Really stumped on this one. I have a plate that I want to upgrade. She is also real interested too. She traveled 5 hours to see me before. Problem is that she had to go quite far away for work, and we wont see each other for around 2 months. We have some plans already set to meet after that.

Main issue? AWALT. She wants more commitment from me and emotional involvement, but all I have is text messaging for now which I know from experience is a losing battle and a womans playground. You can connect emotionally on texting but its hard and best avoided. Anyways this is a problem. How is it best handled? If she had it her way, texting daily, flirting non stop etc. I can't keep up with that, and her being a woman, doesn't realise that shit will BORE HER after a while too.

Right now nothing is defined but she is definitely pushing for it with subtle hints of being used, mentioning how I don't compliment her etc.

She's a little older than me too, she's 35 and i'm 27. Seems like she either really wants commitment and lock me down, or shes trying to live out some fantasy(and women think that fantasy can ever exist in reality lol).

What is suggested action not to smash this plate in the mean time?