Holy shit test I think this was a major shit test? Looking for feedback on how I handless it.

so first off I've been busy. Been working out 4 times a week. doing overtime and taking care of my shit around the house. secondly I'm really enjoying just not giving a fuck lately. So the wife love to buy stuff and return it immediately god knows why. But often she will look to me to talk her into keeping it. Which I often do. Whatever. But at this moment I really didn't have the time or any desire to stop what I was doing and give her my full attention. So when she asked me what I thought of the dress that she was taking back I said great keep it. Then she said but I should take it back. I responded then take it the fuck back. I get a pouty look and continue to do what I was doing ( packing my gym bag and packing for a trip we are taking this weekend) She then gets out a jacket she has to show me how well it goes with the dress. Calls me into the next room to see the shoes. I say looks great. And go back to what I was doing. she grunts in frustration. At this point I'm thinking there's more to this behavior. keep in mind she wasn't even wearing the dress or the thought of just fucking her would have come to mind. But she just in her pjs. now she breaks out a pair of shoes that match the dress. I'm like for fuck sake just keep the dress. she says again but i should take it back. Then I say ok take it back. She responds you're not even paying attention to me! LIGHT BULB goes off. This is about attention. But I was like fuck it she is acting like a bratty child and I'm not rewarding that kind of behavior. So I just ignore. She marches down stairs. Jumps on social media or what ever prob to get on line validation from some bitch ass orbiters. This is where it gets more interesting. I finish what I'm doing go down stairs to say goodnight. And she says oh by the way I accept your apology. I say for what I didn't do shit. She says not paying attention to me. I just laughed smiled shook my head and said no. Went to bed. She continued to pout. funny thing she didn't come up to bed until about midnight. Makes me wonder exactly how much online validation she was getting. Should I really give a shit Probably not Thoughts on how I handled my shit?

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