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We won just get that scotch!
/r/PussyPassDenied05/08/17 08:54 PM
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So true! The most precious commodity in the world is not money, It is time.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/16 03:15 PM
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The hardest question are the one that are the most important. What do you want And do you want it with this woman? ProTip: Do not try to turn a "reform hoe" into a house wife. It never end up well. **
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/16 02:16 PM
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Question for you: Are you ready to let them go? If not you're fucked!
/r/TheRedPill27/05/16 05:01 PM
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A vasectomy is fine SMV wise. Just keep up the good work and don't over think it.
/r/askMRP30/04/16 12:47 AM
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If you can Own it then yes you can absolutely talk about MRP with your wife. I did and it and it went pretty well. My wife had the same reaction at first and it did calm her a lot to know I was not doing (Whatever she was imagining at the time). But you have to own it! Be ready.
/r/askMRP11/03/16 05:10 PM
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One question your not asking is WHY do you want to talk about this with her? Is it because you need her support/ approbation? I don't know enough about your couple dynamic to give you good advice. Can you have conversation with your wife on important subject touchy subject outside of the mundane? At first I would get (No more mister nice guy) read it by yourself and maybe share some insight with her and see where that lead you.
/r/askMRP11/03/16 04:24 PM
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Good point. Let me explain. make him someone who doesn't treat women as human beings with qualities and flaws? In fact, doesn't it kind of indicate the opposite? This is the "nice guy" problem. They take too much crap from women in general, even in the face of the most absurd behavior. That not healthy at all and women can see trough this in an instant. When you treat women as human beings with qualities and flaws (This is what the RedPill teach FYI) You learn to find a healthy balance and treat…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/16 12:18 PM
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I'm going to give it to you straight. You are a man and nobody care about your problem! Now internalize this and go lift and start treating women like ordinary human being with theirs quality and flaw.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/16 01:42 PM
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I'm gonna give you a different perspective I have Been on this program for almost 2 years now and this is what I have learn. MRP is all about finding an equilibrium that work for YOU! For your present situation this is my prescription. You take yourself WAY too seriously. Relax, light one up. Go play some pool with some friend, Watch a movie with the wife, relax. for a few day. And try to have some fun. This will do wonder for your present mindset.
/r/askMRP02/02/16 07:03 PM
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My 4 son are gonna have so much fun!!!
/r/TheRedPill01/02/16 06:44 PM
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Dressing well for the job you do is important. The image that you project WILL influence how people see you. Good posture, cloths that fit and that match will make people take you more seriously. You want to be successful, you want to be taken seriously then look the part. You are not doing this for other people you are doing it because you want to better your situation.
/r/askMRP28/01/16 05:05 PM
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I know you already received a lot of good advice. From experience this is what I recommend after reading this: I have yet to resolve. I accept that this is my fault, as this entire relationship, I was more of a false version of myself, and I am only now being real with my wants and needs. Just carry on being true to your want and need. It take time for the power dynamic to change, for you to change and for your wife perception of you to change. Il faut laisser au temps le temps de faire son temp…
/r/askMRP07/01/16 04:24 PM
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You mean well but you are not her parent you are her husband. If your wife respects you, you won't need to "raise" her right to behave. She already knows deep down what to do or not to do, because she is an adult. Those technics will work in situations where the power dynamic has already shifted in your favor. Because by then she will have enough respect for your leadership to actually care about what you are saying. Every marriage has it's own dynamic but some truths are universal. she has to r…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/16 01:21 AM
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I think that leadership on your part is the key to help your wife find her inner slut. I'm not a religious person. But I think that the "no sin" aspect of sex between a husband and a wife make thing a lot easier. She is not allowed to be promiscuous, and sexual in her day to day life with anybody, with only one exception.... YOU. You have to give her permission to be a slut with you. You have to demand it. If she is submissive, you can guide her during "play time" to push trough her boundary. Do…
/r/askMRP23/12/15 02:01 PM
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Pro tip: Get off reddit for a while and go do something else. Keep busy. My wife know about this stuff. She even post here sometime. But I rarely post anything personal anymore. I give my best advise and I keep it at that.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/15 12:29 PM
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The most precious commodity in the universe is time. I see two reason to quit an marriage. You have given your best effort and thing are still not getting better after 6 month to a years. You don't see having a future with your wife because you have lost interest in her over time. I think that you already know what you want to do. But your having a hard time facing what have to be done. Pro tip: Find some time alone for a day or two to get some clarity and then decide if you want to ask us again…
/r/askMRP22/12/15 12:34 PM
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Once you find your groove and the right balance that work for you. The relationship dynamic change to something that you actually like and both enjoy.
/r/askMRP16/12/15 08:55 PM
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Your are on the right path. Some of the newby mistake that we have seen are the following. Confusing comfort test for shit test: Sorting those out will really make a huge difference. When the power dynamic shift toward you. She will need reassurance, and that's normal and to be expected. Being way to serious all the time. Treat her like a little sister, tease her make thing fun and light. It will help make the relationship fun and sexual again. It will make you both complicit and that is always …
/r/askMRP15/12/15 05:57 PM
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I'm gonna get downvoted to hell for this. Live fast, enjoy it while you still can. Then end it the way you want.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 01:27 PM
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Pro tip: keep it light and use a lot of humour. Tease her like a little sister, play tricks on her etc.... Have some fun!!! This will change the way you interact with her and make thing fun again. And if she mirror back this "fun" behavior then it's win win.
/r/askMRP10/12/15 01:19 PM
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http://mojoupgrade.com/ Have fun! keep thing light, explore some taboo, unleash the slut in your wife!
/r/askMRP03/12/15 04:41 PM
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Keep your money and prepare your exit. You already know what you need to do. Now go find the courage to actually do it. Pro tip: Find some time alone without distraction and think about your course of action. Good luck.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/15 12:22 PM
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I reassured her that I love them both and tried to stay upbeat. What was the right course of action? Spot on! That was a confort test and you pass.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/15 06:06 PM
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Antariusz is really on to something. Listen up. What help me brake that cycle was two thing. Outcome independence and looking from validation from only one person, and that is ME! Outcome independence is the most important thing for you. You have to take back your commitment card and be ready to use it. Without it you are nothing more than a slave. (It will do wonder for your frame also) PS: It do not really matter that you indulge in junk food or not. What matter is how you own it! You are a fr…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/15 03:44 PM
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THIS IS MY FAULT for not taking control from the start and giving her a safe environment. I am taking responsibility No she need professional help and you need to stop being a nice guy! You already know what you need to do! I need to do something fast, even if that means grabbing the kids and burning the ship down to build a new one.
/r/askMRP20/11/15 02:27 PM
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Look your really new at this. So relax and listen to the guys here. In my opinion your wife is slowly realizing that she is loosing power over you. And that is why she is freaking out on you like this. That's why she is trying to brake your frame. The biggest thing that we should talk here in mrp and don't, is that an happy marriage come with a healthy power dynamic in the house. Getting to the point where you get a healthy power dynamic in your marriage should be your ultimate goal, but I digre…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/15 12:59 PM
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I have 4 son at home, 2 of them in they're teen. When they come of age usually after the first teen growth 14-15 you can introduce them to this. The RedPill Primer for boys by Ian Ironwood.
/r/askMRP17/11/15 12:16 PM
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Be careful with cross-fit. You cannot afford to hurt yourself since your lively hood depend on it. They use bad form and cross-fit user are know to be prone to all kind of injury. You can still lift, just work on your weak spot, complement what you already do at work.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 12:59 PM
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My wife WAS like that. Time get in-touch with your "inner ass-hole" and really lay down the law!
/r/askMRP11/11/15 06:08 PM
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Damn that's quite the leap. Don't take out the trash = DESTROYED TRUST! LOL Hey this stuff happen and they can freak out a little over thing like this. Time to NGAF.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/15 05:49 PM
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It is very hard to befriend a man who think you have "fucked" his wife!!! Or even worst who think that his wife could be attracted to him, which is implied.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/15 05:42 PM
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It is very possible that his wife shit tested her Beta husband using OP and he failed!!! You have to think of the boss couple dynamic here and the company dynamic. Op should really think seriously about looking for another job while he still can.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/15 04:46 PM
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You forgetting something, is that in order for this to work HE need to WANT to make it work. This is the problem he as right now. Does OP still want to stay married to this woman even if she become all nice and submissive etc.....
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/15 04:34 PM
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This isn't about how to fix my marriage. It's about what I want, what would make me happy. And I just don't know... You really need to meditate on what you want for the rest of your life. Find sometime alone and make the conscious effort to figure it out. Most of us if not all of us have been in yours shoe.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/15 04:31 PM
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This is not going to happen! He think that he fuck his wife and even worst that his wife is attracted to HIM!!!
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/15 04:25 PM
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Ah the joy of internal office politics. a friend let me know that hubby got drunk and said something to the effect that hubby believes I have fucked his wife sometime. I have been fuck in the past because of this type of situation. When people mind are made up nothing can change them. If HE think you have fucked his wife in the past consider him an enemy. Seriously he see you trough that prism and you could do cartwheel and walk on both hand and he will still see you as an enemy. It is amazing a…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/15 04:22 PM
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Me too, I can't eat enough so that's where protein powder and other supplement can come in handy. I was on some crazy weight gainer this summer (something like 125g of protein daily with 1200 Calorie plus my normal diet) I barely gain a 1 pound of fat that melted away in no time. Only guy's like us could get away with stuff like this ;) I focus on compound lifts with a bar and lately have been trying to incorporate heavy dumbbell routines. Do you have a preference? Not really but compound lift (…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/15 06:35 PM
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Yet. Any advice from other hard gainers would be great. Trow in some body weight exercise in your routine. Forget about doing cardio, if your like me you will gain nothing from it. Do super set instead once a week in your routine. Supplement, supplement, supplement you can get away with VERY calorific weight gain type of supplement and it will help you gain muscle faster than the lean stuff. Weight training type: Strength until you hit your plateau then go for hypertrophy 2 week to a month depen…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/15 01:01 PM
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You are not asking yourself the right question. What do you want? That's it.
/r/askMRP06/11/15 06:34 PM
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It's time for some comfort my friend. Look Dread is a powerful tool in your arsenal. But it has to be use with a purpose in mind. EX: Your wife is a disrespectful bitch --- > dread until she improve her behavior. Your wife is being all nice and mostly submissive ---> dread and she will feel stress and anguish for nothing and it can make her give up on her marriage! Dread is a tool, use it wisely.
/r/askMRP05/11/15 04:41 PM
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What did work for me (And it does take some time) Once you have hit a plato and you know that you cannot increase weight because of ligament pain. Lower the weight take a small 3 day break and work slowly in hypertrophy. When you start feeling pain YOU STOP! Be patient and after 2 month you will be ok to train in strength again.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/15 12:20 PM
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This is not a "safe space" but you will get the right advice! Don't give up. The harsh truth is better than a comforting lie.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/15 06:51 PM
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I think it's time for you to lay down some ground rules. If she is not responsive or outright dismissive ,dread her and plan an exit strategy. It look like she do not take you seriously. And she is trying to go against you like a rebellious child to test your limit. In the long run you cannot be in a marriage with a person who hack your boat with an axe (financially) while you try to patch it up. Money is a serious subject. You know that, I know that and SHE know that!
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/15 05:49 PM
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Yeah right! Trust me she will notice that you have her back. She is your wife, it is imply that she is under your protection! If you don't man up, how do you think that will reflect on you as a the man she married? Think about it...
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/15 05:39 PM
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My frame is one that uses humor. Pro tip for the new guys here. Attitude is everything. I know that in the beginning thing can be quite tense. But you have to have some fun, create a rapport with the wife. tease and play with her and let her tease you back, keep thing light.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/15 05:35 PM
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He is your dad. So man the fuck up and handle it yourself!
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/15 05:06 PM
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My wife is a SAHM. And I REALLY appreciate it because it give us the most valuable thing in the universe: TIME I know what it's like raising a family with two working parents. It is hell. Daycare + all the domestics work that have to be done while we should rest from our work week. Having a SAHM give us TIME! She does her stuff during the day while I'm at work. WE BOTH help after diner and then we are DONE. And we can both relax.
/r/askMRP27/10/15 02:19 PM
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So what? Own it like the mother fucker that you are ;) Find your inner ass-hole and use it for good.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/15 03:51 PM
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You seriously need to find your inner ass-hole and use it. You are still a nice guy. Test to see if you have what it take, tell her this joke with a shit eating grin. Honey do you know why God invented yeast infection? So that women know what it's like to live with an irritable cunt!
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/15 03:29 PM
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You are in the position most of the old timer on MRP are at. Like they say, with great power come great responsibility. Or if you prefer the analogy use in the little prince. "Tu deviens responsable pour toujours de ce que tu as apprivoisé" Protip: Make thing fun for her, Be light hearted and have fun.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/15 12:22 PM
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She's bored and wants a little drama. AWALT. Sometime the simplest answer are the best!!! That's why it is so important not to be drawn into her frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/15 11:31 AM
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To the new guy's here. When we talk about outcome independence this is what it is all about. Once you can see yourself single again and in control of your life then you have taken back the power dynamic in your marriage. You can try to fake it, but your wife wont believe you. This is the hard part, you have to be ready in your heart to be single again. Then your frame will be unbreakable. The Power dynamic will change. She will try to qualify to you, instead of you trying to qualify to her. Once…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/15 11:24 AM
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It's nice to know what ours owner want us to do first hand.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 03:10 PM
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At this point I was trying not to laugh at the absurdity ...... Well you should have laugh. Religious shit test my friend. Never take what they say seriously, look at her action. Just a word of wisdom. Many penis in history has change a woman religion.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 03:29 PM
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The biggest question here that your are not addressing is : What DO YOU WANT?
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 03:49 PM
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In life you either do want you want or do what you can. If you go for what you always want to do (Like BJJ or Krav Maja) you wont be doing much. But if you go for activity that you can actually afford you will be doing all kind of stuff. I would love to have a proper powerRack with all the weight and accessory. But I can't afford it. Instead of doing nothing about it I build one myself found some weight online and started right away. It's all in the attitude.
/r/askMRP07/10/15 03:06 PM
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Just enjoy it while the ride last.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 05:44 PM
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you are still very much in her frame. You are not dominant at all in the bed room. Never ever kiss her ass again! Find the Sex God Method online.
/r/askMRP01/10/15 03:31 AM
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I got a bad news and a good news for you. The bad: She is not sexually attracted to you! The good: You can do something about it. My prescription: Hit the gym!! Start dressing up better and start learning some game man!
/r/askMRP01/10/15 03:04 AM
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I am concerned that I will never exceed my relative SMV against my wife. Although I have been working out, so has she! In fact, my wife was an athlete before our marriage and only paused during pregnancy and for about a year thereafter. So she has a lot of advantage over me and that advantage may just be getting wider. She even teases me that my progress is too slow. Keep it up and in one year you will be a different man. And you WILL surpass her. Just be consistent and stubborn about it. A year…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/15 02:23 AM
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K.I.S.S Keep it simple and stupid. I like that!
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/15 02:17 AM
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A well place compliment at the right time can do wonder. A women in love will crawl trough broken glass for you. Pro tip: Don't be too overt about it.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/15 06:25 PM
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A day that end with sex is always a good day. In the long run you will have to master comfort vs shit-test. This take some time to get the balance right. Remember this, women live in the moment. their is no point in holding grudge. When she "misbehave" you act swiftly or not at all! When it is done it is done and you move on (You change the mood like you just did) Good FR
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/15 06:22 PM
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You need to figured out Fast what you want out of life. You can have both. You need some solitude to think this over seriously without any distraction.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/15 03:12 PM
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And I can bet my house that she respect you more for it.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/15 07:16 PM
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So are you saying it is men's fault when their marriage gets ruined? Yes unless the wife is really extreme AWALT. If this was r/relationships the advice would be more communication, counselling and other bullshit THAT DO NOT WORK! This is TheRedPill where we learn how to tame the hamster to make it work for us.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/15 12:28 PM
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Seriously you already know what to do. You don't need to have our blessing for that.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/15 05:27 PM
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We are definitely going thru some shit. I have tried to look into. So what is the problem?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/15 11:21 AM
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not discuss anything in a rational manner not upping my voice Sometime you have to engage on a emotional level. Not because you are upset or out of control yourself but because this is HER language and she NEED to FEEL that the issue matter to YOU. Doing that with Logic and rational argument will not work! Sorry, I just don't understand the part on how to react when she let's say, throws accusations at my parents. When she does that you have the right to show some anger. To show that it is not a…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/15 05:59 PM
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But this time I didn't like her attitude. I engaged in, from my point of view, a rational conversation on why she is wrong. Why a fucking newspaper add, doesn't mean what she things it means, because there were countless other things they have done for their grandchild etc. pp. I can say the debate was a fucking challenge, because she was nearly screaming at 1am because she thought she was right (imagine that over a fucking non-issue). And I kept calmly explaining to her, why my parents do love …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/15 04:14 PM
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I have done it a few time and interesting stuff keep adding to the list ;)
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/15 03:58 PM
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So overall its working. I do want more things in the bedroom. 69 , more blowjobs , her on top. When we have sex she is into it and open to new things. This sound very good. This should do the trick for you (mojoupgrade.com) if you want to know how much you can push her limit.... and yours. Have fun.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/15 02:42 PM
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Dread is a good tools when Your wife is not fucking you like she should. (Trigger attraction) She is being a disrespectful bitch. She need to actually make effort to improve herself. If your wife is being a "good wife" some very light dread can be a good thing once in a while but dread is a very powerful tool to be use in moderation with a specific goal in mind. So is your wife being a good wife to you OP?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/15 11:19 AM
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Then you have to tell her that you are not finding her attractive anymore because of her weight. They're no polite way to say this. no way that it wont hurt her. But she need to hear it from you so she stop making excuse like that. She will fight back like an addict who need her dose of heroine. it will be tough.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 03:58 PM
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Sorry dude by nobody trust the police anymore.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 11:51 AM
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I use to spend a lot more time gaming then what I do now. I barely touch my computer when I'm home. I just fill my time with something more productive like training in my garage (Having a home gym is really fun) with my boys (Two of my 4 boys are in they're teen and I use this time to know what going on in their life. Maybe on a lazy Sunday morning...... If yours life is full of meaningful stuff then a bit of gaming is not going to put you on a wasteful path. It's just entertainment. Just don't …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 11:16 AM
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The human race is 200 000 - 160 000 years old. For 99% of that time we lived in tribal society. During all this time we lived like the native American. Women where treated like property. War, famine was almost a yearly occurrence. Did you ever wonder why women have so little emotional control? Simple they did not need to have any. If they ever step out of line a few well place slap and she would be back in the hut preparing diner. For a man the same behavior would have cause him to get killed.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 03:52 PM
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Now that you know deep down that this stuff work you will need to be ready to keep this up for the long run. The key to success is learning the delicate balance of comfort, vs Shit test. Women crave security and leadership. Leadership: Clear expectation, respect of boundary. Security: You, owning your shit and taking responsibility, Demonstration of affection, Being clear about your commitment. PS: Keep thing fun an interesting. Use humor to diffuse tension, tease her and let her tease you back.…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 03:36 PM
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Well it took some time for us to get to it on a regular basis. But it is something that we both enjoy now. Get her to play with her clit while you play with her ass. Pro tip: This my friend you need to get
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/15 11:57 AM
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I'm surprise that you where the only one who understood the logistic problem of this.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/15 11:48 AM
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.... Now we live together,..... For god sake OP talk to your lawyer about this!
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/15 04:58 PM
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For some context I have 4 boys at home. Two of them are now teenager. This is what you need. The Red Pill Primer for boys I even translated most of it for them. Show him that material And your son will be spared the Matrix.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/15 01:24 PM
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But you're right that she's uneasy. She's still being incredibly reclusive. Pro tip: Try to make thing fun, use a lot of humour. This will make thing a LOT easier.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/15 02:57 PM
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She should have stuck with me through the bad times..... Listen to this very carefully: NO As men we do not have this luxury. Your on your own!
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/15 11:51 AM
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Your new at this. So like you said, Get your shit together first before making any life long lasting decision. Your at the beginning of a journey that can actually be quite fun and life changing. While improving yourself keep an eye on the power dynamic in the house. You are the prize now, so you better act like it! The power dynamic is THE most important thing in your marriage. It is all about who leading who. She will be startle, even scared at first but that is normal. In order to accept your…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/15 11:44 AM
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My wife has a really bad memory of walking in on her parents when she was 9, so she is very hesitant when they are around (unless it is middle of the night and the kids are asleep, but then we have to be quiet and not have a wild time). Honesty and direct communication is our best policy. Like my wife says we have 10-11-13 and 15 years old. They are old enough to understand that We have sex. And we understand that they don't want to "surprise" us by accident. So we are honest about it. When I se…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/15 03:33 PM
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The age thing makes me nervous because she is coming out of the security phase and coming near the development phase. You are not reading the graph right. You are at your peek and she is in the accelerated decline, SMV wise. She know that Your SMV is only going to be higher and higher than her in the future.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/15 10:30 PM
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That took a lot of humility to admit.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/15 08:44 PM
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Context here is everything. This is not for everybody. But I can tell you that having your wife fully on board with eye wide open really make thing a lot easier and speedier. A big part of what make MY wife interesting for me is that she is a smart lady. And discussing about issue like this with her is part of the fun.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/15 03:26 PM
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Like I said some have more solid frame than other.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/15 02:30 AM
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Your advice to OP is to explain and defend your actions. Absolutely not but hey. This is something where My english fail to explain the nuance. But you're advocating a "deep discussion," Not really. Dread and tension are OK in OP's case. Dread is something you do with a clear intent. To obtain a goal. When you do it by accident without design your are playing with dynamite!
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/15 06:20 PM
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Your a bit confuse here. Or maybe I didn't explain myself correctly. I will make this really simple: If you never ever had any kind of philosophical discussion with your wife before and all you talk about with her is mundane day to day stuff ----> Then Fuck no don't talk about this stuff. But if you are use to have deep discussion about anything in the past then yes you can bring your first officer in (If you are at ease enough with the concept and IF your frame is solid enough.)
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/15 05:41 PM
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LOL Some have a more solid frame than other. If you are secure into what you are doing and your first officer is freaking out because she know something is up but interpret it in a way that is making her afraid. Maybe it's time to step up your game.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/15 05:10 PM
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It all depend on the context and on the relationship dynamic. Of course if you never discuss anything beyond the mundane with your wife then yes don't talk about this stuff with her. But for some of us who have actual discussion with our first officer trough out our marriage keeping thing in the dark during the transition can be a real problem. She know something is up, she know thing are changing but they cannot understand our intention which bring an undeserved amount of dread an tension.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/15 03:05 PM
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She is grasping to explain how the power dynamic as change. It's no big deal, it's just her way to make sens of it.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/15 11:35 AM
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What the hell kind of "I would but I can't because I left my stove on" excuse is this? Anyway, I'm just looking for a discussion here. You called her bluff and now she is stuck with the consequence. It's that simple. And she is stubborn and won't admit that she was wrong!!! No you are not being abusive. (This is just gaslighting) She is freaking out because the power dynamic as shifted and she NEED your leadership but she is conflicted by what she want and what she as been taught by the matrix. …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/15 11:33 AM
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If you do not want anymore kids from this woman and from other in the future then go for a vasectomy. It's really not that big of a deal. BUT If you want more kids with this woman or with an other in the future then.....
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/15 03:58 PM
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Give us more context to work here buddy. How the dynamic? does she respect you? Is she just bore with you? (What her history) context is everything.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/15 02:38 PM
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This vasectomy mumbo jumbo is sooooo silly. With a vasectomy you can take her with a lot more spontaneity, You can actually enjoy fucking her during ovulation without having a cradle on top of your head. Seriously I had my vasectomy 9 years ago and it was the best thing that happen to ours sex life.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/15 01:33 AM
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There you go Best advice ever \m/
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/15 10:46 PM
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I agree with Jack Idea of flair. Fragmenting the sub reddit is a really bad idea. This sub is not big enough to be fragmented. I don't mind the "noob" asking question. If they end-up here they need to be confident that they have found the right place. It's important to be welcoming and firm.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/15 01:15 AM
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WTF!!!! You DON'T have to go on a sex diet to make your point. Just change the power dynamic. It will do the same thing and you will be still fucking her but this time on your term.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/15 09:55 PM
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You got it man! Turn this marriage around and go get the marriage that YOU want and deserve!
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/15 02:45 PM
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Ok. My gut feeling on your problem is all about THIS: IX. Connect with her emotions Set yourself apart from other men and connect with a woman’s emotional landscape. Her mind is an alien world that requires deft navigation to reach your rendez-vous. Frolic in the surf of emotions rather than the arid desert of logic. Be playful. Employ all your senses. Describe in lush detail, scenarios to set her heart afire. Give your feelings freedom to roam. ROAM. Yes, that is a good word. You’re not on a li…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/15 02:17 PM
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In all seriousness. If you have ten problems in your marriage this one is number eleven.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/15 05:32 PM
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Well this type of "extreme parenting" is a disaster waiting to happen. Let me explain. In the real world we have to make decision. We have to control ours urges. When everything is ban or not accessible in the house. Kids don't learn self control and moderation. And when they will go out in the real world they will indulge and abuse everything they can get a hold of. I have a different approach I teach my kids moderation. Everything is open, and "almost" everything is available. We don't have ju…
/r/RedPillParenting12/08/15 11:38 AM
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Ah those good old fight. I sometime miss them because it was something that we used to do a lot. The rest of my comment only apply to men who are from a more "Latin" culture. Before swallowing the pill we use to have huge fight. Over the years I have got use to them. It would usually go like this: Wife trying to pull a fast one on me, or trying to contradict me just for the hell of it with an argument that defy all logic and common sens. Me confronting the issue with logic and loosing patience i…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/15 02:19 PM
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That's a very nice way to say it.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/15 11:17 AM
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The power dynamic in your marriage has changed drastically and she lost her bearing in the relationship. That's why she is freaking out like that. Ask her directly what she is so afraid of and give her some comfort before she really does loose her shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/15 07:18 PM
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This kind of wisdom resume so well what so many men fail to understand.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/15 04:01 PM
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When I started my journey on MRP me and my wife were already on a path to reconnect our dysfunctional marriage. I started ingesting the pill maybe 2 months after our main event. I started to implement red pill style strategy around a week before finding MRP and then after another week my wife was on-board. This injected fuel to our relationship like never before. We were able to "fix" the power dynamic in the house. This is in my opinion the most important aspect of MRP. The sex was already grea…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/15 02:37 AM
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Great advice all around. In your place I would shave my balls without telling her and then have her feel them just for the fun of it. We always say that we have to lead by example you know.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/15 12:09 PM
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In theory with Keto you change your source of fuel from carb to fat. think of the inuit people up north who for millennium lived on a pure ketogenic diet. Now that they have access to all kind of carb they get diabetes and fat.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/15 05:51 PM
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Answer: Push through Why?? On the flip side, I've been extremely agrressive during sex and she is eating it up Watch what she does not what she says. She is having a hard time believing on an emotional level the "new you" so what do you do..... you continue improving until she believe it.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/15 02:57 PM
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It's like hunting. You don't go hunting deer just for the meat but for the challenge of the hunt itself.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 01:15 PM
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Hmm after reading your field report I can say that you are at the beginning of a transition in your relationship. In the last month she realized that my love wasn't unconditional and yes in fact if I am not happy I will leave. she says she has been walking on eggshells around me to make me happy etc. You have taken back your balls (CC card) and use it to lay down the new law. But the law and expectations that you have lay down are not very clear. And that's where you can improve to make this sit…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/15 11:17 AM
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I am having trouble not appearing butthurt about this. Part of the reason is my generally sarcastic and cynical disposition. Is there a good method to mask this? Well then genuinely DGAF. Me too I found TRP way late in my marriage 20 years +. It's going to take some time FOR YOU to get use to the new dynamic and your wife as the power dynamic change in your home will get more and more insecure and irrational...... But this will not last. It's part of the process. She will trow temper tantrum lik…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/15 05:32 PM
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Look the power dynamic is changing and she is freaking out! Use this angle to deal with your wife issue.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/15 03:02 AM
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The guy's here are hard on you. But hey, this is NOT A SAFE SPACE! Internalize the material on the side bar, understand and apply what is attractive and what is off putting (sexually speaking) Rules of poon is a good start. This should help you get the lingo and the RedPill concept quikcly If your not a big reader like me.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/15 02:19 PM
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MRP is not a simple one size fit all kind of trick. Context is everything: Are you fit? Like TrainingThebrain ask: Do you look good naked? Do you have your shit together, Emotionally, Financially? How your couple dynamic, respect wise? How is your outcome independence, "Can you see yourself being single again and successful" 1 problem i might have is my fave and or demeanour. I can get a puss face on so i have to learn to control it. Any suggestions. The key to have an impenetrable frame is outc…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/15 12:32 PM
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hmm ,fit, intelligent, successful and charismatic Yep if he is in a LTR and is wife is not fucking him someone else will that's for sure!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 05:07 PM
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Men and women have different sexual imperative. What is really attractive for one could be off putting for the other, or indifferent. Ying and yan. This should help you sort it out
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 03:30 PM
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A guy who is wealthy, charismatic, successful etc. but not sexually attractive..... What you describe is what make men attractive........ Get it now. The law of attraction for Men and women are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 03:21 PM
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Say a guy is wealthy, successful, intelligent, fit and charismatic Even if he is not physically attractive a man like you describe will be desire by a lot of women period.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 03:06 PM
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It's all in the attitude man. Just DGAF and carry on.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/15 06:29 PM
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your right he need a different strategy.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/15 12:50 PM
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Well my friend you have one card to play. It's up to you to decide what kind of life that YOU want! If you are OK with your wife having a career and split the house duty 50 /50 then by all mean let her do what she want BUT If you do need your wife at home so she can take care of the house so both of you can still have some free time outside of work and house chore well you will have to put your foot down and tell her why you need her at home. Your only card is your commitment. So yes if you put …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/15 09:59 PM
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mojoupgrade.com It's an interactive quiz that you and your wife fill up separately. at the end the common answer are send to you in email. Fun stuff
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/15 03:39 PM
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I hope this is a sarcastic comment.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/15 01:56 PM
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Sorry dude but this is not a safe "space" The advice that you are getting here is what the doctor order. And yes the RedPill is bitter but it does work!
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/15 01:32 PM
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'Because I want to fuck you, stupid.' would be the obvious answer but I don't say that. Maybe you should! It sound like you are afraid of her, I mean losing her. Well maybe that is your problem. Focus less on her. And more on what you need and want. Become the prize and act like it. Make yourself scarce. Right now she as your balls Take your balls back!
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/15 01:28 PM
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It's time to take the RedPill my friend. Read this Women in love and this Men in love Swallow that bitter pill.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/15 11:25 AM
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How about starting a business from home? That is what my wife does at the moment. It's a nice supplementary income and it keep her sharp.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/15 11:19 AM
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Tease her just for fun. Remember when you where a kid. Put some fun into it. You probably been walking on egg shell around her, teasing her will change that dynamic.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/15 07:25 PM
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I don't want a divorce, so I guess I have some outcome dependence. ??? No you don't. I will explain to you the kind of frame of mind that you need to have to be able to say that you are Outcome independent. You have to be able to see yourself being happy outside of your marriage as a single dude! Your commitment to the relationship is your only leverage. It do not have to be your first choice but it is a choice that is available to you. How am I a resource for my wife around her emotional upset?…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/15 04:30 PM
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Outcome independence is really important. Once you figure out that YES your marriage is not a prison but something that you can choose to leave if it does not go the way you want. All the shit test and the rest of your frame will follow naturally.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/15 12:24 PM
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First get a good idea of the type of man that you are. Not everybody is made up for family life. choosing the wrong path because of peer pressure will not make you happy no matter how much you want to "fit" in. This is not on the "recommended" book list but this is what you need right now. The Unbearable Lightness of Being This book will help you figure out the type of life that YOU need to be happy. Can you be happy with a more lay-back kind of life with little to no responsibility? OR Do You n…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/15 11:47 AM
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I made mine in an afternoon. Quick and dirty but it does work like a real one. If you can get something like this 4'X6' for the floor at your local hardware store for cheap.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/15 08:24 PM
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To Do I think I have made amazing progress, but it is only a start. My wife still doesn't flirt with me like she used to, so my SMV is not yet where it used to be. I'm happy with my progress, but I can be better. Here is what I still have to do: Get nicer clothes. With the weight I lost, what i have is baggy. * Improve my workouts. I need a barbell with enough weight to do deadlifts and a squat cage. Your on the right track that's for sure. Your first point about your SMV and your wife not flirt…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/15 04:45 PM
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Oh that's cute. The power dynamics is changing and she can feel it. Don't worries this will pass. Just carry on your on the right track.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 04:08 PM
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So...... what your point? Are you afraid of being a bad misogynist bastard for accepting TRP tenant to help you get the marriage that you want? So what?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 01:51 PM
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Indeed ;)
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 01:57 AM
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Just make and eat only the food YOU make! She will get the message. Don't explain why just do it.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/15 02:06 PM
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A woman will treat you as bad as you let her. Now let that sink in for a while and do something about it. And read the side bar FFS.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/15 01:55 PM
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I want to compare her behavior to mine to show how lopsided her judgment is Don't just don't do that!
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/15 01:51 PM
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Ah misère! Look, she will be all nice and remorseful for a time, then when alimony (after you have been married for a set amount of time depending on your state) kicks in guess what will happen. Maybe she will "suddenly" want to have kids with you.........to hasten the process of getting half your stuff and securing that sweet sweet alimony. I get it that you don't want to hear the kind of advice that you are getting here, but it is solid advice! Don't be captain save a hoe.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/15 12:24 PM
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You can say of me that I am a self -taught kind of guy. we all have different life courses and different life experience. It took me more than 20 years of marriage to be where I am today. Yes this sub reddit helped me in the past year. The concept and ideas that are found here are very relevant. I'm sure the book suggested in the side bar are great. But I'm not much of a book worm. I take what I need, and contribute what I can. Other like me will do the same.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/15 10:54 PM
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Do the thing that YOU want to do for you. Be your own man. She will be a lot more attracted to a man with his own will and goals than a man who is on his hand and knee for his woman. This is the kind of stuff that we learn here. And yes it might sound counter intuitive but it does work.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/15 12:30 AM
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Well yes but who care? How does being nice workout for you?..... You don't have to answer we already know the answer. Beta behaviour (being nice etc..) DO not trigger sexual attraction. It's a question of balance.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/15 12:24 AM
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Do you REALLY have to read the 3 book on the side bar?.... No you don't. But it is a good idea to get to them in time. Some men that come for help on marriedRedpill are in such bad shape that yes they do need those 3 book. Other like me don't. Look it's really not that hard to figure out. First thing first get a good understanding of those concept http://theredpillroom.blogspot.ca/p/the-red-pill-primer-for-boys.html This is for boys not for men... but it will help you get a good grasp of all the…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/15 12:12 AM
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the mid life crisis is something that is very real. But the definition of it is kind of vague. We have the same age and you will understand what I will explain to you. It come a time when we take a cold hard look on the first half of our adult life and we then decide what direction we want for the other half. This is NOT something trivial. This is a very important time where (And sometime for the first time) we put our-self first. Is your married life really what you want? Do you want more out o…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/15 09:11 PM
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She is using you like sex toy with two leg. Suggestion: Change the power dynamic outside the bed room. Maybe she need a good spanking. Maybe she is into stuff that you are not aware of ...... Try http://mojoupgrade.com/ to figure out what you are both into... (This can be a LOT of fun)
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/15 02:08 PM
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Forget about the nobody talk about fight club type of reference. Some men here are way to insecure and have not the fortitude of character (Frame) to talk about this openly. Some other men here can and do talk about it and it is way easier to bring your "first officer on-board, about changing the power dynamic in your marriage this way. So the question is, how do you know if or when to initiate that kind of conversation? First thing first have her read something like this then have a good discus…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/15 03:14 PM
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I can't imagine marrying someone who is supposed to be a nurturing guide who can't keep herself from using emotions as a weapon constantly. Are you serious??? ALL women use emotion as weapon. That's how it work buddy. Learn the game and be good at it.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/15 02:57 PM
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It's hard to get a straight answer out of her. But I don't mind her hamster anymore. I just play with it.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/15 11:11 AM
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My wife use to say and do the most stupid thing just to get under my skin. Get with the program, change the power dynamic in your couple and it WILL get better. How long have you been "aware"
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/15 02:48 PM
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Hmm wonder why she is going to the gym with you? I'm trying something with my wife. I made her a small training program (I have a home gym) She had a sever back injuries last years which led her to be more sedentary. (She is still pretty thin 22% body fat) but she want to tone up and get stronger. exercise bike during some day, walk the other day, basic core strength routine etc.... simple stuff. But She as to keep a log book of her activity. So she can see her own progress for herself.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/15 12:46 PM
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I have not told her she's unattractive or turned down sex yet, nor have I sat her down and told her to shape up. Ok.... why?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/15 11:38 AM
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any thoughts on how to move past feeling bad for making my wife upset? Sure, just think of the last time you where "super nice" to her and that got you nowhere! When I'm too nice with my wife I end up unhappy and frustrated, because she do not reciprocate. Now I treat her like I want to treat her and I get result and we are both happier for it. Listen to this song
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/15 06:44 PM
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Best analogy ever!
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/15 05:29 PM
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You're welcome
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/15 05:27 PM
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At least NOW you have the tools to deal with this situation properly.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/15 12:22 PM
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A 10 min delay is not the end of the world. You are way over thinking this.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/15 11:57 AM
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Welcome to midlife crisis 101 dude. It come a point in a man life where we evaluate our past and try our best to figure out if that is what we still want for our future. Sometime with all the improvement (MRP etc...) we can place a bet with our current wife that thing will be better and that we still want to stay married, sometime not so much. Take your time try to bring your wife on board. If after a few month she is not interested in being the wife that you want well...... you know what to do.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/15 11:18 AM
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My sex drive is fine, I am still very horny. I just am losing interest in the wife. He as a different problem that what you are describing. when there's a will there's a way BUT when there's NO will there's NO way. He use to be interested in his wife ..... but the attraction went away and he can see that there's better option for him out there.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/15 11:12 AM
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I would go for the vasectomy and I would tell her!!! Stop being so god damn afraid of your wife dude!
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/15 12:03 PM
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That's RedPill 101.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/15 11:45 AM
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how do you hold frame? It's a real struggle now. It seems easier to hold frame at the start, but the next day, I feel the BP in me dying to get out - to appease her, partly as I want to make sure she's OK for our weekend trip next week, that's already been paid for. We call this outcome independence. For me it was the revelation that my happiness was dependent on me and only me. First I had to realize that I could be happy with my wife or on my own. Once you get to that point keeping frame and d…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/15 11:28 AM
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Yes it is a way of life and a damn good one! take back your balls Learn which behaviours that are attractive to women and what behaviour turn them off. And keep on improving yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/15 02:43 AM
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Married Red Pill problem! Ain't that great guy's ! Keep in shape, supplements, substitute sex for massage night or something else that feel nice.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/15 05:11 PM
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"Honestly, I am surprised you haven't cheated yet." The best response to that would have been for me: You know what honey, sex everyday keep the whores away.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/15 05:01 PM
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Welcome to the new normal. EDIT: Specifically, I'm trying to understand if I was doing something approximately right and she was responding to that. Or was I being BP by "making up" first and she was rewarding me for that. How do you see it? Just get a good grip on what behaviour women really find attractive and which behaviour put them off and it will be all good man.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/15 04:43 PM
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Yes the pill is bitter at first. It does get better in time. You will learn to use the matrix to your advantage once the anger phase is over.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/15 05:28 PM
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Asking for a threesome for a one time thing and an open relationship where your husband and you would have lover on the side is two very different concept.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/06/15 02:11 PM
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Yes it is. All an average women have to do to get laid is say: yes.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/06/15 02:01 PM
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Great field report. PSA Most of us started on this path from years of crappy marriage. Listen MRP noob This is what life is like when all the work is done. Do the work, take the time to read and UNDERSTAND THE CONCEPT. And you too will be able to file a field report like this one in a years. I know that for some of the noob here that a relationship like this one seem like an impossible dream. It's really not. My marriage, my life as changed for the better because of the great advice posted on th…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/15 12:36 PM
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It's fucking hard to be playful with someone you sexually resent. Indeed.... But you have to start somewhere. Yes gym time and overall attitude change will give you result. But those take time depending on your relationship and your physic. Being more playful and teasing her will bright up the mood and change the tone of the relationship while you are working on the other aspect of your MAP. If you can pull it off of course.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/15 04:47 PM
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The best advise I can give you at this stage of your transformation is to keep up improving yourself. Become the prize, show true outcome independence. Be playful with your wife, start teasing her and have some fun with it. (Change the dynamic between you two) The sex will come when the tension is gone between you two.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/15 12:33 PM
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Is your wife any help in this?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/15 12:05 AM
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This my friend is still an ongoing struggle in my house.... But it's better now. consistency is the key. You cannot rely on her for this you have have to step in and make the fucking rule and take the time (Yeah I know me too I'm fucking tired at that time but I take the time if I have too)
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/15 12:04 AM
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This is a good thing. The power dynamic is changing and she is very aware of this. Soon you will have a "talk" with your wife about the new reality of your marriage. Be ready to lead my friend.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/05/15 11:26 AM
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Sure it does take a years to stabilize into "marital bliss" But after 6 month the power dynamic should be changing if not well.......
/r/MarriedRedPill29/05/15 02:08 AM
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I'm not really into fix time span or even mandatory book list. It's just not my thing. But I would say 6 month even for a very old marriage (Been married for more than 20 years myself) If you don't see drastic change in the power dynamic after 6 month she will never come around. There is no point trying to beat a dead horse.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/15 03:40 PM
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Good news for you. You only have a few years invested in your marriage. That mean that after 6 month you can make a decision about YOUR future and if she is a part of it or not. You are at the start of your RP journey. It will get better no matter what happen. PS: (look up alimony law in your state, your marriage is still young you might get off Scot free)
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/15 02:10 PM
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Seriously this should be on the side bar. This should be the first thing that new member should read first!
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/15 02:02 PM
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4) I value my wife as a mother and "status partner" but she is emotionally and sexually dead to me; I have resigned myself to the fact I will not find happiness in my marriage. You have only one life to live, choosing this path will lead you into a wicked midlife crisis. You really don't want to do that my friend. Been there done that, and I choose to do something about it. It was a intense but we made it trough. have no interest in subjecting myself or my son to the torture of divorce Me and my…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/15 11:43 AM
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He is right! She is behaving like a child. Ridicule is the best response to silliness. You have done nothing wrong here just be playful and keep smiling. (It will drive her nuts!)
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/15 01:27 AM
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You are doing everything right. Just keep it up and come back for guidance when you hit a rough patch. Next month will be a good test of your character when your wife realize that the power dynamic in your marriage is shifting. So read up on shit test and comfort test. It just get better and better from here. You will be a different man in a years.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/15 01:49 AM
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You are getting solid advice here. Nothing more to add on my part. You know what you have to do. Change the lock, and ship her back to her mother!
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/15 04:02 PM
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I know it would be great if as men we could just go to our wife for support in moment like these........ But you know better, I know better. They can't really help us and even if ours wife have good intention subconsciously they are disgusted by our weakness. You have two option; Deal with your issue on your own OR go find a support group for veteran like yourself! They will understand you and they will actually care! Good luck.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/15 11:18 AM
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This http://theredpillroom.blogspot.ca/p/the-red-pill-primer-for-boys.html Will give you a quick runner up on the RedPill ideas and some useful trick. And go get a Gym membership Today!
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/15 07:09 PM
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If you want her to stop doing that just stop reacting to her manipulation. It is really that simple.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/05/15 03:56 PM
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It's all a question of balance my friend. Think about this: BluePill guy' < Asshole < Father figure. Sure being an asshole beat being BluePill but being strong father figure will always beat an asshole.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/15 02:39 PM
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When there's a will there's a way. You have two choice in-front of you. You will need to be really honest with yourself in order to make the right choice for you and your family. What do you REALLY want? Yes it's possible to save your marriage, if you want to A lot of poster here have been in similar situation (Brink of divorce) most are still married and theirs marriage have improved drastically. (Mine included) So my advise is the following: While you make up your mind, continue to protect you…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/15 02:25 PM
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Pfff that's nothing my friend. The power dynamic is changing and it is a struggle for her to regain control. Women say a lot of thing like this during the transition period. Just own your shit and carry on! Your "bluePill tendency are still well ingrained in you so...... shut up and learn how to deal with shit test like that. Have fun with it, flip the script, call her bluff.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/15 12:06 PM
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Well I did that for a while and I had pretty good result at the time. Pull up, chin up, Dip etc...... just get a weight vest when you feel your ready.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/15 02:04 AM
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When an old couple like mine rediscovered the "joy" of sex let say that I needed a little boost to help out my libido.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/15 06:40 PM
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It's fun stuff to help open up new "sexual territory" with the wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/15 06:38 PM
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Yep that how it's started for me. I can predict in your future that you will have lot's and lot's of sex! Pro tip : http://mojoupgrade.com/ and zinc supplement. Your welcome.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/15 03:04 PM
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In a MRP marriage theirs is a duality that take time to master. I state that my intentions are to get fit and be more productive with my time. I remind her that I love her. I tell her that if it gets to the point where I feel like my goals have been met and she still hasn't reciprocated, I will indeed break it off with her. I said that I'm taking action regardless of whether she will or not. An iron fist in a velvet glove. She need to feel secure (comfort test) but that security come at a price …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/15 02:55 PM
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This is where we are after 10 month. I love it and she love it too. This was one of the big ideas I had to internalize: she didn't want it easy. What she wanted, more than anything, was a strong man. I was physically strong, but she wanted someone that was strong mentally and socially too. I had to be dominant. She wanted me to be dominant. She would be more than happy to work hard for a dominant man. You can't both be dominant and also care for her fee fees. Finding the right balance take time …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/15 11:53 AM
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I have two tips that I have learn from training past 40. Take your time and train smart! I have tried a bench press that almost dislocated my shoulder a few week ago. Did I give up? hell no. I train smart. I let a few days past to heal properly, then remove 15lbs and work up to the initial weight in a week. Your hitting a plateau, no problem, switch to a hypertrophy routine for a week or two and try again. Respect your body type. EctoMorph, Mesomorph, Endomorph. Being an Ectomorph has it's chall…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/15 12:58 PM
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Read this my friend
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/15 04:51 PM
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There is a very dangerous implication in this tread about women having little to no agency from the BluePill side of the argument. I don't think they understand the implication of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/15 05:27 PM
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I so understand what your going trough. I have been RedPill aware for the better part of the last year. Been married for more than 20 years, which was a hell ride for me. I did turn thing around pretty quickly and my wife is on board. But still I linger at time at the possibility still in front of me. For me the solution to this dilemma was trough introspection and figuring out what I wanted out of life for my happiness. This is a hard dilemma. You know the saying "when there's a will there's a …
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/15 04:56 PM
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Seriously Dude r/MarriedRedPill is this way ---> They will help you sort this out, and theirs first advice will not be to next your wife like other sub! Work on yourself first, then give your marriage a fighting chance using RedPill Knowledge. This stuff actually work and have save a lots of marriage. Good luck it does get better.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/15 02:58 PM
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This is a very important part of communication. Women live life through the prism of theirs emotion. Being all stoic and rational is all fine an dandy BUT it wont make her "feel" that you "Really" care about an issue like a healthy display of passion and anger. Just don't go to bed angry. Use this to make her feel a roller coaster of emotion for the best "make out sex" ever.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/15 03:45 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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