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That may be the problem. I'm on the road to become Chad, but it's too win her back.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/17 06:48 PM
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Damn that is hard core. I don't think I have the. Outage to do something like that
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/17 06:05 PM
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We are in a dynamic where we talk a lot (both very verbal) and are close friends. I've been stfu more but she's been on a tirade lately of talking my ear off
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/17 05:56 PM
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I took her back, because I thought I still loved her and my children were suffering. I won't be having sex with her ( just rough quickies) if she misbehaves.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/17 05:55 PM
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I've lost about 10 Lbs. but prolly gained the same in muscle mass. With shirt on, getting more attention then I have ever past teen years. Thanks for the detailed reply. Arguments in the car have always been a minefield. Regarding DEVI I feel like a fish out of water. It's always been about her pleasure, not mine...so often times there is confusion and uncertainty in the bedroom. I'm on new territory. I haven't explored my needs for so long. Frequency and longer duration times are important. She…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/17 05:52 PM
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I think the disrespect comes from her ideal which is very feminist. Basically women are all powerful and women should be put on a pedestal ( she's said these exact words) and that "real" men serve, take care of women and do what they are told...lol
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/17 05:43 PM
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Thanks. First time in my life having some type of frame. This relationship and my willing participation in it has ruined my life. My frame does feel very fragile at this point and I need to make a distinction between shit tests, comfort tests and downright disrespect. It has been difficult without the experience to tell the difference
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/17 05:40 PM
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Yeah. I could be happier with Red Pill knowledge & Wisdom I now know. But there is history and family to consider. That's why I'm working on this one more last time. The easy route would be to leave
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/17 05:37 PM
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Thanks for the feedback. I'm still stuck in the "newb gains" mindset. I've seen exponential increase in sex that I think subconsciously I might getting lazy. Had my first rejection this morning. Just left to work. Going to the gym later. I have a lot of work ahead of me. Beta bitch tendencies definitely starting to surface again. Thanks for helping me see it.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/17 12:28 PM
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She has been doing this over the last few year probably encouraged by her therapist. Says that I've been emotionally abusive and codependent for more than a decade. News to me. Like she is this grand victim and I've been some evil perpetrator for years. I always wondered about it because it usually comes up when she's throwing volleys of shit tests.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/17 07:19 PM
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She has mentioned this before. I think it might have been encouraged while in therapy (she's been going alone for years). As far as branch swing, I wouldn't be surprised. Haven't found any hard evidence. I'll read up on gas lighting. This tactic really turns me off drives me away 100%
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/17 02:36 PM
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Exactly. I used to work hard to satisfy every need as a beta. It was never ending
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/17 05:51 PM
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Stings like a bitch!
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/17 04:26 PM
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Yeah! I amazed she's doing sexual things I've never seen before. I'm still pushing for anal, squirting orgasms and more frequency Great insight. Definitely wasn't ready for this new level of hysteria. Things have been calm or "dead" (bedroom) for a while. I've been beat down, ignored, manipulated for so damn long I'm rushing this process. I hate that RP is right. I hate that I was sold a bunch of bullshit for more than a decade. I know there is other pussy out there that will treat me better.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/17 01:27 PM
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I guess I am a Rambo. I'm expecting instant results when it's been a beta shit show for more than a decade. The thing is the effort has been the same. It's that I've been in her frame for a decade and working "her plan" so I'm entering RP from a point of almost giving up anyways.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/17 01:08 PM
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Yup. I've read it. So much of RP is about being badass, awesome, confident, cocky, lifting, taking care of shit...that true, I've kinda been light on the fun part (anyways with her)
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/17 01:02 PM
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Need to read up on comfort tests. Not really up to speed on them
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/17 12:59 PM
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Oneitis and she knows it. She's looking to branch swing. Let her go. Work on your own shit
/r/askMRP17/06/17 09:57 AM
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She probably cheating on you. That's the only thing that explains the this behavior. Or she's and entitled bitch with a serious princess syndrome. Your ducked either way bro.
/r/askMRP17/06/17 09:45 AM
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Yeah she's used to beating down a beta for years. #1 Don't take any more verbal abuse. Tell her, "if you can't talk to me like a calm adult, I'm gone" Then leave. Do not tell her where you are going, do not answer texts. Come back really late, sleep on couch and see how she behaves at breakfast. Rinse and repeat.
/r/askMRP16/06/17 11:19 PM
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Need to mix it up. You have a friend girls you can hang with. Work on jealously bro
/r/askMRP16/06/17 11:15 PM
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2 weeks? What you look like? Dress like? She sounds like she super not attracted to you anymore
/r/askMRP16/06/17 05:24 PM
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First never "talk about getting engaged" so boring. A man has to literally give up his life for you to pop the question so you have to make home want to. How about taking an extended trip? Taking a break? Moving on? That will be the only way to ever get him to commit. He doesn't get you without the ring and a date.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/17 05:23 PM
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What defines you when you think of life partner. Religion? Ethnic, cultural background, values, ethics, education, lifestyle. The reason why I ask is the answer may be simple with a little introspection.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/17 09:30 PM
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Yeah. Same thing has been happening with me. She ignores me or puts other priorities ahead of me and I'm thinking, "wtf am I even doing here?" This bitch doesn't give 2 fucks about me...lol. I guess the solution is to leave, but I already leave for work, weeks on end. Lately I've been thinking a lot about getting my attention elsewhere. She's stepped up in the sex dept. but this feels like it's gonna be a long fucking road to hoe.
/r/askMRP15/06/17 05:48 PM
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Couldn't even finish this post it was dripping with blue pill bullshit self righteous condemnation. On your shit, left, lose weight, plate your ex and stop being a beta bitch. You have the knowledge they'll start gaining more and most of all start enjoying your life and stop being a blue pill victim and if you really want your wife back go-getter big deal she cheated. You could choose to move on
/r/askMRP15/06/17 09:58 AM
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If you could make his comment about taking the stairs some type of joke like saying " sorry bud, I'm only a gentleman for fine ass chicks" or maybe "yeah... I could take the stairs, but I'm an inconsiderate lazy fuck...haha"
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 01:11 PM
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Yeah. That's the dream isn't it. But the problem is in the shot term he's laid the foundation of being a beta bitch and she's already denying him sex. Huge red flags
/r/askMRP13/06/17 06:50 PM
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Yeah up. That's adrenaline and you should be careful. Big fake alpha guys can and will beat you I sometimes if they feel you crossed some line. This is a good learning experience. Asserting yourself without getting your head bashed in.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 05:41 PM
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This. Obviously you aren't worth shit to her. Just a convenience. If she is pulling this now... you are doomed
/r/askMRP13/06/17 03:23 PM
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Well, I guess we all get lucky sometimes a strike gold. Congrats! Now your challenge is to push her boundaries of what she will do for you and to you.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 01:33 PM
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cool. It would be helpful if you got more into the verbal back and forth interplay. Right now it sounds like you steamrolled asshole frame. But it worked...so why GAF
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 01:30 PM
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She's an immature child. If your into that , fuck her. Maybe it'll sound like Japanese porn with might be interesting. Stop trying to understand women...thats the main issue Im hearing
/r/askTRP11/06/17 01:28 PM
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Whoa this LTR is a train wreck. Dude...never get her shit. WTF are you a puppy dog? Next time tell her to let you fuck her in the ass first!
/r/askMRP11/06/17 01:26 PM
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Great Report. It sounds like you just spat da truth as harsh as it sound. Something obvioulsy refreshing about a man that truly speaks his mind...hopefully in a witty/sarcastic tone with sexualized overtones next time. Good Luck!
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 01:24 PM
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Interesting question and good assessment, but I would challenge you to DNGAF. Hot chicks should be approached the same as mediocre ones. Consider it a challenge and move on. You might be surprised how "clingy" a hot chick is. They are so used to and bored of being catered to that they will easily fall for an equal or better.
/r/askTRP11/06/17 01:15 PM
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She escalated to anal on the first date? something about this post seems too good to be true!
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 01:11 PM
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yeah...I would have voted against "saying" it. Everything in your post screams you are her bff. Acta Non Verbal. It never what you say, it what you do. She shouldn't be ordering you around and playing games. You should be telling her what to wear and how to act. You need to sexualize her clothing line and make dress up time a sexualized space
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/17 01:07 PM
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Dude... your sounding a bit autistic in your comments. You might be missing a few insights here
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/17 01:15 AM
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Yeah besties doesn't go well with supposedly how alpha you are. You might want to reevaluate. She ain't your bestie... just the best thing right now. Try shifting that dynamic (getting a real male best friend) You need to up your game
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/17 01:09 AM
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Wth? Lived with home for a whole year? 14 age difference. Do you have friends or parents that gave you advise? We're you under 18? Because that's called statutory rapr
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/17 10:54 PM
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You sound like a teen. Have a life. Don't be a door mat. Learn to spot a phychopath and run. You jumped into bed with one.
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/17 08:38 PM
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Get into therapy. Obviously you have self esteem issues. No one should be allowing themselves to be treated like that. You are the issue! Work on yourself
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/17 08:25 PM
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Agree. This is high level game. For most newbs, just approach (quantity of quality) and escalate. Fucking simple
/r/TheRedPill29/05/17 09:13 PM
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Over analyzing cues from women will just confuse newbies. Go for quantity and score victories
/r/TheRedPill29/05/17 03:31 PM
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You might be able to salvage your LTR but you are going to have to seriously change. Your boys are property of the state. Your woman is liability not an asset. Quit bitching and whining and show her you mean business. Get back to work and make a man out of yourself. If you can't be faithful through the process or if she wants to ball and chain you...it'll fall apart anyways. So are you going down fighting or are you going down as a whining beta bitch?
/r/TheRedPill29/05/17 05:12 AM
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Women act all sorts of wierd ways. Don't pay attention to there cues. Just keep pushing forward with you game....don't be a pussy...get that number
/r/TheRedPill29/05/17 05:08 AM
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Why analyze it so much. It's not like it will take a lot of time. Maybe he's spontaneous. Your goal is to meet lots of guys...even if it's just for coffee.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/17 05:05 AM
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There is a piece of the puzzle that RP and your way of thinking misses...imho. I've been trying to put my finger on it and I'm not quite clear...but here is my best try: Approaching and bedding women is not going to create meaning in your life. Being abused in a beta LTR is not going to give you meaning either. Meaning, challenge, significance, "happiness" are very complex challenges. A women, children, career, passion are all still possible I believe with full knowledge of RP. Not easy...but no…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/17 04:12 AM
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Get frustrated as hell, stay up all night, get depression. Lift...conspire, plot and in general focus on making money
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/17 06:01 PM
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Yeah. You you started to late. Not your fault. It's a cultural/societal misdirection. Stop "trying" to have kids and just focus on having "sex". If it happens great, if not, wasn't meant to be. At worst adopt.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/17 10:00 PM
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Yeah...no fap has it's place. Esp. for younger guys that grew up with internet porn. Major ED issues. As older guy...guess I'm lucky. I think lifting, clean diet and not being obese helps a lot.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 02:59 PM
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Stop monitoring his social media. You are playing mommy role. If this "boy" wants to get off on "ex fwb" on fb & Instagram...soft next him. Have some self respect and stop doing what you are doing...It's pathetic.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/17 12:51 PM
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I have a feeling things went wrong months before this happened. Don't get complacent. Make here sweep the floor next time. And wtf are you letting her be all over her phone when she's with you. Drop her at a Starbucks if she a social media whore...lol
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 04:02 AM
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It ain't the location. You need to focus on abundance mentality. You are in serious "lack" mode. It ain't the girls it's you! lol
/r/askTRP24/05/17 09:20 PM
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The problem is the history you have. I've been implementing RP in my LTR but with limited success. The problem is that they "know" the past you and they won't believe the new you for months, maybe years.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/17 06:15 AM
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You don't do shit cuz you put your dick in crazy...now you bio material is going to be fucked. Guess it's time to go screw another one, rinse and repeat...lol
/r/askTRP22/05/17 06:32 PM
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Timing is not right. He's obviously not that interested in you unless their is fwb sex involved. Why not just have him give you an orgasm and then rush out...that would be hilarious...cuz you'd be using him and he'd probably put up with it...lol
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/17 06:30 PM
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Slowly start stockpiling hiding cash. Get into business/investments that aren't traceable. Emotionally detach from his children. They use parental bonding to enslave you. Dngaf
/r/askTRP21/05/17 08:51 PM
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You can turn gay...you might have more luck with men?
/r/askTRP21/05/17 08:32 PM
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Totally agree. You've been played from a mile away and you can't even see it...lol. Just up your dread game and lift. Get rid of Snapchat loser
/r/askTRP18/05/17 01:39 AM
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