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| 3 | Are young women getting worse?Im generalizing. I thought that was obvious. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/20 10:48 PM |
| 2 | Are young women getting worse?Since when do you have to tell a woman that encouraging men to flirt with her is not appropriate in a relationship? | /r/askTRP | 09/04/20 04:17 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else here on gear?They can help, but not necessary. you can achieve it all without them. The drawbacks are too great imo. Once you start you best be committed for life for many reasons. It is extremely difficult to stop taking roids as they are mentally addictive. It's both hard to go back to natty gains, and apparently, natty hormone levels effecting the things yo describe if you are used to it only with them. Not only that, but there is a typical crash associated with it where even with a PCT you may be shutdow… | /r/askTRP | 09/04/20 01:04 AM |
| 24 | Are young women getting worse?Its horrific. I cant imagine starting a relationship with the current generation of women... | /r/askTRP | 09/04/20 12:38 AM |
| 59 | Are young women getting worse?The biploar shit is turned up to 10 because they have a hard crack device in heir hands(smart phone). It doesn't effect men this way. I think it simultaneously teaches them to chase chad dick, get a flood of attention on social media and dating apps, constantly can take their picture and feel ugly or get validation through editing it, compete with other women on who can look the nicest or upload the most trendy thing and get most attention, maintain an army of orbiters for support, collecting th… | /r/askTRP | 09/04/20 12:20 AM |
| 0 | LTR is becoming increasingly jealousThis is not a bad thing, but you must be careful with it. Some women will use this as justification to "get back at him" or even cheat. This means setting a good example, because she will be guided by what you think is ok through actions too. Ie, if she goes and does this too you can't get upset now. Don't go down that path. She should know what is reasonable (ie, doing university work) and what is not. Try to make this clear, what you think is acceptable and how you acting but at the same time … | /r/askTRP | 08/04/20 11:57 PM |
| 4 | How to eat & sleep after breakupHe said 1+year LTR, makes no sense. If that is the case then fair enough. call it as you see it. Never any need to be disrespectful though. If you wouldn't say it to his face IRL, don't pretend to be a hardman on the internet. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/19 07:02 PM |
| 11 | How to eat & sleep after breakupWe're trying to encourage people down a better path, when they have been mislead their entire lives. We don't have to be pansies and all about the feelz, but its not easy work for someone to unplug like that. don't be a autistic. you really should know better being endorsed. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/19 06:50 PM |
| 5 | How to eat & sleep after breakupDon't force it. Just accept this is how it is for a few days. it'll improve. stick to protein shakes or mass gainers for a temporary solution if you want. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/19 06:47 PM |
| 2 | How to eat & sleep after breakupYou did what you had to do. You will look back and be proud that you did it and that you respected yourself and became someone you could respect. It probably isn't easy, but it will be fine. You wont look back one day and feel like you were a chump, soyboy or a man you couldn't respect. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/19 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else mentally exhausted from the perpetual shit-testing that women in their 20's engage in?Not really. I enjoy shit testing to a degree. It's very easy to pass them especially with thots who you dont give a fuck about. Makes for an easy path to their panties as far as im concerned when they shit test they are doing the work for you. Its comfort tests which i find more annoying to deal with. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/19 06:32 PM |
| 1 | LTR Ovulation CycleI have the opposite problem. I can handle her fine in ovulation, and any shittests are fun to deal with and generally she seeks me more. I dont really get many, she seeks me out and is very fun to be around in this window of time However on the downside and near the period, shes emotional and a bit bitchy or gets worried about things and its annoying as fuck complains about me being unemotional or not differing to her on things so I have to stay away. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/19 06:28 PM |
| 3 | Donovan Sharpe - thoughts?Because i'm looking for counter arguments to why My rhetoric may be wrong too. Although I have digested much and come to my own conclusions on redpill and how to use it, obviously i want it to be tested, and if someone comes along and can tell me im wrong and here is why it will at least make me review my conclusions for anything i may have not seen, a different angle. As far as im aware Donovan Sharpe has been around a while and is aairly popular, so I'm curious as to how he has such a strange … | /r/askTRP | 10/12/19 06:39 PM |
| 4 | My GF said that i'm Karma for her?Ofc, just stupid women solipsism but not the main point | /r/askTRP | 28/11/19 07:47 PM |
| 2 | My GF said that i'm Karma for her?Yeah. I mean she has been good the entire time i known her in all honesty. I wouldn't have known she was a headache before I met her. I'm getting what I want out of it. I guess shes improved at least. I'll just watch out because if it comes back im gone lol. dating her has been a real eye opener for me because it confirmed a lot of what i read about on here but even worse. She told me about guys she knows and the embarrassing beta tactics guys used with her or her friends... makes me think its a… | /r/askTRP | 28/11/19 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Am i being too much of a dick to my gf?attention, compliments and sometimes a bit of that chick crack which is the softside | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Am i being too much of a dick to my gf?about 8 months before promoting, and probably about 6 since then | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 01:41 PM |
| 2 | Am i being too much of a dick to my gf?I can see it. I don't play that game. However, I am kind of feeling less excited about it all than when things started. I just dont know if thats immature expecting those feelings forever. Advice? | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 12:21 PM |
| 1 | How much shittesting or annoying behavior should you expect in a LTR?too many words. we're talking about different things. Appreciate the effort though. i think i was mixing up disrespectful behavior with shit test. sometimes there is overlap. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/19 07:40 PM |
| 1 | How much shittesting or annoying behavior should you expect in a LTR?Yes those kind of shit tests mostly. I guess its hard to get a firm definition of shit test in this space. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/19 07:37 PM |
| 3 | How much shittesting or annoying behavior should you expect in a LTR?I agree with it. Just not on shit tests. I've seen everyone from broke guys to celebrities get shit tested by women. shit test = I think you are attractive and I cant control my tingles, i better make sure. If you are too sensitive about it it may not matter as there are plenty of women out there obviously, but you can still be throwing the baby out with the bathwater. Shit test is not the same as disrespect. If you dumped every bich who shit test you you'd never get a date, only women who dont … | /r/askTRP | 07/11/19 06:39 PM |
| 1 | How much shittesting or annoying behavior should you expect in a LTR?That is all true, but shit tests are a good sign imo. Women aren't that smart. shit tests are subconscious. they dont know it. All of what you said is not even consciously realised by her necessarily. they will always shit test, and they are a great way to make her wet when you pass them. I like shit tests because they are opportunities. but too many is bad. however Like i said, if i stop getting them here and there i'd wonder if shes even attracted anymore. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/19 06:17 PM |
| 3 | How much shittesting or annoying behavior should you expect in a LTR?Thats what I do. I ask if she is nagging and then she stops and gets embarrassed. Im not sure if i agree about shit tests. On one hand i think that if you never get them its a problem. She doesn't find you attractive or even give a shit about you. women don't shit test betas once they know they are betas. but if they are too frequent its obvious shes subconsciously having doubts. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/19 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Did i give an ultimatum here? (fucked up badly with LTR)Yes. Now i have a reason to just next her if it happens again. in fact, anything that can be classed as disrespect at all. Whats crazy is she told me she was very upset over the entire thing, couldn't stop thinking about it, had anxiety over it for hours because i wasn't responding and that she had to take sleeping pill so she could get some rest otherwise she wouldn't have been able to sleep. I really... don't know what to interpret this. seems like shes obsessed but at the same time was just p… | /r/askTRP | 25/10/19 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Being perfect at all times with game?Thats the simple of it. I prefer this. However imagine a LTR setting, dinner or whatever. Spending a night. Do we really need to be on point all the time to be effective? | /r/askTRP | 02/05/19 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Women attracted to my possessiveness?Listen to what they do not what they say. You cannot negotiate desire. This should be done covertly, and you win by actions not words. She knows what will piss you off already. You confirm it gives her power. She knows if you are in a ltr that 1 on 1s are bad and so is cheating. A girl who wants you enough wont feel the need to put herself in these situations. You win by not showing jealousy and being indifferent. You will eventually kno if she cheats. Boundaries are tricky. You can use examples… | /r/askTRP | 02/05/19 10:37 AM |
| 1 | Making chicks do stuff?Of course there is a line. Do this too much and people will resent you. However i guess im pointing at putting yourself as your mental point of origin instead of other people. That is a key first step in ending Blue Pill beliefs and becoming red pilled. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/19 11:21 AM |
| 14 | Making chicks do stuff?We all learn differently. I learn through abstracting things. I think OP comes down to simple compliance or non compliance right? Something i really took away from Rollo Tomassi’s work was that modern day views of masculinity are essential all Beta provisioning ability or how useful a man is to a woman and nothing more. Yet they dont find it arousing in and of itself. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/19 10:28 PM |
| 15 | Making chicks do stuff?You got that badge for a reason, help a brother out with some wisdom | /r/askTRP | 30/04/19 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Told her we aren’t exclusive, huge shit test (Beta bait?)Yes, of course. However being told so overtly is clearly not demonstrating that. If women look for something else, they just do it, they don't go and tell you about it so overtly. Women operate covertly. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 10:22 AM |
| 1 | How to handle this huge shit test?Mostly wondering on why she is overtly telling me | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Tips for BPD? (Is it always obvious?)Rationale behind that? | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Tips for BPD? (Is it always obvious?)Are they attracted to stoicism or something? I noticed that this aspect of myself seems to be an attraction point | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 12:27 PM |
| 0 | Is this plate gonna smash (commitment), lost frame?Yeah not asking what to do with the plate, but from a game view was this a bad way to handle such a thing? | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 09:05 PM |
| 8 | So what exactly is it that prevents a good jawline? Is it just body fat, or is it some kin d of muscle?U wot m8 | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Whipped friend?Probably eventually. Hes mid 20s. I guess hes not trying to insult me but is putting her as his point of origin on everything. Hard to watch | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 08:18 PM |
| 0 | Behaviour is much more important for SMV than any superficial factorsNope. Maybe I didn’t communicate my point well. Looks are very important. They offer leverage. Have shit frame, be beta, supplicating etc and after a while the pussy will dry. She wont be as aroused. It will take a bit longer, but it’ll happen. Thats where game comes. Where you like to have flings or LTRs vs plates is irrelevant to the point | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/19 09:38 AM |
| 2 | LTR tells me she that the thing she loves most is my kindness. WTF? I’m trying to be as Ed pull as possible.Who fucking knows. She could mean anything with that. Fuck she could consider you kind just for hanging out with her. Or that one time you got her food, while ignoring all the bad shit. They have no rhyme or reason. Dont overthink it | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 11:37 PM |
| 1 | $$ and Status vs game and looks?It makes sense now. It’s one side of the hypergamy goal. Not both. Or this shit is just much less black and white than i thought. I had a few try lock me into a LTR, which confused me. Post wall effects, trying to lock down anything of value they think they can i suppose | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 09:13 PM |
| 2 | $$ and Status vs game and looks?But still, Status is something i cant quite peg. Game and looks are clearly arousing and on the AF side, while money is more BB side and attractive instead. Status just seems more fluid, it merges with game(pre selection) while also being a boost rather than innately arousing. In simple terms i wonder if $$ and status fall on the beta bux side of the spectrum or not. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 09:09 PM |
| 2 | $$ and Status vs game and looks?Seems like status is also situational or subtle and an extension of game. For example just having the confidence to approach indicates you are above most guys already in confidence, and signals success aka status or pre selection. Status overall seems like it just amplify things. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 09:00 PM |
| 4 | Behaviour is much more important for SMV than any superficial factorsTo a threshold, yes. If you are at least a 6-7 in looks game is the 90% from then on | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/19 02:49 PM |
| 2 | Being alpha is more than just "frame" and SMV - Tales of Over PursuingI think you may misunderstand frame and SMV. It is not always on the micro level and frame is simply the subtext many a time. Superficialities SMV like career, looks, etc can mean jack if you are communicating low SMV with your actions(like over pursuing). Reaching out and inviting her can be bad frame even if you set it on good terms. You are asking her for something when she isnt making any reciprocal effort. Thats the subtext. She is not saying FUCK YES, or reschedule for you to make it happe… | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Are sex clubs and bdsm clubs filled with low SMV men and women?Why would a high smv man share though? They would just go fuck other woman on the side. Usually imo the woman manipulate the guy into it. She wants strange dick. Even if the guy is high smv he still may be blue pilled and go with it. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 08:50 AM |
| 1 | Are sex clubs and bdsm clubs filled with low SMV men and women?So basically any public or popular scene is just gonna be filled with low smv peope | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 10:27 PM |
| 5 | Are sex clubs and bdsm clubs filled with low SMV men and women?Anything not private. And even “exclusive” i theorise that it is mostly rich old guys who cant fuck anymore letting their hot piece have fun so she stays, under his “control” or still low smv people hiring escorts etc | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Can anyone help me pass this shit test?Say “not sure yet” for emotionally charged reconciliation of plate. Or agree and amplify. Standard issue. Or you can say that pieces of ass dont get to ask questions. Lots of ways | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 10:00 PM |
| 2 | Can RedPill Women and Purple Pill women be trusted?Lmao i meant that. Better edit. Actions always tell the truth | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 09:23 PM |
| 5 | Anybody heard of the podcast called Call Her Daddy? I feel like they’re opening confirming red pills as slutsLol sounds butthurt | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 11:35 PM |
| -4 | Average, how easy is it to cross into the 20%?Lmao. You’re on the money. I already agree with what you wrote as the practical take away. The manosphere is very theoretical at times, but this indeed is another one of those discussions which i am interested in here. Thanks for .your contribution, definitely reminded me of an important thing or two. The problem with some writers like Rollo is certainly in the lack of tangible practical take aways, but often it is just as important, especially if you are to fully internalise Red Pill concepts. … | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 08:45 PM |
| 7 | Average, how easy is it to cross into the 20%?Solid post. I agree mostly, this is good for anyone who ends up here from google. However the question im asking is really about just how beta most guys are i suppose. Like the threshold of what is considered AF and arousing to women. Just how uncommon is it among the hordes of blue pill conditioned men. Situational alphas aside. I ask because i see around me and hear from others and it seems like BP behaviour like neediness jealousy and shit is so normal. No amount of money or job status makes … | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 08:29 PM |
| 2 | Rocking the boatIm trying to picture a relationship where there is low to no drama. I cant. Maybe where a female is dating 3-4 points above her SMV. Like plain jane and a celebrity. There would just be so much competition anxiety and the guy would be so busy she wouldn’t dare stir it up? Some how even this seems unlikely to me. Either shes comfort test like crazy or the guy wouldn’t necessarily have game(never needed it) and would get hen pecked still as a means for her to equalise things a little. In reality, … | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 01:55 PM |
| 34 | How to deal with knowledge that my ltr gets groped/grabbed at the clubShe’s decided the random attention and potential is more valuable than you. Either you are too much of a “sure thing” or she values that more. You cannot really stop this. Making bargains is a position of weakness. She either WANTS to do these things despite you saying nothing, or she complies because you ask but doesn't desire to(value you). She a curious young lady so no surprise. You put down some boundaries for a relationship which is good, but now there comes a time where you HAVE TO WALK A… | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 12:06 PM |
| 54 | How to deal with knowledge that my ltr gets groped/grabbed at the clubAn 18 year old really lacks the experience to know. You can assume she has the taste for it now and is about to discover the CC. It really is not worth your effort to try stop it or to vet her. Sure you could try and maybe succeed, she could be one of few women who try it a few times but don’t want that life, but thats a low chance. Demote to plate or fwb. Upgrade if you determine shes worth it. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 12:02 PM |
| 6 | How to deal with knowledge that my ltr gets groped/grabbed at the clubWhy you in a ltr with a girl who frequents clubs? If she doesnt but is now you got other issues to work on, this is least of ur worries | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 11:58 AM |
| 1 | If The Top 20% Became Average, Would Women Find More Men Desirable or Would They Still Only Crave The New Top 20%?Women like the top 20% but they will settle with the highest value male she thinks she can find. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 10:32 AM |
| 1 | is this alpha fucks beta bucks?Attractive vs arousing. There is some overlap: i.e good looks. Money is attractive, but not arousing for example. Being emotionally compassionate is attractive, but not arousing. The problem with Beta Males is that they have (if any) attractive traits in space, with unattractive ones too(like neediness). And almost no arousing traits. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 10:16 AM |
| 1 | How to improve body further?Yes even callipers are not so accurate. Too many factors, even visceral fat influences it. Go by the mirror. It isnt so important. I dont see 7–8%. You do not casually get there, and as a natty at 7-8% you look flat as fuck like a twig. 10-12% is optimal place to chill as a natty who has gained most their gains imo. 9% is borderline. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/19 11:32 AM |
| 2 | How to improve body further?Visually you look 10-12% People are horrible at estimating bf percent online because they either have no idea, or they think their fat abs showing in some light means their 18% selves are 12% so they hamster you as being 7%. Lol. But that is a fine range for bf percent. U can focus on other goals and sports if u dont wanna take roids | /r/askTRP | 17/04/19 10:59 AM |
| 4 | How to improve body further?If stay natty, you should lean down about to 11% and stay there. You will make tiny gains in next years, bulking is a waste of time at this point. Now you can focus on other athletic pursuits. Maintaining that level is way easier than building it. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/19 10:49 AM |
| 3 | 26 y/o male here married to my wife 27 y/o. We’ve been married 1 year and together for 3. We have kids. She said she wants a divorce. Please help me save my marriage.A good old fashioned soft next may work. But this shit in a marriage is like ultra hard mode. Dont speak to her for a few days or a week or so, pill your self here and go in again with stronger frame and quit being so emotionally reactive, while leading her. It will be very hard for you and frankly i think you may be better off pursuing new interests to practice this. Try going to the marriedpill subreddit. Its about res pill in marriages, many guys exactly like you would be better suited to adv… | /r/askTRP | 17/04/19 10:14 AM |
| 3 | 26 y/o male here married to my wife 27 y/o. We’ve been married 1 year and together for 3. We have kids. She said she wants a divorce. Please help me save my marriage.That would certainly cause a relationship to end, so it isnt a surprise a marriage suffers for it. You may struggle with this aspect of yourself but it is a bitter pill for you to swallow. Women find emotionally unstable men repulsive. Early on they can tolerate it, and hamster it(especially if not living together and only dating) as drama and what they did wrong) but in your situation they just see weakness. Women are emotionally unstable by nature. They know their emotions are illogical and fl… | /r/askTRP | 17/04/19 10:05 AM |
| 2 | 26 y/o male here married to my wife 27 y/o. We’ve been married 1 year and together for 3. We have kids. She said she wants a divorce. Please help me save my marriage.I think you are omitting important details which you do not realise are important to this event and relationship breakdown. You need to Red Pill yourself. Read The Rational Male and some of his new articles on the website after. Then do some heavy introspective reflection on the relationship with that knowledge. We cant help you much if you cant provide pivotal information at this time. However from what you said, seems like the financial issue and lack of emotional stability and strength may ha… | /r/askTRP | 17/04/19 09:57 AM |
| 19 | Best response to this text from fwb about being teased by sex video?I swear this sub is maximum autism. This is “she let me put my cock in her pussy, is this a shit test what do i do?” Tier | /r/askTRP | 15/04/19 05:03 PM |
| 6 | Pulled an older woman who doesn’t know my ageDont lie snd dont try impress her. Already your frame is shit. You are rationalising how you are “mature for my age” in an attempt to close a value gap in her favour in your mind. Doesn’t matter what you do or say if your frame is bad. Fix it and it wont matter | /r/askTRP | 15/04/19 05:01 PM |
| 7 | Girl keeps asking me if i wanna get cuckolded (shit-test)NEXT HER. That isnt just a shit test, and even if it was, it isnt worth it. She wants to fuck her ex she is just seeing if you comply so she wont feel bad when she WILL do it regardless. I have had the cuck shit test before but in absence of other red flags. It was a simple test to see if i would get jealous from a plate who wanted commitment badly. How to handle: dont get jealous. Tell her she should find a couple guys to do it with but you wont be involved | /r/askTRP | 15/04/19 09:25 AM |
| 1 | Snapchat and social media is a bufferSure it works, but it is still a buffer for rejection. Many guys here who are almost unplugged still remain attached to their BP origins because they still fear rejection. Using social media excessively or exclusively to find plates is just a buffer for rejection, no matter how you spin it. Hamster reasons why its “convenient” and “im too busy to find women” all you want. You simply take the easy option with least chance of rejection or least painful rejections. Same as guys who only fuck fattie… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/19 08:47 AM |
| 1 | Help with providing comfort? Big struggleNo. But it makes for more drama than necessary with plates. I feel like being too aloof, and not displaying enough beta behaviour on your own terms just makes for a bumpier ride than necessary with FwBs especially. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Is Western society doomed? Consumerism has reached such crazy level that now we even consume consumptionSociety is literally becoming cuckolding in every sphere. It may be why cucking came into popular consciousness lately. Just kids growing up conditioned to be cucked by their wife one day. Raise em on BP crap, make it more popular to watch people do shit rather than do it yourself, even everyday cheap easy shit like gaming. Stimulating “friendships” and social interaction by snapchatting watching others do shit. Cuck | /r/askTRP | 13/04/19 11:00 PM |
| 5 | Snapchat and social media is a bufferLmfao dude. So you are doing those kinda things enough to have a regularly daily updated story? I also bet you are partying with top DJs, or chilling with VIPs every weekend in top venues. Get real. If you were doing these things snapchat beta game would not even be required. And if you did broadcast it it would practically be something you forget about, if it fruits or not. Its an after thought. All the young guys starting with snapchat are wasting their time, and it is also transparent as shit… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/19 07:43 PM |
| 2 | How rare is alpha behaviour these days?Putting her needs first. Compromising your own stance or opinion to win favour with her for for no reason other than getting in her “good books”. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 07:08 PM |
| 2 | How rare is alpha behaviour these days?“Alpha” and “beta” are at best, place holder words to define a concept pertaining to certain behaviours which effect women and mens sexual strategy. These words literally mean a different thing to every idiot on the internet and even in mainstream society. When we use them in red pill they are just placeholders. Focus on what they conceptually represent instead. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 07:06 PM |
| 5 | How rare is alpha behaviour these days?Gullible? You mis interpret the post. She has not explicitly and overtly told me anything. I have just gathered it from general pieces she has shared about either dating history or her reactions to things. I would be very surprised if a woman did not ride the CC in youth, but make no mistakes its not like red pill behaviour is common place. The situational alpha is a thing. If you are worth shit you can tell the signs indirectly without them saying a thing. If not you got work to do. It is large… | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Fwb called me a psychopath and manipulative?So in essence, an example of a woman who has little experience with “alpha” behaviour or, is used to nothing but beta male and blue pill men bending to her will over time, and entering her frame. She’s met me now and its very different to what she knows and it is causing her to question everything. Her usual games dont work so solipsism says she thinks im the psycho. Yet it obviously gives tingles. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 09:53 AM |
| 5 | Bdsm clubs, poly clubs and swingers red pill?Sounds like escorts and rich old guys | /r/MGTOW | 12/04/19 03:04 AM |
| 2 | Fwb called me a psychopath and manipulative?I dont think so. I can just compartmentalise my emotions. Genuinely, i feel kinda bad sometimes, but both parties are getting something they want out of an exchange otherwise it wouldnt happen. If i like a plate i’ll upgrade her, but a sad reality and one of the most bitter pills is how women and men love differently. And these kinda of love are often not sexually compatible. Lets me honest, most men want betamale strategy to work. Thats why its the popular strategy used by 80% of men. It doesnt… | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Nuclear shit test or bpd? Cant understand this plateWhat happened? I guess it just felt draining as fuck | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 11:31 PM |
| 1 | Nuclear shit test or bpd? Cant understand this plateYep, honestly this is like trial by fire lmao. Did u ever have such a thing? Im remaining detatched but its like if i can experience these crazy ass shit tests and maintain frame with this playe who i see and talk to seldom, im all for it. Its really good experience and i already feel like my younger plates shit tests are like flies bumping into a bull now. Jumping into the deep end for experience i would recommend it highly. Find a crazy chick remain detached and gain iron frame. But i agree, t… | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 09:25 PM |
| 1 | What is up with this plate? Cant tell if she views me as Beta BuxNot my wallet at all. Sexually its all good. I suppose that is the answer lol But she constantly tries to sniff out beta it is insane. I really think she is used to guys supplicating and bending over for her or basically operating in her frame, which i never do | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 07:44 PM |
| 2 | Snapchat and social media is a bufferYup. Those guys have interesting crazy lives before insta comes. Broadcasting it is just like a tiny part. For average guys, imo less is more with social media. Just enough hamster bait | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/19 06:52 PM |
| 10 | Snapchat and social media is a bufferWomans fishing ground. Bunch of betas caught in a huge net. Be the guy who cant be caught in her social media net. She’ll remember it and be enthralled much more. Especially if she can never quite catch you. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/19 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Is this plate about to smash? (Asking me for support)Is this an inevitable outcome for such situations if you have veered on the AF side? I wasnt sure if this was her already viewing as beta and ending it or if shes dying for commitment from me just because im higher value and pass all her shit. Is it true no matter how well you game this is inevitable? | /r/askTRP | 04/04/19 05:40 PM |
| 0 | If something seems off with your LTR, do you ask her?No. She will tell you | /r/askTRP | 04/04/19 04:07 PM |
| 2 | Why does my FwB/pre ltr avoid me on her red week?Ty. I’ll watch. Cliff notes on relevant parts? Im working atm. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/19 09:57 AM |
| 1 | Why does my FwB/pre ltr avoid me on her red week?Really im not sure why this bothers me. I think it is a BP condition i cant let go of. I’ curious as to why there is a pattern. Instead of trying to nag and test me on red week | /r/askTRP | 02/04/19 09:11 AM |
| 1 | Showing you are not jealous but not seeming beta/cucked?Any examples? I was just thinking something like encouraging them, then saying something like but i wont be anything to do with it or similar would be enough. Problem is it frames it like u want commitment, where as just encouraging them and not being jealous doesnt | /r/askTRP | 28/03/19 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Showing you are not jealous but not seeming beta/cucked?Its so tricky to me. I just read this: https://therationalmale.com/2016/10/24/please-breakup-with-me/ Now im kind of thinking, is the fact a chick even dares to bring it up a signal shes views u as beta now? That said, till now i have always just showed no jealousy and AA, and they kept fucking me and sucking dick, so maybe its matters little | /r/askTRP | 28/03/19 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Showing you are not jealous but not seeming beta/cucked?For LTR i feel its easier. You are comstantly doing levels 1-3 of dread, and never show jealousy. In addition if she crosses the line and it moves to the realm of action you next for the disrespect. But plates and Fwbs are not in commitment, so idk. Cant punish them for doing it because it may even communicate that u want exclusivity. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/19 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Fwb acting needy/complaining?I suppose the wrong way is to react emotionally. Getting angry, reactive, or trying to solve the problem by taking what she says literally and logically. Its best to just listen and be stoic and if needs be state a boundary without getting angry about it? | /r/askTRP | 26/03/19 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Fwb acting needy/complaining?Thanks! This is useful and i can see the practicality of it. They want to be on that rollercoaster, and dont want a guy who will smooth the track for them by going to her level. Be the rock as is a popular saying around here. However maybe it is a problem for me? A previous girlfriend once said to me that she gets very irrational and emotional sometimes. Shed find problems with me, that i dont comfort enough etc. U know things like not showering her in compliments and texting daily etc or reacti… | /r/askTRP | 26/03/19 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Fwb acting needy/complaining?Yeah. Texting is a womens domain, u just invite bullshit i learned. However i do think i fail comfort. I dont provide enough sometimes. Ty! The problem is i find it difficult to find the fine balance between comfort providing and suplicating | /r/askTRP | 26/03/19 03:35 PM |
| 3 | Girl already asking if she’s wasting her time. How to respond?She means thay that sue feels like shes wasting her time. Either comfort or shit test. Have you ignored and not eacalated enough? Have u pushed too muc and been rejected? | /r/askTRP | 25/03/19 06:05 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys deal with people still plugged into the matrix who act like your the strange one for avoiding monogamous relationship in order to foucus and improve on ones self? (21 years old)I dont. Realise that they are PLUGGED IN. They all WANT a relationshio, and or kids etc. They want to find “the one”. A relationshio and maintaining one is of it ost inportance for plugged in men and women at all times. Not just for sex or their sexual fulfilment, but even a shitty relationship. Its a status thig and also a blue pilled goal. They probably genuinely feel sad for tou are are genuine worried. You are not seemingly succeeding in this extremely important blue pill want and goal, and … | /r/askTRP | 25/03/19 09:09 AM |
| 2 | Ltr asking for nudes, is this bad to send them?You can believe what u like, but there are many ways to skin a rabbit. Just because someone skins it a different way doesnt mean ur way is bad or wrong. Try not to be so sensitive | /r/askTRP | 25/03/19 12:33 AM |
| 5 | Ltr asking for nudes, is this bad to send them?Break ups happen. Also, it takes mystery away. I may be a little extreme with that, but its kind of like if she wants to see my cawk she can come see it. If she wants pics it means its in her mind, keep it that way. Let her think about it and anticipate it more. The build up and idea of something is often much better especially for a women. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/19 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Ltr asking for nudes, is this bad to send them?Exactly, good points. Also im questioning why? Now she cant see me for a little while, its possible she just wants something to get off. For more context she really is kinda visual with my cawk in general. I think maybe its all a big validation thing which is more so why im being careful. I cant figure out what would cause her to seek my nudes, and if this is a good thing(smv is high and she wants more while she cant see it) or a bad thing(start of betaization). However j dont think women ask be… | /r/askTRP | 24/03/19 03:44 PM |
| 0 | I asked girl out last week, she didn't respond, then she came back to me 10 days later with 'sorry, I totally forgot.' What to do?Next and try again in two weeks. If you must respond just do something to get the hamster spinning then silent for 2 weeks. Something as simple as 🥬 or 🦡. Single fairly ambiguous emoji | /r/askTRP | 24/03/19 10:13 AM |
| 1 | Am I being an insecure bitch for wanting to mateguarding in this situation?Its for u to evaluate if u are ok with it and covertly or even overtly(best both) let her knkw u arent if this is so, early and repeatedly. U may have failed to nip it in the bud or address the whys and hows at all, now u are in a relationship. Perhaps when u were non exclusive u genuinely didnt care because u were not exclusive and she can do what she wants to others, but as u did set boundaries here u have a problem. Clearly u are not ok with it. First u should have addressed and found out why… | /r/askTRP | 23/03/19 09:15 PM |
| 2 | Can you be AF and a boyfriend at the same time?Really? None of my plates of Fwb make it past 6 montjs before they at least TRY to get commitment. It bothers me. Some get turned down and continue to fuck... but they still tried | /r/askTRP | 23/03/19 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Can you be AF and a boyfriend at the same time?Hmm. My understanding is too black and white. I’ve even had older women, 15 years older than me while i was a student who wanted me to commit to them. Im talking well off single no kids older women. At the time i was confused and even now i dont quite get that. What could a young guy possibly offer and older woman? Nothing but validation and sex or emotional intamacy. Certainly not status or financial providership(which is what i dont understand about them seeking comitment in that situation). T… | /r/askTRP | 23/03/19 06:52 PM |
| 2 | Can you be AF and a boyfriend at the same time?I kinda get that, which is why its inportant to never make them feel too secure( apply low level dread). But what im asking, is more that if she would want commitment in the first place, does she view u as beta or provider material in the first place? Perhaps its not so black and white. This is the problem i have with red pill so far. To me if a woman views u as AF, due to the dual sexual strategy she would never even ask for commitment. Shed only want it from a beta. However some women may try … | /r/askTRP | 23/03/19 06:46 PM |
| 1 | What advice would you give to a 23 year old virgin?Elaborate? | /r/askTRP | 22/03/19 11:24 AM |
| 1 | What advice would you give to a 23 year old virgin?When i was ur age i hooked up with an olderwoman. I was in ur exact situation. I still consider it one of the most important parts of my dating and relationship history. I went BP and got in a relationship with her, but i learned a shit load realllly fast that i know i wouldnt have with girls my age. Especially when it came to sex. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/19 10:45 PM |
| 3 | How do I make my LTR stop talking to a specific guy friend?I was in ur shoes red pill is very abstract. To internalize and benefit u must abstract it as hard as it is at first. I know this is probably irritating for you but it will do you better. Make sure tou read “the rational male”. Its a game changer and you will internalize it sooo much. Really helped me cross this canyon you are at. You are not too dumb, you just have to spend more time. You are in a ltr and have red pill resources to test out. Thats a recipe for very fast learning. The trouble is… | /r/askTRP | 21/03/19 11:28 AM |
| 3 | How do I make my LTR stop talking to a specific guy friend?U cannot control a woman. Especially social media. You can only lead and make her hamater her way to good behaviour. Through mostly covert communications while also demonstrating high value to her, she will make the choices on her own to cheat or such. If she values you highly and you have lead witu correct cocert means, she will either NOT talk to them without u ever asking, or she will not cheat. At no point is it ever worth being kvert and giving ultimatums. In the end, you need to be willing… | /r/askTRP | 21/03/19 11:12 AM |
| 8 | How do I make my LTR stop talking to a specific guy friend?Lots of ways. If she does it in fromt of you cut date or time with her short and go elsewhere. Women know when they are disrespecting or doing something bad. If she is ignorant(rare) just say “you looked like u were having fun in ur phone i got kinda bored😁”. Dont sound butthurt. Subtle teasing. Lead her. This happened to me before really early in a relationship. In fact on the first date. I pretty much ended the date after telling her mid way through its kinda rude to be on the phone(she was te… | /r/askTRP | 21/03/19 11:08 AM |
| 17 | How do I make my LTR stop talking to a specific guy friend?Bro no fucking ultimatums. WhT is wrong with this place... You Lead. If this is something you eont allow thrn communicate it covertly. Thats womens language. Let her hamster do the work for you. When relevant tell a story about a woman that you stopped seeing because she was talking to so msny guys and it bored the hell out of you. Tell it in a less obvious way. Maybe tell a story about a friend instead. Or when u see a girl talking to other guys on a tv show or movie be like “man i’d not even b… | /r/askTRP | 21/03/19 10:43 AM |
| 8 | How do I make my LTR stop talking to a specific guy friend?Why? Let her cheat, it will be obvious. Anyway this is your problem. You should be able to bet what kind of guy she is talking to fairly quickly if you do it right. When she brings them up, or when relevant you direct the conversation into a direction where she can bring them up herself. Then you can fish for information. But make sure not to do it in a way that seems like jealousy or mate guarding in any form. It could take weeks to get a full picture but usually women disclose too much so you … | /r/askTRP | 21/03/19 10:36 AM |
| 1 | Worried im dating a BPD woman, advice?Honestly. Im not even sure im fully sane for spinning it this long. Maybe i enjoyed the boytoy aspect. I’ll say one thing... i have learned frame control so much from this fwb. I wasnt too good at frame before but this experience has given me a trial by fire and i certainly value the experience for that | /r/askTRP | 17/03/19 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Worried im dating a BPD woman, advice?Yes. Im not exclusive but this older one is fun and good learning experience. I haven’t stopped dating around but ver curious to learn as much as i can about spinning plates as long as possible. I guess this one has reached its end and even a master could not stop the wobbles on this plate | /r/askTRP | 17/03/19 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Worried im dating a BPD woman, advice?I guess it has ran its course. I actually assumed dating older woman would be easier to maintain fwb no commitment, but i was wrong. Thought they wouldnt want commitment for obvious reasons | /r/askTRP | 16/03/19 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Worried im dating a BPD woman, advice?39 | /r/askTRP | 16/03/19 11:54 PM |
| 1 | Worried im dating a BPD woman, advice?Thanks. I lack experience to tell if shes bpd or if this is just what to expect of post wall woman being insecure | /r/askTRP | 16/03/19 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Does Red pill knowledge feel like a cheatcode to you?Im an empty vessel for you to project insecurity | /r/askTRP | 15/03/19 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Does Red pill knowledge feel like a cheatcode to you?It might work but there isnt really any need for it. Consider the type of woman who will respond to that and what kind of person they will be later on if u promote. Maybe if you accept this and just want a fuck its fine. What you are doing here is a blury combo of abundance mentality and being confident in what you want. You can demonstrate that easily other ways. But by being so pushy on it you are also Subtly demonstrating how much you want HER and it may be display of low abundance. Just keep… | /r/askTRP | 15/03/19 07:02 PM |
| 0 | Does Red pill knowledge feel like a cheatcode to you?I guess im just a stubborn bastard because i’ve never ran with that | /r/askTRP | 15/03/19 02:16 PM |
| 10 | Does Red pill knowledge feel like a cheatcode to you?Agreed. It is less a cheat code instant result thing(compared to lame pua shit remembering lines), and more of a fundamental. I guess i internalized red pill very fast. Maybe due to growing up woth women, i already unconciously knew a lot of red pill theory. For example, when a woman im with starts shit testing or acting a certain way, i can recognise the underlying principle of why and come up with any number of solutions. I suppose its less a cheat code but more a super effective fundamental | /r/askTRP | 15/03/19 12:40 PM |
| 7 | Does Red pill knowledge feel like a cheatcode to you?I mean this shit is relatively simple (maybe my bias? I grew up around lots of women so know how the hamster works) but it is insanely effective. I still don’t understand how most men are so blue pilled and get walked all over | /r/askTRP | 15/03/19 11:01 AM |
| 2 | Is being overly reserved a problem?I thought the iron rule from rolo was to NEVER disclose your sexual or dating history to a woman no matter what. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Help with oneitis/ advice on FBI realize that. Not even entertaining anything more. And I wouldn’t become exclusive if we were to go forward, as the cost of opportunity and time is too great. However this was an great experience and I actually learned a lot. Im only unsure what her intentions likely are and what i could expect from her if i kerp this on going. Right now i kinda feel like her interest peaked but that is a guess. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/19 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Why do plugged in alphas go for sluts in ltrs?No. Why would you ltr a women with a large bundle of red flags? Why am I explaining this here. I swear this sub loves easy women to the point they are now getting into relationships with them. THAT is scarcity. Just Plate them and enjoy. With op i was just saying how i see many naturals LTR women with massive bundles of red flags, which red pill teaches us is a bad idea. I figure it’s because they are blue pilled alphas | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Why do plugged in alphas go for sluts in ltrs?I think its looks and natural dominance or confidence which act as a huge buffer. However due to being plugged in, they still get fucked over by the matrix. They are blue pilled alphas | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Why do plugged in alphas go for sluts in ltrs?Yes. Plating them is great. But ltr? Lol. I mean the kind of slutty women with other red flags btw not just a girl who likes to sleep around but has discretion and many redeem if qualities . I simply observedmany naturals wifing up red flag women. Think jersy shore types | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Why do plugged in alphas go for sluts in ltrs?Dont get me wrong. Thats how i see it too. But i would never even be in a ltr with one. I would not make it “official”. Thats what i mean with the op. Since i took the pill i think im way more selective with ltr candidates now. Looks are definitely NOT on the top of the list anymore, just a great bonus. Attractive and gives me boner at a minimum is enough, so long as she has other good traits. All women sleep around its no big deal, but some more than others, and at least some have discretion ab… | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Why do plugged in alphas go for sluts in ltrs?No i mean a confimed cheater. Yes AWALT, but combined with other res flags u can see they are not ltr material. My post i tried to say i noticed that naturals seem to go for these women with a collection of red flags for some reason. I got no problem plating slutty women they are fun | /r/askTRP | 19/02/19 02:43 PM |
| 2 | Why do plugged in alphas go for sluts in ltrs?Sluts are fun but i have just noticed this trend of naturals getting i to ltr with then and it obviously causes huge problems. Not only that but seek then out. They will go for the tatted up smoking chick dressed with as much skin on display as they can. Sure enough those chicks are fun but ltring is a disaster. Many natural guys i know will willingly go into ltrs with sluts who plaster their tits and ass all over inatagram etc. Since i took pill, i screen women so much more and when i meet a ta… | /r/askTRP | 19/02/19 01:51 PM |
| 1 | How do I tell a plate I’m fucking other women?Covertly do it. Stop overtly communicating your game. Their hamster goes crazy for longer covertly. If you want to be exclusive then that’s different | /r/askTRP | 17/02/19 10:04 AM |
| 3 | Why are many women not up for casual sex? (especially post wall women)You just didn’t handle lmr well. 21 and a 30 year old? She wouldn’t have seen anything long term possible. Unless you signaled too many beta traits (doesn’t mean she wants to bb you but can mean she wont AF), you coulda just handled it. Likely her froends influenced this somewhat. I would have just said “i cant think of anything else to do right now” or such, and calmly said you were gonna go “x” instead and would catch her another time. Then you leave. If she doesn’t pull you back in then thats… | /r/askTRP | 17/02/19 10:01 AM |
| 2 | Societal pressure to have kidsWhy do I need to? Yeah yeah spread your seed ok cool. You know what i care about more than "leaving an impact?" doing what the fuck i want and enjoying it. Having kids would destroy that in all aspects at this point of my life especially. when im dead, i wont give a crap what kind of "impact" i left | /r/askTRP | 16/02/19 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Societal pressure to have kidsI want a vasectomy badly but due to my age i cant | /r/askTRP | 16/02/19 09:31 PM |
| 2 | Why do i fail shit tests on text only?I don't. And generally thats good enough. but, either i find it hard to not try say something(try hard) which causes me to just say anything, or, i misread their reactions too much(after all, they still meet up with me). I guess the meat of this post is that i noticed women genuinely shit test me MORE often via text than they would in person, which i am curious as to why that is. what is it about texting that invites shit testing from women | /r/askTRP | 14/02/19 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Anxious Introverted women, how to deal with them?She's kinda nerdy tbh. I think she works in finance actually. every time before we meet up she gets extremely nervous about it and even tells me. Once she even asked me for some instructions for if it goes wrong(basically wants exact guidance). She has fished for validation and told me she would like me to tell her how i like her more often (i dont though) before too, i do think shes a bit insecure. She does photography/cooking and sea diving and is into her pet as far as hobbies. She doesn't go… | /r/askTRP | 14/02/19 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Why do i fail shit tests on text only?Hmm. I guess i cant come up with anything in particular. You know i have noticed tht if i havent see na chick for a while she will shit test more often via text. maybe becase the tingles are too long ago. It just seems that texting is an easy way for them to shit test and they will more likely do it. In person, same woman wont shit test me as much at all. Or just casually looking away and such is enough to pass it. while on text i'm all thinking about something witty to do or some method or such… | /r/askTRP | 14/02/19 07:05 PM |
| 25 | Why do so many people post questions on here then immediately delete their account?I think it's for fear of being found out. a lot of guys give very specific detail, and red pill has certainly grown a lot in past years | /r/askTRP | 13/02/19 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Tips with FB? I make her nervous?If she keeps paying for vacations without comitment it can be whatever label she wants lol | /r/askTRP | 12/02/19 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Tips with FB? I make her nervous?Not gf but we’ll see how things go after this vacation for 7 days. I thought it was just buyers remorse kinda thing. Mind explaining why you think more comfort? | /r/askTRP | 11/02/19 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Tips with FB? I make her nervous?Ok so basically this is just standard women natter and isn't important, what is more important is what she actually does. in fact its pretty much expected hamstering for the situation | /r/askTRP | 11/02/19 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Tips with FB? I make her nervous?I think i fell into trap on this one. Got the vacation coming up and don't want to go into it with a crap frame, so I indulged her words and emotions too much. I feel this need to make them excited about it, but really, do I? thats the core of it. I need to learn how to set a frame which is stronger without causing massive invalidation towards them. sometimes its impossible and you just gotta do you, but other times i think i could improve on the cocky and funny/ AM or something. AM seems to be … | /r/askTRP | 11/02/19 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Tips with FB? I make her nervous?Ty fam. Ur right. Luckily i never let myself deer. I tend to pretty much say too little or just default to AM if i'm unsure on anything lol. I made this post because i'm new to RP and i take every single opportunity to learn i can atm. Any interaction i have pretty much goes under the lens so I can understand concepts better, and get to that point of internalizing game faster. pretty exhausting but im sure it'll pay off your post reminded me of that fundamental though, nice one | /r/askTRP | 11/02/19 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Tips with FB? I make her nervous?Lol i could be. thats the thing. She called me a robot before but this crap only happens when i haven't seen her for a while, because i really don't give out much in text. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/19 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Tips with FB? I make her nervous?That is exactly what i think too. I'm just kinda unsure because it's a relatively new situation. Wasn't sure if its overall a problem with my game so far to even have her bring this up She keeps saying she wants to go anyway and she wants to have sex and all sorts, but its all words till it happens. Thats why i hate texting lol. Imagine inviting this bullshit. My only consideration was not enough comfort but like you said... watch actions. I would like to understand if it is more result of slidi… | /r/askTRP | 11/02/19 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Girl In my class super liked me on tinderAh. you fucked up amigo. Chances are high she was fishin for your interest and now she knows it and doesn't care. you can still try but proceed as if it never happened in a week or two. If anything best action may even to be to cast a doubt in her mind. neg her a bit or backhanded compliments and shit.. then game as usual | /r/askTRP | 10/02/19 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Girl In my class super liked me on tinderDont like her back. Just approach. It’ll get the hamster spinning. You can build some real tension with this now | /r/askTRP | 10/02/19 09:29 AM |
| 1 | Anyone ever dated an older women with good career? why do they date younger guys?Yeah i like the way you put it lmao. i'll have some fun with it and learn from it, will play up to the dynamic. Any red flags i might wanna look out for as time goes on? | /r/askTRP | 07/02/19 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Anyone ever dated an older women with good career? why do they date younger guys?Surprisingly tight | /r/askTRP | 07/02/19 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Anyone ever dated an older women with good career? why do they date younger guys?Interesting. She has said she could help me out in my career before actually, and goes on about how she doesn't care about money when it comes to guys kinda indirectly. A very mixed bag of signals, and having only dealt with younger women before it's confusing (hence this thread, the dynamic changes what "weight" certain SMV factors have"). I pretty much thought from the start.. I'm a mid life crisis fantasy sorta deal. I have no issue with that because sexually shes really open compared to wome… | /r/askTRP | 07/02/19 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Anyone ever dated an older women with good career? why do they date younger guys?Well im probably only filling some void of insecurity for her. Can just as well be anyone else. idc. Shes a stable career type and quite feminine and decent, but obviously carries the masculine traits it required to advance in a competitive career environment. Essentially i think shes horny but prefer to fuck the same guy over and over rather than many guys at once. It's fun for now, i'll take ur advice from ur experience. I think its kinda eye opening how they don't really change with age like … | /r/askTRP | 07/02/19 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Anyone ever dated an older women with good career? why do they date younger guys?Absolutely. I'm newly pilled but I'm no fool. I just want to learn the dynamics at play and understand how AF/BB and SMV work in a non binary way. I think the older/younger woman and guy is a good example of how in some situations SMV considerations change weight(as you said, different category). the whole "he looks good on paper" thing (good BB SMV but low AF/tingles SMV). I wanna keep it the way it is, i'd never commit without it being an open relationship which is pretty much FB anyway. Howev… | /r/askTRP | 07/02/19 03:26 PM |
| 1 | FWB gave me the lets be friends speech, I ditched her a month later saying I don't want to be just friendsStop using snapchat. Stop replying to her till she hits u up | /r/askTRP | 31/01/19 12:23 PM |
| 2 | How effective is ignoring shit tests?It works extremely well in person. Stop looking at them or reduce attention. Over text is tricky tho. Im trying to master text game. I find it goes two ways. They think they upset u, and test further which u then AM, or they drop it | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 11:36 AM |
| 1 | Is a relationship inherently beta!Really interesting reading all of this. By definitions a 100% alpha (not to be confused with masculine) would NEVER commit. This kinda guy would be rough as hell and not even the kind of guy a woman would really ever want to settle with unless they accepted a life of insecure attatchment. Comitment would not be on the table for 100% alpha. While women would want to be fucked by him and have fantasies, its likely to remain in that.. a fantasy. She will of course find the “closest” thing and what … | /r/askTRP | 25/01/19 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Which is worse? High N count or failed relationships?Just take example at face value. 25, if thats more believable to you. It’s not as impossible as you think but its rare and nlt the point of this discussion . Im more curious about the effects of the quality and length of relationships vs number of them on a woman | /r/askTRP | 19/01/19 03:45 AM |
| 1 | What are signs a possible LTR has ridden the cock carousel?how come? can't see the correlation with that one. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/19 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Are all women Alpha Widows by a certain age?Yes, but that is anecdotal to me. There is such thing as the "thousand cock stare" which i believe. Like sex is emotional for a lot of woman and i found the less "jaded" they are the more clingy they are, the more they care about making me cum, and generally there is a certain look in their eyes. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/19 12:17 PM |
| 1 | Is it a red flag for a woman to have gay friends?Lol, you miss the point | /r/askTRP | 17/01/19 12:23 AM |
| 4 | Is it a red flag for a woman to have gay friends?Brilliant fucking post, and this is EXACTLY what i was trying to communicate in this thread and what i was thinking in my mind when i made it. I feel like most the commenters in here completely missed this aspect. It's about the fundamental differences between men and woman. Just because they both like men in some cases don't change that at all. they are gonna view it differently and not understand each other still. Thats what the red pill is. trying to understand female psychology and not get c… | /r/askTRP | 16/01/19 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Is it a red flag for a woman to have gay friends?Lmao, context is everything | /r/askTRP | 16/01/19 09:12 PM |
| 2 | Is it a red flag for a woman to have gay friends?Honestly, I find it really beta to feel threatened by men who has no sexual interest in the entire gender of you plate / LTR / whatever. Not so much how i view it in terms of red flag possibility. More that in the same way that women who do drugs often, i noticed they are more promiscuous. I know a lot of gay people, and anecdotal or not, they are promiscuous, which is why i wondered. Btw, a lot of gay ppl are bi, way more than you think, and they certainly do sexual things with ladies | /r/askTRP | 16/01/19 09:10 PM |
| 5 | Is it a red flag for a woman to have gay friends?Thanks for commenting. I know plenty of gay guys but know not many women who hang around with them. So you would generally say it's not a red flag? Have you bee nto a gay bar WITH them btw? I have only went with friends but not with a girl im seeing I wondered if its something like GNO but with gay guys encouraging things. Frame wins everything, I don't think this entire post is about frame, more about the general premise. is it a red flag? frame can beat anything if you are good with it but it'… | /r/askTRP | 16/01/19 08:33 PM |
| 2 | Is it a red flag for a woman to have gay friends?What would be best? I am pretty inexperienced. I'm learning as I go any chance i get. So if i'm not sure if this is a red flag or not, its best to not try learn just to create some illusion of "remaining detached"? I'm not gonna stop a learning opportunity, plate or no plate. Now next time, with the help of comments from this thread i can form a better opinion if it happens again. I mean, to me it reads like saying "it's just a friendly game against your friends you shouldn't care if you win or … | /r/askTRP | 16/01/19 08:22 PM |
| 4 | Is it a red flag for a woman to have gay friends?Well, they have a lot more testosterone than women. I guess thats what i mean. do i really have to explain the fundamental difference between male and female on TRP? | /r/askTRP | 16/01/19 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Is it a red flag for a woman to have gay friends?Gay people are promiscuous as a whole dude. There is nothing wrong with making a generalized statement unless don't understand what one is. Men, we are way more direct in our intentions with women. we are more direct, initiate it, and know what we want. We only play the dance and plausibly deniability and such due to society and women themselves. its the game. Men with other men, that is flipped. both dont have to play that game anymore. Have you actually been to a gay club? they skip the bullsh… | /r/askTRP | 16/01/19 07:44 PM |
| 5 | Is it a red flag for a woman to have gay friends?Did she ever try rationalise it to you too? | /r/askTRP | 16/01/19 07:40 PM |
| 20 | Is it a red flag for a woman to have gay friends?THIS. This is some real shit right here, and is kinda what I think about the dynamic. Now its not going to be all that common, but very reasonable. Not all gay guys are only gay either, many are bi. Hell, many gay guys fuck women still. Gay is perfect plausible deniability for women. I have had a plate before, who was a bit older than me. 10 years in fact. It was a bit of a toy boy situation in all honesty. She always tried to call me gay, and insinuate i was gay (even though i had fucked her ma… | /r/askTRP | 16/01/19 07:36 PM |
| 3 | Is it a red flag for a woman to have gay friends?I never made it political, what are you talking about? that's all your own projection. Facts: Gay men are very promiscuous Gay men are masculine and have no hang ups about promiscuity Gay people encourage each other to get out there Women love validation, and gay guys can still give it to them It fosters an environment of low inhibition and encouraging it Whether this effects an individual or not is moot. It can be a red flag because of GENERAL implications. It's up to you then to examine furthe… | /r/askTRP | 16/01/19 07:03 PM |
| 6 | Is it a red flag for a woman to have gay friends?Yeah i probably shouldn't have said plate, more like FB atm. Of course i am always screening, hence question | /r/askTRP | 16/01/19 05:48 PM |
| 11 | Is it a red flag for a woman to have gay friends?Exactly. I know a lot of gay people myself, and you wont fucking believe it. They will certainly encourage women to fuck fuck some guy in a toilet or something, men have less hang ups about that shit. | /r/askTRP | 16/01/19 05:32 PM |
| 9 | Is it a red flag for a woman to have gay friends?Sorta what i was thinking. Like all the validation with perfect deniability. Gay guys also encourage that kinda behavior of hooking up and shit | /r/askTRP | 16/01/19 05:07 PM |
| 2 | Are all women Alpha Widows by a certain age?It depends on age of course. Its a really hard question to answer. I feel like women are way more degenerate these days and sleep around more than even 20 years ago. its more normal and WAY WAY easier. Personally, t depends on the quality and length of those relationships imo. If it was 2 year long relationships vs 5 3 month things that didnt go anywhere? shit isn't so simple. blanket answer for me would be any more than 10 "partners" i woudn't bother with. easier metric, is she a slut and has l… | /r/askTRP | 16/01/19 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Are all women Alpha Widows by a certain age?That makes a lot of sense. Lets take it to extremes. Two women, both post wall, lets say 40 years old. Look the same, both looked after themselves. One had 2 failed LTR. Say a divorce, and followed by a failed LTR broken off. Second never had married, just many relationships over her life time, likely a way higher N count. Which woman in this situation would be a better prospect? gut reaction. There is your answer. The problem is telling apart, what the signs of an alpha widow are vs a used up w… | /r/askTRP | 14/01/19 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Are all women Alpha Widows by a certain age?However when you think about it from a pair bonding perspective, the more monogamous woman is probably a better bet right? despite baggage, if it were a choice, i woudl take my chances with the 5 year long relationship woman than a woman who has flings constantly. She has at least demonstrated ability to commit and may still get off on pair bonding unlike a woman with many flings. Interesting, is how you can tell these two types apart when post wall. There seems to be no clear way | /r/askTRP | 14/01/19 07:16 PM |
| 2 | Are all women Alpha Widows by a certain age?The “alpha widow” theory says it will be an uphill battle and not worth your time compared to non divorced woman. I guess it depends who left who. Female mind will hamster amguy leaving them as being higher value to protect their worth | /r/askTRP | 14/01/19 08:46 AM |
| 6 | Shit test response? "its disrespecting me" in response to talking dirtyGreat example. I don't want to stop using that language because it's just me. I cant even i want to. However i am happy to talk to her the way she likes in addition to that, no problem. it was alread yon the menu. There just happens to be free shit with that meal that she can take or leave, but its not the main event. I guess thats my answer. thanks | /r/askTRP | 14/01/19 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Shit test response? "its disrespecting me" in response to talking dirtyyou what? I feel like 99.9% of the bullshit and shittests I ever get from women only arise as its over text. And of the ones i fail or dont know how to deal with, its becase its over text. what is it about text that causes this? I feel very confident dealing with most womens shit in person but in text Its a losing battle. Really good for frame practice i must admit | /r/askTRP | 14/01/19 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Shit test response? "its disrespecting me" in response to talking dirtyIt feels like a shit test because she uses said foul language in plenty of other contexts. what would you suggest? im still learning. It feels like deering, i was trying to change her opinion but that is a losing battle i guess. how else can I bring her into my frame on this without deering? | /r/askTRP | 14/01/19 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Talking dirty?Yah, thats a pretty good idea actually. i tried get one girl used to anal by stroking her buthole whenever she orgasmed lol. Problem with OP was that one girl pomped it. but entire thing was in text message. So tricky. she went off on one about being disrespected, didnt really know how to play it. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 11:54 PM |
| 1 | Shit test response? "its disrespecting me" in response to talking dirtyNah, texting. In sex she doesnt care i speak as dirty as i want | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 11:05 PM |
| 2 | Shit test response? "its disrespecting me" in response to talking dirtyIt was all over text tbh | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Talking dirty?good book, i thought it applied to bedroom only. shes a newer plate and i remember it said in that book that you do have to warm them up a bit at first, maybe to early to be speaking that way withthis particular plate. we'll see | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Talking dirty?I thought about it. What do you think of this? "I use these words not to disrespect, but because my mind immediately express its desire through them and I don't hold back, you need to learn this". too beta? losing frame? | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Laidback vs assertive?gottcha, always gotta remember red pills. I can be assertive as I like, but often times I dont see a need for it. I guess i jsut gotta ve assertive for the sake of it. I noticed that some naturally very anal people are confused with assertive. They get extremely anxious if they don't make snap decisions about things happening around them. Everything needs to be descided and organised straight away or they actaully get really bad anxiety. Im the total opposite. I live to just go as things come an… | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Talking dirty?You think? I noticed this particular one has no problem talking crude if its not directed at her. She just gets off on more sweet talk and finds words like “fucking” disrespectful as she said. But has no problem with words like this if not directed at her. Really stumped on this | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 09:05 PM |
| 2 | Talking dirty?Ok i was thinking lf nexting her because she withdraws when i make a comment. Any need? | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 08:53 PM |
| 2 | Laidback vs assertive?Yes. One that op references goes out of her way for it too. Pretty hot atm | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 04:43 PM |
| 2 | Laidback vs assertive?Yeah, exactly. This is one of those moments where a woman is being pretty transparent about what they dont want. I.e we all know being in assertive and not taking initiative does dry pussy up. Ofc i didnt deer in these situations but still there could be a lesson What do you think? You didnt post anything constructive but you seem to grasp rp well. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Laidback vs assertive?Not so much. But i know from reading redpill that being too unassertive is indeed bad. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 03:05 PM |
| 4 | LTR of 5 years about to dump me. How to react?Nothing cowardly about it. The red pill is an unpleasant truth. What do you misunderstand about it... Grab ahold of yourself. If op genuinely wants anything to do with her again without being disrepsected and eventually thrown to the wayside, his only chance is to completely blow her off straight away. Any value he has left will be raised instantly and she is very likely to start chasing him again and come back crying weeks or months later from which op will have one more chance not to slip into… | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 10:34 AM |
| 1 | Contraception question pullout method (is it ever safe?)I wont, did some more research and appears i just got lucky | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Contraception question pullout method (is it ever safe?)Srs? Did u actually nut in there or something | /r/askTRP | 12/01/19 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Contraception question pullout method (is it ever safe?)I read that so long as u piss before sex, and before round two as long as u pull out before evacuation its pretty good. Pre cum has sperm? | /r/askTRP | 12/01/19 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Why do women try to show off men they fuck? (advice)Sparse resourses. Google it a bit. Gotta understand female mind a bit and it makes sense. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/19 08:31 PM |
| 3 | Appropriate response when she sends you nudes?U are fucking her i assume? And she wants you. Otherwise do not validate her at all. Comment on background object. Subtle backhand compliment. Make her work for it. Basically make her naked in front of you irl for validation, not on a screen. Many guys dont get it but from a woman who is not a ltr, nudes are beta bait | /r/askTRP | 12/01/19 08:27 PM |
| 1 | SMV calculations for women? How does age vs looks fit into it?From what I talked to, my mates always give me weird looks or disapproval when i mention it, probably just a wrong assumption. It all makes way more sense now | /r/askTRP | 05/01/19 07:32 PM |
| 1 | SMV calculations for women? How does age vs looks fit into it?Ah, I think I do get it then. Probably misread the rational male article about it. I think it must have a lot to do with the individual too, but that makes not so much sense considering the sexual market is the sum of its participators. Some guys would never consider fucking a fatty, where as some guys would date down and fuck one. Some guys like me would not fuck a chubby 6 but would be fine fucking an older woman who is slim but a 6 facially, etc. so considering the market is sum of participan… | /r/askTRP | 05/01/19 06:47 PM |
| 2 | SMV calculations for women? How does age vs looks fit into it?I have. Dont interpret this post as a rationalisation. I am genuinely confused how smv works. Many young chicks in 20s i would never consider, but there sre plenty of women 35-45 i would. But in terms of smv, younger fatty ranks higher and gets more attention. So to me it seems smv is fluid or contextual | /r/askTRP | 05/01/19 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Handling shit tests via text?Exactly this. Its conversation topics. I tried flirty and it worked, but maybe i wrongly assumed that being very flirty every single time is just me becoming a validation machine. She isn’t my wife and its quite a new relationship. Plenty to think about. Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 07:43 PM |
| 2 | Handling shit tests via text?Any tips? Sounds like you have a good grasp | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Handling shit tests via text?Good point. This is a one off though, it just happened relatively quick into the relationship. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Handling shit tests via text?Yes. Been there done that. I made this mistake before, entertaining all this crap. It drove me crazy when i was BP even coming uo with shit to talk about, then i ended it and she went loooy. Essentially I believe (true or not) that if i let her set the pace and style of communication she will destroy the relationship. Women dont know what they want. She will lose tingles and get bored. Im trying to lead this relationship in a direction that it needs to be for now, but i am not quite sure how to … | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Maintaining a plate/something more through text?Yeah it's a different angle to younger plates. I dont mean to upgrade her to LTR, but friends with benefits situation | /r/askTRP | 01/01/19 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Bringing up other guys? Is this an attempt at gaining SMV?Shes mid 30s. Kinda unbelievable. I think she must be incredibly lonely or really at wits end who knows | /r/askTRP | 01/01/19 12:54 AM |
| 3 | How do you transition from plate to LDR the red pill way?That makes a lot more sense. I need to do more reading on frame. I do believe it's the single most important concept, and if you "get it" everything falls into place. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/18 10:03 PM |
| 1 | How do you transition from plate to LDR the red pill way?You seem to have a good grasp on theory, mind answering something slightly unrelated? With frame, something i havent figured out quite yet is the difference between holding frame and appearing butthurt. for example, lets say a chick wanted to hang out, but hits you with something like: "sure, but while we're out, I'm gonna need to go for 20 minutes then return" What is an appropriate response? To me, you could simply say something like "OK" or "big deal?" that would be my answer, but i would als… | /r/askTRP | 31/12/18 05:25 PM |
| 1 | How do you transition from plate to LDR the red pill way?Those guys have a lot going for them and their game is tight. I'm not quite there yet. the imbalance gives a bit of a margin of error, and lets face it, most of us are not perfect, but we'll get much better over time. So how would you suppose I bring it up myself in my own frame? any good examples of frame works to give me an idea? something like: "I think we're having fun and both enjoying this. I'd like to see how far it can go but not too fast, as that tends to ruin good things. I need you to… | /r/askTRP | 31/12/18 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Bringing up other guys? Is this an attempt at gaining SMV?I thought so. interesting how predictable this shit is. You think this comes from frustration over me not giving enough attention? | /r/askTRP | 31/12/18 11:47 AM |
| 1 | Bringing up other guys? Is this an attempt at gaining SMV?I told her what I said in OP and have generally ignored all the other attempts by withdrawing attention till she re-initiated it on her own, then rewarded her for being compliant. worked The irony of their hamster tactics. It's just annoying when they try do it to men. It doesn't make us jealous, just annoyed. Like this is enough to drop a plate over it's just irritating. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/18 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Am I doing too much push?Yah im learning that fast. Hard for me to do comfort. I veer on the side off too much an asshole, probably a common thing for beginners. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/18 07:21 PM |
| 2 | Bringing up other guys? Is this an attempt at gaining SMV?Thanks brah. Still fairly inexperienced. If im honest about the situation id like a fair criticism: We met online(not on a dating app) and after 3 months she decided to come see me for a date. I didnt ask i simple said if she was near by she should and she made it happen so i invited her out. We met up for a drink late evening. had a good night, fucked. I stayed the night. Met up again the next day as she was still in the area and fucked that night after getting food. She comfort tested heavily.… | /r/askTRP | 30/12/18 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Am I doing too much push?Yes i thought so. Now i am wondering as im new, how to balance it? I think shes mega insecure, and she is punching above her weight a bit with me, and shes a little bit older too. All this considered, to me it feels like shes both trying to lock me down, and trying to betafy me. I do not do a lot of pulling. So her insecurity is mad. Is it wise to try raise her smv every now and then? I dont compliment looks as she cant control it and i hate the idea that she might use me for validation. I might… | /r/askTRP | 30/12/18 10:19 AM |
| 1 | Am I doing too much push?Yeah it feels like a frame battle often. It is a little bit exhausting but im new to this so i guess it will always be this way. Can you ever drop your guard or do you have to never give up frame? I can actually see myself developing something more with her, but that doesnt mean im gonna just be an orbiter. My thoughts were that i may push her away too hard by never complimenting. I think complimenting looks is never good(unless it is something she did like hair etc) but that is what she wants. … | /r/askTRP | 30/12/18 10:14 AM |
| 7 | Am I doing too much push?I think i need to ask myself what I want out of it. but yeah i analyse it a lot, because my lack of experience, try to learn as much as possible. I don't find it very useful to just plow through without learning, from what I see all these things like push/pull balance, recognizing comfort and shit tests are really important skills | /r/askTRP | 29/12/18 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Chicks letting you rawdog?Internet. But not on a dating app, just on a facebook group. I suggested she come and meet me pretty fast once we started chatting each other up. Ye a lot of women suck with money. They dont mind spending it when they get tingles | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 11:30 AM |
| 1 | Chicks letting you rawdog?Coving? Not sire what that word means. But, its kinda interesting how it unfolded. Essentially i hinted i wanted to take a trip soon. She lives a good 4 hours away, and jumped at idea to spend time with me again coz last time i saw her i pretty much insinuated it’d probably be the last due to logistics. So when it started to become concrete i had her scout hotels etc(chicks love to plan this) and after a little compromise and telling her to change stuffs. She founds some real romantic and nice p… | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 10:51 AM |
| 6 | Chicks letting you rawdog?I mean red pill is cool and all but i'm not gonna stubbornly cling to it and turn down a free holiday lol. Sometimes you gotta know when to take what life gives you. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 01:11 AM |
| 2 | Are these comfort tests or shit tests? ( "am i pretty, etc")Thought so. I get the feeling shes really insecure sometimes. annoying. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/18 11:53 PM |
| 11 | Chicks letting you rawdog?She's paying, why not | /r/askTRP | 27/12/18 09:29 PM |
| 9 | Chicks letting you rawdog?This is the kind of levelheaded response i was hoping to get. Thanks. I'll get tested asap, but I don't know how to bring it up with her tbh. Kinda awkward, but needs to be done. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/18 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Chicks letting you rawdog?I basically need one of two red pills. I need to be red pilled on STDs a bit Or a red pill to cure me. I dont properly understand the risks that is the problem. I've always just used condoms religiously and not thought about it. Is there a risk of catching something if i didnt already from a particular woman? | /r/askTRP | 27/12/18 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Honestly? Im physically feeling pathetic and i want to fix it but i dont know where to start or how.Develop yourself and shit will happen. Get good at conversation is the best reward ratio of anything. Cold approaches are not that hard if you can do this, but your own developments come to help after. For example, I did an approach the other day on the train. Sat across from a girl for a trip. Heard her speaking mandarin on her phone, so after she hung up I asked her "hey was that Chinese?" in mandarin and she said yes but she is from "X". Then we got onto a conversation about the language, and… | /r/askTRP | 24/12/18 11:27 PM |
| 2 | Honestly? Im physically feeling pathetic and i want to fix it but i dont know where to start or how.Bro I was a virgin till i was 24. It doesnt even fucking matter. when you lose it it's a big so what situation. I couldn't even cum when I lost my virginity. In my situation, I had kissed women before on and off since i was 15, but nothing more. Maybe that made me not care as much about losing virginity in a hurry. I kept to myself a lot as a introverted person so didn't really put myself in situations to lose it. That was the real problem. Just relax and take some redpill stuff on board, it wil… | /r/askTRP | 24/12/18 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Divorced women as plates?Sorry, t clarify. Just wondering the general dynamic from RP theory. Older woman and young man. Especially in context of divorced with no kids. Hypergammy? Is this likely an Alph fucks vs beta bucks situation etc. Don't want to deal with any attempts to try get commitment from me, i once was reading that older women are less likely to seek it form young man | /r/askTRP | 24/12/18 09:01 PM |
| 1 | What do you make of this situation [woman flying to see a younger guy]Just found out she divorced a long time ago. This changes a lot and makes way more sense now. Divorced women are not even an option in these countries are they? She has no kids but this kinda changes shit lol | /r/askTRP | 24/12/18 11:17 AM |
| 1 | What do you make of this situation [woman flying to see a younger guy]I guess that makes sense. She was actually talking sht about some guy who was trying to date her that she knows, and mocked him while saying she was on a date with me in text. I guess i view red pill on a purely social level which i nees to review. I thiught women Only care about money and social status. Which being way younger its clear i have not enough compared to her. I guess just the biological aspect is enough for hypergammy? Lol ty for the perspective. I could feel some onitis crawling in… | /r/askTRP | 24/12/18 01:05 AM |
| 3 | What do you make of this situation [woman flying to see a younger guy]Not sure how to evaluate it. But i’d say from what i know about her and her me, probably similar. Im working and a part time student while hes has had a seemingly successful career in finance. I’d rate myself as an 7 and her a 6. I’m pretty muscular and built shes nice herself considering age Maybe she lonley af but not attracted to her regular suiters. Seems strange | /r/askTRP | 23/12/18 07:46 PM |
| 4 | What do you make of this situation [woman flying to see a younger guy]Hypergammy? Im younger and way leas established career wise and financially. It’s weird. When we were fking it seemed like she wasn’t as experienced as i expected. Like the blowjobs were toothy and not generally as I expected for her age overall etc, i had to tell her how to do it. Maybe ur right, i thought it was just gonna be a casual fuck thing but maybe shes trying for more | /r/askTRP | 23/12/18 06:40 PM |
| 2 | First date pushing for F close?Just enough. Could probably do with a bit more. What would you suggest, change vibe completely? Tbh I havent really showed overt interest because i felt the fact she is coming this way for a date is good enough signal to me. My plan was to kino and escrlate on the date and build It up in person instead. I get the feeling shes really introverted. I’ve flirted before and know she likes it but tend to just get the lolll and omg kinda reaponses unless shes drunk | /r/askTRP | 16/12/18 08:20 PM |
| 3 | First date pushing for F close?Thanks i will! | /r/askTRP | 16/12/18 07:50 PM |
| 3 | First date pushing for F close?She just told me shes kinda nervous. Really mixed signal there. I mean yesh i assumed booty call situation but | /r/askTRP | 16/12/18 07:30 PM |
| 5 | First date pushing for F close?Yeah, good point. Do you think she will have such an ASD for first dates thing considering age and circumstances? Last date I had with a girl my age logistics were good and she was responsive but she wouldn't come back to my place got a second date instead with more luck | /r/askTRP | 16/12/18 05:03 PM |
| 0 | How to best approach other guys trying to start shit?This some autistic shit right here. Way to miss the entire purpose of thread along with not even understanding what so ever any points being made. Not everything has to go that deep. And no, being an anglo nation does not make USA similar at all clearly you have never spent time at both places. I hate it when people think US is anything like britain(especially in the shires) culturally. It isn’t. If you for a moment pretend we didnt speak the same language you would start to see how different we… | /r/askTRP | 15/12/18 09:44 AM |
| -2 | How to best approach other guys trying to start shit?Lol this all sounds like an autistic rant. For your information i’m british and “excuse me” or any other nicety is pretty much second nature for everyone in this country no matter who or what you are. Its extremely standard. Analysing shit this deeply is weird and border line autistic, but i’ll forgove you for making conjecture of an incomplete situation. I think ur advice is sound generally which was purpose of thread so thanks for the detailed response anyhow Some nobs want to block the only e… | /r/askTRP | 15/12/18 02:57 AM |
| 3 | How to best approach other guys trying to start shit?That's what gets me. Pleb would not said shit one on one. So it's nothing but fake bravado. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/18 12:29 AM |
| 3 | How to best approach other guys trying to start shit?Hahahaha I've had this so many times. Some fellas get rowdy as fuck and threaten me, try to fight you and then when push comes to shove they make an excuse. The trigger is if you just act calm as fuck but take them up on their offer in that calm tone and show no emotion about it. For some reason that really fucks with A LOT of people. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/18 11:46 PM |
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