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Well by all means then, enjoy your career... and your cats!
/r/RPChristians10/07/26 09:30 AM
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Also, I have no biological children of my own, only stepchildren. And I'm ok with that. So no, I've never experienced the pain you're going through because it's not an issue for me. I have simply accepted God's will and proceeded accordingly. And He has blessed me abundantly. I'm curious though: if you didn't come here for advice, what were you hoping to get from us? I ask sincerely; maybe I'm missing something?
/r/RPChristians26/04/26 11:54 AM
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I'm guessing you don't come here regularly or you would know that this is a tough love kinda place. We tend to be blunt in our responses because the rest of the world wants to give people a hug and tell them everything will be okay. That being said, it was not my intention to come off as hurtful, just bluntly honest. The fact that you've gotten the same response from everyone tells me that you're unwilling to face the reality of your situation. I get that your wife is struggling and it causes pa…
/r/RPChristians26/04/26 11:49 AM
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You're in the wrong place if you're looking to hear what you want to hear. My advice is the truth you don't want to hear.
/r/RPChristians26/04/26 02:01 AM
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You say it's what you want, but God seems to have closed that door. Rather than stubbornly proceeding anyway by looking for alternatives, why not read Genesis 16? Abraham attempted to circumvent Sarai's closed womb by impregnating her handmaid Hagar; look how that turned out... If you REALLY want children, there are plenty that need to be adopted into a good home. I think you and your wife are being stubborn and selfish, and need to repent.
/r/RPChristians26/04/26 01:16 AM
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Here is a comment to motivate you to stay quit. I'm 18 years sober, and my life is completely different than it would have been if I had kept smoking.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/26 09:53 AM
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What part of considering, buying, and planting a field is ‘limited to the home?’ What does ‘the home’ even mean in this context? “The home” in Scripture refers to the household sphere under ordered authority, not a physical building; her work is explicitly oriented toward her household: “She looketh well to the ways of her household” (Proverbs 31:27), showing her work serves for the support of her household rather than redefining authority structures. Can a woman not work even if her husband app…
/r/RPChristians27/03/26 07:03 PM
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Is fully compatible with your definition of Biblical patriarchy. The statement is not incompatible with Patriarchy, but it is incomplete. Scripture defines those “roles” with real authority structures: “For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church” (Ephesians 5:23), which establishes not just distinction, but ordered headship. Complementarianism…typically limits male headship to the home and church Which means "not definitionally" You’re actually supporting m…
/r/RPChristians27/03/26 06:00 PM
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Edited to add my other comment that was to you in the other post: Complementarianism and Egalitarianism ARE heresies. They both violate God's headship order, which is Biblical Patriarchy. Oh...of course, that makes sense. Ok, here's the comment copied and pasted if you care to expand on what you wrote above, my response to your comment above will be below the line at the end: Paul says the husband and wife relationship is patterned on Christ and the church (Ephesians 5:22-32), which means the fr…
/r/RPChristians27/03/26 04:42 PM
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It is. This post on Reddit Help gives details. Can't say for sure that's what happened, but it's likely. I can see his posts, comments and history just fine.
/r/RPChristians27/03/26 04:23 PM
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OP's post, comments and history are intact. Maybe he blocked you? I think the guy was pretty much right on most of the things he said, even if he used a lot of words to say what could've been said in less words. In my experience, nearly everyone who speaks this way 1. does it anonymously online, not in person (in other words, they are duplicitous cowards), and 2. has some personal sin angle they are working. I absolutely agree with you on this statement. However, at the time I'm writing this, th…
/r/RPChristians27/03/26 04:10 PM
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Complementarianism and Egalitarianism ARE heresies. They both violate God's headship order, which is Biblical Patriarchy. I expanded on that in my other comment.
/r/RPChristians27/03/26 04:07 PM
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Paul says the husband and wife relationship is patterned on Christ and the church (Ephesians 5:22-32), which means the framework runs in both directions. If the wife is to the husband as the church is to Christ, then we, as the church, are in the covenantally feminine posture before God. Sit with that for a moment, because it reframes everything. Every behavior the Red Pill identifies as corrosive in a wife maps directly onto what the Western church, and frankly most Christian men, are actually …
/r/RPChristians27/03/26 04:05 PM
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For the PE problem, you're young so consider it a warmup. Take a few minutes and go a second round. Or you can have her blow you first, you finish and rest a bit, then round 2. Simple. For the ED, it's likely just finding your groove. Focus on pleasing her when this happens, and then let her get you revved up and ready to go. It's psychological, so if you both treat it as natural and no big deal it'll pass. It keeps happening because you think she's gonna judge you or think less of you - you nee…
/r/RPChristians05/03/26 01:52 AM
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God wants to be first in your life. He is a jealous God (Exodus 34:14) and deserves first place. Take some time and put Him first by reading your Bible, praying, sharing the gospel and doing good works. How often do you read your Bible? Pray? Share the gospel? When you put your relationship with God first, He will bring the right person at the right time. *"Delight thyself also in the LORD; And he shall give thee the desires of thine heart." * Psalm 37:4
/r/RPChristians13/02/26 01:34 AM
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Hey we're not a dating platform. Removed.
/r/RPChristians04/02/26 01:51 AM
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How many of those resulted in a date?
/r/RPChristians03/02/26 02:22 AM
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How many cold approaches have you done since uninstalling the app? How many women have you actually asked out face to face?
/r/RPChristians02/02/26 09:39 PM
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That's a great way to look at it!
/r/RPChristians24/12/25 12:48 PM
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You're welcome brother.
/r/RPChristians24/12/25 12:14 AM
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Nope. It's neither. The Bible is Patriarchal. Once you understand that, then you also understand why modern versions are a problem with their gender neutral language. Read James 1 in the NIV and then read it in the King James and you'll see what I mean.
/r/RPChristians23/12/25 11:44 PM
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You're welcome brother. Let me ask you a follow-up question: is the Bible primarily Complementarian or Egalitarian in its approach to marriage?
/r/RPChristians23/12/25 09:15 PM
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This is exactly the problem with subject headers in the newer versions – they were put there by man, not by God. When you read Ephesians 5:21 Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God. That goes with the verses before it, as part of the subject being discussed in verses 1-20. Paul is speaking to the church as a whole, within the context of the church body. Beginning in verse 22, Paul changes gears and focuses on the wife/husband relationship specifically: Wives, submit yourselves u…
/r/RPChristians22/12/25 06:51 PM
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Good call on the Rule 2 violation.
/r/RPChristians20/12/25 11:43 PM
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Rule 2. Post your stats then message me and I'll unlock the post.
/r/RPChristians20/12/25 11:42 PM
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Oof, don't be a Florence Nightingale.
/r/RPChristians06/12/25 01:16 AM
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Nope. Start fresh. The guy God has for you will be thankful you don't speak to this guy anymore. Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results.
/r/RPChristians06/12/25 01:14 AM
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You're worried about how someone new will react when you're still talking to the guy you fornicated with. This is putting the cart before the horse. Block this guy, then you'll see more clearly. And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother's eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye? Matthew 7:3 Stop focusing on feelings and focus on obedience to God's word. Be honest with anyone you date who asks. We all have a past, let your mess become your message by living holy in…
/r/RPChristians06/12/25 01:10 AM
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It's a rule that was created to determine how much of the problem is your physical condition / lack of attractiveness, which factors in heavily.
/r/RPChristians26/08/25 10:12 PM
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Are you and your girlfriend having sex?
/r/RPChristians18/08/25 11:13 PM
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That’s why I’ve carved out one specific day each week for deep Scripture reading and focused prayer—it helps me recharge and stay grounded. Still, I’ve been wondering: would it be more effective to incorporate shorter, daily sessions throughout the week instead of relying on one long block? While one day is certainly better than no days, think of the Bible as food for your spirit: would you sit down and eat a 7 course meal once a week and then eat nothing for the next 6 days? Of course not, that…
/r/RPChristians28/05/25 01:46 AM
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Spiritually, I pray twice a day This is good. and devote time to Scripture every Saturday Why aren't you reading your Bible daily? This is a big part of your struggle. my analytical nature has taken me deep into its history, compilation, and theology. Because of that, my understanding of the Bible isn’t always “mainstream,” but I try to keep my faith grounded and not let intellectual exploration get in the way of conviction and obedience. Sounds like you read the writings of man more than God's …
/r/RPChristians27/05/25 10:25 PM
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A reddit dude starting a post about his physical appearance and bragging about his knowledge of the bible does not scream godly man. We require stats to be posted for relationship-related posts. He followed the rules. Godly women are supposed to submit to a Godly man because he's making godly decisions that are good for the unit, if you're not fulfilling that role you can't in good conscience expect her to fulfill hers, it'd be hypocritical (Matthew 23:28). This is a misrepresentation of Scriptu…
/r/RPChristians27/05/25 10:16 PM
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This is a good word!
/r/RPChristians18/05/25 09:18 PM
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u/Environmental-Top346 had a great answer. You simply reset every single day.
/r/askMRP03/05/25 10:57 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/4clb60/had_a_fight_last_night_help_me_parse_it/d1jr3ej/
/r/askMRP03/05/25 01:50 AM
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This is an EXCELLENT summary of what MRP is about. They are there not to save the relationship, but the man - IF he's willing to shed the ego and do the work.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/25 01:38 AM
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Here's a list that was shared years ago by OrlandoTheAxe, you may find it helpful: Welcome! Here are some tips that have helped me in my ongoing battle. I can't speak much for sleeping around outside of marriage, but the principles are the same. 1. Make a firm commitment to sexual purity. Burn, throwaway, or delete any sexually explicit items or media that you own. Install blockers on your devices if you need to. Don't indulge one last time before going on a streak. Start today. It is a life cha…
/r/RPChristians18/04/25 03:32 PM
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Stop wasting time with an unrepentant woman. This is the mother of your children you could be speaking about This is a good word. And I gave her space to repent of her fornication; and she repented not. Behold, I will cast her into a bed, and them that commit adultery with her into great tribulation, except they repent of their deeds. Revelation 2:21-22
/r/RPChristians25/03/25 11:37 AM
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The only starting point for faith is whether it is true or no This is absolutely true, and should be seriously considered by anyone thinking about becoming a Christian. [16] For if the dead rise not, then is not Christ raised: [17] and if Christ be not raised, your faith is vain; ye are yet in your sins. [18] Then they also which are fallen asleep in Christ are perished. [19] If in this life only we have hope in Christ, we are of all men most miserable. [20] But now is Christ risen from the dead…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/25 01:33 PM
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I use the 1611 King James Bible after many years of using the NIV and the NKJV. The 1611 has shown itself to have power in my life that other translations have not had. Also, as just one example compare the accuracy of 2 Samuel 21:19 ESV: “And there was again war with the Philistines at Gob, and Elhanan the son of Jaare-oregim, the Bethlehemite, struck down Goliath the Gittite, the shaft of whose spear was like a weaver’s beam.” KJV: “And there was again a battle in Gob with the Philistines, whe…
/r/RPChristians02/03/25 12:47 PM
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You need to develop your Mission.
/r/askMRP14/01/25 10:50 PM
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Removed. Rule 8.
/r/RPChristians08/01/25 11:04 PM
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This is a good word. It would also make a great post.
/r/RPChristians14/12/24 05:14 AM
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Sometimes she asks for money before we can make love. "How much for anal?" would be the question I would ask next time she does this. When she balks, tell her "Prostitutes charge, so I may as well get my money's worth." Then say "No thanks" and leave and go to the gym.
/r/RPChristians12/12/24 06:06 PM
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There is nothing in the moderator log showing that a mod deleted any of your posts. Additionally, as a mod if a post is deleted / removed I can still see them, highlighted in red. They are not there. Also, if Reddit removes a post the title will change to [Removed by Reddit] and the text will not be visible even to mods. They are simply not there. Unless you mistakenly removed them yourself, I'm not sure what happened.
/r/RPChristians07/12/24 04:25 PM
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I'll reply to all your comments here for clarity: I agree with this, but I don't completely agree that regulations on behavior are useless. They certainly do not change the heart, but I think they can, to a very limited extent, protect people from the generally evil inclinations of the human heart. You misunderstand me, I didn’t say they were useless. We agree on this. You are preaching what is known as the Social Gospel, which is heresy. I generally like CARM's articles, as they've written a lo…
/r/RPChristians25/11/24 06:53 PM
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The activity level here is determined in large part by the participation of each and every one of you. If people step up and write decent posts, the rest of us are more than happy to comment. As far as other forums, not Christian AND Red Pill. This place is what people make it.
/r/RPChristians25/11/24 01:29 AM
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Martin Luther King Jr. said, "Morality cannot be legislated, but behavior can be regulated. Judicial decrees may not change the heart, but they can restrain the heartless." This is the crux of the problem really, because what needs to change is the heart. Jeremiah 17:9 says, "The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked: who can know it?" How do we change the heart? One person at a time, thru the power of the gospel of Jesus Christ. Only the indwelling Holy Spirit has the powe…
/r/RPChristians06/11/24 03:42 PM
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I’ve found girls respond like Pavlovian dogs in heat when you don’t take their shit seriously. Anything they say to get under your skin can be skillfully turned into a reverse Jedi mind trick pressing their attraction buttons. The key is to take nothing they say at face value. I’ve mentioned this before — AMUSED MASTERY is the attitude you want to project. Everything she does is cute. All her shit tests are bratty outbursts. Her silly little opinions are adorable. She is there for you to tease a…
/r/askMRP30/08/24 04:05 PM
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"You never say that in the bedroom." (wink)
/r/askMRP30/08/24 03:57 PM
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Because you don't pass a Shitty Comfort Test with A&A
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/24 11:37 PM
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What you are looking for are what are called "springboards" to start an open air gospel message. Here are some links that will help you: https://livingwaters.com/store/downloads/springboards-for-budding-preachers/ (free pdf download) https://livingwaters.com/springboards/ (audio clips)
/r/RPChristians15/08/24 10:49 PM
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I firmly believe that the vast majority of people in the church (all denominations) are not saved. And the majority of them don't know they're not saved. I wholeheartedly agree. Because of this, I have started to explore the concept that it is faith alone in Christ alone, not theological purity, that is important. To the extent that "faith" is legitimate, saving faith I agree. I believe that people of faith may be found in all denominations. Just as false believers may be found in all denominati…
/r/RPChristians30/07/24 06:02 PM
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They definitely put a higher focus on the role of works in salvation, much more in line with the language from James than from Paul. But that's not necessarily wrong as long as they agree that faith is required. Because I will agree that works is required, but I place works as evidence of conversion rather than an element required for conversion. This contradicts Either way, a true convert will have works. And they seem to be agreeing that it is faith in Christ that is required for salvation. th…
/r/RPChristians27/07/24 01:28 AM
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This is an interesting statement. I have been looking into the orthodox church as I think they have done a better job keeping the spiritual traditions of christianity than other sects. I am curious what you mean by the statement that they are not born again and where you find that in their tehology. Ok, the Orthodox will tell you that they are born again disciples of Christ. But so will the Mormons. And the Jehovah’s Witnesses. And all the Protestant churches that are alphabet-affirming. But is …
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SPIRITUAL: Currently an inquirer at an Orthodox Church, attending our previous Baptist Church every other week or so, as my wife isn't ready to make the transition (but to her credit she insists that wherever we attend church we do so as a unified family). I don't know how anyone can transition from a Baptist church to an Orthodox one, unless you really don't know the Bible at all. While the Orthodox have many good spiritual practices, they are not born again. You must be born again to enter the…
/r/RPChristians25/07/24 11:00 PM
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I think you need to ask the Spirit to guide you on that. Because you may not be withholding sex, but she is withholding a relationship. If you read further in 1 Corinthians 7 you will see this passage: And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband: 11 But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband : and let not the husband put away his wife. 12 But to the rest speak I, not the Lord: If any brother hath a wife th…
/r/RPChristians20/06/24 04:58 PM
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But tell me what you mean by denying yourself, how you think that would look in my situation, and why you think I'm not doing it. Stopping fantasizing about this girl would be a good step. I'm also gonna say this: continuing to live separately but sleep with your wife and spend time with her is giving her what she wants right now. I'm not saying to get divorced, but you should cut off all contact with her and focus on you and the kids. She's dead to you at this point anyway so eliminate her from…
/r/RPChristians20/06/24 02:56 AM
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After briefly moving back in with my wife, I moved back out at her insistence, rented a place nearby, and negotiated a 50/50 schedule. This decision has been costly to me, but I have seen my daughters grow and heal from the dad deprivation I let them endure for years. I think that makes it worth it for me. You do you but I think this is counterproductive to your marriage. You said a year ago that You and I talked about my situation two years ago (on RPC -- I had to delete out), and you asked me …
/r/RPChristians20/06/24 01:53 AM
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This is a good word. Welcome back brother!
/r/RPChristians18/06/24 12:30 AM
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She's doesn't mean "Why would any woman be interested in talking to you?" What she's really saying is "Why would another woman want to talk to you when you're with ME?" Female solipsism at its finest. It was never about you - it was always about her.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/24 12:11 AM
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"But sanctify the Lord God in your hearts: and be ready always to give an answer to every man that asketh you a reason of the hope that is in you with meekness and fear." 1 Peter 3:15 😎
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Matthew 19:3-9 “The Pharisees also came unto him, tempting him, and saying unto him, Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife for every cause? And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female, And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh? Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put…
/r/RPChristians11/06/24 02:22 AM
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We are moving to a cheaper state soon and I will be able to work and she will stay home. Look at what you wrote in your post and ask yourself how her staying home will work out for you: The underlying issue is more so she is bad at scheduling her life and it creates a ripple with everyone around her, not just me. So she will be a SAHW with no time management skills, and will not get things done around the house because "bad at scheduling". Also, you said in your OYS last year "I like the idea of…
/r/askMRP29/05/24 02:33 PM
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If you reveal your sexual past, it could lead to a conversation about her sexual past. Obviously she wants to avoid that. Thus, she will probably never ask you that question lest you turn it around on her. However if she does ask, throw it back on her and say "Well do you want to discuss YOUR past?" I bet she drops it quick.
/r/RPChristians19/05/24 07:51 PM
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We actually used to do a lot at the beginning of our relationship/marriage (eg bondage or even tried anal, etc), but like in a lot of other relationships it dried up over time Translation: you got lazy and stopped gaming your wife and putting effort into the bedroom. Why not just start doing some of those things again? Any advice for bringing back some of that kink that we had at the beginning? You need to lead in the bedroom. For example if you want her to blow you, put it in her face and tell …
/r/RPChristians19/05/24 07:48 PM
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It would. Drink your cup of STFU
/r/RPChristians19/05/24 04:26 PM
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Well, besides intercourse what else do you currently enjoy together? Oral? Roleplay? Tying her up? What non-vanilla things have you tried?
/r/RPChristians19/05/24 03:58 PM
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This is a good word.
/r/RPChristians19/05/24 02:40 PM
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I feel like I’m too far in to change anything and just trying to work on myself in terms of be quiet and lift, don’t bring anything up to her because it’ll make me look like I’m weak etc You are absolutely correct. STFU and lift. I lost my virginity to her (she doesn’t know this), while she was on the carousel before we met. I know the details of her past You're married. You've got kids. Suck it up and accept that this is the way it is, this is the life you chose. On the other hand why not take …
/r/RPChristians19/05/24 02:40 PM
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Absolutely not. As Steel said, it's a trap! Just focus on you and you alone. She will use NMMNG against you if you go that route. Glover was wrong on this part and has said so many times since the book was written.
/r/askMRP03/05/24 07:46 PM
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Yes. While there is no bad place to start in the Bible, these books in particular are the meat that will help you grow strong in your walk.
/r/askRPC23/04/24 05:47 PM
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You're Forrest Gump. She's Jenny. Watch that movie tonight to remind yourself why a hang out with her is a very bad idea. Don't give her the chance to guilt trip you into something you'll regret for the rest of your life.
/r/askMRP19/04/24 01:55 AM
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"One way or the other I will have a pregnant wife by the end of this summer. Your call." No DEERing, just a statement of fact and then Broken Record.
/r/askMRP17/04/24 10:51 PM
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It probably means "I will not submit to you", which is the opposite of ‭Ephesians 5:22-24 [22] Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. [23] For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. [24] Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing. However without more context this is simply a guess.
/r/askRPC28/03/24 01:28 PM
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I have had some situational anxiety around my still somewhat inappropriate relationship with another woman. I put boundaries up for her and have to defend them almost daily when I see her. It's weird, but good practice. Plausible deniability and a playful feigned innocence can work well here. Never let on that you think she's actually pursuing you, just play innocent like you have no idea. Still, I'm troubled that as recently as a month ago, failure to trust God led me to rationalize away my sin…
/r/RPChristians19/03/24 01:01 AM
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Time to say "no" to bad sex - including handjobs. "No thanks" would be better. It's a small but important difference that conveys Outcome Independence instead of butthurt. One of the things I've been struggling with is that a lot of her requests seem reasonable and I don't want to just be a jerk and say no when it's stuff that I can easily do. a lot of the saying no just feels like it would be petty when there's no reason that I couldn't pick her water up and refill it while I'm refilling my own…
/r/RPChristians19/03/24 12:54 AM
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Initiated Thursday night, she said she was tired and asked if we could have sex in the morning. I agreed. In the morning I initiated, she started taking comtrol and I told her it wasn’t working and disengaged. I just rolled over, I should have got up and walked away because she tried to get me to reengage and I was sex starved and weak enough that I followed her command. It obviously wasn’t going to work and it didn’t work but it meant that instead of walking away strong I was weak. Do you want …
/r/RPChristians18/03/24 04:58 PM
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There is more of a flow now since I've been busy with embracing the changes that are happening. I still get waves of resentment but they are much less overwhelming now. My wife didn't fully realize the role I had at my old job and I've received A TON of messages from my usual customers that are devastated with me leaving, some of them even saying that they will not support the business anymore since I'm not there. I didn't share with my wife that I was struggling with leaving with my job but she…
/r/RPChristians08/03/24 05:01 PM
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Welcome back bro!
/r/RPChristians06/03/24 03:34 AM
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Being socially apt starts with putting yourself in social situations with others so you can have social interactions. The amount of time you currently spend in solitary activities is the biggest factor in how you feel. I would recommend finding a place to volunteer somewhere, a place where you must interact with others on a daily basis. Perhaps a soup kitchen, the Salvation Army, etc.
/r/RPChristians05/03/24 11:30 PM
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What do you do with the majority of your free time?
/r/RPChristians05/03/24 11:14 PM
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What I fail to understand is what DO you tell your wife? A successful marriage lasts a long time. How long could I keep what is becoming a hefty chunk of my intellectual life a secret? I like having red pill books on my shelf. I like discussing my thoughts on the things of the world with other people, often times with women in the group. Conversations turn to feminism and gender roles fairly frequently. Am I gonna go 50 years without letting a red pill author's name slip after I've had a few dri…
/r/RPChristians27/02/24 02:17 PM
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This could be difficult to do without looking weird and butthurt. Sex is ALWAYS after I get home from the gym, in bed right before we go to sleep. That's the ONLY time we have sex at home since the kid. Turning around and going back to the gym for a second workout at 10-11pm after I just got home from the gym at 9 be weird. Do I do that anyway or come up with some other excuse. No, you're right: that would be weird. You should work on changing the "have sex when I get home right before we go to …
/r/RPChristians26/02/24 07:21 PM
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194.6 lbs 26% BF (navy method). (Down from 199 and ~30% BF 2 weeks ago) This is good. She has this issue where she says her vagina is too sore to keep going after she’s had an orgasm. If I have an orgasm first this doesn’t change anything because I can get her off after me, but it if give her an orgasm during sex it ruins it because she says it’s too sore for me to keep going. I gave her an orgasm during sex so I had to settle for a handjob to finish. I may need to read some books on getting to …
/r/RPChristians26/02/24 06:18 PM
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Thank you for sharing your personal journey with me, what an incredible journey you’ve been on! I’m grateful that you’ve taken the time and have the patience to share what lessons you’ve distilled with us. Even the boundaries link in your post was extremely helpful! Thanks for the kind words! There's a lot more to that story here if you're interested. I’m decently muscular and sometimes I laugh at myself in how much I get overpowered by a meek woman who has 1/3 my physical strength, but I get do…
/r/RPChristians26/02/24 03:46 PM
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It boils down to not wanting to rock the boat out of insecurity in how others around me will view me with the addition of not having to be responsible for negative impacts of decisions. You stepped into a leadership role as a husband and never intended to lead. No worries, I've been there too. You need to read When I Say No, I Feel Guilty as soon as possible because it will give you strategies for dealing with the conflict. This led me to James 1:2-8. "The double-minded man is unstable in his wa…
/r/RPChristians23/02/24 01:26 AM
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Man I really love how you put this! I guess I have kinda known it for a while now but never really put it together in a way that makes the impact you did in what you wrote. You've inspired me to put together a lesson for our Sunday online church this week. Thanks for sharing!
/r/RPChristians22/02/24 03:07 AM
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based on what I heard there are some bigger issues I need to address. I've gotten better at leading the household, but I've been neglecting being the leader of our marriage. Can you expand on this? Be more affectionate outside the bedroom (kino, sure, but also giving her the feelz) The Way of the Superior Man is an excellent read for getting a different perspective on this.
/r/RPChristians21/02/24 06:30 PM
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Sex: no porn. Was told to reveal my struggle to my pastor. Haven’t made my way to that but I did do so with an elder and we are checking in daily. No more porn. Excellent! The accountability is the main thing, if the elder is willing to hold you accountable then that's just fine. Had an interesting encounter where I escalated physically and she paused us to let me know we would just be making out. I then paused to let her know that we would not and I cut her off completely and just started doing…
/r/RPChristians20/02/24 09:04 PM
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Backslid on my vices but I feel very good about my prospects of making big progress with them over the next few weeks with my therapist. I am excited to report back with some even better streaks going. This is a step in the right direction. However, you will likely keep struggling with this until you decide you're done. How do you do that? By deciding you want something better. As your life improves in other areas you will see the potential that getting free of your vices offers. It's about repl…
/r/RPChristians20/02/24 08:49 PM
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What makes you think you’re in a position to lead a small group when you struggle with leading your own life? That's a great question. I've asked a similar question of a pastor in the past who knew I was struggling with porn. He said that we all struggle with some type of sin and that it shouldn't stop me from helping. Let me put it a different way: you need to get your own house and marriage dynamic in order before putting more on your plate in the form of leading other groups. You will end up …
/r/RPChristians20/02/24 12:39 AM
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27% BF (BIA) This is the most important thing to change if your dynamic is to change. Your wife will ignore your needs as long as you’re fat. Currently reading: NMMNG Up next: MMSLP Are you doing the Breaking Free Exercises? Also, forget about MMSLP for now and read When I Say No, I Feel Guilty. It will help you much more at this stage. Mental/Emotional: Weak here. I am reading NMMNG. I don’t think that my nice guy problems come from where the book claims they do with abandonment issues and such…
/r/RPChristians19/02/24 06:46 PM
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My wife and I are in a tricky immigration situation with me staying here in Aus for my permanent residency vs. going back to the U.S. to maintain my wife’s green card. We live with room mates but have been looking for places of our own. The last few months we’ve had no luck but my wife’s boss has a studio on her property that just opened up. My wife wants to take it but it’s an hour from where we live so I will have to quit my job here (which is also for my room mates business) and apply for wor…
/r/RPChristians19/02/24 11:53 AM
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I don’t know if I would feel comfortable talking to my pastor about that but there are leaders I think I could trust. How long has he been your pastor? And if you can't trust him to share your struggles to live the Christian life authentically, then why is he still your pastor? Why sit under somebody you don't trust?
/r/RPChristians15/02/24 11:23 PM
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I understand that he's not going to dip his hand in and magically fix the dynamic between my brother and I, but that circumstance may change once I am fixed, no? I'm a bit lost by your pointing this out in reference to these paragraphs, if you could offer any clarification that would be appreciated. You said: All that to say that all this time I've thought that the extent of my mental needs was to either simply "do better" or see a psych, and that this part of my life is becoming that "one thing…
/r/RPChristians14/02/24 06:35 PM
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TL;DR: Hip is still cooked, physio next week. Gym still lacking because of hip. Imbalances are frustrating. Are you at least making progress with upper body work? Money: You know that dodgy advice you get from your brother about crypto? I've got some. Thinking about putting a fair bit of money into it. I'm not an idiot, I've got funds spread around as well as in savings can snag them in a pinch. This would temporarily halt any search for a new car, but obviously have great potential for a house …
/r/RPChristians13/02/24 07:35 PM
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VICES: Nicotine; I had 3 puffs from a 5% vape and a 5% ZYN pouch for about an hour on the same day, those were my only nicotine in 10 DAYS! I made it almost 10 days without Pron but stumbled when I actually had a dream about a vid and watched it on day 9, sad how deep in my conscious it is. Weed is still unfortunately a daily, HOWEVER there were at least 2 days last week where I was TOTALLY SOBER from all 3 which I haven’t had in years. Feels like progress but I know I can do better for Him. Gre…
/r/RPChristians13/02/24 05:37 PM
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Low effort post, removed. If you want to repost, please include a summary of the video per the rules on the Sidebar. Videos are allowed, but not posts with only a video link and nothing else. EDIT: I see in your comment history you claim to be a "bisexual Christian." For the record there is no such thing. You are in doctrinal error, please read your Bible, especially the passages regarding sexual sin.
/r/RPChristians12/02/24 03:10 PM
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Fitness/Stats: 21 years old; 5’9; 150; 10% body fat; 170 Bench (3x5), 225 Squat (3x5), 305 deadlift (3x1); I exercise for at least 1 hour daily. If there is surf, I go surfing. If not, I will go to the gym. On weekends I typically do something like rock climbing, biking, yoga, or anything to keep me outside or improve my mobility. You seem very active and fit. This is great. My girlfriend is in Florida for an internship for the next 4 months, she will often bring up “hypotheticals” of her being …
/r/RPChristians11/02/24 08:16 PM
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Ah yes, I've forgotten the type of breed that you'd normally be giving advice to. I've got no more than 2 hours each day on a screen. Most of that is reddit (on this sub or askmrp) or Facebook (including messaging people). I am a full time grass toucher. Excellent! You’re definitely the exception rather than the norm. my car is a bomb and costs me a fortune to run/fix, but I don't know if I can justify buying a new one because its may cost the same to maintain, except I'd be out of pocket at lea…
/r/RPChristians09/02/24 03:37 PM
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After only a month and a half of more consistent training more imbalances are becoming much more obvious. Left glute/left lower back weakness, something in my right hip, internally rotated left shoulder leading to little activation in the lat and tricep, but more in the pec and bicep. Opposite issue on the right side. Beginning to look like Quasimodo. Looking for a better physio who works with lifters/athletes to get a better idea than what my own research on YouTube can get me. Sexual: Still li…
/r/RPChristians08/02/24 09:20 PM
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That's great to hear! You would benefit greatly from watching the Third Adam documentary series, which focuses on heresy and doctrinal error in the modern Churchianity system.
/r/RPChristians08/02/24 01:19 AM
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Thanks again for your response, I shouldn’t have asked you to respond more, that was selfish, but I’m glad you did. We're here to help each other grow in our walk with Christ. How can we do that without responding? Don't worry about it, this is what I'm here for. It's not selfish, it's the whole purpose of OYS. What I don’t understand is why I’m so scared of sin in this world if I’m born-again. We want to please the Father, so of course we want to avoid sin and are frustrated with our inability …
/r/RPChristians07/02/24 08:47 PM
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but I would like to ask you to read the rest of my “professional” section. If I take the time to respond, I’ve read all of it. Since you’re focused on the fact that I dismissed the majority, let’s examine that: Professional: pathetic, I make like $30k a year between 3 part time jobs basically. Pertains to the professional section. This is part of why my ex dumped me because before her, I was only interested in making sure I took care of myself. Pertains to relationships; has nothing to do with p…
/r/RPChristians07/02/24 02:58 PM
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Game Working on kino escalation, text game, and being the mayor. On kino: knowing I'm not planning to bed other women makes touching them feel innocent, and it no longer bothers me. I found the “You will often want more than one woman” chapter of WOTSM to be very helpful to me in getting to this same mindset. Relationship & Sex Sex is on tap right now. I used to think this would be a big deal, but it's really not. This post sums up why quite well. I agree, once it’s readily available it’s kinda …
/r/RPChristians06/02/24 08:37 PM
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OYS #1 idk if I’m even “red pilled” but I learned about it about 2 years ago or so Welcome! BACKGROUND: 28, single, raised Christian, broken home, antagonistic father, take a mild antidepressant everyday for the last 3-4 years, addicted to pron (almost 3 days clean atm), nicotine (also almost 3 days clean), and Weed (high rn) Weed holds no value for the Christian. This should have no place in your life whatsoever. Take it from a guy who was high every single day for 23 years. It also stunts your…
/r/RPChristians06/02/24 05:15 PM
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This is a good word.
/r/askRPC05/02/24 10:54 AM
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I also however have an incredibly short memory for strong emotions, so I entirely forgot about that experience This is actually a great strength, because emotions often stand in the way of forgiveness and moving forward. Given the position I'm in, in regards to mission/frame/spiritual maturity/ability to lead a relationship, are dates really a good idea at this stage? A lot of Red_Curious' sidebar content leans away from marriage (and by proxy, dating) as a whole but it seems like you're suggest…
/r/RPChristians03/02/24 04:47 PM
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God's word does not prohibit it either. The Bible is a higher authority than denominational "approval."
/r/RPChristians03/02/24 03:32 PM
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So why not be born again and experience true freedom in Christ? What makes you want to stick with Catholicism? I was raised Catholic for the record, so I know the difference.
/r/RPChristians03/02/24 01:58 PM
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This is a case where you can either do things the Bible way, or the Catholic way. But you can't do both. The Bible offers incredible freedom in Christ on many issues, including this one. The Catholic Church offers rules. It's up to you which one you choose. Personally I would NEVER choose NFP. But then I'm not Catholic either.
/r/RPChristians03/02/24 01:17 PM
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Excuse my density once again, but what is doomer thinking? It's the mentality of "What's the use, it's not gonna work out anyway." Your comments Analogies are great at helping you paint whatever image you want to on a situation and Thinking that everyone hates me, convincing myself that's not true, but then I notice things happening that make it seem like people don't want me there. I was standing in a group of guys, we're all talking, then in the middle of sort of small talky group convo they a…
/r/RPChristians02/02/24 10:24 PM
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As for digging through old trash? Analogies are great at helping you paint whatever image you want to on a situation. I could argue its more like losing something valuable (although replaceable with something close to the original) through negligence and then turning your house upside down to find it again. (<more hamstering?) This is Doomer thinking. if it wasn't for the fact that I've somewhat tainted my image a little bit by having had my engagement announced during 2 church services (not my …
/r/RPChristians02/02/24 11:50 AM
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Went for a walk with my ex, made me feel like crap. Struggling big time with ONEitis. I'm feeling like an anxious 17 year old again Yeah you need to stop rooting through garbage. Iron Rule of Tomassi #7: It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you though…
/r/RPChristians31/01/24 03:40 PM
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It's called the Illusory Truth Effect, and it works whether you're speaking lies or speaking truth. If you're speaking things you wish to be true, the principle still applies and over time your beliefs about yourself will begin to align with your goals.
/r/RPChristians31/01/24 01:25 PM
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Daily affirmations in front of a mirror can be helpful to change your inner monologue, as long as they're realistic.
/r/RPChristians31/01/24 11:48 AM
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I had some orbiters that lead me to believe I was attractive enough to inspire that in others but now feel like my looks are fading along with my hairline and as you can see from my pathetic rambling (just realized I was doing this) I don’t have a personality that’s going to make up for it. Sounds like more Imposter Syndrome to me.
/r/RPChristians31/01/24 11:10 AM
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Talked to the HB 10/10 coworker. She actually sought me out and we talked for about an hour at the bar. While I talked to her I realized how uninteresting I was and just pulled away entirely. I didn’t see the point. She talked with you for an hour. Must have been a reason? I think you're experiencing Imposter Syndrome. On the seed it’s that I like what I like. It’s like painting a beautiful canvas and for a woman to take it willingly and enthusiastically seems ideal. Could be porn induced but th…
/r/RPChristians31/01/24 03:10 AM
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Of course I want to live on mission for Jesus but I don't know exactly how I will do it yet. Music is 85% about church for me. I enjoy music for its own sake but church is the main way I get to play music for other people. It's been a great avenue for inviting to people to church too. "Come watch me play." I get to play-act at caring that people see me, and if they come they end up seeing a worship service that glorifies Jesus. Don't you see? There's your answer. Why can't music be the framework…
/r/RPChristians31/01/24 03:00 AM
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I just want to make sure that when I commit to a mission, I'm doing it because it's really what I want. Meanwhile, I am trying to figure out what I actually enjoy doing so my mission can align with that. Ok that actually makes more sense. Here's something that may provide a different perspective on this: How to find God's will for your life.
/r/RPChristians30/01/24 08:54 PM
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SEX: Has been good lately, with me initiating a lot and it being fun every time. No problems here since my wife had a nuclear meltdown about rejecting me 1 week ago (OYS #13). She went nuclear, started screaming "I don't even know who you are anymore! You're a f****** a***! We're never having sex again, because I'm not having sex with an a***!" Sunday: She victim puked: "your behavior is unloving, I lost my best friend, I'm all alone," etc. She had a whole prepared statement she handwrote the ni…
/r/RPChristians30/01/24 06:17 PM
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Amen! The fact that non-believers get it but many modern "Christians" don't simply baffles me. There are certainly enough Scriptures in the New Testament that address our conversation that it shouldn't be controversial to say "Christians shouldn't swear." But then, most "Christians" look more like the world than Christ so what do we really expect?
/r/RPChristians29/01/24 03:45 PM
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This is a case of what you win them with is what you win them to. There have been many here who have argued that foul language is okay for Christians to use. And yet even worldly, unsaved people know that Christians are not supposed to speak that way. ‭‭1 Peter‬ ‭1:15 says,‬ ‭"... but as he which hath called you is holy, so be ye holy in all manner of conversation;" Curse words are anything but holy. Obedience to the Scriptures is not easy, but we are to please God, not men. Otherwise you are ju…
/r/RPChristians29/01/24 11:51 AM
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Because when I looked through his Twitter posts there was a lot of Red Pill, a lot of trad advice, but VERY little about Christ. I mean it's glaringly obvious if you look at it objectively.
/r/RPChristians28/01/24 08:55 PM
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I meant the truth comes out in this post. Someone with more knowledge gave insight on the guy i.e. the truth came out. How can you take a guy like that seriously when it comes to Christian advice?
/r/RPChristians28/01/24 08:53 PM
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Twitter takes up a lot more time. However, touché.
/r/RPChristians28/01/24 08:47 PM
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Didn't it come out that Chase (sovereignbrah) is banging his gf? While spending months on end morally finger wagging at those hoes on Whatever? To top it off he has a dating course to find your "tradwife" when he himself is not married. Hats off to the hustle, 1000% a grift. Take him seriously at your own peril. Lol the truth comes out.
/r/RPChristians28/01/24 02:14 PM
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And I also talked about how some may be "fitting God into" their lives and using this as an "add on" as opposed to it being the very essence of who they are. That's a guess, of course, and I said as much. This is exactly what I was getting at in my comments. You said it much better.
/r/RPChristians28/01/24 02:13 PM
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Maybe it's because most of us don't spend much time on Twitter, choosing instead to carry out our Christian life in person.
/r/RPChristians28/01/24 01:18 PM
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Check the percentage over the last 12 months. One Bible passage posted does not a Christian make.
/r/RPChristians28/01/24 04:50 AM
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Never heard of any of these guys besides Rollo, who is definitely NOT a Christian. I took a look at Sovereign Brah's Twitter page - tell me, which of his posts has anything to do with Christ and holiness? I think the "Christ Pill" in this case would be more accurately named the "Religion Pill."
/r/RPChristians27/01/24 10:01 PM
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These are very good observations about David. Even Jesus mentioned him in a positive way in Matthew 12, At that time Jesus went on the sabbath day through the corn; and his disciples were an hungred, and began to pluck the ears of corn, and to eat. But when the Pharisees saw it, they said unto him, Behold, thy disciples do that which is not lawful to do upon the sabbath day. But he said unto them, Have ye not read what David did, when he was an hungred, and they that were with him; How he entere…
/r/RPChristians27/01/24 04:02 PM
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In the context of hiding secrets from my wife, this passage sends chills down my back. What I am hiding will become common knowledge, not only to her but also to everyone. Eventually. One day these secret things will be headlines for all to read. My good choices are either to not push the beach ball down in the first place—not to harbor the secret—or if I do have something to tell her, let it gently surface under controlled conditions as soon as possible. “Honey, can we talk tonight?” you can sa…
/r/RPChristians27/01/24 03:47 PM
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You won't know unless you talk to them and share your concerns. Are they prepared to lose people who might otherwise come to church?
/r/RPChristians25/01/24 08:52 PM
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I’m not sure I am comfortable with the instating of a dress code like this, mainly for the purpose that if I were to invite someone in I want the main focus to be serving the lord and learning about his word and not whether or not we are dressing properly or breaking code. Why not go talk to that guy in person and address your concerns? I mean it's not a bad thing to have some sort of line with regard to how people dress, girls dressing slutty or guys dressing like they just came from a one-on-o…
/r/RPChristians25/01/24 04:04 PM
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How to find the motivation to succeed.
/r/RPChristians24/01/24 10:54 PM
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This is a good word.
/r/RPChristians24/01/24 10:44 PM
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My current job has allowed me more time for ministry, praise God!
/r/RPChristians20/01/24 10:56 PM
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Her family hates me. At first I let this weigh me down, and it took about three weeks to process through this. I'm not used to being hated. Thankfully, I'm at a point where I care little about what they say or do. Why do they hate you? And is this that same girl? Emotional regulation. I descend into dopamine loops on a very regular basis, using food and YouTube to numb issues that come up. While I may deal with the issues in short order, I typically try to hide from the feelings before I double …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/24 06:51 PM
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This is a good word.
/r/RPChristians18/01/24 03:26 PM
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The 4th one is even better.
/r/RPChristians17/01/24 10:31 AM
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It's a suggestion. Do it if it works for you, if not then don't. Just because the book is held in high esteem doesn't mean that the advice must be followed to the letter. For instance, his advice to share with your spouse has been shown to lead to more harm than good.
/r/askRPC17/01/24 02:17 AM
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This is why I've pushed Bible reading so much on here. Christians' lives would change dramatically if they would just read God's instruction book.
/r/RPChristians17/01/24 12:47 AM
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And he found an female pastor who told him it does, and she prophesied right then and there No such thing as a female pastor, only females who call themselves pastor. It's not biblical. He told me he learned little in that church as far as scripture. They were more concerned with spiritual gifts and speaking in tongues. Yet sometime passed and he grew in his understanding off the word. And saw the church people for what they were. Their prophecies false, their speaking in tongues mere babbling. …
/r/RPChristians17/01/24 12:37 AM
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That would be the Catholic Church.
/r/RPChristians16/01/24 11:42 AM
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But why do you guys supposed they cannot see their error? Churchianity has its roots firmly planted in Feminism, which says "Listen to what she says and focus on her feeeeeeelings - but don't watch what she does." The Bible is patriarchal, and patriarchs have the opposite approach.
/r/RPChristians16/01/24 01:29 AM
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Some good "Servant Leadership" posts: 1 2 3
/r/RPChristians15/01/24 01:17 PM
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Fix yourself and you will find that the healthy dating pool suddenly gets larger. Hot women who are truly living for Christ are almost always taken by hawt guys who are truly living for Christ.
/r/RPChristians13/01/24 04:41 PM
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“Doing everything for His glory” (1 Cor 10:31). Sure, it sounds great, but what does it mean for YOU? It's the Christian epitome of "getting in shape." Too vague to be practical on a day to day basis. Christians need to have goals. Doing everything for his glory is a good Vision, but doesn't translate to Mission very well because there's no specifics. The thing about Paul is, he wrote enough of the New Testament letters under direct inspiration of the Holy Spirit to write about what this means e…
/r/RPChristians13/01/24 04:36 PM
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This is a good word. Welcome back brother!
/r/RPChristians13/01/24 04:32 PM
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Mission: nutting it out. Something by way of Youth ministry or teaching in some regard. I want an intentional family, not some "lets have kids for the sake of it" rubbish, I want to raise kids to be leaders in whatever they do, to be a stronger generation of Christians than mine, and certainly the last. I think you can only influence someone else's kids so far. This is a good first step. However, you need to spend some time nailing down the specifics. To do this, to break it down with a framewor…
/r/RPChristians13/01/24 04:32 PM
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Ephesians, 1 Corinthians, 1 Timothy, 1 Peter and Colossians to learn about biblical submission and headship. Titus to learn proper expectations for the conduct of a Christian husband and wife as required for elders in the church (the higher calling). Philippians to learn about Christian growth and sanctification in your daily walk. Proverbs to learn wisdom and prudence. James to learn proper control of the tongue in your everyday speech. Psalms to learn to praise God together the way David, a ma…
/r/askRPC12/01/24 02:02 AM
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Whoa! Welcome back.
/r/askMRP05/01/24 01:49 AM
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She was testing you to see if you would bring it up. You didn't, right? Test passed.
/r/askMRP05/01/24 01:48 AM
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It’s hard trying to develop my own frame while ultimately submitting to Christ’s. Feels like a tight rope. Think of it this way: if you are an officer in the military you submit to your commanding officer, right? Would you feel like your leadership frame is futile because you don't ultimately call the shots? Of course not. You actually can have better frame because the rules of the game are clearly defined and you've been given your orders. You can defer to authority if challenged or questioned …
/r/RPChristians03/01/24 08:01 PM
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I would say I have been born again but my sin takes over. All born again Christians face this to one degree or another. It lessens as we grow and walk closer with Christ. I myself have even described the Old Testament as the book of the dead to describe how man can’t live without Christ and the new as the book of life showing how Christ gives it. I like this! I've heard it described this way: The Old Testament is the New Testament concealed; and the New Testament is the Old Testament revealed. I…
/r/RPChristians03/01/24 06:45 PM
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The real answer if I’m honest would be to leave my life behind and make porn. That’s actually the honest answer. Not practical or rooted in any kind of Christian life. I have to accept that that isn’t my life if I want to follow Christ. Lol. Sounds great. You sir are a double-minded man. James 1:5-8 says, "If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him. But let him ask in faith, nothing wavering. For he that wavereth…
/r/RPChristians03/01/24 03:52 PM
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Objective: come to a conclusion on faith Objective: Achieve 180s and 15% body fat Objective: hit the next 6 figure threshold Objective: Put finances on auto pilot - see IWTYTBR Objective: HAVE COPIUS AMOUNTS OF EXCITING SEX Objective: Do fun things with my boys Objective: to write book and record album. Objective: regain social status of life of the party and center of attention. Why I am here: Figure out what I actually want and need to be fulfilled . Your objectives and your "Why I am here" st…
/r/RPChristians03/01/24 12:03 AM
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Mike Winger’s YouTube videos on Bethel church are a good counterpart to this as well. I'll check him out, thanks for the recommendation!
/r/askRPC02/01/24 01:08 AM
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Is my wife SAHM? No she is not. She’s working too. I have my MIL that helps take care of the baby, and my wife helps take care of the baby most of the night (8 PM - 3 AM), and I take him when I come home and between 3-6 AM. He’s also not the best sleeper and will wake up every 1-2 hours since 8 AM. So yea, I do feel that responsibility to help. And I do want to spend time with my son. Maybe it would be best to hire some help then. In lieu of that, at least hit the gym on the way home, it's the e…
/r/RPChristians01/01/24 09:58 PM
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Lifting started well and then tanked in consistency. Mainly since I help take care of my kid early in the morning. And late during the day, when I got back from work, the mom got so tired I had to help take care of the kid. Any suggestion on lifting consistency while caring for a 1-year-old is appreciated. Does your wife work, or is she a SAHM? If she's a SAHM (and I suspect that this will be your answer), then you need to help, sure. But you don't need to jump in and do everything for her becau…
/r/RPChristians01/01/24 06:42 PM
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Agreed. STFU is THE easiest and most important thing for new guys, next to lifting obviously.
/r/askMRP31/12/23 04:49 AM
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This is a really great turnaround from where you started. Now the question is, how will you keep the momentum going? Do you have other ideas for Variety besides roleplay? After all, you don't want to box yourself in to roleplay as the only way to make sex good. Excellent FR with the focus on YOU - where it should be.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/23 10:40 PM
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This is a good word.
/r/RPChristians19/12/23 11:14 PM
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I got on board with Dave a few years ago. I've been debt free except for the house since 2020 when I paid off my car with the stimulus check. Just paid off the house this summer. I'm completely debt free. The feeling of having that financial weight lifted off your shoulders is something you have to experience firsthand to truly understand. My wife comes to me to ask permission to spend larger amounts, and she's an authorized user on my Capital One card (I get app notifications when the card is u…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/23 06:02 PM
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sometimes when I think of her being with other men it disgusts me. She’s told me that she’s disgusted with her past and has repented of it. God thinks about you doing all the sinful things you used to do in your past and is disgusted by it. You've told God you are disgusted with your past (hopefully) and have repented of it. This is how God sees you. Yet Christ, "In whom we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of sins, according to the riches of his grace", has put it behind him in…
/r/RPChristians25/11/23 04:56 PM
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I have no idea how people are responding to multiple chains of my post within their comments. Is it not a mobile feature? Your second comment is a reply to your first. My comment was a reply to your reply. It's just the way Reddit is structured. I have not done well this week with STFU. we aren’t interacting much at all because she is so sick. Touch sets off her gag so I can’t comfort her. I am doing my best but it’s hard not to operate in her frame. I understand, but I'm also betting that she's…
/r/RPChristians22/11/23 12:34 AM
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Weakness:I have to say that the manipulated man is a hard read. I have rage naturally. This is infuriating to me because it’s as true as it gets and it’s only gotten worse. If I don’t deal with my anger I’m gonna go MGTOW I can feel it. Then read something else for now. When you've gotten yourself more under control, go back to those books that made you angry. Quit porn, weed and alcohol the day of the fast. I had done this a few months ago but as pointed out by others, I was just using cheat co…
/r/RPChristians21/11/23 09:01 PM
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This is such a naive and unhelpful answer- and it reveals and spreads a total misunderstanding of what apologetics are. Paul used apologetics in the New Testament. Although some people do misuse apologetics and in a combative way, that does not in any way mean it is completely focused on contention. Let me clarify: I said “Apologetics are only going to cause contention, because he has his views and you have yours.” Notice I said “are only going to” cause contention, not “Apologetics only cause c…
/r/RPChristians06/11/23 02:09 PM
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Do you guys have any suggestions on apologetics I can try to help my brother accept the divinity of Jesus, and separate him from this cult? No. Because you are trying to convince your brother through an intellectual discussion instead of through the power of the gospel. Apologetics are only going to cause contention, because he has his views and you have yours. But what does the Bible say? "For I am not ashamed of the gospel of Christ: for it is the power of God unto salvation to every one that …
/r/RPChristians05/11/23 11:33 PM
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Anyone who calls themselves "Apostle" today is in error. And what does the Bible say about women teaching and having authority? The New Apostolic Reformation is particularly dangerous because of its heretical teachings, check out this video which breaks it down in great detail.
/r/askRPC30/10/23 11:07 AM
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That's a whole new kind of "boner."
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/23 01:23 AM
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I'm a Complimentarian. I think women were created to help Man become fully Man [Genesis 2:18]. “And the Lord God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.” A help meet is a helper that is suitable for him. Women were not created to help man become “fully man”, that’s nonsense. Women were created to help men. Period. Also, Complementarianism does not exist in the Bible. The Bible word for the dynamic you speak of is Patriarchy. The Bible is clearly p…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/23 01:09 AM
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"Your feelings are yours and you have the right to feel how you want. However I don't feel the same way, and my feelings are valid as well. We'll have to agree that we see things differently."
/r/askMRP20/10/23 01:00 PM
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Mid call she raised her voice on me about something minor, so I checked her, "listen, next time I'll not be ok with you talking to me like that, and it's not the first time either". I have laid boundaries before Translation: "I accept you talking to me like that this time, and I know there will be a next time." Better response: "You're out of line. I'm gonna hang up and do something else if you don't check yourself." Next day I figured we're past that nonsense but turns out that's where the tric…
/r/askMRP20/10/23 11:13 AM
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Yeah, go sit in your car, great advice. That will show her! Lol not really. It's about withdrawing your time & attention to go do something you enjoy instead. If you value yourself, then you will value your time and attention and not give it away freely to someone who doesn't want to do the things you enjoy. Funny thing: when you are stingy with your time and attention, it usually begins to be seen as valuable.
/r/askMRP12/10/23 12:39 AM
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Of course. She knows you want sex, it's a congruence test. But she doesn't want you to state it directly either, that's the trick. But this requires you to initiate instead of always positioning yourself to respond to her initiations. The difference is an important one.
/r/askMRP11/10/23 11:39 PM
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Example 1 from before I found MRP: wife says she doesn’t want sex while we’re kissing. I said I wasn’t horny either. She pinned me down, grinding and shoving her tits in my face, saying “you know you think I’m sexy” and “you really don’t want this?” She wanted you to initiate. I said I didn’t and told her to get off of me. 🤦 Rejection sucks for women too.
/r/askMRP11/10/23 10:15 PM
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Example 3, after I found MRP. We’re making out on the bed and as it gets heavier, she hopes out and leaves for the living room. I STFU and stay in the bedroom, doing some sit ups and listening to music. She wanted you to chase her. Next time strip naked and go find her. Start removing her clothes. If she refuses, go get dressed and leave. "Where are you going?" "I've got better things to do than hang around and let you tease me. I'll be back." Let her "convince" you to stay by offering sex if sh…
/r/askMRP11/10/23 09:52 PM
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Frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/23 10:46 PM
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I'm a slave to this desire. It's not the pussy or the woman it's attached to, it's the feeling that I realize I've chased my whole life. It's in our nature and biology, but I have to control it. I'm in a weird mental state where I realize that I'm not actually happy. I'm happy with being a father, but I just want to fuck all the time this past week. It's the need for Validation.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/23 03:15 AM
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Social: Went to a get together at an ex-colleague/friends place. The night was ok, and just nice to get out of the house and to be social. However I often find myself in a situation where I enter a room and if I don’t initiate to say something, everyone is suddenly quiet. Like some tense energy in the room. Never understood what caused this effect. The solution to this is to be the Mayor as soon as you enter the room.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/23 03:10 AM
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How do I know identify structural improvements v. something that only makes me more of a plowhorse? Your core question has a really simple answer: Structural improvements are things you do for YOU to make YOU a better man. Plowhorse things are things you do for her, or for the relationship. How do you tell the difference? You ask yourself this question each time beforehand: "How does this benefit ME directly or make MY life better?" If it only benefits her or "improves" the relationship, ask you…
/r/askMRP27/08/23 03:59 PM
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It's not about your expectations. It's about those expectations being unstated, and implicitly expected because of something you did. It's a thought like "I took her out to dinner and spent a bunch of money, surely that means she'll want to have sex when we get home." Without actually saying anything directly to her. To avoid this, state your expectations clearly in the relationship apart from anything you do for/with her. Your expectation should be having sex regularly, and she should already k…
/r/askMRP23/08/23 09:30 PM
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She completely surprised me yesterday, stating that when we get married, she wants to get a tattoo of a rose on her bikini line and she wants a tattoo of a bird above her rib cage and under her left boob. When I mentioned that I dont like that and it is a turn off, she said “that sucks for you, i am going to get it done anyway” "Huh... That's what my last FWB said too." Then watch the hamster wheel spin. No way I'd consider marrying a girl who said that to me. Instant demotion.
/r/askMRP21/08/23 08:57 PM
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Genuine question: isn't rp kind of already manipulative and controlling? No. RP teaches self-control and self-reliance. For example: when she does something fucked up, and you STFU (rewarding her negatively), isn't that kind of manipulative? If you have a 5 year old daughter and she throws a tantrum and you ignore her, is it manipulation or is it teaching her that negative actions do not bring about the result she desires (your attention)? But one day I got home from work and didn't find her. I …
/r/askMRP17/08/23 02:15 AM
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You need to timebox it instead of reacting in the moment. It will give her a bit of space to calm down, which will help her develop self-control over time.
/r/askMRP16/08/23 01:42 PM
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The Book of Mormon is not the word of God. Period. The Bible is God’s instructions to man. “But Mormons are Christians!” No, they do not follow biblical Christianity. Mormons believe that Jesus and Satan are “spirit brothers.” The Bible teaches that Jesus is God’s Son, and that Satan is a fallen angel. Only one can be correct. 2 Nephi in the Book of Mormon says, “It is by grace you have been saved, after all you can do.” Ephesians 2:8-9 says, “For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that no…
/r/RPChristians13/08/23 04:23 AM
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A Christian would never reference the Book of Mormon. Doing so is considered a subtle proselytizing away from biblical Christianity toward Mormonism.
/r/RPChristians12/08/23 02:01 PM
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Removed. Rule 3.
/r/RPChristians11/08/23 05:38 PM
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He's left out penecostals and word of faith. He addressed those groups in Third Adam 1 & 2. However, not all Catholics agree with ecumenism. Of course not. But many of them do, and that includes the Pope. He's basing this on a hunch. Nope, he's basing it on the words of Pope Francis himself, along with many other Catholic leaders. I've seen plenty of video interviews that support this. He sells mockery. Is this truly from the fruit of the spirit? NO! This is what he has on tee shirts and mugs...…
/r/RPChristians11/08/23 02:46 PM
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Tactics for Getting Out From Under Porn Kicking Porn for Good Taking off the old, putting on the new Practical tips to avoid sexual temptation How I Overcame Porn Permanently
/r/RPChristians08/08/23 10:35 AM
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My Mission? To be a man with options. At this point, that is about getting my finances in order. I still like this mission. It fits. While this is a good starting point, it's very vague with nothing that is actually actionable. Here's how to get started finding your Mission - it's 4 things: Vision is a manifested idea of the future. Mission is what you will do to make that future happen. Plans are individual steps you take to fulfill your Mission, and are developed within the context of a Vision…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/23 03:14 PM
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So you didn't watch it?
/r/RPChristians28/07/23 10:40 AM
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I’m taking the burden of finding how to clear the debt, and asking my wife to stop any and all charges to the card, from her and her mother and sister. Asking? Man, that's a recipe for disaster. You need a complete mindset shift on this.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/23 03:53 AM
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No she is on mat leave for a year. Well then you really need to get this together, since it sounds like you've got quite a few months left before she goes back to work. And why are you sending your children to daycare when she's home for a year? Do I abandon caring for my very young children in the process? Not pick them up from daycare? Or is part of this letting her deal with everything in her own? Part of setting expectations ahead of time is letting her know "If I have to leave because of yo…
/r/askMRP09/07/23 09:39 PM
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I'm guessing she's a sahm, right? Leave and let HER handle everything. But you need to set the expectation verbally - once. "The next time you [cross this boundary by doing this], I will leave and won't be back until tonight." She will violate that boundary. Your job is to enforce that boundary by leaving no matter what. Prepare ahead of time for a quick exit by having all your stuff together already so you can just go.
/r/askMRP09/07/23 09:18 PM
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A boundary you cannot enforce: "I will figure out how to make my wife respect me." A boundary you CAN enforce: "If my wife acts disrespectful, I will leave."
/r/askMRP09/07/23 08:08 PM
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I think you see what I'm seeing. She just wants him to win and keep escalating the tests waiting for him to act like a man would and be at least angry. Yes. Unfortunately I know all too well that Southern Baptists are pacifists by default. That's one of the reasons I don't attend church anymore - Baptists are the quintessential Nice Guy denomination. Jesus got angry, it's time for u/BarneyIX to get angry too. But before he loses it on anyone else, he needs to take a good hard look in the mirror …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/23 02:21 AM
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How does he keep the wife in check Wrong question. He needs to keep himself in check consistently and repeatedly first. Afterall, he's coming home to this messy situation. Not if he goes to the gym. She's a sahm, let her figure that out for now. She's handy, right? Getting his house in order starts with getting himself in order.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/23 01:49 AM
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Because if you get angry, she will get more angry and you don't want that. You just want things to calm down and "go back to normal." Your strategy is appeasement / hassle avoidance. How's that workin for ya? Disengage. Focus all your efforts on the gym and getting your house in order. Forget she even exists for now.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/23 12:17 AM
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when she saw a few scratches on my chest from shaving, thinking that when I went out to meet coworkers during the day that I was with a girl or something. She was like I can't raise this kid alone, I love you etc. Notice her first reaction is about the kid, not the marriage. She's not attracted to you and doesn't really want to have sex with you. She's only concerned about you leaving and being a single mother with no help. Considering how long she was your girlfriend and not your wife (10 years…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/23 05:06 AM
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She's gone. NO is your new favorite word. Don't worry about what was, go forward and focus on what can be. This is the definition of frame that you should strive for. Remember: new people you meet will not know the old you. So act in a way that reflects the man you want to be.
/r/askMRP10/06/23 03:49 PM
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Here's a much simpler framework to use when figuring your personal Mission strategy out: "My Mission is to become a man who [lives this kind of life] pursuing [these kinds of goals]. I will accomplish that by doing [these things] and developing [these aspects of my character]." Of all these areas, the one that most men miss is developing their character. Because who you are determines what kind of life you live, what kind of goals you pursue, and what kinds of things you are willing to do to acc…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/23 04:59 PM
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I've never had anal sex (though I've had the opportunity) and don't know if I ever will I have several times, including once with my current wife. Honestly it's just not my thing, and even though my wife was willing to try it for my sake, she was glad I declined further experiences in this area. We cannot provide any scripture showing the comprehensive intended purpose of the anus, or any other body part, for that matter. The argument here is: "X is the way that body part Y is used most often. Z…
/r/RPChristians27/05/23 11:47 PM
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In the context of heterosexual marriage, the scripture may seem less specific about whether anal sex is acceptable behavior for God's followers. There are, however, basic principles in scripture that will help us answer the question. Here are some points to consider: Anal sex uses body parts in way contrary to their designed purposes (i.e. perversion): The anus and rectum are specifically designed for expelling waste from the body. The tissue in those areas is designed for things passing out of …
/r/RPChristians22/05/23 03:04 PM
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I do want to point out that the bible today is in thanks to the Council of Carthage in 397 AD. This early church council finalized the canon of the New Testament. This is a false claim. The truth is much more complicated than that. In addition, it depends on which line of manuscripts you're describing - there are two. The one you speak of includes the Apocryphal books, which are not inspired. However, the Catholic Church claims they are. So, if you accept the authority of the Bible, you are also…
/r/RPChristians16/05/23 03:22 PM
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an interpretation of the story of Onan Ah yes, the ol' Onan defense. Let's take a look at that, shall we? Genesis 38:6-10 "And Judah took a wife for Er his firstborn, whose name was Tamar. And Er, Judah's firstborn, was wicked in the sight of the Lord; and the Lord slew him. And Judah said unto Onan, Go in unto thy brother's wife, and marry her, and raise up seed to thy brother. And Onan knew that the seed should not be his; and it came to pass, when he went in unto his brother's wife, that he s…
/r/RPChristians15/05/23 09:49 PM
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If you wanna take this conversation to DMs to discuss more about the reasonings behind the ejaculation in the vagina rule, I'd be more than happy to chat. No that’s okay. I welcome input from others in the thread. A lot of the reasoning that goes into the penis --> vagina rule has to do with the ancient christian understanding of sex (pre-biblical). More than happy to cite sources + chat in DMs since a lot of this stuff can become personal and tedious pretty quickly. Here’s the thing: you’re com…
/r/RPChristians15/05/23 09:37 PM
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Just go for it and ask her out. Be direct - tell her you're very attracted to her and would like to take her out on a date. Have a day, time and activity ready in case she says yes. If she says no, you're in the Friendzone. "For a friend she sees, a friend you shall always be.” ~The Book of Pook
/r/RPChristians15/05/23 07:28 PM
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Maybe according to Catholic Church doctrine. No verse in the Bible says that though. And what about a husband performing oral sex on his wife? There's no "ejaculation" of baby-making fluid per se, so how does the Catholic Church view that?
/r/RPChristians15/05/23 07:17 PM
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I've found this answer to be a good guide on the subject. Below is an excerpt: Nowhere does the Bible forbid it or discuss it. There is no biblical evidence that it is a sin against God for a husband and wife to express love for each other in this way. Even the book of Leviticus, which mentions many Old Testament sex-related prohibitions and rules for the Israelites, never mentions it. We see no reason to believe that expressing affection for one's mate in this way is forbidden or would necessar…
/r/RPChristians15/05/23 11:05 AM
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Hookup culture benefits men I'm not sure this is quite right. I remember seeing data showing divorce rates go up as the # of partners a man has had goes up too, just not as much as a woman's. I think in context what this is saying is that it "benefits" men sexually. It doesn't benefit women because there is no provision aspect in this arrangement. If you look at the old adage of "men give love to get sex, women give sex to get love" then it's easy to see that since sex without commitment or love…
/r/RPChristians11/05/23 02:37 PM
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When a loved one gets upset, many men choose to handle that by getting angry in response. This is a weak, self-defeating approach that usually just makes things worse. So what can you do instead? Be amused at her anger – because she’s trying to shake your frame, get a rise out of you and bring you down to her level. Instead of responding in anger, respond to the manner in which she’s communicating rather than addressing the feigned issue she’s raising. If you become angry, defensive, hurt, etc.,…
/r/askRPC09/05/23 03:11 AM
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When considering any principle in the Bible, one must consider what group of people that book of the Bible was primarily written to. You should also consider what period of time (dispensation) was in effect during that time. For instance, the things Jesus said while here on earth, which are recorded in the gospels, actually happened during the period of the Old Testament, even though they are in the New Testament section of our modern Bibles. This was known as the Age of the Law, and so while th…
/r/RPChristians07/05/23 02:59 PM
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My personal opinion is this: the more women a man fornicates with, the more extremes a wife will have to go to in the bedroom consistently to keep him satisfied. In a way it's like porn usage: in general, the longer most men view porn, the more they desire stuff toward the extreme end of the spectrum. Regular porn just doesn't do it for them anymore. I think the same thing is true in marriage. While both partners should be willing to do whatever it takes to satisfy each other (within biblical bo…
/r/RPChristians25/04/23 02:53 PM
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12 But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence. 13 For Adam was first formed, then Eve. 14 And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression. 1 Timothy 2:12-15
/r/RPChristians16/04/23 03:45 AM
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He's even getting called out by a BOT lol 😂
/r/askMRP02/04/23 02:27 AM
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Good to hear from you too bro. We'll have to chat sometime and catch up. I'm in a bit of a different spot these days. i think the only time we track our wives is when they starts being a toddler and we think "ah shoot its been 3 days since I gave her a proper fucking". Amirite? Amen to that! Lol mine drops subtle hints and gets bratty until I remember - being a toddler is a perfect way to describe it. 😂
/r/askMRP02/04/23 02:04 AM
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I don't understand how you get insecurity from most of this I can admit that it makes me have some worries Worries ARE insecurities bud. You have worries about her BECAUSE you're insecure. Stop DEERing.
/r/askMRP02/04/23 01:52 AM
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My girlfriends department at work is dominated by men. The work in a grocery store. I'm insecure about my girlfriend working with men. Edit: the only reason I ever go there is for the discount I get. DEER. This is Rationalize. I've met them, I've briefly chatted with them, all seem like typical beta men but who knows. Poor style, no lifting, always gaming or hate their lives / ugly. Her manager and her hang a lot at work but he's got a wart the size of a penny on his forehead and isnt pretty. Co…
/r/askMRP02/04/23 01:38 AM
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Food does matter. Oatmeal is best for keeping hunger at bay. I lost 73 lbs over 2-1/2 years doing intermittent fasting and eliminating all sugar. Here's your guideline: when you're hungry, can you satisfy that hunger with healthy food? Or do you crave sweets, snacks and junk? If it's the latter, then it's not hunger but addiction to sugar and junk food. Oh, btw if you drink soda or energy drinks, cutting those completely as well is an easy win. Water and black coffee work wonders. Track your cal…
/r/askRPC03/03/23 03:46 AM
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Tell you what: maybe you're right. You have made some good points that I will take time to pray and reflect on. And I mean that with all seriousness. Thank you for your concern and the time you took in your responses. I will delete my responses in this thread out of an abundance of caution, not willing to risk leading anyone into error. Blessings.
/r/RPChristians26/02/23 10:19 PM
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"The WORD became FLESH" "And the Word was made flesh, and dwelt among us, (and we beheld his glory, the glory as of the only begotten of the Father,) full of grace and truth." John 1:14 KJV Jesus is coeternal with the Father. Got a verse for that? his eternity in the trinitarian Godhead. Again, chapter and verse please. heterodoxy and denies the Creeds and Confessions of the Trinity. Man, what a bunch of seminary theological mumbo jumbo. What does the BIBLE say? your eisegesis in defining the Go…
/r/RPChristians26/02/23 04:39 AM
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Not Modalism. Godhead doctrine. God does not have different "modes." There is one God; and there is God's son Jesus. I used to believe in the Trinity as you do, and am aware of the theological implications here. Christians should get baptised, but baptism does not save. Acts 2:38 - repent AND BE BAPTIZED in the name of Jesus Christ FOR THE REMISSION OF SINS, and ye shall receive the gift of the Holy Ghost. You realize you need to repent - you turn from your sins and place your trust in Jesus. Yo…
/r/RPChristians25/02/23 04:26 AM
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You must understand that the Trinity as most churches teach it is not scriptural. I realize that may seem blasphemous on the surface, but hear me out. The word used in scripture is the Godhead. Colossians 2:8-9 says, "Beware lest any man spoil you through philosophy and vain deceit, after the tradition of men, after the rudiments of the world, and not after Christ. For in him dwelleth all the fulness of the Godhead bodily." Colossians 1:13-20 says, "Who hath delivered us from the power of darkne…
/r/RPChristians25/02/23 02:54 AM
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Then you've been obedient, and obedience pleases the Lord. What you're looking for is closure. You're not likely to get that in this situation. Ask God to help you have peace on this because you've been obedient.
/r/RPChristians24/02/23 08:51 PM
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As Christians we need to forgive. So do that. "But wait, I won't feeeeeel like I've forgiven them." And that's true. So go to God in prayer and say "Lord, I am choosing to forgive this person today and start fresh. So I give this to you right now and make the choice to forgive them. But I know I won't feel like I've forgiven this person, so I'm asking you to help me with the emotional part. Help me feel like I've truly forgiven them." And he will help you. Just ask. The trick is to separate the …
/r/RPChristians24/02/23 04:34 AM
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Removed. It is against Reddit rules to discuss someone over 18 dating someone under 18.
/r/RPChristians23/01/23 12:57 PM
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My job, which has been remote since I started two years ago, will soon become hybrid. This could change due to employee backlash. I had planned to stay at least three years, but this change has me considering other opportunities that are permanently remote, more lucrative, and probably more interesting and beneficial to society. On the other hand, it's possible that being in an office occasionally would be positive for me socially and mentally. What other opportunities for social interaction do …
/r/RPChristians22/01/23 12:25 AM
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I'll post a reminder here since several women have commented: RPChristians is a male-only space. The ladies would love to welcome you at: https://www.reddit.com/r/RPCWomen/new/ God bless
/r/RPChristians21/01/23 03:34 PM
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Poem_For_Your_Sperg
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/23 03:37 PM
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I am 29 5ft7 151lbs. Skinny fat for certain today she says she can't cope with the pressure of knowing i want to and she doesn't. She said its crushing her Once you get past this started lifting last year but was fuckarounditis for most of that and start actually getting muscles, it will change. Stop screwing around and do the work.
/r/askMRP13/01/23 04:12 AM
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You're welcome, and thanks u/Deep_Strength for the tag. His point about friends and family is an even better example imo, because it shows a situation where she is more likely to control herself willingly rather than out of a fear of getting arrested. I will also say that it's good you're looking for solutions to solve this early in your marriage. The longer it goes unchecked and you tolerate it, the more it becomes the standard - and the difficulty to change it increases because then you're dea…
/r/askRPC12/01/23 03:45 PM
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You cannot control your wife. The only person you have control over is you. Bad behavior happens because you tolerate it. A simple response like "Look, I get that you're frustrated right now, but this isn't making me very inclined to respond. I'm going to run down to the store and grab some milk. If you still want to talk to me when I get back, you may want to try another approach." If she loses her crap about you leaving for a few, then you've got bigger problems. A simple "I'll be back in a fe…
/r/askRPC11/01/23 06:36 PM
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Well, failure to obey is the same as disobedience. Jesus speaks to this in Matthew 21:28-31 "But what think ye? A certain man had two sons; and he came to the first, and said, Son, go work to day in my vineyard. He answered and said, I will not: but afterward he repented, and went. And he came to the second, and said likewise. And he answered and said, I go, sir: and went not. Whether of them twain did the will of his father? They say unto him, The first. Jesus saith unto them, Verily I say unto…
/r/askRPC10/01/23 03:44 PM
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Welcome. I’ve been having an issue with porn. For about 20-30 days I can resist the urge, but always end up falling back into it at least once or twice a month. Trying to become more disciplined and find practical solutions to avoid it. Here's some links that will help you out: Tactics for Getting Out From Under Porn Kicking Porn for Good Taking off the old, putting on the new Practical tips to avoid sexual temptation How I Overcame Porn Permanently My income isn’t that great. I’m a full time st…
/r/RPChristians02/01/23 02:18 AM
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Thanks brother. I didn't have time to post a new one this week and will be out of town over Christmas, so I'll pick back up after that.
/r/RPChristians22/12/22 06:47 PM
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She has depression issues, and is grieving the death of her father 8 months ago. But I've made the decision that alcohol can't be her crutch anymore, at least not with me still in the relationship. I'm carefully approaching this without going full nuclear, but I will escalate to that shortly if I don't see a change. You can't solve deep-seated issues like this by just commanding her to get over it. She needs help, and moreso if it involves coping with alcohol. Sit her down and discuss the fact t…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/22 07:00 PM
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Sure. My inbox is always open.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/22 06:11 PM
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He is. Keep lifting.
/r/askMRP21/12/22 04:30 AM
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When I originally read that you read the Bible every day with your wife, I thought, "That sounds great, but my wife would never do it." That's ok. Do it for you, she's welcome to join if she wants. Either way it doesn't affect your plan to read. every time she comes to me with a problem, I suggest we pray and read a passage that seems relevant. I like this. The Bible is just good suggestions unless you put it into practice. Good job Captain. The thing I failed to explain about the Bible study le…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/22 04:26 AM
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This is a solid step in the right direction. However, I noticed you didn't mention your faith at all. How is that factoring in to all of this?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/22 03:51 AM
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Start by slowly changing the rules. Make some space between the two of you.
/r/askMRP21/12/22 12:54 AM
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she called me needing my support after a fight with her parents. After she felt better I agreed to tell her my opinion and criticized her father So were you offering support or your opinion? She asked for your opinion because she wanted you to agree with her feelingz, not say what you really thought about her father. Why was it all really that bad and so dragged out? My fogging just made everything way angrier on the other side, and my only option to exit was to hang the call in her face while s…
/r/askMRP21/12/22 12:50 AM
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True. That view is debated, though, so OP should keep that in mind. But to me it makes the most sense.
/r/RPChristians19/12/22 06:57 PM
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I subscribe to the second view personally. This article breaks it down well.
/r/RPChristians18/12/22 12:46 AM
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Bro I'm 53. Was fat most of my life. Started losing weight and lifting at 46. Here's my progress. If I can do it, so can you. Get mad. Then use that anger to fuel the changes you want to see. Don't focus on the end goal - focus on today and tomorrow. And then tomorrow: repeat. You'll get there. But it's gonna take time. Welcome to the desert of the real.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/22 04:30 AM
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Praise the Lord! I'm glad he used me to help you. Where are you at in your faith?
/r/RPChristians17/12/22 02:36 AM
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But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn. 1 Corinthians 7:9 KJV For this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication: that every one of you should know how to possess his vessel in sanctification and honour; 1 Thessalonians 4:3‭-‬4 KJV Is it sinful for a man and woman engage in non-hedonistic sex (they’re exploring a shared connection)? From this man’s POV he’s letting the cream rise to the top to try and find th…
/r/RPChristians16/12/22 02:30 PM
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Also, David, Bathsheba and Absalom can be found in 2 Samuel chapters 11-13.
/r/RPChristians16/12/22 04:19 AM
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Genesis 2:24 Genesis 4:1 Genesis 19:5 Genesis 38:8 Genesis 39:7-10 Exodus 20:14 Leviticus 20:13 Leviticus 18:22 Deuteronomy 22:21 Proverbs 5:18-19 Proverbs 30:20 Proverbs 31:3 Ezekiel 23:20 Song of Solomon 2:1-17 Song of Solomon 4:12-16 Song of Solomon 5:4 Song of Solomon 7:2 Song of Solomon 8:1-2 Matthew 5:28 Matthew 19:4 Romans 1:26-32 Romans 13:13-14 1 Corinthians 5:11 1 Corinthians 6:16 1 Corinthians 6:9-10 1 Corinthians 6:13 1 Corinthians 6:18-20 1 Corinthians 7 (read the whole chapter) Gal…
/r/RPChristians16/12/22 04:16 AM
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Well I was going to comment but......no stats. In case you're on mobile, click the "About" tab to see the Sidebar, where you'll find all our foundational reading material. Here's why we ask for stats.
/r/RPChristians14/12/22 03:41 PM
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Last OYS Background / Stats: 53 years old, 5’9”, 204.1, 18% BF. Married 14 years, 3 kids – 2 are married with kids, the youngest is in the Navy. Discovered RP August of 2015. ​ Bible: My wife and I read the Bible together every night. We’ve focused on slowing down a bit and going deeper in the Word, and we take it at our own pace – we’ve averaged two chapters a night recently. The main thing is that we’re consistent and growing. We’ve also switched to the KJV. ​ If you would like a copy of the B…
/r/RPChristians12/12/22 09:38 PM
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You and I talked about my situation two years ago (on RPC -- I had to delete out), and you asked me the same question then. I do not currently live with my wife because 1) she is a complete slob, and 2) she is a nervous wreck. So instead of being in the home and leading, you're basically living in a van down by the river hoping she'll get her crap together through your occasional presence/influence - while still being afraid of divorce. Got bad news for you: you're already pretty much divorced a…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/22 10:27 PM
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Where I ran into trouble was attempting to have conversations in which I wanted advice and input. This is the main area to step up in. You make the call, and it’s up to her to persuade you to change your mind if she is so inclined. And it’s not “We’ll do this, ok?” because then you’re asking permission. Better to proceed with confidence having made the decision – she may balk at first or test you, but you’d be surprised how often she will just roll with it. If she disagrees, don’t come up with s…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/22 06:41 PM
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Last OYS Background / Stats: 53 years old, 5’9”, 204.8, 18% BF. Married 14 years, 3 kids – 2 are married with kids, the youngest is in the Navy. Discovered RP August of 2015. ​ Bible: My wife and I read the Bible together every night. We’ve focused on slowing down a bit and going deeper in the Word, and we take it at our own pace – whether that be one chapter, or five. The main thing is that we’re consistent and growing. We’ve also switched to the KJV for the reasons I outlined in my post. ​ If …
/r/RPChristians06/12/22 12:24 AM
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Ok so....you believe in Jesus, but have you been saved? Are you sure you're gonna go to heaven when you die? When God asks "Why should I let you into heaven?" what reason will you give? Jesus said in John 3:3, "Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God." Why isn't going to church, being sorry for your sins and asking forgiveness enough? Because we have all broken God's Law, the Ten Commandments. Who hasn't told a lie, stolen, used God's name in…
/r/RPChristians01/12/22 06:54 PM
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How serious are you about the Lord? How is your Christian walk from day to day? How often do you think about him? How much time do you spend pursuing worldly things? How much time do you spend pursuing godly things? How often do you read your Bible? How has Christ changed you since you became a Christian? Are you confident in your salvation? Have you been baptized? After sharing your answers on you, think about each one in reference to her and share your answers on her.
/r/RPChristians30/11/22 11:01 PM
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I have replaced all music with KJV audio Bible, car, phone, gym, anywhere. Most music that is even Christian is just almost useless when you go further with Jesus Christ, an unnecessary crutch in my opinion. I'm working on that and feel less and less desire to listen to music in general these days. It's mostly when I lift, or driving home from work. A 45 year habit is a tough one to break. This was a great life report. Thanks for the kind words brother!
/r/RPChristians28/11/22 03:45 PM
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Try some of these: https://youtu.be/571db4r16WQ https://youtu.be/ggicup6UGno https://youtu.be/r3LANEs4eoI https://youtu.be/i80jNj3G1QM
/r/RPChristians28/11/22 12:55 PM
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Last OYS ​ Background / Stats: 53 years old, 5’9”, 205.2, 18% BF. Married 14 years, 3 kids – 2 are married with kids, the youngest is in the Navy. Discovered RP August of 2015. ​ Bible: My wife and I read the Bible together every night. We’ve focused on slowing down a bit and going deeper in the Word, and we take it at our own pace – whether that be one chapter, or five. The main thing is that we’re consistent and growing. We’ve also switched to the KJV for the reasons I outlined in my recent po…
/r/RPChristians28/11/22 11:38 AM
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You can download the YouVersion app, choose the KJV version and play the audio from the play button embedded in each chapter. Or you can download it and save it to your phone's music player like I did: KJV Audio Bible. The Books folder is each book of the Bible in a separate folder, while the Tracks folder has one folder with Genesis to Malachi and a second folder with Matthew to Revelation, which is useful when you're driving and don't want to pick up your phone to switch to the next book.
/r/RPChristians28/11/22 04:12 AM
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Here you go, I'll share mine: The KJV Audio Bible. The Books folder is each book of the Bible in a separate folder, while the Tracks folder has one folder with Genesis to Malachi and a second folder with Matthew to Revelation, which is useful when you're driving and don't want to pick up your phone to switch to the next book. Now you've got no excuses brother. Whoever else wants this is also free to download it.
/r/RPChristians28/11/22 04:12 AM
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If God saves you, he will change you. I can't judge Dave, but I can tell you that a Christian band does not sing songs with that kind of lyrics. Imagine if you heard your pastor's testimony, and later saw him in a bar singing this song. Would you question whether he was saved or not? I know I would.
/r/RPChristians28/11/22 04:05 AM
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From the new album: Police Truck by Megadeth Tonight's the night that we got the truck We're going downtown, gonna beat up drunks Your turn to drive, I'll bring the beer It's the late, late shift, no one to fear Ride, ride, how we ride And ride, low ride It's roundup time where the good whores meet We're gonna drag one screaming off the street And ride, ride, how we ride Got a black uniform and a silver badge I'm playing cops for real, playing cops for pay Let's ride, low ride Pull down your dre…
/r/RPChristians28/11/22 02:15 AM
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Thank you for the kind words, brother, I'm glad God used me in your life!
/r/RPChristians28/11/22 01:49 AM
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So if repentance is more than a change of mind, is your works-repentance good enough for God's kingdom? Good works don't save us, and I make no such claim. That being said, a person who has been granted the ability to repent of his sin to place his faith in Christ for salvation will show evidence of that in his deeds. You cannot change your mind from one thing without also changing it to another, and if the mind is truly changed, the actions will be in keeping with that new mindset. In Acts 26:1…
/r/RPChristians27/11/22 04:11 PM
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Why isn't ... being sorry for your sins and asking forgiveness enough? That is enough to be saved. Praise God! No...it's not. Here's an analogy that may help make it more clear: Imagine a husband cheats on his wife. She finds out and kicks him out, and they are separated for a month. He calls her up one day and she answers, and he says, "Hey, I just want to apologize and tell you I'm really sorry for cheating on you and want to ask for your forgiveness. Can you ever forgive me?" She tells him, "…
/r/RPChristians27/11/22 04:46 AM
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Removed for violating Rule 3: no denigrating the faith. You can voice your disagreement respectfully, but not like that.
/r/RPChristians26/11/22 01:57 PM
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He didn't get the "Hey don't worry man, we're all sinners nobody's perfect" answer he was looking for. He also doesn't see the need to repent. He's looking for Churchianity, not a relationship with Christ.
/r/askRPC26/11/22 01:43 PM
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I’m a good person and my “sins” involve personal immorality, but I’m a good person overall and bring goodness into the world. No, you're a sinner just like me. Your sins offend God - it's HIM you have to worry about, not us. "But we are all as an unclean thing, and all our righteousnesses are as filthy rags; and we all do fade as a leaf; and our iniquities, like the wind, have taken us away." Isaiah 64:6 KJV
/r/RPChristians26/11/22 05:00 AM
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This is a good word.
/r/RPChristians26/11/22 04:06 AM
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I’m 23, Christian I swear, drink, etc These things are not congruent. Christians don't swear or "etc.", or at least they understand it's sin and they are trying to be more like Christ and eliminate sinful behaviors from their lives. You don't seem like you're really trying. I don’t typically like to have sex in a relationship until we’re exclusive but things went well and let’s just say we had a great night Again, not something that Christians do. You don't even show any remorse over it. she is …
/r/RPChristians26/11/22 03:57 AM
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Sounds like you may like the work itself, but not the job requirements for that field. The guys here are lazy, they don’t care. The irony here is that this should make it easier for you to stand out. The company doesn’t keep their word, but that’s how most of them are. You need to see how your licenses might be useful in another, related field and then take some courses to increase your value so you have a better chance of landing a job in a career you would be more happy with. Then you would be…
/r/askRPC15/11/22 06:49 PM
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Iron Rule of Tomassi #2 NEVER, under pain of death, honestly or dishonestly reveal the number of women you’ve slept with or explain any detail of your sexual experiences with them to a current lover. The single most disastrous AFC move a man can make is to OVERTLY describe past sexual experiences and/or give a number (accurate or not) to how many women he’s been with prior to the one he’s with. This simple act, whether you offered the information or she dragged it out of you, ALWAYS comes off as…
/r/askRPC01/11/22 11:47 PM
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I'm not actually disagreeing with you. As I said in my previous comment, this is not my personal position. However, my wife and I are both on our second marriage and we are older, and this becomes less of a priority when you reach our age. However, the reason I continue to defend my stated (although not personal) position is because if I were young and single, I would certainly feel differently. I agree that everyone has their own problems, and that "all of the packages in the store are broken a…
/r/RPChristians01/11/22 11:05 PM
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Amen to that. Remember, the second to last verse of Paul's letter to the Philippians says, "All the saints salute you, chiefly they that are of Caesar's household." If those saints had been discovered, they would have been told to burn incense to their "god" Caesar or be executed. The stakes were quite a bit higher for them than what we currently face. Frankly I hope to get out if things come down to such a outcome. Nobody wants to be in a situation like that, but remember this: if you spend you…
/r/askRPC01/11/22 10:51 PM
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You would obey whichever authority is holding the power in your area at that time. The question is this: whether the military-seized power or the Democrats are in control at that moment, or if it flip-flops, what difference will it make in the way you live your day to day life? As a Christian, if they are telling you to do something ungodly then Acts 5:29 takes precedence: "Then Peter and the other apostles answered and said, We ought to obey God rather than men." In short, Romans 12:18 says, "I…
/r/askRPC01/11/22 02:46 PM
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Thanks for the kind words bro! Yeah I had to save that answer, it was too good not to share. He deleted it shortly afterward too. Just an fyi, I have an updated cologne post you might like: https://www.reddit.com/r/fragrance/comments/ds1gki/a_mans_guide_to_buying_and_wearing_cologne/
/r/RPChristians28/10/22 11:05 PM
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I agree with your points. You're not wrong. Every human being has value and worth. I don't deny that. However, when it comes to who you choose to enter into a marriage with, not everyone can, or desires to, accept the inherent risks associated with previous sexual experience. Keep in mind that I speak as a man who is on his second marriage, as is my current wife so this is not my personal position. But here's an analogy that might help: Let's say you go to Walmart to buy some underwear. You find…
/r/RPChristians28/10/22 04:45 AM
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Virginity is valued greatly by God for both men and women. Show me without appealing to the Old Covenant. Now the body is not for fornication, but for the Lord; and the Lord for the body. And God hath both raised up the Lord, and will also raise up us by his own power. Know ye not that your bodies are the members of Christ? shall I then take the members of Christ, and make them the members of an harlot? God forbid. What? know ye not that he which is joined to an harlot is one body? for two, sait…
/r/RPChristians25/10/22 04:39 AM
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Virginity is valued greatly by God for both men and women. Those who would argue that it's not that important are filtering the Bible through a Red Pill lens. It should be the other way around. It's not a "fetish" (that's ridiculous in light of the Bible's clear commands). It is, however, a good choice for mitigating risk. Those who have sex before marriage have a much higher chance of divorce - PERIOD. This is not an unimportant thing to consider, especially when choosing the person they will (…
/r/RPChristians25/10/22 02:59 AM
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u/Deep_Strength has some good articles on his site that speak to this: Christian women and the rationalization of attraction Attractive Christian Virgins Part 1 Attractive Christian Virgins Part 2 Also: https://imgur.com/a/TjlbvKq
/r/RPChristians24/10/22 02:05 AM
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Removed. It is against Reddit rules to discuss someone over 18 dating someone under 18. While I realize you specified that this would be after she graduates, it is still a subject that is forbidden to discuss on Reddit.
/r/RPChristians22/10/22 01:00 AM
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You're welcome. I'll tell you a story I haven't told here before. When I was dating my wife, I made it very clear that I expected oral sex to be a part of our lovemaking. She had never done it before, but expressed a willingness to learn. When we got married (it was the 2nd marriage for both of us), the first night she was a bit resistant when we went to have sex the first time. I was gentle but insistent, and we eventually did it and it was pretty good. We continued to do it every single day, s…
/r/RPChristians04/10/22 03:26 AM
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Just start with oral, since you said you've already done that. If things get hot and heavy enough, you'll both likely want to progress to the main event. On the chance you get started and find she's too tense for penetration, no worries. Just finish each other off orally and then have fun exploring each other's bodies. How you handle her the first night (understanding vs. pushy) will set the tone in the bedroom for the first few years of your marriage. Focus on making each other feel good, and t…
/r/RPChristians04/10/22 02:29 AM
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Here are some practical tips to avoid sexual temptation. Here are some verses that speak about sexual immorality being a sin. Here is a post that will help you understand why sexual sins are sin. And this comment will help you understand the importance of preserving your virginity for marriage. If you burn with lust, 1 Corinthians 7 has the answer. Find a woman who is truly living for Christ and get married. Do it God's way. I've done it both ways - don't make the same mistake I did.
/r/askRPC26/09/22 04:15 AM
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Matthew 19:3-9 and 1 Corinthians 7:1-17 (the entire chapter covers more) are the two main New Testament passages that speak to one husband/one wife outside of the requirements for elders. Why is it important? Because marriage parallels the relationship between Christ and His bride.
/r/askRPC20/09/22 05:57 PM
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As a general rule of thumb you can distinguish between shit tests and comfort tests in the following way: You. You are a jerk. You do what you want to do. You you you. These are shit tests. I am / feel lonely. I want to feel wanted. I .I. I . These are comfort tests. How to tell when a shit test turns into a comfort test: Her test will shift from accusing you of doing something (shit) to how she feels about the situation (comfort). Her body will loosen and open up. Her voice will change dramatic…
/r/askMRP30/08/22 04:57 AM
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You look like a totally different person on the right, kudos! Thanks! Did you have any multi-day relapses from your I.F. during those 2 and a half years? Not during the 2-1/2 years, but in the years following sugar has crept back in. It's a constant battle. I'm having good success recently doing a 48 hour fast of only water and coffee. I eat dinner on Sunday evening, and then nothing but black coffee and water until Tuesday evening when I eat dinner. It's been working great for me over the last …
/r/askRPC11/08/22 04:04 AM
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u/Rifleshoot is right: Intermittent Fasting is the way to go. I lost 73 lbs. in 2-1/2 years doing I.F. on a 16/8 schedule and avoiding sugar. https://imgur.com/a/2TDkHxz
/r/askRPC11/08/22 02:06 AM
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Locked. Comments are being made that violate Rule 7. OP, you got some good advice here. Are you born again? Are you reading your Bible daily? Some things to think about.
/r/RPChristians09/08/22 04:23 AM
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This post violates Reddit's Content Policy Rule #1. Removed.
/r/RPChristians05/08/22 05:38 PM
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Worse than that, are you even an actually saved Christian if this is the type of lifestyle you have? (Comments about preferring married sugarbabies as a married man?!?) Wherefore by their fruits ye shall know them. Not every one that saith unto me, Lord, Lord, shall enter into the kingdom of heaven; but he that doeth the will of my Father which is in heaven. Many will say to me in that day, Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in thy name? and in thy name have cast out devils? and in thy name done…
/r/RPChristians03/08/22 02:57 AM
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Check out my OYS here, specifically the second half of the relationship section where you will see how I put it to my wife when she mentioned that a friend was doing this to her husband. I would use that and tailor it to your own personal style. Have some cash on hand in case you need to drive the point home.
/r/RPChristians26/07/22 07:33 PM
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I’m taking some time off in between to try to work on what I need to most: how to be joyful. I’ve always been high energy, high output, high demands on myself with goals, and I am really awful at being joyful. I have written in many OYS about how I have difficulty accomplishing this. Happiness is satisfaction with your circumstances. Joy is satisfaction regardless of your circumstances. Joy comes from within. The key to developing joy is to practice gratitude. Being mindfully grateful allows the…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/22 12:38 PM
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I look forward to hearing your thoughts after you read it. There is NOTHING more important than your eternal salvation. My inbox is open if you prefer to pm me.
/r/RPChristians04/07/22 03:46 PM
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The 203 - Lifting and Diet post on the Sidebar will give you detailed insight on which direction to go and why.
/r/RPChristians04/07/22 01:01 AM
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Start with the Bible and the Sidebar, and pick up a copy of The Biblical Masculinity Blueprint by u/Deep_Strength. That will get you off to a good start. Are you born again?
/r/RPChristians04/07/22 12:54 AM
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Sounds like you're walking on eggshells around her.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/22 10:16 PM
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Lol you're not waiting for her to go to bed to make your move. The power balance has shifted. my wife has approached me about 3 times telling me she’s been “feeling like she needs loving” and that she wants to have sex and feels frustrated that I’ve been going to bed before her. "Come to bed and wake me up. I definitely won't say no."
/r/RPChristians28/06/22 03:16 AM
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The question has to do with work/chore responsibility in the home. If you both work full time, then the chores would ideally be split closer to 50/50 so everything gets done without the burden falling primarily on one person. If she's a SAHM, then her primary responsibility is first to the house, and then to any other endeavors she wishes to pursue. Put simply, if one spouse works full time and the other does not, then the chores should reflect that. Put directly, if a wife is home with the kids…
/r/RPChristians26/06/22 02:46 PM
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Yes.
/r/RPChristians25/06/22 03:53 AM
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This is a good word.
/r/RPChristians24/06/22 03:44 PM
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Does your wife work outside the home?
/r/RPChristians24/06/22 02:46 AM
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While there's no consensus that women in the Church are, as a whole, a completely un-marriageable group, let's say for the sake of argument that they are. In light of that hypothetical situation, what are your thoughts on marrying outside the church as long as the woman agrees to adhere to the rules that you set regarding faith and spirituality in your household--essentially, she agrees to "worship your God," and to work with you to raise your children to worship God as well? Man, your entire po…
/r/RPChristians24/06/22 12:46 AM
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OI/DNGAF - You have no OI. You're only 4 months in and still sharing the same whining, complaining crap that you did on day 1. That's like trying to drive from NYC to Oklahoma and asking 5 minutes on the road, "Are we there yet? Getting close yet?" and hearing, "No, it's going to be a while," so you wait patiently for another 5 minutes then ask again. This is a great analogy!
/r/RPChristians23/06/22 09:03 PM
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You made a post here about being asked for favors with sex being hinted at as a reward. This is known as a Compliance Test. Her frame. You went Rambo here by going too hard, too soon. She responded favorably because it was something new and exciting, but once the novelty wore off things went back to the way they were before. Here you call her your LTR of 10 years (aka wife). So are you married or not? Also, she stops giving you sexual attention once you verbalize your enjoyment of it. STFU. In y…
/r/RPChristians22/06/22 05:31 PM
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My son leaves for the Army in a few weeks, and while I'm very proud of his decision and what he plans to do, internally, I'm struggling because he is leaving. Why? You've prepared him for the challenges he will face in this world, right? How would you feel if he stayed home instead as a failure-to-launch? Reframe how you feel. Your relationship now gets to be mentor, friend and trusted advisor instead of only Dad. This is a promotion for both of you, so recognize it as a new, better opportunity.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/22 02:38 AM
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Much of my wife’s sense of purpose and identity are wrapped up in her desire to serve me in the ways a submissive feminine woman would serve a man. She has a deep-rooted need to be useful to me and an equally important need to avoid anything that disappoints me. I have always found it natural to make her aware of things she could be doing that I value. She diligently does those useful things, I give praise/compliments as appropriate, and all is well for everyone. Keeping up this pattern has beco…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/22 08:40 PM
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Downvoted for speaking about a God you know nothing about, and for using the F-word while talking about how that God will help people. I mean, use all the F-bombs you want here but try to keep them and God out of the same sentence, eh? Congruence is important.
/r/askMRP13/06/22 09:03 PM
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We are commanded to teach them: 6 And these words, which I command thee this day, shall be in thine heart: 7 And thou shalt teach them diligently unto thy children, and shalt talk of them when thou sittest in thine house, and when thou walkest by the way, and when thou liest down, and when thou risest up. 8 And thou shalt bind them for a sign upon thine hand, and they shall be as frontlets between thine eyes. 9 And thou shalt write them upon the posts of thy house, and on thy gates. Deuteronomy …
/r/RPChristians11/06/22 07:33 PM
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My parents have been married for 30 years and I’ve been trying to figure out how the fuck they did it. It's simple really: people from your parents' generation (my generation) didn't grow up in a "disposable" society. If something breaks, we try to fix it first. This includes marriages. Sometimes things are beyond repair, but many/most times it just takes good old-fashioned hard work. Your mom stays and thrives in this environment because she is valued and not considered disposable, so together …
/r/TheRedPill11/06/22 04:46 PM
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This is a good word. WELL said!
/r/RPChristians11/06/22 03:45 PM
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/r/RPChristians06/06/22 07:51 PM
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/r/RPChristians03/06/22 07:21 PM
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Eventually she texted me saying something like “if you’re going to divorce me, you’ll have to force me to sign it”. "Why would I want to start over and teach a new girl to do all the things you already do so well?" Ignore bait texts. Say it in person instead. Say it, smirk, smack her on the butt and walk away.
/r/RPChristians03/06/22 02:19 AM
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I just want to say that I am constantly praying on it and I don’t think that I am betraying my wife, family or God by doing these. If at any stage I think I am am, I make a solemn promise that I will stop. If that's the case, show her the posts and see what she says.
/r/RPChristians02/06/22 07:31 PM
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I don't know why I'm so blind to this "Why do my eyes hurt?" "You've never used them before." The good thing is that awareness and discernment are muscles. They grow with proper training.
/r/askMRP02/06/22 03:23 AM
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Brutal. 😂
/r/askMRP02/06/22 03:15 AM
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Amen!
/r/RPChristians01/06/22 05:48 PM
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You, sir, are living a lie. You ask on True Christian "How do you use your faith to get rid of lustful thoughts" - and yet you post stuff like this: 29 year old devout Christian Dad Dck. Currently on No Fap- Day 1 vs Day 19 (edit: link removed) Day 3 of NoFap and need some motivation (edit: link removed) There's many more, but that's just a sample. Now realize, I'm not here to beat you up and embarrass you - we all have our faults, I'm no exception. But post history is revealing. ​ James 1:8 say…
/r/RPChristians01/06/22 04:02 PM
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When I got back she saw the ingredients to make the drink she wanted and quickly said “you know I’m not making that drink. You’re going to make it for me right?” in a somewhat bratty tone. "What's the magic word?" Back to the story: She then said she would if I made her a drink. I said, “no, how about you go inside and heat me up a piece of pizza and I don’t make you a drink.” Next time, timebox it. If she was your 5 year old daughter, how would you handle the situation? Would you take it seriou…
/r/RPChristians30/05/22 10:58 PM
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Men didn't write the Bible. God used men as pens to write His thoughts down for us, so we would know what He requires of us.
/r/RPChristians30/05/22 02:36 PM
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/r/RPChristians30/05/22 02:29 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/askRPC/comments/i40yow/when_vetting_for_a_potential_ltr_how_would_i_test/g0fpgx3/
/r/RPChristians30/05/22 04:59 AM
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This is a good word. u/TotallyAlphaForReal, rather than complaining and criticizing I would love to see a post with possible solutions. You can't complain about the content if you don't make any contribution.
/r/RPChristians30/05/22 04:53 AM
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When I used to be on Facebook I was friends with an American missionary who moved to the Philippines and started a ministry in the slums of Cebu. He married a Filipina and they minister to the poorest of the poor. One thing you must understand is that there is a huge child sex trade going on there. A big part of his mission is to pull those children out of sex slavery, teach them the Bible and help them become strong Christians who are productive members of society. So many girls who grow up the…
/r/RPChristians29/05/22 03:20 PM
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There's a glossary of terms on the Sidebar.
/r/RPChristians29/05/22 01:51 PM
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This is a good word.
/r/RPChristians29/05/22 02:34 AM
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Most of, if not all of the Bible has been corrupted as well. Can you expand on this?
/r/RPChristians27/05/22 03:12 AM
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Jesus was a leader who also served, not a "servant leader." Let's look at John 6: [10] And Jesus said, Make the men sit down. Now there was much grass in the place. So the men sat down, in number about five thousand. He told his disciples to make 5000 hungry people sit down, and they did it. Obviously there’s no question that He is fully in charge. [11] And Jesus took the loaves; and when he had given thanks, he distributed to the disciples, and the disciples to them that were set down; and like…
/r/RPChristians27/05/22 02:42 AM
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Rule 1: be respectful. Calling people crazies is disrespectful. State your case instead.
/r/RPChristians26/05/22 03:40 PM
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Parts of what he said were good. But as I said above, the phrase "Servant Leader" has been corrupted by Churchianity to basically put the wife in charge as the de facto leader in the relationship. Why do you guys worry about downvotes so much? A downvote means someone disagreed. It's..... kinda, you know, Reddit's built-in feature for that purpose. It's not like a high score will get you into heaven...
/r/RPChristians26/05/22 03:35 PM
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I don't deny that we are called to love our wives, or that we are called to do good to them. But show me the verse that says "Husbands, serve your wives." Show me the verse that uses the phrase Servant Leadership or Servant Leader. The problem is, that phrase has been co-opted by Churchianity to mean something different than the biblical definition you mentioned. But you're welcome to break out the notations and translations and state your case. I can always learn something new brother.
/r/RPChristians26/05/22 03:30 AM
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This is a good word.
/r/RPChristians26/05/22 03:21 AM
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Servant Leadership doesn't mean what you think it does. A woman should submit to her husband Yes. and allow him to be the leader. Like he needs her permission. Maybe that's not what you meant but look at your choice of words.
/r/RPChristians26/05/22 02:46 AM
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This is straight truth.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/22 04:07 AM
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This is a good word.
/r/RPChristians21/05/22 02:35 PM
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You've heard the saying "Put your own oxygen mask on before attempting to help others around you", right? Well that's important. No Christian can serve God faithfully for long if they wear themselves down to the bone. Plus when you're weary, the enemy can attack you much more easily. Jesus actually set the example: He went off by Himself to pray and seek solitude many times, even when the crowds were clamoring for Him and wanting healing and miracles. Jesus knew that taking care of Himself was i…
/r/RPChristians21/05/22 03:52 AM
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Virginity is valued greatly by God for both men and women. Those who would argue that a man's virginity is less important than a woman's is filtering the Bible through a Red Pill lens. It should be the other way around.
/r/RPChristians21/05/22 03:42 AM
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This might help
/r/askMRP19/05/22 03:31 PM
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Done. Great suggestion!
/r/RPChristians15/05/22 07:32 PM
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If his Mission is women, then sure lol. Your comment adds absolutely no value.
/r/RPChristians15/05/22 01:58 AM
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For you: Of course virginity is a desirable trait – it is what God has commanded, and God knows what He’s doing. You have saved yourself sexually for marriage and have EVERY RIGHT to expect the same. You have been obedient - God blesses obedience. Pray and ask God for what you desire, and then get busy on your Mission for Him. For everyone else: Is virginity worth searching for? That depends on who you ask, and what your reasons are. A woman who has saved herself for marriage because she wants t…
/r/RPChristians15/05/22 12:03 AM
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Man what is with the people posting lately? It's like they're just trying to say something "edgy" that will come off as controversial and attract attention. While most guys want the girl on their arm to be beautiful, getting married only to have a "status symbol" without considering the companionship aspect is just dumb. I would suggest waiting until you mature some more.
/r/RPChristians14/05/22 01:53 AM
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This is a good word.
/r/RPChristians10/05/22 06:33 PM
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https://dalrock.wordpress.com/2020/01/22/farewell-for-now-at-least-and-thank-you/ https://dalrock.wordpress.com/2020/01/24/message-heard/
/r/RPChristians10/05/22 06:32 PM
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Are you having sex with any of them?
/r/RPChristians10/05/22 06:29 PM
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I agree with the other commenters, getting consent would be highly preferable. If her parents are okay with the age difference then it would remove a potential roadblock. But what will you do if they're NOT okay with it and tell you to stop seeing her? This is always a possibility. Also, before anyone makes a comment about Stats, I don't see the need on this particular one.
/r/RPChristians10/05/22 06:27 PM
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This is a good word.
/r/RPChristians08/05/22 04:45 AM
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Here's a post that explains it in detail.
/r/RPChristians08/05/22 04:45 AM
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Amen. My inbox is open if you need help on your journey.
/r/RPChristians08/05/22 04:32 AM
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Still in Porn and Masturbation; cycle between nightly and once every other week depending on how much I'm reading scripture. I am brand new in town with a new property and want to immerse in church and start mission. You can clearly see the difference when you're in the Word vs. when you're not. Here's your first step. But I know I am not ready for mission so could use advice in getting my baggage squared away. You can begin to think about what a Mission would look like so you can set the founda…
/r/RPChristians08/05/22 02:09 AM
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I use it too, so no worries! I did most of the updating in the past for both Sidebars but missed that one somehow. It's a pain in the butt because you have to switch your account between old and new Reddit each time.
/r/RPChristians08/05/22 01:54 AM
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Good lookin out! Whoever added that last rule only added it to the Sidebar on New Reddit. The Legacy Reddit Sidebar must be updated separately. I fixed it.
/r/RPChristians07/05/22 02:22 PM
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This is a good word!
/r/RPChristians07/05/22 05:30 AM
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This is a good word!
/r/RPChristians07/05/22 05:27 AM
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Removed. Rule 10.
/r/RPChristians07/05/22 04:11 AM
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Roved for Rule 7 violation. You seem to be saying that casual sex is ok because the framework is different today. Convince me that's not what you're saying and I may restore the post and allow it to be debated.
/r/RPChristians06/05/22 09:19 PM
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I've not had to deal with it actually.
/r/RPChristians04/05/22 12:06 PM
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This is a good word.
/r/RPChristians04/05/22 01:47 AM
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Like most secular books we mention here: filter them through a biblical lens and adapt what you learn to create a godly approach from the useful parts. It's the toolbox approach.
/r/RPChristians04/05/22 01:45 AM
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Knowing the problem is the first step to changing it.
/r/RPChristians04/05/22 01:43 AM
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One boundary encroachment by the wife this week and I nuked it. I had a situation where I felt her behavior was rude and disrespectful and at first I STFU. After a minute of analyzing it I recognized one of my boundaries (respect) was tested so I flatly told her, “That was rude and disrespectful of you and it better never happen again!” Of course I got “ Oh, I’m sorry, I wasn’t thinking, blah blah blah” I removed myself from her presence for the rest of the night and got shit done. u/Blarg_Risen…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/22 11:46 PM
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Good reference! Here's the link. /u/Visual_Pack_2206, like that post says, "Make sure she is FA before taking this advice."
/r/RPChristians03/05/22 03:41 PM
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Curious, when she is giving attention, is that the time to pull or push? That's definitely the time to Push. Make her chase you. I could imagine when she starts being sexy to close the distance if I was to say “get away from me, you are too sexy” that it could be a fun tease. I’m guessing that’s my next experiment. Exactly. Then start to walk away and see what she does. I usually pull by giving her affection/positive statements and that aways kills the sexual tension. Aaaand....there it is. "Pos…
/r/RPChristians03/05/22 03:36 PM
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I appreciate you guys watching for that! Makes my job much easier. DM me if you see Rule 2 violations - I don't get notifications for modmail.
/r/RPChristians03/05/22 02:25 AM
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Yep, calibration is key. Experiment with different dynamics and see what happens. One thing you can do is mess with her: kiss her, get her worked up, make her think you want to take her to bed - then abruptly stop and go do something else. Make her chase YOU.
/r/RPChristians03/05/22 02:21 AM
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Women crave FeelzTM like men crave sex. They need it, it's non-negotiable for them. You need to engage more in Push/Pull, which creates tension in a woman. The tension increases and is released. The technique is perfect for creating the emotional roller coaster that women NEED. One example would be something like: "Get away from me. I can't have you around. You are too Sexy." ​ Push means pushing her away. Saying or doing things that imply a lack of interest: teasing not fully answering her ques…
/r/RPChristians02/05/22 11:04 PM
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If you're "actively invoking dread" you're missing the point. Dread is a byproduct of being a high value man, as u/BobbyPeru said. Here's an example: Let's say you're a golf fan. You go golfing every weekend with a friend you've known for 10 years. He's a great guy, and you usually get beers together afterward and shoot the breeze. Now let's say the owner of the golf club comes to you one day after your buddy has left. He tells you that Tiger Woods was watching you and wants to meet you tomorrow…
/r/askMRP01/05/22 05:41 AM
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Sounds good!
/r/RPChristians01/05/22 03:01 AM
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Excellent! After reading it, I'm curious to hear what you think.
/r/RPChristians01/05/22 01:48 AM
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Success isn't based on location, it's based on sanctification. As you get serious about your faith, the indwelling Holy Spirit will empower and enable you to reach others for Christ. Of course this starts with reading the instruction manual. Here's a post that will point you in the right direction. Watch the videos that are linked as well, they will help you. Remember: YOU are the church.
/r/askRPC29/04/22 04:37 AM
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The link is on the Sidebar, and right after his name it says u/Deep_Strength in parentheses. It's over there - - - - - - - - >
/r/RPChristians29/04/22 04:28 AM
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Ok so a few points here: I don't expect them to come to the conversation "naked exposing all" (figuratively speaking) before the conversation is allowed to even start. It's only for relationship-related questions, per Rule 2. And for those, stats are necessary to avoid people skirting the true reasons for their relationship problems. Physical stats usually reveal if a person is overweight, or doesn't lift. Attractiveness solves many/most of those issues, and that involves being in shape. "Missio…
/r/RPChristians28/04/22 09:41 PM
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Removed. Rule 4.
/r/RPChristians18/04/22 12:04 PM
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Ok this is a start. What will you do if she continues to escalate the situation despite you doing the things listed above? You see, here's the problem in a nutshell: when you resist, she escalates. You resist more. She escalates even more. You'll get scared and back down, and when you do this you are reinforcing the very behavior you seek to change. So what will happen is that when you stand your ground, she will escalate even more in a desperate attempt to maintain control. This is when things …
/r/askMRP14/04/22 04:20 AM
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Man, this is such a solid response.
/r/askMRP13/04/22 07:22 PM
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I need to realize my role in all of this and take full ownership of this behavior by enforcing consequences as well as doing more to lead these interactions instead of reacting. This part of your response is EXACTLY the problem. It's just words. Words without any concrete action behind them. An example, tonight my wife was pissed at me after I mildly snapped at her and I even owned it right away. About an hour later my wife wanted to revisit and followed me around the house trying to get me to s…
/r/askMRP13/04/22 07:21 PM
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It's not too late. Make God #1 in your life and He will bless you in His perfect timing.
/r/askRPC12/04/22 04:03 PM
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But then having sex like that again, after all these years of chasing it - as fun as it was - I started to wonder, is that what I've been chasing this whole time? Yes. Yes it is. I need to start looking at other areas of my life except fitness and marriage to work on now though. What hobbies interest you?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/22 04:01 PM
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What are some more traits to work on to balance the good beta traits out? What you want is the traits of Jesus. Jesus wasn’t a Nice GuyTM at all by the modern definition (agreeable and passive). Jesus was a strong, tough, disagreeable leader. Sure, He had compassion and loved others (Beta). But, He wasn’t weak or wishy-washy. He knew what was right, stood firm in His conviction, and influenced others (Alpha). He did it knowing there were serious risks, even to His life (Alpha). However, that bol…
/r/askRPC12/04/22 03:40 PM
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Curious, what are the beta traits you see? Your income/business ownership and home ownership are beta provider traits. Nothing wrong with that - we should be stable and in a good situation financially. But these are not traits that make you attractive to women from an actual attraction perspective. They simply make you attractive to those women who want a provider. Yeah, it could have been the latter… but, since I messed up and fell into lust and fornication, it’s hard to me to believe that the …
/r/askRPC12/04/22 03:21 PM
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Let's be clear here: I had removed a lot of my attention from her (and the household) into work over last several years Being a beta workhorse is not "removing time and attention from her." Work is work. Time and attention is what you have to give when you're NOT at work. ​ I believe that I did too little verbal intercouse Verbal intercourse is what SHE does. Sexual intercourse is what YOU'RE after. ​ and generated no feelings, which looped into no sex (and vice versa). Women crave FeelzTM like …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/22 03:17 PM
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She is nearly always stressed, anxious, ruminating, and cock-blocks me by spinning noise around in her head. My response to rejection is to try and switch to a TV show that we both like, or to go on the spinner and sprint. This is good, as long as you're gradually withdrawing your time and attention and getting busy with other things. It doesn't sound like you've got a plan together yet to do that. It’s usually around 930PM when this happens. But occasionally the initiations are starting to work…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/22 02:23 PM
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Man, there are more red flags here than a communist parade. go to the gym 3 days a week minimum and am fit although a bit skinny for my liking at the moment This tells me you're physically active but don't lift heavy. Would you advise a 26 y/o male against marrying a 23 y/o divorced woman This is the part that matters. I would STRONGLY ADVISE AGAINST IT. who was cheated on multiple times in their marriage So she either married a cheater or she didn't handle her business in the bedroom. (from wha…
/r/askRPC12/04/22 02:10 PM
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Eventually it won't matter. They will force us to go underground. Best to get ready now while there is time: https://www.reddit.com/r/RPChristians/comments/ft7xv2/what_does_the_future_hold_for_us_as_christians/
/r/RPChristians11/04/22 05:25 PM
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Post your stats. Message me and I'll unlock the post.
/r/RPChristians10/04/22 01:25 AM
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Welcome. I got hammmered in ask Mrp that’s ok I deserved it. Lol join the club - I'm the president. I'm here writing to you because of them. how do Christian’s intrerpret twobshall become one without meaning that the couple needs to move as one fluid entity all the time Matthew 19:4-6 says: And He answered and said to them, “Have you not read that He who made them at the beginning ‘made them male and female,’ and said, ‘For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his…
/r/RPChristians09/04/22 03:02 AM
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Something has to be done about MSM, man... The amount of false, dumb and plain heinous shit they're allowed to produce and push onto unsuspecting low IQ masses is literally becoming more harmful to society than just about anything short of nuclear bombs dropping from the sky... Something CAN be done about it: TURN OFF THE TV AND GO DO STUFF THAT MATTERS. They only produce it because people continue to watch it.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/22 03:47 PM
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That's fair. I don’t think about that money anymore. Since it's outside your control, you've concluded that there is nothing more you can do about it, so you shouldn’t worry. You've accepted it and have moved on. You've actually developed a very Stoic approach to this situation. Well done.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/22 03:37 PM
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I think I understand your point, but doesn't this carrot and stick analogy kind of create a covert contract for my wife to live in; If I do the housework, then my husband will give me more attention? Is the goal to create that framework? Maybe that is not such a bad thing. Well, what you really want is to create that virtuous cycle of both spouses adding value to each others' lives, and that happening frequently enough that keeping score is unnecessary. Inverting the power dynamic, which is a be…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/22 03:00 PM
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I'm feeling generous today: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/about/sidebar Start at the top. Click each link and read the post. Buy each book and read them in order. Don't skip anything. If you see something and your first thought is "That doesn't apply to me" - READ IT. Many of us thought the same thing at the beginning.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/22 10:32 PM
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You spent > $160K to secure custody, then she decides to go live with her mother anyway? After you spent all of that? Bro, I would be BEYOND resentful about that. That's not even a Covert Contract anymore, that's a slap in the face.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/22 10:24 PM
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So, growing out of this phase is process in and of itself. I am getting the fucking I wanted. But leading by example was not working to maintain the house the way I wanted, and I let her know. I told her she also has to take on more responsibility around the house, and I did a hard stop on a lot of the housework. Once I let her know that, that is when the real shit tests began. That is also when the real leadership began. Still figuring this next phase out as I am going. I think this is where yo…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/22 08:50 PM
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Recognize difference between shit test and comfort test. As a general rule of thumb you can distinguish between shit tests and comfort tests in the following way: You. You are a jerk. You do what you want to do. You you you. These are shit tests. I am / feel lonely. I want to feel wanted. I .I. I . These are comfort tests. How to tell when a shit test turns into a comfort test: Her test will shift from accusing you of doing something (shit) to how she feels about the situation (comfort). Her bod…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/22 08:26 PM
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Those words were verbalized to me, so to speak, a few nights ago... just minutes after what was a consensual act. My ego is so afraid of even posting this when I know I'm going to get hammered for it. And this is the reason you're stalled. Kill your ego - or it'll end up keeping you right where you are.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/22 08:08 PM
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This was likely a Congruence Test from her. She's testing you to see if you're really that new man she's starting to see a glimmer of when you initiate sex. Not being congruent will extinguish the flame of that fire you're rekindling in your marriage. What exactly was the situation? What was said?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/22 08:03 PM
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I've come to realise I've got a much shorter fuse with her than I do with anyone else and it's not fair. I can go all week without getting irritated with anyone but she's not getting the same patience and understanding which is shit and unfair. I must have some pre-programmed emotional responses to her actions that bypass the logical part of me. I'll work hard on this. Could it be resentment over having to spend so much money to secure custody from her raging alcoholic mother? In other words, "I…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/22 07:59 PM
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Great job Dad. These are the times he will remember as the best times in his life. Good times with his Dad, as he shares his gifts with him. ​ Because one day someone will ask him "If you could have one thing in this world what would it be?" -- and he'll likely answer: "Just one more phone call with my Dad."
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/22 07:21 PM
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My wife and I fucked twice this week, both times mid day, as the kids were playing downstairs. Once was a quicky, once was a full on fuck session. There was no covert contract, for me, about attention being earned by fucking. I created the experience I wanted. I am going to create more experiences like that too. That is my gift to world and to others, the experiences that I have the ability to create. On the flip side of that, I got some shitty behavior, call it a shit test, maybe just bitchy at…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/22 07:10 PM
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Bought a new corvette. Took it to a guy to detail it right after. He wanted to charge $1300. I thought it was too much. He said it is what it is, explained it needed 7 coats. I agreed with him. I decided to do it myself. I researched how to properly do a full detailed color correction with a dual action polisher, clay bar, compound, polish, wax, seal, more polish, chrome finishing, everything. It cost me about $500 for materials. I did it. I’m good at it. It takes a lot of time, which I enjoy. B…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/22 07:00 PM
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Removed per Rule 4.
/r/RPChristians29/03/22 12:26 AM
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Married 2 years, stopped going to the gym 6 months after getting married and put on a bunch of weight. But yeah, it still could be an attraction problem. Not entirely sure. Well you're the only one here that's not sure.
/r/askMRP27/03/22 03:50 PM
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And I heard another voice from heaven saying, “Come out of her, my people, lest you share in her sins, and lest you receive of her plagues. For her sins have reached to heaven, and God has remembered her iniquities. Revelation 18:4‭-‬5 Find a new church immediately. Also, in your comment history you said you were going to cut your hair, that you thought it would help your self-image. Just do it if it's going to make a difference for you. You can always grow it back later if you change your mind.…
/r/RPChristians21/03/22 01:32 AM
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Track your calories with an app like MyFitnessPal. Let's say you're eating 1,500 calories per day on average. Add 100 calories a day the following week and each week after that. So that would look like: Week 1 - 1,500 calories per day Week 2 - 1,600 calories per day Week 3 - 1,700 calories per day Week 4 - 1,800 calories per day You will likely need to work up to 3,000 calories a day or more to see a difference, but this approach will get you there without constantly feeling sick like your stoma…
/r/RPChristians21/03/22 01:25 AM
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This is a good word.
/r/RPChristians21/03/22 01:15 AM
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God bless you too! And thanks again for the kind words. You are welcome to ask as many questions as you like, I'll answer when I get a chance. Also, feel free to pm me, my inbox is always open.
/r/RPChristians19/03/22 03:18 AM
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I’ve considered trying to date my friend. We live in different states though. Long distance relationships are almost never a good idea. And if she's a friend, if she wanted more she likely would have made her intentions clear. I would advise against this. How strong is your wife’s drive? Equal than or a little less? I would say a little less. But my situation is a bit different, since we are both in our 50s. I would say a better explanation would be that she doesn't initiate as often as I do, bu…
/r/RPChristians18/03/22 08:10 PM
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I am Christian yes! But I am not yet baptized. I’m deciding between catholic and orthodox. Glad to hear it, but that's not what I asked. Are you born again? Have you received the gift of the indwelling Holy Spirit? That’s sweet sir. Happy anniversary! There’s a friend of mine, her birthday’s that same day. The 20th. Anyway. Pray for me, and my friend for her birthday. Thank you! And I will pray for both of you. I’m like you, it’s a big need for me. But I’m also willing to compromise if a woman i…
/r/RPChristians18/03/22 02:03 PM
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Well why not? I get a notification so of course I'll respond. I wish to marry a proverbs 13 woman, and help her as she helps me, to get to heaven. And to have kids of my own. I will pray for that right now! One question: are you born again? So, I take it you two are still honoring eachothers conjuctal rights? ;) Yes. We'll be married 14 years on March 20th, and we've never denied each other. She's definitely done her part - she was willing to learn, and has done exceptionally well. Of course I'v…
/r/RPChristians18/03/22 02:15 AM
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Hey thanks for the kind words! And the prayers! I'm truly blessed. And yes, she's very beautiful, but more importantly, she's godly. A true Proverbs 31 woman. I just needed to get my act together to bring that out.
/r/RPChristians17/03/22 11:52 PM
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Intermittent Fasting also forces your body to burn fat once your meal has been fully digested and your stomach is empty. Doing that over a 2-1/2 year period helped me lose 73 lbs. And that was BEFORE I ever started lifting. But besides reducing caloric intake and increasing physical activity, the other vital thing to address if you're overweight is sweets / sugar intake. 1,000 calories of cookies is not equal to 1,000 calories of chicken in terms of how it affects your body. During digestion, in…
/r/RPChristians06/03/22 03:59 PM
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Great post! Very comprehensive. Since you mentioned organ meats, what's your opinion on liver tabs? Old school bodybuilders swore by them, and my older son does too.
/r/RPChristians05/03/22 05:24 AM
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Berkey or Pro-Pur.
/r/RPChristians05/03/22 05:19 AM
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Just make one better choice tomorrow. Instead of a 44 oz soda, drink a 20 oz. Instead of 3 double cheeseburgers, have 2. These things add up over time. Correcting obesity requires 2 things: more activity and less food. Start cutting your caloric intake bit by bit. Walk 10 minutes tomorrow. 11 minutes the next day. 12 minutes the next. Once you get some momentum and have lost a few pounds, post an OYS and tag me and I'll give you some more specific advice. I lost 73 lbs in 2-1/2 years, you can to…
/r/RPChristians05/03/22 05:11 AM
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when the fasting (which kind of goes against big gains) isn't mentioned there anywhere (at least I havent found it) You're right, we don't have a post on the Sidebar about fasting. Yet. How about this: I challenge you to make a meaningful contribution to the sub by writing a post on fasting. A well-written post on that subject would surely be a valuable addition here!
/r/RPChristians28/02/22 06:21 PM
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Back in the time 1 Timothy was written, men WERE strong. If you were weak, YOU DIED. Plain and simple. Daily life was full of strenuous activity, so dedicating extra time to physical exercise was not necessary. If daily life was hard today like it was in the past, gyms would not exist. Very few men alive today would have survived back then. Notice also: it doesn't say "For bodily exercise profiteth not at all..."
/r/RPChristians28/02/22 02:23 PM
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right, but having it as a requirement before offering help? Here is a post about why stats are important. Yes, before we offer help we want an accurate picture so we can offer the right kind of help. in this sub it's the single most important thing (evidenced by that it's the only thing in the sidebar that's in bold It's not the single most important thing. However, the kind of men who are most likely to benefit from our help are those who choose to embrace the total program. Those who don't lif…
/r/RPChristians28/02/22 02:16 PM
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Once again you're arguing a point I did not make, while ignoring the point I DID make.
/r/RPChristians28/02/22 12:02 PM
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Men are certainly not 100% to blame. However, often a man is not leading his family - he's coasting, and the void created by his lack of leadership forces the woman to step up and fill that void. Which creates problems. In those situations the woman is causing A problem, but the problem wouldn't exist in the first place if the man was doing his job. That's what "It's all your fault" means. A TV is an inanimate object! Your lame analogy has nothing to do with marriage! Lol. People come here with …
/r/RPChristians27/02/22 11:03 PM
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Aaaaand here we have it: the EXACT default mindset of the modern married man. Our approach here is to fix the man, which usually (but not always) fixes the marriage. Why? Because it's all your fault. Countless men have come here saying something similar to what you said, and 6 months to a year later they usually say "Wow - it really WAS all my fault." Of course this is because they commit to doing the work. Most men won't do the work. Take the Sidebar for instance: there's literally thousands of…
/r/RPChristians27/02/22 03:42 PM
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This is a good word.
/r/RPChristians27/02/22 05:25 AM
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I think this post was needed. It helps clarify things that aren’t always obvious in the sidebar. Thanks. In the comments of that post, OP called someone a name (that I won’t repost here) which I imagine violates the “be respectful” rule. That comment was not removed. u/Deep_Strength addressed that here. But even that rule is broken by the mods themselves, with references to OYS and IDGAF You mean Own Your Self and I Don’t Give A Flip? Look I know this is a sensitive issue for many, but we're not…
/r/RPChristians27/02/22 04:31 AM
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This is an accurate assessment, and a good word.
/r/RPChristians27/02/22 04:00 AM
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Locked until you provide stats. Message me when you post them and I'll unlock it. My simple advice here is this: DON'T EVEN THINK ABOUT GOING TO THIS RECEPTION. PLAY ALONG UNTIL THAT MORNING. THEN LEAVE HER HANGING. SHUT YOUR PHONE OFF FOR THE ENTIRE DAY AND LEAVE TOWN. If you go, you're setting yourself up for a lifetime of this behavior. Imagine the embarrassment when her husband doesn't show up to the wedding reception. Let her come back to you (or not) after that - on your terms. In the mean…
/r/RPChristians26/02/22 05:51 AM
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I also endorse this. There's a huge difference between "Hey guys, how do I...?" and "I've read the Sidebar and am reading my Bible daily. I searched the sub and didn't see this covered so how do I...?"
/r/RPChristians23/02/22 10:07 PM
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This is an excellent breakdown. Well said!
/r/RPChristians23/02/22 08:24 PM
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Weed. I used to smoke it daily. Did it for 23 years. Know how much progress I made? Zero. Check out this comment, you will likely find it useful.
/r/RPChristians23/02/22 08:02 PM
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Thanks brother!
/r/RPChristians15/02/22 08:02 PM
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This is a great post, and a very timely one for me. Thank you. Sober-minded I think I have this one under control. Self-controlled While everyone can improve on this one, I'm confident I've made great progress here. Respectable I'll say that others seem to show me great respect, whether in person or online. lifting how you speak how you dress While being sick recently set me back in my lifting program, I'm focusing on recovering lost ground now that I'm recovered. Hospitable My wife and I both e…
/r/RPChristians15/02/22 04:40 AM
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I've been raised Christian and as a teenager began to look for myself, but though any struggles I maintained my belief and strengthened it with my knowledge. No such thing. You may have been raised in a Christian household, but nobody is "raised Christian." It is a decision that a person makes when they are aware of their sin and realize that only Jesus can save them. Then you go to Him in prayer, tell Him you're sorry for the things you've done and ask Him to save you and make you an new creati…
/r/askRPC11/02/22 11:38 PM
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Removed. This does not fit the purpose of our sub.
/r/RPChristians09/02/22 02:18 PM
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Hit me up bro and I'll see what I can do to help.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/22 04:37 AM
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Party people: I can't get back into my discord. Help. If you forgot the Discord login password, you can go to https://discord.com/login to enter the email address you used to sign in Discord, and click Forgot your password link. Then you can login your email and check the Discord email. Click Restore Account in the email to reset Discord password and recover your Discord account. If you forgot the email account that you used to sign in the Discord account, then the only way to get back your Disc…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/22 04:24 AM
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Would you consider yourself to be born again? That's the most important thing to figuring out the rest of this.
/r/askRPC08/02/22 05:28 PM
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This post explains in detail.
/r/RPChristians08/02/22 02:57 AM
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She was doing it at work. She’s a manager of a bar Way to bury the lead, champ.
/r/askMRP31/01/22 12:39 AM
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No direct crossposts. You can use a NP link. Please read the link for Rule 9.
/r/RPChristians29/01/22 02:37 AM
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Stats are needed. He's asking about potential marriage partners and a strategy to get a spouse. This qualifies as relationship advice. Besides, most men who avoid posting stats (when there's clearly an emphasis on them here) do so for a reason.
/r/RPChristians29/01/22 02:32 AM
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Locked until you provide stats per Rule 2. Message me when stats are added and I'll unlock the post.
/r/RPChristians25/01/22 01:08 PM
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"Peter said to Him, “You shall never wash my feet!” Jesus answered him, “If I do not wash you, you have no part with Me.” Simon Peter said to Him, “Lord, not my feet only, but also my hands and my head!” Jesus said to him, “He who is bathed needs only to wash his feet, but is completely clean; and you are clean, but not all of you.” Peter was being instructed to do what Jesus said even when it didn't make sense. For if he could not humble himself enough to let the Lord wash his feet, then Peter …
/r/RPChristians24/01/22 07:52 PM
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Equal in value, not equal in the egalitarian sense. The Bible is clearly patriarchal. BUT because Adam knew GOD and obeyed Him and did not eat You clearly don't know your Bible: "So when the woman saw that the tree was good for food, that it was pleasant to the eyes, and a tree desirable to make one wise, she took of its fruit and ate. She also gave to her husband with her, and he ate." has made GOD put the curse upon all women to have Man appointed over her to guide her and care for her The cur…
/r/RPChristians24/01/22 07:35 PM
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Removed. Next comment like that will get you banned.
/r/RPChristians24/01/22 07:29 PM
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To be saved, Jesus said you must be born again.
/r/askRPC24/01/22 12:12 PM
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You are correct. Matthew 7:13-14 says “Enter by the narrow gate; for wide is the gate and broad is the way that leads to destruction, and there are many who go in by it. Because narrow is the gate and difficult is the way which leads to life, and there are few who find it." Sad indeed. That's why we do this, to help them see.
/r/askRPC24/01/22 12:10 PM
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While you are correct that wives should be obedient to 1 Corinthians 7 (and yes, you are correct that mine takes it very seriously), we also have to remember that attraction matters and cannot be negotiated. My wife is attracted to me because I lift and take my diet seriously so I can look good and feel good. I'm attractive, and my wife knows other women check me out. I’ve been in enough guys groups to know many married guys end up falling into porn not due to an addiction but because their wive…
/r/RPChristians24/01/22 01:02 AM
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True but you're overthinking it. If you find a woman who is willing to submit herself to God and takes her walk seriously, this will mitigate the majority of these concerns. The last thing the devil wants is for Christians to marry. Nope. Let them suffer and fall into porn, masturbation and sexual temptation instead, neutering their effectiveness for the Kingdom of God.
/r/RPChristians23/01/22 10:05 PM
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It's the fact they don't read their Bibles to start with. Most of them are not born again, so they don't have the Holy Spirit to guide and teach them from within. And the "evolving with the times" is nonsense, because "Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, today, and forever." (Hebrews 13:8) The fact is, while some is ignorance, most is willful ignoring of biblical truths. Because sinful humans gonna do what sinful humans gonna do. 2 Timothy 4:3-4 says "For the time will come when they will not en…
/r/askRPC23/01/22 10:01 PM
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What you will find is that there are many who call themselves Christians - it doesn't mean they are born again, real followers of Christ who obey His commands (which is the biblical definition of a Christian). God says numerous times in His Word that sex before marriage is not allowed - it is called fornication, and is a sin. That being said, how common is it? Pretty common. The church these days often looks no different than the world. And remember, those who teach that it's okay to do this sor…
/r/askRPC23/01/22 09:37 PM
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It may be considered illegal under the current conditions that you've outlined. But when things like this come up, remember Acts 5:29 "But Peter and the other apostles answered and said: 'We ought to obey God rather than men.'"
/r/RPChristians23/01/22 09:34 PM
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You're welcome. At this time there are no plans to have one Reddit sub that is co-ed. The creators of the RPC Discord decided to make that space available for men and women, and they moderate it separately. And because of the way Discord is set up, there are not only co-ed channels, but channels for men-only and women-only as well. It's a really great place; in fact, most of us spend more time there these days than we do on Reddit.
/r/RPChristians17/01/22 08:28 PM
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We have one: Discord.
/r/RPChristians17/01/22 08:08 PM
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Reddit does not allow the name of a sub to be changed.
/r/RPChristians17/01/22 11:53 AM
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How to Lead Your Wife to Get in Shape
/r/askMRP14/01/22 07:11 PM
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Since your life seems to revolve around the court thing right now: Vision: pick three simple ideas that describe what your world should look like after the court dust settles. Mission: What do you need to do between now and then to realize those three simple ideas? Plans: What one or two specific things do you need to do to make your Mission successful? Frame: Who are you right now? "I'm a man who..." Finish the sentence. Who do you want to be after court? How are those men different specificall…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/22 10:31 PM
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I like this OYS, you seem to have an idea of where you're going. I feel a bit a shame that I am on such a dry spell, however I know I am working on myself and getting better, relationship is much much better at the moment just lack of sex. You may find this helpful. got a few shit tests about gym time and being strict with my diet. Just Fogged that working out is important to me This is not Fogging. "Working out is important to me" is the Explain part of DEER. Fogging would be "Hmmm, maybe you'r…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/22 06:13 PM
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I don't have a mission yet and so the value she brings is less clear. Here's some direction to get started finding your Mission - it's 4 things: Vision is a manifested idea of the future. Mission is what you will do to make that future happen. Plans are individual steps you take to fulfill your Mission, and are developed within the context of a Vision. Frame is knowing who you are and what you want, which is essential to successfully accomplishing your Mission. All 4 are necessary. For the relat…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/22 05:55 PM
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No posts that are just video links. Write a post about it.
/r/RPChristians06/01/22 02:04 PM
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This is too graphic for our sub. Removed.
/r/RPChristians03/01/22 02:20 AM
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EDIT: UNLOCKED Locked until you provide stats. Message me when you add them and I will unlock the post.
/r/RPChristians01/01/22 03:24 PM
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Removed. Rule 4
/r/RPChristians31/12/21 02:43 PM
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Thank God I bought my house in 2013. It's currently worth 3X the original purchase price. I'll have it paid off in the next 2 years with my current strategy. Looking forward to freedom from debt.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/21 04:00 PM
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What I mean is, are you having sex outside of marriage, and want to use birth control as a way to avoid being trapped by a woman?
/r/RPChristians30/12/21 01:13 PM
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Bro. What happened to your pursuit of the Orthodox faith? Luke 9:62
/r/TheRedPill26/12/21 04:40 PM
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This is a good word. I would add an additional question: is he married or single? Intent matters greatly here.
/r/RPChristians26/12/21 02:15 AM
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I hope i’ll go to heaven. You don't sound very sure. Are you born again?
/r/RPChristians25/12/21 03:01 PM
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Stop taking Propecia if you haven't already. Accept your hair situation and then shave it off completely. Rid yourself of this demon in your life. Do you lift? Are you going to heaven when you die? How do you know you are/aren't?
/r/RPChristians25/12/21 04:27 AM
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Edit: Unlocked Locked until you expand the post. Rule 4. We don't allow posts with only a link, you must provide at least a summary of the material and what you found useful, as u/NoFaithInThisSub said. Message me or another mod directly when finished (modmail does not give a notification on mobile) and the post will be unlocked.
/r/RPChristians23/12/21 02:49 AM
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I'm debating going back to get it done now at 43. I'm sure I could do it. My grandfather finished his doctorate the same year he turned 50. The main thing holding me back is my kids are 11 and 13 and I realize it won't be that much longer before I'll have an empty nest so I'm trying to make the most of that time I do have with them before then. When you stand before the Lord on Judgment Day, He is not going to care what degree you earned. He will care how you led your children to Him and taught …
/r/RPChristians20/12/21 02:26 PM
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His warning is well-intended and worded wisely. We don't want to ban people from here, but this is a men-only space. We are working on something more active to direct women to r/rpcwomen but in the meantime, I appreciate the pre-emptive comment.
/r/RPChristians15/12/21 11:06 PM
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If God has forgiven her and wiped the slate clean, removing her sins as far as the east is from the west (Psalm 103:12), then who are YOU to hold them against her when God Himself has forgiven her? ​ OTOH, her talking in detail about her sexual past when you have made it very clear that it bothers you is not right - she is not showing love and concern to you, her husband. You took her as your wife, despite knowing her past. ​ The thing is is that she doesnt feel like she should have to censor he…
/r/RPChristians15/12/21 11:03 PM
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The book is called Chasing Daylight by Erwin McManus.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/21 10:22 PM
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We're not here to debate circumcision. We have freedom in Christ. You are correct that it is not required. However, it is also not prohibited, and in some cases even preferred (Acts 16:1-5). Removed. Any further posts about this will get you banned.
/r/RPChristians04/12/21 03:59 AM
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This is a great answer, and a good word!
/r/askRPC04/12/21 01:15 AM
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Approved.
/r/askRPC02/12/21 05:34 PM
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Edit: approved Removed. Rule 4 violation. Remove the video link and message me and I will reapprove. We do not promote outside content. Also, we don't really care what other subs think about our sub. We are here to glorify God, not play church like the rest of society. However, you are welcome to create your own sub since it is obviously on your heart. Not affiliated with our sub, of course.
/r/askRPC02/12/21 02:17 PM
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We are here to help those who are honestly seeking after Christ. That honestly doesn't sound like you. Maybe I'm wrong. But your post certainly does make me doubt your sincerity. Consider this: I like to do drugs deflorate virgins and have sex outside of marriage If your post had said "I struggle with drug addiction, sexual addiction and sex outside of marriage" then that would give us something to work with. See, we all struggle with sin, even if we are born again. The difference is that we hav…
/r/askRPC01/12/21 05:21 PM
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At 6 years old your son is unlikely to be motivated by fear for very long. This approach will breed resentment. u/HornsOfApathy's idea is a good one: go to the store together and choose foods for each other. But this speaks to the larger issue as well: kids learn by example. YOUR example. My younger son only wanted chicken nuggets and french fries when he was 4-5 years old. That was my fault. When i got married, my wife began to feed him stuff he wasn't used to. He tried some of it, and pitched …
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/21 06:38 PM
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Removed. Low effort post. Edit it with details and give us something to work with, and I might reapprove it. Message me directly if you do that and we'll see. I did leave this up for several hours because I know prayer is valuable, and I know people who see this here will pray for you. But /u/lab_of_the_sea_2021 is right: you've got to act too.
/r/RPChristians29/11/21 10:31 PM
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When in doubt, throw it out. Stick to the Word, brother.
/r/askRPC27/11/21 04:34 AM
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This is a great approach. Many people jump headfirst into building a habit and get burned out quickly. Small changes add up over time, whoch creates momentum. What's the hardest exercise at the gym? Front door pulls. What's the hardest part of building good habits? Just getting started. Start small and stay consistent, and you'll get there. Great post!
/r/RPChristians27/11/21 04:28 AM
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You have no post or comment history. Removed.
/r/RPChristians26/11/21 08:58 PM
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Well yes, you are the problem. But that doesn't absolve her of the fact that she's sinning. But right now you can only do something about the first one.
/r/RPChristians23/11/21 01:29 PM
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Comments like this will not be tolerated. 3 day ban, next violation will be a permanent ban.
/r/askRPC23/11/21 02:10 AM
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Removed - low quality post. Also, no links to your own outside content.
/r/askRPC23/11/21 02:09 AM
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You're excusing your behavior by seeing her behavior (which is very similar in the eyes of the Lord) as worse than your own. Check yourself, brother. You can't control if she cheats on you, but you CAN get yourself together and start leading your household in the ways of the Lord. Focus on building your relationship with Him.
/r/RPChristians22/11/21 11:31 PM
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This is a good word.
/r/RPChristians22/11/21 11:21 PM
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How did you know? I've been saving the 180 gram remaster for a special occasion 💿
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/21 04:50 AM
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Lol time to break out 1984 and take a fresh listen!
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/21 02:19 AM
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I have had such a hard time with wondering if doing the right thing is worth it. If doing the right thing by obeying the Lord's commands isn't worth it, then why not just run full speed the other way and live like a pagan? Why not just jump right into the middle of everything your sinful heart desires? The truth is, GOD IS WORTH IT. Yeah, we struggle with sin as human beings, but we struggle because He IS worth it. You're in good company, though: even Paul struggled with sin, as he wrote about i…
/r/RPChristians18/11/21 09:25 PM
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Sounds like she wanted a baby. Now that she has one she has no reason to continue having sex. Since sex hurts her right now, tell her you want a blowjob instead. Her response will tell you exactly where things are at.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/21 09:48 PM
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Matchmaking is not the purpose of this sub. Removed.
/r/askRPC16/10/21 06:16 PM
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Good point - you're right. If it's called out then he sees it as an issue and your response is better. However I don't like the "it won't happen again" part unless I was directly at fault for being late. If it was due to circumstances beyond my control I would simply say "Yes you are correct. Regrettably it was due to circumstances beyond my control" and then tell him what happened. My example of what the boss was thinking is based on my own personal experience: he would be very unlikely to call…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/21 09:44 PM
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If the boss calls you out for being late, then chances are it's not the first time. Better to be the guy who is always on time or early. That way if a rare instance arises where you absolutely cannot avoid being late, it won't even be mentioned because in the boss' mind he will be thinking "Wow, THAT guy is NEVER late. Must have been unavoidable."
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/21 06:49 PM
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Obviously, if you've actually and significantly hurt someone you value, then a full-on sincere apology probably needs to be given too, and you need fix whatever can be fixed and move on without wallowing. And obviously, if you don't really value the person or the relationship, there's nothing lost in going ahead and giving a hollow and simple apology ("sorry about that") just to cover the common decency front. Try your best to eliminate the word "sorry" from your vocabulary. For example if you a…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/21 05:20 PM
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You’re correct, there is no Scripture explicitly condemning polygamy – although Jesus DID say “Have you not read that he who created them from the beginning made them male and female, and said, ‘Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh’?” in Matthew 19:4-5 Meeting people off Craigslist for sex probably falls outside biblical guidelines as well, eh? Fornication and all… More Craigslist encounters. Oh look: threesome experi…
/r/RPChristians16/09/21 09:39 PM
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Removed for direct crossposting. Rule 9.
/r/RPChristians16/09/21 08:20 PM
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This is the truth. It's just hard to see it right now. We often think we see things clearly. But when we are in the midst of a difficult situation, what looks clear really isn't. When you're in the big city, downtown, what do you see? A clear blue sky and fresh air. But get in a plane and fly over that same city and what do you see? Smog. Smog so thick and gray you wonder how you didn't see it before. Distance simply provides a new perspective and allows you to see everything as it really is.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/21 02:40 AM
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I have serious blind spots on how to navigate the parenting relationship with my son’s mother. Unfortunately, the trope “the relationship is her job” might not exactly apply here. At this point, it's not your responsibility to try and control the outcome here. And it's not hers either. It's his. ​ My son is so fucked that he ended up in a mental hospital after saying he wanted to kill himself about half a year ago, and my heart (ego?) breaks as my anxiety hamster spins up and tries to figure out…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/21 08:08 PM
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You haven't come across as disrespectful, and we are always open to respectful input. It comes down to practicing what I feel is useful within the context of my faith. It doesn't make sense to the rest of the world. And it's not supposed to. But the toolbox approach has been of great benefit to fixing many of the deficiencies in my life, while still maintaining my walk with the Lord.
/r/RPChristians24/08/21 03:08 PM
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Understood. The lengthy response was more for the benefit of anyone else reading, because this question does come up from time to time.
/r/RPChristians24/08/21 02:57 PM
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Yeah, I've actually been mulling this comment over quite a bit recently. Here's my thoughts: So realize, between your religion and Red Pill reading, you have two sources that are suggest to you that, if you just believe that they say, you will be VERY RIGHT and a lot of people you know will be TOTALLY WRONG. You will have The Answers to How Things Really Are, you will see a bunch of people pulling doors even though the PUSH sign is now TOTALLY OBVIOUS to you, and it will be very easy to walk aro…
/r/RPChristians23/08/21 08:50 PM
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My profile is up to date as well, and all those things are present. I have made it as easy as possible for opportunities to find me, but you have made me think about it. I am going to spend some time revising it and freshening it up. Thanks for the push!
/r/RPChristians23/08/21 08:20 PM
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Careful here. There is no "hatred" towards anyone in his comment. He is absolutely correct in what he says concerning the incongruency issue. Speaking the biblical truth is not hatred, it is love. Eternity is a long time. You are correct that a sin is a sin is a sin. However, the issue is those who would push an agenda to legitimize this particular sin by "reinterpreting" what the Bible clearly condemns to make it appear as if things have changed today "because the culture was different when the…
/r/RPChristians23/08/21 08:16 PM
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All are welcome here. That being said, know that we believe every single word of what the Bible has to say, so please read Rule 7 on the Sidebar carefully and consider it in light of what the Bible says before posting or commenting.
/r/RPChristians23/08/21 06:43 PM
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What about the other verses? 1 Corinthians 11:3-10 But I want you to understand that Christ is the head of every man, and the man is the head of a woman, and God is the head of Christ. 4 Every man who has something on his head while praying or prophesying, disgraces his head. 5 But every woman who has her head uncovered while praying or prophesying, disgraces her head; for she is one and the same with her whose head is shaved. 6 For if a woman does not cover her head, let her also have her hair …
/r/RPChristians22/08/21 04:14 PM
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Every group holds positions that are against some bad things. That doesn't mean that the things they promote are good. The Taliban is against being homo. Would you make the same argument?
/r/RPChristians22/08/21 04:07 PM
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Feminism and egalitarianism are opposed to each other. Feminism is against everything God's word commands, and promotes abortion among other sinful things. Neil Shenvi goes into further detail in this review of a book about feminism. I'm sure you will find it enlightening.
/r/RPChristians22/08/21 03:54 AM
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I disagree. How will they have any chance to be saved if Christians reject them and don't spend time with them? As long as they are respectful, unbelievers are always welcome.
/r/RPChristians22/08/21 03:48 AM
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/r/RPChristians17/08/21 04:20 PM
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Background / Stats: 51 years old, 5’9”, 197.0, 16% BF. Married 13 years, 3 kids – 2 are married with kids, the youngest is in the Navy. Discovered RP August of 2015. ​ Bible: My wife and I read the Bible together every night and read through the entire Bible every year. We’re on track. ​ If you would like a copy of the Bible reading plan that I put together, which is a balance between the Old and New Testaments, I shared it in this post. ​ Physical / Lifting / Diet: Lifting is consistent, and I’…
/r/RPChristians17/08/21 03:22 PM
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Join the Discord: https://discord.gg/XSUnamxRfp
/r/RPChristians10/08/21 12:03 AM
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Locked until you post your stats. Message me when you do and I'll unlock it.
/r/RPChristians09/08/21 04:33 AM
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Locked until you post your stats. Message me when you do and I'll unlock it.
/r/RPChristians09/08/21 04:31 AM
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STFU: this has been harder for me than I realized. My lungs fill with air Everytime my wife says some illogical shit that holds no truth ready to blurt out my DEER. Like a lawyer in court giving his closing statement. I’m getting better at it. But there’s still work to do. I get this rage inside me whenever something is said that is just not true. Idk how you guys can not say anything sometimes but I’m working on it. This is directly connected to DEERing. STFU isn't complicated, but it does take…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/21 02:22 AM
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Here's the root of the LDS problem, from the Book of Mormon: “For we labor diligently to write, to persuade our children, and also our brethren, to believe in Christ, and to be reconciled to God; for we know that it is by grace that we are saved, after all we can do.” ~2 Nephi 25:23 That verse is at the heart of everything that Mormonism espouses. It's salvation by works, and you never know how much works is enough because "all we can do" is a nebulous, try-harder idea, and their salvation hinge…
/r/RPChristians08/08/21 02:04 AM
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Thanks for the kind words brother! But really, why are you surprised when the world acts like the world? Matthew 7:20-23
/r/RPChristians07/08/21 04:26 AM
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Focus on the 5 senses: Taste: feed him something new as often as possible. Take note of what he likes and doesn't like. Get him used to trying new foods. Focus predominantly on stuff kids don't like, the younger they are the better chance they will like new things. Touch: let him feel different materials. Fur, jello, sticky stuff, etc. Put him on top of the dryer and let him vibrate and shake a bit. Throw him up in the air and catch him. Let him experience different sensations. Take him swimming…
/r/askMRP07/08/21 01:35 AM
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What do all kids want from their Dad? FOR HIM TO BE THERE. You're there. Do that. Building a relationship IS productive. All too soon he will be a teen and will want to hang out with his friends instead of you, so spend time with him now. He's not even two yet. Bond with him. Hold him. Make him laugh. Talk to him. Play with him. Let him crawl around the house and explore. Read to him. Tell him about your hopes and dreams for him for the future. No, of course he won't understand it all yet, but D…
/r/askMRP07/08/21 12:34 AM
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For reference, here is the CM post referenced: https://np.reddit.com/r/Christianmarriage/comments/oz6va7/the_toxic_manosphere_why_the_red_pill_can_never/ This is a no-participation link, do not go over there and comment. Feel free to comment here so we can discuss it if you're interested. Thank you.
/r/RPChristians07/08/21 12:25 AM
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/r/RPChristians06/08/21 05:56 PM
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Lol no worries u/weakandsensitive, the advice you gave me was a huge contributing factor to my son's success today. I'm happy to share it. u/ryaninthesky123 you will find it all quite useful.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/21 05:04 PM
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You made a mistake DEERing ​ Yea I’m still working on that. Defend ​ I been doing it my entire life as a recovering addict. Explain ​ It’s a bad habit Excuse ​ I used it to manipulate my way out of everything. Rationalize ​ You're still doing it and don't even realize it.
/r/askMRP02/08/21 04:09 PM
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You can see me on the YouTube videos we've done, some are video feeds. My pic is also on my profile. I've nothing to hide. I've met a number of folks on here in person as well, and they're all really cool people.
/r/RPChristians28/07/21 06:35 PM
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/r/RPChristians15/07/21 11:44 PM
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Work has been challenging to say the least. I took a vacation last week and got a bunch of stuff done around the house that I’ve had to put off. I hope to be more active on here, and RPC in general, if the Lord allows. Background / Stats: 51 years old, 5’9”, 201.2, 17% BF. Married 13 years, 3 kids – 2 are married with kids, the youngest is in the Navy. Discovered RP August of 2015. ​ Bible: 10. My wife and I read the Bible together every night and read through the entire Bible every year. We’re …
/r/RPChristians07/07/21 08:45 PM
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My personal favorite Frame definition.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/21 05:11 AM
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This is where the grind comes in. That's where you're at. Just make progress. Be better next week than you were this week. Repeat until you hit your goals. Your goals will change as you get closer. Refine them as necessary to get the results you want. Just remember that those goals are things that you control, not how others will react.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/21 04:43 PM
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You are correct, it's not a coincidence. One of the things that Christians need to consider in all of this is that our faith matters, and must factor in to our MAP. Too often I see believers who get in great shape, learn how to AM & A&A, STFU when necessary and in general turn their lives around in pretty much every way with regard to natural things. But spiritual things end up not getting addressed for the most part, which leaves a huge void. A Christian can only be the Captain if he is really …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/21 04:38 PM
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He wants another kid before he gets the snip. There is no biblical obligation in this area as far as trying again after a miscarriage, it's just his personal preference.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/21 02:59 PM
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I have been struggling with the fear of losing strength and muscle while losing fat. Be attractive. Don't be unattractive. Weight loss covers the second one, which is far more important right now where you're at. Muscles don't show under a bunch of fat. That's the perspective you need at this time. The be attractive part is coming together in the other areas you're working on. You're on the right track. *Mods, maybe an updated flair is in order?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/21 03:38 AM
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That's a good reason. Where are you in your faith? Are you born again? Do you read your Bible?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/21 02:57 AM
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Shakes are great to fill in low spots, but it looks like you're using them as a main protein source. They taste good but eat more lean meat. Best Protein Sources Pork Chops (Boneless) - 26g. > 3 oz. Chicken Breast (Boneless And Skinless) - 24g. > 3 oz. serving Turkey Breast - 24g. > 3 oz. serving Whey Protein - 24g. > average scoop Steak (top or bottom round) - 23g. > 3 oz. Sockeye Salmon - 23g. > 3 oz. serving Greek Yogurt - 23g. > 8 oz. Ground Beef (95% Lean) - 18g. > 3 oz. Cottage Cheese - 14…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/21 02:50 AM
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Your view on divorce is correct - only in the case of infidelity. Why not get a vasectomy now?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/21 02:37 AM
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/r/RPChristians22/06/21 07:18 PM
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You should read The Wahl's Protocol. It deals with stuff like this in detail. My daughter has experienced profound results from it.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/21 10:48 PM
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Here's a couple posts on dread, which is what you're currently missing. First one is SUPER long but one of the best reads you will ever come across on here: Dread & the hamster maze - be sure to read through the comment section on this one as well. Dread - a simple analogy Since you're both Christians, the stronger your faith walk is, the more RMV you have. You said you attend church most Sundays but your wife is more "into it" than you are. Here's the absolute most important question you will e…
/r/RPChristians17/06/21 07:48 PM
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I'm eating healthy, but not tracking my diet. Trying to eat generally whenever I'm hungry because I've always been skinny. You're gonna have to eat a lot more if you want to put on muscle and gain weight. * Determine your TDEE first. Download the MyFitnessPal app and start tracking EVERYTHING you put in your mouth. You'll likely need to eat a lot more than you're used to eating, so ease into it by increasing your calories by a hundred per day, each week. So for instance if your TDEE on the calcu…
/r/RPChristians16/06/21 08:28 PM
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Physical: M/21 bench 150lbs 3x8, curls 70lbs 3x8 Working out PPL 6 days, hoping to make more progress given summer is less stressful than the school year. Nice! Great discipline here. How's your diet? ​ I'm trying online dating. As much as I hate the fakeness of social media, especially with dating apps, I think this is necessary for me. Never been on a date before, going on two this week. If I'm taking the wrong course of action, please let me know! I haven't had the courage to ask anyone out i…
/r/RPChristians16/06/21 12:53 AM
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I'm working on my Talus bone being stuck which has been causing issues with squat. The stretch for it involves putting the foot on a 45 and then putting a hard strap around the lower part of the ankle and doing what I call a 'Tim Tebow' where you take one knee on that foot, and then rock forward into it. It's not painful, but it's an odd sensation. Hmmm...I have that same lack of mobility in my ankle, I googled talus bone stretch and found some good stuff. Thanks for this! ​ So I had a kid total…
/r/RPChristians16/06/21 12:41 AM
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Only made it to the gym once last week. Not enough time. But I have been doing daily 10 minute Youtube ab workouts plus 100 pushups (started by giving myself 10 minutes to do 100, and each day reduce the time). It's not ideal but it's something. Well it's better than nothing. Just get through the next couple of weeks so you can finish up the old house and put that behind you and then hit the gym with a new intensity. ​ Last week was rough. My wife's mental state took a sharp downward turn. It's …
/r/RPChristians16/06/21 12:35 AM
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This is not the place.
/r/RPChristians14/06/21 03:20 AM
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For anyone who struggles with cutting out sugar, I encourage you to watch Fed Up.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/21 08:03 PM
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/r/RPChristians11/06/21 03:36 PM
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my family has been wary of my wife, to the point where my elder sister did not want to come to our wedding, and shit got so bad that we canceled it, and I cut all ties with my direct family The only way I get her respect in this case is if I go full on clashing everyone, which I’m afraid to do. Why would you focus on "getting your sister's respect"? The word "NO" is a complete sentence. ​ Of course you have the same problem with your wife. I spent some time going back through your comment histor…
/r/askMRP10/06/21 05:22 PM
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Aren't you tired of this new strange world, insisting it knows the truth to happiness and shoving it down your throats? Marketing your own value back to you? Telling and constantly reminding you that a relationship, and only a relationship will make you happy? Even though you know it isn't a possibility for you, aren't you sick and tired of being this way? Feeling this way? You know deep down you dont deserve this, so don't take it. Go on a path of betterment. Doesn't it bother you that women wh…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/21 02:17 AM
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Progress has been slow. Some regression has been made. That's okay, you've made progress! It's not a sprint, it's a marathon. Stay the course brother. ​ Continuing the Iliad its a hard book. The Iliad is a classic for sure. But how much of the Sidebar have you read? How many chapters of the Bible are you reading daily? ​ Need to do some more introspection about becoming more humble. I feel that I am arrogant and prideful. Need to sit back and reflect and learn from others. Have been doing good e…
/r/RPChristians08/06/21 10:32 PM
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I finally made it back to the gym, and it was bad. In just a few weeks it's like I've gone completely out of shape. So I have a lot to make up. Amen, glad you made it back. Take a 2 week break from your diet. Still track your calories, but add 500-700 per day to give you some extra fuel. It will also help you get back to 100% after being sick. ​ But I STFU. She apologized later. This is awesome. STFU was (is) one of the hardest things for me to do consistently. ​ I said a few weeks ago my 2yo wa…
/r/RPChristians08/06/21 10:13 PM
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/r/RPChristians03/06/21 12:01 PM
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Very creative, I like it!
/r/RPChristians03/06/21 03:08 AM
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Let me be clear here: I'm not accusing you in any way. Where that line gets drawn is between that man and the Lord when it comes to questionable things. We have freedom in Christ, and yet a responsibility to Him as well. How far you go to protect your witness is up to the individual, and it's different for each person. I'm not always sure where that line is either, hence my comment. As long as you've given it what you feel is an appropriate amount of consideration, that's what is important.
/r/RPChristians03/06/21 03:07 AM
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Made the decision to stop the cut and start eating eucaloric, I feel so much better in my lifts/boxing. You're doing a lot, so this is a good move for you right now. ​ Went to a BBQ for a new Church group I've been going to. Met some interesting people and had a good time. I have a desire to lead men to be more effective, meeting these guys really pushes me in my mission. Reading my Bible, Bible memory, all the 7 basics, keeping my house in order, being physically fit and attactive...All these t…
/r/RPChristians02/06/21 08:29 PM
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I'll share this with you too: I was raised by parents who were somewhat racist. Not blatantly, it wasn't a daily occurrence, but they made comments from time to time. So of course I adopted that as I grew up. Do you know what changed my mind later? When I moved out on my own and started meeting all different kinds of people and hanging out with them, I was able to judge each person on their character. And what I found was that some people were good, others were bad. Of all ethnicities and backgr…
/r/RPChristians29/05/21 04:31 PM
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But at the same time, if you were proud of your background and what you've had to overcome, I don't see why you wouldn't want to proclaim that. See that's exactly my point: it's pride that divides. Proverbs 6:16-19 says: These six things the Lord hates, Yes, seven are an abomination to Him: A proud look, A lying tongue, Hands that shed innocent blood, A heart that devises wicked plans, Feet that are swift in running to evil, A false witness who speaks lies, And one who sows discord among brethre…
/r/RPChristians29/05/21 05:17 AM
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Cancelled my gym membership this week. Dad and I just ordered a home gym online so it should be coming in within the next week. We used to go to the gym every morning together at 6 but the drive there was 20 minutes each way and it would often leave dad pretty exhausted before his 8 hour day at work. So we decided to stop paying the excess gym membership and fuel expenses and just bite the bullet and order the home gym. This is a good plan as long as you stick to it. ​ I plan to read the bible w…
/r/RPChristians28/05/21 07:19 PM
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This is a great post. Keep in mind that my response here is from the perspective of a married man, so I'm using the toolbox approach. ​ Discipline Do the same with your goals. Don’t want to be fat? Get used to eating less and being hungry. Don’t break your diet no matter how much you want to. Want cash? Get used to working more. The monks don’t complain. You shouldn’t either. While I've had to maintain quite a bit of discipline in many areas over the years due to my work schedule, I've recently …
/r/RPChristians28/05/21 12:47 AM
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Everything seemed good until later that night, lol. I wound up with a light pulled muscle. A deload week and a lot of icy hot has seen it almost gone by today. Oof. Nothing much to say here except I'm glad you're recovering well brother. ​ Dealing with the school issues has been really wild, in conjunction with the roller coaster of Covid. On the one hand, some of the drama has been actually serious, and I can see why she'd be uncomfortable with them, and others are just the overwrought high sch…
/r/RPChristians27/05/21 08:17 PM
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An FYI: starting next week OYS will drop on Monday instead of Wednesday. This will hopefully give me more of an opportunity to respond to people.
/r/RPChristians27/05/21 06:44 PM
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Previous ​ Background / Stats: 51 years old, 5’9”, 197.9, 16% BF. Married 13 years, 3 kids – 2 are married with kids, the youngest went into the Navy last summer. Discovered RP August of 2015. ​ Bible: 10. My wife and I read the Bible together every night and read through the entire Bible every year. We have been enjoying our reading time much more since switching back to our regular reading plan. ​ If you would like a copy of the Bible reading plan that I put together, which is a balance betwee…
/r/RPChristians27/05/21 06:21 PM
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My father passed away last week from cancer after being in the hospital and then hospice for about a month. Wow, really sorry to hear about that brother. My condolences. ​ Will be doing a service for him in the coming days. Something that causes me to be nervous and doubtful of my ability to carry it out as it should be done. Don't rely only on yourself, pray and ask God to help you honor the memory of your Dad. You have my prayers as well. ​ This has really punched me hard and I don’t know when…
/r/RPChristians22/05/21 03:23 PM
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The Bible is neither egalitarian nor complementarian. Compatibilism is the closest definition of what the Bible actually says.
/r/RPChristians22/05/21 02:59 PM
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Oof, you're right - I did miss a good opportunity there... While we did it later that evening it would have had much more impact had I done so immediately. Thanks for the reminder, I need to be mindful of this in the moment. Praise her with me indeed!
/r/RPChristians21/05/21 04:56 PM
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and then a sixth (fiancee's kid we'll call R) who we semi-kicked out about 6 months ago. She had idolized her bio-dad for years, now that is living there, she often asks to come back. Anyway, she was at our house last weekend, and got into her little brother's gaming account and stole a bunch of the items he had worked on for the last year or two. We didn't find out until the next day, when she had already gone back to bio-dad's house. Yes, it's just a dumb video game, but it was truthfully deva…
/r/RPChristians20/05/21 09:51 PM
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I'll be the fourth. I'm originally from Toledo, OH. Great Lakes are where it's at, and Michigan is gorgeous in the summer.
/r/RPChristians20/05/21 09:22 PM
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I assumed that asking a question here would be met with an assumption that one does these things already or to a reasonable degree, but I suppose I was wrong, and must qualify myself a bit. We get tons of Churchianity folks in here, so it's always the first question I ask. I can work with what you wrote, and even though you didn't explicitly state "yes I'm definitely born again" I'm gonna work on the assumption that you read the link and are confident in your salvation rather than just being a c…
/r/askRPC20/05/21 05:44 PM
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Everyone has been sick with a bad cold the last couple weeks, so I haven't been to the gym in, what, three weeks? Diet has been not great either. Lots of pizza. We still haven't gotten back into the routine of cooking regularly since the move. I'm sure I've already lost any strength gains I made over the last year. That's really discouraging. That sucks. But u/RedPillGlasses is right: make time to do something good for your health by getting in what physical activity you can, even if it's just a…
/r/RPChristians19/05/21 10:56 PM
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Nice. Women communicate covertly, men communicate overtly. You spoke "her language" and then when she couldn't/wouldn't listen, you hit her with some (gentle) truth. Yeah, that's true I didn't really think about it that way. One factor is that we're both in our 50s, and the older you get, the harder improving yourself gets. We both started out kinda heavy and slimmed down. I'm sure her friends preach that "sexual retirement" trope from time to time as well, so I'm betting that's a factor. But I'…
/r/RPChristians19/05/21 10:34 PM
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I am lost and it’s something I’ve got to focus on DO SOMETHING ABOUT FTFY. ​ I’ve gone back to my routine of In bed by 10pm Up at 5.30am and Meditate first thing. An action step. ​ I’ve have been using discipline to lift 3x week because I have had near zero motivation to do it. An action step. ​ I will consciously lift heavier each week, which I’ve started to do. I’ve been looking at a plan by ThinkLiftEat, which I’ll start using as a plan to lift heavier. Vague. An action step here would be "I …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/21 08:48 PM
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⁠Over the last month I noticed I kept running back to my phone checking the reddit notifications like some fucking attention seeking Instagram thot. So what are you doing to change that? ​ To help me being mindful I will add meditation to my morning ritual. An action step. ​ Last week I told my family we were no longer using any devices from when we get home from work/school until my child goes to bed. We’ve got into an awful habit of being in the same room but we’re all miles away in our own wo…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/21 08:27 PM
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Background / Stats: 51 years old, 5’9”, 199.2, 16% BF. Married 13 years, 3 kids – 2 are married with kids, the youngest went into the Navy last summer. Discovered RP August of 2015. ​ Bible Study: 10. My wife and I read the Bible together every night and read through the entire Bible every year. We’re using a chronological reading plan this year, something different. I decided to switch back to the reading plan I shared below, the chronological one just jumps around too much for me, and I starte…
/r/RPChristians19/05/21 07:38 PM
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My Mission is: to share the Gospel with others wherever I can and help them see their need for Jesus as their Lord and Savior so they can trust in Christ, repent of their sins and become born again. God gives those who are faithful more opportunities, and I try to take advantage of every single one He throws my way. to disciple other Christians (predominantly online for now) and help them grow closer to the Lord so they can serve Him in their own lives. I do this by: First: encouraging them to g…
/r/RPChristians19/05/21 07:34 PM
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Here's the root of the LDS beta plow horse problem, from the Book of Mormon: “For we labor diligently to write, to persuade our children, and also our brethren, to believe in Christ, and to be reconciled to God; for we know that it is by grace that we are saved, after all we can do.” ~2 Nephi 25:23 That verse is at the heart of everything that Mormonism espouses. It's salvation by works, and you never know how much works is enough because "all we can do" is a nebulous, try-harder idea, and their…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/21 05:52 PM
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Sounds like you're doing these things first and foremost because you want a better life, rather than your primary focus being to make your wife happy. It seems you're on the right track.
/r/RPChristians18/05/21 03:56 AM
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I'm glad it was helpful! When drawing closer to God, it is important to remember what Samuel said in 1 Samuel 15:22 "Has the Lord as great delight in burnt offerings and sacrifices, as in obeying the voice of the Lord? Behold, to obey is better than sacrifice, and to listen than the fat of rams." ​ Also, in Luke 6 Jesus said 43 “For a good tree does not bear bad fruit, nor does a bad tree bear good fruit. 44 For every tree is known by its own fruit. For men do not gather figs from thorns, nor do…
/r/RPChristians17/05/21 05:27 PM
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Over the last year, I've also been having dreams about my children and fiancé being tortured. No, this wasn't due to watching too much walking dead or serial killer shows. I believe that God is trying to make stop living a sinful life. I agree this could be the case. ​ But....... by not going to church and living a sinful life, I (could be) condemning my entire family to the tortures of hell, eternally. I am not 100% responsible for the souls, but I sure try a lot harder. I am undoubtedly the wo…
/r/RPChristians17/05/21 04:25 PM
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Gym progress has felt good, but I see the lifts haven’t gone up much. I lost some progress while on vacation.I am switching to an upper lower split. I look forward to doing something new. Diet and weight have been going well. I didn’t gain weight while on vacation which I was happy about. I am still shooting for 160 by the end of June which looks like I will make it. Your goals here are at odds with each other. If you want your lifts to go up you have to eat more. OTOH, at 22% I would cut as wel…
/r/RPChristians17/05/21 04:08 PM
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Mental: Covid is slowly going, and we're almost at the end of the school year. Despite how jacked up the last few weeks of that have been, I'm looking forward to a, hopefully, lazy summer. Maybe the hot springs are calling to me. Or retirement. Or both. I've been reading your OYS's for quite some time now. You're a very active guy, one who probably would not be content in retirement. I would say that perhaps a well-deserved rest is in order, and maybe God will give you that lazy summer so you ca…
/r/RPChristians17/05/21 03:48 PM
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I started doing Keto, so far so good. I find I'm not huggry and even when I eat what I want (bacon, eggs, avocado, etc) I don't hit my calorie limit. I'm jealous. ​ I've realized I have done very little evangelism in my life. I'm not proud of this, and have been thinking about it a lot lately. My prayers on the subject are for God to put me in the situation to evangelize or put it on my heart to reach out to specific people, be it in my own life or someone I don't even know. Going to reach out t…
/r/RPChristians17/05/21 03:42 PM
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Goal is to get down to 10% body fat. Will be cutting 10 lbs at a time and evaluating from there. So next goal weight is 142-144lbs. Basically if I can see abs regardless of lighting. You're 5'8" and 156 lbs. Just know that if you cut at this stage, you will look like a skeleton. I would recommend bulking until you gain an additional 20 lbs. or so, and continue to lift heavier. ​ Now that I work and have other things preoccupying my thoughts I don't really think to much about women. Starting to e…
/r/RPChristians17/05/21 03:22 PM
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First off, sorry to hear you are struggling with a serious health issue. That can't be easy, and you have my prayers. That said, I see a lot of stuff about you and what you want. I see very little about Him, except for one mention of God and one mention of the Holy Spirit. I don't see you mention about how you're living for Him but struggling, that you read your Bible at all, that you go to church or even watch a sermon online. Christianity is about denying yourself to live for Him instead. We r…
/r/askRPC13/05/21 08:02 PM
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Johns Hopkins disagrees with you. But hey, you do you.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/21 05:21 PM
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It's a red flag for women who prefer the status quo of having the legal protections of daddy government, and the ability to walk away any time with cash and prizes. If a woman considers this a red flag, then she's already tuned into this fact and it is first and foremost on her mind. That said, the girls are going to talk online, and their views are going to be at the more extreme end of the spectrum because they're behind a keyboard. Just like many RP subs. If you are wanting to get married at …
/r/askRPC13/05/21 01:21 PM
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Unforgiveness is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/21 12:00 AM
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I see a lot of postulating, some introspection, and some realization. That's good. But what I don't see is much in the way of actions you will take to change yourself. Self sabotage seems to be a default move when things are going well. I’ve been doing it pretty consistently for years. What is important to me is how I handle a set back from now on and reframe it. By having a plan to handles setback might even stop me from self sabotaging, or at least make me aware I’m doing it? Over the last mon…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/21 10:30 PM
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Awesome, that's a great step forward.
/r/RPChristians11/05/21 09:16 PM
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I'm staying busy and accomplishing tasks, which makes me feel a lot better. Amen! ​ Spent the entire weekend cleaning out the mouse infested garage in the place I moved into. Being proactive about that has made an excellent first impression on my landlord, roommates, and neighbors. Excellent. You're probably already aware, but just in case: with mice, hantavirus is a concern. Be sure to set traps to avoid a re-infestation. Also, if you handle any dead mice, be sure to wear gloves to protect your…
/r/RPChristians10/05/21 08:19 PM
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Still thankful to God for the body I have but injuries are really holding me back from my potential. Been stretching almost daily at this point to try mitigate the pain but I'm sure it'll take some time before I see some solid results. Have you looked at your lifestyle and food choices in regard to this? You may find this article helpful. ​ A girl at church has been pretty forward the past couple months. Texting for meetups and whatnot. My ego loves the flattery but she's definitely not the pers…
/r/RPChristians10/05/21 08:11 PM
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Dropped off the kid at a boutique downtown and handed her some cash, then sent her on her way to get a prom dress. She and a couple of her friends met up there and had a hen party. She returned with a ball gown type dress that's fairly conservative. I'll be dropping her off at the prom Friday night. On that front, she's also gotten herself a summer job with a lady at church. We had a sit down about how she might deal with a few things with that, did she do homework about getting paid fairly, and…
/r/RPChristians10/05/21 07:47 PM
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Physical: trying to get into the gym every day of the week. Have a trainer but don’t feel like it’s making a big difference. What lifting program are you doing? Ask the trainer to show you how to properly bench press (with a barbell, not on a Smith machine), barbell squat, overhead press and deadlift. If he tries to direct you away from the main lifts, you know you've got the wrong guy. Also, every day? Even God rested one day, you should do the same. ​ Mental/emotional: struggling with depressi…
/r/RPChristians10/05/21 07:40 PM
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My parents moving in with me in 2015 because they were old and kept falling was the reason I found MRP to begin with. I will be forever grateful, even though it sucked at the time. My dad was the weakest, most blue pill guy I've ever known. I saw how my mom treated him in his final days, she was an absolute shrieking harpy to him practically the entire time. He lasted 6 months - went to the hospital one night because he was dehydrated, they kept him overnight for observation, and my mom got the …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/21 03:22 PM
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We'll see on Judgment Day. Hope you made the right call. I'm pretty confident myself. I've got the words of Jesus Himself to back me up.
/r/askRPC03/05/21 11:04 PM
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Sirach is left out of Protestant Bibles because no Hebrew version has been found and it was considered a product of Greek culture. This article covers it more fully. In fact the entire Apocrypha is not in Protestant Bibles because there are many things in Apocryphal books which do not agree with the rest of Scripture.
/r/askRPC03/05/21 09:50 PM
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You do you. However, the only "spirits" one can commune with, other than the indwelling Holy Spirit, are evil spirits according to the Bible. Where do your beliefs come from if not the Bible?
/r/askRPC03/05/21 09:32 PM
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Jesus said in John 3:3 “Most assuredly, I say to you, unless one is born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God.” You should take some time to read the "Are you born again?" link I posted above. Eternity is forever.
/r/askRPC03/05/21 09:08 PM
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Four years clean. You’re right I have a medical card These two things don't add up. You're not clean. Thanks for the hate tho There's no hate. My words were spoken in love. You can't even see it. I couldn't either when I was in that weed haze. I'm tryin to help you. Are you born again?
/r/askRPC03/05/21 08:52 PM
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Man, these are some deep thoughts! Lol. This from a guy who: wants to put his bong in the dishwasher wants to trip on a drug combo fancies himself an amateur photographer wants to use kratom to "help him lift" has a medical marijuana card wants to vape melatonin (really? can't just take the supplement like normal people do?) is "so frickin faded bro" on some benzos likes to trip on expired pills So....you found us. Yay. What is it you want? We're here to be serious and grow in our faith. Why are…
/r/askRPC03/05/21 07:11 PM
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If anyone’s interested, here’s KS’s list (I have not tried all of them): Terre d’Hermés Tom Ford Grey Vetiver Acqua di GIO Profumo (regular AdG is great too) Bleu de Chanel ($$$) Molecule 01 Molecule 02 Spicebomb Extreme Valentino Uomo Intense (this shit smells like black licorice to me) Kevin Samuels obviously knows his style stuff. But cologne is very individual - I mean, it's kinda like attraction: we either like how it smells or we don't. That being said, here's my comments on his list: Terr…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/21 04:02 PM
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Removed. Rule 8.
/r/RPChristians25/04/21 04:41 PM
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That's 500 potential friend opportunities, make the most of it. It gets much harder to make lasting friendships once school is behind you.
/r/askTRP25/04/21 04:33 PM
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I’m fat as fuck….but not fat enough to require the 3XL-4XL shirts I wear in a futile attempt to mask my fatness. As long as you're overweight, buy clothes that are a bit on the snug side. You'll feel self-conscious wearing them, which will motivate you to stay disciplined.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/21 02:00 AM
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I am therefore going to retire from OYS for now. I do not expect to return to post unless I have some breakthrough with my older daughters. May God be with you on your journey.
/r/RPChristians22/04/21 08:30 PM
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I have not had any time to work out this week since coming back because we were preparing for the George Floyd case in my National Guard unit. You can't even bust out a few sets of pushups? ​ It seems to have slown down a lot per the verdict so hopefully schedule goes back to normal and I can eat food besides an MRE and fast food which is provided by vendors in the city. Sounds like an excuse to me. Just eat less of it. ​ My wife is still having some issues dealing with post partum stuff in rega…
/r/RPChristians22/04/21 08:28 PM
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Background / Stats: 51 years old, 5’9”, 201.3, 17% BF. Married 13 years, 3 kids – 2 are married with kids, the youngest went into the Navy last summer. Discovered RP August of 2015. ​ Bible Study: 10. My wife and I read the Bible together every night and read through the entire Bible every year. We’re using a chronological reading plan this year, something different. Not a fan honestly, we will be switching back to the one below at the beginning of next year. ​ If you would like a copy of the Bi…
/r/RPChristians21/04/21 05:28 PM
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Read these, I'm sure there's stuff in here you haven't thought of yet: Gain Control of the Treasury Steel's Finance Guide Financial Freedom - First Steps Good financial framework with responsibilities and boundaries Budget Conflict Resolution Fnancial Vision Long-Term Financial Security
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/21 05:57 PM
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The best way to hate the things of the world is to love God more. How? Read the Word daily Pray often Obey what the Word says and do what He has called you to do Deny yourself
/r/askRPC15/04/21 03:47 PM
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Don't be stupid. "Test the waters" by reading every single post in the Divorce Advice on the Sidebar over and over until your eyes bleed. Take notes. Create a strategy, one that benefits YOU. Make sure it's as airtight as possible. Above all, KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT ABOUT IT. Women do stupid stuff like throw false DV charges at you when they feel like they are backed into a corner. Save that for the courtroom.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/21 08:42 PM
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The wife and I have not split up and there's a plan in place for us to 'work on things' Where we are now (separated) is also my fault Whose idea was it for you to move out? Yeah, it was hers the divorce itself was her suggestion (second time in about four rough months) But she's now wearing makeup for the first time in 10yrs and hitting the gym and all the usual She gets 60% of the house on sale, 50% of my income, 50% of savings etc. the separation was her last minute suggestion to avoid divorce…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/21 06:59 PM
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We've been sleeping with each other for a few weeks and I've had complete control the whole time. Sure you have, buddy. The whole time...
/r/askMRP13/04/21 06:40 PM
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This is a good word.
/r/RPChristians09/04/21 03:39 AM
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At 17, she's clearly avoiding having to grow up and become responsible for her own choices. She would rather have Daddy protect her. That's admirable, but what happens if the Lord takes you away? This set of comments and articles made all the difference for me, at just the right time. You may find them helpful as well. Also, I would buy your daughter a smartphone today. In my opinion she has shown exceptional character and wisdom up to this point. She's almost 18, time to reward her faithfulness…
/r/RPChristians07/04/21 09:12 PM
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You mean sinners?
/r/RPChristians06/04/21 01:33 PM
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I mean I have literally been praying to God for the same opportunities you say that make me unholy. Not sure what you're talking about here. If I prayed for them and actually received them God sometimes allows things that are not His plan. That doesn't mean He gave them to you, even if you prayed for them. would you say my father is really Satan? Since I am not born again? Those who are not born again have Satan as their father. I didn't say that was you, because I'm not the judge. God is. That'…
/r/askRPC02/04/21 07:24 PM
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I never said that this wasn't a solution. I wasn't aware it was medical until you said so. What's the difference between a medicine and a drug? How they're used. As long as you're using it medically and not recreationally then I don't see a problem.
/r/askRPC01/04/21 09:58 PM
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Well unfortunately the post has been deleted.
/r/askRPC01/04/21 08:38 PM
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Also realize this: we are not like other subs. The primary purpose of our sub isn't to answer theological questions, although we may choose to do so from time to time. We are here to help people who want to figure out what is keeping them from living authentically for the Lord, and help them fix the problems in their marriages as a first step. ​ Men come to RP subs, Christians as well as non-Christians, in large part because they are seeking a better sex life with their wives. We seek to draw bo…
/r/askRPC01/04/21 08:05 PM
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The things you say I need to change are reminders of my short comings as a person and its also why I need Jesus. I am just not good enough. None of us are good enough. That's why we need to trust in Christ and become born again. We had that conversation once before if I'm not mistaken. Meanwhile my wife is allowing surgical instruments to physiologically prevent pregnancy until she dies and I am doing nothing to stop it even though God might have plans for me to have more children. Even if God p…
/r/askRPC01/04/21 07:59 PM
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The problems you face have solutions. One thing about this place is that the solution starts with YOU. Once YOU have done all YOU can, then look at other options. Often times that won't be necessary. Most of the time, the problem is us. I know it was for me.
/r/askRPC01/04/21 07:12 PM
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You're right, I don't. All those links are from the last 3 weeks. Not sure what your point is.
/r/askRPC01/04/21 07:09 PM
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Apology accepted.
/r/askRPC01/04/21 07:08 PM
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I know it's difficult when you get the answer you need instead of the answer you want.
/r/askRPC01/04/21 07:03 PM
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You are free to decide for yourself. But decisions have consequences. My chat is open.
/r/askRPC01/04/21 07:02 PM
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I'm still praying for you. I hope you change your mind. Hit me up on chat if you want to talk.
/r/askRPC01/04/21 06:59 PM
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I could. Is that what you want?
/r/askRPC01/04/21 06:57 PM
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Ok then. Bye.
/r/askRPC01/04/21 06:57 PM
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I'm saying you have a lot of other things to worry about first.
/r/askRPC01/04/21 06:56 PM
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I do care, or I wouldn't have put the effort into my response that I did. You are free to ignore my advice if you want, but ask yourself why you came here if you are only going to ignore the advice you're being given? You are not screwed, but nobody here can help you if you aren't willing to take a good look at where you're at, what you're doing, and what you need to change. This isn't about my needs at all. I'm trying to help you.
/r/askRPC01/04/21 06:55 PM
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Ok, you're worried about Catholics and their stance on birth control surgery. That it might be sin. And yet: You and your wife fight every day. You say you have a complete loss of control over your family Your cats escaped and you spoke about hurting yourself over it You're drowning in debt You're considering divorce (even though the original post is deleted, I can see it's yours by the responses you made) You work in the medical marijuana industry You dab, smoke and press marijuana (careful you…
/r/askRPC01/04/21 06:36 PM
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Background / Stats: 51 years old, 5’9”, 199.1, 17% BF. Married 13 years, 3 kids – 2 are married with kids, the youngest went into the Navy last summer. Discovered RP August of 2015. ​ Bible Study: 10. My wife and I read the Bible together every night and read through the entire Bible every year. We’re using a chronological reading plan this year, something different. ​ If you would like a copy of the Bible reading plan that I put together, which is a balance between the Old and New Testaments, I…
/r/RPChristians31/03/21 11:58 PM
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The Protestant "power structure" is the Bible: Now to the married I command, yet not I but the Lord: A wife is not to depart from her husband. But even if she does depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband. And a husband is not to divorce his wife. I Corinthians 7:10‭-‬11
/r/askRPC30/03/21 02:26 PM
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but my posts always get removed You made ONE POST on a subject that does not pertain to the purpose of our sub. No, we will not have that discussion on either sub, there are tons of other places on Reddit to talk about stuff like that. FOR THOSE WONDERING WHAT THAT POST WAS ABOUT: DON'T ASK. I'LL REMOVE COMMENTS ABOUT IT AND DELETE THE POST IF NECESSARY. NOT HAVING THAT CONVERSATION HERE. Since there are so many topics, and since it depends on the quality of the post, we are still deciding on a …
/r/askRPC30/03/21 02:22 PM
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Nice work!
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/21 05:59 AM
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Well how do you know that you've done "all you can do"? You can't possibly know, thus more works always need to be done. Instead, our salvation rests not on what we've done but what Jesus has done FOR us - something we could never do. Also, the Jesus Mormons believe in is not the Jesus of the Bible, even though there are similarities.
/r/RPChristians27/03/21 10:56 PM
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"For by grace you have been saved through faith, and that not of yourselves; it is the gift of God, not of works, lest anyone should boast." Ephesians 2:8-9 ​ "“For we labor diligently to write, to persuade our children, and also our brethren, to believe in Christ, and to be reconciled to God; for we know that it is by grace that we are saved, after all we can do.” 2 Nephi 25:23, Book of Mormon ​ The Bible says there's nothing you can do to earn your salvation, it is a gift of God. The Book of M…
/r/RPChristians25/03/21 08:18 PM
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I've always known that God was preparing me for something really different, based on the varied experiences he has given me in very pigeon-holed categories. This month I found out what it was. As of this moment, I am seemingly the only Protestant in the building at a company owned and operated by a large family of Mormons. God truly has given me a real affection for these people, and I pray every day for their salvation. I had a very good conversation the other day with my boss about the substan…
/r/RPChristians25/03/21 07:59 PM
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I saw you actually followed through so I commented on it. Take your beating like the rest of us did. Set your ego aside, learn from it and grow. Go into everything with a default mindset of "This guy is telling me the opposite of what I think is right. I'm wrong, so I'm going to listen and take the advice he took the time to give me."
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/21 04:18 PM
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Because of special work circumstances, I've been working 12-15 hour days M-F, and one 9-10 hour day every weekend for a month. It's not an excuse, but it's a factor I have to contend with. It's an excuse. I've worked 12 hours a day, 6 days a week for the past year and a half, and I still lift 3X a week. And that's after walking 3-5 miles a day at work too. I'm also 10 years older than you. You have to want it bad enough. I do. ​ Take that time you're spending on the TV and use it to lift instead…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/21 04:15 PM
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You have my prayers brother.
/r/RPChristians24/03/21 09:23 PM
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PHYSICAL: I finally feel like I'm making a comeback from job stress. I ate the gym for breakfast yesterday morning. I rocked on up to 300 on the bench, and did three full sets, then backed off to 250 for a couple more. Sure my arms and chest feel like they are gonna fall off today, but I was riding high yesterday. I made sure to fire up a couple of the 20 something guys in the workout group over getting showed out by an old man. This is awesome. I don't know where you get the energy. ​ I'm slate…
/r/RPChristians24/03/21 06:38 PM
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Having TheGodofOrphans (Goo) here to keep me accountable in lifts and diet has kept me on track. Down about 15 lbs since he got here 5 weeks ago. Great job! ​ Praexology, Goo and I continue to do morning bible study, and book reading. We are currently going through Ephesians. You guys have really been setting a great example here, I'm proud of you! ​ Found a new Church that seems promising, this Church makes Discipleship a priority, hopefully good things to come here. Excellent. ​ Teaching Goo s…
/r/RPChristians24/03/21 06:23 PM
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[deleted] Lol
/r/RPChristians23/03/21 10:18 PM
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Care to elaborate? I'm always open to hearing ideas to improve.
/r/RPChristians23/03/21 04:17 PM
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https://deepstrength.wordpress.com/
/r/askRPC23/03/21 03:48 PM
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Like u/Praexology said: post your stats per Rule 2. Message me when you've done that and I'll unlock the post.
/r/RPChristians23/03/21 12:55 AM
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Honest question, is there a reason why you think the ability to create a game at age 40 is unlikely? I felt that you would not be able to connect well with what I figured was a much younger demographic. Turns out I was wrong, so I'll give you that part. Still, how much time do you spend gaming vs. time spent developing games? ​ My wife talks a lot and it’s often hard to follow what she is saying. My nickname for my wife is "Conversationalist Extraordinaire." She is one Chatty Cathy, brother. I b…
/r/RPChristians22/03/21 06:35 PM
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"Aw you're such a great friend, you'll make some guy very happy someday."
/r/askMRP22/03/21 04:46 AM
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Off topic for this sub. Removed.
/r/RPChristians21/03/21 03:27 AM
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Wow. I'm so sorry to hear about that. I have no words to express how I feel, really. 1 John 1:9 applies to contracting an STD due to having sex outside of marriage, just as it does for every other sin believers commit. Repentance is the first step we should take in a situation like this - you have done that. Rather than allow Satan to use an STD to mock and condemn, you can and should choose to accept the disease as a symbol of the grace of God. Every time the symptoms manifest, you can use the …
/r/askRPC20/03/21 05:01 AM
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Tbh, I haven’t really made much progress toward my mission. I get too distracted with video games to work on the game I had plans for I’ve likely not been applying kino properly because my wife told that she feels like I love her body, not her. I spend most of my free time learning guitar/bass, playing video games, doing chores, and taking care of our three dogs. My wife recently commented that she felt like we are roommates so evidently I spend too much time doing those things My wife has talke…
/r/RPChristians19/03/21 02:21 PM
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Stats added. Unlocked.
/r/RPChristians18/03/21 11:35 PM
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Back in the time 1 Timothy was written, men WERE strong. If you were weak, YOU DIED. Plain and simple. Very few men alive today would have survived back then. Notice also: it doesn't say "For bodily exercise profiteth not at all..."
/r/RPChristians17/03/21 09:12 PM
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Friendship: None What are you doing to address this? I noticed you joined Discord but haven't commented anything in months. Might be a good way to practice and make some connections with others, even if it's online. ​ Spiritual: Still serving Mammon every day, like most of you guys (except where_muh_good_mens1). Not sure what you mean here, or why you would link this person's username. ​ Daughter2 seems to be on a path to recovery from anorexia. Amen, glad to hear it. ​ I will have to pay suppor…
/r/RPChristians17/03/21 06:55 PM
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Maybe is unusual to write here from this perspective of disabled man, but, I will try. Welcome. Your perspective is unique, therefore it is all the more valuable for that reason. I'm glad you decided to come here! How much mobility do you currently have? I also see you post in the Croatia and Bih subs. My wife is from Travnik. Kako si? ​ Some of ascetic discipline whom I do is: fasting, controling size of eat portion, trying to waking early and going in bed in the same time every night, trying t…
/r/RPChristians17/03/21 06:12 PM
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Thanks for the kind words brother!
/r/RPChristians17/03/21 02:29 AM
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Welcome back bro! Good to see you around these parts again.
/r/RPChristians17/03/21 02:10 AM
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Brother, your problem is not with reading the Bible. You need to actively study the Bible. Look up the two terms: exegesis and hermeneutics. Now go through passages and study them in that way. Look up commentaries by some of the Biblical scholars to get more context. What exactly is Jesus teaching in the context of the culture? If there are not similar situations today, what principles can we take on how to apply those lessons today? You've said you've gone through these passages a dozen times b…
/r/askRPC14/03/21 09:54 PM
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You sound like a real dick. Disagreements are fine; however, personal attacks against other redditors will not be tolerated here. This is your one warning. Next time you will be banned from both subs.
/r/askRPC14/03/21 03:50 PM
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Let's say you're a golf fan. You go golfing every weekend with a friend you've known for 10 years. He's a great guy, and you usually get beers together afterward and shoot the breeze. Now let's say the owner of the golf club comes to you one day after your buddy has left. He tells you that Tiger Woods was watching you and wants to meet you tomorrow and talk about golf, and maybe play 9 holes with you. Your buddy will be there too. The next day you get a flat tire on the way to the course. Who ar…
/r/askMRP13/03/21 08:28 PM
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Hmmm... got a link? Nice to have played a small but pivotal role in history as well 😂
/r/askMRP13/03/21 07:49 PM
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Ok, how about a video then? https://youtu.be/kJJNjk_8tQQ
/r/askRPC13/03/21 06:49 PM
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I did. Click the link (the words "born again" in the comment above) and it will take you to my comment on how to determine that.
/r/askRPC13/03/21 06:32 PM
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It's not just understanding this verse or that idea. It's understanding the Bible as a whole, and how each verse fits in with the bigger picture. You may think we're giving you a hard time, but we're trying to help you. If one person says it then they may be wrong. If many people are telling you the same thing, then maybe it's you who is wrong. How many times have you read the Bible cover to cover? This year I'm going through it for my 21st time.
/r/askRPC13/03/21 06:29 PM
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Are you born again? That's what this really boils down to.
/r/askRPC13/03/21 06:25 PM
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Everyone who smokes weed says they can quit anytime. Everyone. But the bottom line is we all have to make DIFFERENT sacrifices to reach a level of success. Plus, drug addiction leads to a halt in developing emotional maturity. Take it from a guy who was high every day for 23 years: you will make little progress in life until you are sober.
/r/askMRP13/03/21 06:17 PM
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When someone says "you need to read your Bible more" they are saying that what you are claiming is so far from biblical truth that it is clear you haven't read it enough to know the difference. Otherwise the claims you make and the arguments you use would reflect scriptural truth. It means you are in error - read the Bible more to find out why that is.
/r/askRPC13/03/21 05:55 PM
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Just saw this comment while looking for something else. My opinion is that he believes intellectually in Christ but is not born again. But here is Rollo's statement about his faith. Decide for yourself.
/r/RPChristians13/03/21 05:12 AM
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This is a great post! Too bad it's so full of spelling and grammar errors.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/21 09:49 PM
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If they met you in person and said something different it makes me wonder why they say something different once they go online I'm actually one of the guys that met Orlando. It's not that I met him in person and all of a sudden said something different, it's that there is a huge difference between a general online exhortation to lift and meeting someone in person, getting a sense for who they are and where they are at in their journey, and giving tailored advice to fit the situation. ​ You must …
/r/askRPC10/03/21 02:00 PM
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Sure, more drugs. Since you're already into marijuana what's one more substance (or two or three)? How much do you weigh? What's your body fat%? I was once like you, except you are on a path to make a career out of weed. If you have pain, then start small. But until you decide you want something besides a life of being high every day, you won't get past yourself. Here's my story if you're interested: https://www.reddit.com/r/RPChristians/comments/82zbej/my_transformation_from_nice_guy_to_red_pil…
/r/askRPC08/03/21 10:35 PM
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Now THAT'S the right way to handle a Main Event. Well done! Her: (Long pause…) Are you cheating on me? Since she's gotten a major dose of Dread now and passed the Main Event, it's possible that this question will still come up at times in the form of a Comfort Test. Here's my go-to response for handling that: "Why would I want to start over and train a new girl to do all the things you already do so well?" [wink and an ass slap]
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/21 05:33 PM
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Rule 8. Banned from both subs.
/r/RPChristians08/03/21 02:06 PM
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In the Old Testament, "covering someone with your garment" is a metaphor for protection. A classic example is Ezekiel 16:8, where God describes His love for Israel using the symbolism of a man and wife. As the protector and provider, men are supposed to "cover" their wives. Malachi's two-part criticism in this passage is that this is not happening. Israeli men are marrying pagan women (Malachi 2:11), and they are divorcing their Jewish wives in order to do it (Malachi 2:14). This is exactly the …
/r/RPChristians08/03/21 01:14 AM
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Mission For now borrowing another member’s: “To be a man I respect” Here's how to get started finding your Mission - it's 4 things: Vision is a manifested idea of the future. Mission is what you will do to make that future happen. Plans are individual steps you take to fulfill your Mission, and are developed within the context of a Vision. Frame is knowing who you are and what you want, which is essential to successfully accomplishing your Mission. All 4 are necessary.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/03/21 04:28 AM
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No, I will not unban you. Use this account if you want to post and comment here. This decision is final. I'll be watching you closely.
/r/askRPC06/03/21 01:56 PM
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Not really. MGTOW by definition is an anti-feminist, misogynistic, mostly online community advocating for men to separate themselves from women and from a society which they believe has been destroyed by feminism.. It has nothing to do with Christianity. What's the difference? MGTOW is anti-women whereas Christianity is pro-God. Was Jesus MGTOW? No, He was a Man Going God's Way. He is The Way. The Truth. And The Life. Can men avoid relationships and serve God wholeheartedly? Absolutely. But you …
/r/RPChristians06/03/21 04:20 AM
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I did something to strain my back over a month ago and two weeks ago, several hours after lifting, my back spasmed out. I've spent the last two weeks away from weights. My back is feeling much better but I can still feel strain if I hold my 3yo for more than a few minutes or sometimes while I'm doing dishes or even washing my hands. I've been putting heat on it and doing stretches for my hips and back, but I want to make sure I get this taken care of so I don't do any permanent damage. I could u…
/r/RPChristians05/03/21 08:01 PM
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Came here to post this too. AWESOME comment!
/r/TheRedPill05/03/21 05:28 PM
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I've been vaping for 3+ years. I went 48 hours without last week but bought another one. Quitting again today, but I am bad at going more than 1 day. This is a step in the right direction. Go 48 hours once a week without. Do that for a month. The next month go 72 hours without, once a week, all month. Keep working at it, addictions take time to beat. Or switch to nicotine gum if it's cravings that drive you back to vaping. Gradually move to lower dosages until you can give it up completely. ​ I …
/r/RPChristians05/03/21 04:34 PM
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Hahaha......no. Maybe someday, but God has not opened that door yet.
/r/RPChristians05/03/21 04:12 PM
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She doesn’t trust me to handle the family finances, and I don’t blame her. I need to prove myself in this arena. I sense that once I break through this last line of defense the sexual dynamic between us will change dramatically. (Sex dries up because she works too hard, and she works too hard because she constantly worries about money/ does not feel financially secure.) Dance, Monkey, dance. Welcome back.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/21 11:38 PM
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Rule 2. Edit your post to include your stats. PM me and I'll approve the post.
/r/RPChristians01/03/21 02:43 PM
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MGTOW IS FREEDOM I’m not saying don’t get married. Congruency. It matters.
/r/RPChristians01/03/21 05:12 AM
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MGTOW is not freedom, it is the fear of consequences of a relationship with a woman. It is slavery to fear. True freedom comes from a singlehearted devotion to God, rejecting the world for His will.
/r/RPChristians01/03/21 04:00 AM
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You're welcome brother. And thanks for the kind words!
/r/RPChristians01/03/21 01:41 AM
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These "inspiration" posts do not fit the purpose of our sub. Please do not post any more of them. Thank you.
/r/RPChristians27/02/21 03:13 PM
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It's not about age, it's about maturity and common interests. When you consider marrying a girl, think of it this way: "Once we're done having sex, what will we do together?" If nothing comes to mind, then maybe you should think about it a while more (with the big head). There's also the compatibility issue as you get older. If you're 40 and she's 20, when you're 70 she will be 50. Age differences can be more of a challenge in later years. Some can make it work. Some can't. Something to think ab…
/r/askRPC27/02/21 01:49 AM
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This is a good word!
/r/RPChristians26/02/21 06:27 PM
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He messaged me a couple of weeks ago.
/r/RPChristians26/02/21 06:26 PM
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It was over two years ago already. u/2wo2wo3hree, you'll get a lot of insight out of this, it was a game changer for me. I'll also ask, could the tantrum be a plea for attention? Have you tried sitting her down and asking why she's acting like that?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/21 04:08 PM
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Glad your son's doing well! Thanks! He just got here last night to spend a few days with us before going to Texas. I feel like you could've handled this better. I'm listening, what would you suggest? I should clarify that they were going back and forth between English and Serbo-Croatian so some of this was filled in later for me since I don't speak the language.
/r/RPChristians26/02/21 03:11 PM
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If he decides cologne is not for him, I would be glad to take that Aventus off his hands before it goes bad :)
/r/askTRP26/02/21 03:58 AM
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Amen, you raise a good point! However I see most people who struggle with this as simply lacking time in the faith. Everything is sorta new, and there's a lot of expectations, both in Scripture and here on RPC. Those who let life happen to them come here and realize "Oh man, I really should be making an effort in [this, this and that - oh yeah, that other thing as well]." When you start out not doing anything, getting with the program can seem a tall mountain to climb. Hopefully this helps those…
/r/RPChristians26/02/21 03:55 AM
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Amen, glad it made an impact! Any idea where you might start? What your interests are that may lend themselves to connecting with others?
/r/RPChristians26/02/21 03:50 AM
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We don't judge a person's character - that belongs to God alone. Jesus was talking about those who take what you say and trample it down in the mud, like a pig. So if they disagree, this is okay. If they listen but don't seem to be interested or respond, this is okay. It is only when they actively put down what you're saying and ridicule it that you can recognize likely swine mentality. But always remember, we are to judge the actions and words of another, not their character. As far as creating…
/r/RPChristians26/02/21 03:49 AM
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I've never done anything like this at all, but you've put a lot of thought and effort into it so far. Awesome! Someone who has, and is, running a similar program at his church is u/RPCJoeMak, maybe he can offer some further insight.
/r/RPChristians26/02/21 03:28 AM
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Background / Stats: 51 years old, 5’9”, 200.2, 17% BF. Married 13 years next month, 3 kids – 2 are married with kids, the youngest went into the Navy last summer. Discovered RP August of 2015. ​ Bible Study: 10. My wife and I read the Bible together every night and read through the entire Bible every year. We’re using a chronological reading plan this year, something different. ​ If you would like a copy of the Bible reading plan that I put together, which is a balance between the Old and New Te…
/r/RPChristians24/02/21 11:59 PM
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For Christians, divorce is always sin - but often it is a lesser sin. This puts us in a more difficult position for sure, but it kinda goes with the territory. Malachi 2:16 says "For the Lord God of Israel says That He hates divorce, For it covers one’s garment with violence,” Says the Lord of hosts. “Therefore take heed to your spirit, That you do not deal treacherously.” Matthew 19:3-11 says "The Pharisees also came to Him, testing Him, and saying to Him, “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his…
/r/RPChristians24/02/21 01:51 AM
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do you think liking butt play is genetic? Desire cannot be negotiated. We like what we like. Besides, while some people would differ on this, my opinion is that whatever a husband and wife choose to do with their bodies to please each other in the bedroom is their business.
/r/RPChristians23/02/21 09:44 PM
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Ok, that's a good way to look at it. Definitely the lesser of two evils. If it keeps you away from porn then it's worth it in my opinion.
/r/RPChristians20/02/21 11:45 PM
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Already down one lb since coming back home from 3 weeks of training. I have been doing CrossFit workouts with one of my military buddies burning 500-600 calories a workout as well as staying under 1800 calories on a modified version of keto. Only caved once this morning and ate a pretzel stick that has carbs but if that's the only bad thing I do I will be happy. This will be good if you can sustain it. It will also keep you from getting lazy and complacent. Good on you for getting started right …
/r/RPChristians19/02/21 09:47 PM
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I can say that I don't lift but I work in construction; brick block, anything physically demanding. I race bikes when USA cycling season starts Are you making progress and getting sufficient muscle-building in with these activities, or can/should you do more? only drank a total of 32oz of jack Daniel's in a month Since you mentioned it I will just ask: do you see this as a problem at all, or not? honestly I've been ramboing... I want to be faithful to God's word about my marriage and keeping tru…
/r/RPChristians19/02/21 09:37 PM
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Stats: 6'4" 300lbs +/- 5lbs. Diet: Not good. Lost about 10lbs over the last year (not including however much muscle I've gained). Eating lots of protein, about 200g/day. But I still go nuts with chocolate/cake/doughnuts/whatever in the evenings. Ok, so diet seems to be your main challenge starting out. Are you tracking your calories? That's the first and most important place for you to start: ​ Determine your TDEE first. Download the MyFitnessPal app and set it for 500 calories a day below your …
/r/RPChristians19/02/21 09:25 PM
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I told ol' girl it wasn't going to work out a while ago, but she still texts and wants to hang out occasionally. I'm just doing the bare minimum, not showing interest anymore. I can't handle dating. Just tell her "Yeah sorry, I just didn't feel that 'spark' when we went out." NoPorn: 1X NoFap: Very bad. Not sure why. God punishes me with injuries if I relapse on porn, and that has helped me stay away from it. So when you face that temptation, in the moment, what is your thought process? What is …
/r/RPChristians19/02/21 09:10 PM
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I like this OYS. You are doing the work and have a good deal of introspection in your post. All my life, I have been conditioned to be selfless, to sacrifice myself for the good of others, to preserve others’ feelings, especially women and wives. I am scared to be selfish. This comment was shared with me before, you may gain some perspective from it as well.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/21 02:12 PM
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Yeah, this is off topic for our sub. Removed.
/r/RPChristians14/02/21 11:01 PM
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Christ had a physical body after His resurrection. We will be like Christ. We will have transformed bodies as our Savior does. https://www.desiringgod.org/articles/will-the-resurrection-of-the-body-be-a-physical-resurrection-from-the-dead
/r/RPChristians12/02/21 02:31 AM
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Good lookin out! He's lucky I didn't see it first :)
/r/RPChristians11/02/21 03:21 PM
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I haven't watched porn since before my last OYS. I don't know how to explain it, but I feel like I have more control over myself than I had before. I've gone 60+ days without in multiple times over the last 5 years. Still, I had intense cravings the whole time. I'd just be distracting myself until they subsided. I still have cravings. Or, a better way to put it is the cravings greatly diminished, but the impulse to watch is still there. I feel a sense of self control here that is entirely new. D…
/r/RPChristians10/02/21 08:57 PM
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Check out Getting Your Beta to Man Up.
/r/RPChristians09/02/21 01:44 AM
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Maybe a new Red Pill Aware section on the -------->
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/21 04:02 PM
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And HOW YOU SAY NO is very important. Apply WISNIFG methods and always the suave, charming “no, darling , I’m busy doing a, b, c on my Mission” or “I would love to help, but I am busy with that instead.” NO is a complete sentence. If she asks why? "Because I said so."
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/21 02:50 PM
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So I guess I've come out of this post with a new mission and a new question. A new perspective, and a new more embarrassing view of myself. Neo: "Why do my eyes hurt?" Morpheus: "You've never used them before."
/r/askMRP05/02/21 01:49 PM
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The iron never lies, brother.
/r/askMRP05/02/21 01:30 PM
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I am significantly undereating. So I'm trying to eat more on gym days. If you aren't losing weight then you're overeating. Remember, workout plans are set for bulking because that's what builds muscle. But at 27% you definitely need to cut unless you're going for a bulk first to get those noob gainz. I'm really concerned that any meeting at this point is going to potentially be a stumbling block to him; I don't want to do anything that will make it feel like a "date". Let the Spirit guide you. D…
/r/RPChristians05/02/21 12:43 AM
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The thing is, I checked the moderation log. He hasn't posted anything that got removed. This is all about pRinCIpLe.
/r/RPChristians04/02/21 09:57 PM
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I'm pretty certain there's no other guy involved. She had already told me that she wouldn't marry me again, at the same time that she became friends with a single guy (her closest male friend since meeting me) who encouraged her to leave me How do you reconcile those two statements? YOU DON'T. There IS another guy. I think you're being very naïve here. ​ she became friends with a single guy (her closest male friend since meeting me) who encouraged her to leave me and I think he was a mostly okay…
/r/RPChristians04/02/21 09:23 PM
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The moderation on this channel is pathetic and shameful. Thanks for the judgment. ​ Do the mods realize this is THE INTERNET and this is a channel about the RED PILL. Red pill means wresting with subversive and "heretical" ideas-- yet the mods infantalize us like they are protecting us from all that heretical content rofl. As if there isn't a world of deplorable ideas at our fingertips. We're willing to discuss lots of things. What we are NOT willing to do is let someone come and drop a link to …
/r/RPChristians04/02/21 09:08 PM
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Rookie numbers: That's okay. Just keep being consistent, the gainz will come. ​ Not losing any weight right now, if anything I'm gaining weight and I don't know why. What's your TDEE? How many calories are you eating each day? (You ARE tracking them, right?) How much sugar are you putting in your body daily? ​ Finally made the decision today to unfollow my oneitis on social media today, after my ex-girlfriend appeared on her story. There's a convoluted history to this, and I'd be down to talk ab…
/r/RPChristians04/02/21 07:56 PM
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My wife left me in November; I was weak and needy when we met and got married, and the stronger I got the less happy she was. Can you expand on this? What are your ages? How long did you date? How long have you been married? Are you legally separated or did she just take off? Did you get the ILYBINILWY speech? Is it possible there's another guy in the picture?
/r/RPChristians04/02/21 07:34 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-xZQ0YZ7ls4
/r/askMRP04/02/21 07:04 PM
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How to Deal with Apathy, Depression, and Lack of Motivation. Hint: it's not motivation you need; it's DISCIPLINE.
/r/askMRP04/02/21 05:48 PM
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Here's another verse, Proverbs 5:18-19 - Let your fountain be blessed, And rejoice with the wife of your youth. As a loving deer and a graceful doe, Let her breasts satisfy you at all times; And always be enraptured with her love.
/r/RPChristians04/02/21 05:39 PM
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This is an awesome answer, and draws everything together quite clearly. I realize not everyone here feels that this is necessary - as always, you do you. But for those who reach this point and want to take it to the next level, having a Mission is absolutely the best way to do that. The problem is that most guys don't care yet about having a lifelong Mission because their life up until now has revolved around sex, entertainment and mindless consumption. Once you've got your life dialed in to whe…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/21 03:21 PM
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This is a great insight!
/r/RPChristians04/02/21 02:37 PM
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Frame is the filter through which you perceive reality - it's knowing who you are and what you want. That includes your opinions, your desires, your dreams and ambitions. That is your center point of origin, the core of your being. It is both who you are and who you want to be. When you are a child, you have absolute frame, but as you grow up, it becomes diluted by society, education, religion, politics, sports, the media and other people. As an adult, absolute frame can lead to problems.. narci…
/r/RPChristians04/02/21 01:53 AM
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It's like he's testing me to see if I was serious. I was. Banned.
/r/RPChristians04/02/21 01:07 AM
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This is what has worked for the men here: Tactics for Getting Out From Under Porn Kicking Porn for Good Taking off the old, putting on the new Practical tips to avoid sexual temptation How I Overcame Porn Permanently
/r/RPChristians03/02/21 09:33 PM
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Scripture Memory - This is lacking. I have a few verses memorized, but would love to be doing more. Where is a good place to start? My approach is to start by memorizing verses that help you deal with stuff you're already facing as challenges in your life. Since you're dealing with porn, how about verses that will address sexual sin? ​ 1 Corinthians 7:2-5 ...because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband. The husband should give t…
/r/RPChristians03/02/21 07:23 PM
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I've be 'christian' culturally my whole life, but the Holy Spirit changed my heart recently. I now know Jesus was crucified, died, was buried, and rose from the dead and sits at the right hand of the Father as much as I know the sun will rise tomorrow. This is new for me and exciting, but I have a lot to learn and a lot of 'church-anity' to unlearn. Welcome! The best cure for Churchianity is reading the Bible for yourself. I see you're doing that: Bible Study - I'm reading using M'Cheyenne's pro…
/r/RPChristians03/02/21 05:21 PM
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Rule 8
/r/RPChristians03/02/21 01:14 AM
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I must make it sound like my wife is getting boring and starfishy. That's not really the case. Yes, that's kinda what it sounded like. Glad you clarified. As I look back to the dating process, what I really loved about her was how sweet and agreeable she was all the time. Just wanted to be part of my life. Shy, reserved, quiet, eager to be helpful and please, and could turn heads in room in such a way that the silence that proceeded it belonged humbly to her. That's what I loved about her then -…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/21 10:46 PM
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That may be true, but the bulk of your OYS this week is primarily about sex. Sure, it's important - and I may be focusing on something that isn't even there. But you didn't write 845 words about it for nothing.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/21 10:31 PM
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Maybe I'm chasing a dragon, but it's also not like I'm missing a fundamental ingredient such as salt. It's still a pretty fucking good steak without that little thing. I think the basic idea in this comment (sans the cheating part obviously) is what you're running into right now. Funny how you both used steak as an analogy...
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/21 10:11 PM
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Watch the video. We do not endorse the 5 Love Languages per se, the title is a hook to broaden our audience.
/r/RPChristians01/02/21 05:40 PM
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But are you saved? Jesus said you must be born again, so are you?
/r/RPChristians01/02/21 03:19 PM
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Rule 8.
/r/RPChristians01/02/21 02:45 PM
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Interesting. I'll give this some serious thought, thanks!
/r/RPChristians01/02/21 03:19 AM
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You're welcome. Luke 6:38 "Give, and it will be given to you: good measure, pressed down, shaken together, and running over will be put into your bosom. For with the same measure that you use, it will be measured back to you.”
/r/RPChristians31/01/21 05:37 AM
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By being exceptionally generous with what God has already given you.
/r/RPChristians31/01/21 05:34 AM
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Many people think they can handle wealth - few actually can. Proverbs 30:8-9 Remove falsehood and lies far from me; Give me neither poverty nor riches—Feed me with the food allotted to me; Lest I be full and deny You, And say, “Who is the Lord?” Or lest I be poor and steal, And profane the name of my God.
/r/RPChristians31/01/21 05:27 AM
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Oof. Haha good point!
/r/RPChristians31/01/21 05:22 AM
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This is a good word.
/r/RPChristians30/01/21 05:49 PM
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I approved your comment; however, this is a domestic violence situation, something that is beyond the scope of the purpose of this sub. Start documenting the abuse, especially the cutting, and get help. Here's how to pre-empt the DV charge you will likely face at some point.
/r/RPChristians30/01/21 05:46 PM
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No point in going at all if I can't get along. See my response to u/WhereProgressIsMade, you may find it helpful as well. If we are getting on each other's nerves then something needs to change. I will not willingly put myself in a situation I know has a high chance of an unfavorable outcome (ok well not anymore lol).
/r/RPChristians29/01/21 06:40 PM
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Doe she do most of the shopping (buying most of the household stuff)? Most women do. I wonder if she could see that as her turf and something she's is in charge of. I wonder if it would help to specifically delegate that to her. Yes, she does most of the shopping. However, you may be correct in that she might see it as her responsibility. She invites me to go, that's the strange part. However, your comment makes me think that maybe it's a Fitness Test - maybe passing it means just saying no. I'v…
/r/RPChristians29/01/21 06:38 PM
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Removed for Rule 8. If you want to expand with a post about the video, edit it and message me and I may reapprove it.
/r/askRPC28/01/21 06:09 PM
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How important is keeping frame among close friends? Is it important, and if so what does it look like? Recently, I found out that some of my closest friends mentioned in a lighthearted manner something I had confided to them in a larger group setting, and I was really bothered by it. It's not "keeping frame", it's about boundaries. This was a boundary, and they crossed it. The question is, was it clearly understood or did you just kind of assume that it was because of the context in which you sh…
/r/askRPC28/01/21 06:07 PM
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It's about not dating for years and facing constant temptation. If she's the one you want, marry her. People date for 3, 4, 5 years and wonder why they end up having sex before marriage.
/r/RPChristians28/01/21 12:11 PM
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God humbled me dramatically and recommitted my life to Christ after my 24th birthday. I only recently discovered RPC and am thankful that the LORD in His goodness did not let me succeed with, or even commit myself secular RP. Amen! God has been good to you. ​ Gyms are closed and I'm unable to train BJJ and have rather been doing rigorous calisthenics and kettlebell workouts. I yearn to hit the iron ASAP. I've also begun to do distance running within the past week. It is exhilarating to see my pr…
/r/RPChristians27/01/21 09:06 PM
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While your heart is in the right place, I would prefer to address it in the comments. If we make a post with some big, grand announcement on this subject, those who actually do wish to troll us will likely take that as an invitation to troll even harder and use that post as justification, making things even harder. Besides, it may send a conflicting message about whether or not to speak the truth boldly using tough love, which is one of the reasons people come to RP subs in the first place.
/r/RPChristians27/01/21 06:03 PM
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Background / Stats: 51 years old, 5’9”, 196.6, 17% BF. Married 12 years, 3 kids – 2 are married with kids, the youngest went into the Navy last summer. Discovered RP August of 2015. ​ Bible Study: 10. My wife and I read the Bible together every night and read through the entire Bible every year. We’re using a chronological reading plan this year, something different. ​ If you would like a copy of the Bible reading plan that I put together, which is a balance between the Old and New Testaments, I…
/r/RPChristians27/01/21 05:14 PM
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While this could be bait, there are many times in my sinful past that I could have been in a similar situation. There but for the grace of God go I. Remember folks, as our videos are now starting to be shared on the main TRP channel we will get more people who think they are Christian but live like the world. This is a chance to show grace and help them come to Christ, repent of their sins and start truly living for Him while practicing Red Pill truths. u/spacemanu, have you been born again? Joi…
/r/RPChristians27/01/21 03:31 AM
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The best way to tell is to observe her day-to-day actions as you spend time with her. Does she read her Bible? Is she active in her church? Does she talk about Christ? Does she evangelize? Does she hold to biblical ideals, and is she actively seeking them out for herself? Are her speech and actions consistent with what a Christian should be? (are yours?) When she does something sinful, does she go to God in true repentance? There are many other things, but you get the idea. She should be living …
/r/RPChristians27/01/21 02:17 AM
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r/RPChristians is what you're looking for.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/21 08:37 PM
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While I'm glad it worked out this time, don't count on it going forward. You should sit down with her and lay out clear boundaries and consequences for things like this. You are likely to find yourself in the same situation again soon either way because you caved, and rewarded her with a "compromise" for going behind your back. You're reinforcing the very behavior you seek to change.
/r/RPChristians25/01/21 02:13 PM
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That's why I removed it.
/r/RPChristians25/01/21 02:06 PM
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You need to get control of this situation TODAY. Here's some links that will help you do that. Drastic action is called for in situations like this.
/r/RPChristians25/01/21 11:54 AM
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We enjoyed having you, thanks for coming on and sharing!
/r/RPChristians23/01/21 01:44 PM
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Glad to have you with us bro!
/r/RPChristians22/01/21 05:41 PM
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Preselection.
/r/RPChristians22/01/21 03:32 AM
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Struggling a little here since I was working 12-14 hour shifts a day and the house being a mess. I don’t have as much time to do my share (dishes, diaper changes, watching our son for her to have downtime, etc.) I became stubborn and refused to do some of them and said she has to step up and do them, especially since I will be gone for training on Jan 23-Feb 12th so she needs to get used to it. I understand her reasoning. She probably wants me to do more now since I will be gone but since I am w…
/r/RPChristians20/01/21 07:30 PM
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240 pounds I've started back to fasting this week. Its always rough in the beginning, but I'll be used to it in a week. I've already started losing a couple of pounds, just from two days of fasting. I'm hoping that within 2 weeks, I'll be back down at 235, and within a month, back to 230. I plan on hard cutting until at least April, then maybe take a short break then. Alright, you put on about 8 lbs since your OYS in the middle of last year. Now you're going to hit it hard and cut like crazy to …
/r/RPChristians20/01/21 07:19 PM
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Here's how to lead your wife to get in shape.
/r/askMRP18/01/21 05:08 PM
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You'll likely get some value out of these comments from u/weakandsensitive as well as the articles he linked. Maybe only some of it will apply right now since your kids are young, but it will get you headed in the right direction.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/21 05:50 PM
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How do I join the discord? I joined the reddit community if that's what you mean. Discord is an app that is popular in gaming circles. It features chat channels on a variety of different subjects. But you will get to know others much more closely if you choose. See you there! https://discord.gg/YPNXf9yzzZ
/r/RPChristians15/01/21 03:29 AM
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Amen! I'll pray for you. Join the Discord too so we can help you grow and be accountable.
/r/RPChristians15/01/21 12:46 AM
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He's waiting for you to come to Him.
/r/RPChristians14/01/21 09:30 PM
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None of us are. But God is waiting and will place that light within you when you place your trust in Christ. Your thinking seems to be basically "I could never do this." And you're right. God's thinking is "Trust in My Son and I'll do for you what you never even thought was possible. And I'll do it all right inside you through the power of the Holy Spirit." But He won't force you to do anything.
/r/RPChristians14/01/21 06:19 PM
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Our light comes from the indwelling Holy Spirit. Those who are not born again have no light, only darkness. God may shine on them, but not in them. It's an important difference.
/r/RPChristians14/01/21 05:53 PM
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my problem is I'm content in my sinful existence and dont trust that I can achieve repentance. I cant let go of what is comfortable and known. I cling to my sins as it defines me. It has hold of me and I wont let it go. Understood. I dont believe that I can truly attain repentance. You can't. God will enable you supernaturally, over time. I cling to the rotten wood and tell the coast gaurd to move on to someone more deserving of salvation, let the sharks eat me. No one deserves to be saved. 1 Ti…
/r/RPChristians14/01/21 05:39 PM
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What you need is to be born again. Please read the link. Then re-read it until you get it. Jesus said "Unless a man is born again he cannot enter the kingdom of God." Now either Jesus was telling the truth, or He was a liar.
/r/RPChristians14/01/21 05:01 PM
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Would you use them in church? Would you use them around the parents of a girl you're dating? They are called profanities for a reason. I was raised roman catholic. So I have to earn my salvation through suffering and penance and my suffering is direct result of my sin against God. For God to love me to the point of forgiving my sins and saving my soul from the hell I put myself in I need to be more like Him. More like all you good Christian's on this sub. I need to be crucified myself to be save…
/r/RPChristians14/01/21 03:00 PM
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I approved it.
/r/RPChristians14/01/21 01:24 PM
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So... you got the "I love you but I'm not in love with you" (ILYBINILWY) speech?
/r/RPChristians11/01/21 02:57 PM
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229 lbs, (+3) 24% BF (Goal <15%, ~200 lbs) Bro, what's going on with your weight? Your goal is to be below 15% BF, right? Take a look at your progress over the last 3 months: 1/6 – 229 12/16 – 226 12/2 – 228 11/25 – 228 11/11 – 228 11/4 – 228 10/29 – 230 10/21 – 230 10/14 – 230 10/7 – 230 10/1 – 230 So in 3 months you went from 230-229. How do you expect to develop discipline in other areas of your life if you can't even do it when it comes to food? ​ Kind of in damage-control mode right now, do…
/r/RPChristians08/01/21 07:13 PM
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Past week has had highs and lows. Have not worked out besides two quick sets of curls, the bench press, and some squats (no weight). Eating habits are poor compared to a few months ago. I have not watched porn in 5 days or so. Most of my time is spent lounging around the house playing videogames though. Rarely leave the house, but did get some new clothes recently, so looking forward to wearing them when school starts next week. Time to get back on track brother! Man, 5'8" and 126 lbs.? You need…
/r/RPChristians08/01/21 12:06 AM
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Amen!
/r/RPChristians07/01/21 11:53 PM
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Background / Stats: 51 years old, 5’9”, 199.7, 17% BF. Married 12 years, 3 kids – 2 are married with kids, the youngest went into the Navy last summer. Discovered RP August of 2015. ​ Bible Study: 10. My wife and I read the Bible together every night and read through the entire Bible every year. We’re using a chronological reading plan this year, something different. ​ Anybody reading this who would like a copy of the Bible reading plan that I put together, I shared it in this post. ​ Physical /…
/r/RPChristians07/01/21 11:31 PM
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Sure. I'll break it down like this: ​ brings glory to God in [these ways] -become an ideal red pill christian man who draws others to Christ -who inspires people to become the best version of themselves -developing my sense of humor, love for learning, and concern for the well-being of others. by pursuing [these kinds of goals] -by developing my skills in communication, teaching, and fitness, learning about Christ, and developing my sense of humor, love for learning, and concern for the well-bei…
/r/RPChristians07/01/21 08:39 PM
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Here's a good one. Here's another. There's also a ton more definitions in the Glossary on the Sidebar.
/r/RPChristians07/01/21 08:05 PM
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This is an amazingly simple Frame check, and yet most guys have great trouble determining whose Frame they are in: theirs or hers. Well done! Also, congrats on giving your life to Christ! "...being confident of this very thing, that He who has begun a good work in you will complete it until the day of Jesus Christ;" Philippians 1:6
/r/RPChristians07/01/21 05:34 PM
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Watching porn is like drinking salt water expecting to become hydrated. It always leads to a death spiral of using more to no actual relief. Wow, what a GREAT analogy! This is a good word!!
/r/RPChristians07/01/21 05:15 PM
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Caveat: I don't have a max on lifts because I never max out and I don't lift heavy often. These are weights I can do a few reps at or I max out at with the push-up/pull-ups Physical Squat - 265 Bench -225 9 minute mile 3 Pull-ups 62 Push-ups This is pretty good so far. ​ Stats: 5'8 220 28.7% BF I am 5'8 and 220 pounds which means I'm about 45-50 pounds overweight and it shows. I have man boobs, a decently big stomach, and a few chins. This, however, is not. I see you realize this. ​ I've tried t…
/r/RPChristians07/01/21 03:27 PM
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This experience is relevant to everyone. Considering the amount of questions that have been thrown around about this, and the fact that OP is one of the more respected members of our sub and not just some first-time poster, I'm allowing it.
/r/RPChristians07/01/21 11:58 AM
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Since this has been reported for Rule 2 - Stats: 2. ALL posts asking for help with relationship issues must include the following: Mission: Tell us what it is and why you need a woman's help accomplishing it (I'm being serious) Stats: body fat, height, weight, lifts, etc. Reading: Which sidebar content you've read (RPC and/or MRP) Finances: Current job and income quality, future prospects, debt issues Spiritual: How mature you are, how often you pray, have quiet times, share your faith, memorize…
/r/RPChristians06/01/21 07:08 PM
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This post is off topic for our sub. Removed.
/r/RPChristians06/01/21 12:00 PM
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You're in a good spot. You care, therefore all hope is not lost. First, understand the Gospel. Are you truly born again? Second, the porn issue - here are some resources that will help: Tactics for Getting Out From Under Porn Kicking Porn for Good Taking off the old, putting on the new Practical tips to avoid sexual temptation Third: join the Discord so you can connect with others and not be isolated. Sin happens in isolation. https://discord.gg/JHnN98u
/r/RPChristians03/01/21 10:21 PM
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This too.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/21 08:08 PM
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Here's a suggestion on how to give him a kick in the ass.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/21 08:04 PM
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been getting some bad habits as I play more video games when I feel lonely Here's something to consider regarding video games.
/r/RPChristians02/01/21 07:35 PM
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Also dealing with temptation to reach out to the Blue Haired Girl God's got me on this front. I'm not going to do anything stupid. Amen! ​ So the plan is this: It's two days after you posted this. Did you get them done? ​ still clueless about evangelism (should I lump this in with discipleship??) Evangelism: sharing the Gospel so people can trust in Christ and become born again. This includes connecting with others and forming relationships. Discipleship: teaching non-believers about the Lord wi…
/r/RPChristians02/01/21 07:20 PM
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Realized Chuck was right about Bethsheba. Stopped seeing her. God helped me. Beginning nightly Bible study with wife. Praise God! ​ Interactions with wife #2 remain sexy but overshadowed by depressing reality. Postponed PIV date due to illness. Negative COVID test. You may benefit from reading this post. Maybe the details are different, but the technique may help you make some progress. ​ Broke this month, not sure what to do. Expecting wife #1 to come after me for money. Might have to hire lawy…
/r/RPChristians02/01/21 07:09 PM
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PMO use: Haven’t used porn since the 11th. Not doing so well on the not jerking off part. This is progress! One step at a time, imo the porn is a much more important problem to tackle first, and it sounds like you're gaining some control here. ​ My beef is with my mom bringing it up that I know will take her hamster and throw it into only God knows where if I don’t nip things in the bud. I love my mother, but at the same time there are times I feel like she is my younger sister and my step siste…
/r/RPChristians02/01/21 06:37 PM
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Thanks to the pregnancy it's suddenly much more urgent to kill the credit card debt so we can buy a bigger house in a school district that isn't terrible. I think my wife finally realizes that too. Amen, maybe God has adjusted the timing of things to help you. Congrats btw!
/r/RPChristians02/01/21 06:28 PM
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The next morning she was pretty upset but I was ready for it and realized my mistake so I passed the makeup fitness test. Can you share what you did specifically? ​ Come up with a mission. When turning a Vision into a Mission, I like to break it down with a framework that I think covers the essence of a successful Mission: "My Mission is to become a man who brings glory to God in [these ways] by pursuing [these kinds of goals]. I will accomplish that by sharing the Gospel, as well as by doing [t…
/r/RPChristians02/01/21 06:25 PM
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I've been very tired the past few days despite having adequate sleep. Have you deloaded yet? ​ For the most part in my life I've taken the path of least resistance. If I meet a liberal I'll just go along with their beliefs. If someone told me "the key to relationships is communication" I'd nod my head and sit quietly. I am no longer going to hide my true thoughts and ideas based on someone elses emotions. I will be tactful and polite, however I will not sit and agree. Law 38: Think As You Like B…
/r/RPChristians02/01/21 06:10 PM
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Here's an in depth perspective on circumcision that addresses the issue as it pertains to Christians.
/r/RPChristians01/01/21 03:07 PM
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We should have something up in the next couple of weeks hopefully, maybe sooner. Our production team is in the process of setting it up as we speak and I checked it out this morning. So far it's an embedded player with the option to download as an mp3 file if you prefer. I suggested posting the audio link on the Reddit post that announces the new YouTube video so all the options are in one place.
/r/askRPC30/12/20 03:32 PM
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What were you missing that you got from it? Respect. I found MRP by Googling "How to get my wife to respect me." What missing piece was filled by it? I was a nice, "Yes Dear" kind of guy that wasn't leading in my marriage or most aspects of my life. What was the cause that prompted the reaction of accepting this belief system? My first post answers that in detail, as well as the comments. What do you count as success in this aspect? Knowing what to do differently instead of doing the same thing …
/r/askRPC25/12/20 12:04 AM
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Gained more weight than I expected. There has been way too much food shoved in front of me. And with the way I’ve felt lately it’s been hard to care about it like I should. Topping it off I’ve not been working out like I should or sleeping well. Diet: I’ll do better next year. Changing this during the holidays is just not happening. I know you're going through a lot right now. Focus on not losing any more ground until the holidays are over, then get back to it! ​ Seeing my pastor last Thursday a…
/r/RPChristians24/12/20 04:11 PM
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To directly answer the question, I started over at MRP so I chose to embrace the material (within biblical bounds) because it actually worked. There are 4 posts on the Sidebar which really help make the connection between Red Pill principles and their biblical foundations: Defining "The Red Pill" For Christians The Red Pill - What's Scriptural and What's Not How RPChristians Originated Why We Use RP Terminology to Help Bridge the Gap in Explaining and Living Out Spiritual Truths It is important …
/r/askRPC24/12/20 03:50 PM
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Trying to reform my nutrition by buying some frozen vegetables the other day. I need to prioritize incorporating those into my meals. This is good. Frozen vegetables are the best because they are at their peak freshness when they freeze them so they retain the most nutritional value, and they don't go bad quickly. ​ Mental health is doing generally well, though I can testify to some anxious episodes in the past week. Feeling confident right now. Straight A's this semester (five A's and one A min…
/r/RPChristians24/12/20 03:37 PM
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There's a lot of helpful links here, none of which I've seen before. Specifically, the Captain's Mindset one. This has been in the back of my mind for a while as a big area of improvement... I've got some vision of the future but haven't laid it out there. Leadership also needs work (this will likely always be true). But really, just working on that mindset that this is my domain, and how can I most effectively operate it towards what I want. Regarding leadership, How To Lead A Wife That Doesn't…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/20 02:54 PM
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Another incident happened in bed when my wife flat out told me, "if you ever leave, you won't find someone like me who will put up with you. I'm a Saint". I didn't say anything and went to sleep. "Well I guess I'll just have to settle for a slut that does everything I like in bed. Bummer..." with a sly grin. Be prepared with Fogging, AM and A&A.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/20 05:09 AM
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I'm pretty sure my wife is now trying to gain weight. She has been making tons of fatty/sugary dessert foods, and then eating that and not much else. Then she complains about how bad she feels all the time. It's frustrating. I try to make healthy food, but she doesn't eat what I make very often. You should watch Fed Up with her over the holiday weekend. The new year is coming, and that movie could set the stage for some big changes if you present it in a non-finger pointing way. "I need to eat b…
/r/RPChristians23/12/20 11:38 PM
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Then I was hit with the question “You turned me down last night. You think you can just try to take the power away like that?” She knows she has the power. ​ Continued gaming throughout the day, good responses. That evening I initiated. This was peak ovulation time, so I assumed it would be pretty easy. Some passionate kissing, then I was told that it was past her bedtime. I kept initiating, but kept receiving no’s. OK I get it, you want to feel like you are taking your power back. She's not tak…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/20 05:41 PM
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Background / Stats: 51 years old, 5’9”, 200.8, 17% BF. Married 12 years, 3 kids – 2 are married with kids, the youngest went into the Navy this summer. Discovered RP August of 2015. ​ Bible Study: 10. My wife and I read the Bible together every night and read through the entire Bible every year. ​ Anybody reading this who would like a copy of the Bible reading plan that I put together, I shared it in this post. ​ Physical / Lifting / Diet: Home workout is going well. Missed a couple workouts due…
/r/RPChristians23/12/20 03:13 PM
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Came here to say the same thing. He has no problem expressing his needs to his hand.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/20 04:37 PM
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I've put enough foreign substances in my body over the years. If it's legal and will provide useful benefits that outweigh the potential risks, then I think we have freedom in Christ to decide for ourselves.
/r/askRPC20/12/20 05:00 AM
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Physical: This whole section is pretty solid. Well done! ​ No mental health issues - COVID’s got nothing on me! I’m mostly bored since my area is shut down and all I do is work, lift, and volunteer at church. Not bad. Have you joined the Discord yet? There's some great opportunities there to disciple others, especially since you seem to have made quite a bit of progress. ​ STFU is weak when it comes to dating as a conversation topic. My female family member(s) regularly talk about how I look dow…
/r/RPChristians20/12/20 01:29 AM
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Also Lifting won't fix your face You would be surprised what more muscle and less fat will do to improve most men's facial features.
/r/RPChristians19/12/20 09:35 PM
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Removed - Rule 9. Please familiarize yourself with the rules listed on the Sidebar.
/r/RPChristians19/12/20 09:29 PM
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Thanks brother. It's probably THE most embarrassing thing that's ever happened to me. God taught me the consequences of sexual sin that week, and though I've been tempted I never forgot the lesson.
/r/RPChristians18/12/20 09:22 PM
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"Crazy is measured from 4-10 because of course there's no such thing as a woman who is not at least a '4' crazy." Hahaha!
/r/RPChristians18/12/20 03:01 PM
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You know if I was going to rewrite the WHOLE story, I would also have to include how I contracted viral meningitis through an ear infection in 1998. Had 2 gran mal seizures at the house, several more at the hospital. Spent a week in the hospital on IV antibiotics, then went back for an IV drip twice a day for the next month. And this was 11 months BEFORE giving my life to Christ. I still suffer memory loss to this day. But God is good, He has used me much since then. Maybe I'll write a book one …
/r/RPChristians18/12/20 02:32 AM
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Thanks. I knew exactly what I was doing. I knew it was wrong. I gave in to temptation and paid the price.
/r/RPChristians18/12/20 02:27 AM
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I wasn't ready to tell it at that time. I honestly thought I would NEVER tell that story to anyone. I'm so ashamed of what I allowed to happen. I've been very open and honest on here, but there are some things I've done in my past that I will never share with anyone. We all have those. But I really felt it was time, and enough years had passed and I had grown enough that I could tell that story. Plus there was an actual reason to tell it, one that will hopefully help others.
/r/RPChristians17/12/20 10:55 PM
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¯\_(ツ)_/¯
/r/RPChristians17/12/20 10:29 PM
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You should post this in this week's OYS post so you get some feedback. This is last week's post.
/r/RPChristians17/12/20 07:48 PM
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I'm not in that place and I need to let this one go. I'm uninstalling as soon as I post this. Good job. Did you follow through and uninstall it? ​ HTWFAIP opened my eyes to a some bad social habits of mine. First off, I don't smile enough. Second, I almost never use other people's names in conversation. Just tonight I was hanging out with three friends for several hours, in all that time I used one of their names once. Once I noticed these I've started to notice other bad social behaviors, such …
/r/RPChristians17/12/20 07:34 PM
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While it's not a guarantee of defective character, hair that is dyed noticeably unnatural colors is a well-known slut tell.
/r/RPChristians17/12/20 04:16 PM
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Excellent suggestion! I added it to the Glossary as an addendum to the definitions of Comfort Test and Fitness Test.
/r/RPChristians17/12/20 04:06 PM
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And the next day she showed up with food, doe eyes, and an apology. We planned dinner together that night, but after the gym because she didn't want to worry about my time. Halfway through the workout u/rocknrollchuck's reply to my OYS dropped. He called me out for all of this and finished it with "You know what you need to do." F---. He was right. I knew exactly what to do. I left the gym halfway through my set of pullups. I met her outside her place, made the conversation as quick as I could, …
/r/RPChristians17/12/20 03:25 PM
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Last week I said my wife wasn't helping with any of the cleaning, and that's still true. I'm trying to take rocknrollchuck's advice and establish some kind of daily cleaning schedule, but I've realized we need to deal with clutter first. Most of it is my wife's, but I do have one room I have enough control over that I can get it turned into an example. This is a great first step. Getting the clutter under control is MUCH harder than keeping it under control, as long as you stay on top of it. Onc…
/r/RPChristians17/12/20 12:04 AM
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Historically I've had a difficult time determining the difference between fitness tests and comfort tests so I was glad I was able to correctly distinguish that this time. As a general rule of thumb you can distinguish between fitness and comfort tests in the following way: You. You are a jerk. You do what you want to do. You you you. These are fitness tests. I am / feel lonely. I want to feel wanted. I .I. I. These are comfort tests.
/r/RPChristians16/12/20 10:52 PM
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I feel like I can do more when it comes to discipling. I'm called to lead other men, just looking for the opportunity to do so. Right now with covid restrictions, we are all truly blessed to have this sub, AskRPC and Discord available to us. Plenty of opportunities on all 3. You've been fairly active over the last few months, pray that God would guide you to the right people online. ​ I've let go of the reigns when it comes to keeping my ship in order. My wife has recognized this and has been fi…
/r/RPChristians16/12/20 10:44 PM
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Deliberately cut off the Blue Hair Experiment after u/rocknrollchuck called me out. Field report forthcoming. She's been on my mind a lot, almost like I'm going through withdrawal. I pray for her when I think of her (that's all I've got at this point). Amen! You passed a huge test brother. ​ I got distracted from my mission over the last 3 to 4 weeks. I also found the limits of my self control. I also came to understand some of the things I find appealing in women. It happens. Especially with wo…
/r/RPChristians16/12/20 06:43 PM
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Letting go of this sin has been very hard for me. I kept thinking about how much I "need" it. And how I didn't care what God did to me after doing it. I acted like a thirsty simp, but for porn instead of some woman. I understand. Porn is probably the biggest temptation men today face. And it's so easy because access is just a click away. You've got this brother! ​ I don't know if I believe that. Even if this isn't punishment for my sin the timing of it caused me to rethink how I've been living. …
/r/RPChristians15/12/20 05:02 PM
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Their only doctrine is that of St. Peter's church, but they accept couples from all faiths and no faith. That seems reasonable, since for many couples, the Christian faith was exactly what they needed, and they would not have had the chance to embrace it if they were excluded from the start. Couples have to be married, but no one checks their marriage certificate. When you start with something less than biblical, expect less than biblical results. ​ To build an abundance of options, which I plan…
/r/RPChristians15/12/20 04:04 PM
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Also Ezekiel 18:20 "The son shall not bear the guilt of the father, nor the father bear the guilt of the son. The righteousness of the righteous shall be upon himself, and the wickedness of the wicked shall be upon himself."
/r/RPChristians13/12/20 02:35 PM
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All the progress you've listed here is awesome! You've come a LONG way since you started here. Keep the momentum going. I'm proud of you. Wiped the files from my laptops, my flash drive and got rid of all the stuff I know of. Amen! God rewards obedience. How foolish I've been is running me over like a train. I never considered God could punish me for my sin by taking a family member. This is NOT TRUE. God does not punish us in this way. Jesus bore your sins, not your father. The conviction is go…
/r/RPChristians13/12/20 02:30 PM
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That's when I found MRP, and the first thing they said was to start lifting. Cool, I can do that. They talked like men, not like the BP marriage counselors we had been to. So I embraced their program and started making real progress (I know what you're thinking, but you should have seen where I was a year ago). But there was so much Machiavellian nonsense floating around MRP, I needed to know where the Gospel fit into it. If there was no way to reconcile the two, I knew that MRP would have to be…
/r/RPChristians13/12/20 02:35 AM
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Honestly, I feel like I’m slacking very much in all aspects. I’m at least trying to begin again (though I haven’t taken up lifting again yet, told myself it’s unsafe to go to the gyms and I haven’t bought equipment yet) but I wanted to comment specifically about your line about “nice guys hiding their flaws, putting on a false impression to impress others.” It's sooooo much easier to talk about it than it is to actually do it, isn't it? Because when you did something (talking to the woman at the…
/r/RPChristians12/12/20 07:30 PM
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Somehow though I got a passing mark. Truth be told I teared up a bit upon seeing the result on my computer screen at the testing center. Never have I been in a situation where I felt so defeated walking into it and came out a winner. It’s not what I deserved, but clearly God’s mercy gifted me the right questions and inspired my answers. God is showing you grace and mercy right now. That will only last for so long before He allows you to face consequences. Best get your act together so that doesn…
/r/RPChristians12/12/20 06:59 PM
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Per Chuck's suggestion, I signed up on Disciplecord. Filled out the intro. Couldn't figure out what to do next. Will try again when I have my home computer set up. Instructions on what to do are here. ​ Wifa and I are still doing Retrouvaille dialogues daily. Finished writing exercise, waiting for our mentors' feedback. Ok so I looked this up because I'm unfamiliar. I fould their "Spiritual Views" page page somewhat concerning. Plus the process itself (I read through some of the questions on the…
/r/RPChristians12/12/20 06:21 PM
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This is an awesome biblical example!
/r/RPChristians12/12/20 04:09 PM
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My wife has all but given up trying to lose weight. She made brownies Saturday night and they were gone before lunch on Sunday. And several times in the past couple weeks she's gone to bed saying "I'm going to the gym in the morning" and then decides to sleep in instead. How to lead your wife to get in shape. ​ Cleaning up the house is still mostly falling to me, which is extra stressful considering I'm back in the office and the only time I have time to clean is when I get home from work. But I…
/r/RPChristians11/12/20 12:32 AM
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Food: still eating like garbage. I'm coping with emotions by eating. Not a good place to be. Ok that's not good. Your food intake will drive everything else. Over the last month you've said: ​ 12/2 I've been making excuses with my diet, and it's time to dial it back in. 11/25 Food intake is not acceptable. I'm not eating enough or on a schedule. Need to get back to the grind. 11/11 I haven't lost weight in almost 4 months, though my lifts have been moving up. So what are you going to do about th…
/r/RPChristians11/12/20 12:18 AM
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Removed. Please feel free to repost here instead of crossposting, per Rule 9 on our Sidebar. Thanks!
/r/RPChristians10/12/20 03:59 PM
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Last week, the 18yo living across from my house was changing with her curtains open and was completely topless. It was from pretty far away so I couldn't see much but I've been finding myself constantly looking toward that window now. It's hard to get that kind of thing out of my head. Oh man, that's rough. Do you think she did it on purpose? ​ Wife gave me a major fitness test. I interrupted her while she was speaking to ask her a question while we were getting my daughter ready, and she starte…
/r/RPChristians09/12/20 11:24 PM
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While you don't have to have a pastor officiate the ceremony, you will probably regret it later because the tradition connects you with your church and it ends up being more important than you think in hindsight. I would do this: marry the way your boyfriend suggests. Then look together for a church to attend - make your search criteria "We want our marriage to be recognized by the church, will you perform a small ceremony for us so that we can do that?" Pray that God would lead you to the right…
/r/RPChristians09/12/20 04:27 AM
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My wife and I got married at the courthouse, then got the pastor to bless our marriage later. The wait to get married in our church at the time was a year and a half, and we didn't want to wait that long. I have no regrets and we've been married for almost 13 years now. What your boyfriend proposed is legitimate in the eyes of God. I would take him up on that offer as soon as possible. May God bring you together and bless your marriage. Also, may I suggest you join our Discord? You can talk with…
/r/RPChristians09/12/20 03:23 AM
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OYS #2 #3 FTFY. ​ get the wife settled in her new apartment. DONE (Plan to get my house back Dec 1 fell through, postponed until this Saturday.) You know, I still don't understand what you're actually doing here. Why get your house back and maintain separate residences? Why not either go all the way or nothing? I get that you are trying to save your family - I do. But this to me is beyond dumb. Add to that the fact that your 17 yr old daughter is sneaking out at night and you've got a real mess …
/r/RPChristians05/12/20 12:11 AM
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I haven't been to the gym in a couple weeks and have been going on/off since the lock-downs let up. Plan to start going 3x week beginning tomorrow and running through a 3x5 full body routine with a little ancillary work for good measure. Consistency is key to getting the results you want. What's the hardest exercise at the gym? Front door pulls. ​ 16-17% bf I haven't been cooking as much since the pandemic started and have been relying on Chipotle for food more that I'd prefer. I need to start m…
/r/RPChristians04/12/20 11:09 PM
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I agree with this. Too often people come here and want the Sidebar spoonfed to them question by question instead of doing the work themselves. It's one thing if you're doing the work but things aren't clicking, and you need to ask a question to make a connection - we've all done that. But there's a difference between that and asking basic questions that are covered in the Sidebar material that they haven't read. With regard to u/CashSplash123's "sperg question" comment, I would say that's what r…
/r/RPChristians04/12/20 04:53 PM
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Removed for low effort.
/r/RPChristians04/12/20 04:16 PM
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Isaiah 41:10 "Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand." Philippians 4:13 "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." 2 Corinthians 12:10 "For the sake of Christ, then, I am content with weaknesses, insults, hardships, persecutions, and calamities. For when I am weak, then I am strong." 2 Corinthians 12:9 "But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is …
/r/RPChristians03/12/20 10:21 PM
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Ate a lot of food over Thanksgiving weekend, enough to gain a pound. Still haven't been counting calories properly For some reason turned to PMO for relief instead of just taking a Tylenol and moving on. I've been playing a lot more video games the past month, like 3-4 hours every evening. Sounds like you've gotten comfortable and complacent. Here's something you should read. ​ Vacation is still great, I've been getting out a lot more than usual. Awesome! ​ Several events made me decide to stop …
/r/RPChristians03/12/20 12:47 AM
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Background / Stats: 51 years old, 5’9”, 198.4, 17% BF. Married 12 years, 3 kids – 2 are married with kids, the youngest went into the Navy recently. Discovered RP August of 2015. ​ Bible Study: 10. My wife and I read the Bible together every night and read through the entire Bible every year. ​ Anybody reading this who would like a copy of the Bible reading plan that I put together, I shared it in this post. ​ Physical / Lifting / Diet: I’m doing the home workout for the foreseeable future. With…
/r/RPChristians02/12/20 09:21 PM
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Believe me, the difference I've experienced when I get to a certain point in dropping body fat is amazingly noticeable. I'm bulking right now, and have noticed that the attention and ioi's I receive have dropped somewhat. Check out the Reddit Bodyweight Fitness sub for routines you can do without equipment.
/r/RPChristians02/12/20 04:59 PM
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That's not true: I want to add that I have no actual "proof" that she is cheating besides the profile picture on Facebook with a other guy, and it's been up there since summertime, along with her drastic changes in the beginning of the seperation phase....drinking, cussing, staying at other places overnight, tattoos, etc. I think there's plenty of evidence (notice I said "evidence", not "proof") to suspect that something is not right. And flip the script here: if YOUR profile pic on Facebook was…
/r/RPChristians02/12/20 04:43 PM
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Get below 15% BF and I bet you get a different reaction. Do you lift?
/r/RPChristians02/12/20 12:01 PM
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Divorce and remarriage is Sometimes the Lesser Sin
/r/RPChristians02/12/20 04:16 AM
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I want to lead others to Christ by helping those in need, befriending and loving the lost, and displaying the truth and power of salvation through my own life. By sharing my skills, knowledge, and my history with others, I can be a light that points the way to Jesus Christ. This is worthless without an actionable way to apply it. Knowing your Mission is never worthless. It's the defeatist mindset of "I'm not applying it (yet), therefore it's worthless" that is self-defeating and limiting your po…
/r/RPChristians27/11/20 05:15 PM
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She only has the two running-the-stopsign tickets that I mentioned. I don't know how many violations it takes. I've personally never had any tickets (only a verbal warning) so I'm unfamiliar with how all this works. Ok that's good then. Most states have a point system, although not every state does so it depends on where you live. While those two violations will likely affect your insurance rates for the next couple years, she'll be fine as long as she doesn't get any more tickets. Again, this d…
/r/RPChristians21/11/20 02:14 PM
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5'4(yes short asian guy) Physical 2/10 due to height Insecure about my height constantly being the biggest flaw on me. Less insecure about my height Bro, that's FOUR mentions about your height. If I can sense your insecurity through your OYS, imagine what vibes you must be giving off in real life? Height is one of the few things in life you have no power to change, so you should just make up your mind that you're going to own it and be confident in who God made you to be. But people (especially …
/r/RPChristians20/11/20 10:16 PM
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My work schedule has changed (having to go in to the office more) so it's going to be harder to find time to go to the gym now. But so far I'm making it work. No excuses. I work 6 am to 6 pm 6 days a week and still lift 3X a week. ​ In a magical world I'd get the footage and it'd clearly show her stopping and all this would go away, but realistically we're going to end up paying the fine and hope she doesn't get her license suspended. While it's possible that she did stop completely, we all say …
/r/RPChristians20/11/20 03:47 PM
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Have been a bit lazy on the body weight workouts. It just doesn’t motivate me. Lame excuse, need to rectify ASAP. I hear ya, I feel the same way. Weights are where it's at for sure. ​ no job right now, no money That sucks. You can still use stuff around the house though. Maybe get a couple 5 gallon buckets from a hardware store and fill them with rocks. Some fast food places use them too and throw them away, you might ask if they have a few you can get. You can make a handle out of rope so it's …
/r/RPChristians20/11/20 03:25 PM
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I didn't wait for them to ask, I brought it up several times over the years. It's cliché but my mess has become my message, and I have no problem sharing it.
/r/RPChristians20/11/20 03:22 AM
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This is my decision: I will be telling my children about my sins and warning them that rebellion against God will not give them peace, hope or joy like it appears. That when the quick fun of sin wears off, they are left with steady feelings of guilt, shame and regret. I cannot live their lives for them. I won't make choices that save them from regret. Instead they will have to face temptation like I did and I pray they will do better than me. I decided to be completely honest about my sinful pas…
/r/RPChristians19/11/20 05:33 PM
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Yeah both cutting and bulking has always spun my head around a little bit, but I'm sure I'll get the hang of it. Bulk until you hate yourself. Cut until you hate your life. ​ The potential is unknowable to me at this point, as I actually haven't been able to peg her on whether or not she's a lukewarm. (Also note, I don't buy the whole "If your mission doesn't specifically require you to have a wife, then don't get one." Mentalitly I see tossed around a lot on the Disciplecord, Timothy 4:3, it sh…
/r/RPChristians19/11/20 05:27 PM
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Had to reset my weight lifting program due to me messing with it and being retarded. So I'm pretty much starting from scratch again. How long have you been lifting before this? What program are you running now? ​ Weight progress though has been noticable, still on my goal to get down to 180 again. Been strcitly measuring what I've been eating and my weight loss and general feeling of being has changed. Excellent. Remember, at a certain point you will find it very difficult to make progress addin…
/r/RPChristians19/11/20 04:37 PM
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Still waiting for test results, but it looks like I caught Covid last week. Wasn't too bad, took a break from lifting to rest and recover. Back on my lifting schedule this week feeling almost 100%. Glad to hear you got through it okay, bro. ​ I ate very poorly while sick, however I still managed to drop a few pounds. No idea how that works but I'm finding it difficult getting back on my diet. It's possible you mostly lost water weight, being sick can do that to you. For your diet, why not take a…
/r/RPChristians18/11/20 08:58 PM
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Also a second huge shout out to u/r_horizon and u/redirectedfs for their editing magic and making the podcasts look so awesome!
/r/RPChristians18/11/20 04:17 PM
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If you want to know more about the presentation or whatever else I'd gladly share. Sure, I would love to hear it! ​ For these things, you should check out the Discord. You can get some awesome guidance there. I'll look into that. I haven't messed with Discord in ages because it was largely a waste of time, but a community like this would be edifying for sure. It definitely has been for me. I see you dropped in there, fantastic! You also said on there: ​ We're also building a door-to-door evangel…
/r/RPChristians16/11/20 10:34 PM
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And I am on the discord, I’m Ben (Cavemanman) Ah ok, awesome! I can't keep track of everyone anymore - thanks for helping me make the connection.
/r/RPChristians16/11/20 10:26 PM
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my diet is going well but I need to increase calories to meet my new TDEE. What's your approximate BF% right now? ​ In the next month I need to upgrade my home gym as my barbell's limit is 200lbs so my squats and deadlifts are stuck at that weight until I upgrade my bar to hold more weight. My goal is a 200 bench by the end of the year and an upgrade to continually increase lifting weight. Dumbbells, plates, and other exercise equipment is still in high demand around the country (if you're in th…
/r/RPChristians15/11/20 12:29 AM
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Reading: halfway through Ch 8 of WISNIFG , have read a lot of the Rational Male blog but haven't read the book cover to cover yet, started NMMNG, started Biblical Masculinity I don't know how you jump around so much from book to book, I wouldn't retain anything that way. Why not finish one book before starting another? ​ got my lifts in for this week and last week but i hurt my lower back again this week, i might have to rest for a week again. I'm going to send a video to some of the guys in the…
/r/RPChristians14/11/20 11:40 PM
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MISSION STATEMENT: My life purpose is to use my leadership skills and motivational skills to become someone who can foster genuine relationships and draw holiness so that I can lead and disciple people to move the word toward young men who need guidance and fellowship just like I needed. This is a good start! I like to break it down with a framework that I think covers the essence of a successful Mission: "My Mission is to become a man who brings glory to God in [these ways] by pursuing [these k…
/r/RPChristians14/11/20 11:11 PM
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Got sick with something, been super fatigued. Mostly recovered now, still waiting on test results. I'm a big believer in supplementing with Vitamin C & Vitamin D, separately from a multi. A daily zinc isn't a bad idea either. ​ I haven't lost weight in almost 4 months, though my lifts have been moving up. Weigh yourself once a week, and use the mirror as your guide daily. Find a shirtless pic online of a guy who has the body you want, and use that to compare to. ​ Mentally, trying to not beat my…
/r/RPChristians14/11/20 10:53 PM
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Then you would befriend her and use the preselection to game her attractive friends.
/r/RPChristians14/11/20 07:36 PM
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You may get some value out of this thread - both the comments and the linked articles. I know I did. Tag: u/Background-Camera109 you will likely get some value from it as well.
/r/RPChristians14/11/20 03:10 PM
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I guess my question is this: How... as a married man do I get myself into an abundance mentality when abundance is not there? You build yourself into a man who naturally has abundance because he's attractive. get what you want so you’re just gonna leave?” And then says see you only want me for sex if I withdraw attention after being rejected Read this. After 14+ years of being in her frame and a total blue pill Beta how do I bring her into my frame. You don't. You build a strong frame that she c…
/r/askMRP14/11/20 02:26 PM
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Try a good quality MSM supplement, it can often help relieve conditions like this if used in conjunction with stretching/rehab.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/20 10:05 PM
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Are you supposed to do deloads this early into a program? I've only been lifting for 5 weeks now, so I guess it would be time. That makes sense because I had my first failure on OHP last Friday. StrongLifts doesn't have a set deload week built into the program. But there's a difference between "It's deload week" and "My body is telling me it's time for a deload." Listen to your body. Try cutting the weight on your lifts to 50 or 60% of where you're at now, for one week. See what happens. ​ Thank…
/r/RPChristians09/11/20 06:23 PM
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Here's a good list to get you started: The Bible by God. This author has been around for quite some time and His book has changed countless lives. Created to be His Help Meet: Discover How God Can Make Your Marriage Glorious by Debi Pearl Fascinating Womanhood by Helen Andelin For Women Only: What You Need to Know about the Inner Lives of Men by Shaunti Feldhahn Gods High Calling for Women by John F. MacArthur Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence by Esther Perel The Proper Care and…
/r/askRPC09/11/20 04:25 PM
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Ok u/superthrowaway30000, your wife clearly doesn't respect you in the least. She uses threats of divorce to control you, and withholds sex to get what she wants. So go get divorce papers prepared when things calm down. Put them somewhere she won't find them, but where they are easily accessible the next time she loses her crap. When she does, pull them out and throw them on the table and tell her "Ok, you want a divorce, then just sign and let's move on." Then gather your stuff and leave immedi…
/r/askRPC09/11/20 02:03 AM
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I've found that the best way to teach your children biblical precepts is to read it straight from the Bible. Have an appointed time each evening where you sit down as a family - you read the Scripture out loud, they follow along. As they gain understanding, when you get to some of the more teachable passages ask each of them to tell you what the verse means in their own words. Guide and correct as necessary. Use a reading plan to stay on track. Of course you have to live it too, so lead by examp…
/r/askRPC06/11/20 08:47 PM
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Amen, it is indeed true.
/r/RPChristians06/11/20 08:40 PM
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I see they were trying to get me to see this, in a RP way. I just didn't. I can't, though, because even fixing my codependence won't matter with another guy in the picture. But I can fix it for me. The Codependent Hamster WheelTM at work. Fixing codependency ONLY matters for you. Fixing it for someone else is literally Dancing Monkey. ​ I can maybe have healthy relationships someday. Maybe. But I can do this work, at least. But I can't go to her, at least right now, because I think that's just m…
/r/RPChristians06/11/20 08:09 PM
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I hurt TERRIBLY during this time. I had no idea what this was called, but I knew it hurt, and I didn't want to be alone, I felt I "needed" to be in a relationship. Well, I dated a few women briefly, but if I had to describe it, the knowledge that I "had a significant other" was just not there, and it didn't fill anything. I think once you are through the divorce, you will need to spend some truly significant time alone, just you and God. You will need to learn how to live a successful, godly lif…
/r/RPChristians06/11/20 07:34 PM
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Mission progress I've been occupied with sorting out my own dysfunction this week and I've been such a mess. I showed up for work. I showed up for stuff. But that's it. I guess at least I showed up, even if emotionally wrecked. That's something at least. Sometimes just taking the next step is enough for now. ​ First, wife told me she's "letting go" (referring to me, not him) when I asked last Sunday if she had made changes (ie cut off contact) with this guy (so I could know whether or not to go …
/r/RPChristians06/11/20 06:52 PM
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Things are looking up. Many know I've lost a decent amount of weight, and most of it was muscle mass. Had to start over with lifting. It's been a struggle getting myself in the gym, but with the accountability from u/redirectedfs, I've slowly been gaining motivation to show up. I've also been directing my anger and sexual frustration towards lifting. Getting the girls, starts with getting the gainz. I have stopped losing weight. I have been hovering around 2000 calories eaten per day. The medica…
/r/RPChristians05/11/20 10:42 PM
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I have a lot of desire, both spiritual and sexual, to the point of distraction. Spiritual desire is not a distraction. It's your view of how that should be carried out on Mission that is. Ask God to reveal His will more clearly to you. In the meantime, keep doing what you're doing. ​ You're also right that my attention has been turned to this subject a lot. As above, I'm not sure how to shut this down. "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." Scripture memory, brother. Look up ve…
/r/RPChristians05/11/20 10:03 PM
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Lifting is starting to get hard. My left knee and shoulder hurt. The cuts have been paying off, but my diet is still not where I want. Calorie intake is acceptable, but my protein & fiber intake is too low and I consumed a lot of sugar, dairy, and beer over the weekend. I also caved and bought fast food once this week. Are you deloading at all? If not, you should aim for a deload week for a full week every 4-6 weeks. Also, guarantee the sugar is making your body hurt. Eliminate that and you'll p…
/r/RPChristians05/11/20 09:50 PM
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Right wrist is hurting a lot. Lifts are moving up. You seem to be ignoring the wrist, hoping the pain will just go away. It probably won't. You need to see a doctor, and go easy on your wrist during workouts in the meantime. Don't let this become a permanent injury. ​ Leaning on God, waiting, praying frequently. My pastor told me he was "excited to talk about dating" with me. Not sure what that's about. Makes me kinda nervous. I think I'm in a bit of a holding pattern right now. God is still wor…
/r/RPChristians05/11/20 09:40 PM
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For those who’s marriage was already a struggle, who then became aware of the matrix, how did you survive the gut check of reality and not end up hating your spouse? By realizing that it was all my fault to begin with.
/r/askRPC02/11/20 10:40 PM
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u/Deep_Strength's response is good. I would add that your wife is NOT your accountability partner. Find a male friend (preferably Christian) who you can confide in. I would not tell the wife.
/r/askRPC02/11/20 04:32 AM
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Squat: 255 lbs, Bench: 170, Deadlift: 275 (checking 1 RM wiped me out so I don't think I'll be checking them every week!) I'm on my 9th week of Stronglifts now. I've been modifying it some as I went to better fit me. I did do some lifting 20 years ago, so I went up faster than it said. Trying to figure out how much accessory work I can add while still recovering in time for the next workout. StrongLifts gets you in the gym and lifting. But once you've got some solid progress and have an idea of …
/r/RPChristians28/10/20 05:08 PM
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I managed to create an account and see the discord stuff for like two days. Then I got text on screen claiming I don't have permission. I can still log into the account, but not see much on the discord server. So I don't really know what to do about it. Access to channels is limited until you take certain steps. This is explained in more detail in the #faqs channel under "How do I unlock more channels?" In the meantime you can browse the other channels and get a feel for what's going on in the s…
/r/RPChristians28/10/20 02:12 PM
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currently weighs 185 I’ve been eating once a day and with more control, but still partake in a little junk food. A year ago you were 192. So while you've struggled a lot over the last year, net result is that you are 7 lbs. lighter than you were last year. That's a win. Now you seem to be on the right track, so keep that momentum going! ​ Social: Talked with distant family member for about 2 hours on the phone. He is an interesting fellow to talk with and I find his thought process sharping in s…
/r/RPChristians24/10/20 04:16 PM
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BodBot x 0 Hiking: x 0 Running: 1 x ~5.25 miles. BJJ x 3 Not sure on lifts, don’t have equipment (or space for it) and gyms are still closed in California. BJJ is good. Why not add in pushups and crunches? There's tons of different bodyweight exercises that you can challenge yourself with. ​ I need to be focusing more on the spiritual side of things, not something I’ve really focused on in the past and still working on building those habits. Well since you're using the Horner reading system then…
/r/RPChristians24/10/20 03:59 PM
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I need some more info on what exactly it is trying to quantify. Restated, it would be "How confident are you that God has actually saved you?" ​ I don’t believe im assured salvation, but I hope I am. The Bible is clear on this. Here's a good article that explains it, with supporting Scripture verses. The more you know your Bible, the stronger your assurance will be. Of course that assurance is based on trusting in Christ alone for your salvation and being born again. ​ I spend a lot of time plan…
/r/RPChristians24/10/20 03:52 PM
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This is a good word. /u/KitchenAdditional836 as another mod here, I endorse everything he said in this comment. Well said RC!
/r/RPChristians24/10/20 02:07 PM
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My groin injury is still slowly getting better, but I still can't run. Just stay regularly active and increase that a little at a time as your body allows. It's a process. ​ My wife has done 3 weeks of intermittent fasting now. She says she's noticed some of her clothes fitting a little looser. I praise her when I can. Excellent. ​ We had some drama on Saturday, but she eventually got over it. Apparently what I interpreted as both of us avoiding each other she interpreted as me pouting with her.…
/r/RPChristians24/10/20 12:01 AM
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Assurance of Salvation: - Did you leave this blank intentionally? Are you not sure? I mean yeah, obviously we are either saved or not saved, but how confident are you that Christ has saved you? ​ The Bible: 3-4 chapters a day. (Consistent) Amen. ​ Start workout with a 1-2 mile warmup run. Then I do some sprint HIT training. I then move on to my resistance bands, but I hate using them. So I have started lifting rocks. I got 35lb rocks and 70lbs rocks. They are pretty akward to hold, but they work…
/r/RPChristians23/10/20 11:18 PM
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Combined with time restricted feeding and a strict diet of fatty meat, dairy, eggs, fish, and some vegetables (keto without macro/calorie counting) i've been leaning out a lot. People at work, and close family members say that I'm lean now, or "mr skinny". I'm standing up straighter, and more confident than i've ever been. There's still a lot of progress to be made and I'm looking forward to the challenge. There's a difference between lean and "Mr. Skinny." Since you're just starting out and are…
/r/RPChristians23/10/20 11:03 PM
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Consistency is at least as important as effort. Both are necessary. When tempted to skip a workout do this: go to the gym anyway. Put your workout clothes on and go jump on the bike for 5 minutes. If after 5 minutes you're like "Nah not today" then go home. At least you showed up and did something. Most of the time it's Front Door Pulls that are the hardest.
/r/askMRP23/10/20 06:06 PM
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Take a break for 2 weeks and stop going to the gym completely. Relax your diet and treat yourself to all the things you want when you're on your diet - cake, cookies, ice cream, chips - whatever you are really craving. At the end of the two weeks, strip down to your underwear and stand in front of the mirror. Your motivation will probably come back right at that moment when you see what you've lost.
/r/askMRP23/10/20 03:00 PM
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I really miss strength training, but I got to be patient and enjoy calisthenics/running for now. Why not get some home equipment like dumbbells? ​ God made me audacious enough to preach to my co-workers, even though we are all working remotely, they were curious about the bible and I hear them telling that God is good everyday more and more (I don't think they have Jesus as their sole Lord yet, they all were either atheists , agnostics or joking pagans praising odin or other weird stuff). Ah, so…
/r/RPChristians22/10/20 06:36 PM
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This is a good word!
/r/RPChristians22/10/20 05:55 PM
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Let's be respectful when responding to others, per Rule 1. Name calling is not respectful, you can make your point without doing that.
/r/RPChristians22/10/20 05:54 PM
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Holy crap I missed this nugget further down: She gets pissy im leaving her alone and having to watch the baby for 2 hrs to work out. This son he's talking about is a baby. So he's got that to deal with too.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/20 05:06 AM
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Diet: BF @ 21%. Started high protein diet last week. Currently in a 500 cal deficit with protein intake equal to 1g per lb of lean body weight. Rest of macros are mostly carbs, low fat. Ok. You want to lose weight. Good. You also claimed in this comment that you were 6% BF at one point in the past. So what happened? Quite simply, shortcuts: You're using ralox to treat gyno, not under doctor's supervision, even though it has possible side effects. You're using DNP for weight loss even though it's…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/20 09:14 PM
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My TDEE is 3313, average calories for the past week has been 2435. Average protein has been 183.8. I am not going to keep getting bigger if I don't start eating more protein. New protein goal is 220. While cutting I basically just want to get through my day without eating any more than I need. How do you expect to progress if you are eating under your TDEE? I mean yeah, eat more protein but you're eating almost 900 under your TDEE daily. Either slow your progress or maintain for now, or eat at T…
/r/RPChristians21/10/20 07:45 PM
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I have worked to specifically study scripture with my 13 year old daughter this week. That was mission related and has been good. Amen! ​ My weight is WAY up, but it HAS to be water weight, I'm not eating that many calories, I've been tracking them at sub-1660/day except for one day I was still under 2000. You're probably retaining water. And this is often caused by not drinking enough water, especially as we get into the cooler weather. Try this: take a gallon jug and fill it in the morning. Ge…
/r/RPChristians21/10/20 07:37 PM
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This is a good word!
/r/RPChristians21/10/20 04:18 AM
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In our culture, women are often the relational ones. Men aren’t real communicative; they just sort of grunt. Oogla boogla. ​ So many couples live in their own separate worlds. Men, help your wife with the dishes sometimes, not just because she needs the help, but to be together. Oh yeah. Choreplay. Because "she needs the help." ​ “Dwell together with your wives according to knowledge.” This comes partly through spending time together. But here it refers not just to spiritual knowledge, but also …
/r/RPChristians20/10/20 09:55 PM
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Agreed, this was a good word. To add to that, here's a video that focuses on using sleight of hand tricks in your evangelism presentation.
/r/RPChristians19/10/20 02:25 PM
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We can show people that this world and the things in it will not fulfill them and that Jesus is the only way to Heaven. We can show unbelievers and believers alike that there is an inherent sense of morality and that God is real! While these are not bad things in and of themselves, the problem with focusing on these to reach people is that it focuses on the "Life is so much better with Jesus!" model. And that simply isn't true, at least not in the way the world thinks about those things. For exa…
/r/RPChristians19/10/20 02:06 PM
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Thanks for the kind words! I've actually got quite a bit written, just need some free time to actually work on it. Got a catchy title too that plays off the title of one of the most popular mainstream Christian books. All I need is some time, which God has not given me yet.
/r/RPChristians17/10/20 07:05 PM
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I think Christ does love us no matter what. When we sin he doesn’t love us less. When we don’t follow his commandments he doesn’t love us less. When we don’t treat him right he doesn’t love us less. This is true, but if we are not born again we will be cast into the Lake of Fire on Judgment Day. God is holy and just, and so if He simply pardons the wicked, He is no longer just. If He calls the wicked to Himself to have fellowship with Him, He is no longer a holy God. So the great question of Scr…
/r/RPChristians17/10/20 01:55 PM
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I'm seeing weekly progress with the weights, feeling stronger, more athletic. I say my lifting journal from three years ago and realized how much stronger I was back then. In 2017, I was stronger and more like 10% bodyfat at 180. This was even more motivating. The thing is, words in a journal are hard to quantify in terms of progress that motivates you. Try this: do a search for male models in underwear on Google, and find one that represents your ideal body goal. Use that to measure your progre…
/r/RPChristians16/10/20 09:29 PM
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My wife has actually stuck to intermittent fasting for 2 weeks now. She did say the other day that she had lost a couple pounds, but then gained it back, but just today she said she'd lost a couple pounds again, so it's hard to tell what kind of progress she's making. But at least she's staying motivated for now. This is a good start. If she's trying, then what are you doing to guide her and help her succeed? If she's reporting her progress to you, praise her efforts. Then ask if she would like …
/r/RPChristians16/10/20 08:26 PM
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She said she'd "be happy to talk details with a third party present" after asking me if I was going to counseling with her and seeing my reiterated boundary that I'm not going to be involved unless she deals with the other guy stuff. I asked her to clarify and she said she assumed that means I want a divorce. I didn't argue since she's "happy to discuss" - no point in pursuing someone who's so hellbent on having this other guy in her life and has some weird ego investment in always pursuing me l…
/r/RPChristians16/10/20 08:18 PM
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Give it some time, and continue to read the Sidebar. It sounds like you're off to a good start.
/r/RPChristians16/10/20 04:36 PM
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I began questioning the very nature of reality and if in fact I was being out of bounds in a marriage where one is expected to compromise ad infinitum. Compromise is usually looked at through the lens of today's culture, instead of the lens of the Bible. This comment should give you some insight.
/r/RPChristians16/10/20 04:35 PM
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You will continue to get pulled into her frame until you step up and handle your business. Right now you should be so busy getting stuff done that you don't even have time for these kinds of discussions or arguments. You should be knocking out so many chores and projects that your wife should be trying to step in and do some of them before you do everything. She should be wondering what she can do to contribute and help because you're doing so much. Now this is obviously not what you want do do …
/r/RPChristians16/10/20 03:12 PM
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So much "she" and "her" in your statement here. What do YOU want? Obviously a healthy sex life. As you make the improvements, she will respond accordingly. Don't focus on changing her, focus on changing yourself. Give it some time.
/r/RPChristians16/10/20 03:06 PM
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Frame is the filter through which you perceive reality - it's knowing who you are and what you want. That includes your opinions, your desires, your dreams and ambitions. That is your center point of origin, the core of your being. It is both who you are and who you want to be. When you are a child, you have absolute frame, but as you grow up, it becomes diluted by society, education, religion, politics, sports, the media and other people. As an adult, absolute frame can lead to problems.. narci…
/r/RPChristians16/10/20 02:49 PM
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Another book we read was Love and Respect. While each book you read can be helpful in its own way, the issue is that they only really address one facet of the entire problem: Love & Respect and what's wrong with it. 5 Love Languages and a summary of what's wrong with it.
/r/RPChristians16/10/20 02:41 PM
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Mission Use newly purchased condo as a discipleship/church home to build up biblically masculine men to go out and make other disciples. This is awesome! Where are you at on this currently? What are your long-term plans and goals for this? ​ Bible Reading: 7 (Just finished Ecclesiastes...one of my favorite books that really helps me to check my mission and making sure I'm doing things that have eternal benefits) I'm so glad to see that you have the right perspective here. So many Christians focu…
/r/RPChristians16/10/20 12:00 AM
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230 lbs, 24% BF In your first OYS you said 230 lbs, 26% BF Now either you've lost fat and gained muscle, or you're bs'ing us and yourself by estimating your body fat and avoiding the hard work of cutting calories. Which is it? ​ Diet: I've been eating like s**t. Ate three healthy meals the whole week, the rest was easy calories and fast food. Made lifting into an excuse to buy a bulk pack of gatorade. Told myself I'd only drink one after exercising, ended up drinking 3-4 12 oz bottles a day unti…
/r/RPChristians15/10/20 11:53 PM
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This is a good word.
/r/RPChristians15/10/20 11:21 PM
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My mission is to become a man who brings glory to God by bearing fruit through making disciples. I will make disciples by 1. Becoming friends with people in my spheres of influence. 2. Sharing the gospel (words and works) with them. 3. Teaching them how to live as citizens in the kingdom of the heavens. Becoming a man of the kingdom is required In order to accomplish these tasks. This looks like consistently growing in confidence and competence in each area of my life (spiritual, mental, physica…
/r/RPChristians15/10/20 11:21 PM
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I'm unsure how many of you have read the book "48 laws of power" but rule 5 says "So much depends on reputation; guard it with your life!" I am mostly a lurker and low-key Christian on reddit but this is arguably the most cognitive dissonance I have ever felt upon reading a post on TRP. Is sex really worth sacrificing your character to some men? Do some men not care about having an ounce of character or decency? Sinful men will do whatever they feel is necessary to get what they want. Does this …
/r/RPChristians15/10/20 07:05 PM
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No porn but I've found myself seeking out a lot really raunchy shows on Hulu/netflix that I wouldn't normally watch. So cancel those services. Why pay to be tempted? ​ Mental/Emotional: I've been swallowing a lot of bitter truths recently. It's very hard, but has done wonders for my mental health and really helped me to accept the separation/divorce. Bitter truths: In your bitter truths list I see a lot of "these changes are gonna suck" but not much "I really love my wife and will miss her." I r…
/r/RPChristians14/10/20 08:41 PM
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This is an awesome post! Pray about them, every day. Now that you have them out and organized bring them to God. IMPORTANT NEXT STEP: Listen while you pray. When bringing your completed list of goals to God, submit them to Him in prayer and ask Him to guide you to carry out each step in a way that is pleasing to Him. ​ There's a difference between "God, here are the goals I would like to accomplish. Please help me to make them happen." and "God, here are the goals I would like to accomplish. Wha…
/r/RPChristians14/10/20 07:41 PM
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This is a good word.
/r/RPChristians10/10/20 03:32 PM
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Make a Gmail account to use just for this.
/r/RPChristians10/10/20 12:53 PM
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Yeah I have IBS, Crohn's and Coeliac. The website GutSense has quite a bit of info you may not have come across yet. This website solved my constipation problems years ago and is still the go-to resource as far as I'm concerned for gut health. The entire website is worth a read, but here's some searches on the specifics to get you started: IBS Crohn's Celiac Skip the ads and go to the gutsense.org links directly below them. ​ And thank you for the detailed kick in the butt/admonishment/encourage…
/r/RPChristians09/10/20 11:55 PM
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u/OrlandoTheAxe's advice is solid, I'm on Discord as well and while I thought I wouldn't have time for it, I actually spend a significant amount of time on there and have gotten to know many people there better in that short amount of time than I have in all the time I've been here. Both my sons are on there too. You should definitely join dude.
/r/RPChristians09/10/20 12:32 AM
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Lost most of my good habits Got complacent and stopped being disciplined in the area of habits FTFY. First thing to do is stop the downward slide. Pick one habit to focus on and dial that in this week. Next week, add another one back in. ​ pmo Lack of discipline. You've slid back into this too. ​ fell behind in uni-work and work Got lazy and decided to not do the work. FTFY too. ​ almost had a freak out since we are still in one of the harshest lockdowns in the world Aaaaand here's the excuse. I…
/r/RPChristians09/10/20 12:21 AM
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Does anybody have any tips on finding a doctor? My current strategy is to get a recommendation from people I know, make sure they take my insurance, and cold call for an appointment. Go on the website for your insurance, they should have a link to "Find A Provider" or something similar where you will find a list of providers there (if you can't find it, call and ask because it may be a separate website). Underneath each provider it should say whether they are accepting new patients or not. ​ I f…
/r/RPChristians08/10/20 06:55 PM
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All are welcome here, men and women, as long as the rules are followed. Welcome sister!
/r/RPChristians08/10/20 06:34 PM
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I actually had the thought that I would be better off with this sexual energy if I was going to be showing guys how to do cold opens. I rolled over and let her know While you ended up with a good result, why are you talking about Fight Club?
/r/RPChristians08/10/20 01:05 AM
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I'm still getting my diet on track, so I've been hitting the gym about 2 times per week. I'm having to switch health insurance, so In a few weeks I might be connecting with a GI doctor and be getting a CT scan. We'll see how new medication helps appetite in the mean time. This is good, hopefully the GI doctor can help you make some progress on this. In the meantime, depending on how your stomach handles it you may be able to increase your calories by drinking them. Get some mass gainer powder an…
/r/RPChristians07/10/20 07:10 PM
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Praexology and I have been having a morning bible study starting around 9am EST every morning during the week on Disciplecord. Feel free to hop in and take a listen. It's a great way to start your day off, I've been learning more each time. I've seen you in there each morning, I wish I could attend but unfortunately work prevents me from doing so. Great job on being consistently in the Word! Noobs take note, this guy is taking responsibility for digging into the Word each and every day and has c…
/r/RPChristians07/10/20 06:44 PM
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Using MyFitnessPal to track everything I'm eating. Stayed within my net calorie goal of losing 1 pound/week for 5/7 days Weight: 165 Weight on last OYS: 164 lbs Something does not compute. You "stayed within your net calorie goal" and yet gained a pound? But I won't be too hard on you, you've still lost 7 lbs in 7 weeks so great job here! ​ PMO: Goal 0/7. Actual: MO x 3/7 This is confusing. Do you mean your actual was 3X this week but no porn? If so that's a big step in the right direction. ​ On…
/r/RPChristians07/10/20 06:29 PM
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I'm in process of divorce but am not trying to be aggressive. Where are you in this process? Because if you're determined to follow through, then none of the rest of what I have shared really matters. ​ I see now how your wife is your helpmate and that was inspiring. My mission includes work, family and faith. She helps me with family. She does a damn good job at that. When kids are gone, she would help me with evangelism, but not now. She knows this and has says she understands this for years. …
/r/RPChristians06/10/20 12:27 AM
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Some days, it feels like everything's falling apart. Other days, God surprises me and everything falls into place. Learning to walk by his grace instead of my own efforts in my job. The more time you invest in seeking after the things of God, the more you will feel like you have it all together, even during times when it seems things around you are falling apart. How's your Bible reading?
/r/RPChristians05/10/20 04:38 PM
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Do some dead hangs as well. Dead hangs will improve your grip strength. Time them and try to increase by 5 seconds each workout.
/r/askMRP04/10/20 01:41 AM
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Hey just fyi I haven't forgot about you and I intend to respond to this comment. Taking some time to get additional perspective and pray on it some. I realize I never said anything at the time. Thanks for understanding.
/r/RPChristians03/10/20 07:21 PM
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You're welcome! ​ I’m doing an Whole Bible plan but I get slowed down in the Old Testament a lot. I’ve read the whole New Testament. Awesome. The plan in the post I linked goes back and forth between Old and New Testament rather than straight through. Once you get to Leviticus, Deuteronomy and some of the others it can be a bit of a slog in parts. I like to break it up with some New Testament in between. ​ I’d love to hear what you have on dietary advice. ​ Sure. Fact is you'll build muscle in t…
/r/RPChristians02/10/20 10:49 PM
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Lifting is the first step to getting rid of that cloud hanging over your head. ​ The one bright spot is I created a morning routine and today I did most of it. The one thing I need to do is actually walk into the gym and work out. Excellent! What's the hardest exercise at the gym? Front door pulls. ​ You look at your life and see "I need to do this thing, and this thing, and this other thing, and all these things over here are problems too." So where to start? Besides getting to the gym (exercis…
/r/RPChristians02/10/20 09:41 PM
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My ex was smacking me and the kids around, putting down a fifth of vodka every other day, got arrested multiples times, but charges always dropped. Yeah I would never tell a person to stay in an abusive situation, whether a man or a woman. That's grounds for leaving, no argument there. The issue comes with whether remarriage is acceptable in the eyes of God after divorce on biblical grounds. ​ Yes, I allowed that to taint my view of Christianity (and a Christian men) as a whole. No, I haven’t be…
/r/RPChristians02/10/20 08:48 PM
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The classics scholar Ann Nyland points out in her Source Bible translation that the ‘burning’ is probably grief. In ancient Rome, we find phrases like a mother is “burned up” with grief over a child’s death. Tombstones have inscriptions like: “father and mother who are burning with grief.” That's fair. I still don't think it applies to this passage though. ​ Paul is speaking to candidates for missionary work. 1 Corinthians is a letter to the Corinthian church written to address issues they were …
/r/RPChristians02/10/20 08:37 PM
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We don't have an "official stance" per se on this other than what the Bible says in 1 Corinthians 7. However, here are two well-written perspectives to consider on this: Divorce and Remarriage - Desiring God Divorce and remarriage - Red-Curious
/r/RPChristians02/10/20 07:51 PM
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The gist of your comment is "don't make the Bible the final word." At least that's how I read it. And the Bible tells you a pretty shite way to deal with abusers. Mostly “stay with them forever because divorce is a sin” It's not quite that simple, you can choose to separate. But it's also true that Divorce and remarriage is sometimes the lesser sin. Plus "emotional abuse." That's womanese for him not being the Captain - she probably just nagged him to death.
/r/RPChristians02/10/20 07:46 PM
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The context in chapter 6 shows we are talking about prostitution. Temple prostitution was specifically addressed as the most prevalent form of fornication in the Corinthian culture of the day, and not even counted as sin by the heathens, so it was a particular temptation (and societal reasoning) that Paul was addressing. ​ Thayer's Definition: illicit sexual intercourse (what’s illicit though? Don’t make assumptions) Strong's definition: 1) illicit (unlawful) sexual intercourse Unlawful how? Wel…
/r/RPChristians02/10/20 03:44 PM
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1 Corinthians 7:2 “But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband.” In this verse, the apostle Paul describes any activity outside of marriage as “sexual immorality.” That means when we read of “sexual immorality,” it includes sex before marriage as one of many examples of sin.
/r/RPChristians02/10/20 02:51 PM
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This is a good word.
/r/RPChristians02/10/20 02:49 PM
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You're welcome, and yes I wholeheartedly agree. Rule 7 was put in place to avoid the "Bro who cares, just do it if you want" kind of comments. Sensitive topics always get more attention, and I'm glad we have a great community here that can tackle them with confidence!
/r/RPChristians02/10/20 02:20 PM
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For women, a good way to vet potential husband material is to state outright from the very beginning that you will remain chaste until your wedding night no matter what. Guys just looking to sleep with you will likely move on after that.
/r/RPChristians02/10/20 02:17 PM
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Sex outside of marriage is not something we endorse on RPChristians. We have an Official Stance on the Sidebar. However, we do encourage legitimate discussion, which is helpful in many ways. I'm fine with people saying "This is what I'm going to do even though the Bible says it's wrong" to a certain extent. But if a person says "You shouldn't worry about what the Bible says, just do what you like" then that falls under Rule 7. I appreciate the diligence of the community on this post. *Edit: sinc…
/r/RPChristians02/10/20 02:14 PM
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This comment was reported. But according to our Official Stance on Sex Outside Of Marriage, it falls under our guidelines for legitimate discussion: For the purpose of enforcing Rule 7, let me be clear: any encouragement that someone engage in sex outside of marriage will be deemed a rule violation, the comment will be removed, and the person potentially temp or permabanned, depending on the context. That said, legitimate conversation about the following are still perfectly acceptable: (1) wheth…
/r/RPChristians02/10/20 02:11 PM
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Removed for Rule 7 violation: No Promoting Sin The Bible CAN tell you everything, but it's up to each person whether to follow it or not, and reap the consequences of their actions.
/r/RPChristians02/10/20 02:08 PM
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This comment was reported. But according to our Official Stance on Sex Outside Of Marriage, it falls under our guidelines for legitimate discussion: For the purpose of enforcing Rule 7, let me be clear: any encouragement that someone engage in sex outside of marriage will be deemed a rule violation, the comment will be removed, and the person potentially temp or permabanned, depending on the context. That said, legitimate conversation about the following are still perfectly acceptable: (1) wheth…
/r/RPChristians02/10/20 02:07 PM
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This comment was reported. But according to our Official Stance on Sex Outside Of Marriage, it falls under our guidelines for legitimate discussion: For the purpose of enforcing Rule 7, let me be clear: any encouragement that someone engage in sex outside of marriage will be deemed a rule violation, the comment will be removed, and the person potentially temp or permabanned, depending on the context. That said, legitimate conversation about the following are still perfectly acceptable: (1) wheth…
/r/RPChristians02/10/20 02:06 PM
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This comment was reported. But according to our Official Stance on Sex Outside Of Marriage, it falls under our guidelines for legitimate discussion: For the purpose of enforcing Rule 7, let me be clear: any encouragement that someone engage in sex outside of marriage will be deemed a rule violation, the comment will be removed, and the person potentially temp or permabanned, depending on the context. That said, legitimate conversation about the following are still perfectly acceptable: (1) wheth…
/r/RPChristians02/10/20 02:01 PM
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This comment was reported. But according to our Official Stance on Sex Outside Of Marriage, it falls under our guidelines for legitimate discussion: For the purpose of enforcing Rule 7, let me be clear: any encouragement that someone engage in sex outside of marriage will be deemed a rule violation, the comment will be removed, and the person potentially temp or permabanned, depending on the context. That said, legitimate conversation about the following are still perfectly acceptable: (1) wheth…
/r/RPChristians02/10/20 01:56 PM
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This comment was reported. But according to our Official Stance on Sex Outside Of Marriage, it falls under our guidelines for legitimate discussion: For the purpose of enforcing Rule 7, let me be clear: any encouragement that someone engage in sex outside of marriage will be deemed a rule violation, the comment will be removed, and the person potentially temp or permabanned, depending on the context. That said, legitimate conversation about the following are still perfectly acceptable: (1) wheth…
/r/RPChristians02/10/20 01:54 PM
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Walking every day for at least 30 minutes. OrlandoTheAxe’s hip PT routine every day. My shoulder is now almost constantly in minor pain, despite me taking a couple of weeks off from work outs. I will schedule a doctor’s appointment (probably Friday of next week). If you pray for me, please pray for these injuries to be healed. You have my prayers. In the meantime, it would be in your best interest to schedule a doctor's appointment as soon as possible. Why put it off? ​ Also, you may want to try…
/r/RPChristians01/10/20 10:01 PM
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Yes. Practice. You will fail. Keep practicing. You will succeed.
/r/RPChristians01/10/20 02:13 AM
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I'm quite good at this, actually. I struggle to lead conversations, especially if the other person isn't actively engaged. These two things are at odds with each other. Either you're good at random conversation or you struggle. I get that it's situational but the point isn't to have a half-hour dialogue, it's to be comfortable talking with others. Sounds like you get over the initial fear, but can't carry the conversation. Probably because you haven't developed yourself enough and had enough pra…
/r/RPChristians30/09/20 10:37 PM
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She wasn't yours bro, it was just your turn. Fix ya grill
/r/askTRP30/09/20 09:33 PM
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Man, why would you bust up your grill for a girll? Go get that fixed, take an extra job and save up the money. Do whatever you have to do. If anyone asks, tell em it got knocked out in a fight. This has to be the most extreme self-inflicted DLV I've seen in quite some time.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 09:28 PM
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If you want to go back to BP coffee, try easing into it. Nah I'm done. It kept me from feeling hungry for about 2 additional hours but that was it. I get a lot of fat in my diet already, and I don't do keto. ​ I'm glad you guys do these. It is great to be able to listen in. I do wish there was a little more structure, though. Thanks, I'm glad it's making an impact. Structure isn't something we've really prioritized because part of the goal is just to show how men interact with one another, as we…
/r/RPChristians30/09/20 07:50 PM
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• I’ve been making very solid progress across all of my lifts, adding minimum 12lbs of weight to each lift, every week. • Switching my lifts over to 5-3-1 to build strength as numbers increase. • Hitting new PRs with working sets. Bench now at 200lb working set (set today). • Deadlifts now matching Squats at 275lb working sets. • Diet is looking good, a few cheats here and there for some extra carbs/sugars for quick energy bursts but that’s it. • I’m in the best physical shape of my life and thi…
/r/RPChristians30/09/20 07:33 PM
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Started on Tinder again in the guise of practicing game. I felt the dopamine hits after each session swiping. I do not like this head-space. This pattern of cyclical dopamine high has led me to some pretty bad places before. I haven't deliberately objectified women like this in months. Feels bad, man. Uninstalled Tinder last night. I refuse to play these games with my head. This is good. How much of the Sidebar material (posts and books) have you read so far? ​ u/o.v says to practice running gam…
/r/RPChristians30/09/20 07:24 PM
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My wife told me about a conversation at a girls' night over the weekend. Everyone was complaining about how fat their husbands were. My wife told me that she said something like, "well, Proper_Screen is hot." She didn't mention whether her friends agreed. But it's nice to hear that my wife is saying stuff like that to her friends. I'm still waiting on her "maybe I should work on my own attractiveness" light bulb to turn on. This is good that she's giving you verbal confirmation that she finds yo…
/r/RPChristians30/09/20 04:13 PM
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My weight has stabalized, looks like I gained about 5 lbs by taking creatine. I need to do some research on the best way to cycle on/off creatine. Conventional wisdom is that creatine does not need to be cycled. ​ My back is now at about 85%, I'm able to do most things without pain, praying this injury goes away for good. I've taken the needed rest and it's paying off. Amen. ​ Went to my wifes friends house on monday. I put effort into my appearance while the other men wore sweatpants and hoodie…
/r/RPChristians30/09/20 04:03 PM
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Background / Stats: 51 years old, 5’9”, 193.1, 16% BF. Married 12 years, 3 kids – 2 are married with kids, the youngest went into the Navy recently. Discovered RP August of 2015. ​ Bible Study: 10. My wife and I read the Bible together every night and read through the entire Bible every year. ​ Anybody reading this who would like a copy of the Bible reading plan that I put together, I shared it in this post. ​ Physical / Lifting / Diet: I’m doing the home workout for the foreseeable future. It’s…
/r/RPChristians30/09/20 03:27 PM
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This is a crappy mission. A man has the right to decide for himself what his Mission will be. A better way to put it would be "You should work on developing this into something more actionable with concrete goals."
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/20 02:04 AM
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Mission To make an impact by exploring strength and power - intellectually, physically, and emotionally - to build a lasting legacy of strength. I'm glad more and more men are seeing the importance of having a Mission. So I'll share some links on that because it's very important imo: Vision is a manifested idea of the future. Mission is what you will do to make that future happen. Plans are individual steps you take to fulfill your Mission, and are developed within the context of a Vision. Frame…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/20 05:13 PM
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I have removed this until I consult with the other mods as to whether this is an appropriate post for our sub. If the consensus is that it is, I will reapprove it.
/r/RPChristians28/09/20 08:36 PM
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Heavy is the head that wears the crown, brother. I would say the first one you should go to is your Heavenly Father in prayer. He knows you, your emotions, and your needs. Start there. Pour out your heart to God, He cares for you and can handle your emotions full blast. ​ Here on earth, surround yourself with like-minded men that you look up to. If your father is around then he may be one who can give you some support. Male Christian friends are a good place to go as well, depending on their lev…
/r/RPChristians28/09/20 02:24 PM
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Sure. I'm about to eat dinner so I may not respond right away.
/r/RPChristians27/09/20 11:50 PM
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Nope. Having things locked down at home allows me time to work on my Mission. Because my woman IS NOT my Mission, she has become a useful helper to help me accomplish my goals in life.
/r/askMRP27/09/20 11:17 PM
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I made it clear when we were dating that oral was non-negotiable for me. She had never done it but was willing to learn. I took it slowly, and after about 30 days of being married I guided her to start and began to teach her what I like. Stoney made a comment once that oral for women is a mate retention strategy. If she's not worried about other women finding you attractive then it's unlikely she will have incentive to start now. So how attractive are you? Do you lift? Do other women hit on you,…
/r/RPChristians27/09/20 10:41 PM
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Unlocked now that stats have been added.
/r/RPChristians27/09/20 06:45 PM
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Here's an example that will help you understand the principle better: ​ imagine a husband cheats on his wife. They separate for a month, then he calls her and says he is sorry and asks for her forgiveness--with the hope that she will take him back. She accepts, and he goes home and knocks on the door. She opens the door to find him standing there--with his girlfriend still on his arm! He said he was sorry, he asked for forgiveness (what the world thinks repentance means), but there was obviously…
/r/askRPC26/09/20 03:05 PM
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When you know who you are in Christ, you can see society for what it is: a cesspool. Are you born again? If not, that's the first step. The next step is learning how to live for Christ and relate to those around you without becoming like them again. Start with the Sidebar readings. You're 17 and have been given a great gift by finding RP and then RPC. Use it wisely.
/r/RPChristians25/09/20 09:14 PM
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Pro tip: make sure your voice mail is full too so she can't leave a message. Drives em crazy.
/r/askMRP25/09/20 12:41 AM
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Since u/swinglow-sweet-AC130 tagged me for links for Mission, here's some that might help you figure out what to do: Mission, Vision, Plans & Frame Why is Mission so Important? Mission breakdown from a secular perspective Your mission is what you're actually doing with your life Hope those are helpful!
/r/RPChristians24/09/20 09:03 PM
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Brother, this is FANTASTIC! Very detailed, I'm sure it will be a huge help for many who are struggling with this. You've thought the whole thing through very well. I'm adding it to the links I share with others who struggle with porn. ​ I've copied the following from my journal from 2017: On my computer w/out a purpose, looking for something to do, and I think I'm alone. Bored. Angry. Tired. I'm making excuses & actively rebelling. I had to settle with the idea that I wasn't taking care of mysel…
/r/RPChristians21/09/20 10:23 PM
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Lol I guess I asked for it, didn't I? "Bring yer pitchfork Cletus we got some jokers up in heah!"
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/20 08:21 PM
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read your post history [Cringe] There's 30 seconds of my life I'll never get back.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/20 08:05 PM
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This is a well-developed Mission statement in many ways! But while I see discernment, courage and discipline listed (and these are good things to work on), I don't see anything directly related to your character. God is as concerned about your character as He is the works you do, because His goal is to transform you into the image of Christ. A good barometer of this is examining the evidence of the Fruit of the Spirit in your life. Which Fruits are most in need of development in your life? Pick …
/r/askRPC19/09/20 04:39 PM
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/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/20 01:13 AM
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She initiated intimacy though I could tell she felt dutiful so I rejected. I want her to not feel obligated to me, and I told her that. Covert Contract. You want her to not feel obligated to you, and so you're obligating her to not feel obligated. Inception-level Covert Contract as a matter of fact. ​ Earlier she had told me that she felt like all she could do realistically was cook one meal and clean one room a day. It felt low bar, but I'm not interested in the quality but the intent and perse…
/r/RPChristians18/09/20 11:17 PM
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You see, from my perspective I'm setting the bar and expectations and letting her achieve them in her own will or way. How does this fulfill her God-given purpose as your helpmeet? Sounds more like something you would put in place for a teenager (yes, I'm aware she's the oldest teenager in the house). How does this fulfill her role as your First Officer? ​ As far as how can she help? I don't know. I mean I looked at Chucks, and I don't know who his wife would help with that. Honestly, I'm not ma…
/r/RPChristians18/09/20 08:04 PM
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Thanks!
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/20 11:42 AM
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Needs to be an invite link.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/20 04:23 AM
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Well when you figure it out look me up. @Rocknrollchuck
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/20 04:06 AM
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I searched, didn't see your name come up. Is it @johneyapocalypse?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/20 03:32 AM
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