So I'd consider myself a "chad"

I've got a nice fit body, play guitar in a somewhat successful local band, sexually active, get paid 60k per year at 22 years old at an engineering career, got my own place.

Gonna be honest. I have oneitis for a "plate"

So we fuck and go on "dates," but we both still see other people (at least I do, I just assume she does cause her tinder's still up) Been doing this for about a year

I tell her I love her after we fuck one day because fuck it that's how I feel why not say it. She blushes and says I'm "so nice" (oof!) and changes the subject. Doesn't say she loves me back. I play it off. We still fuck later and hang.

I mean,

You're ripped, You're rich, you're successful, you're a musician, you're rough and dominant in bed, you fuck the shit out of her, she still doesn't love you. Pretty sure trp science would say she'd cling to you for dear life if you hit all those points. (and fuck someone on the side if she's not satisfied, but try to keep it on the down low)

I know that no one else's approval or thoughts about you should matter but come on. Let's drop the facade. We're all fucking humans here. Occasionally we come across people who we'll particularly give a shit about

I guess my question is..

Does TRP gives advice for hitting all the right spots to get a girl to want to fuck you. And it works

But..is actual affection beyond lust just something that we can't do anything about?