yes_we_can_t Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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7	Girls are getting fatter and fatter When a woman is over 25 BMI, they're never "just 2 lbs overweight". My gf would have to be 25-30 pounds overweight to reach 25 BMI.	/r/askTRP	28/11/20 12:40 AM
3	"Never Get Married". A Possible Exception...? I was in a similar situation, helping my gf through the last year of uni and later to start her own business. I didn't give her money directly but she didn't have to pay rent etc. Later I spent a few years on a startup. After it became clear that it was going to take much longer for it to become financially viable, I joked that perhaps she should support me this time around. Literally three months later we've broken up. That wasn't the only reason, but me not earning sufficient amount of money d…	/r/askTRP	30/09/19 09:14 AM
26	How should you handle "grass is greener on the other side" thoughts? It's not beta to be a happy man. It's not beta to have a strong purpose. Practicing gratefulness is shown to improve your mental state. I take some time regularly to be grateful because I am healthy, wealthy and don't have any significant problems in my life. Doesn't stop me from wanting more or better than I have, it only makes me in a better mental shape to get what I want.	/r/askTRP	28/09/19 03:56 PM
92	How should you handle "grass is greener on the other side" thoughts? Mindhack solution: Comparing yourself and what you have with people who has less can increase your happiness. Harder, but satisfying solution: Find a purpose that's more important to occupy your mind.	/r/askTRP	28/09/19 01:14 PM
1	How tf do you cold approach in the nordics? I start by greeting and then asking a question regarding the surrounding. Ask for their name, where they work etc. Its always 1 word answers. I feel like Im doing something wrong but I cant pinpoint what exactly. Does anyone from like Denmark or Sweden give some tips? Skip the formal greeting, and the question part sounds as weird as taking her out for fiskeboller on the first date. The only cold opening that had any chance of working for me when I was dating there was making a statement about s…	/r/askTRP	19/09/19 08:12 PM
1	Incels I know you're mad your comments got removed I didn't know they were removed and I don't care. They are living in their own scare propaganda bubble over there. Still believing the words that come out of a sluts mouth huh? You're just as bad as the bluepillers who believe anyone who cries rape should be believed. Yeah, I know for a fact LMR happens, and if you just fuck her then it's rape. There's no doubt about it. You don't know if she tells the truth or not. There are two options: She regrets i…	/r/TheRedPill	05/06/18 05:44 PM
1	Incels If betas and incels all had sex with attractive women, they wouldnt go on Elliot Rodger Rampages. So? Even that statement were true (it's not) it doesn't follow that women "must" do anything about it. Elliot had the opportunity to fuck attractive women just by paying for it. That's not what he wanted. Legalization of prostitution and not shaming anyone for using hookers might help the situation, but it won't solve the problem for everyone.	/r/TheRedPill	05/06/18 11:51 AM
1	Incels What the fuck is wrong with you? This is some incel type idiocy. Do you think everyone getting kidnapped/robbed/assaulted should be mocked because they can't take care of themselves? If you're ambushed there's fuck all you can do about it. If she says no and he fucks her against her will, that's literally rape even if she was naked and wet in his bed. If you're in that situation, the only way to fuck it up is by pushing. Just chill out and disengage, she will reinitiate. Every time I've experien…	/r/TheRedPill	05/06/18 10:46 AM
1	Incels Downvotes are totally warranted if you're saying shit like that. No, that's obviously not a "clear and perfect solution".	/r/TheRedPill	05/06/18 10:25 AM
9	Sorry Mario, your princess is in another castle brah. What the fuck is this lack of personal responsibility? If only there was a way you could make sure not to get more babies...	/r/MarriedRedPill	04/06/18 11:13 PM
5	Sorry Mario, your princess is in another castle brah. Depending on the situation I guess it could set the frame of her not being good enough for you. Still wouldn't recommend such an upsetting action unless that's a fact and you wish to shock her into your new frame. She is giving starfish to make the guy happier even if she doesn't feel attraction for him. I'd take it as an act of love and keep improving.	/r/MarriedRedPill	04/06/18 10:22 PM
6	Sorry Mario, your princess is in another castle brah. Accept it if you want it, get up in the middle if you're bored and want to stop (unlikely for a man in a DB). Neither will do anything about the core problem: She's not attracted to you.	/r/MarriedRedPill	04/06/18 09:50 PM
1	Becoming "autonomous", relying 100% on self. Being independent is better than being dependent (private victory), but you should realize what you can achieve alone is nothing compared to what you can achieve with others (interdependence / public victory). You should spend significant energy to find and build deep relationships with male friends that you can rely on.	/r/askTRP	04/06/18 05:21 PM
2	Approach Anxiety "program"? I used to have some crash and burn nights with a good friend. You go out intentionally to have fun and pull off the worst lines you can think of. Your precious ego will remain intact because you can blame your dumb lines, and when you've been rejected many times you know life goes on as if nothing happened.	/r/askTRP	26/04/18 02:21 PM
6	Does erotica count as porn? Are you lost? This isn't no-fap.	/r/askTRP	26/04/18 12:54 PM
2	Plates breaking and I feel like shit Most women actually want something more than just fucking after a while. If I don't want a relationship, I just let her decide: "I'm not interested in a relationship... but we can have fun if you want" Some break, others stay. If I want something more, I go after it. I enjoy exclusive relationships much more than banging plates.	/r/askTRP	26/04/18 12:53 PM
3	How did you start giving a fuck? Read and do the exercises in the first few chapters of The Seven Habits by Stephen Covey.	/r/askTRP	24/04/18 11:38 AM
7	How to respond to this kind of shit test? Not all women are useless. There's definitely evolutionary value in making and protecting at least some of your offspring, so it's natural that men has an instinct and desire to be in relationships. Both men and women get wildly incorrect advice on how to act in dating and relationships, so you have to expect that women are going to pull stupid shit like this. If you're dating or plating attractive women it's also a naturally occurring shit test so better be ready for it. My go-to response is co…	/r/askTRP	24/04/18 11:36 AM
5	Wanna-be-alpha trying to pick on me, pours a drink on my head. Critique me. That's the smarter and smoother way of dealing with these kinds of idiots. This thread is full of internet tough guys who "know" that legally you're entitled to knock a guy out if he makes you wet. I'm not against using violence, but it's a last resort and definitely within legal boundaries (self-defense or an immediate threat). I'm not interested in jail time for beating up idiots.	/r/askTRP	25/02/18 10:59 PM
-3	Wanna-be-alpha trying to pick on me, pours a drink on my head. Critique me. You sound like people arguing against seatbelts. Sure, 99.999..% of the time you're fine without it. Perhaps 99.999% of the time bar and street fights are not seriously harmful either.	/r/askTRP	25/02/18 10:34 PM
19	How can I best use money for red pill ends? As always, depends on what you want. Fuckboy life? Buy fuckboy things, immaterial shit like a fast gorgeous car, designer clothes/hair, go to whatever's hot and trendy this week, drop a few grand on table service etc. Whatever looks good in a selfie works very well. Meaningful life, with one or a few women in deeper relationships? That's what I'm trying to do now. Focusing on my mission, building wealth and skills, while enjoying my time with her. Refusing to marry, always ready to throw her out…	/r/askTRP	21/02/18 11:42 PM
3	People who argue, while interrupting while you speak your position. Is she a paying client, or a fellow employee? Usually in these situations everyone knows that this person is completely useless, compulsively lying/exaggerating or is otherwise unreliable and a drag, so I typically just call their bluff. "Sure. In fact, I'll get him here right now so we can figure out a solution to this issue."	/r/askTRP	21/02/18 11:03 PM
1	How do I avoid Age shaming from women my age or older? If you haven't noticed yet, teenage girls often hook up with guys who are 1-2 years older, and not the other way around. Improve your SMV and go find yourself some 17 year olds.	/r/askTRP	21/02/18 07:57 AM
4	18 & Swallowing The Pill - Need Workout Advice Check out the newbie plans and nutrition info on /r/Fitness. Working out like you do is just inefficient, not bad, unless you do it with bad form and injure yourself.	/r/askTRP	21/02/18 07:24 AM
1	Have I fucked up? A virgin refuses to join sex parties because he's too dignified. News at 11.	/r/askTRP	21/02/18 07:10 AM
3	Have I fucked up? She wouldn't be with you if she had any lingering interest in sleeping with or dating anyone else. Hahahahah. Weird how people are cheating and not breaking up instead, right?	/r/askTRP	21/02/18 07:03 AM
2	Society beginning to tackle the issue of male genital mutilation (aka circumcision) I didn't forget it, I told you where you were objectively wrong.	/r/TheRedPill	20/02/18 09:31 PM
35	I hate that TRP is the truth, but it is. A 9 month relationship is nothing, look at the guys over at married red pill taking back the reins or burning the house down in the process.	/r/TheRedPill	20/02/18 07:16 PM
2	Society beginning to tackle the issue of male genital mutilation (aka circumcision) If I'm objectively wrong, tell me. Ok. Male circumcision does no harm The foreskin has a ton of sensitive nerve endings. It's definitely the most pleasurable part of my dick. I would sure as hell miss it if it was suddenly gone, so I define it as harm to do it to another man. Circumcission is a hygiene thing Most of the world is actually uncircumcised. There's nothing unhygienic about it, you just pull back your foreskin and clean it with soap and it's not smelly (and dick apparently tastes grea…	/r/TheRedPill	20/02/18 06:53 PM
8	Society beginning to tackle the issue of male genital mutilation (aka circumcision) Don't remove more than necessary. I had tight foreskin when I was a kid, but the doctors tried their best to save as much as they could. It's more cut open than removed as in a circumcision. I praise those beautiful professionals every time I feel a woman's tongue on my foreskin.	/r/TheRedPill	20/02/18 06:44 PM
1	LTR keeps repeating that I am lucky to have her Ignore it and internalise that your are better than her and can drop her at any time If he's not, then he needs to become obviously (in his own mind) better than her, and then there's no need to internalize anything. Avoid behavior that reeks of faking.	/r/askTRP	19/02/18 12:51 PM
2	Plate acting hostile after seeing pics of me with another girl in a romantic setting. How should I have the situation? If you hadn't left out that you actually said yes to exclusivity in your other post you'd have gotten better advice.	/r/askTRP	17/02/18 09:39 PM
1	The Reasons for Oneitis and PMS from an Evolutionary Standpoint Funny.	/r/MarriedRedPill	17/02/18 10:31 AM
11	Doesn't getting exhausting have to calculate every move you are going to make with a woman? You're pretty much describing old PUA and noobs that don't bother reading the theory. Tactics tactics tactics, faking attractive signals. Red pill is the distillation of experimentation and experience into much simpler guidelines that don't require tactics. Example: PUAs found out that it's better to pretend being busy than to tell the truth. Red pill tells you that if you're actually living a busy life full of interesting activities you don't have to pretend. Only then is there congruency. Word…	/r/askTRP	17/02/18 01:30 AM
1	If men want to spend their lives at the gym, go for it! No, a man can lift without ever becoming attractive to most women. However, it certainly is great advice for someone who wants to become more attractive. In fact, it works so well and has so many benefits that I think even guys who hate it should do it, assuming they are able to do it with correct form so they're not injuring themselves. It improves body and discipline, both very attractive features. And it's not obvious advice, like your condescending "looking attractive is attractive". What is…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/18 01:19 AM
1	If men want to spend their lives at the gym, go for it! That's not a true statement.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/18 12:02 AM
4	Whiskey Dick and it’s prevalence. Haha, I know that feeling. Just wait until it happens when you're completely sober... then it really fucks with your mind. And you know that if you're afraid it'll happen again, you're actually making it more likely. Great example of a negative spiral. Happened to me a few times in my life, especially with a new girl that I actually consider GF material. Couldn't get it up for a week or two with my current LTR. Flip her around and fingerfuck her to orgasm, then tell them (and yourself!) this hap…	/r/askTRP	16/02/18 11:55 PM
1	If men want to spend their lives at the gym, go for it! No, there's no reason to think people are that stupid. I just picked guitar as an obvious example. There are many hobbies that are attractive to women, and most of them are actually really fun and creative.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/18 11:24 PM
1	If men want to spend their lives at the gym, go for it! That playing the guitar is more attractive to women than playing video games? Probably, to the largest majority of women. That's why it's good advice for someone who wants to become attractive to the largest majority of women. But again, if you hate playing the guitar, what good is it to attract a women that wants you to play it? Nobody recommends anyone who hates playing the guitar to play the guitar. Though, why do you think they would hate it? I like playing games, and I like playing the guit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/18 10:01 PM
2	Thoughts/input on leadership? I recently wrote a comment about what real leadership looks like. Real leadership makes people want to follow you, not just because you have the authority or force. I checked out your comments, especially your last OYS. Keep up the great work. I recommend that you turn down your dominance games about 7 notches and keep putting all your effort into self improvement.	/r/askMRP	16/02/18 09:44 PM
1	If men want to spend their lives at the gym, go for it! Yet another straw man. Why don't you discuss what I actually said, instead of your ideas of what TRP is all about?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/18 09:18 PM
1	If men want to spend their lives at the gym, go for it! It's a straw man because I didn't say what you pretended I said.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/18 08:59 PM
1	If men want to spend their lives at the gym, go for it! Great job building a straw man and then tearing it down.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/18 08:09 PM
1	If men want to spend their lives at the gym, go for it! Do you disagree with anything in my comment?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/18 07:45 PM
2	Thoughts/input on leadership? So you're like almost all men on the planet. That's great. It is attractive that you have your own mind and that you're doing stuff without her, but this has nothing to do with being a leader or a captain. The captain of this ship seems to go rowing on his own to an island and hoping the rest of the crew waits for him when he decides to come back.	/r/askMRP	16/02/18 06:46 PM
2	If men want to spend their lives at the gym, go for it! No need to search, I'll say it right here: Gaming is not an attractive hobby, and many games are intentionally designed to trigger addictive behavior by doling out a steady stream of dopamine. Quitting gaming is great advice for boys who try to learn discipline and become attractive men. Have a look at /r/StopGaming for some stories, e.g. https://www.reddit.com/r/StopGaming/comments/7xrykt/weekends_are_so_different_without_video_games/ I don't think it's bad to game or have nerdy hobbies. It's j…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/18 06:36 PM
1	Thoughts/input on leadership? You "checked the logistics"? What the hell do you mean by that? If I "checked the logistics", she would be able to come with me. It's as simple as arranging a babysitter.	/r/askMRP	16/02/18 06:17 PM
2	If men want to spend their lives at the gym, go for it! Funny how misrepresented the main topic is in a forum that's supposedly about debating it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/18 06:01 PM
1	But i just said Good Morning? Kind of burying the lead. Probably you weren't speaking clearly either, with your headphones in.	/r/askTRP	16/02/18 04:19 PM
1	Did I overreact by soft-nexting a plate because of this? Long-story short I tried to find out what she's so busy with Why care what she's so busy with? Also on Valentines day it's almost certainly another guy. she said "sorry I can't be ready by 9pm, we can meet after that or some other day". After that I said that she should have told me earlier and proceeded to soft-next her Butthurt. Better to just say no problem, and hook up with her after the first girl or another day. Proceed like nothing happened.	/r/askTRP	16/02/18 01:13 AM
4	Unknowingly dreading a world class hamster. Need advice You have no idea what the book is about.	/r/askMRP	08/02/18 11:19 PM
8	How do you deal with you're wife speculating your presence at work? Just so you don't misunderstand me, I'm really asking if you have high standards for yourself, not if you've been a dominating alpha who decided everything and made her clean. A leader isn't afraid to get down and dirty to get things up to his standards. Here's a great example: Anyway, on the first day working for the Sergeant Major, I didn’t know what to expect. I was sure it was going to be terrifying, but it had to be better than washing dishes and clearing tables all day long (and it’s not l…	/r/askMRP	30/01/18 07:07 PM
3	Need Some Help Analyzing Wife's Offer For Duty Sex No. A better default is always do what you want. Do YOU want to have starfish sex? If yes, do it and fuck her hard for your pleasure, she's only doing it to make you happy anyway. If you don't want to, don't do it. Is accepting under those circumstances somehow reinforcing that prior behavior that I want to change? Stop trying to change her. Only focus on becoming an attractive man for your woman. You are the cause of her lackluster sex and "anxiety". I used to be like you, so caring and so atte…	/r/askMRP	29/01/18 10:16 PM
6	How do you deal with you're wife speculating your presence at work? Oh sure, you share her standards, I don't doubt it. The interesting question is whether you set that level of standard.	/r/askMRP	29/01/18 04:14 PM
15	How do you deal with you're wife speculating your presence at work? If my woman had asked me that I'd ask her to send me a video of her tits. She has to prove she's not my mom. This probably reveals some deep problems in your relationship, and those are your responsibility. Do you make her have to act like your mom? Answer these two questions: Are you on top of things, or is she? Are your standards for your living space, the house, cleanliness, your kids (education/life/nutrition etc), sex, yourself etc. higher than hers? Your few words imply that your answer is…	/r/askMRP	29/01/18 03:41 PM
63	Nice guy over on the dating advice sub respects the shit out of his date and doesn't understand why she ends up grinding on another guy in the club Does that mean saying you're not interested in sex is the biggest pussy dryer out? That's a big fat Yes. Asking this means you should read (reread?) the Book of Pook. It took me far too long to get that women are attracted to masculinity. In retrospect it's pretty damn obvious, but I was so mired in the blue pill equality thinking that I didn't understand why they weren't attracted.	/r/TheRedPill	29/01/18 01:00 PM
0	So you don't get through LMR, what happens next? Getting past LMR is the art of seduction, cupcake.	/r/askTRP	29/01/18 02:53 AM
0	So you don't get through LMR, what happens next? Oh, you were not talking about seduction. Then what the hell were you talking about? Try being less autistic.	/r/askTRP	28/01/18 03:06 PM
0	So you don't get through LMR, what happens next? I said it was a great post, but when you say that any part of seduction is "all about persistence" you're giving bad advice. Wrong focus, wrong frame, wrong attitude.	/r/askTRP	28/01/18 12:25 PM
2	So you don't get through LMR, what happens next? Great post, but I think this gives the wrong message: LMR is all about persistence. No, that's how you become Aziz. Push/pull, seduction may take some persistence, but beating LMR is all about not giving a fuck whether she sleeps with you or not. It's really attractive to her if you display zero neediness. This is yet another reason why you shouldn't pay anything for her, or invest in her in any way until she has slept with you. It's difficult not feeling any negative emotions if you've put real…	/r/askTRP	27/01/18 02:12 PM
1	My LTR gets mad whenever I don't spend time with her Some clinginess is good in my opinion, but her getting mad for nothing is not ok. Shitty attitude is not ok. Disrespect is not ok. If you get used to it she will lose attraction too. I've been through that before. Nowadays I don't tolerate negativity like that and I tell her to shut up, to get out, I hang up on her, whatever. She can be with me if she makes my life better. LTRs should not require work. Surprise, surprise, she tells me she's so happy to be with me and I get morning blowjobs and a…	/r/askTRP	27/01/18 01:52 AM
4	TRP Children’s Book I just say there are many girls that can be "The One".	/r/TheRedPill	19/01/18 11:22 PM
3	Relationship is sinking S.O.S! Are you sure you're not fit to be a mom, or is this an idea he has given you? He doesn't sound fit to be a spouse, not to mention being a father. You failed vetting, love makes you blind. It happens. How many years do you want to continue like this? Good luck finding a great man when you're 35.	/r/RedPillWomen	18/01/18 11:48 AM
1	What is your and your captain’s opinions on navel piercings? Sure, if you never go to the beach, it's private.	/r/RedPillWomen	18/01/18 10:12 AM
1	askTRP Megathread January 17 First example is dominating, not escalating, unless she thought she was meeting you as Just a Friend™. Second is clowning around, if she thought it was funny perhaps I'd ask her out but sounds like it's a class/work situation and I don't shit where I eat. Third is metoo material which will put off pretty much all girls. Also shitting where you eat. I was talking about physically escalating. You have to be very comfortable with touching people. Btw. pulling off escalating very quickly is hard unl…	/r/TheRedPill	18/01/18 01:06 AM
6	askTRP Megathread January 17 Failing what? No specifics, so here's some generic crap advice: If you're learning when you're failing you're doing it right. If you never try you never fail... Yes, you just escalate quickly. Most girls love to be fucked by an attractive guy, though very few likes being unceremoniously dumped after. Not really related to your questions, but it's usually better not to close the door completely, just like a woman dangling the possibility of a physical relationship for her orbiters, you can keep t…	/r/TheRedPill	17/01/18 02:17 PM
4	Ex on Tinder You feel bad? Remember the point of feelings is to motivate you to change. Use this pain for what it's worth. YOU are in the market for new mates.	/r/askTRP	15/01/18 08:09 PM
11	The Humiliation of Aziz Ansari If your point is that if he was more attractive this wouldn't be a problem, you're right. Be hot enough and you can be as needy as a baby and still get laid (though badly). I'm making a different point. If he wasn't so needy he'd probably not been on the front page today. This has nothing to do with blue pill game, only seduction. Secondly, I'm repeating a well proven way to beat LMR: Chill out. I'm using PUA lingo, because it's more specific and useful than "Be attractive, hold frame!" Much of …	/r/TheRedPill	15/01/18 07:48 PM
37	The Humiliation of Aziz Ansari The actual conclusion to this, is the only way, was for him to be more viscerally attractive. Nah, he could have been way more smooth in seducing her. His behavior was needy, which lowers his attractiveness leaps and bounds. E.g. her lmr where she tells him to chill, he should be disaffected, but withdraw attention completely. Chill a bit, then reconnect at a level she's comfortable with. Even telling her to leave if she's not interested is a better strategy than immediately picking up at a hard…	/r/TheRedPill	15/01/18 06:17 PM
1	How to be productive and build passive income? Check out the Foolish Adventure podcast. Start from the beginning.	/r/askTRP	16/12/17 06:46 AM
3	Finally getting matches on Tinder but I just realized something... If you have to ask, you can't do it Crap answer.	/r/askTRP	04/12/17 09:15 PM
11	The most bluntly stated overt dread statement ever, and it worked. Worth trying again? Easiest way to be unattractive is to be needy.	/r/askMRP	04/12/17 07:56 PM
4	The girl at my gym. Check out "When I say No I Feel Guilty". It's an easy read that teaches some really great techniques for smoothly handling manipulative requests in the moment without needing to spend any energy to figure out a clever reply.	/r/TheRedPill	01/12/17 02:05 PM
15	Is dating girls taller than you that difficult? No, it's not a big deal. My face is full of scars from cystic acne. I can't really grow a full beard to cover up my weak chin. I'm losing my hair. Are these things big deals? Incel types believe any one of them is a death sentence, just like being short. I needed to work way harder on my skills than most people, but now I inspire intense desire in many attractive women. I've been having sex almost daily for the last three-four years since my previous LTR dumped me. Keep doing your thing and neve…	/r/askTRP	12/11/17 02:25 PM
1	Grew up without a dad. I’m now 21. Where can I find a masculine mentor/role model? Most guys will be cool if you are humble and work hard. When I was about 19 I found a mentor who believed in me more than my own father. I've since felt like I have had two fathers. Many men deeply enjoy sharing knowledge.	/r/askTRP	12/11/17 02:06 PM
1	How could I not hate women? Not with that attitude! Seriously though, you don't become a beta provider if you take steps to avoid it. I easily earn 5-10x what my LTR is able to get, but that doesn't mean I'm her wallet. Everything is in my name. My apartment, my mortgage, my tropical island apartment, my cars, my dog, my everything. Sure, she benefits a lot from having access to these things and living with me, but she's only around as long as she gives me sufficient value besides frequent sex. She cooks, cleans, shops, wa…	/r/askTRP	12/11/17 12:16 AM
5	Why do women's looks (or at least a LOT of women's looks) seem to PLUMMET so rapidly as compared with men's? What is the science behind this? For the mental illness classifications, it's not about the age, it's about the developmental stage: Pre-pubescent, early puberty, late puberty, fully grown. It's completely normal to be aroused by kids that are in late puberty. Most 18 year old girls is in that category, some develop earlier, some later.	/r/askTRP	11/11/17 10:36 PM
3	Why do women's looks (or at least a LOT of women's looks) seem to PLUMMET so rapidly as compared with men's? What is the science behind this? Technically, pedophilia means attraction to children that has not even reached puberty, as in younger than 9-11 years.	/r/askTRP	11/11/17 08:43 PM
2	"Fooled" To be a dad, cant take it anymore... suicidal thoughts come and go Yeah, you made yourself a son. Now you've got real adult responsibilities. Two weekends in a month is nothing anyway, compared to what single dads do. Don't come here and think using that as an excuse for not achieving your goals will fly. Work hard as hell to improve your situation, while making the best of whatever is right now.	/r/askTRP	11/11/17 08:34 PM
1	Shall I go or just cut with her now! So you're planning to spend 4 days doing something you're not really interested in, just to see one concert? And is this the concert in Abu Dhabi? If so, then just skip the entire shithole. Having sex without being married is illegal. "Anyone indulging in the crime of indecent assault with mutual consent shall be punished by detention for at least one year." Fuck staying any place like that. Sell the ticket, go to one of the other of his concerts. If you can't cancel the flight, reschedule it an…	/r/askTRP	11/11/17 04:15 PM
2	Girlfriend won't blow me anymore. What to do? In my experience, many girls react very badly to having their head moved towards a dick. Instead, I recommend straddling her just before sex instead. She should be pretty horny and enthusiastic at that point. If not, it's time to look for better options.	/r/askTRP	11/11/17 03:54 PM
1	Shall I go or just cut with her now! Did you pay for her ticket?	/r/askTRP	11/11/17 03:23 PM
3	About to sh*t where I don’t eat I don't understand why people here are so into ghosting. What do you hope to achieve? I'm almost always sleeping with a woman more than once. Say you're going back to wherever you are now for a weekend? Play it right and you have an easy hookup.	/r/askTRP	11/11/17 11:32 AM
1	If I know a woman is hell bent on destroying my reputation at work behind my back, should I be worried? How can I make her stop? Dealing with this kind of shit depends a lot on the situation. Very much depends on your perceived value to the company vs. her value, your social skills, her social skills etc. For example, are any of your coworkers your friends? If nobody has told you about her backstabbing, then the answer is probably no. Personally I would work hard to get her removed, and failing that, find somewhere better to be. It's very easy for me to find a new job if I want, so I'm not staying anywhere where I'm not h…	/r/askTRP	11/11/17 11:27 AM
1	What should I focus on after break up? Girls, gym or career? I disagree with that order. Gym should have highest priority. It doesn't take much time, and it has benefits for your brain so it helps the career part too. I know that when I don't "have time" to go to the gym, I'm working too much, direction burnout.	/r/askTRP	11/11/17 11:04 AM
9	Is it cucked to take a girl to dinner on first date? "Hey, mind if I sleep at your place?" That's what I said, and that's what I did. She's my LTR now.	/r/askTRP	11/11/17 10:52 AM
1	The only way to get out of oneitis is to get sick of her ? Never intentionally poison your mind. That's a shitty road to go down. When you are having strong feelings, turn those feelings into fuel for your own self-improvement.	/r/askTRP	11/11/17 10:36 AM
1	Plate gets upset over the idea of a threesome when she mentioned it in the first place Once I went out with my latina friend for her birthday, a long-time friend of my ex. In the group there was a hot chick, and later in the club we were making out. When we were leaving, we couldn't find the little latina. Soon after I received a barrage of messages: "Bye bye" "You are not a good person" "You are the worst!" "I informed [the mother of my ex] what type of person you are" (the mother of my ex, wtf?) "I'm sure your ex will be happy now" (wtf again?) etc. etc.. then she blocked me. Wh…	/r/askTRP	11/11/17 10:28 AM
1	The only way to get out of oneitis is to get sick of her ? No. Go get other girls.	/r/askTRP	11/11/17 10:01 AM
2	It is extremely difficult for me to watch what they do and not what they say. I'm so fucking frustrated Extremely gullible, you say? Why don't we sit down and play some poker? Seriously though, it's not so bad to take what people say at face value unless they're joking and you're not picking up on it. Usually this quote is said in the context of women saying they want nice guys but for some inexplicable reason they're not their type. How exactly is this a problem for you?	/r/askTRP	11/11/17 02:45 AM
1	You can't escape the bullshit. If it's beta to exclusively get your balls emptied by sex, I don't mind being one.	/r/askTRP	11/11/17 12:40 AM
3	If I know a woman is hell bent on destroying my reputation at work behind my back, should I be worried? How can I make her stop? First of all, is your spying legal? If not, that should be your biggest worry. That will ruin your reputation for sure, and it'd be all your fault. I'm curious how you handle it when she's insulting you in front of others. when I told her I would “help” her only after she showed me her work (instead of doing it for her) she insulted me in front of other women coworkers. That's not a very smooth way of rejecting a coworker, but what kind of insults are you talking about? How did you reply?	/r/askTRP	11/11/17 12:18 AM
2	Fucked up with my mum Was 17 when I quit weed, 19 when I quit party drugs, 31 when I finally managed to quit smoking for good. Nicotine made me her bitch like nothing else. Personally weed affects me a lot more than most, much more than ecstasy/amphetamines, for much longer. I almost can't feel the effects of cocaine, but weed makes me measurably dumber for up to a week later (e.g. using chess ratings). Regardless, for me it was really easy to quit it compared to the rest. Not really any withdrawals to speak of, just…	/r/askTRP	10/11/17 01:19 PM
2	Fucked up with my mum Haha, I can relate, my mom threw me out when I admitted to partying hard and doing ecstasy back in '99, and she's an atheist progressive liberal. I moved to my father and we were talking all night and I decided to quit it. Easily the best decision of my life, also because it allowed me to connect deeply with my father. Looking at most the guys I used to party with, they're mostly stuck in dreary lives while I've been spending my life traveling the world. Might not be easy, for example you may ne…	/r/askTRP	10/11/17 10:50 AM
1	Men, women and their different reactions to the real masculinity Not surprising, since David is a teen. Donatello's David looks like a cocky kid. Check out Michelangelo's Moses for a significantly buffer dude.	/r/MarriedRedPill	10/11/17 10:23 AM
4	Cheap Sex: The Transformation of Men, Marriage, and Monogamy by Mark Regnerus Now jam a knife into your muscle and see how long it takes to heal. Oh, it takes fucking weeks? Better not train more than once a month then, according to your dumb-ass logic. Don't compare things that are not related... 1-3 days, sure. More than that is not necessary.	/r/TheRedPill	10/11/17 09:10 AM
1	Mission It's completely normal to not be sure at 19. Personally I chose programming, a career that lets me travel (only need internet), and where it's easy to start and run a business on your own. Check out the Foolish Adventure podcast to get some inspiration and great free education on how start an online business.	/r/askTRP	10/11/17 01:14 AM
7	Just went and got myself rejected by my oneitis Boy hits on crush, she turns him down. Instead of becoming an orbiter, he imagines himself doing massive self-improvement and dreams of conquering the world. This part is common. Let's check in in three months for the next episode of "Boy becomes a man (or not)".	/r/askTRP	09/11/17 11:54 PM
2	Depression and the captain Sounds like you're doing everything right. Too bad meds don't work for him. My mother (works as a occupational therapist) says ECT sometimes does wonders when nothing else works. It's not what you probably expect from media portrayal.	/r/RedPillWomen	08/11/17 12:09 AM
2	Depression and the captain Link to your post To link, you can either copy/paste the address, or put it in brackets, then parenthesis: [description](address)	/r/RedPillWomen	07/11/17 11:59 PM
4	Depression and the captain During the last 10 years I've had a couple periods of depression. In case it helps you understand, I'll write about my experiences. I'm usually very happy guy, I wake up in the morning and feel great for no reason. So, it's very disconcerting when wake up feeling like crying and I don't want to do anything except hide under a blanket. In my last (more bluepilled) long term relationship, I leaned heavily on my girlfriend during my depression. Sadly, this led to a loss of attraction, and more and …	/r/RedPillWomen	07/11/17 11:47 PM
9	The Red Pill Cheat Sheet It doesn't have to be positive, it doesn't have to be "toxic". Both works.	/r/TheRedPill	04/11/17 11:01 AM
3	In dire need of some advice She has lost attraction, unfortunately. The only correct response to "I want a break" is a cheerful "ok, bye!". Don't chase her. Don't do anything extra or special for her. In this situation it's 100% counterproductive. Act as if the relationship over and you might save it. Instead of using any energy on her, exploit your feelings as fuel for self improvement. Feelings are the catalyst for changing your situation for the better. Use them. Redouble your focus on self improvement, especially socia…	/r/askTRP	04/11/17 04:10 AM
1	Bringing up the Topic of LTR with a Girl I don't understand what you were tired of.	/r/askTRP	04/11/17 03:41 AM
1	Tips/Advice on getting a hooker There was a post about it on the main sub a few months ago: /r/TheRedPill/comments/6d5po9/hiring_an_escort_is_like_hiring_any_other_service/ Probably more if you search. There's a subreddit dedicated to it as well, but I don't remember the name. You'll probably get better help there. Do your research.	/r/askTRP	04/11/17 02:36 AM
2	Banter or disrespect? Good job standing up for yourself and being willing to walk away. You have the right attitude, don't accept this shit. You might enjoy this video about how to handle a good friend being disrespectful. I've talked seriously to a friend about a disrespect issue before, he stopped and we're still good friends. Btw. I recommend learning the skill of Fogging and Broken Record before having a serious talk with him. They're some great verbal techniques from the book "When I Say No I Feel Guily" that ma…	/r/askTRP	02/11/17 05:49 PM
2	Virgin Ends It During Foreplay. Continue to See Her? I'm one of the few LTR lovers here, but why exactly do you want an LTR? Everything is significantly easier with plates, and you should be great at spinning plates before you settle down.	/r/askTRP	02/11/17 04:07 PM
1	Virgin Ends It During Foreplay. Continue to See Her? I think there should be a rule in askTRP to always include what you want. Being a man involves taking the time to figure out what you want. So, /u/throwawaysouflee, what do you want? Figure it out, and we can help you make it happen. Or tell you it's hopeless, a bad idea, or whatever.	/r/askTRP	02/11/17 03:52 PM
2	My reputation sucks among my peers, I've become borderline isolated and don't know how to bounce back. Push yourself out of your comfort zone. Read the Way of the Superior Man chapters about purpose and pushing your limits. I suggest going to Toastmasters for getting less isolated, learning valuable skills and challenge yourself. Also perhaps read Models by Manson, he sets out a pretty clear path for self improvement and dating.	/r/askTRP	02/11/17 01:43 AM
3	Haven't gotten laid since college, what am I doing wrong? You have to be more specific. Where in the process do you have a problem?	/r/askTRP	02/11/17 01:21 AM
22	Should you treat women like shit? No, never treat women like shit. Be an awesome guy. Build an awesome life, let them be part of it. Be playful, tease, have fun.	/r/askTRP	02/11/17 01:19 AM
1	LTR falling apart - she "feels trapped". Sent me email describing her feelings Completely agree. Fuck the 50/50. I used to do that when I was bluepilled and it went as well as you could expect. Declining sex/attraction, constant problems, nagging, exactly what people think a typical relationship involves. Now I'm showing that I'm owning my shit, holding my space to a high standard and telling/showing her how to clean when it's not good enough. I want to live in a clean, good looking place, so I make sure it is. I'm taking care of things, and making a point to do all the tr…	/r/askTRP	01/11/17 09:01 PM
9	Is there a catch with Asian chicks? Doesn't matter what other people want. Just figure out what the fuck you want.	/r/askTRP	01/11/17 08:23 PM
2	Sex with one of the hottest girls I've ever seen goes very wrong. What should I do? Idiotic. Just shut the fuck up if you're not sure of what you're talking about. Sure, if you're really fucked up on amphetamines and cocaine, it can be hard to get it up, but you can also be going at it for hours. Medical doses of AHDH medication are nothing compared to what people are fucking on using recreational drugs. I'm on AHDH meds and I fuck almost daily without any issues.	/r/askTRP	01/11/17 08:15 PM
69	"Tired of lies and game players. Are there any GOOD men left??" Lol, I hope you're trolling here. If not, you might know I'm red pilled too, and I can tell you I've been with quite a few women who's had a lot of different sized cocks, and very few had a "roastie" look. Even a 48 year old nympho who's had 2 kids and more cocks than I'm willing to imagine, and she had the clean shaven porn star look. Labia don't grow or get stretched/discolored from getting pounded. It's just genetics. I've only heard this crap from /r/incels until now, and I'm sure most of th…	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	31/10/17 12:43 AM
2	When sex isn't enough You're a smart guy, you can find some excuses. The easiest way to achieve it without showing any neediness is to travel with her, but anyway some neediness is okay. (removed some personal info) Note: It's very unlikely you can turn this girl around	/r/askTRP	28/10/17 11:54 PM
1	When sex isn't enough I told you. Spend time with her every day.	/r/askTRP	28/10/17 11:24 PM
6	When sex isn't enough Feelings often develop if a girl you're fucking spends significant exclusive time with you. That's one reason why it's important to have many plates, to minimize the chances of them catching feelings and you have to drop them.	/r/askTRP	28/10/17 11:16 PM
2	Looking for other's opinion on this family situation. Personally I'd go in a heartbeat, even if that meant taking a loan. I love to travel, and spend pretty much all the money I'm not investing on it. Maybe focus on how you want to see the world if they try to make it about family, but sounds like they just make up excuses. I really recommend reading "When I say No I Feel Guilty" to learn some easy verbal skills to defuse manipulation.	/r/askTRP	28/10/17 09:52 PM
2	What am I missing? I worked exceptionally hard at the company I worked for. I was tired of studying, so decided to take a year off to decide what to do. It was a pretty basic data entry job at a small software company, but I gave it my all, suggesting some changes to the program we were using and asked if I could make some changes myself. The CTO noticed, and within half a year I was working as a full time junior programmer there, him teaching me what I needed to know. We've been working together on and off since.	/r/askTRP	28/10/17 09:39 PM
2	What am I missing? Impossible to guess what's your problem, your post is all over the place. Could be just a slump, beginnings of a real depression, stress/uncertainty, whatever. I deal with all those in the same way though: consistent sleep routine and meditation. Whenever my life feels particularly fucked, or my strength is faltering, I start doing a simple meditation routine in the mornings. Doesn't take much time and I get real benefits. No one gives a shit about me Welcome to Earth. I suggest to search for go…	/r/askTRP	28/10/17 09:07 PM
1	2 girls in 1 day What do guys do when they say no to coming to yours? Say 'Okay' with no hard feelings. Then back off. Change the subject. Show her you dgaf, you're not a needy guy. That's how you deal with LMR anyway. You don't beg, coerce, push or harass her, you back off, deescalate. I suggest avoiding physical contact entirely until she reinitiates. She's naked in your bed for a reason. Read this, especially the comments.	/r/askTRP	28/10/17 07:54 PM
4	So a guy slapped my girl's ass when we were walking at night... Who gives a shit?	/r/askTRP	28/10/17 07:19 PM
2	Share your own #metoo stories No fault? If you break into someone's locked room and rape them, it's clear who's at fault, intoxicated or not.	/r/TheRedPill	26/10/17 10:07 PM
1	Looking for Advice. Girl is pissed. Don't shit were you eat. Don't nag. Don't deflate her ego(?). In general don't be a negative dick. Don't try to get girls who you have been orbiting. It's a waste of time and energy. Go get some other girls, and let her come to you if she actually changes her mind (not likely). You have scarcity mentality written all over your post.	/r/askTRP	24/10/17 09:28 AM
2	There are only two turn ons for a woman The premise is also just complete shit. "Only two turn ons"? So when my gf wakes me up with a blowjob she's turned on because of... my aggression? imagined women? my sleepy femininity? I'm surprised it was not removed just for that. There are some decent comments though.	/r/TheRedPill	22/10/17 07:31 PM
2	FB Post: When Feminism meets TRP Feminism meets TRP? What the hell does this have to do with TRP? TRP is having woman wanting you take photos of them.	/r/TheRedPill	20/10/17 07:48 PM
25	How to overcome phone addiction? Excuses, excuses... You have identified a major problem you have. You don't need to read anything else here before you've resolved it. You can read the books, they require you to focus and don't give these tiny hits of dopamine tricking you into thinking you're doing something valuable.	/r/askTRP	15/10/17 08:34 PM
1	80% of the posts on here are about chasing pussy and how to be succesful in doing so You are not shadow banned.	/r/TheRedPill	15/10/17 09:08 AM
1	80% of the posts on here are about chasing pussy and how to be succesful in doing so Only admins can shadow ban, not mods.	/r/TheRedPill	15/10/17 09:03 AM
3	I think I've begun sucking in bed No fap should be your default state. I only fap in a committed relationship when the gf is away, and then usually to the pics she sent me that day, a Skype session or a video we made earlier. When single you should use your thirst to improve yourself or go get more plates. If you're not interested in sex, focus your energy on something else for a while. It'll come back.	/r/askTRP	15/10/17 12:25 AM
2	[Need Advice] Meet tonight and fuck or say you're busy to avoid entering her frame? Bullshit... She's a plate so they fuck regularly. Not every booty call will be successful, that's why you need more plates. He shouldn't have sent the second attempt at all, demonstrating his lack of options.	/r/askTRP	15/10/17 12:03 AM
19	How do you modify YOUR OWN behaviour with FWBs/LTRs in accordance to their menstrual cycle? The best time is when you are menstruating as well. Seriously though, just cuddle as much as you want to. You can find more cuddle plates. If they don't want to cuddle as much as you want, then you need to go out looking for more and better cuddlers. They'll miss you and crave the cuddles. It's all about cuddle abundance.	/r/askTRP	12/10/17 11:50 PM
2	Yet another story on how to get rid of your former soulmate Honestly I believe that attitude helped me get through it quickly as well.	/r/TheRedPill	12/10/17 08:27 PM
9	Yet another story on how to get rid of your former soulmate I strongly disagree. Nobody wants to hear about trivial complaints. Not talking about that. It's really valuable to have someone to discuss the real issues you go through in life. I have a shitty boss? I have guys who can advise me on making a plan for what I can do about it. I have depression? I know I have guys who I can lean on at any time if I feel I need it. I have a shitty day? I can hit them up to have a beer. I know that almost whatever happens, I have several guys I can depend on. I mak…	/r/TheRedPill	12/10/17 05:33 PM
8	Yet another story on how to get rid of your former soulmate Good question... now think about how many long term relationships still have the spark, and frequent bunny sex? I enjoy comfort and support in a committed relationship, but I make sure to let her know, through action, that I don't need it. Neediness is unattractive. Our relationship depends on the fact that I am attractive to her. I will never again stay in a relationship where the sex isn't amazing.	/r/TheRedPill	12/10/17 02:34 PM
32	Yet another story on how to get rid of your former soulmate This is one reason why it's important to build a group of dependable male friends that you can discuss your problems with. You only get a pass if you hold frame and appear strong/push through it with confidence. Exactly. I suddenly got hit with depression, and while I needed to take time off work and deal with it, I made sure I didn't use my woman for comfort and support. I did that in a previous relationship and we all know how that goes. In the beginning she was often asking worriedly how I wa…	/r/TheRedPill	12/10/17 09:24 AM
2	Told the oneitis I don't want to see her anymore When I was getting out of orbit-space, I started saying directly to those rejecting me with a friend zone line that I don't keep friends that I want to fuck. It's not enjoyable. A huge waste of time and energy. These days I don't say it directly anymore, but I still live by it. I have great friends and been having sex almost daily for years. That's the result of spending my time and energy on those who wants the same as I do. All in all, I understand the whole waiting for girls to want a nice gu…	/r/TheRedPill	12/10/17 09:06 AM
1	The Best Advice for Dating You Will Ever Hear He's almost certainly exceptionally good looking.	/r/TheRedPill	11/10/17 06:39 PM
3	Police tell me she cheated on me after I am arrested Don't ask again why she does whatever she does. It doesn't matter. You need to distance yourself from this trainwreck you've created. If you're not willing to do that, you will just continue getting yourself deeper in the hole. Find a place to stay, consult with a lawyer about how to proceed about getting your things back and custody and take it from there.	/r/askTRP	11/10/17 04:02 PM
2	Reward for your own effort Yeah, it's pretty great. Best part is that I feel like I'm relaxing/slacking off, but I'm still learning something.	/r/askMRP	09/10/17 01:01 PM
6	I always see some variant of "unless you have some facial deformity, this element of TRP will hold true." I got fucked in the birth lottery and that's me. Question(s) inside. Do you act insecure about it at home, but not in the club? Here's someone who owns his disabilities completely.	/r/askTRP	09/10/17 02:42 AM
2	Reward for your own effort My reward at the moment is studying things I don't really need, but interests me.	/r/askMRP	08/10/17 09:35 PM
2	How do I loosen up for the club when I don't drink? Practice keeping in rhythm at home, eventually it will click and you can get into it without drinking.	/r/askTRP	08/10/17 08:40 AM
19	Woman walks out on blind date when she realizes guy won't be her beta provider ... and as you give her the red rose after the candlelit dinner she will tumble and fall deeply in love with you ... Nah, you want to plate her early on, not LTR her. Only if she turns out to be a really great plate should you consider upgrading her to a girlfriend. Until then, skip boring dates, dinner dates in particular.	/r/TheRedPill	06/10/17 02:09 PM
3	[UPDATE] Went out alone last night Work on your rhythm. I was not a natural, but I love to dance, so when I started partying I spent hours and hours at home just going forward and backward attempting to keep the rhythm. Step, step, step, step. It was stiff and forced, and really hard for me. Though, eventually it started to click, and I were able to relax while keeping in rhythm. That's the point where everything changes.	/r/askTRP	02/10/17 06:26 AM
2	Was I Playing this one Wrong? I disagree with all these "you messaged too quickly" games... My attitude is that sure, I am busy living a great life, but I want to see if she should be a part of it. I reply to them when I'm free, and it doesn't take long. The iron is hot, so strike it... I don't have patience for games, I assertively say what I want and if they think it sounds desperate or whatever and don't respond they'll see that I never send another message. If they eventually respond, I'll send another invitation that wi…	/r/askTRP	30/09/17 12:20 PM
4	Today I asked a woman to stop looking at me and was accused of sexual harassment There's being a zen master as one extreme and on the opposite side of the spectrum there's someone who is so sensitive they're distracted by a person sitting behind them, staring in silence.	/r/TheRedPill	30/09/17 02:50 AM
1	Top resources for outer game? Join a Toastmasters club.	/r/askTRP	30/09/17 02:27 AM
7	What did I do wrong Oh, that's some classic butthurt game. Good luck with that. If she replies again, I'd casually invite her to join some activity I would be doing anyway, but she's likely to flake. Any good emotions she had from the initial interaction are long gone. When a girl stops responding and replies a long time after, just pretend she replied immediately and pick up the thread from there. Keep it low investment and focus on meeting up. Trying to create attraction over text is a waste of time, imho.	/r/askTRP	30/09/17 02:23 AM
3	GF doesn't hang out with me, gives reasons such as busy , have plans etc.. It's over, don't call her again. Start looking for new plates. If she contacts you she can be one, but you're a dumbass if you go exclusive with her again.	/r/askTRP	30/09/17 01:52 AM
3	She started feeling like a whore/bitch That's a whole lot of potential drama just for some old married pussy... He should go fuck a few 18 year olds instead, save the 40 year olds for when he's 60.	/r/askTRP	30/09/17 01:43 AM
2	Best way to act when a woman talks over you to get attention and push you aside, even if she’s saying “nothing”? In your scenario I'd simply stay completely silent until the boss responded to what I said. If this was a regular occurrence, I'd take it as a sign that he just wants an "OK boss, whatever you say, boss" response from me. As far as I can tell, your boss gets what he wants this way, without needing to discuss it with you. He might even have instructed her to do that. You can ask if he wants your opinion before giving it.	/r/askTRP	30/09/17 01:27 AM
1	Going out solo tonight? If you can't control your drinking you have a problem to fix. Everyone looks down on that. Other than that, just have fun and socialize. If you want friends that go out, then make some friends that are already doing that.	/r/askTRP	29/09/17 09:54 PM
2	Help me contextualize meetup I don't mean your descriptions, that's fine to preserve anonymity. I mean your actions/thoughts/behaviors. I'm going to just forget about the girl situation and talk about you. It's obvious that you spend too much time in your head. I'm guessing you're a pretty gentle person, who would prefer that everyone is comfortable and nobody is offended. The only really assertive thing you've said is: I want to get the girl. That's a good start. There's a great book called When I say No I Feel Guilty, whi…	/r/askTRP	29/09/17 09:14 PM
4	Going out solo tonight? Don't even think about it, just do it. I've gone out solo hundreds of times.	/r/askTRP	29/09/17 07:05 PM
2	Going out solo tonight? Not a problem to go out solo at all. If you're a sociable guy you'll quickly find new friends there. Just have fun, don't get too drunk solo, never don't drink and drive...	/r/askTRP	29/09/17 07:01 PM
2	Help me contextualize meetup One of your problems is that you're extremely wishy-washy about things. It doesn't seem that you have told her that you find her attractive, as far as I can tell, so that will probably be a surprise to her. I would set that new context immediately when meeting her, or she will assume you're just friends. Say something polarizing. If she's not interested, she'll probably offer to be friends instead, and you can safely think of her as your sister from then on. What to say exactly depends on your h…	/r/askTRP	29/09/17 06:54 PM
1	Help me contextualize meetup You don't say anything about what you want to happen. Choose a goal and perhaps it's possible to say anything meaningful about how to achieve it.	/r/askTRP	29/09/17 06:21 PM
1	To those well-travelled, where should I live? After reading the title, I thought it could be a great one... but what a trainwreck.	/r/askTRP	29/09/17 06:16 PM
8	I suddenly have the urge to call EVERYONE out on their bullshit now. Is this how men really should be? The girl situation: depends, but probably fine. The barber thing: probably you being a fucking idiot. The ready to fight thing: definitely you being a fucking idiot. I mean, have you taken the time to discover your purpose, having a mission? Then you wouldn't compromise that by getting into unnecessary fights. The best outcome of a fight is that you win it without any injuries and don't get any legal problems. The worst outcome is if you accidentally kill someone and spend your life in jail, or …	/r/askTRP	29/09/17 05:37 PM
6	Did I just get friendzoned (and is that a good thing)? Kudos on asking a girl out in person. Approaching can be nerve-wrecking. Now, don't shit where you eat. In situations where I'm going to meet the girl repeatedly (e.g. work/class) I generally don't think it's worth the hassle. There's so many girls out there, so the potential awkwardness is enough to make me avoid it. The only exception is if she's showing very obvious IOIs all by herself, including giving me her facebook or number. Don't consider yourself friendzoned ever again. The one with ag…	/r/askTRP	29/09/17 05:11 PM
2	Need help with dread game - gf hanging out too much with male best friend - Round 2 If an LTR breaks your hard rules you consider whether the rule makes sense or if you're just an insecure fucker. You can check with asktrp even. Then choose: Plate her Dump her immediately Tell her her behavior is unacceptable for you. If 3, then don't "highlight the issue". Use strong words, be serious and assertive. If she doesn't change you choose one of the first two options and find a girl who complies.	/r/askTRP	29/09/17 04:56 PM
6	Can't bring girlfriend to orgasm Sometimes I don't get at all what people here are thinking. What's the point of what? I don't fuck girls to make them orgasm, I fuck girls to make me orgasm. I fuck for fun. If they come too that's cool. It's fun to give pleasure. It's fun to use toys sometimes. It's fun to hear them scream. That said, the context here is a woman who has never come before, who doesn't come from your dick (yet!). Making such a woman come the first time with your dick is immensely more difficult than using a dildo…	/r/askTRP	29/09/17 04:37 PM
1	Can't bring girlfriend to orgasm If they're not distinguishable, that's just one orgasm, or not even an orgasm at all. Nobody has orgasms lasting over 30 seconds anyway (in my experience). These were at least a minute or two apart. If you care so much, check out some Cytherea vids for a girl who comes many times. This is the last I'm saying on this topic, there's absolutely no real world implication whether I'm telling the truth or not.	/r/askTRP	29/09/17 04:22 PM
11	Need help with dread game - gf hanging out too much with male best friend - Round 2 What do you want to achieve? That she stops having orbiters, or that she spends more time with you? If it's the first, then go to any foreveralone type subreddit and see how many people complain about being in the friendzone while the girl is fucking some asshole. Congratulations, you're the asshole she's fucking. Now go do something valuable with your time.	/r/askTRP	29/09/17 03:39 PM
1	Can't bring girlfriend to orgasm You guys think I'm bragging when I'm just stating the difference in women. Pretty much anyone with a working set of fingers could have made that girl orgasm.	/r/askTRP	29/09/17 02:40 PM
1	Can't bring girlfriend to orgasm k	/r/askTRP	29/09/17 02:06 PM
2	How do you show a girl you're interested in her? Downvoted, because this has been answered about a million times. Read sidebar.	/r/askTRP	29/09/17 01:23 PM
1	I hate myself right now. Relax. Don't sweat it. Eventually you'll forget you did it. I can guarantee that most teenage boys have thought about it or tried to anyway, but most people don't have a long enough dick. Once I got a blowjob by a guy. I felt shame thinking about it at the time, but now I don't care at all anymore. I don't recommend discussing it with anyone though. One pretty effective technique is to start replacing negative thought cycles with a game of "how much worse it could be". Compare yourself with peop…	/r/askTRP	29/09/17 01:21 PM
-1	Can't bring girlfriend to orgasm I don't care if you believe me or not, but your disbelief made me search for some stats. Before I met her it would be unbelievable to me too. "...Doctors William Hartman and Marilyn Fithian of the Center for Marital and Sexual Studies in Long Beach, California, have been faithfully recording... The most orgasms they recorded in an hour for a woman is a staggering 134, while the best men could do was 16." https://www.quora.com/What-is-the-maximum-number-of-orgasms-a-woman-can-achieve-in-a-session…	/r/askTRP	29/09/17 12:51 PM
1	Can't bring girlfriend to orgasm This varies so much though. I had one girl who I could make come in 2 minutes, then change to her g-spot and make her come again, and then back to the clit etc. etc. She had over 50 orgasms in a session... Nice ego boost, but on the other side of the spectrum are those who never orgasm no matter what, who never have orgasmed in their life. In the end, stop worrying about this, as long as they want to keep fucking you, you're doing it right.	/r/askTRP	29/09/17 11:01 AM
19	Can't bring girlfriend to orgasm Exactly. So, first ask if she's ever had an orgasm. If not, then she should buy a vibrator and try figure out on her own how to make herself come. Probably too much pressure when she's with someone, especially when you are so damn obsessed about it. However, a small minority of girls only come by internal stimulation (g-spot), then it's best to buy a decent sized dildo (swallow your ego if you have a normal sized penis), put her in doggy style and go to pound town with that, generally pointing i…	/r/askTRP	29/09/17 10:56 AM
1	Dating a rape survivor What's this scarcity mental about? They're everywhere.	/r/askTRP	26/09/17 02:41 AM
3	Just did the most beta thing imaginable. How to recover and never do it again? I agree with the /u/RunawayGrain. You have nothing to gain by telling your enemies they are your enemies. You unintentionally handled it the best way. Next time do it on purpose the same way.	/r/askTRP	25/09/17 11:18 PM
3	Dating a rape survivor Nice girls are not rare.	/r/askTRP	25/09/17 11:02 PM
1	Women are devoid of Character. You giving a fuck what a Woman thinks of you is like a hedgefund manager worrying what a hobo thinks of his investment portfolio. Its fucking laughable. You are projecting. Replying to a several week old comment just to brag about your fantasy?	/r/TheRedPill	23/09/17 06:55 AM
1	Women are devoid of Character. You giving a fuck what a Woman thinks of you is like a hedgefund manager worrying what a hobo thinks of his investment portfolio. Its fucking laughable. I'm sure you would, considering the impressive flexibility and strength you must have for patting yourself on the back so intensely.	/r/TheRedPill	19/09/17 07:00 PM
1	Women are devoid of Character. You giving a fuck what a Woman thinks of you is like a hedgefund manager worrying what a hobo thinks of his investment portfolio. Its fucking laughable. She can't beat the very best of the men, but she sure as hell can beat almost every man in the world.	/r/TheRedPill	30/08/17 03:46 PM
1	Shame manipulation Since when was Chad a red pill term? It's all about glorifying a guy who won the genetic lottery and doesn't need to do any self improvement. You're copying them, knowingly or not.	/r/TheRedPill	15/08/17 09:28 PM
0	Shame manipulation I'm just tired of reading incel lingo here.	/r/TheRedPill	15/08/17 06:31 PM
-1	Shame manipulation Please leave the Chad worship to incels/lookism. Looks are fundamentally irrelevant to being awesome.	/r/TheRedPill	15/08/17 04:50 PM
1	Planning to leave my wife, but now she's acting better Listen to her, but don't change your plan unless you are convinced it's the best course of action. Then take full responsibility for the new plan. Never change anything just to please her, it will only breed resentment.	/r/askMRP	11/08/17 08:05 AM
1	Advanced Chess (Field Report) The strongest chess player can't even beat a smartphone at this point.	/r/MarriedRedPill	11/08/17 07:57 AM
3	Don't even think about thinking about opening up to a woman The last paragraph I sent her If you're sending paragraphs at all, you're likely fucking up. Showing vulnerability isn't the problem, as long as you're dealing with it. Example: I got a real depression, and I told my gf. Everyone could see I had a problem anyway. She started asking me all the time how I was feeling, going into caretaking mode, but I rejected that. I said my brain was temporarily sick and it will pass soon enough. I told her never to ask again how I was feeling. I'd tell her if I…	/r/TheRedPill	08/08/17 08:17 AM
1	How Running Changed My Life Listen to your body. If your joints are killing you, you have already gone way too far over your limit.	/r/TheRedPill	08/08/17 07:46 AM
1	MRP Parenting take I don't think you should spank your kids at all.	/r/askMRP	07/08/17 11:31 PM
3	I have been practicing Stoicism for 3 years now and the quality of my life has increased dramatically because of these 3 exercises. One from each of the greats: Epictetus, Seneca, And Marcus Aurelius. Try them and tell me what you think in two weeks. That's what did Steve Jobs in. Quit your bullshit. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Steve_Jobs#Health_issues	/r/TheRedPill	07/08/17 05:10 PM
6	August 04 - Weekly Improvement & Progress Thread I've been 5 years cig free in a couple of weeks. Smoked for almost 15 years. However, this is the 13th time I'm quitting, sometimes for years. Saying this since you sound a bit cocky when you say you beat the addiction. It's too easy to believe you have control and allow yourself to take a cig here and there... then soon you're back in the old groove. I will never take another cigarette again, that's the only way I can securely stay off it.	/r/TheRedPill	05/08/17 09:38 PM
6	If looks don't matter then why aren't women attracted to me? People do it all the time. Blue pill, red pill, doesn't matter in this case. It's tough, sure. But you don't want to do anything that's tough, so please continue, don't do shit and wallow in your depression forever. Nobody apart from yourself can help you.	/r/askTRP	05/08/17 08:37 PM
4	Shes attracted to neediness? I don't even have an attraction towards her Hmm.. I still am attracted enough Yeah, sounds like it. i am honestly desperate Yeah, sounds like you're pretty desperate for this one. I guess she could have been attracted in the beginning, but you displayed a lot of neediness or low value so you turned into an orbiter. Then you stopped orbiting. Unless she was fucking you at that time, she was never that attracted, or you actually blew it with the neediness. I advice to just keep making your life aw…	/r/askTRP	05/08/17 08:31 PM
3	If looks don't matter then why aren't women attracted to me? Haha, I love how repeatedly call people stupid when you cannot grasp a simple concept that's not spelled out in detail. Here: Forget about her, ignore her, start building a life without her. Dump her.	/r/askTRP	05/08/17 08:18 PM
4	If looks don't matter then why aren't women attracted to me? Do you understand the concept of plates? Until you've had quite a few of them you shouldn't even consider LTR'ing. You can't get cucked by a plate. You're right though, you are currently worth zero, because of your mental issues. We've talked extensively before, and you made it clear that you're not willing to do anything apart from surgery to improve your attractiveness. You come here with a few questions, then you answer them all with one thing: You're ugly. /incels will be happy to validate t…	/r/askTRP	05/08/17 08:12 PM
6	Had my first sexual experience last night but couldn't cum?? the car was too small for us to fuck. Why are you trying to fuck the car? Put her on her back with her heels to the ceiling. Open the door, bend her in unnatural ways. Fuck that Kareeza stuff the other guy linked to, feel your animal instincts. Fuck comfort, get hot, get primal. No car is too small to fuck in.	/r/askTRP	05/08/17 07:36 PM
11	Had my first sexual experience last night but couldn't cum?? I love blowjobs (who doesn't?), but only a few girls have been able to make me come from it, and not from a lack of trying. Even then usually from me fucking their face pretty roughly, and very few are into that. Blowjobs turn me on, but I need to be much more active to come. Next time go for the fuck, that's most likely what she wants anyway.	/r/askTRP	05/08/17 07:03 PM
6	GF won't have sex with me anymore What the fuck do you hope to achieve by doing that?	/r/askTRP	02/08/17 07:23 PM
5	GF won't have sex with me anymore When she starts initiating give her the same sob story she gave you and deny sex. Wat	/r/askTRP	02/08/17 06:36 PM
2	Don't be afraid to get angry OP is revelling in his weakness. He got angry, implying he cares, according to the comment you replied to. It doesn't follow that he cares about her or what she thinks about him. You could just as well argue that him bringing it up with her means he doesn't care about what she thinks about him. It could show that he cares about himself and his time.	/r/TheRedPill	29/07/17 08:03 AM
7	Wtf do I do now. Are the children yours? If yes, personally, I imagine I would feel a deep sense of obligation to them, but even divorce may be better for them. I would have been happier if my parents divorced before I was a teenager though, it was an incredibly tough time. In the end everyone was happier though. Have you talked to a lawyer about what could happen financially in a divorce, and if you can protect yourself? Regardless of the financial consequences, do you really want to spend your life with her? Y…	/r/TheRedPill	29/07/17 12:51 AM
3	Don't be afraid to get angry I've fucked girls from the 90's, 80's, 70's and a cougar from the 60's, just for fun and to see how she was. Do whoever you feel like doing, but like lifting, you should consciously progress.	/r/TheRedPill	29/07/17 12:32 AM
5	Don't be afraid to get angry Bullshit. Red pill is about what works, not whether it's weak to be angry or not. The only important metric here is: Does his strategy get him laid? Would ghosting the flakes get him laid? In the same vein, I'm always seeing so much praise for nexting women here. A woman disrespected some OP and he nexted the bitch. Way to go! Wrong. It's usually a failure. Obviously it's better than to supplicate a timewaster, but so often it's just an unnecessarily broken plate, not a time for rejoicing.	/r/TheRedPill	29/07/17 12:21 AM
1	I don't know how to behave when she's being exceptionally good Praise Her The masculine grows by challenge, but the feminine grows by praise. A man must be unabashed and expressed in his appreciation for his woman. Praise her freely. Men grow by challenge. As a boy, other boys would challenge you in order to inspire you: "I bet you can't jump over that fence." In a place like boot camp, you are told you are a worthless slimedog, and this kind of insult challenges you to be your best. So, as a man, you probably have a masculine habit of challenging people, i…	/r/askMRP	26/07/17 02:12 PM
5	Friend's Fiancee Cheats on Him with CHRIS BROWN - An Unbelievable Case Study in Hypergamy I'm in a two year LTR now, she's 9 years younger than me, hot body decent face, makes me coffee with a blowjob in the mornings, cooks for me, still sex and blowjobs multiple times daily. I have no problems at all with losing her, we both know for a fact I can find better looking plates and that's the basis of my rock solid frame. She's honest, surrenders information willingly, I trust her, she reacts with disgust at cheaters, but I know in the end what all women are capable of so I'm always prep…	/r/TheRedPill	20/07/17 08:09 PM
4	Friend's Fiancee Cheats on Him with CHRIS BROWN - An Unbelievable Case Study in Hypergamy Truth, hard next is obvious, but how do you know they cheated, unless they're dumb or unlucky enough to be outed?	/r/TheRedPill	20/07/17 06:36 PM
2	Plastic Red Pillers: The New Internet 'Tough Guys' That's what I hate about the "If you're even thinking about LTR you're not red pilled" crowd. Bam, 20 upvotes. From my perspective, we have solved the problem of getting laid and spinning plates. It's so easy to simply next a woman who slightly inconveniences you, and it's even attractive. However, I don't find that spinning plates as satisfying as having a deeper relationship with a single woman. I want to hear more people talking about how to keep AWALT in check. That's the next level for me. …	/r/TheRedPill	20/07/17 05:56 PM
5	My Experience Examples of this are things like when you're both walking through the bar together be sure to be the leader and don't be a pushover bitch about getting through a crowd Take her by the hand while leading her, it makes it easy for her to follow you through a crowd and is very attractive.	/r/TheRedPill	19/07/17 12:13 PM
4	My Experience Tips on picking the best {variable}? What if a bitch doesn't like your {variable}. Automatically fucked. Try again with a different girl. If there's a consistent pattern, change your {variable}. Don't be afraid to be polarizing.	/r/TheRedPill	19/07/17 12:09 PM
1	This is all so exhausting. Then I think I'd do a transplant. Or shave all of it.	/r/TheRedPill	18/07/17 12:19 AM
1	This is all so exhausting. If religion/culture implies you need to wear your hair/turban in a way that it's literally pulling the hair out of your head, scarring your scalp, that's disfiguring yourself. If religion/culture/tradition implies you need to cut off healthy parts of your kids' genitalie, e.g. son's foreskin or your daughter's clit, that's harming your kids. You didn't answer my question. Do you still engage in that hair-extraction procedure?	/r/TheRedPill	17/07/17 09:50 PM
1	This is all so exhausting. Not necessarily permanent, though. Are you still doing that? Consider going bald or getting a hair transplant. Believing in religion is pretty silly at this point, but if it requires you to disfigure yourself or your kids it's taking shit to another level. By the way, stop reading incels immediately. My brother was unattractive, not too smart, hardcore bullied verbally and physically assaulted from grade school to college, incel until 27, he got out, found a fat, but positive and happy virgin li…	/r/TheRedPill	17/07/17 07:13 PM
7	Semen Retention I'm curious to know if you guys think this is BS I think it's complete BS and placebo. You can achieve the same while fucking plates left and right. I only agree with NoFap if it's getting you out of the house and approaching women instead of just jacking it all day. One of my favorite red pill books is The Way of The Superior Man, and he unfortunately ends the book with this crap. I absolutely love to come in my gf's mouth. I find it incredibly intimate and hot. Do I lose my energy? No! I'm cud…	/r/TheRedPill	17/07/17 06:52 PM
1	This is all so exhausting. Traction alopecia? Are you pulling your hair out?	/r/TheRedPill	17/07/17 06:34 PM
3	I'm Afraid... Everyone here said you can be a winner. Sounds like you have depression. Tried meds? SSRI's worked for me.	/r/TheRedPill	17/07/17 06:27 PM
1	Quality of life and the Red Pill I don't get the feeling I don't belong. I have the feeling the world is my playground. I love women and their nature. I revel in their feminine energy. The world is a beautiful and fantastic place.	/r/TheRedPill	17/07/17 07:01 AM
8	Going to the bar alone: just do it. Feminism? Driving after drinking is fucking idiotic, not just because you can get caught by the police. Leave your damn car at home if you're going out drinking. It's not hard to plan around.	/r/TheRedPill	17/07/17 05:54 AM
4	Monk Mode You have been doing "monk mode" for 18 months?	/r/TheRedPill	17/07/17 05:34 AM
2	Never underestimate the power of the Blue Pill over the mind of the modern man. You will lose friends after digesting the Red Pill. Title is wrong. I have not lost a single friend by digesting the red pill. Negatively discussing any man's choice of girlfriend is a quick way to lose friends though.	/r/TheRedPill	17/07/17 05:17 AM
8	Fuck your male hamstering The only anger phase I had was at myself, for not understanding sooner that masculine features are attractive to women.	/r/TheRedPill	16/07/17 10:21 PM
9	Girlfriend's neediness is starting to annoy the shit out of me Same. Usually I just smile, hug her, reply "Good!", or "I can feel that/I like that" or something cocky like "I miss youuuu - r pussy". I said I enjoy that she expresses her feelings often, but that it's not natural for me to say it so often. But when I say it I really mean it. It feels pretty natural for me to say it in the hormone high after sex, so that's when I usually tell her. Or when she has gone out of her way to cook or do something I like, or simply when I feel I love her. She really l…	/r/askTRP	11/07/17 06:27 AM
2	Who here has overcome social anxiety? I usually recommend hiking groups for people who have social anxiety. It's fun to do, you get to see a lot of cool places, there's very little pressure for socializing, really friendly non-competetive environment, very tolerant to weird people and so on. When you improve try Toastmasters. That's not so friendly, but will much more rapidly improve your social skills.	/r/askTRP	09/07/17 10:07 PM
1	What does it mean when a girl says "don't touch me"? Never gotten this but I would immediately next them if that was in public.	/r/askTRP	09/07/17 09:35 PM
6	Not replying to texts She friendzoned you. You didn't escalate too quickly, she's almost certainly not attracted to you. You polarized her, which is great. Now you know you don't need to spend more time on her. It's very likely that she's feigning interest to keep you as an orbiter, but will never fuck you. I typically just say I don't stay friends with girls I want to fuck, but who doesn't want to fuck me. Focus on improving yourself. Be busy.	/r/askTRP	09/07/17 09:32 PM
4	GF invited to go camping with a couple and a guy she has a history with Sure, cheating is the most obvious boundary. Going out for a coffee with a group that's including an ex, not so clear. I would not have a problem with that by itself, but I'd expect her to tell me first. Going camping with a group including an ex, however. Assuming they have a good relationship and she's "innocent" (still doesn't know what she's capable of), in her mind, she has no intention of cheating and she thinks it's fine because she's in a group. At TRP we know how easy it is to isolate s…	/r/askTRP	07/07/17 10:56 PM
1	GF invited to go camping with a couple and a guy she has a history with The only way setting this boundary can work is if he's immediately upping his SMV and dread game. Start lifting if he's not, eat clean, going out, opening girls around him in front of her, grooming on point etc. She should feel like she has failed him, lost his feelings. That's the frame I'd set. Disinterest, withdrawal of attention and affection. She'd have to work hard to regain my interest. He has already made it clear he disapproves. I'd stop talking to her about it, just say she's free to d…	/r/askTRP	07/07/17 10:32 PM
6	GF invited to go camping with a couple and a guy she has a history with So what if they call me controlling? Nobody has, but if they did I wouldn't care. I'd state flatly that if they don't respect my boundaries we can both find new partners easily. It's true, though she knows I'm not easily replaceable. If she gets mad about my boundaries, I say we're apparently not right for each other. Nothing to be mad about. Do this and suddenly the madness stops. If she tries to set boundaries like that, I consider it for validity and tell her if I will honor it or not. I woul…	/r/askTRP	07/07/17 07:57 PM
2	Girlfriend told her friend she want's to fuck him. Yeah, an LTR having friends like that would be an easy dealbreaker for me. Couple that with the rest of her shit it's just a waste of energy and resources to keep her as an LTR. I'd demote to plate immediately if the sex is good, just hard next/ghost if not.	/r/askTRP	07/07/17 07:13 PM
14	GF invited to go camping with a couple and a guy she has a history with I have to disagree slightly. Girls don't always know what good boundaries are. I mean, OP doesn't even know if this is a strong boundary HE has. I would make my boundary clearly known, and if she goes anyway it's over. It's just a red flag if she doesn't. By clearly known I mean just a simple off-hand statement like "I think it's inappropriate for you to go without me", not OP's "seems a little inappropriate".	/r/askTRP	07/07/17 06:55 PM
1	Thoughts on 'yellow fever' labelling? If you're happy with her and she's happy with you, who cares about the rest of the world? Fuck them.	/r/askTRP	03/07/17 11:26 PM
1	Found my girlfriend texting a guy friend about smoking weed in private together? I don't think she's a unicorn, but girls generally don't fuck around immediately when they go outside, even though I know they're all capable of it. I'm not scared of beta orbiters, and this one isn't even trying to get with her.	/r/askTRP	29/06/17 09:05 PM
2	Found my girlfriend texting a guy friend about smoking weed in private together? Yes, I know it sounds bad, but I'll explain why I'm not worried in the least. First of all, I've met him and I trust him. Seems like a completely asexual dude. Secondly I trust her. I've seen how they interact even before I decided to go exclusive with her, and there's not a single sexual thing going on, from either. She's not giving any indication of attraction towards him. She has told me about pretty much all her previous sexual partners. I have read the messages from both him and guys who st…	/r/askTRP	29/06/17 08:46 PM
2	Men, Woman, Children, and Dogs - Why I Treat My Woman Like Man's Best Friend - Part 1 I agree with everything you say here. I appreciate your comment. I'm an LTR/MRP guy too. Not married, not sure if I will be, but my goal has always been a successful LTR, currently in a 2 year long one. There's a lot you don't get with plates. Most of the proven pickup stuff need adjustments in LTRs, though the fundamental world view remains the same. I think LTR management is the next real challenge for us to overcome. It's far easier to run many plates than to have one successful LTR. Break a …	/r/TheRedPill	29/06/17 07:49 PM
1	Redpillers who now or eventually want to have children and raise a family, what is your outlook/how will you achieve it? Hahaha... That's not how that statistic works. You're probably joking. It's "using some method of prevention for one year, how many couples out of 100 get pregnant."	/r/askTRP	29/06/17 07:17 PM
2	Men, Woman, Children, and Dogs - Why I Treat My Woman Like Man's Best Friend - Part 1 There's no "comfort shit test" (edit: he's actually using that concept, I missed that, you're right about the naming scheme). It's either a comfort test or a shit test. It's not a game killer. It's a game killer to fail to recognize comfort tests, because you will be seen as just a player, just wanting her for her pussy. Comfort tests in relationships is based in the same need for security. Hugs or compliments can be a valid way of responding, or simply words like "I love you, you're the only on…	/r/TheRedPill	29/06/17 06:50 PM
2	Men, Woman, Children, and Dogs - Why I Treat My Woman Like Man's Best Friend - Part 1 https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2014/06/18/value-shit-tests-vs-comfort-shit-tests/	/r/TheRedPill	29/06/17 06:33 PM
7	Men, Woman, Children, and Dogs - Why I Treat My Woman Like Man's Best Friend - Part 1 No, it's not incorrect. If you're hitting on her and she perceives your SMV to be much higher than hers, you'll get comfort tests coming fast and strong, even minutes after meeting her.	/r/TheRedPill	29/06/17 06:02 PM
2	Found my girlfriend texting a guy friend about smoking weed in private together? Why would I? She was not cheating.	/r/askTRP	29/06/17 05:05 PM
1	Do I give her my phone after she says "I have a boyfriend"? Do what exactly? Disqualify? It's an old PUA concept, basically constructing a fake barrier to hooking up. Google it. A fun part of a push/pull dynamic. I always try to say something that would amuse me in the moment, preferably reflecting on something that has been discussed already. Technically you could say almost anything if you have the right attitude and carelessness. Have fun, tease, and if you get shut down, don't worry, there's always more fish. A good discussion here: https://heartiste…	/r/askTRP	29/06/17 05:02 PM
1	If girlfriend gets raped would you break up with her? Here is why I would do it certainly. Let's focus on truth and knowledge here. This is some MGTOW crap.	/r/askTRP	29/06/17 03:59 PM
2	So i acted like too much of a beta bitch, and she noticed it, what is the best process of recovery? Any time you have negative feelings, use them to self improve. Channel them into energy, and use the energy to better yourself. Go lift, practice a craft, learn a new skill, pick up a guitar, go practice your social skills, go game a few new girls, whatever. Just don't sit on your ass feeling sorry for yourself, or puke your feelings at her. Share feelings with male friends.	/r/askTRP	29/06/17 03:28 PM
1	Do I give her my phone after she says "I have a boyfriend"? I prefer having her hooked enough that when I give some indication of leaving or creating future she actually wants to give me her number. The "I have a boyfriend" might not be true, but it's not the right time to push for contact. Good time to disqualify.	/r/askTRP	29/06/17 03:18 PM
21	If girlfriend gets raped would you break up with her? Here is why I would do it certainly. 85% of raped women experience pleasure and orgasm during rape Sounds like 100% bullshit.	/r/askTRP	29/06/17 02:43 PM
4	Super low SMV So that's probably your best way to improve. Get out there, get rejected, get better. Anyway, screenshot a typical message log then.	/r/askTRP	29/06/17 01:03 PM
1	Super low SMV Tell us a typical approach of yours.	/r/askTRP	29/06/17 12:43 PM
1	Found my girlfriend texting a guy friend about smoking weed in private together? Has she ever given you a real reason to doubt her loyalty to you? She did right now. Fuck, I'm usually one of the few guys here who encourage orbiters, but any secret one-on-one meeting with a guy, especially inhibition-lowering stuff smoking weed or drinking, would be unacceptable to me. My gf recently spent a week with an old friend in my own vacation apartment a five hour flight from me, even drinking together, so I'm not having trust issues. I'm having serious issues with my LTR secretly mee…	/r/askTRP	29/06/17 12:23 PM
2	Mr. Beta, please help me! Feel free to ask for additional details. Which parts of sidebar have your read?	/r/askTRP	29/06/17 12:00 PM
1	[Mod] The Red Pill is not democratic. It cannot be in order to be a viably beneficial system for men. Just make it yourself if you think it's a good idea. Not sure exactly what you're talking about with visual representation of a school of thought, philosophical pillars and what not. It sounds like intellectual masturbation to me, but hey, if you believe it's useful and valuable to the community, simply put your blood, sweat and effort into it and share it.	/r/TheRedPill	29/06/17 11:25 AM
17	Men, Woman, Children, and Dogs - Why I Treat My Woman Like Man's Best Friend - Part 1 A few quick comments: You treat her with enthusiasm, playfulness and emotion. You can do that perfectly well without thinking that she's a dog, with the same results. You should actually put that kind of heart into everything you do. It's not a core tenet that "women are children", they are obviously not. However, it can be attractive to treat them "as children" in some ways, especially if that's a playful amused mastery type of reaction. Finally, comfort and shit tests absolutely should not be …	/r/TheRedPill	29/06/17 10:44 AM
2	LTR gives lots of attention/lightly flirts with one of my friends Even though I don't agree that he should talk with her about it, I agree with your way of handling disrespect, and I have done the same on a similar issue. Early in the relationship she was in a group photo in a jacuzzi with some girls and a guy, but she was next to the guy. I'm certain they didn't do anything, but the photo could be interpreted like she wanted to be next to him. I made it perfectly clear that I hated it and if she thought that was acceptable, it's over. She blabbered away a lot…	/r/askTRP	28/06/17 07:06 PM
1	Experience with escorts 100% solidified my doubts- no woman is trustworthy Sure, but that's technically sluts, quite different from literally selling your body for cash, which OP is talking about. Attractive women can get so much for free even without putting out.	/r/TheRedPill	28/06/17 06:31 PM
6	"I like you and I'm sorry, I know you probably don't feel the same way" You don't have to actively cut her off, you can simply say something like "I'm not interested in a serious relationship with you, but if you want to keep doing what we're doing I'm up for that". Also suggest guys who could be good for her, treat her like a good friend with benefits. I 100% agree that he shouldn't imply that she has a chance if she doesn't.	/r/askTRP	28/06/17 06:13 PM
7	LTR gives lots of attention/lightly flirts with one of my friends Like I said in my long reply, I wouldn't be worried. It only hurts your chances to worry and being so insecure. I am betting that this kind of insecurity is leaking out constantly in your relationship. Here's what I do with my feelings: Use them as fuel to improve myself. If I feel insecure, or if I feel her attention faltering (I'm sensitive to that), I redouble my investments in myself, not her or the relationship. I wake up early and do productive shit, go for a swim in the evenings, make sur…	/r/askTRP	28/06/17 06:06 PM
5	LTR gives lots of attention/lightly flirts with one of my friends Bullshit. Orbiters will orbit, and she loves the attention or is just having fun like any normal person. Relatedly, what's better than your woman crying to some other dude about her trivial problems before coming home to suck your dick? That's the best part about orbiters...	/r/askTRP	28/06/17 05:40 PM
2	Cross-Post from AskTRP: LTR gives lots of attention/lightly flirts with one of my friends If your woman is attractive, she'll always attract orbiters and suitors. Don't be phased by it. In fact, I encourage it. If you're like most of us, you might have been that dude yourself. Once, a friend of mine were texting my girl about how he wanted to take her walking naked on the beach while I was eating in a restaurant with him! She showed me later and I laughed and joked daring her to take him up on it. I'm still friends with him, IDGAF, he has no chance anyway and I enjoy his company. It …	/r/askMRP	28/06/17 05:24 PM
1	What do you guys think of the new movement called "The Black Pill"? Looks really good the other recommendation, I'm considering getting that one for the shower too. Though I'm always traveling so it's nice to have a portable one.	/r/askTRP	28/06/17 04:18 PM
2	Daughter is being plated. How do I stop it? Perhaps put some classic poetry on your walls somewhere... If he asks about it you might find some subtle way to nudge him in the direction of growing as a person and creating an awesome life for himself and your daughter. Give your hearts, but not into each other's keeping. For only the hand of Life can contain your hearts. And stand together yet not too near together: For the pillars of the temple stand apart, And the oak tree and the cypress grow not in each other's shadow. Kahlil Gibran	/r/askMRP	28/06/17 03:52 PM
2	Experience with escorts 100% solidified my doubts- no woman is trustworthy Even more tragic is that even if one were to meet a girl of decent value, monogamy is dangerous as it's likely she's selling herself to 40 year old perverts. Lol, that's not very likely. Most women clearly do not want to be whores.	/r/TheRedPill	28/06/17 03:08 PM
3	Some life truths that I wish I could tell my past self. Lol internet tough guy. Go back to your video games, don't forget your fedora and katana.	/r/TheRedPill	27/06/17 01:20 AM
1	What do you guys think of the new movement called "The Black Pill"? I use the ToiletTree oral irrigator, it's small but great. In the beginning, I thought the reservoir was too small, but now I clean really well in just one go. Lasts for weeks on each charge.	/r/askTRP	26/06/17 10:49 PM
15	What do you guys think of the new movement called "The Black Pill"? Unfortunately for them, most of them have serious mental issues like deep depression, autism, social anxiety or body dysmorphic disorder. Many of them actually look really good, but think they look extremely ugly and latch on to the negative experiences. Many of them don't have any friends outside the internet. It's important to realize that to get out of that hole isn't easy. I think a lot of them give up because it's apparently easy. They get the idea to try improving a bit, hit on some girls,…	/r/askTRP	26/06/17 08:17 PM
3	Some life truths that I wish I could tell my past self. I agree with both of you, but the original advice was always stand up for yourself, don't be afraid or intimidated. That sounds good and real tough and alpha and shit, but it's actually fucking stupid if you think about it in a bit more depth. The new advice is better: "stand up for yourself if it is unavoidable, or if it might defuse the situation". Being aware of your surroundings and being ready and able to fight does defuse a lot of situations. Fighting is sometimes exactly the right thing t…	/r/TheRedPill	26/06/17 05:14 PM
4	Some life truths that I wish I could tell my past self. I understand, but my point is that it's often a terrible idea "to stand up for yourself in a physical confrontation". One of my best friends used to go out to find fights for fun. A real fighter type. He was attacked in a bar by someone who didn't like him talking to some girls or whatever, and I can promise you he stood up for himself. Smashed a glass of beer in his face. After paying tons in legal costs he got away with a self-defence charge, but it could have gone either way. I was in a real …	/r/TheRedPill	26/06/17 01:23 PM
3	Insecure boss who's in over her head There's far too little information in your post to give good advice... Are you a bartender or an engineer? Big company, small company... where are you in your career, are you a terrific perfomer, perhaps you're just a whiny little fucker etc. etc. ad infinitum. There's only one thing to be said: If you're unhappy, do something about it. Fight and win a power battle, adjust how you deal with it, or leave.	/r/askTRP	26/06/17 01:10 PM
9	Some life truths that I wish I could tell my past self. Be a man - Always stand up for yourself and your beliefs, do not be afraid or intimidated by anyone. This applies both in physical confrontations and arguments. Agree with everything, except this. In our society, there's almost never a good reason for violence, even if you have a weapon or know how to fight. Even if you win the fight, the resulting legal issues can ruin your life, for no good reason. Sure, be ready to fight, but avoid it. It's usually better to be a smooth motherfucker anyway. R…	/r/TheRedPill	26/06/17 12:48 PM
4	Going nuclear It's not long yet, but that's the intention, the plan. That's the game you're playing, so it makes sense to say LTR immediately. Taking LONG term relationship so literally removes a valuable concept from our vocabulary for absolutely no reason except pedantry. What else do you call it? When does it start for you?	/r/askTRP	25/06/17 10:21 PM
8	Going nuclear When I go exclusive, I have already changed my life to optimize my relationship with her. LTR rules apply.	/r/askTRP	25/06/17 09:43 PM
3	"Text me when you get home safe" It's not a big problem imho. I make it absolutely clear I don't need anyone to take care of me (in words and actions), but that I appreciate her expressions of love. Cooking/cleaning etc. makes me happy.	/r/askTRP	25/06/17 09:27 PM
13	Going nuclear As a sidenote a relationship of eight months is not a long term relationship. An LTR begins the moment I decide to go exclusive with a girl.	/r/askTRP	25/06/17 08:56 PM
1	Business Consulting As someone who went into consulting at 27 (software development), I highly suggest getting a mentor. Have you worked with anyone whose job you'd like to have? Reach out, many people enjoy being in a position to dispense their hard-earned wisdom to an eager and intelligent guy.	/r/TheRedPill	22/06/17 11:07 PM
1	Chad fucked old oneitis. Am also interested in this topic Not a great post, but here are some thoughs: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/6hz2je/chad_fucked_old_oneitis/dj9dg21/	/r/askTRP	22/06/17 06:38 PM
2	Chad fucked old oneitis. I have been thinking about this for a while, but I don't know an exact way to tell, but I can say something about what qualities they have in common. I believe the main quality is that all of the guys I mentioned are self-confident. They don't get a big ego boost from pushing me down. I am also self-confident, so I take their actions in a positive way when it's something ambiguous. This reduces conflicts. They are all generally "good guys", so there are no conflicts where someone has taken signi…	/r/askTRP	22/06/17 06:37 PM
12	Sex is Great! Shit tests won't stop! Saying she isn't a cum bucket, sex is too forceful wants more cuddling and other bullshit like that. This is not a shit test, it's a comfort test. This is a good sign. At the minimum, after rough sex, cuddle like the big fat teddy bear you are. You are getting the sex you need, give her some of the comfort she needs. To keep a relationship happy, you need to balance attraction attributes (spontaneity, unreliability, impulsivity, aloofness, DGAF, etc.) with relationship attributes (reliability, p…	/r/MarriedRedPill	22/06/17 04:35 PM
1	Chad fucked old oneitis. It's great. The last chapters about the orgasms suck, but the first parts were life changing for me. I don't care how he looks as long as the advice is excellent.	/r/askTRP	20/06/17 10:24 PM
2	Chad fucked old oneitis. That's a good question that I don't have the time to reply to now. I'd like to know what other men here think about it too, so perhaps make a toplevel question? I'll give it some thought.	/r/askTRP	18/06/17 08:45 PM
1	Chad fucked old oneitis. I don't agree with that. Trust is powerful. I have 5 friends which I can count on for anything. Obviously all male. One is my father. One is my mentor who I have been working with since I was 19. Two are my best friends. One is a dude who has very strict integrity and honesty ideas.	/r/askTRP	18/06/17 08:28 PM
6	Chad fucked old oneitis. That's good advice for relating to women. However, every man should find a few male friends he can discuss whatever is on his mind and in his heart. Build up trust over time and demote them if they violate it. Bottling up stuff is unhealthy, spewing feelings to women is unattractive, and everyone needs outside perspective sometimes. Have you read Way of the Superior Man yet?	/r/askTRP	18/06/17 05:49 PM
2	Was this a shit test? If so how to handle? Anything is too much when you're amused by driving like an idiot. I have limit of zero when I'm driving and for anyone who is driving me. People are afraid of terrorist attacks, but traffic is the real killer/maimer. I like to drive fast, but only as long as it's comfortable. It's easy to drive fast, easy to drive comfortable, but it's hard to do both. My priorities: Never crash or be in any accident Never lose my license again Get from A to B Comfortably Quickly I amuse myself by perfecting tec…	/r/askTRP	18/06/17 03:26 PM
5	Was this a shit test? If so how to handle? If you're drinking and driving you're a shitty human and should kill yourself before you kill some actually valuable member of society.	/r/askTRP	18/06/17 03:06 PM
2	Fitness: What is the best cardio for fat loss. If you're fat you need to worry about your knees. Otherwise whatever goes. For cardio, I prefer a rowing machine. It's like the compound exercise of the cardio world. Actual strength training is the most effective for fat loss and what you should be doing anyway. That said, you can't out-exercise a bad diet. Read sidebar at /r/fitness.	/r/askTRP	18/06/17 12:54 PM
25	Chad fucked old oneitis. Use it as fuel to kill the oneitis still burning within you. You can take this as a challenge and grow on it, irrespective of whether you cut him out of your life or not. Does he bring value to your life? Is he actively trying to lower your value, or does he bring you up otherwise? Is he your wingman, or could you recruit him as one? Too little info in your post to give great advice. When you're at a loss, first think "How can I make this situation work out the best for me?" You want to Think an…	/r/askTRP	18/06/17 12:11 PM
4	Any recommendations for Spotify podcasts to listen to that are RP approved? Recently I've enjoyed "How I Built This". Not a great voice, and some really annoying background music while they talk sometimes, but still good. I'm working on a small island I don't have any really successful role models around me, and it's very easy to get complacent, especially in an LTR with lots of sex. This gives me some great people to compare myself to, and for me that's a powerful motivator. Sidenote: Discipline is important, but boring. Motivation and inspiration is fleeting, but fun.…	/r/askTRP	18/06/17 11:56 AM
2	My 3 step guide to an awesome first approach. I'm making a joke TO ENTERTAIN MYSELF. I was fairly clear in my original post that I don't give a fuck. I didn't extend an invitation to anyone. If someone chooses to come along for the ride, that's up to them, but this is MY fucking conversation and they are a guest in it. They can laugh or not. I assure you that your "enriching life" is not adding a damn thing to the conversations I'm trying to have. Same. If they enjoy that I'm amusing myself, I'm going to have fun with them. If they don't ap…	/r/TheRedPill	18/06/17 11:09 AM
1	My 3 step guide to an awesome first approach. Not impossible. Some people blush easily. When I was young I could make myself blush by imagining or remembering some embarassing incident. In fact, learning to blush on command is sometimes recommended as a cure for frequent blushers.	/r/TheRedPill	18/06/17 10:49 AM
1	My 3 step guide to an awesome first approach. The solution is simple. Don't buy her anything first. It's not necessary and can even make you seem lower value because you have to pay for her to bother to be around you. https://www.e-reading.club/chapter.php/71262/34/Feynman_-_Surely_Youre_Joking%2C_Mr._Feynman__Adventures_of_a_Curious_Character.html	/r/TheRedPill	18/06/17 10:38 AM
5	Successful TRP application but wife keeps mentioning another guy's name. Try askMRP. Here you typically get answers that is more appropriate for plates. My thoughts: Doesn't mean she's thinking about cheating just because she says the name of her boss. She might be just telling you things about her life. Chill, don't mate guard and be insecure like a man without options. From what you say, it sounds like you are her alpha.	/r/askTRP	17/06/17 08:53 PM
6	Pregnant woman at the office tried to boss me around and when I refused to cave in, the other women "jumped" me... wtf? Hostile Work Environment. Open a ticket with HR. Always be recording. Hahahah. HR: What's the issue? You: The pregnant woman asked me to make her coffee.	/r/askTRP	17/06/17 08:16 PM
3	Wtf is wrong with people like Hugh Jackman (aka, wolverine)? Did you have a look at his wife? Possible. Though he's a 10 SMV-wise and she's more of a 2 at that age and weight. I doubt he'd be accepting much shit when he's getting attractive women hitting on him all day. Perhaps she's like his mother, the ultimate beta dream woman, and the 8 point disparity is what it takes to keep a relationship like that happy. This is just unproductive speculation though... Who cares about the stars anyway? I downvoted this question.	/r/askTRP	17/06/17 07:52 PM
6	Wtf is wrong with people like Hugh Jackman (aka, wolverine)? Did you have a look at his wife? If he's truly happy, why change anything? I bet his relationship is zero work for him. She knows she's replacable. Perhaps it's not his mission to bang the hottest chicks, or he's doing it on the side without drama. I don't judge him.	/r/askTRP	17/06/17 06:26 PM
2	I'm a giant pussy - where do I go from here? Agreed, except on the making up an excuse part. There's no need to make up an excuse for anything. Later she might ask where you went, or whatever, and you might break the plate for no good reason. I suggest just picking it up as if she messaged a moment ago. If she prods, "been busy" and changing the subject is my go-to.	/r/askTRP	17/06/17 06:14 PM
90	Pregnant woman at the office tried to boss me around and when I refused to cave in, the other women "jumped" me... wtf? They are pissed because you made them wet. Lol. Clearly they still look down on him, they won't get the tingles just because he refuses to do what they command. They're pissed because they feel they're higher value than him and he disagreed. They're not wet. They're more likely to be planning how they can take him down a notch. Rest of your comment is spot on though.	/r/askTRP	17/06/17 06:04 PM
1	"Shit Test" What you disagree with, exactly? I prefer to think of them as "fitness tests", though, since shit tests sounds like she's doing something on purpose to make me feel bad. The point is more that if you can't take some ribbing from a girl, you're not fit enough for her. Responding well increases attraction, responding poorly decreases it.	/r/askTRP	17/06/17 12:55 AM
2	Extreme Case of Oneitis So a completely normal case of oneitis. This has been done to death, there's nothing special about your case.	/r/askTRP	15/06/17 10:55 PM
6	What non-positive changes have you seen as you maxed out your SMV? This is a good writeup for the main sub.	/r/askTRP	15/06/17 10:18 PM
1	Marriage is Redundant I'm glad to see you take a stand on something.	/r/TheRedPill	15/06/17 09:32 PM
1	Marriage is Redundant If you think it's interesting enough to spam it over and over, why don't you give your damn opinion about it? At least give a summary of what it's about instead of this clickbaity shit.	/r/TheRedPill	15/06/17 05:56 PM
1	If you must co-habitate, what are your tips to avoid ruining it? So what happens after one month? She cuts off your balls?	/r/askTRP	14/06/17 12:10 PM
14	I'm the guy from x-post and ashe's husband A bit over ten years ago, I broke a 5 year LTR when I started doing "red pill"-things. Like you, it was uncalibrated, harsh and cold. I loved her so much and she loved me too. My only problem was the lack of sex. We had sex weekly, but my sex drive is wayyy higher than that. She said she desired me and found me attractive, but it was obvious that she didn't feel it. No blowjobs, never initiated etc. My current usually has her lips around my dick several times per day because she loves it and I'm…	/r/MarriedRedPill	14/06/17 07:56 AM
9	If you must co-habitate, what are your tips to avoid ruining it? If you carefully read the comments on the cohabitation thread posted on the sidebar, you get some contradicting opinions. My last two serious LTRs both lived with me within a month. For anyone whose long term goal is LTRs, practicing it is crucial. It takes entirely different skills to be happy in an LTR than to run plates. Some quick tips: Read the sidebar at married red pill. Be ready to end it. Keep finances separate. Save money so you have options. Keep your own friends. Don't get a place th…	/r/askTRP	14/06/17 06:46 AM
1	The Red Pill App Infrastructure and communication is the fundament upon which everything is built.	/r/TheRedPill	13/06/17 06:45 AM
2	The Red Pill App Not caring whether a particular girl fucks you is not the same as not being worried about being witchhunted for having the wrong ideas.	/r/TheRedPill	13/06/17 06:37 AM
1	The Red Pill App I'm on the left side, but free speech is the fundamental basis of a free and strong society. I have experience working with security and confidential information such as in banks, and if I had more time I could help out with such a project. Programmers have a long and strong history of doing that for free: open source. If they make it open source I might contribute. If they don't, it won't be secure anyway. Not sure about the advantages over Signal, but these are smart people, even if we disagre…	/r/TheRedPill	13/06/17 06:26 AM
1	How can I avoid interacting with my friends wife on a personal level? I have alpha friends and beta friends. Some of the alphas would fuck my girl if they could and I'd trust some of the betas with my life. Perhaps you have different definitions of alpha and beta than I do.	/r/askTRP	13/06/17 12:42 AM
1	How can I avoid interacting with my friends wife on a personal level? Wtf. Betas are not poison. A lot of great guys are betas.	/r/askTRP	12/06/17 10:57 PM
12	Are u forced to lie to women in the workplace if u are good at what u do and wanna be left alone? Great stuff. I can add some things that have worked for me. I'm never "free", I'm always busy with some real work. There's always an enormous backlog of things that could be done in a company, so whenever I finish all my tasks I just assign myself on new stuff. Part of doing a great job is to study and improve yourself like OP is doing, which I do as part of those tasks. This also usually keeps it relevant to the company I'm into and their problems, even if you learn generally useful skills. I a…	/r/askTRP	12/06/17 10:47 PM
1	Words of caution: followed TRP advice, dumped my LTR who loved me, ended up alone and suicidal There's no honor in throwing acid in some bitch's face. Not "alpha". Just some loser neckbeard at heart with no options. Dark triad here means stuff like narcissism, selfishness and manipulation, not being a dumbass violent criminal. If you're willing to throw away your life for any woman it only shows you have zero abundance mentality. I suggest you read some more positive books, like Stephen Covey's Seven Habits, or How to win friends and influence people. Or mindfulness books. The way of the …	/r/TheRedPill	12/06/17 08:26 PM
3	How long should I go cold turkey? Good to know.	/r/askTRP	12/06/17 02:52 PM
7	Mildly bitchy LTR Have you read the sidebar?	/r/askTRP	12/06/17 02:45 PM
1	What are some boundaries you have? If you do want more advice though, feel free to message me. Much better to ask you here in the open, so more people can benefit.	/r/askTRP	12/06/17 02:39 PM
11	How long should I go cold turkey? Why don't you ask the experts, /r/nofap?	/r/askTRP	12/06/17 02:33 PM
3	What are the best genes? Your genes don't encapsulate how you act and how you make them feel. I used to be a beta bucks good listener boyfriend with girls with "low libido" problems, now I'm not. My DNA didn't change when I swallowed some bitter pills. In fact, all your babbling about genes is not part of the solution to the problem you're asking about: "to learn how a good relationship maintanence works in the longest term" You're having the XY problem. http://xyproblem.info/	/r/askTRP	12/06/17 10:24 AM
3	Paying on first dates I never go for meals on first dates anyway. One of the most boring kinds of dates imaginable, and opens you up for girls who just want to use you for some free food.	/r/askTRP	12/06/17 07:56 AM
4	Got my LTR pregnant and she hates me now. Lots of valuable advice in sidebar: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3vri4k/you_got_a_stranger_pregnant_a_guide/	/r/askTRP	11/06/17 07:19 PM
1	Tinder Date: Tried to Beta Bux me, resisted and held frame to a very poor reaction. Wondering why Use something like rankmyphotos.com to empirically test various photos until you find the best set. Also perhaps post some logs and get feedback on your approach.	/r/askTRP	09/06/17 06:10 PM
1	Beta backslide and how to regain control of frame? What's your mission? What are your long term goals? A parking lot blowjob? (edit: actually, that's not a bad goal on a Friday night). Living with a purpose is what you are built for. Take yourself to the next level. Women are the side plates and desserts of life. They can't truly satisfy you by themselves. The Way of the Superior Man is great for getting into such ideas.	/r/askTRP	09/06/17 02:35 PM
1	Beta backslide and how to regain control of frame? I'm usually all for keeping your word as a man, but she told you not to bother. "I'll talk to you tomorrow" also means "I will allow a conversation tomorrow, but not until then". There's absolutely no way you can keep an alpha frame by taking contact first. You don't have better things to do than to supplicate to her?	/r/askTRP	09/06/17 02:20 PM
3	Holly shit test I think you should also work on handling shit tests in a way that's funny and amusing to you. Only extremely rarely do I respond harshly to my SO. Joke and play with her, get physical (tickle, wrestle, laugh) etc. Think amused mastery. Think "fitness test" not "shit test". Are you fit enough for her to relax into your leadership?	/r/MarriedRedPill	08/06/17 07:52 PM
1	Does anyone on here know of a good depression forum/resource? I went to my doctor, got some SSRIs and it fixed itself. It was a really shitty time, but my attitude was that I have a temporary problem in my brain and I'm sure it will pass.	/r/askTRP	06/06/17 10:02 AM
1	Lost girl because I couldn't get hard, anyone else struggeled with this? I'm 36, so happened to me a few times too, every few years, especially with girls I perhaps subconsciously consider out of my league. Performance anxiety is a thing. I make sure to get them off with my hands and otherwise make it seem as normal as I can. And it is normal. Happened with my current LTR too, couldn't get it up for a week. It's not necessarily a broken plate. This should be your attitude: it's just a temporary problem, it will pass.	/r/askTRP	05/06/17 09:24 PM
3	How does having a high SMV friend affect your success with women? If he's a good wing, it's an amazing asset. I used to go out with a much better looking guy, and us having fun together gave me a lot of easy status. Clearly it was easier for him to pull, but that didn't hurt me. We both gave a vibe of abundance.	/r/askTRP	05/06/17 08:27 PM
1	Caught extreme feelings, this has not happened in over 3 years. My endgame has always been an LTR, so clearly anyone I click with in that way is a prospect. Sounds like your current LTR doesn't inspire such feelings, so personally I'd break it with her and do the gf routine with the new one.	/r/askTRP	05/06/17 06:07 PM
7	I asked some advice about women gossiping in another subreddit and hell rained on me... is this a BP thing? You don't get any extra points because you're a man and she's not. I have met incompetent guys and competent women. Honestly, your communication skills are obviously subpar. What she did is not gossiping, and she's not talking down your company (though she's badmouthing a client, which is potentially much worse). However, there are many clients which are bad and not worth it, and that's a valid criticism. Your reply should have been a good counterargument, not just repeating some crap about how …	/r/askTRP	05/06/17 12:26 AM
2	Had 3 dates with this girl. Tried to kiss her, got rejected. I want to meet her again to get closure and learn. Am I just making up reasons to be a beta pussy? I don't think you are a pussy. You are improving yourself and using the resources available to you to succeed. However, you repeatedly give her your most valuable resource, time. And your attention, thoughts, feelings. For nothing. And now you wanted to do it more. If it's not orbiting, it's awfully close. I recommend you David Deida's Way of The Superior Man, chapter 7 and 11, they're two pages long. Hate the title, love most of the book. It really struck a chord with me.	/r/askTRP	27/05/17 10:13 PM
3	Had 3 dates with this girl. Tried to kiss her, got rejected. I want to meet her again to get closure and learn. Am I just making up reasons to be a beta pussy? Agree, that's not so bad in itself when you're starting out, as long as you at the same time are going out to pursue other leads. You are a beta orbiter, she gives signals to keep you interested, so push hard for something more and ghost her if she rejects you again, if you absolutely must. However, DON'T do #1. Don't practice spewing your feelings at girls. Practice shutting up with girls, it's a better default. A lot of guys have made this mistake, including me. DO speak with male friends abou…	/r/askTRP	27/05/17 08:41 PM
1	[Ultimate Beta] Don't be like me, I told my feelings to my crush and this is what happened I don't want to hear opposing viewpoints to change their minds, I want to hear them to improve mine.	/r/TheRedPill	26/05/17 06:43 AM
2	I want to quit. I feel lied to, from feminists and conservatives. For most people, Accutane is a true cure for acne. Check out if it's a possibility for you.	/r/RedPillWomen	25/05/17 10:58 AM
47	Hiring an escort is like hiring any other service provider One good reason to try it is that it creates instant internalized abundance mentality. Pretty much whatever my problem, I can get sex within hours if I decide to. If my gf stops putting out for whatever reason, I can just rent a hottie. I don't need time to get back in the game. At least for me, this fact gives me an attitude which is very attractive to her. I tried it when my Spanish "love of my life" broke up with me and I was heartbroken and messed up for months. I went nofap to create some d…	/r/TheRedPill	24/05/17 11:30 PM
1	Meditation question. Grief is a natural and healthy way to deal with loss, whether it's a pet, friend or family. Or all three at once. Don't sweat it. For meditation, I personally try to feel the emotions as intensely as I can, and then let go. Breathe in: feel, breathe out: let go. Never beat yourself up for "meditating wrong", just every time you notice yourself going off somewhere in your mind, gently and lovingly pull yourself back in. I can recommend "Awakening Loving-Kindness" by Pema Chodron, a mindfulness bo…	/r/askTRP	24/05/17 10:44 PM
3	HOW TO PREPARE YOUR BODY AND MIND FOR IMMINENT VIOLENCE That's a great game, thanks, I'm going to start doing this too. You see, modern society in the West has made men so comfortable that they no longer fear physical violence. One of the most important articles I have read is High Risk Behavior and Knowing Where You Are. That website is packed with great quality self-defense behaviors that you can use to early recognize and de-escalate or get out of dangerous situations, or how to react if the shit really goes down.	/r/TheRedPill	24/05/17 03:19 PM
3	How do I get over the fact that my gexirlfriend is a hoe? Your Girlfriend Is A Raging Slut! How Does That Make You Feel?	/r/askTRP	24/05/17 02:57 PM
14	I ratted on a coworker and got him fired for constantly trying to keep me down... did I overreact? Should I have worked on the issue differently? No tears, but also never gloat. It gives nothing of value and can trigger revenge. Much more effective to fake sympathy.	/r/askTRP	24/05/17 02:43 PM
1	Caught GF lying, Thinking of ending it. Agreed. I'd like to add a couple of things. First, not only right, but it's very important that he's thinking of ending it. It's exactly the right attitude, showing abundance and high standards. Instead of ending it, I think this is a great opportunity to set in place higher standards in the relationship. You can escalate such things quite a lot, given sufficient love, attachment and SMV based dread. For example, you can say you expect a nude photo every day. I get coffee and a bj in the morning…	/r/askTRP	24/05/17 02:35 PM
3	Hacking Female Neurochemistry Watch "Brainwash", listed here in the sidebar as Gender Studies is Nonsense. They literally closed the Nordic Gender Institute because of this documentary series.	/r/TheRedPill	24/05/17 01:40 PM
2	Using Dread and working the hamster in my favor. What next? It's easy to overdo the aloofness/coldness that most people think "applying dread" means, leading you to lose the plate, which sounds like the status she should have to you. Don't think so much about what she thinks, simply focus 100% on improving you. Only do things with her that you really want to do yourself. She doesn't sound like she's supplying sufficient sex, so start talking to more women. I seen her at her old folks place a couple days ago because I had to help them with stuff and I als…	/r/askTRP	24/05/17 11:52 AM
3	Does public speaking become easier to deal with as you make gains in the gym? Nothing helps as much as joining Toastmasters. Practice speaking publicly often and you'll improve quickly.	/r/askTRP	21/05/17 11:39 AM
7	LTR of 1y3m went to Bachelorette party. How should I handle? If you don't like her past, if you don't like what she thinks is OK, etc., simply don't consider her for a LTR.	/r/askTRP	21/05/17 11:32 AM
4	Just swallowed. Starting out. Don't shit where you eat. Practice outside a work environment, unless you love drama.	/r/askTRP	21/05/17 11:28 AM
2	Seeking to Better Understand Average TRP Users Yes. Obviously there are physical and psychological differences, created by evolution. Forced to have sex? That's absolutely not advocated here. What's advocated is being good enough that women want to have sex with you willingly. In my relationships I want to be the leader. I want a more submissive partner. I used to be much more equally minded, but I find that this type of relationship makes both of us very happy. Now I cultivate my positive masculine parts, and I praise her feminine sides rel…	/r/askTRP	20/05/17 12:54 AM
3	quitting my video game addiction/food addiction. tips? Set some goals and stop gaming completely until you have reached them. Uninstall them, Steam, everything to make it more of an effort to relapse. After a week without games you'll see a big difference. Worked for me at least. There's /r/stopgaming too.	/r/askTRP	20/05/17 12:38 AM
9	I realized I only date girls who have no father. That's weird. What is it about me that causes this? Not a lot of info, but my guess is that your approach works with girls with daddy issues, and feels manipulative for the more secure ones.	/r/askTRP	19/05/17 12:17 AM
8	How to hold in your tears I think if my grandson cried when I left, I'd feel like I'd done a superb job, not that he's weak. My father sometimes get teared up when me and my brother comes visiting with our families. Nobody thinks he's weak. Emotions are not signs of weakness, as long as you don't wallow in them or let them control you. Use them as really strong motivators. For example, you can use that feeling to do what you can to become a great parent yourself.	/r/askTRP	18/05/17 08:27 PM
1	Female pressuring me to quit job Ok, you're probably good then. I guess I'm getting a very unprofessional "bro" feel from you talking so much about dominance and calling her a fatty all the time.	/r/askTRP	18/05/17 08:21 PM
1	Female pressuring me to quit job There's something off with what you're saying and how you're replying and framing things. I recommend that you talk with some of the men there that you get along with and get confirmation that it's not you that is acting strangely.	/r/askTRP	18/05/17 07:25 PM
1	Female pressuring me to quit job What do you mean by 'emotionally dominant'?	/r/askTRP	18/05/17 06:51 PM
1	Female pressuring me to quit job Personally I'd take the meeting with a smile and secretly started job hunting. Life is too short to live in toxic environments, especially if you can easily avoid it. I have a salary job now, with a lot of good friends, but the last 8 years I've been consulting. I had been working for about 5 years too, when I took the plunge into consulting. However, I had an older mentor and consulting partner who had a big network that I could tap into. If you have the skills, consulting is a much better situ…	/r/askTRP	18/05/17 06:10 PM
1	Female pressuring me to quit job What's your status in this company, and your status in your professional network generally? How easy is it for you to find a new job?	/r/askTRP	18/05/17 05:20 PM
1	AWALT, even the person you think breaks that law more beta creeping? There is no need to read her shit. Trust your gut. I know it isn't easy and I have checked up on a gf, but NOT "on the regular". I shouldn't have even done that. My gut told me everything I needed to know. Perhaps not, but I like to do it anyway. I take her phone when we're in bed and just read through her stuff in front of her.	/r/TheRedPill	15/05/17 12:21 AM
1	AWALT, even the person you think breaks that law I see your points, but I don't think you see the context of LTRs. You're completely right when it comes to plates, of course. However, in 5 year+ relationships, perhaps with kids, living together for years etc., you don't want to just next, next, next at the slightest problem. You can't expect to keep up the initial in-love feelings constantly. It's impossible to have those hormones raging around for extended amounts of time. Eventually, there's always a risk that you're out of frame for whateve…	/r/TheRedPill	15/05/17 12:16 AM
6	How does Family affects a girl. Agreed. This is basically a horoscope, apart from a few things like "if she has serious daddy issues" which actually considers the girl in question. For an LTR, I would strongly prefer a girl where the parents are not divorced, but even that is negotiable if the rest is good enough.	/r/TheRedPill	14/05/17 08:47 PM
2	AWALT, even the person you think breaks that law I also want to live in a blue-pilled world. Too bad reality isn't like that. I trust my girlfriend, but I still verify.	/r/TheRedPill	13/05/17 08:51 PM
-1	AWALT, even the person you think breaks that law It's a violation, but not a terminal one. In any LTR you have to accept that someone will fall in love with someone else. It can happen to the man and the woman. You have to guard your own feelings against it, and you have to mate guard your woman against it. AWALT, so read her messages, her social media, email, everything on the regular. You should know if she's regularly talking with someone. If you find out something like this, that's not yet physical in any way, it's ultimatum time. She need…	/r/TheRedPill	13/05/17 06:02 PM
2	Do I roll back? Citing yourself is not the same as liking your own facebook profile picture. Absolutely nothing wrong with pointing someone to your earlier writing.	/r/MarriedRedPill	11/05/17 11:01 PM
5	Do I roll back? I agree with you. That's why I never promised to be faithful, in fact, I vowed to be unfaithful if the sex stops. I lived in a "deadbedroom", (for me that meant having sex once every week or two), and I told my current that I'd never accept that again. Surprise, she wakes me with a blowjob and coffee pretty much every day. I also agree that the family unit should be the priority. However, a family weekend "connecting" with the extended family is not necessarily that important. If that was up aga…	/r/MarriedRedPill	11/05/17 10:40 PM
3	Wow...I just totally lost my shit. Okay, be a little bitchy teenager if you want to, not coming home when you say you will. "You do you!" Though, expect a shitty, boring conflict when you get home. Hypergamy does care about your honor, because it shows you're a man and not a child. You instill the same amount of dread by just going out and having fun, without pointlessly lying about it.	/r/MarriedRedPill	11/05/17 09:03 PM
3	Wow...I just totally lost my shit. I'm sorry, but do you really believe that deliberately weakening your word by lying about something so inconsequential is a good idea? "Keeping your word" is a masculine trait, in men or women. A person with a feminine essence may not keep her word, yet it is not exactly "lying" In the feminine reality, words and facts take a second place to emotions and the shifting moods of relationship. When she says, "I hate you," or "I'll never move to Texas," or "I don't want to go to the movies," it is of…	/r/MarriedRedPill	11/05/17 08:07 PM
3	Wow...I just totally lost my shit. I like your advice, except saying you'll be home at 8:30 and coming home later. As a man you should stand by your words unless there's a damn good reason not to. You achieve the same by not saying anything.	/r/MarriedRedPill	11/05/17 12:22 AM
1	The smartest dogs are easiest to train So then you don't train them as much as possible, like you claimed. Have them in the bed when they are completely house trained. It's not rocket science.	/r/MarriedRedPill	11/05/17 12:09 AM
1	The smartest dogs are easiest to train two schnauzers who think breakfast and potty break is at 6am. Don't worry though, they will piss on the floor and then come wake you up for breakfast That's the point of caging them at night. They don't like to piss where they sleep, so you just take them out immediately when you wake up.	/r/MarriedRedPill	04/05/17 07:03 PM
2	How to get value out of a relationship? Do you even like this woman?	/r/askMRP	04/05/17 06:49 PM
1	The smartest dogs are easiest to train I don't understand. You live with two dogs that piss on the floor, but you can't do anything about it? If you're diligent I guess it'd take not more than a week to break the habit.	/r/MarriedRedPill	04/05/17 06:46 PM
1	The smartest dogs are easiest to train You have not house trained your dogs? Yuck. Get some crates asap and deal with that properly.	/r/MarriedRedPill	04/05/17 08:36 AM
1	Look Within Yourself Before You Blame Your LTR Check out first chapters, especially the chapter "Begin with the end in mind", from Seven Habits of Highly Effective People. It explains in detail a method for establishing your principles, values and mission.	/r/TheRedPill	05/04/17 11:24 PM
4	[FR] First Ever Field Report, BRUTAL SHIT TESTING. That was true 12 years ago. When The Game came out in 2005 and PUA theory became common knowledge every single tryhard pickup artist have been insulting women left and right. You need to rattle her cage real loud. You have to impose yourself into her life. Every move you make should be go-for-broke. Eventually she'll break and ask "why are u so mean to me? Do u not like me?" Show a chat log where that approach has worked, please.	/r/TheRedPill	05/04/17 05:14 PM
6	[FR] First Ever Field Report, BRUTAL SHIT TESTING. Look at the niceguys or creepypms subreddit and you'll see what I mean. Basically it goes like this: Hi :) Hello [some small talk] Let's go out for coffee [... no reply for 1 hour] Fucking bitch don't deserve a nice guy like me	/r/TheRedPill	05/04/17 03:31 PM
1	[FR] First Ever Field Report, BRUTAL SHIT TESTING. soon you can be like 'hey you're that one.' she'll be like 'what one fuk u' you'll be like 'the one whose' attitude was so fucked i threw her number away. literally wrote it down, to throw it away, cause delete just wouldnt do it justice.' Jesus. How about not caring at all? What's with all this getting so hung up on some woman he cold approached? It's simple: If a woman doesn't want you, don't care, next, move on with your life and find one that wants you. You want outcome independence, not "sh…	/r/TheRedPill	05/04/17 01:26 PM
3	[FR] First Ever Field Report, BRUTAL SHIT TESTING. She has given almost no indicators of interest apart from giving her number (possibly fake). Going on such a no-context negging spree after a slight rejection is just typical loser niceguy behavior. It's a way better strategy to just ignore her and take up the thread again when they meet again. Demonstrates value and non-needyness.	/r/TheRedPill	05/04/17 09:37 AM
1	Clothing? https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Isotretinoin	/r/askTRP	26/03/17 09:19 AM
4	askTRP Megathread March 22 What the others say, but to really improve skills you need to DO, not just watch/study. Write your own jokes, consistently. E.g. post a joke to some forum/subreddit every day. To learn how to speak on your feet join an improv group, or perhaps approach 365 girls with your daily joke for getting that practice in as well. I followed this guy's newsletter advice for a while: http://www.humorpower.com/ (Warning: Pastel overload)	/r/TheRedPill	22/03/17 05:39 PM
1	Why do single mothers sabotage their children? Lol, shit happens, not often I'm accused of using "SJW tactics".	/r/TheRedPill	21/03/17 08:47 PM
0	Why do single mothers sabotage their children? Wtf are you on about? Read it again: My story was my XGF"s mother continuously was trying to sabotage our relationship (a woman who has 5 children from 4 different men, 3 of which have no contact with their children, the 4th a BB). Eventually succeeding, getting the hamsters a spinning, and encouraging my XGF to falsely accuse me of domestic violence, child abuse, being a drug addict, yadda yadda yadda, even slapped me around with a couple of protection orders. I got stuck with supervised visita…	/r/TheRedPill	21/03/17 03:01 PM
10	Why do single mothers sabotage their children? You condone lying about domestic violence and drug use to get custody, or do you believe he's lying and that this kind of stuff doesn't happen in real life? You should go back to makeupaddiction and paint up the real grime that is you.	/r/TheRedPill	21/03/17 11:25 AM
1	Man immediately breaks up with his girlfriend of 5 years after she suggests an open relationship. She doesn't understand why and is "heartbroken." If that was your entire message, it was perfectly fine. It's basically a polite next. If it was actually long and sappy, it would probably be better if you didn't send it. You should not have sent it "with a dual purpose"; you know you had already made the right decision to cut contact with her. Who wants that kind of annoyance in their life? Anyway, since you didn't end up playing her game it ended up being just for the single purpose anyway. Now stop giving any more thought about how you appea…	/r/TheRedPill	02/03/17 08:28 PM
1	Man immediately breaks up with his girlfriend of 5 years after she suggests an open relationship. She doesn't understand why and is "heartbroken." There's nothing wrong with making statements that define your boundaries, e.g. "I'd immediately leave any woman who would [...]" in response to discussing some abstract situation. I have done that several times after reading some stupid relationship post, and it just seem to work like a basic dread game. It displays an abundance mentality. However, you seem to be talking about something that annoys you that you would like to change about her. Or she cheated, or implied that she would, or whateve…	/r/TheRedPill	02/03/17 07:11 PM
3	My Improvements Really well done, it's not so often you see people completely turn around like you've done.	/r/seduction	01/03/17 12:23 PM
7	My Improvements What the fuck is wrong with you? You seem like you're just trying to be negative ... which is a really sad way to live your life. You can't be with The One unless you're able to seduce her anyway.	/r/seduction	01/03/17 12:22 PM
1	If you're failing with girls... do this one thing. You think drinking 5 glasses of milk per day is extremely unhealthy? That's silly. Lol, you should check out the "GOMAD" program. Literally "Gallon of milk a day". https://stronglifts.com/gomad-milk-squats-gallon-gain-weight/	/r/seduction	22/02/17 09:51 AM
1	If you're failing with girls... do this one thing. I don't think it's extremely unhealthy to eat a bit of dark chocolate each day, though real food is better for sure. The problem is that I don't enjoy eating so much, so I could never stick with it. After I reached my target weight I stopped. The end result is that I'm healthier than I would have been if I didn't.	/r/seduction	21/02/17 11:05 AM
4	5 years, 100+ chicks later. Here's a distilled summary of what I've learned. In both situations you have the same value as a human being Not as a mate.	/r/seduction	19/02/17 08:03 PM
2	[Ultimate Beta] Don't be like me, I told my feelings to my crush and this is what happened So what if he was in love with her? She doesn't owe him anything. I sympathize with him, I've been in several similar situations myself. For example, my ex, who I was still in love with, tried to explain to me how she was trying to cope with her new guy fucking another girl in her own (my ex's) apartment. She said she needed to learn how to have a more open mind. Did I take some kind of petty revenge on her for breaking my precious little heart? No, I just thanked the non-existent gods she was s…	/r/TheRedPill	19/02/17 07:44 PM
1	[Ultimate Beta] Don't be like me, I told my feelings to my crush and this is what happened /u/Macheako is not OP. So that's not OP he's replying to, that revenge fantasy is some "nice guy" level beta shit that no self-respecting man should even spend two seconds considering. Hey, if it's your fiancé that's cheating on you, certainly make the break-up spectacular, but this girl had no relationship with him. He's even talking about building character. Be a lying piece of shit for no reason? What kind of character is that building? An archetypical nice guy.	/r/TheRedPill	19/02/17 06:10 PM
4	[Ultimate Beta] Don't be like me, I told my feelings to my crush and this is what happened You have created an echo-chamber. Congratulations. Why try to ineffectively fight anyway? It's just throwing away your life for nothing. If your intent is to make a difference, you need to try to change their minds with the appropriate level of rethoric (like I'm trying with you now), or shut up and do something productive.	/r/TheRedPill	19/02/17 05:42 PM
2	If you're failing with girls... do this one thing. I've got "skinny genes" too, but when I started counting calories it was obvious that I just wasn't consuming enough. I simply added drinking 1 liter of milk per day and one chocolate bar of 150 grams. That's adding about 1300 calories to my normal diet of about 1800 cals, and it's not hard at all.	/r/seduction	19/02/17 01:42 PM
2	If you're failing with girls... do this one thing. If you don't gain weight, you're simply not eating enough. Protein powder is not enough. Count calories. Check out /r/gainit	/r/seduction	19/02/17 12:13 PM
0	The Red Pill Right Very good post, one which you should have made instead of your completely ineffectual posts. Just one thing: It's principle is one of the things that is completely unique to the US This point is so wrong it's funny. See https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Separation_of_church_and_state#In_various_countries	/r/TheRedPill	07/02/17 09:05 PM