Hey there TRP. I'm one of the Nice Guys that the internet constantly attacks. I dont get any happiness from normal things like exercise, parties or spending time with friends. My only good quality is my willingness to help others and be kind to those in need. I just want to live a quiet life and do my part to help the world, but I know that I'm fighting a losing battle against biology. Deep down I know that I will never be satisfied with my life unless I can get an attractive gf (not like a model, just someone who weighs less than I do).

I'm currently in college and see amazing girls every single day. It hurts me to know that because of my depression, social anxiety, and all the video games I played as a teenager instead of exercising, that I have nothing to offer them. There are hundreds of thousands of jocks, frat boys, and ambitious entrepreneurs who are more than willing to take all of the girls and I feel that its too late for me to start to compete.

I'm afraid that even if things miraculously get better for me in terms of my finances and mental health, I will have to live out the rest of my life filled with bitterness and regret that I will never satisfy my most basic, instinctual desire. Is this fear rational, is it too late for a 20 year old Nice Guy virgin loser to turn his life into something worth continuing?