Let me start this off by saying that I'm brand new to the red pill and just discovered this few weeks ago.I have been lurking but this is my first post I came into this with a fiance which is why I'm posting this in the married red pill. I just started working on myself over last couple weeks been a long time in the gym making myself better she has been freaking out it's been a series of constant shit tests and comfort tests.

Yesterday however she sent me one that pissed me off and made me lose frame. Her; say something about the size of the second bedroom in the new apartment Me; teasing, since when have you been a size queen. Her; I don't know, what are you insecure about your penis. Me; no not really, I feel pretty confident Her; good because its not like your small. Me; ( this is where I'm losing frame) not small what's that mean? Her; your perfect for me I mean. I like it. Me; so your telling me that I don't have the biggest dick you have been with but I'm not the smallest?

She runs off crying about how that's not fair.

She comes back to the living room where I'm at apologizing, I tell her I'm pissed still and she stews on it and then decides to blow me.

After this she finds every reason she can to be pissed off at me for the rest of the day. I hold frame.

Now I know that went terrible and I could have done better. I'm brand new to this, and I accept my mistakes. How do I handle this? What can I do? Should I get rid of her over this transgression?