I have a FB.. We're actually going away on a holiday soon for about a week because it's convenient. She told me before that i make her nervous. She almost canceled our first ever date due to nerves before but she went through with it and all was good.

Anyway it's been about a month since we hooked up and she told me that shes very nervous/anxious about the holiday. She said that she feels like the momentum between us died down a little(because i refuse to text all the time), but mostly she said she is worried we wont get on well that we wont talk etc.

She tol me that i am "not very sensitive person" meaning i don't really get on her level and frame about her feelz on every single thing and opt to dismiss instead, that she will have to bottle it up and is afraid she could explode at me and ruin the trip if this happens and it makes her incredibly nervous.

I'm not really sure what to do with this in all honesty. I'm very curious what you all think is going on from a red pill perspective. I am not sure if i'm losing frame here or what. I think it's just regular feeling shes having and I may not have even done anything bad as such here at all.

  • My main concern is that:

Maybe i'm either being way too low comfort considering the situation too much AF/DGAF Maybe i haven't even set enough of an AF vibe in the first place for her to actually bring it up.*

I really can't tell. Some more context:

She's very sexual with me and initiates often, sometimes she even complains that i don't want to sext her enough(lol). Very needy if i let her be(had to nip it in the bud) She's actually paying for a huge share of the trip She often travels very far to see me She has expressed a lot of competition anxiety before and thinks i will wonder constantly.