucking time
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 02:56 AM
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You’re arguing with a gender so bigoted that it refuses to even acknowledge a woman can be less than a man in terms of looks
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 02:55 AM
3

Yes, they are incentivized to invest emotionally and majority of them would prefer long term relationships over being single, lonely, and sexless.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:26 PM
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They won’t treat them just as bad if they are incentivized to treat women better. Everyone works in their self interest but women are too stubborn to realize how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 08:15 PM
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True. Hell with them too
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 08:12 PM
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By gettable I mean they have no interest in anything meaningful or emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 08:10 PM
0

You have to take it or leave it. He has 100 options and you are just one of them. For most women it’s an honor to be the most gorgeous/hot man’s cum dumpster and boosts their ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 08:09 PM
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By practicing eugenics. Average, Mediocre, below average looking, short women shouldn’t have sons.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 06:00 PM
3

So you wouldn’t have sex with the hottest guy among 100 on the desert island?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:58 PM
0

Why would you have sex with the hottest 5 guys then to scratch your itch?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:56 PM
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So why would the remaining 80 men cooperate with women and not just look after themselves on that desert island?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:56 PM
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Most would get fucked by the top 5 at some point and then withdraw once they realize they’re not gettable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:54 PM
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Only idiot women deny there’s hypergamy. Most women here have acknowledged they are selective and find very few men physically attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:52 PM
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Why are women so stupid. Never ceases to amaze me. Like why the f can’t this gender be logical
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:52 AM
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Also, when you told them to stop dating, did you also explain to them the reason behind your advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:47 AM
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Are those guys average or below average in looks? Also, do you plan on having kids? What advice will you give your sons if god forbid they don’t grow up to be tall and handsome ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:47 AM
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Below average / unattractive women have started to come to terms with the dynamics of sharing Chads penis. They will whine about it for some years, bullshitting that “men” - not Chad, but fkn men as a whole - have become sex crazed horndogs who only want to fuck them, then silently accept their fate as eternal cum dumpsters for Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:45 AM
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They will point at boomer married couples
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:42 AM

Dude, I have done multiple experiments on Tinder using below average facially, overweight mid 40s women’s pics and got 1000s of likes a week and 100s of offers from good looking, tall men to meet up and fuck. These weren’t average looking guys even, so not sure what you mean by 99.9% men not wanting to fuck a 40yo. I’m on multiple dating apps right now and I can easily fuck more than 50% of women in their 40s and 90% of women in their 20s. The drop in number of men willing to fuck older women is…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 11:00 AM

Then he will go for hot women. How will mediocre looking women benefit from superior Chad penis?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:55 AM

You’re not getting it. Chad doesn’t need to marry women to fuck them. He just needs fuck buddies and one night stands. If you want to be Chads unofficial concubine/whore please be honest about it. He doesn’t need to go through the marriage bullshit and legally bind himself to 4 unremarkable women, when he can pump n dump 40 of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:33 AM

I can assure you, the average looking 40 something woman can get laid way more easily than the average looking 40 something man, and that too with good looking, fit young dudes. You simply have no idea how large the disparity is
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:28 AM

Polygamy with hot/gorgeous men. Not with a rich man just because you can’t earn.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:14 AM

Are you able to articulate how?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:14 AM

80% of women in their 20s are sexually attractive to me. What % of men in their 20s are sexually attractive to the average woman? You’re being intellectually lazy by equating men’s ‘pre filtering’ to women’s elitism about looks
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:13 AM

Are you a lot more selective about looks when it comes to choosing a male sex partner vs a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:10 AM

How many men do you find attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:09 AM

The dudes who work in porn are very sexually desirable to women. They are handsome, tall, jacked, well endowed, and masculine. They have regular women hitting them up to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:07 AM

There are no “outside factors” except for illness
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 05:45 AM

No, but why are you feeling so hateful here because men are understanding that the real reason why women “withhold” and attach strings to sex in relationships and dating is lack of sexual attraction rather than “higher”, virtuous motives? Like why do you desperately want men to remain under false impression that it’s because of women’s higher motives? How does this benefit you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 04:44 AM
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Women don’t have to go on dates with or marry men they don’t love to fuck for its own sake How hard is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 03:47 AM

You are making bad faith arguments. When men refer to women “withholding” sex in relationships it’s a whole long term imbalanced dynamic whereby the man feels he constantly needs to “earn” sex or that sex is tied to conditions. The reason is that the woman simply isn’t that attracted to the man and has nothing to do with a man’s actions or manipulation on woman’s part
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 03:45 AM

Not eally. Women do suffer from a sheep mentality and other women’s opinion of a man seems to have a strong impact on their choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 01:10 AM

Because a woman saying that to a man wouldn’t change his opinion of her
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 01:08 AM
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They lack self awareness
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 08:33 AM
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Most women can be content/fulfilled being Chads fuck buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 08:32 AM
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wth are you talking about? The advice is given to women who are whining about emotionally unavailable men because they're getting their backs blown out by guys who dont see them anything beyond cum dumpsters
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 07:51 AM
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Most women orgasm from PIV sex with Chad within minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 06:18 AM
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Orgasming from PIV sex requires a woman to be highly physically attracted to a man, and a larger penis size
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 06:18 AM
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I honestly don’t understand how can a group of humans can be so fucking bigoted about this
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 08:15 AM
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Women can get hot young dick till retirement age
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:59 AM
0

Now you know how men feel when stupid women give example of short male celebrities getting women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:24 AM
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Or maybe those men are just conventionally hot, but you had to cook up this crap about childhood trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:02 AM
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He was attractive physically yet you rank him below your past boyfriends because of education and ‘smoking’ of all things. Was he not physically hotter than your other boyfriends? Isn’t that why you were obsessed with him because he was hotter/sexier than others? When I say league I mean looks. You conveniently downplay looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:00 AM

Those guys are just conventionally hot/gorgeous. It has nothing to do with niceness or being an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:57 AM
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So Wth is so outlandish about saying a woman is chasing men above her paygrade looks wise, which is why they only want to fuck not invest emotionally?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:38 AM
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Why do you forget that men have low standards for casual sex and would readily accept less attractive women as fuck buddies and situationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:26 AM
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Why do women on this subreddit tell struggling men all the time to date less attractive women? Why is it when the same advice is given to women their humanity is compromised?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:23 AM
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Why do women on this subreddit tell struggling men all the time to date less attractive women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:18 AM
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Every other post on dating forums is about a woman in situationship or lamenting guys who only want to fuck her. If someone tells them they might be going after guys above their league would you feel hateful?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:18 AM
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Why do women on this subreddit tell struggling men all the time to date less attractive women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:17 AM
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Why do most women consider their compatible match a beta shed settle for?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:16 AM
0

Why do women on this subreddit tell struggling men all the time to date less attractive women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:15 AM
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Compatibility also applies to looks. Are you afraid of the possibility that a man might be higher than a woman in terms of conventional attractiveness?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:15 AM
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So? Why not be aware that you’re punching up? Why do women on this subreddit tell struggling men all the time to date less attractive women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:14 AM
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Why do women on this subreddit tell struggling men all the time to date less attractive women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:13 AM
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Why are you so aggravated by the idea that some men might be above your league looks wise?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:12 AM
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The “losers” are tall and handsome, just broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:11 AM
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So your ego cannot accept that some men can be above a woman’s league? Are you really that invested in “every woman is hot/gorgeous and deserves a 10” narrative?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:10 AM

So much mental gymnastics nonsense just to soothe your egos and avoid the reality that some men could be above your league. Pathetic isn’t it, your fragility?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:08 AM

Those women aren’t very sexual
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:02 AM

Pretty privilege for women is making money off their sexuality. Unremarkable looking women can get laid easily. Pretty privilege for men is getting laid itself. How the fuck are they comparable?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:00 AM

Men aren’t the one concocting the narrative that good character, kindness, empathy, trust, being funny leads to sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:36 AM

Who are good women banging casually and being fuck buddies with?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:34 AM

You deserve a million upvotes. You don’t realize how fucking dishonest women are about this
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:31 AM
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I was talking about above average looking guys. Women have become so shallow and elitist that even above average isn’t good enough for most of them, so the success would be sporadic. You just have to look like a male model to experience what a below average shapeless woman experiences these days. It’s crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 09:16 PM
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Are you a man who’s mediocre in looks and get laid frequently from bars?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 08:06 PM
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So you’re saying the guys didn’t reciprocate or ignored you? How old are you and who were the guys you tried to talk to?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 05:48 AM
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Ok. Many women on this forum routinely imply what I described so I was just checking
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 03:55 AM
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I thought you said you had a lot of casual hookups from bars
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 03:41 AM
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Again you’ve just moved the goal post from casual sex to relationships. No point in that discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 03:34 AM
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So I can say hi and be shot down by 10 women in one night. You can talk to 10 guys 7 of whom would be willing yo hook up that same night. Why are you being intellectually lazy?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 03:33 AM
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Can you show a pic in dm ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 03:24 AM
1

So would you say you’re an extremely rare specimen of a woman because on Tinder 5% of the hottest men get 90% of all likes?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 03:24 AM
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Dating apps, long term couples who met in social circle, the guy is a colleague and trying to pursue her, etc. You don’t know how much time and effort it takes for a man to pursue one woman. You just see a couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 03:18 AM
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Most men are taller than you too, but you still desire 6’2
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 03:17 AM
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What if the guy is long term stable loyal husband material you see a future with but is not conventionally hot, masculine, tall and sexy? Surely, as many pink pill women have stated here different men fulfill different roles in a woman’s life
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 03:12 AM
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As I said, past experiences and observation that only tall handsome men can pull off flirting and picking up women at bars, makes them not dare try.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 03:11 AM
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Because Bay Area men are scared to do so. It’s a place where women’s standards for looks are so elitist you can’t imagine. Unless you’re like an outlier in looks no woman responds in that city in bars. I guarantee you, if only you talked to 10 guys in a bar, 7 will give you their number or hook up with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 03:10 AM
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Oh, I meant if you had sex with multiple men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 03:06 AM
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They probably met on dating apps or were part of the same circle and needed a long time to get to that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 03:04 AM
6

So maybe you’re husband is a conventionally good looking and tall guy who fits both boxes: casual sex and long term. Why do women in this forum keep saying they put men into boxes?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 12:45 AM
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The ugliest and obese of women want hookups with good looking men exclusively. Not sure what’s your worldview based on
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 12:42 AM
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We aren’t women who can go alone and just socialize with 10 members of the opposite sex like it’s nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 12:40 AM
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Women in this forum have repeatedly said that for casual sex they want conventionally hot men or there’s no point in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 12:39 AM
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Can you show your pic in dm? I just want to confirm if you’re indeed just average facially. Also what’s your height?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 12:37 AM
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I’ve lived in Toronto and Bay Area. Been to most bars in downtown areas. Women are closed off as fuck. Anyways, when you were frequenting dive bars, we’re you open to men approaching? What were your requirements for looks and height?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 12:32 AM
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It is what it is. Why do you put men into boxes and then wonder why men try to get from one box to another? You can avoid that risk by dating men only you find fuckable for sex alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 12:25 AM
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You honestly don’t know any hot male model type guys. They have those experiences regularly. Meeting a sober woman in public places and going back to their apartment or hotel room to fuck the same day is no big deal for male model types
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 12:23 AM
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My bisexual guy friends who are below average facially, short, ethnic, balding, and chubby or scrawny have hedonistic dating and sex lives They often joke to me that they’d be incels if they were straight and have no lives. And it struck me, it’s not that men are inadequate or ugly by and large. It’s the inability of women to sexualize men’s bodies unless we conform to an extremely narrow, elitist aesthetic
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 12:13 AM
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Why are you saying men aren’t approaching women who do want casual sex? They see it’s just that those women’s requirements for good looks are too narrow and elitist, leaving feigning relationship interest in other women just to get laid the only option.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 12:02 AM
0

So what was it about your previous male partners that you desired that kind of sex with them? We’re they better looking, taller, handsome, more gorgeous?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 11:56 PM
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Women who want casual sex keep saying their requirements for good looks and hotness are way higher compared to when they want serious relationships. Men on this forum keep telling stories of how they were flipped off by women they were DATING when they suggested hooking up because they weren’t hot enough for that PURPOSE. Why are you lying about this? Don’t you put men into boxes?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 11:55 PM
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By looked nice do you mean conventionally good looking?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 11:54 PM
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Look at the guys you casually hook up with off dating apps and are fuck buddies with. They are not average looking men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 11:53 PM
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Do you have fuck buddies?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 11:52 PM
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Women who want casual sex keep saying their requirements for good looks and hotness are way higher compared to when they want serious relationships. Men on this forum keep telling stories of how they were flipped off by women they were DATING when they suggested hooking up because they weren’t hot enough for that PURPOSE. Why are you lying about this? Don’t you put men into boxes?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 11:51 PM
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True. They should know women only do that with conventionally hot guys
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 11:51 PM
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Women who want casual sex keep saying their requirements for good looks and hotness are way higher compared to when they want serious relationships. Men on this forum keep telling stories of how they were flipped off by women they were DATING when they suggested hooking up because they weren’t hot enough for that PURPOSE. Why are you lying about this? Don’t you put men into boxes?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 11:50 PM
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Women who want casual sex keep saying their requirements for good looks and hotness are way higher compared to when they want serious relationships. Men on this forum keep telling stories of how they were flipped off by women they were DATING when they suggested hooking up because they weren’t hot enough for that PURPOSE. Why are you lying about this? Don’t you put men into boxes?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 11:50 PM
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Women who want casual sex keep saying their requirements for good looks and hotness are way higher compared to when they want serious relationships. Men on this forum keep telling stories of how they were flipped off by women they were DATING when they suggested hooking up because they weren’t hot enough for that PURPOSE. Why are you lying about this? Don’t you put men into boxes?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 11:49 PM
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Bars only work if you’re above average in looks as a man and still it’s only once in a blue moon you’ll get lucky
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 11:47 PM
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It doesn’t matter what the gender ratio is because women in bars and pubs are already there with their boyfriends, dates, fuck buddies, husbands, male friends and simps. They’re closed off to other men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 11:46 PM
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What’s your height?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 11:44 PM
3

How much does it depend on the looks, hotness of the guy? Like many women say they don’t desire rough sex with their long term boyfriends because they are average looking / normies, but enjoyed that shot with fuck buddies and flings who were hot/gorgeous
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 11:30 PM
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Does it also depend upon the partner? Like how good looking, hot, masculine he is?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 11:26 PM
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Does it depend on the looks of the man you’re dating and having sex with? Like with a really hot, conventionally good looking and masculine man you desire that rough dirty sex, but with a more normal/ok looking guy who’s perhaps your long term boyfriend you don’t desire that kind of sex because he’s not built for that, doesn’t elicit visceral raw attraction in you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 11:25 PM
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Is it because your current partner is not good looking, hot, and masculine enough to elicit that visceral desire?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 11:24 PM
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Is your husband conventionally good looking and masculine?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 11:23 PM
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Does it depend on the looks of the man you’re dating and having sex with? Like with a really hot guy you desire that rough dirty sex, but with a more normal/ok looking guy who’s perhaps your long term boyfriend you don’t desire that kind of sex because he’s not built for that, doesn’t elicit visceral raw attraction in you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 11:23 PM
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Does it depend on the looks of the man you’re dating and having sex with? Like with a really hot guy you desire that rough dirty sex, but with a more normal/ok looking guy who’s perhaps your long term boyfriend you don’t desire that kind of sex because he’s not built for that, doesn’t elicit visceral raw attraction in you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 11:23 PM
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Does it depend on the looks of the man you’re dating and having sex with? Like with a really hot guy you desire that rough dirty sex, but with a more normal/ok looking guy who’s perhaps your long term boyfriend you don’t desire that kind of sex because he’s not built for that, doesn’t elicit visceral raw attraction in you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 11:23 PM
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How much does it depend on how good looking the man is?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 11:22 PM
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Does it depend on the looks of the man you’re dating and having sex with? Like with a really hot guy you desire that rough dirty sex, but with a more normal/ok looking guy who’s perhaps your long term boyfriend you don’t desire that kind of sex because he’s not built for that, doesn’t elicit visceral raw attraction in you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 11:21 PM

Not every but majority of women do have FwB and dick appointments during their single phases
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 08:12 PM
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The original post is aimed at women who do have casual sex and fuck buddies
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:35 AM
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The OP is about women who have casual sex and fuck buddies
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:34 AM
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Yes, according to the pink pill women here, it is totally worth it with Chads
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 01:30 AM
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The risks thing is a cope. Most women have fuck buddies and do hookups. They’re all doing fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 12:48 AM
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Why do you say it like it’s a bad thing when you’ve enjoyed being ditched after getting ejaculated in yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 12:46 AM
1

The women who don’t place a lot of importance on looks don’t have/like casual sex, hookups and FwB arrangements either. Is that a coincidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 12:18 AM
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Nowadays almost every woman has had hook ups and has fuck buddies when single.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 12:15 AM
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Which is why the standards ought to be lower. You’re saying the person you care about more isn’t even worthy of “thanks, bye, not be around for life”? Why is that so?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 12:08 AM
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That’s the most important thing closest thing to a human. Imagine telling your bf or husband you claim to love that he’s too inferior / low quality to you for sex alone. How would he feel and process the info? Most men wouldn’t actually invest emotionally if they were explicitly told this in the very beginning. Also, I don’t understand your perspective still. Like if you have the ability to tolerate a man for long term, why doesn’t he make the cut for casual sex. I understand you having better o…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 11:43 PM
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If you read the comments from pink pill women on this forum you’d know it has nothing to do with risks associated with casual sex and just the fact that they find very few men physically attractive enough for it. Not sure why you’re still pressing on this outdated false narrative. Most young women nowadays do hookups and have fuck buddies.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 11:10 PM
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Not to all men. Just to men youre considering for relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 11:07 PM
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Why would you have a relationship with a man you despise enough to not want to hookup or be fuck buddies with? It makes zero sense unless I’m missing something
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 11:04 PM
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I know, but it’s kinda weird to have a long term relationship with a guy you consider too low quality/inferior to just be a fuck buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 11:00 PM
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You completely missed the point
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 10:49 PM
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What makes you think women need to be hot to have casual sex? There is no positive correlation between a woman’s looks and her ability to fuck around casually.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 10:48 PM
2

Absolute nonsense because men have way lower standards for who they’d. fuck casually vs out a ring on.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 10:46 PM
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Becky has to put zero effort to get FwB and casual sex. The topic is sex, not long term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 10:45 PM
1

I guess the question would be why’d you seriously date a guy you deem to inferior / low quality for a mere FwB
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 10:43 PM
1

Chad does want you for a quick fuck tho
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 10:42 PM

That’s another tough pill for future mothers post dating app society to swallow
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 09:52 AM

That’s another reason, but the primary one for denial is more sinister.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 09:41 AM

You worded your initial comment that way “Majority of men have absolutely been able to ask SOMEONE on A date” Let me ask you this: Are majority of men able to consistently ask different women out on dates? Let me also add “successfully ask” just in case you decide to modify it to just asking someone out regardless of acceptance.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 09:30 AM
0

You probably didn’t like your husband enough to have casual sex with him
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 09:23 AM
1

You disagree with the pink pill women here
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 09:21 AM
1

What about women who are fuckzoned and constantly lament that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 09:12 AM

Maybe OP can too get the honor once in a lifetime. Why are you stuck on this point? How is going on a date once in a lifetime going to make any difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 09:03 AM

That is a positive thing. How is that a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 08:50 AM

Not sure I’m following you maybe you’re being snarky or insulting, but are you suggesting being able to go on a date with a few women in a lifetime sufficient for a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 08:49 AM

Why do you think this evokes such an uncomfortable response in you? Like do you feel women are being indirectly pressured to lower their elitist standards ? I still fail to understand the snarky, dismissive response from women on this subject. Like you should be happy that you’re privileged in this regard. That the hottest and most gorgeous men out there have standards so low allowing average women to hookup with them. Why do you feel shadenfraude for men’s misery? I mean before calling a man an…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 08:45 AM

How can you not see these are problems of privilege and choice and not problems from lack thereof? Problem of too much choice can be internally managed by showing some caution and discipline. Problem of scarcity is a dead end
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:51 AM

A few times in a lifetime? What’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:48 AM

You brother must’ve been very conventionally good looking and tall. Don’t be scared to compare average looking men with average looking women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:47 AM

An average looking woman can easily go on 52 dates a year with attractive men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:46 AM

Being a woman, your sister knows that women including herself are extremely shallow, selective, and elitist about looks, only caring to date and hookup with the hottest men in the cities they live in. At the same time, she sees you, presumably an average looking man that she knows at the back of her mind does not meet the looks criteria of not only women in general but her own as well. But because you’re her brother she cannot be honest with you about it. It is awkward for her to see one of her …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:35 AM

It is a perfect example of why a soft gender apartheid is coming. When you have nothing in common with each other, when even women who are your loved ones see the world so differently than you, and refuse to show empathy towards you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:29 AM

How do below average looking, low maintenance, out of shape women have 1000s of dating offers if it’s so hard for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:25 AM

But that’s not what they explicitly acknowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:24 AM

How many dates per year do you think does the average male goes on?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:22 AM

It’s the experience of the majority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:20 AM

So you do hold men and women to entirely different standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:17 AM

There aren’t that many women men find unattractive collectively. Only extreme cases of deformed or geriatric women. Obviously you want to be intellectually lazy to equate the two
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:14 AM

It is frustrating. Even a sister or mother cannot understand how hard dating is for men. Before empathizing with you they will show their loyalty to the narrative their gender pushes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:12 AM
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Why do you feel shadenfraude at the possibility of vast majority of men being single, sexless, and frustrated? If you being a woman have the privilege to find sex intimacy companionship easily regardless of your looks, you can be happy about that privilege without feeling happy at men’s misfortune
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 09:39 PM
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Aren’t the blue pilled opinions mentioned by OP rooted in bigotry and hatred against men?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:07 AM
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He is high value enough for hookups and casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 07:02 AM

So how do you operate on dating apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 06:15 PM

Must be sad for you that you can only get 9s to bang but not 10s Your shallowness and elitism about looks really knows no bounds
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 08:56 AM
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Maybe not actual male models, but just really good looking, tall, fit guys. Is that not good enough for your standards? Do you require actual male models to fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 10:33 AM
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I put the myth that “ugly women get matches only because men just swipe right on everyone and it means nothing” to test. I made a profile of an obese, middle aged, facially below average/unappealing woman on Tinder. I got 1000+ likes in 4 days. I then liked back and messaged around 100 of the hottest guys only (because why the fuck would a woman regardless of her own look would want an average looking man right?) I got responses from majority of them willing to meet up and fuck. Most of them gav…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 09:51 AM
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Women don’t like to hear that. Every day there are posts on dating subreddits with women asking why guys only want hookups with them and you are immediately banned if you suggest it could be because you’re going for hot guys above your league
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 12:22 AM
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On Tinder. Just make a fake obese unappealing woman’s profile and see.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 12:20 AM
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Why do women need to lower their standards when the ugliest, shortest, fattest of them are getting docked by male models?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 10:55 PM
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Why do women need to lower their standards when the ugliest, shortest, fattest of them are getting docked by male models?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 10:54 PM
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Stop fixating on onlyfans. You can get hot dick in no time and that makes men replaceable
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 09:24 AM

Attractive women Average women Attractive men Unattractive women Average men Unattractive men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 08:41 AM
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Chad is simply a very good looking guy. Those are the only men women would fuck based on looks alone
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 03:03 AM
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Women don’t require any of the bullshit from Chads and fuck them easily and quickly. The bullshit is required from non Chads. Once again, it’s all about looks. You need a higher level of looks
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 02:12 AM
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Trust me, women don’t need any of the bullshit to sleep with Chads. The bullshit is only required by non Chads
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 02:10 AM
1

Wow
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 09:12 PM
1

How good looking and tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 08:46 PM
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But you’re ok with being a low effort situationship or even a fuck buddy to a really hot/gorgeous man. Why do you expect the world from a normal looking man?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 07:46 PM
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High beauty standards for what then? How do they affect women in any way? I’m interested in women’s sexual standards that determine who they’d date, desire, love and have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 07:44 PM
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Almost every woman these days has fuck buddies, casually dates, and does short term flings with hot/ gorgeous men when she’s single. Wth are you talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 07:29 PM

Men who are all of the above are beggars in the dating world. Women are incredibly shallow and elitist
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 07:09 AM

You don’t talk about the most important thing: FACE If you’re a woman or a blue pilled you most likely picturing a guy with a handsome face. Not an average face.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 07:08 AM
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I’m just kinda blackpilled and always like to see which guys get laid easily and which ones don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 06:16 PM
1

Can you show pic in dm. Also you model type?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 05:34 PM
2

How’d you describe yourself looks wise?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 04:52 PM
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Because you’re conventionally good looking and masculine. They still dislike you but are sexually attracted any ways
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 04:28 PM
1

Why do men need Redpill in the first place? Is it not a reaction to something?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 03:19 AM
1

Any woman only subreddit echo similar views
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 03:16 AM
1

Leftist women hate men with even greater fervoir
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 03:15 AM

I don’t think women are willing to learn anything from this. The keep exclusively and strictly matching with male models on dating apps only despite the knowledge that men have low standards for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 05:23 PM
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Non pretty, low maintenance women get laid left and right and have 1000s of offers to fuck. How’s that possible?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 05:19 PM
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Why can’t guys do the same then?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 09:15 AM
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Ok. But why does that male centric rating system explain men’s own experience with dating and hookups perfectly?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 08:42 AM
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Don’t talk about gay men. They don’t face extremely shallow and elitist standards from women. Yes, most likely your colleagues and clients are good looking tall White men who are able to have a reasonable dating/sex life, maybe a fraction of what’s afforded to the ugliest, fattest of women out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 08:38 AM
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Why do you think below average looking women get incredibly offended when told they’re chasing men above their leagues who just want them for easy sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 08:19 AM
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This question might make you hateful, but how many of these 20 employees are barely average/ below average looking men getting regular hookups, casual sex, and fuck buddies.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 08:15 AM
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So desperately trying to prove that women aren’t incredibly more shallow, elitist in their requirements for good look when they want casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 08:12 AM
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So you agree men have incredibly low standards for casual sex, allowing conventionally unattractive women to fuck hot guys way above their leagues?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 08:11 AM

You think most women are attractive but most men aren’t. Does that make you a lesbian?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 05:18 PM

Why/how do below average facially, short, borderline obese women with no style who wear pjs all day, do no makeup, have low self esteem get laid left and right with good looking, tall fit men? Why do they all have decent looking boyfriends too? Who are you doing all this makeup, heels for, when women do just fine in dating without them? As a below average looking man who isnt ugly and has his shit together, I have no dating life, I cant use dating apps, I cant go to bars and clubs to meet women,…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 11:48 AM
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Looks looks looks. Women have spoken. They only want male model tier looks. The rest of the men are irrelevant and have to go their separate ways. We have nothing in common with women
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 05:39 AM
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Generations of men were lied by society and women that humor, kindness, loyalty, trust, and a host of other bullshit personality traits create attraction within women. Do a survey today asking 1 million women what are the most important traits that make a man sexy, attractive, hot, desirable and they will rank looks at number 6 or 7. Redpill, manosphere is just a reaction to that. There'd be no need for them if women at large (not the ones on this particular forum) were not pathological about do…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 06:49 AM
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Ugly, obese women have no shortage of men because men have more forgiving standards. For them therapy can be helpful because they only need to deal with inner insecurities and low self esteem (both of which dont disqualify them from dating btw). Therapy will at best help unattractive cope with their ordeal of being perpetually single and sexless, "find inner happiness" and other bs. You should acknowledge the gender disparity also
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 06:45 AM

We’re you able to have casual sex, hookups, and FWB with women? They are the gold standard of physical attraction for women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 06:04 AM

How would you do that when your standards for men's looks and height are based on the hookup culture?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 03:47 AM

Who will stop below average and ugly women from reproducing and poisoning the future generations with their low quality genes?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 03:44 AM

For love and sex top 5-10% hottest men should be enough for all women. Do you agree?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 03:40 AM

They have too many options. This is exactly what happens when you are at a strip club and want a vip dance. Every stripper is hot, young, naked, but you're just bummed at the possibility of not ending up with the best looking one
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 02:56 AM
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What can we say or do about women's double standards and bigotry at this point?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 12:29 AM
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Not really. The Redpillers aren’t out there killing women.
/r/MensRights21/01/24 10:26 PM
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Because they’re women. They are allowed to be bigoted towards men
/r/MensRights17/01/24 04:45 AM
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Leftist male feminist are ye’ ?
/r/MensRights09/01/24 09:17 AM
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Stop simping and being needy. Stop being women’s support system. Boycott dating apps where you get zero matches and let them fail. Boycott OnlyFans and stop following / paying women on social media. Boycott club scene and buying women drinks. Stop pursuing women who don’t reciprocate with same energy. To highly attractive men, I would ask them to raise their standards and seek women who are their equals at their own level.
/r/MensRights07/01/24 02:56 AM
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Being “single” means nothing to women. Women can be “single” and still regularly date casually, have hookups, fuck buddies, situationships with hot men. They have male friends, orbiters, and simps to give them attention and validation. They have dating apps. There is literally nothing single women can’t do that relationships are for Single men on the other hand have zero positive interactions with women
/r/MensRights28/12/23 04:30 AM
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So oppressed the White woman.
/r/MensRights26/12/23 11:05 AM
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Beautifully elaborated
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 09:01 AM
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Ok. I agree there are a lot of men obsessing over female celebrities. But they are not normal, mentally healthy, desirable men who can pull women irl. They are usually incels, simps, and coomers. What I mean to say is a man would rather be going out irl fucking average women than worshipping a female celebrity he’s never going to get. You won’t see a guy who can pull regular women for sex fawning over female celebs or using OF. Women are not like that. They can get average men easily. They choos…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 08:32 AM
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Do you disagree that it’s way easier for average looking women to get laid than for average looking men?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 06:40 AM
1

Was the rhyme intentional?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:54 AM
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Still, what makes you blue pilled? Nothing you have described says mediocre looking or conventionally unattractive guys were getting casually laid. When we say men face more pressure to be conventionally good looking in order to have casual sex, what evidence to the contrary do you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:49 AM
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Why would you seek commitment with a guy who’s not hot enough for casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:10 AM
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It’s rare for men to idolize and worship female celebs. There’s nothing a female celeb has that a man wants besides sex. And sex is something men will also have with peasant women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:07 AM
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Yeah mostly. You think men worship female celebs like women worship male?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 04:54 AM
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So they’re jerking off to them because porn wasn’t readily available, you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 04:49 AM
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I have never seen men fawning over female celebrities. That is simply not a masculine thing to do. Men want to build their own world and attract women into it. Not be part of a woman’s world.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 04:44 AM
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Why do you call yourself Blue Pill if you agree that women including yourself have fuck buddy stuff with super hot men exclusively?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 04:24 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 04:13 AM
4

Their replies depend so much on framing the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 04:03 AM
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Why are the men you “don’t like “ hotter and sexier than the ones you “do like” ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 03:58 AM
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Men don’t refuse sex with women they seek commitment from. Why does it differ for you? Because those guys aren’t e hot/sexy enough for meaningless sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 03:56 AM
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Dad/boss funny dudes for commitment Conventionally hot, masculine, stoic, lean guys for fuck buddies
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 03:30 AM
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It’s not about intentions. I’m asking if the guys you seek commitment from are less hot/sexy/masculine/good looking than the fuck buddies you don’t give about?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 03:18 AM
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You’re not familiar with mathematical sets. For men the wife material is still attractive enough to be fuck buddy material. These women are saying the husband material guys are too inferior to be fuck buddies
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 03:12 AM
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So you’re saying you were having FwB with guys less attractive than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 03:10 AM
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And why do you consider guys you want commitment from less desirable than fuck buddies? That sounds counterintuitive
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 03:01 AM
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So why call it a situationship? Also, it’s weird that the guy you want commitment from is less desirable to you than the fuck buddies
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 02:57 AM
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Doesn’t explain why way more average, below average and obscure girls in HS had sexual experience than guys by the time they graduated, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 09:55 PM
1

So you have a different interpretation of how hookup culture and dating apps ruin monogamy?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 09:53 PM
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Obviously. That’s the whole point and benefit. The hot male friends and acquaintances aren’t getting laid every day with hot girls, and also need variety and convenience.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 08:42 PM
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Why you conflating socializing and going on dates with hookups from dating apps? A 9/10 guy wouldn’t want to socialize and do things together with a 3 girl. He just has to call her up at 10 pm when he’s feeling horny do she shows up for a quick pumping and leaves in 2 hrs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 08:28 PM
1

So more like the 9/10 guy having casual sex with 5s and 6s?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 08:13 PM
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Strange. Very different than what I’ve observed in university campuses, workplace, and on dating apps. I also have a few struggling male model type friends whose dating sex lives I followed closely for years. The vast majority of their fuck buddies were girls who were 3s, 4s and 5s, while these were solid 8s and 9s
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 08:09 PM
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You mean they gossiped about the cheerleader. Unattractive guys in HS are ALSO willing to date their looks matches and that’s the point you leave out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 08:04 PM
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So you were all hooking up and there was no gender disparity in it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 11:45 AM
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Indeed. Average men around the world, who are single do estimate their desirability regularly. It might not be the reality for average women as they always have dozens of dating and sexual options if not 100s. Why are you projecting women's mindset onto mens?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 09:50 AM
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Early stages only?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 09:26 AM
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It’s an obvious fact that men will casually bang girls well below their leagues. Are you too egoistic to accept that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 09:19 AM
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Attractive guys only want girls on their level or higher in my experience. Idk what yall are smoking sometimes For casual sex or meaningful relationships? Why are you changing goal posts?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 08:54 AM
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Point being that dating required a much greater level of socializing before, prompting hot men to seek more compatible women. Even at a bar or club you have to talk to a woman while your friends watch you, buy her a drink, maybe dance, and then head back to the flat. When a man is investing that much time and energy, he will be selective. With dating apps, he will follow the path of least resistance.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 08:51 AM
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Attractiveness is not negotiable What does that men if women only swipe on top 5-10% hottest men on dating apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 08:44 AM
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Ugly men can get ass if they're confident and fun. Hot men may get almost no ass if they're shy, and more selective. Your definition of ugly man might be Pete Davidson whose above average looking by normal people standards and is 6'3. I dont see actually ugly or below average looking guys getting casually laid. Also, women do not need to be confident or fun to get laid casually. If someone is genuinely punching too high.. no one will date them, and they'll figure it out, and lower their standard…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 08:41 AM
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So you agree that very powerful men are circumventing the natural pecking order and PREYING on women? They aren’t playing by the natural rules of attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 04:21 AM
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Yes, with a woman who is 3 points below you in looks and is not very financially independent. Women do not believe in relationship equality
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 03:42 AM
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Why the hell are you concerned with top 0.01% rich and powerful men and not the vast majority of people?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 03:24 AM
2

Every woman on social media is rage bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 03:16 AM
1

Salary doesn’t matter if it’s Chad. Most women spewing salary requirement happily become broke Chads whores. Hell with them too
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 03:16 AM
3

Do you disagree that the socio sexual hierarchy goes like this? Attractive women Average looking women Attractive men Unattractive women Average looking men Unattractive men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 03:03 AM
1

In his recent videos he has moved away from the narrative. He fully understands and accepts that traditional roles are no longer possible given the new dating landscape and hookup culture that women prefer
/r/MensRights24/12/23 12:08 AM
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Women hold way more power over relationships and sex. Not 100% because there are some very good looking and gorgeous men that pose challenge to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 11:23 PM
5

Why did you say sexual compliment or “Damn girl” means nothing from hot guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 10:46 PM
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You are discerning for Chad. You are ok with being Chads whore on 1st hr of meeting. For the average man that is a worse outcome in every way than women not being discerning at all. Do you think the average man would put in effort for and emotionally invest in you after seeing you being Chads whore?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 10:35 PM
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Strange how often this needs repeating here that the only difference between women and men is that women are way more shallow and unforgiving on looks, and find very few guy’s physically attractive enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 10:15 PM
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So why do you say men’s compliments are meaningless? It’s just that those guys are hot enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 10:03 PM
5

But you do value sexualization from super hot guys and male model types you also deem worthy of being sexualized.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 09:55 PM
2

Men have only started asking this question in recent times in response to women constantly parroting it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 11:53 PM
0

Womins dating advice routinely pushes them to ask this question of men. Why the fucj is there a double standard
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 10:17 AM
1

Why the fucj do women spew this question so much then?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 10:15 AM
1

Why the fucj do women keep spewing this question so often then?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 10:14 AM
2

Why the fucj can women ask this question then?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 10:13 AM
1

Why does it offend the shit out of women even if a man’s asks them IN RESPONSE to being asked first?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 10:12 AM
1

Sexual variety and convenience
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 07:18 AM
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They don’t understand. They think just because you are average in looks and decent in other aspects on paper, you should do fine and if not you’re pushing them away.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:58 PM
2

Every woman says it’s wrong, but indulges in it anyway. If hookups are the only way to engage hot men, women will do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:12 PM
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Yes. A big formal relationship is not a requirement anymore to meet the needs of sex, intimacy, love, romance, companionship, attention, and validation. Women and conventionally hot men can meet these needs without relationships, via one night stands, hookups, casual dating, FwB, flings, situationships, etc. Obviously, women are too dishonest to acknowledge this
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:51 AM
1

Explain hookup culture then. Youre either a woman's "type" or you're not
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:46 AM
1

What can men do when women are so shallow that natural attraction requires male model looks, and most men have to exploit their idiotic tendencies?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:45 AM
1

You've never chased men above your league/caliber?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:43 AM
0

If you've fucked other men on 1st dates, you'd only make inferior men wait longer. Why are you unwilling to understand basic human psychology?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:42 AM
1

Men were ok with pursuing. Problem is, how do you bring yourself to pursue women knowing they didnt require any pursuit from other men? Its basic human psychology that women are unwilling to understand. Women have changed the rules of dating This was not a problem in the pre hookup / dating app era.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:39 AM
4

Good looking men can be loved without having to provide. How do you rate yourself looks wise?
/r/MensRights15/12/23 02:28 AM
2

Your Tinder swiping history would prove otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:52 AM
3

From the comments it seems women don’t mind the hookup culture at all
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 02:57 AM
3

Are you good looking and/tall and athletic? I don’t think average looking guys get laid in fraternities even
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 02:56 AM
2

Partially true. Hookup culture makes it way harder for men who fail at it to find serious relationships also. In absence of hookup culture, relationships and dating is way more egalitarian and gender balanced.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 02:54 AM
2

What about the women who love and fuck the violent bully?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 10:49 PM

How do women who aren’t hot fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 12:52 PM
9

On dating apps, every woman is looking for male models regardless of her own looks. Image and fashion sense doesn’t matter much. You just need to show you’re genetically gifted.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 12:04 PM

So why can’t these proper dad bod guys get hookups and fuck buddies that pretty much every other woman is having when single?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:22 AM

Guys in long term relationships lucked out once, we’re settled for, had circumstances, etc. For them to bullshit about casual dating and hookups is a little dishonest. Most of them are a break up away from being incels
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:21 AM

Women’s definition of “dad bod” is Jason Momoa not going to the gym for 3 months, so don’t take their bullshit at face value. I have seen some chubby average faced guys managing to get a girlfriend. Haven’t seen any hooking up or having fuck buddies which is the real deal
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:16 AM

Where have you seen and in what contexts?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:04 AM

You still need to be above average in looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:03 AM

Ugly short guys with charisma can socialize well, be fun, have many female friends, etc. When it comes to sex and romance, there’s a very real boundary they can’t cross. Seen too many men like that. Women know who they want to fuck or not within minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:00 AM
2

You dont get guys on dating apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 10:35 AM
4

By women’s own account, most women compromise on physical attraction and “types” when settling down in long term relationships. Many women claim they liked their man for his personality and because he put effort and pursued, because initially he wasn’t their type. Why are you conveniently ignoring this bitter reality?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 10:05 AM
1

Do majority of men in your age group fall in that “not ugly” category?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 10:01 AM
2

So they don’t have to be your physical type?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 09:56 AM
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Who will harass and attack women for being honest? Some guys on Reddit? How will it realistically impact you outside of Internet forums? And don’t use the incel gym shooter straw man. Sure, men will treat you on arms length, men will avoid friendships with women knowing how ugly they are you, courting will be dead, dating economy will be dead, and relationships will be down to “he’s my type or he’s not”, but so what? It’s the endgame anyways so why prolong it? Men are filled with rage because th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 09:55 AM
2

What percentage of men your age are physically attractive/ fuckable to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 08:56 AM
0

So what percentage of men your age roughly do you find hot or fuckable? To your point about catch-22, why are women afraid of men hating on them for voicing / acknowledging their shallow preferences? The worst is that men will be discouraged from approaching them, give up on their hopes of romance and love, resent them, and eventually learn to live with it. Why do you care about non-attractive mens apathy towards women? The hate we feel is because we’ve been lied to for very long and ubiquitousl…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 08:45 AM
3

You women keep uttering this like it’s a comeback. Why are men honest about the importance of looks but women aren’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 08:30 AM
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Why do you think the majority of women are so dishonest about the “hot” part? Also, whats your definition of hot? I suppose it’s top 5 or 10 percenter?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 08:24 AM
1

Do you think average and below average looking women consider their looksmatches to be “in their league” ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 06:08 AM
4

It is quite pathetic how grown women lack so much self awareness, are unable to connect the dots, and understand how the dating market works.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 06:03 AM
1

Women can get bored and unfulfilled even if the man puts in effort to make her happy. They can feel they can get hotter more desirable men and leave. Let’s not be dishonest about this
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 06:01 AM
1

Are you sure he was ugly or just average looking / in your league? Problem with women’s bigotry is that they’d be average to decent looking guys it pretend they’re dating ugly guys to have leverage and clout in relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 05:59 AM
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No. Looks, height, masculinity are paramount. Most college educated white collar women are fuck buddies of hot blue collar men. Meanwhile, short, average looking college educated guys making 200K are pathetic when in comes to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 11:12 PM
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Why is this even a question at this point? Being “single” means totally different things for men and women. “Single” women still casually date, hookup, have fuck buddies and situationships with hot men, have simps, orbiters, and male friends, etc. Women can meet most of their needs being single and free that men need a big formal committed ‘closed’ relationship for. Romance, chemistry, sex, intimacy, companionship, attention, validation, traveling together, etc - All can be done without relation…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 09:43 PM
1

Most mediocre looking guys are told they’re not suitable for casual hookups by women they’re dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:50 AM
1

Which is pretty odd that you don’t even consider the men you claim to value more good enough for a casual lay
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:46 AM
1

But many women date and marry men they wouldn’t have found hot enough to hook up with. How is that possible?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:45 AM
2

Most women nowadays experience casual sex a few times despite claiming to not actively seeking it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:43 AM
3

Because those women want Chads
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:40 AM
1

How is he a loser when he has qualities that most other men don’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:39 AM
3

Why do you have more desire and admiration for men you have casual sex and FwB with than your long term bfs and husbands?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:38 AM
3

Chad is relationship material, just not for her because she’s a cum dumpster. Why would any man marry another man’s cum dumpster?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:35 AM

Fathers are dishonest to their daughters?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:06 PM

They ALL have something going for them. It’s either casually dating and hooking up every now and then, short term flings, situationships, and Fuck buddy arrangements. Literally no woman under 40 I know is truly single. It’s the opposite with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:16 PM
0

I assumed you were a man. I meant that women can be hedonistic regardless of their looks. Men need to be conventionally good looking in order to live a hedonistic life. Women are privileged in that sense.
/r/ExRedPill03/12/23 06:07 AM
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Many women say good looks and height are not a strict requirement when it comes to settling down and marriage. They are willing to be less harsh/shallow about looks and give average looking men a chance.
/r/ExRedPill03/12/23 05:58 AM
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Then you must be at least above average looking.
/r/ExRedPill03/12/23 05:35 AM
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Part of the “adaptation” are strategies you write off as redpill, Blackpill, passport bro, and Mgtow misogyny. You don’t want adaptation. You want denial
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 01:59 AM
1

I guess you’re referring to extreme cases of literal homeless junkies.
/r/ExRedPill03/12/23 01:57 AM
1

So we should only consider what older women prefer?
/r/ExRedPill03/12/23 01:54 AM
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That’s what I’ve observed. I’ve never seen broke, undisciplined, irresponsible but tall and facially attractive guys struggling with having a steady roster of women for sex and dating. I would love to see examples to the contrary.
/r/ExRedPill03/12/23 01:48 AM
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From what I’ve been told is that the way to come out of redpill/Blackpill mindset is to look at long term relationship couples only, and ignore who women prefer for hookups and FwB stuff.
/r/ExRedPill03/12/23 01:37 AM
0

Why are the guys I describe so successful ?
/r/ExRedPill03/12/23 12:44 AM
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Many men want to live the singles lifestyle, just like many women do…. date multiple people casually, do hookups, flings, and have FwB arrangements. That’s not possible IMO unless you’re above average looking as a straight guy. Gay men and straight women have more leverage though
/r/ExRedPill03/12/23 12:42 AM
0

No. This is based on my observation. The guys I described are very successful in dating and sex.
/r/ExRedPill02/12/23 11:55 PM
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Important in the sense they represent what women truly desire sexually. What’s wrong with that?
/r/ExRedPill02/12/23 10:55 PM
2

The 80/20 rule only applies to hookups, casual sex, FwB, and situationships. These things are not important and are bad anyways. You should only be looking at married, long term committed couples, preferably older couples in their 40s. Don’t look at what young women pursue in their 20s for fun. That’s not what you should be aiming for
/r/ExRedPill02/12/23 10:53 PM
1

To me, the men, women have FwB and hookups with represent the true desire and “type”. I consider that way more important than who they end up marrying.
/r/ExRedPill02/12/23 10:50 PM
1

I agree that men are a lot more forgiving in body shape/size than women and way more likely to find fat women attractive than vice versa.
/r/ExRedPill02/12/23 10:45 PM
2

I just answered based on my observation of women in their 20s and the guys they are pursuing, hooking up and having FWB with.
/r/ExRedPill02/12/23 10:44 PM
1

That narrative is shitty and untrue?
/r/ExRedPill02/12/23 10:26 PM
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You never want to talk about the ‘singles lifestyle’: casual dating, hook ups, flings, FwB, etc. Why is that?
/r/ExRedPill02/12/23 10:26 PM
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Yes. Men’s standards tend to be lower though
/r/ExRedPill02/12/23 09:54 PM
-3

To your point regarding being fit if he wants fit women, do you think it’s inconsistent with women’s narrative that fat women are desirable and should be able to get lean, fit men as opposed to men their own size and shape?
/r/ExRedPill02/12/23 09:54 PM
0

6 figures are not important. Face and Height are key. Unemployed tall, hot losers have women lining up to be their f-buddies and gfs.
/r/ExRedPill02/12/23 09:51 PM
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Face wise you need to be above average to begin with. If you are average or below average facially, it’s really hard to be attractive even if you optimize your looks by gym, beard, hairstyle, etc.
/r/ExRedPill02/12/23 09:47 PM
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Face and body wise is he hot?
/r/ExRedPill02/12/23 09:44 PM
-1

For women in their 20s - Handsome Face - Height (preferably above 6) - Nice body (mesomorphic frame) - Good in bed. Strong, lasts long, nice hard dick, etc - Social currency, extroverted, confident, etc - Lifestyle, financial stability, - Personality and emotional stuff
/r/ExRedPill02/12/23 09:43 PM
0

Attractive men can just live the singles lifestyle. Women just worship them without expecting any commitment or exclusivity
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:49 AM
1

Leggings at the gym. Todays leggings are different. Have you seen scrunch leggings meant to show crack and camel toe?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:40 PM
4

The female classmates and coworkers are also wearing ridiculously tight leggings to work that leave little to imagination. This wasn’t normal 15 years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:29 PM
1

So they’ve owned the sexualization, so why blame todays men for viewing women accordingly?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:24 PM
-1

They will just utter the word “Consent” and avoid this nuanced conversation altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:22 PM
0

For short term dating and hookups, a lot of guys do well despite having this mindset
/r/ExRedPill01/12/23 04:07 AM
0

Are you able to attract women for hookups and FwB stuff?
/r/ExRedPill01/12/23 04:06 AM
1

Just don’t act aggressive and be normal. If you’re a really hot guy and she already wants to fuck you, you pretty much have to go with the flow.
/r/ExRedPill01/12/23 03:56 AM
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The safety concern comes after attraction. A woman seeking a one night stand would be so selective about looks and charm that 90% of men around her won’t meet that threshold. Redpillers are concerned about the attraction part. Safety can be easily learned
/r/ExRedPill01/12/23 03:41 AM
1

When I look at young couples in their late teens and early 20s, I only see plain janes with Chadlite boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:27 AM
2

Why are you shaming OP for supposed misogyny than actually countering his claim about how women operate in the dating world today ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 11:14 AM
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Why are men more honest about the importance of looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 06:21 AM
6

If you hate situationships why the f are you in them? Because that’s the only way you can get with hot guys? Why can’t you be honest about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 05:41 AM
3

How can they approach when womens requirements for good looks have become so high?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 05:40 AM
3

Absolutely. You don’t agree with what you’ve written?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 05:37 AM

What has respect got to do with attraction? Most women would fuck misogynistic men as long as they’re conventionally hot. Why are you so dishonest?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 05:34 AM
6

Why are more women than men active in the hookup culture then?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 05:32 AM
2

60% women are in relationships vs only 30% men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 05:31 AM
3

How the f are below average looking women inundated with dating options if men’s standards are shallow?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 05:30 AM
6

Men dating standards are very reasonable and low. You need to stop lying
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 05:29 AM
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So be honest that very few guys are hot enough for you to enjoy sex. We are already saying it’s about looks, but women gaslight men and blame personalities. Stop lying
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 05:26 AM
6

Every young woman is in situationships these days
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 05:24 AM
8

Expecting honest answers from a pathologically dishonest gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 05:23 AM
9

He must be above average facially
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 05:22 AM
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This is gaslighting on an infuriating level. Women can be so dishonest it’s pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 05:20 AM
4

High school and university crowd is just plain janes with Chadlite boyfriends
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 05:18 AM
3

So you’re suggesting women are having sex with men they don’t enjoy having sex with, which is why they have the ubiquitous lament of being used for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:10 AM
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To people they care for or their family members. Not to women I’m only interested in fucking. Then it becomes the price you pay, and you’d rather it was free.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:11 AM
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How can you be so stupid to equate the two? I feel zero pleasure in paying for someone’s else’s meal. I do feel pleasure during sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:41 AM
2

Women don’t like to explicitly say what they want because it’s a psychological issue with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:12 AM
2

So why are they offering hookups or agreeing to engage in them if they are so detrimental and makes them unhappy?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:23 AM
2

Why do way more women than men engage in FwB, hookups, and situationships if they are so detrimental to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 05:48 PM
0

Why do way more women than men engage in them if they are such time wasting dynamics?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 05:47 PM
1

Fist you say women don’t desire FwB and hookups and nothing good comes out of it, then claim the women engaging in them are happy. Which one is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 05:46 PM
4

Why does every “single” woman in her 20s and 30s have FwB and situationships then? If I look at university girls and workplace women I can’t find one who hasn’t got something going of such sort. I can lose count of guys who have no non platonic contact with women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:52 AM
3

What’s wrong with short term relationships and FwB?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 05:21 AM
5

That’s not true. Most women meet all their sex and intimacy needs with FwBs
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 05:18 AM
5

Why don’t they get FwB’s ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 05:17 AM
13

Women’s lonlineless: casually dating, hooking up, having fuck buddies and situationships but “lonely” because they haven’t found the ‘soul mate’ yet. Men’s loneliness: zero positive interactions with opposite sex. They are different things
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 05:15 AM
1

Is Jenny portrayed as exploitative?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 03:43 PM
1

Most young women’s male friends want to date/fuck them which creates a simping dynamic, whereby they get pseudo gf treatment w/o giving the bf treatment in return. When male friends finally get paired that dynamic is lost
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 07:07 AM
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It won’t stop short term flings and hookups. Most liberal, left wing, woke women’s fuck buddies are centrist, non woke, or even conservative men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 08:24 PM
3

Realize that almost all of these women are f*****g around with tall, hot broke guys. The money requirement is for average looking husbands they’ll eventually marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 12:23 AM
2

They are attracted to fewer men
/r/MensRights22/11/23 04:45 AM
1

They too despise the men who jerk off to them. The respect is mutual
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 03:11 AM
1

This is so true. A man being emotionally vulnerable is for her benefit, not his
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 03:01 AM
1

Your viewpoint doesn’t hold true given women initiate 80% of divorces Also, even if it’s true, it simply means women have their fun and settle down, and men (some men btw) settle down and have fun later. Where’s the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 06:54 AM
1

So what? The men who don’t have easy access to sex are willing to commit and emotionally invest as a result. Why are you women giving easy access to some men and then bitch about how it fucks up the whole dynamic?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:16 AM
1

Average looking men are willing to court and emotionally invest in women who aren’t whores. They will try to hookup first as they’ve learned from how women engage with hot men, but if they are convinced the woman is not a whore and only has sex in serious relationships, they will wait and invest emotionally. That’s the difference between Chads and a average men. All men will take the path of least resistance to sex. Chad will either compel good non whore women to fuck or he will avoid them. Aver…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 02:56 AM
2

Average looking men are willing to court and emotionally invest in women who aren’t whores. They will try to hookup first as they’ve learned from how women engage with hot men, but if they are convinced the woman is not a whore and only has sex in serious relationships, they will wait and invest emotionally. That’s the difference between Chads and a average men. All men will take the path of least resistance to sex. Chad will either compel good non whore women to fuck or he will ignore them. Ave…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 02:56 AM
1

Why don’t you go on a matrimonial website/app instead of whore-maker apps like Tinder and Bumble? Oh wait, because there aren’t enough male model you can match with on there
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 12:16 AM
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They will keep springing up in new packaging. Tbh the undertones of RP and BP ideas are mainstream now. For instance you have a regular outlet post a video on dating and relationships and all you see are RP and BP tinged comments
/r/ExRedPill19/11/23 06:06 PM
0

Again, there are mediocre looking women who have a lot of casual sex. Whether they feel fulfilled from it or not is besides the point. Telling them their hedonism is courtesy of men’s low standards elicits vitriol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:40 AM
1

Men are disgustingly horny yet no mediocre, below average, or unattractive woman has ever benefited from said disgusting horniness, yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 09:43 PM
0

Short, middle aged, weak women with mood disorders get laid left and right though
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 09:28 PM
-1

He’s right. Most liberals deny this
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 09:26 PM
0

The appeal of wealth, experience, wisdom, refinement to women is also largely exaggerated.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 09:28 PM
14

These women are full of shit and hypocritical. They consider 80% of men as ugly and have the audacity to talk about pressures women have to live up to
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 09:55 AM
1

The views and followers drop
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/23 06:38 AM
-3

Why make Insta public if you’re just doing it for yourself?
/r/ExRedPill11/11/23 10:14 PM
2

For views, attention, validation, followers
/r/ExRedPill11/11/23 10:14 PM
-1

But most women nowadays have a value system in their minds and being used as a fk hole is empowering/validating if the guy is way above their leagues and is a Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:01 PM
-2

Don’t men’s low standards benefit you? You’re able to have situationships with men way above your leagues courtesy of said low standards
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:51 PM

You’re ok with being Chads fetish though
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:49 PM
2

They are there and only visible to male models. On dating app a barely average looking girl is equal to a male model so the algorithm is designed to match ‘equals’. Do a little experiment with a male models pics and you’ll see.
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 05:49 PM
1

They base their assumptions off Chads
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 05:46 PM
1

So you agree if it comes to sex alone you only want to fuck Chad or no one
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 03:48 AM
3

Wtf are you talking about? Men jerk off to the fantasy of easily available women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 03:47 AM
1

Most men marry their first or second match, that’s how
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 06:58 AM
1

Doesnt explain why more women are dating and in relationships than men.
/r/ExRedPill02/11/23 05:28 AM
1

They enjoy casual meaningless sex with Chad
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 03:13 AM
1

Many women put men into the hookup box and LTR box. They seem to be the majority
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:08 AM
1

Single women do date multiple men to evaluate them, have hookups, situation-ships, and f-buddies.
/r/ExRedPill30/10/23 05:51 AM
2

So you’re saying you’re either a woman’s type or you’re not, and you don’t have to go out of the way to pursue and court women?
/r/ExRedPill30/10/23 05:44 AM
1

Women have more options so men have to compete. Women have to compete for the affection of a very attractive man too
/r/ExRedPill30/10/23 05:42 AM
1

Bisexual men and women both agree that dating women is way harder than men. Men are a lot more easily satisfied and less demanding
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 12:27 AM
1

But isn’t it ironic that you find most men who would choose you specifically and purposely, physically unattractive? That most of you women would spend your lives waiting on hot men who use you as a interchangeable cum dumpsters to choose you specifically and purposely?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 07:48 PM
1

It’s up to women to exclude genetically gifted manwhores from their serious dating pool. Obviously women cannot afford to do that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 07:42 PM
2

The hobbies, lifestyle, and persona that attract women can be different than what men enjoy. A lot of men are into sports, reading books, gaming, nerd stuff, career, money making, hanging out with the boys and enjoying guy humor, etc. A lot of people are introverts too and don’t necessarily enjoy small talk. You clearly have different standards for what’s a good personality for men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 07:41 PM
1

You are being intellectually dishonest. Women don’t need to have interesting hobbies, ambitions, or have the ability to have interesting conversations to get laid. Most women who get laid a lot have very mundane lives and wallflower personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 07:35 PM
6

It’s a curse for unattractive men. Unattractive women get laid left and right
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:52 AM
5

Woman who had a lot of casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:39 AM
5

Women who are retired slvts
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:22 AM
1

Is it as big of a variance as millions of women bullshitting on surveys that loyalty, kindness, humor are the most attractive traits that make a man sexy?
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 01:56 AM
7

Not true. Women are incredibly hypocritical regardless
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 12:55 AM
6

Why are they generally annoyed at men for excluding promiscuous women from marriage market then?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 12:54 AM
5

Paid sex is to men what Tinder hookups are to you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 12:53 AM
1

Why are you ok with casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 12:51 AM
17

What can you expect from them but hypocrisy?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 12:43 AM
0

You would still find the sight of it arousing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 06:46 AM
1

A lot of women even say they don’t necessarily prefer being penetrated by large penises, but they are visually very appealing and can arouse them just by the sight of it, much like female genitalia can arouse us.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 06:44 AM
1

Women engage men with big dicks differently. Like a deep admiration and a sense that this man has something naturally desirable and wanted by many women. They will treat sex with him on equal terms
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 06:18 AM
1

How is that possible when the core principle of blue pill / anti RP is that such women are a small minority?
/r/ExRedPill23/10/23 10:31 PM
1

Kinda ironic isn’t it. As a man we need to be at the greatest period of our lives - in the best shape, at our best looks, confidence, lifestyle, sociability - in order to be promiscuous, but you can be at your lowest to experience the same.
/r/ExRedPill23/10/23 01:23 AM
1

You mentioned ‘when someone is promiscuous it is usually not a great period in their life’ which means it must be incredibly easy to be promiscuous.
/r/ExRedPill23/10/23 12:36 AM
1

Are you sure women who just want to play the field (do hookups, flings, FwB) a narrow subset of women?
/r/ExRedPill22/10/23 10:07 PM
0

Most comments here say it’s easier for women to have casual sex, so your comment is confusing
/r/ExRedPill22/10/23 10:05 PM
1

He likes promiscuous women and would love to have casual sex with them
/r/ExRedPill22/10/23 10:03 PM
1

Why can’t he also make the ‘mistakes’ and learn from them instead of being told by other people it’s not worth it?
/r/ExRedPill22/10/23 10:02 PM
1

I think he’s suggesting that as a man he needs to be conventionally attractive to be promiscuous
/r/ExRedPill22/10/23 09:58 PM
1

The best way is to experience hedonism yourself. Why not go through that phase of your own as well, so you come out of it more secure and open minded than before?
/r/ExRedPill22/10/23 09:52 PM

I was satirizing the average woman’s reply
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:00 PM

Why aren’t platonic connections with women sufficient for you? Sex and romance are a privilege and there’s no science behind it. Trying to understand who’s successful at getting sex and romance is the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:11 PM

This can work for a man who’s at least average in looks and give him one or two dating options a year. It won’t work for below average looking guys
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:08 PM

And? These things don’t create sexual and romantic attraction on their own. They’re just the bare minimum required to function socially
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:06 PM

You do realize this is Reddit not a dating app
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:04 PM

That is a misogynistic expectation and you’re not entitled to romantic interest
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:01 PM
3

Yes. It will be common knowledge by that time but no one will call it BP. It will be something that goes without saying. No one will remember that BP and incels paved the way
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 09:27 PM
1

Therein lies your problem: inability and unwillingness to listen to statistics and trends. Here’s another one: 65% of men under 30 are single vs only 30% of women Another one: 60% of women on Bumble have set height filters to exclude men under 6ft How does your brain process these statistics and trends?
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 06:25 PM
3

Yet chubby women get laid left and right, and have boyfriends lined up. How come men’s ‘words’ have no adverse impact on the actual dating and sexual options of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:22 PM
1

Saying women are more selective and find way fewer men physically attractive than vice versa is hate?
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 04:55 PM
1

Why can’t 10 people who disagree with BP come in your support and logically disprove the BP viewpoint?
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 04:52 PM
1

NYC is pretty brutal from what I heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:41 AM
2

Women can still get 'other' boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:55 AM
1

You also need to have a hot face like a male models. 6ft guy with male model face and average body will do way better than 6'4" guy with average face and gym body
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:50 AM
3

Disconnect between what they say and what they pursue
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:47 AM
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How tall and conventionally good looking does the 'wholesome man' needs to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:46 AM
-4

Wouldnt it depend on how hot the guy is than a general rule/boundary to not hookup?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:45 AM
-7

Have you had your fun with super hot guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:44 AM
1

Men cheating is due to desire for variety. Not because of getting with a genetically superior specimen. Women's cheating is almost always due to their need to have sex with genetically superior men than their husbands
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:43 AM
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By pretty much every woman we interact with platonically (mother, sisters, female relatives, aunts, friends, colleagues). Most women who wonder where this myth emerged from, would be telling their teenaged sons the same bullshit if they were struggling due to looks, years from now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:41 AM
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Porn does not increase men's standards for women's looks. If it did, ugly, fat women wouldnt get casually laid left and right
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:39 AM

That’s his point. Men are meant to be lonely, unloved, and undesired. Getting older doesn’t really change much for majority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:54 AM

What he’s saying is that with age women’s SMV drops at a steeper rate than men’s. Of course the average woman’s SMV is infinitely greater than the average man’s to begin with, so at 50 women still win in absolute terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:51 AM

Yes, but women’s off peak SMV at 45 is still infinitely more than the vast majority of men her age.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:48 AM

How many 25 year old women have 45 year old fuck buddies?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:47 AM

Not an incel/Blackpill concept. BP accepts that women have infinite SMV and most women will get hot young dick till retirement age and sometimes beyond.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:44 AM

Women don’t need a romantic relationship to experience things that one is supposed to do in relationships. Women can easily get sex, intimacy, attention, validation, companionship via casual dating, hookups, situationships, flings, and f*ck buddies.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:42 AM

Being single for women is not the same as for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:39 AM
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Tell other women to be more honest like you
/r/AllPillDebate19/10/23 06:28 AM
2

You're male or female? Your reply to OP implied you do agree banning dating apps will restrict women's options more than men's. ​ So what difference does it make if they meet those guys online or in person? I'm not advocating banning dating apps personally, but let me put it this way. A male model wouldnt socialize with a below average, overweight chick. He wont have anything in common with her mundane life and wallflower personality. He wont dance with her at the club, buy her drinks, and chat …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 11:20 AM
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Its unfair to place the burden of saving the society and preventing population decline on men's shoulders. Individual men, like individual women, are not concerned with it. If women's biology is inconsistent with a high pairing rate then what can/should men do about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:41 AM
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If you ban dating apps, you are going to restrict both men's and women's options. Your knee jerk reaction was that it will harm women's interests/options a lot more than mens. Any reason for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:32 AM
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Women here are themselves saying very few men are physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:45 AM
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Ok, but how will ‘socializing with peers’ prevent them from observing the dynamics of the hookup culture they will inevitably encounter, and reaching the same RP/BP conclusions on their own? The influencers merely amplify the isolated observations millions of young men already make individually.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:41 AM
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That’s how you misinterpret it because it makes you defensive. What’s wrong with just acknowledging the simple fact that women are way more selective and find way fewer men physically attractive than men find women? How does being dishonest about it benefit anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:36 AM
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I’m assuming you have a 20 something university going / young professional yuppie in mind, and the vast majority of girls in his age group invariably crush on, chase, casually hookup, and have FWB with conventionally hot guys regardless of their own looks. I’m not taking about who they’ll end up marrying.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:31 AM
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Sure, but a barely average looking woman can casually bang male models on Tinder. Would it be reasonable for her to expect the same kind of men for serious relationships and marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:21 AM
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Why don’t you believe in the concept of compatibility? Compatible in terms of looks, height, fitness, lifestyle, career, etc. Is compatibility not enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:20 AM
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I and most men here want honesty about this topic. Why are you unwilling to acknowledge that women find way fewer men physically attractive than vice versa, and this is what causes the imbalance in the dating realm?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:13 AM
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They will still come to RP/BP conclusions after said ‘socializing’. They’ll see who their female friends chase and hookup with
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:03 AM
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Why do you get defensive when you encounter the fact that women are way more shallow, selective and find way fewer men physically attractive than vice versa?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:58 AM
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Whether he gets to fuck women or not would depend on how good looking and tall he is. Women nowadays say they can hookup with hot men without liking them. Why are you so intellectually dishonest?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:51 AM
1

Looks. Most men are struggling to meet women’s requirements for good looks that have increased dramatically over the last few decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:47 AM
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Why are women unwilling to explicitly admit this? They say everything that supports this
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:39 AM
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Not at all. Why do you think way more women than men feel they’re compromising on physical attraction?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:37 AM
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How is banning dating apps = forcing women to date men they’re not attracted to? The women can still date men they’re attracted to they come across in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:35 AM
2

So you agree women are hypergamous and find very few men physically attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:33 AM
2

Why is it way easier for fat women to find bfs than Vice versa?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:28 AM
2

There are way more men who’d date morbidly obese women than women who’d date morbidly obese men. Why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:19 AM
0

Who’s partaking in the hookup culture? It’s certainly not average looking men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:14 AM
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Why can’t women be more honest about the fact that their standards for physical attraction are very high and very few men are able to meet them? When we talk about the 80:20 rule, why do women become defensive and deny it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:12 AM
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Your standards are about looks and height, but you lie they’re about personality and character. Why can’t you be honest about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:09 AM
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You’d have to do some of these things for men above your league.
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/23 08:03 AM
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Women are desperate for Chad just like men are desperate for average looking women
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/23 08:00 AM
1

So you must be conventionally good looking
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/23 07:59 AM
1

So why do only a very small percentage of men experience this? What causes the disparity? Patriarchy?
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/23 07:58 AM
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It is hard to argue with women when their worldview is so warped.
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/23 07:56 AM
1

Amazingly, Asian women will tell you they are oppressed ones in White culture
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/23 03:55 AM
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I think male model looks can mitigate all these concerns of women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:58 AM
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You have to look like a male model. That’s the only type of guy they are naturally interested in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 04:36 PM
1

Explains ‘femcels’
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 04:34 PM
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Again, you’re just blaming the symptom rather than the cause. The influencers are just reacting to what’s valued in the hookup and dating scene by young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:09 AM
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If he’s straight he’s definitely want to hookup with girls. Why are you blaming him for it? When he sees most girls his age crushing on, chasing, and hooking up with hot/gorgeous guys isn’t he going to try to emulate them? Yes, you are out of touch with todays dating culture. Girls are extremely shallow about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 06:13 AM
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So you must be 8+ facially, ok height, fit, and possibly White. Do you see mediocre and below average looking guys getting hookups?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:49 AM
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Why don’t you address the dating standards of girls his age?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:47 AM
1

We can love but need to be women’s type
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:45 AM
2

Yet, liberal women casually f*** misogynistic men as long as they are hot
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:41 AM
3

The average woman in America is overweight and poorly dressed but still does great in dating and hookups
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:35 AM
3

Yeah, they’re attracted to male models
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:34 AM
1

And what do you see at the Ivy League hookup scene?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:33 AM
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Your grandpas also didn’t see your granny’s hooking up with guys way above their leagues and demoralizing them as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:32 AM
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What can straight men do if they want to partake in hookup culture?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:28 AM
1

Where’s the problem?
/r/MensRights09/10/23 05:52 AM
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Being 'single' means different things to men and women. Women are happier single, because they still casually date, hookup, and have FWB arrangements with hot men. They still have simps, orbiters, and friend-zoned guys who take them out on dates, give them attention and validation. They still have situationships going on. Being 'single' for men means zero contact with women in any sexual or romantic context.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:21 AM
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Its a scale and some RPers sway more towards BP while others not so much. What you have described is a very outdated view btw, that has little significance when women become financially independent and are encouraged by feminism to seek sexual pleasure. 60% of college going women are having hookups nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:55 PM
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RP agrees that based on looks alone, women are incredibly more shallower and selective than men, something which you as a woman would also agree with. It then claims that men can compensate with other things to varying degrees. BP claims compensation is either not possible or not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:19 PM
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Majority of late Millennial and GenZ men agree with this. The ratio is increasing steadily because there is just too much evidence to ignore. As more and more men attempt using dating apps and fail miserably, as they observe the hookup culture in colleges, and see women on social media talk about their situationships with super hot men, only a small group of woke men would be left in denial Yes, I do think this belief itself makes one redpilled because bluepillers aggressively deny that women ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 09:33 PM
1

Have you been to a fucking university?
/r/AllPillDebate07/10/23 09:26 PM
9

The fundamental view that women are far more shallow, selective and find way fewer men attractive than vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 09:10 PM
10

The fundamental view that women are far more shallow, selective and find way fewer men attractive than vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 09:08 PM
0

Men struggle to find relationships because they’re not good looking and tall enough. Not because they see women as inanimate objects. Why can’t you be more honest about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 06:56 AM
1

Why do you separate men into two different categories
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 06:41 AM
1

That actually makes promiscuous women even less suitable for serious relationships for said less attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 06:38 AM
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Any reason for their pathological need to downplay the importance of looks? What do they achieve from it?
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 03:27 PM
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It can never be about looks in the blue pulled world. They are pathological about it
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 03:26 PM
2

Why don’t men think this way about inexperienced women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 01:32 AM
2

Being respectful is inconsequential to sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 01:30 AM
2

How are they having sex then? Why the hell aren’t women excluding them from sexual market?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 01:29 AM
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Women will say contradictory things that suit them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 01:24 AM
1

He is a woke male feminist who pathologically defends women in online arguments. He is usually married for long so doesn’t care about dating dynamics, is cucked, or make believes he is celibate out of choice
/r/AllPillDebate23/09/23 12:11 AM
2

True. We cant expect women to support men in the same way that men support women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 08:15 AM
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Men are a huge part of women's support system btw
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 08:14 AM
1

Isn’t that what Blackpill says? Accept that genetics and good looks are the most important thing and just find meaning in other things because you most likely wont be desired by women?
/r/ExRedPill19/09/23 06:59 AM
1

Why does self improvement backfire?
/r/ExRedPill19/09/23 06:56 AM
0

If he's above her league looks wise, why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 02:00 AM

Why do you only find 5% of men physically attractive? Shouldn’t 20 to 30% of young men be reasonably attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 12:18 AM

It’s not just attention. Single women are happy because they can easily get sex, love, companionship, intimacy without relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 12:15 AM

Being single means totally different thing to women. They still actively date, have hookups, flings, fuck buddies, get validation from male friends and orbiters, etc. They truly experience life differently. Their dating struggles begin where our dreams end
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 12:12 AM
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I don’t think women would care or even notice if 60% of men left the dating pool suddenly.
/r/AllPillDebate17/09/23 05:58 PM
1

Same with the "nice guy" who's pretending to be nice just to get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 01:49 PM
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Two faced like the dreaded 'nice guys' who are just being nice to get laid? I thought being disingenuous and two faced was the most hateful thing to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 12:48 PM
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A 6'3" handsome but unemployed guy can bang half the women in 5 mile radius nowadays, while a $200K salaried 5'7" average faced ethnic tech geek would be an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 10:01 AM
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Not that far. That would take several decades. But the cultural impact of AI is near
/r/AllPillDebate17/09/23 01:21 AM
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They are not close friends with women they're not having sex with. They are great 'socializers' of course because they're tall and good looking. They socialize well with the women in their circles, but dont befriend them platonically. They go straight to fwb or just remain acquaintances with women. And this is besides the good looking, hot men who are very reserved socially, dont have large circles of friends, yet get laid left and right with their ample f-buddies and one night stands. Why the h…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:36 PM
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Large “friend” groups means they have a lot of acquaintances and socialize well on a shallow good vibes level. They are not real friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:01 PM
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How do you explain hordes of women whining about fuckboys and manwhores?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 04:54 AM
1

Men need to be good looking and charismatic to even sleep with women at the bottom
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 04:52 AM
1

I wonder how women feel reading advice such as this. Must suck for them to be so self unaware
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 04:51 AM
1

She’s saying ‘in addition to being good looking’.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 04:49 AM
1

Many guys who get laid a lot have absolute contempt for the ‘slvts’ they bang casually and don’t care about at all. How tf is that possible?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 04:46 AM
2

Stop changing the goals post from casual sex to ‘getting a gf’
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 04:45 AM
1

There are hot men who don’t believe in friendships with women, keep them at arms length yet bang them left and right.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 04:44 AM
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Men need to be conventionally goodlooking to be hedonists. Women dont
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 04:41 AM
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Why is it hateful to say women are way more shallow and unforgiving on looks than men causing the gender discrepancy in dating and sex? Why are you afraid to acknowledge it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 04:40 AM
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Yet the conventionally good looking men do none of this yet get laid left and right. Truth is women need none of that effort from a physically attractive man. They too want the physicality of sex. You’re just making excuses for the fact that women are just way more shallow and selective about men they find physically attractive enough to F***
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 04:34 AM
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Yet despite all the slut shaming, women still partake in hookup culture more than men. Gtfo
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:09 AM
2

There are some things which distinguish men from women. Logical consistency is one of them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:07 PM
1

The question was "Do truly average men struggle to date and have sex?" The answer is Yes. Why the f are people denying it then? I was merely responding to the denial
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 06:36 AM
1

Truly average guys don’t have a dating life and can’t do the singles lifestyle - flings, hookups, one night stands, f**k buddies. They can only hope to settle down in a long term relationship. Obviously the intellectually dishonest blue pillers will overlook this reality
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 01:48 AM
1

Look again closely at the ugly guys, short guys, scrawny and overweight guys. Is their dating life easy?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 01:46 AM
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Marriage and even long term relationships are for low value conventionally unattractive men now. Women are far too content being personal concubines of hot men so there’s absolutely no incentive for them to get into commitment let alone marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:07 PM
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