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| 7 | How often is too often?You can't briefly review the sidebar. Unless you've read the books you shouldn't even really post here because you're wasting everyone's most of all YOUR time. Just read the books, then read Rollo's Rational Male, Year one. If you still have questions, then ask. | /r/askMRP | 07/04/20 03:31 PM |
| 2 | Need some adviceThere is a reason people tell newbs to stfu and text only for logistics. I guess you missed the memo. | /r/askMRP | 22/12/19 12:26 AM |
| 2 | How to make her cum vaginally?For my wife once she gets the first from oral, the second and third are much easier and faster. Once she had three from oral then it's just a matter of me lasting long enough during sex to get her the vaginal. | /r/askMRP | 13/10/19 09:29 PM |
| 2 | Broke up with my girlfriend after she tried breaking up with me 4 timesAfter that text I blocked her on all social media and haven't looked back. What is this post then? You're still looking back. The sidebar lists The Rational Male - The best of year one. In there you will find IRON RULES. Rule #7 answers your question. | /r/askMRP | 15/04/19 12:01 PM |
| 3 | She wants to turn it into a long distance relationshipJust read the rational male and go from there. There really is nothing to salvage here. I'm busy as shit. I'm a doctor. Just read the fucking sidebar. | /r/askMRP | 27/03/19 07:03 PM |
| 7 | Why post-breakup GF asks for reunion, but turns into a bitch once I'm about to accept?She wants a man but everytime she gives you a chance she gets a boy. You're too affected by her moods and to much focused on an ltr where it should be her job to make you want one with her. Have you read the rational male? You may want to start there. | /r/askMRP | 22/03/19 04:15 PM |
| 3 | Alright brothers, serious question time and in need of seriously good advice. This is long.What are your opinions? Should I just cut my losses now or do I wait until she is here and actually in the relationship again? Our opinions are irrelevant. You were LDR so no relationship really. You were basically pen pals with government contract (marriage certificate) tying you together. She's coming to US in a month. Will have a job. You just STFU, keep lifting, reading the sidebar and take it from there. Either she will be a good wife fucking your brains out or you will next her. Don't base… | /r/askMRP | 08/02/19 04:37 PM |
| 2 | At an interesting crossroads and could use some input.Do I end this marriage when I still have so much I could do better? Forget the 3 month ultimatum. Ultimatums are something you do from a point of strength or not at all. Do you love her or the idea of her? Apart from sex, does she bring value to your life? You say you don't trust her. Is it only about her financial decisions that you don't trust, or her in general? | /r/askMRP | 03/12/18 01:01 PM |
| 6 | Thinking of ending LTRShe's still in high school, clearly likes the boy in her class and he likes her too. Sometimes high school crushes work out, more often they do not. I am thinking AWALT, and break up with her. Start losing weight and eat healthy. Sounds like a good plan, just add lifting weights to it and look into dating girls out of high school. | /r/askMRP | 29/11/18 12:34 PM |
| 11 | Moving In To An Apartment With Pregnant LTR. What's The Best Approach?It'd be a 2 bedroom, and one of the bedrooms would be a guest room Are a you troll or just a young, dumb and stupid? Whatever you do, the 2nd bedroom has to be the nursery. If you need an office get a 3 bedroom place or one with a basement you could use. You're a father now and I know you don't believe it's real yet, but once that baby comes, EVERYTHING will change. The dog will make finding rent harder. Especially a German Shepherd. If you were looking to rent from me that would automatically d… | /r/askMRP | 13/11/18 09:47 PM |
| 3 | Disrespectful during moveYou're moving, she's overwhelmed and is taking it out on you. She's not pissed about you "not doing it right" she is pissed at the situation. By the way, those are in fact shit tests she is throwing your way and you are in fact failing them. You are reacting to her outbursts, you are not being her emotional rock, unmoved by her highs and lows. Any suggestions on what I should do? Get a dumpster or a tag sale. Between the two of you you have too much shit. You both need to let go of some of it, o… | /r/askMRP | 09/11/18 12:26 PM |
| 18 | Alpha married with older women?How do you explain this? Both women were rich to begin with, both actresses, both very pretty. These two could basically bang 18yo top models They could very well be doing that with their wife's blessing and participation. | /r/askMRP | 31/10/18 11:35 AM |
| 20 | wife says, “I don’t know what game you’re playing “I think right now there are quite a few issues that make the situation much more than a typical attraction and frame situation. 1) 1 Month old baby. 2) Wife recovering from giving birth 3) Sleep deprivation 4) Typical stress from mixed family 5) Husband that is angry, not fun, has unstable job, dangerous hobbies and is acting differently then ever before. All that is putting her under a great deal of stress. You're supposed to be her rock, a person to lean on. Instead you're one more person she … | /r/askMRP | 29/10/18 03:31 PM |
| 2 | New red pill here in need of guidance from the vetsSounds like she's checked out and is looking for feelz ie she's looking for someone to give her something that you don't. You can't fix that while deployed. Cut your communication with her to bare minimum and only focus on the kids. Let her worry that you found the same thing that she's looking for instead. Depending on how long you are deployed you may find yourself replaced because if she keeps on looking she will eventually find it. | /r/askMRP | 21/10/18 11:13 AM |
| 13 | BlowjobsHow is this the top upvoted answer? You're telling him to negotiate attraction and to go rambo if it doesn't work? The correct answer is to up his attractiveness including his personal hygiene, kino his girl and implement more dread, IE life apart from her. Right now she doesn't feel like doing something for him cause he is not giving her the feels. Nothing fixes that like more kino and dread from an attractive man. | /r/askMRP | 16/10/18 11:09 AM |
| 2 | Is this blatant disrespect OR shit test?Her last LTR was very controlling, so she always tries to gauge whether I'll try to control her That is a lie told to men who see disrespectful behavior and instead of bailing, they try to make her stop. You can't control her, you can only control yourself. This was not a shit test. Shit test is also known as compliance/fitness test from book Married Man Sex Life Primer. This was blatant disrespect and if you're not married you should demote her to a plate, ie start dating other women. If you li… | /r/askMRP | 12/10/18 02:48 PM |
| 5 | Wife accepted gift from another dude?Plot twist, it's a retirement gift after 25 years of service. | /r/askMRP | 10/10/18 01:55 PM |
| 3 | Going through a rough patch. Loss of confidence. How to DHV and maintain attraction?Do yourself a favor and read the rational male. Afterward read the three sidebar books, starting with NMMNG. Your value lies in your potential and you just being the awesome guy that you are. The funny, charming, fit and sexy guy that other women want to bang but she has him all to herself. At least she does when she's not being a bitch. That's where your value lies. That's why we say hit the gym. It's not so that you can run to burn off that coke you had for lunch or that beer you drank after d… | /r/askMRP | 10/10/18 12:42 PM |
| 3 | Anger PhaseYears later married with children and fucking pissed off Wife or her behavior to you are often reflection of her husband. Improve yourself, give it some time, then re-evaluate. She might just turn out to be great. Don't make any rash decision when in anger phase. | /r/askMRP | 06/10/18 03:44 PM |
| 11 | Anyone done a sex moratorium from NMMNG?While sex is the ultimate goal here While it's not a lie, if that is your ultimate goal you might be disappointed. Your ultimate goal is to improve yourself and become your own man, independent of your wife's moods. More sex is a side effect of that. | /r/askMRP | 06/10/18 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Do a lot of men let their wives know the pin to their phones?She knows mine, I have my fingerprint added to hers. She knows my reddit username. I know all the passwords we use. The main reason our phones are locked is for easier unlocking with finger print. Otherwise you'd have to press power then slide to unlock. | /r/askMRP | 20/09/18 12:06 PM |
| 4 | FR--Woman's Post on DeadBedrooms Confirms EVERYTHING We're Working Towards Here in MRPslept with 100ish women...my wife is asexual and only had sex to have kids. BULLSHIT. You went through flirting, dating, getting engaged all along you were fucking like rabbits. Somehow she wasn't asexual then. Now that she has kids she's all of a sudden asexual and you're buying it? Either she pulled the greatest con job in the world given that you slept with 100 women or she's fucking with your head so you will fall in line. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/09/18 07:30 PM |
| 3 | Frame: I'm reading, applying yet failingNo more mr nice guy. The subtle art of not giving a fuck. The rational male. If you're in a relationship, you can add: When I say no I feel guilty. Married man sex life primer. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/18 12:20 PM |
| 3 | Frame: I'm reading, applying yet failingWhat are your thoughts on main failures of failing to hold frame? Taking the easy way out. If you fuck around and your SO calls you out on it you're gonna have a hard time holding frame. If you are taking care of your shit and for some reason she's emotional and says you do this and that instead of something she wants you to do then holding frame is easy as you can be amused and tease her etc instead of getting defensive and buying into her frame. Frame is a state of mind. State of confidence in… | /r/askTRP | 19/09/18 11:59 AM |
| 0 | Beta bux, alpha fux?My wife is at an executive level in her company, and she says her peers are constantly complaining about how their wives won’t fuck them Never mind that men won't even complain about that shit to their friends apart from an occasional joke how would that come up at your wife's workplace? In today's me too climate unless they are already intimate I can't see how it could come up. As for what you stated, it's pretty well known that rich doesn't mean his wife will get him laid. It's more likely she… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/09/18 12:50 PM |
| 10 | Sick Wife - We cant have sex anymore because im going through menopause.Don't. Not your job to fix her so she can have sex. In fact if you mention it, you will be the asshole that only cares about her health so he can fuck her. If she wanted to fuck you she would move heaven and earth to fuck you and would use her hands and mouth if she couldn't. Open your eyes and look at what she does, not what she says. If she wanted to fuck you but couldn't she would use her hands, mouth or ass. If she wanted to be intimate with you she would find a way. She just doesn't want to… | /r/askMRP | 06/09/18 11:58 AM |
| 1 | My gf told me she masturbated and came really hard to a co-worker.She's an LTR, for sure...For 1 year we've been in a long distance relationship. Read letting go of invisible friend. she wishes he wasn't engaged and she wishes he would strip for her. She's asking you to break up with her. she masturbated thinking about how he would take her. You just became her girlfriend. we almost never see each other and she finds the time to meet some instagram random dude, ditching me? She couldn't make it clearer anymore. She wants you to please let her go, you're just t… | /r/askTRP | 31/08/18 04:20 PM |
| 3 | LTR/Fiancee job relocating, how to deal?This is from the sidebar: Letting go of invisble friend. Long distance relationships. You know that doing this is giving your commitment for nothing, a future possibility of sex. In return she goes to new city, meet new people, ride the carousel and eventually will dump you. Why? Because you giving away your commitment for free lowers your value. Because she wants a man in her life. Because you are not there and she gets propositioned daily. Because she's human. Be a rational man and see it for … | /r/askMRP | 30/08/18 07:40 PM |
| 12 | The NMMNG / Red Pill contradictionThe target audience is a hubby plugged into the matrix or a wife trying to sober up her drunken captain. I actually read MMSLP first. Then moved to NMMNG so I skipped the sex moratorium part. I was fat, asking wife about any expense, in a semi-dead bedroom with BJs a fond memory. After reading half of NMMNG I signed up to a gym even though a month before she "forbid" me from spending the $30 a month it would cost me. Then told her about the gym, the book and that I wanted to have sex at least tw… | /r/askMRP | 29/08/18 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Have been in a ldr for 2 years, have to marry to be together, is it worth it?Asking for opinion of jaded men whether to get married or not is not the best idea. There is a thread on married red pill subreddit asking whether they would do it again. Some would, majority wouldn't though I have to think it's the internet bravado talking through some. | /r/askMRP | 29/08/18 04:01 PM |
| 3 | UPDATE: Crunch TimeIt's definitely highlighted my oneitis The first step is to admit that you have a problem. Good job. | /r/askMRP | 25/08/18 12:06 PM |
| 3 | Bouncer Tales 4: Bartender Beat-downI don't think it's as bad as you make it out to be. Joe Mixon knocked out a girl, fractured four bones in her face for barely a slap and got a probation. If this guy is as badly scratched as you say he is and has no criminal record he isn't going to jail. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/18 06:00 PM |
| 2 | What is the fly in the ointment of your success?That may be so, but it sure gives her opportunity for you to never find out. She's in another city, with people you don't know, a ONS in those circumstances is as easy as going down to the hotel bar and ordering a drink. Heck, it may not be even her intention to cheat when she gets that drink. You know, it just happens... | /r/askMRP | 23/08/18 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Virgin girl advice25 years old and no one was special enough to pop that cherry. What makes you think you're so special? If you are, act like you're with any other chick. Maybe spend some extra time on foreplay. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 07:49 PM |
| 4 | Providing comfort without being Beta... fixing her feelz during grief, etc.Edit: Never mind you cohabitate with a single mom, or used to be single mom. You were red pill aware while you chose to do that and now you're in a pickle. Have fun getting out of it. | /r/askMRP | 21/08/18 07:17 PM |
| 6 | woke up... at last... what with the sex now?Should I turn it down? No. I always warm her up with oral, and enter when she is close I usually get mine through 2 or 3 orgasms from finger/oral before I enter. Once she's had a few she's can get one from PIV faster. Then again different strokes for different folks. I had an ex who could get wet on demand and didn't need or want oral. I could just go into asshole mode, use her for sex, don't worry about PE, bust in 1-3 minutes and leave her hanging That's actually pretty much what TRP recommend… | /r/askMRP | 21/08/18 11:48 AM |
| 3 | Crunch timeIf I didn’t like fucking her so much I’d walk away Plate or dump, but don't be stupid and commit. | /r/askMRP | 20/08/18 01:59 AM |
| 4 | Why do women (including women who wouldn't consider themselves feminists) generally despise of the teachings of TRP?Women are gatekeepers of sex. Men (at least red pill men) are gatekeepers of commitment. TRP lowers the supply of marriageable men, and increases the amount of fuckboys. Women hate fuckboys because they get sex without giving commitment. So in essence women hate TRP because TRP fucks with supply of commitment from high value men. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/18 09:03 PM |
| 3 | Alpha Boss ProblemAt the crush itself, not at the guy. Having said that if she already had an affair with him then this poking fun thing is not going to have the desired effect. Op is screwed...or at least his wife is/was. | /r/askMRP | 14/08/18 01:58 PM |
| 3 | My girlfriend spends too much time with this guyThey spend 8+ hours together in the local library, go for food together, some days comes back at midnight, saying that she was taking a stroll with him...She went to his place a couple of times Sounds to me like they are dating. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/18 01:48 PM |
| 2 | Is my wife pregnant by another man (I need some advice)1) You should initiate divorce proceedings. 2) Challenge paternity through your lawyer. Given that you're married you are automatically presumed the father and will be on the hook for the next 18 (+college) years. In states such as Connecticut you only have 30 days after birth to challenge paternity if you're married. After that you're shit out of luck even if she lives with and marries the actual father. Yes the law is fucked up. 3) After that you may want to start reading the rational male or … | /r/askMRP | 07/08/18 12:46 PM |
| 3 | FWB got mad I turned down her exclusivity request, now she's posting shit on her social media trying to get me to react. What to do?What do people posting shit on social media are trying to achieve? Are you really surprised? | /r/askTRP | 06/08/18 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Key and lock queryIt's not really designed to be inflammatory. To me it's always been a funny analogy. Women are gatekeepers of sex after all. It's like a guy giving his commitment for a hope that someday he will get sex. You didn't have to work hard for it then it's not worth that much. Is it? | /r/askTRP | 06/08/18 01:47 PM |
| 1 | 37m slept with a girl I thought was singleIf he got out recently I don't think he's looking to get back in. Tell him you thought she was single and his problem lies with her, not with you. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/18 12:16 PM |
| 1 | Key and lock querythousands of plain keys that are designed to fit one lock,but can't open a single one That's cause they are rough around the edges and have not gone through polishing cycle. Once they do (ie, self improve) they may not become a master key, but they surely will open quite a few locks. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/18 12:10 PM |
| 2 | Just took MRP three days ago...need quick adviceshe still sees me as beta You're overthinking this. Just tell her "No." You don't want to DEER (defend, explain, excuse, rationalize.) You will learn more about it as you go through sidebar material. | /r/askMRP | 05/08/18 11:33 AM |
| 8 | How to get better in bed?Search for "the sex god method" on google and the top results will be MRP threads telling you how to find the book. Somehow I think though that being boring in bed is the least of your problems. | /r/askMRP | 28/07/18 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend got mad at me and we broke up for no reason, as I know..17, first relationship rarely lasts. Enjoy it for what it was and use it as a springboard for the next one. From your comments, know that there is not just one little thing you could do and fix your old relationship. 2 weeks barely seeing each other and she isn't all over you? Yeah, it isn't just one little thing. Ps. The reason that lead to the break up may not be a single guy. Maybe she enjoyed the attention and doesn't want to be tied down so that she can ride the carousel for the next decade… | /r/askTRP | 23/07/18 11:50 AM |
| 2 | Wife still wants to see friend who's in love with herShe still wants to see him When, where, how? How do you know he loves her? She told you? I assume since you just got here she's not fucking you? If you suspect affair you need to block until you self improve enough for her to notice. Be prepared to punt though and start over single. | /r/askMRP | 23/07/18 02:09 AM |
| 5 | Wow. Just starting out and the shit testing is heavy.she is going to freak out and leave me since she thinks I'm cheating on her. You're financing raising Chad's children, no way she's leaving you. How the fuck is she not just fucking my brains out if she wants to keep me? That's all the effort she needs to put in to keep you. she is very very Alpha from the start since she was a single mother of 4 for years after her ex went to prison She's an alpha widow and you're the doughboy that pays for her shit. Anything short of leaving will be wasted eff… | /r/askMRP | 18/07/18 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Her frame?I didn't say forgo paying for anything. I said that you need to develop a mindset that YOU are the prize. Then work from that point of view. That point of view is your frame. The rest was just to show you why tradition is like it is. Because the man historically was the prize the girl got through marriage. You pay for what you want to pay. It is YOUR wedding after all. Either way you're in for a shitshow of a marriage if you're going to keep your girl on a pedestal. Remember, sometimes she wants… | /r/askMRP | 11/07/18 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Her frame?You do not believe that you are the prize she's winning by marrying you. That mindset is your frame. Why is it tradition that a man should propose? Because the man chooses the woman to give his commitment to. Why is it tradition that the girl's parents pay for the wedding? Because the man she marries is the prize. What are you doing scheduling meetings to pick flowers for the wedding? You are the prize. Let her worry about the wedding, you just need to show up. Develop that mindset. Frame is a m… | /r/askMRP | 11/07/18 02:54 PM |
| 7 | Will sex increase once I become more successful?Make more money, do more chores and talk about your feelings. Well either that or read the sidebar. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/07/18 04:36 PM |
| 1 | SidebarMods have to fill out the sidebar on the new reddit. It doesn't port automatically. They talk about it here. | /r/askMRP | 02/07/18 08:12 PM |
| 1 | OPSEC compromised and wife found some fight club.I was close to being kicked out of the house...an emotional affair...We saw a councillor...She discovered...Links were sent to her family and my sister. Your wife doesn't trust or respect you. By sending those links, she is getting ready for life after you. You shutting up is not giving her anything to work with. You are telling her to look at your actions, but your actions last year are an emotional affair and internet links on how to pick up women and how to keep them by making them jealous. Y… | /r/askMRP | 30/06/18 02:31 PM |
| 14 | Main event or just the end?talking about sex. I asked her why it's so difficult for her You know exactly why. The rational male explains it succinctly enough. Why did you even need to ask? she called me at work crying, asking me...to solve this She is right, only you can solve this. The sidebar explains how to do just that. is there anything I can actually do here Yes of course. You have all the tools to be successful at this. 6'2, 180 pounds. You know she is into bad boys. She is begging you here to become one and instea… | /r/askMRP | 29/06/18 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Would you buy a sex robot?I would. It would be nice to have a robot to do the dishes, iron our laundry and mow the lawn. | /r/askMRP | 26/06/18 04:12 PM |
| 3 | If marriage has such a poor risk cost analysis for men, what alternatives exist for those of us who want to raise kids in a two parent household?All the firsthand stories I've heard about wife's cheating on their husbands was from relationships where the guy worked long hours and the wife stayed home. If I were to recommend anything it would be not to agree to having a wife be stay at home mom. All my friends who have stable long term marriages like mine, their wives work. They don't stay at home fantasizing about Chad stealing them away from their boring lives. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/18 04:00 PM |
| 13 | If marriage has such a poor risk cost analysis for men, what alternatives exist for those of us who want to raise kids in a two parent household?Been married over 15 years, 2 kids and after years of being close to even, wife now makes more than I. You pick your poison but I'd rather have a busy wife than one bored out of her mind itching to go out once you get home. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/18 12:51 PM |
| 2 | Working on me, wife fucks up bigKids 6 and 2, how did you go to pick her up? You dragged them with you or left them home alone? Do I numb myself and believe that she didn't fuck him and just messed up majorly? If you can live with yourself believing that lie. Do I see if this incident is leverage No. That's beta covert contract that will soon expire. It's a leverage for her to eventually tell you the full truth which you can't handle right now. Frankly I've always been on the dump the bitch bandwagon but each individual story … | /r/askMRP | 26/06/18 11:51 AM |
| 10 | Would you consider this acceptable behaviour?1) would you find this behaviour acceptable Would not care, probably wouldn't even notice. I almost never go on facebook and certainly don't track who my wife adds as her facebook "friends." 2) what should my friend do at this point? Read the sidebar. Be attractive, don't be unattractive. Do not confront her about it. It will display extremely low value and will tell her that he's threatened by this guy immediately making him more attractive to her. | /r/askMRP | 26/06/18 10:58 AM |
| 10 | If marriage has such a poor risk cost analysis for men, what alternatives exist for those of us who want to raise kids in a two parent household?Marriage is not a poor risk if both of you work and make similar income. It's only a risk if your wife is a SAHM as in case of a divorce you may be obligated to pay spousal support. Even that is not as big a risk as it used to be. States are moving away from lifetime spousal support. Child support would have to be paid whether you are single or married. If she has a child from Chad you have limited time to challenge paternity if you're married. In some states you may have just 30 to 60 days afte… | /r/askTRP | 26/06/18 10:45 AM |
| 3 | Wife hates her body and always talks about how disgusting she feelsshe gets sour and talks about how "disgusting" she feels Tell her "Do something about it" then tell her how. Calories are everything that matters. She doesn't even have to hit the gym although doing 5x5 or 3x5 would make her feel better. Have her drink lots of water (helps with hunger and helps eating smaller portions) and get a food scale to count calories. It's simple math. You both do that for a few weeks and results will speak for themselves. | /r/askMRP | 23/06/18 12:56 PM |
| 6 | Tried to have sex. Failed hardHe's 3 weeks into it and you want him shooting ultimatums? He needs to work on himself, lift and learn what's in the sidebar. Ultimatum is a position of weakness and if you can't follow through you're worse of than you started. | /r/askMRP | 21/06/18 12:44 AM |
| 28 | Plates and "the talk"The answer is to the right of your post under Frequently ASKTRP'D Questions with heading Are we exclusive? Handling "The Talk." | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 07:00 PM |
| 10 | LTR moving in with male friend roommate, how do you react?He doesn't have to be better, he just has to be different. If an LTR thinks so little of the relationship to move in with another guy you next her. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 06:55 PM |
| 5 | How to best deal with shit tests from wife when she gives you impossible or hard to measure tasks? Examples inside.You are in her frame. What she's talking about is nonsense. 90% of basketball is size and talent. If he had the chops for it you would already know it. | /r/askMRP | 18/06/18 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Plate I’ve upgraded to LTR. Lost frame, issues arising.Dump, work on yourself until you don't need to take the meds. Those two shouldn't go together anyways. Get some self respect before you start expecting it from others. PS. Why would you promote a girl with red flags to LTR? Get some abundance, maybe get some new friends as well. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Plate I’ve upgraded to LTR. Lost frame, issues arising.Dump, work on yourself until you don't need to take the meds. Those two shouldn't go together anyways. Get some self respect before you start expecting it from others. PS. Why would you promote a girl with red flags to LTR? Get some abundance, maybe get some new friends as well. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 06:19 PM |
| 4 | Plate I’ve upgraded to LTR. Lost frame, issues arising.Dump, work on yourself until you don't need to take the meds. Those two shouldn't go together anyways. Get some self respect before you start expecting it from others. PS. Why would you promote a girl with red flags to LTR? Get some abundance, maybe get some new friends as well. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Conflicted about the girl I've been dating the last 2 yearsYou always feel you have so much time at 25. Truth is you really don't. Time tends to sneak up on you. Having kids early means you are empty nesters around 50 and still have plenty of time for fun, traveling etc. You do it later and by the time your kid is in college you're an old man. If you can afford it and the girls is vetted and is good don't be afraid to go for it. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/18 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Time to cut bait?wishy washy on communication, made me a low priority Not an LTR material. Probably saw others. Finally, corner turned and she was in love with me...Then she broke up with me, then got back together a couple times Rooting through garbage much? I am wondering if I should just end it Yes. | /r/askMRP | 12/06/18 02:31 PM |
| 2 | My wife just gave birth about a month ago, she’s shir testing me like never beforeMy wife just gave birth a month ago...Is this a good time for doing MRP? You mean is it a good time to start owning consequences of your decisions? Is it a good time to start acting like a man and to provide for your family? Is it a good time to start being a father to my child? Your wife and child live with her parents because her husband can't provide for her. You are about to go abroad for work...Why? It's not like working abroad has allowed you to have a stable foundation for your family? Wh… | /r/askMRP | 11/06/18 01:26 PM |
| 1 | I left my home/wife/baby today, any advice?what is this 'MAP on energy' you speak of? Married red pill side bar, Red Pill 101: Mindful Attraction Plan by Athol Kay. When we say read the sidebar, we mean read the fucking sidebar. We're not trying to waste your fucking time buy you sure as hell are trying to waste ours. You have been red pill aware for a year and are still asking basic questions. | /r/askMRP | 11/06/18 12:59 PM |
| 2 | I left my home/wife/baby today, any advice?Here are things that I see you handling wrong: 1) You have a baby at home that you don't help with at night and yet you spend the time to play pubg. 2) You argue with her. Why? Haven't you read the sidebar? You've been RP aware long enough to know better than that. 3) You text for more than logistics. When your marriage is on the rocks you can't afford to text for more than logistics. If her texts are pissing you off, DO NOT RESPOND. Ignore. 4) Your wife is worried about raising a baby and havin… | /r/askMRP | 11/06/18 12:54 PM |
| 12 | Blindsided by BillyOverreacting. Plates drop if you didn't want to LTR her you had to know it would eventually end this way. Maybe not necessarily with this particular guy but in the same exact manner anyway. He was thirsty and you were drinking out of multiple cups. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/18 12:28 PM |
| 4 | LTR of 3 years falling apartStop giving a fuck and do your own thing. She isn't going anywhere. Keep lifting, improving and going your own way and maybe she will have a change of heart. | /r/askMRP | 02/06/18 12:41 PM |
| 5 | LTR of 3 years falling apartLike I said, it boils down to you no longer turning her on. She doesn't want to be with you, she just wants your apartment. Love and sex is not logical. Do not try to find logical answers for issues that are based on feelings and hormones. | /r/askMRP | 02/06/18 12:25 PM |
| 3 | LTR of 3 years falling apartI feel like I finally got this shit. No you don't. You are still pining for her validation and trying to convince her to stay. Her reasons are... Her own and subject to change based on feelz. It boils down to that you no longer give her the tingles. She mentioned moving out might ironically improve our relationship... She is right. Give her 30 days to pack her shit up and leave. | /r/askMRP | 02/06/18 12:01 PM |
| 8 | Keeping kids hostageYour name is on the lease. You are married. Your wife is pissed off at you which means she cares. Sounds like you could just go there and see your wife and daughter. | /r/askMRP | 17/02/18 02:26 PM |
| 1 | What'd you do for Valentine's day guys?Bought a dozen flowers for wife, daughter, mother. Chocolates for all of us except for mom and dinner to cook. We cooked dinner together (minus mom, we visited her later.) At night time we put kids to bed and after that had sex. Overall apart from flowers it was an ordinary day. Having said that I've been at it (RP aware) for over 2 years so while I don't or ever will look like oiled up Olympian carrying a torch, our sex life is pretty good. | /r/askMRP | 15/02/18 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Slap to the faceJust acted like I was the one out of control. You both were. You put the kid up against her and undermine her at the same time. No wonder she's pissed. Her slapping you for that in front of the kid is also fucked up. Both of you as parents should be putting up a unified front. Honestly, I'm sorry for the kid. | /r/askMRP | 12/02/18 08:46 PM |
| 3 | Her guy friend, insults... seeking advice.I don't see "this" going anywhere. Don't get me wrong, she will fight for you because you are providing her with the lifestyle. But you're not the one giving her the tingles. The guy whose texts she's hiding from you is. Right now she has it at the peak of hypergamy. Provider at home and Mr. Tingles on the side. The only thing is missing is a ring on her finger to lock that money in even if you grow a backbone to finally next her. But we all know you're too much of a pussy to even consider pulli… | /r/askMRP | 06/02/18 09:41 PM |
| 2 | Wife basically cheating, need to be smart next few months. Any advice?If it did happen we both agreed that the best thing would be to keep it from each and deal with those demons on our own. So you gave her permission as long as you didn't find out. Within 4-6 months get another place and temporarily separate. I'll take my toys and go home. That will show her! But first I'll spend the next half a year getting fapping material off of her phone. Who knows maybe I'll get used to being a cuck. I want a family and a strong relationship and am not convinced that startin… | /r/askMRP | 11/12/17 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Any appropriate time for mate guarding? Dread game in reverse?If he makes you uncomfortable then tell her to get a female massage therapist. I could buy if he was doing it in a business or at your house with you there, but alone in his place one on one? Every other week? My wife had a guy coming into our house usually with me there. Not threatening, professional no bullshit. I was ok with it until I came down to bring her something. He was very professional but just seeing another guy's hands on my wife was enough. I told her to get a woman. She still didn… | /r/askMRP | 01/12/17 07:46 PM |
| 0 | How do you avoid DEERing and feeling like a you just got walked all over at the same time?You did not shut the fuck up, you straight up apologized when you know you didn't do anything wrong. You did opposite from what the sidebar teaches you. You don't apologize unless you did something malicious that really deserves apology. Accidents, unfortunate circumstances, perceived lack of respect, slap on the ass that she didn't like, does not get an apology. I'm really curious what you apologized about. No matter, you are the type of nice guy that No more mr nice guy will beat right out of … | /r/askMRP | 24/11/17 04:32 PM |
| 5 | How to respond to a marriage ultimatum?No red flags? 1) No sex despite not being a virgin. 2) Pressures for marriage after 1 year of dating. Though if this was your fucked up idea not to have sex before marriage then I get why she pressures you for marriage. 3) Has close male friends whom she "talks to" for hours. I'm sure she just talks, it's not like she's getting her needs met by her boyfriend. Read the side bar, forget about marriage for now. Grow up, start having sex, when you are ready for kids marry a girl or not but do it on … | /r/askMRP | 24/11/17 04:20 PM |
| 9 | Discovered cheating AFTER taking RPI don't believe that you don't want children of your own. You wouldn't have spent thousands trying to get one. Now is your chance to do that. Now is your chance to get some of your dignity and self respect back. You can do that or you can choose the easy way and pretend that everything is all right. | /r/askMRP | 08/11/17 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Hard time soft nexting/GF constantly lying.I know this relationship is shit, but there is something that keeps me in it Oneitis. https://www.trp.red/p/mattyanon/260 | /r/askTRP | 07/11/17 02:11 PM |
| 2 | Am I being a little bitch?What you had was a covert contract. It's described in a book "no more mr nice guy." It's in the married red pill side bar. Not sure if it's in TRP sidebar. Being in LTR it's something you should read, takes about a day and will definitely improve your relationship. Here's a TRP thread explaining them: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3slr6k/covert_contracts_and_why_they_suck/?st=j9poysjt&sh=885ef953 | /r/askTRP | 07/11/17 02:08 PM |
| 3 | Enter Chad cont.It's not that positive if there is stubble. Having said that I can see why she shaved going to Hawaii. Beach, bikini, hair sticking out. My wife always waxes before we go to the beach. | /r/askMRP | 03/11/17 12:31 PM |
| 14 | About to jump shipDo option 3. Lose weight, lift weights WITH your son, focus on bettering yourself and him. He's being bullied and you are NOT helping him by planning on getting a bike and leaving him with mom. Maybe sign him and yourself up for martial arts as well. Focus on yourself and your relationship with your son. In a few years maybe both of you can leave the cheater behind. | /r/askMRP | 02/11/17 05:07 PM |
| 5 | Should I "pop" a heavy question to my wife?You can ask but I doubt that a mother pregnant with second will jeopardize all that and tell you what you don't want to hear. At this point if there was anything there, she is likely to take it to her grave. Don't make a jealous fool out of yourself, keep your insecurities to yourself. | /r/askMRP | 01/11/17 05:32 PM |
| 0 | How often do you (should you) see your LTR?LOL. Have an upvote. | /r/askMRP | 31/10/17 06:59 PM |
| 1 | "A Real Man does This and That..." + Financial ProblemsRe-read no more mr nice guy. Really, the way you behave should not be happening after you read it. Then read THE BEST OF RATIONAL MALE – YEAR ONE. Finally adopt a mindset that YOU are the prize and she is lucky to have YOU. Stop explaining your behavior. The I've been working all day, am sick etc was completely not necessary. After you sent a pic of the food you should have stopped responding to her texts. She didn't deserve your response after behaving like that. Also you are providing. You are… | /r/askMRP | 31/10/17 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Time to Kill the Puppy?One of the reasons people used to say around here to "Kill your ego." Most of this can still be fixed if you want to fix it. If you don't you've only been married for 2 years. Get a divorce give her eviction notice and this time next year this will be just a memory. | /r/askMRP | 31/10/17 01:40 PM |
| 0 | When sex isn't enoughPretty sure trp science would say she'd cling to you for dear life if you hit all those points. Pretty sure you're not triple six. 6 feet tall, 6 pack, 6 figure income. She probably would cling to one of those.... Having said that, she might have those feelings toward you, but you've got your shit together, you're a musician, you bang chicks left and right. Fuck, they throw themselves at you and you're also smart (fucking engineer.) She might be intimidated and is trying to protect herself from … | /r/askTRP | 29/10/17 06:41 PM |
| 2 | Insinuated that my Plate was fat.No answer at all. Completely ignore it. Continue off as if it didn't happen. If she says you called her fat tell her to get naked so you can take a closer look. | /r/askTRP | 29/10/17 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Recently Got Back Together With My "Oneitis"And I feel like I'm just a convenient option at this point to be discarded at her earliest convenience. You are 100% correct. She is that type of a girl. She will dump you in a heart beat if you slip. She will also lie and cut others cold turkey to be with the alpha you. I don't think she's a marriage material, but if you take care of your shit and take none of hers, she might be fun to keep around. At least you know exactly where you stand with her. Take your time weaning yourself off of her an… | /r/askTRP | 29/10/17 06:07 PM |
| 4 | Having a childSo much anger at your own mistakes man. My wife works, kids with grandparents or daycare. There are no GNOs. That was in fact one of the things I looked for when dating. Maybe casino night with her lil sis or baby shower. These things happen less than once a year and we've been together for 20. The hours that I work are ones that I set based on a need that I see. My wife can can disagree but at the end it's my decision and I never let them interfere with my home life. I work to live, not the oth… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/17 05:48 PM |
| 2 | LTR traveling without me, considering break upHow can I know if she cheated? If she comes back and is all over you then she probably didn't. If she comes back and needs time for herself etc and is distant then instant next. Either way, at 4 months it's barely any time to form anything. You shouldn't call her an LTR just yet. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/17 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Am I a shithead for wanting to move out of my parents house?I don't believe you're making 2K per week, 100K+ a year at 18 but if you are making even a third of that you could move out. I left on my 18th birthday, lived out of my car for 2 nights then found a place with 3 other roommates. It was a lot of fun at the time even if money was tight. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/17 02:43 PM |
| 3 | Did i push her to this, or was it her slutty fault?i called her a slut and a whore and other things every time i saw her. Yeah, you just lost right there. She knows she hurt you and you're hurting her back, acting like a kid, not someone she could rely on. You immediately lose status in her eyes and it makes it emotionally easier to continue the behavior that will hurt you. If you have to resort to name calling, you might as well just next her. Nothing good will come of it. Worse, you will get a reputation among her friends as girl's abusive ex.… | /r/askTRP | 28/10/17 02:31 PM |
| 1 | LTR flirts with dude in front of meWrong. Open flirting in public = public disrespect = 2 step demotion meaning it's over. You keep being committed to such a girl you might as well tattoo the word cuck on your forehead. It's right in the sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/17 07:11 PM |
| 5 | What are your thoughts on having wife on Snapchat, Whatsapp... etc.. other apps that make cheating easier?My wife could have tinder for all I care Bull shit. I'm sure you would care, at least for the inconvenience the divorce would cause. Alphas still get cheated upon. He doesn't have to be better, just different. | /r/askMRP | 27/10/17 01:41 PM |
| 2 | Doctor told me to stop squatting for this year - need alternative exercicesdoctor told me I had to see a physiotherapist to fix my knee and to prevent the pain/injury becoming chronic Doctor said that so that you can get a better opinion from a specialist but until you do don't stress it more cause you could injure it more. So go get an opinion from a specialist. Until you do: You can do good mornings instead of deadlift. Those are done with straight leg. Pullups/chinups progressing to weighted, OHP or press from sitting position. Bench press also should not be affecte… | /r/askMRP | 26/10/17 02:28 PM |
| 1 | [CA] Prenup for couple with significant difference in earningI think it's too much detail and too prone to being thrown out for being unfair. If you start counting what's mine is mine etc she will resent you and your marriage will have a greater chance of falling apart. You know what you're getting yourself into. If she will work, you most likely won't get divorce raped. Today's child custody settlements are much more fair toward 50/50 split unless dad is a real fuckup or workaholic. You can always get more money. So if you want to protect yourself and he… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/17 04:44 PM |
| 1 | First time posterWhen we do infrequently have sex, after begging and cajoling, she’s in the shower immediately afterwards. She feels dirty, as if raped. There is a gilded post on TRP titled Every Unhappy Wife is a Rape Victim. That pretty much applies to many stumbling here for the first time. Information in the sidebar is there to help you. Start with No More Mr Nice Guy. It's listed first for a reason. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/10/17 01:02 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys keep an abudance/abundance mentality without actually cheating?It's a girlfriend. If she's already not putting out just fucking next her already. | /r/askMRP | 19/10/17 07:11 PM |
| 5 | 2 Questions: Separation & Don't Leave the HouseDon't leave the house unless you don't care about child custody. She can't kick you out unless you're abusive and she gets a protective order. Though if she had friends in the right places that could be fairly easy. Especially if you still get drunk. So the only way you're leaving is with the child in tow after you get a divorce. Might as well see a lawyer to get a consultation. You want to know what you're in for as it depends on where you live and what your personal situation is. In the mean t… | /r/askMRP | 19/10/17 12:15 AM |
| 2 | 2 Questions: Separation & Don't Leave the House5'6 at 195 is obese, not fat, obese. You still have way too go. Assuming you have some muscle mass you need to get below 155. Her mean words are just true words. But at least they are a wake up. If you want to divorce then get a divorce. If not, don't threaten about one again. You don't want to be a man of empty words. | /r/askMRP | 18/10/17 11:33 PM |
| 6 | Update/Advice neededPart of your oneitis is you being scared of being alone. The last time was when you were an awkward 17 year old teenager. You fell in love with an ugly duckling who turned into a white swan. Now you feel that if that swan left you now, you wouldn't be able to find another one like her. You are not an awkward teenager anymore. You absolutely need to let her go or give an appearance of not giving a fuck if she stays. You focus on you. You have all the time in the world. Don't stay home waiting for… | /r/askMRP | 18/10/17 02:27 PM |
| 2 | Massive shit test by wife last weekendNot sure this was a shit test. It definitely was disrespect worthy of demotion but she's a wife... I'd focus on getting her to stay sober and she probably has lost her gno privileges. She can have a gni but gno after this is a no no. | /r/askMRP | 03/10/17 09:43 PM |
| 2 | SO angry with my responseLOL. This belong on /r/jokes | /r/askMRP | 03/10/17 04:17 PM |
| 3 | TLDR: How can I politely ask my MIL to back off?my wife is constantly visiting and her mother calls her 5-6 times a day. Better she talks to her mom then some divorced girlfriends or some orbiters. What's the harm in it? I've got no problems with my wife being MIL's support system and vice versa. Do you have some examples of what exactly your MIL is doing that pisses you off? I have a feeling it's not the MIL that's the problem, it's your wife that acts on her advice that is. If it's your wife, then reading the sidebar, taking care of your sh… | /r/askMRP | 03/10/17 12:07 PM |
| 1 | Shut down wife down, Hamster Spins up.You're an idiot. My wife has never initiated like that. Not when she was a 16 year old virgin, not when she was trying to get me to propose, not anywhere in our 15 years of marriage. The closest she came is when she called me at work to come for lunch time quickie. Read mmslp, fuck your wife when she begs you for dick. | /r/askMRP | 02/10/17 11:28 PM |
| 5 | How may step parents are here? I know this is an area I struggle in that affects all the rest of my MRP journey.2 months ago from your post history you had your own place and she hers. You say you've read the rational male. Iron Rule of Tomassi #4: NEVER under any circumstance live with a woman you aren’t married to or are not planning to marry in within 6 months. Schedules of Mating, Children of Men, Case Study: Wanted New Daddy, all tell you NOT to LTR single moms. You fucking shack up with a single mom! Now you're looking for advice? | /r/askMRP | 02/10/17 01:09 PM |
| 7 | help with situation tomorrow with wifes boundriesYou married her a year after she cheated on you. Frankly she had no consequences from her actions. It also sounds like she has no consequences from drunk driving. Tell her to limit herself to 1-2 drinks max and be home when you want her home. If she has a problem with that maybe start planning your exit strategy. | /r/askMRP | 28/09/17 12:58 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend does not enjoy giving head.Be more vocal. Tell her what she's doing right, make suggestions, have her do it kneeling in front of you. Before you know it, it's blast off time and she knows she did a good job. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/17 06:38 PM |
| 3 | Trial separation question.She said, may be we should try trial separation, I said fine. I said I will leave the next day. Way to get divorce raped and see your kids every other weekend if you're lucky. My brother in law was going through divorce where she moved out and they shared kids 50/50. It ended with her coming to the house to clean and cook and they eventually reconciled. She found that living in an apartment and seeing her kids for half a week wasn't as fun as what her divorced coworkers made it out to be. | /r/askMRP | 21/09/17 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Advice on Maintaining Rule #1 and #2 on devicesSimilar to my experience as well. | /r/askMRP | 21/09/17 01:54 PM |
| 2 | Wife got a phone number at a company dinner tonightI told her some girl grabbed my phone and gave me her number (this actually did happen). She immediately called me on it and said "is this about Chad and how he text'd me tonight? If she wants to cheat she will cheat. Heck, she already may be what with all the company trips and her coworkers giving her rides to work etc. She has plenty of opportunity. It's not like people haven't done it in a back of a car during lunch break. Happens in America everyday. Your problem is that you don't trust her.… | /r/askMRP | 20/09/17 11:53 AM |
| 5 | Girlfriend wants to stay at a guys house after a partyIt doesn't matter, if she respects you and values the relationship she wouldn't consider going without you. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/17 01:25 PM |
| 3 | New wife using ultimate shit-test of withholding sex, no other options for sexDread the shit out of her. Study at local library and go to the gym after. She wants your time and affection she has to put out. She can do oral, anal etc until she gets her vagina fixed up and she better work on getting that shit fixed up. Go to married red pill subreddit and read the sidebar. If that has no effect then you have to divorce. It won't get better by talking to her. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/17 12:58 PM |
| 10 | LTR was acting strange, so I checked her phone ( I know beta move) and she has been texting an old boyfriend, and talking about meeting up. I confronted without letting he know I read her messages, she denied it completely. What now, dismiss it as AWALT hypergamy? Break it off?Married red pill. Hope you're lifting, if not then start. Read the sidebar. If she prepares to meet him, then intervene to buy yourself some time. That's recommended from one of the sidebar books: The Married Man Sex Life Primer. You need to improve yourself so that she doesn't feel the need to get tingles elsewhere. She has a lot to lose too, but at this point in time she is willing to risk it. You cheating on her certainly played a part in it. She may want a revenge fuck and feels justified in… | /r/askTRP | 13/09/17 12:04 PM |
| 1 | Yelling wife shit testNo need for the fuck off comment. Why is she yelling though? Does yours do that often? | /r/askMRP | 08/09/17 01:28 PM |
| 3 | Amir Khan is going to get KO'd by the divorce court!There are women business owners, lawyers, doctors, nurses making high 5 to 6 figures incomes. My wife is almost making as much as I do working 3 days a week compared to my 5. If you marry someone that pulls her own weight you are not gonna get divorce raped. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/17 01:32 PM |
| 8 | Consequences for disrespect?she HATES when I ignore her. If I do that she will go nuclear. That's when you walk away, ie another room or leave the house. You're the gatekeeper of relationship. If she is treating you like a punching bag you walk away. That shows that you will not tolerate such a behavior and if she keeps it up she will lose you. She may not care about that, but we never said here that MRP is about saving relationships. MRP is about saving men...sometimes from themselves. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/08/17 12:52 PM |
| 2 | How should approach with and deal with her being angry,mad or feeling bad cause of something I supposedly doneShe keeps saying that there is this ONE THING that she is always waiting for me to do or get. She wants you to man up and ignore her mood swings, stop being such a needy, whiny bitch. You're full of feelings like one of her girlfriends, where what she needs you to be is her rock. Someone that loves her and is unmoved by her emotions. I tried reassuring, validating, admitting my wrong No, no, no! You should have tried AA, AM or STFU which is ignoring and/or walking away. And she explicitly said i… | /r/askMRP | 26/08/17 12:34 PM |
| 1 | LTR pressuring for marriageThat brings back memories. I also did not live with my wife until after we got married though we did get married right about at your age. Family hard core Catholic and old school so from her POV she didn't want to disappoint her parents by moving out before marriage. We struggled at first financially but we built and built and now we're comfortably middle class raising two kids in an old school family environment. We just had our 15th anniversary. The other people here want to scare you away, bu… | /r/askMRP | 15/08/17 11:55 AM |
| 1 | Afraid of adding weightsThe preview on bodybuilding.com shows 9 different exercises per day. I assume rest times are really short? | /r/askMRP | 14/08/17 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Afraid of adding weightsSo how much time do you spend in the gym? | /r/askMRP | 14/08/17 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Can you give me some examples of STFU?When you ignore something that in the past would have clearly been a start of a fight. IE she says A. You say B. She says something completely out of the left field to get a rise out of you but you STFU and go do your thing. The blue pill you would go on to retort or DEER which would cause a fight and you wondering WTF just happened. | /r/askMRP | 14/08/17 11:47 AM |
| 1 | How to respond to this??"Noooo, you know what I mean, you're just not the type that gets into fights and stuff." I used to be, then I grew up. If you never were rough or into fights, then just say they got that from you. Either way, you just got some more motivation for that time when you're pumping iron. | /r/askMRP | 12/08/17 03:16 PM |
| 2 | Is your frame keep your wife "aroused"?Not exactly. Your frame should be about you, not about your wife. Your wife will be aroused when you tease her throughout your daily interactions...as long as you are someone who women would want to fuck. If an unattractive beta tries to tease, that's just creepy and annoying. That brings us back to lifting and reading. Lifting will make you attractive physically, reading will help you develop your frame and become mentally attractive. Both together will make you the whole package who then when … | /r/askMRP | 12/08/17 12:19 PM |
| 3 | Wife wanting to spend more "quality time" is this a comfort test? How to handle?Should I reward good behavior with quality time? Yes. | /r/askMRP | 12/08/17 12:11 PM |
| 1 | Outside PerceptionThat perception exists because it has been that way for a while. All you can do is read, lift and take charge in your marriage and eventually that perception will change...or it won't. But as long as you get laid and are being treated with respect by your wife it doesn't really matter. | /r/askMRP | 12/08/17 12:08 PM |
| 1 | confused about life decisions being unemployed while going to schoolFactories making aircraft engine parts need machine operators. Here in Northeast the pay is $24-28/hour. Get into a big one such as UTC and the pay is over $30/hour. Most want experience but some are willing to train. Get your foot in the door, get training and you have plenty of opportunities. UTC has suppliers all over US including CA and these suppliers are looking for manpower. You just need to put in some effort and go out and apply. FYI. I finished a 4 year college going nights and weekend… | /r/askMRP | 08/08/17 07:17 PM |
| 3 | Ownership and recovery from wife's emotional affair.About 6 months ago she went on a retreat and returned to tell me she wanted...a divorce She fucked someone on the retreat and enjoyed it so much she wanted to continue it at home. That's why she moved out. When reality became too much (ie bills, missing her kids) she moved back in. I think you're deluding yourself if you think she only had emotional affair. Look at her actions, not at what she told you. she told me she thinks its in her nature to be with other people and maybe we could try being… | /r/askMRP | 07/08/17 05:03 PM |
| 3 | Getting in front of the ordersIn our evenings, by the time the kids are in bed...physically gaming is confined to a real short space of time... Yes that is a problem we all have. The thing is you have to be gaming her when the kids are up. You can't be afraid or embarrassed by them seeing you being affectionate to your wife. I know it's easier said than done. I could do it no problem when it was just us and our 8 year old. Now that we have a 10 year old and 1.5 year old it's hard to remember to game her. I'm just trying to s… | /r/askMRP | 02/08/17 12:38 PM |
| 1 | What's the best way to play this out?We've both always wanted to do a live escape the room game, but we've never done it. Sounds like that might be fun. If it were up to me I'd do that one. | /r/askMRP | 26/07/17 06:11 PM |
| 4 | Wife is spending time with her coworker during our "trial separation" want to stop handling this so poorly....Two weeks ago gets her own place....I have drove to his house a few times at night and her car was parked there both times. You don't have to confront her. All evidence you need stares you right in the face. The Rational Male, Year One from marriedredpill sidebar will explain it to you very succinctly. You don't have kids, wife is moved out, you have plenty of time. Hit the gym (heavy lifting, use program like starting strength,) read the books from the sidebar and start to move on. | /r/askMRP | 19/07/17 08:40 PM |
| 4 | Wife going on a day trip, should I care about this?11 months ago you had an ex and a friend with benefits and were red pill aware. Fuck you did not even have an LTR, yet here you are now married and wondering whether to show her just how low value you are by trying to prevent her from going to the beach with her friends. I'd ask yourself this first. What the fuck happened in last 11 months and then work on fixing that first. | /r/askMRP | 19/07/17 02:03 PM |
| 2 | A&A for a common excuseA common excuse my wife uses for sex is that she is too full. Getting laid is about gaming your girl and being attractive. Being attractive is more than just looking attractive. It includes leading and taking care of your shit. It takes hard work to be good at all four facets of this. I've been unplugged over 2 years now. When I first unplugged I was getting laid daily. Sometimes multiple times a day. No I wasn't good at all 4 facets, but I was good at 3 of them. Gaming, being in best shape in o… | /r/askMRP | 14/07/17 03:04 PM |
| 15 | Mourning pain anger helpSounds like /u/razorazo didn't really want her to abort but was afraid to let her know his feelings on the matter. If he's gonna blame her for killing his unborn child, that anger and resentment will grow over time. In that case he might as well next her. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/07/17 01:37 PM |
| 54 | Weird Blow-up last night... I struggling with how to handle it this morning... would love options/opinions... it's 5:30am, and I'm at a loss.Kid #1 is curled up on her bed reciting through tears, "I love momma, I love daddy" over and over, while kid #2 is crying and and asking, "I ruin everything. What's wrong with me?" This is not normal. It's as if the kids lived through years of abuse. The open screaming matches are no longer acceptable. You need to talk and come to understanding without having to raise your voice and involving the kids. Youngest is crying and 9 year old blaming themselves for ruining great evening because the two… | /r/askMRP | 20/05/17 01:25 PM |
| 1 | What is the standard MRP thing to do if I find she cheated during the exclusive dating phase?No standard procedure. Everyone's marriage is different. However blowing up a family over something that happened over 20 years ago? Seems extreme to me. | /r/askMRP | 20/05/17 01:11 PM |
| 3 | Joint finances ?We have a joint account. Always did as when we got married we were both living paycheck to paycheck. I started earning more, now she caught up and some weeks even earns more. I pay mortgages (we own couple of properties,) loans are on autopay, so is cell, electric and cable. She pays miscellaneous store cc bills and watches over our checking account. I do our taxes. You could say it's 50/50 partnership. When we first got married I did all the bills, and would get pissed off at the lack of cash a… | /r/askMRP | 19/05/17 01:01 PM |
| 4 | FR. Hard NO.I go out of my way to kiss my daughter on her forehead and tell her goodnight. I also tell her that I love her. Congrats you got upgraded from an unruly child to one she can tolerate. Ps. Initiating to have sex does not mean asking her for it. If you ask she will say no. You have to initiate but seeing how she is toward you right now I would focus on reading and lifting. | /r/askMRP | 24/04/17 01:28 PM |
| 1 | What will I miss out on if I skip "rational male year one"?Rational male year one is as important if not more to unplugging as nmmng and definitely more important than mmslp. It gives you great insight into female psyche that other materials don't. After reading it, a lot of things about women that didn't make sense before start making perfect, rational sense of you approach it from evolutionary point of view. Given that you can read it for free online, this is one I would not skip. | /r/askMRP | 16/04/17 02:55 PM |
| 9 | [FR] Progress on shit test management, and premature MAP phase 4 shock statement.I think her willingness to make new vows of fidelity is genuine. Listen to her actions, not her words. 1) She cheated on you and admitted to one fuck in the back of a car. 2) She rekindled her relationship with her ex, admitted to wanting to fuck him 5 years ago and wants to cultivate this relationship. 3) She goes clubbing and wants your permission to do it every other week. 4) She has male friends and wants your permission to spend some time alone with them. No she wouldn't want to fuck them, … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/04/17 12:56 PM |
| 10 | wife responded with nukeshappy wife happy life right? No, you got it ass backwards. There was a thread about it around a year ago on MRP. I'm like No, but sadly did go get them So you had the right idea but still got the fucking slippers? while i'm muttering about how she should get her own slippers and telling her that it feels like getting me to do little chores like this is not cool. Passive aggressive much? What are you a bitch now? That is not how a man acts. Tell you what. For now, just SHUT THE FUCK UP. Take care… | /r/askMRP | 13/04/17 11:53 AM |
| 1 | Where I am: Request for critical adviceWhat obvious things could I be missing. The fact that you stayed with her despite her cheating. That will sabotage anything that you do because a high value man would never put up with it and you did and still do therefore whatever you are trying to do, it's just a show. You will never be more than a paycheck to her. | /r/askMRP | 10/04/17 07:29 PM |
| 6 | Shes comparing my current alpha actions to my own previous beta relationshipYou did a reverse genders situation of girl doing anal with an ex but not doing it with her current boyfriend. She will just have to get over it. We learn and we grow as we age. You were young and inexperienced then, you learned from your mistakes. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/17 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Poll: when did you move in with your LTR/SOWedding night. Too poor for honeymoon. | /r/askMRP | 27/03/17 11:06 PM |
| 1 | I’ve got it baby vs. Requiring her to ask for helpIt was her way of gauging whether you care enough to volunteer yourself. You did not and she wasn't going to ask. I would've volunteered but that's just me. I'm curious to see what others have to say. | /r/askMRP | 22/03/17 05:17 PM |
| 5 | Wife accused me of having crush on her sisterI actually laughed out loud. Just saying lol wouldn't give you justice. | /r/askMRP | 21/03/17 03:32 PM |
| 6 | Getting her back in shape.You know it's not gym that will make her lose weight. It's calories in vs calories out. Gym contributed very little to calories out on a weekly basis. She needs to lose weight in the kitchen. | /r/askMRP | 16/03/17 12:36 PM |
| 10 | Please, Tell Me I'm Being Crazy. Please.I think she's depressed. Why don't you get the kids to daycare and let her get a breather from them to unwind, maybe she could get a job. This sahm business is clearly not her cup of tea. | /r/askMRP | 10/03/17 04:13 PM |
| 5 | FR: NMMNG is like a punch in the gutThat's why that book should have been read first. That one is the one that opens your eyes. | /r/askMRP | 10/03/17 02:28 PM |
| 1 | The Wife, PMS, RedPill, and AWALTWhat do you do when she's your WIFE? And you live together? And she starts fights, says hurtful, stupid shit that she would never ever say otherwise? Leave the room, if she follows trying to stir shit up then you leave the house. Go to the gym, go see your friends, go out to a coffee shop and read... or flirt, whatever tickles your fancy. Anything really. If she behaves you reward that with your time and attention, if she doesn't you remove it. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/17 02:54 PM |
| 15 | Shit tests abound...If it bothers you, is it possible that there is a hint of truth in what she is saying? Marcus Aurelius wrote: "If you are distressed by anything external, the pain is not due to the thing itself, but to your estimate of it; and this you have the power to revoke at any moment." So if what she said unnerved you so much that you froze and then tried to hurt her back by saying she's easy to ignore (let's face it, you were trying to hurt her feelings with that statement) whatever she said is either s… | /r/askMRP | 27/02/17 03:57 PM |
| 2 | Am I right in thinking this is ASD? How do I handle it?Read the rational male wait for it. My guess is that if she doesn't enthusiastically put out on the third date then you ghost her as whatever it is you are hoping for won't happen with her. | /r/askTRP | 27/02/17 01:14 PM |
| 6 | Wife is breaking her behavioral contract and possibly cheating on me.Anyway, lately she's been going to this workout class more often and staying late to get a "smoothie." Calories of the smoothie aside I thought it's pretty funny fwiw. | /r/askMRP | 20/02/17 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Potential LTR likes beta-orbiter validation. How should I handle this ?When I met my wife she had quite a few male friends and one orbiter. When we started dating a couple weeks later, she had none she kept in contact with. I did not have to say a thing. She did it on her own. She was 16 then and it holds true 20 years later. She apologized profusely and promised to not continue talking to him. Well that's the end of it. Life 20 years ago was simpler. She just blew them off and that was the end of it. Now with facebook etc, it's easier to stay in contact but it's s… | /r/askMRP | 20/02/17 02:38 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend stayed over and just 'Cuddled' with Male FriendShe met him on Tinder and fucked him. Now she spent the night with him when you were away. There is no way they just cuddled. In fact her behavior afterward was so telling that it made you check her Facebook and confirm your gut feeling. TRP tells you to look at what they do, not what they say. What she did speaks volumes. It tells you all you need to know about her character, her honesty, her respect for you and your relationship. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/17 03:27 PM |
| 1 | LTR initiates breakup with meI just want to know what I could have done better in this situation. You should have never gotten back together in the first place. Iron rule of Tomassi #7 | /r/askTRP | 07/02/17 07:47 PM |
| 9 | Struggling... N-CountIf it's any consolation going forward if you nuke it and go play the field, know that pretty much every girl will have a higher n-count than your wife. | /r/askMRP | 30/01/17 08:35 PM |
| 3 | Solo vacation w/o the wife?I'm a bit torn because if my wife wanted to do the same, then I'd immediately suspect that she's heading off on a trip without me to enjoy a brief CC ride. As a captain you lead with example. Is solo vacations an example you want to set? This will become a precedent. What happens when the next time you're busy she wants to go to Caribbean? Are you going to be fine with that? Either go together or use that time to finish a project at home you never can seem to get around to. | /r/askMRP | 30/01/17 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Am i just destined to be beta?With that mindset you sure are. Average penis size is 5.15 inches hard so you're already above average. Just lift, change your man boobs into pecks and everything will fall into place. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/17 01:39 PM |
| 5 | Newbie QuestionThis post reminded me the time I was afraid to do anything that might slightly piss off my wife. IE she didn't want me to sign up to the gym so I didn't....until after I read NMMNG. You can buy an amazon gift card at a local grocery store such as stop & shop, etc. You can ask your employer to take a specified sum of money from your paycheck into a second checking account. Or type in google search "no more mr nice guy library." First result is a pdf copy of the book on 7chan. Just be sure to buy … | /r/askMRP | 28/01/17 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Shit Test/TantrumMy week at work has been particularly rough and I've been busy. I have 2 major deadlines and we just lost a big revenue-generating client contract. My wife knows about all of this. Why? Keep your work problems to yourself. She doesn't want to know about them. She just wants to know that it's going great and that the money train will keep on rolling. You are the rock, the oak, the captain of the ship. You keep your problems to yourself. The real issue though, why she got pissed off is that your w… | /r/askMRP | 27/01/17 02:00 PM |
| 5 | "Do you find my sister attractive?"I fucked up with this one, because I straight face told her, that she is attractive, but it doesn't matter wether I am attracted to her or not, because what counts is character. Lol, your beta shit goblin just bit you on the ass. First you told her yes, you would want to fuck her sister, then you insulted her by telling her that her sister's character is low and because of that you wouldn't fuck her even though your wife knows well that you still would. That made you a liar. Nice going there bet… | /r/askMRP | 27/01/17 01:47 PM |
| 2 | Need a couple pieces of advice for some immediate helpGym with childcare. That way you can take them with you and then she can make you dinner. | /r/askMRP | 25/01/17 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Post-mortem analysis. Not sure how I could have vetted better: young (met at 24), one past relationship + virgin (religious so no sex.) Or that's what she told you. I seriously find it hard to believe that she was a virgin at 24 and then cheated on you and made it so nonchalant telling you about it. I'd lean on a very good liar option. For comparison I met my wife on her 16th birthday and while she told me she was a virgin, I still have some skepticism about it. Not that it would crush me if she wasn't (I wasn't wh… | /r/askMRP | 21/01/17 12:27 PM |
| 1 | Baby bluesLike I said, after swallowing the pill and losing weight I was having sex 3-5 times a week. Now with the baby I'm having it about as much as you are. If she's breast feeding that will definitely affect the frequency. Read up on it. Other than that you have to be gaming her. Be playful, initiate and when rejected don't get butt hurt. That you're getting it now at a frequency that was average throughout your marriage tells me that you're getting it more than you would had you not read the sidebar.… | /r/askMRP | 20/01/17 04:27 PM |
| 1 | What Do I Know About Lifting?I think that depends on your starting weight and age. Overweight guy needs to eat at deficit to lose the weight first and as a result the lifts won't go up as much. You start scrawny then you can eat tons and your lifts will go up week to week. Age plays a role too. A 40 year old won't put on as much muscle as quickly as a 20 year old. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/01/17 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Baby bluesMy son is 13 months old so I think I know what you're going through. First, is your wife breast feeding still? If so that will lessen her drive and energy considerably. Second, is the baby sleeping through the night? If not, that will make her more irritable and tired. It does get better as the baby gets older and starts to sleep and eat like older kids do. Until then you need to have some patience. Sex once a week right now may have to be something you have to be willing to tolerate. Just keep … | /r/askMRP | 20/01/17 02:02 PM |
| 3 | Initiating leads to wife feeling guiltyThat's totally up to you. You're allowed to change your mind. My guess is that at this point she will welcome not having to fuck you every week. It will reduce her stress on those days and over time, she will no longer associate having to fuck you with doing chores. | /r/askMRP | 17/01/17 08:19 PM |
| 8 | Initiating leads to wife feeling guiltyIt's about attraction. She's still doing the bare minimum to keep you around hence the hard nos. You should cancel the scheduled sex. It may result in less sex in the short term but more in the long run. Also 10 years of beta needs 10 months of alpha at best for her to get used to the new you. It may take longer than that. | /r/askMRP | 17/01/17 02:01 PM |
| 5 | Dealing with the petulant denial of sexIt's all connected. She's turning grey and she doesn't care cause she has no one she wants to look good for. Lose the weight, dress better, stop referring to yourself as a fat pig but rather as a fit attractive man and she will try again. My wife is a hair stylist. She had this old lady come in with grey unkempt hair. She kind of looked like a witch. She left as a 40s attractive woman. The 2 hour transformation was nothing short of astounding. You worry about yourself. When you become someone wo… | /r/askMRP | 16/01/17 04:14 PM |
| 7 | Dealing with the petulant denial of sexBut still sitting at 27-28 bodyfat%. I am a pig, I get it. she then deadpans "no I don't want to have sex with you." Can you blame her? Were you her, would you want to fuck you? Keep lifting, lose another 50 pounds and she will change her tune. | /r/askMRP | 16/01/17 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Was this the Main EventAdd /s cause someone might take you seriously. | /r/askMRP | 15/01/17 05:57 PM |
| 16 | GF is good friends with her ex from high schoolI found it pretty disrespectful. Hanging out with a guy at your place alone at night...I ended up getting up and walking out to my car while she kept trying to say wtf, I didn't do anything wrong... GF material girls will not put themselves in shady situations. She isn't a GF material until she realizes that yes, she sure as hell did something wrong. I wouldn't consider getting back with her. Right now, at least you walked away with your dignity intact. You try and tell her that she did somethin… | /r/askTRP | 12/01/17 01:35 PM |
| 2 | Decision timeYou're still firmly in the anger phase. 4-5 months is not enough, especially not if cheating is involved. I've been at it for almost 2 years and it still sometimes pops up despite the fact that my wife never cheated or even acted slightly shady. As for your wife's remorse, think of it from her point of view. She cheated, she told you that you're single and instead of dropping her, you improved yourself to the point where she fell in love with you all over again. To her, what she did was right. H… | /r/askMRP | 10/01/17 04:06 PM |
| 5 | Tough conversation with my wife coming up. How should I handle it?Two kids is a piece of cake. A year ago I would have agreed with you. My daughter was a piece of cake. My son though is a whole another matter. He alone is a handful, never mind a terrible twos kid with him. Also for /u/resolutions316 I would look more closely at those text messages. Yes, some of it is You which is a shit test, but there is a lot of "I" in there which signifies a mix of shit and comfort tests. I wouldn't approach it as just a pure shit test. | /r/askMRP | 06/01/17 08:13 PM |
| 5 | Wife calling me out on not OYS. How to handle?Acknowledge, make plan to fix, convert it into action. DO NOT APOLOGIZE. Apologies are empty anyways if they are not backed up with an action and they will make you look weak in her eyes. So no "sorry honey." Just fix it and do better next time. | /r/askMRP | 21/12/16 09:25 PM |
| 6 | moving away from my place - holding frame during that discussionNot crazy about your decision to abandon your child to be raised by basically a single mom. But whatever, it's your decision so do what feels right. | /r/askMRP | 21/12/16 02:05 PM |
| 11 | "Do Nothing in Secret"It's one of the many disconnects from the sidebar books and the advice you often see here. Some things work differently for some people. The thing about MRP and your woman knowing about it, is that it can make it harder on you. My wife knows about my MRP participation. She often checks up on my reddit user profile. So that alone stops me from posting in OWS threads. That wouldn't be for her eyes and I don't feel like using a throwaway. Recently after I had a few fuckups, my wife said that for al… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/12/16 08:14 PM |
| 2 | Actually sick... how to hold frame?Actions. You are a man. Deal with it...at least that's AWALT thought process and to tell you the truth, 90% of the time they are right. As soon as you stop feeling sorry for yourself, get up and do some shit around the house or go see a doctor. Don't look for sympathy from her and maybe you will get it. If you look for sympathy, you will only get scorn. She isn't your mommy, she doesn't want to be your mommy. You are supposed to be HER rock, not the other way around. If you are a man, you will d… | /r/askMRP | 19/12/16 05:56 PM |
| 2 | LTR moving inIron Rule of Tomassi #4 NEVER under any circumstance live with a woman you aren’t married to or are not planning to marry in within 6 months. You definitely need to read The Rational Male, Year One from the sidebar. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/12/16 09:23 PM |
| 2 | Approaching 30I find that having a child in your early 30s (late 20s for mom) is much easier than in your late 30s (early 30s for mom.) It's about sleep, energy levels, etc. So if you want to start a family, do it earlier rather than later. You can still get an early 20s college chick and knock her up. That way you won't get a mediocre CC ridden late 20s girl. The longer you wait though, the greater the disconnect will be between you and your LTR partner. | /r/askMRP | 14/12/16 02:34 PM |
| 1 | One Year Lifting Progress -- Looking for FeedbackI'm pretty much in the same boat. Early 40s, 5'9, 150 pounds, 30 inch waist and have been lifting for roughly a year and a half the first 6 months spent losing weight from 190 to 140. I then bulked to 160 started showing belly then cut down to 140 (losing some strength) and in the middle of bulking for second time. Starting lifts I stalled at 65 OHP, 95 Squat, current lifts similar. BP 135, OHP 90, SQ 195, DL 210 (1x5.) My training is quite a bit different from yours though. I started with 5x5. … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/12/16 01:32 PM |
| 0 | Is wife looking to cheat?I feel utterly deflated inside today. It's that sick to stomach feeling...but this is my family I need to protect. Sounds to me like you're way more invested into this relationship than she is and you might still have her slightly on the pedestal. If she wants to cheat, there isn't a lot you can do to stop her. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/11/16 08:43 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Wife Traded Down After RP TransformationFrankly if I was a person married to someone who by his own words: I forced the family to eat chicken and broccoli every day for 3 months (even I got sick of it). Imposed my healthy diet for family dinners. Tried punishments for diet fuck ups, laziness and missed workouts. Tried checking in on her progress constantly. Fostered dread at every chance. I would rather trade down than be stuck with a fucking psycho despot practicing active dread. First of all, MRP is telling you to control yourself, … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/11/16 08:20 PM |
| 2 | Wife is starting beauty school.Per month. Edit It may be $5 per day or $10 per month. I don't remember as it's been a while back since I signed up on a family plan. | /r/askMRP | 15/11/16 03:05 PM |
| 2 | Wife is starting beauty school.LA fitness has daycare for $5 per child. Problem solved. They have free weights, squat racks, power racks, don't bother you if you drop weights or bring chalk. | /r/askMRP | 15/11/16 02:42 PM |
| 1 | 3 year LTR goes to work parties once in a while and extends no invite my way. Have a feeling she will stay "at her brother's" place tonight (haven't caught her in a lie yet so giving her the benefit of the doubt). Regardless, don't like this behavior (partying, etc). Advice how to handle this?Savage. But oh so true. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/16 06:59 PM |
| 1 | How do uncuck myself, like, literally?Imagine yourself in the role of a bull...or better yet stop watching porn and hit the gym harder. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/16 06:52 PM |
| 3 | Can I become Alpha without becoming someone I don’t like?From what I’m reading, the solution is going to the gym, taking up masculine hobbies, going out more, etc You're reading it wrong then. Solution is: 1) Gym 2) Frame 3) Owning your shit In that order. All the other shit you mentioned like hobbies, going out more etc is just to have life outside of your wife. IE they help you create and maintain frame but are not absolutely necessary. Gym can be shitty and unsatisfying if you walk in without having an exact idea of what you will be doing and then … | /r/askMRP | 26/10/16 07:46 PM |
| 1 | FR: follow up to 'I have nowhere else to post this'Her: If you wear what I say, are home on time, help with the kids (etc), I'll give you a blowjob Me: Deal. Uh, you still have a lot to learn grasshopper. This is making you wait for it involves choreplay for some future promise of halfhearted blowjob.You showed total lack of outcome independence, lack of frame, lack of initiative. When she talked about a future blowjob, it meant that at that particular time she was in the mood to maybe give you one, but instead you said deal and dried up her pus… | /r/askMRP | 26/10/16 05:26 PM |
| 2 | Wife had emotional affair. Should I let her say goodbye to him?She says that she's attracted to me physically and him emotionally...She wants one last private conversation with him so that she can "close this chapter of her life and have closure. She closed that chapter of her life when she started dating you and then MARRIED you. There is no chapter to close. She opened a new chapter when she started cheating on you with him. Bitch should be happy you haven't served her papers yet. Frankly you staying was an extreme display of low value on your part. Her r… | /r/askMRP | 22/10/16 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Things are nuking but I don't want them toBaby is crying in another room, you leave the food in microwave and get the baby. Dude I shouldn't have to explain it to you. She is a sahm, 9 week old whatever you say doesn't sleep through the night. Go get the baby! She shouldn't have to ask you to do that. She needs a break from the little monster and you need to give it to her. 3 kids in the house and you refuse to help with the infant. No shit things are bad. You need to get your head out of your ass. | /r/askMRP | 20/10/16 12:55 PM |
| 1 | Is your wife stupid ? Is mine ? Am I doing something wrong ?One word, dread. You don't elicit none. Basically she feels like no matter what she does or doesn't do you will stick around. Change that and you will elicit a response. You mentioned nuclear arguments before. A red pill man does not have nuclear arguments. Read WISNIFG if you want pointers on how to argue. Finally, are you taking care of shit at home? Are you pulling your weight or is it just work, gym and TV? Free up some time for her, take kids to work off some steam and invite her to join yo… | /r/askMRP | 19/10/16 07:08 PM |
| 2 | I caught my wife contacting an adult modeling agencyProbably a ton of guys on r/cuckold. I don't think you will find a ton around here that would allow their woman to fuck her ex and still have that girlfriend never mind wife status. You came here for advice. Your wife tells you that she wants a string of young studs to fuck her. Her hamster even twisted it to suggest that it will make YOUR Sex life better. Frankly that would be enough for me to just next her. Obviously you don't have the internal fortitude to even think of that. You want to conv… | /r/askTRP | 14/10/16 01:45 AM |
| 7 | Punched my Wife - How to Fix the Situation?Been married 15 years, together 20 and nope, never punched my wife. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/10/16 07:25 PM |
| 5 | What are some realistic options? Am I spinning my wheels and hopeless?What are you doing? Lifting? Diet? Clothes? Reading the sidebar? Anything? She wants to open the relationship cause she's not attracted to you anymore. The guy wouldn't grab her ass unless they were making out already. The way I see it if she's using snap chat she has something to hide. That guy may just be the tip of the iceberg. You're married with a kid so there may be incentives to try and fix it instead of nexting but it may already be too late. | /r/askMRP | 02/10/16 10:31 PM |
| 2 | Handling my own needs and trading.If she can't provide any of the services, I will no longer go off, but masturbate beside her with various levels of her assistance. If all that fails, I just take her hand and do what I want with it. In addition to this, sometimes incentives will be put on the table, usually in the form of cash. You're so far down the rabbit hole that even faking OI would be impossible at this point. You're far too easily controlled by your dick. No self control, no self respect. Just gross. | /r/askMRP | 30/09/16 10:44 AM |
| 1 | Victim puke and introI think you're gonna be just fine. First thing first is to lose weight. You're 210 at 5'7 that's well into obese territory. Unless you have some muscle you will still be fat at 165. Aim for 130. So start lifting and start losing weight. You will stall and stay on the same PRs for a while but you will be losing weight. Don't worry about rejection because right now no woman would want to fuck you. Heck, some prostitutes would pass on you as well. What you're doing good is recognize shit tests. Eve… | /r/askMRP | 26/09/16 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Total newb intro and field reportBulking early is recommended but it can get away from you real quick. I lost 40 pounds then bulked and gained some mass and strength but a lot of fat. I was gaining a pound to 2 a week with 5 pound all fat gain when I took my family on vacation. I finally lost it all and am back to almost that first cut weight again though at least I now look like I lift and don't have bones sticking out everywhere. Second bulk will be more strict. I'll aim for half a pound a week and go for a long haul, like a … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/09/16 10:23 PM |
| 5 | GF says she is nervous to have sex because she respects me???You fucked it up by making her your girlfriend without having her earn it first. You're on TRP. You're 23. What does TRP say about making girls into girlfriends? It’s sex first, then relationship, not the other way around. You obviously have not read the sidebar. For the record, what she is doing is covered by The Rational Male in Wait for it? and in The Desire Dynamic. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/16 11:07 AM |
| 1 | Main event - happening now?You need to read When I say no I feel guilty. You can order it on Amazon and start reading it on your phone in literally 5 minutes. | /r/askMRP | 09/09/16 01:37 PM |
| 3 | Cautionary tale if you are an entrepreneurThat he's not into reading doesn't necessarily make him stupid or not intelligent. That you are, doesn't necessarily means that you are more intelligent than he is. There are plenty tradesmen that are much smarter than an average college graduate. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/09/16 10:07 PM |
| 3 | Cautionary tale if you are an entrepreneurI recently posted a thread about my brother in law about to get divorce raped. He woke up, fought for what is his and keeps the house, kids 50/50, no alimony cause she works (even though he made more money) and she's left with some cash (not enough to buy a house,) looking for a place to live and crying that he left her with nothing. And no, turns out (from her own words) that he never raised his hand against her. She was just bored and hung out with divorced CC riders. Days of cash and prizes f… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/09/16 07:24 PM |
| 9 | [Emergency911] How to transform my life into something better that I know is out there? ( Long Post )You start by looking for a place to live. That's your priority #1. Once you're tired of looking for today, get your ass to the gym. Go home, hit the sack, rinse and repeat. You absolutely do not turn your current relationship around. You nope the fuck of of there and let her raise her own kids. You work on yourself, get some nice 28 year old plate or gf and if you want more kids make them with her. That's all there is to it. Don't be a fucking retroactive cuck. Don't know what it is? Read the ra… | /r/askMRP | 01/09/16 05:27 PM |
| 3 | girlfriend refuses to do give me blowjobs but she admitted she has done it for her ex.Lol, you better add /s at the end of that or someone might take you seriously. | /r/askMRP | 31/08/16 06:05 PM |
| 5 | Therapy or divorce showdown...How would you handle this situation, other than the usual RP self improvement behaviors ? Why would you handle it in a way that is different from a tried and tested way that is proven to work? Sex pretty much weekly. I fuck her pretty good...Never beta, getting more and more true alpha as time goes on...She protested, but let me play with her ass and masturbate for 10 minute. So you looked at a 4 ass (any woman that is overweight is at best a 4) and masturbated for 10 minutes. That is not alpha,… | /r/askMRP | 29/08/16 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Do I need to lose weight before initiating more sex?First of all, you are a good 60 pounds overweight. In fact given that you have never lifted before and the goal is to be within 10% body fat, I would go as far as 80 pounds overweight. The good news is that you will lose that weight without spending hours on the treadmill. You will go to /r/loseit read the sidebar, load my fitness pal on your phone, get a food scale and start counting calories. You will hit the weights at least 3 times a week. Good book would be starting strength. Something simp… | /r/askMRP | 29/08/16 01:36 PM |
| 2 | Stop tolerating bullshit. Start showing controlled anger."Sure seems like you're trying to piss me off. I can show you angry if that's what you're going for." I don't think that's a good idea. It basically shows that whatever she is doing and trying to get out of you is working. Also it shows that you are being pulled into her frame. IE you're responding to something that is completely stupid and laughable if you're looking at it from your own frame. If you're in your own frame, a response to something like that is always AM or AA. If you're in your o… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/08/16 12:58 PM |
| 1 | 1+ year of LTR, small updateshe was hungry since she had only breakfast Well at least she ain't lying. She was with the coworker. Truth. She didn't tell you about it cause you would be pissed off. Truth again. She is hungry because she didn't eat lunch. Truth yet again. Based on these three truths, my guess is it wasn't lunch that she was having with the coworker. | /r/askMRP | 17/08/16 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Need helpI have no outside friends or activities, Idk how you people pull this off? Kind of the same boat. Last year I started riding a road bike (bicycle) on my rest days. Good way to develop some friendships but in December my son was born so that put a damper on that. I have an old group of friends but their national past-time is drinking alcohol and watching Euro soccer and neither are appealing at all to me so those friendships are slowly dying. At least sex with my wife isn't terrible. In fact it n… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/08/16 07:08 PM |
| 2 | Appropriate Dread moves?Not a good captain first mate relationship. I expect from myself what I'd expect from my wife. I wouldn't tolerate her telling me she's going out of town for two days without an explanation. I wouldn't expect her to tolerate this either. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/08/16 07:57 PM |
| 11 | RP and Mental IllnessIf she was planning on eating out to let me know so I don't cook dinner for no reason. Her response was to tell me she is feeling suicidal. I told her I can't maintain a relationship with someone who threatens suicide when I point out shitty behavior. By the time we were done it was too late to lift... This tells me you got into an argument with her, stepped right into her frame and did not stick to your priorities because you wanted to "win" the argument. What I would suggest would be: 1) When … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/08/16 01:08 PM |
| 3 | [ADVICE] Failed Shit TestHow about books. If you're done with the sidebar read starting strength or do bodyweight routine. You can work around your knee injury. This wasn't a shit test. It was a wake up call. Treat it as her telling you that your behavior is unattractive and she has second thoughts about shacking up with you. You're acting like a loser. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/08/16 07:49 PM |
| 1 | What do you do with the anger?I play the whole thing off, but inside I'm a little bit raging. I feel like if I miss a potential night of nookie that's been pent up over the last 2 weeks. The thing is is that I'm not yet in the place that I KNOW sexy will happen whenever the fuck I want. It never will happen whenever the fuck you want. You need to work on your OI and have something else you are going to do instead. IE my wife wasn't up to it so I went to read, another time I put on an action movie I wanted to see (she hates a… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/08/16 07:43 PM |
| 1 | How do you reconcile family/kids and oneitis/GYOW?I think kids and family are more of a driving force to succeed at your MAP. MRP has nothing to do with MGTOW by the way. These are kind of mutually exclusive. Presence of children might actually make it easier. It gives her just as much of an onus to succeed as it does you. If there is a divorce unless you're a total fuckup, she will lose partial access to the kids. Most women do not want that to happen. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/08/16 07:30 PM |
| 7 | Dad had "The talk" with me about marriage and kids.You sure he doesn't think you're gay? | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/16 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Wife Returns to a Main EventThat's like tits or GTFO. You can't find it means it doesn't exist ;) | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/08/16 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Horny AF after wife has our kidMy wife had C-section in December. We waited 6 weeks. Everyone is different. In the meantime enjoy your dreams. | /r/askMRP | 04/08/16 07:55 PM |
| 2 | My wife is sleeping with her friends husbandLol askmrp might as well rebrand itself to cuck central if the mods tolerate these shit threads. To the op, read the rational male. You are not being rational. You are your family's laughingstock and a cautionary tale of what happens to men when they have no self respect. | /r/askMRP | 03/08/16 03:27 PM |
| 41 | [X-post] Wife doesnt even feel the need to hide the AF/BB relationship to her husbandI promise you that all those years she was 'helping him with his height' she hated him for being so weak. You make a great point. For anyone who thinks NAWALT, this is the one trait that is universally AWALT. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/16 02:59 PM |
| 9 | [X-post] Wife doesnt even feel the need to hide the AF/BB relationship to her husbandI could have sworn I saw a similar post last year so I'm not really surprised that a woman would be upfront about it. You have to take it in the context of marriage. The guy is a doormat, she's used to him being a doormat and slowly but surely the things that he would find unacceptable initially start being the new normal eventually. IE, sex once a month initially and the guy is likely not getting married but look at him 5 years later and it's his new normal. This guy would have dropped her imme… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/16 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Brother in law about to become divorce raped.What? When? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/07/16 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Right time to have kids?I think it's a sound idea. Personally having a kid in my early 30s (wife mid 20s) and second at 40 (wife mid 30s) it was easier on both of us when we were younger. Sleep deprivation wasn't such a big deal, house was smaller (back then rented a 2bd condo vs owning a 3bd house now.) Also by the time you're 40 the kids are reared and in school. It's just easier if you have them early. Having said that, as /u/Alpha_Rising has mentioned kids DO turn you life upside down. I have a 9 yo daughter and 7 … | /r/askMRP | 30/07/16 12:31 PM |
| 5 | Seriously, what do you do when your wife rejects you when you make a pass at sex for her?it's 99% of the time at night after the kids are in bed because that's the only time we ever have alone Last Sunday kids were in the living room. Baby watching baby songs on TV (streaming youtube) and 9 yo sitting on the computer. Wife laid down to rest with cell phone in her hand. I came in, closed and locked the bedroom door and initiated. We got interrupted after she already had hers, but 20 minutes later she blew me and later that, at night we fucked. A few months back I dragged her to a bat… | /r/askMRP | 30/07/16 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend's new coworker is a God amongst menIf he wants to nail her and she wants his D than he will nail her. No matter if you're insecure or irrationally confident. Worry about things under your control. Only thing you can do is to have a plan in place for if/when something like that happens and you find out about it. About boundaries, I'd think you already have those established after 10 years of marriage. If she crosses them you know you can plate hotter chicks than she is if you're on your own. Have some abundance mentality. If she f… | /r/askMRP | 27/07/16 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Suggestions for a comeback when she asks "How do I look?"You must have missed the MMSL chapter talking about "do these pants make my ass look big?" That is right up your question's alley. | /r/askMRP | 27/07/16 04:45 AM |
| 3 | My ltr has gotten the idea that I only use her for sexClassic shit test. I think I responded to that one with "You also make great dinners and are a good mom to our kids." Yes, wives do that too. It's not a problem until you start denying this truth. She knows that primarily yes, your are with her due to being sexually compatible. If she didn't put out you wouldn't be with her. She just doesn't want to feel like a slut but if you deny, then you're just a liar and she knows it. So don't deny, just come up with whatever else she does good besides sex… | /r/askTRP | 21/07/16 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Starting Strength Newbie AdviceI do chinups and leg raises after my core lifts are done and rest on rest days. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/16 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Advice on InsecurityThis. Op is talking about his feelings like he already has a vagina between his legs. It's all in his control to be someone better. He's just too lazy to make it come to fruition. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/07/16 12:12 PM |
| 1 | My wife is applying red pill tactics to our marriageSounds to me like only one of you two is not having sex. Women are naturally red pill. AWALT. She is hot, she is getting guys' numbers, she is showing outcome independence and she certainly is not interested in fucking a child. Yes, you are behaving like one. Realistically if you are not willing to divorce her over this blatant disrespect (she makes more than you so with such a short term marriage and no kids the split will be relatively quick and painless no matter if she gets a better lawyer) … | /r/askMRP | 20/07/16 02:16 PM |
| 1 | off my chest, need advice pleaseShe is lying because she is repulsed by the thought of having sex with you. Yet she still wants to have sex (just not with you.) The only reason she married you was because of stability and friendship, but she doesn't want to have sex with you because you're a doormat and a "nice guy." Even if you leave, you will be faced with the same issue in your next relationship. Read the sidebar, rediscover your masculinity, learn outcome independence and get an ability to live without her. Once you have a… | /r/askMRP | 19/07/16 02:17 PM |
| 2 | Marriage LawsOnly a problem if she doesn't work or makes a fraction of what you make. Which makes it weird when TRP is so gung ho about wife's place being a SAHM. It's always better in case of split if she can support herself. Then there is no alimony or it's greatly reduced. As far as kids go, men who ask for custody usually end up getting it. It's actually easier if the couple was married and father had an active role in raising the children. Also 90% of custody arrangements are decided between the couple … | /r/askTRP | 15/07/16 08:03 PM |
| 6 | Just started, she wants cakeOne of the many good things about being fit is that once in a while you can pig out on cake, beer, drinks and not worry about the temporary couple of pounds you gained. Today was a gym day. For dinner I had grilled turkey breast with veggies (cabobs) and later two scoops of ice cream. Life is good. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/07/16 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Rebounding from a fuckupSTFU and time. Everyone here fucked up at one time or another. All you can do is work on yourself, take care of your shit and initiate. | /r/askMRP | 11/07/16 07:12 PM |
| 1 | 60 Days of dread. Week 1 - Lifting for life. 6 month followup. What should we do after novice gains?I did some 5/3/1 but ended up losing strength. My guess is that my top lifts weren't stressing my body enough as I was 160 and benched 135x1 at the time. Couple months ago I switched to greyskull 3x5 (last set is amrap) and have been progressing nicely on that one. I'm up to 135x5 and weigh 150 pounds. Deadlift top was 225x2 I'm at 225x5 and moving up. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/07/16 07:26 PM |
| 1 | The Game is Rigged, Men Cannot WinGood point. Either way for those that want to have kids this is money well spent. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/16 06:28 PM |
| 5 | The Game is Rigged, Men Cannot WinDepends on your standard of living. This number can be 32k or a million easily. Year 0-3 you need diapers, formula, clothes. If mom has no milk, formula and bottles will run you about $1K per year. Toys, diapers, clothes (not all from Walmart) will easily run you $5k a year. Doctor visits, medicine etc will run another $3k before you hit your deductible and another $500 in drugs. So lets just round it up to $10K a year. You're out of $30K in the first three years just like that. 3-6 gets a littl… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/16 02:20 PM |
| 2 | Time to Start LiftingStronglifts 5x5 has a buyer guide on their websites where you can buy equipment to get started fairly cheap. That is if you have a room in your house to put it. You can also search craigslist but it's more miss than hit in my experience. | /r/askMRP | 09/07/16 01:39 PM |
| 1 | I'm a little lost regarding my LTR of 5 years on respect and boundariesApart from my yearly taxes, nothing. It's just a piece of paper that I finished college. All a college degree really does in the real world is it proves that you can read, write and can learn things. At my work I have guys with English, geology, finance and accounting degrees and none of us are even close to doing what our degrees were preparing us for. If I were dead set on accounting I'd look into tax and then see about opening a private practice once I have my CPA and couple years of experien… | /r/askMRP | 06/07/16 07:37 PM |
| 1 | How to let go?i gained a real grudge against the guy Is he still in your lives? Is he still her friend? If so that's probably why you still can't let it go. | /r/askMRP | 06/07/16 01:17 PM |
| 3 | I'm a little lost regarding my LTR of 5 years on respect and boundariesWell whatever you do, don't let it derail you getting that CPA. Having said that, accounting is hell on quality of living. The busy season is an excuse to have you work 80 hours per week including weekends with no overtime pay. I got my accounting degree but didn't pursue a job in that field. I'm doing something completely unrelated in another field and I'm getting paid $20K over what guys with CPA get on average. Once you do have your CPA, you may want to look into a law school. A tax lawyer wi… | /r/askMRP | 06/07/16 11:57 AM |
| 16 | Strip game gone bad: Failed pre-sex shit test?Today, she told me, that I was almost getting rewarded for the game and I lost that chance for being a dick. Full stop. What the fuck? She told you you are getting rewarded with the chance to fuck her? In her eyes you getting to fuck her is your reward? No wonder you have a dead bedroom before you're even married when you just gloss over this kind of mindset. Fuck her and her rewards. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/07/16 03:53 PM |
| 3 | Boring guy heading into main eventShe goes out drinking with her sister and her office mates every week, sometimes 2-3 times a week. That should have been in the original post. It's a relevant information that changes things. From The Rational Male - Girl's Night Out: Disclaimer: At this point I should also add that this in no way excuses the woman who CONSTANTLY goes on GNOs as some kind of ritual with her girlfriends. This is symptomatic of a larger problem and this, again, is based in desire. If you ever find yourself in this… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/06/16 12:11 PM |
| 1 | The Lean PlanI'm not the op, so I wouldn't know. I lost 45 pounds having a banana and protein shake for lunch every day. I only cared about calories being low enough and protein intake being high enough. Beyond that I didn't really care what time I ate or how many grams of carbs I had. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/06/16 04:33 PM |
| 1 | The Lean PlanToo low carbs will hurt your lifting, so if you go very low on carbs, eating a bit of dextrose or similar just before and during lifting is a good idea. I usually have a banana before gym. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/06/16 11:25 AM |
| 2 | Red Pill pregnancy?I've read quite a few times dread + pregnancy = nuke. I think that myth has been debunked. Just search here and on MRP for pregnancy threads. There have been quite a few. You will get more comfort tests, but other than that proceed as usual. | /r/askMRP | 27/06/16 01:52 PM |
| 1 | Everyone knows...even if they don't know they know. Just heard this J-Lo song. What other MRP references have you heard/seen in poular culture?Actually that song was written by Meghan Trainor. The same one that sings "Dear Future Husband." Having said that, what she's singing here is a problem for many women. Many men expect these things and many have been brought up to be clueless not knowing how to cook or do the laundry. I myself until few years back had issues forever getting to work on time. Frankly I don't have a problem with that song. | /r/askMRP | 27/06/16 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Do any of you have phimosis?You're on medicare so it should be free. I went under the knife to get it fixed and I was 26 at the time as it developed in my late teens, early 20s. I was in and out of surgery, when I woke up, my gf and friends all went to a college basketball game lol. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/16 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Confidence and Wet Panties- My Tale so FarSame here. I haven't tried using a separate account though I have thought about it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/06/16 03:02 PM |
| 1 | [Update] "Main Event coming up tonight"Shit you're getting some tough love here. I think you had some good self reflection and you're making some rookie mistakes. We all made so rookie mistakes so don't think for a second you're some kind of fuckup based on the responses you're getting. Some advice: 1) STFU. Really, if you want to talk to her about your feelings and plans for your family. Don't. Just stfu. Actions > words. Words she can and will use against you to point out how big a loser you are for not living up to what you told h… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/06/16 01:56 PM |
| 1 | An MRP experiment: Help me get leanI lost 45 pounds in less than 6 months. The biggest factor was cutting out sugar and fat from my drinks. Coffee is black or with skim milk only. No juices or sodas, just water. Beer at 140 calories a 6 pack will cost you 800+ calories. Just stop it or give up losing weight now. 2nd part was counting my calories. A 6'5 guy working out 4 times a week needs 3200 calories to lose weight. That's a lot of calories to eat. When I was losing weight (I was 5'9 190 when I started, 5'9 145 when I finished)… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/06/16 01:14 PM |
| 2 | I just left my wife in another city because she couldn't stop verbally abusing meLol, you're a hopeless case. You married a crazy, but didn't stop there. She's also a single mom with kids from two dads. As far as trp is concerned you did two Cardinal sins. Don't stick your dick in crazy and don't ltr a single mom. You did both in one fell swoop. Other than walking away from this train wreck of a ride I don't really have any other suggestions. You stay and it's on you. IMO no pussy is worth what you're putting up with. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/06/16 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Main Event coming up tonightRecently there was a thread here or on trp about we have to have a talk. It's designed to put you in her frame to defend yourself and make concessions. If you do have the talk, flip it. She you're a dictator, you you you is a shit test. A&A or AM our pressure flip. If she goes with it makes me feel, talking about her, like me me me it's a comfort test. In that case give her some loving. Either way it's not even close to a main event and if you do it right there never will be a main event. I neve… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/06/16 03:22 PM |
| 2 | FR on accidental masculine demonstrations, and how, even years later they stick with women.YouTube is a great tool for when you don't know shit about fixing shit. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/05/16 12:53 PM |
| 4 | Women Are Now Cheating As Much As Men, But With Fewer ConsequencesI think cheating was evenly split all the time, even in the 50s and 60s. What changed is that women are more willing to admit that they are cheating nowadays. With the go girl attitude and empowered women BS, they don't get ostracized like they would be in the past. I think the big problem in today's marriage is that men truly believe in the woman being the "better half" ie the woman's fantasy of being with someone who is their equal, or even their superior is not being met at home. In a marriag… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/05/16 12:15 PM |
| 1 | How far do you trust your SO/partner(s)? How far do they trust you?Trust doesn't just happen. The person you are in relationship with have to earn that trust. My wife doesn't go out alone, doesn't have any male friends that she keeps in contact with, doesn't drink and isn't into a party scene. Never was in fact. She has earned my trust. If your gf is into the party scene and has a lot of male friends you would be very gullible to trust her IMO. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/16 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Do you think this is a healthy, positive outlook for a kid? Why does he believe in these things?I have felt for a while now that the red pill is dangerous for young, impressionable men. I get teaching about being high value, confidence, not showing weakness, taking care of your shit, not being needy, having to look good naked etc, etc. But trp takes it way too far with awalt, women being beneath you, them being only good for fucking, etc, etc. Women and men are both human beings. Yes women are more emotion driven, but as Margaret Thatcher showed us, they can be extremely intelligent and lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/16 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Losing weight fast from 400lb mid-30s?You can do a 1000 calorie deficit per day. That will translate to 2 pounds per week. I wouldn't recommend going any faster than that. Exercise is a drop in a bucket, but you can walk fast to keep your heart rate elevated. That will work off some extra fat. Other than that, go lift weights. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/16 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Lifting Progress / Progress ReportYou're probably right on that. At 40 years old I don't intend to pursue that. I'll be happy when I am able to squat and deadlift double my body weight, bench one and a half my body weight and ohp my body weight. This thread made me export CSV of my 5x5 app from when I started lifting. I first repeatedly stalled at 65 pounds on OHP. I now stalled at 95 pounds. Not bad for a year of lifting. I stalled at 130 pounds in squat and 105 pounds in bench. So about 60 pounds gained in squat, 30 gained in … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/05/16 06:32 PM |
| 2 | Lifting Progress / Progress ReportI think 531 is good when you work with higher weights. Where we're stalling might not be enough weight for 531 to give progress. I was eating at 1.5 pound surplus a week for a month and working out 4 times a week only to actually start losing strength on this program. It is geared toward a lifter that can really stress his body doing one type of a big four lift per week. With our lifts we can't do that yet. At these lighter weights I think we still have some linear progression left to work with.… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/05/16 04:09 PM |
| 3 | Climbing out of the Rabbit hole.Technically if you ever want to make money from the family alpha brand then you will have to distance yourself from the red pill. Something between Athol Kay and Rollo Tomassi might do. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/05/16 01:04 PM |
| 2 | Lifting Progress / Progress ReportMy 5RM in APR2015 I'd have to say that you're not being honest with your starting 1RM max. Those numbers are what you started with, but they were not your 5 rep maxes. I understand it's difficult to evaluate the true maxes, but you were heavily cutting and progressing on newbie gains. IE I had trouble with 5th rep on 5th set squat at 95 pounds. I was DONE after it. That's what I consider my 5x5 max when I started. I progressed up to about 135 with 1000 cal daily deficit when I started to stall a… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/05/16 12:54 PM |
| 3 | What do YOU want to do?The original point is the marriage contract is for women's benefit only No it isn't. If a girl makes more money, marriage can be a raw deal for her. If it's a mutual decision that she's a SAHM it protects her from being homeless or living in poverty because she's unemployable after a divorce. It offers the same type of protections to men, though men usually can find a much better paying jobs without college education (manufacturing, construction, tradesmen landscaping) than women so the chances … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/05/16 12:53 PM |
| 5 | What do YOU want to do?Technically if you have kids and are not married, your chances of being estranged from your child are as high or higher then if you were married. Not getting married doesn't protect you from that. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/05/16 11:48 AM |
| 0 | What do YOU want to do?I agree with your disagreement. Red pill doesn't mitigate the risk of divorce. That's only a byproduct and in fact for some men, the risk of divorce is higher because they are less likely of tolerating shitty behavior. Granted TRP can greatly decrease chances of shitty behavior but it can not eliminate them. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/05/16 11:44 AM |
| 1 | What do YOU want to do?Still, recommending a game of Russian Roulette is bad advice for men and is inconsistent with TRPs purpose. Technically chances of surviving Russian Roulette are higher (5 in 6) than chances of having a successful marriage. At 50% divorce rate, that is 1 in 2 and out of the marriages that do not end up in divorce probably only another 50% could be considered successful. So 5 in 6 vs 1 in 4. Having said all that, if you marry a woman that earns more than you, then chances of divorce rape are 0%, … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/05/16 11:38 AM |
| 3 | marriage in ruins, but we have child together (xpost from /r/askTRP)Now she only has a fuck buddy and she claims it has no perspective to be anything else. Whoa, WTF? Why didn't you put that in the op? You're reading, you're lifting all that's missing is a lawyer. Do you want your kid to grow up in a home in which parents are fucking other people and barely tolerate each other? What kind of an example do you think that sets? If you improve yourself and stay do you think she will ever respect you? | /r/askMRP | 19/05/16 10:00 PM |
| 1 | marriage in ruins, but we have child together (xpost from /r/askTRP)Are you still living together? If so, read the sidebar, lift, upgrade your wardrobe, work extremely hard at home fixing any outstanding shit, improve, seeing your changes might still change her mind. If you are not living together, read the sidebar, lift, upgrade the wardrobe, get some hot plates or a girlfriend. When she sees that you found a girlfriend hotter than she was, she might flip her shit and actually want you back. Pre-selection will work in your favor. In the meantime, either way see… | /r/askMRP | 19/05/16 05:21 PM |
| 5 | Overtly discussing using sex as a weapon?You're in a precarious situation. You want increase in frequency of sex, she wants a third child. Pregnancy sex sucks, then after birth there is 6 weeks of no sex, then breastfeeding, sleepless nights, etc, etc which all cut into energy levels of both of you which will lessen frequency of sex. In other words, what you want is pretty much incompatible with what she wants. NMMNG states to state your wants openly. No more covert contracts. So coming from your position, you want increase in frequenc… | /r/askMRP | 18/05/16 03:15 PM |
| 3 | Overtly discussing using sex as a weapon?"if you don't use sex as a weapon then we can have a 3rd kid." It's not as bad as a covert contract, but still... That's negotiating desire which is still bad. | /r/askMRP | 18/05/16 02:49 PM |
| 2 | LTR only if marriageAnd we're ones of the few that would have married our wives again. Food for thought for the ones thinking of tying the knot after 30. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/05/16 02:44 PM |
| 4 | LTR only if marriageIMO, LTR is not suitable for young people (<30). Confirm/deny? Deny. I met my wife when she was 16. Married her when she was 20. She's 34 now and just gave me our 2nd child. Having met her so young, I don't have to think about any exes she fucked or sucked. There are no stories of her younger party years. There is nothing that she did with someone else and refused to do with me. She spent her highest SMV years with me. I realistically don't see another scenario which would have worked out better… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/05/16 02:19 PM |
| 4 | Shouldn't dread game work even more on mothers?Nah to custody. Apart from some horror cases where guys did not help themselves (made mistakes) most of the time dads that want custody get custody. Look it up. There are plenty of studies supporting that statement. If she wants to be with the kids, she has as much to lose (emotionally) as you during the divorce. No parent wants to see their kids only half the week. The situation is even better if she wasn't a SAHM. Alimony then is minimal and often none at all. CS is only until kids are grown. … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/05/16 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Did I let her get away with too much for too long for her to even botehr changing? Trying to change her but seems fruitlessSex every 1 or 2 months and she's pregnant? I would highly suggest you DNA test that little munchkin. As far as being too late? Nope. You're actually younger than allot of men on this sub. Plenty young to turn it around and you even have a head start given that you don't need to cut and lose weight first. Read the MRP sidebar, buy the prereq books and you'll be on your way. | /r/askMRP | 16/05/16 04:20 PM |
| 1 | "I'm sorry, I love you but stop harrassing me too much" LTR Shit test (I don't harrass her)Do you live together? It sounds like you do. I think she's telling you to go find hobbies, go lift and stop trying to climb up her ass. You're just not seeing it. You're all her, her, her. What are you doing to make her want to be in your life, make her compete for your attention? | /r/askMRP | 14/05/16 02:00 PM |
| 2 | Wife find husband not alpha enough, looking for 'connections' elsewhere [xpost /r/deadbedrooms]Frankly I find myself looking for connections in dangerous places, like ex flings, guys in bars, etc. She's looking for tingles as her husband doesn't give her any. She gave him NMMNG to read but now thinks he's fake. Guy needs to fake it until you make it. I think she's one of the girls that sometimes you see looking at AskTRP or AskMRP for advice. Guy used to be that way until he got domesticated. She just forgot how he used to be because we all live in a "what have you done for me lately" kin… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/05/16 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Guy on OKCupid subreddit needs emotional support, displays vulnerability in front of his girlfriend. Guess what happens next.There are exceptions to every rule. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/16 02:16 AM |
| 1 | [Update] Confronting wife about emotional affairIt's weird that she is angry and resentful and you are cheerful when it was her that was cheating/about to cheat. Frankly I don't get people like you. Are you truly upbeat about this turn of events? You like being second choice, someone she feels is stuck with? | /r/askMRP | 09/05/16 06:02 PM |
| 10 | 12 years married, wife wants divorce, now flips again, in home professional - pukeYou start with No more mr nice guy followed up by with when I say no I feel guilty. At this stage in your marriage I feel it will be more beneficial in the short term than Married Man Sex Life Primer. Read that third. It doesn't sound like you're lifting heavy weights yet. If that is not the case start right now. Pick a program and stick with it for at least 6 months. If you're not overweight, upgrade your wardrobe. If you are then work on that as well. Use my fitness pal and count calories. I l… | /r/askMRP | 08/05/16 08:17 PM |
| 2 | I'm totally satisfied with what we have. Totally!!Today she texts me to say a co-worker got better seats today from another outlet and that she tried to buy his Only response necessary is "lucky bastard." I don't think that what she told you is anything other than just venting. It's not a shot against you. It just is what it is. Say lucky bastard and move on. | /r/askMRP | 04/05/16 07:36 PM |
| 3 | Confronting wife about emotional affairIdeally I would like to continue and improve myself with MAP and continue in a relationship but not with this going on. But this IS going on. You can go with after asking her to cool things with Chad she brings him home angle. If she denies or gaslights you, then you might as well create a Tinder profile cause she's not only a cheater but a liar as well. At that point the woman you thought you loved is dead. What's there to save? Google sunk cost fallacy. | /r/askMRP | 02/05/16 08:54 PM |
| 3 | "I don't wonder where you are.""I don't wonder where you are. Where you are is your business. Sounds like she said that because she believes where she goes is her business and none of yours. Or she wants you to believe that she doesn't give a fuck. Basically it's a message that if you think you're dreading her, she is not impressed...yet. | /r/askMRP | 02/05/16 11:57 AM |
| 6 | Am I ready for fuck me or fuck you?Then you're defnitely not ready. I have not noticed much change in my muscle composition until after about a year of lifting. Some of it is due to 8 months of it spent cutting but it sounds like you're in a similar boat. This is a marathon, not a sprint. Goal is 10-12% body fat and at least 3 years of lifting starting from the end of the first cut which you're still on. If you're patient enough you won't even have to have that conversation because with one glance at you she will know that if she… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/05/16 11:51 AM |
| 0 | Driver: Shit test or comfort test?My wife likes to drive fast which sometimes causes leos to stop her. The last 3 times it happened she got off with a warning (the last time I and my daughter were passengers.) How many times would a guy get off with just a warning? I say if she wants to drive? Let her. | /r/askMRP | 30/04/16 01:00 PM |
| 3 | Starting again.I think your problem is that you have not created a MAP yet. You are recognizing where the problem lies. Your wife still runs the show. She will always control sex. That won't change. Women control sex, men control commitment. By your own admission you are failing Iron Rule of Tomassi #1. The biggest problem is to recognize where you fail and you are there. Now create a MAP on how to wrestle away the frame and control of the ship from the first mate. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/04/16 12:06 PM |
| 1 | Not sure what to do about sexual turn downs, possibly manipulation?Well, compared to most you're already halfway there. You have a six pack so the only place you're failing is mental. Read the sidebar material and you'll be good to go. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/04/16 11:58 AM |
| 2 | Two things: I need some help with a situation with my wife and can MRP help a wife get over mental illness?Well, that's your solution then. She cries bs about not being able to find a job then cut her off entirely and just give her a small allowance. Right now she's just a fucking leach bleeding you dry. | /r/askMRP | 27/04/16 03:00 PM |
| 2 | Two things: I need some help with a situation with my wife and can MRP help a wife get over mental illness?Well, send her to work then. You work 2 jobs barely making ends meet and you're thinking about getting a third. When are you actually home? When you go to sleep? What kind of life is that? If she worked maybe you wouldn't have to work this hard and this whole issue of having a third job would be moot. | /r/askMRP | 27/04/16 12:39 PM |
| 6 | can MRP change me to help with a dying marriage?Only one way to find out. 1) On your way home from work, stop by a local gym that has free weights (ie not just machines like the cheap $10 gyms have,) and sign up. Use an app like strong lifts 5x5 on your smart phone and start lifting weights. Since you start with very low weights, the first few weeks you will only spend about 30-40 minutes at the gym. As you get into heavier weights and will need more rest time between sets it will jump to an hour, hour and fifteen minutes. No, your wife will … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/04/16 12:21 PM |
| 3 | Thought I'd ask you guys: stick with it or just start over?She's starting fights and if you participate that means she pulls you into her frame. Just refuse to participate. State your point then leave or do something else. If she follows you trying to start shit, then just leave. I was shocked how well it worked with my wife the one time she did that. She hasn't done it since. I simply left, came back in an hour and she was back to being her sweet self. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/04/16 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Is there hope for single young men? Please convince an MRA to defect back to the wife hunters tribe.Filipino women are just as bad as American girls, they just hide it better. They will screw you over for money just as bad. They are not the solution. You are. Read the sidebar, start over, eventually you will find a girl that will put in the work to earn your commitment. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/04/16 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Interaction with Wife with puzzling resultsHell, I could post a whole background on lifting and how only doing that could singlehandedly save your marriage. This might be worth expanding on. I think lifting (and being attractive), removing covert contracts, recognizing and passing shit tests are the big three. You have shown an example of two of the three in your post (lifting and passing shit tests.) I've been joking to my wife that this path I'm on has given her a free upgrade. A husband that is attractive, keeps shit take care of at h… | /r/askMRP | 25/04/16 12:38 PM |
| 2 | I Don't Leave...I'm not sure why you're getting downvoted. The gist of the post is life/work balance which allot of people don't seem to care about. I chuckle when I see threads about shit tests etc from guys that live half a country away from their family. What is the point of such a life? I'd rather get a less paying job and be at home with my family than a higher paying one and be stuck living in hotels. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/04/16 11:50 AM |
| 3 | I'm afraid I'm being too rigid in my requirements for a girlfriend/wife, and it may have cost me a great girl. Am I?Why would you want her to stay at home? My wife works and we have 2 kids, one school age, the other infant. Having said that, she works 3 days and 2 other days from home. The three days she works out of the house, grandparents help out with the child. The older child goes to school. It works for us. She admitted that if she had to be a stay at home mom, she would be climbing walls with boredom and I wouldn't blame her for that. People on TRP always like to say how eastern European women are so d… | /r/askTRP | 19/04/16 06:51 PM |
| 0 | Teen gets $4k in tax returns cause she popped out a babyThis thread is all kinds of fucked up. You guys are raging like a bunch of fucking retards. First of all child tax credit is $1000, not $4,000. And it's for all of us. Men, women and families are eligible for this credit. Contrary to popular belief here, there are single dads out there. $4,000 is subtracted from your taxable income, so if your family earned 100K you get taxed for $88K, as you subtract $4k for yourself, $4K for your wife and another $4k per child. So with one child you get taxed … | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/16 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Fitness MAP when injured? & a humbling FRWhat about body weight squats, chinups and pushups? Ask your doc about those. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/04/16 03:12 PM |
| 2 | Just starting out. Not sure how to proceedApart from lifting don't change too much until you have had a chance to read through the first three books. My biggest personal change came from reading No More Mr Nice Guy. That book is listed first for a reason. The gist of this whole thing is to be attractive and to respect yourself. You can't expect others to respect you if you don't respect yourself. Once that happens, all of this becomes easy. Will you make mistakes? Sure you will. Will you take two steps forward and one step back? Of cour… | /r/askMRP | 14/04/16 01:31 PM |
| 1 | In a good LTR but found out she lied about n-countI'm sure Bill Clinton would upvote that statement. | /r/askMRP | 13/04/16 02:20 PM |
| 1 | In a good LTR but found out she lied about n-countIf you spent a bit more time on TRP you could have saved yourself some trouble with this. Always use the rule of 3. She admitted to 6 so it's probably 18. Remember, even with what you found on the phone and what she's telling you now, she probably is not counting shitty, drunk one night stands or the times she just blew a guy. So I doubt it's 11. Having said that, a single girl at 29? 18 is a low number. If you wanted a girl with a low n count you should have looked to get married in your early … | /r/askMRP | 13/04/16 01:16 PM |
| 2 | In a good LTR but found out she lied about n-countLol, some would call that a sexual assault. | /r/askMRP | 13/04/16 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Cutting - need advice for cutting fat while lifting.Note that he is 5'7. 2450 calories per day includes working out 5 times a week. If we assume intense workout 5x a week his calories go up to 2600 per day so 1600 per day to lose 2 pounds a week. He can use his scale and adjust from there based on how much weight he is losing and how he feels during the day. I felt totally fine eating at that rate though I was stalled on my lifts despite my beginner's status. | /r/askMRP | 12/04/16 07:04 PM |
| 2 | Signs of a cheaterYep, that is what immediately came to my mind. | /r/askMRP | 12/04/16 12:28 PM |
| 2 | Cutting - need advice for cutting fat while lifting.Count your calories. At 5'7 180 pounds and exercising 5 times a week, your maintenance calories are at 2450. You need to have a deficit of 7000 calories a week to lose 2 pounds a week. That means you need to eat (and that includes your drinks) max 1450 calories per day. In 6 weeks you will lose another 12 pounds. Having said that, unless you are naturally really gifted and have some serious muscle I doubt that at that height and weight you are at 20% body fat. My guess is you are closer to 25% t… | /r/askMRP | 12/04/16 12:25 PM |
| 2 | How NOT to handle your wife finding MRP, and why you should keep it from herI didn't say it's a good thing. I just don't let it affect my frame. If your wife finds your post history you just need to own your shit. She may disagree but she will respect you for it. If you act like a kid with his hand in the cookie jar well just look above what your wife's reaction to that will look like. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/04/16 07:13 PM |
| 4 | How NOT to handle your wife finding MRP, and why you should keep it from herEh you can let your wife find mrp but your frame has to be solid. My wife regularly (pretty much everyday) looks up my reddit user account and post history. The first time she found out was by asking me what I was reading on my phone. I showed it to her. She got addicted after. It's seldom that a woman will get access to a man's mind and know what he really thinks. Or maybe it's just me? I was never into puking my feelings. So I owned what I was reading and writing. Then again she never starfish… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/04/16 11:54 AM |
| 6 | I would do it again.Because you're scared she will be attracted to Chad, you're going to keep her chained at home? Really? Why don't you get her a chastity belt while you're at it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/04/16 07:37 PM |
| 9 | I would do it again.I also am in the camp that would do it again. Some comments though. ‘Marriage 2.0’ certainly favors women in the event of divorce You are wrong here. It favors the person that makes less money and takes care of the kids more. That's why I shake my head every time I hear red pill aware men favor a SAHM lifestyle. If she works, your household has more money, she's not desperate for drama and change as she gets plenty of that at work, she isn't itching to get out of the house when you get there as … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/04/16 05:29 PM |
| 7 | I would do it again.If you think marriage gives the woman power over your children imagine the power she has if you were not married. It would be totally up to her to put you on the birth certificate. They would have her last name. What a clusterfuck. Fuck no. If you want a nuclear family, marriage is your best option. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/04/16 04:07 PM |
| 2 | The Red Pill to save your Marriage - elevator pitchLol #2 is a good one. Last night I was getting ready to watch the championship game so I wasn't really up for sex. I was still willing to take one for the team but... So I asked my wife if she wanted to have sex. She smiled and said if you wanted to have some you wouldn't be asking you would just initiate. And that's it in a nutshell. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/04/16 09:41 PM |
| 3 | Dealing with wife's friendsYep, perfectly said. | /r/askMRP | 05/04/16 06:11 PM |
| 2 | Body fat and bulking.I'm on 4 day Wendler 5/3/1 boring but big plan. | /r/askMRP | 04/04/16 05:47 PM |
| 2 | Fat Guy Needing Advice On Cardio for BangingYeah cardio is not going to help you that much in losing that. You definitely need to count your calories. Give it a year at 1600-1800 and you will weigh 180. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/16 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Fat Guy Needing Advice On Cardio for BangingJust how much overweight are we talking about? Feb of 2015 I had a similar issue but diet of 1500 calories per day I shaved off two pounds a week with nothing besides lifting and half hour of walking. By June I lost 40 pounds and was no longer getting winded while fucking. Whatever you do, do not let cardio affect your lifting, so limit it to 5-15 minute warmup tops. Focus on diet and once the pounds melt off, your stamina will increase. If you want to have a nice cardio effect while lifting, su… | /r/askTRP | 01/04/16 01:23 PM |
| 2 | Overweight Newbie in LTR: How to handle a buff dude visiting home.Well you sure have some humor going for yourself. This is some funny shit. been lifting for about 4 months...am still overweight(about 15 lbs) What does that even mean? Are you 15 pounds away from being within normal BMI range or are you 15 pounds away from being cut at 10% body fat? You calling yourself 15 pounds overweight tells me that you're still in BMI overweight category. Newsflash, to get to where you need to be ie 10% body fat with muscles and not bones showing, will take you 3-4 years … | /r/askMRP | 01/04/16 12:59 PM |
| 2 | At me end, not sure what to do.I'd start with lifting and working on your STFU and amused mastery (these are excellent beginner's techniques for passing shit tests). This right there is what I used. A&A doesn't come naturally at least not when you're beginning to unplug. Also op should read when I say no I feel guilty. From hisr description it's pretty obvious he has not read it yet and if he had he did not implement it. | /r/askMRP | 31/03/16 11:49 AM |
| 5 | She had a pathetic affair. What's the thinking on respecting myself and rebuilding respect for her?Five years of dirty and/or controlling texts, four meet-ups for a few seconds of rough sex, his demanding and her sending naked pictures. He called her “cunt” as her title and she responded. Sounds like that is the kind of treatment she wants, the kind you're unable to provide. So she was getting the "making love" at home with you and the "getting fucked like the slut she is" from the cop. Read SGM from MRP sidebar. Majority of women crave both kinds of loving. The way he treated her and she res… | /r/askMRP | 30/03/16 12:59 PM |
| 2 | Do men like their wives to initiate sex?I won't speak for others but I'd love if my wife would initiate. I wouldn't find it as any kind of pressure. She will sometimes give some subtle clues like say in the evening "I'm going to take a shower now." If I don't initiate for a while she will get pissed off but still won't initiate. Anything more than subtle hints is really beyond her capacity to bear the humiliation of getting shut down. | /r/askMRP | 30/03/16 12:06 PM |
| 1 | Whats the best way to slim down (lose fat) & then bulk up (get swole) ?Calories in must be lower than calories out. At your weight, height and age, lifting heavy weights 3-5 times a week you burn roughly 2300-2600 calories per day. Eat (and that includes your drinks) 1500 calories per day. You will lose almost 2 pounds per week and by beginning of summer your bmi will be in the middle of normal and you won't be overweight. You will get slightly weaker but don't worry about that. That's normal and you will gain it back tenfold when you're bulking. By the end of summ… | /r/askTRP | 29/03/16 06:34 PM |
| 1 | I hurt a girl for the first time and it sucksYou need to read this article about LDRs. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/16 04:19 PM |
| 4 | On The Brink of DivorceWell you used to have much more sex than you have now so listen to what she does, not what she says. I don't believe the period thing. She probably says this just so you won't initiate. Irregardless, what's wrong with period sex? Throw a towel on the bed and fuck her good. No sex for 3 months? Why the iud then? Kind of defeats the purpose no? Are you sure she's shopping on the phone or is it something she tells you she's doing? If you can't curb her spending split finances and make her pay her s… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/03/16 03:21 PM |
| 1 | What comes next?You know allot of problems tend to be nonexistent if you just fuck her good. I know it sounds like such a crude and stupid thing to say but that is what I have observed lately in my marriage. I've unplugged a while back so she's very receptive to my initiation. It's just that with a new baby and heavy lifting 4 times a week I've been tired and slipping at taking care of my shit, namely taking my wife to the pound town. Sure your wife wants to leave but that's cause she was no longer attracted to… | /r/askMRP | 21/03/16 02:59 PM |
| 4 | 2 old sluts just sat next to me at the bar and started telling me I'm cute and flirting with me. They asked where my girlfriend was, when I said "I don't date" they started going off on me saying "I'm on the wrong road" and that "I just hit it and quit it" I saidI said, "what's the right path? Getting married so in 15 years my wife and her friend can go out on girls night and hit on men half their age?" Lol, your wit is off the charts. Well played sir. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/16 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Is marraige really that bad if you get a solid prenup?Marriage is not bad at all as long as you are the type of guy that will give her tingles. Divorce though is entirely a different matter. Prenup if executed properly protects you from losing the assets you had prior to the marriage and from alimony if it stated so...only if the judge chooses to honor it. A mistake on the prenup? Withheld some information or some assets? She wasn't represented by a lawyer? She did not have enough time to properly evaluate it? She would face severe financial hardsh… | /r/askMRP | 19/03/16 02:00 PM |
| 5 | Looking for guidanceI don't see how you have trust issues. She cheated on you, lied about it, contacted him behind your back after it was supposedly over. You simply justifiably do not trust her. That's not trust issues. No sane guy would trust her either. Your bouts of anger are a result of you staying with her. Your feelings of insecurity are due to the fact that you can't trust her. The big problem I see is that you mention quite a few times that she makes more money than you. You mention it enough that to me it… | /r/askMRP | 17/03/16 01:30 PM |
| 1 | I think I finally understand Shit Testing and I fail them a lot.Get up and go lift or leave or go to the basement, do some pushups, pull-ups etc. Work that energy off. Then go to sleep. Or read a book, preferably one from the sidebar. | /r/askMRP | 16/03/16 11:42 AM |
| 4 | Gaming Your Wife For DummiesPlayful ass squeeze or caress. Kissing her neck while her back is to you then waking away. Our if she's responding to the kiss then maybe wrap your hands around her stomach and lightly pull her toward you. All in situations where you don't expect our want to have sex at that time. Start with maybe once or twice a day and once she starts responding and inviting the touch escalate from there. If she stiffens when you do it, back off and don't try until the next day. Take your time and in the meant… | /r/askMRP | 16/03/16 11:38 AM |
| 5 | [27m] There is a part of me that wants to try to cheat on my girlfriend [28f] to send a message that she cannot hear otherwise.You haven't really read the sidebar. You are approaching it the way a girl should approach a guy. When you tell her your feelings about lack of intimacy what you are really doing is negotiating desire (read the rational male.) It results in a temporary fix then things get back to her normal. Sure cheating on her will tell her that OTHER women find you attractive but it won't fix your relationship. If you live separately it's time to lower your availability, hit the gym, get some hobbies and make… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/16 05:42 PM |
| 23 | Long awaited suggestions from a RPW ModYour thread is a perfect example of male hamstering. The problem is, when you've been married to someone for a decade or longer - there's no way in the world they are going to believe (or go along with) a sudden reversal in attitude. I can't say I disagree. I even wrote something to that effect before. Your turnaround from a hapless loser can't happen overnight. That's why the first recommendation is to lift and STFU. When a guy overtly chases women in front of his wife - she doesn't feel 'dread… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/03/16 07:21 PM |
| 1 | So I just realized that I've been fucking around in the gym for the past year.That's what Jim recommends in his book. The guy lifted a 1000 pound deadlift so he must know what he's talking about. Leg raises are strengthening your abs. That helps with squat and deadlift. Eventually I might progress to weighted leg raises. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/03/16 01:23 AM |
| 1 | So I just realized that I've been fucking around in the gym for the past year.Yes Wendler 531 Pro. I tried a few but liked this one the best. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/03/16 06:37 PM |
| 1 | So I just realized that I've been fucking around in the gym for the past year.I just started this program so it's not boring to me yet. I'm doing it exactly as prescribed in 5/3/1 second edition with the exception of bbb percentages. If it gets boring I may switch to slightly less boring. I'm not doing the variants. Just the core lifts. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/03/16 04:49 PM |
| 3 | What do you do to make your woman feel safe?That's fucked up. What if the house caught on fire? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/03/16 02:09 PM |
| 3 | Pregnant defacto of 10 years, 3rd child.The thing with pregnancy is that pregnant sex sucks ass. Me and my wife both hated it and we like having sex with each other (been unplugging for over a year.) Now 2 months after delivery, when she got an ok that sex was fucking amazing in comparison to what it was when she was pregnant. If I were you, right now I would focus on myself. Lift free weights according to a plan like starting strength or strong lifts 5x5. Something that has linear progression that will get you up to speed fast. That'… | /r/askMRP | 09/03/16 08:21 PM |
| 3 | Don't tell the wife about MRP???My wife knows kind of by accident. I read nmmng, then signed up to the gym. She asked where are all these changes coming from. Since nmmng says to let your so know about the book, I told her that I'm not satisfied with who I was and that I read a couple self improvement books. That's how she found out about nmmng and mmslp. A few weeks or months down the line she saw me reading reddit on my phone and wanted to see. I felt I had nothing to hide (own your shit) so instead of panicking and closing … | /r/askMRP | 09/03/16 08:05 PM |
| 8 | CheckmateI love playing chess. But to me the red pill is more about a set of tools rather than a strategy. It's a set of tools to teach men how to be men and how to stay attractive to your woman. 1) Be attractive - That's where lifting, hygiene, grooming and wardrobe come in. 2) Live life for yourself first - That's where self respect and self love come in. You can't expect her to respect and love you if you don't respect and love yourself. That's when A&A, AM etc become fun and easy and that's when you'… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/03/16 08:10 PM |
| 4 | Wanted to do a field report, but rather need advice.I know what I did wrong here, and I also know that her rejection is directly because she sees me as a low value male. Not consciously, most women don't know that they view you as a low value male. Their lizard brain knows that and turns off the libido. They just don't know why they are not turned on and then they feel like a victim when you try to initiate and they have to shut you down. Hence her letter to you. She loves you but doesn't realize why she's is no longer attracted to you. She is so… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/03/16 01:04 PM |
| 0 | Money: Why "Two Income Households" are a Lie.That may be true, heck it is true, but without my wife and kids what would I keep spending the money on? Vacations by myself or with some girl pressuring me to propose? Drive a Porsche to an empty house everyday? Sounds like a sad existence. What's life without risk? Some risk their lives with extreme sports, some risk divorce rape, some risk false rape accusations from subpar sexual encounter, some risk catching an std from a string of one night stands. We all risk something with the choices we… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/16 08:09 PM |
| 2 | Discussion on division of labor in marriageWhen I first got married we had bunch of issues. My wife was very clean bordering on OCD. I was much more laid back, but also lazy. Over the years, she has mellowed out about keeping the house picture perfect 24/7 and I have improved with both what standard of cleanliness is acceptable to me and with the laziness about doing what needs to be done. We still have some hard divisions though. I won't dust or wash the windows and for the most part I stay away from cleaning the bathrooms. She won't mo… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/03/16 12:26 PM |
| 2 | How to properly present an ultimatum?No ultimatum. Tell her it's not working out. You want kids, she doesn't it's best you two split. Either she changes her mind or you are now single and free to pursue a girl with the same goals that you have. | /r/askMRP | 03/03/16 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Balkan WomenI knew an ex Yougoslavian chick. She was georgous and such a flirt it's not even funny. She was this old guy's who owned a mortgage company back in the days of housing boom sugar baby. I'd say they are just like any other women. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/03/16 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Just finished reading "No More Mr. Nice Guy." It was spot-fucking-on. Was wondering if some of you could share how you personally applied it to your lives.I read it about a year ago. Practical examples: 1) Kept asking wife about signing up to the gym she kept saying no. After reading the book I signed up to the gym and told her about it as a matter of fact. She was all for it as if it. Ended up joining me. 2) Kept beating around the bush asking about sex. Now I just initiate if I want it. If I ask it's about location like kids are up so I tell her let's go to the bathroom and get it on. It will be fun. Well I know it will be fun for me, but it may… | /r/askTRP | 29/02/16 07:20 PM |
| 3 | How do you handle sex/initiation, *while* you're improving (which means that 'you're not yet improved' -- which means "she doesn't want it from you.")That's actually a pretty good question you're asking. The answer is difficult because we do not know your history. How was the sex before you married? What was the initial attraction? Did she fuck you from the get go out did she make you wait? Did you marry early or after she's had a ride in the carousel? All of this matters. I met my wife at 16, married her at 20, discovered this sub 13 years later. MRP literally took about couple of weeks to start getting me results beyond my biggest hopes. It… | /r/askMRP | 29/02/16 02:16 PM |
| 10 | Need advice about wife possibly going on vacation with her friend.No vacations alone. If you start you might as well open your relationship because that is what happens when girls go on vacation alone. Read the rational male spring break. It doesn't matter. My grandma way back in the 60s before I was born went to a week-long spa place in Europe and found a Chad there. It's a fucking cliche how often this shit happens and happened in history. If she wants vacation alone you say no. If she goes anyways she comes back to an empty house or one where locks have bee… | /r/askMRP | 27/02/16 01:11 PM |
| 4 | Hit a plateau months in - wife "scared by intensity"I'm by no means expert on lifting but after speaking to a guy in the gym that has power lifting competition titles I noticed that increasing reps on my 85% lifts made 95% much easier. Basically something similar to 531 routine. Switch it up. Make your body ready for endurance as well as for power and you may find that you're pushing through the plateau. As for your wife? Could it be just a form of lmr/asd that since you've been on easy mode have forgotten to recognize? Either way if you continue… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/02/16 12:30 PM |
| 1 | So, what should a woman do to be a good partner and help her man become more confident and more Alpha?Don't try to make him jealous. What will happen: Option 1: The guy will consider that as sign of disrespect and pull away. If you persist with these games, he will dump or plate you. Option 2: The guy will double down essentially becoming your doormat. You will lose respect for him and eventually you will just dump him. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/16 12:42 PM |
| 10 | Crosspost from TRP.....the saddest betas ever. They make the deadbedrooms crew look strongYou know, sometimes the best thing that could happen to you is when you are first dating, have a girlfriend cheat on you. When I was 18-19, my gf (we lost our virginity to each other) cheated on me. The emotional pain I can't tell you how much of a beta cuck I was. I cried for days. I mean back then I firmly believed in the Disney dream. She was THE ONE. I stayed with her, then she cheated again. The pain while there was greatly diminished the second time. By then I no longer had any respect for… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/02/16 01:37 PM |
| 2 | Blind...need help seeing the lightShe told you to fuck other women because she sure as hell knows that you don't have the game or the looks to pull it off. You need to up your dread. That is lift, lose the fat, start learning the game, flirting etc. That's up to level 7 in 12 steps/levels of dread. Keep progressing through them until either she fucks you or you can openly dress up to go out and fuck other women. See the wiki on mrp for the guide on it. | /r/askMRP | 25/02/16 02:30 AM |
| 7 | Not married but, LTR issues, was wondering if anyone could help...I'd recommend No More Mr Nice Guy first but as long as it's second on your reading list you'll do just fine. That and lifting. Ignore the snap chat. She's looking for attention whether it's because she's attention whore or because you no longer are doing it for her doesn't matter. If you tell her don't post photos of yourself in a tanktop you will look like a controlling, insecure loser, so just don't do it. Once you improve to the point that losing you will actually scare her, then you can put … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/02/16 08:22 PM |
| 1 | The dogs still follow mePoodles are one of in not the most intelligent breed of dogs. Even ahead of my favorite, German Shepherds. The reason why the prefer you is simple. They see you as the alpha. The group leader. Even if you have a hard time seeing it in yourself, they don't have that trouble. To them you're the master of the domain they live in and they treat you as such. | /r/askMRP | 24/02/16 03:04 PM |
| 2 | Wife admitted she uses sex to try and control me, after months of issues but I think it's a good sign? Long read sorry.Numerous studies show a woman's sex drive lowers for a man when he commits. So? Did sex slow down and BJs vanish the day after our vows? You bet your ass they did. Plays right into those studies. That's why MRP is TRP on hard mode. Many of us chose to have a wife, kids, a family. Most here are family men, not boys playing the pick up game. Thanks to MRP, many of us have gotten our wives to fuck us with more enthusiasm and frequency then when we first started dating. BJs back on the table? You be… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/02/16 01:47 PM |
| 2 | No dread at allI finally read this article and in it she admits that he no longer has that gym physique and he blames it on putting his family first. So I think she knows what the real reason for lack of intimacy is. I just think the guy is clueless. He probably thinks he doesn't look as bad as we think he does. I was like that too. I didn't think I looked that bad and my wife wouldn't tell me either. Now that I look at those pictures of me from a year or two ago I just shudder. I can't believe I was so fuckin… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/02/16 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Stopped getting blowjobs because I got good at giving them. Feedback wantedYou have your hand. I get no fap but if you're going to be a minuteman might as well help yourself out and get off so that you can last longer. Also you should start going down on her as a prelude to sex. I pretty much go down on my wife every time we have sex. Before or during. It's a different kind of O from oral and from fucking and she likes them both. | /r/askMRP | 23/02/16 04:29 PM |
| 6 | This One Did Not Survive the PillFrom what I understand if you keep improving and moving through the stages of dread, your wife will eventually fuck you. You don't give her the FM or FU speach until you're in dread level 10 and that is about 10 months into the MAP. If she's pregnant through this time you may not want to escalate the dread until she's through breast feeding. So during pregnancy and breastfeeding you basically keep working out and building your SMV. At most you only get to level 6 but staying at level 2 might be … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/02/16 02:08 PM |
| 1 | [FR] How I almost nuked my marriage by being oblivious to feelz.You can find plenty of D reports on both between AskMRP, AskTRP and TRP. Not as many around here, but we all fall under RP umbrella. Once you've gone through the map I think most marriages are pretty stable unless it's the guy that chooses to leave. I just mentioned it because I've been on MRP for a year now. I've completely turned myself and my marriage around and things were on an upswing then a few bad weeks and boom. If I divorced and chose to report about it people would assume I fucked up … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/02/16 08:30 PM |
| 11 | No dread at allI mean look at that guy compared to his pic from 2010. Honestly the thought of sleeping with him now would make most women skin crawl. His boobs weigh more than his wife's. Have him lose a 100 pounds, put on 20 pounds of muscle and his wife would be all over him. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/02/16 07:18 PM |
| 6 | [FR] How I almost nuked my marriage by being oblivious to feelz.Why would your woman ever even joke about leaving with her infant? It wasn't a joke. She was dead serious. She felt that I don't want her and am annoyed by the baby. She hoped that time away from her would make us appreciate what we had and get through to me. I think she just wanted her husband who touched and adored her and fucked her good back. She just wasn't going to beg for it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/02/16 06:30 PM |
| 3 | [FR] How I almost nuked my marriage by being oblivious to feelz.Tack on the drop in sex drive That would be mine, not hers. I wasn't initiating, wasn't being affectionate, no touching etc. She basically was trying to find a way to get me back I think, and the taking a baby and leaving was her Hail Mary for me and my daughter to miss her and for me to be away from the baby so that I wouldn't be annoyed by him (her words.) Though I don't believe that I'm annoyed by him, just frustrated by lack of sleep and looking forward to when he finally sleeps through the … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/02/16 06:12 PM |
| 5 | I have so much hate for my ex, what am I doing wrong?That's your problem. You've put your life on hold to improve but then you will, you will meet a chick, fall in love and backslide. You NEVER stop improving. So end your 6 months of celibacy and go date some women. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/16 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Another lifting question. This one about increasing reps.Goal is to build muscle. | /r/askMRP | 18/02/16 01:59 PM |
| 2 | Stronglifts 5x5 HelpIf your form breaks down, count it as a failed rep. 3 weeks in a row? Deload. It won't increase unless you're bulking. | /r/askMRP | 18/02/16 12:26 PM |
| 2 | Embarrassing problem with boners..I had it happen to me one week. It passed but that one week it was embarrassing and annoying as fuck to both me and my wife. Since you're cutting, it could be it especially if it's combined with lack of sleep. Also make sure you're getting enough water. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/16 12:20 PM |
| 2 | Is there a difference between a good guy and a nice guy?Read no more mr nice guy. It's pretty well fleshed out in that book. What it boils down to is, nice guys are basically liars. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/16 12:15 PM |
| 1 | [blue pill example] Lost relationship of over a year due to a failed shit testThere was no viable course of action at that point. As soon as she suggested it, the ltr was over. You could have possibly plated her ie sleep with her when you see each other but no more I love yous. At that point the best she can do is be your plate. But given that you had feelings for her, the only option was to next her and cut all contact so that you can move on. There are some guys on trp that are into open relationships but majority of men wouldn't go for that. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/16 04:46 PM |
| 1 | LTR went to a stripclub with her boss.That's not a covert contract. That is just rolling over common relationship boundaries. Having said that this wasn't the first time she went out with her boss. Since he didn't make a boundary then, she's just been escalating to see at which point he would cry uncle. | /r/askMRP | 17/02/16 03:28 PM |
| 1 | LTR went to a stripclub with her boss.She goes with men other than her boyfriend to strip clubs and doesn't come home until 5 AM. You don't find a problem with that? This girl is no more than a plate. You can't LTR a woman like that. I would find it hard to believe that she didn't fuck that guy but in case she didn't, that's not showing much respect to your relationship. Only a cuck would be fine with that behavior. | /r/askMRP | 17/02/16 01:19 PM |
| 1 | LTR went to a stripclub with her boss.You aren't married, do not live together with her, why are you posting this on askmrp? Post this on asktrp instead. Regardless, I wouldn't marry a chick that goes with other men to strip clubs. This one is a plate at best. | /r/askMRP | 16/02/16 04:43 PM |
| 3 | Girlfriend is going to a 21st Party when she is 16. HELP?Not beta, the only right move in my opinion. Make plans with others tell her she's free to join you, then go out and enjoy your time whether she's there or not. It's not like you believed you would marry her or something romantic like that...You did? Oh, so cute. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/16 11:47 AM |
| 31 | My mom has my dad whipped and has lately been dangling divorce over his headGet him a copy of no more mr nice guy. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/16 11:33 AM |
| 6 | The Trope of the Beta Male Married HusbandThat thread you linked to is a comedy gold especially the replies to a comment about BJ being version of a gay handshake. Your post though is nothing more than a red pill version of a pussy pass. Some women will cheat on an awesome guy for the thrill of it, some because the other guy is simply different. Don't excuse her cheating on you being a loser. I was a loser for 9 of 12 years of my marriage and she hasn't cheated on me...as far as I know that is. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/02/16 11:22 AM |
| 3 | Respect and taking the wheelLook for a gym with daycare. My local LA fitness has 1 power rack, 2 more squat racks and 2 more Smith machine squat racks. No matter how full the parking lot is, I can get baby sitting right at the gym and usually immediate access to the squat rack. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/02/16 04:38 PM |
| 8 | [911] I mate guarded and the guy told my wifeSee the problem is not the other guy, it's your disrespectful wife. She is flirty with OTHER men. She agrees to meet with other men. Sure innocently in the gym (want to get a drink after?) It's just that easy to isolate and escalate. You are jealous because her behavior tells you that something is not right. You're in love you don't want to lose her and so you look through her communication to see if something shady is going on and you find it. Now you think you grew some balls so you call out t… | /r/askMRP | 10/02/16 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Wife HATES the ass slap.Caress that ass and lightly squeeze it instead of slapping it and see if it improves things. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/02/16 01:55 PM |
| 1 | If I had to read a single Red Pill book which would it be?For me it would be between No More Mr Nice Guy for married guys and The Rational Male for single guys. But why stop at one? The more you read the more rational decisions you will make. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/16 01:37 PM |
| 2 | LTR and Video GamesI read your post history, what a clusterfuck. An example to others why they should stay the fuck away from single mothers. What you think you're so special and different from the other guy that said fuck this noise and cut her out of his life? You chose to get together with damaged goods and now reap the rewards. With her 12 year old running away and giving false physical abuse allegations against you to the police, your GF not being close to either hers or your family, her being checked out, ir… | /r/askMRP | 05/02/16 12:43 PM |
| 1 | need help with my 17 year marriageI thought losing weight and becoming more active would help our sex life. I've lost 22 lbs in the last 2 months and nothing has changed. That's a good start but tell me what have you actually read from /r/marriedredpill sidebar? Do you actively lift weights at least 3 times a week? All I see is that you lost weight and have been active. That doesn't read like you're even lifting. I've been lifting for almost a year and just barely started seeing results now. I felt the results for a while, but t… | /r/askMRP | 05/02/16 12:05 PM |
| 1 | I'm having a rough patch and need some insight.First she asked me stop complaining when sex didnt happen. So i stopped. Good. That's what we recommend too. Outcome independence. She asked me to stop gropping her, it wasn't a turn on. I stopped. Depends on groping. Grabbing the butt as a show of affection is good. Grabbing vagina or breasts hoping it will lead to sex is bad. Keep on groping but don't expect it to lead immediately to sex. Just use it as part of kino. She asked me at one point to not ask for sex for 30 days. So i stopped. Bad. … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/02/16 02:45 PM |
| 1 | What has getting in to you?Why everyone is getting on you for running instead of lifting is that running is at best going to burn a couple glasses of juice or two bottles of beer etc. It's not really going to make that much of a difference in the grand scheme of things. Losing weight is done through your diet, not running. Lifting builds muscle and makes you look and feel good. Muscle burns calories 24x7, even when you're sleeping. It's just more effective to your end goals. It helps production of testosterone, helps with… | /r/askMRP | 31/01/16 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Wife catches me looking at other women, feels jealous and threatened -- good or bad?Lol, you are so, so weak and still firmly in her frame. Have you read anything from the sidebar at all or did you just stop at 12 levels of dread and call it a day? | /r/askMRP | 20/01/16 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Have a very good LTR with lots of green flags but found out she lied about n-countLol, I'm now confused. If she reported 6 I immediately thought 18. You know how TRP tells you to multiply reported n-count by 3. Then she cries and tells you 10 and now I'm confused. Is it still 18 or 30 now? Either way, it definitely is more than just 10. Having said that, given your standards I have a hard time believing you will find a girl with a much lower n-count than your girlfriend. They will all lie about that so focus on other things. If everything else was green then I think you're ma… | /r/askTRP | 20/01/16 11:58 AM |
| 2 | How to shut up SO's twin sister's BP white knight fiancéAfter a couple of drinks, make yourself some coffee. That's what I do and I don't get drunk anymore. | /r/askMRP | 13/01/16 12:40 PM |
| 2 | So long, MRPMRP and TRP always say to take from it what works for you and leave the rest. In my relationship that means lifting, taking care of my shit, not being a pushover etc. It never was about being an asshole. The biggest thing about this was just opening my eyes that there is no Disney happily ever after if you don't work for it. Apparently you did find use for what MRP teaches so you're welcome. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/01/16 01:48 PM |
| 3 | Help needed, get wife under controlShe says she likes to be with me but after long time of me not paying proper attention to her she snapped Define what is paying proper attention to her and how you failed it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/01/16 01:25 PM |
| 2 | Fiancé found out about reddit subs I was in and wants to cancel the weddingMy first thought is congratulations. She didn't dump you, she just wants to cancel the wedding. Where is the downside? she thinks Im with her for sex and that I will play her just to get sex, and if she doesn't put out then I will just cheat. Is she wrong? If she doesn't put out are you willingly going to stay in a dead bedroom? If you have kids and want to stay 100% in their lives and she doesn't put out, you're not going to leave her, you'll just spin plates on the side. Your entire post is so… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/01/16 12:56 PM |
| 3 | "what's gotten in you, you've changed..."What if TRP is wrong? That's why you are supposed to pick and choose what works for you and your marriage. TRP is not be all end all guide that has to be followed 100% What works for one guy may not work for the other. If all fails, try going back to basics, ie lift, take care of your shit (ie projects at home, chores, etc) and work on recognizing and passing shit tests called fitness tests in MMSLP. | /r/askMRP | 06/01/16 12:51 PM |
| 2 | "what's gotten in you, you've changed..."Stop and I'm in her frame. That's not how frame works. Frame is a state of mind of seeing things through your eyes vs hers. When you get pulled into her frame, you see things and respond to them from her point of view, or rather from what she says they are. If she tells you to stop and you stop you don't get pulled into her frame. If she tells you you are lazy, don't do this and that and you know they are all bs and start defending yourself instead of responding with A&A or AM that's when you ge… | /r/askMRP | 06/01/16 12:26 PM |
| 2 | [FR] She got me goodI disagree that you fucked up. If she goes out alone while being married with kids then she isn't a wife material. My wife has never done that shit, she knows better. You established a boundary. You don't want her going out alone. If she does that shit again then you might as well get your ducks in a row and prepare for divorce. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/12/15 03:25 AM |
| 2 | Question: How to instil red pill mindset into your woman.instead of still having the blue pill mindset that she is an independent woman who needs no one and can have a career, children, etc. There is nothing wrong with that mindset. A woman like that would still prefer to be with a high value man. She still can be feminine and submissive to her husband. Fuck, she would find it a relief to come from work where she is the boss and have a man at home that has his shit together to a point that she can relax and let him make all the decisions. Be that kind… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/12/15 06:06 PM |
| 6 | Is it worth fighting for? (Puke, puke everywhere)This is covered in chapter 26 of Married Man Sex Life Primer under common mistakes with heading Facilitating Her Affair. He writes This on is so common it's insane - the husband takes in his "best friend" for a couple of months to help his friend out. Fast forward a few months and the best friend takes the wife, the kids and the house...Men will say nearly anything to get access to the good pussy. You're lucky your roommate did not want anything to do with your wife. Frankly being married with k… | /r/askMRP | 28/12/15 04:41 PM |
| 1 | [FR] grand argument; played it cool on outside but inside feel hopelessYour wife got on your ass, you got up and did your chores. Somehow you did find the strength to get off your ass and do them. The only problem is that she had to say something to you so now you don't get any credit for doing them. Next time STFU, man up and take care of your shit. Ps. Look into local walk-in clinics for when you're sick. I have a few local to me that are open even on Sundays and you don't need an appointment to see a doctor there. It's cheaper and way more effective then waiting… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/12/15 04:04 PM |
| 1 | [FR] grand argument; played it cool on outside but inside feel hopelessI don't know why you're getting downvoted. That's the same impression I got from this guy. Last year he had a toothache, now he had a cold. Both times his wife got on his ass. My guess is that when he's not feeling well he wants to stay in bed and his mommy to take care of him. No wonder his wife won't put up with that shit. She already has a kid to take care of. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/12/15 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Wife only has sex with me when she thinks I may be straying or am getting frustratedMy wife just gave birth to a baby boy. I know exactly what you're going through. Take it easy for now. Pregnant sex sucks anyways. You can't go rough, can't go caveman, she has a bunch of aches and pains and it's generally just an exercise in futility. Just accept a BJ and move on with your day. Keep improving and take this time to work on yourself and preparing your home for the baby. Pro tip. Get your preparations done a month or two early. My wife gave birth after 36 weeks (1 month early) and… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/12/15 02:27 PM |
| 3 | Wife found MRP - updateand my wife throws a jealous fit and says I wanted to sleep with that girl You need to own this behavior. You found her sexually attractive, flirted with her then came home to your wife. If she continues to be a bitch maybe you shouldn't bother coming home. Then stfu and go do your thing, that conversation is over. Edit Never mind. I saw that she spills hot tea on you, punches, scratches and disrespects you in front of the kids. Those are much bigger issues then her throwing a fit over your repo… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/12/15 01:50 PM |
| 2 | A MRP'er seeking wise counselMy fat,bitchy,cheating wife FINALLY MY QUESTION! GUT IT OUT OR CUT BAIT? I thought she cheated on you before you two got married. Has she cheated throughout the marriage? If no, then take control of the fridge (there are threads on MRP on how to lose weight, educate her,) the finances and drastically cut the expenses. There have to be consequences to frivolous spending and you working 3 jobs to pay for that spending is not giving her any consequences. As for bitchiness, it's only the result of y… | /r/askMRP | 23/12/15 01:36 PM |
| 8 | My GF of 1 year lied to me about her number. I snooped and found out her number is twice as what it was, and completely excluded an ex boyfriend that lasted about a month.Trp says to triple the number they admit to. They usually won't count a drunken bj or ons that was less than satisfying. My guess is you still don't know the entirety of it. | /r/askMRP | 19/12/15 02:04 PM |
| 22 | GF studying with known playerHe hit on my girlfriend one day while drunk, albeit when he didn't know we were together... Today they run into each other and my girlfriend suggests they study together. Your turn of exclusivity with her just came to an end. Plate or next. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/15 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Lessons from my weight lossI lost 43 pounds (185 to 142, 5'9") in less than 6 months with close to no cardio. Just counting my calories and lifting. I'd throw in walking on my lunch break for 20-25 minutes but that's about it. I did cut out bread, potatoes and pasta but did have cheat days on weekends. With bulking I'm up to 158 but size 29 pants that I bought when I was in 140s still fit though they are tight in my thighs now thanks to squats. Realistically, if you do count calories you get the experience to later be abl… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/12/15 01:00 PM |
| 1 | In our society, men are mindless drones hypnotised by female beauty, owned by their sexualityWomen dress nicely to catch the man with the highest SMV they can Well if she married you that means she believes you're the highest SMV catch she could have gotten. Now your job is to not prove her wrong. I don't believe in the constant improvement meme. You need to be attractive, yes. That means continued lifting and dressing well. You also need to be your own man and not a supplicating, pedestalizing pussy many men turn into. Fuck, if you take out the terms, and just boil MRP down to the basi… | /r/askMRP | 15/12/15 01:51 PM |
| 2 | Need Xmas Gift Ideas for WifeBut the new plan has a lower monthly fee so overall, my monthly cost is actually a couple bucks lower. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/12/15 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Need Xmas Gift Ideas for WifeVerizon early upgrade at BJs. It's around $30 a month phone fee included as part of the plan. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/12/15 08:14 PM |
| 2 | Need Xmas Gift Ideas for WifeI'm buying mine a Note 5. Should be around $60 after taxes. The rest is part of the bill which with the new plan will actually go down. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/12/15 04:26 PM |
| 6 | 1 month after pukingCorrect response to her complaining of being sore after sex is to say "You're welcome." with a smile and lightly slap that ass for an exclamation point. Beta Billy would not leave her feeling sore after sex so treat it as a compliment. | /r/askMRP | 14/12/15 04:24 PM |
| 3 | FR - How I blew up my life and came out the other end happy.Mine made my life at home so shitty I moved out on my 18th birthday, dropped of of high school and spent my early 20s half drunk. With my wife's support (I know people here frown on giving the wife credit) I turned my life around, stopped drinking, finished high school. After we got married I went to college and got my degree. I'm using MRP to pay her back by giving her an upgraded husband. Lol. She gave birth to my son last week, now I'm working on giving her beta support while still maintainin… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/12/15 04:19 PM |
| 3 | FR - How I blew up my life and came out the other end happy.Now the shitty step father, that's another story. I love how people say that divorce didn't fuck them up then later reveal a shitty stepfather. Living with my version of a shitty step father I'll tell you that if the divorce doesn't fuck you up, the shitty stepfather surely will. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/12/15 02:34 PM |
| 3 | 1 Month into my RP trip and wowTRP recommends 1 text to her 3. So far it's your 3 to her 1. You might want to work on that a bit while you're going through the sidebar material. | /r/askMRP | 05/12/15 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Someone smack some sense in to me. I feel I am back to square one in the cold war.I need to clearly and explicitly state expectations. That's also in NMMNG. Removing covert contracts and clearly stating expectations, boundaries and defending those boundaries. | /r/askMRP | 04/12/15 07:59 PM |
| 0 | Someone smack some sense in to me. I feel I am back to square one in the cold war.Sounds like you're dating a bipolar crazy chick. From what you're describing it sounds like you're doing just fine but you know how it goes with sticking your dick in crazy. How long have the two of you been together and lived together? How old are you? When my wife was younger she expected me to act as if I could read her mind and would get pissed off if I didn't. We also had majority of our fights during the first 2 years of marriage (moved in together our wedding night.) I told her a few time… | /r/askMRP | 04/12/15 07:24 PM |
| 0 | Is sex really that good?You can't outrun bad diet. The biggest change in diet you can make is to drink water and black coffee. Both are basically 0 calories and if you go out, water is free in majority of restaurants and fast food places like Moe's, Chipotles, Boston Market, etc. Stay away from McD but if you do, go there stick to double quarterpounder with no fries and water. That's a nice mix of protein, fat and carbs unlike fries which are just carbs and fat. Although at 750 calories that's half of your daily limit … | /r/askTRP | 04/12/15 02:34 PM |
| 3 | Please speak sense into me, I think my girlfriend is a slutI guess we recently became exclusive Did you have the conversation or are you assuming? | /r/askTRP | 04/12/15 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Gained 6lbs in 4 days eating at BMR...WTF? (can't post on /r/fitness )Did you weigh yourself in the morning right after getting up just in boxers? Or did you weigh yourself in the middle of the day whatever you were wearing? Did you start using Creatine? Also you're sick and could have some water gain. All these factors affect your weight. Make sure you measure what you drink in your calories. Finally if you haven't had a bowel movement in a couple of days that will change things as well. I just started cutting on Monday. By Friday morning I lost 4 pounds. Some of… | /r/askTRP | 04/12/15 01:52 PM |
| 3 | Ex is with someone new, but keeps hitting me upSounds like she successfully turned you into a plate. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/15 04:54 AM |
| 1 | GF browsing craigslist personalsI think he meant to DEFINITELY downgrade to a plate. The hard or soft applies to nexting. Soft next is cutting contact or severely limiting it so she chases you or it just fizzles out. Either way, /u/gravy45 should at the very least soft next this one. Sure she has not cheated yet, but if she's starting to explore her options this early into the relationship his long term prospects with her are slim to none. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/15 11:39 AM |
| 3 | LTR 2yr; she just asked for spaceYou need to re-read The Rational Male. You are not acting rationally from the point of abundance. Yes you want to have an LTR. You don't want to spin plates. That doesn't mean you should hold on to a girl that no longer wants to be with you. And don't tell me she does. Actions speak louder than words and her being cold and going out on a date with another guy speaks volumes. | /r/askMRP | 30/11/15 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Field Report: Sex isn't the problem anymore.Get yourself a girlfriend. If she has an orbiter with ongoing emotional connection then she's emotionally cheating on you still. Fuck it and get yourself a girlfriend. Simple. You're not going to get respect because condoning such behavior and staying shows that you have no respect for yourself. If you don't respect yourself, how can she realistically respect you? She can't. She's fucking you cause you're doing one thing right apparently but she's still emotionally checked out. | /r/askMRP | 25/11/15 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Field Report: re Urgent advice neededAny particular reason why you tolerate her going out alone on the regular? Have you read The Rational Male Girl's Night Out and Boundaries? From Girl's Night Out: At this point I should also add that this in no way excuses the woman who CONSTANTLY goes on GNOs as some kind of ritual with her girlfriends. This is symptomatic of a larger problem and this, again, is based in desire. If you ever find yourself in this circumstance your best recourse is to NEXT and remove your attentions entirely. Wom… | /r/askMRP | 25/11/15 04:18 PM |
| 6 | Field Report: re Urgent advice neededUh, yes? What the fuck is wrong with you? If she told you to jump off the bridge would you? When there is an unreasonable request and you do it you fail a shit test. Her telling you to gtfo is an unreasonable request. | /r/askMRP | 24/11/15 11:52 PM |
| 3 | What kind of knot works best when tying up a woman who is begging you to stop?Just like TRP, MRP has some guys that take the new mindset to the extremes. You have guys that just want to improve their already OK marriages and you have guys that are full of regret and want to live it up as if they are 20. They are no different from the women people love to condemn on TRP. Women who have popped out a couple of kids and then realize that they want to live the single life and bang 20 Chads before menopause hits. Cad might be the male version of that kind of women. | /r/askMRP | 24/11/15 01:53 PM |
| 7 | No I don't want to have sex with your fat belly, your lack of enthusiasm and your stretched out pussy that I can barely feel.....I guess the blue pill rumors of your pending divorce will come true after all. That was nuclear level putdown. Tough to recover from that for either of you. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/11/15 08:35 PM |
| 1 | New girl I'm seeing is great, but I'm already noticing quite a few red flagsUse a condom and enjoy your turn. It won't be a long one. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/15 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Need feedback on my gf pinching the shit out of me sometimes.There goes my reading comprehension. Well it did happen with my wife. I don't think it's either shit out comfort test. It's just a bit of ocd. | /r/askMRP | 20/11/15 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Need feedback on my gf pinching the shit out of me sometimes.My wife used to do this. I told her to stop, that I'm fine with my pimples. Then I just enforced this boundary. I did this back in my blue pill days though. You don't need trp to enforce this. | /r/askMRP | 20/11/15 10:25 PM |
| 7 | Girlfriend isn't ove rher ex- dealbreaker?over the past week or so she’s become much more protective of her phone; she carries it with her everywhere she goes, turns it away from me or blacks out the screen when I come by...and I found that even though she had been fervently texting thirty minutes prior, she deleted all of her texts Plate or next. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/15 05:08 PM |
| 1 | She's on to me at every turn, like she knows of the matrix better than I ever realizedGive us examples and we'll tell you where you fucked up. | /r/askMRP | 20/11/15 01:01 PM |
| 2 | Combination 911/VPukeI am not sure you can get sole custody. When push comes to shove the crazy are crazy good at convincing judges that they are not crazy and then you have to fight tooth and nail for just 50/50 split and just like that your daughters are 50% of the time under the sole custody of an unstable mother. That would be way worse than just trying to right the ship with a crazy first mate on board. My suggestion would be to: 1) Stop all logic based arguments. Obviously her crazy is emotion based. 2) STFU a… | /r/askMRP | 19/11/15 08:47 PM |
| 12 | She's not that kind of girl anymore - QuestionLol so you were a second choice. She got pumped and dumped and figures you for a beta buck nice guy. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/15 11:33 AM |
| 7 | "You never text me good morning, you never ask how my exams went, you don't seem to care that much about me" Is the text that was just sent to me. Haven't responded but what do you do when a girl is trying something like this... also maybe I need to show her a little more compassion?Definitely a shit test. Everything starts with you. If she started with I, it would be a comfort test. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/15 11:31 AM |
| 3 | LTR, comfort testing, not sure how to proceedIn an LTR there is something TRP doesn't talk much about called comfort testing. It usually can be differentiated from a shit test she threw at you in this post by the fact that she's talking about herself. Examples: "You act like you could take me or leave me." - That's a shit test cause she says something about you. If you gush that she's the one and only you just failed the shit test. Attraction level goes down. Example 2: "I feel like I could be replaced at any moment." Comfort test. Hug "I'… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/11/15 09:20 PM |
| 11 | [PSA] She Will SnoopYeah, my wife snooped the hell out of me. She knows my reddit username and occasionally will look at what I've written. She also knows that that the first step was No More Mr Nice Guy and second step was lifting. You know what? Credibility is you taking care of your shit, passing comfort and shit tests and providing for your family. The how you got to that point doesn't really matter. At the end of the day people don't remember that the only reason you won the game was a fluke shot buzzer beater… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/11/15 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Very good girl. Want to break up due to distance and lack of interest in marriage.That's why. The Rational Male - Letting Go of Invisible Friend. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/15 12:39 PM |
| 6 | LTR lied about calling me and being home.She's right. You don't trust her because she lies. Why would you trust her? Why would you want to be with someone you don't trust? Because of scarcity mindset? | /r/askTRP | 17/11/15 03:41 PM |
| 3 | LTR lied about calling me and being home.Sometimes calls don't go through. My wife will call me, her phone log will show outgoing call and my phone will show nothing. Nothing to get worked up over. Regarding arguments, just don't. There is no point arguing because women come from emotion based feelings and men come from logic based thoughts. Even if you win the argument, her feelings will be hurt and she will resent you for it. That's why when they vent, they want you to listen, not actually try to fix the problem. They often know how … | /r/askTRP | 17/11/15 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Lifting questionThe thing with intermediate is that they don't recommend switching to it unless you're squatting with 2 plates (225.) I have a whole shitload of lifting ahead of me before I'm ready for intermediate program and with this back issue I'm wondering if maybe my legs are ready for more before my back muscles are. Damn 1st world problems. | /r/askMRP | 16/11/15 06:41 PM |
| 7 | Should I divorce my wife?You can buy a test kit at Walgreens for $30, send it to a lab for $100 and have results within a week or two all in the privacy of your home without your wife knowing and having to get offended. Again, read the sidebar, lift heavy weights and give it time. You are barely starting this shit. If you implement the sidebar right, your wife will be fucking you multiple times a week and then this whole divorce business will be in the rearview mirror... Unless of course if the DNA results come back neg… | /r/askMRP | 16/11/15 05:38 PM |
| 4 | Should I divorce my wife?Flashback to nearly 6 years ago when she came home from a trip with the girls at a ski resort and jumped my bones. Sounds like a prelude to a this isn't my kid story. Check your twins' DNA to verify they are yours. Read, lift heavy weights, apply some dread on correct stages (read MRP sidebar) and your wife should start fucking you. Once the kids go to full time Kindergarten or first grade, send her back to work. If you divorce her now, as a SAHM she will divorce rape you so bad your head will b… | /r/askMRP | 16/11/15 04:40 PM |
| 8 | Even wives of ECs get comfy and withhold sexSounds to me like you both get around. That makes it easier to swallow your seemingly emotionless cheating on your wife and possibly destroying the marriage and your kids' view of their perfect father. She shot the first salvo. Had she stayed faithful and was fucking you like you want it, I doubt you would be banging chicks on the side. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/11/15 04:06 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Foisting away her captaincyRe-establishing authority is not done through talking. It's done through taking care of shit without her having to nag you about it. If you're not busy doing outstanding shit around the house and chores are piling up then do some chores. Being a captain means that you WILL do more work. It comes with the title. She won't respect the captain if she has to tell him what needs to be done. Ps. Using up all hot water could be an issue with your water tank/heater. I had the same issue when I bought my… | /r/askMRP | 16/11/15 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Wife asks overtly about my "new strategy"When I first unplugged my answer to that was the truth. I want to be a better man. She asked what brought that upon. I said I was reading a self improvement book NMMNG. She flipped and accused me of wanting to be a jerk. I said that's not what the book is all about. She got an audio first chapter preview of the book and after that left me alone. Shortly after that we had sex 4-5 times a week and now that she is 7 months pregnant I'm getting weekly blowjobs after maybe 5-10 through the first 12 y… | /r/askMRP | 16/11/15 02:55 PM |
| 3 | "If you want to have sex you need to drop the cocky attitude and just listen to me"i was going to have sex with you and then you came home and opened your mouth and I dried up Lol, your wife is funny. Now that's a fine example of cocky attitude. | /r/askMRP | 16/11/15 02:44 PM |
| 2 | At a loss-please adviseIf she's going out without you with single women every week then she's looking for something that you can't provide. Eventually she will find it. If you want to fix it then read the sidebar and lift. Otherwise prepare to next her. | /r/askMRP | 15/11/15 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Wife needing adviceThese threads always start off quite innocent, but then you hear that there was cheating or sexual promiscuity in the past etc. A bombshell that if op disclosed initially might have shed some light on things. | /r/askMRP | 14/11/15 01:16 PM |
| 2 | Plate comes over and talks on the phoneNah, sounds to me like she was at his place to fuck him, not to hang out with him. She may not even like him that much, just can't get enough of the D. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/15 11:45 AM |
| 6 | Ratione Non Ira - By Reason, Not by RageRealistically, your wife is a prime example why the red pill doesn't even recommend plating girls that claim to have been raped or molested. Not only have you married her, but you stayed with her after she cheated on you. Honestly the side bar material tells you what to do to get your sex life how you want it and it also tells you that it will not work on every woman and that if it doesn't, you will be in prime position to next her and walk away. Now I know that kids are complicating things, but… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/11/15 05:08 PM |
| 8 | The ignore game? How do you handle when she ignores you?I don't get it. If I see the trash is getting full I take it out. No reminders needed. Why would you need reminders to take the damn trash out? Regarding other stuff, it's not about the trash. Trash is just the strawman. There is other shit you're not taking care of. IE, gym, passing shit/comfort tests, etc. Somewhere you're not owning your shit. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/11/15 05:58 PM |
| 7 | She wants "space", but still wants a relationship.Need for space from girlfriend? Next. Girl with mental issues? Next. Girl that's older than you? You can do better and should probably next her. Op, your girl exhibits all of the above. Just move the fuck on and next her. | /r/askMRP | 11/11/15 02:28 PM |
| 0 | Struggling to NGAF about some of wife's shit testsit really bothers me when she complains about my parents usually leading to saying I'm just like them. My daughter (8) looks very much like me. It's been a running joke with my wife where people ask her if she's sure she's hers. Anyways, now that she's older, her mannerisms and speech is similar to mine as well. We often think or say the same thing at the same time. What I'm trying to say is that it's very possible that you are just like your parents and you shouldn't be ashamed of that. Why you… | /r/askMRP | 10/11/15 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Shit or Comfort Test ??You already fucked up by getting into ltr with a single mom with two kids. Why would you compound the problem by marrying her? Seems like your parents are the only ones thinking straight in this situation. They only give a fuck about YOUR kid. | /r/askMRP | 10/11/15 02:51 AM |
| 3 | First TRP stance assumed. STFU, lift, walk out if needed. Wife seems to mirror behavior. What do?You seem to have allot of free time. Read the damn books already and do something fun, let her join you if she wants. You're on a path of increasing hostility and it won't end well. You're dealing with the oldest teenager in the house, treat her as such. Amused mastery, fun, life is good should be your mantra. What you're painting is a bleak, dark reality of a couple heading for divorce. Never mind her, why would ANYONE want to be around you? | /r/askMRP | 10/11/15 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Just a few questions for those who are marriedWe have never approached that frequency (or kneeling at my feet blowjobs or anal) since. Wait, not even now? You may want to clear that bit up. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/11/15 06:44 PM |
| 0 | Just a few questions for those who are married1) If it wasn't true then subreddit such as this would not have a reason to exist. 2) No. My wife was my 2nd serious girlfriend and I was her first and only (as far as I know, we dated since her 16th birthday.) I don't think any CC riding chick is a marriage material though. 3) My first gf was full of red flags that I ignored from the onset of the relationship. It only got worse as it progressed. I made sure a girl I would marry wouldn't show any of those red flags. 4) If she showed red flags be… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/11/15 02:42 PM |
| 4 | Taking / Continuing TRP with an infant?Gym on Monday. Correct that to gym starting today and 3 times a week after that. It's a hard rule. Everything starts with lifting. | /r/askMRP | 07/11/15 04:30 PM |
| 2 | Was advised to come here for LTR adviceYou say you read the rational male. It seems you missed this chapter. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/11/15 12:20 PM |
| 5 | Wife is a planning drinks with a single guy, how to respondPlus you're in a dead bedroom? If she fucks him you will never know. If she tells you ok I won't meet him, then meets him anyway you will never know. So just stfu and keep upping your smv. It's not like you have other cards to play. Edit. Well you can always leave her and fight for split custody. You will at least avoid alimony and if you're awarded split custody you won't have to pay child support. So no divorce rape for you thanks to her earning potential. | /r/askMRP | 06/11/15 02:41 PM |
| 1 | If you want sex, you need to be nice to me.../u/Sepean is correct. I don't do more of the household tasks than I used to do and I'm certainly allot less nicer to my wife than I used to be a year ago, yet I'm getting way more sex and more respect now than I used to do then. Your wife is a SAHM, then she is responsible for traditional gender roles in the household. If she worked, then yeah you go ahead and split chores. Since she doesn't work (she only has 1 kid to worry about, women in daycare centers have 12-14 between 2 of them) she has t… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/11/15 04:16 PM |
| 1 | I feel like an idiotThere are plenty of threads on TRP the tell you that you can do much better than a single mother. Unless the husband/boyfriend died she is a person with flaws big enough that the first guy did not or was not able to stick around but was still good enough to have kids with. Now, not only does she have major flaws, but a burden of two kids who are not yours. Don't you want to have kids of your own one day? Well with her you will be lucky to have 1 and that 1 will have to split resources of his par… | /r/askMRP | 05/11/15 03:47 PM |
| 1 | LTR: she has a kid who is finally entering the picture.Well you will now cause you need a bigger place to live in. More food to eat, more electricity and water, more laundry, less time for whatever because of school and after school activities and so on and so forth all for another guy's offspring. I hope she's worth it. | /r/askTRP | 05/11/15 04:18 AM |
| 1 | Coming up on 11 years - am I too late to grab the reins?BJ is a mate retention mechanism. If you're high value, she will make sure you're taken care of. I got maybe 10 bjs the first 12 years of my marriage. I'm getting them at least once a week now. Read the sidebar on /r/marriedredpill and keep lifting at least 3 times a week. If you put in the work you will get the results. | /r/askMRP | 04/11/15 11:01 PM |
| 4 | TRP stance on household choresIf you think laundry is too feminine and beneath you then I think you've never lived on your own before. It was shit that needed to get done and I had a day off. Besides, yardwork and 2000 pounds of wood pellets from my truck and into the garage is plenty masculine enough. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/15 07:10 PM |
| 0 | TRP stance on household choresNo difference. It's a live-in LTR. His spread sheet isn't gonna earn him respect or get her juices flowing. If his goal is to get her to leave then he's on the right track. Ps. I love your mastery of backhanded compliments. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/15 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Ever okay to verbalize request to expand sex life?Thanks for the tip. I'll make sure to try it next time. | /r/askMRP | 04/11/15 02:20 PM |
| 26 | TRP stance on household choresShe works full time and still does all the chores. You had a day off and instead owning your shit you decided to roll in filth and spend the day playing video games. Nice example of leading there, captain. /s I make more money than my wife and had a day off cause of election day. I did 3 loads of laundry not because of choreplay but because it needed to be done. Did the dishes cause she was at work and I made breakfast and lunch for myself and my daughter and the sink was filling up. Did some ho… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/15 01:47 PM |
| 4 | Trickle truthsSay: What kind of mistake are we talking about here? Then take it from there. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/11/15 12:01 AM |
| 8 | Ever okay to verbalize request to expand sex life?My wife blows me but doggy style hurts her. I guess my dick punches her cervix or something. Came up after first pregnancy 8 years ago. Maybe that's why doggy is off the table? | /r/askMRP | 03/11/15 06:02 PM |
| 2 | If men "peak" at 40 or so, why do all the young women on this sub complain about men that age hitting on them?All you need to do is look at top 100 sexiest men list and top 100 sexiest women. Average age for men is mid 30s, average for women is mid to late 20s. Men's earning potential figures into their real world desirability so 35-40 sounds about right. Having said that, a woman in her late 30s can still get laid way easier and more often than comparably good looking man at any age can. She just won't get commitment from many. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/15 08:48 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend of 5 years dumps me by blocking me out of her life literally. Need help being Red PillMy gym has the handheld Omron unit that's like $25-30 on Amazon. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/15 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend of 5 years dumps me by blocking me out of her life literally. Need help being Red PillLift weights at least 3 times a week. Pick a program like Starting Strength or Strong Lifts 5x5 and stick with it. Eat plenty enough that you're gaining weight. Then cut down to 12-14% body fat and repeat. Once you don't look like skin and bones at 12% body fat you can go lower so that even when bulking you will look great. For more information read the sidebar on /r/fitness. Read the material listed in The Red Pill's side bar. The Best of Rational Male – Year One is a good starting point. The B… | /r/askTRP | 02/11/15 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Confusing Bedroom Situation"why don't you get a side piece"? She fully knows you're not good enough to get a side piece at this time. You say you dropped 40 pounds and got a home gym. With a membership at least you could be out of the house a bit. With home gym it's only work then home. You need to find life outside of the home more. In own your shit weekly thread you mentioned your wardrobe consists of sweaters and other shit she picked out for you. I'd go to JCrew, Calvin Klein and spend a grand or more on a whole new w… | /r/askMRP | 02/11/15 04:51 PM |
| 2 | What would you do if the mother of your children cheated on you?There was a thread on dead bedrooms from a wife complaining that after she cheated once her husband started going out and banging other women and relegated her to a roommate / coparenting status. This sounds like a good solution to a cheating wife problem. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/15 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Men who get anal sexYep, shitty asshole sounds about right. I and my ex both had to take a shower after. It was still good while inside her though. Felt like I owned her at the time. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/15 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Wife left, lost custody of daughter, now she's crying to come back.Regarding custody of your daughter: Your parents' place is the most stable place right now. They CAN take care of her and have been paying her private school tuition. You can repair your relationship with them and see her any time, every day. That's way better for you than if she was just with your wife and better for her than if she was just with you. Either way, you have a hearing on Wednesday where it can get cleared up. Regarding your wife: Where are you on lifting and the required sidebar r… | /r/askMRP | 31/10/15 12:41 PM |
| 2 | Why isn't Married Man's Sex Life Primer the first book we recommend?Multiple reasons: 1) NMMNG tells you that being selfish, putting yourself first is not only OK but preferential to you and your woman. 2) NMMNG is a short read. It can be read within a day. 3) After finishing it, suddenly you don't give a fuck that your wife hamstered you into not going to the gym. You now understand that your sacrifice of saving money at the expense of walking around in old outdated clothes works against you and is NOT appreciated. You understand that spending that $30 a month … | /r/askMRP | 31/10/15 12:00 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Didn't STFU This TimeThe thing with negotiating desire (and that's all it was) is that it will work for a week or two before things get back to normal...unless you continue working on yourself, lifting and passing shit tests. I'm in a similar situation though my wife is 7 months pregnant. Before the pregnancy we fucked 4-5 times a week. Now it's once or twice a month and 2 or 3 blow jobs so that I get something at least once or twice a week. Two days ago I did not show OI after getting rejected and told her that the… | /r/askMRP | 29/10/15 03:04 PM |
| 5 | Shit Test or a Confession?Confront him? The only reason he's sending those messages is because she's giving him iois. He's not the problem. She is. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/10/15 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Why do we stay with our wives?Though it's hard to believe it when everyone is claiming their SMV is through the roof after a month of stronglifts Part of SMV is how you feel about yourself. No one will see big changes after a month of lifting. But after a month of lifting, weight loss of about 10 pounds, reading and getting results at home I can see how for some poeple this success could go to their heads. I've been lifting and losing weight for 6 months and the only difference I saw was less fat and more muscle definition b… | /r/askMRP | 27/10/15 08:12 PM |
| 3 | Financial testMeal plan for a fucking dinner? I've been married 13 years, the next time we prepare a meal plan will be our first. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/10/15 07:48 PM |
| 1 | About to call off the wedding in 2 weeks.Manning up means owning and acknowledging your mistakes. Not apologizing for them. From MRP sidebar, read When I Say No I Feel Guilty. In this book it explains that you are allowed to make mistakes. Are you sorry you stayed longer at the cookout? I didn't think so. You're just sorry about her feeling mad that you came late. So apologizing for it is sort of a covert contract to get her to be happy with you which is covered in another book from MRP side bar "No More Mr Nice Guy." The more you apol… | /r/askTRP | 27/10/15 07:31 PM |
| 0 | Going from blow jobs to sexIt feels a bit too intimate and my tongue is sore after What the fuck do you do with your tongue that it's sore after? I can go down on my wife for half an hour and my tongue never gets sore. The fuck of an excuse is that? Having said that, I wouldn't recommend going down on some strange ONS. Reserve that for plates and LTRs. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/15 05:32 PM |
| 2 | About to call off the wedding in 2 weeks.After, I apologized for not manning up and owning to my word of being home at the time I said I was going to be. So I see you fucked up and bought into her frame again. Don't apologize for minor things. About to leave and leave an hour and a half later? Don't tell me she's never done that before. You shouldn't have apologized for that. Read Married Red Pill sidebar and make sure to lift weights at least 3 times a week. You're about to majorly fuck up in two weeks time. I know you're not going to… | /r/askTRP | 27/10/15 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Polyamorous couple wants to have child. Wife thinks that his husband is too jealous because he cares about paternityThat sub is all kinds of fucked up. Ever notice how women there say that "they" meaning her and her husband opened up the marriage yet it is only the woman that fucks around and the husband is monogamous? Frankly if the hubby is such a beta that he puts up with it then more power to her but at least she should be honest that she opened up the marriage, not them. In this case she says that hubby has been on a few dates but in her comments you can see that she really wants the boyfriend to be the … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/15 03:09 PM |
| 2 | GF has orbiter friend (a BP white knight), I'm afraid of her cheating me if the right circumstances arise, I'd like help on how best I should deal with their relationship (basic question)This doesn't belong on askmrp. This girl is a plate at best but you have oneitis so you ignore the red flags. Cut back on texting at most 2 to every 3 of hers. No more spending money on her or taking her to fancy places. Start flirting with other women and for the love of God, read some TRP sidebar material like the book of pook and rational male. You don't live together, start living a little. Your victim puke is depressing. | /r/askMRP | 25/10/15 12:50 PM |
| 9 | [FR] Shutting down a girls weekend and being totally OI about it.There are two camps to this in MRP. Those that feign OI and let her go on a GNO or a vacation without the husband, and those who don't. I am firmly with /u/TheLitz on this. Good field report. Ps. Too many stories like this. The guy doesn't have to be better, he just has to be different. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/10/15 04:11 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Life is getting harder, Taking the Red Pill is an eye opening slap to the face.Dogpiss will ruin your hardwood floors. | /r/askMRP | 23/10/15 11:56 AM |
| 2 | Bluepiller with a question for BluePillProfessorSeems to me like his marriage is doing just fine: One month ago: Are you deliberately trying to be provocative? Two months ago: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3hvpzi/blue_when_did_you_get_so_attractive/ | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/10/15 11:36 AM |
| -1 | How to handle: Occasional Biting / Violent / Cruel Sexual Behavior from wife? OI? Shit Test? IDGAF?Sounds to me like she wants you to be rough with her. This would be the perfect intro into rough hair pulling, choking, fucking the literal shit out of her situation. Edit. Obviously you don't want to be rapey about it. If she does it in a playful manner ie continues with sex after then you may try it, but if she is literally angry with you and does that and doesn't want sex after then those are some deeper issues. I don't want to say that she's crazy, but if it talks like a duck... | /r/askMRP | 22/10/15 06:24 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Time to Pay Up!Go to Google.com type in the sex god method pdf and you will be able to download free copy from results on the first page. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/10/15 05:29 PM |
| 4 | The Main EventI'm getting ready to move in with my girlfriend of 3+ years in about 9 months. Where do you even get the idea of a main event. You're not married and you don't even live together. Why would you worry about the main event? Your situation will never get to that point. You'll be the captain from the second the two of you move in together and she will know that as the status quo. The main event is about her maintaining the power and keeping you as her beta bucks AFC. Many of us never even gotten to … | /r/askMRP | 22/10/15 03:08 PM |
| 2 | Is staying married setting a bad example for my sons?The advice against getting married is due to the financial hit a man takes when the woman gets the house, alimony, custody of children and child support. If you're not married you can kick her out, keep the house, improve the chances of keeping the kids by keeping the house (stable environment for the children) and therefore have much lower if any child support payments and obviously no alimony. Once you're married though, it's much better to stay married to avoid the above mentioned pitfalls. T… | /r/askMRP | 22/10/15 03:00 PM |
| 2 | Fight about wife's dietI lost 45 pounds in 6 months. Similar to you, I was 185 with 26% body fat (2 weeks into my diet.) I went down to 142 with 12-14% body fat (depending on machine used.) Based on my experience, I will tell you this: Going out to a restaurant is not the time to think about your diet. If you want to be anal about it you can order salmon/steak/chicken and veggies etc. But realistically you want to enjoy the event, the meal, the company. That dinner will set you back at most three days on your road to … | /r/askMRP | 22/10/15 02:50 PM |
| 1 | How to fight red pill in marriage?Yes to askmrp. Sidebar says that women are welcome. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/10/15 01:43 AM |
| 2 | How to fight red pill in marriage?He may still be going through the anger phase and that's why he's putting you down. What I would recommend is: 1) Be sexy. Long hair, feminine looks and most important, weight within green range of BMI. 2) Fuck him enthusiastically and often. I'm talking multiple times a week with your active, enthusiastic participation. Of course you can't negotiate attraction so I can understand if you can't do that yet. 3) Be firm that you want to be given as much respect as you give him. If you're being unre… | /r/ExRedPill | 21/10/15 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Where does TRP get the idea the non-RP world's advice is "just be yourself"Lol, that was my wife's advice to a teenage client of hers (she's a hairstylist) who had trouble with girls. Be yourself is like the default thing women say to guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/15 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Shit tests keep failingHe wrote previously that their frequency is 3-5 times a week. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/10/15 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Shit tests keep failingWhere were you is not a shit test. There is a good primer on shit tests on TRP main sub. Search and read up on them. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/10/15 12:42 PM |
| 33 | Tonight it kind of went nuclear, off the rails, need help!I don't see what the big deal is. You had the fuck me or fuck you conversation with her and then left. Now you do you. Keep improving, maybe do some shopping for clothes. Keep the finances separated and either she starts fucking you or you two can look for two houses when you move out of this one. Either way you're finally gonna get some pussy so I think you did just fine. Whether the pussy you get is your wife's or some strange is only up to her now. You may have thrown the gauntlet a little ea… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/10/15 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Doing something wrong but not sure what.Like I said it comes naturally so the timeframe varies. It's pretty much the same day the disrespect happened. If I sleep on that I usually (not always) forget I was angry, like a reset happened. I guess what I'm trying to say is I don't understand complaints about being disrespected. That's like basic human behavior 101. If you take it from the bully and don't fight back the bully will keep being on your ass. So you fight back. Having said that you are fighting about sex, positions, effort, eng… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/10/15 11:49 AM |
| 3 | Doing something wrong but not sure what.If my wife is disrespectful to me I usually get quiet then stew on it and end up making her cry by outright just being mean to her. I don't recommend doing it and Good knows I don't do it on purpose, but it just comes naturally to me and I can't help myself. Usually there is mutual respect between us but if she gets under my skin I won't just take it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/10/15 12:45 AM |
| 3 | LMR, Shit test, or comfort test before sexThere are 2 issues at play. 1) She is not that into you yet. You know what you need to do about that. She will get there eventually. 2) She has body image issues. That's why the shirt stays on. Reassurances are worth crap. She has a mirror and even if you like her body, if she doesn't like it, that shirt will stay on unless you make it a deal breaker. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/10/15 08:54 PM |
| 6 | Dealing with Total loss of attraction?I know that attraction cannot be negotiated yet I do love this woman. You know exactly what she needs to do for you to rediscover your attraction to her or at least a part of it. She needs to change her diet and look feminine. Now you don't want to just come out and say it, unless it's that or divorce. So you need to lead, get rid of any junk food in the house and make her follow myfitnesspal counting her calories and not exceeding the allowance. Make the allowance lower to account for cheat wee… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/10/15 08:39 PM |
| 9 | Best fighting training?I read your posting history. This is the same single mom that shoved her daughter's butt in your face and told you to kiss it. The same that left you with HER daughter and went to Vegas for a bachelor party that lasted a week and cut all contact with you. The same woman who called the cops on you and filed false domestic violence report on you with photos of a sprained foot she suffered on vacation in Costa Rica? You want to fight other men over THIS woman? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/10/15 06:01 PM |
| 3 | Your LTR sends you this red flag text, how do you respond?You are a busy guy. Lifting weights, hobbies, school, friends, whatever. You're not even sure if she will blow up your phone. Be prepared to move on. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/15 02:11 PM |
| 2 | Your LTR sends you this red flag text, how do you respond?What's your relationship status on Facebook? If it's anything but single than you need to fix that. Then soft next until she either fades or flips her shit and starts pursuing you. You need to be indifferent. If she wants to be in your life then let her work for it. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/15 01:25 PM |
| 6 | LTR's friend found my tinderGood luck with that and being exclusive. Tinder is for hookups. Why were you on it? Not getting laid enough? If so then that's your answer. Own it, that's what being a man is all about. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/15 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend used to have raw sex with ex bf and let him blast inside all the time, ended up getting an abortion. Now doesn't let me do it.Yeah my wife allowed me to blast away now she's 6 months pregnant. That's what I wanted to happen though. If you want the same result then by all means keep convincing her to allow you to cum inside. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/15 01:14 PM |
| 3 | How do you stop a partner from cheating?He says that if the GNO is once in a blue moon occurrence, not a regular thing. He tells you that if it's a regular thing you next her. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/10/15 12:23 PM |
| 2 | AWALTYou do what you want to do. Now you realize that there is capacity for all women to act on hypergamy and yours acted on it real soon in your marriage. It's now up to you whether you want to give her the improved you or give it to another girl who will become the mother of your children. It's totally up to you, not us to make that decision. Leaving her now is easy, once you have kids the decision is much more complicated. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/10/15 12:14 PM |
| 2 | Literally started reading MRP two days ago and had to post this (my first post)...Been lifting for a couple of years (last 5 weeks with a personal trainer, in fact). My first reaction to this was LOL. Just basing it on my observations of personal trainers at LA fitness. Sure they look great after hours spent at the gym, but the routines they have their clients follow, reps, sets etc make no sense at all. Hardly ever free weights, I saw one do squats only once. I hope yours is better than that. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/10/15 02:55 PM |
| 8 | Porn, Fantasy, & Keeping the Gag on the tableNow that's what I call a motivational thread. Thank you. Some of this feels like it was written for me. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/10/15 07:12 PM |
| 7 | Let's talk about swinging. [xpost from asktrp]Let's be frank. You have a child together and then found out she cheated on you YET AGAIN. That's when you had the talk where you agreed on swinging. The fact that you also cheated on her doesn't matter. You would have been perfectly fine with one sided open relationship where she stays faithful to you and you're allowed to fuck other women. You just were at your wits end about her cheating and as a self defense mechanism you agreed on swinging because at least this way you think you have some c… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/15 08:55 PM |
| 2 | Questions about the wifeA 5'6 guy who is 20 pounds away from a 6 pack is not an 8. Based on face alone you could be an 8, see this chart. However you need to subtract a point for height and another one for weight. My guess is you're a 6 just like your wife but she sees herself higher. | /r/askMRP | 12/10/15 08:20 PM |
| 3 | Wife is less interested in sex with me during her fertile phase – and I lose frameMaybe she's afraid of getting pregnant? Either way, women who want to fuck, will fuck a guy in his car on lunch break. So there could still be a Chad. Either way, hit /r/marriedredpill and read the sidebar. Stop complaining about not getting a kiss. In fact STFU about any complaints. Read the 12 levels of dread and progress until you see results. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/15 12:49 PM |
| 1 | GF wants baby and to marry, I love her, but can't force myself to do thisYou can have kids well into 50s, 60s. She is done within the next ten years. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/15 12:29 PM |
| 6 | GF wants baby and to marry, I love her, but can't force myself to do thisHer ovaries have an expiration date. Either knock her up or leave. Stringing her along will just build resentment and eventually she will hate you for wasting her youth on you. Let her find her beta buck while she still can. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/15 12:16 PM |
| 8 | Wife is less interested in sex with me during her fertile phase – and I lose frame/r/marriedredpill now and read the sidebar. This is bad, really bad. Make sure she doesn't have a Chad on the side. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/15 12:08 PM |
| 1 | Just had to share. My wife was funny.Surprised she didn't see the bluepill roasting one of your posts got as well. You probably have me confused with some other guy. As far as I know, I was only roasted on bluepill once and that was around March. What was the thread you speak of about? | /r/askMRP | 10/10/15 01:55 PM |
| 6 | Turned down sex with my wife... did I do it right?You played it all wrong. You set up this elaborate plan with bed, music, lights, just to get laid. You should have grabbed her and kissed her like you didn't see her for a week, then go to the bedroom while the two of you are ripping your clothes apart. Nice try being romantic but it smells too much like a covert contract and/or negotiating desire. Also what is that with pets and no sexy time. I or my wife would kick our cats off the bed if they were in the way of sexy time. They are pets, it's … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/10/15 01:36 PM |
| 50 | Woman discovers her engagement ring is fake, makes him homeless and takes his dog. Another sub celebrates. What if you flipped the script?The guy is not the brightest bulb. He was bragging at work to other women that he gave her a fake ring. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/15 07:48 PM |
| 1 | CliffNotes version of WISNIFG?I was never very talkative in the first place so STFU is usually the default thing I do anyways. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/10/15 07:28 PM |
| 1 | CliffNotes version of WISNIFG?Yeah I still fail to recognize and pass them but she's pregnant now so it's mostly comfort tests. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/10/15 06:29 PM |
| 2 | What does MRP think about porn use?MMSLP suggests to stop using porn and if you must get off just get off without porn. Once you have regular sex life it's easy to ditch fapping alltogether. | /r/askMRP | 09/10/15 12:50 PM |
| 3 | CliffNotes version of WISNIFG?I think the first couple of chapters then chapter 11-12 were pretty helpful. The book got very tedious in-between. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/10/15 06:49 PM |
| 7 | Gents: 2 Issues I'd appreciate your take on.I'm not telling him to sit on his ass and not to play with kids. I'm telling him to lift weights instead of wasting his precious time on a treadmill. Donut and a can of coke is 500 calories. Frapuccino is 400-500 calories. Big mac, fries and coke can top 1800 calories. If he wants to lose weight he needs to eat below 2000. Do your math. Cardio is 400 calories on a good day. He won't outrun bad diet. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/10/15 04:42 PM |
| 3 | RedPill: It's partly your fault! Now help me work this throughYou still have oneitis over than HB9 that got knocked up by her husband. Forget her, you don't want any business of retroactive cuckolding. | /r/askMRP | 06/10/15 02:06 PM |
| 2 | Need a married redpill restart kit.Making well over her salary doesn't matter. Hell, I'd actually call that a minus if you're married. Not that I'd purposely make less than she does, but I'd love for my wife to make more money than I am. Did you read MRP sidebar? Lurking for a year you should already be done with it. What do you mean by forcing sex on her? Is that her words you're buying into or you're actually trying to rape her? My guess is you're using her words which places you firmly in her frame. You need to read up on fram… | /r/askMRP | 06/10/15 01:51 PM |
| 2 | Can't deal with the anger, so I'll end it.After swallowing the pill, I only got one hand job from my wife, about a week ago and was disgusted with myself as a result. It reminded me of days when I was fat beta and couldn't get her to muster any more effort than duty HJ. | /r/askMRP | 06/10/15 12:04 PM |
| 3 | Gents: 2 Issues I'd appreciate your take on.You don't need cardio. You can't outrun a donut. You need to eat healthy, keep lifting, drink lots of water and the weight will come off. Stay away from soda, beer, snacks etc. Eat more meat, eggs, low fat milk, Greek yogurt. Protein rich foods and together with lifting you'll slim down in no time. I lost 45 pounds in 6 months with little to no cardio. Read the sidebar, when you slim down upgrade your wardrobe. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/10/15 11:23 PM |
| 9 | LTR Scared To Tell The TruthHowever, the deceit and lies are infuriating Deceit and lies are nextable offense in an LTR. Downgrade to a plate and if you're not into plating girls then next her. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/15 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Ex-addicts, how are your marriages?Your reply to me on asktrp stated that you don't want to lead her anywhere that she leads herself properly. That's a mistake that contributes to her low respect she exhibits towards you. You bring in all the money, you should control all of it. Give her an allowance. Right now you're financing her lawyer. You have to lead, take charge of yourself, your household and your kids. You have to take care of your shit. I know she wants a bigger house and you don't want it cause of the 30 year mortgage.… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/10/15 12:52 PM |
| 1 | "I'm OK if you go to hookers." (a blast from the past)Since beginning of March. I was cutting until about 6 weeks ago though so I only started adding weight to my plateaus since then. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/10/15 07:53 PM |
| 2 | "I'm OK if you go to hookers." (a blast from the past)I'm doing SL 5x5 almost religiously. I have not missed a day since I started in February except for 1 week when I took my family to Disney World. Having said that you can put a max of 2 pounds of muscle in a month. At my age (turning 40 in 2 weeks,) let's cut it down to 1.5-1. It will take 2-3 years accounting for cut cycles to get 20-25 pounds of muscle to be able to cut to 10% bf at 160-170 pounds. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/10/15 03:28 PM |
| 1 | "I'm OK if you go to hookers." (a blast from the past)Oh I'm working on being awesome. It's just that I'm starting from scratch never having lifted before. I'm on my first bulking cycle after 6 months of dieting. Currently up to 16% body fat at 150 pounds (5'9) squatting 190. I had hard time with 135 pounds when cutting so I'm seeing real progress. Still, I am under no illusions. I know it will take at least 2 or 3 years to see real results in my body. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/10/15 03:01 PM |
| -1 | "I'm OK if you go to hookers." (a blast from the past)So what you're saying if you're swole enough she will give up that ass? I somehow doubt it but we'll see. I tried it with an ex girlfriend of mine about 20 years ago and my memory of it is starting to get hazy. My wife is yet to give up that cherry. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/10/15 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Anything else than GFTOW?So when she came to you with the comfort test or maybe not even a test at all just for comfort you basically told her to go fuck herself. I don't know how you implemented the red pill but whatever you did imploded your marriage. Maybe you took stfu too literally. Maybe you went all alpha all the time, maybe you failed shit tests and subsequent comfort tests. Whatever you did, you did not lead your family and did not give your wife the feelings of love and protection that women sometimes need to … | /r/askTRP | 03/10/15 05:54 AM |
| 2 | Girls wanting to turn the light off during sexIt doesn't matter that YOU like their bodies. If THEY don't like their bodies they will want to do this with the lights off. It's probably worse if they think you're hot and they are fucking someone above their SMV. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/15 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Anything else than GFTOW?Sounds to me like you live in her frame and gauge your value by her treatment of you. You also still seem to harbor covert contracts which might warrant re-reading on NMMNG. Respect is given when it's warranted and demanded. She won't respect you if you are not a man worth respecting. You should STFU about your feelings, take care of your shit and gauge your value internally. Once you respect yourself and demand respect she will respect you. Also part of the reason for her treatment of you is th… | /r/askTRP | 02/10/15 08:10 PM |
| 2 | Even if your wife knows deep down that you are the one for her, tingles are like heroin and eventually she will need her fix.That's cause you only heard about the stupid ones. Smart ones never get caught. It would be extremely easy for SAHM or a housewife, especially those with kids in daycare or kindergarten to meet some nice dad Chad during drop off, take him home or to a motel for 3-4 hours, have fun then go back pick up the kids and act like nothing is out of the ordinary. There are also plenty shopping trips where she got "tired walking" but didn't find anything she liked and came empty handed (but with a sore va… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/10/15 05:52 PM |
| 5 | Can RP be applied in a moral manner?How did you discover RP? Like most men do. I was browsing relationships and someone derided an opinion I was kind of agreeing with as some kind of red pill bull shit. I was curious what they were talking about so I looked it up. I stumbled on married red pill, started reading the sidebar material (No More Mr Nice Guy and Married Man Sex Life Primer, both sold on Amazon) and found that I agreed with allot of what I read. Were you honestly not aware you had become a fat slob before reading the RP?… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/15 03:23 PM |
| 5 | Joy & Egoyour wife gets on you for forgetting to mow the lawn Wives can be a great tool for you to recognize your own failures. She WANTS you to be awesome. She wants you to be the man, not another child she has to feed. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/10/15 02:00 PM |
| 11 | Can RP be applied in a moral manner?I'd like to think it can. I discovered RP back in February. At the time I was married 12 years, together with my wife for 17 years and had a 7 year old daughter. I've been asking about 2nd child for about 5 years but my wife wasn't interested in having a second child with the type of man I was then. Since discovering RP, I've lost 45 pounds, started dressing better, being more assertive, take care of outstanding shit around the house, not waiting on her to nag me to do something, just doing it i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/15 01:09 PM |
| 4 | Hypergamy Knows BestI think you missed the article's point. Sexual attractiveness without frame won't help you in an LTR because of her doubt that she might be able to do better. Frame is the part which takes your from top 20% men in to the top 1-2%. Frame is what makes her give up the power in relationship to satisfy the doubt and convince her that yes, YOU ARE the best she can ever hope to get. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/10/15 11:52 AM |
| 4 | FR Girls Night OutIf you've established yourself then you know who she'll be coming home to. Wives of cuckolds come home to them too. If you're in relationship, dressing slutty and going to meat markets is disrespectful to me as a husband and to the relationship itself. I won't sit at home getting cucked and wondering if she's faithful. When I dated my wife I was waiting to see if she would start doing GNOs. She never did and that was one of the reasons why I married her. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/09/15 04:34 PM |
| 4 | FR Girls Night OutI'm sure you would find out if she sucked off a bouncer and had a train ran on her in the bathroom. Thanks but if she wants to dress like a slut and go clubbing without me she will find herself as a single mommy. I won't put up with that shit. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/09/15 02:27 PM |
| 1 | FR Girls Night OutSure and my buddy and I will be headed up to the strip clubs in Montreal I heard what goes on in Montreal strip clubs. Make sure you bring condoms. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/09/15 02:24 PM |
| 3 | When actually in the gym, lifting, how do you plan and record what you've done.I use Stronglifts 5x5 app. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/15 11:54 AM |
| 4 | Top 5 or 10 reasons why she wont suck your dick?My wife sucked and swallowed when we first started dating. She stopped sucking dick on the day we got married (I kid you not.) She didn't suck my dick throughout the first 12 years of my marriage. Sure sometimes on a special occasion she would throw me a bone (maybe 5 times through those 12 years) but a blow job was something extremely rare. She started sucking my dick again when I discovered TRP, lost weight and manned up. Coincidence? I think not. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/15 11:53 AM |
| 4 | FR Girls Night OutUsually GNOs mean you stay home with the kids. You aren't going to pack them up then get them out of the car and bring them to the bar/club to check on the wife. If it's something unique organized by her friends once in a blue moon, you can either tell her you'll see her when she gets back like Rollo says in his piece on GNOs or you tell her no and see if she gives a shit what your opinion of her going out is. If she wants to do them often then you next her as it's obvious she's searching for so… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/09/15 07:47 PM |
| 11 | FR Girls Night OutMy opinion is that when guys go out, they usually go to their buddies' house or to a small bar to watch sports and play some pool. They don't go out to dance with single ladies or married ones pretending they are single. If a married woman wants a GNO, it can be at a friend's house etc. Not at a place crawling with thirsty guys looking for a wet hole to park their dick in. If she badly wants to go out and dance, she can do that with her husband, not go out pretend she's single and get attention … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/09/15 06:44 PM |
| 6 | PMS this weekIf it starts Sunday early then staying in the hotel on Saturday makes sense. There might be other work related reasons as well. Having said that, work trips for conference are an issue that have ended many marriages. Co-workers, local Chads, etc. Then you hear it just happened. I wouldn't bring it up. Just keep your eyes open. You can't stop her from cheating, but you can give her the noose to hang herself with if you will. | /r/askMRP | 29/09/15 05:07 PM |
| 5 | my wife told me to look into redpill handbook, my tactics backfired?She gave you the red pill hand book. You only half-heartedly bought into it. She gave up on you. You need to read the three prerequisite books from the sidebar. You need to read them yesterday. Drop everything you're doing and get reading. Start with No More Mr Nice Guy, follow with Married man sex life primer and finish with When I say no I feel guilty. Eat right. Lift weights at least 3 times a week. Start lifting today. Don't wait till you're done with the books. Load them in Kindle on your p… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/09/15 03:31 PM |
| 2 | LTR becoming distant, not sure what to doHave you read any books from the side bar? Are you lifting heavy weights at least 3 times a week? Do you reward good behavior with your presence and punish bad behavior by withdrawing yourself and your attention? If you answered yes to the first two (I doubt you did any sidebar reading,) I know from this post that you are AT LEAST fucking up on the third. Your response to her bad behavior is an added level of clingyness and an increase of attention. You're displaying traits of a low value beta m… | /r/askTRP | 29/09/15 11:50 AM |
| 1 | Gym in the home vs going to the gym.Depends on definition of getting laid. I'm getting head at least once a week it's just that PIV is usually off the table because of an active baby. At 6 months you can feel him so much it's as if he's practicing kickboxing on the inside. Coupled with breach position and the kicks are going toward her vagina. I'm giving her a pass because I consider this a medical condition. Her previous pregnancy I only felt a kick once around 8-9 months. Having said that, prior to TRP I never got head and sex s… | /r/askMRP | 26/09/15 02:58 PM |
| 3 | Wife jealous of daughterShe wants the kind of relationship with you that you have with your daughter where you can do things together and talk about things for hours having good time. The troubling thing is that she didn't join the two of you but sulked in the background. | /r/askMRP | 25/09/15 09:35 PM |
| 8 | Held frame through the biggest test from my wifeIn his opening salvo (his first thread on asktrp) he wrote that his friends and family ALL KNEW she cheated on him. No one told him. He ended up marrying a known cheater. So fine by semantics he isn't a cuckold cause she didn't confirm adultery by definition but allot of people know that he married a cheater and no one bothered to tell him about it. The only way he found out the truth was because she searched of one of the Chads on Facebook. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/09/15 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Is anybody else struggling with this?I say sure, but purposely take her 3 day old spaghetti from the fridge. Sound like you don't even like your wife, never mind still love her. Maybe no fap and doing some activities together would be an answer. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/09/15 08:27 PM |
| 6 | Held frame through the biggest test from my wifePlease this bitch cheated on him with two different guys at separate times (not a gangbang) and told her family not to tell him about it. /u/nightdepartures1 was basically a walking cuckold for a decade. Don't tell him to just get over it cause they weren't even engaged. She should be counting her lucky stars that he's still with her, not asking him to re-propose to her. The fucking nerve. I agree that he needs to work on forgiveness and moving forward. Maybe a resource like survivinginfidelity … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/09/15 08:09 PM |
| 3 | Held frame through the biggest test from my wifeI didn't think about you're not willing to propose as calling her worthless. I was thinking about you telling her NO when she proposed to you. Maybe ask me again in 6 months would have been a better answer. I realize that it's easy writing it from Monday Morning Quarterback's viewpoint. Still give her hope that things may improve if she works at them. Right now you're not giving her much to work with. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/09/15 07:46 PM |
| 10 | Held frame through the biggest test from my wifeI feel bad for you, but if you keep this up you will drive your marriage apart. Frankly at this point I'm not really surprised you subconsciously want to do this. I'm not sure you stood up to the challenge because of confidence. I think it was an ultimate show of I DON'T GIVE A FUCK ANYMORE. This was as close to a nuclear put down as it gets. You basically told her she's worthless. You have to ask yourself if you still love her or is it the idea of her and life with your kids that still keeps yo… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/09/15 07:30 PM |
| 25 | Noticed the wife gave a younger friend a pass but thrashed at me for same behavior, learning experience!Married Man Sex Life Primer has a bunch of pages dedicated on allowing a friend to stay in your house. It boils down to being a giant fucking mistake. Especially if he looks like alpha to your wife. It doesn't matter that he makes less money and isn't as intelligent. That's not what women look for in an alpha. Now you see her laughing at him spraying her with water and bitching at you for the same thing. It's because he's giving her the tingles and you are not. Look at what she does, not what sh… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/09/15 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Gym in the home vs going to the gym.Leaning forward (get good lifters too, this will help with ankle position) is a sign of bad form. I've been actively working on improving this recently. I've been lifting in vance skateboard shoes cause they are flat but I'll be getting adidas adipower next. | /r/askMRP | 25/09/15 03:58 PM |
| 2 | Being chubby is making me depressed.Drink lots of water or black coffee. Eat lean meats and lots of veggies and the weight will come off without you feeling hungry. There is no secret to this shit. Calories in have to be < than calories out. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/15 03:33 PM |
| 3 | Wife wants to know that I want her for more than just sex...I ride my bike to work every day Good start but not really necessary. Strong legs and chicken arms are not going to introduce tingles (speaking from experience.) Do it for yourself if you like it but you need to lift weights. I got into lifting using Stronglifts 5x5 app. It's more about power lifting than crossfit though. Go to /r/fitness and read the sidebar there for more options. I just go to LA Fitness and use the squat racks and bench press. If a gym has those, it doesn't matter what it cal… | /r/askMRP | 25/09/15 02:22 PM |
| 4 | Wife wants to know that I want her for more than just sex...implement Covert Contracts and Outcome Independence. You mean eliminate covert contracts and implement outcome independence. | /r/askMRP | 25/09/15 12:35 PM |
| 3 | Gym in the home vs going to the gym.I was embarrassed in the gym when I first started going 7 months ago because I had beer belly, weighed 185 and struggled squatting 95 and deadlifting 135. Now I have flat stomach, weigh 150, I'm bulking and setting new PRs every time at the Gym. Yesterday for the first time I squat 180 and deadlift 215 5x5. Saturday I'll be squatting 185 and Monday I'll deadlift 225 (I'll probably fail on the 5th rep but will get it on Friday.) So no, I'm not embarrassed anymore. I love lifting weights and look … | /r/askMRP | 25/09/15 12:23 PM |
| 5 | Wife wants to know that I want her for more than just sex...There have been some great replies to that statement on /r/asktrp in the past, however I don't remember a guy stating it that was locked in a dead bedroom. Given that you have sex once out of 30 days or less, her saying this is comical at best. The real problem is her recoiling from you when you initiate. That means that she finds your touch physically repulsive. It's not easy having sex with someone you find unattractive. What books have you read from MRP sidebar? Are you lifting heavy weights?… | /r/askMRP | 25/09/15 12:06 PM |
| 1 | Gym in the home vs going to the gym.I always thought a2g were regular squats and all others were lazy, half assed squats. | /r/askMRP | 25/09/15 11:07 AM |
| 1 | Gym in the home vs going to the gym.Something similar to this one. | /r/askMRP | 25/09/15 11:06 AM |
| 1 | Gym in the home vs going to the gym.There is no passive dread when you are "safe" at home in the basement. That's pretty much the main reason why I was hesitant from the get go about putting the gym at home. | /r/askMRP | 25/09/15 11:03 AM |
| 1 | LTR joking around about how she will not change her family name to mineNow that I'm older, married and my wife took my last name even though I hate it I just see this as a sign of disrespect. If she loves and respects you she will take your last name. She may not like it but she will do it. Frankly you're on TRP so marriage is frowned upon as divorce rape is a real possibility. If I left my wife now, she would have over 60% of my take home money each week along with her income. That means she would have the kids and an income roughly 3-4x that of what I'd be left w… | /r/askTRP | 24/09/15 08:02 PM |
| 0 | Help with Harassment claims at Night SchoolHe did call her a sweetheart. If he want's to apologize that's fine. He isn't guilty of anything sexual. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/15 07:47 PM |
| 3 | Is it a shit test if she asks nicely?It's a shit test if it's easy for her and out of the way for you. It's a shit test if both of you sit on the couch and she tells you to do it. It's not a shit test if she nicely asks you and if she does that for you sometimes. At least I don't think it is. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/09/15 07:17 PM |
| 2 | Which body type for me to pursue while liftingI always thought that the perfect body type was beach body type like Channing Tatum has in Magic Mike rather than Arnold in Terminator. Having said that it's a highly individual preference. You do what you like. Technically you should do what your wife secretly likes but we're supposed to do these things for ourselves not our wives and if we did what they told us we would all have dad bods and get monthly duty sex. | /r/askMRP | 24/09/15 06:14 PM |
| 2 | How to calculate n-count?There was this girl I was flirting with on a rebound. She and I got into it heavy, I went down on her (on my 21st birthday) and I was halfway into her (she was fucking tight) before my friends force opened the door to my room (OK my friends' girlfriends did) cause my ex showed up and they wanted us back together. So I never got into her balls deep, I actually did only put in the tip a little (lol.) I don't really count her in my n-count. Also my first gf I only went down on her for like 30 secon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/15 04:37 PM |
| 16 | [FR] This crazy playboy girl I met has a SLAVE!11) Had promiscuos sex since she was 13. You mean she was raped when she was 13. Frankly she sounds like Lucifer's daughter. I would stay the fuck away. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/15 04:29 PM |
| 2 | Whats the most appropriate response to "cheating"?how do you get the hell out with your dignity in your satchel? You next her and cut any contact. If some contact is requred due to kids, work, business etc then only discuss that and move on. If after some time she wants to be your fwb you can OPENLY plate her (she knows you're not exclusive, she can be but you are not) but never upgrade her to LTR again. She will cry, complain and make you into an asshole that's punishing her like this post so best bet is to cut contact entirely. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/15 04:22 PM |
| 3 | Help with Harassment claims at Night SchoolI think your reply is fine. Don't escalate unless you want to spend time and money on something that will be swept under the rug. The only thing I'd change would be to stop at "I'll be more careful with my choice of words in the future." Anything past that is unnecessary. If you threaten them with lawyers etc, they might escalate. They have lawyers on retainer so there is no point fighting them about this at the moment. Get it over with and then move on your way. I once in typing class did feel … | /r/askTRP | 24/09/15 02:33 PM |
| 1 | She flirts with other guysFriendzone. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/15 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Need Advice: Leaving pregnant wife - Deadbedroom/Deadrelationship 6 yearsLOL. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/09/15 11:19 AM |
| 1 | Wanna swallow the red pill1) Keep Lifting. 2) Read The Best of Rational Male 3) Read Models by Mark Manson 4) Read The Book of Pook 5) Read No More Mr Nice Guy by Robert Glover. | /r/askTRP | 23/09/15 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Hey guys, I fucked up and need your helpYou are a funny man. Please re-read what you wrote: She's...seemingly quite loyal she still had a boyfriend and I fucked her regularly she fucked a 28 year old married man and she essentially cheated on her boyfriend. I fear that maybe she's going to hurt me, I'm pretty fragile right now being that in the last year nothing has gone right for me. You are fucking up in your personal life and if she knows it then it's drying her pussy for you. She is not loyal. Has not been since she was 17 when sh… | /r/askTRP | 23/09/15 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Your son, aged nine, is bullied at school. Based on your TRP-knowledge; How do you solve the issue?Jake fights. Even if he gets his ass kicked he will earn respect. I had a kid who tried to bully me in the new school I went to. Met him after classes were over, bloodied his nose and that was the end of it. | /r/askTRP | 23/09/15 12:48 PM |
| 0 | [#GG] Eren Gjoni of Zoepost fame has a major updateAll this drama because this cuck didn't have balls to leave her when she first started cheating on him. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/15 12:10 PM |
| 1 | Questions from a Single guy.Sex is easy enough to come by without the hassle and stupidity of marriage. Apparently not so easy in India given the op is a virgin and makes it sound like it will stay that way until he gets married. | /r/askMRP | 22/09/15 08:41 PM |
| 3 | Made a big career move, learned a completely new technology and moved to a new company with a 40% raise (63k to 100k) just 2 months ago. Wife wouldn't shut up about how I should not get stuck in this company and should already plan for the next company with a higher salary and better benefits.I get what you're saying. It's about her not appreciating your sacrifices, drive and accomplishments. She's basically dismissing then and telling you to bring home even more bacon. To her you're the quintessential beta buck. A&A did not backfire, it ended the topic of the conversation and that's what you want. You're not getting a pat on the head from her. If you were hoping for that you better just forget it. Your job as a beta is to bring home the bacon. The more you bring in the more she want… | /r/askMRP | 22/09/15 08:31 PM |
| 8 | Why are men these days obsessed with anal sex? Do they even like women?You don't get it because you haven't tried it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/15 06:38 PM |
| 26 | Why are men these days obsessed with anal sex? Do they even like women?It's the domination and variety aspect. When you're fucking a girl anally you feel like a conqueror. The noises she makes, the different feel of it, the taboo aspect of the act. The downside is your dick covered in shit but that's a downside I can live with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/15 06:17 PM |
| 8 | I can't get a full nights rest at my own apartmentThey don't need to move against her. They just need to get you out of your lease so that you can move out or offer another apartment. You need to read When I Say No I Feel Guilty. Some broken record when dealing with the office manager would do you wonders. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/15 03:52 PM |
| 9 | I can't get a full nights rest at my own apartmentRaise hell with the poperty manager. She will either take care of the problem or release you from the lease. Then you will be free to move. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/15 03:31 PM |
| 4 | Should i give her a ultimatume for intercourse?You're not supposed to LTR head cases or women that were raped for that exact reason. You're giving her commitment for fucking hand jobs. That's just thirsty beta as fuck. You need to read. You need to lift heavy weights. You need to show outcome independence. All you're showing is that you will give her commitment for occasional hand jobs. I wouldn't give commitment if I was getting blow jobs every day. Tell her that this relationship is not working for you. You need more intimacy than occasion… | /r/askTRP | 22/09/15 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Can you elaborate on STFU a little bit?STFU refers to 1 and 2. You missed 3. 3 is about shit tests. If in doubt STFU. If you're in doubt and talking will make you fail the shit test then STFU. If you're pissed off (getting into her frame) STFU. Your 3 of generally talking about things etc doesn't apply. You still talk to each other. Red pill doesn't tell you not to talk to your wife. That would be rather counterproductive to the whole relationship. | /r/askMRP | 22/09/15 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Did I pass this shit test?almost positive she faked an orgasm You shouldn't focus on her orgasm. Focus on yourself and do what you like and her orgasm will come or not but she still will enjoy herself. If you've read the MRP sidebar prerequisites read The Sex God Method (search Google for the PDF.) Edit: If your end result was sex then you did pass the shit test. | /r/askMRP | 22/09/15 03:02 PM |
| 2 | Girl bitchy towards me during ovulationAre you lifting and passing shit tests? If not that is your answer. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/15 12:50 PM |
| 2 | LTR invited male friend to stay with her for a week.That she makes more money is not a big deal at all. If you two end up living together you still lead and manage the money. Read Ian Ironwood's The Praxeology of The Dominant Man. The almost long distance thing and inviting her orbiter to stay with her for a week are. Plate or next. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/15 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Help a newbie respond to a shit test textJust get a suite with a separate bedroom. If all else fails you can have sex with her trying to be quiet. That's what I did a month ago. It was fun watching her squirm. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/09/15 01:27 AM |
| 9 | My finance found my throwaway post! How do I make her see that she's wrong?!I tried to paint a biased picture of our relationship She found it through sheer genius of search my daughter will always have a great leader role model bc her mother is just born that way It almost sounds like the op's exwife or new fiance used his old passwords to log onto his account. I'd ban the username and delete this thread. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/09/15 07:38 PM |
| 5 | My finance found my throwaway post! How do I make her see that she's wrong?!My first thought from reading this thread and the ops replies. Mods should delete it shortly. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/09/15 07:33 PM |
| 1 | TRP should be required reading for all marriage counselorsYou're welcome, but say what?! This book is cornerstone of Married Red Pill. It's the first book listed on the sidebar and required reading for all. How did you miss it in the first place? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/09/15 05:55 PM |
| 3 | TRP should be required reading for all marriage counselorsYou're preaching to the choir. All you need to know is that the vocal minority can give a bad name to entire movement. Take the thread about single mothers being scum for example. There are countless such threads on TRP. People won't get past the suggestion of plating women in the first place. Never mind the threads of calling women scum or saying that they are hypergamous and generalizations such as AWALT. We know that some is exaggerated BS to be taken with a large pinch of salt, but simply as… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/09/15 05:45 PM |
| 3 | Reunion weekend, dread games, and a PUAIf the script were flipped and it was her reunion I wouldn't dream of talking to other women while she talked with her old friends. Why not? If she ignored you, you definitely should be doing it. Did you try to get her involved and introduce her as your wife? As far as that PUA goes, you should have introduced yourself as her husband than see if she wants to come with you so you can introduce her to your friends and if she doesn't then go back to them. Amoging him you revealed your insecurity an… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/09/15 05:33 PM |
| 3 | TRP should be required reading for all marriage counselorsWomen are probably the biggest marriage counselors' customer base. TRP is viewed in the mainstream as an anti-women misogynistic dreads of society movement. Can you imagine the shit storm if what you're saying came to pass? The most red pill of marriage counselors is probably Robert Glover, author of No More Mr Nice Guy. Do you know what people's opinion of his work is on /r/relationships advice? If you don't, try to suggest it to someone on that sub and see your suggestion downvoted to oblivion… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/09/15 05:20 PM |
| 1 | LTR won't let me go down on herGet her horny, I mean dripping wet and if she doesn't allow you to go down on her then stop (don't fuck her) and leave her hanging. She will flip the shit, make no doubt about it. Women are notoriously bad dealing with sexual rejection but either she will change her mind or depending on her level of respect for you she will end the relationship. You have to be OK with it. What's the worst thing that could happen? Either she will give it up or you will find someone new who will. Don't get oneitis… | /r/askTRP | 21/09/15 12:18 PM |
| 22 | Drunk sex?Listen to your father. Don't fuck drunk chicks. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/15 04:38 PM |
| 0 | [FR] (Literal) Fitness Test:"Go Get Tested for STD Before You Touch Me Again"So you went to a Chinese parlor. I always wondered too where I'd go. I'm thinking a bar or the gym though mine closes at 11 so bar is more likely. Also it would be a nice proof of concept to flirt and get some feedback. I could go to a strip club but they never appealed to me. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/09/15 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Wife is fat and I am losing interest.True. 1 scoop of rice instead of 2, only 1 type of beans instead of both, forget cheese, sour cream or guacamole. Water instead of other drinks. Leave all that for when you're bulking. It won't get you full, but you will be satiated and that's all that matters when you're cutting. It's also how you keep acid and heartburn down. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/09/15 07:09 PM |
| 2 | Interesting AWALT stance by some UK taxi driversI was just in Florida on vacation. Every taxi cab has cameras installed. Every single one. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/15 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Wife gets 50% pay bump, Now out earns me.I understand where you're coming from. Your last relationship failed because you were a low value beta who could not handle it. Being alpha this would make you happy as it brings in money into the household and gives you an edge in case of divorce (alimony towards you.) What you absolutely do is still LEAD the household. Who brings in more money doesn't matter. Your woman still WANTS you to lead. Sure she might shit test more to see if you have what it takes to lead, but the fact that she brings… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/09/15 02:31 PM |
| 6 | Dealing with rude behavior from wife.I just tell my wife to watch her attitude. If she keeps on behaving shitty I leave the room. She followed me once trying to start a fight and I told her she was being a bitch and left the house. Since then she behaves. Two days ago she was being snappy, I told her to not give me an attitude and she promptly STFU. The FB and being snappy in the car is just plain disrespect. She doesn't respect you. Keep lifting, keep passing shit tests, do not accept shitty behavior and she will start giving you … | /r/askMRP | 18/09/15 12:02 PM |
| 1 | Me [25M] with my wife [29F] of six years, is not sexually adventurous with me like she was in her college years before me.Regular sex can be hard to come by, so bjs forget about it You really need to go on self improvement spree. In MRP read the sidebar, it's called a MAP. Basically you lose weight, hit the gym, start dressing better, recognize and pass shit and comfort tests and become more independent. Those are basically the first 5 or 6 stages of 12 stages of dread. Look that up. What it does is two things. It makes you a more attractive person. This makes you attractive to other women, but most importantly it … | /r/askTRP | 17/09/15 01:25 PM |
| 2 | Sexbots: Why Women Should PanicYou are not considering that women will also be a large customer base for the sexbot market. They will have a Channing Tatum look-alike in their bedroom closet who will put out on demand and they might even have a Keurig like port for sperm packet from a sperm bank. Take it out of freezer, plug it into a sexbot and bam you've got artificial insemination with state sponsored child support paid for with everyone's taxes. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/15 11:30 AM |
| 6 | How to bring up my RP ideology to the family?48 laws of power would advise against it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/09/15 08:10 PM |
| 4 | Me [25M] with my wife [29F] of six years, is not sexually adventurous with me like she was in her college years before me.Married Red Pill will tell you to improve yourself before you start making waves unless you just want to next her. So read the married red pill sidebar, start lifting religiously, improve your wardrobe and introduce dread. She will then up her game to satisfy you or you will have no issues replacing her with a younger model. At your age you should have no problem banging 20 years olds. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/15 07:11 PM |
| 4 | Wife is fat and I am losing interest.What about soda and juices. Those alone add like a 1000 calories to your diet. I don't feel like I'm qualified enough to tell you whether to covertly or overtly do this. I can be a cold son of a bitch sometimes and can be brutally honest. I'd just overtly tell her that she's not helping herself if she wants more sex but you come home and see her eating that shit. You don't overtly tell her she's fat, but she gets the idea. This may blow up but she will know for sure what she needs to do. My exam… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/09/15 03:58 PM |
| 4 | Wife is fat and I am losing interest.That's very sensitive topic. You can come out with that but you have to be careful that she doesn't give up because it's too hard. Most fat people have no idea where to start and how to lose weight. Even if they get a general idea, they pick food that taste like shit and lose interest quickly. I listed some ideas for you above. It's all about calories in being less than calories out. If she eats at 1200-1500 calories per day she WILL lose weight and lose it quickly. I don't have an idea of what … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/09/15 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Wife is fat and I am losing interest.Control the fridge. Make her drink water or coffee with non-fat milk only. Buy good non-fat milk, it's not like this watery shit that comes in plastic bottles. Food, use your grill allot. Fuck the pasta, takeout, pizza crap. If you go out for fast food go to Moe's for burrito bowl or Boston Market for chicken or turkey. Doing this she WILL lose weight to a tune of a pound-2 pounds per week. Within a year or 2 she will be a sexy bitch again. All you have to do is take control of the fridge. Good … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/09/15 03:30 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Former cheating wife updateYou're right. I apologize if I came off as criticizing. It's a bitch walking in your shoes and kids change the game exponentially. That's why I said that this post depressed me. You're between a rock and a hard place and it's all your wife's doing. Had there been no kids I'm sure she would have been history. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/09/15 01:09 PM |
| 3 | Update: Help requested for fledgling RP in tumultuous relationship - THIS STUFF WORKS!"OMG! Is that what you really look like?" That's where you fucked up your night. You basically called her ugly which manifested in: "You know you could still find someone on Craigslist in the Personals section who's not ugly. It's still early." Having said that, people told you to run cause she's crazy and you're better off not sticking your dick in crazy. You're single now so start reading models and other TRP related material. | /r/askMRP | 16/09/15 11:21 AM |
| 4 | How women loveRead The Rational Male - Women in Love. In fact it's part of the sidebar material on MRP. It will give you the answer you were looking for. | /r/askMRP | 16/09/15 11:14 AM |
| 2 | Any RP Gamers?When I bought a house (lived in a condo before) I packed my PS3 and sold it on ebay. I was 37 then. Haven't been gaming since. 2 years later I found MRP and I don't think I'll be gaming in the future either. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/09/15 11:10 AM |
| 1 | Help requested for fledgling RP in tumultuous relationshipSaid for comparison to keeping her as an ltr. You're right, don't stick your dick in crazy. | /r/askMRP | 15/09/15 10:19 PM |
| 2 | Did I do this right?My wife knows my user account and reads my shit sometimes. My deleting those threads is simple proof that I don't fully have IDGAF attitude and still have work to do. I have plenty of questions that I could ask. Like the fact that she wanted me to get vasectomy but when she found out I couldn't now she's not interested in getting her tubes tied and will be fine with condoms with which I am not. Kind of a quick change of position don't you think? Or why did we fuck like 4-7 times a week just afte… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/09/15 08:34 PM |
| 3 | Comfort Test for Newly Pregnant Wifethe only hurdle has been her fatigue levels Symptom of pregnancy. You can bring that up when she tells you she doesn't feel pregnant. Has she been sleeping longer? My wife used to sleep 8 hours, now she sleeps 9-10. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/09/15 08:08 PM |
| 2 | Comfort Test for Newly Pregnant WifeIt supposedly staves off bad thoughts and curses. Yeah, totally ass backwards medieval crap for Eastern Europe. I sometimes wonder where she comes up with that shit but whatever makes her feel better I guess. It's not affecting me so I give it a pass. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/09/15 08:06 PM |
| 3 | Did I do this right?Yes you did it right if the result is a blow job. After all red pill is sexual strategy and if the end result of your behavior was sex than you most likely did this right. Recently my wife wanted me to put cream on her feet. I did then she gave me a blow job. The next night she wanted me to put cream on her feet just after rejecting me for a blow job. I said no. She cried and I went to read a book cause I didn't want to listen to her weep (yeah, I can be a cold son of a bitch.) Now that is faili… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/09/15 08:01 PM |
| 2 | Comfort Test for Newly Pregnant Wife9 weeks is early still. My wife was freaking out early as well because hormones at this stage are all over the place. She would cry over the smallest bull shit. Ever since she miscarried years ago, she wore something red or had a little red square piece of cloth under her bed even though she is Catholic and we're not supposed to have superstitions. Don't worry about her friend. Keep reassuring and being a rock. The ultrasound appointment will be here soon enough. Then there will be blood tests, … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/09/15 07:47 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Former cheating wife updateThis post depresses me. I don't know why. Maybe because my wife was a virgin like yours when she met me. As far as I know she never cheated on me and as far as I know my dick is the only one that has ever been inside of her. If I now found out that she cheated on me before or while we were married I don't think I could have taken it as stoically as you did. Kudos to you for making lemonade out of life's lemons but I am taking completely different lesson from this than what you posted under lesso… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/09/15 07:24 PM |
| 2 | TRP made me paranoid, how to overcome this?I don't think you're paranoid at all, you just refuse to see things right in front of you. She then asked whether I wanted some time off to experiment before we move in together So she then asks me before we move in, do I want a weekend on which we do not see each other at all. She wants to experiment and hang out with others without you even living together. It's not going to get any better after the two of you move in. You need to keep lifting, recognize and pass shit tests and comfort tests, … | /r/askTRP | 15/09/15 06:43 PM |
| 3 | Main event is on the horizonIn other words you prefer to spend the time at work than spend it at home with your wife and kids. Don't be surprised if your relationship with both your wife and your kids will suffer for it. At the end of the day we work to live, not live to work. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/09/15 05:55 PM |
| 3 | I need suggestions please.Men are simple. Keep our belly full and our balls empty. By now he probably has everything he wants so maybe tickets to a sports game, night at the casino, maybe a blow job with you swallowing as just a prelude to the marathon sex session. Just be totally into him and submissive as ever. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/09/15 01:50 PM |
| 1 | What to say about the books, if anything?When she asked I told my wife what I was reading. I could've lied but I pretty much never do or did. You could say I'm brutally honest. She downloaded an audiobook first chapter preview of nmmng, listened to it then left me alone. Having said that, my sex life picked up from the day I joined the gym despite her previous objections so maybe she was just waiting for me to wake the fuck up. Others are in much more difficult relationships than mine is. Having said that, reading it openly displays a … | /r/askMRP | 15/09/15 12:17 PM |
| -1 | Help requested for fledgling RP in tumultuous relationshipGym, read models, date other women. The one you're writing about is a perfect plate candidate, definitely not ltr material. | /r/askMRP | 15/09/15 12:06 PM |
| 2 | What is the RP endorsed way to have a family?Then how do you explain this? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/15 11:17 AM |
| 2 | How Hot is Hot Enough?That's why you have to vet it (inspect for quality control.) It may not be seaworthy but the chance of divorce for one is less than 10% compared to almost 50% for one with 2-5 partners and over 50% for one with more than 5. See here. | /r/askMRP | 14/09/15 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 08, 2015I've been taking what she says over what she does at face value and haven't been initiating with my pregnant wife. She hasn't fucked me in two weeks, only blow jobs once or twice a week because the baby is kicking her in the uterus and it's killing her sex drive. I need to initiate more. I victim puked to her that I'm missing the intimacy of sex and that BJs while great are still no replacement for that. I think she's doing them as a mate retaining strategy to hold me over till the baby's out of… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/09/15 05:28 PM |
| 2 | What is the RP endorsed way to have a family?Best bet is to have a girl with no prior partners (good luck with that) and cohabitate without marriage license or at least in a state with favorable alimony laws where there is no lifetime alimony or it's waived in case of adultery. You don't want her to be a SAHM. First of all she becomes a leach on your money, second she gets bored and lazy, third she gets desperate for variety and some conflict. She can stay home and work part time in the evenings or work 2-3 days out of the week and pay for… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/15 04:59 PM |
| 2 | How Hot is Hot Enough?You want the least amount of mileage on that ship as possible. Best bet would be to buy a fresh one out of the dock that you yourself get to break the champagne on. If that ship is used to other captains before you got to steer her chances are good that maintenance will be very expensive and jumping ships often comes with 20 years of docking fees plus lifetime maintenance agreement. | /r/askMRP | 14/09/15 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Additional exercises with StrongliftI added paused bench press and it immediately improved my regular bench press. I'm weak as a high school girl right now and only recently after I lost 45 pounds started bulking. Monday I struggled to complete 5x5 105 pounds so I added the paused bench press (50 pounds 5x3) and Friday I did 110 pounds with no trouble at all with 90 second rests in-between I capped it with paused bench at 55 pounds 5x3. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/15 03:29 PM |
| 2 | LTR is flirting with other guys, need help.I'd listen to the hard core red advice you'll be getting here. Not enough info given but if it's disrespectful toward you then you might want to downgrade her to a plate. If not then dread game it is. Limit your contact, become busy and either she's gonna show her cards and branch swing or she will start to worry about you leaving her, cut that shit out and focus on you and your needs. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/09/15 04:03 PM |
| 2 | Dread vs clarity and how quickly the red tide turnsAfter the second appointment, a CT scan, sex stopped. Two hard no's and the third night I opted out because I could see the starfish coming a mile away, something that seems like it's from another lifetime. Is this how fast you go from a strong to a weak perception? Either that or she's worried about you and subconsciously it's killing her drive. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/09/15 07:16 PM |
| 8 | Fake Until You MakeHappy Husband = Happy Wife = Happy Life, which really proves the adage that happy wife = happy life. To get to a happy wife you have to have a happy husband first. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/09/15 11:08 AM |
| 1 | New to RP; Wife wants to postpone having kidsHe said that in original posting of this thread. They had a fight about trying to get pregnant and in anger he threw away her pills. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/09/15 10:31 AM |
| 3 | New to RP; Wife wants to postpone having kidsHow old is your wife? If she's 30 and gets an iud you might as well next her cause kids ain't happening with her. Edit: Actually I changed my mind. Read the sidebar, work on your map and approach about the kids within a year. If after a year of red pill it's still not happening, THEN next her. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/09/15 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 08, 2015SGM is a free download. Google for the pdf. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/09/15 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Recent reak up fucked me upReading Meditations by Marcus Aurelius is a good start. For more, search for books on TRP or go to /r/redpillbooks. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/15 05:32 PM |
| 3 | Seeing a girl exclusively, found out she's still in touch with her ex [UPDATE]She basically said that she's just really tired of work she refused any kind of touching. I asked her co-worker, and she said my LTR didn't look too good. But she did change her profile picture to a holiday picture when she was with her ex fuck her. dunno if i need to play dread game Your relationship is over. You just for some reason refuse to believe it. In your original thread /u/abdada gave you some good advice which you refused to follow saying that it was risky. Instead you chose a blue as… | /r/askTRP | 10/09/15 05:26 PM |
| 2 | Brutally put down new LTR and she started crying.I cant be sure she didn't leave and go fuck her ex, or some random or just went back to hers and cried some more. I totally wouldn't be surprised if she fucked someone that night. In contact with an ex, emotional, etc. She hadn't spoken to him in months and suddenly he has plans and wants to include her in them? I call bull shit. That said you overcompensated with the nuclear dread because you were angry. I don't blame you for being angry, I would have been angry too. Now if you do contact her (… | /r/askTRP | 10/09/15 04:58 PM |
| 1 | A Tale of Two Cities, part oneAnd there you go saying the M word. Damn you. /s | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/09/15 03:01 PM |
| 2 | A Tale of Two Cities, part oneYou don't have to worry about it. Your daughter is already born. My son has 4 months to go before he's ready to come out of the oven. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/09/15 02:51 PM |
| 1 | (Noob) I need a Morpheus.Redditsync. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/09/15 02:49 PM |
| 2 | (Noob) I need a Morpheus.Swipe from right to left and the sidebar will appear, at least it does on redditsync app. You can get kindle on your phone and read the books right on your phone. No need to wait for it to come. Your wife moved out, time is of the essence. You start with No More Mr Nice Guy, move onto When I say no I feel guilty and then read Married Man Sex Life Primer. Read it last because your wife moved out. Read the first two because you need those tools if you want her back in and start pulling her weight.… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/09/15 02:44 PM |
| 1 | A Tale of Two Cities, part oneThanks. You too. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/09/15 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Trp is hypocriticalI'm not blaming women. Half the time they don't know what they want and just want you to make a fucking decision. I'm just stating how it is. The Red Pill tells them how it is. Do they take it way too far? Sure they do. Does it work and get men laid? Sure it does. Because it does work, it is in fact relevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/15 02:00 PM |
| 2 | Hot Co-worker Trying to Ruin My MarriageThat will teach you to not shit where you eat. Read Ian's the red pill room blogpost on Office Game. It seems you took yours too far. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/09/15 01:50 PM |
| 2 | A Tale of Two Cities, part oneGood response to the comfort test. My wife is pregnant and we've told most our friends already. Recently I was trying to sell an old bed of my daughter's on Facebook and put in that I was trying to make room for a crib. Instead of getting questions about the bed I was getting congratulations. My wife found out and was mad cause she didn't want EVERYONE to know in case of the M word. That partially could be the reason why yours wanted it to be kept secret. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/09/15 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Trp is hypocriticalBut that's the catch. Whenever guys ask a girl what to do, the girl and society tells them "Just be yourself." Fuck, that's what my wife's advice was to that poor 18 year old sap whose hair she was cutting. That shit just DOES NOT WORK. TRP is crude, rude, and to the point. It tells guys how shit works and after a lifetime of blue pill conditioning and getting blue balls he gets angry. He's been lied to his whole life. Women don't give a fuck about your inner beauty. Women don't give a fuck that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/15 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Trp is hypocriticalTRP is irrelevant. It only exists, with any success, on the internet. MRP uses much of TRP's principles to get you laid with your wife. It worked like a charm for me. Much of what is in TRP's sidebar will actually get a guy laid. Why? Because it opens his eyes that the Disney fantasy of "it's what's on the inside that counts" is a pure bullshit. So guys lose weight, lift weights, seriously improve their looks and they start getting results. Kind of like the frumpy girl that gets a sexy dress, pu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/15 07:05 PM |
| 1 | How to handle myself around serious exThere is a thread on the main sub on how to plate your ex. You might want to read it. Having said that, if you are going to be teaching her class (she is going to be a student?) than you should wait it out until that class is over. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/15 06:27 PM |
| 5 | This is gonna hurt me more than it does you.Not sexy pajamas and a face mask equals hard no in 99% of cases. Having said that after harping on her about her unsexy pajamas she finally bought some sexy ones instead. Still with the long pants, but more form fitting and a tighter T accentuating her curves. Yay for small victories. | /r/askMRP | 09/09/15 06:12 PM |
| 2 | Wife Lies and ditches me with the kidsI always think a computer will take me half an hour to fix. Two hours later I wonder where the time went. I'll bet it's similar with her errands. Trip to the mall is about 40 minutes driving (there and back.) You can bet that it will take easily more than an hour. Having said that, Chad could fuck her in Walmart's dressing cubicle. I almost had my wife give me a BJ in one. I agree with you though that this isn't a Chad issue. Just a distraction issue. I think she doesn't really think it will tak… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/09/15 06:09 PM |
| 3 | Do you think AWALT and high divorce rate applies only to the subset of women that are or were part of the hookup culture?I am almost 40, Ian Ironwood, Rollo Tomassi etc are all 40 plus. Entire /r/marriedredpill is averaging about 35-40. Given that the thread talks about divorce rate, I think it's exactly the generation it's targeting. Also hookup culture already existed in the 80 and 90s. Don't kid yourself that it didn't. Granted there was no tinder then but the club scene was alive probably more so than it is today and cars were rocking in the parking lots. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/15 05:52 PM |
| 1 | How to get over the hump?it's always what you want to do The question is: Is this a shit test or is it really always what you want to do. Do you allow her to convince you to change your mind sometimes or is what she saying always laid by the wayside. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/09/15 03:56 PM |
| 2 | Yet another money issue postHow about setting up a home improvement budget and put money toward it every month. That way there are clear goals on what you want to accomplish and easily measurable way to see the progress toward those goals. | /r/askMRP | 09/09/15 03:19 PM |
| 0 | Do you think AWALT and high divorce rate applies only to the subset of women that are or were part of the hookup culture?New England. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/15 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Awoken by my wife's rabbit. She told me months ago that she threw out her dildo.It probably wasn't doing it for her? I don't know. She claims to have no memory of it. You know how some women don't count ugly betas when saying that there are no good men that want them? That dildo probably was like one of those guys. | /r/askMRP | 08/09/15 08:27 PM |
| 2 | Beginner here, not sure if I should keep initiating sex if I keep getting rejectedWe don't "lack intimacy" This is where you lose. You give her intimacy without her needing to put out. Cut that shit out. If she doesn't keep your balls empty she doesn't get to have the cuddles. Also what have you done so far? How far along are you reading? Are you lifting at least 3 times a week? If not, then you're not doing your part. I went on vacation, stopped lifting for a week and turned into a weaksauce lazy beta fuck. It took me another week to get back into my previous routine and sta… | /r/askMRP | 08/09/15 07:04 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with misbehaving 2-year old & contrary wife in restaurantThe way I would have dealt with the toddler would be, I'd have him sit on my lap and talk to him or try to play with him or have him try some of my food, etc. If that didn't work, I'd tell her I'll take him outside to calm down. This way it doesn't look as bad to others and doesn't make your wife embarrassed in public (hence her tears.) I don't think that everything is a shit test and sometimes as a parent you need to be a strategist as well as a patient teacher. Just getting up, going around th… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/09/15 06:41 PM |
| 9 | Sometimes it's too late.......You successfully downgraded your wife to a girlfriend without having to resort to a gift of cash and prizes. That's quite an accomplishment. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/09/15 03:33 PM |
| 7 | Sometimes it's too late.......Nah, I understood it immediately that the next time she leaves their finances are already split so there won't be a reason for dealing with her again. Bye Felicia. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/09/15 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Welcome subscriber Number 5,000 to Married Red Pill!That is 5,000 users but how many are still active? How many tried it but couldn't cut it or decided it wasn't for them like that guy that did the AMA and said he was beyond MRP because he thinks he found his unicorn? How many tried it but came here too late and ended up in a divorce? How many of those get divorce raped? How many didn't? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/09/15 01:26 PM |
| 1 | I know I'll get slayed for this, but hear me out.I actually think it's not a bad idea at all. So this until the kids leave the best and then move on. If this time gives the two of you time to reconcile so much for the better. Obviously the culture there is much different than it is in the US so there might be other down up sides but it seems like you know what you're doing. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/09/15 11:05 AM |
| 7 | Point of difference with main subFrankly with that thread stickied there on top, I'm glad MRP is not linked there. TRP is becoming less useful by the day. At this point the only worthwhile content there is the sidebar. I'm no longer surprised by the vitriol shown to the red pill from the rest of reddit. Are some single mothers scum? Sure. Are most of them? Hell no. Should you as a single guy stay away from all of them? Yes, definitely yes. Why support another guy's kid and always be the second class citizen in your own home? Bu… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/09/15 10:56 AM |
| 2 | I desperately want children, but my wife keeps postponing itRight 5 times a week every week. After a few times / weeks I'm pretty sure she was resigned to the fact that either she couldn't get pregnant or second was coming. We had trouble getting pregnant the first time. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/09/15 08:40 PM |
| 2 | I desperately want children, but my wife keeps postponing itShe was never on birth control in the first place. Duty sex plus pulling out was all the birth control she needed for 8 years since the birth of my daughter. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/09/15 08:40 PM |
| 14 | I desperately want children, but my wife keeps postponing itBS, that's a great way to get out of status quo. You don't do it covertly. I told her I would NOT wear a condom and when she asked me to pull out I told her before sex that I wouldn't. I was open to her stopping the sex, she didn't stop it so I came in her. I did this 4 or 5 times per week for almost two months and now she's pregnant. Simple and effective. I was asking for second for six years to no avail. When I swallowed the pill and stopped asking she became pregnant. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/09/15 11:57 AM |
| 13 | I desperately want children, but my wife keeps postponing itMy wife didn't want second. She made me pull out until I told her I won't. She's pregnant with our second now. Fuck her and cum in her or move on. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/09/15 11:23 AM |
| 1 | Awoken by my wife's rabbit. She told me months ago that she threw out her dildo.True, go back to the basics essentially. | /r/askMRP | 05/09/15 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Awoken by my wife's rabbit. She told me months ago that she threw out her dildo.Yeah about those consequences. I'm still thinking about those. Right now she sounds very apologetic. | /r/askMRP | 05/09/15 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Awoken by my wife's rabbit. She told me months ago that she threw out her dildo.Like I said, I am fine with her having a rabbit, dildo, whatever. It's the fact that she lied about it. In fact we went to VIP to buy some vibes to play with (giant fail when we tried it) and she never mentioned that she has a way better one in her drawer. She said she lied about it because she knew I'd want to use it on her during sex and she didn't. Truthfully because she lied I lost some of respect I had for her. Edit: I will tell her to use it on herself when she's blowing me. Right now I th… | /r/askMRP | 05/09/15 02:34 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with long-distance “brother” orbiter?I agree with /u/burgundycarpet advice. You can't control her. She will do what she wants. What the red pill tells you is to make yourself so high value that she will have to face pouring her energies into you or losing you to a better woman. So you're working on that and it will take time. What about this dude now? Well he is hundreds of miles away and her conversations with him are not flirty. She can't afford to go and see him. I would assume that you would not buy her a ticket to go and see h… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/09/15 12:54 PM |
| 3 | My wife had "butterflies" with her ex. Not with me. This hurts. I really need your help.ABORT, ABORT, ABORT!!! Dude do not be a beta bitch and victim puke your insecurities to her! WTF are you even thinking?! First of all, YOU CAN AND WILL compete with his memory. You're already doing it by lifting and becoming better version of yourself. The more you lead, become more masculine, implement the Sex God Method the more you will become her new Fiery John. Absolutely DO NOT talk to her about it at all. Any insecurities like that you keep them for yourself or victim puke them here in th… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/09/15 07:31 PM |
| 1 | redpill sex advice for your son?Ian, why do you state in Red Pill For Boys - 3 Alpha and Beta, Red Pill Alpha Rule: Guard Your Mate. You may want to expand on that or change it altogether. Just stating to guard your mate elicits response such as be distrustful, confirm her whereabouts etc. This shows you as insecure and displaying low value. Sure you don't want to be gullible, but taken at face value in first reading through TRP it's not the best advice. Edit: Also in the first two chapters you have some words highlighted in r… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/09/15 07:19 PM |
| 2 | redpill sex advice for your son?We'll need another one soon for fathers of daughters. Although that might be a question for /r/redpillwomen. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/09/15 06:33 PM |
| -1 | Yesterday my boyfriend of nine months became my fianceeBecause it's a 50/50 shot it will work out and if it doesn't then he is fucked if you're a housewife. Edit: I'm happy for you and wish nothing less than for it to work out. Hope for the best, prepare for the worst. Being a housewife is a boring and unrewarding experience. You're better off working and enjoying your home together with your husband and children when you're all there. | /r/ThankTRP | 04/09/15 06:20 PM |
| 3 | Friend struggling with boring wife/sex. Advice I should offer?Kay's pill has a nice sugar coating. LOL. That's a great observation and also a good introduction to the red pill as he mentions it in his book. | /r/askMRP | 04/09/15 06:17 PM |
| 3 | Caught up in mother/daughter conflictIf you get a divorce make sure you take both of them. See a lawyer just in case. Make sure to fight for split custody of the 8 year old as your wife clearly is crazy. How do you unfuck yourself? Have you been lifting? Have you been reading? If not I suggest you get to work. | /r/askMRP | 04/09/15 06:12 PM |
| 7 | There is this "friend" I have that for his Facebook profile picture he has the picture of his wife.I have not updated my profile pic in years, it was like 7-8 years old or basically the first pic I threw on there since signing up. Last month I updated it with a picture of me, my wife and my daughter. Don't put so much weight into this. I hardly use FB and I wouldn't be surprised if your married friend uses it even less than I do. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/15 04:11 PM |
| 2 | I want a woman who actually likes my dick, is that too much to ask?You measure it by lightly pressing into the bone. When I was fat it was 5.5, now it's 6. If I go hard during doggy, she complains of pain her cervix. At 6.5 you're in the top 20th percentile in size. If there are any issues with your dick, they are all in your head. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/15 02:14 PM |
| 3 | The Silent TreatmentIMO you're being butthurt, not getting over something she did which places you totally into her frame. You told her what your boundary is. She should stop that behavior now. Now continue reading and start recognizing and passing shit tests. Search and read about frame. Developing it, holding it and pulling your wife into it. Frame is your state of mind. Seeing things from your point of view and your point of view only. That helps with amused mastery, ignoring her outright or A&A responses to her… | /r/askMRP | 04/09/15 12:22 PM |
| -3 | Yesterday my boyfriend of nine months became my fianceeBeing a housewife is your choice. You could just as well work so that if divorce does come you won't force him into one bedroom apartment on the bad side of town. Kids do just as well in daycare as they do at home and at least they aren't bored. | /r/ThankTRP | 04/09/15 11:50 AM |
| 3 | Setting a 1 year deadline: is it a covert contract?Covert contract is when you do something nice for someone else and expect them to do something nice for you. IE you cook her a dinner or buy her flowers and expect sex. You're doing something nice for YOURSELF here. Reading, lifting are all nice things you do for yourself. Passing shit tests is basically not putting up with BS so it's also something nice you're doing for yourself. Being a captain and a leader is also something you do for yourself. By default, things you do for yourself cannot be… | /r/askMRP | 03/09/15 04:39 PM |
| 2 | [Noob] shit tests in the kitchenShark week is 3 days, 5 days max. Usually after the first day or two of heavy bleeding day 3 is light enough that a towel will take care of it. Never the less, yes blow jobs do happen on shark week. You will get there eventually. First mistake was making something nice for HER. You do it for yourself and she's welcome to join. IE. I'm making eggs, you want some? Also in my house, usually the person cooking the breakfast is not the one doing the cleanup. Scrubbing the dishes you could have burst … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/09/15 04:31 PM |
| 1 | I just can't do itI was in a similar position. Seeing my ex with her new boyfriend (not the guy she cheated on me with) was simply too hard. I stopped hanging out with my friends' group gatherings. I'd still see them individually, but I developed a whole new group of friends through which I met a girl who became my wife. You can easily do it. Just start hanging out with some guys that see your group only occasionally. Just be truthful. Say that your ex hangs in that group and you need to make some new friends. Th… | /r/askTRP | 02/09/15 04:59 PM |
| 2 | I just can't do itThey don't have free will. They don't have the concept of loyalty. That's not what is written anywhere in the sidebar. Don't paint TRP in what some of its members erroneously state. Some guys are still halfway into the reading material and perpetually locked in an anger stage of swallowing the pill. They are not reflection of what TRP is all about. Would you be pissed off if your dog left to go find food at the neighbor's house Are you seriously comparing women to dogs? Your mother is a woman. H… | /r/askTRP | 02/09/15 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Being beta has my wife wanting divorce. Ready to take the red pill, but could use some pointers.Drinking lots of water will help keeping your calories low. Get a water bottle and refill it from water fountain if one is available where you work. Also avoid cheese on your subway etc. Drink fat free milk. Don't add cream and sugar to your coffee. Black or with skim milk only. You will get used to it in no time. It's actually easy to stay under 1500 calories per day that way. The harder part is keeping your protein at about 1 gram per pound of your lean body mass (body weight minus body fat) t… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/09/15 02:52 PM |
| 2 | Opinion on NMMG "sexual moratorium"In NMMG, Glover suggests going on a "sexual moratorium" for 3-6 months Sort of like a monk mode recommended on TRP to prove to yourself that sex is not something that you need to validate yourself. I never bothered with it. I'd suggest with following MMSLP instead. Initiate and if denied do something else. Avoid getting butthurt and pressuring her for sex, show outcome independence. | /r/askMRP | 01/09/15 04:11 PM |
| 3 | Keeping wife on toes with Black ArtsI agree about sometimes creating conflict for the fuck of it. Having said that, you're supposed to be the oak for your wife. Instead you're suggesting to act like a teenage girl would and emotionally hurt your wife (sandwich example and date example.) Sure, it's OK to be a dick sometimes but do it when the outcome is of a benefit to you and your family. Your examples don't really benefit anyone. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/09/15 11:37 AM |
| 1 | If she wants to fuck you she will find a way to fuck you.That's her excuse. She says she was young and stupid then. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/09/15 01:37 AM |
| 1 | MRP debutNice job. Regarding lifting vs boxing, you can still look great just boxing instead of lifting. Best is to do both but that may be difficult having a young child at home. What you did smiling but not answering worked because you were not being affected by her shit storm. You were not being pulled into her frame by arguing back and it was an ultimate show of amused mastery. Keep doing what you're doing and keep being the prize. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/08/15 06:58 PM |
| 2 | A message to newbiesThat it took you years to fix it, doesn't mean it must take years for everyone to fix it. Not everyone has been a beta bitch for a decade. Not everyone married a wall approaching ex carousel rider. While AWALT are tendencies found in every woman (which is why TRP/MRP works so well,) not every woman is alike, has similar life experiences etc, etc, etc. That's why this stuff will work on some immediately especially on those whose wife did not view him as a beta buck before/on wedding day; while ot… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/08/15 06:44 PM |
| 2 | 10 Ways to Keep Your Wife on Her Toes.I like this. Definitely going to try that. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/08/15 03:59 PM |
| 3 | If she wants to fuck you she will find a way to fuck you.No, I wanted another child and for years she would say that she was done with one. She would also list my failures as a father and a man (not in those words but I got the meaning) as a reason not to. When I discovered MRP and we started having more sex, she bought condoms for me to use. When after a couple times using them I refused to, she tried to have me pull out. Before I would because otherwise it would mean no more sex, or so I believed. After swallowing the pill I just did not give a fuck… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/08/15 03:46 PM |
| 3 | 10 Ways to Keep Your Wife on Her Toes.Solid post. Number 5 gave me some ideas. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/08/15 02:41 PM |
| 6 | If she wants to fuck you she will find a way to fuck you.Lost 45 pounds, started lifting, dressing better, grooming better, passing shit tests and taking care of my shit. Pretty standard stuff from the sidebar. There is no secret to cause these things to happen, it's all in the sidebar material. What I don't do is, I don't do the 10 second kiss. I don't have any hobbies outside the house apart from lifting 3 times a week and occasionally road cycling. I treat my wife with respect or rather the same respect she returns to me. You could say I demand fro… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/08/15 02:26 PM |
| 2 | Being beta has my wife wanting divorce. Ready to take the red pill, but could use some pointers.Kids learning to shank each other? I grew up going to daycare then to preschool. There is nothing wrong with sending kids to daycare. If anything it gives them early start learning social behaviors and making friends. Absolutely no downside apart from extra cost. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/08/15 01:22 PM |
| 6 | Guy friends making plans with cheating ex and not telling meTime for some new friends then. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/15 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - August 25, 2015Went on a family vacation. Did not lift for a whole week and ate like a pig. I gained 5 pounds. Monday today, so back to work and back to the gym. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/08/15 01:02 PM |
| 3 | Being beta has my wife wanting divorce. Ready to take the red pill, but could use some pointers.You haven't really told us what you have done with yourself so far other than growing a bit of a spine to your interactions with your wife. Attraction is as much visual as it is emotional. It's not enough for you to start acting red pill with a spine in your interactions. Have you started lifting? How high is your body fat? If it's above 20% have you changed your eating habits yet? How do you dress? Are you well groomed or do you have visible nose hairs and a monobrow? Do you take care of your s… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/08/15 12:45 PM |
| 2 | How do I gain control and sort my relationship outCould be a burner phone. Where is she staying when she's not at home? Have you verified or are you just taking her word for it? Where is she getting money to stay elsewhere or are you financing her attempt at "independence?" | /r/askTRP | 30/08/15 05:24 PM |
| 6 | Crossposted from TRP- Husband who was cheated on answers questionsHe's not unplugged and blames her on her personality disorder. He doesn't believe in capacity for AWALT. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/08/15 11:53 AM |
| 1 | Wife wants me to wear a condomWhen I started on this journey my wife agreed to more sex and then bought condoms. She knew I wanted more kids but at the same time I wasn't good enough for that. I tried one from each pack. After that I never used one again. When she said to put on a condom I just said no. I left it up to her to stop sex. I wasn't going to wear one and that was that. I also wasn't gonna pull out. So it was up to her to deny me sex or get pussy full of cum. She's 20 weeks pregnant now. Having said that, if she e… | /r/askMRP | 28/08/15 04:25 AM |
| 2 | Support Groups in UK, (as per NMMNG)There is a good thread on trp about making friends. Basically join sports or some other activities. Men bond through achievement based activities so those are the best at making new friends. | /r/askMRP | 27/08/15 11:24 AM |
| 3 | After Sex Beta BehaviorThe first step is to have her kneel in front of you. It's more comfy on the neck vs you laying on the bed and her bobbing up and down. More comfort, longer BJ endurance. Give her a pillow, to increase the comfort. | /r/askMRP | 24/08/15 05:35 PM |
| 5 | After Sex Beta BehaviorWhen I was bluepill, the thought of my wife on her knees in front of me with me blowing my load in her mouth was just a dirty fantasy. Now that it's a multiple times a week reality I just say it was a good blowjob baby. No feelings of guilt at all here though. | /r/askMRP | 24/08/15 04:25 PM |
| 1 | RP therapist and/or mentor in Chicago area?I suggested NMMNG, not MMSL. Both books are great though I'm not sure how much of a use he would have right now from MMSL. From his lingo it almost sounds like he read NMMNG, but the way he writes about himself suggests that he hasn't. So if he feels a therapist would help him, reading NMMNG and joining a support group or hiring a therapist trained in NMMNG might not be such a bad thing. I agree though that doing is greater than reading. Acta non verba. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/15 04:06 PM |
| 1 | RP therapist and/or mentor in Chicago area?A book like No More Mr Nice Guy will explain it to him much better than a few short posts on AskTRP. It will tell him why he feels like that, where these feelings are coming from, what to do about them and how to improve. All in greater, more fleshed out detail. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/15 03:28 PM |
| 3 | Should you be assertive when your woman/plate/LTR is flirty?Your behavior is unacceptable if you want to be me with me. Either drop it and behave yourself or get the fuck out of here If you state that and she keeps on doing it, what will you do? You're in no position to dump her because you admit to having no abundance mentality. If you state that these are your boundaries, but then don't enforce them because you're weak she will lose respect for you and will branch swing. Keep on lifting, reading and improving. Eventually you will have abundance mentali… | /r/askTRP | 24/08/15 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Body countWTF? You know her number already. It's 18 (multiply by 3.) Do not under any circumstances talk about your feelings and showing insecurity about her number. That is sure to dry up that pussy (for you) and send her number even higher. If you don't like her number, then plate her. Otherwise get over it. Edit: You can playfully tease her about the number and say that it doesn't include one night stands or hand jobs, blow jobs, etc. Then see what she says. Seriously though, going there might not be a… | /r/askTRP | 24/08/15 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Long HairBack in my blue pill days my wife cut her hair to something like this. Now that I've been red for a while and made her aware what I like it's something like this. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/15 02:33 PM |
| 3 | Help me stop being the "Nice guy"Read No More Mr Nice Guy by Robert Glover. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/15 02:28 PM |
| 3 | RP therapist and/or mentor in Chicago area?Look for therapists associated with No More Mr Nice Guy book and author Robert Glover. No therapists will openly associate with the red pill, but that book could be considered a red pill gateway. See: http://www.drglover.com/groups-for-men.html | /r/askTRP | 24/08/15 02:27 PM |
| 2 | We had the divorce talk last night. I need some advice.Almost as soon as we got married the sex dried up to once a month. Her reaction when I'd bought this up in the past, was that it was normal. I sucked it up for years. Last night I told her that I couldn't go on living like that. She said that she just never felt like sex That's a lie that she believes in (hamster.) Before she locked you down she was fucking you no problem. It's when she locked you down and you turned beta that the sex dried up. Keep doing what you're doing. Lift, pass shit tests… | /r/askMRP | 24/08/15 11:10 AM |
| 3 | wife wants new titsThe downvotes on this thread indicate that it's been posted to /r/thebluepill. I went to check. Sure enough, this thread has been brigaded by the blue pill. /u/mightcanbelight please be aware of that fact. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/08/15 10:42 AM |
| 2 | Told her I have a big dickYou've got nothing to worry about. You're roughly 40% larger than an average guy. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/15 09:34 PM |
| 2 | Flirting, what to do if they escalate?Could be a test, could be genuine. If you go through with it, chances are good your life as you know it will be over. | /r/askMRP | 23/08/15 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Losing fat first or gaining muscle or both at the same time?I've never seriously worked out before. At 13% abs were not at all visible. Not even a chance. That's why I'm bulking now. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/15 09:20 PM |
| 3 | wife wants new titsChances are greater Chad will be interested in her post surgery. Having said that, if I had the cash I'd probably spring that for my wife. Not of she wasn't fucking me though. Regular sex comes first. Titties come second. Op if she's not fucking you now, chances are good those titties are not going to be for your enjoyment. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/08/15 09:17 PM |
| 5 | LTR commitment issuesSounds like she's plating you dude. The girl is red pill as fuck. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/15 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Losing fat first or gaining muscle or both at the same time?When I started my weight loss I was at 26% body fat. I went down to ~10-13% body fat (depending on device) and then started bulking. At that point I was starting to lose strength and looked like skin and bones with still little fat on my stomach. Better than fat but definitely still not very attractive. I'm gonna bulk up to about 20% body fat, then go on a cut again. I'll try to stick between 14-20 cutting bulking until I'm about 165 at 14%. Currently I'm at 14.2% and weigh 146 pounds at 5'9. So… | /r/askTRP | 23/08/15 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Catch 22I've been thinking about it and you know we don't really have any info on what she does that is wifely behavior here. Just giving the benefit of the doubt. She's a rowing coach that wants to get back in the sport. Are these mixed teams or separated by sex. Are there other women there? Is this guy interested in doing it with her? Is assume your upper body would look absolutely ripped doing this. If not is this something that's going to make them see each other basically by the time they go to bed… | /r/askMRP | 22/08/15 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Catch 22She never would be. First of all AWALT, but also the fact that right now it's ambiguous. She may try to act as a cock block in case she gets drunk but at the end of the day she will support her sister no matter which guy she picks. Frankly the way op is describing it, if there are no kids he may just let his wife be happy and start fresh with someone who he may share interests with. This rowing, boating thing will continuously force them apart. She will be surrounded by guys and if it's not this… | /r/askMRP | 22/08/15 03:40 PM |
| 1 | The ultimate true story of a life long idiot beta who isn't going to take it anymore.I think by now you know that allot of her behavior was in fact your fault. If you haven't acted like a pussy beta she most likely would've still been your wife. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/08/15 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Catch 22Your post while disagreeing with most of us makes a whole shit load of sense. I guess there are two approaches to this. Either way the end result is that if she goes on a date with this dude, this relationship is just about over. She's branch swinging hard. He is more in her smv range, has the same hobbies, has not shown the weakness this guy has and is a better prospect for her. Briffault's law is about to take effect here. I think the guy is about 6 months too late in his red pill quest to pos… | /r/askMRP | 21/08/15 08:52 PM |
| 2 | Making me waitI think age plays a role. If she's a young virgin she may not be comfortable giving it up yet. If she's in her 20s and has had sex before and she's making you wait, I'd soft next her and keep playing the field. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/15 07:34 PM |
| 5 | Catch 22It's over dude. She is disappointed that you can't trust her when her intentions to branch swing are clear as day. At this point going to a concert with this dude is a hard no. Further interaction with him is a hard no. If she insists it's time for a lawyer not reddit as your marriage is over. | /r/askMRP | 21/08/15 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Catch 22Your reply is being very vague but very good at the same time. Your "boundaries" are bullshit and weak. I understand this as a response to the boundary he set to only sports related communication and her response of going to take that guy to a concert. That boundary just got bulldozed over. your response is to go out of your way to be cuck'ed more. That's a response to him preferring hanging with his buddies over going to the concert with her and wondering what to do when he found out that she w… | /r/askMRP | 21/08/15 02:24 PM |
| 3 | [Early phase] Negotiating sex?I was in your position (finished NMMNG, started MMSLP) when I came home and told my wife that I signed up for the gym. The talk went toward sex and I told her that I want it at least twice a week. That's not recommended for people here. It worked for me but I just got lucky. Sex went to about 4-5 times a week, after a week when we had it 7 times we both agreed that it was too much and 4-5 times would be the sweet spot. I had performance issues on day 7 and was worried about what I got myself int… | /r/askMRP | 21/08/15 12:13 PM |
| 1 | Am I too old to change?Early 30s is still before your prime. I have been regularly working out with a dedicated calisthenics regimen for the past year, but I am still about 30 pounds over-weight That's because you eat too many calories compared to how many you burn. Go to /r/keto or /r/loseit and figure out what your TDEE is and eat about 500 calories less per day (includes drinks.) That translates to a pound per week. You will be thin in less than 6 months. Also change your workout routine from calisthenics and start… | /r/askTRP | 20/08/15 04:58 PM |
| 0 | Did I lose frame with this girl?Her - What you mean next time? There won't be a next time Bye | /r/askTRP | 20/08/15 04:47 PM |
| 1 | LTR celibacy Shit test?You're doing well. Re-read the rational male. It's sex, then relationship. Women are gatekeepers of sex, men are gatekeepers of commitment. If she wants to withdraw sex, then you withdraw commitment. It couldn't be any simpler than that. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/15 02:16 PM |
| 3 | "I feel like your happiness is all that matters, and I'm along for the ride."Another issue with having babies late is that in recently published autism studies older age was linked to higher autism rates. The best time for healthy kids is when both parents are in their 20s. Also some women have a much harder time conceiving for the first time if they are above 30. | /r/askMRP | 20/08/15 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Alpha ProductivityIt's listed on Amazon for the price of $0.00 at that price I bought it and will list the review sometime after I read it. Just from description, this looks to be a time management / anti procrastination motivational book. At 60 pages long it shouldn't take too long to read but I'm reading Mark Manson's models right now so I'll get to it when I get to it. Edit: Procrastination is probably my biggest weakness right now (apart from being weak like a high school girl but I'm bulking now so I'm bound… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/08/15 11:41 AM |
| 2 | Phone PasswordThanks, I implied the phone lock screen as number 4. I should've made it more clear. I occasionally check my wife's phone (as she does mine) so if she did the three and then put on a new password I would think she's definitely cheating. | /r/askMRP | 19/08/15 10:11 PM |
| 2 | A good workout regimen for a gym rookie?I second this. Both programs are for rookies. Once you're done with SL 5x5 the recommended path is to do Madcow 5x5. So if you're skipping stronglifts alltogether you may want to look into Madcow. | /r/askMRP | 19/08/15 08:44 PM |
| 5 | Phone Password1) Started acting out of character. 2) Joined a gym. 3) Upgraded wardrobe. This is straight out of girl's playbook of what happens when she's cheating. You're laying on the dread a bit thick there. Search for bluepillprofessor's 12 levels of dread and make sure you're not jumping the levels. You want to fix whatever is wrong, not blow up the whole thing. | /r/askMRP | 19/08/15 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Need advice on how to maintain frame after disagreementYou need to read "when I say no, I feel guilty". Actually his girlfriend asked: She wanted to know why I was uncomfortable It immediately reminded me of WISNIFG. Op could have used it to have a productive conversation about it. Instead he shut down and ended up with an ultimatum. If he backs out he's a pussy and she loses respect for him. If he doesn't she might leave him. If he's unwilling to let her go he got himself into quite a bind. | /r/askMRP | 19/08/15 08:20 PM |
| 15 | Gabbi Reece describes how to keep an alpha male happyTo summarize she says: 1) Give him respect. 2) Keep his belly full and his balls empty. 3) Give him space. 4) Don't be a nagging harpy. I think we can all agree that by lifting, passing shit tests, having OI and taking care of your shit, your woman is automatically going to be doing the four above things. So it isn't some kind of a secret. Few women will be able to follow this if they have a beta at home. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/08/15 06:18 PM |
| 1 | TRP on MarriageYou're coming off wrong assumptions. You drop the kids off to daycare then pick them up after work. Millions of Americans do that everyday. I've done it. My brother's in law wife works in a hospital and makes more money than he is and both his kids spend the days in daycare. There is absolutely no need for a parent to stay home with the kids. The only reason one of the parents would stay home is by their choice. And that choice would be made if that parent made so little money that it would not … | /r/askTRP | 19/08/15 04:14 PM |
| 1 | TRP on MarriageTRP is against marriage for 2 reasons: 1) Lifetime alimony even if divorce is due to her cheating on you. Most states have no-fault clause in their divorce laws. 2) You lose half of everything you earned throughout the marriage. If she was a SAHM, you lose half of the shit you worked hard to earn. Most of TRP comes from a mindset that the man brings in more money to the marriage and will earn more throughout the marriage. In that case, getting married is a risk because in case of a divorce, half… | /r/askTRP | 19/08/15 02:59 PM |
| 2 | An article states im AbusiveCould be a comfort test then. Hug her, tell her you love her and have fun on her trip. Then proceed as usual. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/08/15 01:41 PM |
| 1 | An article states im AbusiveAre there kids involved? If not then what about her job? She's getting a vacation or leave of absence? If there is no job and no kids then let the leach go and start spinning plates. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/08/15 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Peak HypergamyI doubt the Peak will reach us in the 21st century. Maybe a 100, 200 years from now. Social changes like that take decades to materialize and right now the media is still on the page of oppressed women. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/08/15 11:49 AM |
| 2 | Keep at it, menAnd I thought I did good losing 45 in 6 months. 150 pounds is damn impressive but even more so that you have no loose skin. Congrats. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/08/15 10:30 PM |
| 2 | I (beta male, 30) got told that I was subhuman trash from my 33 yo GF for not wanting to marry her after 8 months of datingI may be beta but I will always be more "alpha" than every man that decides to get married I think Rollo Tomassi and Ian Underwood would disagree with that statement. Having said that, this woman was not a marriage material so good for you on standing your ground. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/15 02:30 PM |
| 1 | what is the best way to lose weight from the face?What's your body fat percentage? When you hit 13-15% you should be rid of fat from your face. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/15 11:51 AM |
| 5 | Question about working outGo to /r/bodyweightfitness and start their program. Get a pull up bar ($20 at Walmart.) Figure out your TDEE and eat at 300-500 surplus. When you get a job, find a gym with free weights and go there. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/15 11:48 AM |
| 2 | Time to set boundary?I believe that she is deeply in love with me and that she wouldn't dare cheat. Good luck with that. I wouldn't set any boundaries for now. If she knows you're exclusive then she knows what boundaries exist in exclusive relationships. If you start to micromanage from afar, she will tell you what you want to hear and do what she wants to do anyways. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/15 11:19 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend makes more money than me/u/IanIronwood just had a thread about it posted to married red pill. Basically you don't give a fuck that she earns more money. You are still the captain of the ship and she still likes it that way. Enjoy spending her money, if the situation was reversed she would enjoy spending yours. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/15 02:41 AM |
| 9 | Is a one-way open marriage unethical?It was downvoted because someone linked to it on thebluepill and they sent the downvote brigade on you. The mods here should have banned those fuckers. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/15 02:30 AM |
| 2 | Repost-O-Rama! The Praxeology Of The Dominant MaleGuess, I'll just keep it in my back pocket for the next time she reads my post history. If she starts looking for what is The Red Pill, reads some feminist propaganda I'll come back with that blog post, our life since I discovered TRP and rub it in her face. Our life has been so good since discovering this sub that I'm just giddy to share in the goodness sometimes. I've never mentioned this to anyone IRL so far and plan to keep it that way. At least plan to keep it for at least another 12-15 yea… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/08/15 06:24 PM |
| 3 | Repost-O-Rama! The Praxeology Of The Dominant MaleThis one for me was another homerun. My wife is aware of my post history, and vaguely aware of something called the red pill. I find myself wanting her to read this particular blog post. On the other hand I'm not sure that she knows that she is acting submissively towards me and making her aware of this might make her want to "rebel." The saving grace here is that there are inputs from two different women in that article. What do you think? After 6 months of red pill is it way too early? Should … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/08/15 04:58 PM |
| 2 | Vasectomy vs Tubal Ligation. That talk is coming for me.Again, I said No and she said, Ok, then I'll get my tubes tied we high fived life was glorious. That was a boundary I was willing to go to war over and I would have never backed down. She knew that and accepted it was either her or nothing. That was pretty much our approach as well until she talked to that friend of hers. Now that I know I can't get one for medical reasons that debate is pretty much over. I'm glad I asked here. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/08/15 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Vasectomy vs Tubal Ligation. That talk is coming for me.Wow, that must have been quite a trip. You had vasectomy, wife is "honey I'm pregnant." Must have been quite a slew of emotions going through your head. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/08/15 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Vasectomy vs Tubal Ligation. That talk is coming for me.I think that that's what I had. It was something about veins heating up testes too much. I'll have to look it up in my records but I'm pretty sure that that was it. Well that pretty much ends this whole debate. Thanks for the tip mate. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/08/15 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Vasectomy vs Tubal Ligation. That talk is coming for me.She has allergy to metal. Jeans with metal button give her a rash so she no longer wears them. Fake jewelry including silver gives her a rash, so it's got to be gold. An IUD which normally is made out of copper could cause bad complications. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/08/15 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Vasectomy vs Tubal Ligation. That talk is coming for me.It's not about being scared etc. When we were trying for kids I had a surgery in that area to cool my balls a bit and my wife had laparoscopy to remove some cysts from her ovaries or near that area. She did get infection around her belly button (that's how they got in) and about after a month all was healed and later she got pregnant. Me on the other hand I had bruising for about two weeks and my balls dropped lower, sometimes when fucking they slap and hurt and sometimes they hurt just from mov… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/08/15 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Married Red Pill Men, do you regret it?It depends on what your end goals were. For me marriage was to have someone to have kids and grow old with. In that context I do not regret it. Too much emphasis is placed on the risk. You risk your life driving to work everyday. There is risk in everything you do. Marriage is also a risk. That's why you should do you due dilligence vetting the person you're willing to tie the knot with. TRP and Married Red Pill gives you the tools to make sure that you still get laid in your marriage so in my o… | /r/askTRP | 17/08/15 01:38 PM |
| 2 | Career Beta Success Stories?I was a career beta with alpha traits throughout courting and first 5 years of marriage. Examples of alpha traits: 1) I never mate guarded or showed jealousy. Having said that she made it easy by never going out alone without me. 2) I had a motorcycle until a month before the wedding and active social life until the birth of my daughter 5 years into the marriage. 3) I was obese on my wedding day (5'9 200) but lost 40 pounds 2 years into my marriage. 4) I played sports and hung out with my male f… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/08/15 12:42 PM |
| 1 | When you become OI on staying or going, why stay?Do you love your wife and want to have kids with her? Does she add value to your life? If the answer to these questions is no then you know what you need to do. | /r/askMRP | 17/08/15 12:24 PM |
| 1 | New to MRP/AskMRP, just a few quick questions.I know i cannot go full captain in my relationship... Wrong mindset. Maybe you can't immediately go full captain because you've been passive for so long, but the end game is to be the full captain. Always strive for that. 50/50 relationships always end up with someone being the captain. You best make sure that your wife isn't one. Regarding anxiety disorder, I think that you will get the desired results by dread level 5. MMSLP talks about fitness tests. There are two categories to that that the … | /r/askMRP | 17/08/15 12:13 PM |
| 7 | Maybe I do want kids or an LTR?Just responding to you because this is top level response and people NEED to know this: op's advice about not running dread on your LTR is a horrible advice and is sure to get a guy stuck in deadbedroom and eventual divorce. There are 12 levels of dread (search for bluepillprofessor's 12 levels of dread.) For a healthy LTR/Marriage you have to be at dread level 5. 1) Recognize and pass shit tests. 2) Lift and don't be fat. 3) Have hobbies, preferably ones that take you out of the house. May be d… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/15 12:08 PM |
| 1 | Sex with pregnant wife.Not that large but she has complained that doggy style is not comfortable cause it's too long for her so we avoid that position. Anal is something I'll explore past this pregnancy. Her attitude about it has gone from no way in hell to maybe after the baby is born. I figure once I'm no longer skin and bones (will take at least couple of years) she will be totally open to the idea. Right now the bigger issue is that I want her to tie her tubes (supposedly easier right after pregnancy) and she want… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/08/15 08:46 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with wife asking questions?Let her read the book. The book is a guide, how much sex you expect is highly personal and depends on the reader and who he is fucking. Obviously if the wife is a hambeast the expectations won't be very high to begin with. | /r/askMRP | 16/08/15 11:31 AM |
| 1 | Woman leads you on but then says too tiredYou lost frame, did not show outcome independence, made empty threats and then reinforced her stance with your apologies. I think you need to get that reading done stat. | /r/askMRP | 16/08/15 11:28 AM |
| 2 | How to get my wife out of her sexual shell?It seems like she dismisses what you're telling her and is not very immersed. Could a very dominant approach allow her to drop her inhibitions and just give herself up? Maybe re-reading SGM would be the correct approach? I understand that she may SAY she doesn't like it, but how does she ACT while you're doing it? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/08/15 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Is this graph an accurate representation?The scales would be different for men and women. I think female desirability scale would be an inverse graph where top 30% of females would be competing for the top 5% of males. The other 30% of females would be competing for guys in 5% to 20% range. So you have 60% of females competing for top 20-30% of males. The losers of that race settle down with guys the don't really want to be with but pretty much have no choice unless they elect to stay single. Also I think there is a marked difference b… | /r/askTRP | 15/08/15 01:41 PM |
| 1 | What can I do if I haven't gone to college to get out of a shitty job and become self sufficient?Look for factory work. Lots of places will give you training, such as inspection CMM equipment, CNC machine operator, tool maker. These jobs at right places such as Pratt & Whitney, GE, etc can pay six figure salaries with over time. Not for beginners obviously, but after a decade or so on the job it's possible to get to that point. Place where I work I started with raking the lawn outside and cleaning up the yard behind the shop. A few weeks later I was inside the shop, cleaning up an old band … | /r/askTRP | 15/08/15 01:22 PM |
| 9 | The Cockroach Theory for Self-development Response Vs Reaction. (aka Frame Simplified)Your post reminded me of sitting in the traffic. There are people (I was like that before the birth of my daughter) that zip from one opening to another, increasing their tension and stress levels. They get irrationally angry (road rage) at others who might take actions so that they won't slip in ahead of them. The whole drive ends up very stressful, uses up lots of gas and at the end of it they are just about 100 feet ahead of me when the traffic finally starts moving. I noticed it myself back … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/08/15 01:00 PM |
| 3 | How to get my wife out of her sexual shell?WISNIFG suggestions on assertive communication might help with THE TALK. If you've read it already, it might be a good time to re-read the later chapters that deal with sexual issues between couples. I also think that your sex avoidance is causing more problems than it's fixing. She is probably a bit insecure in herself, especially if your SMV is miles above hers and may be psyching herself out of it a bit. Have you tried positive reinforcement during the sex act itself? Make her feel good about… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/08/15 12:49 PM |
| 5 | [Meta] Subreddit FragmentationI agree with you 100% I didn't even have askmrp in my subscription list until today. Honestly I was aware it was being created but after seeing 2 threads on it I kind of forgot all about it. I'll try to pay more attention to it now, but mrp is slow as it is already and some of the best advice is from the answers to victim puke newbie threads. On one hand it's shitty to remove that sub from its mods, but your suggestion with thread flares would fix allot of problems here. Other than that to help … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/08/15 03:45 AM |
| 4 | My priest to be cousin is in love with TRPYes that is a whole another challenge in itself. Red pill parenting is in its infancy. There are no guides. In a sense I'll be writing the book on that. It will be fairly simple with my boy. The Rational Male coupled with lifting and he will be up and running. My daughter though is 8 and already her favorite singer is Meghan Trainor. Fuck me, where do I even start? Me and my wife will try to instil her with traditional values. The church will help, but college, friends and media will try their h… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/15 03:21 AM |
| 5 | My priest to be cousin is in love with TRPI met her on her 16th birthday, I'm a real cradle robber. Seriously though our families were both from Eastern Europe where that kind of age difference is nothing out of the ordinary. Her father is 11 years older then her mom. We both have gone to schools in US though. So for me at first her age was a concern, both from the standpoint of social acceptance as well as her maturity. Just a year earlier I was going through a really hard time with my ex who was "discovering herself" and I fully expec… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/15 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Help me with OI long game (plus SAHM question)My guess is that your wife used to fuck swole dudes and you're not there yet so you're still the good ole beta buck. Track your food and keep lifting while bulking. Definitely DO NOT allow her to become a SAHM. You will get fucked over in a divorce. Frankly I wouldn't put up with saving the best and would just throw in the cards, but then again I don't walk in your shoes. I just know this shit would destroy my frame and I would never get out of the anger phase with such a woman. Knowing that she… | /r/askMRP | 14/08/15 09:18 PM |
| 2 | Intro and App RecommendationsI use: MyFitnessPal for weight loss (lost 45 pounds,) now weight gain as I'm bulking. Strong Lifts 5x5 for my workouts. Google calendar for reminders. Reddit Sync for you know, Reddit. Kindle for sidebar material. All on my phone. The first two apps also track your weight on graphs. | /r/askMRP | 14/08/15 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Period Sex.You're not taking care of your shit then. This needs to be fixed. | /r/askMRP | 14/08/15 09:03 PM |
| 3 | thrown by schizophrenic shit testYour wife behaved like a fucking alpha including moving on like everything is still fine and dandy. I love it. You should take an example from her behavior. | /r/askMRP | 14/08/15 08:51 PM |
| 2 | Need some help dealing with household chores.You are supposed to lead but you're not leading. The best leaders know how to delegate. You know what needs to get done, you tell her do the dishes, I'll do the laundry. Or do the laundry, I'll vacuum, etc, etc. You're going to mow the lawn? Say do x while I'm going to mow the lawn. Then we can go out, or go for a walk, or watch a movie, etc, etc. You need to delegate. If she refuses, THEN proceed onto the piles. Given that you can't really do the dishes in piles or the whole house will stink, y… | /r/askMRP | 14/08/15 08:40 PM |
| 22 | My priest to be cousin is in love with TRPMany men, even alphas go beta in LTRs. I am just as guilty of that. When I mentioned above that I wallowed between beta an alpha in my marriage I wasn't kidding. I was obese (5'9 200) and one month after 6 months unemployment on my wedding day. I sold my motorcycle to help pay for wedding and sold my new car a few months into the marriage cause we couldn't make ends meet. BJs stopped on wedding day, I kid you not. I knew I needed to change. I started hanging out more with my male friends and pla… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/15 07:19 PM |
| 3 | Starting From The BottomShit when you're saying starting from the bottom you ain't kidding. Your marriage is short so recovery road from beta to believable alpha should be shorter as well. While mate guarding is a bad beta behavior, what /u/ianironwood is suggesting is good because it buys you time to fix your shit before your wife does something there is no coming back from. Right now your newfound confidence will definitely be faking it until you make it. By now you know not to bring your problems home, but there is … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/08/15 05:48 PM |
| 1 | If you lead, she will follow. Pregnancy and weight gain...Congratulations! Try to get enough sleep. I was working full time and finishing college taking 12 credits at night the year my first was born. The first few weeks I tried taking alternate nights with my wife (she's not a SAHM) taking care of feeding and changing but eventually I was pooped. Talk about being squeezed finding time for sleep and homework! | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/08/15 04:41 PM |
| 5 | If you lead, she will follow. Pregnancy and weight gain...LOL, everything in moderation...unless you're dirty bulking. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/08/15 04:26 PM |
| 31 | My priest to be cousin is in love with TRPit made me start thinking of the role religion used to play in reinforcing gender roles and family structure. My marriage is like that. Met my wife when she was 16 (I was 21,) took her virginity, vetted her for almost 5 years (my ex gf whom I left at 20 was a great teacher of hypergamy.) Got married in a big church wedding. Wobbled between bluepill and red pill through my marriage, finally discovered TRP after 12 years of marriage and never looked back. It can be done but you need to find the ri… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/15 03:18 PM |
| 1 | RP Works. Example of frame and distanceShe instinctively wanted a RP man. AWALT. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/08/15 08:40 PM |
| 1 | RP Works. Example of frame and distanceGood job then. Reading small snippets one rarely gets a full picture. I thought for sure there that your marriage was done. Keep up doing what you're doing then. You're getting the desired results. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/08/15 08:28 PM |
| 1 | [FR] The Call of the CarouselSounds to me like instead of negging, you dissed her. She in turn showed you that she moved on to bigger and better things. HB8 at 21 is moving into the peak of her SMV. You aren't going to be able to compete with that for another decade. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/15 08:10 PM |
| 3 | Dealing with deliberate sabotage/ advice needed; wife deliberately making herself undesireableIn no unclear terms let her know that you and pretty much 99% of straight men find women more attractive with long hair. Don't argue, just state that fact and walk away. Hit the gym or something. Let her stew on that for a while. DO NOT APOLOGIZE later for hurting her feelings. She is responsible for this and this shit test requires an answer that yes, you do look fat in these pants... | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/08/15 07:56 PM |
| 3 | RP Works. Example of frame and distanceIs it the same wife that 5 days ago found out you were spying on her computer and phone, left home and said she wanted a divorce? So what happened in the 5 days between that thread and this one? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/08/15 07:50 PM |
| 3 | Oh god my sister is a dumb feministI think those hard questions may cause her to read more and do some self reflection. It's a good thing you did there. She got angry and left because she had no answers, just blind belief. She may not be so blind anymore. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/15 11:51 AM |
| 2 | Post SelectionKids and financial reasons are pretty damn good reasons why. Anytime you read something in the news about shit happening to kids, you then hear how the mommy is not with the daddy but some boyfriend. Also in a divorce when you have two or more kids, usually mommy gets the kids and 60% of your income through child support and alimony. Sure the 40% is more than you normally would have left in your marriage, but now you have to support another household with that 40% and when all is said and done y… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/08/15 11:42 AM |
| 1 | Marriage is in trouble, ready to leave, need a crash course to handle a big talk tomorrow.MMSLP is useful once you look the part. She won't be down for the 10 second kiss anytime soon. You should have started with No More Mr Nice Guy, get a diet, join a gym, then move onto MMSLP. Depending on how bad it is, The Mindful Attraction Plan may give you ideas on the long game. The Rational Male, Year One is a fucking gold mine of information. You should not have THE TALK, until you've been at it for at least a year. By then you will have removed any covert contracts (discussed in depth in … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/08/15 11:13 AM |
| 11 | [Mod Announcement] No more posts only saying how "X Time since I took the pill" with a useless field reportMRP is not a support group. One of NMMNG advices is to find a support group. I always felt that MRP was a good substitute for one. This subreddit can be very slow sometimes. Is your goal to keep it that way? I agree with your suggestion about quality posts. Make it more concise and sticky it up top similar to what TRP did recently. I just wish you would reevaluate the "MRP is not a support group" stance. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/08/15 11:30 AM |
| 3 | Wife is Showering Right After Sex and Won't Have The Lights On. What do I Make of This?I and my wife always shower in the evening, no matter if there will be sex or not. Then there is never excuses that she hasn't showered or that I'm not shaved. Also you think you're 30 pounds overweight and just lost 7.When you go on a cut you usually lose 5 right off the bat the first week, then you lose about a pound or 2 a week. You need to have a plan and execute it so that you lose the other 30 in 15 weeks. Go to /r/loseit or /r/keto and see what you need to do. Weigh your food and count yo… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/08/15 04:27 PM |
| 3 | How to deal with a bi cheating situation?No you are wrong. There 100% is an open marriage on her end. You're not willing to walk away because you still love her and want both parents taking care of your daughter. I get that. Going to the cleaners would suck as well. I get that too. Why don't you change some of your cardio to lifting and hit up Tinder and do what you always wanted to do. I get that your wife is against it because that would endanger her money train, but you owe it to yourself to see what's out there and get some abundan… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/08/15 04:12 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with a bi cheating situation?How long have you lurked? What have you read from the sidebar? Are you lifting? Realistically, she's not getting wet for you but she is for another person, woman or not, she's getting tingles from another source. I doubt the other girl will be dtf so you're shit out of luck. Hit the gym, read this sidebar plus trp sidebar and prepare to start getting some plates. If she can fuck others so can you. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/08/15 03:25 PM |
| 2 | Field report : My experience with a bbw/ Landwhale online community part 1 [Long post]Don't forget, in their natural habitat. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/15 11:02 AM |
| 1 | MovingIf you were red pill for a while, your wife would be more ready to trust in you and your ability to provide. Right now you are putting your family's well being in jeopardy and she doesn't like it cause she's not sure you can pull it off. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/08/15 10:40 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - August 04, 2015You gained weight by eating more than you're burning. You won't outrun a donut. Eat more sensibly or you won't lose any weight. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/08/15 03:22 AM |
| 11 | AWALT Gentlemen... AWALT!I can take my wife to the bathroom and get a blow job while my daughter is a couple rooms down watching the tv. Why the fuck did you lock yourself? To fap? Let her in, lock the doors and get a quickie. Regarding being grateful, rational male should have disillusioned you of that notion. You're expected to work hard. Now that she knows just how hard you can work she will expect more of it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/08/15 03:17 AM |
| 1 | Plate breaks up with boyfriend.. How to respond to text?Like The Rational Male says: women would rather share an alpha than be with the beta. She will be your plate. If you don't commit, she likely may get back with the ex but will still be seeing you on the side. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/15 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - August 04, 2015I'm struggling with a decision on whether to continue my weight loss or start bulking. Today after sex my wife went on a 5 minute rant how she found me more attractive at 160 than I am now at 143. I'm 5'9 so it's pretty much small albeit defined muscles but small enough that's it's skin and bones and not much else. Except that I still have the last vestiges of blubber left on top of the six pack which makes it invisible. I've been lifting for 6 months now, stuck at no gains for 4 because of heav… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/08/15 02:19 AM |
| 2 | Dalrock on "Who Loves Best?"Good article to read after Rollo's. The rational male article is very good but I always felt that something was missing. Like for example how do you explain women stand by their ailing husband until the bitter end or daughter's love for her father, etc, etc. Together they give a good idea of reality. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/08/15 02:06 AM |
| 1 | I want to be a better girlfriendReally, this is the best and simplest advice. | /r/askTRP | 08/08/15 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Are there any dedicated Red Pillers here who have been with the same women for 20 years or so with no infidelity?The problem with this question is two-faced. The red pill has not existed for 20 years. Also men can never be 100% sure the woman has never cheated on him. I've been married 13 years, together 18 years. I met her on her 16th birthday, was her first everything except for a hand job she gave some guy before she met me. Now that's what she says. Chances are it's true but AWALT? Throughout our relationship she has not given me any reasons for insecurity or to suspect her of cheating. No GNOs, no guy… | /r/askTRP | 08/08/15 02:57 PM |
| 2 | MRP updates..roughly 2 months inThere was a thread on TRP about 666 guys. 6'3, 6 pack and 6 figure income. You've got one in back pocket. Work on the other 2 and you've got it made. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/08/15 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Wife found out I am spying on her. She wants a divorce.Judges biased against men in divorce courts often have less of a bias when a female attorney is representing a man. At least that's what has been mentioned previously on TRP. Regardless, you should be talking to an attorney right now. She left the marital home with you as the sole caretaker of the kids. If she pursues this, you will divorce rape her, not the other way around as the kids will end up in your care. You really should be focusing on protecting your kids and your interests. SHE IS CHE… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/08/15 09:15 PM |
| 2 | Wife found out I am spying on her. She wants a divorce.It's not like she apologized to you for cheating. She was attempting a branch swing, you found out, she decided to complete it. You need The Red Pill more than MRP. Your marriage is over and that you're trying to keep it together despite knowing that she's fucking another guy shows that you're in the hold of oneitis. Divorce, six pack, tinder and you will be drowning in pussy. 6 months later when she finds out the grass isn't greener she will be back and hopefully by that time you won't be in su… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/08/15 08:42 PM |
| 2 | Vanity Fair's "Tinder and The Dawn of the Dating Apocalypse" is chock-full of RP truthsAs a father to an 8 year old girl that is a worry I have. Her favorite artist is already Meghan Trainor, that overweight bitch singing about riding carousel and her future husband. I have a boy on the way as well. He will be brought up with the red pill knowledge and I'll explain to my daughter the thought process of 20 young men, but you know how it is with kids listening to their parents. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/15 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Getting in shape guidance: keto for cutting?Since I started doing squats and deadlifts my occasional back pain (I'm 39) has been completely eliminated. I guess it could be from the fact that I also lost 40 pounds of fat I've been carrying, but I think it's a combination of the two. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/08/15 05:48 PM |
| 2 | Shit Test response requestI see how it can look like that. You could always tell her to give you a kiss instead. Then when she gets to you, you grab her and playfully escalate. If it's a hard no it's a hard no but by playfully escalating you're showing outcome independence. Edit: I up-voted your post for good constructive criticism. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/08/15 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Shit Test response requestAnd the answer to that is Yep! | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/08/15 05:03 PM |
| 1 | All you care about is BJsMy wife got a 1st chapter preview audiobook of NMMNG, it eased her mind. She thought it was a PUA book on how to become a cocky asshole. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/08/15 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - August 04, 2015WISNIFG was tedious but still worth a read. I don't really have any immediate problems. Wife is pregnant, I'm passing shit and comfort tests, home is good, respect is good. I'm losing weight still, maybe 5-10 pounds to six pack but it's falling off like clockwork. Then it's bulking time. I picked models because I've read on TRP that it's similar to The Way of Superior Man but better. It's also rated higher on Amazon FWIW. Next on the reading list will be 48 laws of power. After I'm done with sid… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/08/15 04:29 PM |
| 4 | Getting in shape guidance: keto for cutting?You want to do some squats in that routine or you'll have dis-proportioned chest and arms with chicken legs. Squats will also workout your core muscles. Not that I'm an expert but squats are main staple of pretty much every recommended lifting routine. Edit: Regarding keto, I've heard some good things about it on Reddit. I haven't done it because my routine has been working great for me (MyFitnessPal with just meeting calories and macros) but many others have had good things to say about it here… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/08/15 03:18 PM |
| 2 | X post from asktrp: Initiating with the wifeSeriously MMSLP and SGM both give you some tips. Ian's blog has some tips as well. But really is about kino throughout your interactions setting the stage for escalation when both of you are free. Go to YouTube and look for examples of teasing and pua game. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/08/15 02:08 AM |
| 1 | [rant]Wife's plan backfiresMore reason to give mrp, lifting and side bar material a try. You may get a nice wife out of it, sex on demand, respect, keep you kids and money. You literally have nothing to lose by trying. Give it 6 months and see how it goes. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/08/15 02:03 AM |
| 2 | The Damn Pajama Problem (aka Boner Deflators)Any suggestion where to buy something nice she can wear nightly? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/08/15 01:52 AM |
| 4 | Married Beta friend desperately needs the Red Pill; are there any good books which consolidate TRP well for married people or LTRs?Are you married? Books from mrp side bar totally changed my life. | /r/askTRP | 07/08/15 01:46 AM |
| 3 | Married Beta friend desperately needs the Red Pill; are there any good books which consolidate TRP well for married people or LTRs?No more mr nice guy and married man sex life primer. Have to be read in that order. Sure both are from mrp's side bar but both are worth the money. Just after those 2 alone my marriage did a complete 180. | /r/askTRP | 07/08/15 01:44 AM |
| -1 | What does TRP think of open relationships?Open from your side? Why not. Plenty of people have it here. Open from hers means not much respect for you. That's how AWALT mind works. | /r/askTRP | 07/08/15 01:41 AM |
| 8 | Is there a wall for men?Ask Hugh Hefner. | /r/askTRP | 07/08/15 01:37 AM |
| 1 | Is this normal at school?Read 48 laws of power. Law 38 - Think as you like but behave like others. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/15 07:38 PM |
| 1 | I turned down sex last night. Am I doing this wrong?I may try that after the pregnancy is over. 5 months to go then a few more for recovery. No more kids in our future after that one. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/08/15 06:08 PM |
| 1 | I turned down sex last night. Am I doing this wrong?I disagree with that. In her mind it has been ok to reject him for sex since the beginning of the relationship. Now though this is something new as tables have turned. I think that helps with oi in cases of future rejections. Now she knows that you may not be forcing oi but rather you truly are. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/08/15 06:06 PM |
| 2 | Main Event in Slow MotionShe isn't coming up with a list because 1) She doesn't know your intentions (thinks you're preparing to leave) and may have given up on being able to keep you. 2) Doesn't see a way to reach the goals she would like to reach. What I'd do is tell her about the beta and that it is not something you're willing to entertain. Then sit down and make a plan with her. Hire a high school girl to babysit three nights a week while BOTH of you hit the gym. Sign her up with MFP and put her on a diet to hit yo… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/08/15 04:20 PM |
| 3 | I turned down sex last night. Am I doing this wrong?Athol Kay in MMSLP says to never turn down sex, but sometimes she needs to know what you're not willing to put up with. In that instance jumping through hoops until she's ready and your eyes struggle to stay open is something that I'd 50/50 either take her on or reject her as well. I rejected my wife a few weeks back too. She decided that wearing her decidedly unsexy pajamas and getting neck deep under covers was foreplay enough for her to get me to initiate. I was tired after gym, said fuck tha… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/08/15 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - August 04, 2015Finally done with WISNIFG. Not crazy about the book but it does give some good examples of how to deal with issues without blowing up the house. Not bad but damn tedious. Skipping the way of superior man in favor of Models. After that I'll look into 48 laws of power though I'm afraid that will be another tedious one. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/08/15 12:03 PM |
| 1 | Proof she needs a captain.I like going to the church (Catholic.) Simple fact is that it teaches you accountability and compassion. Basically it's old school and in this day and age it's a good example to set for your kids. Drinking is your failure. Sure having a social drink or few is fine, but losing control and getting shitfaced is not. You don't want her to have to take care of you cause you're drunk. That was one of my failures before TRP. Your wife's sister is a fucking psycho. Talking about demons and exorcising yo… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/08/15 11:58 AM |
| 1 | Lost Frame, Need HelpAgree and amplify to the you only want sex shit test. Other than that read the sidebar and internalize it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/08/15 12:34 AM |
| 2 | Dealing with past promiscuity the MRP way - continue to ignore it or confront it?You are wrong in this belief. For women with high partner count it's no more special than going hiking together. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/08/15 08:05 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Turned down affair with co-worker. Still not sure if it was a good or bad idea.You posted here 8 months ago. In this time what have you read from the sidebar? Have you been lifting? How is your SMV compared to your wife's? Where in the MAP are you? Out of the 12 stages of dread, what stage are you in? Is she fucking you? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/08/15 06:30 PM |
| 6 | Dealing with past promiscuity the MRP way - continue to ignore it or confront it?What do you want to accomplish by pointing out her past slutty behavior? Do you want her to admit how great you are that you swooped just in time to become the captain save a ho? Do you want to show your moral superiority that she was a slut and you were always the nice guy? Do you want her to atone for her past mistakes and do a penance? Do you want her to reassure you that you're the best she had and she has given her sexual best to you? Yeah, you and we all know that that would be a lie so wh… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/08/15 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Apparently a womans book was rejected but under a male name it was accepted?Too many variables. The manuscript might not have been read by the same people, the publisher may have had too many books under that category at the time it was first submitted, etc, etc, etc. One time occurrence doesn't prove anything. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/15 12:43 PM |
| 2 | Landlord asking for money on my last day to pay for "damages"Painting and carpet cleaning CAN NOT be used as damages. I'm renting one of my properties and looked into it already. These costs are something that landlord has to eat. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/15 12:39 PM |
| 2 | 95% sure GF lied, considerable backstory included... how to bring it up without seeming like a jealous beta bitch?This op. You plate her, it's obvious she's doing it to you. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/15 12:36 PM |
| 1 | Mum about to divorce my pop for a beta, help me figure this out?Maybe your pops is not fucking her and the beta is more than happy to. You don't know all the variables that go on in the bedroom. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/15 12:31 PM |
| 1 | X-Post from TRP. Womens stages of infidelity.Your account is 2 days old and you've posted some of the best stuff I've read in months. Thank you. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/08/15 11:20 AM |
| 2 | Prime amused mastery examples.And she still wouldn't be a 10. I agree on the 7. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/08/15 08:23 PM |
| 1 | My gf dumped me and after rubbing it in that she has such a better social life.Why are you still in contact with her? Go no contact, focus on yourself. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/15 03:24 PM |
| 2 | Ltr found out I'm reading TRP what to do?You need to read marriedredpill sidebar and implement it into your life. TRP is woefully underprepared in helping guys with LTRs. Too much emphasis is placed on plate spinning and too little on what you do once in an LTR. Assumption is that plates drop off and to just accept it. What happened in your situation is basically summed up in you losing frame. You lost frame by defending your position. If you're defending your position, that means you entered her frame and argued your reading TRP from … | /r/askTRP | 04/08/15 03:23 PM |
| 1 | The Quick FixI'm nearing 40. 20 years ago dating scene was much different than it is now. Marriages to high school sweethearts were more common, college wasn't something nearly everyone did. Also my ex gave me an education in women like you wouldn't believe. After her I was careful who I would go for in an LTR and when I did start dating my wife I was fully expecting her to turn into my ex. I never pedestalized her or made her the center of my world until we actually got married 5 years later. The year we go… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/08/15 06:52 PM |
| 3 | The Quick FixI do not agree that just being a man will be enough. When we were dating she gave me road head and swallowed. The day of the wedding blow jobs stopped. The sex was drying up to once a month and blow jobs were on birthday if I was lucky. She also wasn't interested in having a second child with me. She would list a bunch of my failings for why it wasn't gonna happen. After discovering TRP and reading NMMNG, MMSLP and hitting the gym bam, I'm getting plenty of head and she's pregnant again. So no, … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/08/15 04:49 PM |
| 1 | The Quick FixI am in marriage 1.0 situation in marriage 2.0 world. Met my wife on her 16th birthday. She was a virgin, I was after a 2 year relationship with a ho. We married 5 years later. I took my sweet time because I wanted to make sure she wasn't gonna turn into my ex. She moved from her parent's home directly to ours. Been that way 13 years since. She has no exes, doesn't do GNOs and works despite being pregnant with our second. I discovered TRP by accident on relationships sub and it resonated with me… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/08/15 02:04 PM |
| 2 | First budget discussion leads to minor meltdownwe needed to have a separate category for her vacations to go see her friends. This is what stood out to me. Sounds like she wants GNOs with her firends way the fuck in another time zone. That would scream red flag to me. It would be a hard boundary and I would not give an inch on this. But that's just me. We could go together but she's not going by herself. Everything else is just mundane shit that you can negotiate between yourselves. This I would be weary of. But that's just me, if you're fin… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/08/15 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Commitment before sex?Read The Best of Rational Male – Year One Or specifically in answer to your question Iron Rule #3 titled Wait For It. Rollo Tomassi can explain it better than I ever will. From your question it's obvious that you have not put in the time and work required to unplug and are looking for shortcuts. There are no shortcuts. Either you learn and implement or set yourself up for failure. | /r/askTRP | 01/08/15 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Commitment before sex?What about AWALT is it that you don't understand? You want to be classified as a beta buck? Go ahead and give your commitment freely. If you're a high value man, she will work for your commitment and her pussy will be an open access to you and you only. How are you going to properly vet a girl if you give out commitment like a common street whore gives up her pussy? What kind of respect do you think she will have for your commitment if she didn't have to work for it at all? | /r/askTRP | 01/08/15 11:25 AM |
| 4 | LTR - I make the money, I lift, I keep myself in good shape but can't initiate sexMarriedRedPill works for married guys and guys in LTR. You need to read No More Mr Nice Guy and Married Man Sex Life Primer. I assume you've read some sidebar material from the main TRP sub. If not then get reading. There are no shortcuts in this and LTR is TRP on intermediate mode. Marriage is TRP on hard mode. You shouldn't get married in the first place but if you do, definitely not until you've mastered TRP on intermediate mode, one you find yourself in. So read No More Mr Nice Guy first, Ma… | /r/askTRP | 01/08/15 11:19 AM |
| 2 | Friends problem.Men develop social circle through achievements. You need to join some sports or other activities men do together such as yachting, BJJ, bowling etc. Once you're part of a team and you prove yourself you will develop friends. Then through continued camaraderie and opening yourself up when for example you need help or helping them with something such as moving, working on a car etc you develop a bond. You may never develop a "best friend" relationship but you will develop some very close ones. | /r/askTRP | 01/08/15 11:10 AM |
| 6 | ltr with lmrIf she does LMR, then tell her to GTFO. Grow a set op. She fucked a guy on a break and like a pussy you took her back. You're TRP aware but you're acting like a total beta. Hit the gym, get some plates and stop begging for scraps. | /r/askTRP | 31/07/15 03:20 PM |
| 2 | She is texting other dudesIs she a plate or a girlfriend? If she's a plate she is trying to dread you to extract exclusivity. If she is a girlfriend then downgrade her to a plate. | /r/askTRP | 31/07/15 01:38 PM |
| 0 | Is it a red flag if a girl would rather focus on her career than have kids?Yes it's a red flag if you want to have kids. 27 is old for the first kid and by the time you're married and ready she will be 30. By the time she actually has the first one she may not want another and if she did the older she is the higher the chance for a kid with autism or down syndrome, etc. If you want kids I'd say downgrade her to a plate and keep looking. | /r/askTRP | 31/07/15 01:35 PM |
| 2 | Should I go to event with cold DBR wife?Once you read course prerequisites from the sidebar, then start on The Mindful Attraction Plan both the book and your actual plan of action. Your low SMV is a problem. You need to do better than 12 pounds in 6 months (since you claim you swallowed the pill.) Get my fitness pal and religiously count your calories. You could have lost 50 pounds by now and had an entirely new wardrobe. You with a six pack, new clothes and new attitude will 9 out of 10 times have a higher SMV than your wife assuming… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/07/15 05:46 PM |
| 2 | Should I go to event with cold DBR wife?when arguing my wife would often mock me and tell me I wasn’t a man. Over the last several months my wife has pulled back a lot with many arguments. She turned off location tracking on her phone… Sounds to me like she has no respect for you(you're not a man,) threw in the towel on the marriage (pulling back in arguments) and is cheating on you (turned off location tracking.) She probably has a password on her phone too. Have you been lifting? Are you fit or fat? What is your BMI? How is your SMV… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/07/15 05:14 PM |
| 2 | Minor nuke eventWell when I was reading NMMNG I was a freshly unplugged rookie. I still had no idea what I was doing, I just started reading it. I am not going to hide my phone from her as if I was cheating so when she wanted to see what I was reading I showed her. Lucky break with outcome independence there I guess. Since then she has even seen my posts on Reddit. I don't hide this from her. I don't need to. That's what outcome independence is. She knows my thoughts and beliefs and she has a choice to either s… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/07/15 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Minor nuke eventRegarding letting her know what you're reading, I'd like input from the mods but my wife knows I read NMMNG. She downloaded an audiobook demo (1st chapter only) just because she thought I was reading a book on how to become an asshole. After listening to it, she kind of calmed down. Also MMSLP is kind of written with a woman in hindsight. I think these are ok for the wife of a freshly unplugging guy to see. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/07/15 01:05 PM |
| 2 | Yesterday my wife's 30 day not asking for sex moratorium is over...what to do now?3 pounds in 30 days is almost nothing and could be affected by water retention. You need more discipline than that. 3000 calorie deficit in a week will translate to 9 pounds of weight loss in a month. Eat roughly 1825 calories per day (calculated with sedentary activity levels) and in four months when you weigh 160 you might have a six pack. Edit: Actually eat at around 1600 per day so that you have a buffer for weekend parties, cookouts etc. That way you can cheat on your diet and still hit you… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/07/15 02:51 PM |
| 2 | [Advice Needed] - I'm losing attraction to my wife and I'm not sure how I should handle itYou're losing weight. Is she? That could be your answer. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/07/15 12:44 PM |
| 3 | Yesterday my wife's 30 day not asking for sex moratorium is over...what to do now?I hate text game. IE it works short time when she reads it she may get in the mood, but by the time you're both out of work it doesn't mean shit and just leads to potential covert contract situation. I don't contact my wife when I'm at work unless she contacts me first or I need to contact her about something important. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/07/15 12:26 PM |
| 1 | DisciplineSpanking is fine, I never had to and most likely never will resort to whipping. I was spanked as a kid and I turned out fine. I spank my daughter (incredibly seldom, maybe once a year but the threat of spanking works just as well) and she is a happy and well behaved child. I have seen the little monsters that never get spanked and they treat their parents as doormats and do whatever the fuck they want. Thanks, but no thanks. | /r/RedPillParenting | 29/07/15 12:06 PM |
| 1 | Lift and/or Cardio?I lift 3x a week doing Stronglifts 5x5 and count calories. As a hobby I ride my bike about once-twice a week. You can definitely outrun/outride a donut, but it won't be easy. After a 38 mile ride (on rest day) I went to a birthday party, had bunch of food, beer, shots, ice cream you name it. The next morning I haven't gained a pound. Normally a party like that would give me a 2 pound penalty. But here's the thing, you can't do cardio for more than an hour unless you totally enjoy it. Running for… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/07/15 11:56 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 28, 2015I treat cycling as a sort of hobby. I enjoy it for the experience, cardio is just an added bonus. I never do it at the gym though if I did I know those hills would get much shorter. As far as tests go, I agree that they are most likely comfort tests. Frankly with less sex I've been less flirty and have almost cut out any form of kino. Kind of like a vicious circle if you will. Without sex what are we but coparenting roommates? But yesterday there would have been sex, it's just that I didn't want… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/07/15 01:58 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 28, 2015Pregnant wife, news from doctor last week about possible complications (10% chance) caused stress and no sex for 2 weeks now. Yesterday she wanted it but as we were about to start she was in her crappy pajamas (the kind of like sweat pants and Victoria secret sleep shirt that effectively hides any curves) and instead of taking them off she went under covers. Her feeling self conscious of starting to show the belly could be the cause but her hiding herself effectively turned me off. She expected … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/07/15 01:33 PM |
| 5 | Long time lurker, first post..This op. It makes it easier to kick her out if things go sour and at this point they almost assuredly will go that way if you get back together. It also makes it easier to stay in your frame since it is YOUR apartment, not hers. Finally you get what you want and don't have to listen to her hamstering that she likes another place better. Just go get your own place. Ps. Why does she have to nag you to wash your teeth? You should be on top of your hygiene and personal grooming. If she has to nag yo… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/07/15 08:06 PM |
| 13 | Wife offered a hall pass (after she cheated)She claims she just wanted to see how he aged. Hope you're not buying that excuse. Also what about the other guy? You wrote that she fucked two. If you are dead set on staying with her for now then do not take the hall pass and even if you do, do not take it with a prostitute. If you do take it, prove to yourself that you can take it with a mid 20s chick you picked up on your own, not with a whore whose approval you got from your wife. So for now keep it in your back pocket, get shredded and get… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/07/15 04:20 PM |
| 12 | Wife offered a hall pass (after she cheated)Hope you at least got a paternity test done. They are like $25 at Walgreens plus $100 for lab processing. So your wife trickled truths you about fucking dudes before you married her and your whole family knew and no one respected you enough to tell you. Frankly I don't know how you can still call these people your family. Just for that level of deception I'd fucking cut them all off, divorce that whore and split custody of the kids. Fuck the hall pass. That ain't gonna get you even when you've h… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/07/15 03:53 PM |
| 2 | What are some good and interesting hobbies?My daughter (8) just started guitar lessons. She usually goes with her grandma, I went with her last week. I have to say it was very interesting. Definitely a cool hobby. In thinking of doing it myself (currently wife pregnant with second and I do gym and cycling) but money is tight, guitars are expensive and time is always short. Damn fucking excuses. I may just do it. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/15 12:12 PM |
| 6 | Sex in publicThat's why it's funny to hear hamster excuses of blah blah blah for why she can't have sex. If she wants you bad enough she will find a way to get your dick wet. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/15 12:06 PM |
| 3 | How screwed am I?One of trp tenets is not to rely on the woman for birth control. You're 50% screwed. Ie she either gets pregnant or not. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/15 12:03 PM |
| 44 | Reddit's hate for TRPYes, there was a thread on TRP about it. Subs frequented by women and white knights are notorious for hating on the red pill. They think we're misogynistic women haters. I don't give a fuck though. I have one account, my wife knows my account and has read my messages and since finding TRP and implementing the self improvement plan we've had more sex in the last 5 months than during the last 10 years of our marriage. So don't worry about it and just improve and don't be afraid to share your opini… | /r/askTRP | 25/07/15 11:45 AM |
| 3 | Well fellas, I might have been way too late for MRP...I think WISNIFG is what you need. This book is on assertiveness training and is quite tedious Tedious is putting it mildly, I can't seem to finish it. It bores me to death. I've read close to 200 books in the year and a half before finding TRP. Read NMMNG in about a day and this one just seems to mock me. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/07/15 10:10 AM |
| 0 | Sex with ex, not me?He's doing it right. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/07/15 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Sex with ex, not me?Did this happen before or after you committed (with the ring?) Seems to me like when she became sure of your commitment she decided she didn't need to do the anal. Maybe she's truthful that she never liked it but if she never like it then she never would have done it with you. This to me sounds more like she doesn't have to "work" to have your commitment anymore so she only does what she likes best now. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/07/15 08:01 PM |
| 2 | New to RP, seeking advice on drunken behaviorI disagree. He wrote that she gets drunk when they are drinking, not that she drinks by herself. The only problem she has is that when she gets tipsy she doesn't stop and just gets hammered and then starts being disrespectful and flirting with others. She can learn to start having coffee or just juices with ice and no alcohol when she gets tipsy. I was just like her in where I got tipsy I never stopped and ended up getting hammered. I discovered the red pill, got my life under control and stoppe… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/07/15 03:07 PM |
| 4 | New to RP, seeking advice on drunken behaviorStandard red pill operating procedure is when she publicly puts you down and flirts with others you immediately next her. Unfortunately you fucked up and married her. Your wife has no respect for you other than the money you bring in, so when she's sober she is the perfect wife, after all she needs to keep the money train rolling. When she's drunk her true opinion of you comes out and she has no problem flirting with others. After all she's horny for an alpha cock and you sir are not an alpha. A… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/07/15 01:05 PM |
| 2 | My beginnings here and need help with kid related shit tests.I generally divide new guys to MRP in two camps. Right on the money there. This leads directly to your great post about the three dysfunctional captains. The kind of advice you give here is invaluable to this guy. He is firmly in the third example where his wife is the captain and he has a long road ahead of him. He needs to read the prerequisites and then the MAP from RP101. It will take about a year if he applies himself but the rewards will be so worth it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/07/15 12:33 PM |
| 3 | My beginnings here and need help with kid related shit tests.There is nothing red pill you can do to convince her to do this now. What needs to happen is for you to take control of the relationship, make her respect you again and THEN she will WANT to do this for you. So what you should do is follow the blueprint that /u/jacktenofhearts laid out for you. It took allot of time and thought on his part and he just gave it to you for free. That is the kind of invaluable advice you won't get anywhere else. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/07/15 12:23 PM |
| 1 | How to handle thisMake calls to a couple local daycare places, sign them up for daycare and send her ass to work. I to this day don't understand how people are just fine with slaving away at work while their wife stays home and plays with the kids doing shit all day and spending maybe an hour or two cleaning the house (and sometimes refuses to even do that.) That is just pure bullshit. Edit: I spent my childhood weekdays in daycare even though I lived with my grandparents cause my single mom preferred to live alo… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/07/15 11:49 AM |
| 2 | How can I ace a power struggle shit test?It's a passive aggressive move to force you to sleep with her in the master bedroom. You could consider this to be a power struggle shit test. Either sleep with her in the master bedroom or be an asshole and tell these friends that you don't have the room. That will make your wife to flip her shit, but she won't go over your head again. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/07/15 11:44 AM |
| 9 | Dealing with BBs. Now it's affecting our marriage.Smile and tease her about "trying to keep up with the Joneses." If she persists, shut it down. You are doing enough and if she doesn't like it she is free to go to work to bring in extra. Daycare is less than 400 per week with discounts for multiple kids. Let her work for her money and she will STFU about keeping up with the Joneses. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/07/15 06:56 PM |
| 4 | Remember the guy who dumped his fiance because she would only hold his hand after being raped but fucked her co-worker? Well here's the update...Don't underestimate the power a pussy has over a guy that hasn't gotten any in over a year. He is not leaving her now no matter what. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/15 12:17 PM |
| 2 | You Are What You EatI was at a birthday party this weekend. Last year I would have been the fattest guy there. This Sunday at just under 15% body fat I was the leanest. My goal is 10% before going on a clean bulk cycle. To do that I too use My Fitness Pal. In the app there is a progress part where you can enter your weight which gives you a nice graph you can track. I eat whatever I want as long as it fits my macros of about 40-50% carbs, 30% fat, 30% protein. Having said that it turns out mostly to be lean meats, … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/07/15 07:32 PM |
| 1 | WTF just happened?What an amazing article. Thank you! That was a great read. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/07/15 06:35 PM |
| 1 | WTF just happened?Kind of puts a damper on believable outcome independence in case of being shut down in the future. I see you wrote that there have been hugs and kisses since then. Has there been actual sex or is the bedroom still dead? Edit: I can't imagine such a long time. Mine was dead for about 3 months (after 17 years together, 12 married) before I discovered the red pill. Before then it was once or twice a month which I wasn't happy with but as a blue pill through and through I was resigned to. Since TRP … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/07/15 06:10 PM |
| 1 | I'm NOT sorryHmm, I used to say I'm sorry all the time. Now I'm not sure I remember the last time I apologized for something. You apologize for something you feel deserves an apology. For everything else you can use fogging or acknowledge your mistake and move on. No need to say I'm sorry for every little thing. It means more that way when you actually do say it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/07/15 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Should I Stay Or Should I Go (long)Read the threads on frame. That was a massive loss of frame on your part. You got butthurt and started threatening her which caused a vicious cycle of resentment on both your parts. Agree and Amplify or pressure flip or just ignoring her would have all worked better than turning that car around. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/07/15 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Book Reading = Shit Test or just ignoring everything around her?None of the above. Books can be all consuming. Before I stumbled on the red pill, I spent the last year mimicking your girlfriend's behavior. If there was an interesting book, I could spend the day and night reading it until I was done. Then the next day I would start another and the cycle would continue. I read close to 200 books in less than 2 years. It was an escape from mundane, boring, crappy, sexless life I was living. Then I discovered the red pill and it all ended and my life resumed. Wh… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/07/15 05:01 PM |
| 4 | Should I Stay Or Should I Go (long)You won the battle but it seems to me to be a Pyrrhic victory. What have you read from the sidebar? Have you been lifting? Where is your SMV compared to your wife. Do you recognize and pass shit tests? In arguments, do you state your position then leave or do you argue until you assert your position and dominance causing bad feelings and build up of resentment? That trip's argument and return was exactly what happened. You got your way, but it did not end up with her hamstering to appreciate you… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/07/15 04:30 PM |
| 2 | Slow Start - Long PathI'm 5'9, 39 years old. You can drop 2 pounds per week like clockwork until you get to about 14-15% body fat. Then it gets harder but at that point you will be attractive enough for other women to notice you and by proxy your wife as well (preselection.) I started mid February at 190, I got down to 159 on May 21st. That's roughly 2 pounds per week. Since then I lost 10 pounds or roughly a pound per week and I'm at 14.8% body fat at 149 pounds. Yeah skin and bones but I do have some muscle definit… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/07/15 04:03 PM |
| 2 | I ignored the first rule of Fight Club.Some men won't be ready for TRP until their unicorn breaks their heart. Until then they live and die by the "women are wonderful" rule. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/15 06:24 PM |
| 3 | Identifying shit tests/comfort testsScenario 1 shit test. Having said that if she comes home when kids are going to bed she might actually be tired. How many hours does she work? Scenario 2 is not a shit test. That's her just not having much respect for you. You have let things slide long enough that she is treating you like one of the kids. You need to take care of your shit and not leave things 90% done. If you do it, do it right the first time. If she finds something that you haven't noticed then don't allow her to berate you. … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/07/15 05:50 PM |
| 2 | Confused and Frustrated: Advice SoughtDay trip is just as bad as night out. My wife is horniest around noon time +/- couple hours. How hard is it to get a cheap motel to screw their brains out and then go on a day trip date? Not hard at all. That's why what your wife is doing, going out alone with guys (friends or not) while you're not home is a giant fucking red flag. Also regarding your friend, many guys have found out the hard way when their girls slept with their best friends, fathers, brothers etc. Not saying he would do that t… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/07/15 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Require relationship adviceYou can directly state your boundaries. Just don't make yourself sound insecure. If she wants to make an argument you can reiterate that you stated your opinion and you are not going to argue about it, then shut up or change the topic. It will be up to her to either respect your boundaries or get downgraded to a plate or dropped altogether. There is more information on these things in the red pill's sidebar. You should do some reading there. There are no shortcuts to reading, but if you put in t… | /r/askTRP | 15/07/15 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Require relationship adviceI'm not suggesting dropping her. Your time and commitment are the two most valuable things you have to offer to her. You are becoming a high value male, you are a busy teen, you will be a busy man. Your time is valuable. If she is displeasing you, you limit the time you spend with her and pursue your other hobbies or plates if you so incline. You don't try to control her, yell at her, hit her etc. You are the oak, you are always in control. If she misbehaves you limit your presence in her life. … | /r/askTRP | 15/07/15 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Require relationship adviceTRP is not about changing or punishing the girl. It's about changing yourself to be the man with options. The more you try to control her, the more she will try to break free. You don't actively try to change her, you reward good behavior and withdraw for the bad one. If she continues with the behavior you don't like then you downgrade her to a plate or you drop her. There is no changing her. Controlling and punishing her are AFC types of behaviors that lead you to become an abusive asshole and … | /r/askTRP | 15/07/15 12:32 PM |
| 19 | Wife is crushing on a celebrity to a point it's disrespectful and really pushing it. How to deal with it?Here's the problem. You're but hurt over this to the point that it's fucking hilarious for your wife to tease you about it. You should've been teasing her about him from the get go and mentioned to her his model wife. For the record, you working on yourself will get you closer to looking like him than she is ever going to get to looking like her. Channing is 37, there are very few women in the world that would be a sex symbol like him at 37. Most are well below 30. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/07/15 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Wife jealous and freaking out after my night out, but her behavior has been shit lately. Need some advice.They didn't have male strippers at that Bachelorette party. Bar than dance club and my wife was very pregnant and no she did not drink. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/07/15 11:34 PM |
| 2 | Getting a handle on things in a LTRShe found her beta buck and they will ride that train until the coal runs out. Where do you start? The gym. You have to lift 3 times a week. It's non-negotiable. You do it no matter what shit she throws your way. The rest of the meager free time you have you read No More Mr Nice Guy followed with MMSLP and WISNIFG. If things have to pile up cause she and the 12 year old won't pull their weight then so be it. You have to become an asshole and start thinking about #1 which is yourself. Once you re… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/07/15 06:20 PM |
| 3 | Wife jealous and freaking out after my night out, but her behavior has been shit lately. Need some advice.Yeah, I don't care if it's mate guarding or not. If she wants a GNO it's not at a bar. If she wants to slut it up and go to a bar she can do it once I'm her ex. I don't have that problem though. She hasn't been on a GNO in like a decade and that one was with the girls bachelorette when I went with the guys to bachelor party and a high end strip club. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/07/15 04:04 PM |
| 1 | What's up with "You're an asshole." and subsequent sex?Yes, definitely yes. If in doubt STFU. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/07/15 02:25 PM |
| 3 | What's up with "You're an asshole." and subsequent sex?Please elaborate on what you mean by "Don't do this." Refuse to read it? Refuse to talk about it? I read it, while she browsed the red pill that was open on my phone. Then with a smirk on my face, told her it's a sad story then didn't speak of it again. Whatever we spoke of lead her to calling me an asshole and getting a blowjob later that evening. I think I did alright. I was just wondering behind the thought process of why would she be mad at me by calling me an asshole, yet turned on by that … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/07/15 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Wife jealous and freaking out after my night out, but her behavior has been shit lately. Need some advice.I agree. He's allowing her to dress like a slut and go on a night out. He doesn't know shit what she does, then allows her to hang out with her ex and then keep in contact with him. Then he tries to argue with logic. Based on his post history he's been red pill aware for 4 months, but he's acting like he hasn't read the sidebar yet. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/07/15 01:22 PM |
| 3 | Girl wants to bring a friendLOL. You're such a nice guy... | /r/askTRP | 08/07/15 08:06 PM |
| 8 | Girl wants to bring a friendTo have mentors like you when I was in high school. Instead all I got was be yourself. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/15 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Repost from TRP: Guy and the married girl...There was a thread on DB from a woman in your wife's position. She cheated on her husband then he decided to get even on overdrive flaunting all the plates he's banging. The thing is, where does it stop? Do you keep banging other women and never go back to just man and wife? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/07/15 11:19 AM |
| 1 | Lifting HelpSL 5x5 are for beginners that's why they suggest starting this low so you work on your form in the beginning. His stats suggest he's at least an intermediate. I'd suggest he sticks to his program until he plateaus and then switch to another intermediate or advanced program depending on how much time he has and how many days he wants to train. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/07/15 10:29 AM |
| 3 | Silent Treatment and how to handleTake care of any outstanding shit at home. Go to the gym and if you have free time left use it to read NMMNG. She will eventually stay talking to you. Oh and in case of arguments just state your opinion and shut the fuck up. I can't emphasize it enough. The best thing a newb can do is to just stfu and go do his thing. Keep reading, keep lifting and be a man of few words. And remember to take care of your shit at home and don't ask for any acknowledgement. She will see it and appreciate it on her… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/07/15 03:12 PM |
| 6 | Please Welcome Our New Moderator: Ian Ironwood, Author, Sex Nerd, and All Around Great GuyWow, this gives a whole new level of legitimacy to MRP. Glad to have you on board. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/07/15 11:17 AM |
| 1 | Im new to this..i had a post in deadroomNMMNG is a have to read book. That stands on its own. Then MMSLP and The Rational Male. I started reading WISNIFG after I've read RP101. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/07/15 01:01 AM |
| 3 | What would do if you girlfriend moved over to New York to model?Keep her but don't be surprised when it goes south. She will be exposed to drugs, booze and male models. She will be in high pressure situations and surrounded by rich men and women. She will feel lonely. It will be a perfect storm to test your relationship. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/15 07:02 PM |
| 3 | How to stop the anger phaseAnger phase can be a bitch. It's part of unplugging. Know that it will pass. Having said that, whenever you start feeling anger be mindful that part of it is because you are in the process of unplugging. Shut the fuck up and go do something productive. Best bet is go lift some weights or do some pushups. Shut the fuck up and let out some pent up energy. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/07/15 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Can't quite choke down the pill? Have I got a subreddit for you...Wasn't a thread just like this one deleted like 24 hours ago? I'm really having a feeling of deja vu. Glitch in the matrix? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/07/15 02:49 PM |
| 2 | Time to swallow the pill. Would like input from married men that have swallowed it.You need to read no more mr nice guy NOW. Call in sick to work and get reading This Op. That's exactly what you need to do. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/07/15 02:01 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Totally Losing Frame in BP WayYou're not showing outcome independence. It's not just about sex. It's about her behavior having no effect on your attitude. You're not showing mental toughness and discipline by failing to go to the gym for 3 weeks. That's not just missing a day, that's missing three whole weeks. That's inexcusable. You're catering to her and rewarding bad behavior. You need to come up with your own plan instead forcing her to come up with one. Starting with going back to the gym and re-reading The Rational Mal… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/07/15 12:15 PM |
| 7 | Time to swallow the pill. Would like input from married men that have swallowed it.You should be locked in a room and not let out until you've read No More Mr Nice Guy (that's you) and When I Say No I Feel Guilty (that will teach you how to behave assertively.) These books won't just improve your marriage, they will improve your life. I can't emphasize this enough, you need these books more than many others that have come here before you. As far as how this has affected my life? I lost 35 pounds and have had more sex with my wife in the last four months than we had in in four … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/07/15 12:00 PM |
| -19 | For the Women who found out your husband is unplugging and are now lurking on TRP/MRP trying to figure out what is going on.......Two sides to each story and there are some holes in hers that suggest she didn't spill all the information. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/06/15 05:58 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - June 30, 2015Recently my daughter wanted to see inside out in the movie theater. I checked the show times, checked my wife's hair cutting schedule and saw that it was empty. We then went to tell her that we want to go to see the movie. She's not really into it, but when she asked about show times etc I had all the answers, when the movie starts, when it ends etc. She then agreed and we went to see it. After the movie, she commented that she had a good time and it was good that she agreed to go or we would ha… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/06/15 11:39 AM |
| 5 | A small, but important changeI know to do that, but sometimes I forget myself. Oftentimes I don't really care and my first answer is whatever, what do you feel like? Then I remember that she just wants me to make the decision and I will go ahead and make one. Fake it until you make it. Right? Eventually it will be second nature to JUST MAKE THE FUCKING DECISION. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/06/15 11:25 AM |
| 2 | You are the judge of your own life. Not us.In one way MRP is growing so that's good, but just like TRP recently there are more low quality threads because of it. In one way at least the board is livelier but at the same time the message dilutes. I commented before that MRP is a guideline. Apply it to your life how you see fit. No one's marriage is exactly the same, we can give you advice, but we don't live your life. We don't know how much you left out, what your cultural values are, what boundaries exist in your marriage. Our advice cou… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/06/15 11:17 AM |
| -1 | Trying to figure out if this is "working"Listen to your gut instinct. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/06/15 11:30 PM |
| 4 | About how calling bullshit at false rape claims can get you bannedTechnically you broke that subreddit's bannable offenses rules. While the chick's hamster is on full overdrive, you had to expect that it would happen. Hopefully you posted this thread on that same throwaway or Reddit might ban you based on your IP address(es.) | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/15 05:10 PM |
| 4 | Dating in the Tinder EraMost people here are not in the dating scene. Once you've swallowed the pill, you are aware that women for the most part want sex just as much as men do. I doubt that Tinder dates are looking for more orbiters, so a date culminating in sex is probably the expected scenario. If you're not pushing for it, then you're not the guy for them. Having said that, what's the problem? If they have sex on first date you don't consider them LTR material? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/06/15 04:46 PM |
| 3 | FR - wife interested in lesbian encountersFigure out what you want. MRP is just a guidance, it's up to you how you want to implement it. Read the sidebar from here and TRP and figure it out for yourself. By the way congrats on standing your ground. Those bitches are a bad influence. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/06/15 11:37 AM |
| 71 | [FR] Harpie Wife PostPartum WTF to DoC section is cutting open your stomach etc to get to a baby. That's a fucking major surgery which takes 6 weeks to recover from. It's been only 2 weeks. Give it some time. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/06/15 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Nursing mom - zero libidoDefinitely without. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/06/15 08:10 PM |
| 2 | Nursing mom - zero libidoThis post is too good to be buried in this thread when it eventually disappears from the front page of MRP. I'm not sure this is a side bar material, but if it's on its own it could be linked to in the FAQ. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/06/15 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Nursing mom - zero libidoNever mind then. My reply was harsher than your post merits. The way it originally read, borderline suggested that choreplay would turn her on. That's why I stated that you know better. Either way, op will get some good advice out of this thread. Read and apply to your life how you see fit. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/06/15 07:25 PM |
| 0 | Nursing mom - zero libido/u/TrainingTheBrain help me out here. I think you edited that post. The way it's written now sounds much more like a solid bit of advice. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/06/15 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Nursing mom - zero libidoWe covered preggo chicks here a month ago. Consensus was that dread doesn't change. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/06/15 06:43 PM |
| 10 | Beta male allows his wife to be gangbanged by Chad Thundercock, wife leaves hubby for Chad but he won't commitHe was an upgrade even if he couldn't perform with hubby in the room. That's what it was. She attempted a branch swing and missed. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/15 06:32 PM |
| 63 | Beta male allows his wife to be gangbanged by Chad Thundercock, wife leaves hubby for Chad but he won't commitAnother lesson learned is don't open your relationship to MFM unless: you're the ultimate alpha and you want it to happen or she's your plate and you don't care if she drops. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/15 05:38 PM |
| 3 | Nursing mom - zero libidobut his wife isn't pregnant for all we know she has fucking post partum depression. That is a possibility frankly with which I'd like to see more discussion on. I wonder what a red pill wife would have to say on that topic. Do you talk to your wife about PD? Do you watch for signs and suggest going to a doctor? Lifting has been associated with reducing depression. A woman can return to the gym within 6 weeks of cesarean, is it a similar time frame for regular birth? Would that help with postpart… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/06/15 05:15 PM |
| -3 | Nursing mom - zero libidoSounds like your beta shit goblin sitting on your shoulder wrote that up. You know better than to make that suggestion. Take care of the baby and other kids and that will turn her on? Are you serious? They were on a freaking date, he did put the kids to sleep and she still shot him down. Sounds like what happened was exactly the opposite of what you're suggesting. She doesn't feel like fucking she can always just give him a quick blow job. That's what my pregnant wife is doing. Recently we had a… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/06/15 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Newb First Post: Help with passing a fathers day gift shit test and shit tests in generalThe Red Pill side bar under heading Theory Reading. Don't just rely on MRP. There is a ton of valuable information under /r/theredpill. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/06/15 02:53 PM |
| 2 | [venting] I'm crushed . . . I don't want to believe AWALTAll women are not alike, but they all share some traits that are described as Awalt. Take everything you read and learn and apply it to your life how you see fit. Remember to read The Rational Male. The website is free and is a treasure of information on the topic. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/15 12:04 PM |
| 6 | A passage from No Mr. Nice Guy, explaining the anger towards women.Marcus Aurelius That is because he lived and wrote it almost two thousand years ago. Like Homer's Iliad it requires some thinking on the reader's part. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/15 11:46 AM |
| 2 | Newb First Post: Help with passing a fathers day gift shit test and shit tests in generalHe could easily shut half of that shit down with When I Say No I Feel Guilty. The other half he could fix with NMMNG and how to pass shit tests 101 from TRP. Another one looking for shortcuts. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/06/15 12:52 AM |
| 5 | Why Planet Fitness are Geniuses and deserve your respect.All gyms' best customers are those that never go. My local LA fitness has something like 10K customers and 3 squat racks. Thankfully most customers just pay for the membership and don't go, the others just go for swimming, classes, spinning or cardio. The few that actually do lift weights for the most part stick to machines, dumbells or bench press so even during the busiest times I can get my squats in and if all bench press stations are taken I'll just slide a flat bench in to the squat rack a… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/15 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Alpha traits in a LTR?He should start with No More Mr Nice Guy. Mindful Attraction Plan is for guys already in the hole. If you're just beginning an LTR, then NMMNG, then Married Man Sex Life Primer should be the first two books. Then the book of pook, The Rational Male, The Sex God Method and keep lifting all throughout. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/15 06:53 PM |
| 2 | 2nd date, LTR intentions.The thing with LTRs is that you have to treat them like plates for them to get interested in being LTRs. If you get emotionally invested from the start like you are, you may fuck it up because the girl will detect that indecision and pedestalization. That will turn her off and she may pursue other prospects. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/15 06:50 PM |
| 2 | Married life without marriage in CaliforniaNeither are fair. You win some, you lose some. Overall a man will come out with short end of the stick. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/15 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Red flags from wife, recommendations for keyloggers?I think that information is available on surviving infidelity. I know that you can backup an iphone and use a program to show all text messages, even deleted ones. Regardless, having one slutty friend is a red flag. Having a bunch is being in Kremlin during May 1st parade. Read No More Mr Nice Guy, Married Man Sex Life Primer, lift, pass shit tests and you might still be able to right this ship before it sinks. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/15 06:34 PM |
| 2 | So, what takes place when a woman is loyal/monogamous?Well /u/redpope was in an STR, not LTR and the girl was a 33 year old CC rider. As such she had too many partners at that age to reliably pair bond to him. She was also dope smoker and likely it wasn't the first time she fucked her dealer to mix business with pleasure and save herself $20. I mean she even told him that it meant nothing and she didn't even like the guy. If she will fuck guys she doesn't like to save herself $20 then we can reliably state that she was a cheap whore. In other words… | /r/askTRP | 24/06/15 06:22 PM |
| 1 | [FR] The largest difference I have noticed is how she's treating me now.No pain. Having said that, I measured my height when I signed up to the gym and it was measured by a trainer there to be at 5'9.5. Then a few months later I, my wife and my daughter measured our height immediately after a workout which included squats and we measured it to be 5'9. I assumed it was due to squats which does have anecdotal evidence of height loss. There are peer reviewed studies that confirm temporary height loss due to power lifting. Having said that, the trainer's measurement may… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/06/15 03:12 PM |
| 5 | Married life without marriage in CaliforniaYeah, but in Australia alimony is only limited to two years and the caps are very low. So you win some you lose some but overall I'd say they are fairer to men than US laws are. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/15 11:29 AM |
| 1 | [FR] The largest difference I have noticed is how she's treating me now.Don't think so. Never measured myself in the morning. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/06/15 10:15 AM |
| 2 | FR: Quick Thanks and Stay On Track My FriendsCongrats on progress and the baby. Get some sleep, I know you might need it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/06/15 08:42 PM |
| 1 | [FR] The largest difference I have noticed is how she's treating me now./u/RPAlternate42 is right on the money. I'm 5'9 (after 4 months of squats, started around 5'9.5 barefoot) and my lean body mass is around 130 pounds, so I had about 60 pounds of fat and extra skin when I began. I was on a pretty big caloric deficit. In the winter there are no barbecues, parties etc so it's relatively easy to hit 1200-1300 calories per day on average. Together with exercise that's roughly 1000 calorie deficit which translates to about 2 pounds of fat lost per week. I ate lean mea… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/06/15 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Sexually selfish wifeYou've got the right idea but in a wrong context. Your statement applies to relationships. This is about sex and walking away is just him getting butthurt about not getting his way. She is asking him to take control here. Basically she's telling him don't fuck me like equal lovers do. Take me doggy style, (one of her most submissive positions) and have your way with me. He seems to be listening to what she says instead of looking at what she does and that's why walking away in this situation wou… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/06/15 05:23 PM |
| 5 | Sexually selfish wifeMaybe she wants you to just take her like you want her and manhandle her if she resists. So she's testing your dominance whether it's genuine. Granted it's a slippery slope to getting marital rape charge but if you establish a safe word it may be worth a try. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/06/15 11:29 AM |
| 4 | "Responsive Desire" -- Successful RP?Welcome to MRP. Reminder, take care of your shit. Never stop lifting. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/06/15 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Husband found Red Pill before Honeymoon when his hours old wife moaned her ex's nameNo, he went on the honeymoon that was already paid for. He just made sure to go without her. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/15 05:20 PM |
| 4 | "Responsive Desire" -- Successful RP?1) Athol Kay wrote "The bull doesn't complain that the cows don't initiate". I think I wouldn't worry about her not initiating. Some women just aren't wired that way. 2) Also my wife's initiation attempts sometimes are to turn towards me in bed and scooch over a bit closer. In other words, she may be very subtly trying to initiate but still has ASD shields up to be able to deny it. You have to pay attention to her signs. 3) When I was BP and 50 pounds overweight, my wife almost never initiated a… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/06/15 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Shit test or just being a bitchI think you may have confused me with someone else's posts. I've been in a stable relationship with a 1 n-count girl for 18 years, married for 13 today. You are 100% wrong on your stance. You are confusing physical motherly nurturing with emotional one during relationships. Read Empathy from The Rational Male. I acknowledge that in some areas of TRP you may be ahead. You've been at this longer than I have. But on this you are wrong. From WISNIFG it's OK for you to admit that you are wrong. It's … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/06/15 04:00 PM |
| 2 | Shit test or just being a bitchYou're describing physical nurturing. That's something that mothers are. For emotional nurturing, I'd say men are bigger factors in relationship's emotional health than women are. Women are always emotional. You're either the rock that grounds her or you're the other hurricane that creates the perfect storm that destroys everything. Edit. I'm not challenging your game or knowledge. I think that has already been settled by the mods here. I just don't agree with your belief that the woman should e… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/06/15 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Shit test or just being a bitchMaybe I'm just confused. I don't understand your statement of emotional nurturing. What do you mean by that exactly? Edit: From what I read at google's top search results it takes two to emotionally nurture a relationship and the op did more damage here than she did by either misunderstanding her texts or steering the conversations into dick size and taking her conciliatory statement against her. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/06/15 03:26 PM |
| 7 | Shit test or just being a bitchThat someone who is supposed to be the emotional nurturer of the relationship Since when are women emotional nurturers of relationships? They are the emotional hurricanes and we are the rock. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/06/15 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Shit test or just being a bitchI'm not sure what transgression she made that you're thinking of getting rid of her for. Having said that people can and often do misunderstand text messages. It seems like you initiated the fuckup by calling her a size queen which you escalated. Her reaction of calling you not fair seems to indicate a large partner count. You say she's your fiance so I hope you know what you're doing. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/06/15 02:33 PM |
| 14 | Shit test or just being a bitchSounds to me like you shit tested yourself and made an argument out of nothing then stayed butt hurt about it. Your last sentence make me think this is a troll post. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/06/15 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Husband found Red Pill before Honeymoon when his hours old wife moaned her ex's nameHe had to take her passport so she wouldn't get on a plane with him. She was gonna get on a plane and beg for forgiveness the whole flight and then share the vacation with him. Fuck that. Even if illegal, he did the right thing. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/15 01:37 PM |
| 1 | What reasons would a girl have for being with a beta?Commitment, resources, status. For most the dual sexual strategy is something they are totally unaware of even if they will subconsciously do it. For many 4s and 5s beta is all they can realistically get cause they won't get a time of day from Chad. Many want the house with white picket fence, kids etc. Beta will provide that. For some it later gets boring, they start with GNOs and later leave the guy or stay in the marriage but don't fuck him ala /r/deadbedroom. I was beta with some alpha quali… | /r/askTRP | 20/06/15 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on Anniversary Presents?I wouldn't call it a waste of money. All my friends could afford to buy their wives nice ring and I gave mine an old hand-me-down. It felt like I was finally giving her a proper one. Maybe I still have too much of a blue pill mindset but it made me proud to see her wear the new ring and it be nicer than what most of her friends have. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/06/15 01:36 PM |
| 2 | Wearing our ringsIt sounds like you're being passive aggressive. I'd confront her with the truth. I wouldn't say that hurt your feelings. For me it would be more about my ego. Is she trying to passively aggressively say something or is she looking to screw someone on the side? For me, she is married so she better fucking wear her ring. I spent enough money on it as it is. If she's not gonna wear it, I'm gonna pawn it off and buy myself a bike. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/06/15 12:59 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on Anniversary Presents?Every year I just bought flowers and maybe some gift under $100. On 10 year anniversary she wanted a new ring cause the engagement ring was tiny and made her feel self conscious compared to everyone else with nice diamonds etc. So I we (she makes 6 for every 10 I make and we have shared account) spent 5 grand on 1 carat ring and new matching band. That was 3 years ago when I was still firmly plugged in. This year is our 13th anniversary. Apparently lace is the traditional gift so maybe I'll go t… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/06/15 12:30 PM |
| 1 | New Flair GuidelinesSo do the mods chat weekly and evaluate whether someone that is unplugging deserves the red border or is it more like, if a user consistently starts showing that he gets it then he gets the red border? Also what about the married flair? Most guys on here are married, what is that flair supposed to mean? Is it some type of an obsolete flair that is no longer given out or is it something between Unplugging and MRP approved? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/06/15 03:08 PM |
| 3 | It's written all over my face...My wife knows my username, so not only everything I think is written on my face, but she even knows my private thoughts that I share with people of Reddit. This inadvertently caused her to stumble into this gentlemen's locker room that is called MarriedRedPill. Now what are the shit tests that would cause you to fail them by having your face show your emotion? If she asks you to do something that's unreasonable because she could do it herself easier and without putting undue burden onto you, if … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/06/15 02:53 PM |
| 1 | How to get ahead as a 5ft4 dude?My wife's sister (white) is with a swole guy (white/hispanic) that is in med school and is shorter than her or at least is shorter if she wears heels. He doesn't care if she wears heels. In fact he is adamant that he likes it even though it makes her taller than he is. That's IDGAF attitude right there. You're on the right track. Take care of your body, take care of your education / finances and you will be just fine. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/15 12:39 PM |
| 2 | GF just said she cannot have sex due to illness. What do?What is she saying about her condition? Will it improve or is it for life? Her sleeping patterns suggest that she doesn't have much energy to do anything apart from going to work, eating and sleeping. Reduce your contact and find some hobbies to do / spend more time at the gym, whatever. Women use sex to extract commitment. If she's not fucking you that means she is comfortable in the fact that you're not going anywhere anytime soon. Reduce your contact and if she wants to be with you she will f… | /r/askTRP | 19/06/15 12:32 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend with a low libido rejects sex from me because she "doesn't feel like it" or is "tired", but she still cooks for me, pays for food, and logistically works in my favor to meet me.She just doesn't find you sexually attractive. You are her beta buck. From The Rational Male: A woman who wants to fuck you will find a way to fuck you. She will fly across the country, crawl under barbwire, climb in through your second story bedroom window, fuck the shit out of you and wait patiently inside your closet if your wife comes home early from work – women who want to fuck will find a way to fuck. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/15 07:44 PM |
| 2 | Do women have less sympathetic capacity than men?I agree with your conclusion. Women have the same capacity to love and empathize as men do. However they are very pragmatic, much more so than men as to their mates and their mates' capacity to provide for them and their potential children. Men oftentimes will overlook that and are willing to have very frugal life to be with that woman. Women instead would drop that man and look for someone who could provide for them. Hence the belief that they can't love men like men can love women. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/15 12:03 PM |
| 1 | Blondes vs brunettes, why is it that most guys say they prefer brunettes but society treats blondes better?Because there's a higher percentage of guys that prefer blondes than there is blondes. Supply vs demand. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/15 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Loss of AttractionThat is probably it. She is at upper range of overweight, approaching obese BMI rating. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/06/15 12:45 PM |
| 2 | Loss of AttractionI'm on the other end of the scale. Since TRP when I joined a gym and she started tagging along and lost 20 pounds (down to 128) to my 35 I am finding her incredibly hot now. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/06/15 10:49 AM |
| 1 | Is this just my wife or AWALT?I see. Like others have mentioned I was off on my estimate of the dadbod. I'm talking from my experience where I'm skinny fat ie triceps and thighs body fat caliper shows around 12% while my stomach is around 20% On a bioimpendance scale I have at home I'm at 15.8% but I definitely still have about an inch of jiggly fat on my stomach. I figure I need to get myself down to 8-10% on the bioimpendance scale to get rid of it and mistakenly thought that others may need similar measures. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/06/15 10:44 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Strippers, Dread and Comfort TestsThe question I have is about the time you were leaving. Say in the future, you're at a party say at in-laws or bil's house and you want to leave. You tell your wife we're leaving and then expect her to immediately grab the kids, get them dressed and leave. Shouldn't you keep yourself to a similar standard? IE she asked you to leave, then you deliberately made her wait. Don't you think it may backfire in the future with her making you wait in a similar manner? Just trying to wrap my head around s… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/06/15 10:38 AM |
| 3 | Finally have proof of the truth.What about no fault divorce do you not understand? Unless you are in Georgia it will not affect alimony if she pushes for that. It will not affect the split of assets or child support. So unless you have video evidence or pictures of her being with another dude all you've got is hearsay and that is inadmissible in the court of law. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/06/15 11:57 AM |
| 1 | Is this just my wife or AWALT?My guess is that your 15% body fat makes you in shape but it still gives you a bit of a dad bod. See if you can lower that. Then apply BluePillProfessor's 12 stages of dread. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/06/15 11:53 AM |
| 1 | how do you stay quiet?So I get you've read TRP material and implemented it to better your life. That is great. However now that you're in an LTR, you're bound to fuck up because TRP mainly teaches you how to get plates and keep on spinning them. Now you're in an LTR and this requires you to modify your approach a little. Which books out of the sidebar material have you read? My guess is the book of pook, SGM and The Rational Male. Have you read any of the course prerequisites books? If not start there. Finally regard… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/06/15 11:48 AM |
| 2 | Wife cutting off sex.... but is fine with me sleeping with other womenHow is your SMV? Have you read the sidebar material? To me it sounds like she said that because she thinks you won't be able to get with other women because your SMV is shit. You kind of fed her hamster because you freaked out over it and didn't show outcome independence. Since we don't really know anything about you, I'll give you the standard response: 1) Increase your SMV by getting fit down to a 6 pack and lifiting heavy free weights. 2) Read the sidebar linked books. 3) Re-evaluate. Once yo… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/06/15 11:24 AM |
| 1 | GF smokes in front of you, she knows it's a no go. How to react?She didn't. Anyways what do you suggest I do with a wife that apart from smoking checks off every list of what you want in a wife? | /r/askTRP | 15/06/15 08:38 PM |
| 0 | GF smokes in front of you, she knows it's a no go. How to react?That's the second pregnancy. She smoked way more during the first and the child came out fine. Higher stress from fights about quitting would harm the child more. She's doing what she can with everything else. She's keeping eating healthy, she works out, she doesn't drink alcohol. She didn't do any of it during her last pregnancy before I found trp. I would say overall we're ahead of where we could've been. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/15 06:48 PM |
| 0 | GF smokes in front of you, she knows it's a no go. How to react?A few months ahead of our wedding I told my fiance that I wouldn't marry her if she smoked. She quit in front of me but was smoking behind my back. A year after wedding I went to McDs where she worked (we were young and poor then) and saw her smoking on her break. That's how I found out that she was still smoking. That was about 12 years ago. Later she admitted that she would manufacture arguments to leave house for an hour or two to get her smoking out of the system to come back and not smoke t… | /r/askTRP | 15/06/15 05:08 PM |
| 2 | Finally have proof of the truth.I don't see why you're so hung up on getting proof that she cheated on you. She slept at a house occupied by 4 male roommates multiple times a week. What's there to get hung up on? She definitely cheated. She did not do it to get a break from her daughter and from you. She did it cause she was fucking one or more of those guys. You're not gonna get any proof from either her or those guys. Even if you did, all she has to say is that you're lying. It's her word against yours and majority of public… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/06/15 02:41 PM |
| 2 | My Wife is OK With Sharing Me With Other WomenIt might backfire if this was a comfort test. Sounds like he's been dreading her for a while. Upping the dread as a result of a comfort test would be counterproductive. No? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/06/15 12:28 PM |
| 2 | AWALT and the numbnessIt kind of makes your whole relationship built on a foundation of lies. I feel for you man. The ex girlfriend I had before I met my wife desensitized me forever from pedestalizing women as these beautiful noble creatures. I was deeply head over heels in love with her and she was the cure in a whore's body to lifetime of blue pill conditioning. Not that she turned me red, but she made me cold and calculating. It wasn't until the red pill that I started seeing the world for how it truly was. At th… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/06/15 12:17 PM |
| 2 | I feel like Neo, before he was cool.You need to lose the weight. I have a desk job and so far last 35 pounds in about 4 months. Go to /r/loseit to learn how to lose weight. I posted how to before but it's been a while and you may have a hard time finding it, also I'm far from the authority on the subject though what I'm doing clearly works. You also need to lift heavy weights. There is really no question about it. If you haven't started yet then get your ass to the gym today. Other than that you're on the right path. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/06/15 11:53 AM |
| 1 | FR, Owning a Wussy Move and QuestionI can understand that. I'm losing weight down to a 6 pack before I start bulking for the first time in my life. At this point I no longer want to tell people how much I weigh because they will think I'm shitting them. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/06/15 07:02 PM |
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