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Tried this, didn’t work
/r/askTRP09/11/18 06:22 AM
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Yes and no I’m 41, do you think I act the same way I did when I was 21? FUCK NO. I’d be broke and in jail or some shit. Also smart people don’t make the same mistakes repeatedly. So people who are worth a shit will change and grow as they go through life. On the other hand People who are stupid and useless will probably continue to be stupid and useless.....
/r/askTRP20/05/18 11:57 AM
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IDK bro. I’m a boss I do after hours meetings and drinks networking. As tempting and easy as it is, I don’t shit where I work.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 11:04 AM
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Don’t do it! I have advanced degrees in counseling and I can tell you as a professional, it’s a joke. Also went through it with my wife. So, Personally I think it’s a joke. Instead, read “kill all marriage counselors” by Lora Doyle together. But fuck it I’m currently loading my guns for divorce so what do I know Good luck bro!
/r/askMRP26/02/18 06:20 PM
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I really don’t think ultimatums work. At this point victory look a lot like level 12. She got to have her cake and eat it to why shouldn’t I? Maybe I’d consider staying if she agreed to a hall pass or something
/r/askMRP20/02/18 11:49 PM
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She’s the type the will agree with every thing you say. And when you leave she does what ever the fuck she wants. Open social media just means secret accounts. I have laid down the law. For example first time in caught her cheating the agreement was if she contacted this guy again it would lead to divorce. Low and behold last week while going through her phone for my divorce prep recon. I discovered she contacted him again about a year and a half ago. They agreed to “sneak away” and “get into so…
/r/askMRP19/02/18 10:13 PM
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Great idea!! Thanks
/r/askMRP19/02/18 09:31 PM
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So true thx!
/r/askMRP19/02/18 02:29 PM
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Same, we need a sub for this shit....
/r/askMRP19/02/18 02:26 PM
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Open, open open open. Open every one all the time. I just start conversations and make friends. I meet a lot of people at networking events and happy hours. my goal is always the same, get to know everyone in the room. Look for your IOI’s and reasons to meet for coffee or whatever. It’s even better if you can find a good reason to txt or connect on social media before you leave. AWALT and hypergamy are everywhere take advantage. A lot of girls just want what they want and don’t care about relati…
/r/askMRP18/02/18 07:21 PM
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Really good comment thanks! Ok there is some food for thought here. Learning about dread made me realize my life had become boring, I lost my edge and my wife was holding me back. So I started a side business. It’s made dread a lot easer. And it makes me happy. I made my life more interesting and started living for myself. Basically I moved to the land of I don’t give a fuck. I’ve told her many times I don’t feel the same subsequently I don’t treat her the same. For the most part I’ve figured th…
/r/askMRP18/02/18 07:09 PM
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Most recent “talk me off the ledge”
/r/askMRP18/02/18 04:11 PM
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I literally just posted about this shit. Where there is smoke there is fire. Flirting on line leads to fucking in person. End of story. My wife has been communicating with several exes through the course of our marriage. Long story short im getting my shit together for divorce.
/r/askMRP18/02/18 01:03 PM
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Not to be a dick. But this is laughable. I did most of this shit before I even found MRP. I was a “natural” before my wife systematically turned me into chuck ass beta bitch. never,ever at any point in my life have I skipped the gym or dressed like a slob. I did however let her make my life boring and less awesome. I let her hold me back. That’s a major reason I started my own business. Which has naturally sent my dread game in overdrive. So I’m on level 10 and then some
/r/askMRP18/02/18 09:48 AM
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I did a lot of work on that house. Including floors and a deck. I wonder if I can recoup any of that?
/r/askMRP18/02/18 09:37 AM
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Ha!! Well I guess I should consider all of my options
/r/askMRP17/02/18 02:01 PM
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You have a good point. I was gathering evidence for the divorce court And it just helps my know that I’m doing what’s best for me. Seeing the txts reaffirms my decision to leave. But at this point I think you are right I’ve seen enough and need to focus on more important things
/r/askMRP17/02/18 01:33 PM
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Ya no kids either. So it’s pretty much a break up
/r/askMRP17/02/18 01:28 PM
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House is in her name she had before we married. I planning on buying my own anyway
/r/askMRP17/02/18 01:04 PM
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That’s just the day and time we could schedule. As far as separating goes it’s going to be less drama if I have a place ready to move into. When she goes to work I’ll stay behind and move my shit out. Tell her what’s up when she gets home and be done with it I am going to open up a separate bank account this week. I’ll see what the lawyer says about time frames, debt and my side business
/r/askMRP17/02/18 12:43 PM
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Good shit thank you! The side bar is really the ONLY reason I’m in a good place right now. Busted my ass to sober up and lead. I’ve started to build an awesome and exciting life for my self. Knocked the rust off of my game and am starting to spin plates. Things are good and I’m happier then I’ve been in a very long time. Thanks to MRP/TRP My ship is heading towards great things. It’s a shame my first mate choose to stay ashore and flirt with other captains.
/r/askMRP17/02/18 12:36 PM
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Ya I debated that one Will do
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/18 12:09 PM
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I feel you. Getting my shit together to pull the trigger in a few months
/r/askTRP16/02/18 02:02 AM
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Solid advice. I've found that men hunt because we are hungry. Girls on the other hand are like cats they'll hunt for fun. They'll play with a mouse till it dies and not even eat it. A lot girls will lead a guy on for ever and a day with no real interest in fucking. I found they enjoy this even more with married guys. Granted I'm new to spinning plates, but my effort is always pretty minimal. Or maybe I'm just missing something.... Either way thx bro!
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 09:42 AM
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How do I follow up? Background Met a girl at a networking event Met for coffee and to talk work stuff. Hit it off but i figured no big deal she was just being nice and professional. Bump into her at another networking event. I hit it off big with her and her friend. She kept telling her friend "stop it he's married" but when her friend turns around She point blank asks me on a date to get dinner or something. This is where I think I fucked up. I tried to play it cool and said ya hit me up we can…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 02:32 AM
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We dated about 3'years. And for the record we talked about sex and past relationships just not numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 05:37 AM
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I get your point. I just don't the past matters all the much
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 12:52 AM
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Married 7 years never asked my wife's number and don't care
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 12:31 AM
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She's not your gf you're not committed. So who fucking cares. She has no reason to not fuck other guys. You should be fucking other girls stop the covert contract shit ltr her or don't
/r/askTRP21/01/18 03:48 PM
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I think she just wants an orbiter. My play was to not give a shit about what was on the cd.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 04:41 PM
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Ya definitely looking for validation. I intentionally didn't ask about the contents of the CD. Solid advice
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 04:40 PM
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Co worker came into my office and kept harping on how "crazy"she was in college. Rambled some crap about pictures on a cd that she won't let her husband see. Unnecessary and almost awkwardly worked into the conversation. ioi's or am in being autistic? Or maybe both?
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 03:39 PM
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If you want to be interesting you have to actually get out and do interesting shit. Age has nothing to do with it. Not trying to be dick but sounds like you aren't old you're just boring
/r/askTRP04/01/18 11:06 AM
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Yup tailored suits/coats as much as possible and tank tops as often as possible
/r/askTRP04/01/18 11:05 AM
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Nope not alpha. And for the record sucking dick for change under the bridge is what hurts my masculinity not social media. Honestly I'm an old school guy who just prefers do things in person IMO Day game cold approach and expanding my social circle is more fun then social media will ever be
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 08:58 PM
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Ya you do what works for you bro.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 06:47 PM
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Social media is cool .....If you are 13 years old. Otherwise no one gives a fuck.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 06:26 PM
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The glass is already broken bro Chad may not be able to steel your wife, but under the rite circumstances he can sure as fuck borrow her. .......And you will never know
/r/askTRP03/01/18 05:09 PM
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They are all sluts if you are Chad
/r/askTRP01/01/18 05:54 AM
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Go to the iron church and dont come back until you find your fucking manhood
/r/askMRP31/12/17 05:41 PM
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You should probably consider slapping your self......HARD. Get your wife's lady dick out of your ass. Meaning you are waaaay in her frame and she has you bent the fuck over and is fucking the daylights out of you. read the side bar and go lift. If you want a divorce for fuck sake go get a divorce.
/r/askMRP31/12/17 11:13 AM
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Ya you are totally right girls have complete emotional control over what gives them tingles. And there's no way they could ever want the opposite of what they currently have. 🙄 Explain to me why even Rolo talks about how alfa/Chad is subjective. Again HER alpha can be her boss or her garbage man. Isn't Hypergamy going to drive her towards whatever she feels is the better option at the time? Both boss and garbage man can be alpha and have alpha traits
/r/MarriedRedPill26/12/17 01:32 AM
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I never said that income equals Chad. I said Chad is fluid. Women decide who Chad is not us. Chad could be her boss or her garbage man.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/12/17 05:31 PM
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For the most part I agree. But Chad is our alpha here. Chad is often Someone who is more attractive then you because of power and success. Power and success = hypergamy and a tingly vag. So ya your wife thinks her boss is hawt. There for he is alpha and Chad And yes pure physical attractiveness with no power or success can have the same affect. But that's not the point here. The point is Chad/Alpha is decided by your wife. So for us, we need to be ALL of these things to the greatest extent possi…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/17 03:47 PM
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No biggie get over it and go lift
/r/askTRP19/12/17 08:21 PM
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Yes but only if you hook it up directly to the hamster 😏
/r/askTRP15/12/17 07:58 PM
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Be interesting and interested Spend more time listening then talking And for fuck sake have some fun
/r/askTRP15/12/17 02:11 PM
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You have got to be fucking kidding me Shut up go to the gym and ponder your stupidity between sets Oh and SIDE BAR
/r/askTRP15/12/17 10:38 AM
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Sounds like you are putting in effort That's mistake number 1 Just stop giving a fuck Once you start treating pussy like it's a priority you have failed
/r/askTRP15/12/17 10:34 AM
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Sexual shit test?
/r/askTRP12/12/17 03:01 PM
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Plate her immediately
/r/askTRP07/12/17 09:44 AM
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For fuck sake you will never have true abundance mentality if you go out just to pick up girls. You go out to have fun. meeting girls is a just a happy byproduct of going out having fun and being awesome. GIRLS SHOULD NEVER BE THE REASON YOU DO ANYTHING. Change your mind set stop giving a shit about pick up and just have fun if you have any kind of SMV it'll just happen
/r/askTRP04/12/17 09:08 PM
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This post was a swift and much needed kick in the junk Poignant!
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/17 08:06 PM
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Honestly any change in behavior has some meaning. Figuring out what that meaning is the challenge. So my question is this If your SO starts displaying these behaviors what do you do: call them out? STFU and go lift ? Start doing surveillance? Not give a shit? Other?
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 12:45 PM
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YES. I'm a old and crotchety and some things piss me off like mosquitos and shitty spider man reboots What's my point??? I don't fuking have one and neither does your post Really tho this is some basic shit and maybe you shouldn't need guidance from random internet strangers to figure this one out.
/r/askTRP29/11/17 06:43 PM
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At this point you are one of many orbiters. That's it and that's all. Ghost her and move on or just continue to be one of her bitches and shut the fuck up about it
/r/askTRP29/11/17 10:29 AM
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I'm going to say this in the nicest way possible You are acting like an insecure little bitch. You literally have every fucking thing backwards She should be the one worrying about you cheating. You have a shit ton of work to do my friend Stop wasting your time worrying about what she's doing and worry about what you are doing Get your shit together Up your dread game Get a fucking life outside of your ltr And for fuck sake go lift
/r/askTRP27/11/17 04:49 PM
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If your watch is what ppl notice about you, you've already failed That being said I like tag heuer Great watches and not as pretentious as Rolex
/r/askTRP24/11/17 04:23 AM
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Hitting a happy hour by myself is far and away one of my favorite things to do! Just open everybody period. Start as many conversations as possible and enjoy yourself. it's about having fun and meeting ppl
/r/askTRP17/11/17 05:26 PM
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Thx. Thats what a diploma from the school of hard nocks will get ya
/r/askMRP08/11/17 05:21 AM
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Im going to try and say this in the nicest possible way PULL YOUR FUCKING HEAD OUT OF YOUR FUCKING ASS. She crammed this dudes cock down her throats and fucked him like a champ. She's not telling you the whole story because she doesn't want to crush your tiny little feels. Under the circumstances you described how can you blame her? You where acting like a pathetic little shit monkey. To her at that time this guy was a better option then you period. AKA he was Chad at the time. The hard truth is…
/r/askMRP07/11/17 05:28 PM
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Yup fucked like rabbits
/r/askMRP07/11/17 05:08 PM
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This is not tooo shabby !
/r/askMRP04/11/17 02:26 PM
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You know I found my self with a similar problem recently. I was only exercising 1 or 2 days a week instead of 4 or 5. I've been working my ass off starting my own business on the side while working full time bla bla bla. But if I'm being honest with MY SELF it on me to get it in and my excuses are sad and pathetic. I don't have time I'm too tired.... typical beta shit monkey bull shit I've started to tell my self this "THE TIMES WHEN I WANT TO DO IT THE LEAST ARE THE TIMES WHEN I NEED TO DO IT T…
/r/askMRP04/11/17 02:26 PM
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For the 20 millionth time she's not yours it's just your turn. And your turn is over. Here is a swift kick in the junk for you bro She's not attracted to you anymore She has found someone else who is btr than you She is asking you to kill the puppy Go lift Read the side bar Get a fucking life
/r/askTRP04/11/17 05:20 AM
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Pussy is cheep every girl have one and girls aren't really worth that much effort. So no I'm not lifting and being awesome for pussy Im doing all of this for me. making girls wet is just another positive byproduct of my ongoing efforts to be the amazing mother fucker that I am Period the end
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 02:37 PM
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If you can't lead yourself you can't lead anyone. What I mean is get your shit together first. Your stay plan and your go plan need to be the same plan. So get your plan tight. Prepare for all variables and contingencies. Make your MAP and implement the fuck outta that shit. If she follows, she follows, if she doesn't then she doesn't. The important thing is that your are doing what the fuck you want to do. And if she does get her sloppy ass shit together try not to be too much of a dick about i…
/r/askMRP31/10/17 07:13 PM
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Nope fuck that shit. Don't want don't need it
/r/askTRP31/10/17 12:39 AM
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Then you dodged a fucking bullet bro
/r/askTRP27/10/17 11:58 AM
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Shit happens and nothing lasts forever. Not like you where gonna marry her and shit. She's not yours it's just your turn
/r/askTRP27/10/17 11:35 AM
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She's not your you don't own her she's gonna do whatever the fuck she wants and so should you. If I've said once I've said it a million times; She's not yours it's just your turn
/r/askTRP27/10/17 11:20 AM
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There's opportunity everywhere. Why waist your gym time on this shit
/r/askTRP27/10/17 11:13 AM
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Go to the gym to lift period end of story Pick up hoes elsewhere
/r/askTRP27/10/17 01:06 AM
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This is fucking gay. We are all waaaay better off talking about vag then cock
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 01:02 AM
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Her lady dick is so far up your ass bro. In other words you are waaay in her frame. Secondly, you care way too fucking much. Third, stop asking for sex like a needy little child asking mommy for a gawd damn cookie. Escalate, game her alllll day every day. Don't ask for it just physically initiate. Be a man for fuck sake. The last 2 points are the hardest to accept. But the reality is she doesn't find you the least bit attractive and has little or no respect for you. She also probably doesn't hav…
/r/askMRP26/10/17 02:09 PM
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Yup went through this shit with an ex. had to do this 2x and have her committed before she finally stoped showing up
/r/askTRP26/10/17 11:35 AM
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Ya that's some creepy clown shit If your best opener is "smile" you need to work on your game
/r/askTRP26/10/17 11:26 AM
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This is the dumbest shit I have ever heard in my entire life Stop just fucking stop for fuck sake go post this bull shit elsewhere
/r/askTRP26/10/17 11:20 AM
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Sounds like you don't have the fucking stones to amog the group and lead them to having fun. So instead you act like a drunken shit monkey
/r/askMRP25/10/17 10:43 PM
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Personally I'm not a big fan of cheating but Any woman worth a shit usually has a boyfriend. And she's gonna have orbiters and potential branch swings standing by. That's just how it is. Hence shes not yours it's just your turn
/r/askTRP25/10/17 06:17 PM
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Volunteer somewhere on a regular basis. It adds value to your own life and the lives of others. personally I enjoy working with youth with disabilities and I love sports. So I help with things like special olympics Read anything and everything Zen Give away/sell as much shit as possible. Down size and simplify
/r/askTRP25/10/17 04:18 PM
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The proper response is I would love to be your friend and comb your hair, rub your feet watch bad rom coms and listen to you talk about how much you love fucking chad but can't get him to commit...... Gawd what tha fuha... the response is I'd don't care about what label you on this relationship but if it's not sexual I'm not interested Just say it in a way that doesn't make you sound needy or autistic
/r/askTRP25/10/17 09:48 AM
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Ugh what tha fawh Have you even read the side bar? Do you even lift Are you sure you don't want to go to blue pill and talk about your feels Killing me I'll spoon feed you this one fucking time then read lift and get your shit together -Don't mate guard telling her she can or can't do shit is just fucking week -you don't own her she is free to do what she wants and she will. - if she wants gno cool let her go..... and soft nxt
/r/askTRP23/10/17 09:24 PM
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This is a fucking joke rite? She's gonna do what ever the fuck she wants to do. SHES NOT YOURS. It's just your turn If she wants to grind on Chads dick she's gonna do it. you're never gonna know about it either way Hate to hurt your little feels but grinding on chads dick is really the main reason for gno in the fucking first place
/r/askTRP23/10/17 08:33 PM
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Honestly all I really need is my dog and a pay check
/r/askTRP23/10/17 08:21 PM
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For the love of god pull your head out of your ass. Here come the cold water. She is not yours, she never was. You had your turn and now your turn is over. She is clearly fucking someone else. She is not attracted to you anymore. She hasn't been in a long time. Go to the gym and think about her fucking chad while you dead lift. Reflect on what a sad little bitch you WHERE. lift Read Become awesome YOUR LIFE BELONGS SOULY TO YOU.... What the fuck are you gonna do with it?!?!
/r/askMRP23/10/17 06:24 PM
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It's a shit test A&A and move on. Also remember AWALT she's gonna flirt she's gonna have orbiters there's nothing you can do about it. All of your rules, boundaries and feelings are way less important to her, than her need for validation. The reality is She will get her validation I front of you or behind your back. That being said, their definitely IS a line and if this shit happens constantly, it's probably a red flag.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 03:17 PM
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Ha! I did the same. Then I was like wait just replace the word soil with soul/mind and you've got a pretty good metaphor
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 01:44 PM
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What tha fauh?!?! Cut the captain save a hoe bull shit and wake the fuck up! She is lying because she doesn't want to hurt your fragile lil feelings. She is going to go out and slut it up with her slut friends. You can't stop here You don't own her she's not fucking yours Your not in a committed relationship and you need to be ok with that or move on. For fuck sake you should have other options anyway.
/r/askTRP17/10/17 03:55 PM
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Meh I mean I guess you could say something like "looks like some one still hasn't moved on" or "someone's still living past" or awesome were not virgins hi 5 Or some other stupid bull shit But honestly who fucking cares this type of monkeytard shit belongs at the kids table We have btr things to talk about at grown up table
/r/askTRP14/10/17 11:27 AM
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Common cense tells us that if she thinks you are a ugly useless bag of shit she's not gonna be interested. She has to think you have value and the more value she feels you have the more engaged she'll be. I mean that's just basic logic.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 09:33 PM
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This! why the fuck would I wast time with someone of lesser value anyway?
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 08:02 PM
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Look I've been there and so far have done pretty well to sober the fuck up and rite my ship. I became a little bitch who wasn't leading or owning his shit. I definitely moved too fast Ramboed some shit. But I continue to work and things continue to improve. But Here's the cold water you my friend. You have Zero frame and your wife owns you. Her lady dick is very, very far up your ass. if she is fucking with other guys via txt, snap slut, fuck face or what ever social media she uses, her ACTIONS …
/r/askMRP12/10/17 03:47 PM
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Ya that's beta bull shit. I know a lot of "average" looking guys that do just fine. They have decent game, decent personalities and decent lives. Most importantly they don't act like thirsty/creepy losers. That's all it really takes.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 12:49 PM
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He's a quad and he's fucking awesome
/r/askTRP11/10/17 02:38 AM
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Because he's wheel chair Jesus.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 01:10 AM
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One of the most baddest mother fuckers I know is a quadriplegic. He's about 6 feet 7 looks like a fucking model, snow boards, surfs and does marathons. not to mention smart and charismatic. Alpha as fuck. He will live the life he wants period end of story
/r/askTRP10/10/17 08:28 PM
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If that tree falls in the woods you won't hear shit. How many guys get cheated on and never find out? Im not saying it happens every day but Im thinking it happens more than some of us would like to admit. Even if it's just some social media bull shit sexting sending pics what ev. or grinding and making out with some dude on a gno. Shit happens. The reality is if she wants to fuck with another guy she will and you'll never know about it. Ya if you have high smv and she's a decant girl, these inc…
/r/askTRP10/10/17 07:52 PM
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My porn preference involves Leprechauns fucking unicorns on a trapeze But who fucking cares?!?! no one! and neither should you. Your girl has fantasies about guys that aren't you whoopty fucking do I mean this in the nicest way possible but Stop being a little bitch Shut the fuck up and go lift
/r/askTRP10/10/17 04:30 PM
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Solid well thought out post keep moving forward OP
/r/TheRedPill10/10/17 04:16 PM
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If she talked shit on your friends she's gonna talk shit on you. This girl just likes to talk shit on guys period end of story. She is living breathing Taylor fucking Swift song. She gotta blank space dumb ass and she just wrote your name
/r/TheRedPill10/10/17 11:24 AM
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Why do I feel like op lives in his parents basement 😂
/r/TheRedPill07/10/17 09:26 AM
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A-fucking-men!
/r/askTRP06/10/17 01:04 PM
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Stop starring girls down like creepy little shit monkey
/r/askTRP06/10/17 01:03 PM
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Look stop being such a faggy little shit monkey. Worrying about this shit is a complete wast of fucking time Your frame is cow shit on a hot day. Work on that.... Any worth while girl will have orbiters That is why we have plates Stop mate grading In fact just stop giving a fuck Go lift and work on being more awesome
/r/askMRP05/10/17 08:05 PM
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Nah. I think your good Just act like it's totally normal and you don't give a fk
/r/askTRP05/10/17 05:42 PM
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I beg to differ. Not only is Spoke is perfectly capable of running the enterprise he is in fact "superior" to Kirk in many ways. But yet Kirk is the captain and is untimely responsible for the ship and crew. Does Kirk pull some I'm superior because of my rank bull shit? No he respects and understands his fo's competence and uses that to run his ship better. And THAT is why Kirk is the fucking captain. true leadership isn't about superiority any one who has ever been in a position of power knows …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 12:32 PM
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I don't wanna crush your little feels but you are soooo far away from being alpha. Truth is alphas don't have to ask questions about being alpha. If we are being real, There are very few if any alphas even on here. Lord knows I'm certainly not alpha. They have better shit to do then dick around on Reddit As far as your situation goes; I'd say Alphas don't defend or debate anything with anyone. Why the fuck are you talking with these ppl. Alphas just don't give a fuck, Because They don't have to …
/r/askTRP05/10/17 11:29 AM
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Its a bad sign when a girl goes to the bathroom and doesn't come back. She's basically escaping. Find a reason to isolate get her away from the crowd try to and close
/r/askTRP05/10/17 11:14 AM
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She went home to her bf
/r/askTRP05/10/17 08:02 AM
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For fk sake if you're in an ldr you're already a chuck. I don't wanna hurt your little feels bro but she's prob already ringing the cock carousal like a fucking champ. Ldr 's are just dumb Go lift and work on being more awesome
/r/askTRP04/10/17 10:17 PM
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Hay guys will I loose frame if I scratch my nutz through the hole in my boxers?!?? GAWD! If you are that worried about frame you already have none
/r/askTRP04/10/17 08:07 PM
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Slap her ass and say "gawd damn rite it is!" Or just go lift
/r/askTRP04/10/17 07:30 PM
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Ya no one likes to kill the puppy But hey Timmy had to put old yeller down. It was the humane thing to do. And besides you don't want your entire preverbal farm to end up with fucking rabies or some shit....
/r/askTRP04/10/17 04:08 PM
13

She not yours it's just your turn. Enjoy the ride. When it ends it's ends. Just be smart enough to know when it ends......
/r/askTRP04/10/17 02:33 PM
0

This is not about putting our wives down or being superior. A real captain takes on responsibility so his first offices doesn't have to. It's about owning your shit. A good man wants and needs to take responsibility for himself and others, that's really what mrp is about. Blue Pill Professor has a great pod cast that sums up the captain first officer dynamic quits well. I will say that the wife in this case could and should have expressed her thoughts and concerns in a respectful and productive …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/17 11:35 AM
3

I don't have a fucking crystal ball or anything but ya it seems like your girl is at a point where she is going to go chase mad dick Your only real option is to go chase mad pussy If you like her, plate her but know she is riding the cock carousel like a mother fucking champ. She's gonna do what's she's gonna do Fuck it! go lift working on being awesome and have your fun
/r/askTRP03/10/17 06:28 PM
5

Yup
/r/askTRP03/10/17 06:16 PM
12

I'm going to put this as gently as I can so I can spare your little feels. Ok so it's not that she doesn't care about you she just instinctively wants to ride the cock carousel, and she will. Because AWALT. She's going to go bang work Chad. She is conflicted because she wants to keep you as her loving bf and bang chad at the same time. I don't care how good of a communicator she is, she is not going to spell that out for you. She's just gonna do it. Most likely she already has. So for fuck sake …
/r/askTRP03/10/17 05:04 PM
2

Ya obviously not what OP wants to hear but seems pretty likely
/r/askTRP03/10/17 03:45 PM
0

he prob has another girl whose draining Him dry. Sorry
/r/askTRP03/10/17 01:55 PM
1

This is what they call hypergamy my friend And it's it's crashing your ltr like Irma crashed Florida. Lift hit the side bar get your shit together and salvage what's left or cut your losses and move the fuck on.
/r/askTRP02/10/17 10:22 PM
1

The Game is pretty darn good
/r/askTRP02/10/17 09:08 PM
1

It means she pre occupied with chad
/r/askTRP02/10/17 09:07 PM
2

Yup! Even if she's pissed at first. If you are of high value to her she'll come back around
/r/askMRP02/10/17 08:47 PM
2

Ya lying by omission and trickle truths are something girls do. Besides You have to figure your shit out for your self. am I saying tell your girl your fucking someone else, no that's prob a bad idea. But maybe you should should ask for a break or some space to figure your shit out
/r/askMRP02/10/17 08:45 PM
2

Stop being a selfish bitchy little man child. You are obviously not ready for any kind of ltr. I know guys are gonna say Sexual strategy is amoral, and so is the concept of alpha. And that's true But at the end of the day Lying and cheating is just bull shitty and kind of a pain in the ass. Personally I've always been happier when I keep shit simple and honest. And you'd be surprised how many girls will still fuck you and not give a shit about your other plates. Fuck all the girls you want, just…
/r/askMRP02/10/17 08:14 PM
10

Fucking shit This is not the rite place for this Post. But I'm a softy so I'll help you out. Your not special. Sounds like You have the personality of a moldy dish rag. most guys would rather be with a fun 7 then a dish rag 9/10. You are prob the same as every basic Golding bitch on the market. stop thinking you're special because you obviously are not. work on being a decent, fun loving, person. Good luck
/r/askTRP02/10/17 03:41 PM
3

"Kill all marriage therapists" is a good one
/r/askMRP30/09/17 12:20 PM
2

Blue pill professor pod casts are a great place to start If you want good examples of gratuitous miss uses of red pill theory/info and Rambo bull shit, read my posts. Learn form my and other guys mistakes rp does work. But it is work and I'm finding the work never really ends Lift Read the side bar Lift more Read more And keep us posted
/r/askMRP29/09/17 04:45 PM
2

Some ppl take shit too seriously
/r/askTRP28/09/17 08:33 PM
2

Ha! well you 2 homos gay wrestling would prob be more entertaining and less offensive than any Mayweather fight I've ever seen Have at it!!!!!
/r/askTRP28/09/17 08:32 PM
2

I'm not trying to be a dick OP but it really sounds like your shits all fucked up and shit and you talk like a fag Ya granted there are some shit flinging monkeytards out there but sometimes getting a proverbial shit ball to face is exactly what some ppl need or deserve. This place can be a wake up call. This is referred to time and time again as a locker room. Guys will bust your balls and give you shit because they are guys and that's what we do. Personally some of the best advise I've gotten …
/r/askTRP28/09/17 08:07 PM
2

That was fucking golden
/r/askTRP28/09/17 07:50 PM
5

You 2 sound like some gay porn version of Jerry Springer 😂😂😂😂
/r/askTRP28/09/17 07:49 PM
1

This sounds rite!
/r/askTRP28/09/17 07:08 PM
7

Let me guess, when she cheated 4 years ago she was drunk right? Hypergamy is about to kick you right in the nutz HARD my friend! So when you have the same behavior you get the same results. Sounds like She hasn't changed. she is still doing the same shit she did 4 years ago so the same shit is gonna happen. You have no frame and sounds like she has little respect for you or your marriage. She clearly does whatever the fuck she wants and gives no shits about what you think. You are in her frame a…
/r/askMRP28/09/17 02:46 PM
1

Mainly logistics and flirting/sex
/r/askMRP27/09/17 02:46 PM
2

Bros before hoes Unless your bros act like hoes In which case they ain't your bros Sadly, maybe you've just outgrown this dude. I've definitely left some ppl behind over some trifling shit in my day. Trust yourself, you'll do what's best for you in the long run
/r/askTRP27/09/17 02:24 PM
1

Your eyes will naturally move around pending on why part of your brain you're using. I think the main thing is to just be engaged and natural
/r/askTRP27/09/17 12:17 PM
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You friend is a dusch and she is just AWALT They are going to fuck end of story may have already happened who the fuck knows So soft next her And call your dusch bag friend out And most importantly go fucking lift
/r/askTRP27/09/17 12:15 PM
3

Ya if she is going drinking with other guys she just not ltr worthy. Plate her ASAP
/r/askTRP27/09/17 12:08 PM
1

Hang in there don't be afraid to get help Keep us posted
/r/askTRP27/09/17 05:00 AM
1

Solid comment Thx
/r/askMRP27/09/17 04:55 AM
1

Google Larry Bird
/r/askTRP26/09/17 02:37 PM
1

"True confidence comes only with preparation" Larry Bird #33
/r/askTRP25/09/17 10:04 PM
0

I know a lot of guys debate this, but spinning plates isn't necessarily about fucking. Do they what to fuck you is what it's the real principality is. Personally, Not to concerned about sex. Wife been a fucking like a champ lately. I guess the hart of the questions is ; what's abundance mentality really worth? And how badly does one need it? To what end. and to what for or what need does it meet for you other then sex?
/r/askMRP22/09/17 04:54 PM
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Ya I tried to read your post to.... Sorry next time I'll be more long winded, dry and have no real point like yours. Maybe than I'll get your up vote May be then I'll give a fuck but probably not 😆
/r/askMRP22/09/17 04:44 PM
1

This!
/r/askTRP22/09/17 11:46 AM
4

Gawd just go fucking lift for fk sake! you can find pussy elsewhere. you shouldn't be worrying about that shit at the gym The gym is church you go to church to pray period end of story
/r/askTRP21/09/17 05:24 PM
1

7 is interesting. So basically what you are saying with out saying is marriage is never going to be truly monogamous. People in ltr's are better off swinging because hay at least it's honest. Im my opinion honesty is probably more valuable then fidelity anyway. So if the reality is, your wife is gonna fuck Chad anyway you might as well accept it and go fuck whoever you want/can openly and honestly. In my limited experience in the swinger life style, all I saw was wives having a lot of sex and hu…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 04:23 PM
4

Asshole seems to be a relative term. There is nothing wrong with being assertive.but You don't necessarily have to be an asshole to get what you want. I would even say being such can backfire in many situations.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/17 03:51 PM
1

How did you find out?
/r/askTRP21/09/17 12:37 PM
1

Your girl will talk to other guys. If they say something funny she will laugh. Who fucking cares stop being a jealous little bitch and go lift
/r/askTRP21/09/17 12:28 PM
2

Game her more out side of the bed room. Lots of kino, flirting and some dirty talk. then just toss her around through her on the bed/couch unless you get a hard no fuck her like a feral pig. I went through this with my wife. Now I understand that she just wanted to be taken and dominated a little bit. Sex got better for both of us when I stoped fucking like a little bitch and started taking what I wanted. Read sex god
/r/askTRP21/09/17 11:58 AM
2

Just because it's there life doesn't mean it has to be YOUR life. Stop giving a shit about other people and work on YOU and YOUR LIFF. Go to the fucking gym seriously go Now
/r/askTRP21/09/17 11:10 AM
1

I hear ya. But I love the side buis and hoping I will turn into my primary source of income
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 12:23 AM
3

Starting up a business on the side. Confuses crossed. I think I just wanna work when where and how I want. The grass definitely isn't greener. I think I just want out of the rat race But don't we all ......
/r/TheRedPill20/09/17 06:40 PM
3

She is jerking him off with one hand and texting you with the other Probably literally and figuratively She's a plate so who fucking cares
/r/askTRP20/09/17 05:28 PM
7

Be prepared. Know the job description and know the company. In your head Make it a conversation more than an interview
/r/TheRedPill20/09/17 05:02 PM
1

Im hatting my job right now and im burnt out. how do you guys deal ?
/r/TheRedPill20/09/17 05:00 PM
49

"True confidence comes only with preparation." Larry Bird Pitting in the work and seeing the results. Weather its work, gym or girls,That's what does it for me
/r/TheRedPill20/09/17 04:58 PM
3

This is a bullshit mentality. You ask if she says no move the fuck on
/r/askTRP20/09/17 12:01 PM
1

Been there. I believe where there is some there is fire. So trust but verify All in all any woman of high value will have orbiters you just have to deal with it. All you can do is Focus on being awesome. Secondly mate guarding is a wast of time, checking her phone is a wast of time. Stop giving a fuck go lift and read
/r/askMRP20/09/17 11:38 AM
0

This is the type of comment the blue pullers love to read. And call us all paranoid damaged jack asses
/r/askMRP20/09/17 11:33 AM
2

Focus on your strengths. If you don't have strengths, get some
/r/askTRP19/09/17 11:18 PM
9

Girls have orbiters, the higher value she is the more orbiters she will have AWALT End of story
/r/askTRP19/09/17 07:02 PM
4

I think we have a few solid examples of rp truths here. I think the over riding principle that frame is everything. You where a total blue pill pussy butch. Lords knows I've been there. thus she had no respect for you. Girls hate guys who are pussy's Second your ex wife wasn't afraid of being your ex wife. But you where afraid. Great example of why abundance mentality is so important. Also the stay plan and the go should always be the same plan. You where a useless pile of shit so hypergamy kick…
/r/askMRP19/09/17 06:23 PM
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Holly hypergamy! Honestly think if she didn't get caught she'd just keep fucking Chad Shit come to think of it, she did get caught and she's probably still gonna fuck Chad. She's just gonna get better at covering her tracks
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/17 04:42 PM
2

Who fucking cares? Honestly it doesn't matter and she will never give you her real number. So some stupid gueestimation isn't worth a bag of dicks anyway. Concern your self with more relevant shit liken does she's add value to your everyday life.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 02:34 PM
2

Your best course of action would be to go to the gym and lift Or just do anything besides worrying about dumb shit like this
/r/askTRP18/09/17 09:14 PM
21

Stop fucking drinking. Get help if needed. There is no shame in trying to be a better man. If being a better man means going to AA, so be it. Counseling might also be an option. What ever, just stop being a fucking shit show man child and get yourself together. Thank the fuck out of that girl for not sending your sorry ass to jail
/r/askTRP18/09/17 06:05 PM
12

Here is the cold water. She not that attracted to you. Sex for her is obligatory to maintain the relationship and that's it. Chad on the other had could face fuck the shit out of her and she would love every minute of it Soooo go to the fucking gym and lift Be more attractive
/r/askTRP18/09/17 05:55 PM
2

BOOOM!
/r/askMRP18/09/17 05:20 PM
5

She not going to stop. She will keep doing this. She will just be more diligent about hiding it from you and your fragile little feelings. She will do what she wants and you will be non the wiser. And if you think they're not fucking each other, you're wrong. Move on Read this side bar and go lift for fuck sake
/r/askTRP18/09/17 03:30 PM
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This will bring you nothing but drama and bullshit. Go to the gym contemplate the iron rules and abundance mentality
/r/askTRP17/09/17 04:33 PM
6

I knew a girl like this she grabbed me by my ankles and used me as dildo. I almost fucking died. Next time we fucked I wore scuba gear
/r/askTRP16/09/17 08:38 PM
1

This is it rite here. Next level is actually doing nice shit with no return on investment. That is what they call old school class
/r/TheRedPill15/09/17 02:56 PM
1

You clearly have zero frame and care waaay tooo much Stop giving a fuck Go to the fucking gym and contemplate your lack of frame in between sets Get your ass to the iron church and fucking pray
/r/askMRP15/09/17 02:34 PM
2

I'll thro this out there also; when I look and my personal Alpha roll models i think of guys like JFK,Steve McQueen and Sinatra They weren't dusch bags they treated people with respect and class
/r/TheRedPill15/09/17 01:53 PM
18

Made a similar comment a a post a while back. This really makes you think about "Chad" being more of a concept then a person. Meaning in the example you gave her bf is good looking, presumably does all kinds of "Chad" shit. but her Chad is a guy with different traits. He's probably Chad to her because he's different and opposite from her bf. Also Makes similar point about hypergamy. No matter how chad you try to be, to your LTR at some point some mo fo is gonna seem more Chadderer then you..... …
/r/TheRedPill15/09/17 01:30 PM
3

Well thank you for that. The gym is a great place to work shit out mentally physically and emotionally It seriously is the the mother fucking church
/r/askTRP15/09/17 07:18 AM
1

What ended the relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/17 01:07 AM
1

I know a lot more bp guys than rp guys. They are still good guys and good friends. If asked for marital advice I keep it as generic as possible. it's there marriage in the end they, like all of need to figure out there own shit anyway
/r/askTRP14/09/17 09:23 PM
17

She's looking to make you an orbiter or potential branch swing I suggest pondering this in the gym while you lift
/r/askTRP14/09/17 08:47 PM
1

Stop being a useless man child Stop caring about what she thinks Stop texting her Gawd just fucking stop Do you even lift bro? Read the fucking side bar for fuk sake GAAWWW We will help but seriously read some fucking thing from the side bar before posting again at least something......
/r/askMRP14/09/17 07:09 PM
1

So you already know what you are gonna do so what tha fuck are you doin asking a bunch strangers on the internet for? Look, Here's how this will most likely play out You will mess with both of these girls until it blows up in your face and you loose both of them. It blows up in your face and you loose one of them. And either way you'll be thinking more about what you lost instead of what you still have Cheating is often a bunch of unnecessary drama and bull shit Pussy is just pussy all women hav…
/r/askTRP14/09/17 06:56 PM
2

Thanks Some mother fuckers don't understand sarcasm. But shit some mother fuckers have zero frame and are afraid of there wives. These monkeys can through shit all they want my point hold true. OP wife if buying gifts for Chad likes it's no big deal. But if OP bought a gift for another girl...shit hits the fan. That's the real problem here. That shows OP is completely in his wife's frame. And he will continue to be in her frame until he... oh I don't know maybe isn't afraid to buy gifts for othe…
/r/askMRP14/09/17 02:36 PM
-3

Ya I'm clearly a big ol bucket of I don't give a fuck. But hay that's just me
/r/askMRP13/09/17 12:04 PM
-6

Find a nice plate and get her something nice for her birthday. Make sure it's from a girly store and don't make any effort to cover it up. If she ask about it just say you got a birthday gift for a work friend or some shit. Than Sit back and watch the hamster run
/r/askMRP13/09/17 08:20 AM
3

Ha I hear ya but Brad Pitt, Billie Joe Armstrong and George Michael, all arrested for indecent exposure. Ya even the Red Hot Chilly peppers put a fucking sock on it But Britany can flash her shit all damn day tho. Fucking hypocrisy
/r/askTRP12/09/17 05:38 PM
8

Ya do it all the time.... Of course not I was making a simple point that even a 6'5 chad has to put in some fucking work. NO one can literally whip there dick out in a public place and have girls line up for it GAWD fucking sarcasm man!!! GAWHHHHAA 🙄
/r/askTRP12/09/17 12:54 PM
2

So here's the cold water; if she wants to fuck him she's gonna fuck him and you will most likely never know. that's being said it doesn't really sound like you have any solid reason to believe she's cheating anyway. So in short all you can do is go lift work on being awesome and if you actually find proof that she is cheating, just fucking leave
/r/askTRP12/09/17 12:49 PM
1

This
/r/askTRP12/09/17 12:43 PM
2

Why are you even texting her back? Go fucking lift
/r/askTRP12/09/17 12:33 PM
1

So if you get him will you stop improving? If so your efforts are a waste anyway. You should be constantly trying to improve your self even after you have him. Other wise he's prob not gonna stick around anyway
/r/askTRP12/09/17 12:29 PM
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In other words you gotta fucking work for it for fuck sake. unless you are about 6 foot 5 and have a huge dick. In which case just just whip it out in a crowded area like a bar/pub for example and see what happens.....
/r/askTRP12/09/17 12:07 PM
5

AWALT all girls will seek validation from orbiters. the more value she has the more orbiters she is gonna have. this is why we have plates. Plates are our version of orbiters. Always trust but verify Lesson learned.... Read, lift and move on.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 11:16 AM
1

Ya that's kinda what I was getting at. As many similarities as there are, the the core of the male and female sexual strategies are still still different.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 07:00 PM
3

This is good stuff and I agree with it. But when you boil it down to our instinct or monkey brains; females want to get pregnant by and alpha and raise those kids with the beta provider. Where as men are just looking to have sex as much as possible. Preferable with as many high quality females as possible. This is where the AF/BB stuff starts to come into fruition
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 06:31 PM
8

So true. Absolutely wouldn't have gotten married if the in-laws weren't good people who spoil me rotten.
/r/askTRP11/09/17 12:45 PM
4

Knowing is half the battle mother fuckers
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/17 06:22 PM
7

Your wife owns you and so will your next wife if you don't fix your shit. Her lady dick is deeeeep in your ass my friend and it's going to take a lot of work to get it out. read the side bar and for fuck sake go lift Keep us posted
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/17 12:09 PM
9

You are doing the rite thing. For fuck sake girls are here to make your life better not stress you the fuck out. Dealing with shit like that isn't worth it. She shows no respect and thus deserves nothing form you. Forget about her and go lift
/r/askTRP09/09/17 12:03 PM
5

Go lift and move on
/r/askTRP08/09/17 07:07 PM
2

Oohhhh Well that sounds pretty definitive. Time to move on to the next Did you even bother confronting her ?
/r/askTRP08/09/17 06:54 PM
2

How did you find out?
/r/askTRP08/09/17 06:49 PM
2

The fact that you even give a shit tells me you have a looooooot of work to do. Lift and read the side bar
/r/askMRP08/09/17 06:01 PM
1

Solid point
/r/askMRP08/09/17 02:53 PM
3

You shit flinging fucking monkeytards realize Rollo Tomassi is married and has kids right? forgive my anger it's been a long week and I'm all outa fucks
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 01:23 PM
1

That's all you can control. be your best self, own your shit, lead with competence and confidence and what happens happens That's where I'm at. Just trying to lead and not be a dumb ass. she will always have orbiters. Fuck em just be better then they are
/r/askMRP07/09/17 07:17 PM
1

What the fuck are you doing. I'm thinking your wife will thank you for that divorce and find some one who isn't an insecure little bitch in about a week.
/r/askMRP07/09/17 04:15 PM
1

I was in your boat not too long ago. Wife has a long history of doing this shit. I have a looooog history of snooping in her phone like a beta bitch. In fact if you are looking for a play book on how to gratuitously miss use red pill knowledge and completely half ass this shit read my posts. But the truth is if you read the side bar and get your shit together, your relationship will improve. Your wife like all women wants to be led. Just not by some drunk useless man child of a captain. in short…
/r/askMRP07/09/17 04:06 PM
3

I get that. I still think my point about chad being a concept hold up tho
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 08:44 PM
33

cold fucking bucket of water but definitely some truth to that
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 07:40 PM
72

This really makes you think about "Chad" being more of a concept then a person. Meaning the article states her husband is good looking, makes money presumably does all kinds of "Chad" shit. but her Chad is a truck driver. He's probably Chad to her because he's different and opposite from her hubby. Also Makes similar point about hypergamy. No matter how chad you try to be, to your LTR at some point some mo fo is gonna seem more Chadderer then you..... But fucken A, we all already knew that rite?
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 06:55 PM
4

If she isn't telling them and bragging, you might not be as good as you think. Not saying you don't get the job done, but if it's that good she'll brag for you and her friends will treat you differently
/r/askMRP05/09/17 12:03 PM
2

Trust me I can speak from personal experience snooping in a woman's phone is beta bull shit and not worth your time. If she is worth while she will have orbiters and will be seeking validation on social media and txt or what ever. And thirsty mother fuckers will line up to give it to her. AWALT. Be better then her orbiters period end of story. worry less about her and more about being awesome
/r/askTRP05/09/17 11:43 AM
1

Looks like a comfort test. She gives a shit and that's a good thing. Make your responses more sexual and use them a a way to initiate next time you see her
/r/askMRP02/09/17 11:33 AM
1

It's all of the above. And yes she notices and minds, but understands that she is not living up to my expectations and standards and that divorce is an option if my expectations and standards aren't met. She is responding very well and this has really helped me get some semblance of frame and my balls back. At this point is less about the ring and more about me having some balls and getting what I need out of our relationship. Right now things are great. But I have a loooot of work to do in orde…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/17 01:41 PM
32

Hooefully the advice she got was to go ride some cock. I mean shit that's obviously what she's gonna do anyway
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 01:05 PM
1

She's been fucking me like crazy and asking me what she can do to be a better wife and I still don't wear my ring. I'll put it back on when/if I feel shes worth it. I think I have the frame of at least a 10 year old at this point But I agree I have a lot of work to do......
/r/askMRP30/08/17 02:17 PM
2

Goals from last week -Continue to be upfront, open and honest about what I want, need and expect from my wife. Become better at communicating the above. I stoped wearing my wedding ring. I need to maintain open dialog about that. Wife needs to put in work and meet my expectations otherwise i see no point in wearing that fucking thing. -Continue practicing the fine art of not giving a fuck. -get a life go do some thing with friends at least 1 time this week - continue working on my non profit. Ne…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/17 02:02 PM
1

I didn't offer a lot of info on this post. It really is just a quick question. But if you wanna see where I'm at, feel free to check out my other posts. Not posting any updates for a while I'm focusing on OYS weekly
/r/askMRP29/08/17 06:59 PM
1

Easy cowboy. No ones talking about fight club. By open dialog I simply mean openly and honestly stating what I want, need and expect. If I don't tell she's not gonna know. covert contracts where a huge problem for me. This is my way of avoiding that whole cycle. She has asked for my guidance, this is one way I'm offering it to her. For fuck sake there's nothing wrong with having your wife read a book I do agree with you and Rollo about women wanting a man who just "gets it" And after a few month…
/r/askMRP29/08/17 06:47 PM
1

But how is it covert if the book helps clarify what I want and expect? To me it seems like a way to have open dialog and avoid covert contracts
/r/askMRP28/08/17 09:58 PM
1

Nah in my current situation this would be to close to violating the first rule of fight club
/r/askMRP28/08/17 09:56 PM
1

This looks really worth while Thanks !
/r/askMRP28/08/17 09:55 PM
1

Ok fine. But I still think your off base with your first point. If she doesn't think I'm worth the effort, why is she asking for was to be better?
/r/askMRP28/08/17 09:55 PM
2

She asked for my guidance. This is one way I'm offering it to her Also that feels like a covert contract to me. I'd rather just tell her what I want and need. right now I want her to do some home work on how to be a better wife
/r/askMRP28/08/17 07:22 PM
1

Interesting perspective Thx
/r/askMRP28/08/17 03:28 PM
1

So far I thinks solid. But you should definitely read it first before giving it to her. Or read it together. Other wise don't bother
/r/askMRP28/08/17 01:49 PM
1

Thanks!
/r/askMRP28/08/17 01:24 PM
2

Currently reading KAMC The rest are obviously lodged in my ass and I'm afraid to pull them out because of paper cuts Thanks !
/r/askMRP28/08/17 01:22 PM
2

I get this a lot from my wife. Looks like you handled it pretty well. in fact I'm gonna use this a template for when my wife does the same shit Thanks !
/r/askMRP28/08/17 01:10 PM
1

"True confidante comes only through preparation." - Larry Bird In other words true confidence is about being able to back your shit up. put the work in, be awesome do awesome things. set and achieve your goals and confidence will naturally happen
/r/askTRP28/08/17 12:10 PM
4

Why do you give a fuck? Tell her you will do what you want and don't need her approval.
/r/askMRP27/08/17 08:15 PM
3

I have always had a loner mentality so this is just my perspective. As I get older and more self sufficient I tend to put most men in 2 categories Pons Competition I'm much happier having very few friends
/r/askTRP27/08/17 02:24 PM
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Who fucking cares mentality works for me. doesn't really matter what happens the world is not gonna stop turning. Opening becomes easy when you don't really have any expected outcome. I don't have an expected outcome because again who fucking cares
/r/TheRedPill27/08/17 02:29 AM
1

Pay attention to her body the way she moves and feels tells you everything If a girls cums you can "feel" it
/r/askTRP27/08/17 01:49 AM
1

Stop fucking worrying about it. not a big deal. Why the fuck weren't you looking at and interacting with other girls?
/r/askTRP27/08/17 01:46 AM
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She sounds like a fun chick. Slut shaming is stupid And of course AWALT
/r/askTRP25/08/17 09:16 PM
2

I've been doing this all the time lately. It's a fucking blast. Just have fun. Truly just hanging out being social and having good interesting, fun conversations is an exercise in inner game
/r/askTRP25/08/17 01:18 PM
11

This absolutely worked!!! Thx Bro!!!!
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 03:16 PM
6

So I got a number at the bar. She been texting me but for fuck sake I cant remember her name. How to get her name with out fucking this up?
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 02:28 PM
1

Thanks bro!
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/17 02:25 PM
2

Just finished the book. Total life changer Thanks Rollo!
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/17 12:06 AM
1

First post on OYS Goals: -Continue to be upfront, open and honest about what I want, need and expect from my wife. Become better at communicating the above. I stoped wearing my wedding ring. I need to maintain open dialog about that. Wife needs to put in work and meet my expectations otherwise i see no point in wearing that fucking thing. -Continue practicing the fine art of not giving a fuck. -frame frame and more frame -get a life go do some thing with friends at least 1 time this week - conti…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/17 11:58 AM
1

Valid points. That's a lot to think about. She has been busting her ass lately. maybe dread game is starting kick in maybe she just knows I'm on my way out ?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/17 01:05 PM
1

Ok enlighten me here. Obviously being on here i general says I give a fuck but beyond that.....
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/17 12:35 PM
1

Solid advise
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/17 10:41 AM
1

I don't know about that
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/17 10:40 AM
1

I get why you would put this out there. I didn't add a lot of dialog or detail. But really I'm just being completely open and honest with her about what I want and where I'm at with our relationship. Also getting better about clearly expressing my own needs as opposed to covert contracts and just expecting her to do A because I do B
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/17 10:39 AM
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Yes I'm gonna be honest about where I'm at with our relationship. I'm going to tell her point blank what I want and expect. I have a lot of work to do or this isn't going to last. So I'm going to set some actual solid specific goals and start posting on OYS weekly
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/17 10:33 AM
1

Not gonna lie I was a few beers deep when I posted this
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/17 10:32 AM
1

Gawww Damn it Son of a Bhaaa Well thank you for that swift and much needed kick in the balls Un plugging from the matrix is easy. Unplugging from her frame, well that's another story..... I have to say she's been busting her ass lately. But I need to figure my shit out quick or it's not gonna last. my only post are going to on OYS weekly for a while Also seriously exploring the nuclear option
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/17 03:06 AM
1

Go get em tiger let us know how it goes
/r/askTRP18/08/17 10:13 PM
8

Bar tender just refilled my water and I didn't even ask. I'm soooo in !!!! Lolololol!!!!
/r/askTRP18/08/17 08:49 PM
1

A feel no sarcasm in that comment what so ever Thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/17 10:57 AM
2

Wow! My jerk off shit flinging monkey boy post did not deserve this much insight. Thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/17 10:04 AM
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I'm butt hurt from her huge lady dick ramming my ass. And a slight concussion from my head hitting the wall In all seriousness I get a better response from her when I just don't give a fuck and say/do what I want. So that's what I'm doing
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/17 12:28 AM
0

In her face ! Lolo Probably not tho
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/17 12:24 AM
2

That's a given. Smoke = fire
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/17 12:23 AM
2

I usually go with the old "you win some, you loose some" with a smirk
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 07:04 PM
5

Go fucking lift dress better and get some fucking confidence Just stop being such a bitch for fuck sake Stop that shit!
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 06:35 PM
5

Blue pill professors pod casts on you tube are a nice into to the side bar. They definitely don't replace the side bar tho! enjoy Keep hulk smashing shit
/r/askMRP17/08/17 05:03 PM
3

We are all dumberer for reading this
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 02:42 PM
2

Side bar Dread game Blue pill professor pod casts on you tube Keep lifting Get a life Keep us posted over on MRP
/r/askTRP17/08/17 11:39 AM
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We don't come here to kiss each others asses. We come here for hard truth. It's like when your big brother has to beat the shit out of you a little bit for being stupid. He does it because he gives a shit. The truth hurts and you need be ok with that before you can start growing
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/17 04:13 AM
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You come off as defensive and insecure. She can smell that shit a mile away. And not having a job definitely displays looooow SMV to her. Don't talk about shit, do shit She has told point blank she see you as beneath her because she is supporting your sorry ass. The only way to fix that shit is to get a fucking job.
/r/askMRP16/08/17 07:57 PM
1

That's exactly what has happened. She been passive attentive and begging for attention. I think this is my window to unfuck some shit. lead, frame, boundaries and STFU We'll see if it lasts .....
/r/askMRP16/08/17 05:41 PM
1

......And that is why you are an endorsed mofo
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 02:51 PM
1

That is some serious fucking logic
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/17 01:36 PM
2

Personally trying to get my game back and spin plates. A sub like that would be useful
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/17 01:34 PM
1

This is a very down to earth and realistic perspective. Really helpful
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/17 11:47 AM
2

I wonder what the MRP guys would say about this one? AWALT is the truth in one way or another or in varying degrees. I also think that 20 year old AWALT is going to act different than a 40 year old AWALT. I'm sure you are great to your man and have best intentions but I'm also sure you would suck Chris Hemsworth's Thor hammer if given the chance. I'm not saying that to be disrespectful it just is what is.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/17 06:56 PM
1

Ha !! Well there's a comment on post quality I blame auto correct
/r/askMRP15/08/17 06:48 PM
2

For Gaud sake I've literally had to spoon feed you 2x where to find the quick answers to your questions. This can be a tough love kinda place you are going to hear some harsh criticism. But brutal honesty isn't a bad thing As for you future thinking; you can keep it. my wife is my wife until she is not, that's as far as I'm willing to go with that good luck
/r/askMRP15/08/17 05:00 PM
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I don't have a fucking crystal ball so I don't know if I'll be married in 5 years or not. That's not the point of this anyway. We have a saying "the stay plan and the go plan are the same plan." It's about YOU. GO TO YOU TUBE LISTEN TO THE BLUE PILL PROFESSORS POD CASTS. come back if so desired Go lift And read the side bar
/r/askMRP15/08/17 04:35 PM
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This is really about self improvement first and for most. worry less about your wife and her shit and more about you and your shit and things will improve one way or another. Listen to blue pill professor podcasts on you tube then dive in to the side bar if you so desire Oh and start lifting Married 7 years
/r/askMRP15/08/17 04:02 PM
1

That is really solid advice Thx
/r/askMRP15/08/17 03:53 PM
1

First off I fucking love green beans! secondly I do have some work to do in this area because my game is rusty as fuck but I was a "natural"before I became a little beta bitch who takes his wife's lady dick up the ass. So meeting girls isn't a big deal. I have a few numbers have been texting. I know you're gonna say texting ain't fucking, but it's a start
/r/askMRP15/08/17 03:17 PM
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Yup good analogy. And probably won't work in the long run if I don't set boundaries and have good frame. I need to call her on her shit. I fucked up with never establishing boundaries and having zero frame for 7 fucking years. I can't expect her have boundaries if I don't give her any. This is my way of trying to establish some of the things I should have been establishing from day one. either she accepts this or she doesn't. That's on her. for me the stay rout and the go rout are the same. That…
/r/askMRP15/08/17 02:46 PM
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Pontificate much? guys come here for help some need more that others. We've all been there. Lord knows some of the best advise I've been given has been the toughest to hear. It's like when your big brother beats your ass for being stupid. I do agree tho some guys are soft don't wanna hear the criticism and don't want to put in the work. But there are a lot of guys truly working hard on there shit and will take all the help we can get That includes my sorry ass
/r/TheRedPill15/08/17 12:56 PM
1

This is great unless it's some unwanted fatty that's fucking up your game or a coworker crossing the line. I which case we can't really take her to court and sue her for a dollar like Taylor Swift. Enjoy being groped but never forget the feminist hypocrisy and double standard we have to deal with.
/r/askTRP15/08/17 12:08 PM
1

Personaly I found WISIFG and NMMNG kind of sophomoric and didn't finish either of them. But I find most of Robert, Rollo and blue pill professor stuff really useful. I'm currently digging into the Athol stuff and so far so good. I guess my point is everyone comes here with different perspective and background. Some things will be more relevant than others. it's all about gleaning the info you need to make the improvement that you need to make
/r/askMRP15/08/17 11:22 AM
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I've been less of a drunken captain and she has been increasingly passive. I truly see her being more relaxed and just letting me make decisions. Even little stuff like I just say where we are going to eat instead of having a half hour conversation about it. She been way more attentive way more sexual. As I reflect I wonder if she was trying to say she's done being a sloppy sexting cunt with out just coming out and saying it? and my response was basically to call her a lying bitch. Or maybe that…
/r/askMRP15/08/17 04:09 AM
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I don't wanna wast people's time with a bunch rambling dialogue. I try to just get to point. But I will add more detail next time. And ya she just bright it up like she was holding on to it and needed to get it off her chest or clear the air. As far as dead goes i did flirt in front of her she did notice. I have recently started opening girls every opportunity I get. I run day game a lot. I've been texting a few girls. So that's where I'm at with that
/r/askMRP15/08/17 03:52 AM
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Start by STFU not giving a fuck lifting and reading the side bar Wash rinse repeat
/r/askMRP14/08/17 11:20 PM
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Clearly you give a fuck Stop doing that Here is my 3 step plan 1. Stop 2. Giving 3. a fuck Every time you think about giving a fuck refer back to the 3 step plan
/r/askMRP14/08/17 03:00 PM
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Lift Read side bar Get some semblance of a life out side of work and marriage Lift more Re read the side bar Wash rinse repeat Blue pill professor pod casts are a good place to start STFU and get to work
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/17 02:27 PM
1

I wonder what the MRP guys would say about this one? AWALT is the truth in one way or another or in varying degrees. I also think that 20 year old AWALT is going to act different than a 40 year old AWALT. I'm sure you are great to your man and have best intentions but I'm also sure you would suck Chris Hemsworth's Thor hammer if given the chance. I'm not saying that to be disrespectful it just is what is.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/17 02:13 PM
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Ya I wouldn't LTR unless you are into swinging and shit.
/r/askTRP12/08/17 08:07 PM
15

Like the old song girls just wanna have fun. And some time that means getting dp'ed by chad and his friends. if you are chad and his friends these girls are shit tons of fun to party with.
/r/askTRP12/08/17 08:03 PM
22

Once you unplug you start to see trp everywhere.... music, movies, advertising ..... everywhere
/r/askTRP10/08/17 02:37 PM
1

I'm not a tall guy and I think this is bull shit. I used to have smart responses for girls who'd say I was to short like "I'm taller when I'm naked" or I'd give some neg and make them feel superficial bla bla. then I got to a point where I was just like fuck it on to the next. My point is; why do you give a fuck ? I mean where does it end? First you get taller then you'll wanna be richer, then you'll want some bull shit plastic surgery, then you'll think you need a nicer car..... Your problem is…
/r/askTRP10/08/17 01:38 PM
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If she says no but still gives ioi's it's a shit test. Example says no while smiling and making eye contact it's a shit test. Says no and looks at her phone or away from you means move on.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 03:37 PM
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Harrison Ford literally makes a living off of doing this shit....
/r/askTRP09/08/17 12:45 PM
1

I've done that exact same thing on a plane or I'll grab a better seat at a ball game. And I'm sure as fuck not chad.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 03:07 PM
0

I had a huge propensity to go through my wife's phone. I was fucking obsessed with this shit. Recently started texting other girls. And I suddenly don't give a fuck about what the fuck she does on her phone..... Funny how that works
/r/askTRP07/08/17 06:58 PM
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I don't disagree. But damn the fact that they are asking him to cover is pretty fucked up
/r/askTRP07/08/17 05:31 PM
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I vote blow it up. It's fucked up that they put you in this situation in the first place.
/r/askTRP07/08/17 04:23 PM
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I'm relatively new my self and don't have all the answers. But I was in a similar situation and am slowly digging out. I've made some progress by doing the basics. things improved for me once I stoped working on my marriage and started working on myself. I constantly remind myself I can't control her or her behavior only mine and I'm not gonna piss away time on shit I can't control. STFU/don't give shitz. Doing my own thing, lifting and getting a fucking life. that's where to start. That's where…
/r/askMRP07/08/17 04:01 PM
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You are clearly still balls deep in her frame It's just a txt message and shows no real effort on her part. Stop giving a fuck Side bar Lift STFU - listen more then you talk. Keep responses simple and to the point. Don't over think shit READ NLP NLP read it lots of if Lift What she does is more important that what she says Read the side bar Lift Stop giving a fuck Frame Side bar So far this has worked for me also Check out blue pill professors pod casts on you tube It's it's a nice addendum NOT …
/r/askMRP07/08/17 11:51 AM
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Reply with 1 or 2 words like "thanks" or "that's great" and STFU Then go lift while you think about some other guy plowing her But the main thing is lift and STFU
/r/askMRP07/08/17 10:55 AM
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Put a few posts up few posts if you wanna read the saga called her out on some shit. Told her if she acts like she doesn't give a fuck why should I bla bla bla. blew her off when I went out of town for work Basically lifting Side bar not giving a fuck And shutting the fuck up
/r/askTRP04/08/17 02:47 AM
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Found the wife flirting with another guy via text. Went to marriage counseling. Which was a joke. Started reading PUA and NLP etc..... Less then 2 years later find her texting an ex. And here I am
/r/askTRP03/08/17 05:48 PM
3

or instead of pretending to not give a fuck genuinely don't give a fuck. Because pussy should work for you, you shouldn't work for pussy
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 08:08 PM
2

But it works so well in porn....
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 07:21 PM
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I've been doing the same thing a lot lately. Been focussing so much on STFU, not giving a shit, frame, identifying shit tests initiating and kino. that I forget to just chill the fuck out once in a while. I'm turning into an ice king. Wife has become passive and quite. she probably thinks I've lost my shit. we are going away this weekend maybe I'll use this time to just flirt and relax Good post thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/17 07:01 PM
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That is just common sense and my comment was made assuming the op kinda new that. by shouldn't change your behavior I just figured op was acting like a normal person not a jack ass at work and thus should continue not being a jack ass. that's all
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 06:06 PM
1

What ever. Nothing beats true confidence I'll stick with that
/r/askTRP02/08/17 05:09 PM
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There is a big difference between being truly confidant and being a pompous ass
/r/askTRP02/08/17 04:50 PM
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That's like singing I believe I can fly and then jumping off of a fucking building. You need SMV Confidence is good Over confidence on the other hand Not so much
/r/askTRP02/08/17 03:12 PM
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I know a girl who is completely AWALT. Chucked her husband. He is raising a kind that he thinks is his, but is actually Chads. Ya fucked up shit for sure. she ridiculously good at her job and smart af. professionally commands a lot of respect, personally AWALT as all hell. Point is if she is competent treat her like she is competent. shouldn't stop or change your behavior.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 02:58 PM
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Not giving a fuck is waaay easer and can create similar results And if it doesn't ...... Fuck it who cares Not being lazy just rather focus my efforts else where
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 01:39 PM
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Fucking A back to the grind I go.... Thanks brother
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/17 09:31 PM
1

I had an ex literally hit her self in the face with a board to try to make it look like I beat her. I called the cops to intervene and had her 302'd. The psych word didn't keep her long but she got the point.
/r/askTRP31/07/17 09:18 PM
1

Ya I've read some shit about that. I'm definitely working on that but The problem I have is keeping it light, playfully, funny and sexual while still trying to be captain STFU
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/17 09:10 PM
2

This is fucking amazing! Thank you
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/17 09:03 PM
1

Been STFU and not giving a shit she has just been passive and quite. Don't know what to think about that. She's probably planning to leave or kill me or it's some epic shit tests which will continue for the remainder of this marriage
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/17 08:05 PM
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I'm still on the grind bro Wife has responded pretty well and seems to be in some odd state of passive shock She is either plotting my death or buying time until the divorce lawyer gets the case together lolol
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/17 07:56 PM
1

My bad. Instead of another update I should have just put it up as a new post in askmrp. Anyway to move it over?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/17 10:50 AM
1

There is some truth to that. Back to the side bar I go.....
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/17 04:40 AM
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Honestly maybe I fucked this one up. And made some rookie mistakes ,But I feel like I'm owning my shit. Also I'm now way more comfortable with the idea of my marriage ending if that's where it goes ......
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/17 04:38 AM
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Gaud man just fucking around with the monkeys comment. Lighten up. And if look at things I've responded to, I have no problem with harsh truth and criticism. Just trying to swallow this fucking pill. It's large and bitter af tho
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/17 04:34 AM
1

This is useful shit Thanks !
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/17 04:30 AM
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I get that you monkeys are gonna through shit. And that's fine but for fuck sake give me some direction or useful feedback ...
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/17 02:22 AM
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Ask a fucking question or some shit for fuck sake
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/17 01:53 AM
1

I took a looooot of shit for this post. because it is a complete wast of time but for some damn reason I still check her phone all the time. I need to let it go But I'm glad someone benefitted from it Thanks keep working !
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/17 05:24 PM
6

This is simple She will have a lot of sex And you will have a lot of free time
/r/askMRP24/07/17 01:24 PM
27

Sounds like she was young drunk and horny. Not really a big deal
/r/TheRedPill24/07/17 02:03 AM
3

Age doesn't matter there is always work to do. Keep working ......
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/17 04:31 PM
3

When I look at some of histories most epic Alphas, JFK, Sinatra, Steve McQueen They where ALL known for treating people well. they had class. But at the same time They where not guys that you'd wanna piss off. point being it's about earning respect not being a dick
/r/askTRP23/07/17 02:06 PM
2

I hear ya. I've definitely made progress and come a long way. I've seen her behavior change in ways that I honestly can't even fucking understand. I'm also enjoying working on me making decisions and just doing more shit I want to do. I know it's a complete wast of time But for some damn reason this one thing still burns my ass and holds me back. I do realize that until I figure this shit out all the progress I've made is really nul in void I'm open to suggestions on how to move passed this shit
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/17 01:30 PM
2

"It takes a wise man to know what he does not know" Solid post and you're rite side bar, side bar and more side bar
/r/TheRedPill20/07/17 06:02 PM
1

I looooooove to lift! Started at age 12. As a shorter guy it's always been gratifying to have one of the bigger benches and deadlifts in the gym. Keeps me on par with the young bucks and "alphas" But now that I'm 40 I've been having some problems with my shoulder elbows and knees. So I've varied my workouts. 1 month I lift heavy the next month I do body weight stuff, p90x and cardio. So far so good. Not as strong as I use to be. but fuck it my body feels a lot better, not as many aches and pains…
/r/askTRP20/07/17 04:15 PM
2

As a noob Im trying to find ways to make sure my posts and comments are as poignant and useful as they can be for a new guy. I'm going to use this a one of my guides when commenting and posting. Thanks
/r/TheRedPill20/07/17 03:13 PM
4

Ask war machine ...
/r/askTRP20/07/17 11:42 AM
5

Been working on this myself. Just for the simple principle of making decisions and taking that stress off of her. I really don't care where we fucking eat and I want her be happy so I would let her decide. This would result in a half hour conversation time suck. So now I just say let's go to bla bla bla. Or I just say let's go eat and don't even say where. It's worked pretty well. we got take out last week and I actually heard the words "you decide." It was very gratifying
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/17 11:30 AM
1

Damn dude! look I've done some beta shit but DAMN! She moved out and she is banging someone else. Move on The side bar helped me with my shit it will help you with yours
/r/askMRP19/07/17 06:12 PM
1

Ya that's fair and way more useful then just calling my rookie shit incoherent babble
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/17 01:30 PM
10

Ha! If we are being technical and shit if he wears a condom he never even touched her
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/17 11:06 AM
1

Awesome I'm glad I could contribute !!!!
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/17 06:42 AM
1

Fucking A you're totally right. I'd probably have the same insecure bull shit with the next girl
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/17 06:40 AM
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If you think my post incoherent babble then don't bother reading them. that's all I'm saying.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/17 06:36 AM
1

Yup sometimes I can be a man child If that's what you're getting at
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/17 10:25 PM
-1

Jesus fucking Christ you're welcome not to read then ......
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/17 09:44 PM
1

Can't you tell if keylogger is on your phone? Where can I get more info?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/17 07:51 PM
2

Thats the shit right there! Thx
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/17 07:34 PM
3

It's hard to ghost a wife but nexting is an option
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/17 07:22 PM
1

I like this. defiantly will next if i find anything flirty. I truly need strong boundaries on this considering her history. I accepted the possibility of moving on and she is aware
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/17 07:21 PM
1

For the record what I've seen sense I've been looking at her phone the past few months has only been conversational But still nexting is an option and the divorce conversations has happened
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/17 07:16 PM
1

I can't argue with any of that. I still believe if she cheats it's often because she was miss managed not properly led. if you don't try to learn form your shit you'll continue to do the same shit
/r/askMRP17/07/17 07:27 PM
1

Agreed it's not acceptable. I ask because insight in to her behavior can help offer some direction into your own. Also helps with closure. Which is not a bad thing when nexting
/r/askMRP17/07/17 06:15 PM
1

How did you find out about the affairs? Did she give you any reason for her behavior?
/r/askMRP17/07/17 04:20 PM
1

I'm making my comments based on the assumption that she was fully able to consent in all aspects and just being passive. like I said if she is piss drunk and shit just stop and go home
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 03:57 PM
1

Not what I'm saying. If you are fucking her (say she is a plate or ltr) and she regularly sexts and send nudes and shit to other guys. That is complete disrespect even if she has no physical contact. But just some basic flirty shit or what ever that might be different I'm not talking about letting yourself be an orbiter or some friend zone shit. I'm talking about how she handles orbiters when you are in some kind of relationship with her
/r/askTRP14/07/17 03:47 PM
-5

Unless she was passed the fuck out or complete piss drunk. (In which case you just stop and go the fuck home) she probably just wanted you to be a man and fucking take her.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 01:03 PM
1

Definitely a few pints followed by Planks/push-ups on top of hb6 or 7 Lolol!!!
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 12:57 PM
2

I've been both. I know I get more attention when I bulk up. But all in all it doesn't matter as long as you are in decent shape and have some level of game
/r/askTRP14/07/17 12:04 PM
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Also my 16 year old niece has orbiters so ya I think it's just ingrained from birth
/r/askTRP14/07/17 11:22 AM
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The question is where do you draw the line? When does it become disrespectful?
/r/askTRP14/07/17 11:21 AM
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Read the side bar
/r/askTRP04/07/17 12:30 PM
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I don't know all of the details but sounds like you are an orbiter and she is using you for validation. The hotter and more married they are the more orbiters they have
/r/askTRP04/07/17 12:28 PM
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I just finish doing a pilot program to teach leadership skill to youth with disabilities. It went well enough for me to start offering some other programming and services. I need to start working on getting more funding for that tho. I'm planning for this to be my full time job by summer 2018
/r/TheRedPill02/07/17 10:49 AM
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The dog is now 14 years old 2 masters degrees in counseling/psych field I've done private practice contract work and recently started a non profit
/r/TheRedPill30/06/17 07:28 PM
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Well fuck it then Carry on !
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 09:52 PM
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Look I'm not claiming to be chad or have it all figured out and I agree with some of what you're saying about perspective/context. But you can't tell me money any power don't increase SMV. The athletic, good looking guy with money and power is more alpha then a a guy who's just good looking. Because money and power increase his SMV great example would be JFK
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 09:50 PM
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Ya I was replying to multiple posts at one and just mistakenly posted this here I will attempt to delete Sorry Solid post I age
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 09:49 PM
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That is some logical and real shit!
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 07:44 PM
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Look I'm not claiming to be chad or have it all figured out and I agree with some of what you're saying about perspective. But you can't tell me money any power don't increase SMV. The athletic, good looking guy with money and power is more alpha then a a guy who's just good looking. Because money and power increase his SMV great example would be JFK
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 07:36 PM
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Ok bro. I'm gonna go enjoy being me and keep moving my life forward. Hope you do the same
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 05:34 PM
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I beg to differ Alpha is complete or competitive in all for mentioned aspects of life. You can't just do a few cycles go to the gym get a few shitty meaningless tats and be an alpha. It takes waaaaay more then that. I have little or no respect for your definition of alpha. maybe that guy get laid sure. But all he really is doing is fucking the alpha widows of guys who are also ripped, make 6 figures and have piles of social capital because they are not Jersey shore dusch bags Also "no barring on…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 04:04 PM
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New here and I found this post to be awesome. But all in all Ive found trp to be a mixed bag. Some posts are really helpful and a lot of comments on my posts have been invaluable to me. One example of how i've repeatedly seen shit go wrong on here: one post referred to a dude who was a tattooed drug dealer with a criminal record as a alpha because he treated girls like shit. To me this sounds like a complete fucking man child with no life. Not an alpha. I'm not 100% percent sure what all an alph…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 01:59 PM
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Most good looking worth while girls are in some kind of relationship I'll give you 3 things 1. She's probably looking to make you a potential branch. if she branch swings to you, at some point she will branch swing on to someone else Which leads to number 2 she's not yours it's just your turn 3. AWALT she will always have orbiters and potential branches. Because she can and needs constant validation
/r/askTRP29/06/17 01:32 PM
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I was in the same boat. Undergrad in social work. I was working 2 or 3 jobs for shit money. I went back to school worked full time and went to school full time. Some of the hardest and best days of my life. Got out of school and continued to work a full time job and a part time job just to clean up some debt. Got a dog so I could have a jogging/ hiking buddy. Didn't have a lot of money or time for dating or friends so I was almost forced to learn how to work on me and just focus on bettering my …
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 11:08 AM
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AWALT period that is all
/r/askTRP29/06/17 12:24 AM
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AWALT so you're gonna get what you're gonna get. It's all about YOU maintaining frame and being the captain
/r/askTRP28/06/17 11:39 AM
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caught her sexting a few years back. Went to therapy and all that bull shit. I was one blue pill mother fucker back then That's when I started to change and becoming red pill before actually finding red pill So I don't know about the she'll never be the same to me. And if you're rite and she's not then so be it hard next is an option
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 04:23 PM
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I've found that The uglies are more great full and more willing to do freaky shit
/r/askTRP26/06/17 04:09 PM
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I'm not tall I've heard this before I have the following responses 1.I'm much taller when I'm naked 2. who fucking cares 3. and your a 5 what's your point 4. Just keep talking or doing what I was doing If she legitimately is that shitty about it then just talk to her friends or anyone else The point is fuck it there are tooo many girls to waist time with this type of non sense
/r/seduction26/06/17 04:01 PM
1

I like to lift and definitely respectable strength wise. I know my supplements have a good stack. But lifting isn't helping me slim down and I hate cardio. So I'm taking 2 fitness classes because I want to drop a few pounds. I'm 40 years old so I blame some of this on age. anyway I do insanity class on Tuesday's and P90X on Thursday's. Tuesday's I'm literally the only guy in the class Thursdays there's 1 other bro in his 50's. Am I looser for being the only guy or is this a golden opportunity to…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 11:39 AM
1

Has anyone ever used key log on there girls phone? Did it work?
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 10:10 AM
4

This is 90% useless dumb shit. The other 10% is questionable at best. Approach everyone all the time don't be a fucking creep if she isn't responding go talks to someone else.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/17 03:09 PM
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She might be concerned about your reaction which means she cares about what you think. That's not a bad thing. But at the end of the day AWALT so she is going to look to her orbiters for validation regardless of what you think do or say. maintain frame and stop giving a fuck
/r/askTRP21/06/17 01:26 PM
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As a married guy Long time pua student new to red pill I'll say 4 things 1. her count isn't 12 2. AWALT 3 if shes worth keeping around and genuinely makes life better for you then do what you wanna do 4 never stop spinning plates she will always have orbiters and so should you. This is something I've recently come to terms with personally
/r/TheRedPill21/06/17 12:57 PM
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I don't wanna sound like a dick but who the fuck cares. This girl is a complete wast of time and I don't even think Rick James would fuck with that
/r/TheRedPill21/06/17 12:38 PM
1

Lololol!!!!! That could be possible
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 09:42 AM
1

I've had a few girls online ask for dick pics. not conformable doing that. And when I say no the conversation dies. any advice beyond move on to the next one ?
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 07:57 PM
1

AWALT mother fuckers that is all
/r/askTRP09/06/17 03:19 PM
3

Get professional help ASAP. Meds do wonders
/r/askTRP09/06/17 03:12 PM
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Clearly you give a fuck Stop doing that Here is my 3 step plan 1. Stop 2. Giving 3. a fuck Every time you think about giving a fuck refer back to the 3 step plan
/r/askTRP09/06/17 03:10 PM
2

Thanks for the insight Not giving a fuck is soooo god damn liberating !!!!!
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/17 01:21 PM
2

Ha! I have friends so I got that covered Thanks tho
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/17 10:20 AM
2

Great perspective I can definitely do that Thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/17 08:05 PM
1

Ha ya we kind of are besties. But honestly the sex has been pretty solid and frequent lately Hasn't always been the case tho If I wanted to smash I would just through some stupid line about how she doesn't need the dress and looks better naked bla bla bla Then tossed her on the bed
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/17 07:43 PM
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Ha I had to google tim gunn. But that's funny shit! Ya the wishy washy shit isn't helping my frame. that's gonna take a lot of work Great advise Thanks!
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/17 07:32 PM
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Do you have solid proof? That's the first point. You need to show him a pic or something. Other wise girls just deny till they die
/r/askTRP08/06/17 06:13 PM
1

And I agree I can and should be doing a better job leading. I need to be recognizing and using these opportunities to do so. Thanks pointing that out
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/17 06:07 PM
5

Really good point. I'm working towards a few things. One is definitely stfu. But I'm also working on frame. I'm not there to give her attention and pine over her when ever she wants. Attentions needs to be earned via reward for good behavior not acting like bratty child. I spent a lot of time dropping everything to meet her needs and wants even at the expense of my own. I'm trying to move passed that and make me a priority. I'm saying im the only priority but I definitely need to focus on me and…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/17 06:04 PM
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Ha so true attention is like friggen crack to them. I'm finding the less of it i give the more of it I get
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/17 05:20 PM
2

Solid feedback Thx
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/17 05:14 PM
1

Married guy and have slowly been swallowing trp. I've started opening girls again which I used to be really, really good at. But now that I'm married girls react way different. I think being married is giving me a creeper vibe. How does a married guy looking to spin plates open with looking like a creep?
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 02:42 PM
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Down grade her noooooooowwwww!!!!!!! Or just ghost
/r/askTRP07/06/17 01:57 PM
2

I'm new here and definitely trying to figure my own shit out. So I'm not judging but seriously WTF MAN!!!!!! Sorry to tell ya There only shared hobby is fucking. For god sake find your balls that's all i got.....
/r/askMRP07/06/17 01:52 PM
1

Ya thats definitely an option
/r/askMRP06/06/17 12:58 PM
1

Basicly I'm asking should I be concerned and what should I do ?
/r/askMRP28/05/17 12:54 AM
1

This was helpful. I need to get waaay better at this
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/17 06:21 PM
1

True. I'm also thinking it's possible that this type of behavior doesn't change. It might be just a matter of time I'm gonna be ready for that I've started packing my parachute Thx for the insight
/r/askMRP26/05/17 04:58 PM
1

I'm a supervisor so I've dealt with this a lot. I keep my boundaries and develop a mentoring relationship. I'm proud to say I've helped a number of work wives male and female move up and on to great things. I found that mentoring people or "having work wives" has helped me build a shit ton of social capital around the office which is also nice.
/r/askMRP26/05/17 02:50 PM
1

Stellar advice !!!!! Truth is have had been doing my own thing a lot. But at some point I dropped off. Maybe my frame was week and I got sucked back into hers? She has been different ever sense I started talking about starting my own business. I honestly think she is afraid of what will happen if I succeed But what I'm quickly learning is it all comes back to me. I have have to work towards my best self. but hay I like to work and I like to work out. Never had a problem getting a date. So I have…
/r/askMRP26/05/17 02:17 PM
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Been there myself and have been working through it. Where there is smoke there is fire. If she is sexting she is fucking. Work on you above all else! Eat red pill likes it's popcorn The good news is you now have a fat fist full of get out of jail free cards to cash in
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/17 01:27 PM
4

These aren't totally awful but they remind me of the old school PUA shit from back in the day
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 12:04 PM
1

there is definitely some truth to that Thx
/r/askMRP25/05/17 10:25 PM
2

I would lift more but there are only so many weights in the gym Beyond that very solid advice Thx!
/r/askMRP25/05/17 10:20 PM
1

Ya if she is in fact cheating I'd be fine moving along Thx
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/17 10:16 PM
1

Just did thx!
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/17 10:15 PM
1

Lololo! Ok so I'm gonna get a cage and put a dick in it when she goes in to get the dick I'll slam the cage shut Your right rookie shit but I didn't wanna post some never ending bull shit back story Basically caught her texting other guys in the past. She make changes I grew a pair shit got better. But sex has dropped of and I got that funny feeling......
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/17 10:14 PM
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