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| 24 | Social media for RP men - Why it isn't a dichotomy | Red Pill Theory | mushroom_overlord | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/17 06:23 AM |
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| 1 | Seeing a girl who said I Love You. Will saying it back make her run away?Just say it if true. Ask yourself if she would be worth being with if saying it would drive her away. It probably won't matter, but if it did make her run away you would be losing nothing of value. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/19 07:33 AM |
| 2 | LTR becoming flight attendantDon't relocate, unless it benefits you even if you break up. If she is able to work out of the city YOU believe is best for you, then consider watching what she does. Break up at the slightest indication that she is involved with other men. It's worth seeing what she does when the change comes, but if she hits up the bar instead of coming home to you it wasn't going to work out anyway. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/19 07:30 AM |
| 3 | Commit or dipWhy are you asking us what you want? Is it worth it to you to spend your time in this manner, or not? Obviously you should escalate, just ask yourself if you want her enough for it to be worth your time. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/19 09:13 AM |
| 6 | LTR asked if it would bother me if she went for dinner with an old friendTell her that it is a breach of any reasonable set of boundaries to go on what is basically a date with a guy for which the only interaction she can sum up is that they went on a date before. The fact that she is talking about him hooking up with her friend tells you what this guy wants, if it wasn't already obvious. Anyone who's actually an "old friend" is a different case, but if they are only a friend they can meet you as well. Which makes me think, if she puts up any argument about this, jus… | /r/askTRP | 17/08/19 04:32 AM |
| 1 | FWB wants to be sexually dominantTake it as an "interesting" experience and move on when she inevitably pushes you too far. This type of girl ends up being bad news, if not now then somewhere along the line. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/19 08:51 PM |
| 5 | Confidence blow after girl called my penis "really small" Advice, tips?She's a cunt. She's clearly not a good fuck but wants to blame it all on you. You could do better yourself, though. You aren't that much below average, so its about how you use it. As the saying goes, you mean nothing to her until you put your dick in her, and to expand on that you have to be doing it well and consistently. Even if you can get them off by other means (in fact you often need to even if you are a good fuck), there is something about cock that girls crave regardless of orgasm. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/19 10:33 AM |
| 2 | I lose interest in people over time. Is it a mental condition or I'm just out of sync socially? Like every girl I've ever thought I like, every friend I've ever had, i just lose interest interacting altogether. Any input? It frustrates me.It is what it is. I think it happens to everyone, but some people get bored more quickly than others. The best thing to do is to accept it, because it isn't likely something you can change. But, still treat well the people who deserve it; you just don't need be their lifelong best buddy. Good friends and good women are hard to come by, so maybe your subconscious is telling you to look elsewhere for these things; but once you have objectively evaluated that someone enhances your life, rather then… | /r/askTRP | 26/05/19 04:12 AM |
| 9 | Gf “catching up” with old ldr that ghosted herSome people around here are a little confused how this play works. She's gonna act like nothing is wrong for a while, and not give you a purposeful indication. This is during the phase where she is feeling out the situation and seeing if the other guy is actually going to commit. This period also helps to see if the other guy is man enough, but if he is tempting her he is probably an upgrade. In truth, she is acting like nothing is wrong because everything is going properly for her. This then go… | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 09:20 AM |
| 9 | New GF followed her doctor from instagramAt the beginning she asked for open relationship but later she blamed for not wanting a relationship. Mega red flag I thought it is a test so I pushed for relationship and we decided to be in relationship. We went a grill with my friends one time but almost everyday we are togethter. Why did you do this... is the smart reaction among the blue pills really to push for LTR after a girl asks for an open relationship and blames you for either a) no reason or b) understandably not being as invested? … | /r/askTRP | 08/05/19 09:24 AM |
| 1 | Men Have No Friends and Women Bear the Burden. Somehow, with emotional labour.You know, the article starts off with a good point, with an example of how not to treat any woman you want to establish anything with. It isn't her responsibility to baby you. If you are starting spats because you can't piece through your emotions properly, and refuse to ever sit down with a male friend and just talk about what's going on in your life, you are weak and need to improve. If you want your girlfriend to be your therapist, well, I want a billion dollars to suddenly appear in my bank … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/19 12:53 AM |
| 4 | Weird feeling inside. I want to dump my GF after she said this to me...Most in this thread are delusional. All women are like this, unless alpha widowed. He was probably a good guy, but a beta, and she hamstered away his being a "decent guy" because of female solipsism. Of course she wants to leave him behind, she already found enough reason to dump him. Everything she said is subtext for "you are the better man, so I stay with you." Its already known that when a woman finds a superior man to the one she has, she will look for reasons to leave the current one and t… | /r/askTRP | 04/05/19 06:38 PM |
| 3 | GF works and ‘hangs out’ with an exShe has told me the sex wasn’t great and she realized it was a mistake to sleep with someone she works so closely with and she regrets it. Not gonna assume, but this kinda implies that if the sex was good and he wasn't a coworker, it wouldn't be a problem. I think she should be focusing on the trust issue, not whether he was good in bed or how she met him. Her job is shift work (12 hour days) and she works in a team of 5 or so people which means they spend a lot of time together. They also all g… | /r/askTRP | 01/05/19 06:36 AM |
| 1 | I'm in the process of divorce... Should I avoid dating until complete?Yes, but tell the truth to your dates. At the same time, don't be a downer on your dates talking too much about it or letting it affect you emotionally. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Plate just threatened to kill me and herself..Uh yeah? Report to cops, obtain restraining order, stay safe at home, etc | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 10:30 PM |
| 2 | Girl says “I should’ve made a move” when we were laying alone in her bed?Clearly you need some very basic knowledge. If you are lying in a bed with a girl, alone, the implication is generally that you can make a move. She's all but straight up said she's hanging out as more than friends at that point. Of course, if it's off the cuff, don't fuck without protection, but make out and maybe get some clothes off. Then you close as soon as possible with protection (least chance of losing interest as long as you don't act desperate). Edit: after reading some other replies i… | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Shit testThat's fine. I prefer to give them a "woah there" rather than a "calm down" though, because the latter just straight up offends some people (not that you should never say it, just that it gets the opposite reaction from what you are literally asking for). Of course, you have the right idea calling out that shittest with agree and amplify, and regardless of the wording that should get the right idea across. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Aren't a lot of the guys here just as bad as the thots they don't like?A lot of them are quite a bit like the slutty women, but you might be overestimating the amount of them that hate thots. For the sexually hedonistic ones, at least, the existence of sluts is a blessing. Others are just adapting to the world they live in, not the idyllic dream land they would rather find themselves. There's plenty of reasons to complain about our society, but if you don't adapt you're wasting your life. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 04:03 AM |
| 3 | Almost 1 in 3 American men aged 18-30 are incels. Can you believe this statistic? Why is it so high?That's fair but what more would you like to add? | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 06:14 AM |
| 7 | Almost 1 in 3 American men aged 18-30 are incels. Can you believe this statistic? Why is it so high?This is what TRP has been talking about for the past few years. I don't know why its a surprise now, if you've been reading, how lower-value men are being shoved to the wayside because they can't compete when women are given better and better selection tools while being told by the media that they deserve a Chad even if they are a fatass. The women aren't necessarily satisfied, either. But most girls think a Chad is attainable as a long-term option for them, so they keep chasing, or waiting for … | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend wants me to “rape” her. How do I go about this in a smart way?You have the idea already. Have video evidence that she consented, and make it clear she consented to the recording as well (basically, she just has to know about the recording beforehand and be ok with being recorded, so fairly obvious if you are shoving your phone in her face lol). | /r/askTRP | 23/03/19 04:35 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend is not happy with our one sided open relationship"I have needs, when December comes and you can move in we can talk about it more, until then, sorry but feel free to be open on your end as well" | /r/askTRP | 21/03/19 10:09 PM |
| 2 | A girl I've accepted as a friend, is inviting me over and looking to maybe share a bed with meJust fuck her Probably thinks you will make a move and wouldn't invite you if she didn't want the move made Despite the circlejerk at TRP girls may still fuck you even if you have opened up to them Optimally you will have a FWB you can hit up when you want to travel, worst case she will probably just be like "oh I didn't mean it like that" and you can say "ok" and you can continue acting normal | /r/askTRP | 20/03/19 05:47 AM |
| 2 | How does a Red Pill man find a job?Same way anyone goes about it. Red pill is power politics that you don't really want to pull out in an interview, where you are going before a panel and showing them you are a great guy who will make them very happy; Red Pill is about not giving a fuck (you want to at least pretend to give a fuck) and not being controlled, mostly by women. Then if you get the job, don't act like you aren't your boss's bitch until you have proven yourself to the higher-ups. Only when you have established yourself… | /r/askTRP | 20/03/19 01:05 AM |
| 4 | GF cheated on meNo contact. Better off without her. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/19 09:56 PM |
| 2 | My LTR has a fuckload of beta orbiters.You already have the right mindset. Never mate guard by keeping a girl away from orbiters, simply be better than them and establish a strong pair bond. Having to ensure men are blocked out of her life signals weakness within yourself. Of course, she has to know that if she does anything with them, you leave, as the only thing you can trust about them is that they want her. To that end, you need comfort game as well as giving her the alpha dick; her world gets turned upside-down in a bad way if s… | /r/askTRP | 05/03/19 12:07 PM |
| 2 | My fiance saved a guys number in her phone as a girls nameIt should be over at this point. At the very least please do not marry her, this is not going to stop. Eh, you are too deep in sunk cost to consider the logical response. When you finally do, it will be because your life fell apart when this ho, be it still your fiance or having become your wife, actually cheats, or maybe she already has and the bomb will drop later. Just giving you fair warning. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 12:53 PM |
| 0 | Maintaining a plate/something more through text?At 35, she is looking to lock down commitment. I don't know if its smart for you to upgrade a woman so close to the wall. In her 2 months away, text her sparingly and stay flirty, while gaming other women in the meantime. When she comes back, see what you can reestablish that keeps her at plate status. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/19 06:15 PM |
| 1 | If women need to be more selective about who they have sex with, what explains female promiscuity?Are those women fucking all the unappealing guys? Doubt it They are selective, guys just like to fuck so the hot ones are still available. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/18 08:00 AM |
| 3 | Guys I'm BEYOND confusedYeah she is horribly insecure Warning, if you pursue her she will probably have an inferiority complex, but I doubt it's because of the difference in attractiveness rather a psychological issue. Best stay away and have better standards if you are actually a 6 | /r/askTRP | 16/12/18 04:10 AM |
| 2 | About to lose virginity, wrap up?Yes, don't risk it just for the fleeting satisfaction of doing it raw | /r/askTRP | 14/12/18 08:35 AM |
| 6 | Psychiatrist said I should take a break from trp, as I'm overthinking and complicating things in a sense.Sounds like they know what they're talking about. The key is that they aren't conditioned to hate philosophies such as TRP before seeing what they can do; he sees. So this in addition to him being a qualified psychiatrist makes me think he had the right idea. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/18 10:31 PM |
| 7 | Does the true nature of women turn you off?But it stroke me that underneath that soft skin, shampooed hair, cute eyes, well-rounded butt and bouncing boobs, there lays a very dark creature. A Machiavellian figure as dark as all the Machiavellian figures mentioned in Greene's 48 Laws of Power. Most people are self-centered at heart, but not really Machiavellian. She's just following her desires, her biology. Do you really think she's sitting behind her facemask as some kind of chessmaster villain? She's just having a fucking blast getting… | /r/askTRP | 21/11/18 04:52 AM |
| 2 | HB9 approaches me, ask for my snap then unfriends me.Don't blame yourself too much, sometimes even with tons of IOIs you don't know if she's the type of girl that would be put off if you tried a same day lay. Maybe Monday would have been the one to try. You win some, you learn some. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/18 12:23 AM |
| 3 | HB9 approaches me, ask for my snap then unfriends me.Could be anything. You problem could be that she only wanted dick right then and there, and otherwise was fine. Maybe she had just had a huge argument with some guy she was with and wanted to let loose. What turned her off could have been that you didn't pull fast enough and she lost interest, she got a better option in between Sunday and today, she got put off by you telling her to buy you a drink when she thought you would just buy it yourself, or she didn't want to leave her bed because her d… | /r/askTRP | 13/11/18 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Broke up with gf after I learnt her parents are first cousinsWho cares, its basically just losing a month-long Tinder meetup for something that's admittedly disgusting. If you've got options just use them. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/18 10:23 AM |
| 23 | What subreddits are on par with TheRedPill?Unfortunately, I'm pretty sure it's none. I've looked, but I think the rest of reddit is just entertainment or idiocy. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/18 05:48 PM |
| 1 | LTR liking every single picture of a guy on instagramIt's a... flag, idk. Most girls have guys they think about sometimes, and it's not exactly a huge investment to line a bunch of Instagram posts. He was probably "sweet" and she might want one of a few things, one of which could be to "reconnect" platonically and another could be his dick in her mouth. No way to tell, instead of overthinking it do some dread game yourself instead. And not on social media. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/18 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Girl I'm seeing found TRP posts in my reddit history and I think it killed my chances with her. How do I recover?Next her, you fucked up giving away info to your personal account. Next time, either don't give info or make an alt now and start posting/subscribing to random harmless shit. | /r/askTRP | 22/10/18 06:32 PM |
| 1 | How/Should you tell your gf you cheated on herShes better off not knowing, and you're better off not telling. I recommend not making a habit of this, since you seem like a person who would crack sooner or later. Just never tell her, not even if you get in an argument and want to break up and burn bridges. It's all just unnecessary pain. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/18 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Plate got too drunk, need advice on my next moveDon't say anything about it; at least, nothing that is any of the following: apologetic, desperate, or emotional. You made the right call avoiding a possible rape accusation which would actually get you in court 'cause she was drunk. Be confident in this decision, and tell her to come over tonight. If she doesn't, soft next. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/18 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Is she just lame? Or my game isn't as good as I think it to be?She's probably awkward/autistic, give it a beer but if you can't pull her back to your place then I say drop her. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/18 03:55 AM |
| 1 | What are the chances in today's America that a 25yo single mom will find a husband?Something around 99%. Beta men are still everywhere. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/18 06:08 PM |
| 11 | girl I don't know wants to come overSounds suspicious to me, too; I'd suggest meeting her in public if there are no other red flags, then pulling with "wanna see my room and watch TV there" or something. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 08:48 AM |
| 1 | LTR verbally expressed to me that she wants to fuck me as often as I want so I never have eyes for anyone else ( LOL)Good for you, really. Is this TRP at work yes or is this an attempt to control me with sex because she thinks my SMV is starting to rise ? Why not both? She does want to keep you around with sex, which is TRP principles at work really; Alpha Fucks. She doesn't want to pull your SMV down, if I'm reading it correctly, but rather notices she has to be available to you if she doesn't want to lose you. Then again, women constantly test if you can get pulled down, they just hope you are stronger than … | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 05:21 AM |
| 2 | After giving me her number, she says she's in a LDR, but she wants to go out. Next or date?Looks like an easy lay with low committment. Do it. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/18 07:24 PM |
| 2 | Do you go after girls who you know have higher value options?Yes, but only a one-off approach to see if you have something the other guys don't, which is entirely possible. She'll probably say no, but continue playing the numbers to score some hot girls when you get the chance. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 01:02 AM |
| 1 | My gf is studying abroad and I am getting frustraded.Also: We were pretty serious and we're planning to move in together next year. She isn't serious, you are. And you're seriously being played. Break up now or you'll always be her doormat. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/18 07:59 PM |
| 2 | My gf is studying abroad and I am getting frustraded.Also: We were pretty serious and we're planning to move in together next year. She isn't serious, you are. And youre seriously being played. Break up now or you'll always be her doormat. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/18 07:59 PM |
| 3 | "I don't want to lead you on... I'm not looking for a relationship or anything right now.""Good, neither was I." | /r/askTRP | 08/09/18 05:35 PM |
| 2 | I can get a lot of girls travelling but not a single one in my cityYou only asked out 2 girls? Can't get down on yourself after only 2. Go practice abundance, hit on many, get some numbers. If you had no problem on the road, sleeping around in the city should be no problem with sufficient number of approaches with good form. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/18 07:00 PM |
| 2 | Go on date with girl now or wait 2 weeks for better logistics?Now, before she loses interest. Try to bang in the car or at least heavy makeout. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/18 05:56 PM |
| 6 | LTR afraid of losing me after applying dread, need advicesending memes of 'please be patient, i have autism', sending me porn and stuff trying to get my attention back. Does she literally have autism? That might be the source of your problem... if not, apply comfort game while continuing to take what you want from her body. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/18 05:36 PM |
| 3 | Why Millennial Men are failingI don't think so, and I imagine this sub will say "who cares" since it's about positive masculine roles, which the single father is providing. I think a good mother figure is important, but you should probably look somewhere else. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/18 08:56 AM |
| 7 | How to behave in a female dominated subjectThink as you like, behave like others. If you want to operate in their groups, that is. Obviously you have to make the best of your situation if you want the degree, so pretend that you agree with them but dont want to join any feminist society because of whatever reason. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 08:28 AM |
| 4 | Asia Argento, vocal Metoo activist and Harvey Weinstein accuser, paid $380,000 settlement in 2013 to underage actor she had sex withHe's not quite diagnosing the problem correctly, but he has the right idea. It just isn't all or even necessarily most mods; it only takes a few activists to push an agenda if everyone else is doing it by the book. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/18 08:17 AM |
| 34 | "A woman's sexual prime is in her 30's" <--myth?Its hamstering, they peak in their 20s. The 30s bullshit is designed to convince betas they can wait for them to be a hot commodity but this is just when the women want "good men" for marriage that they would have rejected before. Their 30s is where they become more invested in their LTRs, so you can bet they want to pretend to their partner that this is their prime that no other man has seen. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/18 02:56 PM |
| 7 | I Want To Have Oneitis and End Up In Nihilism / DepressionI feel myself being on the lookout for other women of higher SMV in real life, social media Get off social media, it can literally induce depression when you see everyone's "highlight reel" and think they are living better than you, the girls there would be better for you, etc. LTR is a win to women, a loss to men (men maintain SMV, women do not). Sure, she cooks and cleans for me, sucks my dick and takes it up the ass, but that's all the equivalent of a beta providing while she lusts for Chad c… | /r/askTRP | 12/08/18 08:44 PM |
| 1 | First week on the job, a girl in my office got offended by me using the word holocaust and sent me a very scolding and threatening message. Best way to move forward?Play their game or leave their game. Otherwise you may end up in deeper shit as she may decide it is "appropriate" to accuse you of verbal or even sexual harassment, probably without basis in reality. Being all "threatened" is the bitch thing to do. Apologize, knowing you don't actually mean it, and stop giving a fuck about some dumb cunt. Save all messages including the apology to send to your boss or HR if necessary. If necessary, check out mentally and find a better workplace | /r/askTRP | 12/08/18 03:10 AM |
| 1 | I'm an incel. I don't want to be incel anymore.Eat well and lift to clear the skinnyfat. Low sugar intake, maybe keto but I don't know enough about it to recommend it to just anyone, just don't shy away from fats but do avoid unnecessary amounts of carbs (the part that actually makes you fat). 180 means your fat percentage is too high for a 5'11 guy if you don't have muscle. Go out, dress well, and never touch the incel community again. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/18 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Jordan Peterson, Fallacies, and the Tragic State of this SubJordan Peterson has important things to say. Some of those things, even the most blackpilled user should consider. JP is a very intelligent and skilled psychologist who identifies how important it is that people work toward a valued goal, and how even in the most dire situations, there is a duality of sorts; there is always something you could do to make it worse (that you shouldn't do) and something you could do to make it better (that you should do). However, one of his pitfalls is that he has… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/18 01:41 AM |
| 3 | I saw gf on a date with some guy. Did i handle this correctly?What did you expect, knowing what you do about the college cock carousel? You gave her a shot and she blew it, nothing else to say. You were in control the whole time, and you have abundance to return to. You obviously did the right thing breaking up immediately. No need to still be embarrassed, you kept your dignity. Only mistake you made was falling for her "special" qualities, which are all just virtue signalling (religion, dubious virginity, submissive and "respectful" which was quickly disp… | /r/askTRP | 29/07/18 10:59 PM |
| 3 | Older guy at my gym recently "casually" brought up in brief conversation to me that he pays $2300 a month child support. What the fuck is this serious?States that do recognize common law marriage include the following: Alabama, Colorado, District of Columbia, Georgia (if created prior to 1997), Idaho (if created before 1996), Iowa, Kansas, Montana, New Hampshire (for inheritance purposes only), Ohio (if created prior to 10/1991), Oklahoma, Pennsylvania (if created before 9/2003), Rhode Island, South Carolina, Texas and Utah. So the way around it is to not live in these places. Minus the ones "prior to X date" assuming you have't been with your… | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 10:46 PM |
| 2 | Older guy at my gym recently "casually" brought up in brief conversation to me that he pays $2300 a month child support. What the fuck is this serious?With the kid in play, it doesn't matter, as you don't have to be married to pay child support. That would be where 70% of his income is supposedly going. the only thing she theoretically gets to herself is in the divorce, so not marrying and being in a state without common law marriage (look it up) avoids that problem. However, once the kid pops out you are fucked if you split and get a bad deal in court, no matter whether you were bonded in holy matrimony. Of course, in practice she is spending… | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 10:44 PM |
| 2 | Girl in summer schoolYou're overthinking it dude. Just get her number and get her on a fun date, escalation included, or she says no and you can go bang some other slut (which there should be enough of in your environment). | /r/askTRP | 24/07/18 04:28 AM |
| 2 | Best friend fucked up. Is going to lose one of the few seemingly good girls.His relationship is not salvageable in it's current state. Do not take this the wrong way, as I do not mean to be insulting but rather direct and clear: your friend is weak. He could not handle his gambling problem for the longest time. I accept the premise that he is no longer gambling with money, but he has shown propensity for poorly reasoned risk taking where he cannot consider consequences. Don't call him weak to his face, but be clear that he needs to learn self-control; paradoxically, tha… | /r/askTRP | 07/07/18 09:27 AM |
| 3 | The War Bride ArgumentReturning to the abuser is another "feature" of the mechanism that leads to the War Brides phenomenon. The same way she can become attuned to a new strong man who came in and conquered, she can return to a man who is a conqueror in his own right; if he is surviving and successful despite her being whisked away at some point, there is no reason to turn him down just because he failed in the past Women are simply addicted to that kind of power and control if it means survival despite being treated… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/18 12:11 AM |
| 3 | Why do I only enjoy sex with women who have a significantly lower SMV than myself?BP conditioning makes you think you have to prostrate yourself in front of a hot woman to get her attention. That you have to please her with your body and give her the attention she asks for to keep your relationship intact. RP knowledge is that giving less shots about your women is an alpha trait. Therefore, to have a sexy LTR you actually want to care about her less. Don't treat her like shit, but treat yourself as the end-all. I think you already know that but you haven't internalized it, le… | /r/askTRP | 04/07/18 10:35 PM |
| 4 | This HB4 keeps asking me about my girlfriend... is this normal? Is she hitting on me?It's supposed to stand for something like "hot babe" but the second letter becomes kinda meaningless since people attribute it to women. The number is what matters, and it's the typical 1-10 scale of physical attractiveness. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/18 09:00 AM |
| 10 | What are good shit tests to throw at girls?Saving a dying woman is putting pussy on a pedestal? Wouldn't you do it for a guy friend? | /r/askTRP | 03/07/18 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Never thought it would be me, but I want to commit suicide and feel trappedHow is your situation with friendships and a social life? This is important for mental health and in turn for physical. Edit: Also try seeing a physician or maybe specifically a dietician for your health issues. Don't rule out that a physical problem might be affecting your mental health, although it could just as easily be the other way around so just look into it with an open mind. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/18 09:46 AM |
| 2 | Lol, Opinion?She's using her gender for free shit. Don't even try it even if she breaks up with him, just never talk to her again. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/18 12:27 AM |
| 3 | Blowjobs stop but anal more frequent?Do you prefer fucking her in whatever whole you want or getting a blowjob to orgasm? If the answer is the former, nothing's wrong. Anyone who says it's a "bad sign" is bullshitting, so what if she's rather have it in her pussy or ass. Still wants your dick. If the answer is the latter, find another girl who will blow you to completion. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/18 12:01 AM |
| 1 | How do girls introduce her Alpha & Beta male to other girls?Commonly it goes something like this if they are being honest... Alpha: "He's a really fun guy. He just makes me feel things." Beta: "He's a really sweet guy. He/We have our issues, but we make it work as best we can." However, the script can sometimes be flipped and women talk in code all the time. What they say is linked to whar they do, but as the saying goes still watch what they do more. Maybe her guy where they just "make it work" is not invested, using dread game, and taking what he wants… | /r/askTRP | 23/06/18 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Your thoughts girls liking quiet and shy guysThey might "mean" it because they delude themselves, or they might just be playing the game of masks on purpose. Either way it isn't actually true. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/18 06:14 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts from the Anger PhaseIt's a signal of high value. The strongest men need women the least, therefore giving them less attention because they don't need as much in return. Neediness also being unattractive, of course. Men who have face value that makes them attractive, such as figure, physical strength, or money/property, is the initial trap for a woman's desire. The next level is internal strength, which you display by not giving a fuck what others think including her since you are confident in your own abilities and… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/18 09:07 AM |
| 7 | Girlfriend is getting fatYou can't confront women about their weight. It sounds like OP’s gf might have put on 10 or 15 lbs. Enough that it is noticeable but not a dealbreaker yet. If she put on 40 lbs, then yeah I’d say something. If she kept piling on another 20 lbs after I would likely call it quits. Choose one, you can't start by claiming confronting women about their weight is a no can do and then say you'd do it anyway. But you don’t have to blow up the relationship just to prove you have balls. There's nothing to… | /r/askTRP | 19/06/18 06:58 AM |
| 1 | "You can have a threesome with me and *boyfriend* if you want, he said it's cool." - Boyfriend is moving away. Potential plate?Smash when he leaves. At that point it is either you or some other dude, make it you if you want but plate only. Long distance does not work, she is basically single at that point. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 09:27 AM |
| 8 | In the wake of #MeToo, Netflix classifies 5 second staring as Sexual HarassmentAre you sure they are trying to find people actually guilty of sexual misconduct? Or people who looked at Mrs. Bigtit Bosslady in the wrong way (i.e. were not attractive to her, but looked at her the same way Chad Thundercock did)? If you think that any woman is going to get "weeded out" because of this you are reading the situation entirely wrong. If they fire any woman because they accused someone else of sexual harrassment, even if it was based on a fascist policy such as this, the barrage of… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/18 09:17 AM |
| 1 | "Text me when you get to town and I'll see how I feel"This is bullshit. If she doesn't respect your time she's not worth it. And you're far too invested in this girl if you're still being strung along by her after she can't make a decision whether to see you. Take command. Tell her we can either make actual plans or I'll spend some time somewhere else. Tell her what those plans are and a good time for you, she gets a chance to suggest a time better for her. Implied: I don't need you, girl, I can find someone/something else because my time is valuab… | /r/askTRP | 15/06/18 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Asking girls for coffeeNothing wrong with it. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/18 06:31 PM |
| 3 | I kissed her but I still can't read her? I'm mind fuckedProbably just her personality. If she let you make out heavily she's probably into you regardless; shed shut you down otherwise. I don't know if the stereotype of Asian women being submissive applies here, but if so her upbringing may drive her toward quiet deferment to her man's guidance, which you could be misinterpreting as standoffish due to awkwardness (if she's a virgin (a big if) she doesn't really know what she's doing yet). All in all she may have had a conservative upbringing. Might ma… | /r/askTRP | 09/06/18 01:46 AM |
| 4 | I think im in love, need advice.I admittedly do not know what you should do for sure. Gut reaction seeing this is to next her and there will be others. However, the root of the problem is not any one girl (as usual). The problem is, you are still very insecure because you've been knocked down, languished for 6 years, and knocked down again. Meditate on these issues (literally or just in the normal way of thinking) rather than the effect of this one girl on you. my red pill advice to myself would be, "you are still not ready, o… | /r/askTRP | 07/06/18 09:33 AM |
| 3 | Good News and Bad News. Good news is my ghosting worked, bad news is i absolutely fucking blew it.You are getting in your own head and pushing yourself down when there is nothing to be ashamed of. ED happens, but at the end of the day you utilized high-tier game and proved you have SMV to get a hottie to suck your cock and open her legs for you. When it didn't work out, she stuck around and it was fine. That's an achievement, and hopefully you are working towards a point where you will be less nervous having sex, making it easier for you to get hard if nerves were the issue. If you jerk off … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/18 09:19 AM |
| 8 | Girls in my study group are ignoring me. What should I do?Asshole game doesn't work when you're clearly getting AMOGed. I don't know what the "other guy" does but I assume he's just trying to actually study rather than game a oneitis; this is actually the more alpha thing than being a teasing asshole for the girl's sake because he's clearly doing something useful with his time. When you have value you can afford to throw it around. Being socially awkward, you don't have the chops to pull off asshole game, unless you are attractive (you haven't mentione… | /r/askTRP | 06/06/18 09:00 AM |
| 1 | “But I don't want sex””I don't really care for it” How to respond to this shit testNext immediately without going no contact. Just text "Ok, suit yourself." If she's just playing hard to get or something, she will come eventually. If she was not into the sex and not into you otherwise, then there's nothing to be done other than get other girls. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/18 07:38 PM |
| 1 | What to do with my beta friend who holds me back?It can be good to talk with a guy who isn't only concerned with getting laid. But does he bring any value to your life outside of his lack of enthusiasm for your lifestyle? As far as you say he basically just insulted you as a guy who can never get a girl to stick around, while propping himself up as a nice guy, but not actually giving you any advice (although I wouldn't take it from him). Some friend if you ask me, assuming he isn't helpful on other subjects or at least fun to be around. If you… | /r/askTRP | 01/06/18 09:30 AM |
| 1 | I just had the most fucked up date of my life.She ain't the only fucked up one. You should have just parted ways once this showed up in daytime conversation instead of getting in her face essentially calling her a slutty piece of trash who wants to be abused; perfect way to get accused of assault once she changes her mind. She wouldn't even have to make anything up, all she has to say is that you grabbed her throat and slapped her ass without consent. Sure, some girls will have their daddy issues come out in the bedroom and sometimes it's f… | /r/askTRP | 27/05/18 11:20 PM |
| 2 | If a woman is ok with physical closeness in public but won’t let you “isolate” her, what’s the freaking deal?She does want Chad dick, but there's more too it because women are the gatekeepers of sex. Women need plausible-deniability-ASD and to for the guy to prove his possession of alpha traits (although sometimes attractiveness/ her horniness is enough). Basically she has a job to do, evolutionarily, to make sure she's getting fucked by the higher value guys. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/18 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Get flirted with and/or stared at on a daily basis by women, yet still a kissless virgin, help.Just do it. Take the reasons you care about them saying no and throw them out the window. Don't want to lose her as a friend? She'll get bored anyway if things don't go anywhere and she'll stop talking to you at all. Just do it. Your self-esteem will be crushed by rejection? Life's short and you miss 100% of the shots you don't take (that you actually feel a desire to take). Just do it. Think there are other people who will be annoyed/laugh at you for asking out their mutual friend? Fuck their o… | /r/askTRP | 25/05/18 10:51 AM |
| 1 | Do you have a son? Don't ever send him to public school. Confessions of a conversvative history teacher.You're right about the system, wrong about how to go about it. Public school will teach tough lessons about the pussy pass and people keeping you down and in line, if you have the proper parenting to make sure the kid is looking at it in the best way possible. Meanwhile, homeschooling is absolutely worse regardless (keeping the kid in a bubble where he doesn't learn shit) and private school is more likely to be an echo chamber. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/18 04:07 AM |
| 2 | An ex-LTR wants to get together and talkHas Chad told her he doesn't want her instead so she wants me back? Probably, or she came to the realization herself. Either way do NOT take her back, plating might be fine but the very least she never gets LTR status again. Edit: if she wants to "talk" then just ignore. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/18 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Having an existential crisis right now... Is true love real?Love exists. It exists as a feeling because of chemicals in your brain. It exists as an evolved mechanism for pair bonding. That doesn't mean it can't be meaningful, it just means it's subjective to your interpretation. Pair bonding can be meaningful to you, or maybe it's bullshit. Depends on what you want. True love is Hollywood lies. There is no "one" and this moment there exist many women you would be happy being with and could love given the right circumstances. The fact is, you are going to… | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 10:15 AM |
| 1 | She said yes, but....only as friends. BUT WAIT...!!!Look, you're clearly a smart dude so don't let oneitis (YES, THIS IS WHAT YOU HAVE, STOP DENYING IT) cloud your judgment. You have things going for you that most guys don't; there is NO reason to fawn over a hipster girl at work when you could clearly have abundance. I understand interest in hot chicks at part-time job, and maybe you can be lucky enough to play with fire and not be burned, but when you're given good reason (like getting blown off for two weeks and then soft rejected) move on. I … | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 08:36 PM |
| 0 | She said yes, but....only as friends. BUT WAIT...!!!Don't shit where you eat. I'll mention that it doesn't matter if she's seeing someone, she agreed to a date and hasn't explicitly rejected physical escalation so you are still an option. My advice is to go to the movie but don't get handsy; she'll lose interest and you can escape your mistake of asking out a co-worker. If you want to get laid and play with fire, well I guess that's your call. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 09:37 AM |
| 3 | A question on initiating contact.You are probably overthinking it; her personality just seems passive. Like some girls will not initiate no matter how much they want you. However if it bothers you just drop contact and see if she improves. If not you have other plates. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/18 08:19 AM |
| 3 | Best ways to pass this shit test?Who gives a fuck about some old cunt | /r/askTRP | 13/05/18 07:07 PM |
| 6 | Why does only texting for logistics work?For the more advanced this rule is more malleable; but still keep things short and concise to get her closer to you in person where you can actually use the natural methods of seduction (vs average chumps thinking they can convince a woman to fuck them through some persuasive text messages. Not impossible but not worth the time when you could be using your physical attractiveness, the simple effect of your presence, and game). Texting a lot only hurts because it looks like you aren't doing much … | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Losing my virginity to a prostituteIt's just a roundabout way of saying "it was never going to work." It sounds BP but trying to force a relationship with the first girl available is the epitome of BP lack of abundance. Forcing it, even if you want it, is not the way to go, or it becomes obvious that you don't have options and is a pointless venture. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/18 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Helping beta friendIf he's thinking this way, it may help to suggest "it's not just about money. It's about your value as a man." It's easy to point out situations where a hardworking man or attractive man, not a rich man, gets the girl. Now of course we don't want your friend to turn full BB, just point out the obvious counterexamples to trying to be that guy that does everything just for one girl, in casual conversation without forcing it. Example: Beta incel: Waaaah girlz don't like boys girlz like cars and mon… | /r/askTRP | 07/05/18 05:40 AM |
| 13 | LTR going on ‘girls holiday’, Thoughts?Is she going specifically to get dick? Possibly not. Will she take it if some Chad offers and it can be a girl's secret? Probably. Assume it will end as most 17yo relationships do, get what you can from the relationship now and check out emotionally. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/18 07:37 PM |
| 2 | Is playing music feminine?Who cares? The real answer is probably "depends on the music." Should be pretty obvious which music lies in which category. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/18 06:11 AM |
| 2 | Club Interview DisasterYou cannot expect to be perfect for every club. Maybe these guys were not impressed by your personality, and sure, you can make some changes if you came off as arrogant (it's fake confidence that shows insecurity) or taking it way too seriously. However, you cannot please them all so it is better to look at other options. Think abundance mentality, you shouldn't worry about one org the same way you shouldn't worry about one woman. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/18 06:04 AM |
| 1 | Is TRP encouraging narcissistic personality disorders?I think you are confusing ego and desire. The narcissist gets laid to prove to his ego and those around him that he's hot shit. The hedonist gets laid because he likes it, and that's a better place to be psychologically, although there are arguments against it. Both of them can use manipulation tactics though. Doesn't make it a disorder in the latter. You manipulate people every day without putting a label on it. TRP is a selfish philosophy, but it's rooted in reality. Most people are out for th… | /r/askTRP | 21/04/18 09:58 AM |
| 4 | Is TRP encouraging narcissistic personality disorders?TRP is not one hivemind, but there are a lot of guys who just care about flaunting their n-count and stories of their Machiavellian Chadness. Ignore and focus on self-improvement aspects. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/18 08:49 AM |
| 2 | Cringing at people saying blue pill things to me.If you find it funny, laugh. Then Agree and Amplify or just don't care. When there are other women around you can turn it into preselection with cocky/funny game. Why give a fuck about the BPness of other people? Especially women; they are blind to their own insitiutions of dating and hare never proven wrong about their BPness because surprise, they always find "love" until of course he leaves and he's an abusive asshole. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/18 08:29 AM |
| 1 | How to/is it worth to cope with a girl with Daddy's issue?It's probably not worth it if she is showing all these signs in the initial phases. Most girls open up about insecurities eventually, but when it's so surface level you know it's serious. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/18 07:48 AM |
| 2 | Reward myselfA good meal. No junk food, something you like that you won't regret later. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/18 11:28 PM |
| 1 | To propose next week, but now wondering if it's a big mistake.Don't get married. If you are insistent on not following this advice, at least wait longer than a single year and make sure it's a woman who's been treating you right for the whole relationship. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/18 10:14 AM |
| 2 | Girlfriend dumped me, went on a date, she found out and freaked out.Why do you care? Be glad she isn't going to bother you trying to get back together, or at least hasn't yet. Forget that bitch. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/18 07:14 AM |
| 5 | The Red Pill is a sad aspect of reality, but it's real nonetheless.You may get laid/used to get laid a lot, but this proves you can be a natural AF and still be BP. Also a case of how the BP still can keep multiple sexual partners. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/18 09:49 AM |
| 1 | Things are changing, but what now?Do more important shit now that you have getting laid covered. Career, hobbies, not purely sexual relationships, etc. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/18 10:13 AM |
| 3 | Why do mothers try to embarrass their sons?Its pathological for sure, but its like shit testing but with different goals. For example, a woman with abandonment issues might see her son leaving as the end of the world for her, so she'll try to keep him down using shaming tactics. Sometimes the sane but not perfect mothers just don't know any better. Of course, be prepared for ANY woman to use these tactics for mate selection; it either wards off the betas (embarrassment), or keeps them around as a provider (shame and guilt). | /r/askTRP | 25/03/18 10:47 PM |
| 1 | I think I am being pursued by the Tchetchen mafia because of my gf.Best advice I could give is to follow the man's advice. Anything else could literally get you killed and I'm not gonna be responsible for that by my late night musings on how you could worm your way out of this with your girl in tow. If "the power of love" will not allow you to follow the rational advice everyone as repeated, at least wait it out while she recovers. Her family is emotional and liable to lash out in this stage, they probably place undue blame on you (easy to justify in their mind… | /r/askTRP | 24/03/18 10:19 AM |
| 1 | Turned down group “date” for first time meetingNot weird at all. She can take your offer or leave it. If she declines, next. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/18 12:38 AM |
| 17 | On the Basics of PowerTalkAlmost any woman is constantly trying to use subtextual cues to get the high value guys to approach her, and get the betas to stay away until she's ready to settle. This is done often without even her awareness, as she usually will honestly think she wants a "good guy" no matter how many dark triad Chads are under her belt. As far as understanding these cues, you often simply can't which is why escalating while assuming attraction is the way to go. You can try to operate looking for IOIs and you… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/18 09:49 AM |
| 2 | Moment of Beta-ness during unexpected fight. How to handle the inevitable round 2?She doesn't want a true LTR with you (as in, it might be a relationship but ain't long term). She's waiting on someone better, you're just a step on the ladder. She's not what you're looking for. Hard next and work on yourself (abandonment issues are not baggage you want from a girl; so neither are they something you want to push on one). | /r/askTRP | 22/03/18 06:55 PM |
| 1 | have a 4/10 girl interested in meWhy waste your time if you aren't attracted. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/18 09:59 AM |
| 3 | SHE approached me and I messed up.If you are looking back to bad things in your life where you already learned your lesson, don't. Once you identify the problem keep the past in the past and work on yourself in the present. For example, you learned how not to communicate with a woman who approaches you; if there are still lessons to be learned, put yourself in more situations where you could approach or be approached instead of thinking about "this one girl" "this one time." | /r/askTRP | 19/03/18 09:51 AM |
| 10 | How do I proceed and not fuck this up? Also, do I lie about my age?Holy shit dude you are way overthinking this, just get drinks and take her back. Don't lie about age, if she finds out she'll see through your fuckery. You have this one in the bag, just continue your current, effective game. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/18 07:36 PM |
| 20 | Do NOT date or marry women with mental health issues [Repost]You cannot save them. You cannot tame them. They will burn you, its just a question of how badly. If you suspect something, get out before its too late (you will rarely get out without some blowback but it is far better than if you wait for it to fester). -Advice from a person who has seen the effect of women with mental illnesses on his friends. Was thinking of writing a post like this but it may be a field report of my outside observations on these relationships somewhere down the line. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/18 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Just had a date that ended after about an hour. Were these questions "shit tests?"None of those are shit tests, just typical "is he interesting" type date questions. Your responses are fairly boring and if she liked you she would have made more than an hour of time available. Move on, she's not interested and not available anyway. Edit: instead of making more interesting answers to already boring questions, move on from the boring questions. Recommend "deep diving" conversation techniques or just talking about something more interesting; if you've got nothing interesting goin… | /r/askTRP | 12/03/18 10:15 AM |
| 2 | Should I clarify the boundary?Nah, you have what you're looking for so no need to be "that guy" who needs to clarify "what are we" (Don't think you are but that's how it might seem). She knows what's up already. If at any point you want something more from her, define a new boundary and next her unless she meets it; for now, just continue as is with no discussion necessary. She knows what's up. Doesn't mean she won't try to use "I thought we were something!" against you later, just don't give a fuck, next, and you'll be fine… | /r/askTRP | 12/03/18 10:09 AM |
| 1 | Lying about losing virginity as the stereotype of a Virgin?Not worth it in the long run (people find out or you slip up and cue them into the possibility of your dishonesty). Save Machievellianism for business or game. If you are actually looking to fuck a slut from the club then yeah don't say you're a virgin if asked, but you really gonna weave a web of lies for something normal like this? Monk mode is in order, you clearly aren't living for yourself. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/18 10:27 AM |
| 2 | Do I fuck herFuck her and stop feeling guilty when you've made no commitment yet (BP). | /r/askTRP | 09/03/18 10:07 PM |
| 2 | Why do our mothers lie to us and tell us the exact opposite of what women really want?they are truly delusional about themselves, and have no idea how they or other's think. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/18 07:59 AM |
| 2 | Any point in trying?A place to fuck is all you need. (Don't mean a property, or apartment, just SOMEWHERE you can close) | /r/askTRP | 08/03/18 04:28 AM |
| 3 | To go away for the summer or stay home for a relationship?I'm not convinced he could do better than her if he could possibly rationalize staying. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/18 04:24 AM |
| 3 | To go away for the summer or stay home for a relationship?I don't want to hurt her and I do love her but I know she is not the one for me. There is no "one." Should know this if you've read even the most basic posts on the TRP sidebar. But I digress, if you know she isn't a good fit what else can you do but end it when your options expand? Not gonna work forever, it's only a matter of time. We're very different. The relationship is quite toxic too I just don't want to hurt her cos she's good to me. We've had problems with flirting before and on occasio… | /r/askTRP | 08/03/18 04:22 AM |
| 3 | How to deal with the 'friend'.Is HB8 still fucking you? If yes, then who cares about her bitch friend. Women know that other women will do this, HB2 is jealous and venomous but HB8 knows she isn't competition so puts up with it. Once you stop fucking her at which point HB2 will be a shoulder for HB8 to cry on to validate her. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/18 07:50 PM |
| 3 | Girl texts me after 6 monthsMy plan is to proceed, escalate and see if I can just plate her while I see other girls. Your guys thoughts? That seems like exactly the right idea. Just don't make it seem too easy for her and be ready to walk away at any time; if she can ignore you for 6 months and then a single text sends you scurrying back, you need to make sure she doesn't think you don't have options. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/18 07:41 PM |
| 1 | are hot girls ever single?Rarely. Either get lucky or don't fall for the shit test. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/18 10:18 PM |
| 2 | A Plate asking who my current Girlfriend is.Are you cheating, in an open LTR, or just picking and choosing your "girlfriend" from your current plates? Standard advice would be to pass it off as a shit test with a joke (something like "Girlfriend? What's that?"). Nothing more to be said until you get more information. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/18 09:44 PM |
| 1 | How can i defend myself from another guy without DEERing?Don't | /r/askTRP | 24/02/18 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Do I have a right to be mad? (long post + AWALT)If it bothers you that she is seeing other guys, or if her behavior is not acceptable, end it, it's that simple. You clearly aren't in a place where you can plate her, you think of her too much as one might think of their LTR even if you say you don't want that. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/18 11:25 AM |
| 2 | Why do women care about social media?People aren't that rational, and are pretty easy to draw into time sinks like social media or video games if they crave validation. Not just women, but they are more prone to the neuroticism of worrying too much what others think, hence social media as an outlet. It's also not immediately obvious to everyone how can lead to depression, they just sit down one day and find out they wasted tons of their life on an endless loop that fuels itself, since one can never have "enough" of social media whe… | /r/askTRP | 21/02/18 11:19 AM |
| 3 | Is game a skill? As in approaching womenYes, it's s form of social skill, which is learned not innate. Most "naturals" just had a lot of experience growing up, although I would guess that genetics affect some sort of innate personality which influences social behaviors. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/18 11:17 AM |
| 7 | She keeps telling me to avoid risksWomen are typically higher in neuroticism including anxiety. Seems like she just gets anxiety over your safety; stand your ground, don't need to joke about it although you can. Make it clear that you must take risks in order to succeed, enjoy your life, and better yourself. Most importantly just accept that she probably won't change. You can't force people to change their personality so either accept who she is, use withdrawal of affection to try to change her behavior, or if neither works for y… | /r/askTRP | 21/02/18 11:13 AM |
| 1 | How can you ever love while holding frame?So I'm finding every time I go on dates, before redpill I'd always get that full hit of dopamine from all the affection I'd get from the girl and end up being a bit clingy. Post redpill I'm quite withdrawn on dates and am reluctant to do anything not sexual eg. holding hands, hugs, cuddling or even making out. I just feel completely detached from the girl and it depresses me really. In this state, how is it ever possible to actually fall in love with a girl if I'm subconsciously constantly worri… | /r/askTRP | 14/02/18 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Good looking but totally omega. What to do?Where do you live? It helps to have roommates so you are forced to interact on a daily basis, thus avoiding the social isolation problem. Maybe your roommates can get you into a social circle. Otherwise, just get up and fucking go to social events, whatever you can find that you can get to. Think of "working the social muscle;" you wouldn't expect to get ripped without working out, so how do you think those who are good with people got started? | /r/askTRP | 12/02/18 07:41 PM |
| 9 | What to text after taking her number ?Simple logistical things to meet her in person and get dates going. To not sound beta, simply be more dominant. Remove stuff like "if you want" and things that give her more choices or don't make a choice at all (such as nebulous "you want to do something this weekend;" replace with "[X activity you like] at [time you decide]. You can negotiate times if the time doesn't work for her. Negotiating the actual event is more problematic but not off the table. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/18 06:29 AM |
| 1 | When a girl invites you to her place is she DTF?Probably. Take her up on it, escalate in the moment, then if she shuts you down get out of there. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/18 07:36 PM |
| 2 | How to maximize this time in my life (22M)It's probably a phase. But it's best to escape as soon as possible so to not waste more time. Most humans do better with socialization beyond what you're getting. Maybe you're in that small tip of the bell curve that doesn't, but as far as I can tell you are in the "depression" phase of TRP. Associating with women and attuning to your sexual side help as well. I would take Jordan Peterson's advice that you outlined in your post. It's not perfect but it's a lot better than being a shut-in doing "… | /r/askTRP | 11/02/18 05:33 AM |
| 0 | How to maximize this time in my life (22M)Do you have a social life? Sex life? Also just get off 4chan no discussion | /r/askTRP | 11/02/18 03:20 AM |
| 2 | How can I tell my Girlfriend that I do not want to move into the condo that her Mom owns?"I don't want to get into a financial deal with your mom, I think it might affect our relationship." Puts it into terms she can understand. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/18 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Plate says “I have to stop seeing you because I have feelings for you” Over text. What do now?Find another one if you have less plates than you would like. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/18 02:55 AM |
| 1 | What should I get for my home?Have a clean place but don't overdo it with amenities for her if you wouldn't use them. Its an easy tell that you're trying too hard or are a provider. Nice towels and stuff but don't be the guy that has to provide everything for her e.g. tampons, she's a grown woman who can provide for such needs herself. If you get laid a lot don't be afraid to show it, but don't pretend. Convenient locations for "Netflix and chill" are easy but necessary. Anything after that should not require such overprepar… | /r/askTRP | 05/02/18 03:04 AM |
| 2 | Wtf just happened + did I handle it correctly?Can't see that you did anything wrong. You're the prize and she lost it by being a bitch. She wants to "make up" for her mistake by calling you up crying but as you know she won't change even if she says she will. Just keep as much evidence as you can in case she tries to fuck up your life and move on. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/18 07:55 PM |
| 2 | How to use TRP to grow “rich”?You act like there's a secret cheat code to being one of the most successful men in the world that TRP could figure out but hasn't yet. That your 18 year old ass could get on the fast track to being filthy rich right out of high school. The cheat code doesn't exist. The closest thing is the laws of power but they only work as guidelines to functioning in dominance heirarchies. And TRP is and always has been sexual strategy first, not the place you can go to find out how to be a CEO. It takes int… | /r/askTRP | 01/02/18 08:09 PM |
| 12 | Do I withdraw my attention here?I know a girl like this in a relatioship with a friend so I think I can relate. As far as I can tell you failed a comfort test by making it seem like you didn't want her for anything. As far as I can tell something like this shatters her reality and she thinks you are going to leave; getting positive feedback and then suddenly rejected is very jarring and whether you're a man or woman you're bound to question what the hell just happened. She came to the conclusion that you weren't attracted, des… | /r/askTRP | 22/01/18 10:45 AM |
| 2 | I'm 21 and have a 28 year old into me?She is nearing the wall or may have hit it already. Like others have said, her age bracket often wants to get knocked up by a man who can father strong kids, or possibly she sees you as her last chance on the CC. Realistically you are probably just young and hot to her. Picture yourself in your late 20s and you'd probably see yourself fucking a hot and available 21 year old college girl; women aren't that different in sex drive when it comes to Chad so maybe you're Chad. | /r/askTRP | 20/01/18 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Quickest way to get over heartbreak?Just takes time. Eventually you will look back and realize it wasn't worth agonizing over and that there will always be other women you can get with; that time may not be right now, but it's a reasonable coping mechanism to look forward to the time it does. Same thing with dependency issues, it sucks now but if you tough it out you will see results if you don't relapse. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/18 09:10 AM |
| 3 | Regarding loveLove is just a word for a feeling you get for people you value in some way; in that sense there is a concept of "love" one could be in the frame of mind of. That said, language is malleable I'm not disagreeing that Disneyfied love concepts are bullshit. But it's good to recognize that someone being "in love" can be connected with actual brain chemistry so it's not as if you're imagining things when you feel "love;" rather, we romanticize the idea of love beyond that of a bonding mechanism. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/18 11:17 AM |
| 1 | Heated debate about women's oppression throughout history and in the present with my G/F, 2nd wave feminist - HAD to share the discussion with this communityAs much as you are completely correct in most of your arguments, you don't get points for being right when it comes to most women, only how it makes them feel. Especially true with feminism, it's the ultimate manifestation of "I feel like something is wrong therefore it is." That said if you're just looking for someone to throw arguments at to see what sticks then be my guest. But as far as those looking to better their sexual strategy, having these arguments is a spergy thing for most men. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/18 11:11 AM |
| 2 | The absurdity of casual datingCan't say I care if you want to see prostitutes, but in other cases your analogy is a bit silly seeing as dating is not just an exchange of goods and services. It's closer to a negotiation such as a business deal; resources are involved but there is no expectation that your offer is to some extent guaranteed to get the deal. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/18 10:34 AM |
| 3 | askTRP Megathread December 27Women will date lower ages in accordance with power, attractiveness, or sometimes attitude. This usually does not get as extreme as getting with teenagers since it isn't at all accepted, and they will have trouble claiming rape when they are a statutory rapist. That said, sometimes female teachers will sleep with a male student, in accordance with the three standards I outlined before. The double-standard where men are always the aggressor will keep them out of prison at least. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/17 11:34 PM |
| 2 | askTRP Megathread December 27The phrasing of your question is really weird. But as to what I think you are asking, the way women reward niceness is either with absolutely nothing or with friendliness (which we know is not a sufficient reward compared to intimacy and therefore resort to different tactics). | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/17 11:28 PM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread December 27Greater volume of approaches is a good idea. You might get lucky after a few but you can't count on it. If daygame approach doesn't work at all, look into social options (nightlife, orgs, etc). | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/17 11:25 PM |
| 3 | askTRP Megathread December 27Don't block her, just remember she blew you off once so don't treat her with any more respect than she treated you. Go for other girls as a general rule, not just when one doesn't pan out. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/17 11:23 PM |
| 1 | December 15 - Weekly Improvement & Progress ThreadHave to get back to work, only really have time to say that my study habits have greatly improved. If I get sidetracked I'm a lot more invested in getting back on track, partly due to my pre-RP ideas but a lot because of the ethic I've developed from focusing on a Mission and not giving a fuck otherwise. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/17 05:26 AM |
| 22 | You will Lose - But you're not a loserGood points overall, but in regard to number 7, just because it isn't always your fault doesn't mean it never will be. Introspection is necessary when you fail in order to learn, rather than simply assuming that every girl that leaves you would have left anyway. You can simultaneously accept that you don't control her and that you can improve your game for the next one. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/17 05:22 AM |
| 1 | Unable to escalate dates into hookupsThere is one girl whom I met 3 times, all spontaneous coffee dates, I casually touched her, held her hand, arm wrestled and what not but never kissed at the end of the dates. Same thing with a new girl I have hung out with twice (she's socially awkward but seems into me), no kiss yet, absolutely no touching with this one yet. I got two more girls' numbers today and plan to meet them later this week. I don't want to ruin those ones. Don't wait for the end to kiss. Escalate in the moment instead o… | /r/askTRP | 17/12/17 06:31 AM |
| 2 | My girlfriend texts her "best guy friend" multiple times a weekHe is probably an orbiter. Act like he doesn't matter until there is an indication he or she has crossed a line, in which case reinforce your borders unless the transgression is too great to continue. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/17 02:16 AM |
| 4 | Passed a shit test but got ignored?You have either listened to the wrong people or misinterpreted what the right people are saying. "I have a boyfriend" is a shit test because a sufficently valuable man can pass it. If you demonstrate that value, you pass, otherwise you don't. The "sufficiently valuable man" can range from anyone who has a cock to Brad Pitt, so there's no surefire way to pass. Now textbook tactics such as A&A don't "pass" the shit test unless she wanted to bang you anyway. So she wasn't interested, or maybe you d… | /r/askTRP | 10/12/17 10:31 AM |
| 3 | Oneitis acting strange, could use some advice/ remindershb8.5 has a boyfriend shes on a break with, thought shes falling in love with me it will not lead anywhere because she is extremely wealthy old money and I am... not. The other guy is who her parents, and she herself, wants to end up with We all know how concepts such as "the one" you will end up with are BS; there's no reason to assume that she won't change her mind. No need to let anything discourage you if she has perks that your oneitis doesn't, especially if they have reasons to go on a "br… | /r/askTRP | 08/12/17 09:00 AM |
| 1 | What does DEERing mean?You could consider it a sort of "defense," however in this case we are talking about defending your position, as if you are in a debate. Again, arguing with women is not a debate so you don't win by defending your position in an argumentative way. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/17 07:52 PM |
| 3 | Ex claims pregnancy 2 weeks after breakup. Tries to convince me to “co-parent” while not together. Showed me zero proof of pregnancy. Kicked her the fuck out and told her contact me when she gives birth.It's a decent bet that she might be faking it to get you back. If she's willing to lie about buying a house, lying about being pregnant is pretty mundane. If she has a kid and it's yours, tough shit you should have used protection. You can't force her to get an abortion or anything so take it as it comes. You can, of course, demand a paternity test and hopefully it won't be yours. In the meantime it is absolutely correct to stay away from her; this sounds like the type of bitch who will fake tha… | /r/askTRP | 02/12/17 06:18 AM |
| 4 | Girl liked me. I stupidly friendzoned her. How can I get out of the friendzone I created?Get her alone, escalate. Go for a kiss/makeout in a fun, semipublic situation and invite her to continue at your place, or just skip to the last part. Depending in her character, tell her some romantic bullshit about always having feelings for her if you're trying to become a couple. You must let go of the fear of losing her if you want to have a chance at having her sexually, that's just the risk you have to take. Success will be unpredictable since you've given her so much time to lose attract… | /r/askTRP | 01/12/17 09:39 AM |
| 2 | Friends gf never puts in effort to know me, and generally acts like a cold bitch. I'm expected to be best man at their wedding..Stop thinking about this girl and focus on your friend. The fact that she doesn't like you deserves no fucks. Does your friend deserve your respect? Do you want to be his best man irrespective of the woman he's dating? If yes then do it. The chick hasn't shown any red flags as far as you have described. Honestly it's kind of a positive that you might not have to worry about her becoming attracted to you, because whether or not you reciprocate you lose a friend. Worrying about this girl not likin… | /r/askTRP | 01/12/17 09:32 AM |
| 4 | HypergamyIt's pretty similar. Another commenter described some key differences, but we all take what we perceive as the better deal, that's RP for you. Some guys are just bitter and yelling at the sky for being blue. Same way women complain when their Chad fuckboys (not really theirs as he hasn't given up commitment but that's how they think) are finding other ass, yet they still want his dick. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/17 09:19 AM |
| 10 | If you know a girl is in a relationship, and she still wants to fuck you, what do you do?Bros before hoes. (Not moralizing. It is to your ultimate advantage to maintain a network of good male friends and keep your reputation as a decent guy) Don't care, hook up if you want Don't care, hook up if you want | /r/askTRP | 01/12/17 12:04 AM |
| 2 | How do you respond to “You never have time for me”This test is usually used in an LTR, if you're in an LTR you don't have time for than just stop it. If it's one you have time for but she's comfort testing, simply say you're busy with X task until you are free to do [date of your choice]. Don't lose frame if she whines further, stick to your guns. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/17 10:53 AM |
| 1 | Confused about my Ex's behaviour - oneities or did I throw away a good woman?If you were Brad Pitt would she have waited until the 4 month mark? If she really wanted to fuck you she would. If you're waiting some arbitrary amount of time you're in the middle of a massive shit test and going along with it rather than breaking out of her frame. She wants to test your commitment and betaness. After said amount of time she'll put out, sure, but from then on expect it to be used as a power play by her, not as a method of pleasing the two of you. From another angle, it doesn't … | /r/askTRP | 24/11/17 10:47 AM |
| 1 | Confused about my Ex's behaviour - oneities or did I throw away a good woman?It's just not worth it to have oneitis, especially with a girl that you can't even fuck. Move on, and stop being the guy that worries about 1.5 month sexless relationships. Find a girl that wants what you want. Honestly I don't know how people get into or want this kind of relationship. You give up your commitment for basically nothing. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/17 10:34 AM |
| 17 | Determining n countLook at what she does, don't listen to what he says. You will never know if she's lying and it's pretty much accepted for most women to lie about it especially if she had a cock carousel period. "I had a few one night stands in college" or "I had a few casual flings in college" could man anything from literally just a few or it could be a hundred. The hamster will not feel like it is lying so it will not be clear. Instead observe how she treats your relationship and get a sense of her history th… | /r/askTRP | 17/11/17 10:45 AM |
| 1 | To what extent should you help a girl when she says she’s going through a lot?she’s said she likes when guys are more emotional so don’t know what to take from it Probably a shit-test. Don't be more emotional than you have to be. If you legitimately don't care, don't force yourself to, and if you can keep your problems to yourself, you'll appear stronger and therefore of higher value. she mentions that she’s going through a lot recently. The nice guy in me immediately thinks to either ask what’s wrong or let her vent to me etc... Then I also remember how many times I’ve h… | /r/askTRP | 06/11/17 05:58 AM |
| 0 | After a break up are we suppose to delete all the photos?Yeah, just get rid of them unless there is something important about them OTHER than the relationship. That goes double for the nudes, nothing's more pathetic than jerking off to them. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/17 05:42 AM |
| 1 | How do I know if a girl is into me or not?You don't. The best you can do is recognize a few potential signs, or Indicators of Interest (IOI), that I won't list here, you can look into them but the only way to find out for sure is to just go for it (escalate, ask out, whichever is appropriate). | /r/askTRP | 06/11/17 05:31 AM |
| 1 | Looking edgy?IMO piercings are only acceptable if they come with the correct amount of status, such as being in certain kinds of rock bands (that don't suck ass). Dying your hair silver is just looking for people to dismiss you as being a "special" kid and is pretty damn unprofessional if you want to be employed. As far as tats, they are fine, even "cool." Optimally, though, make sure that they can be covered by professional clothing, but visible in your typical street clothes. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/17 07:48 AM |
| 3 | If you start having romantic feelings about a girl that you haven't yet slept with, do you isolate and escalate, soft next, or hard next?"Romantic feelings" are very contextual, I think its reasonable to juggle some of them if you can maintain abundance, but anything related to oneitis is out the window and means you should hard next. Experiment with it, if you can plate her and maintain the desire to fuck the rest of your plates you're fine, if you start to invest everything in this girl just hard next. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/17 07:43 AM |
| 1 | Asked me to go out and bring her foodHow do you know this girl? Are you her orbiter, if so just don't bother responding. If she's a friend or just someone you met randomly you are interested in plating, I'd go for "I'm not your errand boy, you trying to make an excuse to see me?" Calls her out with an immediately polarizing frame and basically says you're down to hang with her but aren't some chump who's gonna buy her food at a moment's notice. A lot of people here are recommending to immediately mention sex over text, which is a p… | /r/askTRP | 02/11/17 07:36 AM |
| 2 | Got a girl hot and bothered. Now what ?If you're trying to sleep with her or start some kind of relationship this is way too much push and not enough pull. If you don't want her continue not giving a fuck and self-improving. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/17 08:52 AM |
| 3 | askTRP Megathread October 18Photography is a terrible job market, keep it to your hobby unless you find a rare opportunity. I don't know about filmmaking, look into your options but the entertainment industry is also really tough. I don't know beyond that, but find something marketable, web design is one of those things as is general programming but if you hate coding ts not worth it. Maybe try to get into generic office work or sales to get you off your feet beyond what a part-time retail job would do. And lots of places … | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/17 08:56 AM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread October 18Older post to save time re-answering: http://archive.is/nZefU TL;DR if you can use it only as a tool for social circle and generating DHV feel free to utilize it. If you are "killing the beta" or would otherwise seek something unhealthy from it like validation, delete it until you can use it effectively. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/17 08:50 AM |
| 3 | Now in a class with previous/current oneitis... What should I do?Based on context this sounds like college. She's a dead lead and you know it, the method of "confessing your feelings" is generally poor and she's got a guy anyway. I get the feeling that you are very beta, indicated by language such as "told her [I] needed space" and "physical and emotional distance" and just general pedestalizing and oneitis. Focus on killing the beta. Read TRP sidebar, all of it. Find your mission, or at least a respectable mission while you try to find "yours," and focus on … | /r/askTRP | 19/10/17 08:45 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend does not respond after I called her out - what to do?Sorry, the language is a little confused for me, what did you mean by the following: She answered with a "then not", which I also did. Anyway just pretend like nothing happened and try to sleep with her like you might have before this incident. If she's DTF you might remind her of why she was with you in the first place. Otherwise, next. Consider downgrading to plate though, this is a red flag. I agree with others here that you fucked up a shit test. Based on the limited amount of evidence provi… | /r/askTRP | 19/10/17 08:32 AM |
| 3 | I stopped pulling punches with bitchy women. Now they seem less confrontational (good), but shit on me behind my back (bad). Is this normal?As the saying goes, there is no bad publicity. If you're getting talked about you're on the right track. If you set the boundaries from an alpha high horse, she will follow them. She has almost no choice in the matter, she's wired that way. Of course, behind your back you can't expect most women to be respectful, that's not the society we live in. Some girls are just bad news in general. If you sucked up to your example girl, henceforth Bitch-of-a-Coworker or BC, she would talk shit saying she c… | /r/askTRP | 18/10/17 07:41 AM |
| 2 | This post has been spreading around FB in lieu of the #MeToo posts coming around now. Can we get together and honestly break down the rights and wrongs of this?Not worth the time to go over every one individually, its all the same usual 3rd-wave feminist bullshit, nothing new: women are special, attractiveness doesn't matter and shouldn't be expected, be subservient to women, do anything you can to help women be elevated in social standing and don't question when women tell you something, they are perfect and can't lie or manipulate and even if they could their feelings are more valuable than yours. If no woman is present in an activity that activity i… | /r/askTRP | 17/10/17 02:21 AM |
| 20 | Feminists go apeshit when stay at home mom makes lunch for breadwinner"I already do his laundry and keep his children alive.” Hey bitch remember that those are your kids as well. When the hamster wants something from a pushover man in the relationship, they're "his kids." When she wants out of the marriage they're "my kids." Only when the man generates respect are they "our kids." | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/17 01:26 AM |
| 4 | How would you summarize holding frame?"Frame" isn't really defined specifically by anyone but from what I gather after reading a lot of Rollo Tomassi (The Rational Male) a definition I've come to agree with is essentially "the frame of reference of the interaction" which is further shortened to "frame" for simplicity. Everyone has their own frame of reference or "frame." When you see something from someone else's perspective or do things because of that person's perspective you "enter their frame" i.e. temporarily change your frame … | /r/askTRP | 16/10/17 09:25 AM |
| 9 | Any tips on gym dates with a girl? whats a good routine to do with a girl? Also just any tips in generalThe gym is not a date, if you go to the gym with a girl you aren't going to "be together" you just have a common goal of working out. You don't go on "grocery dates" or "chemistry class dates," those are just "grocery shopping" and "chemistry class" because you aren't going to have a rip-roaring good time but to get something important done. As for the actual questions in the body, do your own workout because most women just have different workout goals like "have a fuckin' hot ass" or something… | /r/askTRP | 16/10/17 09:11 AM |
| 1 | How to overcome phone addiction?Just practice setting it down in another room for long periods of time. Go as long as you possibly can without it and if you give in then you just have to resolve to go longer next time. Hopefully it comes to a point where you no longer have to steel your will every time, you just set it down, do the stuff you have to do and then realize you don't need your phone anymore. Also delete as many offending apps as you can so that when you do feel the need to use the phone for something there are less… | /r/askTRP | 16/10/17 09:04 AM |
| 3 | How to reattract a girl?She alrrady rejected you, the most "alpha" thing is to move on. If you still have a chance you're ruining it by being desperate for her pussy after she already shut you down. Go no contact if possible, not for a week or two but permanently until she contacts you in a way that seems like more than what she would send one of her girlfriends. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/17 06:42 PM |
| 1 | How do I proceed from hereThe "study date" is OK if you can get her to your place first to do so. Otherwise I would just invite her to something you'd like to do anyway then bounce her to your place. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/17 04:44 PM |
| 1 | So I got a girls number and this is the second time I tried to hang out with herSoft next; go with your gut but keep options open. If she reaches out to you roll with it, otherwise blowing you off every time you try is a bad sign. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/17 08:32 AM |
| 1 | How do I proceed from hereLike any other girl just go at her with an abundance mentality. If you don't care about her bf just invite her to something and escalate. Its not rocket science, you just have to actually do something but not worry too much about it (abundance and DGAF). Edit: In the future ask for phone first, on Facebook you are more likely to appear as an orbiter since you are categorized with all her validation-fulfilling guy "friends." Doesn't mean you can't use Facebook Messenger to get a date, just try it… | /r/askTRP | 13/10/17 08:23 AM |
| 2 | Got a number, but waited too long. Best approach?Never complain, never explain. Don't try to justify why you didn't text her sooner, show that you didn't give a fuck and will continue to give no fucks (until she comes home with you). In one or more texts, "Hey <name>, how's it going? I'm going to X, would you like to join me?" or "Come with me to X" or some variation. Honestly the time doesn't matter much, if she brings it up just use textbook technique (A+A, frame control). | /r/askTRP | 13/10/17 06:58 AM |
| 1 | Police tell me she cheated on me after I am arrestedTo get back in your house without any more drama you can explain the situation to the police and they can help you out, rather than show up alone, get locked out, and have her wreck your shit if you're afraid of that. If you're cosigned or something, get a lawyer first before trying to reclaim what you own. If you have the deed kick her out to her mom's place or whatever. Lawyer up regardless to claim your kids or some share of custody, whatever should be yours from the home, etc. Paternity test… | /r/askTRP | 12/10/17 01:00 AM |
| 2 | Have you tried lifting bro? It helps?If you shove them both in front of a random chick and make her choose then yeah you know who it is. Guy on right isn't so staggeringly ugly he couldn't get chicks though so I don't know what you're going on about. Not as much as the other guy but you play the hand you're dealt. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/17 06:31 PM |
| 1 | It's fucking SaturdayJust go to the show. Don't think about it, just do it. Don't think about talking to people at said show, just do it. The more you think about it the more you will get in your own head. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/17 05:52 PM |
| 3 | How to apply soft dread in a LTR where you're 24/7 together?Don't be 24/7 together for a start... even if you're travelling just get away for a while. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/17 02:18 AM |
| 2 | What does DEERing mean?Agree and amplify or hold frame. If you DEER you are in her frame. Arguing against women is not a debate, you don't get points for the veracity of your arguments. Feels before reals; she feels you are wrong so trying to explain it rationally is unlikely to work. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/17 08:53 PM |
| 6 | What does DEERing mean?Defend, Explain, Excuse, Rationalize. Everything not to do in argument with a woman. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/17 04:47 PM |
| 2 | Should I bang this taken chick?Yes,, you aren't doing the guy any favors and if not you than there will be another. Just keep it hush and be sure to wrap it... | /r/askTRP | 06/10/17 08:24 AM |
| 2 | She made a joke about not having sex with me?You haven't overcome ASD quickly enough. Maybe she's joking about being friends, maybe she's not though. Either way, next. If she tries to get you on another date like you've been doing just say she can come to your place or not at all. Hold frame, you want to fuck her but have been holding out, therefore accepting her frame. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/17 08:20 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with younger woman?You seem too afraid of having her dump you, so you want to dump her first? Don't get a complex about it, you break up either way. And don't think in terms of scarcity. Should I just pump and dump and leave in while i'm "winning" in this relationship? Personally, my definition of "winning" is fucking the type of girls you want to fuck (although not specific ones; abundance is necessary). You don't win a prize for leaving her first, and her type of hotness probably falls in most men's category of … | /r/askTRP | 05/10/17 08:08 AM |
| 3 | No more bullshit~ Every attractive man or "Chad" that I've met has a distinct presence, where the hell does it come from?Are they usually ripped or just well-built? That helps. Also there is a lot of nonverbal communication going on with posture, positioning, and facial expression that nobody can hope to understand. Imitate it when you find it. They probably walk around like they own the place, or don't give a fuck who owns it, with their back straight and shoulders broad. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/17 07:12 AM |
| 2 | Fully believe in TRP, yet I think have become depressed from it.Sorry this happened to you. As a young adult, sometimes it just happens whatever you do. As someone who was also depressed in high school, it does get better once you get out into the world and actually pursue your goals. College life, first without TRP and then later with it, was no miracle cure but I've left a lot of my darker thoughts by the wayside (I used to fantasize about killing myself constantly, and could only be content playing video games). Your high school relationships might feel n… | /r/askTRP | 05/10/17 07:08 AM |
| 2 | TRP believes in "Enjoy the decline", why don't you think the west can be saved?Feminism is kind of like a cancer in the way it spreads in society. When cancer becomes too widespread in the body, or is left alone too long in only one organ, it becomes terminal. I don't know if we're at the point of no return, but life is short and I simply don't find it worthwhile or meaningful to try to instill the bulk of Western society with more effective values. Let's be real, I don't think we're destined for Armageddon because of the BP, just more widespread depression as people try a… | /r/askTRP | 05/10/17 06:54 AM |
| 3 | Actions Speak Louder than Words: How I lost (and got epic revenge) on a BP "friend"Nice going overall, maybe he'll actually get out of the BP rut now that you showed him firsthand that your "advice" was legit. However, this story has a lesson in it that RP "truth bombs" aren't worth dropping on horribly BP people because they may just blow up in your face. Law 5 - So Much Depends on Reputation - Defend It With Your Life. The hit to your reputation lost you a plate, and sure she's just another ho but the more the merrier. In some cases it could cost you more, so just be careful… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/17 06:01 AM |
| 1 | Stop liking/favoriting her pictures.This is all correct but this should be so goddamn obvious that nobody should need to hear it. I guess if someone took something away from this post then it has a reason to exist, but if you had to have someone tell you not to do this just get off social media completely for a while. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/17 08:08 AM |
| 1 | You're not good enough, you're not smart enough, and people don't like you.Agreed. This is life. If you're not perfect you're not good enough, "good enough" does not exist for something you actually care about. Even if you're the best in the world at your art, keep getting better. That doesn't mean you cannot be content with your life, it just means you can't be content with an idle one. This is one reason why a Mission is so important. My one gripe with this is there's no reason to feel like shit over something you don't care about. If you don't want to be a weight-li… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/17 08:01 AM |
| 2 | Was I Playing this one Wrong?You didn't actually ask her out, you just asked if she was free and then didn't set a date. Lead the interaction, she'll make time if she's attracted. You can negotiate if she says otherwise but you can't just wait for her to plan it, she won't. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/17 06:17 AM |
| 2 | What are your reasons to live?I've been there, there is no single answer. Family and friends are what I believe kept me from ending it until I found my own way, so keep them by your side as you grow. Of course, as anyone here with experience will tell you, Lift. Exercise is scientifically proven to help people feel better, using lifting as your exercise gives you a feeling of pure strength and achievement and make you look better. Is there literally anything in the world other than family that keeps you going? Look into it, … | /r/askTRP | 30/09/17 06:07 AM |
| 3 | What did I do wrongShe's an 8, so she has access to instant dick whenever she wants if she's using Tinder. Therefore, she was getting other dick the week she got no response, then she didn't have any or wanted another when she texted you, then the response came too late after she got some other dick. If she responds later you're back in the game, but its an 8+ so she can always line up more. The answer is don't think about it, better luck next time unless she responds. However, next time I would not do the "who's … | /r/askTRP | 30/09/17 05:58 AM |
| 1 | She started feeling like a whore/bitchWell, she is cheating on a marriage so of course she feels like a whore. That's what the BP says, that's what she will restate constantly but you watch what women do not what they say (like when you get the "we're not having sex on the first date!" like its wrong to do so, but does it anyway). The question is, is she your whore? If you dominate the interaction you can probably sleep with her, if you want to drop it here's your out. Don't be pushy unless you want to lose your friend. I'd value th… | /r/askTRP | 30/09/17 05:51 AM |
| 2 | I suddenly have the urge to call EVERYONE out on their bullshit now. Is this how men really should be?DGAF means not caring about that kind of shit. Not everything is a challenge to your masculinity. The situation might call for a "fuck off" but not always, and if you're getting into fights over petty bullshit you have a deeper issue. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/17 05:43 AM |
| 1 | GF doesn't hang out with me, gives reasons such as busy , have plans etc..Don't be patient, downgrade to plate. With or without telling her, your choice. A woman that never makes time for you isn't worth it, assuming you have an abundance mentality. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/17 05:41 AM |
| 1 | Taking the Red PillAlpha and Beta exist.. as concepts. Yes no person is 100% alpha Chad and no person is 100% beta cuck but we all have our own percentage so to speak of both and can be loosely cargorized based on status in the sexual and social marketplace. You're confusing your opinion on how much it matters with whether it exists. As for the rest, I don't see your opinion on how to treat women and others as having any practical bearing on anything. Act how you want but you're just making baseless judgments unti… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/17 10:02 AM |
| 1 | Why do some girls seem to defy the concept of hypergamy??No model works in all cases. Most women adhere to hypergamy but sometimes they just do something unpredictable. | /r/askTRP | 23/09/17 01:45 AM |
| 2 | Yes, Virginia, you *do* have to be an asshole.Eh, sure we had two terms each of Obama and Bill Clinton, but Bush somehow got two terms in between. Meanwhile Congress has been back and forth as well, so that's hardly only the Left running its racket in recent history. That is only US politics though, Europe is a shit-show of hard leftism. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/17 04:41 AM |
| 6 | A Epiphany: What Women Actually Respond ToFirst off chill out. Are you going to die if you don't get a comprehensive course on How to Talk to People ASAP? Anyway, just stop talking about your math homework or whatever because obviously that's gonna dry her up. LEAD the conversation with questions, teasing, and assumptions about her. Build rapport with this, find a common ground, but employ push/pull tactics so try to lead her into participating. Talk about something interesting you do to show her that you're, well, interesting. If you a… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/17 09:08 AM |
| 1 | A Epiphany: What Women Actually Respond ToSo I think the best advice that should be for men is just to learn how to flirt, because if you can do that, it doesn't even matter what you look like as much, or even if you say some stupid shit as long as you hone up to it. Anyone agree/disagree? Am I on to something? Your epiphany is basic sidebar shit so yeah you're onto something. Of course you want to be sexual if you're looking for sex. Luckily sex is like glue for LTRs so even if you want more than sex basic flirting game is all but nece… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/17 08:54 AM |
| 2 | My take on the "nice guys finish last" conundrum.This is good stuff but doesn't quite answer the question as to why niceness dries up pussy. As for my take:"nice" man is the white knight who thinks he's a hero and will get pussy for fighting off the "problematic" Chads. A "good" man is the soldier who would sacrifice himself for his company even with the understanding that there is no afterlife in which he will be venerated. The obvious difference is that the "nice guy" acts for ultimately selfish reasons, while the good man has strong morals … | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/17 08:22 AM |
| 3 | Whats the logic behind women wanting expensive weddings?First huge reason is social proof. "Look, my husband/dad can afford this! Look at the resources I have acquired!" Who she's proving it to is not necessarily the point, there might not even BE anyone she has a good reason to prove it to, but her programming wants her to prove something to someone all the time. Feels before reals, and she feels that she wants a big wedding so who cares about the fact that it would break the bank. Luckily it will probably only break the bank of the men who provide … | /r/askTRP | 13/09/17 02:00 AM |
| 4 | Knowing When to Approach and Not ToAsk yourself the question: am I giving myself a reason or an excuse? A good example of a reason: There is only so much time in the day, I need to do X, Y and Z before tomorrow and that might take up the rest of my time if I'm going to get enough sleep tonight. Not gonna bother approaching because there is better shit to do. An example of an excuse: Eh, I wanted to go home and play Destiny 2, don't need to spend time on women that won't like me anyway, I'll just go home and have some fun on my PS… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/17 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Do I really want to behave like RSDtyler?Stop worrying about looking odd and just talk to people, try different things and repeat what sticks. Don't be Owen if you don't want to be, but humor (especially teasing) is an integral part of game. Just talk in your normal voice (or a practiced voice that is still close to "you") rather than trying to copy Owen's. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/17 06:20 PM |
| 2 | Can this situation be turn around or should I forget about this one girl?You should simultaneously ask her on a date and forget about her. Abundance mentality. If she is receptive you can keep going, if not you've already moved on. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/17 05:36 PM |
| 2 | Do I really want to behave like RSDtyler?Why do I get the feeling that Owen's motormouth/funny-guy thing would look totally wrong with me? Because you don't want to change, probably. Your mind resists this type of change because it doesn't feel "right" and takes effort your primitive brain doesn't want to "waste." It's worth it to become more social and better at talking to people in general, I've been in both places and life is a lot better now that I have better social game. If you're a tall, muscular guy a little charisma will go a … | /r/askTRP | 10/09/17 05:33 PM |
| 1 | What did I do wrong?Don't overthink it. Sometimes they get away, unless you are a celebrity you just gotta play the numbers game and approach more chicks. That said, the mistake was trying to get back to her place so quick before she even had a sense of who you were. Some girls will totally do that for an alpha, but you haven't proved yourself to be one yet and unless you're Ryan Gosling you need to game her more before trying to get back to hers or yours. For that reason I would just go for the n-close in this typ… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/17 05:18 PM |
| 19 | WTF. Wow. Just. Wow. This has just opened my eyes.She told him she wasn’t interested in intercourse and he said he was fine with that. Then, she wrote, “I started to move my hand down his chest and into his pants.” "I don't want to fuck, OK?" "Yeah sure that's fine." Gives blowjob "Woops looks like I got raped!" [My friend] knows I was with Kojo. She probably told all the brothers in the room, and they’re gonna hate me when they find out”—she didn’t explain why. “I can never come back here.” Textbook "I'm not a slut, because I felt kinda bad ab… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/17 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Breaking through the impossible wallWhy are you just friends, did you try something and she told you to back off or have you just rolled with it? If you haven't tried escalating the obvious move is to just do it and see how she responds. Increasing SMV is always a good idea, but you have to actually put it to the test. Women rarely initiate unless the man is so attractive they feel like they are missing a chance, so its almost always on you to try something unless you are just a model-quality guy. That said, if you're 18 and she's… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/17 05:42 PM |
| 3 | Lessons from My Father and RP ParentingI never noticed my mom gaslighting. Is that normal for married people there? It may be that your definition is a little less loose than OP's. Either way, attempting to rewrite history an extremely common manipulative tactic or testing tool that women will subconsciously use if needed. Whether it is normal or not, it is something you need to look out for and respond to accordingly by holding frame. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/17 09:10 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts after being diagnosed with cancerI agree, would rather not have to spend time courting women when I've got actual important shit to do. FWB is a much better setup than an LTR or even plate for me at the moment, but women always have to push for more. Of course, if you want something you have to work for it so it's better to date than go MGTOW unless you have no sex drive so this is the last I'll complain about it personally.. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/17 02:44 AM |
| 5 | Thoughts after being diagnosed with cancerYou do you, but some people just aren't the same. Chester Bennington and Chris Cornell could have afforded Lambos, but it didn't seem to do anything for them in the end. At the end of the day it's just a car once the initial thrill wears off. Granted, if what makes you happy is getting laid it might help pull girls looking for your money. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/17 01:16 AM |
| 2 | Evaluate this situation, I consider it a no win scenario in TRP terms.This was unsalvageable from the start. Glad you are getting out now, with some experience under your belt and lessons learned: No woman is worth this much effort and whatever the Proclaimers say you shouldn't travel this far for a woman. 1200 km trips are the opposite of an abundance mentality, as is the amount of time you wasted trying to play her feelings to get her in bed. Ex talk is a red flag. It can be defused if it is a shit test but you have to have that ability, instead you tried to mas… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/17 04:25 PM |
| 2 | How Disney is sending the wrong messages to young girls and boys.My take is that in a red pill view of society, looking for a Disney prince or princess is a bad thing. Any one red piller can unplug, or maybe they aren't even RP and just a natural, but for the deluded, ignorant, or stupid they subscribe to this propaganda and bring down those who don't. "Enjoy the decline" is a lot easier than "reverse the decline;" I subscribe more to the former but would also like to see a society not run by Disneyfied feminazis. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/17 08:35 AM |
| 1 | 40 millions of Americans are in sexless marriages. That's about a third.Not blue pill if you do it for the kids, imo. RP doesn't claim to be an arbiter of what you should want in life, if you want to start a family the situation might be such that it's worth it. Best for the kids if they have a stable mother/father figure so just vet carefully for a dedicated non-slut. If you feel like you have to marry for reasons other than your own, tell those pressuring you to fuck off (less aggressive if need be). | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/17 06:57 AM |
| 22 | 40 millions of Americans are in sexless marriages. That's about a third.You forgot to add option D. Go to Married Red Pill and learn how to be a man within marriage. Maybe the consequence of reclaiming yourself will be increased frequency and quality of sex. Option E. Get a divorce. If you are not getting value and what you want out of her, then it is time to move-on. The point of marriage hate in TRP is merely to point out that marriage is a flawed and outdated social contract in its current state and to educate men on the possibility of divorce rape and the fact t… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/17 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Feel incredibly guilty after breaking up with my girlfriendIf it hurts her that bad just lie to her and say you haven't been with any other women regardless of whether you have. She would do the same to you. If it hurts you that bad then an adjustment period is fine, just work on yourself for a while so to give less fucks about her. Cut contact so she doesn't know where you are going and what you are doing to say "no, don't do that, stay my orbiter forever." Of course all of this can be solved by not giving a fuck, but it's a process so if you can't sto… | /r/askTRP | 26/08/17 09:30 PM |
| 2 | About shit-tests, depression and FrameIf you can't handle shit tests you can't handle an LTR. Even BP betas can handle them in their own misguided way so you should be able to as well. You can have "bad days" with most women, although some people have them better than others (the angry ones, not the depressed ones). That said, just next her if she is crossing a line. Crazy women do crazy shit tests which luckily makes them easier to spot. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/17 06:39 PM |
| 4 | people who say they're intelligent actually smart?These people just have no social awareness. Simply put, if you're a genius of X, prove it, but not by making yourself out to be smarter than everyone in the room and instead by doing something to show that you can go above and beyond. If you're a natural sciences genius, get to work in the lab or on a theory and revolutionize your study. If you're a computer science genius, program something useful, make a new and more efficient language or system, or find flaws in the current ones that normal p… | /r/askTRP | 21/08/17 05:29 PM |
| 2 | "Models" ConundrumIt makes you human. People who aren't human are rarely all that attractive, we need some sort of connection to find people attractive. This is why guys develop a crush for their co-worker rather than Victoria's Secret models - and girls do the same. Sure, you'll wank it to the model sometimes, but you're actually more attracted to the person who seems like a real human. Coworker crushes come from proximity, pheromones, and activities that reinforce pair bonding, not seeing that they aren't perfe… | /r/askTRP | 21/08/17 09:07 AM |
| 1 | Would girls respond well to being cold approached by a very socially awkward Chad?Chad is not socially awkward. You may be swole a fuck and that's great, but you aren't Chad yet. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/17 08:48 AM |
| 3 | Girl going to a bar and getting drunk is a red flag?This seems to be her first time. Her first time drinking? Or first time going out with that guy? Don't assume either. Another comment says she says she friendzoned him. Might be bullshit but sometimes women are upfront about this with someone they are considering to "get it." They basically went on a date but she may have rejected him during. All that info in the comments should be added to the OP but what I'm hearing is that this guy is in a very close orbit, paying for her excursions and hopin… | /r/askTRP | 19/08/17 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Never forget, she does not desire YOU. She desires the image you have put forth.From my perspective, ego cannot be eliminated entirely, only changed. If it is possible to destroy an ego you will always create a new one in its place. That's just how the brain works, the only way to not have one is to kill yourself. That said "worrying about image" is an effective way to achieve goals, whether its pulling girls or advancing your career. But it has to come from a place of genuine IDGAF self-esteem, where you are no longer doing things because of "what people will think," being… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/17 07:19 AM |
| 3 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread August 14Keep the dread but leave behind the tactics. Sitting there and thinking about how you can manipulate women will help you pull and keep but is a shitty mindset in the long run. Learn to be high-value all of the time because you are living TRP in hardmode. In this end-goal scenario you don't have to utilize "strategies" other than owning who you have become, who is someone who implies dread just by existing. However pursuing "wholesome" relationships can be a trap, mostly for men who listen to wha… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/17 05:42 AM |
| 2 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread August 14He just said there is no happily ever after in the section you quoted, so it is implied that none of them are. But all these are better ways to live your life than "said and alone." | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/17 05:35 AM |
| 6 | Been waking up at 5 AM for the past 2 years and it has really changed my life. Here are 5 reasons to get up at 5 AM, and also some tips on how to get started. | Join the 5 AM club.My 2 cents is to embrace the suck until you have financial security to reduce your workload. Sorry about your narcolepsy but that's something for a medical professional to help with. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/17 09:44 PM |
| 4 | Been waking up at 5 AM for the past 2 years and it has really changed my life. Here are 5 reasons to get up at 5 AM, and also some tips on how to get started. | Join the 5 AM club.Depends on the model, Kindle Fire is just a tablet with a ton of apps that can distract you but a basic Kindle reader shouldn't be providing any blue - light input (the light that triggers photoreceptors to send signals to keep you awake by my knowledge) and will be fine by my reasoning. If you only have a tablet for reading you can try to get a lighting adjustment program that doesn't emit blue light. That said I'm just a biology student so my word isn't law but that's my grasp on the situation… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/17 09:42 PM |
| 2 | What makes evo-psych a "pseudoscience"?I would argue that it is not "applied in an incorrect way" when, to continue the analogy, you have people that realize they would simply rather be strikers than defenders, after being defenders all their life, and use TRP to transform themselves. Not everyone can be a leader, or a player, or a rich businessman or society would collapse, but those that want to become one of these things have the tools put in front of them by something like TRP. It devolves into idiocy when people make platitudes … | /r/askTRP | 12/08/17 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Just a shit test or should I end it with LTR?It's not a shittest. You lost control by handling events poorly and she is losing interest. If you want to try one more time, you need to message first and pick a time you are pretty sure she will be free, pick the venue, and be stronger this time around. If she doesn't answer or flakes then you just need to move on. But its probably already over and you might not be able to do this much damage control. Lots of good lessons in the other comments to learn. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/17 08:10 PM |
| 2 | Just got out of a 7.5 year LTR, getting back into the game proving a bit difficultI think this is what kills me in LTR's. No matter how hot the girl is, security bores me and I miss the unbridled "awakened" feeling of being single and free to do what I want when I want. If I get in a relationship again, we wont be moving in together, thats for sure. Yeah true but she is hot and she worked at the biggest club in the city bartending and had guys constantly hitting on her in the past (back on the east coast) and I really dont think she was ever tempted at all. I think this was p… | /r/askTRP | 11/08/17 06:52 AM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread August 09I don't know about you, but where I live everyone opens doors for everyone and lets those behind them through regardless of gender. It's not an admission of servitude its just polite. Of course, the advice from your mom is BP in that it puts the ladies on a pedestal. So if you're doing it only for women then do it for everyone instead, which just makes you "not a douche" not a "nice guy." | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/17 08:10 PM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread August 09Nothing really, if you're getting heartache from seeing that someone looked at your snapchat for a few minutes you need to seriously unplug. Most you should feel is that it might be a light IOI. It could be anything and its basically meaningless so just take it as a compliment that you do something interesting. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/17 08:04 PM |
| 2 | What we should learn from James DamoreYeah I don't know why everyone here thinks they are experts in the labor laws at the federal and CA state level that can say the case will be thrown out. One CNBC article isn't the word of God but we will see more arise as the case progresses. If it gets thrown out, it will more likely be because of the very things he criticizes in the memo; feminist thoughtcrime mumbo-jumbo, which construes him as "sexist" when the memo didn't even question whether there are capable women in his industry and ev… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/17 08:14 AM |
| 1 | I am exhausted and have literally no time to date. Tips?Just make the decision on whether you want to continue working basically the entire day or cut back on some of the trade work to date. I don't know why your schedule is so full of it but it's that simple from the info you gave. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/17 10:32 AM |
| 8 | Should I give up on dating ?As a single woman in your 20s you have the pick of thousands of guys in your city alone. 26 is nothing. You will have an easy time finding dates if you get out there. You don't even have to be that attractive you just have to be not fat and you'll fit the standards of tons of guys, but for the love of god don't play games because the man you are probably looking for is gonna next you if you aren't worth his time. Don't be boring, don't stare at your phone during dates, don't expect commitment th… | /r/askTRP | 09/08/17 10:25 AM |
| 3 | Do you know when to stop? Or do you have an "all goes" attitude towards women?If you are good with women you understand when "I have a boyfriend" is a shit test or an actual defense. If you're saying that the "I have a boyfriend" response is always a no then you are just wrong, but to say its always a shittest is equally so. If you get the "I have a boyfriend" curtly in the middle of the night on the street while she's literally waiting for a ride she doesn't want you, she wants to get the fuck home and not get kidnapped and raped. If you get it in the nightclub from a sl… | /r/askTRP | 08/08/17 09:02 PM |
| 1 | How do i make my GF into lifting?Not gonna contest that your body processes the two differently, but comparing weight doesn't work unless they have the same caloric efficiency. For example I'm seeing around 1000 calories per pound online for steak, and around 1600 per pound of garlic bread, so obviously they would not be comparable because you are getting tons more calories from the same weight of garlic bread. | /r/askTRP | 08/08/17 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Getting intimate with a girl without previously intending to have sexFood for thought: It's about the journey, not the destination. But if you make a point on the journey your destination, it is no longer a part of the journey, just the new destination. So basically, try to fuck bitches and you can get some cuddles along the way. | /r/askTRP | 08/08/17 08:38 AM |
| 2 | How do i make my GF into lifting?No fastfood at all but not so much healthy food either. No idea how to bring this up to her, but as far as weight is concerned it's the amount of food or rather number of calories you have to worry about. Her thinness will be returned if she goes on deficit for a while then goes back to about equivalent. Just an avenue you could explore if you can't get her to exercise, although if she can't bring up that effort she might not have enough to resist overeating. | /r/askTRP | 08/08/17 08:32 AM |
| 4 | Just got out of a 7.5 year LTR, getting back into the game proving a bit difficultThere's some lessons to take from your misguided thinking here. Examples: Thing is, I cheated on her quite a few times, so I understand the desire for someone else. Girls hotter than her too. But I would always come home to her. I never considered leaving her for someone else. So what if you came home to her, your dick had just been in another girl. You didn't consider leaving her long-term but if you cheated and she found out then you need to look at your "LTR strategy." Imagine if a woman said… | /r/askTRP | 08/08/17 08:25 AM |
| 1 | Asking girl to workout/lose weightThe Redpill way to do this is to stop worrying so much about this one chick, look at your actual options, and pump up the dread game if you still think she's a worthwhile investment. You are scared you will make her feel that you are not attracted and lose self-esteem. However you have no other option than to signal this, in our current culture it will be very difficult to spin it as "being healthy" when "body acceptance" is in the mainstream. If women think their man is locked down they don't f… | /r/askTRP | 08/08/17 07:42 AM |
| 9 | Can someone give me advice?I am about to just end it all unless I get a girlfriend before the age of 30. I am 28 now. Fuck off with this shit. Girlfriends don't fix emotional problems, if they do they are temporary and you'll just want to kill yourself again when she leaves you. But nobody is too far gone that killing themselves is the only way out. Someone please PM me. I feel like even though I may be deformed, there's something I can do. Not gonna have a PM conversation but all I can tell you is to make something of yo… | /r/askTRP | 08/08/17 07:27 AM |
| 1 | Red Pillers, do you consider any woman's single male friends to be "beta orbiters?"Ah, I'm sorry to hear that. Don't be, I don't need your pity because I am perfectly fine with who I am. They're more successful, yes, because being attractive makes it easier. However, what I'm saying is that it hasn't stopped plenty of unattractive people in the past from being successful in interpersonal relationships. Yes, that is correct and I never disagreed with that. The point was simply that its important, saying its important doesn't exclude ugly people from everything. What I meant was… | /r/askTRP | 07/08/17 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Red Pillers, do you consider any woman's single male friends to be "beta orbiters?"That's fine, if you aren't interested in her you aren't an orbiter because it requires attraction to be one. Think of it like gravity, in order to orbit a planet you need to be influenced enough by its gravitational force Is this strictly physical attraction, though? Someone can't have a mental attraction, and if they did, would that still make them an "orbiter?" What if Sally exhibits some of her own gravitational force, but you stayed for the conversation and not because you couldn't resist he… | /r/askTRP | 07/08/17 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Red Pillers, do you consider any woman's single male friends to be "beta orbiters?"Are you saying that some type of sexual attraction would be necessary to want to be around someone? Obviously not, it was just an example. What about a case where "Sally" is not physically attractive, and started making casual conversation with you in the break room, which led to a riveting conversation about something that you share an interest in? That's fine, if you aren't interested in her you aren't an orbiter because it requires attraction to be one. Think of it like gravity, in order to o… | /r/askTRP | 07/08/17 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Red Pillers, do you consider any woman's single male friends to be "beta orbiters?"Usually not, unless a lack of attraction for either side or an unavailability due to societal constructs is a character flaw. Like how an alpha might "orbit" Sally from HR because he thinks she's cute but doesn't want to shit where he eats, or maybe she has a boyfriend and would ruin his reputation if word got out. Or maybe her boyfriend would shoot him or something, in which case he would rather find another mate than risk getting killed by aggressive mate guarding (not a societal construct but… | /r/askTRP | 07/08/17 12:35 AM |
| 2 | Red Pillers, do you consider any woman's single male friends to be "beta orbiters?"I think that's the default assumption but is not always true. Some guys have good reasons not to go for the girl. Others don't and they tend to be a majority. Orbiter doesn't have to mean beta though assuming they have abundance and have no need to risk losing the friendship of the girl's boyfriend or something. I think some people here might fight this claim but it is extremely contextual. It's essentially someone in her pool of potential mates that is not trying to get her for whatever reason. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/17 11:10 PM |
| 1 | What hobbies do you do?Music is huge (writing and playing instruments/singing). Getting my thoughts down in writing is another, sometimes its novels, a few essays, reddit posts, etc. Hopefully will get some friends on board to work on a legit game, so there's that. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/17 07:43 AM |
| 3 | Why do people think violence isn't the solution to bullies?Like everything it is very situational but I think you get that already. You punched a coworker that you knew was on equal footing. You fought back against a classmate because you knew the school system can't really do anything that matters. However you have to do it without inviting an assault charge, punch the wrong guy and he very well might try to bring the law down on you. We should teach our kids to fight back in school given the current system, that will just suspend them but have them co… | /r/askTRP | 06/08/17 07:19 AM |
| 1 | [Field Report] Pool, Pull-Ups, Ice Cream and an Argument Ending With 🖕🏼/3. NEVER FUCKING DISCUSS YOUR N–COUNT OR SEXUAL PAST. Don't ask about hers and don't be specific about yours but do IMPLY that you are experienced. I agree that you asking her was a terrible move especially in the way you did it. Anyway despite not getting the lay you took it like a man so good on ya. She didn't respond well to asshole game and she said herself that she wants you to pay her shit so that's a next. Especially as a fucking lawyer she doesn't even need it, but of course she thought… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/17 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Met a girl through social media, happens to go to my college, advice on how to approach herNo problem, glad you appreciate it. If sex is a consideration the alpha game is the better bet. Still make sure to practice abundance mentality and don't give as many shuts about her as you currently do. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/17 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Met a girl through social media, happens to go to my college, advice on how to approach herNot sure what all the "trutherbot" bullshit is so I'll just ignore it, its something to talk about but it doesn't change AWALT. Start by remembering she is NOT A UNICORN because they don't exist. She's intelligent, woken, traditional, and wholesome (and probably an 8, coming from a conservative family with a solid father-relationship), an aspiring nutritionist and chiropractor. We exchanged views on life and memes about the dark conspiracies of the world early on, and she matches my interests in… | /r/askTRP | 05/08/17 06:36 AM |
| 1 | Acting strange around my brotherI don't know for sure because I don't have a brother. However, my take is that it is fine to be intimidated by something about him, it's part of what drives fraternal competition which can help build masculine traits. You don't have to be the super-suave alpha around him, it won't work especially since he's probably AMOGing you just by existing. There's a lot of info we don't have, like what your relationship was growing up, but I'm pretty sure it's normal to not be super buddy - buddy nor confr… | /r/askTRP | 05/08/17 05:54 AM |
| 2 | Completely Unamused with Amused MasteryYou want to win the game, play the game the best way you know how. If you want to win Risk you can't just throw the pieces around and say you hate the fakeness. It's the way it is, you can make new strategies but Mastery of the proven strategies gets you places. The Amused part is actually unnecessary to Mastering... BUT it's an attitude that helps interpersonal relations more than being pissed off all the time. If you hate the game nobody is forcing you to play it. If you want realness you are … | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/17 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Social media has me f'd upI know the simple answer is to just stop going on social media but wouldnt that just be running away from reality? Social media IS NOT REALITY which is something I cover in a post I made last month, check my history if you want since I don't know what the rules for linking in comments are. It's a "greatest hits" for their carefully-crafted online image that is often staged. A lot of these people are nothing without the constant validation they get from their social media. Yeah there are some Dan… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/17 10:52 AM |
| 2 | My accidental use of Dread Game on my exMy style is to not ask for what you don't want.. specifically I wouldn't initiate flirting with a girl I wasn't interested in at that time. That said go along with their banter and start conversations with girls around your girl. Just has to show that you could change gears if necessary. Pass her shit tests by brushing it off using Amused Mastery attitude as being a reasonably social person (she will want to control your interaction with other girls and you cannot let her). | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/17 06:40 PM |
| 6 | My accidental use of Dread Game on my exLike many things on TRP it boils down to "be alpha." If you're an AF not BB in a relationship you can continue to be the same badass that picked her up and she will not want to lose that, but dread game requires that she actually see ways she would likely lose you. Keep options open with other girls, which you can do without cheating. Make friends with hot girls, talk to girls you're "just friends" with (on your terms, not theirs) and don't stop just because she tells you. This serves two purpos… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/17 09:58 AM |
| 5 | My accidental use of Dread Game on my exThey may not forget it but it can get to the point where it no longer matters. If she's even moderately attractive she can probably find another option or upgrade and hypergamy doesn't care that she heard a year ago that you fucked another girl. If it's not fresh in her mind that she could lose a good option at any time she cam gladly sleep around. In the same vein a woman can "forget" that time you made her orgasm five times if she can't even get off lately, or "forget" that you were her AF for… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/17 09:42 AM |
| 1 | A brief history of loveThis discussion is necessary because the pop culture portrayal of love is designed to play your emotions for money. Enjoy films and novels as you like, but be aware that they corrupt the concept of love into one where satisfaction is always gained because "happy endings." Of course this portrayal is challenged in other works (the film Once comes to mind) that try to be more realistic but never really RP. It's so obvious that concepts like true love, love at first sight (what is really "periphera… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/17 09:28 AM |
| 4 | Relax, you can't control other people's actionsHe may be an important figure with great ideas but his word is not law especially considering we live in a time very different than his. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/17 08:55 AM |
| 1 | My NPD ex-gf let me go, they say NPD girls always come back, but she never didI'm not gonna say she had no redeeming qualities whatsoever so maybe "complete and utter" is an exaggeration. That said she's still a bitch and whatever happened looks to be her fault (although that's no excuse not to improve your beta behavior). | /r/askTRP | 21/07/17 10:43 PM |
| 1 | How can you get plates a virgin? Or even one?Years? The monk mode I'm talking about is dedication to self-improvement at the expense of fun and women. If you've actually dedicated entire years to improving yourself and your situation (lifting, grooming, career, and mindset) then stop thinking about it and just go for it because you've put in the necessary work. If you've actually sculpted yourself into the type of person you want to be then the last step is to actually apply what you've worked hard for. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/17 01:07 AM |
| 1 | How can you get plates a virgin? Or even one?"At least slightly attracted to" I assume means about a 6 or a little less; totally doable even if you're just looking to lose it. But girls can sense the desperation of an unattractive guy who just wants to lose virginity and get a lay. It will be easier if you just go monk mode IMO if you're totally new to RP. You should be lifting and grooming well regardless if you want to maintain value as a man. It'll vastly improve a man of "meh" attractiveness if he does those things. Career as well. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/17 11:51 PM |
| 2 | How long redpillers?Nightgame is obvious (bars/clubs). I know the availability of those can be limited in small cities, so beyond that you can find a good place to do daygame (google "tddaygame" he has some good stuff to say usually). Even further just take part in activities that show natural value and also give you a chance to find similarly-minded women, hiking and rock-climbing are commonly recommended ones as well as some kind of partner-dancing (touch-comfortable). Honestly what you might be missing is just h… | /r/askTRP | 20/07/17 09:28 PM |
| 2 | How can you get plates a virgin? Or even one?The goal is not plates, the goal right now is ONS/first partner, then multiple partners. Then comes the plate spinning. Doesn't really matter how. PUA stuff is not necessary but make sure you actually know how to interact with people. If you've been around on the RP subreddits you should have learned some game, so fucking apply it, and if not get to learning it or just go out anyway. The biggest problem virgins have is being pussies about going out and gaming girls, even if you know zero game yo… | /r/askTRP | 20/07/17 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Escalate on a friendzoner?In my previous question one answerer said to be mercilessly flirty and sexual the next time I see her. I do not care if she talks to me again unless as a fbuddy/gf/whatever. Yeah nothing has changed since you last asked the question then. Not communicating your intent nonverbally will just lead you deeper into the friendzone. However: But I have to meet her briefly to take care of business What business is it? If escalating with her could damage your career or other prospects then don't bother. … | /r/askTRP | 20/07/17 09:09 PM |
| 5 | How long redpillers?I find by hanging out with her it gives me something to do, since I'm always working on improving myself and working at my job and lack a social life especially since I don't drink much because trying to limit body fat and increase muscle mass If your job literally gives you no time, I understand this. Career first (if it is fulfilling and pays well for the number of hours) over women, especially since its a huge SMV factor that can allow you to bag them just by looking. But if you're like most … | /r/askTRP | 20/07/17 07:48 AM |
| 1 | My NPD ex-gf let me go, they say NPD girls always come back, but she never didWhy does it matter if she had NPD or not? Anyone can be a complete and utter asshole without having NPD. What matters is that she's a bitch, which requires no professional diagnosis, and its good that she's gone. Seems like you still have oneitis; might want to spend some time on the main subreddit unplugging if you still have an issue with that, mostly on the sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/17 07:27 AM |
| 2 | Is monogamy really a lie...?An extremely large number of women ARE happily monogamous and will ultimately NEVER cheat on their partners Maybe. I don't know what "an extremely large number" is or how you came to this conclusion though, its as if you pulled a few descriptors out of your ass and "decided" on what society told you. Either way, this type of statement comes from a bunch of fundamental BP lies: Women aren't like that! A good girl will never cheat, there's just a few bad apples. AWALT, they operate on feelings and… | /r/askTRP | 20/07/17 12:58 AM |
| 1 | I'm Afraid...If you think a woman is the only solution you have deeper issues going on. If you literally can't get joy from anything you might have a mental disorder that requires professional help not randos on the internet. But if you're like most beta/omega types, you do have the potential to enjoy things but you drowned out your life with entertainment and junk food. So whats the real issue here? You want a woman to solve your problems? Take it from me, the mere fact of having an attractive girlfriend is… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/17 10:04 AM |
| 1 | This is all so exhausting.As we say on here, do you yell at the sky for being blue? Women are what they are, as are men, and if you are putting all the blame on them you're getting nowhere. Hating them achieves nothing, they won't change. Either change yourself or accept inceldom. Also you are completely and utterly wrong that we are the only species with self-defeating practices as competition within species is a huge part of survival and evolution. Not all individuals will reproduce in nature and sometimes one animal m… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/17 09:41 AM |
| 0 | Company loyalty is dead. Switch jobs every 18 months to two years. [Career]When did you get to 7 figures? Helps to know since the environment may have changed. Either way you're high enough income to the point that it doesn't have to matter to you, the rest of us probably aren't hitting that for a long time if ever. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/17 03:23 AM |
| 5 | Why do muslim majority countries have high marriage rates and low divorce rates compared with western countries?Whatever helps you sleep at night, my point is that Islam and Islamic theocracy is not RP and it never will be. RP involves understanding and living with the concepts of hypergamy. Not codifying Beta Bucks and forcing women to stay with a man regardless of his value. Islam is just another BP that happens to be better than other societies at keeping the institution of marriage to be useful. Religion is built on a misunderstanding of reality in the first place, which is not any sort of RP. the fac… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/17 07:31 AM |
| 2 | Am I the only one who thinks white knight/manginas are the worstIt exists solely as anti-TRP material. It's not there for life-living advice really, only to bash on the sore spots in TRP. They don't usually have anything to say about the self-improvement content because it isn't really attackable, instead they portray the whole thing as misogyny that destroys marriages and relationships. You see some people who "agree" with the self-improvement aspect but none of them post about it. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/17 06:46 AM |
| 31 | Why do muslim majority countries have high marriage rates and low divorce rates compared with western countries?You may have "perfected marriage" by essentially forcing your women to stay with you (low divorce rates, but does that make anyone happy if its through legal force?), but I'd rather live in a society where women won't get killed or flogged for having premarital sex with me (or anyone, but I have my selfish reasons of course). Which is doubly good since I don't want to get married anyway. Above all, wives are required to follow husband's order to have sex with him (although anal sex is forbidden)… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/17 06:27 AM |
| 4 | July 14 - Weekly Improvement & Progress ThreadGood: Seeing results at the gym, have been making sure to go on my schedule but it might be time to increase the frequency. Worked on increasing value: employment opportunities, better haircut, took care of clothes a month ago but I have to get out and see what works. In the process of taking care of my classes for next semester, gotta make sure I stay on track to graduate sooner rather than later. Bad: Low action to theory ratio. Reprogramming my brain is good but it requires action to cement i… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/17 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Long-term girlfriend reveals mental issues, secret plastic surgery, planning to get moreThat's a huge-ass lie, going past typical feminine avoidance of reality into the realm of dishonest disrespect that you should not tolerate. The rational part of me knows that I need to direct her to therapy and slowly exit the relationship. The emotional part of me is by now blue pilled and feels too much attachment to leave. Good news, you already know what the right decision is (the first one). You don't have to care about her any more but if you do, go ahead and recommend therapy along with … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/17 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Women are not the problemYou are confusing natural order with historical civilization. Natural order for humanity is the tribal pack hierarchy where mates are chosen through hypergamous schedules of mating, not monogamous. Civilization subverted that with pair-bonding ritual, a social contract with its own version of the Blue Pill depending on where you look. Marriage is not natural. There was a time in history where it worked, but it is inherently BP. You can argue for or against its usefulness to society, but being "a… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/17 11:49 AM |
| 1 | Arrogance is good.The quote about narcissists doesn't really apply. I'm not sure if I'm supposed to take it as an endorsement of narcissism but NPD is self-destructive because affected people always have to shift the blame even in their own minds and avoid accountability. Improving value requires being able to look at yourself and correct your mistakes, which narcissists can't do because they feel like everyone else is the problem. That being said I have to agree with most things you said about arrogance being a … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/17 09:55 AM |
| 1 | June 30 - Weekly Improvement & Progress ThreadLong story short I didnt, because it's a family country club membership that I didn't decide on but on the upside is essentially free for me. It's not an economical option for most people but if you have money you could look into one. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/17 03:46 AM |
| 11 | On Frame: Observations of Rebuilt ManTalk to many people. Being social and getting to know people in general is what gives you "ins" that pay off. It may seem counter-intuitive to join groups only by talking to individuals, but that's how you get the introductions. Remember that talking to people in public platonically is acceptable and encouraged. Like approaching girls, but instead of getting laid you're trying to make friends. This doesn't mean you have to "cold approach" but try to get out and be social even when it isn't a soc… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/17 11:00 AM |
| 3 | Everybody is shallowI think you have a point on the job interviews and maybe work in general (if employed by another company). Otherwise, if you want to live your life this way be my guest, but I certainly won't be any woman's source of jewelry and I'll gladly get roasted by my friends because they know I can take a joke or jab. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/17 10:00 AM |
| 1 | 6 Common Things Women Say To Show Disinterest(Skip the next two paragraphs if you don't want a story about old beta me where I fuck up) Reminds me of the last time I looked for a relationship. This was before I took the Red Pill. I didn't even ask for a relationship, just said something cringey about whether she reciprocated my "feelings." I fucked up by not escalating way earlier, but I was lucky enough to avoid a certain beta behavior: when she gave me the "I'm not looking for a relationship" response, I did the logical thing and moved o… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/17 06:10 AM |
| 2 | June 30 - Weekly Improvement & Progress ThreadGood: DGAF mindset and work mindset is improving. Gym time is starting to show, have slowly stopped giving a shit about what other people there think (its a small gym, tight space and few people). Making conscious positive diet decisions. Could be more calculating in my intake, but cutting more shitty food and unhealthy sugar intake. Making sure to get my protein when I wouldn't even think about it a while ago. Becoming more socially aware. My mental improvement has shown whether conversing with… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/17 05:36 AM |
| 1 | Blue Pill ideology BTFO! X-Post from PPDyou say that as if we can trust women's self reports in any study. I don't have anything to say about whether you can trust women in other studies... I don't know if its a case by case basis or if they lie on all of them, I'm just talking about this one. (a direct, yes/no question was asked rather than a roundabout attraction-generating conversation). that is exactly how most social science research is done. I don't know if you're arguing for, against, playing devil's advocate, or criticizing th… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/17 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Blue Pill ideology BTFO! X-Post from PPDTwenty years later, Hald and Høgh-Olesen (2010) largely replicated these findings in Denmark, with 59 percent of single men and 0 percent of single women agreeing to a stranger's proposition, “Would you go to bed with me?” Interestingly, they also asked participants who were already in relationships, finding 18 percent of men and 4 percent of women currently in a relationship responded positively to the request. If you take it at face value that's huge. ASD is obviously suppressing a lot of the … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/17 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Blue Pill ideology BTFO! X-Post from PPDYou're right that even the most reclusive guy knows that you don't start a sexual relationship by asking straight-up on the street. Honesty is obviously not the best policy when ASD is online. They don't want to be labeled a slut if they said yes to "would you like to go to bed with me tonight?" However if the 80/20 rule is correct then a man of "average" attractiveness wouldn't get anywhere, game or no game, most of the time. So the question is, were the guys in this study attractive enough? Po… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/17 10:43 PM |
| 2 | The Power of HabitsHow did you come up with that 90% statistic? If 90% of the 90% followed the 90% rule I'd be in the 19% according to your calculations. How do you even measure what's right and what's wrong if these concepts of morality are completely subjective? Its not a proven statistic, he was just trying to say "most of the time, you know the difference between a bad habit and a good one" but that it doesn't apply to everyone. And this isn't about morality, so I don't know why you inserted it, its about whic… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/17 07:06 AM |
| 1 | Social media for RP men - Why it isn't a dichotomyMost social media is controlled by blue pill orgs. Doesn't mean you can't use but I personally choose to stay away from FB. I use twitter a bit but am considering dropping it as well Instagram is probably by far the most useful for purposes of purely gaming females, but I don't use it Agreed, all social media, Facebook especially, controls content to advocate the BP. For example, criticizing religion or feminism is "hate speech" subject for removal because they want to cultivate a politically co… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/17 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill Consensus on Veganism?As a lifting bro who was led to believe we need absurd amounts of protein to build muscle, this is false. 0.6-0.8 g/ lb of bodyweight is actually sufficient. I actually feel so much better with my current macros, by dropping protein back a bit, and upping carbs. Since I've started eating more plant-based, fat intake is naturally lower. I'm not full vegan yet. It's going to be a tremendous challenge for me socially. However, I think something that anybody can do is gradually cut out crap. Cutting… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/17 11:02 PM |
| 3 | Moral is subjective. Especially to women.On point, nothing we haven't seen before but guys need the reminder sometimes that women are "feelz before realz." For the same reason, the ex-BF is always an "asshole," but the next guy she gets tingles for is "perfect." Just be the man who can get the tingles and not care when she inevitably decides what she thought was Prince Charming is now Lord Farquaad. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/17 10:27 AM |
| 2 | Where to get startedSorry the way I read it it looked like your mom was financially providing, if the side gigs gave you enough money to be independent financially then you can ignore that part. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/17 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Where to get startedFind a job asap, doesn't matter if it's min wage or six figures just get something, preferably as many hours as your mom. It's not RP to have your mommy take care of you. On your off hours work on lifting, educating yourself in business, and improving your employment status. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/17 09:34 PM |
| 6 | Women's expectations of financial support from men they date or are in relationships withIt's OK in society because BP conditioning tells us women are sacred vessels, compared to men which are pigs. Pretty standard sidebar stuff. Just don't be the beta provider yourself and enjoy the decline as the BP guys do so. Some women aren't so entitled that they will gold dig purposefully, but they subconsciously still want a provider. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/17 09:28 PM |
| 1 | The Alpha Monkey DanceGlad you decided to post them, I'm one of those guys that never had a steady hand. I might have screamed about it when I was a kid but I'd be much better off now if I had a good father figure. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/17 09:45 AM |
| 1 | The Alpha Monkey DanceThere's a lot of truth to the phrase "fake it 'til you make it." Some people just have to pretend to be alpha before they can be. Once they internalize the IDGAF, dominant attitude they can refine their RP knowledge. That being said, I do agree with you. However, some people also have to learn the hard way as you did. Edit: Whoever has a "do not judge them" attitude is fucking stupid though and shouldn't need to learn the hard way. You should judge everyone, especially women. Anyone who doesn't … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/17 09:34 AM |
| 1 | Lost SoulAs long as you can drive it towards your goals. It goes without saying that if you don't control it it isn't healthy and could lead to unwanted consequences. But everyone goes through phases of anger and hate, totally normal. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/17 10:05 AM |
| 8 | Left while im deployedOh as an addendum, I recommend you make this a learning experience on how AWALT. Hypergamy: Breaks it off because she wants Chad cock, but claims she is "better alone." This is obviously an insult to your intelligence since she's with a new guy already. No woman is "better alone," unless women are programmed to constantly act contrary to their better interests. Who knows if this change was because you weren't around to fuck her or because you were being too much if a beta (likely since you were … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/17 09:52 AM |
| 11 | Left while im deployedYou got fucked in a way we've come to expect here on TRP. Be thankful it happened now, and not after marriage where she has a chance to divorce rape you. This time it was a ring and rent, better than half your assets probably but not nothing. If you want the rent money tell her, but you don't have much chance getting it outside of court which isn't worthwhile usually. Cut contact after dealing with necessities and don't give in to the bullshit like trying to get you to take on responsibility of … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/17 09:39 AM |
| 3 | Do you think the beta tendencies of men came about because men don't gather like they used to?The beta is called such because it presumably existed in a tribal structure where the alpha was the leader in decision-making and masculinity. This is consistent with 80/20 and AF/BB because there can only be so many leaders, with the alpha being the most sexually active and attractive. The beta provider worked towards the goals decided by the alpha. Being a beta provider was not a bad thing in this system, in fact it was necessary. But as society advances, this system becomes unused. However, w… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/17 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Interest insight into a Slut.She's probably not getting many resources from the "sexy alphas" if they are what you say they are, and he's BB who she knows will cater to her because as you said he's low SMV. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/06/17 11:07 AM |
| 2 | Thinking of turning my plate into wedding china? Need advice? 34/MRaising children is a good goal. I'm not necessarily convinced that marriage is, though. You're flipping a coin on divorce (not that simple obviously but with all the variables you have to consider it as having a reasonable chance either way). Your vetting seems ok, her n-count is on the lower end if she's telling the truth but for a wife it might be high. Feminism is bullshit but if you hold frame against it I could see it not being a problem. Remember AWALT, she believes in feminism because of… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/06/17 10:53 AM |
| 1 | 5 Hour Date but Couldn't CloseSeems like you're were way too eager to see the movie. It looks as though you absolutely jumped on the opportunity which doesn't really communicate your value. Movies also have their problems for dates, but seeing that you found some new venues I guess you may have corrected that. Then I'd say you visited too many venues and built too much of a friendly relationship... this doesn't mean she won't fuck you someday but it wasn't that night. Hopefully you were leading her (alpha) but it seems like … | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/17 07:58 PM |
| 5 | It's almost like we took a giant step back on maturity to where college is the new high school and life in your 20s is the new college.Every single show the dad was an aggressive, stupid, idiot. The wife was always a saint. And why can't you make your own reality? Why do you base your future decisions on sitcoms and retarded Marxist TV shows? They are there to push a narrative and get viewers (mostly women). Pretty sure your response to that is kind of what he's saying, which is that TV is a bullshit way to represent reality, but I can see where you might have been confused over the angry dad part (although the saintly wife nar… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/17 03:23 AM |
| 4 | Holy Fuck men, always protect yourselfI figured the threat itself was illegal, but didn't want to assume for lack of knowledge about OP's situation. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/17 09:21 AM |
| 3 | She's not yours. It's just your turn.It's apples and oranges. Gender dimorphism means both men and woman are necessary for reproduction and therefore evolution by natural selection, beyond that there exists no universal way to determine whether one is "superior" or "inferior." You can look at individual categories like strength, multitasking, ingenuity, or whatever but men aren't inherently better since there's no Brodin staring down at us and declaring it. You can justify putting masculinity above femininity with regards to societ… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/17 09:17 AM |
| 49 | Holy Fuck men, always protect yourselfI'm pretty sure threatening to use the legal system against someone counts as coercion, so it would have been rape if he fucked her because he was under the duress of having his life potentially ruined. I don't know if there's anything he can do since he didn't give in and fuck her, but either way good luck getting that conviction in the gynocentric society we live in. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/17 09:00 AM |
| 1 | The truth behind why you hate social media.There are many reasons to be active on social media, but just as many not to. If someone is angry toward social media they should look into why, but to act like it's required for all high SMV men is ridiculous. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/17 08:40 PM |
| 2 | Twitch streamer goes missing during a convention, but I bet you knew exactly where she was. Unfortunately, her own BF/husband can't say the same.Holy hell, I remember seeing the front-page "twitch streamer missing" on Los- Angeles and thinking " wow I hope she's OK. But of course it was just the white - knight reddit investigative team, and she was just displaying tenets of AWALT. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/17 09:44 PM |
| 3 | Zero sugar will change your body and lifeThere's no definition of an acceptable amount of sugar. I think the consensus in mainstream nutrition is that you can have fruit regularly, but that juice is rarely a good option. Although "cheating" is fine, sometimes. I don't know where jelly falls in this. The "no-sugar" diet has no place for fruit, which definitively contains plenty of sugar although we've agreed it's better than consuming foods with added sugars. I don't think it is required to go no-sugar to build a healthy lifestyle as lo… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/17 06:06 PM |
| 2 | I Am A FoolWe were all fools once. Maybe you still are, but you've identified the problem and now it's time to get to fixing it. To the sidebar you go. I doubt I will ever fully recover That type of thing can easily become a self-fulfilling prophecy - try to start living like it isn't true, even if you feel strongly that it is. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/17 09:23 AM |
| 3 | Zero sugar will change your body and lifeHow I interpret it, and have been told by a few sources but I'm no nutritionist and neither were those who told me, is that if you ate pure fructose ("fruit sugar") and pure sucrose (table/culinary sugar) it would be about the same, but eating fruits that naturally contain sugars also gives you fiber that slows the uptake of sugar so you either aren't absorbing all the sugar, or you're not absorbing it all at once which can fuck with your systems (an extreme res u lt being diabetes). So the suga… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/17 08:58 AM |
| 1 | Veterans of TRP! Help Me Take The Red PillFrame - Rollo Tomassi at The Rational Male says to always be thinking about whose "frame" you are operating in. It cab be hard to explain initially, but should make sense after some time reading on TRP especially the sidebar. Basically every social interaction takes place in someone's "frame," meaning their conception and expectations of what the situation is (this definition might be a bit loose but hopefully you get the idea) and it's your job to think about whose frame you are operating in, a… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/17 08:14 AM |
| 9 | The number one thing all losers do in life.If you've been dealt a bad hand it's understandable to have to concede certain things. The point of the post is that being bitter is not going to get you closer to a better life, it's just a feeble attempt to bring others down to ypour level. Because we are always comparing ourselves to others, and we feel better when they are in similar situations. You might not be able to score 9s and 10s, but if you make yourself less of a man than you could be the 8s, 7s, and maybe less will reject you as we… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/17 09:00 AM |
| 1 | Women have been engineered by evolution to love a man that 1. is capable of killing things, 2. will do so for her. How to adapt to this and profit in the sexual marketplace.Probably means that while men want a woman they can fuck silly, they also want one who isn't a slut that has been fucked silly by thirty other guys. It certainly doesn't apply universally but a lot of societies don't respect promiscuity in women and want them "pure." | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/17 12:32 AM |
| 3 | So my Ex prank-called me yesterday.I'm not the same guy but I would say you should always have an abundance mentality. That doesnt mean you have to ignore her, but treat her as if she was some girl you got the number of on the street. Call her if you think she's a valid plate (you should have some idea from experience), but don't be the supplicating beta that tries to "win her back" or something. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/17 09:07 AM |
| 2 | June 02 - Weekly Improvement & Progress ThreadThere's that side of it, but there's also the side that can, if unchecked, kill your motivation and make you bitter instead of focused on your mission. I don't know why that happens to some people, maybe they feel like they shouldn't have to try so hard when other guys seem to have it easy. IMO its better to find motivation within yourself (or use discipline) rather than judge yourself against someone else because that way you become the man you want to be, not some other guy whose girl you fanc… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/06/17 11:04 AM |
| 3 | One question that will keep almost every young man on TRP up at night and one that he might find a less than fulfilling answer to.Nice clickbait I guess? Reading through your post all it seems like you are doing is asking a question and providing an unsupported opinion from YOUR perspective, but phrasing it as if some silent majority has the same perspective. Nice try but that isn't how it works, make your contributions your own instead of acting like the purple-pill messiah. At first you came to TRP and it was the option that if you do not get married, you can still have a fulfilling social life, sleep with lots of differ… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/06/17 10:41 AM |
| 2 | Judge a man by the beauty of his womanYou judge a man by his achievements or masculinity if you wish to judge him at all. Some of the most beta men can lock down a hot woman who isn't actually attracted to them, just their money. On the other hand, the most alpha of men sometimes don't have a woman at some time or another. I'd say the kind of men who specifically don't need women around to validate them are to be more respected. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/17 09:12 PM |
| 1 | How do some betas get with HB9-10Same reason any woman does, they have something she wants. Remember AWALT, 9s and 10s still may desire a beta provider. Like /r/PIeight says they might even be alphas that you haven't detected, but if you have correctly analyzed their partners to be betas then they want his security or resources and are willing to occasionally exchange sex or companionship for them, or just abuse the man's desperation to keep their oneitis or what they think is the best they can have (and it damn well might be). | /r/askTRP | 23/05/17 12:47 AM |
| 0 | How to enter into (and stay in) the flow stateSome people just aren't capable of this without some sort of reality check or methodology of overcoming their urges. Some people will even fail at things they like doing if they can't get over their pitfalls such as addictions and bad habits. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/17 10:08 PM |
| 3 | Anyone tried girlschase.com and are there any website like it for other skills?Thanks for the direction, seems like he has some good input to check out, and plenty of stuff not behind a paywall. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/17 07:04 AM |
| 4 | The real red pill. Women are the ones that choose. Your success with women is genetically decided.I sure most of you have atleast one friend who is in a relationship. Ask them who, him or his girlfriend showed the first signs of interest. I am pretty sure the answer is his SO. Men fuck anything. It is obvious. Tinder is a great example. An average female will have no problems finding a mate on tinder. Average male? Well 3-4 matches a week is a pretty successful run for an average male. I know we have a general rule here that when we generalize, we aren't taking into account all people. But t… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/17 04:26 AM |
| 2 | Women don't want your kindness; they want you to be selfish.Double think, assuming we're talking about George Orwell ' s version, is simultaneously believing two contradictory things. This is more along the lines of reverse psychology I think, since he's saying that being selfish leads to an eventual selfless outcome. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/17 09:16 AM |
| 2 | You haven't made it until you have accepted the harsh truths that don't fit your narrative, there is a big difference between taking the red pill and coping.You won't be able to go to clubs and make out with hot girls at 35 like you would have done at 22. You will feel very out of place sleeping around and fucking randoms at 35 compared to doing it at 22. Society will judge you even more harshly for fucking randoms at 35 than it would have done at 22. You won't get the same ego boost or fun from fucking hot girls at 30 than you would have at 22 because it is no longer as cool to hook up anymore, people will think of you as being strange for it. The … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/17 04:06 AM |
| 6 | Women are petrified of failure. Use that.I mean its pretty damn easy to read if you have the time, in a format most people should be able to understand, so what's the big deal? Theoryposting is far too different than texting a girl to be comparable. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/17 01:15 AM |
| 2 | My stepfather is a clear example of taking the blue pillThis is beyond blue-pill. Maybe a dose of TRP could help, but anyone sane would refuse to suffer this abuse, even most betas. I think he needs to see any relevant medical professionals and get off drugs or he's a lost cause. He's not your responsibility, but if you want to help him, it's not TRP he really needs. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/17 09:54 AM |
| 1 | Why It's Easy to Become a "Dopamine Whore" and How to Prevent ItI agree, we're too subconsciously entrenched in the culture to avoid it entirely and I don't have a solution either. It's just a good thing to be aware of and I think the simplicity of the comment saying "just don't watch TV" grinded my gears. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/17 09:25 AM |
| 3 | Why It's Easy to Become a "Dopamine Whore" and How to Prevent ItHow is this comment relevant to my pointing out that advertising influence extends beyond television? Not saying it isn't obvious but it's a point worth mentioning. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/17 08:49 AM |
| 3 | Why It's Easy to Become a "Dopamine Whore" and How to Prevent ItAgreed. This is still knowledge to apply to the areas you can't or won't avoid though, such as publicly placed advertisements. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/17 05:00 AM |
| 1 | If a girl blasts me with a barrage of shit-tests, I know I'm getting laid. Also, being corny is good + FRI've been in that phase where nothing could get me fat, so I just didn't exercise because my metabolism kept me super-skinny. But being underweight doesn't mean you shouldn't hit the gym. It's about both health and physique. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/17 05:33 PM |
| 5 | If a girl blasts me with a barrage of shit-tests, I know I'm getting laid. Also, being corny is good + FRIts a sign you need to work on yourself. If you get down in the dumps about it you are doomed to fail, but if you just think about it as learning, you can become "worthy" to women. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/17 05:29 PM |
| 3 | motivation vs discipline - the easy way outNo explanation will be perfect for all human behavior. If you think there are problems with them, do you have a better solution? | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/17 06:35 AM |
| 8 | "If She Likes You, She'll Find A Way", Right? Not Necessarily...Despite its lack of effectiveness, every once in a while the "loving friend" beta orbiter "strategy" actually gets some, when she doesn't have a Chad available. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/17 05:54 PM |
| 2 | I would like TRP advice on thisAs a general TRP rule, texting is for logistics. But notice how she keeps turning you down subtly? Implying she isn't up for it? Label her a potential plate, if she decides to reciprocate, and move on. Continuing like you are does not communicate that you are a good partner. If you're still interested enough, at least don't seem so desperate for her attention, you'll appear weak. If you're actually alpha you're the prize and she should text back with some interest, if not work on yourself and me… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/17 02:08 AM |
| 1 | April 21 - Weekly Improvement & Progress ThreadThanks man. Keep on keepin' on. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/17 06:21 AM |
| 2 | April 21 - Weekly Improvement & Progress ThreadStill swallowing the pill, pretty damn sour sometimes but feels worth it after every trip to the gym. Lifting more regularly along with other exercise. Beating social anxiety is a tough struggle, so I'm working on frame and learning how to approach since it certainly isn't coming naturally. The beta in me is still horribly present, but it's compulsions are getting easier to overcome. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/17 04:12 AM |
| 3 | a soft next worked very well for meIf you are high SMV male, you are the prize, not them. Unless I misinterpreted your comment, which is possible. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/17 03:57 AM |
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